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B U L L E T I N<br />

Making All the<br />

Difference<br />

IN THE TRENCHES,<br />

NOT STANDING<br />

ON DESKS<br />

<strong>The</strong> Spirit of <strong>Taft</strong><br />

at 30,000 Feet<br />

S P R I N G • 2 0 0 4


B U L L E T I N<br />

Spring 2004<br />

Volume 74 Number 3<br />

Bulletin Staff<br />

Director of Development<br />

John E. Ormiston<br />

Page 10<br />

Page 22<br />

Page 26<br />

Editor<br />

Julie Reiff<br />

Alumni Notes<br />

Linda Beyus<br />

Anne Gahl<br />

Jackie Maloney<br />

Design<br />

Good Design<br />

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Proofreader<br />

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Bulletin Advisory Board<br />

Todd Gipstein ’70<br />

Peter Kilborn ’57<br />

Nancy Novogrod P’98,’01<br />

Bonnie Blackburn Penhollow ’84<br />

Josh Quittner ’75<br />

Peter Frew ’75, ex officio<br />

Julie Reiff, ex officio<br />

Bonnie Welch, ex officio<br />

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F E A T U R E S<br />

Making All the<br />

Difference 16<br />

Fitting in, conforming to the norm, can be<br />

among the most difficult pressures teens<br />

face. For students of color, alumni say, those<br />

pressures brought additional feelings of<br />

loneliness and isolation.<br />

By Bonnie Blackburn Penhollow ’84<br />

In the Trenches, Not<br />

Standing on Desks 22<br />

Born in Saigon during the war, English<br />

teacher Steve Le spoke only Vietnamese<br />

when he arrived in the United States at 10<br />

years old. An Annapolis grad and former<br />

U.S. Navy lieutenant, Le says he has found<br />

his calling in teaching.<br />

By Chris Torino<br />

<strong>The</strong> Spirit of <strong>Taft</strong> at<br />

30,000 Feet 26<br />

A tribute to Development Director Chip<br />

Spencer ’56, who retires in June.<br />

By Barclay Johnson ’53<br />

D E P A R T M E N T S<br />

Endnote 30<br />

<strong>The</strong> Naming of a Feminist<br />

By Debora Phipps<br />

On the Cover<br />

<strong>The</strong> Collegium Musicum, directed by Bruce<br />

Fifer (left), performs at Grace Cathedral<br />

during its San Francisco tour in March.<br />

ABBY FIFER/SAMUEL DANGREMOND ’05<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin is published quarterly, in February,<br />

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features and Around the Pond stories.<br />

From the Editor 2<br />

Alumni Spotlight 3<br />

Around the Pond 6<br />

Don’t forget you can<br />

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www.<strong>Taft</strong>Store.com<br />

Sport 12<br />

A detail of La Bottega II by Langdon Quin ’66, whose work was on exhibit in the<br />

Potter Gallery this winter (see page 11).


FROM THE EDITOR<br />

In the last issue, Jon Willson’82 made a wonderful<br />

case for diversity at the school, but if<br />

today’s multicultural community is a work in<br />

progress, it’s important to remember (and thank)<br />

the pioneers who helped get us to this point.<br />

Toward that end, we asked Bonnie Blackburn<br />

Penhollow ’84 to seek out alumni from the ’40s<br />

to the ’90s to help us understand what it was like<br />

to be among the first black, Asian, or Hispanic<br />

students to walk these halls (page 14).<br />

Unlike the anniversary of coeducation,<br />

which we celebrated in 1996 by interviewing<br />

a number of those pioneering young women,<br />

there is no anniversary of diversity; as a school<br />

we made no single decision to be diverse. But<br />

the celebration is still long overdue.<br />

As both articles point out, having a<br />

multicultural faculty who can serve as role<br />

models for today’s students is key. This is a<br />

continuing challenge for Dean of Faculty<br />

Penny Townsend as she seeks the ideal candidates<br />

for each year’s vacancies. We are<br />

fortunate this year not only to have Felecia<br />

Washington Williams ’84 return to campus,<br />

but also to welcome new English teacher<br />

Steve Le (page 22), who has made an immediate<br />

impact on the boys on his hall, the girls<br />

on his team, and the students in his classes.<br />

<strong>The</strong> spring issue is, of course, when we celebrate<br />

the careers of retiring faculty members,<br />

and the task is all the more interesting when the<br />

subject is an alumnus whose career at the school<br />

is as varied as Chip Spencer’s (page 24).<br />

And there is so much more to share with<br />

you. Every page of class notes finds something<br />

to pique my interest. Thanks, too, for<br />

all the books and photographs you’ve sent,<br />

and, please, keep those letters coming.<br />

—Julie Reiff, editor<br />

We welcome Letters to the Editor relating to the content<br />

of the magazine. Letters may be edited for length,<br />

clarity, and content, and are published at the editor’s<br />

discretion. Send correspondence to:<br />

Julie Reiff • <strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin<br />

110 Woodbury Road<br />

Watertown, CT 06795-2100 U.S.A.<br />

or to ReiffJ@<strong>Taft</strong><strong>School</strong>.org


ALUMNI SPOTLIGHT<br />

Alumni<br />

SPOTLIGHT<br />

Deserted<br />

In Brief<br />

Benefit Concert<br />

Jay Gandhi ’00 gave a benefit concert<br />

of classical Indian music and<br />

dance with master teacher and performer<br />

Rachna Ramya Agrawal in<br />

February at the Litchfield Community<br />

Center. Proceeds benefited the<br />

Litchfield Montessori <strong>School</strong>.<br />

Dan Senecal ’60 during a 1,300-mile motorcycle trip through the United Arab Emirates,<br />

the Sultanate of Oman, and eastern Saudi Arabia.<br />

Dan Senecal ’60 recently motorcycled<br />

for ten days with nine Germans and two<br />

Austrians on a 1,300-mile route from<br />

Dubai in the United Arab Emirates through<br />

the Sultanate of Oman to the “backdoor”<br />

of Eastern Saudi Arabia. Dan rode a BMW<br />

1100GS along the Gulf of Oman to<br />

Muscat, capital of the Sultanate, then inland<br />

over the Jabal Abu Da’du Mountains<br />

on dirt and gravel to desert oasis villages<br />

such as Al Hazm, Al Rustaq, and Nakhl.<br />

“It was amazing,” says Senecal.<br />

“When we’d reach these oases in the<br />

Omanese desert, the kids were fascinated<br />

with us and we with them. We’d give<br />

them rides out into the desert.”<br />

He found this group of motorcycle<br />

enthusiasts through the Austrian company<br />

Edelweiss, which arranges for experienced<br />

motorcyclists to go all over Europe and<br />

on scouting expeditions like his.<br />

“Most Americans are afraid of that<br />

area, especially now,” he says, “but I was<br />

received fabulously. People were amazingly<br />

friendly toward me and extremely<br />

welcoming. It was an incredible trip.”<br />

Senecal first hiked through the Southern<br />

Desert 25 years ago and has been across<br />

the Sahara five times. He has visited over<br />

101 countries, but this was his first motorcycle<br />

trip. For his next adventure, he plans<br />

to motorcycle the coast of South Africa.<br />

Benched<br />

You can usually catch a glimpse of<br />

Elizabeth Matzkin Smith ’88 on TV<br />

while she’s working at Duke basketball<br />

games; she’s the only female<br />

sitting on the men’s bench. Liz, who<br />

received her M.D. from Tulane, is a<br />

research fellow in sports medicine<br />

surgery at Duke.<br />

Word on Asthma<br />

Paul Ehrlich ’62 appeared on the CBS<br />

Early Show’s health watch segment in<br />

December, talking about his recent<br />

book, What Your Doctor May Not Tell<br />

You About Children’s Allergies and<br />

Asthma. Ehrlich told co-anchor<br />

Hannah Storm that parents should<br />

pay attention to the nose. “Physicians<br />

tend to concentrate on the lungs and<br />

forget about the nose. So a stuffy nose<br />

has to be taken care of and not be<br />

taken lightly.”<br />

<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Spring 2004<br />

5


EVAN ZELERMYER<br />

ALUMNI SPOTLIGHT<br />

On the Mall with Tennessee Williams<br />

Framji Minwalla ’83 is just finishing a<br />

four-lecture series for the Smithsonian’s<br />

“Campus on the Mall” program. Each<br />

of the talks explored a different period<br />

of Tennessee Williams’ work.<br />

Starting with a look at Williams’ own<br />

life and youthful writing in the first talk,<br />

Minwalla explored two of his major<br />

works—<strong>The</strong> Glass Menagerie and A Streetcar<br />

Named Desire—in the second; how Cat<br />

on a Hot Tin Roof was set in the prosperity<br />

of the postwar years in the third; and<br />

looked at Williams’ later plays in the fourth.<br />

“Desires and dreams are explored by<br />

no American playwright as brilliantly as<br />

they are by Tennessee Williams,”<br />

Minwalla explains. “His plays and short<br />

stories show us minds and bodies fractured<br />

by the pressures of an indifferent<br />

world intent on shaping individuals in<br />

its own image.”<br />

Minwalla also recently directed<br />

Bertolt Brecht’s one-act play <strong>The</strong> Baby<br />

Elephant at D.C.’s Arena Stage during<br />

their recent production of Brecht’s A<br />

Man’s a Man.<br />

“Since Brecht wrote this short piece<br />

to be performed in the lobby during<br />

intermissions for productions of his<br />

longer anti-war play,” said Minwalla,<br />

“Arena Stage, at my instigation, invited<br />

area colleges to participate by staging<br />

different versions of the short piece.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y also held a series of symposia on<br />

Brecht, and asked me to participate.”<br />

Earlier in his career, Minwalla spent five<br />

years as an actor and dramaturg with<br />

<strong>The</strong> Brecht Company at the University<br />

of Michigan-Ann Arbor.<br />

Minwalla is an assistant professor at<br />

George Washington University—teaching<br />

theater history, dramatic literature,<br />

and dramaturgy in the departments of<br />

English and of <strong>The</strong>ater and Dance—as<br />

well as an instructor with the Smithsonian<br />

Resident Associate Program. He earned his<br />

doctorate in fine arts at Yale <strong>School</strong> of<br />

Drama and taught in the Department of<br />

<strong>The</strong>ater at Dartmouth College for five<br />

years before moving to Washington.<br />

He is coeditor of <strong>The</strong> Queerest Art:<br />

Essays on Lesbian and Gay <strong>The</strong>ater<br />

(NYU Press, 2002) and is working on<br />

a new book tentatively titled History,<br />

Performance, Politics: Queer Essays on<br />

Making and Teaching <strong>The</strong>ater. He also<br />

serves on the advisory board for the<br />

Center for Lesbian and Gay Studies at<br />

the City University of New York’s<br />

Graduate Center.<br />

Last Boat to Cadiz<br />

Barnaby Conrad ’40<br />

Capra Press, 2003<br />

Employment with a Human Face<br />

John W. Budd ’83<br />

Cornell University Press, 2004<br />

Europe 1945: Hitler is dead, the<br />

Third Reich is an open wound….<br />

Amid the chaos, a man like no other<br />

makes his way south through France<br />

and into Spain. No one will stand<br />

in his way and live. Only idealistic young Wilson Tripp,<br />

American vice-consul in the city of Seville, stands to discover<br />

the man’s true identity and the stunning threat he poses.<br />

That is, if Tripp can survive.<br />

Author Barnaby Conrad was himself an American<br />

vice-consul in Seville during World War II. As an amateur<br />

bullfighter, he performed in Mexico, Spain, and Peru over<br />

a period of 15 years. He is the author of 32 books, including<br />

Matador, <strong>The</strong> Encyclopedia of Bullfighting, and Name<br />

Dropping, and is the founder and director of the Santa Barbara<br />

Writers’ Conference.<br />

“A master storyteller has done it again with a great tale about<br />

the very end of the world war set in a country he knows and<br />

loves so well.”<br />

—William F. Buckley Jr.<br />

John W. Budd contends that the<br />

turbulence of the workplace and the<br />

importance of work for individuals and<br />

society make it vitally important that<br />

employment be given “a human face.”<br />

Drawing on scholarship from industrial relations, law, political<br />

science, moral philosophy, theology, psychology, sociology,<br />

and economics, he argues that the traditional narrow focus on<br />

efficiency must be balanced with employees’ entitlement to<br />

fair treatment (equity) and the opportunity to have meaningful<br />

input into decisions (voice). Only through a greater respect<br />

for these human concerns can broadly shared prosperity, respect<br />

for human dignity, and equal appreciation for the<br />

competing human rights of property and labor be achieved.<br />

Budd is Industrial Relations Landgrant Term Professor at the<br />

Carlson <strong>School</strong> of Management at the University of Minnesota.<br />

