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B U L L E T I N<br />
Making All the<br />
Difference<br />
IN THE TRENCHES,<br />
NOT STANDING<br />
ON DESKS<br />
<strong>The</strong> Spirit of <strong>Taft</strong><br />
at 30,000 Feet<br />
S P R I N G • 2 0 0 4
B U L L E T I N<br />
Spring 2004<br />
Volume 74 Number 3<br />
Bulletin Staff<br />
Director of Development<br />
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Page 10<br />
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Editor<br />
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Alumni Notes<br />
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F E A T U R E S<br />
Making All the<br />
Difference 16<br />
Fitting in, conforming to the norm, can be<br />
among the most difficult pressures teens<br />
face. For students of color, alumni say, those<br />
pressures brought additional feelings of<br />
loneliness and isolation.<br />
By Bonnie Blackburn Penhollow ’84<br />
In the Trenches, Not<br />
Standing on Desks 22<br />
Born in Saigon during the war, English<br />
teacher Steve Le spoke only Vietnamese<br />
when he arrived in the United States at 10<br />
years old. An Annapolis grad and former<br />
U.S. Navy lieutenant, Le says he has found<br />
his calling in teaching.<br />
By Chris Torino<br />
<strong>The</strong> Spirit of <strong>Taft</strong> at<br />
30,000 Feet 26<br />
A tribute to Development Director Chip<br />
Spencer ’56, who retires in June.<br />
By Barclay Johnson ’53<br />
D E P A R T M E N T S<br />
Endnote 30<br />
<strong>The</strong> Naming of a Feminist<br />
By Debora Phipps<br />
On the Cover<br />
<strong>The</strong> Collegium Musicum, directed by Bruce<br />
Fifer (left), performs at Grace Cathedral<br />
during its San Francisco tour in March.<br />
ABBY FIFER/SAMUEL DANGREMOND ’05<br />
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Sport 12<br />
A detail of La Bottega II by Langdon Quin ’66, whose work was on exhibit in the<br />
Potter Gallery this winter (see page 11).
FROM THE EDITOR<br />
In the last issue, Jon Willson’82 made a wonderful<br />
case for diversity at the school, but if<br />
today’s multicultural community is a work in<br />
progress, it’s important to remember (and thank)<br />
the pioneers who helped get us to this point.<br />
Toward that end, we asked Bonnie Blackburn<br />
Penhollow ’84 to seek out alumni from the ’40s<br />
to the ’90s to help us understand what it was like<br />
to be among the first black, Asian, or Hispanic<br />
students to walk these halls (page 14).<br />
Unlike the anniversary of coeducation,<br />
which we celebrated in 1996 by interviewing<br />
a number of those pioneering young women,<br />
there is no anniversary of diversity; as a school<br />
we made no single decision to be diverse. But<br />
the celebration is still long overdue.<br />
As both articles point out, having a<br />
multicultural faculty who can serve as role<br />
models for today’s students is key. This is a<br />
continuing challenge for Dean of Faculty<br />
Penny Townsend as she seeks the ideal candidates<br />
for each year’s vacancies. We are<br />
fortunate this year not only to have Felecia<br />
Washington Williams ’84 return to campus,<br />
but also to welcome new English teacher<br />
Steve Le (page 22), who has made an immediate<br />
impact on the boys on his hall, the girls<br />
on his team, and the students in his classes.<br />
<strong>The</strong> spring issue is, of course, when we celebrate<br />
the careers of retiring faculty members,<br />
and the task is all the more interesting when the<br />
subject is an alumnus whose career at the school<br />
is as varied as Chip Spencer’s (page 24).<br />
And there is so much more to share with<br />
you. Every page of class notes finds something<br />
to pique my interest. Thanks, too, for<br />
all the books and photographs you’ve sent,<br />
and, please, keep those letters coming.<br />
—Julie Reiff, editor<br />
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ALUMNI SPOTLIGHT<br />
Alumni<br />
SPOTLIGHT<br />
Deserted<br />
In Brief<br />
Benefit Concert<br />
Jay Gandhi ’00 gave a benefit concert<br />
of classical Indian music and<br />
dance with master teacher and performer<br />
Rachna Ramya Agrawal in<br />
February at the Litchfield Community<br />
Center. Proceeds benefited the<br />
Litchfield Montessori <strong>School</strong>.<br />
Dan Senecal ’60 during a 1,300-mile motorcycle trip through the United Arab Emirates,<br />
the Sultanate of Oman, and eastern Saudi Arabia.<br />
Dan Senecal ’60 recently motorcycled<br />
for ten days with nine Germans and two<br />
Austrians on a 1,300-mile route from<br />
Dubai in the United Arab Emirates through<br />
the Sultanate of Oman to the “backdoor”<br />
of Eastern Saudi Arabia. Dan rode a BMW<br />
1100GS along the Gulf of Oman to<br />
Muscat, capital of the Sultanate, then inland<br />
over the Jabal Abu Da’du Mountains<br />
on dirt and gravel to desert oasis villages<br />
such as Al Hazm, Al Rustaq, and Nakhl.<br />
“It was amazing,” says Senecal.<br />
“When we’d reach these oases in the<br />
Omanese desert, the kids were fascinated<br />
with us and we with them. We’d give<br />
them rides out into the desert.”<br />
He found this group of motorcycle<br />
enthusiasts through the Austrian company<br />
Edelweiss, which arranges for experienced<br />
motorcyclists to go all over Europe and<br />
on scouting expeditions like his.<br />
“Most Americans are afraid of that<br />
area, especially now,” he says, “but I was<br />
received fabulously. People were amazingly<br />
friendly toward me and extremely<br />
welcoming. It was an incredible trip.”<br />
Senecal first hiked through the Southern<br />
Desert 25 years ago and has been across<br />
the Sahara five times. He has visited over<br />
101 countries, but this was his first motorcycle<br />
trip. For his next adventure, he plans<br />
to motorcycle the coast of South Africa.<br />
Benched<br />
You can usually catch a glimpse of<br />
Elizabeth Matzkin Smith ’88 on TV<br />
while she’s working at Duke basketball<br />
games; she’s the only female<br />
sitting on the men’s bench. Liz, who<br />
received her M.D. from Tulane, is a<br />
research fellow in sports medicine<br />
surgery at Duke.<br />
Word on Asthma<br />
Paul Ehrlich ’62 appeared on the CBS<br />
Early Show’s health watch segment in<br />
December, talking about his recent<br />
book, What Your Doctor May Not Tell<br />
You About Children’s Allergies and<br />
Asthma. Ehrlich told co-anchor<br />
Hannah Storm that parents should<br />
pay attention to the nose. “Physicians<br />
tend to concentrate on the lungs and<br />
forget about the nose. So a stuffy nose<br />
has to be taken care of and not be<br />
taken lightly.”<br />
<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Spring 2004<br />
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EVAN ZELERMYER<br />
ALUMNI SPOTLIGHT<br />
On the Mall with Tennessee Williams<br />
Framji Minwalla ’83 is just finishing a<br />
four-lecture series for the Smithsonian’s<br />
“Campus on the Mall” program. Each<br />
of the talks explored a different period<br />
of Tennessee Williams’ work.<br />
Starting with a look at Williams’ own<br />
life and youthful writing in the first talk,<br />
Minwalla explored two of his major<br />
works—<strong>The</strong> Glass Menagerie and A Streetcar<br />
Named Desire—in the second; how Cat<br />
on a Hot Tin Roof was set in the prosperity<br />
of the postwar years in the third; and<br />
looked at Williams’ later plays in the fourth.<br />
“Desires and dreams are explored by<br />
no American playwright as brilliantly as<br />
they are by Tennessee Williams,”<br />
Minwalla explains. “His plays and short<br />
stories show us minds and bodies fractured<br />
by the pressures of an indifferent<br />
world intent on shaping individuals in<br />
its own image.”<br />
Minwalla also recently directed<br />
Bertolt Brecht’s one-act play <strong>The</strong> Baby<br />
Elephant at D.C.’s Arena Stage during<br />
their recent production of Brecht’s A<br />
Man’s a Man.<br />
“Since Brecht wrote this short piece<br />
to be performed in the lobby during<br />
intermissions for productions of his<br />
longer anti-war play,” said Minwalla,<br />
“Arena Stage, at my instigation, invited<br />
area colleges to participate by staging<br />
different versions of the short piece.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y also held a series of symposia on<br />
Brecht, and asked me to participate.”<br />
Earlier in his career, Minwalla spent five<br />
years as an actor and dramaturg with<br />
<strong>The</strong> Brecht Company at the University<br />
of Michigan-Ann Arbor.<br />
Minwalla is an assistant professor at<br />
George Washington University—teaching<br />
theater history, dramatic literature,<br />
and dramaturgy in the departments of<br />
English and of <strong>The</strong>ater and Dance—as<br />
well as an instructor with the Smithsonian<br />
Resident Associate Program. He earned his<br />
doctorate in fine arts at Yale <strong>School</strong> of<br />
Drama and taught in the Department of<br />
<strong>The</strong>ater at Dartmouth College for five<br />
years before moving to Washington.<br />
He is coeditor of <strong>The</strong> Queerest Art:<br />
Essays on Lesbian and Gay <strong>The</strong>ater<br />
(NYU Press, 2002) and is working on<br />
a new book tentatively titled History,<br />
Performance, Politics: Queer Essays on<br />
Making and Teaching <strong>The</strong>ater. He also<br />
serves on the advisory board for the<br />
Center for Lesbian and Gay Studies at<br />
the City University of New York’s<br />
Graduate Center.<br />
Last Boat to Cadiz<br />
Barnaby Conrad ’40<br />
Capra Press, 2003<br />
Employment with a Human Face<br />
John W. Budd ’83<br />
Cornell University Press, 2004<br />
Europe 1945: Hitler is dead, the<br />
Third Reich is an open wound….<br />
Amid the chaos, a man like no other<br />
makes his way south through France<br />
and into Spain. No one will stand<br />
in his way and live. Only idealistic young Wilson Tripp,<br />
American vice-consul in the city of Seville, stands to discover<br />
the man’s true identity and the stunning threat he poses.<br />
That is, if Tripp can survive.<br />
Author Barnaby Conrad was himself an American<br />
vice-consul in Seville during World War II. As an amateur<br />
bullfighter, he performed in Mexico, Spain, and Peru over<br />
a period of 15 years. He is the author of 32 books, including<br />
Matador, <strong>The</strong> Encyclopedia of Bullfighting, and Name<br />
Dropping, and is the founder and director of the Santa Barbara<br />
Writers’ Conference.<br />
“A master storyteller has done it again with a great tale about<br />
the very end of the world war set in a country he knows and<br />
loves so well.”<br />
—William F. Buckley Jr.<br />
John W. Budd contends that the<br />
turbulence of the workplace and the<br />
importance of work for individuals and<br />
society make it vitally important that<br />
employment be given “a human face.”<br />
Drawing on scholarship from industrial relations, law, political<br />
science, moral philosophy, theology, psychology, sociology,<br />
and economics, he argues that the traditional narrow focus on<br />
efficiency must be balanced with employees’ entitlement to<br />
fair treatment (equity) and the opportunity to have meaningful<br />
input into decisions (voice). Only through a greater respect<br />
for these human concerns can broadly shared prosperity, respect<br />
for human dignity, and equal appreciation for the<br />
competing human rights of property and labor be achieved.<br />
Budd is Industrial Relations Landgrant Term Professor at the<br />
Carlson <strong>School</strong> of Management at the University of Minnesota.<br />
“Employment with a Human Face will quickly be viewed as a<br />
classic statement of the first principles underlying the study and<br />
practice of modern human resources and industrial relations.”<br />
—Thomas A. Kochan, MIT Sloan <strong>School</strong> of Management
IN PRINT<br />
Designing Daughter<br />
