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<strong>India</strong> <strong>India</strong> <strong>Link</strong> <strong>Link</strong> Features<br />

Features<br />

4 Diwali-2011 Invitation<br />

5 Message from the President Smita Chandra<br />

6 Ek Bhartiya Ki Diwali Preeti Asr ani<br />

7 Editor’s Note Kuldip S. Bagga<br />

8 The Festive Season Priti Gupta<br />

10 Achhai ki Vijay ka U tsav Dinesh Kumar Gupta<br />

12 Shri Krishmn Bhajan Manjusha Kum ar<br />

13 Aryam an Mousumi Bhattacharyya<br />

15 The Akshaya Patra Foundation Madhu Sridhar<br />

17 Rehan Ponc ha: A Dream er Rehan Poncha<br />

19 100-YEAR-OLD MARA THONER FIN ISHES RACE<br />

20 The State of Corruption in <strong>India</strong><br />

Anna Hazare’s Movement<br />

Ashok Kum ar<br />

23 Insano Kuch To Sudhar o Dr. Rajiv G oel<br />

23 Desh se Door Baithe Log Yadon ke Sahare He e Jeete Hain Dr. Rajiv G oel<br />

24 Zindagi ki Kashm akash Tishya Jain<br />

25 Broken Wings Anju Upadhayaya<br />

26 Waiting afte r Dark Pooja Agrawal<br />

27 Steve Jobs<br />

Arvind Vora<br />

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A Magical being within all of us<br />

28 Mera Bharat Mahan Meera Saxena<br />

30 Spectacular Sunset at the North Pole<br />

31 When Your Faith Isn’t Faith Based Fred Stella<br />

32 <strong>India</strong>n Heritage By Indu Rekha Meesa<br />

35 Colors of <strong>India</strong> Sohela Kaur Suri<br />

36 The Great Mum bai Police T.M.Viswanath<br />

37 Mera Astitva Dr. Rajiv G oel<br />

38 Live Life to the Fulle st Rim a Arora<br />

39 Apna Paraya Renu Mishra<br />

40 Abhivyakti Aditya Tikku<br />

41 Awakening in <strong>India</strong> and Corruption Neelam Kumar<br />

44 Sleep Apnea Jasbir Hora<br />

46 Man Seedhe Chalo Renu Mishra<br />

47 Sannatta Kiran Kanoria<br />

48 Maa Dr. Rajiv G oel<br />

49 Betiyan Dr. Rajiv G oel<br />

50 Jagjit Singh- The Legend lives on … Ashok Kum ar<br />

52 Sadhna Dr. Rajiv G oel<br />

53 Happy Life Rim a Arora<br />

54 Prateeksha Vineeta Satyanarayan<br />

55 Tum Sang Renu Mishra<br />

56 Madhubala & Geeta Dutt- Live s Intertwines Swaranpriya<br />

61 Emotional Detachm ent for a Better Life Rim a Arora<br />

63 National work of Dr . Am bedkar Manohar Koche<br />

66 Friendship Manohar koc he<br />

67 Autism Dilip Saxena<br />

68 Childhood Obesity Jam bunathan Krishnan<br />

72 How To Stay Positive Balu Khatod<br />

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A A Message Message from from the the President President<br />

President<br />

Namaskaar and Happy Festivities to you all!<br />

On behalf of <strong>India</strong>-<strong>Link</strong>, I extend warm wishes to all of you for the coming year and heartiest welcome<br />

to all the new families who have joined our ever-growing community.<br />

Our vision here at <strong>India</strong>-<strong>Link</strong> is to celebrate <strong>India</strong> and with your support, we have been able to provide<br />

opportunities for kids and adults alike throughout the year.<br />

In March, <strong>India</strong>-<strong>Link</strong> co-sponsored an event “Celebrate <strong>India</strong>”, <strong>org</strong>anized by Saugatuck Center for<br />

Arts. Dances, Ethnic Fashion Show, Rangoli and taste of <strong>India</strong>n cuisine are some of the highlights <strong>India</strong>-<br />

<strong>Link</strong> participated in.<br />

In April, we celebrated our festivals Holi, Baisakhi and Id in the form of cultural programs. Members<br />

enthralled us with dances, singing, instrumental, skit and kids hosting the entire program.<br />

In August, <strong>India</strong>-<strong>Link</strong>, in conjunction with West Michigan Hindu Temple hosted a Summer Mela.<br />

Adults and kids - people from all walks of life- participated in various sporting competitions, henna<br />

stamping and enjoyed wonderful cuisine consisting of idli- dosa, chola-bhatura, smoothies, bhel poori<br />

and sugarcane juice etc.<br />

And here we are, celebrating the second half of the year filled with more festivities and cultural<br />

encounters.<br />

I am glad to say that we are not done yet. <strong>India</strong>-<strong>Link</strong> takes pride in donating money to a local charity<br />

<strong>org</strong>anization for past few years. We are working on finalizing the <strong>org</strong>anization and you all will be able<br />

to participate.<br />

All this cannot be done without your support. <strong>India</strong>-<strong>Link</strong> is your <strong>org</strong>anization and a group of<br />

hardworking members of our community. We are always looking for new and fresh ideas and fresh<br />

energy. We would like to request our community members to please come and join the <strong>India</strong>-<strong>Link</strong><br />

family and take the <strong>org</strong>anization to a new level with your creative input. Please contact any present<br />

board member if you are interested in joining your <strong>org</strong>anization.<br />

I would also like to extend heartfelt thanks to all the venues we rent and caretakers of these. Last but<br />

not least, I cannot thank my team of committed volunteers / board members who have always gone<br />

above and beyond their responsibilities to keep this <strong>org</strong>anization running.<br />

Warm Regards,<br />

Smita Chandra.<br />

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Dear Friends<br />

A Note from the Editor<br />

Here is another edition of the ‘<strong>India</strong> <strong>Link</strong>’ annual magazine. It has been my<br />

pleasure, honor and priviledge to prepare this publication in all the years in the<br />

past. It has become magical to work on a variety of contributions from the<br />

community and transform it into a viable episode for all to experience.<br />

I am so inspired with the diversity of the contributions in the form of prose and<br />

poetry on wide ranging topics, not only relevant to the <strong>India</strong>n culture, but also<br />

important on a global scale. I am so thankful that the enthusiasm expressed in<br />

these wonderful creations has come from the local community of West Michigan<br />

as well as the international circle of friends on Facebook and elsewhere.<br />

Working on this project over the years has enriched and enhanced my abilities to<br />

reach out, being consistent, persevering, and committed to deliver.<br />

This brings me to the spirit of Diwali. Each and every one of us is a Deeva -<br />

Divine. I feel blessed to be connected to all of you Deevas as all of us are a part<br />

of the same divinity. Let us celebrate our glow by continuing to enrich &<br />

enlighten each other’s lives throughout the holidays of this auspicious festival of<br />

lights and forever.<br />

Signified by the flames of these beautiful Deevas, let us all join hands in the spirit<br />

of celebration and contemplation… Happy Diwali!<br />

Kuldip Bagga,<br />

October 26, 2011<br />

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THE FESTIVE SEASON<br />

Priti Gupta, Mumbai, <strong>India</strong><br />

Ashadh Ashadh Ashadh Sud<br />

Sud<br />

Ekadashi Ekadashi Ekadashi : : Generally<br />

the festival season<br />

starts from Ashadh Sud<br />

Ekadashi. This is the day<br />

which marks the<br />

beginning of the four holy<br />

months as per Hindu<br />

calendar. Our Puranas<br />

(Scriptures) tell us that<br />

on this day lord Vishnu took the form of Dwarf i.e. Vamana<br />

and then descended in Kshirsagar, the ocean of milk.<br />

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I would like to welcome you all to this season of auspicious festivals. We celebrate many<br />

festivals in <strong>India</strong>. In this article, I would provide the significance of a few important festivals.<br />

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Guru Guru Guru Purnima: Purnima: Ashadh<br />

Sud Ekadashi is followed<br />

by Guru Purnima on Ashadh<br />

Sud 15. The first Guru in<br />

Hinduism is Veda Vyasa,<br />

who wrote the eighteenth<br />

Purana. His birth day is<br />

celebrated on Guru<br />

Purnima.<br />

Hindola Hindola Utsav: Utsav: Another<br />

festival that signifies love<br />

and devotion for God is the<br />

Hindola Utsav (swing<br />

festival), celebrated for a<br />

month from Ashadh vad 2nd to<br />

Shravan vad 2nd .<br />

Naag Naag Panchami:<br />

Panchami: Panchami: Naag<br />

Panchami, or Shravan sud<br />

panchami follows Hindola<br />

utsav. It represents the<br />

day when the soil, heated<br />

during the summer, is<br />

cooled by the rain and the underground creatures such as,<br />

snakes come up to the surface. On this day Hindus worship<br />

and offer Milk to Naag (snake) and.<br />

Raksha Raksha Bandhan Bandhan or<br />

or<br />

Shravan Shravan Purnima: Purnima: On<br />

this auspicious day,<br />

Brahmins change their<br />

janaeu (sacred thread), and<br />

sisters tie Rakhi (a<br />

protective thread) on the<br />

wrist of their brothers.<br />

Several stories of Puranas<br />

are well known that relate<br />

to raksha Bandhan, but<br />

those are outside the scope<br />

of this article.<br />

Janmasthami: Janmasthami: More than<br />

5000 year ago at 12 midnight<br />

Shri Krishna was born in a jail<br />

of Vasudeva and Devki. For<br />

centuries the story of Krishna’s<br />

birth and his raasleela<br />

(playfulness) have been sung<br />

and cited, re-enacted and<br />

celebrated, infusing devotion and peace in the heart of<br />

millions.<br />

Vijaya ijaya<br />

Dashmi Dashmi<br />

Dashmi<br />

The tenth<br />

day of<br />

Asho Sud<br />

Dashm<br />

a l s o<br />

called Vijaya Dashmi is celebrated<br />

with great fanfare.. According to<br />

Purana, for Nine days maa Durga and<br />

Ganesh Ganesh Chaturthi: Chaturthi: Our holy<br />

books tell interesting stories<br />

about the birth of Ganesh.<br />

Ganapati is remembered as a<br />

God of profound intelligence as<br />

reflected in his large elephant<br />

head. His ears symbolize his<br />

patience to listen to our<br />

innumerable prayers.<br />

Navratri: Navratri: Navratri: Festival of fast<br />

and worshiping Devi Amba,<br />

and Devi Durga, known for<br />

empowering<br />

devotees.<br />

(shakti the


Mahisasur were locked in a terrible combat. The tenth<br />

day saw the fall of Mahisasur and the triumph of good<br />

over evil, leading to peace and happiness in the world.<br />

Therefore, we celebrate that triumph as Vijaya Dashmi.<br />

Also, on this day, Lord Ramkilled a very powerful demon<br />

– Ravana.<br />

Shard Shard Purnima: Purnima: The fifteenth day of Asho Sud is called<br />

Sharad Purnima. A popular belief among the Hindus is<br />

that Lakshmiji (consort of Vishnu) comes late night on<br />

Sharad Purnima seeking to bestow wealth wealth upon upon upon those<br />

those<br />

who who are are awake.<br />

awake.<br />

Dhan-teras: Dhan-teras: the<br />

first festival in the<br />

Diwali season is called<br />

Dhanteras which falls<br />

on thirteenth day of the<br />

dark half of the month.<br />

On this day people<br />

worship Goddess<br />

Lakshmi, the Goddess<br />

of wealth.<br />

Kali Kali Chudash: Chudash: The fourteenth<br />

day is called KaliChaudash. The<br />

second occasion is a day on which<br />

Hanumanji is specially worshiped.<br />

On this day, people normally serve<br />

Brahmins with special delicacies<br />

in the honor of their deceased<br />

relatives. This day is also<br />

popularly known as Narak<br />

Chaturdashi.<br />

Diwali: Diwali: Diwali is the last day of the year according to<br />

Hindu calendar. Diwali marks the day of victory of good<br />

over evil. People express their joy by putting on fine cloths,<br />

decorating the house, and bursting crackers, each according<br />

to his means.<br />

I wish all of you a very Happy Diwali and a very fruitful<br />

coming year.<br />

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Sometimes he cries<br />

Often he laughs<br />

He use to get sleepless nights<br />

Due to cold and cough<br />

Nothing can make him stop<br />

To do lots of activities<br />

He always keeps mom busy<br />

By doing things naughty<br />

He runs like a rabbit<br />

Talks like an old man<br />

Through toys from windows<br />

As much as he can<br />

Some times music and cartoons<br />

Win to make him sit<br />

Aryaman<br />

Mousumi Bhattacharyya<br />

Only then he enjoy eating food<br />

Though it’s a little bit<br />

Some times he draws<br />

Some times he reads<br />

Sings like a nightingale<br />

He is two and half year’s kid<br />

He knows colors, numbers<br />

Even shapes and A to Z<br />

Being tired find’s mom’s lap<br />

Does not like to sleep on bed<br />

Mom is happy with her<br />

Cute, energetic, strong son<br />

His name yet to tell you<br />

He is little Aryaman…<br />

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THE AKSHAYA PATRA FOUNDATION<br />

(A (A NON-PROFIT NON-PROFIT ORGANIZA<br />

ORGANIZATION)<br />

ORGANIZA TION)<br />

FEEDING FEEDING 1.3 1.3 MILLION MILLION CHILDREN<br />

CHILDREN<br />

CHILDREN<br />

DAIL DAILY DAIL Y IN IN INDIA<br />

INDIA<br />

Madhu Madhu Sridhar Sridhar, Sridhar , President President and and CEO, CEO,<br />

CEO,<br />

The The Akshaya Akshaya Patra Patra Foundation Foundation Foundation USA<br />

USA<br />

The Akshaya Patra Foundation is a leading<br />

<strong>org</strong>anization that simultaneously addresses two<br />

of the most immediate challenges facing <strong>India</strong>,<br />

hunger/malnutrition and access to education, through its<br />

school lunch program. Started modestly in Bangalore<br />

feeding 1500 children in 5 schools, Akshaya Patra<br />

currently provides freshly prepared nutritious meals to<br />

1.3 million underprivileged children daily in eight states<br />

from 19 kitchens in over 8000 schools in <strong>India</strong>. For many<br />

children this is their only complete meal for the day. This<br />

meal gives the children an incentive to come to school,<br />

stay in school and provides them with the necessary<br />

nutrients they need to develop their cognitive abilities<br />

and focus on learning.<br />

Akshaya Patra is the world’s largest NGO-run midday<br />

meal program. It is a public, private, non-profit<br />

partnership that combines good management, innovative<br />

technology and smart engineering to deliver school lunch<br />

at a fraction of the cost of similar programs in other parts<br />

of the world. It costs Akshaya Patra $15 to feed a a child for<br />

an entire school year. Our largest kitchen in Hubli<br />

prepares 181,000 meals DAILY in less than five hours.<br />

The vision of the <strong>org</strong>anization is that no child shall be<br />

deprived of education because of hunger. Akshaya Patra<br />

plans to serve 5 million children by 2020.<br />

or more information visit www.foodforeducation.<strong>org</strong><br />

Important Facts:<br />

• 57 million children in <strong>India</strong> are malnourished…1/<br />

3 of the world’s malnourished children.<br />

• The 2010 Global Hunger Index places <strong>India</strong> at 67<br />

out of 84 developing countries<br />

• A study by the World Bank in 2010 reported more<br />

undernourished children in <strong>India</strong> than in Sub-<br />

Saharan Africa.<br />

• 26.8 million primary school-age children in <strong>India</strong><br />

are not in school.<br />

• 40 percent of children drop out before reaching<br />

grade 5.<br />

• Literacy, especially among women, remains low.<br />

Akshaya Patra program is a strategic intervention in<br />

education aimed at breaking the vicious cycle of poverty.<br />

Akshaya Patra meals are a LIFELINE<br />

LIFELINE LIFELINE to HOPE HOPE: HOPE HOPE<br />

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Give the deserving children HOPE for their future and<br />

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CHAMPION<br />

I<br />

was born premature and, as a result, suffered from<br />

frequent bouts of Bronchitis throughout my childhood.<br />

The doctors told my parents that swimming would<br />

help my Bronchitis. That’s how I started swimming at<br />

the age of seven. In one of the swimming competitions<br />

that was held around that time, I was placed second to<br />

last. That triggered the fierce competitor in me. I was<br />

soon devoting long and hard hours to swimming so that I<br />

could avoid the dismal outcome I faced in that competition.<br />

I pursued swimming with all I had in my inner being. The<br />

rest is history!<br />

am now 25 years old. As far as studies go, I have<br />

completed my degrees in Psychology and Journalism at<br />

Jain University and have now started pursuing a master’s<br />

degree in Psychology. I value education tremendously but<br />

swimming is my life and my passion.<br />

I am the only child of my parents. My parents<br />

have made many sacrifices in the pursuit of my dream.<br />

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Rehan Poncha<br />

A DREAMER<br />

My dad closed his business just to make it possible for<br />

me to train in Bangalore.<br />

I have been swimming for over 17 years. I began<br />

my swimming training in Mumbai but moved to Bangalore<br />

in 1999 because it has the best training facilities in the<br />

country. I swim at Basavanagudi Aquatic Centre in<br />

Bangalore with Pradeep Kumar as my coach who is also<br />

the current national swimming coach. I am working as<br />

hard to qualify for London Olympics. It has been my dream<br />

to be an Olympic swimmer. I wish with all my heart and<br />

soul that my dream comes to fruition.<br />

I love Roger Federer, the world class tennis player,<br />

as a human being and as a sportsman; although, frankly,<br />

I don’t believe in having any role models. I do admire and<br />

look up to him as my guide. Michael Phelps, who won<br />

eight swimming gold medals in the last Olympics, is also<br />

a hero of mine for obvious reasons. I try and learn as much


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as I can watching his videos and learning his mechanics<br />

and skills. I also watch videos of other established<br />

swimmers so that I could be a state or national champion<br />

or even a world class swimmer just like them one day.<br />

I love my sport and can’t think of anything else I<br />

woulrather be doing. My dream is to be the best I can be<br />

at my sport. It is my life’s fondest wish to make my parents<br />

smile and be super proud of me based on my triumphs<br />

and successes in<br />

swimming. They<br />

have sacrificed so<br />

much of their<br />

lives to help me<br />

realize my<br />

dreams and all I<br />

want is for them<br />

to be happy. My<br />

most cherished<br />

wish is to see the<br />

same happiness<br />

on my parents’<br />

faces that I have<br />

seen on the faces<br />

of parents of<br />

Federer or and<br />

Phelps after they<br />

have been<br />

victorious!<br />

Apart<br />

from swimming, I<br />

love watching<br />

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DVDs and lovdinners with close friends. I am not much of<br />