“Employment with a Human Face will quickly be viewed as a<br />

classic statement of the first principles underlying the study and<br />

practice of modern human resources and industrial relations.”<br />

—Thomas A. Kochan, MIT Sloan <strong>School</strong> of Management


IN PRINT<br />

Designing Daughter<br />

“This book was born of necessity,” writes<br />

Leslie Banker ’88 of <strong>The</strong> Pocket Decorator<br />

(below). “About five years ago I started<br />

working at my mother’s interior design<br />

firm, and although I had a general knowledge<br />

of decorating—gained through a<br />

lifelong proximity to my mother’s<br />

work—I was less certain of its specifics.<br />

Fortunately, I had a treasure trove of<br />

information available in my mother.”<br />

Banker began asking questions and<br />

keeping a notebook to record what she<br />

learned; <strong>The</strong> Pocket Decorator is a polished<br />

version of that overstuffed notebook.<br />

This visual primer of interior design<br />

is small enough to slip into your pocket.<br />

With chapters on fabrics, floor treatments,<br />

furniture, hardware, lighting, trimmings,<br />

upholstery, walls, and windows, and sidebars<br />

on such topics as how to buy a lampshade<br />

or decorate in the country style, “It’s like<br />

having your own personal decorator in your<br />

pocket wherever you go,” says Banker.<br />

Leslie Banker ’88 and her mother/mentor Pamela Banker ALI PRICE<br />

“A lot of design books are big and<br />

heavy,” she says, “not the sort of thing you<br />

want to lug around to a meeting with an<br />

architect, an upholsterer, or while shopping.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> pocket-sized volume includes vocabulary,<br />

some history, and stylistic ideas<br />

along with beautifully detailed illustrations.<br />

“For me,” writes Banker, “writing<br />

this book was a unique opportunity to<br />

learn and understand more about what<br />

my mother has been doing since before I<br />

was even born.”<br />

Dreadful Conversions:<br />

<strong>The</strong> Making of a Catholic Socialist<br />

John C. Cort ’35<br />

Fordham University Press, 2003<br />

For more than 50 years, John C. Cort<br />

has been at the center of most of the<br />

social movements of our time, fighting<br />

good fights in dozens of campaigns for<br />

justice, peace, and human rights. Labor leader, community organizer,<br />

writer/editor on <strong>The</strong> Catholic Worker, here is his<br />

story—the measure of an exemplary life and a vivid chronicle of<br />

American activism. At its heart, this is also the story of what it<br />

means to take seriously the distinctively radical Catholic vision<br />

that informs American political and religious life in this century.<br />

Cort is now coeditor of Religious Socialism, a quarterly<br />

he hopes to revive, and author of Christian Socialism: An<br />

Informal History.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Pocket Decorator<br />

Pamela and Leslie Banker ’88<br />

Universe Publishing, 2004<br />

(see above)<br />

“Cort crafted Dreadful Conversions to be as much philosophical<br />

primer as autobiography, as much intellectual journey as recollection<br />

of days past…. He always eyed a life of political activism<br />

through the lens of his Catholic faith, but not until the mid-1970s<br />

did this focus prompt a second conversion: to socialism.”<br />

—Lee Hudson Teslik, Harvard Magazine<br />

<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Spring 2004<br />

7


AROUND THE POND<br />

pond<br />

<strong>School</strong> Acquires Historic King James Bible<br />

<strong>The</strong> newest archival acquisition for <strong>Taft</strong>’s Sacred Texts<br />

collection is a 1616 King James Bible. <strong>The</strong> first edition<br />

of the King James Bible to be printed in a “lectern<br />

folio” size and intended for use at Cambridge and<br />

Oxford, it was published only five years after the original<br />

King James Pulpit Bible. <strong>The</strong> 1616 first edition<br />

corrected any printing errors and includes additional<br />

research material not found in the 1611 version.<br />

An Anglican Book of Common Prayer, an illustrated<br />

genealogy of Christ, a standard Psalter, a<br />

metrical Psalter (with musical notation), and a map<br />

of the Holy Land “distinguish the academic provenance<br />

of this very rare first edition,” says Chaplain<br />

Michael Spencer. “Its acquisition underscores <strong>Taft</strong>’s<br />

continued commitment to religious diversity and<br />

interfaith understanding.”<br />

“This nearly 400-year-old Bible is probably the<br />

most significant archival addition the school has<br />

made,” Headmaster Willy MacMullen said. “Together<br />

with the purchase of the historic Torah last year, I think<br />

<strong>Taft</strong> has done something powerfully symbolic and<br />

unprecedented among private non-sectarian schools.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> acquisition was made possible by the generosity<br />

of Alan and Ann Blanchard, parents of James ’03.<br />

A detail of “<strong>The</strong> Tree of Life” from the book of<br />

Genesis in the school’s newly acquired 1616 first edition<br />

King James Bible dedicated in Walker Hall on April 15.<br />

8<br />

<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Spring 2004


AROUND THE POND<br />

Noises Off<br />

SAMUEL DANGREMOND ’05<br />

No Need for<br />

Global Warning<br />

Retired geologist and professor<br />

emeritus Lucian Platt ’49 came to<br />

campus to talk with environmental<br />

studies students in Laube Auditorium<br />

in January. “I’m trying to<br />

improve science teaching in city<br />

schools,” Lucian told classmates at<br />

his last reunion, “and give talks<br />

aimed at reducing alarm about global<br />

warming, which has been going<br />

on for centuries.”<br />

Susannah Walden ’06, Mariel Montuori ’04, Camden Flath ’05, and Lily Cowles ’05 performed<br />

the farcical play-within-a-play Noises Off for audiences on Mothers’ Day weekend.<br />

SAMUEL DANGREMOND ’05<br />

PETER FREW ’75<br />

A Little Bit of Scotland Comes to Life in Walker Hall<br />

<strong>The</strong> Baltimore Consort—a sextet of<br />

musicians renowned for their revival of<br />

the popular music of the Renaissance—<br />

performed in Walker Hall in March.<br />

<strong>The</strong> lively concert focused on the early<br />

music of Scotland, including songs from<br />

their latest CD, Adew Dundee, and the<br />

earlier On the Banks of Helicon. <strong>The</strong>y<br />

played a variety of period instruments—<br />

lute, viol, flute, cittern, bagpipe, early<br />

guitar, rebec, recorder, and crumhorn.<br />

Founded in 1980, the Baltimore<br />

Consort has toured extensively in the<br />

U.S.A. and Europe. <strong>The</strong>ir numerous<br />

recordings have earned a place on the<br />

Billboard Magazine Top-Ten list, and<br />

Billboard named the group one of<br />

the Top Classical Crossover Artists<br />

for 1993. For more information, visit<br />

www.baltcons.com.<br />

<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Spring 2004<br />

9


AROUND THE POND<br />

PETER FREW ’75<br />

Wilson Quartet Wows Jazz Fans<br />

“<strong>The</strong> Matt Wilson Quartet was so utterly<br />

inspiring,” said instrumental music director<br />

T.J. Thompson. “Rarely have I heard a<br />

group pour so much energy, emotion, and<br />

imagination into their playing. <strong>The</strong>y have<br />

almost completely redefined the genre of<br />

jazz, and they are quite hilarious to boot!”<br />

In addition to the Walker Hall concert,<br />

the quartet held a workshop for<br />

students on the following morning.<br />

“<strong>The</strong>ir workshop helped the kids find<br />

ways to make the music fun and to play<br />

with much more conviction and enthusiasm,”<br />

Thompson said. “It was the perfect<br />

cure for an early Saturday morning class<br />

in one of the coldest winters in decades.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y were terrific.”<br />