“This book was born of necessity,” writes<br />
Leslie Banker ’88 of <strong>The</strong> Pocket Decorator<br />
(below). “About five years ago I started<br />
working at my mother’s interior design<br />
firm, and although I had a general knowledge<br />
of decorating—gained through a<br />
lifelong proximity to my mother’s<br />
work—I was less certain of its specifics.<br />
Fortunately, I had a treasure trove of<br />
information available in my mother.”<br />
Banker began asking questions and<br />
keeping a notebook to record what she<br />
learned; <strong>The</strong> Pocket Decorator is a polished<br />
version of that overstuffed notebook.<br />
This visual primer of interior design<br />
is small enough to slip into your pocket.<br />
With chapters on fabrics, floor treatments,<br />
furniture, hardware, lighting, trimmings,<br />
upholstery, walls, and windows, and sidebars<br />
on such topics as how to buy a lampshade<br />
or decorate in the country style, “It’s like<br />
having your own personal decorator in your<br />
pocket wherever you go,” says Banker.<br />
Leslie Banker ’88 and her mother/mentor Pamela Banker ALI PRICE<br />
“A lot of design books are big and<br />
heavy,” she says, “not the sort of thing you<br />
want to lug around to a meeting with an<br />
architect, an upholsterer, or while shopping.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> pocket-sized volume includes vocabulary,<br />
some history, and stylistic ideas<br />
along with beautifully detailed illustrations.<br />
“For me,” writes Banker, “writing<br />
this book was a unique opportunity to<br />
learn and understand more about what<br />
my mother has been doing since before I<br />
was even born.”<br />
Dreadful Conversions:<br />
<strong>The</strong> Making of a Catholic Socialist<br />
John C. Cort ’35<br />
Fordham University Press, 2003<br />
For more than 50 years, John C. Cort<br />
has been at the center of most of the<br />
social movements of our time, fighting<br />
good fights in dozens of campaigns for<br />
justice, peace, and human rights. Labor leader, community organizer,<br />
writer/editor on <strong>The</strong> Catholic Worker, here is his<br />
story—the measure of an exemplary life and a vivid chronicle of<br />
American activism. At its heart, this is also the story of what it<br />
means to take seriously the distinctively radical Catholic vision<br />
that informs American political and religious life in this century.<br />
Cort is now coeditor of Religious Socialism, a quarterly<br />
he hopes to revive, and author of Christian Socialism: An<br />
Informal History.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Pocket Decorator<br />
Pamela and Leslie Banker ’88<br />
Universe Publishing, 2004<br />
(see above)<br />
“Cort crafted Dreadful Conversions to be as much philosophical<br />
primer as autobiography, as much intellectual journey as recollection<br />
of days past…. He always eyed a life of political activism<br />
through the lens of his Catholic faith, but not until the mid-1970s<br />
did this focus prompt a second conversion: to socialism.”<br />
—Lee Hudson Teslik, Harvard Magazine<br />
<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Spring 2004<br />
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AROUND THE POND<br />
pond<br />
<strong>School</strong> Acquires Historic King James Bible<br />
<strong>The</strong> newest archival acquisition for <strong>Taft</strong>’s Sacred Texts<br />
collection is a 1616 King James Bible. <strong>The</strong> first edition<br />
of the King James Bible to be printed in a “lectern<br />
folio” size and intended for use at Cambridge and<br />
Oxford, it was published only five years after the original<br />
King James Pulpit Bible. <strong>The</strong> 1616 first edition<br />
corrected any printing errors and includes additional<br />
research material not found in the 1611 version.<br />
An Anglican Book of Common Prayer, an illustrated<br />
genealogy of Christ, a standard Psalter, a<br />
metrical Psalter (with musical notation), and a map<br />
of the Holy Land “distinguish the academic provenance<br />
of this very rare first edition,” says Chaplain<br />
Michael Spencer. “Its acquisition underscores <strong>Taft</strong>’s<br />
continued commitment to religious diversity and<br />
interfaith understanding.”<br />
“This nearly 400-year-old Bible is probably the<br />
most significant archival addition the school has<br />
made,” Headmaster Willy MacMullen said. “Together<br />
with the purchase of the historic Torah last year, I think<br />
<strong>Taft</strong> has done something powerfully symbolic and<br />
unprecedented among private non-sectarian schools.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> acquisition was made possible by the generosity<br />
of Alan and Ann Blanchard, parents of James ’03.<br />
A detail of “<strong>The</strong> Tree of Life” from the book of<br />
Genesis in the school’s newly acquired 1616 first edition<br />
King James Bible dedicated in Walker Hall on April 15.<br />
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<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Spring 2004
AROUND THE POND<br />
Noises Off<br />
SAMUEL DANGREMOND ’05<br />
No Need for<br />
Global Warning<br />
Retired geologist and professor<br />
emeritus Lucian Platt ’49 came to<br />
campus to talk with environmental<br />
studies students in Laube Auditorium<br />
in January. “I’m trying to<br />
improve science teaching in city<br />
schools,” Lucian told classmates at<br />
his last reunion, “and give talks<br />
aimed at reducing alarm about global<br />
warming, which has been going<br />
on for centuries.”<br />
Susannah Walden ’06, Mariel Montuori ’04, Camden Flath ’05, and Lily Cowles ’05 performed<br />
the farcical play-within-a-play Noises Off for audiences on Mothers’ Day weekend.<br />
SAMUEL DANGREMOND ’05<br />
PETER FREW ’75<br />
A Little Bit of Scotland Comes to Life in Walker Hall<br />
<strong>The</strong> Baltimore Consort—a sextet of<br />
musicians renowned for their revival of<br />
the popular music of the Renaissance—<br />
performed in Walker Hall in March.<br />
<strong>The</strong> lively concert focused on the early<br />
music of Scotland, including songs from<br />
their latest CD, Adew Dundee, and the<br />
earlier On the Banks of Helicon. <strong>The</strong>y<br />
played a variety of period instruments—<br />
lute, viol, flute, cittern, bagpipe, early<br />
guitar, rebec, recorder, and crumhorn.<br />
Founded in 1980, the Baltimore<br />
Consort has toured extensively in the<br />
U.S.A. and Europe. <strong>The</strong>ir numerous<br />
recordings have earned a place on the<br />
Billboard Magazine Top-Ten list, and<br />
Billboard named the group one of<br />
the Top Classical Crossover Artists<br />
for 1993. For more information, visit<br />
www.baltcons.com.<br />
<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Spring 2004<br />
9
AROUND THE POND<br />
PETER FREW ’75<br />
Wilson Quartet Wows Jazz Fans<br />
“<strong>The</strong> Matt Wilson Quartet was so utterly<br />
inspiring,” said instrumental music director<br />
T.J. Thompson. “Rarely have I heard a<br />
group pour so much energy, emotion, and<br />
imagination into their playing. <strong>The</strong>y have<br />
almost completely redefined the genre of<br />
jazz, and they are quite hilarious to boot!”<br />
In addition to the Walker Hall concert,<br />
the quartet held a workshop for<br />
students on the following morning.<br />
“<strong>The</strong>ir workshop helped the kids find<br />
ways to make the music fun and to play<br />
with much more conviction and enthusiasm,”<br />
Thompson said. “It was the perfect<br />
cure for an early Saturday morning class<br />
in one of the coldest winters in decades.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y were terrific.”<br />
Celebrating<br />
Martin Luther<br />
King Jr.<br />
Michael Ficarra, the founder of<br />
Equality for All Races, was the featured<br />
guest speaker on Dr. Martin<br />
Luther King Jr.’s birthday. <strong>The</strong><br />
mission of EFAR is to take “an aggressive<br />
approach to eliminate the<br />
ignorant belief that an individual’s<br />
character, integrity, and human<br />
rights are based on the color of his<br />
or her skin or ethnic background.”<br />
His visit and all of the activities on<br />
the following Monday were sponsored<br />
by the Diversity Committee.<br />
Instead of classes, students were<br />
treated to the Gospel choir SIII and<br />
the Truth, followed by an African<br />
Dance Workshop and a poetry presentation<br />
by Spoken Word. <strong>The</strong><br />
highlight of the day for many was<br />
an International Food Festival in<br />
Armstrong Dining Hall, followed<br />
by a salsa, tango, and merengue<br />
performance in the Choral Room<br />
after dinner.<br />
Making Moves<br />
As Rockwell Visiting Artists, Pilobolus<br />
Dance <strong>The</strong>ater members Emily Kent<br />
and Rebecca Jung presented a special<br />
half-hour lecture demonstration in<br />
<strong>School</strong> Meeting in January and worked<br />
with dance classes throughout the day.<br />
Pilobolus is a major American dance<br />
company of international stature that<br />
originated in a Dartmouth College<br />
dance class in 1971. <strong>The</strong> group is<br />
acclaimed for its mix of humor and<br />
creative invention, its members choreographing,<br />
dancing, managing, and<br />
publicizing their own programs.<br />
PETER FREW ’75
JACKIE MALONEY<br />
AROUND THE POND<br />
Alumni on Ice<br />
Forty alumni returned on January 24<br />
to play in the alumni hockey game.<br />
<strong>The</strong> near-record turnout was thanks to<br />
Jake Odden ’86, who spearheaded the<br />
event when early responses indicated<br />
there might not be enough interest.<br />
Ironically, circumstances prevented<br />
him from attending, namely the birth<br />
of his second child.<br />
La Bottega II (A Family Portrait), oil on linen, 26" x 52"<br />
Langdon Quin: Paintings and Works on Paper<br />
For many, Langdon Quin’s rich landscapes<br />
and colorful still lifes brightened<br />
up a long Watertown winter. Quin ’66<br />
returned to campus for the opening,<br />
presenting a talk that morning at <strong>School</strong><br />
Meeting about his decision to pursue<br />
art as a career, and the influence of<br />
the later Mark Potter ’48 on his work.<br />
A graduate of Yale University’s M.F.A.<br />
program, Quin is represented by Kraushaar<br />
Galleries in New York and Hackett-<br />
Freeman Gallery in San Francisco.<br />
Currently teaching at the University<br />
of New Hampshire, he has also taught<br />
at Boston University, Cornell, Vassar,<br />
SUNY, Skidmore, and Washington and<br />
Lee, among others. His many honors<br />
include a Louis Comfort Tiffany Award,<br />
a New York Foundation for the Arts<br />
Award, a Fulbright Hays Grant for<br />
study in Italy, and a National Endowment<br />
for the Arts Award. Quin’s work<br />
was on exhibit in the Mark W. Potter<br />
Gallery from January 29 to March 6.<br />
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AROUND THE POND<br />
In Brief<br />
Art Honors<br />
Antonia Fraker ’04 received an honorable<br />
mention in the Connecticut<br />
Scholastic Art Awards for one of<br />
her pencil drawings, which was on<br />
display at the Hartford Art <strong>School</strong><br />
Gallery, University of Hartford,<br />
from January 18 to February 6.<br />
Onward to All-State Festival<br />
Eleven students attended the<br />
Connecticut Music Educators<br />
Association Northern Regional<br />
Festival in January, culminating in<br />
a concert in New Britain. Each<br />
was chosen after auditioning in<br />
November with other high school<br />
students from the Northwest corner<br />
of Connecticut.<br />
“It is an honor to be selected,”<br />
said Art Department head Bruce<br />
Fifer. <strong>The</strong> regionals are the first<br />
step in the process leading up to<br />
the All-State Music Festival held<br />
in Hartford in April.<br />
Six singers from <strong>Taft</strong>’s Collegium<br />
