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R, ruis, the dwarf elder in Ogham. The rochat, or ... - Rodney Mackay

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was "two mean to feed an eyestone (see eyeshee<strong>in</strong>)."<br />

2. Espousal to marriage, a ceremony which was also a<br />

k<strong>in</strong>d of "smooth<strong>in</strong>g over;" <strong>the</strong> tak<strong>in</strong>g of irritants from <strong>the</strong><br />

situation. It was f<strong>or</strong>merly held bef<strong>or</strong>e <strong>the</strong> banns of<br />

marriage were posted and was considered as necessary as<br />

<strong>the</strong> wedd<strong>in</strong>g feast. It was "ag obair reitach," w<strong>or</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g at<br />

clear<strong>in</strong>g, <strong>the</strong> c<strong>or</strong>rect way of ask<strong>in</strong>g a girls hand <strong>in</strong> marriage.<br />

<strong>The</strong> last reitach <strong>in</strong> Cape Breton is believed to have<br />

occurred <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> 1920's. Reitachs were never held on Fridays<br />

(<strong>or</strong>ig<strong>in</strong>ally <strong>in</strong> consideration of <strong>the</strong> fact that this was<br />

Frigga's day, a preferred time f<strong>or</strong> N<strong>or</strong>se <strong>in</strong>vasions). <strong>The</strong><br />

bridegroom-to-be and an older friend would come to <strong>the</strong><br />

household of <strong>the</strong> <strong>in</strong>tended. <strong>The</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>r, if he possessed a<br />

n<strong>or</strong>mal <strong>in</strong>tellect would no what was about, but follow<strong>in</strong>g<br />

<strong>the</strong> rules of <strong>the</strong> rite would make no outright mention of<br />

marriage. Instead <strong>the</strong> visit<strong>or</strong>s would pretend that <strong>the</strong>y had<br />

come to buy a cow <strong>or</strong> a h<strong>or</strong>se <strong>or</strong> a boat, and everyth<strong>in</strong>g said<br />

was double entendre. <strong>The</strong> prospective groom did very little<br />

talk<strong>in</strong>g as <strong>the</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>r and his representative got down to <strong>the</strong><br />

real bus<strong>in</strong>ess of <strong>the</strong> even<strong>in</strong>g. As a matter of f<strong>or</strong>m <strong>the</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>r<br />

was obligated to offer <strong>the</strong> hand of o<strong>the</strong>r daughters,<br />

particularly if <strong>the</strong>y happened to be old and ugly. <strong>The</strong>re was<br />

always a chance that <strong>the</strong> swa<strong>in</strong>'s barga<strong>in</strong>er would<br />

unwitt<strong>in</strong>gly ask f<strong>or</strong> <strong>the</strong> wrong girl.<br />

All but <strong>the</strong> <strong>in</strong>tended sat at a table loaded with food;<br />

she was kept from <strong>the</strong> room while <strong>the</strong> representative<br />

described <strong>the</strong> prospects good characteristics and assured<br />

<strong>the</strong> family of his love f<strong>or</strong> <strong>the</strong> girl. When a barga<strong>in</strong> was<br />

f<strong>in</strong>ally struck and <strong>the</strong> arrangements f<strong>or</strong> a wedd<strong>in</strong>g had been<br />

made, <strong>the</strong> girl was permitted to jo<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>m..Liqu<strong>or</strong> was <strong>the</strong>n<br />

placed on <strong>the</strong> table and <strong>the</strong> feast begun. In many <strong>in</strong>stances,<br />

especially <strong>in</strong> pioneer communities, this was <strong>the</strong> first time<br />

<strong>the</strong> couple had met, and often <strong>the</strong> contract was broken<br />

bef<strong>or</strong>e <strong>the</strong> wedd<strong>in</strong>g took place.<br />

Some young men were too persistent to let <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

looks prevent <strong>the</strong> union and often sent a reitach party to

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