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Inside<br />

Fr. Jim Lowe’s<br />

Ordination<br />

Spiritual Fa<strong>the</strong>rhood<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Priest<br />

Big Changes<br />

<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2011</strong>


Front cover photo: Anne Marie Gruden<br />

WHAT’S INSIDE<br />

ORDINATION<br />

TO THE DIACONATE<br />

With joy and thanksgiving<br />

Joseph and Margaret Hyginus<br />

toge<strong>the</strong>r with <strong>the</strong> <strong>Companions</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong><br />

invite you to celebrate<br />

<strong>the</strong> Ordination <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir son and bro<strong>the</strong>r<br />

Lawrence Hyginus<br />

to <strong>the</strong> Transitional Diaconate<br />

on Saturday September 17, <strong>2011</strong><br />

St. Timothy’s Parish<br />

21 Leith Hill Road,<br />

North York, Ontario<br />

Please see our website or contact <strong>the</strong> parish<br />

for more details. Celebrate with us!<br />

The Spiritual Fa<strong>the</strong>rhood <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Priest .......................... 3<br />

Time with Fr. Bob .......................................................... 5<br />

Blessed John Paul II and <strong>the</strong> Gift <strong>of</strong> Enduring Hope .... 6<br />

In <strong>the</strong> Shoes <strong>of</strong> St. Barnabas ....................................... 8<br />

Messianic and Catholic ................................................ 10<br />

Gift and Mystery – 25 Years as a Priest ........................... 12<br />

Spiritual Mo<strong>the</strong>rhood <strong>of</strong> Priests .................................... 16<br />

Big Changes in <strong>2011</strong>! ................................................... 18<br />

Fa<strong>the</strong>r Terry’s Picks – Priesthood ................................. 19<br />

A Prayer For Now ......................................................... 21<br />

Community News & Notes ........................................... 22<br />

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Credits<br />

Publisher<br />

The <strong>Companions</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong><br />

Editors-in-Chief<br />

Fr. Scott McCaig, Moderator<br />

Fr. Rick Jaworski, Vice-Moderator<br />

Managing Editor<br />

Christine Labrosse<br />

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Pigs Can Fly Design<br />

dyannbernard@gmail.com<br />

The <strong>Companions</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong> is a quarterly publication<br />

designed to encourage spiritual growth and to share<br />

about God’s movement within a new community <strong>of</strong><br />

Catholic priests, and candidates for <strong>the</strong> priesthood.<br />

The <strong>Companions</strong>’ ministries are made possible by <strong>the</strong><br />

prayerful generosity <strong>of</strong> its supporters, to whom we are<br />

most grateful.<br />

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f e a t u r e<br />

by Fr. Bob Bedard, CC<br />

The Spiritual<br />

Fa<strong>the</strong>rhood <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> Priest<br />

This article is a talk that Fr. Bob gave at a Conference in 2005 at<br />

Creighton University. It is used with permission from <strong>the</strong> Institute<br />

<strong>of</strong> Priestly Formation.<br />

A<br />

priest acts in <strong>the</strong> very person <strong>of</strong> Jesus Christ. Like <strong>the</strong><br />

Apostles, he is ordained to be Christ to <strong>the</strong> world. He is ordained<br />

to do <strong>the</strong> things that Jesus did. He is, in fact, an alter<br />

Christus, ano<strong>the</strong>r Christ (Catechism <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Catholic Church [CCC]<br />

#1548). Like Jesus at <strong>the</strong> Last Supper, he confects <strong>the</strong> Eucharist.<br />

He stands at <strong>the</strong> altar and says <strong>the</strong> very words that Jesus himself<br />

said, making <strong>the</strong>m his own: “This is my Body . . . This is my<br />

Blood” (Mt 26: 26-28). Jesus’ presence in <strong>the</strong> bread and <strong>the</strong> wine<br />

becomes “real”, “true”, and “substantial”. These are <strong>the</strong> words <strong>the</strong><br />

Church itself uses to describe how Christ is present in this exalted<br />

Sacrament. We call it “<strong>the</strong> Blessed Sacrament” (CCC #1374,<br />

1379, 1381).<br />

Although <strong>the</strong> appearances <strong>of</strong> bread and wine do not change, <strong>the</strong><br />

reality does. This most dignified <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Sacraments becomes, at <strong>the</strong><br />

words <strong>of</strong> Jesus himself, <strong>the</strong> actual Body and Blood <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Lord. A<br />

man who is ordained to <strong>the</strong> priesthood receives a configurement to<br />

Christ himself (CCC #1548). He becomes what Christ is. And he<br />

does <strong>the</strong> things that Christ does. He must do <strong>the</strong> Fa<strong>the</strong>r’s will in<br />

all things. Like Jesus, he must make it his food. He proclaims <strong>the</strong><br />

Good News <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Kingdom. He announces <strong>the</strong> Fa<strong>the</strong>r’s incredible<br />

plan for mankind, a fullness <strong>of</strong> life both here and hereafter. What<br />

we receive here as we give our lives to him – a life <strong>of</strong> peace that<br />

<strong>the</strong> world cannot give, nor even understand, a love that casts out<br />

all fear, an abundance <strong>of</strong> life, a fullness <strong>of</strong> joy, and <strong>the</strong> freedom <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> sons and daughters <strong>of</strong> God (Jn 14:27) – we enjoy forever in<br />

Heaven. Like Jesus, <strong>the</strong> priest teaches <strong>the</strong> truths <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Kingdom<br />

<strong>of</strong> God. He leads people into a transforming relationship with <strong>the</strong><br />

Holy Spirit. He blesses. He forgives sin.<br />

Our specific topic for this third <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> annual symposia is “spiritual<br />

fa<strong>the</strong>rhood” as it is to be lived out in <strong>the</strong> life <strong>of</strong> a priest. Since a<br />

priest acts in <strong>the</strong> very person <strong>of</strong> Jesus, we should expect to find<br />

<strong>the</strong> Son <strong>of</strong> God acting out a fa<strong>the</strong>r-like role. The role that Jesus<br />

ascribes to himself that speaks most clearly to that <strong>of</strong> a fa<strong>the</strong>r is<br />

his reference to himself as a shepherd: “I am <strong>the</strong> Good Shepherd.<br />

I know my sheep and <strong>the</strong>y know me . . . for <strong>the</strong>se, I will give up my<br />

life” (Jn 10:15). The sheep are, <strong>of</strong> course, his people. I am one <strong>of</strong><br />

his sheep. It is clear that he wants a close bond with each <strong>of</strong> us.<br />

Much <strong>of</strong> what is implied in this relationship goes over our heads<br />

completely because we do not really understand <strong>the</strong> full reality <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> shepherd-sheep relationship <strong>the</strong> way his hearers did.<br />

I was totally in <strong>the</strong> dark about this relationship until I heard it explained<br />

a few years ago. In my own experience as a sometime observer,<br />

<strong>the</strong>re did not seem to be much interaction between today’s<br />

sheep and <strong>the</strong> farmers who owned <strong>the</strong>m. We do not even call <strong>the</strong>m<br />

shepherds. But this was not <strong>the</strong> reality Jesus was speaking from.<br />

The way sheep were attended to in his day was very different from<br />

our modern customs. We are told that <strong>the</strong>re is only one people on<br />

earth today who care for sheep <strong>the</strong> way it was done in New Testament<br />

times. These are <strong>the</strong> Basques, who live mainly in <strong>the</strong> foothills<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Pyrenees mountains in nor<strong>the</strong>rn Spain.<br />

A group <strong>of</strong> owners (shepherds) <strong>of</strong> good numbers <strong>of</strong> sheep would<br />

construct or buy a large fenced-in sheepfold. Each man would put<br />

his herd in it for <strong>the</strong> night. The men would take turns standing<br />

guard at night lest wolves or o<strong>the</strong>r predators attack and kill <strong>the</strong><br />

sheep. Each shepherd would customarily name each member <strong>of</strong> his<br />

herd just as people today give names to <strong>the</strong>ir dogs, cats, and o<strong>the</strong>r<br />

pets. Every morning, <strong>the</strong> shepherds would in turn come to <strong>the</strong> gate<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> pen and call out to <strong>the</strong>ir respective sheep. The latter, recognizing<br />

<strong>the</strong>ir own particular owner’s voice would head for <strong>the</strong> gate.<br />

We are certainly familiar with <strong>the</strong> voice recognition part <strong>of</strong> it. Dog<br />

owners know how well <strong>the</strong>se quadrupeds become familiar with <strong>the</strong><br />

sound <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir owners’ voices.<br />

Each shepherd would <strong>the</strong>n lead his flock out into <strong>the</strong> meadows and<br />

fields to spend <strong>the</strong> day. The sheep were accustomed to having a<br />

steady and purposeful but leisurely day. The shepherd would take<br />

up a suitable place (out <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> sun on a very hot day) where he<br />

could keep an eye on all <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>m. The owner would <strong>the</strong>n begin to<br />

call each <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> sheep by name, in turn, to come to him. Recognizing<br />

its own name, each one would amble eagerly over to where <strong>the</strong><br />

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shepherd was. This was its own special time <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> day. This was<br />

<strong>the</strong> time for it to receive individual attention. The shepherd would<br />

gently comb out <strong>the</strong> coat, dislodge <strong>the</strong> burrs and ticks, apply oil to<br />

any cuts or abrasions, work <strong>the</strong> shoulder and neck muscles a bit<br />

while talking in quiet and tender tones to <strong>the</strong> sheep itself. Just <strong>the</strong><br />

way dog owners <strong>of</strong> today minister to <strong>the</strong>ir pets. All <strong>of</strong> this had <strong>the</strong><br />

effect <strong>of</strong> soothing <strong>the</strong> animal’s feelings and giving re-assurance<br />

that it had somebody to love and care for it. This is <strong>the</strong> way <strong>the</strong><br />

Basques do it today. And this is <strong>the</strong> way <strong>the</strong> shepherds did it in Jesus’<br />

day. This has many <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> appearances <strong>of</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>ring done well.<br />

The priest has to be this kind <strong>of</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>r to his flock.<br />

I find this shepherd analogy persuasive. But more persuasive still<br />

has been my own experience. Through <strong>the</strong> years <strong>the</strong> conviction<br />

has been deeply planted in my heart and mind that our Heavenly<br />

Fa<strong>the</strong>r desires his priests to be fa<strong>the</strong>rs to his people.<br />

I was born into a fervent Catholic family. But it was very untypical.<br />

I was <strong>the</strong> only child. As I grew into adulthood, I was not at all<br />

well equipped to enter into marriage with <strong>the</strong> attendant children<br />

that would have inevitably been part <strong>of</strong> that. I knew nothing about<br />

children. Had I got married in my mid-twenties, I would have been<br />

a disaster as a fa<strong>the</strong>r. I would have started out, I think, as a type<br />

<strong>of</strong> martinet – all discipline – and degenerated over <strong>the</strong> years to a<br />

“who cares?” parent. Of course, nothing would have worked. The<br />

children would have been in total rebellion by <strong>the</strong> time <strong>the</strong>y were<br />

12 or 13. I would have had a strange assortment <strong>of</strong> adolescents<br />

around me – wildly coloured hair, rings in ears and noses and o<strong>the</strong>r<br />

protruding parts <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir anatomy, every outrageous clothing fad.<br />

But <strong>the</strong> Lord had o<strong>the</strong>r ideas. He saved society from <strong>the</strong> merry<br />

chase upon which my progeny would have led it. He drew me into<br />

<strong>the</strong> priesthood.<br />

After three years <strong>of</strong> ordination, <strong>the</strong> archbishop appointed me to<br />

teach in a new boys’ high school he was starting, from which he<br />

hoped to get some decent prospects for <strong>the</strong> seminary. I was hor-<br />

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rified. I had already had a bad experience teaching catechism in<br />

my last year at a local Catholic elementary school. It was <strong>the</strong> parish<br />

school for <strong>the</strong> nearby St. Theresa’s parish. It was customarily<br />

called “Little Flower School”. If ever a school in <strong>the</strong> history<br />

<strong>of</strong> Catholic education was misnamed, it was that one. It should<br />

have been called “Sing-Sing” or “Alcatraz”. I explained this to <strong>the</strong><br />

archbishop. He was sympa<strong>the</strong>tic but suggested I consider trying it<br />

for a year. I taught for 20 years. With <strong>the</strong> grace <strong>of</strong> God, I not only<br />

survived, I thrived. I even became principal for a term.<br />

I obtained my qualifications as a school counsellor as well as teacher.<br />

This led me into many individual meetings with young men. I<br />

got to understand <strong>the</strong>m quite well, I believe. I learned that <strong>the</strong>y<br />

do not quickly trust adults. But, once <strong>the</strong>y become convinced <strong>the</strong><br />

older man can be trusted, <strong>the</strong>y begin to open up. And that is what<br />

happened. Once we got past <strong>the</strong> Math and Geography problems,<br />

