Third Culture Formation Revisited - Forum on Education Abroad
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<str<strong>on</strong>g>Third</str<strong>on</strong>g> <str<strong>on</strong>g>Culture</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />
<str<strong>on</strong>g>Formati<strong>on</strong></str<strong>on</strong>g><br />
<str<strong>on</strong>g>Revisited</str<strong>on</strong>g> Where are we today?<br />
■ Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />
■ Charles Morse, Worcester Polytechnic Institute<br />
■ Lilli Engle, American University Center of Provence<br />
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1994 vs. 2013<br />
Where Are We Today?<br />
Jim Citr<strong>on</strong><br />
Intercultural Educati<strong>on</strong> Specialist<br />
Dartmouth College<br />
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• U-Curve and stages of cultural adjustment (Oberg,<br />
Gullahorn & Gullahorn, and others)<br />
• H<strong>on</strong>eymo<strong>on</strong><br />
• <str<strong>on</strong>g>Culture</str<strong>on</strong>g> Shock<br />
• Recovery/Adjustment<br />
• Mastery of Host <str<strong>on</strong>g>Culture</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />
1994<br />
Dominant Paradigms<br />
Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />
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Instead of<br />
Something Like This<br />
Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />
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I Found Things Like This<br />
Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />
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Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />
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“Being in a foreign country means walking a<br />
tightrope high above the ground without the net<br />
afforded a pers<strong>on</strong> by the country where he has his<br />
family, colleagues, and friends, and where he can<br />
easily say what he has to say in a language he has<br />
known from childhood.”<br />
Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />
Milan Kundera, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, 1984<br />
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Not Spanish<br />
• Language Use<br />
• News Sources<br />
• Classroom behavior and interacti<strong>on</strong><br />
• Choice of venues of socializati<strong>on</strong><br />
• Meal customs<br />
Not U.S.<br />
• Norms around socializing<br />
• Hours (meals, sleep, etc.)<br />
• More free time<br />
• Less c<strong>on</strong>trol over lives or bel<strong>on</strong>gings<br />
• Short-timer’s attitude<br />
• Travel<br />
Characteristics of<br />
<str<strong>on</strong>g>Third</str<strong>on</strong>g> <str<strong>on</strong>g>Culture</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />
Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />
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Re-entry Dimensi<strong>on</strong>s:<br />
• Physical/Logistical<br />
• Interpers<strong>on</strong>al<br />
• Cultural<br />
• Pers<strong>on</strong>al<br />
Implicati<strong>on</strong>s for Re-entry<br />
and for Learning<br />
Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />
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Student A:<br />
“I just realize now how, like Spain, and probably many<br />
other countries, like everything they have is, like, ours, but<br />
like in their versi<strong>on</strong> like. Like, the movies that you watch<br />
in Spain are like American, you know, dubbed in Spanish.<br />
So, like, I just realized that America is like, I appreciate<br />
America and how great it is and like how we, like, have<br />
everything, you know?”<br />
Q: “What did you get from<br />
the experience?”<br />
Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />
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Student B:<br />
“Good grades, I hope.... I got a killer semester vacati<strong>on</strong> all<br />
expenses paid; I got just a great time meeting cool people<br />
and that's something that's going to stay with me forever; I<br />
got to better my Spanish skills; I got good memories. “<br />
Q: "Just having been far away for a l<strong>on</strong>g time, did you see<br />
anything through different eyes at all...?" A: "Not<br />
especially... Not that I can think of."<br />
Q: “What did you get from<br />
the experience?”<br />
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Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />
Factors that Lead to<br />
Integrati<strong>on</strong> or <str<strong>on</strong>g>Third</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />
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• Housing arrangements<br />
