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<strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong><br />

<strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong>’s Voice of Peace<br />

www.bsholom.org<br />

Memphis, Tennessee—June/July 2009— 9 Sivan to 10 Av 5769<br />

Timeless Tunes and Memorable Moments<br />

June 12 will be the next monthly late Friday evening services—<br />

a one-hour Kabbalat Shabbat and Ma’ariv service beginning at<br />

7:30 pm followed by a lovely and elaborate Oneg Shabbat.<br />

Familiar tunes from the 80s will help us blend tradition with a<br />

new approach to welcoming Shabbat to <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong>.<br />

Join us as we raise our voices and our spirits on June 12, when<br />

the theme will be “Shabbat Summer Surprise”!<br />

“50 is the new 30” - Let’s Start our Summer Vacation!<br />

Sunday, June 7, from 5 to 8pm<br />

Rhonda and Mark Saslawsky’s Home<br />

1295 Heron Oaks Cove—Memphis, TN 38120<br />

$10 per person<br />

<strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong>‘s ―50 is the new 30‖ is back to welcome summer!<br />

Whether you have just sent the kids off to camp, a senior class trip,<br />

a summer internship or new job, or grad school, now is the time for<br />

us to start our summer vacation. Rhonda and Mark Saslawsky are<br />

opening their home and pool for fish tacos, summer salads, beverages, and<br />

social time. This is an ―adults only‖ gathering for those between the ages of 40 and 59.<br />

Save the date: Old Enough to Know Better group has planned<br />

another Bingo night with fun gifts suitable for “Old Enoughs”<br />

on Sunday, June 14. Watch for more details!<br />

<strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong> is committed to be the vibrant<br />

spiritual home of Conservative Judaism in the Mid-South,<br />

where we nurture, transmit, and celebrate our rich heritage and values.