Musicum: Lila Claghorn ’04, Joanna<br />
Quayle ’05, Lauren Malaspina ’04,<br />
Paul Sorokin ’05, Jon McDonald ’05,<br />
and Arden Klemmer ’05 sang with<br />
the Northern Regional Choir.<br />
<strong>Taft</strong> Chamber Ensemble musicians<br />
Caroline Berger ’06 and<br />
Christina Lewis ’04 performed<br />
with the Northern Regional<br />
Concert Band; Jason Kim ’06,<br />
Vivian Chiang ’04, and Doris Kim<br />
’04 performed with the Northern<br />
Regional Orchestra.<br />
Coaching All-Star<br />
Congratulations to Will Orben<br />
’92 who was selected as coach of<br />
the year by Connecticut Soccer<br />
Coaches Association.<br />
Treasure Maps<br />
Frank Runyeon, a nationally renowned<br />
speaker in the area of mass media and<br />
ethics, spoke at <strong>School</strong> Meeting on “Treasure:<br />
Life After Prep <strong>School</strong>, What <strong>The</strong>y<br />
Don’t Tell You.” He also visited philosophy<br />
and public-speaking classes and was<br />
available to students throughout the day<br />
as an artist-in-residence.<br />
Runyeon has worked in television,<br />
film, and radio for over 25 years. He is<br />
best known for his work on TV, appearing<br />
in more than 1,000 television<br />
programs as diverse as Melrose Place,<br />
Falcon Crest, LA Law, and his starring<br />
role opposite Meg Ryan for seven years<br />
in As the World Turns.<br />
His talk, sponsored by the Paduano<br />
Lecture Series in Philosophy and Ethics,<br />
In Tune with the Yale Symphony<br />
<strong>The</strong> Chamber Ensemble traveled to<br />
Yale to perform for Yale Symphony<br />
Orchestra conductor Maestro Hahm<br />
in February.<br />
“<strong>The</strong> workshop involved us playing,<br />
getting some feedback, and then<br />
combined his knowledge and experience<br />
in Hollywood with his academic background.<br />
He attended the Hill <strong>School</strong>,<br />
Princeton University, and studied at<br />
Fuller Seminary, Yale Divinity <strong>School</strong>,<br />
and General <strong>The</strong>ological Seminary in<br />
New York.<br />
hearing and talking with some of<br />
the orchestra members about what it<br />
takes to be a musician at the college<br />
level,” said instrumental music director<br />
T.J. Thompson. “It was a great<br />
opportunity for all of us.”<br />
SAMUEL DANGREMOND ’05<br />
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Canine Rescue<br />
Makes Local<br />
Headlines<br />
SAMUEL DANGREMOND ’05<br />
A walk according to Garp<br />
A teacher walking her dog is a familiar<br />
enough sight on any campus, but<br />
for history teacher Rachel Ryan, one<br />
Sunday morning walk went seriously<br />
awry. At the end of winter break,<br />
Ryan’s five-year-old yellow Labrador,<br />
Garp, turned their outing into a halfday<br />
affair when he decided to explore<br />
a narrow drainpipe by the tennis<br />
courts and couldn’t get out.<br />
Ensuing efforts to dislodge him involved<br />
the local animal control officer,<br />
the fire department, school security,<br />
and members of the grounds crew.<br />
“I’ve received many phone calls at<br />
home over the years regarding the failures<br />
of heat, water, et cetera, but this<br />
has probably been the most bizarre,”<br />
said Jim Shepard, head of the Facilities<br />
Department.<br />
Garp emerged four and a half<br />
hours later, soggy and muddy but un-<br />
harmed, and ran into the arms of Ryan<br />
and husband Greg Hawes ’85.<br />
Garp, who had crawled 250 feet in<br />
from the pipe’s entrance, received a thorough<br />
bath after his grimy experience,<br />
which is for him “the closest thing to a<br />
punishment,” said Hawes. Ryan and<br />
Hawes, however, were doomed to relive<br />
the experience throughout the week, as<br />
the Waterbury Republican, Town Times,<br />
and <strong>Taft</strong> Papyrus all carried the story.<br />
Sources: Waterbury Republican; Town Times;<br />
Samuel Dangremond ’05, <strong>Taft</strong> Papyrus<br />
PETER FREW ’75<br />
Squash Finals<br />
In an interesting turn of events, the<br />
finals of a January U.S. Squash Rackets<br />
Association tournament, which began<br />
at Choate, were held on <strong>Taft</strong>’s courts<br />
since the finalists were all <strong>Taft</strong> students.<br />
In the Under-19 draw, Tucker George<br />
’04 (1st seed) faced Gordon McMorris<br />
’03 (3rd seed). In the Under-17 draw,<br />
Michael Shrubb ’06 (1st seed) faced<br />
Peter Irving ’06 (2nd seed). <strong>The</strong> day<br />
presented a rare opportunity for <strong>Taft</strong><br />
fans to cheer for all participants. Tucker<br />
George and Michael Shrubb won out<br />
in their respective divisions; Alastair<br />
Smith ’05 won the consolation bracket<br />
of the Under-19s. (For more on the<br />
squash season, see page 14.)<br />
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S P O R T<br />
sport<br />
By Steve Palmer<br />
Girls’ Basketball 16–5<br />
With double wins over rivals Hotchkiss and<br />
Loomis, the girls earned a tournament seeding<br />
for the fourth year in a row. Despite<br />
losing two key players mid-season, this team<br />
distinguished itself with outstanding overall<br />
defense. All Founders League guard Keri<br />
Gritt ’04 was the best outside shooter, and<br />
forward Sha-kayla Crockett ’05 was a New<br />
England Class A All Star. However, offensively<br />
and in nearly every category, senior<br />
captain Katie McCabe led the way, averaging<br />
17 points and 10 rebounds per game<br />
this season. She also became <strong>Taft</strong>’s first ever<br />
1,000-point scorer. A member of the varsity<br />
for all four years at <strong>Taft</strong>, she was named<br />
a First Team New England Class A All Star<br />
for her junior and senior years.<br />
Boys’ Basketball 2–21<br />
<strong>The</strong> team began the season with five new<br />
starters after the apparent season-ending<br />
injury to All-League guard Brian Baudinet<br />
’04. Senior guard Tyler Whitley led the<br />
team through a season of close games<br />
against some very talented teams, especially<br />
from Berkshire, Trinity-Pawling, and<br />
Loomis, who all made the New England<br />
tournament. In fact, the Rhinos battled<br />
#3 ranked T-P down to the final minute<br />
late in the season. When Baudinet did<br />
return to action, <strong>Taft</strong> blew out Avon<br />
69–49 for only their second win and then<br />
nearly upset a strong Salisbury team<br />
behind his 37 points. Whitley and captain-elect<br />
David Halas ’05 were Founders<br />
League All Stars, and Sam Smythe ’05<br />
finished 2nd in the league in 3-point<br />
shooting (39.1 percent). Despite missing<br />
19 of their 23 games this year, Brian<br />
Baudinet still finished his remarkable<br />
four-year career as the boys’ all-time leading<br />
scorer with 950 points.<br />
Ski Racing<br />
Competing in the Berkshire Ski League<br />
and the New England Class C Division,<br />
the boys’ and girls’ teams battled Loomis,<br />
Berkshire, and Suffield on a regular basis.<br />
Middler Wiley Johnston and captain Will<br />
Rickards ’06 provided leadership for the<br />
boys’ team, while newcomer Harry Weyher<br />
’07 and Nick Wirth ’06 placed highest at<br />
the NEPSAC Slalom championships—<br />
18th and 19th respectively out of 70 skiers.<br />
<strong>The</strong> team placed 8th out of 15 and, combined<br />
with the girls’ team, finished the<br />
season in 5th place in the BSL. Maggie<br />
Seay ’07 led the girls’ to a 7th place finish<br />
in the NEPSAC C Championships with<br />
a 12th place finish in the slalom. Uppermid<br />
Mercer Wu and captain Hillary Lewis<br />
’04 were 20th and 21st out of 50 skiers.<br />
Boys’ Squash 12–2<br />
Once again the <strong>Taft</strong> squash team distinguished<br />
itself with stellar performances<br />
and first-rate sportsmanship, finishing 3rd<br />
at the New England Championships.<br />
Though they were not able to repeat as<br />
New England champs, the <strong>Taft</strong> players did<br />
dominate the Founders League as they<br />
have for over a decade. <strong>The</strong>y earned the<br />
New England Sportsmanship Award for<br />
the third time in the last four years—an<br />
impressive honor for coach Peter Frew<br />
and this whole program. Captain Tucker<br />
George ’04 led the team all season at the<br />
#1 spot, but this team was strong all the<br />
way down the ladder. In fact, Ben<br />
Macaskill ’05, Sam Beatt ’07, Peter Irving<br />
’06, and Alastair Smith ’05 all made it to<br />
the New England finals in the 7th, 6th,<br />
5th, and 4th draws respectively while senior<br />
Gordon McMorris placed 3rd in the<br />
#3 spot and Michael Shrubb ’06 won the<br />
#2 consolation bracket.<br />
Girls’ Squash 10–2<br />
If last year’s team was the best in school<br />
history, this year’s squad would have<br />
battled them to the final point; the girls<br />
finished tied for 2nd at the New England<br />
Championships and defeated every opponent<br />
aside from eight-time champion<br />
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S P O R T<br />
Greenwich Academy. Once again, senior<br />
Supriya Balsekar won the individual New<br />
England title (that makes 3) to complete<br />
an undefeated career at <strong>Taft</strong>—her individual<br />
match record stands at 48–0 and<br />
the team never finished lower than third<br />
in New England in her three years. In the<br />
words of coach Bogardus, “Supriya has<br />
brought <strong>Taft</strong> squash to a new level.” Such<br />
success was again duplicated by Sydney<br />
Scott’s repeat championship in the #2 spot.<br />
In fact, Scott powered through the season<br />
without coming close to losing a single<br />
game. Highlights include a 6–1 win over<br />
Deerfield and two exciting 4–3 wins over<br />
Hotchkiss, where captain-elect Margot<br />
Webel ’05 fought back from 0–2 down to<br />
win both matches.<br />
Girls’ Hockey 13–7–4<br />
Founders League Co-Champions<br />
Having graduated several Division I recruits,<br />
this was the youngest girls’ hockey<br />
team in many years. <strong>The</strong>ir success rested<br />
heavily on the seniors; Kerry Kiley,<br />
Katherine Simmons, and Emily Morris<br />
formed a rock solid defense, while Jaclyn<br />
Hawkins provided the critical goals in all<br />
those close games on the way to an 8th<br />
seed in the New England Tournament.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y lost the 1st round game to Nobles,<br />
who repeated as New England champions,<br />
but to get there this team pulled out<br />
several unexpected triumphs, including<br />
tying the top three teams in New England<br />
(Berkshire 2–2, Cushing 3–3, and<br />
undefeated Nobles 1–1). <strong>The</strong>ir most<br />
exciting win came at Choate, down 2–0,<br />
with three third-period goals for a 3–2<br />
victory and a share of the Founders<br />
League title. Hawkins was the team’s<br />
high scorer and a New England All<br />
Star. Blueliners Morris and Kiley, along<br />
with forward Tucker Marrison ’04, were<br />
Founders League All Stars.<br />
Boys’ Hockey 17–6–1<br />
Founders League Champions<br />
For the 7th time in eight years the <strong>Taft</strong><br />
boys’ hockey team entered the New<br />
England Tournament ranked near the top.<br />
<strong>The</strong>ir season included powerful wins over<br />
Salisbury (5–2) and Hotchkiss (6–1). In<br />
what has turned into a spectacular rivalry,<br />
<strong>Taft</strong> again drew Salisbury in the first<br />
round of the tournament. This year’s<br />
game proved to be one of the finest prepschool<br />
contests in recent memory, and<br />
Mike Maher’s squad found themselves<br />
down 2–0 on Salisbury’s home ice. A<br />
perfect man-up goal late in the 2nd by<br />
senior Keith Shattenkirk and an early<br />
3rd-period goal from middler Luke<br />
Popko created the scene for Matt Smith’s<br />
game winner with two minutes left. <strong>The</strong><br />
Rhinos had every chance to win their<br />
semifinal game, but it was Tabor who<br />
scored late in the 3rd period to break a<br />
