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<str<strong>on</strong>g>Third</str<strong>on</strong>g> <str<strong>on</strong>g>Culture</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />

<str<strong>on</strong>g>Formati<strong>on</strong></str<strong>on</strong>g><br />

<str<strong>on</strong>g>Revisited</str<strong>on</strong>g> Where are we today?<br />

■ Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />

■ Charles Morse, Worcester Polytechnic Institute<br />

■ Lilli Engle, American University Center of Provence<br />

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1994 vs. 2013<br />

Where Are We Today?<br />

Jim Citr<strong>on</strong><br />

Intercultural Educati<strong>on</strong> Specialist<br />

Dartmouth College<br />

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• U-Curve and stages of cultural adjustment (Oberg,<br />

Gullahorn & Gullahorn, and others)<br />

• H<strong>on</strong>eymo<strong>on</strong><br />

• <str<strong>on</strong>g>Culture</str<strong>on</strong>g> Shock<br />

• Recovery/Adjustment<br />

• Mastery of Host <str<strong>on</strong>g>Culture</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />

1994<br />

Dominant Paradigms<br />

Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />

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Instead of<br />

Something Like This<br />

Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />

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I Found Things Like This<br />

Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />

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Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />

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“Being in a foreign country means walking a<br />

tightrope high above the ground without the net<br />

afforded a pers<strong>on</strong> by the country where he has his<br />

family, colleagues, and friends, and where he can<br />

easily say what he has to say in a language he has<br />

known from childhood.”<br />

Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />

Milan Kundera, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, 1984<br />

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Not Spanish<br />

• Language Use<br />

• News Sources<br />

• Classroom behavior and interacti<strong>on</strong><br />

• Choice of venues of socializati<strong>on</strong><br />

• Meal customs<br />

Not U.S.<br />

• Norms around socializing<br />

• Hours (meals, sleep, etc.)<br />

• More free time<br />

• Less c<strong>on</strong>trol over lives or bel<strong>on</strong>gings<br />

• Short-timer’s attitude<br />

• Travel<br />

Characteristics of<br />

<str<strong>on</strong>g>Third</str<strong>on</strong>g> <str<strong>on</strong>g>Culture</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />

Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />

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Re-entry Dimensi<strong>on</strong>s:<br />

• Physical/Logistical<br />

• Interpers<strong>on</strong>al<br />

• Cultural<br />

• Pers<strong>on</strong>al<br />

Implicati<strong>on</strong>s for Re-entry<br />

and for Learning<br />

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Student A:<br />

“I just realize now how, like Spain, and probably many<br />

other countries, like everything they have is, like, ours, but<br />

like in their versi<strong>on</strong> like. Like, the movies that you watch<br />

in Spain are like American, you know, dubbed in Spanish.<br />

So, like, I just realized that America is like, I appreciate<br />

America and how great it is and like how we, like, have<br />

everything, you know?”<br />

Q: “What did you get from<br />

the experience?”<br />

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Student B:<br />

“Good grades, I hope.... I got a killer semester vacati<strong>on</strong> all<br />

expenses paid; I got just a great time meeting cool people<br />

and that's something that's going to stay with me forever; I<br />

got to better my Spanish skills; I got good memories. “<br />

Q: "Just having been far away for a l<strong>on</strong>g time, did you see<br />

anything through different eyes at all...?" A: "Not<br />

especially... Not that I can think of."<br />

Q: “What did you get from<br />

the experience?”<br />

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Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />

Factors that Lead to<br />

Integrati<strong>on</strong> or <str<strong>on</strong>g>Third</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />

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• Housing arrangements<br />

• Opportunities for meaningful interacti<strong>on</strong> with host<br />

nati<strong>on</strong>als<br />

• Direct enrollment into host instituti<strong>on</strong><br />

• Host culture traits<br />

Host C<strong>on</strong>text Factors<br />

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• Pre-departure reading materials and/or orientati<strong>on</strong><br />

• Academic and sociocultural orientati<strong>on</strong><br />

• Length of stay<br />

• Presence of trusted mentor or resident administrator<br />

• Peer advisors/informants native to the host culture<br />

• Internet access<br />

Program Factors<br />

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• Presence of peer group of foreign students<br />

• Leaders of group / group norms and orientati<strong>on</strong> toward<br />

integrati<strong>on</strong><br />

• Size of group<br />

Group Factors<br />

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• Pers<strong>on</strong>al goals<br />