From the Rabbi: The positive application of contagion<br />

First, a few quick definitions to consider…<br />

Noun: infection - the detrimental colonization of a host<br />

organism by a foreign species.<br />

Adjective: infectious - Easily or readily<br />

communicated: an infectious laugh.<br />

Noun<br />

As of this moment (May 7), the H1N1 virus, commonly<br />

known as the "swine flu," is one of the hot topics. Photos<br />

of faces partially hidden by blue masks, emails with<br />

medical advice, news stories with updated tallies and<br />

official pronouncements... We tremble at the notion of an<br />

unfolding plague, some unmatchable foe sweeping us<br />

away. Plagues - from the Black Plague of the Middle<br />

Ages, to the devastating Yellow Fever that struck<br />

Memphis in the 1870s, to the dramatic novel "The Plague"<br />

penned by Albert Camus - these stories resonate deeply<br />

with us, they stir our fears. Within one of our evening<br />

prayers, the Hashkiveynu, we implore God: v'haser<br />

mealeynu oyev, dever v'cherev v'ra'av v'yagon - remove<br />

from us enemies and pestilence, starvation, sword, and<br />

sorrow.<br />

Adjective<br />

While we usually hear the adjective infectious associated<br />

with disease, we occasionally read or hear a different<br />

usage. Someone's laugh or smile or upbeat disposition or<br />

mentschlachkeit could be described as infectious. Our<br />

sages coined a pair of phrases that speak to the notion of<br />

an action (good or bad) being readily communicated.<br />

mitzvah goreret mitzvah; aveira goreret aveira - one<br />

mitzvah pulls along another in its wake; one transgression<br />

pulls along another in its wake.<br />

Our teachers probably meant to teach us that when we<br />

perform mitzvot, we will probably get into the habit of<br />

performing more mitzvot, and when we transgress, we can<br />

easily find ourselves caught in the habit of further<br />

transgressions. I'd like to suggest another take on the<br />

ancient saying. One person's mitzvah can have the<br />

infectious potential of influencing others around him or<br />

her to create their own mitzvah opportunities. Conversely,<br />

someone's transgression may have the power of<br />

influencing others top follow suit.<br />

Two examples of infectious mitzvot<br />

1. During the davening this past Pesach, improbable as it<br />

seems, I encountered mistakes in two different Torahs<br />

within the space of a few days. Within a few days, both<br />

Torahs were driven down to Atlanta to Rabbi Danneman,<br />

a scribe I know from my years in Macon, Georgia. As it<br />

turns out, one<br />

Torah was fixable;<br />

the other,<br />

unfortunately, was not.<br />

The fixable Torah was in the<br />

hands of Jason and LeAnne<br />

Kaplan (Herb and Marlene Gerson's daughter and<br />

son-in-law).<br />

[Note: as shlichim - messengers,<br />

both Jason and LeAnne and Jason<br />

and Melissa Bloomfield (Rose Ross's son and daughterin-law)<br />

were part of the mitzvah of fixing a Torah.]<br />

I explained to Jason that the necessary correction looked<br />

to be easy. Jason was a step ahead of me. He had already<br />

spoken with Rabbi Danneman about the possibility of<br />

Rabbi Danneman helping Jason make the correction<br />

himself! (Which he did.) Mitzvah goreret mitzvah - a<br />

mitzvah pulls another mitzvah along in its wake.<br />

2. Adam Siegler was working on a mitzvah project in<br />

conjunction with his recently celebrated (parashat Behar<br />

-Bechukotai) Bar Mitzvah. His creative linking together<br />

of a few stores enabled many other people - store<br />

managers, fellow students, members of our kehilla, and<br />

fellow local Memphians - to participate in the mitzvah<br />

of battling hunger and expressing our compassion for<br />

people in need. Sure, he raised a fair bit of money as<br />

well as several boxes of canned goods. But, more<br />

important, his mitzvah work was infectious.<br />

Perhaps H1N1 will prove to be a relatively mild flu,<br />

or it could return in a more dangerous form. Beyond the<br />

plagues that describe the transmission of viruses, there<br />

are other plagues which are no less pernicious—<br />

plagues such as bigotry and indifference. Doctors<br />

cannot inoculate us against those kinds of plagues.<br />

The wisdom of our tradition is as vital to our spiritual<br />

well being as vaccines are to our physical<br />

health. Mitzvot are opportunities open to all of us. Once<br />

we decide that we want to connect to others, to beautify<br />

a small corner of our world, to be loving - we can then<br />

be blessed by the infectious nature of mitzvot, and we<br />

can pass that goodness along.<br />

Rabbi Aaron<br />

2 June/July 2009 <strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong>


Notes from<br />

Rose<br />

In May of 2007, a small<br />

<strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> committee<br />

began to work on what<br />

became the Blueprint for<br />

Progress. One of the<br />

major issues raised was<br />

the viability of <strong>Beth</strong><br />

<strong>Sholom</strong> remaining a member of USCJ – United<br />

<strong>Synagogue</strong> of Conservative Judaism. We were having a<br />

problem justifying the expense of belonging in light of the<br />

fact that we had not received the kind of help we would<br />

have liked from the organization.<br />

Ultimately, Harry Silverman and crew came to Memphis<br />

to address the Board of Directors and the congregation.<br />

Thus started a renewed relationship which, for the most<br />

part, has been very positive.<br />

<strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> was not alone in questioning the<br />

effectiveness of USCJ, their own relationship with the<br />

organization, and the financial issues connected with being<br />

a member. A group of affiliated USCJ lay leaders from<br />

around the country got together to form a group, now<br />

known as Bonim, meaning builders, and they have had<br />

their first meeting with the USCJ leadership. The meeting<br />

Have a simcha, anniversary, or birthday<br />

coming up<br />

<strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> honors our members’ birthdays<br />

and anniversaries on the third Shabbat of<br />

the month.<br />

Our next Anniversary and Birthday Shabbat<br />

celebrations are June 20 and July 18.<br />

Share the celebration and co-sponsor the<br />

Kiddush luncheon on your special third<br />

Shabbat!<br />

Call the office at<br />

683-3591 to reserve a<br />

space on the sponsor<br />

list for $36.<br />

It’s your day!<br />

Let’s party!<br />

itself was very positive and focused on four concrete<br />

areas: Transparency, Responsibility, Responsiveness,<br />

and Focus.<br />

Bonim requested that USCJ complete three follow up<br />

tasks within the next 30 days:<br />

1. Provide an interim report of how they could support<br />

their affiliates.<br />

2. Provide a 90 day plan, at the same time as the interim<br />

report, and a second report outlining a subsequent 90<br />

day action plan with milestones and timelines.<br />

3. Provide an outline for a long range plan to address the<br />

concerns of their affiliates.<br />

Ray Goldstein, USCJ President expressed hope that<br />

Bonim and USCJ would work together collegially, and<br />

while he understood the importance and intent of<br />

deadlines he would prefer soft or flexible timeframes.<br />

Others voiced support for firm deadlines and prompt<br />

action to demonstrate USCJ‘s seriousness in responding<br />

to the concerns expressed. The meeting was very<br />

positive, and a very strong first step. Progress will now<br />

depend upon actions taken by USCJ to address the<br />

concerns of their affiliates. I hope to have more to<br />

report in the near future.<br />

Help <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong><br />

clean up…<br />

Rose<br />

We have teamed up with<br />

Bensinger‘s Fine Cleaners on<br />

a new fund raising program<br />

to help us clean up on<br />

donations for <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong>.<br />

Bensinger’s Fine Cleaners will give our<br />

synagogue 10% of every dollar you spend on<br />

their laundry services at any of their 12 area<br />

locations or through their home delivery service.<br />

Bensinger‘s will apply a code to each participant‘s<br />

record in their computer. Our members will simply<br />

pay for their cleaning and <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> will receive<br />