<strong>the</strong> real issue was broached. I became more and more amazed at<br />

<strong>the</strong> number <strong>of</strong> times <strong>the</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>rs <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> boys would come up for discussion.<br />

Fully four out <strong>of</strong> five <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> young men saw <strong>the</strong> source <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong>ir difficulties in <strong>the</strong> relationship with <strong>the</strong>ir fa<strong>the</strong>rs. “I cannot get<br />

along with my fa<strong>the</strong>r,” one would say. “My fa<strong>the</strong>r doesn’t understand<br />

me,” ano<strong>the</strong>r would <strong>of</strong>fer, “and I certainly don’t understand<br />

him”. Some said <strong>the</strong>y just did not like <strong>the</strong>ir fa<strong>the</strong>rs. It was like a<br />

broken record. I was aghast.<br />

We have a major sociological problem on our hands here, I said to<br />

myself, and one <strong>of</strong> which I was not even aware. I had to conclude<br />

that not too many fa<strong>the</strong>rs were doing a good job. These boys were<br />

largely unfa<strong>the</strong>red. It did not take long for me to move from chatting<br />

with <strong>the</strong> students to trying to provide some <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>ring<br />

<strong>the</strong>y were actually longing for. Over <strong>the</strong> years, I gradually learned<br />

what a fa<strong>the</strong>r should be. And I opened up, I believe, to what <strong>the</strong><br />

Lord was teaching me through my experiences.<br />

A fa<strong>the</strong>r needs to know how to affirm his <strong>of</strong>fspring and how vitally<br />

important affirmation is. A critical spirit has to be conquered. The


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son needs to hear from his fa<strong>the</strong>r that he is<br />

loved, not just for what he does, but simply<br />

for himself. No matter what scrapes he gets<br />

himself into, <strong>the</strong> boy has to be sure it would<br />

not change his fa<strong>the</strong>r’s love for him.<br />

Odious comparisons should be avoided entirely.<br />

“Why can’t you be like . . . ?” type<br />

<strong>of</strong> comments have to disappear. Firmness,<br />

yes, when need be, but fairness always.<br />

Fa<strong>the</strong>r and son have to have quality time<br />

toge<strong>the</strong>r, have to go places toge<strong>the</strong>r. The<br />

fa<strong>the</strong>r has to be unflinchingly reliable. And<br />

he must learn how to move along with <strong>the</strong><br />

moods <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> young, not putting up with<br />

everything, but understanding everything.<br />

After 20 years in <strong>the</strong> classroom, my teaching<br />

days came to an end. It is about time, I<br />

said to myself, that I begin to involve myself<br />

more with <strong>the</strong> general adult population.<br />

But <strong>the</strong> Lord, once again, had o<strong>the</strong>r ideas.<br />

It was not long before I found myself involved<br />

with <strong>the</strong> foundation <strong>of</strong> a new community<br />

<strong>of</strong> priests. In fact, I was <strong>the</strong> founder.<br />

I had to do it. The Lord left me no o<strong>the</strong>r<br />

choice. He had me where he wanted me.<br />

He knew, <strong>of</strong> course, what he was doing.<br />

The community, <strong>the</strong> <strong>Companions</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

<strong>Cross</strong>, received early approval by <strong>the</strong> archbishop<br />

and began to grow steadily.<br />

The Lord brought dozens and dozens <strong>of</strong> impressive<br />

young men to join us, and continues<br />

to do so. We are a group, at this point,<br />

<strong>of</strong> over 70 men, ordained and unordained<br />

(seminarians). But, impressive though <strong>the</strong>y<br />

be, many <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>m still need lots <strong>of</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>ring.<br />

What I learned as a teacher, I do now<br />

as a founder. If I am to believe <strong>the</strong> men<br />

around me, fa<strong>the</strong>ring has become my main<br />

gift. I would think <strong>the</strong> Lord’s obvious will<br />

for me is to carry on into whatever years<br />

he still has appointed for me, as a fa<strong>the</strong>r to<br />

young men. Not only that, I have to model<br />

for <strong>the</strong>m <strong>the</strong> role <strong>of</strong> fa<strong>the</strong>r that <strong>the</strong>y <strong>the</strong>mselves<br />

will find is awaiting <strong>the</strong>m.<br />

Has this fa<strong>the</strong>ring business been my discovery?<br />

I prefer to think that it is God’s<br />

revelation to me. But, in any case, it should<br />

not have surprised me that I have become<br />

what people began to call me <strong>the</strong> day I was<br />

ordained – “Fa<strong>the</strong>r”.<br />

t i m e with<br />

Fr. Bob...<br />

One <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> things that<br />

we’ve learned from<br />

Fr. Bob is that he was steadfast<br />

in his message that we need<br />

to consult <strong>the</strong> Lord every day,<br />

in every situation, in order to<br />

“catch his Word”. He would say this over and over, in<br />

many ways, from many different angles. He would say it<br />

so <strong>of</strong>ten that perhaps he could have copyrighted his words.<br />

It’s amazing that even now, as we spend time with Fr. Bob,<br />

we wait in anticipation <strong>of</strong> any word that he may speak –<br />

even just <strong>the</strong> simple words <strong>of</strong> “yes” and “no”.<br />

One day, Sr. Anna and Sr. Monique were spending time<br />

with Fr. Bob, and Sr. Anna was telling Fr. Bob that she<br />

was ready to catch <strong>the</strong> Word for <strong>the</strong> day. She continued on<br />

with more conversation and <strong>the</strong>n came back to <strong>the</strong> topic<br />

again. Wanting to engage Fr. Bob, she asked him, “What’s<br />

<strong>the</strong> Word for today Fr. Bob?” Fr. Bob looked long and<br />

hard and seemed to really be concentrating. The sisters<br />

were patient, recognizing that Fr. Bob wanted to respond<br />

to <strong>the</strong> question. Finally, in a near whisper <strong>the</strong>y heard him<br />

say, “Follow him.” Such simple words, but incredibly<br />

pr<strong>of</strong>ound.<br />

Sr. Anna <strong>the</strong>n continued by quoting a favourite Bible verse<br />

<strong>of</strong> Fr. Bob’s, but she was mixing things up a bit. She could<br />

see that Fr. Bob wanted to recite it for her, and <strong>the</strong>n she<br />

heard him say, “Psalm 37.” The full verse is: “Commit<br />

your life to <strong>the</strong> Lord, trust in him and he will act”.<br />

In <strong>the</strong> midst <strong>of</strong> his trials, Fr. Bob is still communicating<br />

a message that he’s been proclaiming for over 30 years.<br />

Hearing Fr. Bob speak <strong>the</strong>se simple words is a testimony<br />

to Christ living in him. The one whom he spent countless<br />

hours listening to, and receiving from, continues to shine<br />

through Fr. Bob in a radiant way.<br />

Servants <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong><br />

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f e a t u r e<br />

by Fr. Scott McCaig, CC<br />

Blessed John Paul II and<br />

<strong>the</strong> Gift <strong>of</strong> Enduring Hope<br />

On May first <strong>of</strong> this year, like so many<br />

<strong>of</strong> you, I was glued to <strong>the</strong> television<br />

set to watch <strong>the</strong> Beatification Mass<br />

<strong>of</strong> one <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> greatest popes in history, Pope<br />

John Paul II. It was touching to see how,<br />

even six years after his death, he still moves<br />

people so pr<strong>of</strong>oundly.<br />

I would venture to say that seldom, if ever,<br />

have so many people felt such a close personal<br />

attachment to someone <strong>the</strong>y had never<br />

actually met. Shortly after <strong>the</strong> death <strong>of</strong> John<br />

Paul II one <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> cardinals shared in an interview<br />

that he felt personally orphaned -<br />

that he had lost his fa<strong>the</strong>r. The words struck<br />

me because I felt exactly <strong>the</strong> same way. I<br />

am certain that many <strong>of</strong> you did as well. He<br />

really was our Holy Fa<strong>the</strong>r: a man <strong>of</strong> contagious<br />

holiness, a man who put God first,<br />

and who by his very example made us want<br />

to do <strong>the</strong> same; and he was a true spiritual<br />

fa<strong>the</strong>r who showed us our identity as Christians,<br />

our incredible destiny and our serious<br />

responsibilities. He exhorted us to “open<br />

wide <strong>the</strong> doors to Christ”, and gave us <strong>the</strong><br />

hope to believe we could.<br />

God is extraordinarily generous and he<br />

has given us ano<strong>the</strong>r true shepherd in Pope<br />

Benedict XVI. But I want to take a few moments<br />

to thank God for <strong>the</strong> gift <strong>of</strong> Blessed<br />

Pope John Paul II, and to acknowledge <strong>the</strong><br />

absolutely key role he played in our own development<br />

as <strong>Companions</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong>.<br />

To begin with, Pope John Paul II was an incredible<br />

inspiration to us. In our very first vision<br />

statement, before <strong>the</strong> community even<br />

had a name, Fr. Bob wrote <strong>the</strong> following:<br />

“We believe <strong>the</strong> present Holy Fa<strong>the</strong>r, Pope<br />

John Paul II, to be particularly chosen by<br />

God to shepherd his people in this critical<br />

age, and we wish to bind ourselves to a special,<br />

deep loyalty to him and to <strong>the</strong> Magisterium<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Church”. When we look at <strong>the</strong><br />

vision, <strong>the</strong> priorities, <strong>the</strong> character, and <strong>the</strong><br />

mission <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Companions</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong> – it<br />

is hard not to see <strong>the</strong> vast inspiration and <strong>the</strong><br />

imprint <strong>of</strong> Blessed John Paul II. So much <strong>of</strong><br />

who we are as a community was ei<strong>the</strong>r directly<br />

inspired by him or confirmed by his<br />

own life and teaching.<br />

When Fr. Bob read Pope Paul VI’s Apostolic<br />

Exhortation On Evangelization in <strong>the</strong><br />

Modern World in 1975, it captured him and<br />

completely reshaped his priestly ministry.<br />

For years, decades even, Fr. Bob preached,<br />

taught, and did everything that he could do<br />

to fur<strong>the</strong>r this vision that evangelization is<br />

<strong>the</strong> first and essential mission <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Church.<br />

The remarkable response <strong>of</strong> his students in<br />

high school to his new evangelical focus<br />

only fur<strong>the</strong>r confirmed his convictions and<br />

increased his resolve. At diocesan meetings<br />

he was a constant gadfly, insisting again and<br />

again that our pastoral priorities needed to<br />

be realigned – that it made little sense to try<br />

and catechize and sacramentalize those who<br />

were not yet properly evangelized. He evangelized<br />

and taught evangelization far and<br />

wide through his burgeoning speaking ministry.<br />

He was a true pioneer <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> “new evangelization”<br />

and made a difference in untold<br />

numbers <strong>of</strong> lives. Unfortunately, however,<br />

his efforts were not always understood or<br />

appreciated. Even <strong>the</strong> term “evangelization”<br />

seemed somehow foreign and suspiciously<br />

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un-Catholic to many. Resistance, and even<br />

ridicule, was a not entirely uncommon response<br />

– even among <strong>the</strong> clergy.<br />

All that began to change with Pope John<br />

Paul II, who early in his papacy began calling<br />

for a “new evangelization”. In 1990 he<br />

strongly reaffirmed <strong>the</strong> Church’s fundamental<br />

call to evangelization in his encyclical<br />

Mission <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Redeemer. It seemed that<br />

by <strong>the</strong> mid-1990’s everybody was talking<br />

about evangelization. And John Paul II was<br />

explaining evangelization in terms that we<br />

had all heard before from Fr. Bob:<br />

“It is <strong>the</strong> Spirit who opens people’s<br />

hearts so that <strong>the</strong>y can believe in<br />

Christ and ‘confess him’” (Redemptoris<br />

Missio, 46).<br />

“Conversion means accepting, by<br />

a personal decision, <strong>the</strong> saving sovereignty<br />

<strong>of</strong> Christ and becoming his<br />

disciple.” (Redemptoris Missio, 46).<br />

“Sometimes even Catholics have lost<br />

or never had <strong>the</strong> chance to experience<br />

Christ personally: not Christ


as a mere ‘paradigm’ or ‘value’, but<br />

as <strong>the</strong> living Lord, ‘<strong>the</strong> way, and <strong>the</strong><br />

truth, and <strong>the</strong> life’ (Jn 14:6)” (Pope<br />

John Paul II, L’Osservatore Romano,<br />

March 24, 1993, p.3).<br />

“It is necessary to awaken again in<br />

believers a full relationship with<br />

Christ, mankind’s only Saviour. Only<br />

from a personal relationship with Jesus<br />

can an effective evangelization<br />

develop.” (Pope John Paul II, speech<br />

to bishops <strong>of</strong> Sou<strong>the</strong>rn Germany,<br />

Dec. 4, 1992 L’Osservatore Romano<br />

(English ed.), Dec. 23/30, 1992,<br />

pp. 5-6).<br />

The teaching <strong>of</strong> John Paul II on evangelization<br />

was a deep confirmation <strong>of</strong> our charism<br />

and mission. Because we were in harmony<br />

with <strong>the</strong> heart <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Pope we knew we were<br />

on <strong>the</strong> right track and it gave us courage to<br />

forge ahead.<br />

In <strong>the</strong> same way our deep Marian devotion<br />

was confirmed and deepened by <strong>the</strong> life<br />

and teaching <strong>of</strong> Pope John Paul II, as was<br />

our pr<strong>of</strong>ound devotion to <strong>the</strong> Holy Spirit,<br />

