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<strong>of</strong>fice. Fitzmyer’s understanding is consistent with that <strong>of</strong> Lewis and Schreiner<br />

regarding <strong>the</strong> phrase likewise or in <strong>the</strong> same way, suggesting that <strong>the</strong> author<br />

is identifying a distinct group <strong>of</strong> people. <strong>The</strong> term may also mean after <strong>the</strong><br />

same manner, as if to say, <strong>the</strong> women must also be trustworthy. Indicating <strong>the</strong><br />

qualifications for deacons similarly apply to women in service.<br />

<strong>The</strong> qualifications listed for <strong>the</strong> female deacon as indicated by Fitzmyer<br />

(2004:592) consisted <strong>of</strong> three positive and one negative qualification, namely<br />

1) worthy <strong>of</strong> respect, 2) temperate, 3) faithful in all things, and 4) not malicious<br />

talkers (gossips). It is plausible that <strong>the</strong> female deacons assisted <strong>the</strong> male<br />

deacons with various responsibilities in service to <strong>the</strong> church. Within <strong>the</strong>se<br />

responsibilities, <strong>the</strong> author <strong>of</strong> 1 Timothy sought to emphasise <strong>the</strong> respectful<br />

attitude, which was to accompany <strong>the</strong>se women in service, to take <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

responsibilities seriously out <strong>of</strong> reverence for God, being faithful to Him.<br />

Understanding that women are relational creatures by nature, cautioning how<br />

<strong>the</strong>y spoke would have been an essential part <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir discipline.<br />

3.4.3 Titus 2:3-5: Mentoring Women<br />

As previously discussed, a distinct group <strong>of</strong> women called widows<br />

operated within <strong>the</strong> life <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> church as intercessors. O<strong>the</strong>r women operated<br />

within <strong>the</strong> church as servants or deacons. However, <strong>the</strong>re is a special call to<br />

older women, that <strong>of</strong> mentoring (Titus 2:3-5). This call is not distinguished as<br />

an <strong>of</strong>ficial <strong>of</strong>fice within <strong>the</strong> church but ra<strong>the</strong>r it is an encouragement by <strong>the</strong><br />

author to Titus to teach older women to take heed to <strong>the</strong> way <strong>the</strong>y lives <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

lives so that <strong>the</strong>y can train <strong>the</strong> younger women accordingly. This is an<br />

invaluable ministry according to Schreiner (1991:222-223).<br />

<strong>The</strong> responsibility <strong>of</strong> older women to instruct <strong>the</strong> younger women<br />

regarding a life <strong>of</strong> godliness is understood as a role <strong>of</strong> mentorship. Smith<br />

(2000:157) indicates <strong>the</strong> action being translated in verse four as “an<br />

apprenticeship style <strong>of</strong> teaching, personal demonstration and assistance.”<br />

Patterson (1995) calls this spiritual mo<strong>the</strong>ring, “a relationship that suggests<br />

training in order to develop sound judgment and wisdom.” She goes on to<br />

point out that <strong>the</strong> older women were not necessarily limited by <strong>the</strong>ir age but<br />

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