a check for 10% of every dollar of cleaning<br />

purchased.<br />

We encourage your support and invite you to go into<br />

any Bensinger store or call 937-4800 to set up your<br />

account for home delivery. You may also email any<br />

questions to ann@bensingerscleaners.com.<br />

This is a clean and simple way to help our<br />

synagogue raise money!<br />

<strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> June/July 2009 3


<strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> Parties<br />

Sunday, March 15, and Sunday, April 19, found<br />

members and non members having fun and<br />

getting money for jewelry rarely worn, broken,<br />

or missing parts of a set.<br />

For these two days, people flocked to the<br />

synagogue to exchange their old pieces of gold<br />

for cold hard cash and in turn also contributed to<br />

the synagogue. With the price of gold at all<br />

time highs, everyone found it quite beneficial to<br />

turn in their unusable pieces, things that had not<br />

been worn in years or that were broken into cash<br />

they could use now.<br />

Many companies have been advertising on<br />

television and in the newspapers that they will<br />

buy gold for cash. But at <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> our<br />

buyer, Arthur Back, bought our gold and also<br />

made a contribution to the synagogue in the<br />

seller‘s name. Everyone agreed that these<br />

parties were some of the best we have ever had.<br />

We are planning another one soon and will<br />

invite everyone in the community to attend.<br />

It can‘t be beat!<br />

FLASH: Be on the look-out for more gold sales,<br />

and thanks to Evelyn Goler who also helped make<br />

our last sale so successful!<br />

A hearty <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong><br />

welcome to new members<br />

Sharon and Barry<br />

Finkelstein!<br />

June 6 is Starbucks Shabbat!<br />

Start the morning off with some thought-provoking Torah<br />

study, a cup of hot coffee, and a little something to go with it.<br />

Hot chocolate and tea will be served for those who do not<br />

drink coffee.<br />

9:15am in the Social Hall, followed by Shacharit at 10am in<br />

the Sanctuary. Rachel Shankman is this month’s guest<br />

teacher. June Starbucks Shabbat is sponsored by the<br />

Friendship Chaverah:<br />

Janice and Ira Berlin, Beverly and Gil Halpern, Jeri and Allen Israel,<br />

Carol Lipman, Barbara and Bruce Newman, Marcia and Alvin<br />

Notowich, Marilyn and Herb Notowich, Kay and Sheldon Saslawsky,<br />

and Rachel and Steve Shankman.<br />

Starbucks Coffee provided by Royal Cup Coffee, a Starbucks licensee and distributor.<br />

4 June/July 2009 <strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong>


Legacy Gifts: Consider <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> Like One More Child In Your Family<br />

As members of <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong>, we think about<br />

the future of our synagogue, our community<br />

and our children. Congregants often express a<br />

desire to make a meaningful commitment to<br />

<strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> but are unsure of how they can<br />

take that first step.<br />

It may be wise to consider making a deferred<br />

gift to <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> We would all like to do<br />

our part to ensure <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong>‘s continued<br />

strength and viability, yet we are also<br />

continually called upon to meet a variety of<br />

personal financial demands that may inhibit<br />

our ability to make a significant current commitment.<br />

When you make a deferred gift, you are ensuring that<br />

your values live on through your children. Why not<br />

consider <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> as one of your children, too<br />

By remembering <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> in your estate plan you are<br />

promising to secure the future of our Jewish community.<br />

You have the satisfaction of knowing today what a<br />

difference your gift will make to the future of the<br />

congregation. Yet your gift does not take effect until after<br />

your lifetime.<br />

Keep swiping those gift cards!<br />

A will bequest is the simplest way to make a<br />

gift to ensure <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong>‘s continuity after<br />

your lifetime. In a similar manner to how you<br />

would remember your children in your will,<br />

you may name the synagogue as a beneficiary<br />

in your will for a specific amount, or you<br />

may state the bequest in terms of a percentage<br />

of your estate or in terms of the unused<br />

portion, of your estate. Your taxable estate is<br />

reduced by the amount of the charitable<br />

bequest.<br />

For more information on how you can<br />

establish a deferred gift to <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong><br />

or to benefit a particular program at the synagogue,<br />

please contact Barbara Newman at 683-3591, Sandy<br />

Lipman, vice president of endowments at 754-3705<br />

or the Jewish Foundation of Memphis at 374-0400.<br />

Join in this great opportunity to raise money for <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong>! Schnucks and Kroger give <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> 5% of everything<br />

you spend on groceries and gas at no cost to you. You‘ll also save money at the gas pump at both Kroger<br />

and Schnucks.<br />

Make shopping really easy this year and get your gift cards for a wide variety of shops and<br />

restaurants at Kroger. You can buy them with your Kroger card and the manager‘s approval.<br />