3–3 tie and go on to the finals. Senior TJ<br />
Kelley began the season injured but<br />
ended up as the leading scorer (24 goals),<br />
due in part to the fine play of linemates<br />
Popko and co-captain Tom Maldonado<br />
’04. Seniors Will Reycraft, Sam Driver,<br />
Brendan Milnamow, and J.D. McCabe<br />
anchored the defense. With 14 seniors<br />
moving on to college hockey ranks and<br />
Coach Maher finishing up after his 18th<br />
season, <strong>Taft</strong> hockey will start something<br />
of a new era next year. In his time here,<br />
Maher has built a legacy of excellence on<br />
and off the ice. His teams have brought<br />
honor to the school with their success,<br />
their spirit, and their sportsmanship. For<br />
the second time in his career, Maher<br />
was awarded the National Ice Hockey<br />
Officials Coach of the Year Sportsmanship<br />
Award. <strong>The</strong> boys’ record for the past<br />
five years stands at 100–16–7.<br />
Wrestling 8–10<br />
Posting key victories over Avon (35–34)<br />
and Suffield (37–36), the squad was a<br />
young one, with underclassmen starting<br />
8 of the 14 varsity spots. Leading the way<br />
were senior co-captains Jon Acquaviva and<br />
Alex Bisset. Acquaviva came back from a<br />
second knee operation to place 6th at the<br />
Western New England Championships;<br />
Bisset led the team with a 21–6 record,<br />
a 2nd place finish at 215 lbs. at the<br />
Westerns, and his tough, no-nonsense<br />
leadership all season. Freshman Dante<br />
Paolino and middler Toren Kutnick also<br />
placed at the Western Championships.<br />
Supriya Balsekar ’04 won the individual<br />
New England title (for the third year in a<br />
row) to complete an undefeated career at<br />
<strong>Taft</strong>—her individual match record stands at<br />
48–0 and the team never finished lower than<br />
third in New England in her three years.<br />
Captain Katie McCabe ’04 averaged 17<br />
points and 10 rebounds per game this season<br />
and became <strong>Taft</strong>’s first ever 1,000-point scorer.<br />
Linemates Luke Popko ’06 and co-captain<br />
Tom Maldonado ’04 in a win over Lawrenceville<br />
PHOTOGRAPHY BY PETER FREW ’75
LESLIE MANNING ARCHIVES<br />
Making All the<br />
Difference<br />
Fitting in, conforming to the norm, can be among the most difficult<br />
pressures teens face. For students of color, alumni say, those pressures<br />
brought additional feelings of loneliness and isolation.<br />
By Bonnie Blackburn Penhollow ’84
LESLIE MANNING ARCHIVES<br />
S<br />
aturday nights at <strong>Taft</strong> have<br />
long been a chance to<br />
blow off steam, watching<br />
movies and socializing<br />
with classmates.<br />
For Wayne Jackson ’57, they were<br />
torture.<br />
“I would go outside alone and sit on<br />
a bench on the sideline of the soccer field,<br />
where I played varsity soccer for the<br />
school. It was freezing cold, and tears<br />
would roll down my face. That’s how<br />
isolated and alone I felt.”<br />
As the school’s first black student,<br />
Jackson endured catcalls of “nigger,”<br />
disbelieving stares and condescension.<br />
A native of Bermuda, where he still resides,<br />
Jackson entered <strong>Taft</strong> as a middler<br />
in 1954, just after the historic Supreme<br />
Court decision ordering the desegregation<br />
of American public schools.<br />
When Jackson arrived at <strong>Taft</strong>, he was<br />
told he would have to start as a lower<br />
mid, that he would have no roommate,<br />
and that he would have to be chaperoned<br />
when visiting girls’ schools.<br />
“Can you imagine how I felt—and<br />
still do,” he recalled. “This was the first<br />
day of what would be the loneliest three<br />
years of my life.”<br />
Though he successfully lobbied to<br />
remain a mid, Jackson said he was an oddity.<br />
He recalled one Mothers’ Day, passing<br />
a mother and her son in the corridor.<br />
“When I turned around, the mother<br />
had stopped dead in her tracks and was<br />
staring at me, probably in dumbfounded<br />
disbelief,” he said.<br />
“Being made to feel separate and<br />
different, and sometimes inferior, together<br />
with the consequent loneliness<br />
and ostracism—these were the worst,”<br />
he remembers.<br />
“I was tolerated,” he said. “But in<br />
fairness, my presence at <strong>Taft</strong> was new, something<br />
in the whole previous history of the<br />
school they had not dealt with before.”<br />
Although the first black student,<br />
Jackson was not the first minority. From<br />
the school’s earliest days, students from<br />
other cultures have attended <strong>Taft</strong>. One was<br />
Julio Rodriguez ’45 from Puerto Rico.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Beta tennis team in 1957<br />
<strong>The</strong> cover of the Bulletin from the fall of<br />
1964 assembled students and faculty who<br />
brought with them “a personal knowledge<br />
of life in foreign lands,” even if only for a<br />
summer. Clockwise from left, Roland Simon,<br />
Phillip Young, Alex Chu ’66, Thomas<br />
Baldwin ’65, George Dunlop, Stephen<br />
Armstrong ’65, John Esty, Leslie Manning,<br />
and Sam Kinuthia ’65. A similar “diversity”<br />
photograph today would include more than<br />
half the campus.<br />
“<strong>Taft</strong> opened the<br />
door to the<br />
wonderful world<br />
of education and<br />
career opportunities<br />
that have<br />
characterized my<br />
adult life.”<br />
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LESLIE MANNING ARCHIVES<br />
Afro-American Congress at <strong>Taft</strong> (ACT)<br />
from the 1972 Annual, seated from left,<br />
Aaron Williams '75, Elizabeth Dixon '73,<br />
Kevin Jones '73, Karen Stevenson '75, John<br />
Hare '75; standing, Carl Taylor '74, James<br />
Holloman '73, Michael Rubin '74, Moses<br />
Marshall '73, Zachary Highsmith '73, and<br />
Russel Jones '75. President Lee Keitt '72,<br />
Claude Williams '73, and Charisse Rivera<br />
'74 were not pictured.<br />
“I felt like<br />
others wanted<br />
me to assimilate<br />
rather than to<br />
learn about me<br />
and my culture.”<br />
“I’m very proud of my time at <strong>Taft</strong>,”<br />
he said from his home on the island. “I<br />
enjoyed my time there.”<br />
Rodriguez, who is now retired from<br />
the military, said his father, a commissions<br />
broker, thought <strong>Taft</strong> would be a<br />
good place for him.<br />
“I was pretty wild,” he said with a<br />
chuckle. “<strong>The</strong>y tamed me. I made the<br />
honor roll, and I was very proud of that.”<br />
Rodriguez said he didn’t recall<br />
any racial incidents or any overt acts<br />
of discrimination.<br />
When Manuel Rocha ’69 entered<br />
the school in the fall of 1965, the country<br />
was in the grip of racial unrest that<br />
spawned riots in Harlem, where Rocha<br />
lived with his mother and siblings.<br />
“I was born in Colombia and moved<br />
to the States after my father died, when I<br />
was 10 years old. My mother, sister, brother,<br />
and I moved in with my uncle who lived<br />
in Harlem. Hence, my first exposure to the<br />
States was ghetto life. My mother worked<br />
in a sweatshop sewing factory, while we<br />
attended public school and made do with<br />
welfare and food stamps assistance. I was a<br />
Hispanic living in a predominantly black<br />
cultural environment.”<br />
In 1964, Harlem burned in a race<br />
riot, prompting an attempt to lift children<br />
of the ghetto into a different world.<br />
Rocha was one of them.<br />
“In 1965 I won an ABC (A Better<br />
Chance) scholarship to attend <strong>Taft</strong>,”<br />
he said. “<strong>Taft</strong> was the best thing that<br />
happened to my life. <strong>Taft</strong> opened the<br />
door to the wonderful world of education<br />
and career opportunities that have characterized<br />
my adult life. I went to Yale,<br />
Harvard, and Georgetown because of<br />
<strong>Taft</strong>. Without <strong>Taft</strong> opening those doors,<br />
I would not have had the incredibly successful<br />
Foreign Service career I have had.”<br />
Rocha served as U.S. ambassador<br />
to Bolivia prior to his recent retirement<br />
from the U.S. State Department. He<br />
also served in Cuba, the Dominican<br />
Republic, Mexico, Italy, and Honduras.<br />
An internationally known expert on<br />
Latin American affairs, Rocha now works<br />
for a law firm in Miami.<br />
Only one racial incident at <strong>Taft</strong> still<br />
stands out in Rocha’s mind.<br />
“My closest friend from my lowermid<br />
year refused my offer to be roommates<br />
because he felt that if his sisters visited and<br />
saw who his roommate was, they would<br />
not think twice later of dating a black<br />
man,” he said. “I was devastated and considered<br />
suicide. Mr. Small, my Latin and<br />
track coach, listened to me and helped me<br />
overcome the only significant rejection I<br />
have ever experienced in my entire life.”<br />
Though he was Hispanic, Rocha was<br />
named head of the school’s black student<br />
association.<br />
“My ghetto experience and my ability<br />
to deal in that world made me<br />
acceptable to all the black kids,” he said.<br />
During that time, Rocha said he proposed<br />
helping white students understand<br />
what it is to be a minority by putting one<br />
white student in a group of black students.<br />
“<strong>The</strong>n, for the first time, they’re the<br />
minority,” he said. “I was told to drop<br />
the proposal, that it would create problems<br />
for (students’) families. I tried to<br />
explain that it was a way for the majority<br />
to understand how the minority would<br />
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feel. <strong>The</strong> school was walking very lightly<br />
through those years.”<br />
By the time Karen Stevenson ’75<br />
entered the school, being black wasn’t as<br />
strange as being one of the first females<br />
to attend the previously all-male school.<br />
“We kind of went through this initiation,”<br />
she recalled. “We had the experience<br />
of the school getting used to girls and the<br />
girls getting used to the school.”<br />
Stevenson and Rocha both noted<br />
that coming from an inner-city environment—and<br />
a lower economic<br />
background—was another factor that<br />
separated them from their classmates.<br />
“My experience and these kids’<br />
experience were very different,” said<br />
Stevenson, who grew up in Washington,<br />
D.C. “I had no idea where Boca Raton<br />
was. I was much more aware of the<br />
fact that these kids have such a sense<br />
of entitlement to the best of everything.”<br />
Stevenson also felt Jackson’s sense<br />
of apartness.<br />
“It was tough,” she admitted. “<strong>The</strong>re<br />
was an incredible sense of loneliness.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re was no interracial dating. I didn’t<br />
have boyfriends in high school. Nobody<br />
was going to date me. I got a lot of grief<br />
from the black kids for being smart. I<br />
felt I wasn’t really fitting in either place.”<br />
Stevenson—a Rhodes Scholar—still<br />
said <strong>Taft</strong> “was an amazing experience<br />
intellectually. It was the greatest thing<br />
that ever happened to me to get me out<br />
of the inner city.”<br />
She now is an attorney practicing<br />
business litigation in Los Angeles.<br />
Alex Chu ’66 came to Watertown<br />
from Hong Kong after spending a year<br />
at a parochial school in Massachusetts.<br />
His immersion in the high-stakes world<br />
of <strong>Taft</strong> academics left little time to notice<br />
any slurs on his background.<br />
“<strong>The</strong>re was name-calling, caricatures,<br />
nothing really drastic,” he said. “<strong>The</strong> normal<br />
pranks that one would play. Do you<br />
take it in jest or in a more serious, undermining<br />
way? Your own personal makeup<br />
[determines] how you take it.”<br />
Chu, now president of Eastbank in<br />
New York City and a former <strong>Taft</strong> trustee,<br />
