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We help divorcing spouses<br />
and families avoid court and<br />
costly litigation by creating<br />
lasting mutual agreements.
A Message From Michael Aurit, JD, MDR<br />
Founder and Professional Mediator-Attorney<br />
If you are considering mediation, you are one step closer to resolving your<br />
divorce, or family related issue while avoiding the high costs, stress, and<br />
unnecessary destruction that litigation causes. You do not need to fight it out<br />
in court. The court process is far more expensive and time-consuming. The<br />
all-out war of litigation damages everyone in the end.<br />
As your mediator I will not decide who is right or who is wrong. Instead, I will<br />
guide you toward an agreement. We will solve problems and negotiate terms<br />
that all involved agree upon. My goal is to create opportunities in the room<br />
that will lead to you walking away with a signed, legally binding, mutually<br />
acceptable settlement agreement rather than having a judge determine the<br />
terms for you.<br />
Simply put: when faced with choice, you have nothing to lose and everything<br />
to gain by mediating your result rather than going to court.<br />
In me, you have a mediator that empathizes with the difficulties of divorce and<br />
family conflict. The journey that brings you to mediation is unique to you. I’m<br />
there with you every step of the way.<br />
Convenient Arizona Locations<br />
We are headquartered in Scottsdale, Arizona, with locations throughout the Phoenix area, including<br />
Central Phoenix, Tempe, Mesa, Chandler, Glendale and Peoria.<br />
Our Services<br />
Divorce Mediation<br />
Legal Separation Mediation<br />
Child Custody Mediation<br />
Family Mediation<br />
Wills, Trust and Estate Mediation<br />
Couples and Marital Mediation<br />
North Scottsdale Location<br />
Kierland Corporate Center<br />
7047 E. Greenway Road Suite 250<br />
Scottsdale, Arizona 85254<br />
480-378-2686<br />
auritmediation.com
About The Aurit Center<br />
Better for you.<br />
The best for your family.<br />
Our goal is to provide an affordable, less stressful alternative to litigation that keeps<br />
you in control of your own future. In mediation, you can ensure that everyone involved<br />
feels satisfied about the outcome.<br />
Our approach is simple, successful and cost-effective.<br />
“ Mediation is the far better choice that divorcing parents can make for the sake of their<br />
children. Michael is a compassionate mediator. I would trust him with my thoughts and<br />
feelings knowing that he would lead me to the best solution for my situation.”<br />
Cathi Jensen Searles<br />
Elementary School Teacher, PVUSD, 30+ years<br />
“ Michael is that rare combination of a consummate professional and a compassionate<br />
listener. He is extremely adept at listening to disputes between individuals and<br />
understands intimately the sacrifices, which must be made in order to reach a<br />
compromise and settlement. His calm demeanor and conciliatory style is what make<br />
his methods so efficacious in dispute resolution.”<br />
Reeve Chudd, Esq.<br />
Ervin, Cohen and Jessup, LLP<br />
“ Michael is committed to the process of understanding both sides of every argument,<br />
evaluating the parties’ goals, and then developing a resolution strategy. He is<br />
professional, effective, and well-regarded amongst his peers.”<br />
Evan Schube, Esq.<br />
Quarles & Brady, LLP, Phoenix, Arizona<br />
“ Empathy, compassion, humor, and warmth — these are traits that Michael exudes;<br />
they are at the core of his being. Michael has the unique gift of humanizing the most<br />
contentious of disagreements and family conflicts. When his clients come to him in<br />
emotional turmoil, he lends them hope and creates amicable resolutions to complicated<br />
disputes.”<br />
Alison Swisher, MFT<br />
Marriage and Family Therapist
The Advantages of Mediation<br />
Over Litigation<br />
Mediation is a process for resolving a case or dispute without going to court. A neutral mediator helps<br />
parties reach a mutual agreement, sometimes called a settlement. In mediation, parties are able to<br />
discover and discuss options that create an opportunity for a settlement in which both parties win.<br />
Mediation saves you money and time.<br />
Mediation is far less expensive than the cost of litigation. Often, parties spend 10 to 20 times more<br />
litigating their case compared to mediation. In Maricopa County, divorce litigation costs have been<br />
estimated at $18,000 per spouse on average. Most attorneys require a large retainer. Mediation fees<br />
are literally a fraction of the cost and The Aurit Center takes an all-inclusive approach to billing.<br />
It is far less stressful and better for you emotionally.<br />
Litigation is an all-consuming, confrontational process that can cause extreme stress and negatively<br />
affect your health and well-being. Mediation is cooperative. It is based on problem solving. Parties<br />
experience far less stress and report higher levels of well-being in mediation.<br />
Save Money<br />
Save Time<br />
Save Your Family<br />
Retain Privacy<br />
MEDIATION<br />
LITIGATION<br />
MEDIATION<br />
LITIGATION<br />
MEDIATION<br />
LITIGATION<br />
MEDIATION<br />
LITIGATION<br />
MEDIATION<br />
$5,000 TOTAL<br />
LITIGATION<br />
$20,000 PER PERSON<br />
average<br />
3-6<br />
MONTHS<br />
average<br />
2<br />
YEARS<br />
80% 40%<br />
VOLUNTARY COMPLIANCE<br />
WITH CHILD SUPPORT<br />