Don‘t have your Kroger and Schnucks cards yet Get them now in the synagogue office! Pick<br />

up your gift cards at the synagogue or have them mailed directly to you! Please call the<br />

<strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> office (683-3591) or Sandy Lipman (754-3705) for more information.<br />

Come check out the <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong><br />

Judaica Shop<br />

for all your shopping needs!<br />

Gifts, ritual items, B’nai Mitzvah registry, and gift certificates!<br />

Open during <strong>Synagogue</strong> business hours.<br />

All proceeds support <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> Religious<br />

School and youth programming.<br />

<strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> June/July 2009 5


YOUTH<br />

CORNER<br />

<strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong>‘s Celebration of Jewish Learning was a huge<br />

success! Our USY teens led the service with the help of many<br />

<strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> Religious School and Solomon Schechter students.<br />

Amanda Rainey, our ISJL fellow, also shared in the celebration.<br />

We acknowledged the dedication of our new Thursday/Sunday students beginning their Religious School<br />

studies: Clay Binkowitz, Cameron MacPhee, Jaden McDaniel, and Brian Vela. We also inducted six<br />

students into the Arie Becker Honor Society. These students completed the necessary requirements in<br />

community service, tzedakah, independent study, torah study and prayer. Congratulations to Aaron<br />

Binkowitz, Aaron Canales, Sam Canales, Andrew Dodson, Jack Dodson and Zohar Rubinstein!<br />

Congratulations to our other award winners:<br />

Edward and June Blumeno Award - Cameron MacPhee<br />

Hebrew Excellence Award - Benjamin Greenberg<br />

Richie Roberts Mensch Award - Jack Dodson and Adam Greenberg<br />

Jane Ross Leadership Award - Matt Schwimmer<br />

There are so many people to acknowledge for making this a great year for our youth, whether it is religious<br />

school, young family programs, youth groups or Shabbat mornings. Please be sure and thank them in person<br />

next time you see them:<br />

Religious School teachers:<br />

Student Teachers:<br />

Shabbat Mornings:<br />

USY/Kadima Advisors:<br />

Youth Activities Committee:<br />

Young Families Committee:<br />

Judaica Shop:<br />

VP of Education:<br />

<strong>Beth</strong> Okeon, Deanna McAlexander, Ben Roberts and Rabbi Aaron Rubinstein<br />

Andrew Dodson, Jack Dodson and Nathan Light<br />

Galit Golan, Sharona Rubinstein and Susan Alexander<br />

Jessica Roberts and Zachary Sandberg<br />

Connie Binkowitz, Chair<br />

Keri Unowsky, Chair<br />

Margie and Harold Steinberg<br />

Bob Cohen, with special thanks to Myra Alperin<br />

USY elections were held on May 3, followed by a pool party at Morgan Wank‘s home. Many thanks to Marc<br />

and Maya Wank for their hospitality. Everyone had a great time! Congratulation to our new USY Board:<br />

President:<br />

VP Programming:<br />

VP Religious Education/Israel Affairs:<br />

VP Social Action/Tikkun Olam:<br />

VP Membership/Kadima:<br />

VP Communications:<br />

Jack Dodson<br />

Erica Lansky<br />

Nathan Light<br />

Morgan Wank<br />

Jason Vela<br />

Andrew Dodson<br />

It‘s been a pleasure and an honor to work with your children this past year. I‘m looking forward to an even<br />

better year to come and hope NOW is the time you become involved with <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> youth!<br />

B‘Shalom, Sharon<br />

And now, a word from our sponsors…<br />

Many thanks to those who have sponsored recent events at <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong>!<br />