a party person. Spending time with family is one thing<br />

I’ve missed out on because of my swimming. Nevertheless<br />

I love what I do and that’s why I do it.<br />

My message to my fellow sportsmen is: Love what<br />

you do, and do what you love. Make it an obsession. �


CHAMPION<br />

100-YEAR-OLD<br />

MARATHONER<br />

FINISHES RACE<br />

TORONTO (AP) — A 100-year-old runner became<br />

the oldest person to complete a full-distance marathon<br />

when he finished the race in Toronto on Sunday,<br />

October 16th, 2011<br />

Fauja Singh earned a spot in the Guinness World<br />

Records for his accomplishment.<br />

It took Singh more than eight hours to cross the<br />

finish line — more than six hours after Kenya’s Kenneth<br />

Mungara won the event for the fourth straight year —<br />

and he was the last competitor to complete the course.<br />

But his time wasn’t nearly as remarkable as the<br />

accomplishment.<br />

Event workers dismantled the barricades along<br />

the finish line and took down sponsor banners even as<br />

Singh made his way up the final few hundred yards of<br />

the race.<br />

Family, friends and supporters greeted Singh<br />

when he finished the race.<br />

“Beating his original prediction, he’s overjoyed,”<br />

his coach and translator Harmander Singh said. “Earlier,<br />

just before we came around the (final) corner, he said,<br />

‘Achieving this will be like getting married again.’<br />

“He’s absolutely overjoyed, he’s achieved his<br />

lifelong wish.”<br />

Sunday’s run was Singh’s eighth marathon — he<br />

ran his first at age 89 — and wasn’t the first time he set<br />

a record.<br />

In the 2003 Toronto event, he set the mark in the<br />

90-plus category, finishing the race in 5 hours, 40<br />

minutes and 1 second.<br />

And on Thursday in Toronto, Singh broke world<br />

records for runners older than 100 in eight different<br />

distances ranging from 100 meters to 5,000 meters.<br />

The 5-foot-8 Singh said he’s hopeful his next<br />

project will be participating in the torch relay for the<br />

2012 London Games. He carried the torch during the<br />

relay for the 2004 Athens Games.<br />

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I would<br />

The State of Corruption in <strong>India</strong><br />

Anna Hazare’s Movement<br />

like to begin with an apology extended to<br />

some of my Indophile buddies who turn and<br />

squirm at the thought of anyone criticizing <strong>India</strong>,<br />

however genuine and fact-based. Yet, that is what<br />

I am going to do today – criticize <strong>India</strong> for one of<br />

her major societal weaknesses – in my typical pure,<br />

unmitigated, and straight from the core of my heart<br />

fashion. Of course, that does not mean I love her any less.<br />

No one loves his mother less because she has flaws.<br />

Indeed, there is no such thing as perfectly flawless society<br />

or country – <strong>India</strong> has its own share of fallibilities.<br />

As we all know, <strong>India</strong> has taken tremendous strides<br />

technologically and economically in the past two decades.<br />

All projections are that it is poised to grow at 8% for the<br />

foreseeable future. <strong>India</strong>ns are among the smartest people<br />

in the world. Yet there is something very sad about <strong>India</strong><br />

that not only compels expression and admission, but some<br />

concrete action as well<br />

The societal weakness I would address - the focus of<br />

this article - is the all-pervasive, omnipresent, eminently<br />

rampant corruption that has spread through every strand<br />

of every fiber of her social and cultural being. The extent<br />

of corruption in <strong>India</strong> is so profound that many are<br />

characterizing it as a necessary evil. In my view, its<br />

cancerous, all-encompassing growth is threatening to<br />

stigmatize the entirety of her otherwise noble character<br />

and soul.<br />

In this article, I will first provide a brief perspective<br />

on the state of corruption in <strong>India</strong> and then address the<br />

new movement germinated, incubated, and fostered by<br />

Anna Hazare that promises to take the corruption<br />

perpetrators head on and expel them from every nook and<br />

cranny of <strong>India</strong> altogether. Will that promise endure the<br />

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By Dr. Ashok Kumar<br />

The total amount of black money deposited in foreign banks by <strong>India</strong>ns is unknown,<br />

but one estimate puts the total at over US$1.4 trillion) - R Vaidyanathan;Wikipedia<br />

test of time? It is too early to read the tea leaves. I believe<br />

that it is the essential first baby step. A lot depends on its<br />

further evolution. I will provide my opinion on Anna’s<br />

movement at some length at the end.<br />

So, what is corruption? How does one define it? It is a<br />

hard task, but I will try. In its broadest scope, corruption<br />

occurs when a party uses its power or capability vested by<br />

a system of government or otherwise to commit an act or<br />

indulge in a process those results in an unfair advantage<br />

to another party. In turn, the party that collects the<br />

advantage gratifies the obliging party through cash, kind,<br />

or other illegitimate resources. Withdrawing just favors<br />

or currying unjust favors for inadequate reasons are<br />

subtler form of corruption.<br />

<strong>India</strong>n folklore is replete with stories of rampant and<br />

excessive corruption. Recent prominent corruption cases,<br />

off the top of my head, that garnered a lot of news ink -<br />

and got etched in <strong>India</strong>n consciousness for ever – were: (in


ackward chronological order): (i) The $15 billion foul<br />

up by Suresh Kalmadi, the chief <strong>org</strong>anizer of 2010<br />

Common Wealth Games that included exorbitant<br />

payments to non-existent businesses, reckless<br />

misappropriation of funds, collusion with contractors to<br />

allow usage of poor quality of material, deliberate delays<br />

in execution of contracts, bungling in drafting and<br />

executing tenders – the list is endless. It essentially drove<br />

<strong>India</strong>’s reputation to the ground in international circles<br />

while causing <strong>India</strong>n tax payer awe-struck and hapless<br />

(ii) Andimuthu Raja (the former telecom minister)’s $40<br />

billion scam involving dubious and underhand allocations<br />

of unified-access service licenses for 2G spectrum that<br />

defies imagination and the limits of depravity; (iii) The<br />

shameful Abdul Karim Telgi’s $5b scam who had mastered<br />

the art of f<strong>org</strong>ery in printing duplicate stamp papers and<br />

sold them to banks and other institutions - the tentacles<br />

of the fake stamp and stamp paper case penetrated 12<br />

states and involved hierarchical layers of layers of highly<br />

placed law enforcement officials and politicians sharing<br />

the ill-begotten booty ; (iv) Satyam’s $3B- $4B corporate<br />

fraud that made <strong>India</strong>n history where the company’s<br />

disgraced former chairman Ramalinga Raju kept everyone<br />

in the dark for a decade by fudging the books of accounts<br />

for several years and inflating revenues and profit figures.<br />

Investors may never feel safe again with<br />

investing in <strong>India</strong>n markets; (v) The infamous<br />

fodder Scam that involved fabrication of “vast<br />

herds of fictitious livestock” for which fodder,<br />

medicines and animal husbandry equi<strong>pm</strong>ent<br />

was supposedly procured at a cost of over<br />

$200m charged to the Center. Its memories<br />

still reverberates with new revelations –<br />

nearly 15 years after its inception. Add to this<br />

list, the pernicious Bofors, IPL, Hawala,<br />

Harshad Mehta , Ketan Parekh’s multimillion<br />

dollar scams and you begin to fathom<br />

the depth of this malady as it destroys <strong>India</strong>’s<br />

reputation and economic well-being. Yet, if I<br />

may humbly add, this is the tiniest of the tiny<br />

lists of scams and scandals- tip of the tip of<br />

the iceberg, if you will - that are hanging like a<br />

millstone at the economic and cultural<br />

wellness of <strong>India</strong>.<br />

One might think that temples and holy<br />

places are out of reach of corruption in <strong>India</strong>.<br />

Not quite so. In a recent news item about a<br />

temple in Kerala, a tax- and law-enforcement<br />

raid unearthed a vast treasure trove of $22<br />

billions in gold coins, jewels and precious<br />

stones in just the four boxes. Two more boxes<br />

are yet to be opened. The state government in<br />

collusion with the Center has decided not to<br />

open the remaining boxes. I wonder why? Why<br />

on earth? Was the temple non-profit? If so,<br />

how come it owned such vast wealth? Why it<br />

was not reported? How much profit is nonprofit?<br />

And once the process began to unearth<br />

the wealth, why was it interrupted, apparently<br />

in collusion with those who should be yelling<br />

hoarse to keep it open. It is rumored that the<br />

Tirupathy temple in Tamil Nadu hoards even<br />

larger bounties but those in power have acquiesced not to<br />

rake the matter further. By no means, the unreported “holy”<br />

wealth is confined to South. I am sure the holy places in<br />

north, east, and west would come out equally well-endowed<br />

and yet reticent. Seeing the magnitude of the wealth<br />

proffered to God, I am reminded of A. Roy, the controversial<br />

but famous <strong>India</strong>n author’s conjecture. She believes that<br />

<strong>India</strong>’s corrupt mentality emanates from her people’s<br />

proclivity to offer cash or kind to God in return for doing<br />

favors to them. Personally, I do not share Ms. Roy’s view<br />

point. Praying, even for unjust favors, is not bribing. After<br />

all, God is omniscient and incorruptible. To me, praying<br />

is a serene way to maintain composure and sanity and<br />

remain optimistic in the face of hopeless injustice and<br />

misfortune that surrounds us. Many priests and holy<br />

men (sadhus)are known to have lewd inclinations and<br />

inordinate power over unsuspecting ladies/children<br />

devotees.<br />

The corruption practiced by businesses or holy places<br />

does not hold a candle to the corruption perpetrated at<br />

politicians’ level. In a recent list of ministerial assets,<br />

ministers earning less than $600 a month and having<br />

come up from the poorest of ranks, were found to have as<br />

much as $58m of assets. Noteworthy was the fact that in<br />

most cases, wives’ assets were way higher than the<br />

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minsters’ themselves. Honest politicians – which is a<br />

contradiction in terms – do not either stay as a politician<br />

or as an honest person for long.<br />

In many industries, corruption has gradually been<br />

institutionalized into the system. Take education, for<br />

instance. Most <strong>India</strong>n parents today will happily go hungry<br />

to see their children educated. How is this “value”<br />

manifested in the designs of institutions of higher learning?<br />

They want you to pay lacs of rupees to admit your progeny<br />

to a college or higher degree curriculum. The money needed<br />

to put a student in a higher-education institution is<br />

inversely proportional to the skills and qualification a<br />

potential student has to get into an institution. Yet, this<br />

is practiced unabashedly as a free market mechanism<br />

depriving many of the deserving candidates to find<br />

admission in institutions well below their merit.<br />

I have thought hard and fast. There is no nook or<br />

cranny of <strong>India</strong>n activities that is protected from<br />

corruption. If you purchase a property in <strong>India</strong>, the deed<br />

documentation shows only a fraction of the actual sale<br />

price; large business transactions of gold, medicine, and<br />

clothing involving millions of dollars are conducted every<br />

day without any receipt depriving <strong>India</strong>n government of<br />

huge levies and the consumers of the protection of the<br />

purchase. In little things “wheels” are placed to move<br />

them. The <strong>India</strong>n babu is da man. Whether it is your ration<br />

card for food or a pan card that allows you to do business<br />

or open a bank account, you need to place wheels to get it.<br />

Even for filing police reports, you need to grease the wheels.<br />

The list is endless and all pervasive.<br />

As I was conducting research for this article, I reached<br />

a website that ranked countries on the intensity of<br />

prevalent corruption. My <strong>India</strong>n heart was pounding like<br />

the student who is opening the answer book to see his<br />

grade knowing fully well that he had submitted the answer<br />

book nearly blank. <strong>India</strong> ranked 74 among 180 countries<br />

on the Corruption Perceptions Index (CPI), prepared by<br />

independent international agency Transparency<br />

International. “74 th ain’t too bad,” I heaved a sigh of relief.<br />

This was way better than I feared. My cynic self still<br />

questions the veracity of the survey. My nihilist self is<br />

denying this result as too good to be true. I have seen<br />

<strong>India</strong> up close and personal. It is so hard to believe that<br />

there are 106 countries worse than <strong>India</strong> in corruption.<br />

But, I will take the good news … only with respect to the<br />

bigotry of low expectations that I have for <strong>India</strong>. No<br />

question, even if the survey is correct, we have miles to go.<br />

Corruption just doesn’t soil the economy, it soils the social<br />

character; nay, it soils the soul of a society. Someone needs<br />

to do something… and pretty soon!<br />

Lo and behold! My wishes are answered already. That<br />

someone is Anna Hazare. Kisan Baburao Hazare has<br />

begun the task of eradicating corruption from the country<br />

by launching an all-democratic people’s movement Gandhi<br />

style. It has support of the people, its goals are noble, its<br />

scope is the entire country, it is totally non-violent, and it<br />

has involved at least two fasts until death by Anna. In<br />

both cases, Anna was able to overcome the intransigence<br />

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of Government. The differences between Gandhi’s and<br />

Anna’s movement are few but striking: In the case of<br />

Gandhi’s freedom movement the enemy was identifiable<br />

and visible outsider. So the success or failure of the<br />

movement was easy to measure. Anna’s movement is<br />

against an intangible, invisible enemy that has lodged<br />

itself in the deepest niches of the <strong>India</strong>n psyche. Worse,<br />

unlike the colonizers, corruption has become an acceptable<br />

social norm and a way of life. Furthermore, in Anna’s case<br />

the enemy is within – <strong>India</strong>’s own wayward sons and<br />

daughters with callous disregard to ethical ways of doing<br />

business or govern.<br />

Unlike most other movements where the goals are<br />

visible and the progress is clearly measurable, a movement<br />

about corruption has an in-built structural problem. In<br />

order to measure the success, the corruption must be<br />

reported. But, since both the giver and receiver of the favor<br />

in a corruption case are legally guilty, the behavioral<br />

dynamics of corruption is set against suppressing the<br />

information. According to government records, less than a<br />

thousand corruption cases were booked in 2008 (data for<br />

2009 and 10 was not yet made available, which itself<br />

shows the level of interest in curbing it) in the entire<br />

country. In UP, there were just 85 cases reported, in Bihar<br />

8 and in West Bengal, Uttarakhand, and Jharkhand, there<br />

were not a single case reported against corruption.<br />

Actually, if Transparency International had used the<br />

government data on corruption, <strong>India</strong> could easily be the<br />

least corrupt country on the face of the earth with less<br />

than 1 corruption per million people!<br />

Anna’s solution to change the corruption<br />

dynamics is based on creating an ombudsman (Lokpal-<br />

Sanskrit for protector of the people) for every region who<br />

will be empowered to receive complaints and mete out<br />

justice to the offender(s) speedily. A rather benign Lokpal<br />

bill (compared to what Anna is demanding today) was<br />

first introduced in 1968 which passed the 4th Lok<br />

Sabha(like the House in the U.S.) in 1969. But before it<br />

could be passed by Rajya Sabha (like senate in the U.S.),<br />

Conngress was dissolved and the bill lapsed. Several<br />

versions were re-introduced in 1971, 1977, 1985, 1989,<br />

1996, 1998, 2001, 2005 and in 2008 but none passed. The


current Jan Lokpal bill, which is an improvement over the<br />

essentially “toothless” Lokpal bill that protected high<br />

officials, is designed to “effectively deter corruption,<br />

redress grievances of citizens, and protect whistle-blowers.<br />

The bill would create an independent ombudsman body<br />

called the Lokpal. It would be empowered to register and<br />

investigate complaints of corruption against politicians<br />

and bureaucrats without prior government approval.” The<br />

bill provides for eral accountability by setting up time<br />

limits for final action and penalizing the corrupt officials<br />

for the damage they caused through their actions. The bill<br />

has provisions to identify honest people through judiciary,<br />

and people. I believe that when combined with the “Right<br />

to Information Act of 2005,” which guarantees that all<br />

information in government records will have to be shared<br />

upon request, the Jan Lokpal bill has strong potential for<br />

reducing corruption in <strong>India</strong>.<br />

The million dollar question is: Will it work? Will<br />

Anna’s movement be ultimately successful? I do not know<br />

answer to that. I am pessimistic about long term success<br />

of the movement. But I am cautiously optimistic in short<br />

term. Maybe, Anna and the <strong>India</strong>n people can find 500<br />

honest people to staff the Lokpal and Lokayukta (state<br />

representative of Lokpal) offices. But there is a tendency<br />

in <strong>India</strong> for people in power to abuse it and get corrupt…<br />

we will need a lokpal over lokpal … a hierarchy of lokpals<br />

to make sure that the lokpals stay honest and accountable.<br />

That is where I get pessimistic. Yet, we can’t take away<br />

Anna’s credit to awaken <strong>India</strong>n people to the possibility<br />

of fighting corruption. But we will need his watchful eye to<br />

keep the movement going. In the short term it does look<br />

promising. Of course, it still depends on our constantly<br />

finding honest, selfless people to staff lokpal institutions.<br />

That is a tall order. I hope Anna’s two fasts at 73 will not<br />

go waste! Good luck, <strong>India</strong>. �<br />

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Zindagi ki<br />

Kashmaksh<br />

Tishya Jain<br />

Kahin chhat thi...<br />

Deewaar-o-dar the kahin<br />

Mila mujhko ghar ka pata der se<br />

Diya to bahut zindagi ne mujhe<br />

Magar jo diya... wo diya der se<br />

Hua na koi kaam mamool se<br />

Guzre shab-o-roz kuchh is tarah<br />

Kabhi chaand chamkagalat waqt par<br />

Kabhi ghar mein sooraj uga der se<br />

Ye sab... ittifaaqat ka khel hai<br />

Yahi hai judaai yahi mel hai<br />

Main mud mud ke dekha kiya door tak<br />

Bani wo khaamoshi sada der se<br />

Saja din bhi roshan huyi raat bhi<br />

Bhare jaam lahraai barsaat bhi<br />

Rahe saath kuchh aise haalat bhi<br />

Jo hona tha jaldi.... hua der se<br />

Bhatakti rahi yun hi har bandagi<br />

Mili na kahin se koi roshni<br />

Chupa tha kahin bheed mein aadami<br />

Hua mujh mein roshan khuda der se...!