Financial info,<br />
disucssions &<br />
decisions kept<br />
CONFIDENTIAL<br />
Becomes part<br />
of the public<br />
record.<br />
Hearings are<br />
OPEN TO THE<br />
PUBLIC<br />
Source: www.ncrconline.com/Divorce/MediationVsLitigation.php
The Advantages of Mediation<br />
Responsible<br />
Protect your financial<br />
and emotional well-being.<br />
Respectful<br />
Make it easier on you,<br />
your children and family.<br />
Successful<br />
Avoid court by creating your<br />
own enforceable agreement.<br />
You stay in control and find solutions for your needs.<br />
Mediation is personally tailored for how you want and need to move forward. Courts, however, do<br />
not generally have the time or resources to gain a deeper understanding of your needs. In mediation,<br />
spouses remain in control of the outcome and timeline, rather than attorneys, who may project their<br />
own bias or judges who render final decisions.<br />
Mediation is successful.<br />
The vast majority of cases that enter mediation are successfully settled out of court. No one loses in<br />
mediation. Mediation produces “win-win” agreements where both parties feel satisfied with the<br />
outcome. In litigation, both parties are usually unhappy with the results.<br />
Mediation is confidential and private.<br />
What happens in mediation, stays in mediation. Arizona law protects mediation confidentiality. In<br />
litigation, court matters are on public record.<br />
Mediation preserves respectful interactions between parties.<br />
Litigation causes escalation and ruins relationships. Mediation produces de-escalation and encourages<br />
respectful interaction. It is particularly beneficial for divorcing spouses when children are involved<br />
and family disputes.<br />
“ Traditional litigation is a mistake that must be corrected. For some disputes, trials will<br />
be the only means, but . . . [o]ur system is too costly, too painful, too destructive, too<br />
inefficient for really civilized people.”<br />
Chief Justice Warren Burger<br />
(Ret.) U.S. Supreme Court
Divorce Mediation<br />
Choose a Healthier Divorce.<br />
You have a choice to save yourself and your loved ones from the destruction of litigation.<br />
Choose Divorce Mediation instead.<br />
Stay out of court<br />
Resolve every issue a judge<br />
would decide including<br />
property division, support,<br />
and child custody.<br />
Keep your sanity<br />
Reduce your stress,<br />
focus on your well-being,<br />
and say “no”to an ugly<br />
divorce battle.<br />
Get the best outcome<br />
Decide your own<br />
divorce terms and<br />
be more satisfied with<br />
the outcome.<br />
Litigation ruins families.<br />
When you litigate your divorce, your spouse becomes your enemy. Massive legal bills, even for a simple<br />
case, are financially devastating. You can’t imagine the harm that the battle can inflict on your children.<br />
In most cases, both sides feel that the judgment is unfair and that they have lost. Often, when it’s all<br />
over, both spouses realize that whatever money or property they were fighting over is gone in order to<br />
pay off legal fees. Battle scars for everyone involved can last a lifetime.<br />
Divorce Mediation is a much better way.<br />
In Divorce Mediation at The Aurit Center, you and your spouse work with a mediator to settle your<br />
divorce out of court. Your mediator will help you negotiate a divorce agreement that covers all the<br />
issues that your attorneys would battle-out in traditional divorce litigation. However, mediation allows<br />
you to stay in control of the outcomes and settle the issues amicably. You agree on all issues, so there<br />
are no losers.
Divorce Mediation<br />
How Divorce Mediation Happens<br />
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You get in touch<br />
Call or email us. You can also use the Contact Us form at AuritMediation.com. We’ll answer<br />
any basic questions and can schedule your complimentary one-hour consultation.<br />
Have a free consultation<br />
Your mediator will explain the mediation process. You and your spouse can ask questions of<br />
the mediator. Decide whether mediation is right for you.<br />
We can file for you<br />
If you choose to move forward, we can draft and file your Petition for Divorce when you are<br />
ready. If you’ve already filed, that’s fine too.<br />
We mediate your divorce<br />
We begin mediation by meeting together to discuss an overview of the issues specific to<br />
your circumstances: asset, property and debt division, spousal support, child support, and<br />
how parenting time will be shared. In that first session, we’ll start reaching some agreements.<br />
After each two-hour session, you’ll receive a summary of agreements reached and topics for<br />
next time.<br />
We draft your Consent Decree for review<br />
After all agreements are reached, we draft your “Consent Decree.” We recommend that<br />
you consult with your own legal advisor before signing. Revisions may be made. Your final<br />
Consent Decree will become your final judgment. You have determined the terms of your<br />
divorce, not a Judge.<br />
You sign — the best outcome for you<br />
You each sign your Consent Decree. We can file it with the court for you or someone you<br />
choose may file. Depending on certain factors, your divorce will be final soon afterward. Take<br />
pride and comfort knowing you stayed in control of your divorce, saved an incredible amount<br />
money and time, and avoided an unnecessary battle by choosing mediation.
