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6 • ALTUS TIMES THURSDAY, APRIL 29, 2010<br />
Today's Weather<br />
Local 5-Day Forecast<br />
Fri<br />
4/30<br />
78/53<br />
Partly<br />
cloudy.<br />
Highs in the<br />
upper 70s<br />
and lows in<br />
the low 50s.<br />
Sunrise:<br />
6:47 AM<br />
Sunset:<br />
8:20 PM<br />
Sat<br />
5/1<br />
77/49<br />
Clouds giving<br />
way to<br />
sun . Highs<br />
in the upper<br />
70s and<br />
lows in the<br />
upper 40s.<br />
Sunrise:<br />
6:46 AM<br />
Sunset:<br />
8:21 PM<br />
Sun<br />
5/2<br />
78/53<br />
Partly<br />
cloudy,<br />
chance of a<br />
thunderstorm.<br />
Sunrise:<br />
6:45 AM<br />
Sunset:<br />
8:22 PM<br />
Oklahoma At A Glance<br />
Altus<br />
78/53<br />
Enid<br />
78/53<br />
Mon<br />
5/3<br />
80/56<br />
Times of<br />
sun and<br />
clouds.<br />
Highs in the<br />
low 80s and<br />
lows in the<br />
mid 50s.<br />
Sunrise:<br />
6:44 AM<br />
Sunset:<br />
8:22 PM<br />
Oklahoma City<br />
79/56<br />
Lawton<br />
75/52<br />
Tue<br />
5/4<br />
80/57<br />
Mix of sun<br />
and clouds.<br />
Highs in the<br />
low 80s and<br />
lows in the<br />
upper 50s.<br />
Sunrise:<br />
6:43 AM<br />
Sunset:<br />
8:23 PM<br />
Tulsa<br />
83/54<br />
Area Cities<br />
City Hi Lo Cond. City Hi Lo Cond.<br />
Antlers 78 61 t-storm Oklahoma City 79 56 t-storm<br />
Ardmore 82 58 t-storm Okmulgee 84 57 t-storm<br />
Bartlesville 80 52 t-storm Pauls Valley 81 58 t-storm<br />
Broken Bow 75 65 t-storm Perry 80 53 t-storm<br />
Claremore 78 54 t-storm Sallisaw 78 60 t-storm<br />
Cordell 75 51 windy Sapulpa 81 54 t-storm<br />
Duncan 78 55 t-storm Shawnee 81 57 t-storm<br />
El Reno 77 54 t-storm Snyder 77 53 pt sunny<br />
Elk City 74 50 windy Stillwater 81 53 t-storm<br />
Enid 78 53 t-storm Tahlequah 77 57 t-storm<br />
Guymon 65 38 pt sunny Tulsa 83 54 t-storm<br />
Lawton 75 52 pt sunny Watonga 76 52 pt sunny<br />
McAlester 76 59 t-storm Weatherford 73 50 windy<br />
Miami 76 55 t-storm Wewoka 80 56 t-storm<br />
Muskogee 80 56 t-storm Woodward 71 48 mst sunny<br />
National Cities<br />
City Hi Lo Cond. City Hi Lo Cond.<br />
Atlanta 82 62 pt sunny Minneapolis 69 49 rain<br />
Boston 73 51 pt sunny New York 77 61 mst sunny<br />
Chicago 74 58 t-storm Phoenix 68 51 mst sunny<br />
Dallas 84 65 t-storm San Francisco 64 47 sunny<br />
Denver 48 34 t-storm Seattle 56 45 pt sunny<br />
Houston 82 73 t-storm St. Louis 79 63 t-storm<br />
Los Angeles 68 51 sunny Washington, DC 86 65 sunny<br />
Miami 81 74 t-storm<br />
Moon Phases<br />
Full<br />
Apr 28<br />
UV Index<br />
Fri<br />
4/30<br />
9<br />
Very High<br />
Doesn’t feel bad<br />
about affair<br />
Dear Dr. Brothers: I’ve<br />
been unfaithful to my husband<br />
for almost seven years. That’s<br />
half as long as we’ve been<br />
married. I used to feel guilty<br />
about the whole situation, but<br />
then I would think about how<br />
he treats me, and the feeling<br />
would pass. But recently, he’s<br />
stopped drinking again — this<br />
time staying sober for going<br />
on three months. He seems<br />
really set on changing his<br />
ways. I want to believe him,<br />
but I don’t want to break off<br />
my other relationship unless<br />
I’m sure. Please help. — T.B.<br />
Dear T.B.: It seems that the<br />
way you have chosen to cope<br />
with your husband’s alcoholism<br />
and unpredictable<br />
treatment of you is to stay<br />
within his sphere of influence<br />
while at the same time removing<br />
yourself so that you can<br />
enjoy a more normal life —<br />
and by that I don’t mean that<br />
cheating is normal, but presumably<br />
the person you are<br />
with is someone who at least<br />
treats you the way you like. It<br />
is worth asking yourself,<br />
though, if the man you are<br />
with is really doing you any<br />
favors by asking you to continue<br />
to avoid the issues in<br />
your marriage by being with<br />
him — sort of. You may be<br />
reaching a dangerous period.<br />
So far, your husband has been<br />
in his own world, somewhat<br />
oblivious to your activities<br />
and feelings. If he stays sober,<br />
that’s bound to change.<br />
At some point, you may be<br />
forced to act. Do you want to<br />
be with your husband and support<br />
him in health as well as in<br />
illness, and break off your<br />
affair? It sounds as though<br />
your commitment to your husband<br />
is contingent upon his<br />
changing. You don’t want to<br />
break up with your lover in<br />
case you still might need him<br />
to fall back on. He may decide<br />
to leave you before you get<br />
caught by your now moreaware<br />
spouse. It’s time to face<br />
the music and decide what it is<br />
you want to do, before events<br />
completely overtake you. If<br />
telling your husband about the<br />
affair would not serve any<br />
purpose you can think of, then<br />
don’t. But start facing the<br />
music.<br />
* * *<br />
Dear Dr. Brothers: My<br />