<strong>the</strong> recognition <strong>of</strong> a New Pentecost in our<br />

time, and <strong>the</strong> charismatic dimension <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

Church that we were seeking to awaken in<br />

<strong>the</strong> hearts <strong>of</strong> believers. John Paul II’s missionary<br />

zeal, his Eucharistic piety, and his<br />

call for priests to live a deeper fraternal life –<br />

all left a permanent imprint on our lives and<br />

ministry. Without question we are deeply<br />

indebted to him. His life became a big part<br />

<strong>of</strong> who we are.<br />

As I have listened to Pope Benedict speak<br />

in several different addresses, it occurred to<br />

me that even now, years after his death, we<br />

still have many things to learn from Blessed<br />

Pope John Paul II. One <strong>of</strong> those lessons may<br />

be his indomitable hope!<br />

After 26 years, many things have changed<br />

for us. The youthful exuberance <strong>of</strong> 1985<br />

has given way to a lot <strong>of</strong> hard work in <strong>2011</strong>.<br />

Then most <strong>of</strong> us were seminarians, now we<br />

have 37 priests in <strong>the</strong> trenches, facing <strong>the</strong><br />

stresses, <strong>the</strong> difficulties, <strong>the</strong> trials <strong>of</strong> pastoral<br />

ministry while trying to bring vibrant<br />

renewal to <strong>the</strong> people <strong>of</strong> God. And I can say<br />

confidently as Moderator, because I’m in <strong>the</strong><br />

privileged position <strong>of</strong> hearing back from so<br />

many people, that great things are happening!<br />

People are experiencing renewal and<br />

<strong>the</strong> vision is being fulfilled. But I also have<br />

to tell you that it can be very difficult. It can<br />

test you to <strong>the</strong> marrow <strong>of</strong> your bones! When<br />

we face <strong>the</strong> immense challenges <strong>of</strong> evangelizing<br />

and renewing <strong>the</strong> Church in our day it<br />

is easy to become discouraged.<br />

But <strong>the</strong>re is an answer. Pope Benedict<br />

showed us <strong>the</strong> antidote to this temptation in<br />

<strong>the</strong> life <strong>of</strong> Blessed John Paul II.<br />

In <strong>the</strong> midst <strong>of</strong> all his pressing duties, facing<br />

immense needs and problems, John Paul II<br />

never surrendered his hope. He lived in<br />

hope: hope for <strong>the</strong> Church, hope for <strong>the</strong> future,<br />

hope for renewal. He was always looking<br />

forward to what was possible, to what<br />

God wanted to do next. And this hope was<br />

not mere human optimism. He wasn’t blind,<br />

and he definitely wasn’t a fool. He saw <strong>the</strong><br />

collapse <strong>of</strong> Christianity in so many formerly<br />

Christian nations. He saw <strong>the</strong> advance <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

culture <strong>of</strong> death – <strong>of</strong> war and poverty, etc. He<br />

saw it all, but he never lost hope. How did<br />

he do this? John Paul II was able to maintain<br />

his hope simply because he was constantly<br />

immersed in Jesus. He was immersed in <strong>the</strong><br />

one who holds <strong>the</strong> future in his hands. He<br />

was immersed in intimate dialogue with <strong>the</strong><br />

Lord <strong>of</strong> all history. He lived a deep spiritual<br />

life even though he had a schedule that most<br />

<strong>of</strong> us could hardly imagine. He made Jesus<br />

his first priority and all-consuming love.<br />

And Jesus gave him hope.<br />

This is a vital lesson. The obstacles we face<br />

are big. But <strong>the</strong> Lord is bigger. In his merciful<br />

heart are all <strong>the</strong> grace, all <strong>the</strong> strength,<br />

and all <strong>the</strong> hope we need. And it doesn’t<br />

matter how small or weak or unprepared<br />

we feel. Because it’s ultimately not about<br />

us, it’s about Jesus, and he loves to use <strong>the</strong><br />

“weak things <strong>of</strong> this world” precisely to<br />

show that what is accomplished is not from<br />

us but from him. Some <strong>of</strong> Pope John Paul<br />

II’s greatest achievements came as his body<br />

failed. Some <strong>of</strong> his greatest teachings came<br />

when he could barely communicate. His<br />

deep immersion in Jesus gave him hope,<br />

and his hope allowed <strong>the</strong> Lord to use him in<br />

remarkable ways! May it be <strong>the</strong> same for us.<br />

Thank you Blessed Pope John Paul II for<br />

your guidance, your inspiration, and your<br />

enduring hope. Thank you Jesus for <strong>the</strong> gift<br />

<strong>of</strong> Blessed Pope John Paul II!<br />

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This article is <strong>the</strong> Foundation Day Homily,<br />

<strong>2011</strong> given by Fr. Scott McCaig, CC Moderator<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Companions</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong>.<br />

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In <strong>the</strong> Shoes <strong>of</strong><br />

St. Barnabas<br />

“For <strong>the</strong> Son <strong>of</strong> Man also came not to be<br />

served but to serve, and to give his life as a<br />

ransom for many” (Mk 10:45).<br />

Fr. James Lowe gave his life in service <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Church on<br />

Saturday June 11, <strong>2011</strong> when he was ordained to <strong>the</strong><br />

priesthood in a beautiful Mass celebrated by <strong>the</strong> Most<br />

Reverend Terrence Prendergast, SJ at Notre Dame Ca<strong>the</strong>dral<br />

in Ottawa.<br />

Archbishop Prendergast told <strong>the</strong> joyful congregation<br />

that Fr. Jim was being ordained on his 37th birthday<br />

and <strong>the</strong> Feast day <strong>of</strong> St. Barnabas, one <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> first <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> faithful in Jerusalem. He preached <strong>the</strong> Gospel in<br />

Antioch and was a companion <strong>of</strong> St. Paul. St. Barnabas<br />

was a faithful follower <strong>of</strong> Christ who proclaimed <strong>the</strong><br />

Gospel to all.<br />

The Archbishop encouraged Fr. Jim by telling him,<br />

“You must meditate on <strong>the</strong> love <strong>of</strong> God, teach what<br />

you believe and put into practice what you preach . . .<br />

imitate <strong>the</strong> mystery you celebrate and make every effort<br />

to die to sin and walk in <strong>the</strong> new life <strong>of</strong> Christ.”<br />

Archbishop Prendergast reminded <strong>the</strong> congregation<br />

that <strong>the</strong> <strong>Companions</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong> are called to live in<br />

response to <strong>the</strong> grace <strong>of</strong> God as a community and to<br />

take <strong>the</strong>ir orientation from <strong>the</strong> Holy Spirit in <strong>the</strong> reverence<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Eucharist. He explained that <strong>the</strong> <strong>Companions</strong><br />

live <strong>the</strong>ir call out in evangelizing and staying close<br />

to <strong>the</strong> teaching Magisterium <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Church, maintaining<br />

harmonious consultaton with <strong>the</strong> Bishop.<br />

He concluded by reminding <strong>the</strong> newly ordained Fr.<br />

Jim, “Remember that you are chosen among God’s<br />

people . . . do your job with joy and love. Seek to bring<br />

<strong>the</strong> faithful toge<strong>the</strong>r in a unified family and always remember<br />

<strong>the</strong> example <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Good Shepherd.”<br />

All in attendance were certainly filled with joy and were<br />

a unified family in <strong>the</strong> prayerful, uplifting celebration<br />

<strong>of</strong> ordination for ano<strong>the</strong>r apostle <strong>of</strong> Christ following in<br />

<strong>the</strong> footsteps <strong>of</strong> St. Barnabas.


From top, left to right: Fr. Jim Lowe with members <strong>of</strong> his<br />

family; Newly ordained Fr. Jim Lowe with Archbishop and<br />

members <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Companions</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong>; Celebration <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> Eucharist; Fr. Jim blesses his bro<strong>the</strong>r; Fr. Jim Lowe and<br />

Fr. Scott McCaig; Fr. Jim Lowe with Archbishop Terrence<br />

Prendergast; Fr. Jim Lowe with Sister Servants <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

<strong>Cross</strong>; Fr. Jim’s first Mass at St. Mary’s; Fr. Jim with Bryan<br />

Sabourin at evening reception.<br />

Photos: Anne Marie Gruden


f e a t u r e<br />

by Mark Neugebauer<br />

Messianic and Catholic<br />

Having been raised in a Conservative Jewish home in Toronto,<br />

I was an attendee at synagogue on Sabbaths and<br />

High Holidays. I sang in <strong>the</strong> choir, assisted at a Hebrew<br />

school and lived a committed Jewish life. My fa<strong>the</strong>r is a Holocaust<br />

survivor from Auschwitz and my mo<strong>the</strong>r’s family survived<br />

<strong>the</strong> pogroms in Russia. Both settled in Canada and raised my sister<br />

and myself in a Jewish environment where all <strong>of</strong> our friends<br />

were Jewish. Christianity was <strong>the</strong> religion <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> outsiders, <strong>the</strong><br />

faith <strong>of</strong> anti-Semites and Jew-haters, <strong>the</strong> creed <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Crusaders,<br />

Inquisitors, Persecutors, and Nazis. Yet, my mo<strong>the</strong>r would<br />

remind me continually that “Jesus was a Jew”.<br />

One day I picked up a volume by <strong>the</strong> Yiddish writer Sholem Asche<br />

called, The Nazarene. I was awestruck by <strong>the</strong> Jewish Yeshua,<br />

who in no way resembled those who apparently hated us. The<br />

film, Jesus <strong>of</strong> Nazareth confirmed this and listening yearly to<br />

Handel’s Messiah began to convince me as I examined <strong>the</strong> scriptural<br />

libretto to that magnificent oratorio. The words, “He was<br />

wounded for our transgressions, bruised for our iniquities. The<br />

chastisement for our peace was on him, and by his stripes we are<br />

healed” caused me to wonder what <strong>the</strong>se New Testament words<br />

(so, I thought) were doing in a piece <strong>of</strong> music! To my surprise, I<br />

discovered that <strong>the</strong>y were from Isaiah 53 from <strong>the</strong> TANACH and<br />

originally in Hebrew.<br />

In <strong>the</strong> choir were two Jewish believers who were praying to lead<br />

someone to <strong>the</strong> Lord. I was fascinated by <strong>the</strong>ir peace and asking<br />

<strong>the</strong>m what it was that helped <strong>the</strong>m, <strong>the</strong>y responded, “Jesus”. I<br />

was shocked and determined to talk <strong>the</strong>m out <strong>of</strong> that aberration!<br />

When <strong>the</strong>y began to expound on <strong>the</strong> prophecies concerning <strong>the</strong><br />

Messiah, I did not hear a word <strong>the</strong>y said. What I did hear was<br />

<strong>the</strong> Lord speaking to my heart saying, “Jesus is <strong>the</strong> Messiah; he<br />

is Lord.” I came to <strong>the</strong> Messianic fellowship and I confessed<br />

Yeshua as Messiah. I brought home a Hebrew New Testament<br />

and <strong>the</strong>n began both <strong>the</strong> beginning <strong>of</strong> intensity at home, and <strong>the</strong><br />

deepest friendship with Yeshua. Through <strong>the</strong>ir tears and anger,<br />

I began to pray for my family to come to faith, while <strong>the</strong> Lord<br />

comforted me with <strong>the</strong> sweetest <strong>of</strong> intimacy and love.<br />

I studied Hebrew and Greek in my undergraduate years and examined<br />

<strong>the</strong> early Church Fa<strong>the</strong>rs. My Greek pr<strong>of</strong>essor at <strong>the</strong> University<br />

<strong>of</strong> Toronto was a devout Roman Catholic with whom I<br />

had a wonderful friendship. My degree turned out to be one in<br />

Hellenistic-Near Eastern Studies; that is, <strong>the</strong> Jewish writings <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> Hellenistic period, which included <strong>the</strong> New Testament.<br />