Celebrating<br />

Martin Luther<br />

King Jr.<br />

Michael Ficarra, the founder of<br />

Equality for All Races, was the featured<br />

guest speaker on Dr. Martin<br />

Luther King Jr.’s birthday. <strong>The</strong><br />

mission of EFAR is to take “an aggressive<br />

approach to eliminate the<br />

ignorant belief that an individual’s<br />

character, integrity, and human<br />

rights are based on the color of his<br />

or her skin or ethnic background.”<br />

His visit and all of the activities on<br />

the following Monday were sponsored<br />

by the Diversity Committee.<br />

Instead of classes, students were<br />

treated to the Gospel choir SIII and<br />

the Truth, followed by an African<br />

Dance Workshop and a poetry presentation<br />

by Spoken Word. <strong>The</strong><br />

highlight of the day for many was<br />

an International Food Festival in<br />

Armstrong Dining Hall, followed<br />

by a salsa, tango, and merengue<br />

performance in the Choral Room<br />

after dinner.<br />

Making Moves<br />

As Rockwell Visiting Artists, Pilobolus<br />

Dance <strong>The</strong>ater members Emily Kent<br />

and Rebecca Jung presented a special<br />

half-hour lecture demonstration in<br />

<strong>School</strong> Meeting in January and worked<br />

with dance classes throughout the day.<br />

Pilobolus is a major American dance<br />

company of international stature that<br />

originated in a Dartmouth College<br />

dance class in 1971. <strong>The</strong> group is<br />

acclaimed for its mix of humor and<br />

creative invention, its members choreographing,<br />

dancing, managing, and<br />

publicizing their own programs.<br />

PETER FREW ’75


JACKIE MALONEY<br />

AROUND THE POND<br />

Alumni on Ice<br />

Forty alumni returned on January 24<br />

to play in the alumni hockey game.<br />

<strong>The</strong> near-record turnout was thanks to<br />

Jake Odden ’86, who spearheaded the<br />

event when early responses indicated<br />

there might not be enough interest.<br />

Ironically, circumstances prevented<br />

him from attending, namely the birth<br />

of his second child.<br />

La Bottega II (A Family Portrait), oil on linen, 26" x 52"<br />

Langdon Quin: Paintings and Works on Paper<br />

For many, Langdon Quin’s rich landscapes<br />

and colorful still lifes brightened<br />

up a long Watertown winter. Quin ’66<br />

returned to campus for the opening,<br />

presenting a talk that morning at <strong>School</strong><br />

Meeting about his decision to pursue<br />

art as a career, and the influence of<br />

the later Mark Potter ’48 on his work.<br />

A graduate of Yale University’s M.F.A.<br />

program, Quin is represented by Kraushaar<br />

Galleries in New York and Hackett-<br />

Freeman Gallery in San Francisco.<br />

Currently teaching at the University<br />

of New Hampshire, he has also taught<br />

at Boston University, Cornell, Vassar,<br />

SUNY, Skidmore, and Washington and<br />

Lee, among others. His many honors<br />

include a Louis Comfort Tiffany Award,<br />

a New York Foundation for the Arts<br />

Award, a Fulbright Hays Grant for<br />

study in Italy, and a National Endowment<br />

for the Arts Award. Quin’s work<br />

was on exhibit in the Mark W. Potter<br />

Gallery from January 29 to March 6.<br />

<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Spring 2004<br />

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AROUND THE POND<br />

In Brief<br />

Art Honors<br />

Antonia Fraker ’04 received an honorable<br />

mention in the Connecticut<br />

Scholastic Art Awards for one of<br />

her pencil drawings, which was on<br />

display at the Hartford Art <strong>School</strong><br />

Gallery, University of Hartford,<br />

from January 18 to February 6.<br />

Onward to All-State Festival<br />

Eleven students attended the<br />

Connecticut Music Educators<br />

Association Northern Regional<br />

Festival in January, culminating in<br />

a concert in New Britain. Each<br />

was chosen after auditioning in<br />

November with other high school<br />

students from the Northwest corner<br />

of Connecticut.<br />

“It is an honor to be selected,”<br />

said Art Department head Bruce<br />

Fifer. <strong>The</strong> regionals are the first<br />

step in the process leading up to<br />

the All-State Music Festival held<br />

in Hartford in April.<br />

Six singers from <strong>Taft</strong>’s Collegium<br />

Musicum: Lila Claghorn ’04, Joanna<br />

Quayle ’05, Lauren Malaspina ’04,<br />

Paul Sorokin ’05, Jon McDonald ’05,<br />

and Arden Klemmer ’05 sang with<br />

the Northern Regional Choir.<br />

<strong>Taft</strong> Chamber Ensemble musicians<br />

Caroline Berger ’06 and<br />

Christina Lewis ’04 performed<br />

with the Northern Regional<br />

Concert Band; Jason Kim ’06,<br />

Vivian Chiang ’04, and Doris Kim<br />

’04 performed with the Northern<br />

Regional Orchestra.<br />

Coaching All-Star<br />

Congratulations to Will Orben<br />

’92 who was selected as coach of<br />

the year by Connecticut Soccer<br />

Coaches Association.<br />

Treasure Maps<br />

Frank Runyeon, a nationally renowned<br />

speaker in the area of mass media and<br />

ethics, spoke at <strong>School</strong> Meeting on “Treasure:<br />

Life After Prep <strong>School</strong>, What <strong>The</strong>y<br />

Don’t Tell You.” He also visited philosophy<br />

and public-speaking classes and was<br />

available to students throughout the day<br />

as an artist-in-residence.<br />

Runyeon has worked in television,<br />

film, and radio for over 25 years. He is<br />

best known for his work on TV, appearing<br />

in more than 1,000 television<br />

programs as diverse as Melrose Place,<br />

Falcon Crest, LA Law, and his starring<br />

role opposite Meg Ryan for seven years<br />

in As the World Turns.<br />

His talk, sponsored by the Paduano<br />

Lecture Series in Philosophy and Ethics,<br />

In Tune with the Yale Symphony<br />

<strong>The</strong> Chamber Ensemble traveled to<br />

Yale to perform for Yale Symphony<br />

Orchestra conductor Maestro Hahm<br />

in February.<br />

“<strong>The</strong> workshop involved us playing,<br />

getting some feedback, and then<br />

combined his knowledge and experience<br />

in Hollywood with his academic background.<br />

He attended the Hill <strong>School</strong>,<br />

Princeton University, and studied at<br />

Fuller Seminary, Yale Divinity <strong>School</strong>,<br />

and General <strong>The</strong>ological Seminary in<br />

New York.<br />

hearing and talking with some of<br />

the orchestra members about what it<br />

takes to be a musician at the college<br />

level,” said instrumental music director<br />

T.J. Thompson. “It was a great<br />

opportunity for all of us.”<br />

SAMUEL DANGREMOND ’05<br />

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Canine Rescue<br />

Makes Local<br />

Headlines<br />

SAMUEL DANGREMOND ’05<br />

A walk according to Garp<br />

A teacher walking her dog is a familiar<br />

enough sight on any campus, but<br />

for history teacher Rachel Ryan, one<br />

Sunday morning walk went seriously<br />

awry. At the end of winter break,<br />

Ryan’s five-year-old yellow Labrador,<br />

Garp, turned their outing into a halfday<br />

affair when he decided to explore<br />

a narrow drainpipe by the tennis<br />

courts and couldn’t get out.<br />

Ensuing efforts to dislodge him involved<br />

the local animal control officer,<br />

the fire department, school security,<br />

and members of the grounds crew.<br />

“I’ve received many phone calls at<br />

home over the years regarding the failures<br />

of heat, water, et cetera, but this<br />

has probably been the most bizarre,”<br />

said Jim Shepard, head of the Facilities<br />

Department.<br />

Garp emerged four and a half<br />

hours later, soggy and muddy but un-<br />

harmed, and ran into the arms of Ryan<br />

and husband Greg Hawes ’85.<br />

Garp, who had crawled 250 feet in<br />

from the pipe’s entrance, received a thorough<br />

bath after his grimy experience,<br />

which is for him “the closest thing to a<br />

punishment,” said Hawes. Ryan and<br />

Hawes, however, were doomed to relive<br />

the experience throughout the week, as<br />

the Waterbury Republican, Town Times,<br />

and <strong>Taft</strong> Papyrus all carried the story.<br />

Sources: Waterbury Republican; Town Times;<br />

Samuel Dangremond ’05, <strong>Taft</strong> Papyrus<br />

PETER FREW ’75<br />

Squash Finals<br />

In an interesting turn of events, the<br />

finals of a January U.S. Squash Rackets<br />

Association tournament, which began<br />

at Choate, were held on <strong>Taft</strong>’s courts<br />

since the finalists were all <strong>Taft</strong> students.<br />

In the Under-19 draw, Tucker George<br />

’04 (1st seed) faced Gordon McMorris<br />

’03 (3rd seed). In the Under-17 draw,<br />

Michael Shrubb ’06 (1st seed) faced<br />

Peter Irving ’06 (2nd seed). <strong>The</strong> day<br />

presented a rare opportunity for <strong>Taft</strong><br />

fans to cheer for all participants. Tucker<br />

George and Michael Shrubb won out<br />

in their respective divisions; Alastair<br />

Smith ’05 won the consolation bracket<br />

of the Under-19s. (For more on the<br />

squash season, see page 14.)<br />

<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Spring 2004<br />

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S P O R T<br />

sport<br />

By Steve Palmer<br />

Girls’ Basketball 16–5<br />

With double wins over rivals Hotchkiss and<br />

Loomis, the girls earned a tournament seeding<br />

for the fourth year in a row. Despite<br />

losing two key players mid-season, this team<br />

distinguished itself with outstanding overall<br />

defense. All Founders League guard Keri<br />

Gritt ’04 was the best outside shooter, and<br />

forward Sha-kayla Crockett ’05 was a New<br />

England Class A All Star. However, offensively<br />

and in nearly every category, senior<br />

captain Katie McCabe led the way, averaging<br />

17 points and 10 rebounds per game<br />

this season. She also became <strong>Taft</strong>’s first ever<br />

1,000-point scorer. A member of the varsity<br />

for all four years at <strong>Taft</strong>, she was named<br />

a First Team New England Class A All Star<br />

for her junior and senior years.<br />

Boys’ Basketball 2–21<br />

<strong>The</strong> team began the season with five new<br />

starters after the apparent season-ending<br />

injury to All-League guard Brian Baudinet<br />

’04. Senior guard Tyler Whitley led the<br />

team through a season of close games<br />

against some very talented teams, especially<br />

from Berkshire, Trinity-Pawling, and<br />

Loomis, who all made the New England<br />

tournament. In fact, the Rhinos battled<br />

#3 ranked T-P down to the final minute<br />

late in the season. When Baudinet did<br />

return to action, <strong>Taft</strong> blew out Avon<br />

69–49 for only their second win and then<br />

nearly upset a strong Salisbury team<br />

behind his 37 points. Whitley and captain-elect<br />

David Halas ’05 were Founders<br />

League All Stars, and Sam Smythe ’05<br />

finished 2nd in the league in 3-point<br />

shooting (39.1 percent). Despite missing<br />

19 of their 23 games this year, Brian<br />

Baudinet still finished his remarkable<br />

four-year career as the boys’ all-time leading<br />

scorer with 950 points.<br />

Ski Racing<br />

Competing in the Berkshire Ski League<br />

and the New England Class C Division,<br />

the boys’ and girls’ teams battled Loomis,<br />

Berkshire, and Suffield on a regular basis.<br />

Middler Wiley Johnston and captain Will<br />

Rickards ’06 provided leadership for the<br />

boys’ team, while newcomer Harry Weyher<br />

’07 and Nick Wirth ’06 placed highest at<br />

the NEPSAC Slalom championships—<br />

18th and 19th respectively out of 70 skiers.<br />

<strong>The</strong> team placed 8th out of 15 and, combined<br />

with the girls’ team, finished the<br />

season in 5th place in the BSL. Maggie<br />

Seay ’07 led the girls’ to a 7th place finish<br />

in the NEPSAC C Championships with<br />

a 12th place finish in the slalom. Uppermid<br />

Mercer Wu and captain Hillary Lewis<br />

’04 were 20th and 21st out of 50 skiers.<br />

Boys’ Squash 12–2<br />

Once again the <strong>Taft</strong> squash team distinguished<br />

itself with stellar performances<br />

and first-rate sportsmanship, finishing 3rd<br />

at the New England Championships.<br />

Though they were not able to repeat as<br />

New England champs, the <strong>Taft</strong> players did<br />

dominate the Founders League as they<br />

have for over a decade. <strong>The</strong>y earned the<br />

New England Sportsmanship Award for<br />

the third time in the last four years—an<br />

impressive honor for coach Peter Frew<br />

and this whole program. Captain Tucker<br />

George ’04 led the team all season at the<br />

#1 spot, but this team was strong all the<br />

way down the ladder. In fact, Ben<br />

Macaskill ’05, Sam Beatt ’07, Peter Irving<br />

’06, and Alastair Smith ’05 all made it to<br />

the New England finals in the 7th, 6th,<br />

5th, and 4th draws respectively while senior<br />

Gordon McMorris placed 3rd in the<br />

#3 spot and Michael Shrubb ’06 won the<br />

#2 consolation bracket.<br />

Girls’ Squash 10–2<br />

If last year’s team was the best in school<br />

history, this year’s squad would have<br />

battled them to the final point; the girls<br />

finished tied for 2nd at the New England<br />

Championships and defeated every opponent<br />

aside from eight-time champion<br />

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S P O R T<br />

Greenwich Academy. Once again, senior<br />

Supriya Balsekar won the individual New<br />

England title (that makes 3) to complete<br />

an undefeated career at <strong>Taft</strong>—her individual<br />

match record stands at 48–0 and<br />

the team never finished lower than third<br />

in New England in her three years. In the<br />

words of coach Bogardus, “Supriya has<br />

brought <strong>Taft</strong> squash to a new level.” Such<br />

success was again duplicated by Sydney<br />

Scott’s repeat championship in the #2 spot.<br />

In fact, Scott powered through the season<br />

without coming close to losing a single<br />

game. Highlights include a 6–1 win over<br />

Deerfield and two exciting 4–3 wins over<br />

Hotchkiss, where captain-elect Margot<br />

Webel ’05 fought back from 0–2 down to<br />

win both matches.<br />

Girls’ Hockey 13–7–4<br />

Founders League Co-Champions<br />

Having graduated several Division I recruits,<br />

this was the youngest girls’ hockey<br />

team in many years. <strong>The</strong>ir success rested<br />

heavily on the seniors; Kerry Kiley,<br />

Katherine Simmons, and Emily Morris<br />

formed a rock solid defense, while Jaclyn<br />

Hawkins provided the critical goals in all<br />

those close games on the way to an 8th<br />

seed in the New England Tournament.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y lost the 1st round game to Nobles,<br />