• Language skills<br />

• Pers<strong>on</strong>ality<br />

• Financial resources<br />

Individual Factors<br />

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Our W<strong>on</strong>derful<br />

Students<br />

Millennials…<br />

and so much more<br />

Charles Morse, MA, LMHC<br />

Assistant Dean for Student Development<br />

Director<br />

WPI Student Development & Counseling<br />

cmorse@wpi.edu<br />

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• A generati<strong>on</strong> is composed of people whose comm<strong>on</strong><br />

locati<strong>on</strong> in history lends them a collective pers<strong>on</strong>a. The<br />

span of <strong>on</strong>e generati<strong>on</strong> is roughly the length of a phase<br />

of life.<br />

• On Campus Today (4 Generati<strong>on</strong>s)<br />

– Silent (1924-1942) Colin Powell/Gloria Steinem<br />

– Boomer (1943-1961) Steven Spielberg/Oprah Winfrey<br />

– Generati<strong>on</strong> X (1962-1980) Michael Jordan/Jodie Foster<br />

– Millennials (1980-2000) Frankie Muniz/ Mandy Moore<br />

Generati<strong>on</strong>al Models<br />

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• 1925 – 1942 “Silent Generati<strong>on</strong>”<br />

– Grew up during war and depressi<strong>on</strong><br />

– Introspective seekers, artisans<br />

• 1940s – 1960s “Baby Boomers”<br />

– Grew up post WWII during time marked by prosperity and growth<br />

– Optimistic, positive, rebellious, idealistic, want it all, willing to go<br />

extra mile<br />

• 1960s – late 1970s “Generati<strong>on</strong> X”<br />

– Grew up during corporate and political unrest<br />

– Independent, self-reliant, skeptical, pragmatic, results oriented<br />

Generati<strong>on</strong>s Characterized<br />

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Millennial Demographics<br />

• 95 milli<strong>on</strong>, largest since baby boomer generati<strong>on</strong><br />

- Generati<strong>on</strong> X – 68 milli<strong>on</strong><br />

- Baby boomer – 78 milli<strong>on</strong><br />

• Culturally diverse – 40% African-american, Latino,<br />

Asian, mixed-race<br />

• First entered college in 2000, last will graduate in 2025<br />

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• Special<br />

• Increased Self-esteem, c<strong>on</strong>fidence<br />

• Optimism<br />

“revered, praised, sheltered, befriended and carefully guided by their<br />

parents to lead well structured lives based <strong>on</strong> adherence to clear<br />

mutually agreed up<strong>on</strong> rules. (self-important, entitled, indecisive,<br />

n<strong>on</strong>-resilient)”<br />

Child-Centered Upbringing<br />

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• Sheltered<br />

• Appreciate mentors<br />

• Functi<strong>on</strong> better knowing rules, expectati<strong>on</strong>s,<br />

c<strong>on</strong>sequences<br />

• Struggle with self-structuring<br />

• Difficulty with independent creative thought and decisi<strong>on</strong><br />

making<br />

Increased Involvement of<br />

Parents<br />

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• Special<br />

- High self esteem<br />

- Str<strong>on</strong>g sense of self-importance<br />

• Sheltered<br />

- Child safety, amber alerts, gps m<strong>on</strong>itoring<br />

- Increased parental involvement<br />

• Helicopter – stealth fighter parents<br />

- Healthier, less pr<strong>on</strong>e to injury<br />

- Dramatic decline in physical activity, increased obesity<br />

Core traits of Millennials<br />

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• C<strong>on</strong>fident<br />

- Rate themselves as happy more frequently<br />

- High level of trust and optimism about future<br />

- Make c<strong>on</strong>tributi<strong>on</strong>s vs. make m<strong>on</strong>ey<br />

• Team oriented<br />

- Very oriented towards peers (facebook)<br />

- C<strong>on</strong>cerned about community (wealth inequality)<br />

- Increased voting rate<br />

Core Traits (c<strong>on</strong>t)<br />

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• C<strong>on</strong>venti<strong>on</strong>al<br />