During this time, I became involved in <strong>the</strong> Messianic Congregation<br />

preaching and doing o<strong>the</strong>r ministries including elder and<br />

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interim pastor. Conferences bolstered my joy in Yeshua and<br />

connections with international and local Messianic believers<br />

were ongoing. I met my wife Sue at <strong>the</strong> Congregation and we<br />

raised our two sons in <strong>the</strong> Messianic Jewish faith. We prayed and<br />

worked for Jewish salvation and ministered to those who were<br />

coming to faith.<br />

When I was in teacher training 29 years ago I decided to take <strong>the</strong><br />

Catholic Education course. I did a practicum in a Catholic School<br />

and taught catechism to children and led <strong>the</strong>m in prayers, not<br />

having been Catholic. This is surprising considering <strong>the</strong> fact that<br />

I was strongly anti-Catholic. Friends who were former Catholics<br />

thought I was foolish. Yet, I was strangely attracted to <strong>the</strong> liturgy<br />

and <strong>the</strong> beauty <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Catholic Church.<br />

After years <strong>of</strong> serving at <strong>the</strong> Congregation, we felt led to attend<br />

a charismatic church. I led a men’s group and became involved<br />

in intercession, where I learned much about prayer and hearing<br />

from God. We kept our ties with <strong>the</strong> Messianic movement by<br />

leading intercession meetings, where we prayed for Jewish and<br />

Arab believers in Israel.<br />

When friends <strong>of</strong> ours reverted to <strong>the</strong> Catholic Church, <strong>the</strong>y suggested<br />

that we examine EWTN; I discovered Mo<strong>the</strong>r Angelica<br />

and “<strong>the</strong> Journey Home”. I was so surprised to discover a beautiful,<br />

faith-filled, and passionate Christianity. I had never seen anything<br />

like this - <strong>the</strong> doctrinal concerns notwithstanding: Mary,<br />

<strong>the</strong> Saints, and Purgatory. My heart was being drawn in unexpected<br />

ways. When I heard Jewish Catholics share <strong>the</strong>ir stories<br />

<strong>of</strong> faith, I knew I needed to investigate fur<strong>the</strong>r.<br />

The old attitudes and <strong>the</strong> way my people had been treated by <strong>the</strong><br />

Church during many centuries had left a wound in <strong>the</strong> hearts <strong>of</strong><br />

many Jews and a very negative attitude toward Christianity. Despite<br />

all <strong>of</strong> this, I had a desire to read Vatican II and was relieved<br />

when I learned about Nostra Aetate and <strong>the</strong> new attitudes toward<br />

<strong>the</strong> Jewish people. Blessed John Paul had done much to heal<br />

and this was a step in <strong>the</strong> right direction. I decided to read <strong>the</strong><br />

Catechism <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Catholic Church to ascertain what <strong>the</strong> Church<br />

actually taught and I discovered that <strong>the</strong> Catechism is extremely<br />

honouring <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Jewish people. I felt <strong>the</strong> deep need to forgive<br />

<strong>the</strong> Church and also repented <strong>of</strong> my judgments. It was safe to be<br />

Jewish and explore Catholicism.<br />

Through recommendations <strong>of</strong> friends, and through a series <strong>of</strong><br />

dreams about men in brown robes, I became involved with contemplative<br />

prayer. I began to read about St.Theresa <strong>of</strong> Avila and<br />

St John <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong>. I was overwhelmed by a presence <strong>of</strong> Jesus I<br />

had never experienced before and I was determined to seek more.<br />

The power <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> love <strong>of</strong> God was so evident and <strong>the</strong> truth and<br />

honesty was so prevalent.


Our Wedding May 30, 1982<br />

When my sister passed away tragically in 2007 it was to <strong>the</strong> quiet,<br />

restful worship space <strong>of</strong> a Catholic Church, St. Timothy’s in<br />

Toronto that I turned. Why a Catholic Church? I had witnessed<br />

and experienced <strong>the</strong> quiet gentleness <strong>of</strong> God’s love through<br />

EWTN and I was desperate for some grace and contemplation in<br />

<strong>the</strong> midst <strong>of</strong> grief. The Lord met me powerfully as I gazed at his<br />

<strong>Cross</strong>. I began to wonder what it was in <strong>the</strong> Church that I had not<br />

seen elsewhere. Did it have something to do with what (or who)<br />

was in <strong>the</strong> box to <strong>the</strong> side <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> sanctuary? Through <strong>the</strong> music <strong>of</strong><br />

John Michael Talbot and Gregorian chant on CD, I experienced<br />

much comfort as well.<br />

During Lent 2008 my wife and I decided to attend a Tuesday<br />

evening course on “The Spiritual Life” at St. Timothy’s, which<br />

focused on Ralph Martin’s book, The Fulfillment <strong>of</strong> All Desire. I<br />

had watched Mass on EWTN, but now I began to experience <strong>the</strong><br />

REAL PRESENCE OF JESUS IN THE EUCHARIST in person.<br />

I wanted to take Communion, but I could not. There was a choice<br />

to make now: ei<strong>the</strong>r leave St. Timothy’s or honour <strong>the</strong> rules and<br />

stay. I decided to press on, not knowing where it would all lead.<br />

My wife and I attended <strong>the</strong> “Lift Jesus Higher Rally” in April<br />

2008 and it was at <strong>the</strong> Adoration and Divine Mercy segments that<br />

we were touched. I felt I needed to explore this “Catholic Thing”<br />

fur<strong>the</strong>r. I met o<strong>the</strong>r Hebrew Catholics on TV: Debbie Herbeck,<br />

Bob Freedman, Roy Schoeman, and David and Rosalind Moss. I<br />

began reading different Websites including: Salvation is from <strong>the</strong><br />

Jews; The Association for Hebrew Catholics and, Catholics for<br />

Israel. I began a correspondence with Messianic Jewish Catholics<br />

and I was reading everything I could find on Jewish Catholics.<br />

My friends suggested I look into RCIA just for interest. I met<br />

with Fr. Randy, who was extremely kind, and I began RCIA with<br />

a very learned man at St. Timothy’s. Because I had been a be-<br />

liever for over 30 years, with experience in ministry and Bible<br />

teaching, I had private RCIA classes.<br />

Providentially, in <strong>the</strong> summer <strong>of</strong> 2008, we came to Christ <strong>the</strong><br />

King Catholic Church in Ann Arbor, MI when our son went to<br />

University in Ohio for a semester. On <strong>the</strong> Christ <strong>the</strong> King website,<br />

we found <strong>the</strong> RCIA study sheets <strong>the</strong>y used. These are question<br />

and answer lessons that use <strong>the</strong> Catechism and <strong>the</strong> Bible as<br />

<strong>the</strong> only textbooks. Using <strong>the</strong> study sheets from Christ <strong>the</strong> King,<br />

<strong>the</strong> RCIA classes with my teacher at St. Timothy were a delight.<br />

We discussed those doctrinal “chestnuts” that I mentioned above.<br />

Each time we did a study, I was convinced by <strong>the</strong> Lord <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

truth <strong>of</strong> those doctrines. It was, as St. Augustine stated, “I believed,<br />

and <strong>the</strong>n I understood” and it was as St. Thomas Aquinas<br />

asserted, “Faith and Reason”.<br />

I began to ask God if I was to become Catholic. I wanted to do<br />

<strong>the</strong> right thing considering my Jewish background. During <strong>the</strong><br />

prayer, “I am not worthy to receive you …” I would pray, “only<br />

say <strong>the</strong> word and I shall become Catholic.”<br />

I also wondered if I could walk away and leave <strong>the</strong> Catholic<br />

world having had a wonderful, faith-enriching experience. I read<br />

Edith Stein’s biography and asked <strong>the</strong> Lord at Epiphany to send<br />

me some Hebrew Catholics to confirm that it was okay for a Messianic<br />

Jew to become a Catholic. The Lord said to me, “I have<br />

sent you one already [i.e. Edith Stein] what more do you want?”<br />

I knew <strong>the</strong>n that that was it, as I had sensed intercession from St.<br />

Theresa <strong>of</strong> Avila and St. Edith Stein. I could not walk away; only<br />

proceed to where <strong>the</strong> Lord was leading.<br />

One Saturday evening Mass in February 2009 I experienced <strong>the</strong><br />

Rite <strong>of</strong> Welcoming. At my first Confession, I confessed 32 years<br />

<strong>of</strong> sin and guilt since my Baptism and for <strong>the</strong> first time felt truly<br />

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forgiven and free <strong>of</strong> guilt and shame. At<br />

<strong>the</strong> Easter Vigil I was confirmed and had<br />

my First Communion. Having listened to<br />

priests say, “The Body <strong>of</strong> Christ” became<br />

music to my ears, and when I was able for<br />

<strong>the</strong> first time to take <strong>the</strong> Body and Blood<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Lord, I felt like dancing.<br />

And, I see <strong>the</strong> Jewishness <strong>of</strong> it all. The<br />

synagogue has an Eternal Light hanging<br />

over <strong>the</strong> Ark where <strong>the</strong> Torahs are kept;<br />

<strong>the</strong> Catholic Church has a light near <strong>the</strong><br />

tabernacle where <strong>the</strong> “Torah made flesh”<br />

is kept. There is a long table in <strong>the</strong> synagogue<br />

for <strong>the</strong> Torah; <strong>the</strong>re is an altar for<br />

<strong>the</strong> Eucharist in <strong>the</strong> Church. There are<br />

Scripture readings and prayers chanted in<br />

<strong>the</strong> synagogue; <strong>the</strong> Church has scriptures<br />

and prayers read and sung.<br />

When I became a believer in Yeshua at <strong>the</strong><br />

Messianic Congregation, I did not cease<br />

to be Jewish. When I joined <strong>the</strong> Evangelical<br />

Church I did not cease to be Messianic<br />

Jewish. When I joined <strong>the</strong> Catholic<br />

Church, I did not cease to be any <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

above; it is addition and multiplication,<br />

and not subtraction or division. I am not<br />

a convert from Messianic Judaism via<br />

Evangelical Protestantism to <strong>the</strong> Catholic<br />

Church. My conversion is daily to <strong>the</strong><br />

Lord. He has led me into a deepening <strong>of</strong><br />

relationship with him that grows daily too.<br />

If anyone had ever told me years ago that<br />

this would be happening, I would have<br />

told <strong>the</strong>m <strong>the</strong>y were dreaming. Yet, it is<br />

a dream come true. The Lord has given<br />

me many more mercies, favours, and opportunities<br />

to share <strong>the</strong> Jewish roots <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

faith. Jesus is a real person to me at Mass<br />

and not just a <strong>the</strong>ory or an experience.<br />

The richness in history, tradition, and <strong>the</strong><br />

manifold “colours” <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Catholic tradition<br />

are so beautiful and so wise. Our<br />

Holy Fa<strong>the</strong>r is a real friend to our people.<br />

Bringing with me <strong>the</strong> rich heritage <strong>of</strong> my<br />

Jewish roots and all I have learned over<br />

<strong>the</strong> years in various places, I feel as if a<br />

whole new, yet ancient, world has opened<br />

up for me to explore and enjoy as well as<br />

to serve in – all for <strong>the</strong> glory <strong>of</strong> God <strong>the</strong><br />

Fa<strong>the</strong>r, <strong>the</strong> love <strong>of</strong> Messiah Yeshua and in<br />

<strong>the</strong> fullness <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Holy Spirit.<br />

Gift and Mystery<br />

– 25 Years as a Priest<br />

“Do not be afraid!<br />

Do not be afraid to give your life to Christ!<br />

Nothing will ever replace <strong>the</strong> ministry <strong>of</strong> priests at <strong>the</strong> heart <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Church!<br />

Nothing will ever replace a Mass for <strong>the</strong> salvation <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> world!<br />

Dear young and not so young who are listening to me, do not leave<br />

Christ’s call unanswered.”<br />

Pope Benedict XVI, September 13th, 2008, Paris.<br />

T he<br />

Ministerial Priesthood is a Gift, a Call and Mystery. These words come to<br />

mind as I reflect on <strong>the</strong> grace <strong>of</strong> 25 years <strong>of</strong> priestly life, service and ministry<br />

since my ordination that memorable sunny morning October 18th, 1986.<br />

In Gift and Mystery written by John Paul II on <strong>the</strong> 50th anniversary <strong>of</strong> his own priesthood<br />

he said: “As Jesus says to <strong>the</strong> first apostles, on <strong>the</strong> night before he died: ‘You did<br />

not choose me but I chose you’ (Jn 15:16).<br />

“Priesthood is a gift given. The author <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> letter to <strong>the</strong> Hebrews says that no one takes<br />

this gift <strong>of</strong> himself, but “takes it only when called by God” (Heb 5:4).<br />