May Birthdays:<br />

Janet Light<br />

Skip Rossen<br />

Nathaniel Kastan<br />

Sandy Lipman<br />

Pesach in the Park:<br />

Dana and Sanford Shefsky<br />

Marlene and Herb Gerson<br />

Bene and Saul Kaplan<br />

Mimi and Ron Grossman<br />

March Birthdays:<br />

Rose Goldfarb<br />

Barbara Hellman<br />

Herb Slovis<br />

April Birthdays:<br />

Lindsey Olswanger<br />

Barry Shulkin<br />

Anonymous Donor<br />

Lag B'Omer:<br />

Sally and Brad Magdovitz<br />

Mimi and Ron Grossman<br />

6 June/July 2009 <strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong>


Mazel Tov!<br />

Rachel Cohen, daughter of Hallie and Jay, won a<br />

special award from Phi Beta Kappa. She is a sophomore<br />

majoring in Bioscience at Washington University in St.<br />

Louis. She was honored as one of the two outstanding<br />

students by Phi Beta Kappa<br />

Leslie Mann, RN, of the Department of Nursing<br />

Administration at St. Jude Children's Research Hospital,<br />

was recently nominated by her peers and selected to the<br />

Celebrate Nursing 2009 Top 100 list for Shelby and<br />

Fayette counties. The Top 100 were chosen from several<br />

hundred nominations based on at least two of the<br />

following criteria: professionalism, interpersonal<br />

relations, community involvement, creativity and caring.<br />

Winners were honored during the Celebrate Nursing<br />

event on April 25 .<br />

St. Jude Children's Research Hospital is internationally<br />

recognized for its pioneering work in saving children<br />

with cancer and other catastrophic diseases. Founded by<br />

late entertainer Danny Thomas , St. Jude freely shares<br />

discoveries with scientific and medical communities<br />

around the world. No family ever pays for treatments<br />

not covered by insurance, and families without<br />

insurance are never asked to pay. St. Jude is financially<br />

supported by ALSAC, its fundraising organization.<br />

Debbie Israel, sister of Allen Israel and aunt of Amy<br />

Israel and Brian Israel became a Rabbi in May.<br />

Debbie Israel has spent her adult life in service to the<br />

Jewish community, as a professional and volunteer. For<br />

almost 20 years, she was co-publisher and managing<br />

editor of Noah’s Ark, a children‘s newspaper with a<br />

readership of nearly a million readers worldwide. She was<br />

president of Congregation Brith Shalom in Houston and<br />

served in many leadership positions in her community.<br />

Before entering the Academy of Jewish Religion-<br />

California, she was Western Regional Director of Jewish<br />

Women International.<br />

She received many honors and awards including<br />

―Outstanding Alumnus‖ (B‘nai B‘rith Girls National<br />

Award); ―Distinguished Service to Jewish<br />

Education‖ (Bureau of Jewish Education of Greater<br />

Houston); and ―Rising Star Award for Outstanding<br />

Volunteer Achievement‖ (B‘nai B‘rith Women<br />

International).<br />

During her first two years of rabbinic school, Debbie<br />

commuted weekly from Houston, Texas. In the beginning<br />

of her third year, she was hired as the student/interim<br />

Rabbi of Congregation Emeth in Morgan Hill-Gilroy,<br />

California. She moved to Northern California and for the<br />

past two years Debbie has served as the synagogue‘s<br />

Acting Rabbi. Upon ordination, Debbie will continue to<br />

serve as Congregation Emeth‘s Rabbi.<br />

Adam Seigler’s Bar Mitzvah project was a food drive for the Mid South Food Bank. He engaged the assistance of<br />

several merchants at the Poplar Court Shopping Center. Through their generosity, he was able to offer anyone that<br />

donated canned foods or money, discount coupons at the participating Merchants shown in his advertisement, run in<br />

m-teen Magazine. In addition, Kaufman's shoes donated a gift certificate and he sold raffle tickets for this. He<br />

collected 4 boxes of food and approximately $600 in cash - a very successful project. The project made a nice<br />

connection to his Parsha, which talks about not harvesting the fields every seven years. Adam‘s food drive is another<br />