- Share much more with parents (music, values)<br />

- Seek norms, structure, rules<br />

- Civic engagement<br />

• Pressured<br />

- Work hard, avoid risk<br />

- Competitive with peers<br />

- Financial burden<br />

- Hard time thinking “out of the box”<br />

Core Traits (c<strong>on</strong>t)<br />

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• High Achieving<br />

- “Smartest” and best educated<br />

- Seek feedback and rewards<br />

- Rising SAT scores<br />

- Demand opportunities for involvement and leadership<br />

Core Traits (c<strong>on</strong>t)<br />

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• Team oriented, like to work with others<br />

• Expect to both work and have fun at the same time<br />

• Multitaskers<br />

• C<strong>on</strong>fidence sometimes outpaces competence<br />

• High functi<strong>on</strong>ing, high achieving<br />

• Hard work for meaningful purposes<br />

Attitude towards work<br />

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“For the most part they are bright,<br />

c<strong>on</strong>cerned, c<strong>on</strong>nected and<br />

technologically savvy kids that<br />

work and play well with others.”<br />

Charles Morse, Worcester Polytechnic Institute <str<strong>on</strong>g>Forum</str<strong>on</strong>g> <strong>on</strong> Educati<strong>on</strong> <strong>Abroad</strong><br />

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Heroes with a fatal flaw?<br />

• A great challenge…a grand destiny<br />

• Difficulty with struggle<br />

• Difficulty with failure<br />

• Will they persist in the face of adversity?<br />

Challenge and C<strong>on</strong>nect<br />

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INTERGRATION<br />

STATEGIES<br />

A holistic, « millenial » approach<br />

Lilli Engle<br />

Founding Director<br />

American University Center of Provence – Aix / Marseille, France<br />

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• Globalizati<strong>on</strong><br />

• Social networks<br />

• Atrophied interpers<strong>on</strong>al skills<br />

• Comfort-z<strong>on</strong>e Services<br />

• Risk adversity & Protective Parents<br />

• Critical Clout<br />

Factors that Weigh Against the<br />

Encounter with Difference<br />

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Getting from Point A to Point B<br />

• Attentuate the negative<br />

• Accentuate the positive<br />

Key to successful<br />

program design<br />

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• Establish clear expectati<strong>on</strong>s and clear sancti<strong>on</strong>s<br />

• Sign c<strong>on</strong>tractual agreements<br />

• Set realistic but ambitious goals<br />

• Highlight milest<strong>on</strong>es<br />

• Underline challenges and c<strong>on</strong>gratulate success<br />

• Emphasize « right choices » for each student as<br />

the creator of his/her experience<br />

Must do<br />

Strategies for the « millenial stretch »<br />

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Immersi<strong>on</strong><br />

• In-house courses with<br />

local professors<br />

• Directi<strong>on</strong> enrolment<br />

opti<strong>on</strong><br />

• Community Service<br />

• Individual Homestay<br />

Placement<br />

• Language Partner<br />

• Pers<strong>on</strong>al Interest Activity<br />

Interventi<strong>on</strong><br />

• In-coming & <strong>on</strong>-going<br />

orientati<strong>on</strong><br />

• Intercultural<br />

Communicati<strong>on</strong> Class<br />

• One <strong>on</strong> <strong>on</strong>e Mentoring<br />

Experiential/C<strong>on</strong>structivist Learning<br />

Holistic Program Design<br />

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Active Experimentati<strong>on</strong><br />

Developing empathy<br />

Trying new ways of interacti<strong>on</strong><br />

Re-positi<strong>on</strong>ing the Self<br />

Abstract C<strong>on</strong>ceptualizati<strong>on</strong><br />

Guided group discussi<strong>on</strong> & analysis<br />

De-briefing experiences<br />

Cataloging / schematizing of<br />

cultural values & assumpti<strong>on</strong>s<br />

C<strong>on</strong>crete Experience<br />

Regular interacti<strong>on</strong> with host nati<strong>on</strong>als<br />

Discovery of values & preferences<br />

Reflective Observati<strong>on</strong><br />

Objective recording & sharing<br />

of both feelings & events<br />

Identifying “difference”<br />

and <strong>on</strong>e’s reactive resp<strong>on</strong>se<br />

AUCP’s Implementati<strong>on</strong> of David Kolb’s<br />

Experiential Learning Cycle<br />

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Interventi<strong>on</strong>s serve to:<br />

• Sharpen percepti<strong>on</strong><br />

• Cultivate “witnessing awareness”<br />

• Target right questi<strong>on</strong>s instead of right answers<br />

Intercultural Learning<br />

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Sharpen Percepti<strong>on</strong> & Highlight Difference<br />