“But God’s call and <strong>the</strong> gift <strong>of</strong> a vocation is also a mystery. A mystery is something that<br />

we do not fully understand, but something that we can still embrace and accept. God is<br />

a mystery; why should his call be any different?”<br />

When I had <strong>the</strong> realization that <strong>the</strong> Lord might be calling me to become a priest, I<br />

clearly remember being quite puzzled. I could not ever remember contemplating such<br />

an idea. Why did <strong>the</strong> Lord wait until I was 25 before finally knocking at my door? After<br />

all, I had none <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> usual qualifications to <strong>of</strong>fer him. I never played Mass as a kid; I<br />

was never interested in becoming an altar server; and I never questioned once that marriage<br />

and career were for me. While initially trying to come to terms with <strong>the</strong> possibility<br />

<strong>of</strong> a call to become a priest, I may have thought: Mystery - “yes” Gift - “no!”<br />

As I gradually yielded to <strong>the</strong> grace <strong>of</strong> his call and gave up trying to figure this whole thing<br />

out, Mystery, a peace and desire to accept this Call as Gift began to take hold <strong>of</strong> me.<br />

In my final year <strong>of</strong> studies at St. Augustine’s Seminary in Toronto, for <strong>the</strong> Diocese <strong>of</strong><br />

Hamilton, ano<strong>the</strong>r unexpected turn appeared on my vocational horizon – a strong sense<br />

that I was being called to live my priesthood in a community setting. I did not feel called<br />

to join an already existing religious order. Puzzled once again, I took a sabbatical year for<br />

fur<strong>the</strong>r discernment and ended up living in Ottawa in <strong>the</strong> spring <strong>of</strong> 1985. This precipitated<br />

a move into St. Mary’s rectory with Fr. Bob Bedard, <strong>the</strong> newly appointed pastor.<br />

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by Fr. Dennis Hayes, CC


This was <strong>the</strong> result <strong>of</strong> a phone call that I had made during <strong>the</strong><br />

final weeks <strong>of</strong> that last semester: “Fr. Bob, as I was praying in<br />

our seminary chapel last night your name kept popping into my<br />

mind.” “Come and stay <strong>the</strong> summer” he said, “stay as long as<br />

you like” I couldn’t pass up such a generous <strong>of</strong>fer. The rest is<br />

history. Fr. Bob once said to me in passing: “Dennis, just like <strong>the</strong><br />

fellow in <strong>the</strong> movie The Man Who Came to Dinner you came for<br />

a visit and never left us.”<br />

In May <strong>of</strong> 1985, I joined with <strong>the</strong> already existing group <strong>of</strong> four<br />

young men who called <strong>the</strong>mselves “<strong>the</strong> bro<strong>the</strong>rs”. They met with<br />

Fr. Bob in his rectory living room every Friday evening. Toge<strong>the</strong>r,<br />

we attentively listened to those initial prophetic words that <strong>the</strong><br />

Lord seemed to be imparting in our midst. We responded in turn<br />

with a fair measure <strong>of</strong> heartfelt prayer and vibrant praise. This<br />

led us steadily, with our beloved founder “Fa<strong>the</strong>r Bobby B”, into<br />

<strong>the</strong> foundation <strong>of</strong> a new community <strong>of</strong> priests. From <strong>the</strong> beginning,<br />

I had a strong sense that I would be part <strong>of</strong> this new thing<br />

that <strong>the</strong> Lord raised up.<br />

The “Foundational Vision” for this new priestly community, <strong>the</strong><br />

<strong>Companions</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong>, evolved from <strong>the</strong> expression <strong>of</strong> our basic<br />

spirituality: fully Eucharistic, Marian, Charismatic and Magisterial<br />

into <strong>the</strong> gradual discovery <strong>of</strong> our own “unique charism”.<br />

Our unique and particular gift to <strong>the</strong> Church is to serve <strong>the</strong><br />

Lord’s call for a New Evangelization. This is inspired by a renewed<br />

call in our own day by <strong>the</strong> Holy Fa<strong>the</strong>r (Blessed John Paul<br />

II and Benedict XVI) and <strong>the</strong> bishops <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Church to rediscover<br />

<strong>the</strong> centrality <strong>of</strong> proclaiming <strong>the</strong> basic Gospel message <strong>of</strong> salvation.<br />

This is to be a proclamation <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Gospel given with new<br />

ardour and methods <strong>of</strong> expression adapted to <strong>the</strong> people <strong>of</strong> our<br />

day by <strong>the</strong> power <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Holy Spirit.<br />

Over <strong>the</strong>se last 25 years I<br />

have had <strong>the</strong> privilege <strong>of</strong><br />

serving God’s people in<br />

seven parishes both within<br />

<strong>the</strong> Archdioceses <strong>of</strong> Ottawa<br />

and Toronto. I have also had<br />

<strong>the</strong> privilege <strong>of</strong> working in <strong>the</strong><br />

formation <strong>of</strong> our seminarians<br />

and most recently as a facilitator<br />

in vocations.<br />

As I reflect on <strong>the</strong>se different pastoral assignments<br />

and my priesthood <strong>the</strong>re is a question<br />

that comes to mind: “What is <strong>the</strong> most fundamental<br />

“spiritual marker” that has brought<br />

<strong>the</strong> most life and vitality into <strong>the</strong> gift <strong>of</strong> my own priesthood with<br />

<strong>the</strong> <strong>Companions</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong>?<br />

It is our unique and enduring commitment as a community to<br />

remain open, even radically so, to <strong>the</strong> inspiration and leading <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> Holy Spirit! Thank you Fr. Bob for modelling and teaching<br />

that from our very first foundations to <strong>the</strong> present day, “Yes, Give<br />

God Permission! To have a fully Catholic spirituality imbued<br />

with an evangelical heart and Pentecostal fire!”<br />

I would be remiss in giving thanks and praise to God for <strong>the</strong>se<br />

many years <strong>of</strong> priestly service if I did not say: “Thank you Lord<br />

for causing me to be spared from a most certain death by<br />

drowning when I suffered a heart attack in Ottawa during<br />

<strong>the</strong> course <strong>of</strong> an evening swim on April 26, 2004.” I thank <strong>the</strong><br />

Lord <strong>of</strong> infinite mercies for <strong>the</strong> prayers that were <strong>of</strong>fered for me.<br />

Even at that very moment <strong>of</strong> near tragedy and for <strong>the</strong> countless<br />

prayers <strong>of</strong> God’s saints who prayed for me along <strong>the</strong> difficult<br />

road to a full recovery.<br />

These first 25 years <strong>of</strong> priesthood been filled with many GIFT(S)<br />

and yes, MYSTERY! I must say that <strong>the</strong> experience <strong>of</strong> initially<br />

being puzzled at <strong>the</strong> onset <strong>of</strong> this journey <strong>of</strong> mine has evolved<br />

significantly. Today, this evolving sense <strong>of</strong> Mystery leads me<br />

into a sure and abiding knowledge <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Fa<strong>the</strong>r’s constant embrace,<br />

his enduring, faithful and never ending mercy!<br />

Dear friend, you have nothing to fear in giving your whole life to<br />

God. Come Holy Spirit enkindle in us <strong>the</strong> fire <strong>of</strong> your love – may<br />

we never leave <strong>the</strong> Call <strong>of</strong> Christ unanswered!<br />

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Fr. Dennis Hayes is <strong>the</strong> pastor <strong>of</strong> Holy Rosary parish in Ottawa.<br />

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f e a t u r e<br />

by Maria Nicastro<br />

sPiriTuAl MoTHerHooD oF PriesTs<br />

Mission sTATeMenT<br />

We are an apostolate <strong>of</strong> Catholic women,<br />

who, inspired by love for <strong>the</strong> Church and<br />

in response to her invitation for eucharistic<br />

Adoration for <strong>the</strong> sanctification <strong>of</strong> Priests<br />

and spiritual Maternity (Congregatio pro<br />

Clericis, Dec. 8, 2007), make a total self<strong>of</strong>fering<br />

<strong>of</strong> our lives for <strong>the</strong> sanctification <strong>of</strong><br />

priests. We unite ourselves to <strong>the</strong> Blessed<br />

Virgin Mary, <strong>the</strong> Mo<strong>the</strong>r <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> eternal High<br />

Priest and his helper in <strong>the</strong> work <strong>of</strong> redemption,<br />

by anonymously spiritually adopting a<br />

priest-son. Formed in an au<strong>the</strong>ntic feminine<br />

spirituality we intercede for our priest-sons<br />

and for all priests in order to help <strong>the</strong>m with<br />

<strong>the</strong>ir self-<strong>of</strong>fering, prayer, and penance. We<br />

emphasize eucharistic Adoration as a preeminent<br />

way to unite priests to <strong>the</strong> Priestly<br />

Heart <strong>of</strong> Jesus.<br />

A CAll To CATHoliC WoMen<br />

On December 8, 2007, <strong>the</strong> Solemnity <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> Immaculate Conception, a document<br />

from <strong>the</strong> Congregation for <strong>the</strong> Clergy<br />

was sent to all <strong>the</strong> bishops <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> world.<br />

It was entitled Eucharistic Adoration for<br />

<strong>the</strong> Sanctification <strong>of</strong> Priests and Spiritual<br />

Maternity. In essence, <strong>the</strong> letter requested<br />

that women spiritually adopt priests and<br />

embrace Eucharistic adoration, in a spirit<br />

<strong>of</strong> genuine reparation and purification, for<br />

<strong>the</strong> sanctification <strong>of</strong> priests. In an answer to<br />

this call, our apostolate <strong>of</strong> “Spiritual Mo<strong>the</strong>rhood<br />

<strong>of</strong> Priests” was conceived.<br />

We are not alone! Through <strong>the</strong> inspiration<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Holy Spirit similar women’s groups<br />

(united in intention but unique in apostolate<br />

formation) continue to form worldwide: <strong>the</strong><br />

best known <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>se groups is led by Fr. Mark<br />

Kirby <strong>of</strong> Tulsa, Oklahoma. Blogs, articles<br />

and Catholic TV are being used to spread <strong>the</strong><br />

call. The spirit is moving and getting <strong>the</strong> attention<br />

<strong>of</strong> Catholic women everywhere!<br />

All <strong>of</strong> this is part <strong>of</strong> a larger call from <strong>the</strong><br />

Holy Spirit to women. We are called to use<br />

our God-given gifts <strong>of</strong> au<strong>the</strong>ntic femininity to<br />

fight <strong>the</strong> culture <strong>of</strong> death and to help transform<br />

<strong>the</strong> world. The Church has been confirming<br />

this call in many ways for many years!<br />

The concept <strong>of</strong> “feminine genius” was first<br />

outlined by Pope Pius <strong>the</strong> 12th in 1957.<br />

Then, from a closing speech from Vatican<br />

II, December 8, 1965 came:<br />

“The hour is coming, in fact has come,<br />

when <strong>the</strong> vocation <strong>of</strong> women is being acknowledged<br />

in its fullness, <strong>the</strong> hour in<br />

which women acquire in <strong>the</strong> world … an<br />

influence, an effect and a power … never<br />

hi<strong>the</strong>rto achieved. That is why, at this moment<br />

when <strong>the</strong> human race is undergoing<br />

so deep a transformation, women imbued<br />

with a spirit <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Gospel can do so much<br />

to aid humanity in not falling.”<br />

This fire has been lit in <strong>the</strong> hearts <strong>of</strong> many<br />

Catholic women! One is tempted to believe<br />

that we are living in “<strong>the</strong> hour” predicted.<br />

We continue to confront deep challenges<br />

to <strong>the</strong> human race that Vatican II refers<br />

to. The horrific moral decay and loss <strong>of</strong><br />

faith in <strong>the</strong> world is disheartening. In our<br />

own day, Blessed JP II exhorted Catholic<br />

women to employ <strong>the</strong>ir “feminine genius”<br />

to build a culture <strong>of</strong> life. Our whole being<br />

is called into play in order that we may love<br />

mankind with our “feminine genius” in all<br />

<strong>the</strong> aspects <strong>of</strong> our au<strong>the</strong>ntic femininity: receptivity,<br />

sensitivity, generosity and maternity.<br />

Toge<strong>the</strong>r with Our Lady, whose every<br />

fibre exudes “au<strong>the</strong>ntic femininity”, we<br />

are called to fight for <strong>the</strong> salvation <strong>of</strong> humanity<br />

- beginning with our own families<br />

and working our way into <strong>the</strong> world … to<br />

wherever <strong>the</strong> Holy Spirit calls us to become<br />

instruments <strong>of</strong> God’s love.<br />

We see <strong>the</strong> apostolate <strong>of</strong> Spiritual Mo<strong>the</strong>rhood<br />

<strong>of</strong> Priests within this larger call. It<br />

embraces all aspects <strong>of</strong> au<strong>the</strong>ntic femininity,<br />

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but especially maternity. Spiritual maternity<br />

is <strong>the</strong> heart and focus <strong>of</strong> Spiritual Mo<strong>the</strong>rhood<br />