Broken Wings<br />

Anjana Upadhyay<br />

Before I met you,<br />

I used to roam<br />

The Blue sky<br />

Like an eagle.<br />

And, Sing like a Lark<br />

By the Seaside.<br />

For me,<br />

No Sky - Too High to fly.<br />

No Horizon- Too far to touch,<br />

Then, I met you<br />

And, Suddenly<br />

I stopped flying.<br />

The Blue sky<br />

And the Distant Horizon<br />

Beckoned me<br />

No Longer.<br />

Time stood still.<br />

So much to tell,<br />

So much to Share,<br />

So much to Feel.<br />

And, the wonder<br />

Of all of You.<br />

One Day, Death came<br />

Stealing<br />

To take you away.<br />

Now, I sit still<br />

On that time post,<br />

Waiting for You.<br />

People tell me,<br />

You will never<br />

Come Back again.<br />

I know,<br />

But, My heart still thinks,<br />

Maybe, You would just<br />

Walk in with That Loud laugh,<br />

on your Lips.<br />

And, I would Come alive again.<br />

Sometimes,<br />

Like those faint<br />

Memories stirring<br />

I want to fly again<br />

Like an eagle in<br />

That Blue sky.<br />

And, Sing like a lark<br />

By that seaside.<br />

But, tell me friend,<br />

How do I fly<br />

I am a bird<br />

With Broken Wings!<br />

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The clouds coalesce, creating a dome over the earth, sealing<br />

humanity in its gray atmosphere. Slowly, the light begins to<br />

fade from behind the clouds, drawing with it the warmth of the<br />

day. The wind appears with a glassy edge, stiff and cool, like<br />

swift metal gliding on ice. All who are outside shiver violently<br />

as they adjust to the change in temperature. The crisp,<br />

saccharine autumn air carries the scent of fresh trees and<br />

sinuous beach grass. Everyone waits. The sky clears and night<br />

falls. A dark piece of velvet, sprinkled with shinning gems,<br />

stretches out over the sky. Millions of stars lay strewn across<br />

the distant heavens like fireflies in a garden. They float far<br />

from the world, not wanting greedy, selfish hands to confine<br />

them.<br />

The darkness awakes, and while many sleep, nocturnal<br />

elements prepare to sing night’s song. Crickets tune their<br />

instruments while the wind howls and picks up speed. Waves<br />

from the lake crash louder than before and some parched papery<br />

leaves rustle on the trees. Distant frogs croak and close<br />

mosquitoes buzz in faultless harmony. The night is animate and<br />

ready to perform for all those who stay, willing to listen. Its<br />

audience sits silently, observing and waiting, wrapped in its<br />

infinite blanket of blackness. Nighttime’s flawless symphony<br />

soothes mortal life and resonates throughout the firmament. A<br />

perfect presentation, unique and captivating, created only when<br />

night falls and the world comes together in a sensational<br />

harmony<br />

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Waiting aiting After After Dar Dark Dar<br />

Pooja Agrawal (9 th Grade)<br />

23 September 2011


Steve Jobs’<br />

passing on<br />

October 5, 2011<br />

has created a<br />

shift in the creative<br />

energy field of the cosmos.<br />

One may liken it to a<br />

singularity event. As<br />

described in a variety of<br />

media, Apple Apple has lost a<br />

great visionary and the<br />

world has lost a<br />

wonderful human being.<br />

He was the founder of<br />

Apple Apple along with Steve<br />

Wozniak. We can read all<br />

about the “dots” of his<br />

life events from his<br />

childhood to being<br />

adopted to college drop<br />

out to founding Apple Apple to<br />

being ousted in 1985 to<br />

starting NeXT NeXT NeXT to<br />

starting Dreamworks<br />

Dreamworks<br />

to being re-instituted as<br />

Apple Apple Apple CEO to retiring as<br />

CEO in August 2011 to<br />

his final day on the<br />

planet. The best way to<br />

learn all the important<br />

dots of his life is to visit<br />

the video presentation of<br />

his commencement<br />

speech to the graduating<br />

class of 2005 at Stanford<br />

University : http://<br />

www.youtube.com/<br />

watch?v=D1R-jKKp3NA<br />

He has been one of my<br />

heroes who followed his<br />

heart and his intuition.<br />

He was always driven by<br />

his dreams to create<br />

something extraordinary<br />

for people without being<br />

mired by any dogmatic or<br />

other limitations. He let<br />

his “little magical being”<br />

out from his heart to<br />

come out and play and<br />

give all beings of the<br />

world to rejoice in the<br />

play as well as experience<br />

the dance of creativity.<br />

When one lives a life like<br />

that everyday, the world<br />

and the cosmic stage<br />

becomes a heaven. Don’t<br />

we all have such<br />

yearnings within all of<br />

us?<br />

Steve Jobs<br />

1955 – 2011<br />

A Magical being<br />

within all of us<br />

By Arvind R. Vora :<br />

arvindRvora@gmail.com :<br />

616-893-6576 Cell<br />

He was not concerned about his own legacy. He remained a steward<br />

of his creative genius for the people. His gift to the world is to<br />

easily play with our own creativity. He had been the most brilliant<br />

visionary CEO on a global scale. He was not a technical wizard.<br />

He surrounded himself with a team of very smart people to support<br />

his creative visions. He had his share of human shortcomings too.<br />

He was an ordinary<br />

human being just like<br />

all of us but with the<br />

zeal and charisma for<br />

creating undreamed<br />

of possibilities. This<br />

process is called<br />

“dreaming the world<br />

into being.” People<br />

who utilize this<br />

process are so<br />

naturally infused<br />

with living in “nonlinear<br />

time.” It is also<br />

called “sacred time.”<br />

For people of East<br />

<strong>India</strong>n origin, does<br />

Rishi Valmiki stir up<br />

the memory of him<br />

writing “Ramayana”<br />

in sacred time?<br />

We all have the<br />

capacity of dwelling<br />

and operating in the<br />

sacred time while we<br />

still live in linear<br />

time. At some subtle<br />

levels we do that<br />

anyway without<br />

consciously realizing<br />

it.<br />

Stewards like Steve<br />

always think<br />

inherently of their own<br />

replacement ahead of<br />

time. He developed a<br />

team of people at<br />

Apple Apple to carry on the<br />

dreams. Britain born<br />

industrial designer<br />

Jonathan Ive, who is<br />

now the executive VP,<br />

will come close to<br />

carrying the baton.<br />

Steve Jobs was and<br />

will always remain<br />

the inspiration for the<br />

team at Apple Apple to be<br />

the creative force for<br />

the people. We will<br />

miss you Steve!<br />

Shall we dare to<br />

dream? Shall we dare<br />

to follow our hearts<br />

and our intuition?<br />

Shall we dare to let<br />

the magical being<br />

within us come out<br />

and play and dance<br />

the cosmic dance?<br />

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SPECTACULAR!<br />

Sunset at the North Pole<br />

This is one of the rarest pictures that you will ever see in your life,<br />

when the moon was closest to the earth. The picture was taken<br />

on Thursday, March 13, 2011. This is the sunset at the North Pole<br />

with the moon at its closest point.a scene you will probably never<br />

get to see in person, so take a moment and enjoy God at work at<br />

the North Pole. And, you also see the Sun below the Moon, an<br />

amazing photo and not one easily duplicated.


DHARMA<br />

When Your Faith<br />

Isn’t Faith Based<br />

One of the most puzzling things I often say in<br />

my lectures on the Hindu Dharma to church<br />

groups and schools is that Hinduism isn’t<br />

faith based. That is, we have no solid dogmas that<br />

bind “the faithful” to our fold. It is in this area that<br />

we share a great deal with our Jewish friends. To<br />

Jews, what they believe, how they conceive of a deity,<br />

or even if they take the time to acknowledge a deity<br />

has nothing to do with their membership in good<br />

standing with their religion. I’ve had students<br />

question the ability to even have a viable religion<br />

without locking adherents into a communal creed.<br />

Honestly, I don’t know how to answer that. But<br />

certainly 2 of the oldest religions in the world have<br />

found a way to make it work.<br />

There is no question that Christianity & Islam<br />

have gained great power in insisting upon very exact<br />

beliefs that adherents must hold. Heresy continues<br />

to be a danger zone that few care to enter. I’ll add<br />

that in the last century more liberal Christian<br />

denominations have taken a less creedal path. But in<br />

2,000 years it is still the exception to the rule. It<br />

makes me realize that the world’s different faiths use<br />

different elements of human psychology to maintain<br />

traditions and grow ranks. Sometimes those tools are<br />

the exact opposite of what another faith is using for<br />

its own purposes. So while some religions are founded<br />

on a creedal code and prosper, Hinduism maintains a<br />

fierce independence of thought that allows its<br />

adherents to think themselves right out of the<br />

religion…with our blessings.<br />

Virtually every religion has a sort of demerit<br />

system. Hinduism certainly has its. But believing the<br />

“wrong thing” doesn’t lose points for Gryffindor or<br />

anyone else. Even atheism, if embraced out of true<br />

By Fred Stella<br />

spiritual inquiry and not simple laziness can be<br />

considered a noble effort. The Sanatana Dharma has<br />

plenty of opportunities to acquire less-than-good<br />

karma. But it’s equally available to believers and<br />

nonbelievers alike.<br />

Certainly we get the predictable retort, “Oh,<br />

so you can just believe what you want.” No, if I believed<br />

just what I wanted to be spiritual reality I might opt<br />

for a path to moksha that included a lifestyle such as<br />

seen in a Fellini film. No, it’s not what I want to<br />

believe. It’s what I’m able to believe. There are millions<br />

of religionists all over the world who wrestle with<br />

doubts that they cannot easily reconcile. I’m sure<br />

that crowd includes a good number of Hindus; and I<br />

would offer solace in way of indicating that Self<br />

Realization can only be attained by ridding oneself of<br />

lesser beliefs. Part of my sadhana is the continued<br />

reinvestigation of long held assumptions. If any<br />

doctrine doesn’t pass the test I quickly sweep it into<br />

my spiritual dustbin with an efficiency my wife could<br />

only wish I’d exercise in cleaning our basement of<br />

more mundane artifacts that have long since<br />

abdicated any measure of usefulness.<br />

And honestly, there is nothing wrong with<br />

admitting that on some issues, I just don’t know.<br />

If you are Hindu I encourage you to take<br />

advantage of this wonderful aspect of our Dharma. Be<br />

at peace with doubt .However I would pray that doubt<br />

never devolves into cynicism, as it can. But know that<br />

to act on the freedom to construct a spirituality and<br />

world view based on logic, intuition, science,<br />

experience and common sense is our divine heritage.<br />

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As we go from one generation to the next, some<br />

of our rich <strong>India</strong>n heritage is lost. It is very<br />

important to make sure our children are aware<br />

of their roots and it is the duty of the families<br />

and <strong>India</strong>n community to instill this in them. In this<br />

paper I’m going to briefly share some of my memories and<br />

experiences about our <strong>India</strong>n culture and heritage.<br />

I am very fortunate because of my wonderful<br />

experiences and exposure to <strong>India</strong>n tradition as growing<br />

up. I spent my early childhood in <strong>India</strong>: I was born in<br />

South <strong>India</strong>, Vijayawada and grew up in Secunderabad,<br />

Hyderabad’s twin city. My family immigrated to US when<br />

I was 9 years old. Both my parents are from large extended<br />

families, nearly 10 siblings each. Tradition and religion<br />

along with education were extremely important to my<br />

father and mother’s side of the family. When I think of<br />

<strong>India</strong>, I remember color, beauty, cultural diversity,<br />

mythology, religion, and friendly, warm-hearted people.<br />

I attended St. Ann’s school in West Marredpally,<br />

Secunderabad from grades 1 - 4. It is a strict catholic<br />

school and every morning we had to say the <strong>India</strong>n National<br />

Pledge. The words of the <strong>India</strong>n National Pledge are:<br />

<strong>India</strong> is my<br />

country. All <strong>India</strong>ns are<br />

my brothers and sisters. I<br />

love my country and I am<br />

proud of its rich and varied<br />

heritage. I shall always<br />

strive to be worthy of it. I<br />

shall give my parents,<br />

teachers and all elders<br />

respect and treat everyone<br />

with courtesy. To my<br />

country and my people, I<br />

pledge my devotion . In<br />

their well being and<br />

prosperity alone, lies my<br />

happiness.<br />

Some of my best<br />

memories about <strong>India</strong> are<br />

around the festival season.<br />

I remember how splendidly<br />

we used to celebrate all our<br />

major festivals: Ganesh<br />

festival, Dasara, Diwali,<br />

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<strong>India</strong>n Heritage<br />

By Indu Rekha Meesa<br />

Sri Krishnastami to name a few. These festivals remind<br />

me of our rich <strong>India</strong>n tradition and culture. We had one<br />

big puja room and another bhajan room at our house in<br />

<strong>India</strong>. For each festival, my grandfather used to take us<br />

to the bazaar to buy all the necessary items for the festival<br />

day. Everyone in the house got new clothes…it was a<br />

tradition to wear new clothes on festivals and on<br />

birthdays. The entire house was cleaned and washed the<br />

day before the auspicious festival day. My grandmother<br />

and mother prepared delicious dishes on the festival day.<br />

These include: laddus, payasam, halva, julab jamun,<br />

tamrind rice, etc…these were offered to God during the<br />

puja. The puja was performed by a priest. In the evening,<br />

it is a tradition to invite the neighbors, married females<br />

from each household to offer them kumkum, fruits, and a<br />

saree or a blouse piece, along with some bangles as a sign<br />

of good will. We also got blessings from the elders in the<br />

house by touching their feet.<br />

The Dasara festival is another major festival<br />

celebrated over a period of 10 days. Vijaya Dashami,<br />

also known as Dasara, Dashahara, Navarathri,<br />

Durgotdsav is one of the very important and fascinating<br />

festivals of <strong>India</strong>, which is celebrated in the lunar month


of Ashwin (September or October). The word DASARA is<br />

derived from Sanskrit words “Dasha” and “hara” meaning<br />

removing the ten(10). In Sanskrit, “Vijaya” means Victory<br />

and “Dashami” means 10 th day, so Vijaya Dashami<br />

means victory on the 10 th day. The festival is in honor of<br />

Durga Devi. The basic principle of this festival is to<br />

worship the feminine principle of the Universe in the form<br />

of the divine mother. The essence of navarathri<br />

celebration is to remind and respect all the women, who<br />

are the guardians of the family, culture, and national<br />

integrity, to take lead in times of crisis to guide the<br />

humanity towards the path of social justice,<br />

righteousness, equality, love, and divinity.<br />

Puja during Dasara was done twice daily for 9<br />

days and once on the 10 th day by the priest at our house.<br />

The same rituals took place inlcuding daily prasad to<br />

God. For Dasara, women and children built a showcase<br />

at their house to show off to other women. Diwali is<br />

another wonderful, exciting festival where the homes are<br />

decorated with oil lamps and the day ended with<br />

exuberant fire works. Each festival has a big story behind<br />

it and the festival is often a celebration of a victorious<br />

ending.<br />

Some of the other things that fascinate me about<br />

<strong>India</strong> are the rich history. It is one of the oldest<br />

civilizations in the world, ruled by many kings and<br />

kingdoms. My grandmother used to read us bedtime<br />

stories about the past rulers, including King Ashoka and<br />

other stories about gods and goddesses and rakshasas,<br />

which were often filled with suspense, excitement, and<br />

morals. King Ashoka, or Ashoka the Great was one of<br />

<strong>India</strong>’s greatest emperors. He ruled almost the entire<br />

subcontinent of <strong>India</strong> from 269 BC to 232 BC. His empire<br />

stretched from present-day Pakistan and Afghanistan in<br />

the west, to the present day Bangladesh and the <strong>India</strong>n<br />

state of Assam in the east, and as far south as northern<br />

Kerala and Andhra Pradesh. He was a devotee of<br />

nonviolence, love, truth, tolerance and vegetarianism and<br />

is remembered in history as a philanthropic<br />

administrator. Ashoka played a critical role in helping<br />

make Buddhism a world religion. The emblem of the<br />

modern Republic of <strong>India</strong> is an adaptation of the Lion<br />

Capital of Ashoka.<br />

Another great ruler was the Muslim emperor,<br />

King Shah Jahan. He built the magnificent monument,<br />

the Taj Mahal in the memory of his wife and queen,<br />

Mumtaz Mahal at Agra, <strong>India</strong>. Taj Mahal of <strong>India</strong>, “the<br />

epitome of love”, “a monument of immeasurable beauty”<br />

was built by the Mughal Emperor, Shah Jahan, in memory<br />

of his beloved wife, Mumtaz Mahal, with whom he fell in<br />

love at the first sight. The Taj Mahal was constructed<br />

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over a period of twenty-two years, employing twenty<br />

thousand workers. Built entirely of white marble, the<br />

Taj Mahal is regarded as one of the eight wonders of the<br />

world.<br />

Because <strong>India</strong> is a land of intense spirituality<br />

and religious faith, temples are an integral part of <strong>India</strong>n<br />

culture. From the Sun Temple in Konark to the Golden<br />

Temple in Amritsar, each temple represents a fascinating<br />

aspect of <strong>India</strong>n religion, tradition, and history. The<br />

Ancient Haridwar (the “Gateway to God”), located at the<br />

foothills of the Himalayas in Uttarakhand and the<br />

Ganges river, is one of the seven holiest places in <strong>India</strong><br />

and one of the oldest living cities. Varanasi, in the state<br />

of Uttar Pradesh, is known as the city of Lord Shiva, the<br />

god of creation and destruction. It is believed that anyone<br />

who dies here will be liberated from the cycle of<br />

reincarnation. Bodhgaya, Rishikesh, and Amritsar are<br />

also among the top holiest places in <strong>India</strong>. Amritsar,<br />

founded in 1577 by Guru Ram Das, the fourth guru of<br />

Sikhs is the spiritual capital of the Sikhs and gained its<br />

name, meaning “Holy Pool of Nectar” from the body of<br />

water around the Golden Temple. Nearly all <strong>India</strong>n<br />

temples reveal beautiful unique architecture.<br />

<strong>India</strong> also has great natural beauty. To name a<br />

few: the Himalayan mountains running from west to<br />

east, from the Indus river valley to the Brahmaputra river<br />

valley, Ooty, and Kodaicanal in Tamilnadu. Kodaicanal,<br />

the princess of Hill Stations, is located in Dindugal<br />

District of Tamilnadu. It is one of the most famous hill<br />

stations in South <strong>India</strong>, located on the southern tip of<br />

Palani Hills. It is a favorite destination for honeymooners<br />

and is also the most visited tourist destination.<br />

The other intriguing aspect of <strong>India</strong> is the<br />

cultural diversity. The <strong>India</strong>n subcontinent consists of a<br />

number of separate linguistic communities each<br />

of which share a common language and culture.<br />

The people in <strong>India</strong> speak many languages and<br />

dialects which are mostly varieties of 15 principal<br />

languages. People in each part of <strong>India</strong> not only<br />

speak a different language but they also dress<br />

differently, prepare different dishes, and celebrate<br />

different festivals and pray to different deities.<br />

Ragasthan, Punjab, and Gujarat are very different<br />

from Kerala, Tamil Nadu and Andra Pradesh. It<br />

is a wonderful experience to travel to different<br />

parts of <strong>India</strong> because every part is very different<br />

and has its own uniqueness and flavor.<br />

We also had great leaders, one of the most<br />

influential being Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi<br />

(10/2/1869 – 1/30/1948). He was the political and<br />

ideological leader of <strong>India</strong> during the <strong>India</strong>n<br />

independence movement. He was a pioneer of<br />

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satyagraha, a philosophy founded upon ahimsa or<br />

nonviolence and led <strong>India</strong> to independence and inspired<br />

movements for civil rights and freedom across the world.<br />

Through his efforts, <strong>India</strong> gained its independence on<br />

August 15, 1947.<br />

While people are people across the world, <strong>India</strong><br />

has a very rich culture and history which must be passed<br />

on to our children and to their children from our ancestors<br />

so they will be proud of their wonderful heritage and will<br />

pass this on to their children and grand children. Grand<br />

Rapids does a wonderful job bringing the community<br />

together to celebrate and maintain this cultural link<br />

with our country. I am fortunate that my kids are exposed<br />

to had the opportunity to participate in our <strong>India</strong>n<br />

religious and cultural traditions here in Grand Rapids.<br />

We had the opportunity to get involved with our West<br />

Michigan Hindu Temple and through my daughter’s<br />

dance with Smita Chandra, we had the opportunity to<br />

involve with <strong>India</strong> <strong>Link</strong>. My kids are now 10 and 11<br />

years old and I hope this positive exposure during the<br />

past 5 years will leave a permanent imprint on them<br />

about our culture, heritage, and values. �


COLORS OF INDIA<br />

Sohela Kaur Suri<br />

Amerced in the colors,<br />

Filled with wonders,<br />

The music’s enchanting,<br />

Crazy loud ranting,<br />

Bangles are clinking,<br />

Anklets are jingling,<br />

The color of Mehndi so ostentatious,<br />

After hours or sitting how tenacious,<br />

Dancing and singing energetically,<br />

Constantly joyous habitually.<br />

And this is just the beginning,<br />

Such craziness my head is spinning,<br />

The country I love,<br />

The place I’m so proud of,<br />

I think we can all agree,<br />

<strong>India</strong>’s a tremendous country.<br />

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.<br />

But, what is the truth ?<br />

The truth is that the Mumbai Police is the most<br />

efficientmost courteous, most helpful, most courageous,<br />

and the most hospitable police force in the Country. While<br />

I am no expert in police matters, as a common man of this<br />

city I have every right to voice my opinion of the way the<br />

cops of Mumbai discharge their duty. I see and observe<br />

like the legendary Sherlock Holmes, who surely would<br />

have concurred with me on my rating of the Mumbai Cop<br />

as the best in the world.<br />

It has become fashionable for many journalists of the well<br />

known dailies to scathingly attribute corruption,<br />

inefficiency and all the bad qualities you can imagine to<br />

the police but how many of them seriously take up the<br />

cause of the cops? Like if all cops are corrupt as the writers<br />

lead us to believe, why is there so many cases of suicides<br />

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The The Great<br />

Great<br />

Mumbai Mumbai Police<br />

Police<br />

By By T TT.M.V<br />

T .M.V .M.Viswanath<br />

.M.V iswanath<br />

Before anyone starts accusing me of being a police ‘chamcha’, let me explain that I do not contemplate enjoying that<br />

accolade, least of all when I don’t deserve it. But truth must be told and told in no uncertain terms. If by my telling the<br />

truth, the Mumbai Police find themselves on a pedestal, so be it! For, being on a pedestal is no new experience for the<br />