who repeated as New England champions,<br />

but to get there this team pulled out<br />

several unexpected triumphs, including<br />

tying the top three teams in New England<br />

(Berkshire 2–2, Cushing 3–3, and<br />

undefeated Nobles 1–1). <strong>The</strong>ir most<br />

exciting win came at Choate, down 2–0,<br />

with three third-period goals for a 3–2<br />

victory and a share of the Founders<br />

League title. Hawkins was the team’s<br />

high scorer and a New England All<br />

Star. Blueliners Morris and Kiley, along<br />

with forward Tucker Marrison ’04, were<br />

Founders League All Stars.<br />

Boys’ Hockey 17–6–1<br />

Founders League Champions<br />

For the 7th time in eight years the <strong>Taft</strong><br />

boys’ hockey team entered the New<br />

England Tournament ranked near the top.<br />

<strong>The</strong>ir season included powerful wins over<br />

Salisbury (5–2) and Hotchkiss (6–1). In<br />

what has turned into a spectacular rivalry,<br />

<strong>Taft</strong> again drew Salisbury in the first<br />

round of the tournament. This year’s<br />

game proved to be one of the finest prepschool<br />

contests in recent memory, and<br />

Mike Maher’s squad found themselves<br />

down 2–0 on Salisbury’s home ice. A<br />

perfect man-up goal late in the 2nd by<br />

senior Keith Shattenkirk and an early<br />

3rd-period goal from middler Luke<br />

Popko created the scene for Matt Smith’s<br />

game winner with two minutes left. <strong>The</strong><br />

Rhinos had every chance to win their<br />

semifinal game, but it was Tabor who<br />

scored late in the 3rd period to break a<br />

3–3 tie and go on to the finals. Senior TJ<br />

Kelley began the season injured but<br />

ended up as the leading scorer (24 goals),<br />

due in part to the fine play of linemates<br />

Popko and co-captain Tom Maldonado<br />

’04. Seniors Will Reycraft, Sam Driver,<br />

Brendan Milnamow, and J.D. McCabe<br />

anchored the defense. With 14 seniors<br />

moving on to college hockey ranks and<br />

Coach Maher finishing up after his 18th<br />

season, <strong>Taft</strong> hockey will start something<br />

of a new era next year. In his time here,<br />

Maher has built a legacy of excellence on<br />

and off the ice. His teams have brought<br />

honor to the school with their success,<br />

their spirit, and their sportsmanship. For<br />

the second time in his career, Maher<br />

was awarded the National Ice Hockey<br />

Officials Coach of the Year Sportsmanship<br />

Award. <strong>The</strong> boys’ record for the past<br />

five years stands at 100–16–7.<br />

Wrestling 8–10<br />

Posting key victories over Avon (35–34)<br />

and Suffield (37–36), the squad was a<br />

young one, with underclassmen starting<br />

8 of the 14 varsity spots. Leading the way<br />

were senior co-captains Jon Acquaviva and<br />

Alex Bisset. Acquaviva came back from a<br />

second knee operation to place 6th at the<br />

Western New England Championships;<br />

Bisset led the team with a 21–6 record,<br />

a 2nd place finish at 215 lbs. at the<br />

Westerns, and his tough, no-nonsense<br />

leadership all season. Freshman Dante<br />

Paolino and middler Toren Kutnick also<br />

placed at the Western Championships.<br />

Supriya Balsekar ’04 won the individual<br />

New England title (for the third year in a<br />

row) to complete an undefeated career at<br />

<strong>Taft</strong>—her individual match record stands at<br />

48–0 and the team never finished lower than<br />

third in New England in her three years.<br />

Captain Katie McCabe ’04 averaged 17<br />

points and 10 rebounds per game this season<br />

and became <strong>Taft</strong>’s first ever 1,000-point scorer.<br />

Linemates Luke Popko ’06 and co-captain<br />

Tom Maldonado ’04 in a win over Lawrenceville<br />

PHOTOGRAPHY BY PETER FREW ’75


LESLIE MANNING ARCHIVES<br />

Making All the<br />

Difference<br />

Fitting in, conforming to the norm, can be among the most difficult<br />

pressures teens face. For students of color, alumni say, those pressures<br />

brought additional feelings of loneliness and isolation.<br />

By Bonnie Blackburn Penhollow ’84


LESLIE MANNING ARCHIVES<br />

S<br />

aturday nights at <strong>Taft</strong> have<br />

long been a chance to<br />

blow off steam, watching<br />

movies and socializing<br />

with classmates.<br />

For Wayne Jackson ’57, they were<br />

torture.<br />

“I would go outside alone and sit on<br />

a bench on the sideline of the soccer field,<br />

where I played varsity soccer for the<br />

school. It was freezing cold, and tears<br />

would roll down my face. That’s how<br />

isolated and alone I felt.”<br />

As the school’s first black student,<br />

Jackson endured catcalls of “nigger,”<br />

disbelieving stares and condescension.<br />

A native of Bermuda, where he still resides,<br />

Jackson entered <strong>Taft</strong> as a middler<br />

in 1954, just after the historic Supreme<br />

Court decision ordering the desegregation<br />

of American public schools.<br />

When Jackson arrived at <strong>Taft</strong>, he was<br />

told he would have to start as a lower<br />

mid, that he would have no roommate,<br />

and that he would have to be chaperoned<br />

when visiting girls’ schools.<br />

“Can you imagine how I felt—and<br />

still do,” he recalled. “This was the first<br />

day of what would be the loneliest three<br />

years of my life.”<br />

Though he successfully lobbied to<br />

remain a mid, Jackson said he was an oddity.<br />

He recalled one Mothers’ Day, passing<br />

a mother and her son in the corridor.<br />

“When I turned around, the mother<br />

had stopped dead in her tracks and was<br />

staring at me, probably in dumbfounded<br />

disbelief,” he said.<br />

“Being made to feel separate and<br />

different, and sometimes inferior, together<br />

with the consequent loneliness<br />

and ostracism—these were the worst,”<br />

he remembers.<br />

“I was tolerated,” he said. “But in<br />

fairness, my presence at <strong>Taft</strong> was new, something<br />

in the whole previous history of the<br />

school they had not dealt with before.”<br />

Although the first black student,<br />

Jackson was not the first minority. From<br />

the school’s earliest days, students from<br />

other cultures have attended <strong>Taft</strong>. One was<br />

Julio Rodriguez ’45 from Puerto Rico.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Beta tennis team in 1957<br />

<strong>The</strong> cover of the Bulletin from the fall of<br />

1964 assembled students and faculty who<br />

brought with them “a personal knowledge<br />

of life in foreign lands,” even if only for a<br />

summer. Clockwise from left, Roland Simon,<br />

Phillip Young, Alex Chu ’66, Thomas<br />

Baldwin ’65, George Dunlop, Stephen<br />

Armstrong ’65, John Esty, Leslie Manning,<br />

and Sam Kinuthia ’65. A similar “diversity”<br />

photograph today would include more than<br />

half the campus.<br />

“<strong>Taft</strong> opened the<br />

door to the<br />

wonderful world<br />

of education and<br />

career opportunities<br />

that have<br />

characterized my<br />

adult life.”<br />

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LESLIE MANNING ARCHIVES<br />

Afro-American Congress at <strong>Taft</strong> (ACT)<br />

from the 1972 Annual, seated from left,<br />

Aaron Williams '75, Elizabeth Dixon '73,<br />

Kevin Jones '73, Karen Stevenson '75, John<br />

Hare '75; standing, Carl Taylor '74, James<br />

Holloman '73, Michael Rubin '74, Moses<br />

Marshall '73, Zachary Highsmith '73, and<br />

Russel Jones '75. President Lee Keitt '72,<br />

Claude Williams '73, and Charisse Rivera<br />

'74 were not pictured.<br />

“I felt like<br />

others wanted<br />

me to assimilate<br />

rather than to<br />

learn about me<br />

and my culture.”<br />

“I’m very proud of my time at <strong>Taft</strong>,”<br />

he said from his home on the island. “I<br />

enjoyed my time there.”<br />

Rodriguez, who is now retired from<br />

the military, said his father, a commissions<br />

broker, thought <strong>Taft</strong> would be a<br />

good place for him.<br />

“I was pretty wild,” he said with a<br />

chuckle. “<strong>The</strong>y tamed me. I made the<br />

honor roll, and I was very proud of that.”<br />

Rodriguez said he didn’t recall<br />

any racial incidents or any overt acts<br />

of discrimination.<br />

When Manuel Rocha ’69 entered<br />

the school in the fall of 1965, the country<br />

was in the grip of racial unrest that<br />

spawned riots in Harlem, where Rocha<br />

lived with his mother and siblings.<br />

“I was born in Colombia and moved<br />

to the States after my father died, when I<br />

was 10 years old. My mother, sister, brother,<br />

and I moved in with my uncle who lived<br />

in Harlem. Hence, my first exposure to the<br />

States was ghetto life. My mother worked<br />

in a sweatshop sewing factory, while we<br />

attended public school and made do with<br />

welfare and food stamps assistance. I was a<br />

Hispanic living in a predominantly black<br />

cultural environment.”<br />

In 1964, Harlem burned in a race<br />

riot, prompting an attempt to lift children<br />

of the ghetto into a different world.<br />

Rocha was one of them.<br />

“In 1965 I won an ABC (A Better<br />

Chance) scholarship to attend <strong>Taft</strong>,”<br />

he said. “<strong>Taft</strong> was the best thing that<br />

happened to my life. <strong>Taft</strong> opened the<br />

door to the wonderful world of education<br />

and career opportunities that have characterized<br />

my adult life. I went to Yale,<br />

Harvard, and Georgetown because of<br />

<strong>Taft</strong>. Without <strong>Taft</strong> opening those doors,<br />

I would not have had the incredibly successful<br />

Foreign Service career I have had.”<br />

Rocha served as U.S. ambassador<br />

to Bolivia prior to his recent retirement<br />

from the U.S. State Department. He<br />

also served in Cuba, the Dominican<br />

Republic, Mexico, Italy, and Honduras.<br />

An internationally known expert on<br />

Latin American affairs, Rocha now works<br />

for a law firm in Miami.<br />

Only one racial incident at <strong>Taft</strong> still<br />

stands out in Rocha’s mind.<br />

“My closest friend from my lowermid<br />

year refused my offer to be roommates<br />

because he felt that if his sisters visited and<br />

saw who his roommate was, they would<br />

not think twice later of dating a black<br />

man,” he said. “I was devastated and considered<br />

suicide. Mr. Small, my Latin and<br />

track coach, listened to me and helped me<br />

overcome the only significant rejection I<br />

have ever experienced in my entire life.”<br />

Though he was Hispanic, Rocha was<br />

named head of the school’s black student<br />

association.<br />

“My ghetto experience and my ability<br />

to deal in that world made me<br />

acceptable to all the black kids,” he said.<br />

During that time, Rocha said he proposed<br />

helping white students understand<br />

what it is to be a minority by putting one<br />

white student in a group of black students.<br />

“<strong>The</strong>n, for the first time, they’re the<br />

minority,” he said. “I was told to drop<br />

the proposal, that it would create problems<br />

for (students’) families. I tried to<br />

explain that it was a way for the majority<br />

to understand how the minority would<br />

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feel. <strong>The</strong> school was walking very lightly<br />