• Opportunities for meaningful interacti<strong>on</strong> with host<br />
nati<strong>on</strong>als<br />
• Direct enrollment into host instituti<strong>on</strong><br />
• Host culture traits<br />
Host C<strong>on</strong>text Factors<br />
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• Pre-departure reading materials and/or orientati<strong>on</strong><br />
• Academic and sociocultural orientati<strong>on</strong><br />
• Length of stay<br />
• Presence of trusted mentor or resident administrator<br />
• Peer advisors/informants native to the host culture<br />
• Internet access<br />
Program Factors<br />
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• Presence of peer group of foreign students<br />
• Leaders of group / group norms and orientati<strong>on</strong> toward<br />
integrati<strong>on</strong><br />
• Size of group<br />
Group Factors<br />
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• Pers<strong>on</strong>al goals<br />
• Language skills<br />
• Pers<strong>on</strong>ality<br />
• Financial resources<br />
Individual Factors<br />
Jim Citr<strong>on</strong>, Dartmouth College<br />
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Our W<strong>on</strong>derful<br />
Students<br />
Millennials…<br />
and so much more<br />
Charles Morse, MA, LMHC<br />
Assistant Dean for Student Development<br />
Director<br />
WPI Student Development & Counseling<br />
cmorse@wpi.edu<br />
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• A generati<strong>on</strong> is composed of people whose comm<strong>on</strong><br />
locati<strong>on</strong> in history lends them a collective pers<strong>on</strong>a. The<br />
span of <strong>on</strong>e generati<strong>on</strong> is roughly the length of a phase<br />
of life.<br />
• On Campus Today (4 Generati<strong>on</strong>s)<br />
– Silent (1924-1942) Colin Powell/Gloria Steinem<br />
– Boomer (1943-1961) Steven Spielberg/Oprah Winfrey<br />
– Generati<strong>on</strong> X (1962-1980) Michael Jordan/Jodie Foster<br />
– Millennials (1980-2000) Frankie Muniz/ Mandy Moore<br />
Generati<strong>on</strong>al Models<br />
Charles Morse, Worcester Polytechnic Institute<br />
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• 1925 – 1942 “Silent Generati<strong>on</strong>”<br />
– Grew up during war and depressi<strong>on</strong><br />
– Introspective seekers, artisans<br />
• 1940s – 1960s “Baby Boomers”<br />
– Grew up post WWII during time marked by prosperity and growth<br />
– Optimistic, positive, rebellious, idealistic, want it all, willing to go<br />
extra mile<br />
• 1960s – late 1970s “Generati<strong>on</strong> X”<br />
– Grew up during corporate and political unrest<br />
– Independent, self-reliant, skeptical, pragmatic, results oriented<br />
Generati<strong>on</strong>s Characterized<br />
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Millennial Demographics<br />
• 95 milli<strong>on</strong>, largest since baby boomer generati<strong>on</strong><br />
- Generati<strong>on</strong> X – 68 milli<strong>on</strong><br />
- Baby boomer – 78 milli<strong>on</strong><br />
• Culturally diverse – 40% African-american, Latino,<br />
Asian, mixed-race<br />
• First entered college in 2000, last will graduate in 2025<br />
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• Special<br />
• Increased Self-esteem, c<strong>on</strong>fidence<br />
• Optimism<br />
“revered, praised, sheltered, befriended and carefully guided by their<br />
parents to lead well structured lives based <strong>on</strong> adherence to clear<br />
mutually agreed up<strong>on</strong> rules. (self-important, entitled, indecisive,<br />
n<strong>on</strong>-resilient)”<br />
Child-Centered Upbringing<br />
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• Sheltered<br />
• Appreciate mentors<br />
• Functi<strong>on</strong> better knowing rules, expectati<strong>on</strong>s,<br />
c<strong>on</strong>sequences<br />
• Struggle with self-structuring<br />
• Difficulty with independent creative thought and decisi<strong>on</strong><br />
making<br />
Increased Involvement of<br />
Parents<br />
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• Special<br />
- High self esteem<br />
- Str<strong>on</strong>g sense of self-importance<br />
• Sheltered<br />
- Child safety, amber alerts, gps m<strong>on</strong>itoring<br />
- Increased parental involvement<br />
• Helicopter – stealth fighter parents<br />
- Healthier, less pr<strong>on</strong>e to injury<br />
- Dramatic decline in physical activity, increased obesity<br />
Core traits of Millennials<br />
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• C<strong>on</strong>fident<br />
- Rate themselves as happy more frequently<br />