credits headmaster emeritus Lance Odden,<br />
then a history teacher, with helping him<br />
keep up with modern Chinese history.<br />
Chu said younger teachers, such as<br />
Odden, helped him academically, while<br />
watching to see how he would integrate<br />
into the <strong>Taft</strong> student body.<br />
“<strong>The</strong> younger faculty were interested<br />
in my thinking,” he noted. “<strong>The</strong>y were<br />
curious about how I would handle things.<br />
A lot of the faculty had not visited foreign<br />
countries in those days.”<br />
As the only Asian student, Chu saw<br />
himself as a role model.<br />
“You’re the ambassador. You somehow<br />
have to have enough confidence in<br />
your values and your culture,” he said.<br />
“Nobody does when you’re 14 or 15.”<br />
Still, “I was able to influence a number<br />
of my classmates, [and provide] a<br />
refreshing look at the Chinese language,<br />
and through me the Chinese culture,”<br />
he added.<br />
Cassandra Chia-Wei Pan ’77 was the<br />
only Asian female student on campus,<br />
coming to <strong>Taft</strong> for her senior year from<br />
Hong Kong.<br />
“I was brought up in a traditional<br />
Chinese family with strong belief in academic<br />
excellence. I was your typical<br />
naïve and hardworking student from<br />
Asia,” she said.<br />
Pardo de Tavera brothers: <strong>School</strong>’s first international students<br />
<strong>The</strong> school’s first experience with<br />
diversity began with William Howard<br />
<strong>Taft</strong>’s appointment as governor of<br />
the Philippines in 1900 after the<br />
Spanish-American War.<br />
Among his chief advisers there was<br />
Dr. T.H. Pardo de Tavera, head of one<br />
of Manila’s more prominent families<br />
and a member of the Honorary Board<br />
of Filipino Commissioners.<br />
In 1904, Pardo de Tavera sent his<br />
two sons, Carlos ’09 and Alfredo ’11,<br />
off to Watertown, Conn., to study at<br />
the school run by Governor <strong>Taft</strong>’s<br />
younger brother.<br />
Although the boys did not<br />
graduate, they stayed for three years,<br />
returning to Manila in 1907. Little<br />
is known about their time here.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y were, however, already world<br />
travelers, coming to the U.S.<br />
from a stay in Paris and spending<br />
other summers in Tokyo.<br />
In August 1904, William<br />
Howard <strong>Taft</strong> writes, “I sincerely<br />
hope that you will<br />
find the Tavera boys all right.<br />
Of course, it is something of<br />
an experiment, but we have all<br />
made some experiments with the<br />
Filipinos and there is no reason why<br />
you should not have your share. Your<br />
affectionate brother, Will”<br />
Young Robert <strong>Taft</strong> ’05, William’s<br />
older son, was in his second year at the<br />
school when the Pardo de Tavera boys<br />
arrived, and they spent the Christmas<br />
holidays with the <strong>Taft</strong> family in<br />
Alfredo<br />
Washington, where William<br />
was now secretary of war, and<br />
visited again in March.<br />
Writing to Dr. Pardo<br />
de Tavera, <strong>Taft</strong> said, “I<br />
am glad to say, my dear<br />
Doctor, that your sons<br />
are looking well…. I<br />
think they both are improving<br />
in their English, and<br />
while they continue to look<br />
pale, they seem to me to be in good<br />
health. Carlos has grown more than<br />
Alfredo, but I thought both were in<br />
a happy frame of mind.”<br />
Sources: <strong>Taft</strong> Biography Book, 1912.<br />
William Howard <strong>Taft</strong> Papers, Library of<br />
Congress<br />
<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Spring 2004<br />
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LESLIE MANNING ARCHIVES<br />
<strong>The</strong> isolation,<br />
loneliness,<br />
and occasional<br />
slurs didn’t stop<br />
many of these<br />
groundbreakers<br />
from sending<br />
their children<br />
to <strong>Taft</strong>.<br />
A graduate of the University<br />
of South Africa and Columbia,<br />
Richard Pieterse became the first<br />
faculty member of color in 1969.<br />
Pan said it was hard to make friends,<br />
but faculty members, including Roger<br />
Stacey, helped her get over her homesickness.<br />
“My biggest challenge was English<br />
language proficiency. Although I had an<br />
English education in Hong Kong, it did<br />
not prepare me for the rigorous program<br />
at <strong>Taft</strong>. Extremely fortunately, I had<br />
Mrs. Blackburn, now Ms. Osborn, as<br />
my English teacher. To this date, I am<br />
still deeply grateful for her teaching and<br />
all the extra hours she spent with me to<br />
improve my English.”<br />
For Joseph Dillard ’84, coming from<br />
inner-city Minneapolis, “It was a big,<br />
lonely school at first. <strong>The</strong> classes were challenging,<br />
but the teachers were supportive.<br />
I especially remember Bill Nicholson,<br />
Stephen McCabe, and Ed North.<br />
“I thought <strong>Taft</strong> would be a coed version<br />
of the Facts of Life television show. I<br />
thought it would consist of a bunch of<br />
rich white kids. Other than that, I did<br />
not have a clue.<br />
“<strong>The</strong> worst part of my experience was<br />
feeling so different and feeling like I was<br />
the only one,” Dillard said. “Although<br />
there were other African-American students,<br />
at times, I felt like I was the only<br />
one who was truly Black. I questioned why<br />
I had to go to <strong>Taft</strong> to be accepted by society.<br />
I questioned why I had to be away<br />
from ‘my people’ and ‘suffer’ in order to<br />
advance. I felt isolated from others and<br />
consciously isolated myself from white students.<br />
I felt like others wanted me to<br />
assimilate rather than to learn about me<br />
and my culture. But I knew I needed to<br />
get a good education, so I tolerated the<br />
experience. What an internal struggle!”<br />
He expected some racial problems,<br />
but says there were few. A fellow student<br />
once told Dillard, now a banker in<br />
Minneapolis, he was lucky to go to <strong>Taft</strong><br />
on a scholarship. “I told him that <strong>Taft</strong> was<br />
lucky to have me because I was such a good<br />
student. After that, I think I was a little<br />
more conscious as it related to income.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> isolation, loneliness, and occasional<br />
slurs didn’t stop many of these<br />
groundbreakers from sending their<br />
children to <strong>Taft</strong>.<br />
Pan, the managing director of the<br />
Greater China Region for the British<br />
firm the Fenner Group, sent her two sons<br />
to <strong>Taft</strong>. Victor graduated in 2001, and<br />
Nicolas is an upper mid.<br />
Chu’s daughter Lauren graduated in<br />
1999, and he said he’s seen a continued<br />
emphasis on the importance of having a<br />
diverse blend of students and perspectives.<br />
“<strong>Taft</strong> is more nurturing of the awareness,<br />
the richness, the interconnectedness<br />
of all the academics and cultural values,”<br />
he said. “I believe it’s a very important<br />
thing to bring in students from different<br />
cultures, [for] the teachers [to] have different<br />
perspectives in dealing with children<br />
of different races and cultural values.”<br />
That change in attitudes led Wayne<br />
Jackson’s daughter Alisa Jackson DeSilva to<br />
enroll at <strong>Taft</strong>, becoming in 1989 the first<br />
child of a black alumnus to graduate from<br />
the school. Despite—or perhaps because<br />
of—her father’s struggles at <strong>Taft</strong>, DeSilva<br />
said she was determined to enroll at <strong>Taft</strong>.<br />
“I desperately wanted to leave<br />
[Bermuda] to be able to attend <strong>Taft</strong><br />
because my father had been there and I<br />
had a certain pride toward it,” she said.<br />
But growing up in Bermuda “color<br />
was never an issue no matter what you<br />
did or where you went. We all just saw<br />
each other as friends, classmates, teachers,<br />
or people on the street.”<br />
When she arrived at <strong>Taft</strong>, she didn’t<br />
notice much of a color divide, she said. It<br />
wasn’t until later that someone pointed out<br />
to her that white students would eat with<br />
other white students and black students<br />
would only eat with other black students.<br />
“Because I come from a place where<br />
I have never experienced it, I didn’t know<br />
what was going on or see what was going<br />
on until someone spoke up about it. …<br />
In other settings we were all friends, we<br />
all got along, no one was singled out.”<br />
DeSilva, an accountant with the<br />
Bermuda Alarm Company, Ltd., said she<br />
believes that divide persisted because<br />
of miscommunication and distrust.<br />
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<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Spring 2004
PETER FINGER<br />
However, she said, things are improving.<br />
“I know that there has been much<br />
change from when my father attended.<br />
It hurts my heart to know what he was<br />
subjected to, what he had to endure.<br />
Anything that I may have been through<br />
is nothing in comparison.”<br />
As with the others, it was the “pursuit<br />
of an excellent education” that brought<br />
Ernest Kwarteng ’98 to <strong>Taft</strong> in the fall<br />
of 1997. “In fact, education was the only<br />
means of achieving a better standard of<br />
living for my family and me.”<br />
Born in Ghana but raised in Botswana,<br />
Kwarteng describes himself as outgoing and<br />
curious to learn. His parents were both<br />
teachers and always stressed the importance<br />
of obtaining a great education.<br />
“I found most of the students were<br />
friendly. I made lot of friends right away,<br />
and kept most of them. Students were competitive,<br />
in or outside the classroom. Teachers<br />
were a lot closer to the students, and were a<br />
lot more accessible than my previous schools.<br />
“I liked the school’s emphasis on building<br />
character and having students guided<br />
by an honor code. My <strong>Taft</strong> experience made<br />
me tougher, competitive, confident and<br />
grounded in my core values.”<br />
Kwarteng, a financial analyst for<br />
Goldman Sachs in San Francisco, said, “I<br />
think my <strong>Taft</strong> experience gave me the confidence<br />
to live and compete in a global<br />
society. <strong>The</strong> small, discussion-oriented<br />
classes helped me to develop my own voice<br />
even in situations where I was in the minority.<br />
<strong>The</strong> interaction I had with diverse<br />
groups of people helped me appreciate our<br />
differences, and more importantly made<br />
me comfortable working with people from<br />
different backgrounds. That is essential to<br />
succeed in our global society.”<br />
What differentiates Kwarteng’s experience<br />
from those of earlier alumni is<br />
in part a changed culture at the school.<br />
Over the years, various support groups<br />
for students of color and international<br />
students have also emerged: the Afro-<br />
American Congress in 1970, followed by<br />
United Cultures at <strong>Taft</strong> in 1982, and <strong>Taft</strong><br />
Afro Latino Student Alliance in 1990.<br />
2002 Classmates Ted Emerson, Harry Jones, Jenny Zhang, and Catherine Brayton<br />
And although a welcoming faculty<br />
has always been a key factor for students,<br />
the school created a new position in<br />
recent years, director of multicultural<br />
affairs, specifically to help students of<br />
color feel at home.<br />
“What I do isn’t necessarily anything<br />
other faculty don’t do,” said current director<br />
Felecia Washington Williams ’84, who<br />
succeeds Lynette Sumpter ’90 and Menette<br />
DuBose-San Lee ’87. “I let students know<br />
that my door is always open, that I have a<br />
sympathetic ear, the way my adviser, Monie<br />
Hardwick, did for me when I was here.”<br />