Mumbai Policeman. He has often hoisted himself on it in a bout of exaggerated enthusiasm, only to find himself<br />

coming crashing down later on<br />

among the Mumbai Cops, while you don’t see the same<br />

occurring among the cops of the other states and cities?<br />

For a cop to commit suicide, fate must have really played<br />

a cruel trick on him, and this cannot be due to exposed<br />

case of corruption, as a corrupt cop will be a shameless<br />

one, and will not drive himself to do the ultimate act of<br />

taking away his own life.<br />

I want to take the superlative qualities which I have<br />

attributed to the Mumbai Police one by one and offer some<br />

explanations. So, here goes:<br />

Most Most Most Most Most Efficient Efficient Efficient Efficient Efficient<br />

Any honest and law abiding citizen of this great metropolis<br />

knows that the track record of Mumbai Cops in solving<br />

crimes is outstanding. Take the famous cases like those<br />

of the world’s most notorious conman and murderer<br />

Charles Sobraj who was nabbed by inspector Zende in a<br />

restaurant near Panvel. Or the <strong>India</strong>n Navy Commander<br />

Nanavati’s case of murdering his wife’s paramour, Ahuja.or<br />

the one about Raman Raghav the mass serial killer, and<br />

the recent nabbing of the Al Qaida activist , etc. are only<br />

few of the many cases where the Mumbai Cop has achieved<br />

glory. True, they have failed miserably on many important<br />

cases like nabbing the notorious Don, Dawood Ibrahim<br />

and his ‘D’company , but this only shows their human<br />

fallibility. Fact is inspite of being no match to the American<br />

and other western nations’ cops in terms of being fitted<br />

out with modern arms and gadgets, and technology like<br />

global positioning systems for tracking the movements of<br />

crooks etc., these simple guys have done it time and again.<br />

Most Most Most Most Most Courteous Courteous Courteous Courteous Courteous and and and and and helpful helpful helpful helpful helpful<br />

This relates to a personal experience. About fifteen years<br />

ago, I had wrongly parked my car in Nariman Point, and<br />

when I came back to get it after a meeting , I found that


my car was not there and feared the worst – some car thief<br />

has stolen my car. The nearby panwala, howeveasked me<br />

not to worry saying that the car has been towed by the<br />

traffic police and that I should find my car in the custody<br />

of Azad Maidan Police station. So I rushed in a cab there<br />

to reclaim my car and was told by the cops there that my<br />

car was not there and I should go near Mantralaya<br />

administrative block where the Nariman Point cars are<br />

towed to and parked in the open lot there with a police<br />

guard standing by.<br />

After a mad dash in the same cab to the mantralaya<br />

open parking ground, I actually found my car standing<br />

next to a hundred cars similarly towed away for parking<br />

offences. With great relief, I requested the cop to give me<br />

my car back, but he told me I should go to the colaba police<br />

station to pay a fine and bring the receipt back to him and<br />

then take my car away.<br />

The same patient taxi driver now drove me to the<br />

Colaba Police Station, where I was welcomed by a most<br />

friendly inspector who asked me to pay a fine of Rs.250=00.<br />

I took my wallet out and was shocked to fine the wallet<br />

contained only Rs.50=00 which was entirely due to my<br />

carelessness of the morning of f<strong>org</strong>etting to put enough<br />

cash in my wallet. When I explained my predicament to<br />

the inspector, he flabbergasted me by offering me a loan<br />

of Rs 250=00 and asking me to repay him the next day or<br />

send it by money order to him. I can bet that any other cop<br />

in any other city of the world would have asked me to<br />

arrange the money first , then claim my car.This fantastic<br />

inspector , the good Samaritan that he was, not only<br />

offered to loan me the fine amount , but also offered a hot<br />

cup of tea to me and the taxi driver . That’s hospitality<br />

and courtesy for you from the Mumbai Cop.<br />

Most Most Most Most Most Courageous<br />

Courageous<br />

Courageous<br />

Courageous<br />

Courageous<br />

It is indeed frivolous for me to talk about the courage of<br />

the Mumbai cops as practically everyday one reads in the<br />

papers of the underworld gangs involved in a shoot out<br />

with our guys. It is in risking their life on a day to day<br />

basis the Mumbai cops has made this city the safest city<br />

as compared to other cities of this continent and outside.<br />

I am saying from sufficient knowledge of traveling widely<br />

around our country and outside to know how unsafe most<br />

cities in the world are after 8 PM in the night. In Mumbai,<br />

I think any body can walk freely on the roads even after 11<br />

PM in the night, thanks to the Mumbai Police. �<br />

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LIVE LIFE<br />

TO THE FULLEST<br />

•Inspire yourself to live happy. Find a purpose and direction for your life. Happy<br />

thoughts will reduce stress from your life. This will make your life healthy both<br />

mentally and physically. And you will live life to the fullest.<br />

•Realize the fact that when you really desire something, the entire universe conspires<br />

to help you realize your dream. And you will be blessed with the magic of the miracles<br />

of life which will give you complete satisfaction, joy and happiness.<br />

•Start your day fresh each morning when you open your eyes say to yourself- “I, not<br />

the events have the power to make me happy or sad y today. I can make the choice.<br />

Yesterday is gone, tomorrow hasn’t arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I am<br />

going to be happy in it”.<br />

•For whatever you want in life, start today, not tomorrow – today, Let it be a small<br />

beginning - a tiny beginning,<br />

Your happiness depends on starting today - every day.<br />

•Set Your Goals and act- Goal setting is a powerful process for thinking about your ideal future, and<br />

for motivating yourself to turn your vision of this future into reality.<br />

• The process of setting goals helps you choose where you want to go in life. By knowing precisely<br />

what you want to achieve, you know where you have to concentrate your efforts. You'll also<br />

quickly spot the distractions that can, so easily, lead you astray.<br />

• Believe in yourself- Start listening to yourself and find the power and motivation stored up inside<br />

you. Use it to direct yourself into the path of true happiness and satisfaction. Believe in yourself.<br />

Life will give you what you want. .<br />

•“The thing always happens that you really believe in, and the belief in a thing makes it<br />

•happen.” – Frank Lloyd Wright<br />

•If you want others to believe in you, then you must first believe in it yourself. Success is built on<br />

confidence. If you believe in yourself then you have confidence in yourself and your abilities.<br />

•Make a realistic approach towards life- With greater confidence in yourself and your abilities set<br />

bigger goals, make bigger plans and commit yourself to achieving objectives that today only you<br />

dream about. Remember you hold in your hands to do or be anything you want or desire.<br />

•The key to live life is to know how to balance all aspects of life. It is removing all the clutter from<br />

our life and balancing all the four aspects namely physical, mental, emotional and spiritual aspects<br />

of our life.<br />

•Live Life to the fullest is to live and count each separate day as a separate life with the following<br />

approach-<br />

•Positive Thinking<br />

•Making Choices and Knowing What You Want;<br />

•Creating Balance;<br />

•Building Great Relationships;<br />

•Maintaining Fitness and Good Health;<br />

•Expanding and Growing Out of Your Comfort Zone;<br />

By RimaArora


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Awakening in <strong>India</strong><br />

and Corruption<br />

The best thing about <strong>India</strong>n politicians is that they<br />

make you feel you are a better person. Not<br />

surprisingly, <strong>India</strong>ns often derive their moral<br />

confidence not through the discomfort of examining their<br />

own actions, but from regarding themselves as decent<br />

folks looted by corrupt, villainous politicians. Political,<br />

bureaucratic, corporate and individual corruption in <strong>India</strong><br />

are major concerns. A 2005 study conducted by<br />

Transparency International in <strong>India</strong> found that more than<br />

55% of <strong>India</strong>ns had first-hand experience of paying bribes<br />

or influence to get jobs done in public offices successfully.<br />

In 2010 <strong>India</strong> was ranked 87 th out of 178 countries<br />

in Transparency International’s Corruption Perceptions<br />

Index. <strong>India</strong> tops the list for black money in the entire<br />

world with almost US$1456 billion in Swiss banks<br />

(approximately USD 1.4 trillion) in the form of black<br />

money. [4] According to the data provided by the Swiss<br />

Banking Association Report (2006), <strong>India</strong> has more black<br />

money than the rest of the world combined. <strong>India</strong>n-owned<br />

Swiss bank account assets are worth 13 times the country’s<br />

national debt.<br />

Though <strong>India</strong> is already worlds fourth largest<br />

economy after US, China and Japan, it is fast emerging<br />

today as the richest poor country in the world. The recent<br />

scams involving unimaginably big amounts of money, such<br />

as the 2G spectrum scam, are well known. It is estimated<br />

that more than trillion dollars are stashed away in foreign<br />

havens, while 80% of <strong>India</strong>ns earn less than 2$ per day<br />

and every second child is malnourished. It seems as if<br />

only the honest people are poor in <strong>India</strong> and want to get<br />

rid of their poverty by education, emigration to cities, and<br />

immigration, whereas all the corrupt ones, are getting<br />

rich through scams and crime.<br />

In recent years there is widespread condemnation<br />

of corruption. Studies have shown that corruption has<br />

‘toxic’ effects on societies. Corruption affects economic<br />

growth, investment and government expenditure, hurts<br />

the poor and worsens income inequality and poverty,<br />

reduces the efficiency of firms, and increases the<br />

transaction costs of doing business. In countries where<br />

corruption is successfully controlled, there is greater inflow<br />

of foreign investments, higher per capita income growth,<br />

higher literacy rate and increased business growth. Hence,<br />

eradicating corruption inevitably helps further poverty<br />

eradication and economic develo<strong>pm</strong>ent.<br />

Complied by Mrs. Neelam S. Kumar<br />

What are the Major Factors responsible for<br />

Corruption in <strong>India</strong>?<br />

The most important factor is the nature of the<br />

human being. People in general, have a great thirst for<br />

luxuries and comforts and as a result of which they get<br />

themselves involved in all unscrupulous activities that<br />

result in monetary or material benefits. Moral and<br />

spiritual values are not given utmost importance in<br />

educational system, which is highly responsible for the<br />

deterioration of our society. Also it is a fact that the salary<br />

paid to employees is very less and as a result of which<br />

they are forced to earn money by illegal ways. The<br />

punishments imposed on the criminals are inadequate.<br />

The political leaders have spoiled the society completely.<br />

They lead a luxurious life and do not even care about the<br />

society. People of <strong>India</strong> are not awakened and enlightened.<br />

They fear to raise their voice against anti-social elements<br />

prevailing in the society.<br />

Anna Hazare’s fast was the wake up call for <strong>India</strong>.<br />

This is at the heart of a self-righteous middle-class<br />

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uprising against political corruption, a television news<br />

drama that reached its inevitable climax in Delhi this<br />

year when the rural social reformer Anna Hazare was<br />

about to set out for his death fast.<br />

One school of thought is that the morality of<br />

fasting unto death for a political cause in a constitutional<br />

democracy has always been a tricky issue. There is<br />

something deeply coercive about fasting unto death. When<br />

it is tied to an unparalleled moral eminence, as it is in the<br />

case of Anna Hazare, it amounts to blackmail. But B.R.<br />

Ambedkar was surely right, in one of his greatest<br />

speeches, to warn that recourse to such methods was<br />

opening up a democracy to the “grammar of anarchy”.<br />

Like our Prime Minister Manmohan Singh, in<br />

his Independence Day address has said that he did not<br />

have “a magic wand” to end corruption in <strong>India</strong>. <strong>India</strong>ns<br />

have a deep and complicated relationship with corruption.<br />

As in any long marriage, it is not clear whether they are<br />

happily or unhappily married. The country’s economic<br />

system is fused with many strands of corruption and<br />

<strong>org</strong>anized systems of tax evasion. The middle class is<br />

very much a part of this. Most <strong>India</strong>ns have paid a bribe.<br />

Most <strong>India</strong>n businesses cannot survive or remain<br />

competitive without stashing away undeclared earnings.<br />

Almost everybody who has sold a house has taken one<br />

part of the payment in cash and evaded tax on it. Yet, the<br />

branding of corruption is so powerful that <strong>India</strong>ns moan<br />

the moment they hear the word. The comic hypocrisy of it<br />

all was best evident in the past few months as the anticorruption<br />

movement gathered unprecedented middleclass<br />

support.<br />

One school of thought argued that the law should<br />

make a distinction between the “black money” of corrupt<br />

politicians, earned through kickbacks, and the “black<br />

money” of businessmen who had moved their cash abroad<br />

years ago to save themselves from unreasonably high tax<br />

rates in socialist <strong>India</strong>. The essay implied that corrupt<br />

politicians were the real evil and that the tax-evading<br />

businessmen were just smart.<br />

Corruption is such an integral part of <strong>India</strong>n<br />

society that the chief economic adviser to the government,<br />

Kaushik Basu, has suggested legalizing the payment of<br />

bribes as in done in many countries like Uk etc. He received<br />

enthusiastic corporate support, which is to be expected<br />

since the largest bribe-payers in <strong>India</strong> are corporations.<br />

Mr. Basu’s reasoning is that if the payment of bribes were<br />

legalized, the bribe-payer could be persuaded to reveal<br />

the recipient. This would inject fear into the hearts of<br />

politicians and officials who expected bribes.<br />

Today, there is a perceptible increase in the<br />

number of young people who are acutely aware and<br />

interested in the fate of the nation. That is because they<br />

are different from the generations before them whose only<br />

objective in life was to escape <strong>India</strong>. Now that the world is<br />

what it is, there is no place to escape to. So they want<br />

their home to be a better place — where bribe-takers are<br />

punished and bribe-payers live happily ever after.<br />

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Corruption is a challenge. And public agitation<br />

is required to shame government. But it is possible to<br />

maintain, in reasonable good faith, that the Jan Lokpal<br />

Bill is not necessarily the best, or the only solution to the<br />

corruption challenge. We should not turn a complex<br />

institutional question into a simplistic moral imperative.<br />

I believe that a strong anti corruption law and a<br />

mechanism with the teeth to make it work are crucial if<br />

corruption is to be effectively fought. To that extent, a<br />

strong Lokpal is a must. However, the Lokpal is not an<br />

end in itself, but one of many means to an end, none of<br />

them mutually exclusive of the other. Privatizing all the<br />

Government departments or legalizing bribes are extreme<br />

possibilities or suggestions to curb corruption in <strong>India</strong>.<br />

Here are some other workable measures that should<br />

perhaps help reduce corruption:<br />

1. Introduce state-funding as part of election<br />

reforms: The high cost of elections and candidates’<br />

dependence on money, often of questionable provenance,<br />

compromises them from the very outset. Once beholden to<br />

moneybags, they are under obligation to return the favour<br />

if they win. Of course, not all candidates can be funded by<br />

the state, so only candidates belonging to national parties<br />

receive election money from the state.<br />

2. A reasonable and transparent tax structure,<br />

backed by clean and clear enforcement: Our direct taxes<br />

(personal income and corporate) are no longer<br />

unreasonable, so there’s little excuse for trying to evade<br />

them. But there is an unhealthy trend in piling on<br />

surcharges on various pretexts. Also, there are tons of<br />

other taxes that can add up to quite a bit. Finally, there’s<br />

the larger question of how efficiently and honestly<br />

taxpayers’ money is put to use - when you see the state of<br />

government hospitals and schools, and rotten roads, you<br />

wonder where the money you paid as tax has gone?<br />

3. Liberal and contemporary laws that citizens can<br />

understand and respect: People find it difficult to accept<br />

ridiculous, outdated and moralistic laws - worse, they may<br />

not even be aware of some of these laws till some law


enforcer somewhere decides to use them to harass and to<br />

extract money. Once you dismiss a law or rule as stupid<br />

and worthy of breaking (like not allowing drinking under<br />

25 years of age), there’s a human tendency to take other<br />

laws less seriously. Therefore, to the extent possible,<br />

there’s a need to cut back on the multiplicity of<br />

unnecessary and complex laws, and zero in on just the<br />

ones that are needed to ensure a fair, equitable and just<br />

system. These should then be administered without fear<br />

or favour.<br />

4. Reduce the role of the state in people’s lives to the<br />

absolutely essential: In some ways, this is related to our<br />

earlier point. The greater the scope for state interference<br />

- be it the police or the clerk in a government office or the<br />

customs inspector - the greater the scope for harassment<br />

and graft.<br />

5. Genuine autonomy for the public/government sector:<br />

Big PSUs - think Air <strong>India</strong>, for instance - place huge<br />

contracts. Even a fraction of that is huge money in absolute<br />

terms. There is always a temptation for political bosses<br />

to exert their influence and swing the contract for chosen<br />

ones and receive handsome kickbacks. So get them out of<br />

the day-to-day functioning of these PSUs.<br />

6. Minimize discretionary powers of ministers and<br />

bureaucrats: This would reduce scope for misuse of such<br />

powers to favour some — especially in lucrative areas<br />

such as award of government land. Where discretionary<br />

powers are unavoidable, bring in checks and balance. After<br />

a deal is done, the relevant documents should be put up<br />

on the Net.<br />

7. Pay government and PSU officers, judges and<br />

policemen market-indexed salaries commensurate with<br />

their responsibility: This would minimise the ‘need’ for<br />

bribes. Their salaries could be benchmarked against<br />

corporate sector salaries. But higher salaries should be<br />

combined with exemplary punishment, including<br />

dismissal from service and a police case if an employee is<br />

caught indulging in corrupt practices. Mere transfer or<br />

suspension won’t do.<br />

8. Introduce sweeping police reforms and stronger<br />

judicial accountability: This has been discussed for<br />

decades but there’s been no action. The recommendations<br />

for reforms are already there. Set a time frame for<br />

implementation. This will make the police not just a<br />

professional force that’s not at the beck and call of<br />

politicians, but also a trained one with in-built checks<br />

against developing vested interests. Today the situation<br />

often is that the investigator (police officer) is answerable<br />

to the person being investigated (politician). Also, separate<br />

the police into two wings: one for investigation and the<br />

other for maintaining law and order. The two functions<br />

are different and require different skill sets. Sadly, the<br />

image of the judiciary has taken a knock in recent years -<br />

for the common man, the courts are the last resort for<br />

seeking justice.<br />

9. Blacklist corrupt businessmen: Private businesses<br />

caught indulging in corrupt practices or bribing officials<br />

should be blacklisted for, say, 10 years and be barred from<br />

government projects. In the category of corrupt practices<br />

would fall use of shoddy material — like road contractors<br />

who give one inch of tar when they are supposed to give<br />

four inches and the road crumbles after one monsoon.<br />

Bigger instances of private businesses cutting corners in<br />

public projects by colluding with corrupt officials should<br />

attract exemplary punishment.<br />

10. Transparency and stricter scrutiny of government<br />

tenders/orders, including auction/sale of public-owned<br />

assets: Hundreds of thousands of crores of orders are<br />

placed every year by government departments, PSUs,<br />

municipal corporations and the like. It’s common<br />

knowledge that tenders are often awarded on<br />

considerations other than merit. This is one of the biggest<br />

sources of corruption in the country. And don’t f<strong>org</strong>et, this<br />

is taxpayers’ money that is being diverted illegally.<br />

11. Introduce Time frame and Accountability like Delhi<br />

Government in all Government services to reduce<br />

corruption which is today hitting all common man n all<br />

public services.<br />

In an age of cynicism, Anna Hazare is a colossus<br />

of idealism. His sacrifices should cause all of us to<br />

introspect. Anna Hazare has awakened <strong>India</strong> and<br />

emphasized that firm and strong steps are needed to curb<br />

the menace of Corruption in <strong>India</strong> to ensure that an<br />

atmosphere has to created where the good, patriotic,<br />

intellectuals can come forward to serve the country with<br />

pride, virtue, and honesty for the welfare of the people of<br />

<strong>India</strong>. Finally, in this awakened <strong>India</strong> it is for every one of<br />

us, let’s try and say no to bribes. This is the right moment<br />

to unleash a national campaign against giving bribes as<br />

the mood against corruption is high. Ultimately, we can’t<br />

get rid of the bribe taker if we are willing to be bribe<br />

givers. ●<br />

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What What is is sleep sleep Apnea?<br />

Apnea?<br />

Sleep apnea means that your breathing often is<br />

blocked or partly blocked during sleep. The problem<br />

can be mild to severe, based on how often your lungs<br />

don’t get enough air. This may happen from 5 to more<br />

than 50 times an hour.<br />

A huge number of people all over the world suffer from<br />

sleep apnea, probably far more than you think.<br />

· Sleep apnea is thought to occur in 20 million<br />

Americans to some extent. That means that one<br />

in fifteen Americans is suffering from sleep apnea<br />

in some form or another, which equals to just<br />

under 7%.<br />

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Sleep Apnea<br />

Written by: JasbirHora, CA<br />

· Sleep apnea is far more common in those over<br />

the age of 40 – but research has indicated that a<br />

whipping 50% of all sleep apnea cases occur in<br />

individuals over the age of 40.<br />

· 24% of men are thought to suffer from sleep apnea<br />

to some extent, compared to 9% of all women.<br />

· In terms of the deadly effects, 38,000 die annually<br />

from cardiovascular problems associated with<br />

sleeping disorder.<br />

· Sleep apnea sufferers are six times more likely<br />

to be involved in a fatal car accident.<br />

Approximately 1,400 people die annually from<br />

sleep apnea accidents.