- High level of trust and optimism about future<br />
- Make c<strong>on</strong>tributi<strong>on</strong>s vs. make m<strong>on</strong>ey<br />
• Team oriented<br />
- Very oriented towards peers (facebook)<br />
- C<strong>on</strong>cerned about community (wealth inequality)<br />
- Increased voting rate<br />
Core Traits (c<strong>on</strong>t)<br />
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• C<strong>on</strong>venti<strong>on</strong>al<br />
- Share much more with parents (music, values)<br />
- Seek norms, structure, rules<br />
- Civic engagement<br />
• Pressured<br />
- Work hard, avoid risk<br />
- Competitive with peers<br />
- Financial burden<br />
- Hard time thinking “out of the box”<br />
Core Traits (c<strong>on</strong>t)<br />
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• High Achieving<br />
- “Smartest” and best educated<br />
- Seek feedback and rewards<br />
- Rising SAT scores<br />
- Demand opportunities for involvement and leadership<br />
Core Traits (c<strong>on</strong>t)<br />
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• Team oriented, like to work with others<br />
• Expect to both work and have fun at the same time<br />
• Multitaskers<br />
• C<strong>on</strong>fidence sometimes outpaces competence<br />
• High functi<strong>on</strong>ing, high achieving<br />
• Hard work for meaningful purposes<br />
Attitude towards work<br />
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“For the most part they are bright,<br />
c<strong>on</strong>cerned, c<strong>on</strong>nected and<br />
technologically savvy kids that<br />
work and play well with others.”<br />
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Heroes with a fatal flaw?<br />
• A great challenge…a grand destiny<br />
• Difficulty with struggle<br />
• Difficulty with failure<br />
• Will they persist in the face of adversity?<br />
Challenge and C<strong>on</strong>nect<br />
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INTERGRATION<br />
STATEGIES<br />
A holistic, « millenial » approach<br />
Lilli Engle<br />
Founding Director<br />
American University Center of Provence – Aix / Marseille, France<br />
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• Globalizati<strong>on</strong><br />
• Social networks<br />
• Atrophied interpers<strong>on</strong>al skills<br />
• Comfort-z<strong>on</strong>e Services<br />
• Risk adversity & Protective Parents<br />
• Critical Clout<br />
Factors that Weigh Against the<br />
Encounter with Difference<br />
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Getting from Point A to Point B<br />
• Attentuate the negative<br />
• Accentuate the positive<br />
Key to successful<br />
program design<br />
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• Establish clear expectati<strong>on</strong>s and clear sancti<strong>on</strong>s<br />
• Sign c<strong>on</strong>tractual agreements<br />
• Set realistic but ambitious goals<br />
• Highlight milest<strong>on</strong>es<br />
• Underline challenges and c<strong>on</strong>gratulate success<br />
• Emphasize « right choices » for each student as<br />
the creator of his/her experience<br />
Must do<br />
Strategies for the « millenial stretch »<br />
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Immersi<strong>on</strong><br />
• In-house courses with<br />
local professors<br />
• Directi<strong>on</strong> enrolment<br />
opti<strong>on</strong><br />
• Community Service<br />
• Individual Homestay<br />
Placement<br />
• Language Partner<br />
• Pers<strong>on</strong>al Interest Activity<br />
Interventi<strong>on</strong><br />
• In-coming & <strong>on</strong>-going<br />
orientati<strong>on</strong><br />
• Intercultural<br />
Communicati<strong>on</strong> Class<br />
• One <strong>on</strong> <strong>on</strong>e Mentoring<br />
Experiential/C<strong>on</strong>structivist Learning<br />
Holistic Program Design<br />
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Active Experimentati<strong>on</strong><br />
Developing empathy<br />
Trying new ways of interacti<strong>on</strong><br />
Re-positi<strong>on</strong>ing the Self<br />
Abstract C<strong>on</strong>ceptualizati<strong>on</strong><br />
Guided group discussi<strong>on</strong> & analysis<br />
De-briefing experiences<br />
Cataloging / schematizing of<br />
cultural values & assumpti<strong>on</strong>s<br />
C<strong>on</strong>crete Experience<br />
Regular interacti<strong>on</strong> with host nati<strong>on</strong>als<br />
Discovery of values & preferences<br />
Reflective Observati<strong>on</strong><br />
Objective recording & sharing<br />
of both feelings & events<br />
Identifying “difference”<br />
and <strong>on</strong>e’s reactive resp<strong>on</strong>se<br />
