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Aquarius Press<br />

JUST LAUNCHED<br />

its first book…<br />

Pat Green<br />

experienced<br />

rejection from<br />

his church<br />

because of his stand<br />

on marriage equality, was threatened<br />

by the very people he ministered to on the<br />

dark streets of Chicago, discovered that his<br />

daughter viewed herself as a lesbian, went through a bitter<br />

divorce, abandoned by his church…and ended up on the<br />

streets, alone, broke, and unemployable.<br />

The only job he could get was as a taxi driver…<br />

on the night shift.<br />

It was like driving through a sick and twisted contemporary<br />

version of Dante’s “Divine Inferno.” He encountered faceto-face<br />

the most broken, violent, dangerous, deranged and<br />

drunken people at the darkest hour of their lives.<br />

Yet, incredibly, he encountered something else…something<br />

he did not expect, did not hope for, and (at first) did not<br />

trust. But it happened over and over again…and his journey<br />

through hell became an experience of love and light that<br />

radically changed his life…and the lives of every rider in his cab.<br />

This is Pat’s story…of how the night moves.<br />

“Night Moves” is an incredible story of an<br />

ex-preacher who, facing poverty and destitution,<br />

takes a job as a cabbie in Joilet, IL.<br />

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Are you ready to make your dream of authorship come true<br />

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Our vision is to publish books by new and emerging authors,<br />

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<strong>Living</strong> <strong>Authentically</strong><br />

The phrase, living our truth, seems like<br />

such a simple task. We all go about our day<br />

doing our best to be the true version of<br />

ourselves … or do we<br />

Are we really living our truth or merely<br />

reflecting what we believe the world and<br />

others expect us to be<br />

<strong>Living</strong> authentically allows us to tell the<br />

world our story. It enables us to have<br />

genuine connections to others as well as<br />

with ourselves.<br />

What does it mean to be authentic<br />

Most dictionaries define authenticity as<br />

“being genuine; of undisputed origin”. I<br />

define being authentic as being our true<br />

selves without the confines of who we have<br />

been conditioned to think we should be. It<br />

can only happen when our thoughts, words<br />

and actions are in alignment with our inner<br />

beliefs and principles.<br />

As we move from infancy into toddlerhood,<br />

we begin to become influenced by the<br />

programming and belief systems of those<br />

around us. Many people spend their entire<br />

lives living someone else’s ideals. There are<br />

those however, who feel the yearning for<br />

more fulfillment and set out on a quest to<br />

discover their authentic selves. I realized<br />

early on that I was one of those who<br />

marched to the beat of my own drum and<br />

I was a seeker on a journey to discover the<br />

real me.<br />

The freedom that comes from living<br />

authentically is monumental,<br />

but isn’t for the faint of heart.<br />

As we grow ... we evolve, but often times<br />

we are fearful of change and the potential<br />

judgment of others that can come with it.<br />

I battled with what I interpreted as letting<br />

people down, when in turn I was actually<br />

imprisoning all those involved, including<br />

myself, in unauthenticity.<br />

Authenticity requires a commitment to<br />

the process of continual growth and selfdiscovery.<br />

It is learning who we are and<br />

accepting our genuine self. It is necessary<br />

to have complete and full acceptance of<br />

our past and present choices and to have<br />

learned unconditional self-love. It requires<br />

us to be open to change and to allow<br />

ourselves to be vulnerable. It is about being<br />

comfortable in our own skin. We must be<br />

willing to take off the mask and let the world<br />

truly see us.<br />

<strong>Living</strong> authentically is a process that doesn’t<br />

happen overnight. There are old patterns<br />

we must let go of and roles we have taken<br />

on that we find we can no longer fulfill.<br />

Release is an essential part of the process to<br />

achieve complete authenticity. Often times<br />

Sherry J Davenport - Sherry Davenport is a Spiritual<br />

Intuitive Counselor, Energy Worker, Writer and Teacher. She<br />

lives her life’s purpose by serving others and assisting them<br />

in becoming the best version of themselves.<br />

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as a result our connections to others and<br />

relationships shift.<br />

My life has been a multifaceted series<br />

of transformations and my pursuit of<br />

living authentically has certainly come in<br />

stages. One of the most difficult stages<br />

has been learning to let go. I certainly<br />

have not mastered it, but I can say that my<br />

ability to release myself from inauthentic<br />

connections with jobs, friends, family, and<br />

relationships has allowed me to continue<br />

growing unimpeded as a person mentally,<br />

emotionally and spiritually.<br />

The more authentic we become, the more<br />

we want deeper and more meaningful<br />

relationships.<br />

Without authentic relationships we cannot<br />

continue to develop. It, in effect, inhibits<br />

our heart and soul, which are both crucial in<br />

living authentically.<br />

Inauthentic relationships are often created<br />

as result of two individuals struggling with<br />

their own authenticity and many times<br />

carries with it an unsustainable illusion of<br />

happiness.<br />

Authentic relationships require total and<br />

complete honesty, love and acceptance of<br />

one another for who they truly are and not<br />

someone we wish or want them to be, open<br />

communication, and must be built on a<br />

foundation of absolute trust.<br />

Carl Jung said it best “The privilege of a<br />

lifetime is to become who you truly are.”<br />

<strong>Living</strong> an authentic life is not stagnate. It’s<br />

constant acceptance of change, a challenge<br />

of old beliefs, a shift in our ways of thinking,<br />

disengaging from past facades and letting<br />

go of unhealthy connections, but with it<br />

comes a desire to attract and embrace<br />

constructive and beneficial relationships,<br />

the courage to live in complete freedom<br />

in a place where we are truly alive, where<br />

our hearts are full and we can live fully<br />

embracing and realizing our purpose and<br />

mission in this life.<br />

Live in authenticity ... you and the world<br />

will both be better for it.<br />

PG 12 JANUARY 2015 AQUARIUS<br />

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www. AQ -atl.com<br />

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