way to help feed those who don't have as much.<br />

<strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> June/July 2009 7


We gratefully acknowledge these generous contributions:<br />

RABBI BECKER<br />

IN MEMORY OF:<br />

RABBI ARIE BECKER<br />

Jody & Danny Becker<br />

ABRAHAM TODD<br />

Robert Todd<br />

MAURICE BROG<br />

Marcia & Seymour Sabesin<br />

BUILDING FUND<br />

IN MEMORY OF:<br />

MADELEINE BLUESTEIN<br />

Dr. & Mrs. Charles Plesofsky<br />

RIVA GERSON MANN<br />

Dot & Stanley Bilsky<br />

MICHAEL DAVIS<br />

Rose Morrison<br />

Dot & Stanley Bilsky<br />

JEFFREY OLDERMAN<br />

Rose Morrison<br />

Dot & Stanley Bilsky<br />

Mindy & Harry Diament<br />

Sandy & Clifton Lipman<br />

CINDY MORRISON<br />

SOTTO<br />

JOSEPH LEACH<br />

Rose Morrison<br />

CESIA FROMER<br />

Rachel & Steve Shankman<br />

IN HONOR OF:<br />

SPECIAL ANNIVERSARY<br />

OF MICHELE & MICHAEL<br />

LESS<br />

Sandy & Clifton Lipman<br />

Marsha & Mitchell Bender<br />

and Family<br />

BIRTH OF ANNA RUTH<br />

GREENBERG<br />

Dot & Stanley Bilsky<br />

CEMETERY FUND<br />

IN MEMORY OF:<br />

CINDY MORRISON<br />

SOTTO<br />

Lyda Parker<br />

MICHAEL DAVIS<br />

Barbara & Jerome<br />

Magdovitz<br />

Elaine Alexander<br />

Rose & David Ross<br />

MADELEINE<br />

BLUESTEIN<br />

Barbara & Art Jacobs<br />

CELIA FRIEDMAN<br />

Elaine Alexander<br />

LOUIS BORODKIN<br />

ALLEN BORODKIN<br />

Barbara Borodkin<br />

MAURY MALKIN<br />

Reed Malkin<br />

BRUNO<br />

FLEISCHHACKER<br />

Walter fleischhacker<br />

KIDDUSH FUND<br />

IN MEMORY OF:<br />

MADELEINE ―BUBBE‖<br />

BLUESTEIN<br />

Marsha & Mitchell Bender<br />

MELBA GOLDFARB<br />

Wesley Goldfarb<br />

ABRAHAM ZELLNER<br />

Myra & Murray Alperin<br />

WILLIAM<br />

HAMBURGER<br />

JOAN HAMBURGER<br />

Betty & Ed Green<br />

JEFFREY OLDERMAN<br />

The Kastan Family<br />

IN HONOR OF:<br />

GLORIA KAHN‘S<br />

WOMEN OF<br />

ACHIEVEMENT<br />

AWARD<br />

Darlene & Oscar Shefsky<br />

FOR RECOVERY OF:<br />

STANLEY ZELLNER<br />

Betty & Ed Green<br />

The <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> Family expresses sincere condolences<br />

on the passing of Evelyn Goler‘s son Michael Davis.<br />

PRAYER BOOK FUND:<br />

IN MEMORY OF:<br />

ALBIE ZITRON<br />

Barbara & Stanley Zitron<br />

RABBI’S<br />

DISCRETIONARY<br />

IN MEMORY OF:<br />

JEFFREY OLDERMAN<br />

Phyllis, Gary & Jay Jacobs<br />

Richard & Cathy Kessler<br />

Lindsey & Jon Olswanger<br />

Mariette & Joel Turetzky<br />

MICHAEL SCOT DAVIS<br />

Susan & Stephen Gross<br />

Tuny & Ben Alexander<br />

JACOB SCHOENFELD<br />

Edwin Schoenfeld<br />

IN APPRECIATION OF:<br />

RABBI AARON‘S<br />

PERFORMANCE AT<br />

MINDY COOPER‘S<br />

WEDDING<br />

Ron Cooper<br />

RABBI AARON &<br />

SHARONA RUBINSTEIN<br />

Aaron Lancaster<br />

IN HONOR OF:<br />

MICHAEL LESS BEING<br />

ELECTED TO BOARD OF<br />

AMERICAN COLLEGE OF<br />

CONSTRUCTION<br />

LAWYERS<br />

Mildred Kiel<br />

RELIGIOUS SCHOOL<br />

FUND<br />

IN MEMORY OF:<br />

MADELEINE BLUESTEIN<br />

Tuny & Ben Alexander<br />

SCHOLARSHIP FUND<br />

IN MEMORY OF:<br />

PHYLLIS WAHL<br />

Shirley Brown<br />

IN HONOR OF:<br />

40 TH WEDDING<br />

ANNIVERSARY OF<br />

MICHELE & MICHAEL<br />

LESS<br />

Mimi & Ron Grossman<br />

FOR RECOVERY OF:<br />

LEON HELLMAN<br />

Bene & Saul Kaplan<br />

TRIBUTE FUND<br />

IN MEMORY OF:<br />

MICHAEL SCOT DAVIS<br />

Emilie Ratner<br />

Ruth & Jery Chariton<br />

Jay Balken<br />

Irma Sacharin<br />

Fay May<br />

MAURICE BROG<br />

Irma Sacharin<br />

IN APPRECIATION OF:<br />

BARBARA & BRUCE<br />

NEWMAN<br />

Aaron Lancaster<br />

FOR RECOVERY OF:<br />

JOAN SOLOMON<br />

STANLEY ZELLNER<br />

Irma Sacharin<br />

HERB SCHAFFER<br />

Mark Kallick<br />

David Moore<br />

YOUTH ACTIVITIES<br />

FUND<br />

IN MEMORY OF:<br />

RIVA MANN<br />

DAVID SINGER<br />

Stacey & Jerry Siegler and<br />

Family<br />

IN APPRECIATION OF:<br />

KIMBERLY KASOW<br />

WICHLAN<br />

Susan & Skip Rossen<br />

8 June/July 2009 <strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong>


Torah reading table goes to Arkansas Congregation Etz Chaim<br />

When Temple Israel in Blytheville, Arkansas, closed<br />

its doors nearly 10 years ago, many of their beautiful<br />

artifacts – including the stained glass windows that<br />

now grace the Arie Becker Chapel – were given to<br />

<strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong>. Among those gifts was a<br />

