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Saying Yes <strong>to</strong> Nonviolence<br />
I<br />
am a male anthropologist teaching at a university in Sendai, Japan, a northern<br />
city on the island of Honshu. I am married and have a son. I have been<br />
actively involved in the Japanese grassroots movement confronting domestic<br />
violence and other forms of violence against women for some time.<br />
Violence against women is as rampant in Japan as in the United States. Like<br />
many of you reading this, no doubt, I was forced by my feminist friends <strong>to</strong><br />
confront male perpetra<strong>to</strong>rs of violence: “After all,” they said, “you are a man<br />
<strong>to</strong>o, aren’t you? Do something about those violent guys!” Partly as a result,<br />
I <strong>to</strong>ok a four-day course on counseling batterers at Emerge in Cambridge,<br />
Mass., in 2001, and have been in regular <strong>to</strong>uch with the Men’s Resource<br />
Center for Change for more than three years now.<br />
Recently, I had <strong>to</strong> help my son write an essay on peace. We went on the<br />
Internet and found out that the United Nations had declared 2001–2010 as<br />
the International Decade for a Culture of Peace and Non-violence for the<br />
children of the world. UNESCO is mainly in charge of the related activities,<br />
and they are calling for people <strong>to</strong> sign Manifes<strong>to</strong> 2000 for a culture of peace<br />
and nonviolence, a six-point pledge drafted by a group of Nobel Peace Prize<br />
recipients. The six key points of the Manifes<strong>to</strong> are:<br />
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Respect all life<br />
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Preserve the planet<br />
Rediscover solidarity<br />
It is so ironic—no, tragic—that the decade for peace and nonviolence<br />
started with September 11, 2001, and the subsequent retalia<strong>to</strong>ry violence by<br />
the United States and its allies (including Japan). And halfway through this<br />
decade, we have seen nothing but violence on a global scale.<br />
We have <strong>to</strong> do something <strong>to</strong> change the global culture of violence <strong>to</strong> a<br />
culture of peace, but how can we do so if we grow up in violent families?<br />
Nurturing and fostering a culture of peace must begin in our homes, and that<br />
means we have <strong>to</strong> do something about abuse in our homes.<br />
This may be no suprise <strong>to</strong> American readers of <strong>Voice</strong> <strong>Male</strong>, but it’s real fresh<br />
news here in Japan.<br />
My son and I both signed the Manifes<strong>to</strong>. I think it’s a good start. Now we<br />
have <strong>to</strong> keep the six pledges in our home, our neighborhood, our country,<br />
and beyond. I would like <strong>to</strong> invite you <strong>to</strong> do the same.<br />
Manifes<strong>to</strong> 2000 was publicly unveiled on March 4, 1999, in Paris, and has<br />
been signed by many people around the world, including such luminaries<br />
as the Dalai Lama, Rigoberta Menchu, Elie Wiesel, Desmond Tutu, Vaclav<br />
Havel, and Coretta Scott King. To add your signature and your support and<br />
for more information on this important document, visit the UNESCO website<br />
(http://www3.unesco.org/iycp/uk/uk_sommaire.htm).<br />
—Ichiro Numazaki<br />
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