Several types of sleep apnea exist but the most common<br />

type is obstructive sleep apnea accounting for 85% of all<br />

sleep apnea cases.<br />

What What causes causes obstructive obstructive sleep sleep sleep apnea?<br />

apnea?<br />

Blocked or narrowed airways in your nose, mouth, or throat<br />

can cause sleep apnea. Your airway can become blocked<br />

when your throat muscles and tongue relax during sleep.<br />

Sleep apnea can also occur if you have large tonsils or<br />

adenoids or a large uvula uvula uvula uvula uvula (small finger-shaped piece of<br />

tissue that hangs down from the soft palate in the back of<br />

the throat. It can usually be seen when a person opens his<br />

or her mouth wide. Although the exact purpose of the<br />

uvula is not known, some experts believe that it helps<br />

keep food from going down the breathing passage when a<br />

person swallows). During the day when you are awake<br />

and standing up, these may not cause problems. But<br />

when you lie down at night, they can press down on your<br />

airway, narrowing it and causing sleep apnea. Sleep apnea<br />

can also occur if you have a problem with your jawbone.<br />

Sleep apnea is more likely to occur if you are overweight,<br />

use certain medicines or alcohol before bed, or sleep on<br />

your back.<br />

What What are are the the symptoms?<br />

symptoms?<br />

symptoms?<br />

The main symptoms of sleep apnea that you may notice<br />

are:<br />

· Not feeling rested after a night’s sleep<br />

· Feeling sleepy during the day<br />

· Waking up with a headache<br />

Your bed partner may notice that while you sleep:<br />

· You stop breathing<br />

· You often snore loudly<br />

· You gasp or choke<br />

· You toss and turn<br />

In children, the main cause of sleep apnea is large tonsils<br />

or adenoids. Children who have sleep apnea:<br />

· Nearly always snore<br />

· May be hyperactive or have problems paying<br />

attention during the day<br />

· May be restless during sleep and wake up often.<br />

They also may have problems with bed-wetting.<br />

But children may not seem very sleepy during the day (a<br />

key symptom in adults). The only symptom of sleep apnea<br />

in some children may be that they do not grow as quickly<br />

as most children their age.<br />

Should Should you you worry worry about about sleep sleep apnea? apnea?<br />

apnea?<br />

If you have sleep apnea, you may not be sleeping as well<br />

as you could. And you may be more likely to end up with<br />

serious problems such as:<br />

· High blood pressure<br />

· High blood pressure in your lungs<br />

· An abnormal heart rhythm, heart failure,<br />

coronary artery disease (CAD), or stroke<br />

· Depression<br />

· Diabetes<br />

How How is is sleep sleep sleep apnea apnea diagnosed?<br />

diagnosed?<br />

Consult your physician if you or your partner observes any<br />

of the symptoms mentioned above. Your doctor will<br />

probably examine you and ask about your past health.<br />

He or she may also ask you or your sleeping partner about<br />

your snoring and sleep behavior and how tired you feel<br />

during the day.<br />

Your doctor may suggest a sleep study. A sleep study<br />

usually takes place at a sleep center, where you will spend<br />

the night. Sleep studies find out how often you stop<br />

breathing or have too little air flowing into your lungs<br />

during sleep. They also find out how much oxygen you<br />

have in your blood during sleep. You may have blood tests<br />

and X-rays.<br />

How How is is sleep sleep sleep apnea apnea treated?<br />

treated?<br />

You may be able to treat mild sleep apnea by making<br />

changes in how you live and the way you sleep. For<br />

example:<br />

· Lose weight if you are overweight<br />

· Sleep on your side and not your back<br />

· Avoid alcohol and medicines such as sedatives<br />

before bed<br />

If lifestyle changes do not help sleep apnea, you may be<br />

able to use an oral breathing device. These devices help<br />

keep your airway open while you sleep.<br />

If you have moderate to severe sleep apnea, you may be<br />

able to use a machine that helps you breathe while you<br />

sleep. This treatment is called continuous positive airway<br />

pressure, or CPAP. Sometimes medicine that helps you<br />

stay awake during the day may be used along with CPAP.<br />

If your tonsils, adenoids, uvula, or other tissues are<br />

blocking your airway, your doctor may suggest surgery to<br />

open your airways. �<br />

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Jagjit Singh<br />

The legend lives on...<br />

By Ashok Kumar<br />

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On October 10 th 2011, a shining star disappeared in the oblivion! It left millions<br />

of music lovers in <strong>India</strong>, Pakistan, and across the globe in tears and melancholia.<br />

Only way to deaden the infinite pain, it would seem, is to submerge oneself in the<br />

vast legacy he left behind. The maestro left a world of ghazals and songs behind<br />

for the music lovers to savor and create an aura of calming and soothing emotions.<br />

In the words of Javed Akhtar, he had “chaen” (stable calmness) in his creations.<br />

Beyond a vast treasure trove of ghazals, Jagjit’s<br />

major contribution was to bring the ghazals within<br />

the reach of a common man. Prior to jagjit, ghazals<br />

were set in hard, literary Urdu or Arabic language<br />

and sung with considerable classical artistry. Only<br />

the musically gifted could sing ghazals. Jagjit Singh<br />

used simple tunes and simple words (many times in<br />

Hindi dialect, not even in Urdu) for his ghazals that<br />

everyone could understand and hum. But, lurking<br />

behind the simplicity of words were thoughts and<br />

emotions so deep and penetrating that seared and<br />

etched directly into the heart and descended into the<br />

soul. The dearth of classical wizardry or adroitness<br />

in his tunes did not take away an iota of profound<br />

musical value and impact that traditional ghazals<br />

generated.<br />

Tum ko dekha to ye khayal aaya, Zindagi dhop<br />

tum ghanaa saayaa ( I saw you and this thought came:<br />

My life was [in the hot] sun and you were the thick<br />

shadow). Or, Tum itna jo muskura rahe ho, Kya ghum<br />

hai jisko chhupa rahe ho – You are smiling so much;<br />

what hurt are you hiding? These two ghazals, which<br />

were on the lips of millions of <strong>India</strong>ns and Pakistanis,<br />

embrace and reflect the entirety of Jagjit singh’s<br />

ghazals’ character and philosophy. They are simple<br />

to understand, easy to sing, and yet incredibly<br />

profound and deep in their impact. Keeping with the same promise of simplicity<br />

and elegance, then came numbers such as Hoton se chhoo lo tum, mera geet amar<br />

kar do (Touch my song with your lips and immortalize it), or Ye daulat bhi lelo, Ye<br />

shohrat bhi lelo (take all my wealth, all my frame) that pain-immersed rendering<br />

echoed the yearning of many of us who recall our childhood days with nostalgia. I<br />

do not think there is another piece of art or music that expresses these emotions<br />

more expressively or eloquently. The list of memorable melodies like yeh zindagi<br />

kisi aur ki, mere naam ka koi aur hai, Patta-patta boota-boota , Hazaar baar<br />

ruke ham, Kal chaudhavin ki raat thi, … the list of musical pearls is endless.<br />

Importantly, these hits which played on the lips of millions were made when the


world of ghazals was dominated by names like Mehdi<br />

Hassan, Begum Akhtar, Noor Jehan, Malika Pukhraj, and<br />

Talat Mahmood.<br />

Beyond adding great accessibility, Jagjit Singh should<br />

also be justly credited with contemporizing the genre of<br />

ghazals with bold deployment of Western instruments,<br />

such as guitar and drums to the traditional <strong>India</strong>n<br />

instruments, such as harmonium, sitar and tabla that<br />

attracted hoards of enchanted customers to his<br />

productions and made him a business success.<br />

The Unf<strong>org</strong>ettebles- the first album of Jagjit and<br />

Chitra (his wife) Singh – started their meteoric music<br />

journey in 1976. I remember hearing Kafeel Azer’s nazm–<br />

Baat Niklegi to Door Talak Jayegi (once a rumor stars, it<br />

will go far afield) at friend’s house and deciding to stay<br />

(more aptly overstay)at their house and listening to the<br />

songs of the album repeatedly until falling asleep. The<br />

inaugural guitar notes followed by Jagjit’s slightly husky<br />

but immensely melodious voice and the “sukoon (peace)”<br />

in the song just gets to your inner sanctum sanctorum.<br />

The melodies of the entire album would make anyone<br />

pensive and ebullient at the same time. The most popular<br />

number of the album, Sarakti jaye hai rukh se naqab<br />

ahista ahista (lyrics: Ameer Meenai) continues to draw<br />

prolonged applause and accolades from audience just after<br />

the recital of the very first line even today. Over a period of<br />

four decades, Jagjit Singh has created over 40 albums,<br />

some in tandem with his wife, Chitra. Among his most<br />

serene and heart-touching albums, I would include<br />

Milestone, Main or Meri Tahhayee, Ecstacies, Echos, Mirza<br />

Ghalib, H O P E, Kaikashan, and Sajda. Indeed, among<br />

his myriad compositions and creations, if I were to<br />

recommend one to music lovers, I would recommend one<br />

from the album Sajda and listen to the following number:<br />

The ghazal, set in mystic environ, starts with a<br />

rising, high-pitch, heart-rending voice that is calling God<br />

and begging in an extremely pain-filled voice: Grant my<br />

one wish, O god - Fill my being with pain (not the exact<br />

translation, sorry) … the song later evolves into the wish<br />

(again difficult to get the soul of the original verse, crudely<br />

translated): Either apply balm on the wounds of the planet<br />

or make my heart that of stone…<br />

No tribute to or compendium of Jagjit Singh’s<br />

body of work will be complete without mentioning the<br />

song “Chitthi Na Koi Sandesh … (no letter, no message<br />

…)” which he created after the death of his young son<br />

Vivek, who he fondly called Babu, in 1990. The trauma<br />

was enough for Chitra to stop singing altogether. Recently<br />

a family friend sung this song in a small gethering and<br />

everyone’s eyes were filled with tears of agony. I went back<br />

home and heard it again and again till I began to feel<br />

depressed. That is the power of Jagjit Singh’s ghazals.<br />

They are so compelling and so total in their impact and<br />

yet they use simple words and set to very simple tunes.<br />

But they convey a level of pain and helplessness that<br />

borders on transcendental.<br />

So far as his dedication to music is concerned,<br />

Jagjit Singh was a perfectionist. He told Hindustan<br />

Times, “Music is a vast subject. There is mathematics<br />

and grammar in music. Unless one knows all of it, one<br />

cannot become a good singer. One should learn music for<br />

15 years before actually trying their hands at singing<br />

ghazals”. Though his ghazals had less classical nuances,<br />

his mastery of classical ragas could be seen in his live<br />

shows where he freely inserted taanaas (long stable notes),<br />

aalaaps (just stretching a letter with a variety of tunes)<br />

that showed an extraordinary command of <strong>India</strong>n classical<br />

music and aplomb and sweetness.<br />

Jagjeet Singh was borne in 1941 in Sri<br />

Ganagangar (erstwhile Rajputana in British <strong>India</strong>) in<br />

Sikh family who gave him the name Jagmohan. Incidently,<br />

he used to live in the adjacent house to my real sister’s<br />

house in srigagnganagar and her family tells me how they<br />

enjoyed his practice sessions into the wee hours of<br />

morning.<br />

Later, he changed his name to Jagjit (Victor of<br />

the world) Singh and his family called him Jeet. His<br />

extraordinary musical work both in volume and quality<br />

won him the coveted Bharat Bhushan award in 2003.<br />

There are many who believe that he deserved the highest<br />

award – Bharat Ratna simply because of his “massifying”<br />

the ghazal genre.<br />

Jagjit Singh affiliates, nay devotees, like me and<br />

Kuldip would find life tough after Jagjit Singh. We have<br />

lost an angel of music and the void will never fill for us.<br />

Yet we are comforted in the thought that he has left a<br />

body of ghazals that will serve us and the humanity forever<br />

in our low moments of sadness and bring us the tranquility<br />

and chaen we need.<br />

We will really never be without him. He is<br />

immortal. I think a befitting finale to this eulogy‘ will be<br />

what the venerable Lata ji said about Mohammed Rafi,<br />

the legendary singer:<br />

.Thanks, my musical angel, may you always live in the<br />

minds and hearts of everyone on the planet!! Adieu!! May<br />

the Gods of music personally take care of your soul!!!<br />

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By Rima Arora<br />

Happiness is a state of mind; we have the freedom to choose happiness. If we analyze each action at every stage of individuals the<br />

first conclusion will be that the motive behind each such action is to attain “HAPPINESS”. All the efforts, works or struggles which<br />

individuals are making in this world are directed to secure “HAPPINESS”.<br />

DIFFERENT PATTERNS OF HAPPINESS-The process of attaining happiness is different with different patterns of society and<br />

walks of life. Individuals are running after money, buildings, family, happiness, position, and status, facilities of conveyance, higher<br />

education, decent clothing, and improved standards of living all with a common aim of attaining “HAPPINESS”.<br />

However, it is a strange paradox that in every walk of life, happiness does not come alone but sorrow or misery follows as a close<br />

companion of happiness. This phenomenon keeps everybody in a strange state of mental un-equilibrium. Before one can follow the<br />

path leading to “HAPPINESS”, an individual must know clearly where “HAPPINESS” actually resides.<br />

Having known the real aim of life, viz ‘attainment of eternal happiness’, a complementary question arises as to where is the abode<br />

of this “HAPPINESS’, and how it can be achieved in practical life.<br />

UNDERSTANDING THE MIND-Correctly speaking, ‘ Mind’ is the real instrument which by proper tuning drives to the goal of life<br />

along the right path in the right direction and leads to the source of eternal happiness- the aim of life. It is the static position of the<br />

mind which imparts happiness.<br />

TRANSFORM THE MIND-The innermost part of the mind is conscience. The real power of happiness flows through this <strong>org</strong>an and<br />

the extent to which it can be derived depends upon the strength and cleanliness of the same.<br />

The ultimate aim is eternal happiness for which a regular war has being waged, always gazing deeply in the mind’s mirror, the<br />

conscience, which by practice illuminates better and better, as the angel of plus power develops and defects the devil of minus<br />

power. With sincere efforts an individual becomes fearless and sees himself as he really is and not as others look at him.<br />

THE TRUE PATH TO HAPPINESS therefore lies in-<br />

* Gaining true knowledge of the inner self, the seat of eternal bliss to locate the abode of permanent happiness.<br />

* Practice a control of the sensual forces which cause distraction to the mind through their developed army of desires and thoughts.<br />

* Controlling sensual pleasures and desires in assisting the control of the mind.<br />

* Keeping an eye on the mind’s mirror, the conscience and regulating the actions in a way that maximum plus power is transmitted<br />

to the conscience.<br />

* Proper preservation of the body in good health, to enjoy the worldly pleasures and have a turbulent mind.<br />

The real art of life lies in clearly picking up happiness and tread on a path which will lead to eternal happiness, which is not mixed<br />

with sorrow and pain, and will remain constant and will not diminish. We must all harvest this happiness in life.<br />

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I have seen castles made out of sand,<br />

Met people who believe destiny is<br />

engraved on the palm of their hands.<br />

I have seen people change their faith,<br />

Experienced love change into hate.<br />

I have seen people grow younger with age,<br />

And a bird who wouldn’t fly off an open cage.<br />

I have seen love sold for money,<br />

People who are devastated inside but outside funny.<br />

I have seen the unicorn fall in love with the toad,<br />

People who owned half city have now hit the road.<br />

I have learned to expect the unexpected,<br />

Perfection doesn’t exist we all are defected.<br />

Everyone cries, some just hide their tears,<br />

They say coal turns diamond over a thousand years.<br />

Someone may believe you are one in a million,<br />

For others you are just another nobody in the billion.<br />

So live life with all that you have,<br />

Cherish all your moments happy or sad<br />

Feel blessed with what you have<br />

because life is too short to hold tears,<br />

So say cheese......keep smiling......:)<br />

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Contributed by Vineeta Satyanarayan<br />

Prateeksha<br />

Yeh kaisi kashmakash yeh kaisa andhera,<br />

Ankhen khuli to dekha ek chehera.<br />

Muskura raha tha wo, par ankhen na de rahi thi saath uska.<br />

Haath me kuch nayi kitaben aur chehere pe ek ummeed.<br />

Dikhane laga tha unko jo na dekh parahe the hum dono ko.<br />

Apni hi raftaar me guzarte ja rahe the wo beparwah.<br />

Main dekhta raha.<br />

Bekhabar tha wo meri nazar se.<br />

Thak gaya tha muskurate muskurate maathe pe shikan leke.<br />

Koi to guzarata jo puchta uska haal.<br />

Par Kya kisi ko tha itna samay jo karta yeh sawaal?<br />

Sar par chadi kadi dhoop garmiyon ki aur pet bhookha.<br />

Do kitaben bik jaati to wo kuch khaleta.<br />

Par kahan thi uski aisi kismat.<br />

Dhota jaraha tha unka bojh.<br />

Paseene se lat pat ja gira dharti ki godh.<br />

Main dekhta raha na kar paya aur kuch.<br />

Bheedekhatta hogayi minaton me.<br />

Main na uthpaya usme shaamil hone.<br />

Uth khada hua wo ek bar phir prateeksha me.<br />

Dubata hua suraj phir chamkega asman me.<br />

Do kitaben bik gayin thin us beparwah bheedme.<br />

Ojhal hua meri ankhon se uska drishya.<br />

Main pada raha sadak ke kinaare, apahij………<br />

By Vineeta Satyanarayan


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Madhubala &<br />

Geeta Dutt<br />

Lives intertwined<br />

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Ebullient and exciting. Effervescent and enticing.<br />