AUCP’s Implementati<strong>on</strong> of David Kolb’s<br />
Experiential Learning Cycle<br />
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Interventi<strong>on</strong>s serve to:<br />
• Sharpen percepti<strong>on</strong><br />
• Cultivate “witnessing awareness”<br />
• Target right questi<strong>on</strong>s instead of right answers<br />
Intercultural Learning<br />
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Sharpen Percepti<strong>on</strong> & Highlight Difference<br />
Storti, C. Figuring Out Foreigners (1999) Intercultural Press, Bost<strong>on</strong>, MA; L<strong>on</strong>d<strong>on</strong>, UK<br />
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• Raym<strong>on</strong>de Carroll methodology for cultural analysis<br />
Carroll, R. (1988). Cultural Misunderstandings: The French-American Experience<br />
(C.Volk.trans.).<br />
Chicago, IL: University of Chicago Press.<br />
• Thiagi: Six-point de-brief<br />
Thiagarajan, S. (2004) Six phases of debriefing. Retrieved from<br />
http://www.thiagi.com/pfp/IE4H/february2004.html#february2004.html#Debriefing<br />
• Rosenberg : N<strong>on</strong>-violent Communicati<strong>on</strong><br />
Rosenberg, Marshall B., N<strong>on</strong>violent Communicati<strong>on</strong>: A Language of Life. Encinitas: Puddle<br />
Dancer Press, 2003<br />
Asking Right Questi<strong>on</strong>s &<br />
Cultivating « Witnessing Awareness »<br />
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• Seek meaning, not explanati<strong>on</strong>s: how meaning is produced, not why<br />
it is so<br />
• Cultivate self-awareness (emoti<strong>on</strong>s & judgments)<br />
• Be <strong>on</strong> the look out for the « bizarre » , sign of a new cultural c<strong>on</strong>text<br />
to be explored<br />
• Imagine a c<strong>on</strong>text in which the « bizarre » becomes « normal »<br />
• Identify a cultural interpretati<strong>on</strong> that manifests elsewhere in the same<br />
culture, albeit in a different form<br />
Raym<strong>on</strong>de Carroll<br />
methodology for cultural analysis<br />
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1. How Do You Feel?<br />
Share str<strong>on</strong>g feelings and listen without judgment.<br />
2. What Happened?<br />
Descriptively recall the series of events.<br />
3. What Did You Learn?<br />
Identify general principles based <strong>on</strong> the activity and discuss them.<br />
4. How Does This Relate To The Real World?<br />
Identify relevance to real-world experiences. Suggest that the<br />
activity is a metaphor and ask participants to offer real-world<br />
analogies.<br />
5. What If?<br />
Imagine alternative scenarios to speculate <strong>on</strong> how people's<br />
behaviors would change.<br />
6. What Next?<br />
Apply insights to modify real-world behaviour.<br />
Thiagi: Six-point de-brief<br />
People d<strong>on</strong>'t learn from experience; they learn from reflecting <strong>on</strong> their experience.<br />
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• What happened?<br />
Indentifies c<strong>on</strong>crete acti<strong>on</strong>s we observe that affect our<br />
well-being<br />
• How do you feel about what happened?<br />
Indentifies how we feel in relati<strong>on</strong> to what we observe<br />
• What would you like that you’re not getting?<br />
Indentifies needs, values, desires, etc. that create our<br />
feelings<br />
• What can you ask for?<br />
Identifies c<strong>on</strong>crete acti<strong>on</strong>s we request in order to enrich<br />
our lives<br />
Marshall Rosenberg<br />
N<strong>on</strong>-violent Communicati<strong>on</strong><br />
Lilli Engle, American University Center of Provence<br />
Aix / Marseille, France<br />
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Observati<strong>on</strong><br />
• Afraid, agitated, angry, anxious<br />
• Beat, bitter, blue, bored<br />
• Cold, c<strong>on</strong>fused, cross<br />
• Depressed, disappointed, discouraged<br />
• Edgy, embarrassed, exhausted<br />
• Fidgety, frightened, furious<br />
• Gloomy, guilty<br />
• Helpless, hesitant, hurt<br />
• Impatient, indifferent, irate<br />
• Jealous, jittery …<br />
Identifying H<strong>on</strong>est Feelings<br />
Lilli Engle, American University Center of Provence<br />
Aix / Marseille, France<br />
• Aband<strong>on</strong>ed, abused, attacked<br />
• Betrayed, boxed-in, bullied<br />
• Cheated, coerced, cornered<br />
• Diminished, disrespected<br />
• Misunderstood, neglected<br />
• Patr<strong>on</strong>ized, provoked, put down<br />
• Rejected, taken for granted<br />
• Threatened, unappreciated<br />
• Unsupported, unheard<br />
• Unwanted, used<br />
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