Connecting with an adult in the community<br />
is important, says Williams, but for<br />
most students of color the biggest difference<br />
is simply that she’s here—a role model,<br />
someone who’s been in their shoes. It’s another<br />
reason why she’d like to encourage<br />
more alumni of color to visit the school.<br />
Despite the improvements, being a<br />
non-white student at <strong>Taft</strong> carries extra<br />
challenges, most agreed. It takes a special<br />
kind of strength to endure the loneliness<br />
and isolation that can come from being<br />
perceived as different. But stay true to<br />
yourself, advised Stevenson.<br />
“You don’t have to become anybody<br />
else. You don’t have to be somebody else.<br />
Believe in yourself. Remember, if you’ve<br />
gotten into <strong>Taft</strong>, you belong at <strong>Taft</strong>.”<br />
Bonnie Blackburn Penhollow ’84 is a<br />
freelance writer living in Fort Wayne, Ind.<br />
This article is the second in a series, following<br />
“Sculpting a Diverse Community” by<br />
Jon Willson ’82, on diversity issues at <strong>Taft</strong>.<br />
“You’re the<br />
ambassador.<br />
You somehow have<br />
to have enough<br />
confidence in<br />
your values and<br />
your culture…”<br />
<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Spring 2004<br />
21
In the TRENCHES,<br />
Born in Saigon<br />
during the war,<br />
English teacher<br />
Steve Le spoke<br />
only Vietnamese<br />
when he arrived in<br />
the United States<br />
at 10 years old.<br />
An Annapolis<br />
grad and former<br />
U.S. Navy<br />
lieutenant,<br />
Le says he has<br />
found his calling<br />
in teaching.<br />
By Chris Torino
Not Standing on Desks<br />
Since arriving at <strong>Taft</strong> last September, Steve<br />
Le has worn, on his shirt or the lapel of<br />
his coat, a pin of the American flag. “I<br />
wear it to remember my close friends from<br />
the service who are forward deployed in a<br />
war zone,” he says. “Ever since 9/11, at<br />
least one friend has been away; in fact, as<br />
one returned yesterday, another—my best<br />
friend—leaves Thursday.”<br />
“<strong>The</strong> way Mr. Le interacts with students,”<br />
upper middler Ben Macaskill<br />
says, “shows that he doesn’t take things<br />
for granted; his flag pin shows how much<br />
he values the small and large significances<br />
of daily life. His willingness to share<br />
amazing pictures of his military experience<br />
reveals part of what he brings to the<br />
<strong>Taft</strong> community.”<br />
Steve has arrived at <strong>Taft</strong> with purpose.<br />
At the center of his story—undeniably<br />
his family’s story—is the purpose with<br />
which he teaches: the desire to touch<br />
lives. Like all great English teachers, he<br />
is a storyteller; and in sharing his stories,<br />
he interests not only his students, but also<br />
anyone listening.<br />
Having grown up around books,<br />
Steve’s father, Dieu Le, studied journalism<br />
in Vietnam and Cambodia in the early<br />
1960s. Eventually, he took a job in the<br />
Department of Communications for South<br />
Vietnam, leaving temporarily during the<br />
war to serve as an officer in the army.<br />
After four years, he left the military with<br />
the rank of lieutenant, the rank equivalent<br />
to Steve’s in the U.S. Navy—and<br />
returned to the Department of Communications,<br />
this time as director. Less than<br />
two months after Steve, the youngest of<br />
three children, was born, Saigon fell to<br />
the Viet Cong on April 30, 1975, and<br />
with it the communications department.<br />
when Steve was four years old, he “met”<br />
his father for the first time, in a concentration<br />
camp.<br />
While imprisoned, Dieu eventually<br />
advised his wife, Diane Le, to flee to the<br />
United States. She tried to escape by boat<br />
four times. Each time, the Viet Cong returned<br />
Diane and her three children to<br />
prison, thus costing them another year’s<br />
wages. In prison, Diane taught Steve to<br />
hide Dieu’s identity by claiming that his<br />
father was a negligent and abusive drunk.<br />
Steve says that his mother still jokes about<br />
his feeling too at home in prison; she tells<br />
stories of his retrieving errant ping-pong<br />
balls for the guards. Once, after being<br />
“…he doesn’t take things for granted; his flag<br />
pin shows how much he values the small and<br />
large significances of daily life.”<br />
<br />
Steve’s story begins with his paternal<br />
grandfather, a man who valued service,<br />
words, and resolution. Phan Le served in<br />
the French-Vietnamese Army in the<br />
1920s and ’30s before fleeing to South<br />
Vietnam from North Vietnam when<br />
Ho Chi Minh established a Communist<br />
government in 1954. After settling in<br />
Saigon, he bought a bookstore that established<br />
the family’s livelihood, until he<br />
was forced to close after the Vietnam War<br />
because the bookstore’s existence—its<br />
words—gave voice to Western culture.<br />
Two days later on May 2, Steve’s<br />
parents held five reserved seats on United<br />
States helicopters to leave the country.<br />
But Dieu, confident that South Vietnam<br />
would soon regain power, relinquished<br />
their seats. Dieu evaded the Viet Cong<br />
for a few months, but was eventually<br />
imprisoned because of his military background;<br />
separated from his family, he<br />
suffered through four or five different<br />
labor camps in the next six years.<br />
“<strong>The</strong>y didn’t kill him,” Steve says,<br />
“because they didn’t know he was a high<br />
government official; they thought he<br />
had only been a military man.” In 1979,<br />
returned, Steve ran to greet the guards<br />
with open arms.<br />
By 1981, Diane stopped trying to<br />
emigrate, ironically, just as her husband<br />
was released from prison. Punished and<br />
“reeducated,” but undefeated, Dieu<br />
began to teach English—vital words—<br />
to potential emigrants in spite of the<br />
risk of re-imprisonment, classes which<br />
Steve observed.<br />
<br />
Steve’s elderly grandfather received political<br />
asylum in France for his immediate<br />
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family, but he did not live long enough to<br />
emigrate with the rest of his family. After<br />
two years in Paris, the Le family left for<br />
Westminster, Calif., where his father<br />
joined a high-school friend, also an emigrant,<br />
who had started and was struggling<br />
to maintain a Vietnamese newspaper,<br />
Nguoi Viet, in Orange County.<br />
With Dieu’s journalistic expertise<br />
and leadership, Nguoi Viet became the<br />
first daily Vietnamese newspaper outside<br />
of Vietnam. Eventually, he helped<br />
develop a media corporation which<br />
owned the newspaper, two periodicals,<br />
two television stations, and Viet Nam<br />
California Radio—a corporation that<br />
communicated Dieu’s native words in<br />
the United States.<br />
During the process of emigration,<br />
Steve missed fourth grade, and, as a tenyear-old,<br />
his English was limited to what<br />
little he picked up listening to his father’s<br />
English classes. He enrolled, finally, as a<br />
fifth grader in California, but spoke only<br />
Vietnamese in school. Dieu and Diane<br />
wanted Steve and their other two children<br />
to assimilate into American culture,<br />
so they moved the family away from the<br />
somewhat insular Vietnamese-American<br />
community in Westminster to Los<br />
Angeles County. <strong>The</strong>re, school officials<br />
enrolled Steve in regular-level courses and<br />
in English as a Second Language. By the<br />
ninth grade, Steve rose from ESL to<br />
Honors English. He cites his Honors<br />
English teacher, Mrs. Brady, as the catalyst<br />
for his passion to read, write, and,<br />
consequently teach those endeavors.<br />
<br />
“<strong>Taft</strong> students,” Steve said, “are much<br />
more inquisitive and intellectually aware<br />
than I was at their age.” As a high-school<br />
senior, Steve came to believe education<br />
should not be entirely selfish. With a<br />
desire to serve, he resolved to enter the<br />
military and attend the U.S. Naval<br />
Academy. More specifically, he decided<br />
he would fly “because it was the most<br />
romantic option.” His college counselor<br />
told him that he would never get into<br />
the academy. <strong>The</strong>n, disqualified by the<br />
academy because of a misplaced medical<br />
file, Steve still turned down acceptance<br />
to the University of Southern California<br />
because, as he said, “Once I enrolled<br />
there, I’d never leave.”<br />
Instead, he enrolled at Cerritos<br />
Community College, took as demanding<br />
a liberal arts program as the college<br />
offered, ensured his medical information<br />
was submitted early, and was<br />
accepted into the Class of 1998 at the<br />
Naval Academy.<br />
At the academy, from which every<br />
graduate earns a B.S. in Engineering,<br />
Steve rounded out his education with a<br />
major in English and as a member of the<br />
academy’s volleyball team. Set to begin<br />
his senior examinations, in May 1998,<br />
Steve learned that his father would have<br />
surgery to remove a malignant tumor; his<br />
father had entered the terminal stage of<br />
cancer and was given two years to live.<br />
Immediately, Steve returned home to<br />
California to discover that the surgery<br />
was unsuccessful and that his father<br />
would begin chemotherapy. Dieu<br />
made it to his son’s graduation from the<br />
academy; but, one year later, after Steve<br />
earned his master’s in English at the<br />
University of Maryland, while completing<br />
the first phase of flight school, Dieu<br />
died, with Steve and family bedside.<br />
<br />
At Dieu’s wake, Steve listened to journalists,<br />
Tibetan monks, movie producers,<br />
and lawyers tell stories about his father;<br />
and every story revealed how Dieu had<br />
touched their lives as a friend, colleague,<br />
mentor, and teacher. Steve asked himself,<br />
“Am I doing that?” He described how,<br />
“in aviation, you work with an airplane,<br />
not people.” After his father’s funeral, in<br />
a process that echoed Henry David<br />
Thoreau’s—whose works he teaches to<br />
<strong>Taft</strong> upper middlers—Steve traveled to<br />
Charleston, S.C., to isolate himself from<br />
all family and friends and reflect. And,<br />
like Thoreau, Steve codified his personal<br />
resolutions in words, in a nine-page<br />
letter to his family, explaining his reasons<br />
for leaving the aviation community to<br />
join another in which he would work<br />
more closely with people. Following his<br />
metephorical “walk into the woods,”<br />
Steve resolved to join the Special Operations<br />
community rather than complete<br />
flight school. In November 1999, he reported<br />
to the Naval Diving and Salvage<br />
Training Center in Panama City, Florida;<br />
and for the next four years, he served one<br />
and a half military deployments.<br />
<br />
Knowing he wanted to teach after<br />
the Navy, Steve considered boarding<br />
school at the suggestion of a roommate,<br />
a Kent <strong>School</strong> graduate, who said, “If<br />
you really want to affect lives, live with<br />
your students.”<br />
“At that point,” Steve said, “the only<br />
knowledge I had of boarding school was<br />
from Dead Poets Society, and I wasn’t<br />
going to stand on desks.”<br />
At <strong>Taft</strong>, though yet to stand on a desk,<br />
Steve weaves together his story and the<br />
stories of colleagues and students. “I chose<br />
boarding school,” he says, “because life’s<br />
important lessons are taught outside the<br />
classroom, often in the teacher’s living<br />
room or around the dining table. I have<br />
enjoyed the challenge of exposing my private<br />
life for their inspection, and living on<br />
the hall with students has increased my<br />
own sense of personal accountability.”<br />