Enchanting and enthralling. Energetic and<br />

entertaining. Sensuous and sensitive.<br />

Bewitching and beguiling. Magnetic and<br />

mesmerizing. Vibrant and full of verve. When one talks<br />

about beautiful Madhubala one thinks of these words.<br />

Interestingly, the voice of that great singer Geeta Dutt<br />

(nee Roy) can be described exactly with just about the<br />

same traits.<br />

Madhubala. An original. Elegant extraordinaire. An<br />

exquisite beauty of unparalleled grace. A glowing face that<br />

could launch a thousand ships. An infectious smile that<br />

could aflutter a million hearts. A spontaneous burst of<br />

laughter that could make even a lightning to go haywire.<br />

Geeta Dutt (nee Roy) . An original. Singer extraordinaire.<br />

A brilliant voice of unparalleled melody. A free flowing<br />

voice that could charm thousands. An infectiously<br />

mellifluous voice that could sway millions of music lovers.<br />

A dulcet tone that sets the tone so that even a dullest<br />

could enamor.<br />

Both of them came into movie limelight at around the<br />

same time. They were almost of the same tender age.<br />

They both romanced life to the fullest. They both courted<br />

someone whom they were professionally associated with.<br />

Both faced stiff opposition from their respective parents<br />

about these relationships. Even after they got married<br />

they both had very little joy in their lives. Their story was<br />

that of unflinching agony, unending suffering, utter<br />

disillusionment, and ultimately untimely death.<br />

Madhubala passed away when she was barely 36. Geeta<br />

Dutt passed away when she was only 42.<br />

In the brief span of few years of glory these both artistes<br />

shared, they left behind a legacy of rich oeuvre of<br />

everlasting work. The wonderful body of work that<br />

intersected their lives resulted in nearly 50 magnificent<br />

songs of ethereal quality. These songs ranged from sweet<br />

to sentimental, soothing to sultry, sensuous to sizzling,<br />

tantalizing to tragic, mellisonic to melancholic, romantic<br />

to razzle-dazzle, and of pure pleasure to pinching pain.<br />

The full spectrum of the melodic rainbow moods was never<br />

before this well defined and delineated in all its glowing<br />

and glorious colors that this montage of melodic work did.<br />

Madhubala’s and Geeta’s parents moved to Mumbai<br />

seeking better life when both of them were very young.<br />

Madhubala found work as a child artiste, her real name<br />

was Mumtaz, when she was only nine years old. “Basant”<br />

made in 1942 was her first movie. Geeta was discovered<br />

when Pandit Hanuman Prasad overheard her singing in<br />

her residence and took under his wings. Her opportunity<br />

to sing came in a chorus song in 1946 in “Bhakt Prahlad”.<br />

The year 1947 was an eventful year in both of their lives.<br />

Mumtaz changed her name to Madhubala at Devika<br />

Rani’s suggestion when she got an opportunity to play the<br />

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sang several songs in “Do Bhai” under the baton of S.D.<br />

Burman. The song from this movie, “Mere Sundar Sapna<br />

Beet Gaya”, in Geeta’s fresh, unique, and ethereal voice<br />

became an overnight sensation and with it Geeta became<br />

a celebrity.<br />

Interestingly Geetaji sang for Madhubala in her “Neel<br />

Kamal” and two other movies in 1947. If both of them<br />

were trying to get a foothold in the industry the songs of<br />

these movies don’t tell the entire story. Because they show<br />

a mature and understanding voice that has such depth<br />

that once you hear them, they stay with you forever. For<br />

example, you can feel how Geeta pleads for leading lady,<br />

Madhubala, with the song “Bol Bol Baalam Bedardi”.<br />

In “Dil Ki Rani” also from 1947, Geetaji changes her voice<br />

to fit the moods of her heroine, Madhubala, brilliantly.<br />

She collaborates with her in the moods of happiness<br />

(“Aaha More Mohan Ne Mujhko Bulaaya”), helplessness<br />

(“Bigdi Hui Taqdeer Mere Aake Bana De”), complaintive<br />

(“Kyon Baalam Humse Rooth Gaye”), mockingly quizzical<br />

(“O Duniya Ke Rehne Waalo Kahaan Gaya Chitchor”).<br />

When you hear the voice of Geeta in these songs, you can<br />

play how Madhubala enacted them in your own mind’s<br />

eye. This is what the dizzying power of sweet songs can do<br />

to dazzle you. The<br />

singer who sang this<br />

romantic and sweet<br />

“Ahaa more mohan ne<br />

mujhko bulayaa” did<br />

not hesitate in singing<br />

the complaining song<br />

“Kyon balam humse<br />

rooth gaye” in the<br />

same film.<br />

Another Madhubala<br />

starrer film “Mere<br />

Bhagwan” released the<br />

same year. Since we do<br />

not have the videos of<br />

this rare film, we can<br />

not conclusively say<br />

whether this lovely<br />

melody composed by<br />

Sajjad Hussain was<br />

filmed on Madhubala<br />

or not. Yet, this sweet song ‘Mujhe baawari baawari log<br />

kahe” penned by Shewan Rizwi is worth paying attention<br />

to.<br />

It looks like Geeta and Madhubala had the most<br />

association in the year 1947. Another Madhubala starrer,<br />

a historical film “Chittor Vijay” was also released in the<br />

same year. It had music composed by S D Burman and<br />

Geeta Dutt is reported to have sung at least two songs for<br />

it. Again, no information is available about the songs<br />

themselves or whom they were filmed on. One can safely<br />

believe that at least one of them would have been filmed<br />

on Madhubala, if not both of them!<br />

1951 was another year the lives of these two great artistes<br />

incredibly ran almost parallel to each other. During the<br />

shooting of the movie “Tarana” love blossomed between<br />

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Madhubala and the hero of the movie, Dilip Kumar. This<br />

was one of several movies they worked together. Dev<br />

Anand’s “Baazi”, also made in 1951, had a first time<br />

director, Guru Dutt. Geeta, a celebrity by this time, sang<br />

several beautiful songs in this movie recorded under<br />

Burmanda’s direction. Geeta Roy and Guru Dutt were<br />

attracted to each other and romance between them<br />

flourished.<br />

Between the year 1947 and 1954, Geeta sang for several<br />

films starring Madhubala. Some of her songs were lip<br />

synced by Madhubala, for some others we are not sure.<br />

Videos of some of the films are not available. The list of<br />

films is : Laal Dupatta (1948), Sipahiya (1949), Paras<br />

(1949), Nishana (1950), Sangdil (1952) and Armaan<br />

(1953). Out of these, the video of the religious song<br />

“Darshan Pyasi, aayi daasi” from the film Sangdil is<br />

available and this song is indeed filmed on Madhubala.<br />

Were not Madhubala and Geeta “thirsty for the sight of<br />

their respective lovers” in those days? Sure they were!<br />

The year 1955 also saw so much commonality between<br />

these two stars. Madhubala and Dilip Kumar were very<br />

much in love with each other. The married life of Geeta<br />

and Guru Dutt was harmonious. They were blessed with a<br />

son a year before. The year however was even more<br />

important because Madhubala appeared in Geeta Dutt<br />

husband’s movie, “Mr. & Mrs. ‘55”, as the leading lady.<br />

Geeta had a chance to sing six songs. Of these, five were<br />

picturized on Madhubala, three solos and two duets with<br />

Rafi Saab.<br />

The five songs from this movie display Geeta’s prowess to<br />

sing vastly varied types of songs, all effective and with<br />

equal ease. For example, in the duet “Chal Diye Banda<br />

Nawaaz” she adds a touch of tease to her voice and matches<br />

the legendary Mohd Rafi in this chhed-chhad song. In<br />

“Neele Aasmani” filmed on Cuckoo, she matches with the<br />

wits of her heroine by giving the song a sultry touch. Then<br />

in “Preetam Aan Milo” she proves how a melodic voice can<br />

be turned into a provocative voice as well. Then like the<br />

cool breeze, she sings soothingly “Thandi Hawa” putting<br />

the listener’s mind and heart at ease. Picturize this as<br />

Madhubala with her infectious smile as her locks blowing<br />

away freely in the breeze. A prefect setting of a free spirit.<br />

Some unconfirmed sources mention that this song also<br />

has Shamshad Begum as a co-singer with Geeta along<br />

with the chorus. It is kind of surprising that the composer<br />

Rhythm King O P Nayyar calls Geeta Dutt and Shamshad<br />

Begum as his favorite singers, but did not compose a single<br />

duet for both of them. May be is this that song where he<br />

requested his senior singer Shamshad to pitch in for a few<br />

lines? No one really knows!<br />

Finally in the duet “Udhar Tu Haseen Ho” Geetaji gives<br />

ones heart a mighty throb by giving the song that utterly<br />

romantic and delicious flavor. Different moods of<br />

Madhubala. Matching moods of Geeta’s singing style.<br />

Things can’t get any better than this! This can be<br />

attributed to a major extent to the good life both were<br />

enjoying at this juncture in their lives. By the way the<br />

sixth song sung by Geeta in this movie, a duet, “Jaane<br />

Kahaan Mera Jigar Gaya Ji” was done in a whimsical but


with teasingly beautiful and sweet voice matching every<br />

modulation and nuance of Rafi Saab’s voice. It is filmed<br />

on Yasmin and not Madhubala.<br />

This was just only a year after 1955. But many things can<br />

happen within one year. From the beginning Madhubala’s<br />

father was dead against her relationship with Dilip. The<br />

romance eventually ended abruptly in 1956 when Dilip<br />

Kumar testified against Madhubala and her father in the<br />

court when she refused to honor her commitment to B.R.<br />

Chopra who was making “Naya Daur” with her and Dilip<br />

in the leads and part of the movie was already shot.<br />

Madhubala eventually married the singer-actor Kishore<br />

Kumar in 1960, against the wishes of both of their parents.<br />

Even though married, they never really lived together.<br />

Geeta’s parents were also very much against her<br />

relationship with Guru Dutt. But as Guru Dutt started<br />

making a name for himself, they eventually changed their<br />

mind and agreed to their marriage in 1953. By 1956, Geeta<br />

had two sons (Tarun in 1954 and Arun in 1956). It was<br />

also the year Guru Dutt introduced Waheeda Rehman in<br />

his movie “C.I.D.”.<br />

1957 saw Madhubala, in spite of all the health problems<br />

and emotional problems, trying to complete her work in<br />

Asif’s magnum opus “Mughal-E-Azam”. That year Guru<br />

Dutt’s history making classic “Pyaasa” was released. It<br />

was widely reported that Guru was getting greatly fond of<br />

Waheeda Rehman who was his costar in “Pyaasa”. Not<br />

many know about this, but the matter of fact is that Guru<br />

Dutt wanted to have Dilip Kumar to play the role of poet<br />

Vijay (later on played by Guru Dutt himself), Nargis in<br />

the role of Meena (later on played by Mala Sinha) and<br />

Madhubala in the role of Gulab (later on played by<br />

Waheeda Rehman). Both Nargis and Madhubala were<br />

very excited to work in this venture by Guru Dutt, but<br />

both of them could not decide which of the two roles they<br />

wanted to do. May be due to this, Guru decided to drop<br />

both the leading actresses and roped in the two newcomers<br />

as mentioned above. On the first day of the shooting, Dilip<br />

Kumar did not turn up and Guru Dutt decided to take up<br />

the challenging role himself. One can only imagine<br />

Madhubala lip syncing to the melodious “Jaane kya tune<br />

kahi” and being in the frame for the divine song “Aaj sajan<br />

mohe ang lagaa lo”…<br />

That very same year also saw one of Madhubala’s movie,<br />

“Yahudi Ki Ladki” released. The significant thing about<br />

this was that Hemantda provided its music and Geeta<br />

Dutt sang seven songs, five solos and two duets with<br />

Shamshad Begum. These were the most songs in a single<br />

film Geeta ever sang in a Madhubala movie. Hemantda<br />

was another music director who experimented with Geeta’s<br />

voice by giving her different types of songs. We are not<br />

certain how many of these songs were picturized on<br />

Madhubala. However, one can picture Madhubala enacting<br />

these on the screen breathing life into them with her<br />

beautifully expressive face by lip syncing to each of the<br />

words of these beautiful songs. Look at how easily Geeta<br />

shifts from one mood to another per demands of the songs,<br />

very effortlessly. For example, Geeta teasingly invites her<br />

lover in the song “Aa Hum Se Pyaar Karle”.<br />

Imagine here Madhubala with her beautiful smile and a<br />

twinkle in her eye. Geetaji has two duets with Shamshadji,<br />

another great singer with outstandingly unique voice. To<br />

hear these two great divas singing together is such a rare<br />

treat. Both songs “Hum Kisise Na Kahenge” are teasingly<br />

tantalizing. Both Geeta and Shamshad show with their<br />

performance of these songs why they are masters at this<br />

art. The result is a stunner. Next Geeta’s voice becomes<br />

sentimental when she deplores her current state in the<br />

song “Chaar Din Ki Hain Bahaaren”. But when she sings<br />

the song “Karle Dil Ka Sauda” she shows the steamy<br />

sultriness for which she became famous in her later years<br />

of singing career. In the next song, at once she switches to<br />

a sensuous mood very effortlessly by singing the beauty<br />

“Na Ho Dil Jiske Seene Mein”. Finally, in the solo,<br />

“Sammara Sammara” Geeta once again demonstrates<br />

why she was the best in the songs that had tantalizing<br />

and jazzy tone.<br />

The team of composer Hemantda, singer Geeta Dutt and<br />

actress Madhubala joined once again the next year as<br />

well. This time it was a musical suspense crime thriller<br />

film titled “Police” (1958). Actor Pradeep Kumar himself<br />

produced this film and of course acted in it in the leading<br />

role. Hemant Kumar and Geeta Dutt sang one of the most<br />

romantic and sweet duet “Chale hum kahan..” filmed on<br />

Pradeep Kumar and Madhubala. The tune of this song<br />

was the same as the eternal romantic song “Tumi je<br />

aamaar” composed by Hemantda and sung by Geeta ji<br />

herself for the Bengali film Harano Sur. Almost a<br />

diametrically opposite song “Oh oh oh oh baby, Mudake<br />

zara, Arre kiye jaa, Halka halka isharra..” was again sung<br />

by composer-singer Hemantda with Geeta Dutt for this<br />

film. The tune of this song was obviously inspired from<br />

some western song, but the “Nashaa” of Geeta’s voice and<br />

Madhubala’s charm was perfectly original! The film Police<br />

had some more songs sung by Geeta which are not easily<br />

available.<br />

The year 1959 saw Geeta ji singing a lovely but lesser<br />

heard song “Aa aa meri taal pe, naach le baabu” for the<br />

film Kal Hamara Hain filmed on Madhubala. This was<br />

composed by maestro MD Chitragupta ji, who gave as<br />

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many as a hundred songs to Geeta ji from the year 1946 to<br />

1964. The year 1960 was a memorable year in<br />

Madhubala’s life. Her most eagerly awaited movie<br />

“Mughal-E-Azam” was released. It took ten years to make,<br />

but when it was finally released it proved to be an artistic<br />

triumph for everyone concerned. Madhubala was showered<br />

with unprecedented praises for her performance as the<br />

tormented lover, Anarkali. It was the crowning glory of her<br />

career.<br />

The same year Madhubala married Kishore Kumar but it<br />

wasn’t a happy union because of rejection by their<br />

respective families. Also, in an almost parallel track, by<br />

1960 relationship between Geeta and Guru Dutt was<br />

completely strained. The title of the movie “Mehlon Ke<br />

Khwab” ironically reflects what happened to both of their<br />

lives at this stage. This 1960 movie starring Madhubala<br />

has a duet by Geeta Dutt and Asha Bhsole, “Is Duniya<br />

Mein Sabse Acchi”, that was philosophical in its mood.<br />

That “goodness” both of them were seeking in their lives<br />

and from this world remained a “khwab”, just a dream. In<br />

this song, Geeta gives voice to Madhubala and Asha to<br />

Chanchal, real life sister of Madhubala. Music is by S<br />

Mohinder and lyrics by Raja Mehendi Ali Khan.<br />

Madhubala acted in another film titled Passport (1961)<br />

again with Pradeep Kumar. This time, the composers were<br />

Kalyanji – Anandji who gave as many as three solos to<br />

Geeta Dutt. None of these were filmed on Madhubala<br />

though! Probably the last song sung by Geeta and filmed<br />

on Madhubala was from the film Half Ticket starring her<br />

real life husband Kishore Kumar. The song is a fun-filled<br />

duet “Ankhon mein tum, dil mein tum ho” sung by Geeta<br />

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and Kishore Kumar himself.<br />