beautiful shulchan, a Torah reading table, which sat<br />

unused in storage.<br />

A few years back, former <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> President<br />

Maury Radin sought out someone who could use it,<br />

and he connected with Congregation Etz Chaim in<br />

Bentonville. As a new congregation with limited<br />

funds, they did not have a way to transport it to<br />

northwest Arkansas, and the shulchan remained in the<br />

closet. ―Early this year, I made it a mission of mine to<br />

‗close the deal‘ and resume the discussion with Etz<br />

Chaim,‖ explained Executive Director Barbara Newman. ―We decided that we would like to bring it to them and<br />

Rabbi Aaron and Sharona Rubinstein and Bruce and I would travel with the table to transport it and visit their little<br />

shul on April 26.‖<br />

Bentonville had become a hub of activity because of WalMart's successes and a number of Jewish families moved to<br />

Northwest Arkansas, home of WalMart's headquarters. As the Jewish population grew, a new congregation was<br />

formed to serve their spiritual and educational needs.<br />

Congregation Etz Chaim was founded on August 4, 2004, by twelve families who met on July 13, 2004 in a home in<br />

Rogers, Arkansas, to discuss the feasibility of such a task. The group with common goals and diverse talents were<br />

able to quickly do their due diligence in areas such as meeting places, clergy, religious school, and overall financial<br />

obligations. Once formed, the group quickly grew within six months to 32 families. On March 24, 2005,<br />

Congregation Etz Chaim's 32 families purchased a small church on the corner of Moberly and Central in Bentonville<br />

and converted it into the first <strong>Synagogue</strong> in Benton County, Arkansas. It is believed to be the first newly established<br />

<strong>Synagogue</strong> in a rural southern community in more than 50 years and has a current membership of 60 families.<br />

They were thrilled to be getting this table and they planned a whole afternoon around its arrival, Minchah Services<br />

were led by Rabbi Rubinstein, and Etz Chaim President Tom Douglass and Rabbi Jack Zanerhaft also shared<br />

remarks on the occasion. Nearly 50 people greeted the <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> group and once the table was brought into the<br />

sanctuary and set in a prominent place, Etz Chaim member Marc Levine was so moved by what was going on that he<br />

donated a piece of Judaica from his father's woodcutting collection. The afternoon ended with dinner hosted by the<br />

congregation and a dessert gathering at the home of Ida and Steve Feinberg. They were a very warm group and we<br />

hope to stay connected and to plan joint activities together in the future.<br />

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<strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> Raffle a Huge Success<br />

Maury and Elaine Radin were the <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> raffle<br />

winners of round trip air fare tickets to Israel and six nights in<br />

the Dan Panorama in Jerusalem or The Trip of Their Dreams.<br />

When their name was drawn from the basket of the many<br />

tickets sold, the Radins were surprised and unsure about what<br />

destination they will choose. However members of <strong>Beth</strong><br />

<strong>Sholom</strong> were sure that the raffle met expectations. They were<br />

all also thrilled about the tremendous support shown from both<br />

members of the congregation and many friends in the<br />

community.<br />

Kudos go to those who supported this raffle from developing<br />

flyers, to making phone calls and selling tickets. Marsha<br />

Bender, Kay Geller, Mimi Grossman, Bene and Saul Kaplan,<br />

Rose Morrison, and David Ross were all instrumental in helping to meet the goal. Most especially, however, Betty<br />

Green and Herb Notowich kept the project moving and were extremely instrumental in its success. Brad Magdovitz<br />

and Sandy Lipman chaired this special project.<br />

The drawing was held on Monday, May 11, at the Lag B‘Omer picnic. Tickets were available for a donation of $100 or<br />

3 for $250. The Deal or Another Deal approach was especially exciting because only a limited number of tickets were<br />

sold. Next year, everyone participating in the raffle will be eligible in a drawing for a beautiful Torah Fund pin produced<br />

by United <strong>Synagogue</strong>. The pin will be given in honor of Betty Green for the outstanding work she has accomplished for<br />

this project and many others at <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong>.<br />

<strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> celebrates Lag B’Omer<br />