Recently, I stopped by his apartment<br />
to find Steve and senior Willy<br />
Oppenheim engaged in a heated, philosophical<br />
debate about truth, goodness,<br />
and beauty. “At night, I sit in his apartment<br />
drinking green tea and discussing<br />
the cosmos,” said Willy in somewhat<br />
Whitmanesque rhetoric; “we never<br />
agree, but it doesn’t matter—he gets me<br />
thinking every time.”<br />
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“<strong>The</strong> most challenging part of<br />
teaching is connecting with students, especially<br />
those who do not particularly<br />
enjoy English,” Steve insists. “It’s tough,<br />
sometimes, to get a lower mid excited<br />
about Shakespeare or an upper mid about<br />
Emerson. So, when the students find that<br />
window and discover the literature for<br />
themselves, a teacher fulfills his hopes.”<br />
With focused intensity and using the<br />
Socratic method, Steve asks pointed questions<br />
and challenges students to think<br />
and speak precisely. Beyond the classroom,<br />
he demands similarly precise<br />
thinking and action in the athletic arena.<br />
“After spending five years working only<br />
with men, I found it challenging at first<br />
to coach eleven teenage girls in the fall,”<br />
he says. “By the end of the volleyball season,<br />
however, it was a different story: as<br />
the girls like to say, ‘We broke you.’ <strong>The</strong>y<br />
mean I now actually smile occasionally.”<br />
<br />
On Super Bowl Sunday, Steve invited<br />
some faculty members to his apartment<br />
to watch the game. During the first half,<br />
I left my seat from before the television<br />
to get a refill of wings and peruse Steve’s<br />
bookshelves. A stack of Whitman books<br />
caught my eye because Steve and I<br />
were about to begin teaching “Song of<br />
Myself.” After two boys poked their<br />
heads into his apartment, proudly pronouncing<br />
that they were laboring over<br />
their essay on Emerson’s “Self-Reliance”<br />
for Steve’s class, Steve and I discussed<br />
Whitman and then his favorite novels:<br />
Walker Percy’s <strong>The</strong> Moviegoer, John<br />
Irving’s A Prayer for Owen Meany, and<br />
Herman Melville’s Moby-Dick. He pulled<br />
Moby-Dick from the shelf and quoted<br />
Melville: “Look not too long in the face<br />
of the fire, O man!” He added his words<br />
to Melville’s, “To search too long for your<br />
calling will blind you.” Eyes wide open,<br />
Steve has stared into his fire and, then,<br />
has acted with purpose.<br />
Chris Torino is in his second year in the<br />
English Department after teaching for<br />
seven years elsewhere. He lives in<br />
Cruikshank dormitory with wife Dena,<br />
three-year-old son Cole, and his forthcoming<br />
daughter.<br />
“At that point,”<br />
Steve said, “the<br />
only knowledge<br />
I had of<br />
boarding school<br />
was from Dead<br />
Poets Society,<br />
and I wasn’t<br />
going to stand<br />
on desks.”<br />
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<strong>The</strong><br />
Spirit<br />
<strong>Taft</strong><br />
of<br />
AT 30,000 FEET<br />
A Tribute to<br />
Chip Spencer ’56—<br />
Gentleman, Iron Man, Comedian—<br />
Retiring in June<br />
By Barclay Johnson ’53
SCHALER PHOTOGRAPHY<br />
Class agents in reunion years like to drop by Chip’s office<br />
for a pep talk and a few laughs. But he’s usually on<br />
the phone. If he isn’t in and the lights are off, he’s probably in<br />
the air, traveling for <strong>Taft</strong>.<br />
One day this winter three of us bumped<br />
into each other in Chip’s doorway.<br />
“Mr. Spencer will be back next week,”<br />
said his secretary, “but only for a day.”<br />
So we told Diane what we had heard<br />
about his having been ready to retire last<br />
year, until some of you told him he<br />
looked too young to quit.<br />
“That was last year,” she said.<br />
Before we left, one of us noticed<br />
in the window light on his desk that<br />
old gold pen. Dull with disuse, it stood<br />
on a pine stand with a plaque attached.<br />
We all had seen it before and<br />
read the spare inscription:<br />
Clayton B. Spencer<br />
Alumni Office<br />
1964–1970<br />
as a student, there<br />
was literally nothing.<br />
Mr. Cruikshank had all<br />
he could do to pay off the<br />
school’s debt, which he did.<br />
When Chip returned to work<br />
with John Esty, the endowment was<br />
precariously low. Nevertheless, with the<br />
help of key alumni and trustees, the total<br />
climbed to more than $30 million.<br />
By the end of the recent Campaign for<br />
<strong>Taft</strong>, the team of Odden, Romano, and<br />
Spencer had led the drive to a recordbreaking<br />
$134 million in only five years.<br />
Lance Odden and Jerry Romano had<br />
asked Chip to return from the business<br />
world to direct the Planned<br />
Giving part of the campaign.<br />
Needless to say, they were<br />
fortunate to find the<br />
person with the exact<br />
combination of experience,<br />
character, and<br />
spirit for the job. Chip,<br />
whose connection with<br />
the school spans six decades,<br />
knew the school<br />
from an unprecedented<br />
number of vantage points:<br />
student, alumnus, teachercoach,<br />
parent, and director of<br />
development. Furthermore, he knew,<br />
by name, alumni in the hundreds.<br />
Looking back at Chip’s career, we<br />
tend to see his work outside of <strong>Taft</strong> as<br />
interludes. Quite possibly, however, his<br />
nearly 20 years in financial management<br />
has accounted for much of Chip’s effectiveness.<br />
To be sure, a sketch of his resume<br />
could suffice for two people: After<br />
graduating from <strong>Taft</strong> in 1956—lettering<br />
But this time the whole thing looked less<br />
like a memento than it did a talisman of<br />
destiny. Chip’s career had brought him<br />
full circle. In fact, he had been director<br />
of development twice—with 40 years<br />
between titles. (Of course, the size of the<br />
job in our time requires a high-tech staff<br />
of 14 and alumni networks nationwide.)<br />
Equally providential, the remarkable<br />
growth of the endowment parallels<br />
Chip’s career at <strong>Taft</strong>. During his time<br />
A young director of development, circa<br />
1964<br />
With wife Susan and sons Oliver ’85<br />
and Jonathan ’88 at Jonathan’s wedding<br />
in 2001<br />
Never missing an opportunity to lead<br />
alumni in the right direction, Chip is an<br />
annual presence organizing the reunion<br />
weekend parade. PETER FINGER<br />
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in three sports, with an extra letter in<br />
cheerleading—then from Yale in 1960,<br />
he served as an officer on a minesweeper<br />
in the Pacific before earning his master’s<br />
in history at Trinity College. He returned<br />
to <strong>Taft</strong>, the first time, as director of development,<br />
history teacher, and assistant<br />
varsity soccer coach. In 1970, Chip left<br />
<strong>Taft</strong> to become headmaster of McTernan<br />
<strong>School</strong> for boys in Waterbury. Shortly<br />
thereafter he led the merger with St.<br />
Margaret’s, which his daughter Jennifer<br />
attended, and the capital drive that made<br />
the merger possible.<br />
In 1977, Chip left academia to work<br />
for Advest in Hartford and pursue a<br />
career in business, but during those<br />
years away, Chip kept in touch through<br />
parenthood: son Oliver ’85 arrived on<br />
campus in the fall of 1981, and Jonathan<br />
was a member of the Class of ’88.<br />
Chip returned to <strong>Taft</strong> to direct Planned<br />
Giving in 1994. <strong>The</strong>n, after Jerry Romano<br />
retired in 2001, he became director of<br />
development—for the second time.<br />
So much for experience. <strong>The</strong> crux<br />
of Spencer’s success is the man himself.<br />
First of all, very few people can<br />
do this kind of work. We class<br />
agents know. That’s why we’re<br />
happy with our day jobs. Big<br />
time fund raising takes too<br />
many qualities of personality<br />
and character, like<br />
moxie, resilience, and delight<br />
in near-strangers.<br />
But for this very special<br />
job, Chip had to have<br />
other strengths as well.<br />
What, then, did Lance<br />
and Jerry see?<br />
His humor and wit?<br />
But the whole world knew<br />
about that. Chip is a natural<br />
comic. He has that rare<br />
sense of humanness, including<br />
his own. (Can’t anyone<br />
drive off with one’s cell phone on<br />
top of the car?) Also, his remarks in<br />
sports are memorable. When Chip<br />
leaves a putt short, he reproaches himself<br />
with “Hit the ball, Alice!” <strong>The</strong>n, in tennis,<br />
if he smashes an overhead for a winner,<br />
he hoots, “Take that, Alice!” Who is Alice,<br />
we’d like to know. Chip’s close friends<br />
often serve as targets for his playful sarcasm<br />
or as an audience for his lusty jokes<br />
picked up in his travels like sky miles.<br />
Under the humor, however, we have<br />
seen another quality. This man is tough.<br />
His rivals, amused by his footwork, often<br />
fail to see just how competitive he is, until<br />
it is too late. Moreover, Chip is as<br />
durable as he is determined, taking the<br />
whirlwind traveling in stride. But apparently<br />
not without a few moments of alarm.<br />
Chip’s affiliation with the school started<br />
as a student in the ’50s, continued on the<br />
faculty in the ’60s, as a parent in the ’80s,<br />
on the faculty again in the ’90s, and as a<br />
parent to Jane, pictured in 1986, who<br />
graduated in 2003.<br />
<strong>The</strong> team of MacMullen, Romano,<br />
and Spencer did more together than just<br />
raise money.<br />
Chip created a special rapport with<br />
Mr. <strong>Taft</strong>’s Old Boys, here with Jim Loomis<br />
’31 at an Old Guard Dinner.<br />
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“Chip and I spent several years traveling<br />
around the country,” former Annual<br />
Fund Director Olivia Tuttle told us. “Alumni<br />
functions morning, noon, and night, and<br />
in between Chip would call on alumni, always<br />
searching for the ultimate gift to the<br />
school. He did it all—once breaking into<br />
my hotel room in Chicago in search of the<br />
Campaign for <strong>Taft</strong> movie when I was<br />
caught in traffic. He was the first to arrive<br />
to help with name tags and lists and the<br />
last to leave, closing the bar and turning<br />
off the lights. Quick with a smile and a firm<br />
handshake, he has the remarkable ability<br />
to welcome most of the alumni by name,<br />
putting them immediately at ease.”<br />
Headmaster Willy MacMullen says<br />
that traveling the country with Chip was<br />
more than fun. “It was inspiring. And<br />
for all his leadership success, he never<br />
sought credit.”<br />
“As a Planned Giving officer, Chip<br />
knew that seeing people and spending<br />
time with them would serve <strong>Taft</strong> well,”<br />
said Jerry Romano. “He single-handedly<br />
raised one-third of the Campaign’s $134<br />
million, largely from Mr. <strong>Taft</strong>’s Old<br />
Boys. Lance had had the idea that Chip<br />
would be great at Planned Giving; I had<br />
the notion it would be nice to have another<br />
man in the office, given that I was<br />
outnumbered by women 14 to one.”<br />
<strong>The</strong>n the ladies in the office told us<br />
about a birthday party they threw for<br />
Chip to test his famous good nature.<br />
Each of them wore a striped shirt, preferably<br />
with cuff links, a navy sport jacket,<br />
and one of a variety of <strong>Taft</strong> neckties. With<br />
hair slicked back Gatsby style, each wore<br />
a name tag slightly different from the<br />
others—to honor this host of countless<br />
alumni events: Poker Chip, Chip N.<br />
Dale, Potato Chip, Computer Chip,<br />
Tortilla Chip, among others. <strong>The</strong>y said<br />
that he grinned a lot and took a chocolate<br />
chip cookie or two, but for once he was<br />
