The Biblical Role of the Pastor's wife - South African Theological ...

elieve, is something that would need to be addressed between mentors and
mentored; a security must exist in order to establish a trustworthy relationship.
Many young pastors’ wives often need the reassurance and
understanding that phases in life pass. Some young mothers lack the
concentration to focus on their spiritual lives with the demands of family life. A
mentor would be able to help her focus and grow in her relationship with the
Lord. Stuart (2005) shares that mentoring
is a ministry that intentionally develops friendships among
women of different generations. Women invest in the lives of
each other through encouragement, guidance, listening,
laughing and loving. The goal is to form strong and lasting
relationships that are a source of support, growth and strength.
Johnson (2008) concurs, she says that
when a woman is encouraged to become all that God
intended, she becomes a role model for younger women of
satisfied womanhood and fulfillment. She is personally
satisfied and makes a significant difference in every part of her
world.
Although some wives indicated that they were too busy to fit one more
commitment into their schedule, I would strongly recommend that the older
wives make time to reach out and offer their love and experience to a younger
wife in need. Those younger wives must make a mentoring relationship a
priority in their lives, not only will it benefit them but it will also help them to
take manageable steps, living each day as it comes.
4.5. Chapter Summary
In summary, I have attempted to answer the question, “what must we
do”? I have addressed some specific needs faced by pastors’ wives and
suggested a clear way forward for both the local church and the pastor’s wife.
Cowan (2000) indicates that, “Responsibility for theological reflection leading
to committed action rests finally not with church officials or academic scholars
but with members of local communities of faith”. Each individual local church
must respond correctly identifying the role of the pastor’s wife and is
responsible to care for and protect their pastoral family through prayer and
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