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A greek <strong>of</strong>fensive.<br />
At the Homecoming bonfire, members from greek<br />
houses put on skits. Kappa Kappa Gamma and<br />
their skit took third place in the competition.<br />
(photo by D. Gilbertson)<br />
--<br />
Sound writing.<br />
In addition to social activities, the greek system<br />
places a heavy emphasis on academic achievement.<br />
Betsy Daubert, <strong>of</strong> Pi Beta Phi, works late<br />
at night on a term paper, with the help <strong>of</strong> her<br />
"walkman." (photo by M. Touhey)<br />
Changing<br />
[> continued<br />
When the Greek system was first founded,<br />
it may have attracted the children <strong>of</strong><br />
affluent families, but that was because only<br />
the wealthy could afford to go to college<br />
in those days, said Diane Milhollin,<br />
a UI assistant Greek adviser.<br />
Cook said it's a misconception that it's<br />
much more expensive to live in a fraternity<br />
or sorority than a dormitory. "It's<br />
about $70 more a semester," he said. "We<br />
accept as many people as we can and<br />
we're always looking for more."<br />
Ken Prettyman, president <strong>of</strong> Delta Chi,<br />
said he was attracted to a fraternity<br />
because it <strong>of</strong>fered a more homelike atmosphere<br />
than other living group<br />
choices. "I never had a brother; now I<br />
have a whole bunch <strong>of</strong> them," he said.<br />
Fraternity life has helped him socially<br />
he said. "1 used to be really shy, now I'm<br />
just shy," he joked. "It helped me to relax<br />
in social situations."<br />
In Witmer's house and others a social<br />
chairman is responsible for coaching<br />
members in etiquette, such as "standing<br />
up when the housemother comes into the<br />
room." Feeling comfortable in social<br />
situations is something "you'll find useful<br />
later," Witmer said. "When you're eating<br />
with 60 people you have to have table<br />
manners."<br />
Certain social activities are still<br />
manadatory, such as exchanges with<br />
sororities, said Prettyman, but that's how<br />
you learn to feel comfortable around<br />
members <strong>of</strong> the opposite sex in large<br />
groups, he said.<br />
There was a general consensus that the<br />
most valuable parts <strong>of</strong> Greek life are the<br />
friendships formed and the emphasis<br />
placed on study. "Academics are stressed,"<br />
said Prettyman.<br />
Witmer said the Greeks have the<br />
highest percentage on campus <strong>of</strong> students<br />
returning to school. "There's a mandatory<br />
six hours a week at study table," Cook<br />
said, "and we ask members to study at<br />
least 15 hours a week more on their own."<br />
There was agreement that it isn't as<br />
hard to make friends in the Greek system,<br />
although one does have to make an effort<br />
to be compatible with 60 or so other men<br />
and women.<br />
"Friendships are close," Witmer said.<br />
"You become very close with the girls in<br />
the house, she said.<br />
You learn a lot about yourself and other<br />
people when you live in a close group,"<br />
Cook said.<br />
Movies like Animal House don't help<br />
the fraternity image," he said. "Everyone<br />
always thinks it's a big party. But we're<br />
here to go to school just like the other<br />
students."D<br />
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