through those years.”<br />

By the time Karen Stevenson ’75<br />

entered the school, being black wasn’t as<br />

strange as being one of the first females<br />

to attend the previously all-male school.<br />

“We kind of went through this initiation,”<br />

she recalled. “We had the experience<br />

of the school getting used to girls and the<br />

girls getting used to the school.”<br />

Stevenson and Rocha both noted<br />

that coming from an inner-city environment—and<br />

a lower economic<br />

background—was another factor that<br />

separated them from their classmates.<br />

“My experience and these kids’<br />

experience were very different,” said<br />

Stevenson, who grew up in Washington,<br />

D.C. “I had no idea where Boca Raton<br />

was. I was much more aware of the<br />

fact that these kids have such a sense<br />

of entitlement to the best of everything.”<br />

Stevenson also felt Jackson’s sense<br />

of apartness.<br />

“It was tough,” she admitted. “<strong>The</strong>re<br />

was an incredible sense of loneliness.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re was no interracial dating. I didn’t<br />

have boyfriends in high school. Nobody<br />

was going to date me. I got a lot of grief<br />

from the black kids for being smart. I<br />

felt I wasn’t really fitting in either place.”<br />

Stevenson—a Rhodes Scholar—still<br />

said <strong>Taft</strong> “was an amazing experience<br />

intellectually. It was the greatest thing<br />

that ever happened to me to get me out<br />

of the inner city.”<br />

She now is an attorney practicing<br />

business litigation in Los Angeles.<br />

Alex Chu ’66 came to Watertown<br />

from Hong Kong after spending a year<br />

at a parochial school in Massachusetts.<br />

His immersion in the high-stakes world<br />

of <strong>Taft</strong> academics left little time to notice<br />

any slurs on his background.<br />

“<strong>The</strong>re was name-calling, caricatures,<br />

nothing really drastic,” he said. “<strong>The</strong> normal<br />

pranks that one would play. Do you<br />

take it in jest or in a more serious, undermining<br />

way? Your own personal makeup<br />

[determines] how you take it.”<br />

Chu, now president of Eastbank in<br />

New York City and a former <strong>Taft</strong> trustee,<br />

credits headmaster emeritus Lance Odden,<br />

then a history teacher, with helping him<br />

keep up with modern Chinese history.<br />

Chu said younger teachers, such as<br />

Odden, helped him academically, while<br />

watching to see how he would integrate<br />

into the <strong>Taft</strong> student body.<br />

“<strong>The</strong> younger faculty were interested<br />

in my thinking,” he noted. “<strong>The</strong>y were<br />

curious about how I would handle things.<br />

A lot of the faculty had not visited foreign<br />

countries in those days.”<br />

As the only Asian student, Chu saw<br />

himself as a role model.<br />

“You’re the ambassador. You somehow<br />

have to have enough confidence in<br />

your values and your culture,” he said.<br />

“Nobody does when you’re 14 or 15.”<br />

Still, “I was able to influence a number<br />

of my classmates, [and provide] a<br />

refreshing look at the Chinese language,<br />

and through me the Chinese culture,”<br />

he added.<br />

Cassandra Chia-Wei Pan ’77 was the<br />

only Asian female student on campus,<br />

coming to <strong>Taft</strong> for her senior year from<br />

Hong Kong.<br />

“I was brought up in a traditional<br />

Chinese family with strong belief in academic<br />

excellence. I was your typical<br />

naïve and hardworking student from<br />

Asia,” she said.<br />

Pardo de Tavera brothers: <strong>School</strong>’s first international students<br />

<strong>The</strong> school’s first experience with<br />

diversity began with William Howard<br />

<strong>Taft</strong>’s appointment as governor of<br />

the Philippines in 1900 after the<br />

Spanish-American War.<br />

Among his chief advisers there was<br />

Dr. T.H. Pardo de Tavera, head of one<br />

of Manila’s more prominent families<br />

and a member of the Honorary Board<br />

of Filipino Commissioners.<br />

In 1904, Pardo de Tavera sent his<br />

two sons, Carlos ’09 and Alfredo ’11,<br />

off to Watertown, Conn., to study at<br />

the school run by Governor <strong>Taft</strong>’s<br />

younger brother.<br />

Although the boys did not<br />

graduate, they stayed for three years,<br />

returning to Manila in 1907. Little<br />

is known about their time here.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y were, however, already world<br />

travelers, coming to the U.S.<br />

from a stay in Paris and spending<br />

other summers in Tokyo.<br />

In August 1904, William<br />

Howard <strong>Taft</strong> writes, “I sincerely<br />

hope that you will<br />

find the Tavera boys all right.<br />

Of course, it is something of<br />

an experiment, but we have all<br />

made some experiments with the<br />

Filipinos and there is no reason why<br />

you should not have your share. Your<br />

affectionate brother, Will”<br />

Young Robert <strong>Taft</strong> ’05, William’s<br />

older son, was in his second year at the<br />

school when the Pardo de Tavera boys<br />

arrived, and they spent the Christmas<br />

holidays with the <strong>Taft</strong> family in<br />

Alfredo<br />

Washington, where William<br />

was now secretary of war, and<br />

visited again in March.<br />

Writing to Dr. Pardo<br />

de Tavera, <strong>Taft</strong> said, “I<br />

am glad to say, my dear<br />

Doctor, that your sons<br />

are looking well…. I<br />

think they both are improving<br />

in their English, and<br />

while they continue to look<br />

pale, they seem to me to be in good<br />

health. Carlos has grown more than<br />

Alfredo, but I thought both were in<br />

a happy frame of mind.”<br />

Sources: <strong>Taft</strong> Biography Book, 1912.<br />

William Howard <strong>Taft</strong> Papers, Library of<br />

Congress<br />

<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Spring 2004<br />

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LESLIE MANNING ARCHIVES<br />

<strong>The</strong> isolation,<br />

loneliness,<br />

and occasional<br />

slurs didn’t stop<br />

many of these<br />

groundbreakers<br />

from sending<br />

their children<br />

to <strong>Taft</strong>.<br />

A graduate of the University<br />

of South Africa and Columbia,<br />

Richard Pieterse became the first<br />

faculty member of color in 1969.<br />

Pan said it was hard to make friends,<br />

but faculty members, including Roger<br />

Stacey, helped her get over her homesickness.<br />

“My biggest challenge was English<br />

language proficiency. Although I had an<br />

English education in Hong Kong, it did<br />

not prepare me for the rigorous program<br />

at <strong>Taft</strong>. Extremely fortunately, I had<br />

Mrs. Blackburn, now Ms. Osborn, as<br />

my English teacher. To this date, I am<br />

still deeply grateful for her teaching and<br />

all the extra hours she spent with me to<br />

improve my English.”<br />

For Joseph Dillard ’84, coming from<br />

inner-city Minneapolis, “It was a big,<br />

lonely school at first. <strong>The</strong> classes were challenging,<br />

but the teachers were supportive.<br />

I especially remember Bill Nicholson,<br />

Stephen McCabe, and Ed North.<br />

“I thought <strong>Taft</strong> would be a coed version<br />

of the Facts of Life television show. I<br />

thought it would consist of a bunch of<br />

rich white kids. Other than that, I did<br />

not have a clue.<br />

“<strong>The</strong> worst part of my experience was<br />

feeling so different and feeling like I was<br />

the only one,” Dillard said. “Although<br />

there were other African-American students,<br />

at times, I felt like I was the only<br />

one who was truly Black. I questioned why<br />

I had to go to <strong>Taft</strong> to be accepted by society.<br />

I questioned why I had to be away<br />

from ‘my people’ and ‘suffer’ in order to<br />

advance. I felt isolated from others and<br />

consciously isolated myself from white students.<br />

I felt like others wanted me to<br />

assimilate rather than to learn about me<br />

and my culture. But I knew I needed to<br />

get a good education, so I tolerated the<br />

experience. What an internal struggle!”<br />

He expected some racial problems,<br />

but says there were few. A fellow student<br />

once told Dillard, now a banker in<br />

Minneapolis, he was lucky to go to <strong>Taft</strong><br />

on a scholarship. “I told him that <strong>Taft</strong> was<br />

lucky to have me because I was such a good<br />

student. After that, I think I was a little<br />

more conscious as it related to income.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> isolation, loneliness, and occasional<br />

slurs didn’t stop many of these<br />

groundbreakers from sending their<br />

children to <strong>Taft</strong>.<br />

Pan, the managing director of the<br />

Greater China Region for the British<br />

firm the Fenner Group, sent her two sons<br />

to <strong>Taft</strong>. Victor graduated in 2001, and<br />

Nicolas is an upper mid.<br />

Chu’s daughter Lauren graduated in<br />

1999, and he said he’s seen a continued<br />

emphasis on the importance of having a<br />

diverse blend of students and perspectives.<br />

“<strong>Taft</strong> is more nurturing of the awareness,<br />

the richness, the interconnectedness<br />

of all the academics and cultural values,”<br />

he said. “I believe it’s a very important<br />

thing to bring in students from different<br />

cultures, [for] the teachers [to] have different<br />

perspectives in dealing with children<br />

of different races and cultural values.”<br />

That change in attitudes led Wayne<br />

Jackson’s daughter Alisa Jackson DeSilva to<br />

enroll at <strong>Taft</strong>, becoming in 1989 the first<br />

child of a black alumnus to graduate from<br />

the school. Despite—or perhaps because<br />

of—her father’s struggles at <strong>Taft</strong>, DeSilva<br />

said she was determined to enroll at <strong>Taft</strong>.<br />

“I desperately wanted to leave<br />

[Bermuda] to be able to attend <strong>Taft</strong><br />

because my father had been there and I<br />

had a certain pride toward it,” she said.<br />

But growing up in Bermuda “color<br />

was never an issue no matter what you<br />

did or where you went. We all just saw<br />

each other as friends, classmates, teachers,<br />

or people on the street.”<br />

When she arrived at <strong>Taft</strong>, she didn’t<br />

notice much of a color divide, she said. It<br />

wasn’t until later that someone pointed out<br />

to her that white students would eat with<br />

other white students and black students<br />

would only eat with other black students.<br />

“Because I come from a place where<br />

I have never experienced it, I didn’t know<br />

what was going on or see what was going<br />

on until someone spoke up about it. …<br />

In other settings we were all friends, we<br />

all got along, no one was singled out.”<br />

DeSilva, an accountant with the<br />

Bermuda Alarm Company, Ltd., said she<br />

believes that divide persisted because<br />

of miscommunication and distrust.<br />

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<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Spring 2004


PETER FINGER<br />

However, she said, things are improving.<br />

“I know that there has been much<br />

change from when my father attended.<br />

It hurts my heart to know what he was<br />

subjected to, what he had to endure.<br />

Anything that I may have been through<br />

is nothing in comparison.”<br />

As with the others, it was the “pursuit<br />

of an excellent education” that brought<br />

Ernest Kwarteng ’98 to <strong>Taft</strong> in the fall<br />

of 1997. “In fact, education was the only<br />

means of achieving a better standard of<br />

living for my family and me.”<br />

Born in Ghana but raised in Botswana,<br />

Kwarteng describes himself as outgoing and<br />

curious to learn. His parents were both<br />

teachers and always stressed the importance<br />

of obtaining a great education.<br />

“I found most of the students were<br />

friendly. I made lot of friends right away,<br />

and kept most of them. Students were competitive,<br />

in or outside the classroom. Teachers<br />

were a lot closer to the students, and were a<br />

lot more accessible than my previous schools.<br />

“I liked the school’s emphasis on building<br />

character and having students guided<br />

by an honor code. My <strong>Taft</strong> experience made<br />

me tougher, competitive, confident and<br />

grounded in my core values.”<br />

Kwarteng, a financial analyst for<br />

Goldman Sachs in San Francisco, said, “I<br />

think my <strong>Taft</strong> experience gave me the confidence<br />

to live and compete in a global<br />

society. <strong>The</strong> small, discussion-oriented<br />

classes helped me to develop my own voice<br />

even in situations where I was in the minority.<br />

<strong>The</strong> interaction I had with diverse<br />

groups of people helped me appreciate our<br />

differences, and more importantly made<br />

me comfortable working with people from<br />

different backgrounds. That is essential to<br />

succeed in our global society.”<br />

What differentiates Kwarteng’s experience<br />

from those of earlier alumni is<br />

in part a changed culture at the school.<br />

Over the years, various support groups<br />

for students of color and international<br />

students have also emerged: the Afro-<br />

American Congress in 1970, followed by<br />

United Cultures at <strong>Taft</strong> in 1982, and <strong>Taft</strong><br />