Family Mediation<br />
Will and Trust Disputes. Elder Issues. Family Conflict.<br />
Family Mediation gets to the heart of issues that cause conflict in relationships. Reach<br />
realistic agreements for the benefit of the relationship in mediation.<br />
Communicate better<br />
Conflicts escalate due to<br />
communication breakdowns<br />
and misunderstandings.<br />
Mediation brings clarity that<br />
paves the way for resolution.<br />
Solve problems<br />
Improved communication<br />
allows individuals to agree<br />
on creative solutions that are<br />
acceptable to everyone.<br />
Find common ground<br />
Truth be told, people often<br />
agree on more than they think.<br />
Discovering common interests<br />
leads to finding common ground.<br />
Litigation destroys relationships.<br />
Avoiding problems all together can cause increased tension and escalation that result in irreparable<br />
damage. Family disputes are emotional and require a forum where respectful resolution can be found<br />
and relationships may be preserved.<br />
Family Mediation can help your family find solutions and move forward.<br />
The Aurit Center understands the challenges and difficult issues that affect families. We mediate will<br />
and trust disputes and help you avoid or bring an end to costly probate litigation. We also mediate<br />
elder issues, guardianship and conservatorship issues, estate planning disagreements and family<br />
business disputes. You can reach agreements in mediation that meet everyone’s needs and save your<br />
family from being entrenched in a bitter battle.
Family Mediation<br />
“ Mediation is an alternative approach for resolving custody disputes in a way that is<br />
most congruent with our current knowledge of the needs and development of children<br />
of divorce. Parents are supported in maintaining a cooperative co-parenting relationship<br />
that is necessary for children to emotionally survive their parents’ divorce in the long run.”<br />
Donald Saposnek, Ph.D.<br />
Renowned Clinical-Child Psychologist<br />
How Family Mediation Happens<br />
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You get in touch<br />
Contact us and we will answer any preliminary questions you have about mediation and our<br />
process. We can help you to know whether mediation is right for your issues or case.<br />
Both parties agree to mediate<br />
You may contact the other party or parties involved to ask if they will agree to try mediation.<br />
When this is not possible, The Aurit Center can attempt to convene the other party directly.<br />
We mediate<br />
Our mediation process is based on the specific needs of the parties. Your issues may be legal,<br />
non-legal or a mixture of both. We may meet in one long day session, half-day sessions,<br />
or a series of short sessions. The duration of the entire process depends on many factors<br />
including the complexity of the issues and the willingness of all involved to reach a mutually<br />
acceptable agreement.<br />
You reach a final agreement<br />
When all agreements have been reached they are reduced to writing. Your mediator can<br />
write a final non-legally binding memorandum of agreements or a legally binding agreement,<br />
depending on the wants and needs of the parties. Take comfort in knowing that you avoided<br />
a costly and destructive battle by choosing mediation.
Contact Us<br />
Have a free consultation<br />
We offer a free one-hour consultation to discuss your needs,<br />
answer your questions and ensure that our services are right for you.<br />
To schedule your free consultation call us at 480-378-2686<br />
or connect with us at auritmediation.com<br />
Visit us at auritmediation.com<br />
For more information about mediation and our services, visit us online.<br />
Our website offers resources to help you and move you forward.<br />
We are here to answer your questions<br />
We look forward to hearing from you.<br />
Our team is available to answer your questions and strive to meet your needs.
auritmediation.com<br />
North Scottsdale Main Office<br />
Kierland Corporate Center<br />
7047 E. Greenway Road Suite 254<br />
Scottsdale, Arizona 84254<br />
480-378-2686<br />
info@auritmediation.com<br />
Additional Locations<br />
South Scottsdale at Fashion Square<br />
Downtown Phoenix at Cityscape<br />
Mesa at Stapley Corporate Center<br />
Tempe at Hayden Ferry Lake<br />
Central Phoenix at The Esplanade<br />
Chandler at San Tan Freeway<br />
Peoria at Peoria Center Arrowhead
Kierland Corporate Center<br />
7047 E. Greenway Road Suite 254<br />
Scottsdale, Arizona 84254<br />
Free Consultation<br />
We offer a free one-hour consultation to discuss your needs, answer your questions and ensure that our<br />
services are right for you.<br />
480-378-2686 | auritmediation.com