Storti, C. Figuring Out Foreigners (1999) Intercultural Press, Bost<strong>on</strong>, MA; L<strong>on</strong>d<strong>on</strong>, UK<br />

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• Raym<strong>on</strong>de Carroll methodology for cultural analysis<br />

Carroll, R. (1988). Cultural Misunderstandings: The French-American Experience<br />

(C.Volk.trans.).<br />

Chicago, IL: University of Chicago Press.<br />

• Thiagi: Six-point de-brief<br />

Thiagarajan, S. (2004) Six phases of debriefing. Retrieved from<br />

http://www.thiagi.com/pfp/IE4H/february2004.html#february2004.html#Debriefing<br />

• Rosenberg : N<strong>on</strong>-violent Communicati<strong>on</strong><br />

Rosenberg, Marshall B., N<strong>on</strong>violent Communicati<strong>on</strong>: A Language of Life. Encinitas: Puddle<br />

Dancer Press, 2003<br />

Asking Right Questi<strong>on</strong>s &<br />

Cultivating « Witnessing Awareness »<br />

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• Seek meaning, not explanati<strong>on</strong>s: how meaning is produced, not why<br />

it is so<br />

• Cultivate self-awareness (emoti<strong>on</strong>s & judgments)<br />

• Be <strong>on</strong> the look out for the « bizarre » , sign of a new cultural c<strong>on</strong>text<br />

to be explored<br />

• Imagine a c<strong>on</strong>text in which the « bizarre » becomes « normal »<br />

• Identify a cultural interpretati<strong>on</strong> that manifests elsewhere in the same<br />

culture, albeit in a different form<br />

Raym<strong>on</strong>de Carroll<br />

methodology for cultural analysis<br />

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1. How Do You Feel?<br />

Share str<strong>on</strong>g feelings and listen without judgment.<br />

2. What Happened?<br />

Descriptively recall the series of events.<br />

3. What Did You Learn?<br />

Identify general principles based <strong>on</strong> the activity and discuss them.<br />

4. How Does This Relate To The Real World?<br />

Identify relevance to real-world experiences. Suggest that the<br />

activity is a metaphor and ask participants to offer real-world<br />

analogies.<br />

5. What If?<br />

Imagine alternative scenarios to speculate <strong>on</strong> how people's<br />

behaviors would change.<br />

6. What Next?<br />

Apply insights to modify real-world behaviour.<br />

Thiagi: Six-point de-brief<br />

People d<strong>on</strong>'t learn from experience; they learn from reflecting <strong>on</strong> their experience.<br />

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• What happened?<br />

Indentifies c<strong>on</strong>crete acti<strong>on</strong>s we observe that affect our<br />

well-being<br />

• How do you feel about what happened?<br />

Indentifies how we feel in relati<strong>on</strong> to what we observe<br />

• What would you like that you’re not getting?<br />

Indentifies needs, values, desires, etc. that create our<br />

feelings<br />

• What can you ask for?<br />

Identifies c<strong>on</strong>crete acti<strong>on</strong>s we request in order to enrich<br />

our lives<br />

Marshall Rosenberg<br />

N<strong>on</strong>-violent Communicati<strong>on</strong><br />

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Aix / Marseille, France<br />

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Observati<strong>on</strong><br />

• Afraid, agitated, angry, anxious<br />

• Beat, bitter, blue, bored<br />

• Cold, c<strong>on</strong>fused, cross<br />

• Depressed, disappointed, discouraged<br />

• Edgy, embarrassed, exhausted<br />

• Fidgety, frightened, furious<br />

• Gloomy, guilty<br />

• Helpless, hesitant, hurt<br />

• Impatient, indifferent, irate<br />

• Jealous, jittery …<br />

Identifying H<strong>on</strong>est Feelings<br />

Lilli Engle, American University Center of Provence<br />

Aix / Marseille, France<br />

• Aband<strong>on</strong>ed, abused, attacked<br />

• Betrayed, boxed-in, bullied<br />

• Cheated, coerced, cornered<br />

• Diminished, disrespected<br />

• Misunderstood, neglected<br />

• Patr<strong>on</strong>ized, provoked, put down<br />

• Rejected, taken for granted<br />

• Threatened, unappreciated<br />

• Unsupported, unheard<br />

• Unwanted, used<br />

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