Afro Latino Student Alliance in 1990.<br />

2002 Classmates Ted Emerson, Harry Jones, Jenny Zhang, and Catherine Brayton<br />

And although a welcoming faculty<br />

has always been a key factor for students,<br />

the school created a new position in<br />

recent years, director of multicultural<br />

affairs, specifically to help students of<br />

color feel at home.<br />

“What I do isn’t necessarily anything<br />

other faculty don’t do,” said current director<br />

Felecia Washington Williams ’84, who<br />

succeeds Lynette Sumpter ’90 and Menette<br />

DuBose-San Lee ’87. “I let students know<br />

that my door is always open, that I have a<br />

sympathetic ear, the way my adviser, Monie<br />

Hardwick, did for me when I was here.”<br />

Connecting with an adult in the community<br />

is important, says Williams, but for<br />

most students of color the biggest difference<br />

is simply that she’s here—a role model,<br />

someone who’s been in their shoes. It’s another<br />

reason why she’d like to encourage<br />

more alumni of color to visit the school.<br />

Despite the improvements, being a<br />

non-white student at <strong>Taft</strong> carries extra<br />

challenges, most agreed. It takes a special<br />

kind of strength to endure the loneliness<br />

and isolation that can come from being<br />

perceived as different. But stay true to<br />

yourself, advised Stevenson.<br />

“You don’t have to become anybody<br />

else. You don’t have to be somebody else.<br />

Believe in yourself. Remember, if you’ve<br />

gotten into <strong>Taft</strong>, you belong at <strong>Taft</strong>.”<br />

Bonnie Blackburn Penhollow ’84 is a<br />

freelance writer living in Fort Wayne, Ind.<br />

This article is the second in a series, following<br />

“Sculpting a Diverse Community” by<br />

Jon Willson ’82, on diversity issues at <strong>Taft</strong>.<br />

“You’re the<br />

ambassador.<br />

You somehow have<br />

to have enough<br />

confidence in<br />

your values and<br />

your culture…”<br />

<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Spring 2004<br />

21


In the TRENCHES,<br />

Born in Saigon<br />

during the war,<br />

English teacher<br />

Steve Le spoke<br />

only Vietnamese<br />

when he arrived in<br />

the United States<br />

at 10 years old.<br />

An Annapolis<br />

grad and former<br />

U.S. Navy<br />

lieutenant,<br />

Le says he has<br />

found his calling<br />

in teaching.<br />

By Chris Torino


Not Standing on Desks<br />

Since arriving at <strong>Taft</strong> last September, Steve<br />

Le has worn, on his shirt or the lapel of<br />

his coat, a pin of the American flag. “I<br />

wear it to remember my close friends from<br />

the service who are forward deployed in a<br />

war zone,” he says. “Ever since 9/11, at<br />

least one friend has been away; in fact, as<br />

one returned yesterday, another—my best<br />

friend—leaves Thursday.”<br />

“<strong>The</strong> way Mr. Le interacts with students,”<br />

upper middler Ben Macaskill<br />

says, “shows that he doesn’t take things<br />

for granted; his flag pin shows how much<br />

he values the small and large significances<br />

of daily life. His willingness to share<br />

amazing pictures of his military experience<br />

reveals part of what he brings to the<br />

<strong>Taft</strong> community.”<br />

Steve has arrived at <strong>Taft</strong> with purpose.<br />

At the center of his story—undeniably<br />

his family’s story—is the purpose with<br />

which he teaches: the desire to touch<br />

lives. Like all great English teachers, he<br />

is a storyteller; and in sharing his stories,<br />

he interests not only his students, but also<br />

anyone listening.<br />

Having grown up around books,<br />

Steve’s father, Dieu Le, studied journalism<br />

in Vietnam and Cambodia in the early<br />

1960s. Eventually, he took a job in the<br />

Department of Communications for South<br />

Vietnam, leaving temporarily during the<br />

war to serve as an officer in the army.<br />

After four years, he left the military with<br />

the rank of lieutenant, the rank equivalent<br />

to Steve’s in the U.S. Navy—and<br />

returned to the Department of Communications,<br />

this time as director. Less than<br />

two months after Steve, the youngest of<br />

three children, was born, Saigon fell to<br />

the Viet Cong on April 30, 1975, and<br />

with it the communications department.<br />

when Steve was four years old, he “met”<br />

his father for the first time, in a concentration<br />

camp.<br />

While imprisoned, Dieu eventually<br />

advised his wife, Diane Le, to flee to the<br />

United States. She tried to escape by boat<br />

four times. Each time, the Viet Cong returned<br />

Diane and her three children to<br />

prison, thus costing them another year’s<br />

wages. In prison, Diane taught Steve to<br />

hide Dieu’s identity by claiming that his<br />

father was a negligent and abusive drunk.<br />

Steve says that his mother still jokes about<br />

his feeling too at home in prison; she tells<br />

stories of his retrieving errant ping-pong<br />

balls for the guards. Once, after being<br />

“…he doesn’t take things for granted; his flag<br />

pin shows how much he values the small and<br />

large significances of daily life.”<br />

<br />

Steve’s story begins with his paternal<br />

grandfather, a man who valued service,<br />

words, and resolution. Phan Le served in<br />

the French-Vietnamese Army in the<br />

1920s and ’30s before fleeing to South<br />

Vietnam from North Vietnam when<br />

Ho Chi Minh established a Communist<br />

government in 1954. After settling in<br />

Saigon, he bought a bookstore that established<br />

the family’s livelihood, until he<br />

was forced to close after the Vietnam War<br />

because the bookstore’s existence—its<br />

words—gave voice to Western culture.<br />

Two days later on May 2, Steve’s<br />

parents held five reserved seats on United<br />

States helicopters to leave the country.<br />

But Dieu, confident that South Vietnam<br />

would soon regain power, relinquished<br />

their seats. Dieu evaded the Viet Cong<br />

for a few months, but was eventually<br />

imprisoned because of his military background;<br />

separated from his family, he<br />

suffered through four or five different<br />

labor camps in the next six years.<br />

“<strong>The</strong>y didn’t kill him,” Steve says,<br />

“because they didn’t know he was a high<br />

government official; they thought he<br />

had only been a military man.” In 1979,<br />

returned, Steve ran to greet the guards<br />

with open arms.<br />

By 1981, Diane stopped trying to<br />

emigrate, ironically, just as her husband<br />

was released from prison. Punished and<br />

“reeducated,” but undefeated, Dieu<br />

began to teach English—vital words—<br />

to potential emigrants in spite of the<br />

risk of re-imprisonment, classes which<br />

Steve observed.<br />

<br />

Steve’s elderly grandfather received political<br />

asylum in France for his immediate<br />

<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Spring 2004<br />

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family, but he did not live long enough to<br />

emigrate with the rest of his family. After<br />

two years in Paris, the Le family left for<br />

Westminster, Calif., where his father<br />

joined a high-school friend, also an emigrant,<br />

who had started and was struggling<br />

to maintain a Vietnamese newspaper,<br />

Nguoi Viet, in Orange County.<br />

With Dieu’s journalistic expertise<br />

and leadership, Nguoi Viet became the<br />

first daily Vietnamese newspaper outside<br />

of Vietnam. Eventually, he helped<br />

develop a media corporation which<br />

owned the newspaper, two periodicals,<br />

two television stations, and Viet Nam<br />

California Radio—a corporation that<br />

communicated Dieu’s native words in<br />

the United States.<br />

During the process of emigration,<br />

Steve missed fourth grade, and, as a tenyear-old,<br />

his English was limited to what<br />

little he picked up listening to his father’s<br />

English classes. He enrolled, finally, as a<br />

fifth grader in California, but spoke only<br />

Vietnamese in school. Dieu and Diane<br />

wanted Steve and their other two children<br />

to assimilate into American culture,<br />

so they moved the family away from the<br />

somewhat insular Vietnamese-American<br />

community in Westminster to Los<br />

Angeles County. <strong>The</strong>re, school officials<br />

enrolled Steve in regular-level courses and<br />

in English as a Second Language. By the<br />

ninth grade, Steve rose from ESL to<br />

Honors English. He cites his Honors<br />

English teacher, Mrs. Brady, as the catalyst<br />

for his passion to read, write, and,<br />

consequently teach those endeavors.<br />

<br />

“<strong>Taft</strong> students,” Steve said, “are much<br />

more inquisitive and intellectually aware<br />

than I was at their age.” As a high-school<br />

senior, Steve came to believe education<br />

should not be entirely selfish. With a<br />

desire to serve, he resolved to enter the<br />

military and attend the U.S. Naval<br />

Academy. More specifically, he decided<br />

he would fly “because it was the most<br />

romantic option.” His college counselor<br />

told him that he would never get into<br />

the academy. <strong>The</strong>n, disqualified by the<br />

academy because of a misplaced medical<br />

file, Steve still turned down acceptance<br />

to the University of Southern California<br />

because, as he said, “Once I enrolled<br />

there, I’d never leave.”<br />

Instead, he enrolled at Cerritos<br />

Community College, took as demanding<br />

a liberal arts program as the college<br />

offered, ensured his medical information<br />

was submitted early, and was<br />

accepted into the Class of 1998 at the<br />

Naval Academy.<br />

At the academy, from which every<br />

graduate earns a B.S. in Engineering,<br />

Steve rounded out his education with a<br />

major in English and as a member of the<br />

academy’s volleyball team. Set to begin<br />

his senior examinations, in May 1998,<br />

Steve learned that his father would have<br />

surgery to remove a malignant tumor; his<br />

father had entered the terminal stage of<br />

cancer and was given two years to live.<br />

Immediately, Steve returned home to<br />

California to discover that the surgery<br />

was unsuccessful and that his father<br />

would begin chemotherapy. Dieu<br />

made it to his son’s graduation from the<br />

academy; but, one year later, after Steve<br />

earned his master’s in English at the<br />

University of Maryland, while completing<br />

the first phase of flight school, Dieu<br />

died, with Steve and family bedside.<br />

<br />

At Dieu’s wake, Steve listened to journalists,<br />

Tibetan monks, movie producers,<br />

and lawyers tell stories about his father;<br />

and every story revealed how Dieu had<br />

touched their lives as a friend, colleague,<br />

mentor, and teacher. Steve asked himself,<br />

“Am I doing that?” He described how,<br />

“in aviation, you work with an airplane,<br />

not people.” After his father’s funeral, in<br />

a process that echoed Henry David<br />

Thoreau’s—whose works he teaches to<br />

<strong>Taft</strong> upper middlers—Steve traveled to<br />

Charleston, S.C., to isolate himself from<br />

all family and friends and reflect. And,<br />

like Thoreau, Steve codified his personal<br />

resolutions in words, in a nine-page<br />

letter to his family, explaining his reasons<br />

for leaving the aviation community to<br />

join another in which he would work<br />

more closely with people. Following his<br />

metephorical “walk into the woods,”<br />

Steve resolved to join the Special Operations<br />

community rather than complete<br />

flight school. In November 1999, he reported<br />

to the Naval Diving and Salvage<br />

Training Center in Panama City, Florida;<br />

and for the next four years, he served one<br />

and a half military deployments.<br />

<br />

Knowing he wanted to teach after<br />

the Navy, Steve considered boarding<br />

school at the suggestion of a roommate,<br />

a Kent <strong>School</strong> graduate, who said, “If<br />

you really want to affect lives, live with<br />

your students.”<br />

“At that point,” Steve said, “the only<br />

knowledge I had of boarding school was<br />

from Dead Poets Society, and I wasn’t<br />

going to stand on desks.”<br />

At <strong>Taft</strong>, though yet to stand on a desk,<br />

Steve weaves together his story and the<br />

stories of colleagues and students. “I chose<br />

boarding school,” he says, “because life’s<br />

important lessons are taught outside the<br />

classroom, often in the teacher’s living<br />

room or around the dining table. I have<br />

enjoyed the challenge of exposing my private<br />

life for their inspection, and living on<br />

the hall with students has increased my<br />

own sense of personal accountability.”<br />

Recently, I stopped by his apartment<br />

to find Steve and senior Willy<br />

Oppenheim engaged in a heated, philosophical<br />

debate about truth, goodness,<br />

and beauty. “At night, I sit in his apartment<br />

drinking green tea and discussing<br />

the cosmos,” said Willy in somewhat<br />

Whitmanesque rhetoric; “we never<br />

agree, but it doesn’t matter—he gets me<br />

thinking every time.”<br />

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“<strong>The</strong> most challenging part of<br />