Death strikes in strange ways. Nobody is above death,<br />

but when you think these talent rich people are scaling<br />

new heights in their respective professional carriers, and<br />

still are young and have so much to accomplish, it sours<br />

admirers and pains them deeply. Take Madhubala’s case<br />

as n example. She was born with a defective heart and it<br />

wasn’t known until 1950 what was ailing her. She was<br />

frequently coughing up blood on the sets because of the<br />

problem. She sought help from doctors abroad in 1960<br />

but at that time technology was probably not as advanced<br />

as today to offer help. She lived with the suffering for<br />

another nine years before breathing her last on February<br />

23, 1969, only nine days after her 36th birthday.<br />

Now take Geeta Dutt’s life as an example. She started<br />

having problems with her marriage when seemingly her<br />

husband was having a romantic liaison with Waheeda<br />

Rehman, the actress he introduced and a star of many of<br />

his movies. This eventually led to the separation from her<br />

husband in early 60’s. Her husband took his life by<br />

committing suicide in early October 1964 soon after the<br />

separation. This left Geeta as an emotional wreck and<br />

she suffered a severe nervous breakdown. She took to<br />

heavy drinking. She tried to come back a few times but it<br />

was futile. Geeta breathed her last on July 20, 1972 at<br />

the young age of 41.<br />

Here we are. Madhubala. A mystic beauty of exquisite<br />

charms. Geeta Dutt. An unparalleled singer with a honeyed<br />

voice. When they came together, it spelled magic. The spell<br />

that never goes away. The grip never lets loose of either a<br />

video viewer or an audio listener. Two lives marred with<br />

personal problems. Two lives cut short by tragedies. Two<br />

talent-laden personalities who entertained us in their own<br />

unique way. Two legends who live in our hearts forever.�<br />

Original source courtesy:<br />

http://www.geetadutt.com/blog/?p=574


Emotional Detachment<br />

for a Better Life<br />

Emotional attachment is a situation in life<br />

when you encounter people and situations<br />

leading to mental agitation, pain, suffering,<br />

and broken relationships. This is because<br />

you let people and events, your thoughts and your past,<br />

By Rima Arora<br />

tie you down. If you want to enjoy inner peace, change<br />

your life today. Adopt a detached attitude.<br />

BUT BUT WHA WHAT WHA WHAT<br />

T EXACTL EXACTLY EXACTL Y IS IS IS THIS<br />

THIS<br />

EMOTIONAL EMOTIONAL DET DET DETACHMENT?<br />

DET DET ACHMENT? It does not<br />

mean avoiding meeting people or maintaining<br />

relationships. It means interacting with people,<br />

showing warmth, compassion and love yet<br />

maintaining a state of calmness, self control and<br />

inner strength.<br />

By refusing to open yourself to emotional turmoil that<br />

does not concern you, you protect your physical,<br />

emotional and mental being from becoming drained<br />

out and from exhaustion.<br />

HA HAVE HA VE YOU YOU EVER EVER THOUGHT<br />

THOUGHT:<br />

THOUGHT<br />

WHY WHY WHY DO DO YOU YOU GET GET GET ANGR ANGR ANGRY? ANGR Y?<br />

WHY WHY DO DO YOU YOU F FFACE<br />

F ACE MOOD MOOD SWINGS?<br />

SWINGS?<br />

WHY WHY ARE ARE ARE YOU YOU EASIL EASILY EASIL EASILY<br />

Y AFFECTED AFFECTED BY<br />

BY<br />

WHA WHAT WHA T PEOPLE PEOPLE THINK THINK OR OR OR SA SA SAY SA SA Y ABOUT<br />

ABOUT<br />

YOU?<br />

YOU?<br />

WHY WHY DO DO YOU YOU ALLOW ALLOW PEOPLE PEOPLE AND<br />

AND<br />

SITUA SITUATIONS SITUA TIONS TO TO EFFECT EFFECT EFFECT YOUR YOUR YOUR MOODS?<br />

MOODS?<br />

WHY WHY DO DO YOU YOU F FFACE<br />

F ACE INNER INNER TURMOIL?<br />

TURMOIL?<br />

TURMOIL?<br />

WHY WHY DO DO YOU YOU YOU GET GET INVOL INVOLVED INVOL VED WITH<br />

WITH<br />

UNHEAL UNHEALTHY UNHEAL THY EMOTIONS EMOTIONS AND AND<br />

AND<br />

REACTIONS?<br />

REACTIONS?<br />

REACTIONS?<br />

This happens because you create emotional<br />

attachment between you and the person, place or thing<br />

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which you would like to see changed or improved. As<br />

a result you are easily influenced by the perception of<br />

helplessness which these people, places or things<br />

project.<br />

BY BY EMOTIONAL EMOTIONAL DET DETACHMENT<br />

DET ACHMENT YOU YOU CAN<br />

CAN<br />

CHANGE CHANGE THIS THIS SITUA SITUATION!<br />

SITUA TION!<br />

Imagine how free, relieved and happy you would be, if<br />

you could stay calm and poised in the midst of whatever<br />

is happening in your life. Think how much physical,<br />

emotional, and mental energy you could spare, if you<br />

could avoid becoming upset, angry or moody.<br />

PRACTICE PRACTICE THE THE SKILL SKILL OF OF DET DETACHMENT<br />

DET ACHMENT<br />

ACHMENT-<br />

ACHMENT<br />

* * SET SET BOUNDRIES-<br />

BOUNDRIES- BOUNDRIES- Establish emotional<br />

boundaries between you and the person, place or thing<br />

with whom you have become over dependent.<br />

Identify those people, places and things in your life<br />

from which you would be best to develop emotional<br />

detachment in order to retain your personal, emotional<br />

and spiritual health.<br />

* * LET LET GO- GO- GO- Once you have identified the persons,<br />

places and things that disturb you emotionally,<br />

personally and spiritually, adopt the skill of let going.<br />

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Let go the interference of others. Make yourself solely<br />

responsible for your own well- being and happiness.<br />

Let go expectations. Accept that you can’t fix, change,<br />

rescue, save or make someone else happy.<br />

* * TT<br />

TAKE TT<br />

AKE CARE CARE CARE OF OF YOURSELF-<br />

YOURSELF- YOURSELF- Take care of your<br />

well being. Do what is right for you. Say to your self<br />

over and over again, “Taking care of my self must be<br />

my first emotional priority.” Give yourself permission<br />

to focus your time and energy on the good things.<br />

*REFUSE *REFUSE TO TO OPEN OPEN YOURSELF YOURSELF YOURSELF TO<br />

TO<br />

EMOTIONAL EMOTIONAL TURMOIL- TURMOIL- Learn to protect yourself<br />

from exhaustion or from being drained out.<br />

Stay calm and unaffected when in the company of<br />

people who intentionally or unintentionally burden you<br />

with their worries and problems or hurt your feelings.<br />

* * * ADOPT ADOPT A TRUE TRUE TRUE DET DET DETACHED<br />

DET DETACHED<br />

ACHED ATTITUDE TTITUDE -<br />

-<br />

This attitude helps you to exercise your best judgment,<br />

handle every situation very efficiently and become<br />

strength for others also in times of needs and<br />

difficulties.<br />

EMOTIONAL EMOTIONAL DET DET DETACHMENT DET DET ACHMENT FOR FOR A BETTER<br />

BETTER<br />

LIVING- LIVING-Visualize LIVING- this state of inner peace and<br />

calmness, undisturbed by circumstances or other<br />

people’s moods and states of mind. Your life will be<br />

like a calm lake unaffected by winds or wave��<br />

Visualize your life’s inner strength.<br />

Editors Note: It’s really a tough call indeed, but after the seed of<br />

detachment is sowed, if we begin our journey with a determined<br />

heart like that of a lotus flower, we may begin to achieve the<br />

desired state of mind, and just like the muddy surroundings of a<br />

blooming lotus flower, external obstacles (noises) may become<br />

obsolete/irrelevant.


National National W WWork<br />

W ork of<br />

of<br />

Dr Dr. Dr . Ambedkar<br />

Ambedkar<br />

Part Part two two of of two<br />

two<br />

By By Manohar Manohar Koche<br />

Koche<br />

“Success is to be measured by not so much by the position that one has<br />

reached in life, as by the obstacles, which he has overcome while trying to<br />

succeed.”....Booker T. Washington.<br />

1. Dr. Ambedkar, as a member for<br />

labor in Executive Council of Viceroy:<br />

Dr. Ambedkar visited Dhanbad to study<br />

the working conditions in the coal fields<br />

and inspected both the surface and the<br />

underground conditions of the coal<br />

fields. In Bhulanbararee Collinery, he<br />

went personally 400 feet underground<br />

to check and had a friendly chat with<br />

workers regarding their wages, benefits.<br />

He also went to workers’ quarters with<br />

occupants’’ permission in the vicinity of<br />

the collinery inquiring regarding their<br />

families, health issues, medical care<br />

and ventilation arrangements. He<br />

checked the collinery hostpitals. He also<br />

inspected Tisra Collinery, Rajnigang<br />

coal fields, Shivapur coal fields for the<br />

welfare and the medical cares of the<br />

minors. Then he visited Leper Welfare<br />

Center, where Leprosy in early stages<br />

can be effectively treated. Thus he was<br />

always concerned about the poor and the<br />

unprivileged.<br />

2. Established Independent<br />

Labor Party (August 15, 1936). The<br />

manifesto of the labor party was to<br />

build up national economy and progress<br />

holistically.<br />

a. Dr. Amedkar was always in<br />

favor of the collective farming scheme<br />

and consolidation of small holdings to<br />

improve the agricultural conditions of<br />

<strong>India</strong>. Because small segments of<br />

agricultural land and increasing<br />

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population are the causes of poverty among<br />

farmers.<br />

b. On September 17, 1937, he presented a<br />

bill to the Bombay Legislative Assembly to<br />

eliminate Khoti (monopoly, special privilege<br />

who collects money for govt.) system in<br />

Konkan and land workers should receive the<br />

full ownership of the land.<br />

c. Irrigation water charges to be halved and<br />

exemptions of the pending bills.<br />

d. Upliftment of villages, village scheme,<br />

health, community halls, library and modern<br />

avenues would be opened up.<br />

e. Fixation of minimum wages for laborers,<br />

working hours, and create cheap and healthy<br />

residential places.<br />

f. Start technical education and to start<br />

government owned and undertaking<br />

businesses and restart old businesses.<br />

Industries shall be owned and run by the<br />

state or the corporations, established by<br />

states.<br />

3. In Round Table conference on November 20, 1930:<br />

He warned the British Government that we must<br />

have a government in which the people in power<br />

will give their undivided allegiances to the best<br />

interest of the country. We feel that no one can<br />

remove our grievances and we cannot remove them<br />

unless we get political power in our own hands.<br />

The time when you were to choose and <strong>India</strong> was<br />

to accept has passed and never to be returned.<br />

Let the consent of the people and not the accident<br />

of logic be touchstone of your new constitution.<br />

No constitution will be workable which is not<br />

acceptable to the majority of the people and<br />

agreed constitution be prepared and British<br />

would leave this country.<br />

4. Supported British War Front:<br />

Dr. Amedkar supported British War Front in<br />

1942, wanted to fight against Nazism. He stated<br />

that this war is in between Nazism (nor based<br />

on moral footing and creates threat to future<br />

mankind), and democracy. Pundit Jawaharlal<br />

Nehru potentially favored the support to the<br />

British War Front. On December 7, 1941, Japan<br />

attacked Pearl Harbor, on February 15, 1942,<br />

Japan conquered Singapore, on March 7, 1942,<br />

Rangoon was lost to Japan thus avoiding the<br />

potentiality of invasion of <strong>India</strong> by the forces of<br />

Japan. If Japan would have won the war over<br />

<strong>India</strong>, the <strong>India</strong>ns would have had to live the lives<br />

of an animal. This was the main reason to join<br />

the warfront in order to help ourselves. On the<br />

contrary, he also warned the British to fulfill the<br />

expectations of <strong>India</strong>ns after the war. Such an<br />

understanding and statesmanship was not seen<br />

in any other so called National Leader at that<br />

time.<br />

5. As a Social Reformer:<br />

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Yesmin deshe na sammano, Na vruttirnach<br />

bandhava<br />

Nach vidya gamaha shakyo, Ma tatram divasam<br />

vasa<br />

Where there is no honor, dignity, and fraternity,<br />

where there is no door open for the knowledge of<br />

learning, there one should not stay even for a day.<br />

In the same situation, there were six crores of<br />

people, nearly 20% of the <strong>India</strong>’s population was<br />

kept as down troddens or untouchables. For his<br />

heroic struggles for raising the levels of down<br />

troddens to human dignity and liberating them<br />

from their age long bondage, should this not be<br />

considered as an positive addition to the<br />

develo<strong>pm</strong>ent of human civil society of the nation<br />

as a whole? He attacked old views and values<br />

that had defaced a part of humanity on this land.<br />

Jawaharlal Nehru had said, “I think the biggest<br />

temple, church is the place where man works for<br />

the good of mankind and many saints preached<br />

that the service render for the destitute and poor<br />

is a real god service”. Dr. Ambedkar fought and<br />

sacrificed most of his life for the neglected,<br />

destitute and poor population of this land to<br />

uplift their lives and instill the hope for the future.<br />

Thus he performed the real god service.<br />

Furthermore, he made a provision in constitution<br />

appealed the abolishment of the untouchability<br />

by law.<br />

There is a phrase in Sanskrit,<br />

“Vasudhaiv Kutumbakam” meaning whole world<br />

is like a family and our country should be as<br />

thought of one as well. If someone in the family<br />

felt sick or weak, is it not an ethical responsibility<br />

of the other members in the family to help the<br />

sick in order to be healthy and strong? That way<br />

the whole family will be healthy, strong, and<br />

happy.<br />

6. Political Independence and Socio-economical<br />

Equality:<br />

“No man can be grateful at the cost of his honor,<br />

no woman can be grateful at the cost of her<br />

chastity and no nation can be grateful at the cost<br />

of its liberty”. — Irish Patriot: Daniel O’Connell.<br />

State socialism is the domain of those who are<br />

for common masses, who are concerned about the<br />

poor. Social democracy means the way of life which<br />

recognizes liberty, equality, and fraternity as the<br />

principle of life, one man, one vote, one value. In<br />

politics, we will have equality but in socioeconomic<br />

life, we will have inequality.<br />

Ranade, Agarkar, and other such social reformers<br />

strongly believed that social and economical<br />

freedom should come prior to the political<br />

freedom. G.G. Agarkar and M. G. Ranade had<br />

said that political independence cannot work


efficiently unless it is conjoined with social and<br />

economical equality. Inequality in the society is<br />

the biggest obstacle to establish the democracy<br />

and socialism in the country. Downtrodden<br />

community needed double independence, one<br />

from the British and the other from the so called<br />

the high-cast people. Democracy and socialism<br />

cannot thrive in unequal society. Hence, Dr.<br />

Ambedkar refrained from fight for the political<br />

independence. He uttered in the parliament on<br />

Jan, 26, 1950 the adoption day of<br />

constitution(Republic day) that<br />

realization of the facts in addition to our old<br />

enemies in the form of caste and creeds, we are<br />

going to have many political parties with diverse<br />

and opposing political creeds. Will <strong>India</strong>ns place<br />

the country above their creed or will they place<br />

the creed above the country? If parties places<br />

creed above their country, our independence will<br />

be in jeopardy, eventually, we must all resolutely<br />

guard against. We must be determined to defend<br />

our independence with last drop of our blood.<br />

7. Dr. Amedkar as a First Law Minister:<br />

In spite of all ill treatment, Dr. Ambedkar had<br />

accepted to participate in the making of the<br />

Constitution. He advised the political parties and<br />

leaders, dos and don’ts to keep the integrity intact<br />

of this country. Pundit Jawaharlal Nehru was<br />

introducing Dr. Ambedkar to the foreign delegates<br />

as a diamond of our cabinet and Mahatma Gandhi<br />

once said, that he was the great patriot after<br />

listening to his speeches delivered in the Round<br />

Table Conference. He had revised and submitted<br />

Hindu Code Bill to the Constitution Legislative<br />

Assembly in October 1948. The pious purpose for<br />

having a good law for the country and Hindu Code<br />

should be uniformed throughout <strong>India</strong>. Leader of<br />

Hindu Mahasabha, Veer Sawarkar had said that<br />

congress leaders should consider the bill if it truly<br />

helps the nation & they should not ignore with<br />

an eye to election. Dr. Ambedkar introduced the<br />

bill on February 5, 1951. Prime Minister Pundit<br />

Nehru had vehemently declared after his return<br />

from USA, that his government would resign if<br />

Hindu Code Bill was not passed by the<br />

Parliament. Sardar Patel and the president of<br />

<strong>India</strong> Dr. Rajendra Prasad were against of the<br />

bill. Dr. Rajendra Prasad said he would resign if<br />

they don’t stop the discussion on Hindu code bill<br />

and they had to stop the debate of this bill in the<br />

Parliament. Dr. Amedkar resigned his position<br />

from the cabinet on September 27, 1951 to Pundit<br />

Nehru and stated in the resignation that “ I see<br />

no purpose in my continuing to be a member of<br />

your cabinet”. Later, Gajendragadkar became the<br />

law minister and during his minister-ship ,<br />

Hindu Code Bill was passed periodically. He used<br />

to discuss this bill with Dr. Ambedkar and taking<br />

advice from him prior to debate the bill in the<br />

parliament.<br />

8. Dhamma Conversion:<br />

Dr. Ambedkar had high regards about Sanskrit<br />

language but was unable to study this language<br />

due to his caste which he regretted for the rest of<br />

his life. Nonetheless, he studied Sanskrit on his<br />

own. He suggested to rectify Hinduism that there<br />

should be one standard epic and to remove Varna/<br />

caste system from the frame which is the root<br />

cause of inequality. He prolongly waited & when<br />

he was unable to do the rectification because of<br />

lot of opposition, he had lost hope, & he declared<br />

in 1936 that he was born a Hindu which was not<br />

in his hand but would not die as a Hindu. After<br />

that, many religious teachers came to him,<br />

explaining their philosophy and alluring him if<br />

he could accept their religion. When he came to<br />

know that many people among the down trodden<br />

were converted into Muslims and Christians, he<br />

became upset and advised them not to convert to<br />

any other religion. He said, “my best regards to<br />

people who are trying to remain in four fold system<br />

but the time is running out and I have decided to<br />

renounce Hinduism”, (Annihilation of caste, a<br />

speech prepared to deliver in Lahor for Jat Pat<br />

Todak Mandal Conference, and he did not receive<br />

a chance to deliver as the views of the Members<br />

of the Mandal were not agreeable to his thoughts<br />

and that conference was canceled). He studied<br />

major religions and after 20 years of declaration,<br />

he embraced Buddha Dhamma in 1956 in Nagpur<br />

along with other lakhs of people in a day. This<br />

was the unprecedented religious revolution in the<br />

world. When only 40 people converted in Muslim<br />

in Minaxipuram there was a big chaos from galli<br />

(street) to Delhi in the country. Can you imagine<br />

what would happened if he would have converted<br />

himself with these many people to a foreign<br />

religion?. He accepted Buddha as a Guru because<br />

he taught Sheela (Morality), Samadhi (Mastery<br />

over mind), and Pradhnya (Wisdom). He accepted<br />

the Buddha Dhamma which originated and grown<br />

in <strong>India</strong>. Gautama Buddha revered in the world<br />

as a spiritual icon of peace, harmony and<br />

unanimity. By embracing this Dhamma, he also<br />

fulfilled the responsibility and national service.<br />

Epilogue<br />

With all of his sacrifices, struggle and scholarship<br />

chiefly devoted to raising the level and<br />

Instilling the life in downtrodden, we should not<br />

ignore his work for the national interest. Many<br />

people portray him as a leader of downtrodden to<br />

belittling his greatness. Dr. Ambedkar’s thoughts<br />

were ahead of its time and he proved to be correct<br />

with the passage of time. If doubts should occur<br />

regarding his sense of nationality and patriotism,<br />

one should read his books and thesis he wrote,<br />

the speeches he delivered on various events in<br />

different places in the country, in the constitution<br />

of assemblies and in the round table conferences.<br />

Dr. Ambedkar’s thoughts were ahead of its time<br />

and he proved to be correct with the passage of<br />

time.<br />

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By Manohar Koche<br />

Friendship is a kind of promise<br />

<strong>Link</strong>ed with heart and mind<br />

Being, they come close<br />

Through heart and not through eyes<br />

It’s not a showy sympathy<br />

Pleasing sweet words to go on<br />

It’s always a selfless helping hand.<br />

It’s a relationship of thoughts to come<br />

To share in good times and bad times<br />

It stands on mutual openness and fidelity<br />

Which never breaks in calamity<br />

In rise of downfall of life change<br />

True friendship never gets strange<br />

No matter what situation<br />

Never go apart, it stays the same<br />

Flattering is not character of friendship<br />

It’s more than that of any other relationship<br />

When everybody, even the kith and kin<br />

Leaves in critical time<br />

True friend always be there<br />

That you can count on anywhere<br />

Good friends will hurt you sometimes<br />

For, they think well of you all the time<br />

A kind emotional feeling of relationship<br />

Will keep loving everlasting friendship


Autism disorder is a range of complex Nero<br />

develo<strong>pm</strong>ent disorders, usually appears during the<br />

first 3 years of life. A child with Autism appears<br />

to live in his/her own world, showing social impairments,<br />

communication difficulties and restricted, repetitive<br />

stereotyped patterns of behavior. Autistic children often<br />

avoid eye contact and show limited attachment to others.<br />

Experts estimate that six children out of 1000 will have<br />

symptoms of Autism. Males are four times more likely to<br />

have an Autism spectrum disorder than females.<br />

Autism can prevent a child from forming relationships<br />

with others due to inability to interpret facial expressions<br />

and emotions.<br />

Scientists are not certain what causes Autism but it is<br />

likely that both genetics and environment play a role.<br />

Studies with Autism found irregularities in several<br />

regions of the brain. Another study suggests an abnormal<br />

level of serotonin chemical in the brain prevents the brain<br />

cells from communicating with one another.<br />

The The standardized standardized guidelines guidelines developed developed for for<br />

for<br />

diagnosis diagnosis of of Autism Autism for for early early detection detection and and for<br />