boyfriend has been driving me<br />
crazy recently. He has a tendency<br />
to just blurt out weird<br />
Sat<br />
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5/2<br />
9<br />
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with a higher UV Index showing the need for greater<br />
skin protection.<br />
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things at the most inappropriate<br />
times. It’s like he’s unacquainted<br />
with the most basic,<br />
fundamental rule of never discussing<br />
either religion or politics<br />
at a dinner party. He has<br />
zero talent for small talk. He’s<br />
always asking people about<br />
some profound stuff, like the<br />
meaning of life. What’s the<br />
deal with this? — C.Z.<br />
Dear C.Z.: Though it may<br />
not always be appropriate to<br />
talk about stuff like this, and it<br />
drives you crazy, your<br />
boyfriend just might be onto<br />
something that will increase<br />
his own happiness. And that’s<br />
not such a bad thing. A new<br />
study published in the journal<br />
Psychological Science examined<br />
20,000 recordings of volunteers<br />
engaged in their daily<br />
lives, and found that those<br />
who spent less time alone and<br />
more time in meaningful conversations<br />
were happier than<br />
those whose conversations<br />
focused only on small talk.<br />
The happiest participants had<br />
twice as many substantive<br />
conversations and one-third as<br />
much small talk as the unhappiest<br />
participants, according to<br />
the study.<br />
Now, that’s all well and<br />
good, and I’m sure you’ll<br />
agree that it’s better to have a<br />
happy boyfriend than a<br />
morose one, but if his behavior<br />
is not bringing the same<br />
level of bliss to you and your<br />
relationship, that’s not good. I<br />
know you don’t want to<br />
change who he is; and chances<br />
are, the people he enters into<br />
deep conversations with are<br />
not offended — he may seem<br />
like a breath of fresh air to<br />
them. If they do have a bad<br />
reaction, you could discuss it<br />
with him later and ask him to<br />
tone it down a bit. But if you<br />
find that you are the only one<br />
who is really embarrassed by<br />
his probing conversations, it<br />
may be time to let him be who<br />
he is. You’ll both most likely<br />
be better off.<br />
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Arizona was the only territory west of<br />
Texas to secede from the Union and join<br />
the Confederacy during the Civil War. A<br />
century later, it fought recognition of the<br />
Martin Luther King Jr. federal holiday.<br />
This week, an anti-immigrant bill was<br />
signed into law by Republican Gov. Jan<br />
Brewer. Arizona Senate Bill 1070<br />
empowers state and local law enforcement<br />
to stop, question and arrest whoever<br />
they suspect may not be in the state legally.<br />
The law is an open invitation to<br />
sweeping racial profiling and arbitrary<br />
detention.<br />
The law ostensibly offers "cooperative<br />
enforcement of federal immigration laws<br />
throughout all of Arizona." It provides<br />
that a "law enforcement officer, without a<br />
warrant, may arrest a person if the officer<br />
has probable cause to believe that the person<br />
has committed any public offense<br />
that makes the person removable from the<br />
United States."<br />
Thus, if a police officer suspects a<br />
Latino person of being an undocumented<br />
immigrant, he or she can lock that person<br />
up. Day laborers are targeted. It is illegal<br />
to accept (or make) a job offer in some<br />
roadside settings, and even makes "communication<br />
by a gesture or a nod" in<br />
accepting a work offer an arrestable<br />
offense. S.B. 1070 goes further, facilitating<br />
anonymous reporting of businesses<br />
that anyone suspects has undocumented<br />
employees.<br />
President Barack Obama denounced<br />
the bill, saying: "Our failure to act<br />
responsibly at the federal level will only<br />
open the door to irresponsibility by others,<br />
and that includes, for example, the<br />
recent efforts in Arizona, which threaten<br />
to undermine basic notions of fairness<br />
that we cherish as Americans, as well as<br />
the trust between police and their com-<br />
Want to keep your weekly<br />
poker game going forever, flawlessly<br />
remember what everyone<br />
played, plus beat everyone in<br />
racquetball the next morning?<br />
Then serve this for dinner:<br />
Lemon caper chicken with sweet<br />
potato puree. Or have any foods<br />
(in reasonable quantities) that<br />
feature traditional<br />
Mediterranean fare.<br />
More and more research is<br />
stacking up to secure the superhealthy<br />
status of the<br />
Mediterranean diet, which is rich<br />
in fruits, vegetables, whole<br />
grains, olive oil, nuts and fish or<br />
other lean protein (our YOU:<br />
Diet is a version of that, remade<br />