teaching is connecting with students, especially<br />

those who do not particularly<br />

enjoy English,” Steve insists. “It’s tough,<br />

sometimes, to get a lower mid excited<br />

about Shakespeare or an upper mid about<br />

Emerson. So, when the students find that<br />

window and discover the literature for<br />

themselves, a teacher fulfills his hopes.”<br />

With focused intensity and using the<br />

Socratic method, Steve asks pointed questions<br />

and challenges students to think<br />

and speak precisely. Beyond the classroom,<br />

he demands similarly precise<br />

thinking and action in the athletic arena.<br />

“After spending five years working only<br />

with men, I found it challenging at first<br />

to coach eleven teenage girls in the fall,”<br />

he says. “By the end of the volleyball season,<br />

however, it was a different story: as<br />

the girls like to say, ‘We broke you.’ <strong>The</strong>y<br />

mean I now actually smile occasionally.”<br />

<br />

On Super Bowl Sunday, Steve invited<br />

some faculty members to his apartment<br />

to watch the game. During the first half,<br />

I left my seat from before the television<br />

to get a refill of wings and peruse Steve’s<br />

bookshelves. A stack of Whitman books<br />

caught my eye because Steve and I<br />

were about to begin teaching “Song of<br />

Myself.” After two boys poked their<br />

heads into his apartment, proudly pronouncing<br />

that they were laboring over<br />

their essay on Emerson’s “Self-Reliance”<br />

for Steve’s class, Steve and I discussed<br />

Whitman and then his favorite novels:<br />

Walker Percy’s <strong>The</strong> Moviegoer, John<br />

Irving’s A Prayer for Owen Meany, and<br />

Herman Melville’s Moby-Dick. He pulled<br />

Moby-Dick from the shelf and quoted<br />

Melville: “Look not too long in the face<br />

of the fire, O man!” He added his words<br />

to Melville’s, “To search too long for your<br />

calling will blind you.” Eyes wide open,<br />

Steve has stared into his fire and, then,<br />

has acted with purpose.<br />

Chris Torino is in his second year in the<br />

English Department after teaching for<br />

seven years elsewhere. He lives in<br />

Cruikshank dormitory with wife Dena,<br />

three-year-old son Cole, and his forthcoming<br />

daughter.<br />

“At that point,”<br />

Steve said, “the<br />

only knowledge<br />

I had of<br />

boarding school<br />

was from Dead<br />

Poets Society,<br />

and I wasn’t<br />

going to stand<br />

on desks.”<br />

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<strong>The</strong><br />

Spirit<br />

<strong>Taft</strong><br />

of<br />

AT 30,000 FEET<br />

A Tribute to<br />

Chip Spencer ’56—<br />

Gentleman, Iron Man, Comedian—<br />

Retiring in June<br />

By Barclay Johnson ’53


SCHALER PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

Class agents in reunion years like to drop by Chip’s office<br />

for a pep talk and a few laughs. But he’s usually on<br />

the phone. If he isn’t in and the lights are off, he’s probably in<br />

the air, traveling for <strong>Taft</strong>.<br />

One day this winter three of us bumped<br />

into each other in Chip’s doorway.<br />

“Mr. Spencer will be back next week,”<br />

said his secretary, “but only for a day.”<br />

So we told Diane what we had heard<br />

about his having been ready to retire last<br />

year, until some of you told him he<br />

looked too young to quit.<br />

“That was last year,” she said.<br />

Before we left, one of us noticed<br />

in the window light on his desk that<br />

old gold pen. Dull with disuse, it stood<br />

on a pine stand with a plaque attached.<br />

We all had seen it before and<br />

read the spare inscription:<br />

Clayton B. Spencer<br />

Alumni Office<br />

1964–1970<br />

as a student, there<br />

was literally nothing.<br />

Mr. Cruikshank had all<br />

he could do to pay off the<br />

school’s debt, which he did.<br />

When Chip returned to work<br />

with John Esty, the endowment was<br />

precariously low. Nevertheless, with the<br />

help of key alumni and trustees, the total<br />

climbed to more than $30 million.<br />

By the end of the recent Campaign for<br />

<strong>Taft</strong>, the team of Odden, Romano, and<br />

Spencer had led the drive to a recordbreaking<br />

$134 million in only five years.<br />

Lance Odden and Jerry Romano had<br />

asked Chip to return from the business<br />

world to direct the Planned<br />

Giving part of the campaign.<br />

Needless to say, they were<br />

fortunate to find the<br />

person with the exact<br />

combination of experience,<br />

character, and<br />

spirit for the job. Chip,<br />

whose connection with<br />

the school spans six decades,<br />

knew the school<br />

from an unprecedented<br />

number of vantage points:<br />

student, alumnus, teachercoach,<br />

parent, and director of<br />

development. Furthermore, he knew,<br />

by name, alumni in the hundreds.<br />

Looking back at Chip’s career, we<br />

tend to see his work outside of <strong>Taft</strong> as<br />

interludes. Quite possibly, however, his<br />

nearly 20 years in financial management<br />

has accounted for much of Chip’s effectiveness.<br />

To be sure, a sketch of his resume<br />

could suffice for two people: After<br />

graduating from <strong>Taft</strong> in 1956—lettering<br />

But this time the whole thing looked less<br />

like a memento than it did a talisman of<br />

destiny. Chip’s career had brought him<br />

full circle. In fact, he had been director<br />

of development twice—with 40 years<br />

between titles. (Of course, the size of the<br />

job in our time requires a high-tech staff<br />

of 14 and alumni networks nationwide.)<br />

Equally providential, the remarkable<br />

growth of the endowment parallels<br />

Chip’s career at <strong>Taft</strong>. During his time<br />

A young director of development, circa<br />

1964<br />

With wife Susan and sons Oliver ’85<br />

and Jonathan ’88 at Jonathan’s wedding<br />

in 2001<br />

Never missing an opportunity to lead<br />

alumni in the right direction, Chip is an<br />

annual presence organizing the reunion<br />

weekend parade. PETER FINGER<br />

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in three sports, with an extra letter in<br />