speechless; his quick wit was put on hold.<br />
Suddenly this picture of Chip at the<br />
party revealed his obvious advantage:<br />
Beyond all his experience and virtues,<br />
Chip is “old school.” Believe it or not,<br />
he still has the old school spirit of his<br />
cheerleading days. He is the Connecticut<br />
Yankee patriot and quintessential family<br />
man who embodies every traditional<br />
value espoused by Horace <strong>Taft</strong>. And the<br />
greatest of these is loyalty.<br />
Like many alumni from the thirties,<br />
Chip is the self-possessed patriarch,<br />
proud of all that is his, not the least of<br />
which is his solid independence. Friends<br />
don’t take care of him; he takes care of<br />
them, regardless of the distance, and<br />
serves his community every way asked of<br />
him—patron, deacon, vice president of<br />
the historical society, etc.<br />
He and his wife Susan (daughter<br />
of the late Bill Fischer ’33) love their<br />
historic colonial home on Litchfield’s<br />
Chestnut Hill. But they seldom sit down<br />
in it. <strong>The</strong>re is too much to do—including<br />
at least two sports a season. First, of<br />
course, they have to dig around in their<br />
terrace gardens, prune the fruit trees,<br />
chase myriad squirrels out of at least 20<br />
birdhouses, make their own wine, host<br />
another dinner party for friends or classmates.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Spencers could have been<br />
happy 200 years ago—especially after<br />
their daughter Jane ’03 brought them up<br />
to date by inviting 40 seniors home for<br />
her graduation party. <strong>Taft</strong> may well be<br />
Chip’s extended family.<br />
<strong>The</strong> campaign took off on schedule and<br />
landed ahead of time, well beyond its original<br />
goal. With apologies to Admiral<br />
Nimitz (from his tribute to the Marines<br />
in the aftermath of Iwo Jima): Uncommon<br />
generosity became a common virtue.<br />
Chip will be back, if he ever leaves.<br />
Certainly the endowment stays on, like<br />
destiny’s gift to <strong>Taft</strong>, and who has more<br />
friends of all ages. One of Horace <strong>Taft</strong>’s<br />
“Old Boys” was heard to say, “I liked that<br />
Spencer chap so much, I thought I was<br />
giving my gift to him.”<br />
English teacher emeritus Barclay Johnson<br />
’53 lives in Watertown, Conn. He and Chip<br />
have been close friends since 1964.<br />
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E N D N O T E<br />
<strong>The</strong> Naming<br />
FEMINIST<br />
of a<br />
By Debora Phipps<br />
“It was still rare for<br />
a girl to like science<br />
and math, but I<br />
really liked both.”<br />
If I were to fill out one of<br />
those sticky-backed name<br />
tags with “I am” at the top,<br />
after “Debora Phipps” I’d list<br />
mother, friend, and teacher.<br />
But shortly after that, I’d<br />
include a word that has<br />
become uncomfortable for<br />
many: feminist.<br />
I first became aware of<br />
the strong reaction to this<br />
word in talking with Erica<br />
O’Neill ’04 about her Senior<br />
Seminar project last fall. She’d sent a survey<br />
examining people’s responses to the word<br />
feminist, and asked whether the respondents<br />
she questioned considered themselves feminist.<br />
She discovered that feminist seemed almost<br />
a dirty word, one with which few of her<br />
interviewees wanted to be associated.<br />
<strong>The</strong>n, not long after, while I was on duty in<br />
Congdon, a mid girl alluded to someone as a feminist<br />
in the same deriding tone. I was shocked.<br />
I suspect these negative associations derive<br />
from some stereotype of feminists as angry,<br />
embittered, militant, hairy, unfashionable manhaters.<br />
And this is too bad. <strong>The</strong> dictionary defines<br />
feminism as “the principle that women should<br />
have political, economic, and social rights equal<br />
to those of men.” That doesn’t seem too militant,<br />
and it certainly doesn’t prescribe a certain<br />
hairstyle or misanthropy.<br />
Perhaps now that women have more rights,<br />
the word feminist has become dated, like socialist, a<br />
word whose connotations are far more negative than<br />
the literal meaning of the word would suggest.<br />
Yet naming myself as a feminist remains important<br />
to me. I want men and women to have the<br />
same rights; I want all people<br />
to have the same choices,<br />
whether or not they choose to<br />
work outside the home or<br />
raise children or vote their<br />
conscience or be paid the<br />
same wage for the same<br />
work. Talking with students,<br />
I wonder how much of the<br />
difference in our responses has<br />
to do with my own experience<br />
as someone who graduated<br />
high school in 1979.<br />
I went to a large high school and quickly perfected<br />
the art of being quiet. It was uncool for<br />
girls to be smart, and really uncool to distinguish<br />
oneself from the masses. In order to succeed<br />
socially, girls pretty much had to play dumb. I<br />
learned to flip my hair over my shoulder and giggle<br />
at whatever any boy in a football jacket said.<br />
I think I might have gained some assertiveness<br />
had I played sports, but few options were available<br />
to girls—this was way before Title 9. I swam<br />
on the coed swim team for awhile, until the<br />
5 a.m. commute put a dent in my social life.<br />
Wanting something active to do after school<br />
(when all the boys were in practice), I did what<br />
was left: cheerleading. I was a terrible cheerleader,<br />
and—though I learned to yell loudly—I was also<br />
quite aware of being on the sidelines of the real<br />
action, a different form of quietness.<br />
At the time, it was still rare for a girl to like<br />
science and math, but I really liked both. In deference<br />
to my curious interests, my school lessened<br />
(meaning evaporated) my language and history requirements<br />
to let me double up on math and<br />
science. (Don’t try this at <strong>Taft</strong>; the academic dean<br />
won’t allow it.) Not very many people I knew elected<br />
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“I think part of the<br />
reason I’ve stayed<br />
in teaching is to try<br />
to encourage you<br />
all…to speak up<br />
for yourselves,<br />
to exceed others’<br />
expectations when<br />
they try to limit you,<br />
to follow up on<br />
your interests<br />
whatever they be.”<br />
the same courses, so this let me take the subjects I<br />
wanted—quietly—but still avoid the “smart girl”<br />
label by playing dumb at the lunch table.<br />
By my senior year, I found myself the only<br />
girl in Advanced Physics. For this, and because my<br />
teacher was sure I didn’t belong there, I received<br />
extra pages on each of my tests, but no extra time.<br />
I’d furiously work through the problems, trying not<br />
to cry, and I refused to let my parents intervene. I<br />
made it through the course, but not without believing<br />
that girls really might not belong in science,<br />
that really, physics was a boys’ field.<br />
Still, my Advanced Chemistry teacher was<br />
different; he had long hair and wore Frye boots,<br />
and, as our class adviser, observed me in both<br />
modes: chemistry student and social butterfly.<br />
He took me aside, shared a few thoughts on my<br />
split personality, and urged me to follow up my<br />
goal of becoming a chemical engineer in college.<br />
His encouragement was all I needed, I thought.<br />
<br />
Even in college, I discovered I was part of a minority<br />
in my science and math classes—one of<br />
two girls in my college calculus class—a course<br />
for which I was sorely unprepared. A pitying professor<br />
suggested at midterm that I should drop<br />
the course and make up the credits later rather<br />
than fail. (He didn’t make the same suggestion to<br />
a boy who was in the same academic peril.) I refused<br />
his suggestion, and for the few days before<br />
the exam, locked myself in a music practice room,<br />
living on honey buns, Sno-caps, and Tab, until I<br />
knew I could make some showing on the test. I<br />
passed, but that was the last math course I took.<br />
And in chemistry, I was the only girl in my<br />
lab section. I had enough spirit to persevere, but<br />
not enough steadiness; everything I touched<br />
broke. I started small—test tubes, beakers—and<br />
gradually moved up to vials of chemicals and,<br />
eventually, a dessicator, a highly expensive piece<br />
of equipment that shatters with an embarrassingly<br />
large sound. I burst into tears, realized<br />
I could not financially manage to remain in<br />
Organic Chemistry, and stopped taking science<br />
at the end of the semester.<br />
After stints in economics and art history, I<br />
arrived in the English Department. Now, I love<br />
what I do, and I learned a lot from my failures,<br />
but sometimes I wonder how my world might<br />
have been different if I’d spoken up for myself<br />
more—if I could have lived in one of those adolescent<br />
fiction “Choose your own adventure”<br />
books with a little more of a voice. And I think<br />
part of the reason I’ve stayed in teaching is to try<br />
to encourage you all—both boys and girls—to<br />
speak up for yourselves, to exceed others’ expectations<br />
when they try to limit you, to follow up<br />
on your interests whatever they be.<br />
A number of years ago, I did a study of coeducation<br />
at <strong>Taft</strong>, and part of what I examined was the<br />
ratio between the amount of class time during which<br />
girls spoke versus the time in which boys spoke. I<br />
also looked at whether the stereotypes of student behavior—boys<br />
more typically yelling out, or talking<br />
over someone; girls raising their hands and waiting<br />
quietly to be called on—held true at <strong>Taft</strong>.<br />
Hoping others would let me into their classrooms<br />
if I did, I offered myself up as the first guinea<br />
pig. As a former quiet girl, I thought I did a pretty<br />
good job balancing discussions, but I discovered I<br />
was way off. Boys dominated my classes. Several<br />
girls never talked. I had to learn to pay attention,<br />
every day, and evaluate my progress after each<br />
class, before I got better at helping everyone—<br />
not just loud or confident students, boys or<br />
girls—to speak up. And I still have a long way to<br />
go in meeting this goal on a daily basis.<br />
In the same way, we all have to pay attention<br />
to what happens around us. Our class<br />
committee elections are run the way they are in<br />
response to earlier years when few girls were ever<br />
elected; girls simply weren’t considered leaders,<br />
and because boys didn’t vote for girls, and girls<br />
voted for girls but even more boys, the way to<br />
change the composition of class committees was<br />
to mandate separate elections.<br />
<strong>The</strong> right to the same opportunities is what<br />
feminism is all about. Sex and the City’s Carrie<br />
Bradshaw writes an editorial about the difference<br />
between should and could. I think feminism believes<br />
there are no shoulds. Instead, the same coulds should<br />
be available to anyone. I hope that feminism reminds<br />
us that you can do anything, regardless of<br />
who you are, depending on how you choose.<br />
Maybe, if we can work through the negative<br />
stereotypes associated with the word feminist, then<br />
being called a feminist by someone will not feel<br />
like being called a name. Instead, it will be a way<br />
that you, too, might name yourself.<br />
Debbie Phipps succeeded former faculty member<br />
Bill Morris ’69 this year as academic dean. She has<br />
previously served as head of the English Department<br />
and dean of the middle class. <strong>The</strong> remarks<br />
above are excerpted from a <strong>School</strong> Meeting talk<br />
she gave in January.<br />
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