<strong>of</strong> Priests (SMOP). We believe that it<br />

is a particular call from <strong>the</strong> Spirit to employ<br />

our feminine gifts to transform specifically<br />

<strong>the</strong> Church. We unite with <strong>the</strong> sorrowful<br />

heart <strong>of</strong> Mary, a heart concerned and distressed<br />

with <strong>the</strong> trials <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Church – and in<br />

particular <strong>the</strong> attack on her priest sons. The<br />

attack on priests is paramount because <strong>the</strong>y<br />

are chosen instruments <strong>of</strong> divine grace, used<br />

to save and sustain us. If <strong>the</strong> enemy brings<br />

down a priest, souls follow: “Strike <strong>the</strong><br />

Shepherd, and <strong>the</strong> flock scatters.”<br />

our CAll To sMoP<br />

Words can’t express <strong>the</strong> beauty <strong>of</strong> what <strong>the</strong><br />

Spirit is doing in <strong>the</strong> hearts <strong>of</strong> hundreds <strong>of</strong><br />

women worldwide. For Maria Pirrone and<br />

me, this apostolate is <strong>the</strong> fulfillment <strong>of</strong> our<br />

God-given desires. It encompasses all <strong>the</strong><br />

areas <strong>of</strong> ministry we’ve been involved in<br />

over many years – in particular, intercession<br />

for priests, Eucharistic adoration, and<br />

formation <strong>of</strong> women. In retrospect, we can<br />

clearly see <strong>the</strong> hand <strong>of</strong> God in all <strong>of</strong> this.<br />

We can see his direction and purpose for<br />

our lives. We can see how he and Mary<br />

have tenderly nurtured in us an appreciation<br />

for <strong>the</strong> particular spirituality required<br />

for this call: a tremendous love for Holy<br />

Mo<strong>the</strong>r Church, love for <strong>the</strong> mystery <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

priesthood, a spirit <strong>of</strong> sacrifice, mature obedience,<br />

a hunger for adoration, and a spirit<br />

<strong>of</strong> reparation to <strong>the</strong> Sacred Heart <strong>of</strong> Jesus.<br />

It pains us to witness attacks on <strong>the</strong> Church<br />

at every level. Our hearts have been broken<br />

many times as we have heard <strong>of</strong> priests<br />

succumbing to weakness and temptation.<br />

Fully aware that our efforts could never be<br />

enough, a desire continued to grow within<br />

us to help build up, defend, and protect <strong>the</strong><br />

faith we love and to support our beloved<br />

priests. While ministering to women over<br />

<strong>the</strong> course <strong>of</strong> many years, we have recognized<br />

<strong>the</strong> same call to pray and intercede<br />

for priests in some <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>m. Often, women<br />

shared with us about a “sacrificial love” for


<strong>the</strong> Church taking hold <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir hearts. They<br />

would share how Jesus was moving <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

spirits to <strong>of</strong>fer <strong>the</strong>mselves for <strong>the</strong> Church.<br />

Through God’s grace and two years <strong>of</strong><br />

discernment and prayer, SMOP Ottawa is<br />

now a reality. It was <strong>of</strong>ficially inaugurated<br />

on <strong>the</strong> Solemnity <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Sacred Heart <strong>of</strong> Jesus<br />

(which is also World Day <strong>of</strong> Prayer for<br />

Sanctification <strong>of</strong> Priests) on July 1, <strong>2011</strong>,<br />

with Mass and an induction ceremony. Fifty-nine<br />

women became spiritual mo<strong>the</strong>rs<br />

and <strong>the</strong>re is already growing interest in our<br />

formation weekends next year!<br />

We are immensely grateful to Archbishop<br />

Terrance Prendergast for his support and<br />

permission! We are also grateful to <strong>the</strong> <strong>Companions</strong><br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong>, to Fr. Scott McCaig,<br />

CC and Fr. Terry Donahue, CC for <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

guidance and help in formation - and to Fr.<br />

Dennis Hayes, CC and Fr. Allan MacDonald,<br />

CC for <strong>the</strong>ir help in formation as well.<br />

“No greater love is <strong>the</strong>re, than one lay down<br />

his life for his bro<strong>the</strong>r” (Jn 15:13).<br />

Spiritual Mo<strong>the</strong>rhood isn’t complicated.<br />

It’s about love: sacrificial love; <strong>the</strong> kind <strong>of</strong><br />

love that <strong>the</strong> Fa<strong>the</strong>r had for us by sending<br />

Jesus; <strong>the</strong> kind <strong>of</strong> love Jesus had hanging<br />

on <strong>the</strong> cross; <strong>the</strong> kind <strong>of</strong> love Mary had<br />

standing by her Son at <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong> and watching<br />

him suffer and die for our salvation. It’s<br />

also <strong>the</strong> kind <strong>of</strong> love priests have for <strong>the</strong><br />

church: a love <strong>of</strong> total self-<strong>of</strong>fering for <strong>the</strong><br />

good <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r; life-giving love. It’s <strong>the</strong><br />

kind <strong>of</strong> love all women have a capacity for,<br />

but must choose to live out daily.<br />

Being a spiritual mo<strong>the</strong>r is a call within a<br />

call, but <strong>the</strong> spirituality and disciplines <strong>of</strong><br />

this movement are meant to complement<br />

our lives – using <strong>the</strong> duty <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> moment<br />

as our guide. We <strong>of</strong>fer our everyday loves,<br />

joys, sorrows, sacrifices and prayers. We<br />

unite <strong>the</strong>m to Jesus through Mary for <strong>the</strong><br />

good <strong>of</strong> all priests, pastor(s) <strong>of</strong> our parish,<br />

new vocations, <strong>the</strong> Holy Fa<strong>the</strong>r and our<br />

bishops. Primarily, it’s our particular priestson,<br />

entrusted to us through our <strong>of</strong>fering,<br />

which we focus our hearts on. SMOP has<br />

its own crosses but it’s a tremendous blessing<br />

to our personal spiritual lives. It’s not<br />

for everyone, but it is a blessing to those<br />

who are called.<br />

SMOP is meant to complement any women’s<br />

state in life, regardless <strong>of</strong> whe<strong>the</strong>r<br />

she is single, married, or in religious<br />

vows. The patronesses <strong>of</strong> this apostolate<br />

were all called to spiritual maternity <strong>of</strong><br />

priests and reflect a remarkable diversity<br />

<strong>of</strong> life. St Thérèse was a nun, St Ca<strong>the</strong>rine<br />

<strong>of</strong> Siena was a single lay woman,<br />

and Blessed Anna Maria Taigi was a wife<br />

and mo<strong>the</strong>r.<br />

I leave you with <strong>the</strong> words <strong>of</strong> one Spiritual<br />

mo<strong>the</strong>r. Filled with emotion, she relayed,<br />

“I don’t know my priest-son, but I already<br />

love him.” Is Jesus calling you?<br />

For info: spiritualmo<strong>the</strong>rhoodottawa@<br />

gmail.com<br />

..........................................<br />

Maria Nicastro is a parishioner at St. Maurice<br />

parish in Ottawa.<br />

“Fr. Bob Bedard has played a<br />

significant role in <strong>the</strong> life <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

church in Ottawa and far beyond.<br />

These memoirs are a testament to his<br />

pr<strong>of</strong>ound openness to <strong>the</strong> Holy Spirit.<br />

It is inspiring to see what <strong>the</strong> Lord Jesus<br />

can accomplish in <strong>the</strong> life <strong>of</strong> someone<br />

who is wholeheartedly surrendered<br />

to him. It’s important – even for priests<br />

– to ‘give God permission’!”<br />

Most reverend Terrence Prendergast, sJ,<br />

Archbishop <strong>of</strong> ottawa<br />

$20.00 plus shipping and handling.<br />

Available through <strong>the</strong> <strong>of</strong>fice.<br />

C o m p a n i o n s o f t h e C r o s s s u m m e r 2 0 1 1<br />

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17


Big Changes<br />

in <strong>2011</strong>!<br />

To say that this has been a year <strong>of</strong> big changes for <strong>the</strong> <strong>Companions</strong><br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong> would be an understatement! Over half<br />

<strong>of</strong> our priests are moving into new assignments, and most <strong>of</strong><br />

our seminarians are on <strong>the</strong> move as well. We have had to let a few<br />

ministries go and we have accepted several new parishes. We have<br />

even begun an entirely new foundation that will involve a new<br />

academic formation program. Big changes indeed! In fact, this is<br />

<strong>the</strong> biggest year <strong>of</strong> changes in <strong>the</strong> community’s history!<br />

Unfortunately, before I can share <strong>the</strong> exciting changes in <strong>the</strong> community<br />

– I must begin with a few disappointing ones. To begin with,<br />

Fr. Fernando Suarez and Fr. Jeffrey Shannon are no longer members<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Companions</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong>. They are now members <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Vicariate<br />

<strong>of</strong> San Jose <strong>of</strong> Mindoro, Philippines. Their departure was not<br />

entirely unexpected. For several years, <strong>the</strong> leadership <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> community<br />

has made every effort to address growing concerns about <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

life and ministry, and to help <strong>the</strong>m integrate fully into our community<br />

life. Fr. Suarez and Fr. Shannon chose to leave <strong>the</strong> community<br />

ra<strong>the</strong>r than submit to <strong>the</strong> authority and expectations <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Society.<br />

As a result <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir departure we have discontinued our foundation<br />

in <strong>the</strong> Philippines.<br />

St. Scholastica<br />

f e a t u r e<br />

by Fr. Scott McCaig, CC<br />

St. Scholastica Monastery<br />

Also, it is with much regret and sadness that we are consolidating<br />

our ministry in <strong>the</strong> Archdiocese <strong>of</strong> Galveston-Houston to <strong>the</strong><br />

Catholic Charismatic Center and Queen <strong>of</strong> Peace Parish. We had<br />

hoped to minister at Our Lady <strong>of</strong> Mount Carmel Parish and to<br />

use St. Teresita Priory as a house <strong>of</strong> formation for many years to<br />

come. Unfortunately <strong>the</strong> Priory building requires extensive repairs<br />

which <strong>the</strong> Archdiocese cannot justify at <strong>the</strong> present time due to <strong>the</strong><br />

tremendous burden <strong>of</strong> expenses incurred as a result <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> recent<br />

hurricane. This has necessitated <strong>the</strong> community to relocate to ano<strong>the</strong>r<br />

house <strong>of</strong> formation and parish for <strong>the</strong> formation <strong>of</strong> our seminarians.<br />

This has been an extremely difficult situation and it was<br />

very hard to leave OLMC parish and <strong>the</strong> wonderful friends and<br />

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partners in <strong>the</strong> Gospel that we have made<br />

<strong>the</strong>re. We trust that our loving and merciful<br />

Lord will keep us united in heart and<br />

that our relationships will persevere for <strong>the</strong><br />

glory <strong>of</strong> God.<br />

But <strong>the</strong> Lord is always one step ahead and<br />

is never outdone in generosity! Just as we<br />

were struggling with <strong>the</strong> realization that<br />

we would need to move our formation program<br />

in Houston, we received a call from<br />

<strong>the</strong> Archdiocese <strong>of</strong> Detroit. Archbishop Vigneron<br />

was inviting us to take on St. Scholastica’s<br />

parish on <strong>the</strong> outskirts <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> inner-city.<br />

This is a tremendous opportunity<br />

for several reasons. First, <strong>the</strong> parish is well<br />

suited to our needs and mission. Inner-city<br />

ministry has always been a priority for <strong>the</strong><br />

community and <strong>the</strong> parish itself is ideally<br />

located, has a large church building well<br />

suited to renewal work, and as a former<br />

Benedictine parish comes with a “monastery”<br />

residence with ample space. Secondly,<br />

it is only a 15 minute drive from Sacred<br />

Heart Seminary, which is arguably one<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> best seminaries in North America.<br />

Years ago our Executive Council discussed<br />

<strong>the</strong> possibility <strong>of</strong> moving our academic formation<br />

to Sacred Heart Seminary, but it just<br />

wasn’t feasible at <strong>the</strong> time. The reason we<br />

were so motivated to do so, and <strong>the</strong> reason<br />

why we are so enthused now, is that Sacred<br />

Heart Seminary is not only providing topnotch<br />

philosophy and <strong>the</strong>ology programs<br />

but is also unquestionably leading <strong>the</strong> way<br />

in training future priests for <strong>the</strong> new evangelization.<br />

In fact, our good friend Ralph<br />

Martin who has been a leader in Catholic<br />

evangelization and renewal for decades is<br />

<strong>the</strong> director <strong>of</strong> graduate <strong>the</strong>ology programs<br />

in <strong>the</strong> new evangelization at Sacred Heart.<br />

The commitment to training “heralds <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> new evangelization” in this seminary<br />

is unparalleled. After a community wide<br />

consultation and discernment process we<br />

accepted Archbishop Vigneron’s invitation.<br />

We begin on July first. Most <strong>of</strong> our<br />

seminarians will be transferring to Sacred<br />

Heart Seminary.<br />

There are also some exciting changes in<br />

Continued on page 20...<br />

f a t h e r terr y’s piCks<br />

Priesthood<br />

Dear Fa<strong>the</strong>r – A Message <strong>of</strong> Love to Priests<br />

by Ca<strong>the</strong>rine Doherty<br />

A powerful book on <strong>the</strong> meaning and importance <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> priesthood.<br />