cheerleading—then from Yale in 1960,<br />

he served as an officer on a minesweeper<br />

in the Pacific before earning his master’s<br />

in history at Trinity College. He returned<br />

to <strong>Taft</strong>, the first time, as director of development,<br />

history teacher, and assistant<br />

varsity soccer coach. In 1970, Chip left<br />

<strong>Taft</strong> to become headmaster of McTernan<br />

<strong>School</strong> for boys in Waterbury. Shortly<br />

thereafter he led the merger with St.<br />

Margaret’s, which his daughter Jennifer<br />

attended, and the capital drive that made<br />

the merger possible.<br />

In 1977, Chip left academia to work<br />

for Advest in Hartford and pursue a<br />

career in business, but during those<br />

years away, Chip kept in touch through<br />

parenthood: son Oliver ’85 arrived on<br />

campus in the fall of 1981, and Jonathan<br />

was a member of the Class of ’88.<br />

Chip returned to <strong>Taft</strong> to direct Planned<br />

Giving in 1994. <strong>The</strong>n, after Jerry Romano<br />

retired in 2001, he became director of<br />

development—for the second time.<br />

So much for experience. <strong>The</strong> crux<br />

of Spencer’s success is the man himself.<br />

First of all, very few people can<br />

do this kind of work. We class<br />

agents know. That’s why we’re<br />

happy with our day jobs. Big<br />

time fund raising takes too<br />

many qualities of personality<br />

and character, like<br />

moxie, resilience, and delight<br />

in near-strangers.<br />

But for this very special<br />

job, Chip had to have<br />

other strengths as well.<br />

What, then, did Lance<br />

and Jerry see?<br />

His humor and wit?<br />

But the whole world knew<br />

about that. Chip is a natural<br />

comic. He has that rare<br />

sense of humanness, including<br />

his own. (Can’t anyone<br />

drive off with one’s cell phone on<br />

top of the car?) Also, his remarks in<br />

sports are memorable. When Chip<br />

leaves a putt short, he reproaches himself<br />

with “Hit the ball, Alice!” <strong>The</strong>n, in tennis,<br />

if he smashes an overhead for a winner,<br />

he hoots, “Take that, Alice!” Who is Alice,<br />

we’d like to know. Chip’s close friends<br />

often serve as targets for his playful sarcasm<br />

or as an audience for his lusty jokes<br />

picked up in his travels like sky miles.<br />

Under the humor, however, we have<br />

seen another quality. This man is tough.<br />

His rivals, amused by his footwork, often<br />

fail to see just how competitive he is, until<br />

it is too late. Moreover, Chip is as<br />

durable as he is determined, taking the<br />

whirlwind traveling in stride. But apparently<br />

not without a few moments of alarm.<br />

Chip’s affiliation with the school started<br />

as a student in the ’50s, continued on the<br />

faculty in the ’60s, as a parent in the ’80s,<br />

on the faculty again in the ’90s, and as a<br />

parent to Jane, pictured in 1986, who<br />

graduated in 2003.<br />

<strong>The</strong> team of MacMullen, Romano,<br />

and Spencer did more together than just<br />

raise money.<br />

Chip created a special rapport with<br />

Mr. <strong>Taft</strong>’s Old Boys, here with Jim Loomis<br />

’31 at an Old Guard Dinner.<br />

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PETER FINGER<br />

“Chip and I spent several years traveling<br />

around the country,” former Annual<br />

Fund Director Olivia Tuttle told us. “Alumni<br />

functions morning, noon, and night, and<br />

in between Chip would call on alumni, always<br />

searching for the ultimate gift to the<br />

school. He did it all—once breaking into<br />

my hotel room in Chicago in search of the<br />

Campaign for <strong>Taft</strong> movie when I was<br />

caught in traffic. He was the first to arrive<br />

to help with name tags and lists and the<br />

last to leave, closing the bar and turning<br />

off the lights. Quick with a smile and a firm<br />

handshake, he has the remarkable ability<br />

to welcome most of the alumni by name,<br />

putting them immediately at ease.”<br />

Headmaster Willy MacMullen says<br />

that traveling the country with Chip was<br />

more than fun. “It was inspiring. And<br />

for all his leadership success, he never<br />

sought credit.”<br />

“As a Planned Giving officer, Chip<br />

knew that seeing people and spending<br />

time with them would serve <strong>Taft</strong> well,”<br />

said Jerry Romano. “He single-handedly<br />

raised one-third of the Campaign’s $134<br />

million, largely from Mr. <strong>Taft</strong>’s Old<br />

Boys. Lance had had the idea that Chip<br />

would be great at Planned Giving; I had<br />

the notion it would be nice to have another<br />

man in the office, given that I was<br />

outnumbered by women 14 to one.”<br />

<strong>The</strong>n the ladies in the office told us<br />

about a birthday party they threw for<br />

Chip to test his famous good nature.<br />

Each of them wore a striped shirt, preferably<br />

with cuff links, a navy sport jacket,<br />

and one of a variety of <strong>Taft</strong> neckties. With<br />

hair slicked back Gatsby style, each wore<br />

a name tag slightly different from the<br />

others—to honor this host of countless<br />

alumni events: Poker Chip, Chip N.<br />

Dale, Potato Chip, Computer Chip,<br />

Tortilla Chip, among others. <strong>The</strong>y said<br />

that he grinned a lot and took a chocolate<br />

chip cookie or two, but for once he was<br />

speechless; his quick wit was put on hold.<br />

Suddenly this picture of Chip at the<br />

party revealed his obvious advantage:<br />

Beyond all his experience and virtues,<br />

Chip is “old school.” Believe it or not,<br />

he still has the old school spirit of his<br />

cheerleading days. He is the Connecticut<br />

Yankee patriot and quintessential family<br />

man who embodies every traditional<br />

value espoused by Horace <strong>Taft</strong>. And the<br />

greatest of these is loyalty.<br />

Like many alumni from the thirties,<br />

Chip is the self-possessed patriarch,<br />

proud of all that is his, not the least of<br />

which is his solid independence. Friends<br />

don’t take care of him; he takes care of<br />

them, regardless of the distance, and<br />

serves his community every way asked of<br />

him—patron, deacon, vice president of<br />

the historical society, etc.<br />

He and his wife Susan (daughter<br />

of the late Bill Fischer ’33) love their<br />

historic colonial home on Litchfield’s<br />

Chestnut Hill. But they seldom sit down<br />

in it. <strong>The</strong>re is too much to do—including<br />

at least two sports a season. First, of<br />

course, they have to dig around in their<br />

terrace gardens, prune the fruit trees,<br />

chase myriad squirrels out of at least 20<br />

birdhouses, make their own wine, host<br />

another dinner party for friends or classmates.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Spencers could have been<br />

happy 200 years ago—especially after<br />

their daughter Jane ’03 brought them up<br />

to date by inviting 40 seniors home for<br />

her graduation party. <strong>Taft</strong> may well be<br />

Chip’s extended family.<br />

<strong>The</strong> campaign took off on schedule and<br />

landed ahead of time, well beyond its original<br />

goal. With apologies to Admiral<br />

Nimitz (from his tribute to the Marines<br />

in the aftermath of Iwo Jima): Uncommon<br />

generosity became a common virtue.<br />

Chip will be back, if he ever leaves.<br />

Certainly the endowment stays on, like<br />

destiny’s gift to <strong>Taft</strong>, and who has more<br />

friends of all ages. One of Horace <strong>Taft</strong>’s<br />

“Old Boys” was heard to say, “I liked that<br />

Spencer chap so much, I thought I was<br />

giving my gift to him.”<br />

English teacher emeritus Barclay Johnson<br />

’53 lives in Watertown, Conn. He and Chip<br />

have been close friends since 1964.<br />

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E N D N O T E<br />

<strong>The</strong> Naming<br />

FEMINIST<br />

of a<br />

By Debora Phipps<br />

“It was still rare for<br />

a girl to like science<br />

and math, but I<br />

really liked both.”<br />

If I were to fill out one of<br />

those sticky-backed name<br />

tags with “I am” at the top,<br />

after “Debora Phipps” I’d list<br />

mother, friend, and teacher.<br />

But shortly after that, I’d<br />

include a word that has<br />

become uncomfortable for<br />

many: feminist.<br />

I first became aware of<br />

the strong reaction to this<br />

word in talking with Erica<br />

O’Neill ’04 about her Senior<br />

Seminar project last fall. She’d sent a survey<br />

examining people’s responses to the word<br />

feminist, and asked whether the respondents<br />

she questioned considered themselves feminist.<br />

She discovered that feminist seemed almost<br />

a dirty word, one with which few of her<br />

interviewees wanted to be associated.<br />

<strong>The</strong>n, not long after, while I was on duty in<br />

Congdon, a mid girl alluded to someone as a feminist<br />

in the same deriding tone. I was shocked.<br />

I suspect these negative associations derive<br />

from some stereotype of feminists as angry,<br />

embittered, militant, hairy, unfashionable manhaters.<br />

And this is too bad. <strong>The</strong> dictionary defines<br />

feminism as “the principle that women should<br />

have political, economic, and social rights equal<br />

to those of men.” That doesn’t seem too militant,<br />

and it certainly doesn’t prescribe a certain<br />

hairstyle or misanthropy.<br />

Perhaps now that women have more rights,<br />

the word feminist has become dated, like socialist, a<br />

word whose connotations are far more negative than<br />

the literal meaning of the word would suggest.<br />

Yet naming myself as a feminist remains important<br />

to me. I want men and women to have the<br />

same rights; I want all people<br />

to have the same choices,<br />

whether or not they choose to<br />

work outside the home or<br />

raise children or vote their<br />

conscience or be paid the<br />

same wage for the same<br />

work. Talking with students,<br />

I wonder how much of the<br />

difference in our responses has<br />

to do with my own experience<br />

as someone who graduated<br />

high school in 1979.<br />

I went to a large high school and quickly perfected<br />

the art of being quiet. It was uncool for<br />

girls to be smart, and really uncool to distinguish<br />

oneself from the masses. In order to succeed<br />

socially, girls pretty much had to play dumb. I<br />

learned to flip my hair over my shoulder and giggle<br />

at whatever any boy in a football jacket said.<br />

I think I might have gained some assertiveness<br />

had I played sports, but few options were available<br />

to girls—this was way before Title 9. I swam<br />

on the coed swim team for awhile, until the<br />

5 a.m. commute put a dent in my social life.<br />

Wanting something active to do after school<br />

(when all the boys were in practice), I did what<br />

was left: cheerleading. I was a terrible cheerleader,<br />

and—though I learned to yell loudly—I was also<br />

quite aware of being on the sidelines of the real<br />

action, a different form of quietness.<br />

At the time, it was still rare for a girl to like<br />

science and math, but I really liked both. In deference<br />

to my curious interests, my school lessened<br />

(meaning evaporated) my language and history requirements<br />

to let me double up on math and<br />

science. (Don’t try this at <strong>Taft</strong>; the academic dean<br />

won’t allow it.) Not very many people I knew elected<br />

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E N D N O T E<br />

“I think part of the<br />

reason I’ve stayed<br />

in teaching is to try<br />

to encourage you<br />

all…to speak up<br />

for yourselves,<br />

to exceed others’<br />

expectations when<br />

they try to limit you,<br />

to follow up on<br />

your interests<br />

whatever they be.”<br />

the same courses, so this let me take the subjects I<br />

wanted—quietly—but still avoid the “smart girl”<br />

label by playing dumb at the lunch table.<br />

By my senior year, I found myself the only<br />

girl in Advanced Physics. For this, and because my<br />

teacher was sure I didn’t belong there, I received<br />

extra pages on each of my tests, but no extra time.<br />

I’d furiously work through the problems, trying not<br />

to cry, and I refused to let my parents intervene. I<br />

made it through the course, but not without believing<br />

that girls really might not belong in science,<br />

that really, physics was a boys’ field.<br />

Still, my Advanced Chemistry teacher was<br />

different; he had long hair and wore Frye boots,<br />

and, as our class adviser, observed me in both<br />

modes: chemistry student and social butterfly.<br />

He took me aside, shared a few thoughts on my<br />

split personality, and urged me to follow up my<br />

goal of becoming a chemical engineer in college.<br />

His encouragement was all I needed, I thought.<br />

<br />

Even in college, I discovered I was part of a minority<br />

in my science and math classes—one of<br />

two girls in my college calculus class—a course<br />

for which I was sorely unprepared. A pitying professor<br />

suggested at midterm that I should drop<br />

the course and make up the credits later rather<br />

than fail. (He didn’t make the same suggestion to<br />

a boy who was in the same academic peril.) I refused<br />

his suggestion, and for the few days before<br />

the exam, locked myself in a music practice room,<br />

living on honey buns, Sno-caps, and Tab, until I<br />

knew I could make some showing on the test. I<br />

passed, but that was the last math course I took.<br />

And in chemistry, I was the only girl in my<br />

lab section. I had enough spirit to persevere, but<br />

not enough steadiness; everything I touched<br />

broke. I started small—test tubes, beakers—and<br />

gradually moved up to vials of chemicals and,<br />

eventually, a dessicator, a highly expensive piece<br />

of equipment that shatters with an embarrassingly<br />

large sound. I burst into tears, realized<br />

I could not financially manage to remain in<br />

Organic Chemistry, and stopped taking science<br />

at the end of the semester.<br />

After stints in economics and art history, I<br />

arrived in the English Department. Now, I love<br />

what I do, and I learned a lot from my failures,<br />

but sometimes I wonder how my world might<br />

have been different if I’d spoken up for myself<br />

more—if I could have lived in one of those adolescent<br />

fiction “Choose your own adventure”<br />

books with a little more of a voice. And I think<br />

part of the reason I’ve stayed in teaching is to try<br />

to encourage you all—both boys and girls—to<br />

speak up for yourselves, to exceed others’ expectations<br />

when they try to limit you, to follow up<br />

on your interests whatever they be.<br />

A number of years ago, I did a study of coeducation<br />

at <strong>Taft</strong>, and part of what I examined was the<br />

ratio between the amount of class time during which<br />

girls spoke versus the time in which boys spoke. I<br />

also looked at whether the stereotypes of student behavior—boys<br />

more typically yelling out, or talking<br />

over someone; girls raising their hands and waiting<br />

quietly to be called on—held true at <strong>Taft</strong>.<br />

Hoping others would let me into their classrooms<br />

if I did, I offered myself up as the first guinea<br />

pig. As a former quiet girl, I thought I did a pretty<br />

good job balancing discussions, but I discovered I<br />

was way off. Boys dominated my classes. Several<br />

girls never talked. I had to learn to pay attention,<br />

every day, and evaluate my progress after each<br />

class, before I got better at helping everyone—<br />

not just loud or confident students, boys or<br />

girls—to speak up. And I still have a long way to<br />

go in meeting this goal on a daily basis.<br />

In the same way, we all have to pay attention<br />

to what happens around us. Our class<br />

committee elections are run the way they are in<br />

response to earlier years when few girls were ever<br />

elected; girls simply weren’t considered leaders,<br />

and because boys didn’t vote for girls, and girls<br />

voted for girls but even more boys, the way to<br />

change the composition of class committees was<br />

to mandate separate elections.<br />

<strong>The</strong> right to the same opportunities is what<br />

feminism is all about. Sex and the City’s Carrie<br />

Bradshaw writes an editorial about the difference<br />

between should and could. I think feminism believes<br />

there are no shoulds. Instead, the same coulds should<br />

be available to anyone. I hope that feminism reminds<br />

us that you can do anything, regardless of<br />

who you are, depending on how you choose.<br />

Maybe, if we can work through the negative<br />

stereotypes associated with the word feminist, then<br />

being called a feminist by someone will not feel<br />

like being called a name. Instead, it will be a way<br />

that you, too, might name yourself.<br />

Debbie Phipps succeeded former faculty member<br />

Bill Morris ’69 this year as academic dean. She has<br />

previously served as head of the English Department<br />

and dean of the middle class. <strong>The</strong> remarks<br />

above are excerpted from a <strong>School</strong> Meeting talk<br />

she gave in January.<br />

<strong>Taft</strong> Bulletin Spring 2004<br />

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