As the first guests began to arrive for the <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong> Lag<br />

B‘Omer Picnic, the sun started poking through the clouds, a perfect<br />

greeting for the two hundred adults and children who filed in thereafter.<br />

It was an especially nice respite from days of rain, just in time for a<br />

wonderful celebration of the holiday.<br />

The grills manned by Mitch Bender, Ron Cooper and Brad Magdovitz<br />

went full steam the entire<br />

evening. Other activities<br />

throughout the BSSS<br />

playground area provided a fun<br />

evening for young and old. In<br />

keeping with the traditions of<br />

Lag B‘Omer, Joey Rosenberg<br />

was on hand to give haircuts to<br />

the young children…and a few<br />

not so young as well! Professional archers offered their assistance to those who<br />

wanted to try the sport of the bow and arrow, and more than a few bull-eyes<br />

were made. Music filled the air thanks to the talents of Rabbi Rubinstein,<br />

Sharona Rubinstein, Rachel Cornette, and a band of musicians accompanying<br />

them. All evening the LifeBlood Mobile was available for those who wished to<br />

participate in the mitzvah of donating blood.<br />

The finale of the picnic came when the winner of the six day trip to Israel was<br />

announced by Co-chairs Sandra Lipman and Brad Magdovitz. Elaine and<br />

Maury Radin were the happy winners of the drawing, but all who attended the<br />

event went home winners that night.<br />

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<strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> <strong>Synagogue</strong><br />

6675 Humphreys Boulevard<br />

Memphis, TN 38120<br />

901-683-3591<br />

Visit us on the web: www.bsholom.org<br />

Staff<br />

Aaron Rubinstein Rabbi<br />

Arie Becker Rabbi, 1959-1979*<br />

Barbara Newman Executive Director<br />

Sharon Prager<br />

Religious School Administrator<br />

Cheryl Strong<br />

Administrative Assistant<br />

Deanna Lubin<br />

Administrative Assistant<br />

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Officers<br />

Rose Morrison<br />

Maury Radin<br />

Dot Bilsky<br />

Michele Less<br />

Sandy Lipman<br />

Skip Rossen<br />

Judy Bookman<br />

Bob Cohen<br />

Jeffrey Kay<br />

Alayne Shoenfeld<br />

Auxiliary Leadership<br />

Marsha Bender<br />

Dan Spector<br />

President<br />

Immediate Past President<br />

Vice President<br />

Vice President<br />

Vice President<br />

Vice President<br />

Vice President<br />

Vice President<br />

Treasurer<br />

Secretary<br />

Sisterhood President<br />

Men‘s Club President<br />

August <strong>Kol</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> Deadline: July 7<br />

<strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> is an affiliate of the United <strong>Synagogue</strong> for Conservative Judaism<br />

Enjoy eating out<br />

Looking for some<br />

fun activities<br />

Sisterhood is selling the<br />

Memphis Citipass book<br />

featuring coupons for<br />

Memphis restaurants as well<br />

as interesting attractions and<br />

places to go.<br />

The books sell for $20 and are<br />

available at the <strong>Synagogue</strong>.<br />

Get yours today!<br />

The <strong>Beth</strong> <strong>Sholom</strong> Office is<br />

closed on Mondays, but the<br />

staff is happy to serve you<br />

Tuesdays through Fridays<br />

from 8:30am until 4pm.<br />

Join your June and July minyan captains:<br />

Saturday, June 6 - 7:45pm: Shoenfeld/Slovis<br />

Sunday, June 7 - 6:00pm: Spector/Steinberg<br />

Saturday, June 13- 7:45pm: Aronson/Binkowitz<br />

Sunday, June 14 - 6:00pm: Bookman/Cohen<br />

Saturday, June 20 - 7:45pm: Cornette/Diament<br />

Sunday, June 21 - 6:00pm: Halpern/Hellman<br />

Saturday, June 27 - 8:00pm: Hodus/Kastan<br />

Sunday, June 28 - 6:00pm: Kay/McAlexander<br />

Saturday, July 4 - 8:00pm: Less/Lipman<br />

Sunday, July 5 - 6:00pm: Morrison/Olswanger<br />

Saturday, July 11 - 7:45pm: Rossen/Scheinberg<br />

Sunday, July 12 - 6:00pm: Scilken/Shefsky<br />

Saturday, July 18 - 7:45pm: Shoenfeld/Slovis<br />

Sunday, July 19 - 6:00pm: Spector/Steinberg<br />

Saturday, July 25 - 7:45pm: Aronson/Binkowitz<br />

Sunday, July 26 - 6:00pm: Bookman/Cohen<br />

Visit us on the web at www.bsholom.org and check out<br />

news, special events, calendar listings, and photos!

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