Madonna House Publications, 2001, 138pp.<br />

Theology <strong>of</strong> Priesthood<br />

by Jean Galot, SJ<br />

Comprehensive <strong>the</strong>ological presentation <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> priesthood, relationship between<br />

<strong>the</strong> priesthood <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> faithful and <strong>the</strong> ministerial priesthood, <strong>the</strong> priest’s<br />

role as minister <strong>of</strong> sacraments, as prophet and leader.<br />

Ignatius Press, 1985, 274pp.<br />

The Priestly Office – A Theological Reflection<br />

by Avery Cardinal Dulles, SJ<br />

A collection <strong>of</strong> five lectures on <strong>the</strong> Catholic priesthood today.<br />

Paulist Press, 1997, 96pp.<br />

The Catholic Priesthood and Women – A Guide to <strong>the</strong><br />

Teaching <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Church<br />

by Sara Butler, MSBT<br />

A clear and compelling explanation <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Catholic teaching that <strong>the</strong> Church<br />

does not have <strong>the</strong> authority to ordain women to <strong>the</strong> priesthood. Includes<br />

explanation <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> fundamental reasons for <strong>the</strong> teaching and <strong>the</strong> <strong>the</strong>ological<br />

explanations for it.<br />

Hillenbrand Books, 2007, 132pp.<br />

Is Jesus Calling You to be a Catholic Priest?<br />

A 32 page guide to discerning <strong>the</strong> will <strong>of</strong> God regarding a vocation to <strong>the</strong><br />

priesthood. National Conference <strong>of</strong> Diocesan Vocation Directors.<br />

www.ncdvd.org/orderdiscernmentjournals.html<br />

Eucharistic Adoration for <strong>the</strong> Sanctification <strong>of</strong> Priests<br />

and Spiritual Maternity<br />

2007 Document from <strong>the</strong> Congregation for <strong>the</strong> Clergy on Spiritual Mo<strong>the</strong>rhood<br />

for Priests<br />

www.catholicculture.org/culture/library/specialitems/adoration_for_<br />

priests.pdf<br />

Vultus Christi (The Face <strong>of</strong> Christ)<br />

Catholic blog by Fr. Mark Kirby<br />

vultus.stblogs.org/priesthood/<br />

Congregation for <strong>the</strong> Clergy Website<br />

www.clerus.org<br />

Also, check out our Priesthood and Vocations playlists at<br />

www.youtube.com/<strong>Companions</strong><strong>Cross</strong> and companionscross.org/vocations/<br />

comeandsee.html


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our “Mo<strong>the</strong>r-house” foundation here in Ottawa. At <strong>the</strong> invitation<br />

<strong>of</strong> Archbishop Prendergast we have accepted responsibility for two<br />

more parishes in <strong>the</strong> archdiocese. The first is Annunciation <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

Lord Parish in Gloucester. This is a wonderful parish and it seems<br />

to be a very natural fit for us as we have long been involved in<br />

many <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> outreaches associated with <strong>the</strong> parish – not <strong>the</strong> least<br />

<strong>of</strong> which is <strong>the</strong> vibrant Lifeteen Mass on Sunday evenings. The<br />

second parish is Blessed Sacrament Parish in <strong>the</strong> Glebe area <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

city. This is an unexpected but exciting development for us. Not<br />

only is it a lively parish, but we have a unique history and relationship<br />

with it. Blessed Sacrament Parish was Fr. Bob’s home parish.<br />

He was baptized <strong>the</strong>re and grew up in <strong>the</strong> parish. He was even ordained<br />

to <strong>the</strong> priesthood <strong>the</strong>re on June 6, 1955. We are delighted by<br />

<strong>the</strong> opportunity to serve <strong>the</strong> people <strong>of</strong> God in <strong>the</strong>se two parishes!<br />

Fr. Bob always warned us that when you give <strong>the</strong> Lord permission to<br />

do whatever he wants to do – hang on! It certainly feels like that this<br />

year. Please pray for <strong>the</strong> many priests in our community who are on<br />

<strong>the</strong> move to new assignments, and for <strong>the</strong> new parishes that we have<br />

been given <strong>the</strong> privilege and opportunity to minister in: St. Scholastica’s,<br />

Annunciation <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Lord, and Blessed Sacrament.<br />

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Fr. Scott McCaig is <strong>the</strong> Moderator <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Companions</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong>.<br />

He has been ordained for 16 years.<br />

Looking to<br />

Bring Renewal<br />

to Your Parish?<br />

St. Scholastica School<br />

St. Scholastica church<br />

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Contact Fr. Allan MacDonald, CC<br />

(613) 728-1736<br />

vocations@companionscross.org<br />

Available for parish missions, retreats, etc.


God, let me be where i am, right now. let me<br />

accept myself and love myself as i am right<br />

now – this moment, without a single thing<br />

being different.<br />

You love me now. Let me love me now!<br />

God, let me live in <strong>the</strong> now, because you<br />

are <strong>the</strong>re.<br />

i can’t meet you in <strong>the</strong> past or <strong>the</strong> future. if that<br />

is where i always am, i will miss you and i will<br />

miss what you are doing now!<br />

i want to be able to see <strong>the</strong> beauty <strong>of</strong> what you<br />

are about.<br />

God, help me to be silent for at least a few<br />

moments. Help me to quiet not only my<br />

tongue, but also my restless mind and heart.<br />

if i cannot be quiet, how will i ever hear your<br />

gentle voice pleading with me to come to you<br />

and receive your rest?<br />

“God...”<br />

i start my day by calling upon His help and<br />

assistance – i remind myself that <strong>the</strong>re is a God<br />

and i’m not Him!<br />

“... let me be where I am, right now...”<br />

i pray in my room - i accept where i am right<br />

<strong>the</strong>n and <strong>the</strong>re – i don’t let my mind race <strong>of</strong>f<br />

and review all <strong>the</strong> duties and responsibilities <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> day – <strong>the</strong>y can wait until later when <strong>the</strong>y<br />

are to happen (if <strong>the</strong>y even do!)<br />

“Let me accept myself ...”<br />

Do i? – i struggled for years (and still do!) with<br />

accepting myself.<br />

“...and love myself as I am right now –<br />

this moment, without a single thing<br />

being different.”<br />

A Prayer for Now<br />

i need to love myself at THis MoMenT<br />

because this moment is all i have - if i’m<br />

always wanting something to Be DiFFerenT<br />

<strong>the</strong>n i won’t be content with noW – i’ll never<br />

be happy!<br />

“You love me now. Let me love me now!”<br />

Do i believe this? Do i believe that God wants<br />

what is best for me?<br />

“God, let me live in <strong>the</strong> now, because you<br />

are <strong>the</strong>re.”<br />

Do i call out to Him? - Am i able to still my<br />

mind and be in his presence?<br />

“I can’t meet you in <strong>the</strong> past or<br />

<strong>the</strong> future.”<br />

i want to live in <strong>the</strong> present moment. When i<br />

daydream about, “What if . . . ?” <strong>the</strong>n i’m not<br />

content with <strong>the</strong> present and i’m trying<br />

to escape.<br />

“If that is where I always am, I will<br />

miss you and I will miss what you are<br />

doing now!”<br />

i can be so far back in <strong>the</strong> past, or so way<br />

ahead <strong>of</strong> God in <strong>the</strong> future that i miss out on<br />

what’s going on right in front <strong>of</strong> me!<br />

“I want to be able to see <strong>the</strong> beauty <strong>of</strong><br />

what you are about.”<br />

Can i see <strong>the</strong> hand <strong>of</strong> God at work in my life? -<br />

when times are good, but also when times<br />

are rough?<br />

“God, help me to be silent for at least a<br />

few moments.”<br />

in silence i come to hear and know God more.<br />

How do i handle silence? Do i like it, or does it<br />

make me nervous?<br />

“Help me to quiet not only my tongue,<br />

but also my restless mind and heart.”<br />

Ask God to take from our heart and mind<br />

whatever is bo<strong>the</strong>ring us. Turn it all over to him.<br />

“If I cannot be quiet, how will I ever hear<br />

your gentle voice pleading with me to<br />

come to you and receive your rest?”<br />

God’s voice is gentle – not bossy or shouting!<br />

His call is always an invitation. How will<br />

we respond?<br />

This prayer was used by Fr. Allan MacDonald on parish missions throughout this past year.


Community<br />

news & notes<br />

by Fr. Rick Jaworski, CC<br />

Fr. Scott writes, “On June 6, Fr. Bob celebrated his 56th anniversary<br />

<strong>of</strong> ordination. I celebrated a quiet Mass toge<strong>the</strong>r<br />

with him and afterward we had a short time <strong>of</strong> singing praise<br />

and worship songs - something he definitely seems to enjoy. The<br />

previous Friday we visited Fr. Bob with a number <strong>of</strong> seminarians.<br />

He was quiet, but he did make <strong>the</strong> effort to assure Ruben Campbell<br />

that his English was improving - always <strong>the</strong> English teacher! There<br />

is little else to report on Fr. Bob’s condition. Little has changed for<br />

months. He speaks very little, but when he does it becomes clear<br />

that he carefully follows <strong>the</strong> conversations <strong>of</strong> those who are visiting.<br />

We continue to thank <strong>the</strong> good Lord for <strong>the</strong> gift that he is to<br />

us. I have no doubt that he is ‘filling up in his body <strong>the</strong> sufferings<br />

<strong>of</strong> Christ for <strong>the</strong> good <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Church’ as St. Paul commends us to<br />

do. Thank you for your ongoing prayers!”<br />

Then, on June 11, we had <strong>the</strong> joyous occasion <strong>of</strong> Jim Lowe’s ordination<br />

to <strong>the</strong> priesthood, followed by his first Mass on Pentecost<br />

Sunday at St. Mary’s where he became <strong>the</strong> new associate pastor,<br />

replacing Fr. Tim Devine, on July 1. Take a deep breath … speaking<br />

<strong>of</strong> which …<br />

An exciting new opportunity opened up with an invitation to establish<br />

a foundation <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Companions</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong> in <strong>the</strong> Archdiocese<br />

<strong>of</strong> Detroit. (Fr. Scott writes more about this elsewhere in this<br />

newsletter.) We take on a parish, university chaplaincy, and archdiocesan<br />

position in evangelization - our charism. Sacred Heart<br />

Major Seminary in Detroit specializes in formation in <strong>the</strong> New<br />

Evangelization, and we have a large monastery with huge grounds<br />

for our priests and seminarians. Evangelization, youth, and scope<br />

for ministry to <strong>the</strong> poor as well. It would seem to be tailor-made for<br />

us, and <strong>the</strong> Archbishop and his staff have been incredibly welcoming<br />

and truly want us and not just priests to fill holes.<br />

At <strong>the</strong> same time, in Houston, <strong>the</strong> Archdiocese had to sell <strong>of</strong>f <strong>the</strong><br />

priory in which our US <strong>of</strong>fice was located and our seminarians and<br />

priests lived, due to costs associated with <strong>the</strong> hurricane a few years<br />

ago. Thus, <strong>the</strong> bulk <strong>of</strong> our main USA <strong>of</strong>fice will move to Detroit.<br />

We wish to thank Anna Lassig, Fabiola Gomez, Maria Zambrano,<br />

Janie Flores, and all those who have helped with our <strong>of</strong>fices in<br />

Houston. We had served at Our Lady <strong>of</strong> Mount Carmel Parish, <strong>the</strong><br />

church associated with <strong>the</strong> former Carmelite priory, and this move<br />

saw us saying goodbye to <strong>the</strong> good people <strong>of</strong> that parish.<br />

We had a number <strong>of</strong> requests to go to new dioceses and take on<br />

new ministries. Indeed <strong>the</strong> need is great. We are sorry that we<br />

could not fulfill every request. In addition to <strong>the</strong> new foundation<br />

in Detroit, we took on two new parishes in Ottawa: Annunciation,<br />

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St. Scholastica<br />

and Blessed Sacrament. A number <strong>of</strong> our men have presided and<br />

preached at Annunciation’s Sunday evening Lifeteen Mass. Fr.<br />

Yves Marchildon, <strong>the</strong> new pastor (effective August 1), has worked<br />

on Cursillo weekends with a number <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> parishioners <strong>the</strong>re.<br />

Blessed Sacrament is <strong>the</strong> parish that our Founder, Fr. Bob Bedard,<br />

grew up in - living at 400 Third Avenue. He was baptized <strong>the</strong>re,<br />

confirmed <strong>the</strong>re, and ordained a priest <strong>the</strong>re.<br />

That’s <strong>the</strong> move “big picture”; now for <strong>the</strong> details. Fr. Simon Lobo<br />

goes from associate pastor <strong>of</strong> St. Maurice (Ottawa) to chaplain<br />

at Wayne State University (Detroit). Fr. Marc Syrenne, Director<br />

<strong>of</strong> Formation, moves from Toronto to Detroit to look after <strong>the</strong><br />

seminarians <strong>the</strong>re and becomes pastor <strong>of</strong> St. Scholastica Parish.<br />

Fr. Sean Wenger goes from pastor <strong>of</strong> Our Lady <strong>of</strong> Mount Carmel<br />

(Houston) to an archdiocesan position in evangelization in Detroit.


