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A greek <strong>of</strong>fensive.<br />

At the Homecoming bonfire, members from greek<br />

houses put on skits. Kappa Kappa Gamma and<br />

their skit took third place in the competition.<br />

(photo by D. Gilbertson)<br />

--<br />

Sound writing.<br />

In addition to social activities, the greek system<br />

places a heavy emphasis on academic achievement.<br />

Betsy Daubert, <strong>of</strong> Pi Beta Phi, works late<br />

at night on a term paper, with the help <strong>of</strong> her<br />

"walkman." (photo by M. Touhey)<br />

Changing<br />

[> continued<br />

When the Greek system was first founded,<br />

it may have attracted the children <strong>of</strong><br />

affluent families, but that was because only<br />

the wealthy could afford to go to college<br />

in those days, said Diane Milhollin,<br />

a UI assistant Greek adviser.<br />

Cook said it's a misconception that it's<br />

much more expensive to live in a fraternity<br />

or sorority than a dormitory. "It's<br />

about $70 more a semester," he said. "We<br />

accept as many people as we can and<br />

we're always looking for more."<br />

Ken Prettyman, president <strong>of</strong> Delta Chi,<br />

said he was attracted to a fraternity<br />

because it <strong>of</strong>fered a more homelike atmosphere<br />

than other living group<br />

choices. "I never had a brother; now I<br />

have a whole bunch <strong>of</strong> them," he said.<br />

Fraternity life has helped him socially<br />

he said. "1 used to be really shy, now I'm<br />

just shy," he joked. "It helped me to relax<br />

in social situations."<br />

In Witmer's house and others a social<br />

chairman is responsible for coaching<br />

members in etiquette, such as "standing<br />

up when the housemother comes into the<br />

room." Feeling comfortable in social<br />

situations is something "you'll find useful<br />

later," Witmer said. "When you're eating<br />

with 60 people you have to have table<br />

manners."<br />

Certain social activities are still<br />

manadatory, such as exchanges with<br />

sororities, said Prettyman, but that's how<br />

you learn to feel comfortable around<br />

members <strong>of</strong> the opposite sex in large<br />

groups, he said.<br />

There was a general consensus that the<br />

most valuable parts <strong>of</strong> Greek life are the<br />

friendships formed and the emphasis<br />

placed on study. "Academics are stressed,"<br />

said Prettyman.<br />

Witmer said the Greeks have the<br />

highest percentage on campus <strong>of</strong> students<br />

returning to school. "There's a mandatory<br />

six hours a week at study table," Cook<br />

said, "and we ask members to study at<br />

least 15 hours a week more on their own."<br />

There was agreement that it isn't as<br />

hard to make friends in the Greek system,<br />

although one does have to make an effort<br />

to be compatible with 60 or so other men<br />

and women.<br />

"Friendships are close," Witmer said.<br />

"You become very close with the girls in<br />

the house, she said.<br />

You learn a lot about yourself and other<br />

people when you live in a close group,"<br />

Cook said.<br />

Movies like Animal House don't help<br />

the fraternity image," he said. "Everyone<br />

always thinks it's a big party. But we're<br />

here to go to school just like the other<br />

students."D<br />

Greek Life 141

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