for<br />

expert expert consult consult include:<br />

include:<br />

1.) No babbling or pointing by age one.<br />

2.) No single words by 16 months or two word phrases<br />

by age 2.<br />

3.) No response to name.<br />

4.) Loss of language or social skills.<br />

5.) Poor eye contact.<br />

6.) Excessive lining up of toys or objects.<br />

7.) No smiling or social responsiveness.<br />

Second Second indicators indicators include:<br />

include:<br />

-Impaired ability to make friends with peers<br />

-Impaired ability to initiate conversation<br />

Absence or impairment of imaginative and social play<br />

-Repetitive or unusual use of language<br />

Limited interest and lack of sharpness<br />

-Preoccupation with certain objects or subjects-<br />

Inflexible adherence to specific routines<br />

-Genetic testing, CT, MRI, PET etc.<br />

Health care providers often use a questionnaire to screen<br />

and gather information about child develo<strong>pm</strong>ent and<br />

Autism<br />

Autism<br />

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Blindness<br />

By DILIP DILIP K. K. SAXENA<br />

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behavior. A comprehensive evaluation requires/includes<br />

psychologist, neurologist, psychiatrist, speech and<br />

occupational therapist.<br />

Treatment reatment for for Autism:<br />

Autism:<br />

-Specialized behavioral and educational programs are<br />

designed to treat Autism<br />

-Training, occupational and speech therapy, parent<br />

counseling, medical and psychiatric intervention are<br />

required for improvement<br />

-Treatment and improvement depend on the severity of<br />

the condition<br />

Prevention of this condition is not known. Early<br />

detection and early intervention is helpful.<br />

-Specialized behavioral and educational programs are<br />

designed to treat Autism<br />

-Training, occupational and speech therapy, parent<br />

counseling, medical and psychiatric intervention are<br />

required for improvement<br />

-Treatment and improvement depend on the severity of<br />

the condition<br />

Prevention of this condition is not known. Early<br />

detection and early intervention is helpful.<br />

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Childhood Obesity<br />

An Epidemic which absolutely<br />

needs to be controlled<br />

Definition<br />

Childhood obesity is a serious medical condition. It<br />

affects both children and adolescents. It occurs when a<br />

child is well above the normal weight for his or her age<br />

and height. Childhood obesity is particularly troubling<br />

because it often starts children on the path to health<br />

problems that were once confined to adults, such as<br />

diabetes, high blood pressure and high cholesterol.<br />

Childhood obesity can also lead to psychological issues<br />

such as poor self-esteem and depression.<br />

Symptoms<br />

Not all children carrying extra pounds are overweight or<br />

obese. Some children have larger than average body<br />

frames. Amount of body fat also varies at various stages<br />

of develo<strong>pm</strong>ent. It is difficult to know just by looking at<br />

your child if his or her weight is a health concern. To do<br />

this, your child’s doctor will calculate your child’s body<br />

mass index (BMI). The BMI indicates if your child is<br />

overweight for his or her age and height.<br />

Using a growth chart: Your doctor determines your child’s<br />

percentile, meaning how your child compares with other<br />

children of the same sex and age. So, for example, you<br />

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might be told that your child is in the 80th percentile. This<br />

means that compared with other children of the same<br />

sex and age, 80 percent have a lower BMI.<br />

Cutoff points on these growth charts: established by the<br />

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), help<br />

identify overweight and obese children.<br />

When to see a doctor<br />

If you’re worried that your child is putting on too much<br />

weight, talk to his or her doctor or health care provider.<br />

He or she will consider your child’s individual history of<br />

growth and develo<strong>pm</strong>ent, your family’s weight-for-height<br />

history, and where your child lands on the growth charts.<br />

This can help determine if your child’s weight is in an<br />

unhealthy range.<br />

Causes<br />

Most of the time it’s caused by lifestyle issues with kids<br />

eating too much and exercising too little. Rarely other<br />

genetic and hormonal issues such as Cushings disease<br />

and Prader Willi Syndrome may be the reason.<br />

Risk Factors<br />

There may be one or more than one factors acting in<br />

tandem.<br />

Diet: Regularly eating high-calorie foods, such as fast<br />

foods, baked goods and vending machine snacks, can<br />

easily cause your child to gain weight. Loading up on soft<br />

drinks, candy and desserts also can cause weight gain.<br />

Foods and beverages like these are high in sugar, fat and<br />

calories.<br />

Lack of exercise: Children who don’t exercise much are<br />

more likely to gain weight because they don’t burn calories<br />

through physical activity. Inactive leisure activities, such


as watching television or playing video games, contribute<br />

to the problem.<br />

Family history: If your child comes from a family of<br />

overweight people, he or she may be more likely to put<br />

on excess weight, especially in an environment where<br />

high-calorie food is always available, and physical activity<br />

isn’t encouraged.<br />

Psychological factors: Some children overeat to cope with<br />

problems or to deal with emotions, such as stress, or to<br />

fight boredom. Their parents may have similar tendencies.<br />

Family factors: If many of the groceries you buy are<br />

convenience foods, such as cookies, chips and other highcalorie<br />

items, this can contribute to your child’s weight<br />

gain. If you can control your child’s access to high-calorie<br />

foods, you may be able to help your child lose weight.<br />

Socioeconomic factors: Children from low-income<br />

backgrounds are at greater risk of becoming obese. It<br />

takes both time and resources to make healthy eating<br />

and exercise a family priority.<br />

Complications<br />

Childhood obesity can have complications for the physical,<br />

social and emotional well-being of your child.<br />

Physical complications<br />

Type 2 diabetes: Type 2 diabetes in children is a chronic<br />

condition that affects the way your child’s body<br />

metabolizes sugar (glucose). Type 2 diabetes is caused in<br />

part by a poor diet and may sometimes be reversed by<br />

eating healthy,exercising and losing weight.<br />

Metabolic syndrome: Metabolic syndrome is a cluster of<br />

conditions which includes high blood pressure, high blood<br />

sugar, high cholesterol and excess abdominal fat that<br />

puts your child at risk of developing heart disease,<br />

diabetes or other health problems.<br />

High cholesterol and high blood pressure: Your child can<br />

develop high blood pressure or high cholesterol with a<br />

poor diet. These factors can lead to buildup of plaques in<br />

the arteries, which can lead to a heart attack or stroke<br />

later in life.<br />

Asthma and other breathing problems: The extra weight<br />

on your child’s body can cause problems with the<br />

develo<strong>pm</strong>ent and health of your child’s lungs, leading to<br />

asthma or other breathing problems.<br />

Sleep disorders: Sleep apnea, a condition in which your<br />

child may snore or have abnormal breathing when he or<br />

she sleeps, can be a complication of childhood obesity.<br />

Pay attention to breathing problems your child may have<br />

while sleeping.<br />

Early puberty or menstruation: Being obese can create<br />

hormone imbalances for your child. These imbalances<br />

can cause puberty to start earlier than expected.<br />

Social and emotional complications:<br />

Low self-esteem and bullying: Children often tease or<br />

bully their overweight peers, who suffer a loss of selfesteem<br />

and an increased risk of depression as a result.<br />

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Behavior and learning problems: Overweight children tend<br />

to have more anxiety and poorer social skills than normalweight<br />

children have. This may lead kids to act out or<br />

withdraw socially. Stress and anxiety also interfere with<br />

learning.<br />

Depression: Low self-esteem can create overwhelming<br />

feelings of hopelessness in some overweight children.<br />

When children lose hope that their lives will improve,<br />

they may become depressed. Some depressed children<br />

hide their sadness and appear emotionally flat instead.<br />

Either way, depression is as serious in children as in adults.<br />

If you think your child is depressed, talk with him or her<br />

and share your concerns with his or her doctor.<br />

Tests & Diagnosis<br />

As part of regular well-child care, the doctor calculates<br />

your child’s body mass index (BMI). The BMI helps indicate<br />

if your child is overweight for his or her age and height.<br />

Cutoff points on these growth charts help identify<br />

overweight and obese children:<br />

BMI-for-age between 85th and 94th percentiles —<br />

overweight<br />

BMI-for-age 95th percentile or above — obesity<br />

In addition to BMI and charting weight on the growth<br />

charts, the doctor also evaluates:<br />

Your family’s history of obesity and weight-related health<br />

problems, such as diabetes<br />

Your child’s eating habits<br />

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Your child’s activity level<br />

Other health conditions your child may have<br />

Blood tests<br />

Your child’s doctor may order blood tests if he or she<br />

finds that your child is obese.:<br />

A cholesterol test<br />

A blood sugar test (fasting blood glucose)<br />

Other blood tests to check for hormone imbalances that<br />

could affect your child’s weight<br />

Management<br />

Treatment for childhood obesity is based on your child’s<br />

age and if he or she has other medical conditions.<br />

Treatment usually includes changes in your child’s diet<br />

and level of physical activity. In certain circumstances,<br />

treatment may include medications or weight-loss<br />

surgery.<br />

Treatment for children under age 7<br />

For children under age 7 who have no other health<br />

concerns, the goal of treatment may be weight<br />

maintenance rather than weight loss. This strategy allows<br />

the child to add inches in height but not pounds, causing<br />

BMI-for-age to drop over time into a healthier range.<br />

Treatment for children 7 years of age and older<br />

Weight loss is typically recommended for children over<br />

age 7 or for younger children who have related health<br />

concerns. Weight loss should be slow and steady.<br />

The methods for maintaining your child’s current weight<br />

or losing weight are the same: Your child needs to eat a<br />

healthy diet and increase his or her physical activity.<br />

Success depends largely on your commitment to helping<br />

your child make these changes.<br />

HealthyEating<br />

Parents are the ones who buy the food, cook the food and<br />

decide where the food is eaten.<br />

When buying groceries, choose fruits and vegetables.<br />

Avoid convenience foods, such as cookies, crackers and<br />

prepared meals. Have healthy snacks available. And<br />

never use food as a reward or punishment.<br />

Limit sweetened beverages, including those containing<br />

fruit juice<br />

Sit down together for family meals. Make it an event .<br />

Discourage eating in front of a screen, such as a television,


computer or video game. This leads to fast eating and<br />

lowered awareness of how much you’re eating.<br />

Limit the number of times you eat out, especially at fastfood<br />

restaurants. Many of the menu options are high in<br />

fat and calories.<br />

Physical activity<br />

A critical part of weight loss, especially for children, is<br />

physical activity. It not only burns calories but also builds<br />

strong bones and muscles and helps children sleep well<br />

at night and stay alert during the day. Active children are<br />

more likely to become fit adults.<br />

To increase your child’s activity level:<br />

Limit recreational computer and TV/computer/video<br />

games time altogether to no more than 2 hours a day.<br />

Don’t let your child eat while viewing an electronic screen;<br />

it keeps your child from being aware of how much he or<br />

she is eating.<br />

Emphasize activity, not exercise. Your child’s activity<br />

doesn’t have to be a structured exercise program — the<br />

object is just to get him or her moving. Free-play activities,<br />

such as tag or jump-rope, can be great for burning calories<br />

and improving fitness.<br />

Find activities your child likes to do<br />

If you want an active child, be active yourself. Find fun<br />

activities that the whole family can do together.<br />

Vary the activities. What matters is that you’re doing<br />

something active.<br />

Weight-loss medication<br />

One prescription weight-loss drug is available for<br />

adolescents: orlistat (Xenical). Orlistat, which is approved<br />

for adolescents older than 12, prevents the absorption of<br />

fat in the intestines. Prescription weight-loss medication<br />

isn’t often recommended for adolescents. The risks of<br />

taking a medication long term is still unknown. A weightloss<br />

drug doesn’t replace the need to adopt a healthy diet<br />

and exercise regimen.<br />

Weight-loss surgery<br />

Weight-loss surgery can be a safe and effective option<br />

for some severely obese adolescents who have been<br />

unable to lose weight using conventional weight-loss<br />

methods. However, as with any type of surgery, there<br />

are potential risks and long-term complications. It also<br />

doesn’t replace the need for following a healthy diet and<br />

regular physical activity program.<br />

Coping and support<br />

Parents play a crucial role in helping children who are<br />

obese feel loved and in control of their weight. Build your<br />

child’s self-esteem. Don’t be afraid to bring up the topic of<br />

health and fitness, but do be sensitive that a child may<br />

view your concern as an insult. Talk to your kids directly,<br />

openly and without being critical or judgmental.<br />

In addition, consider the following advice:<br />

Be sensitive to your child’s needs and feelings. Becoming<br />

active is an important lifestyle change for your child to<br />

make, but your child is more likely to stick to those<br />

changes if you let him or her choose what physical<br />

activities he or she is comfortable with.<br />

Find reasons to praise your child’s efforts. Celebrate<br />

small, incremental changes, but don’t reward with food.<br />

Choose other ways to mark your child’s accomplishments,<br />

such as going to the bowling alley or a local park.<br />

Talk to your child about his or her feelings. Help your<br />

child find ways to deal with his or her emotions that don’t<br />

involve eating.<br />

Help your child focus on positive goals. For example, point<br />

out that he or she can now bike for more than 20 minutes<br />

without getting tired or can run the required number of<br />

laps in gym class.<br />

Prevention:<br />

We all know prevention is better than cure.<br />

Schedule yearly well-child visits which should include<br />

weight and height measurements<br />

Set a good example. Make sure you eat healthy foods<br />

and exercise regularly to maintain your weight.<br />

Avoid food-related power struggles with your child. As a<br />

general rule, don’t use food as a reward or punishment.\<br />

Emphasize the positive. Encourage a healthy lifestyle by<br />

highlighting the positive — the fun of playing outside or<br />

the variety of fresh fruit you can get year-round, for<br />

example. Emphasize the benefits of exercise apart from<br />

helping to manage weight, for example, it makes the heart,<br />

lungs and other muscles stronger.<br />

Be patient. Many overweight children grow into their extra<br />

pounds as they get taller. Realize, too, that an intense<br />

focus on your child’s eating habits and weight can easily<br />

backfire, leading a child to overeat even more, or possibly<br />

making him or her more prone to developing an eating<br />

disorder.�<br />

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Visualize a Great Future<br />

Every thought we think is creating our future.- Louise L. Hay<br />

You frequently run a mental movie of the future as you<br />

hope it will be or as you fear it will be. With conscious<br />

attention, you can choose what is in that movie. Choose<br />

to visualize a great future. Practice getting that movie<br />

back on a positive track whenever your mental movie of<br />

the future starts to focus on possible negative outcomes.<br />

Holding the mental image of a great future is the first<br />

step to creating that future.<br />

Count Your Blessings<br />

Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life.<br />

It turns what we have into enough, and more.<br />

It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to<br />

clarity.<br />

It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger<br />

into a friend.<br />

Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and<br />

creates a vision for tomorrow.- Melody BeattieGratitude is<br />

the key to a great life. At any moment, some things are<br />

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How to Stay Positive<br />

How to Think Positive - How to Be Positive<br />

By Balu Khatod<br />

Do you sometimes have trouble staying positive in the face of life’s<br />

challenges? You can learn how to think positive, be positive, and stay<br />

positive with these tips for thinking positively...<br />

going well, while others are not going as we would<br />

choose. Being grateful for the blessings of life —<br />

including the life lessons that come from our setbacks<br />

— sets your mind for positive thinking and for<br />

enjoying a great life.<br />

Be Grateful for All of Life<br />

There are only two ways to live your life.<br />

One is as though nothing is a miracle.<br />

The other is as though everything is a miracle.- Albert<br />

Einstein<br />

With gratitude, all life appears as a blessing - without<br />

gratitude, all of life is perceived as a burden. Avoid the<br />

tendency to compare your life with the lives of others,<br />

with your idealized hopes for life, and with your own life<br />

when you were younger. Every moment of your life is a<br />

gift — not something you are “entitled to” or something<br />

you “deserve.” Practice zero-based gratitude. Zerobased<br />

gratitude is being grateful for everything in your<br />

life — grateful that you woke up this morning, grateful<br />

that you have enough food to eat, grateful that you can<br />

walk and breathe and see.


Know that Life Isn’t Supposed to be Fair<br />

No one is “supposed to” be nice to you or help you. No<br />

one is supposed to treat you “fairly.” Storms,<br />

earthquakes, wars, flu pandemics, and falling boulders<br />

are not supposed to avoid you. Be grateful and happy<br />

when life goes well, and avoid anger and resentment<br />

when life is not “fair.”<br />

Avoid Anger, Resentment, and Regret<br />

Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent<br />

of throwing it at someone else;<br />

you are the one who gets burned.- The Buddha<br />

Anger, hatred, resentment, and regret help nothing, and<br />

are a great cause of unhappiness if you allow them to<br />

infect your life. Whatever pain the storms of life ever<br />

cause you, anger and resentment can never heal that<br />

pain — and they inflict their own pain - often a far greater<br />

pain than the first one. Whatever pain the actions of others<br />

cause you, anger, hatred, and revenge solve nothing —<br />

again, the pain of your own anger often surpasses the<br />

original pain. Whatever pain you cause yourself by ill-<br />

chosen actions, regret solves nothing — learn a life lesson,<br />

f<strong>org</strong>ive yourself, and move on with life.<br />

F<strong>org</strong>ive Everyone for Everything<br />

Whatever has caused you pain — whether nature,<br />

others, or yourself — f<strong>org</strong>ive completely. Until you<br />

f<strong>org</strong>ive, the anger you hold will continue to burn. The<br />

suffering will never end until you give up the anger and<br />

f<strong>org</strong>ive unconditionally.<br />

Keep Active<br />

Inaction breeds doubt and fear.<br />

Action breeds confidence and courage.<br />

If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about<br />

it. Go out and get busy.- Dale Carnegie<br />

If you are feeling depressed and negative, it is crucial for<br />

you to keep active. The less you feel like being active,<br />

and the more you just want to wallow in self-pity, the<br />

more important it is that you get out, interact with positive<br />

people, begin projects, and keep active. Until you begin<br />

to feel a desire to be active, just fake it — go through the<br />

motions of keeping active until you can generate the<br />

positive attitude to drive your activity.<br />

Choose to be Around Positive People<br />

Positivity is contagious - so is negativity. Choose to<br />

spend more time with people who think positively,<br />

speak positively, and support your vision, your life<br />

purpose, and your projects. Spend less time with people<br />

who talk about how hard and unfair life is. Spend less<br />

time with people who tell you that your goals are<br />

unrealistic and that you are certain to fail.<br />

Be of Service - Help Others<br />

The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service<br />

of others. - Mohandas (Mahatma) Gandhi.<br />

One of the best ways to appreciate your life and to create<br />

a positive attitude is to be of service to those less fortunate<br />

than yourself. Being of service reminds you of your<br />

blessings, keeps you busy with generous activities, and<br />

surrounds you with positive happy people.<br />

Smile<br />

Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes<br />

your smile can be the source of your joy.- Thich Nhat Hanh<br />

As with keeping active, smiling is something to do<br />

especially when you don’t feel like it. Just form your face<br />

into a smile, take a deep contented breath, and feel the<br />

smile becoming real and your view of life becoming<br />

happier and more positive.<br />

Celebrate - Dance - Sing<br />

Dance to happy music. Sing a happy song. Or just listen<br />

to upbeat music. The rhythm of happy music is primal.<br />

It works. Try it.<br />

Utilize Positive Quotes and<br />

Positive Affirmations<br />

Those who believe they can do something and those who<br />

believe they can’t are both right.- Henry Ford<br />

Choose a positive mental Attitude, positive affirmation<br />

each day. Think about it for a minute. Let the thought<br />

uplift your whole day.<br />

Complied by the Coach and Team of<br />

www.alphaimports.com<br />

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