Blessing <strong>of</strong> Marian Shrine at Queen <strong>of</strong> Peace in Houston.<br />

Fr. Mark Goring leaves <strong>the</strong> chaplaincy at York University (Toronto)<br />

to become director <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Catholic Charismatic Center (Houston).<br />

Fr. Michael Scherrey, <strong>the</strong> former director, will be doing missions<br />

based out <strong>of</strong> Houston. Fr. Daren Bryk also leaves <strong>the</strong> chaplaincy<br />

at York to become <strong>the</strong> chaplain <strong>of</strong> Dalhousie and St. Mary’s Universities<br />

in Halifax. Fr. Randy Hendriks leaves that post to become<br />

<strong>the</strong> pastor <strong>of</strong> Blessed Sacrament (Ottawa). Fr. Francis Donnelly<br />

who has returned from <strong>the</strong> Philippines became <strong>the</strong> temporary administrator<br />

<strong>of</strong> Blessed Sacrament, and <strong>the</strong>n <strong>the</strong> (part-time) associate<br />

pastor. Who’s going to York? Fr. Carlos Martins comes up<br />

from Houston, and Fr. Francis Ching takes up regular ministry<br />

again, both at York.<br />

Fr. Ben St. Croix leaves Houston and moves into Annunciation<br />

Parish. He will be on sabbatical for <strong>the</strong> first half <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> year and<br />

<strong>the</strong>n will do missions. Now let’s see… Fr. Yves needs an associate.<br />

Fr. Jerry Gauvreau, pastor at Queen <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Most Holy Rosary<br />

Parish (Ottawa), leaves to become associate pastor at Annunciation.<br />

Fr. Dennis Hayes, Director <strong>of</strong> Admissions, took over as pastor<br />

<strong>of</strong> Holy Rosary. Fr. Allan MacDonald became Director <strong>of</strong> Admissions<br />

in addition to Director <strong>of</strong> Vocations.<br />

Fr. Galen Bank came back from his sabbatical in June for his final<br />

month as pastor <strong>of</strong> St. Maurice, and <strong>the</strong>n became part <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

formation team, in charge <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> first-year program in Ottawa. So,<br />

what about St. Maurice? Well, Fr. Tim Devine went from associate<br />

at St. Mary’s to pastor at St. Maurice. (Newly ordained Fr. Jim<br />

Lowe replacing him.) Fr. Jim MacGillivray went from Personnel<br />

Assistant to <strong>the</strong> Moderator and Associate Director <strong>of</strong> Admissions<br />

to associate pastor <strong>of</strong> St. Maurice. Ta-da!<br />

We are pleased to announce that this September Fr. Rob Arsenault<br />

will be making his lifetime commitment to <strong>the</strong> <strong>Companions</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

<strong>Cross</strong> along with Lawrence Hyginus who will be ordained as a<br />

deacon at St. Timothy’s parish in Toronto on Saturday, September<br />

17th at 10 a.m.<br />

Rewind. Fr. Francis Frankovich brought in an exorcist from El Salvador<br />

for some fruitful collaboration at <strong>the</strong> Catholic Charismatic<br />

Center (Houston). Fr. Francis also went on mission in Columbia.<br />

Our Houston men prayed in front <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Planned Parenthood clinic<br />

as part <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir Lenten <strong>of</strong>fering. (In Ottawa, a number <strong>of</strong> us participated<br />

in <strong>the</strong> annual national March for Life.) Queen <strong>of</strong> Peace<br />

had <strong>the</strong>ir big spring festival. Fr. Michael Minifie, after getting hurt<br />

while riding a mechanical bull, would still like to try <strong>the</strong> real deal.<br />

In o<strong>the</strong>r Houston (Queen <strong>of</strong> Peace) news, Fr. John Vandenakker<br />

writes, “Late last fall, a deranged man destroyed an old statue <strong>of</strong><br />

Our Lady <strong>of</strong> Guadalupe that was on <strong>the</strong> side lawn. The attack came<br />

just two days before <strong>the</strong> annual December 12th Feast <strong>of</strong> Our Lady<br />

<strong>of</strong> Guadalupe. Thus, this act felt like a spiritual assault and not just<br />

a physical one. The parish was galvanized into action. A decision<br />

was made not only to replace <strong>the</strong> statue, but to build a whole new<br />

shrine that would provide a place <strong>of</strong> prayer for all who came to<br />

seek <strong>the</strong> intercession <strong>of</strong> our beloved ‘Patroness <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Americas’,<br />

‘Patroness <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Unborn’, and ‘Star <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> New Evangelization’.<br />

Many parishioners donated funds to buy <strong>the</strong> new statue, and o<strong>the</strong>r<br />

individuals and companies stepped in to donate <strong>the</strong>ir labor to help<br />

construct it. The new shrine was <strong>of</strong>ficially blessed and dedicated<br />

on Sunday, May 1st, <strong>2011</strong>.”<br />

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Lift Jesus Higher Rally<br />

Speaking <strong>of</strong> Our Lady, Medjugorje seemed to be a hot spot. Both<br />

Fr. Francis Ching and Fr. Jerry Gauvreau were chaplains on pilgrimages<br />

<strong>the</strong>re. Fr. Tim Devine was chaplain for a retreat for married<br />

couples held in Medjugorje. Fr. Dennis Hayes bucked <strong>the</strong><br />

trend and went to Malta.<br />

Fr. Daren preached a mission at St. Timothy’s in Toronto. Fr. Allan<br />

preached at St. Timothy’s on Divine Mercy Sunday. He also spoke<br />

at <strong>the</strong> regional Catholic Women’s League conference. He and Fr.<br />

Dennis had a very successful parish mission at St. Maurice. (Gave<br />

<strong>the</strong> guys extra work hearing confessions after he spoke on that<br />

topic.) Their mission travels also took <strong>the</strong>m to Halifax. Frs. Allan,<br />

Tim, and Pierre Ingram took part in <strong>the</strong> races on <strong>the</strong> National<br />

Capital Marathon weekend in May. The month <strong>of</strong> May also saw<br />

various CC Foundation Day celebrations.<br />

Fr. Pierre recommends <strong>the</strong> movie Of God and Men about <strong>the</strong> Trappists<br />

martyred in Algeria in <strong>the</strong> 1980s. Fr. Jim Lowe recommends<br />

Soul Surfer. O<strong>the</strong>rs were quite edified by Leonardo Defilippis’<br />

one-man play Vianney about <strong>the</strong> Cure <strong>of</strong> Ars. On <strong>the</strong> mundane side<br />

<strong>of</strong> things, Fr. Mark Goring waved goodbye to his old truck as it<br />

floated away to Lebanon.<br />

Fr. Terry Donahue led an Ignatian discernment retreat in Halifax<br />

for students from Dalhousie and St. Mary’s, and gave talks over<br />

a week at <strong>the</strong> School <strong>of</strong> Faith and Mission in St. Bruno SK. Not<br />

to be outdone, Fr. Scott McCaig also spent a week <strong>the</strong>re teaching.<br />

Fr. Scott also led a retreat at York. Fr. Mark Goring helped with<br />

adoration and confessions at McMaster University’s “The Source”<br />

(Hamilton). As usual, our men and associated sisters participated<br />

in Toronto’s Lift Jesus Higher Rally. Fr. Scott and Fr. Mark were<br />

speakers. One thing we are allowed to tell you about Fr. Terry’s<br />

work at <strong>the</strong> Apostolic Nunciature is that he designed a website for<br />

<strong>the</strong>m: http://nuntiatura.ca/ .<br />

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Fr. Rob Arsenault preached a mission in Cape Breton, besides putting<br />

his boat in <strong>the</strong> water right-side-up (according to Fr. Yves). Fr.<br />

Francis Ching led missions for <strong>the</strong> Chinese communities in Edmonton<br />

and Calgary, babysitting in his <strong>of</strong>f-hours. Fr. Carlos had<br />

relic expositions in a number <strong>of</strong> places, including Ohio and New<br />

Jersey. Life in <strong>the</strong> Spirit Seminars <strong>of</strong> various shapes and sizes continued<br />

in various locations. And various <strong>Companions</strong> helped with<br />

<strong>the</strong> inauguration <strong>of</strong> a new group <strong>of</strong> women organized to pray for<br />

priests, Spiritual Mo<strong>the</strong>rhood <strong>of</strong> Priests (see article elsewhere in<br />

this newsletter).<br />

Fr. Ed Wade, inspired by reading Fr. Bob’s word from <strong>the</strong> Lord on<br />

Church unity, continues to work in that area <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Lord’s vineyard<br />

out in North Carolina. Among o<strong>the</strong>r things, he was part <strong>of</strong><br />

a team that planned a conference on unity that took place on July<br />

23 in Morehead City NC. To quote part <strong>of</strong> one person’s response<br />

to a different unity event in which Fr. Ed participated, “WOW!! I<br />

don’t have a better word than that to describe <strong>the</strong> worship that we<br />

participated in toge<strong>the</strong>r last night! Our God AMAZES me!!! […]<br />

I am humbled and honored to have been a part <strong>of</strong> that beautiful<br />

time <strong>of</strong> sharing, love, and praise! Thank you Fa<strong>the</strong>r Ed for sharing<br />

<strong>the</strong> words <strong>the</strong> Lord lay on your heart with us! […] I wish I<br />

could share all <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> conversations that I had last night with folks<br />

who came up before and even more after, with tears <strong>of</strong> joy as <strong>the</strong>y<br />

hugged me and talked to me about <strong>the</strong> power <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Body coming<br />

toge<strong>the</strong>r in unity and <strong>the</strong> joy <strong>the</strong> Lord had given <strong>the</strong>m for being a<br />

part <strong>of</strong> it.”<br />

Please pray for <strong>the</strong> repose <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> soul <strong>of</strong> Fr. John Fletcher’s fa<strong>the</strong>r,<br />

Hal, who died; and for Fr. Bernard Messier’s mo<strong>the</strong>r who suffers<br />

from cancer.<br />

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Fr. Rick Jaworski has a licentiate in Sacred Scripture from <strong>the</strong> Pontifical<br />

Biblical Institute in Rome. He was ordained in 1990.


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News Flashes<br />

Fr. Allan MacDonald with Blaine and Elese Timinski participating in<br />

10km race in May in Ottawa.<br />

Queen <strong>of</strong> Peace School Floor Hockey Tournament <strong>2011</strong>. Fr. Simon Lobo with St. Maurice First Communicants.<br />

Fr. Mark Goring at Lift Jesus Higher Rally.<br />

Fr. David Bergeron portrays Jesus during a live performance <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

Stations <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong> in Houston.<br />

Servants <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong> with Fr. Marc Syrenne at <strong>the</strong> Lift Jesus<br />

Higher Rally.<br />

Photo by Nick de la Torre for <strong>the</strong> Houston Chronicle


Ordination Anniversary Celebration!<br />

This Year’s<br />

Honourees Are:<br />

Fr. Dennis Hayes<br />

25 Years<br />

Rejoice<br />

in <strong>the</strong> Lord!<br />

Fr. Yves Marchildon Fr. Christian Riesbeck Fr. Galen Bank<br />

15 Years 15 Years 10 Years<br />

Fr. Jerry Gauvreau Fr. John Fletcher Fr. Ben St. Croix<br />

10 Years 10 Years 10 Years<br />

Monday, August 29th, <strong>2011</strong><br />

St. Maurice Parish, 4 Perry St., Ottawa, Ontario Mass 7:00pm<br />

Dessert and Champagne Reception following Mass $15 per person.<br />

Tickets for <strong>the</strong> reception must be purchased by August 22nd.<br />

Tickets will not be sold at <strong>the</strong> door<br />

*To purchase tickets, please call Mary at 613 728 3175 (<strong>Companions</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Cross</strong> <strong>of</strong>fice)<br />

or Claire at St. Maurice 613 224 1892


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