for American and Canadian<br />
tastes). Here’s just some of what<br />
this wonder diet can do:<br />
Keep your friends (and you)<br />
around longer. The<br />
Mediterranean diet is chock-full<br />
of fiber, healthy fats and<br />
flavonoids. That drops the risk<br />
of cardiovascular disease by 15<br />
percent (versus a 9 percent drop<br />
in people who ate low-fat food).<br />
Prevent memory loss. This diet<br />
keeps arteries healthy, which<br />
keeps blood flowing steadily to<br />
the brain. And its mix of nutrients<br />
fights oxidative stress and<br />
inflammation, two processes<br />
strongly linked to Alzheimer’s<br />
disease. Eating this way may<br />
reduce the risk of Alzheimer’s<br />
by up to 40 percent. Add another<br />
OPINION<br />
OPINION<br />
Boycotting Arizona’s racism<br />
Want to do it all?<br />
Eat this<br />
munities that is so crucial to keeping us<br />
safe. In fact, I've instructed members of<br />
my administration to closely monitor the<br />
situation and examine the civil-rights and<br />
other implications of this legislation."<br />
There is a serious backlash against the<br />
bill in Arizona and around the country.<br />
Rep. Raul Grijalva, Democrat of Tucson,<br />
Ariz., and co-chair of the Congressional<br />
Progressive Caucus, is front and center in<br />
opposing the controversial law. He told<br />
me: "It's a license to racially profile. It<br />
creates a second-class status for primarily<br />
Latinos and people of color in the state of<br />
Arizona. ... Arizona's been the petri dish<br />
for these kinds of harsh, racist initiatives."<br />
Legal groups are mounting challenges<br />
to the law. Sunita Patel is a staff attorney<br />
with the Center for Constitutional Rights.<br />
According to Patel, "It” allows the local<br />
law-enforcement agencies to check not<br />
only the FBI databases, which they've traditionally<br />
always done, it also allows<br />
them to sync up with immigration databases,<br />
which are notoriously unreliable<br />
because of errors with the data entry<br />
because they just have incorrect information<br />
on citizenship status ... so you have<br />
this very broad net being cast."<br />
Grijalva is calling on the federal government<br />
to refuse to cooperate with<br />
Arizona. "Immigration is a federal law,<br />
and if we're asking the president for him<br />
not to cooperate in the implementation of<br />
this law through Homeland Security,<br />
Michael Roizen, M.D.<br />
and Mehmet Oz, M.D.<br />
Mediterranean treat — coffee —<br />
for more benefit.<br />
Keep you moving. The mix of<br />
healthy unsaturated fats, like the<br />
DHA in fish, and vitamins helps<br />
reduce inflammation, which may<br />
improve the symptoms of<br />
rheumatoid arthritis.<br />
Help you stay happy.<br />
While having fun playing poker<br />
and winning on the court may<br />
keep you plenty pleased, there’s<br />
evidence that a Mediterranean<br />
diet may protect you from major<br />
depression.<br />
Amy<br />
Goodman<br />
through Border Patrol, through detention<br />
and a noncooperative stance by the<br />
United States government and the federal<br />
agencies, (it) would render much of this<br />
legislation moot and ineffective," he said.<br />
He also is calling for people to boycott<br />
his own state: "I support some very targeted<br />
economic sanctions on the state of<br />
Arizona. We will be asking national organizations,<br />
civic, religious, political organizations<br />
not to have conferences and<br />
conventions in the state of Arizona. That<br />
there has to be an economic consequence<br />
to this action and to this legislation. And<br />
good organizations across this country,<br />
decent organizations that agree with us<br />
that this bill is patently racist, that it is<br />
unconstitutional and it's harsh, it's unjust,<br />
that they should refrain from bringing<br />
their business to the state."<br />
Already, the American Immigration<br />
Lawyers Association has decided to move<br />
its fall 2010 annual conference from<br />
Arizona to another state. San Francisco<br />
Board of Supervisors member David<br />
Campos, saying that Arizona "with a<br />
stroke of a pen set the clock back on a<br />
generation of civil-rights gains," is confident<br />
that his resolution calling for the city<br />
to boycott Arizona will pass. Similar city<br />
boycotts are being considered in<br />
Oakland, Calif., and El Paso, Texas.<br />
Sportswriter David Zirin is supporting a<br />
boycott of the Diamondbacks, Arizona's<br />
major league baseball team.<br />
Close to 30 percent of the Arizona<br />
population identifies itself as Hispanic. It<br />
was a boycott that eventually forced the<br />
state to recognize Martin Luther King Jr.<br />
Day. It is a shame that similar tactics are<br />
needed again.<br />
* * *<br />
Denis Moynihan contributed research<br />
to this column.<br />
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