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Fruit / Symptoms
a) Death wish.
b) Performance orientation along with feelings of being utterly worthless.
c) Guilt - especially if the pregnancy endangered the health of the mother. Also a
financial burden.
d) A feeling that there will never be enough:
• Money - fear to spend money (especially on self).
• Love - especially when being born into large families.
e) Does not feel welcome - always hiding OR becomes aggressive and enforces his
rights.
f) Extreme anger - "replacement child".
3. When the child is of the "wrong sex"
Fruit / Symptoms
a) Death wish.
b) Performance orientation - "I can never please them."
c) Rebellion - "Why should I even try"
d) Confusion - especially in terms of sex - "tomboys" ("sexual poles" are changed
around).
e) Shame - towards their own sex - "I was a mistake."
f) Detached, extremely private, secretive - fear of people, fear of open spaces, etc.
4. The adopted child
Fruit / Symptoms
a) Death wish, performance orientation, anger.
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