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Chesapeake<br />

Volume XIV • Issue 7 • July 2012<br />

www.chesapeakestyle.com<br />

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<strong>Style</strong><br />

Priceless


2 July 2012<br />

Fast Times on the Rivers<br />

Recently someone chided me about my love for animals, on<br />

Facebook. Specifically the person noted, “I appreciate your devotion<br />

to the homeless animals, but your flooding facebook is getting old.”<br />

After giving it some thought I realized that about 90% of my Facebook<br />

friends have dogs, love dogs or cats or animals, and also worry about<br />

those who are treated badly or have lost their homes. Ultimately I<br />

responded, “Sorry you feel that way...someone has to speak for them...”<br />

I always seem to write this column at the last minute, and realized<br />

that my love of animals is a good topic as my feelings go way back.<br />

The photos above were taken with me and my first dog, a Boston<br />

Terrier, named DB aka Daniel Boone Dawson. During The War, my<br />

mother drove from Ashland, Ky to Galveston, Texas, with me and<br />

DB. There was a bad storm, probably a hurricane, and someone<br />

in the household let DB out. And we never saw him again.<br />

After The War, we lived in G.I. Housing, on Old Brook Road, in Richmond.<br />

For Christmas one year—I was in about the third or fourth grade—<br />

my parents gave me a dachshund puppy, and the original book, Mary<br />

Poppins. Little Bit lived to be 16 and I have many fond memories of her<br />

and her bravery and antics over the years, including killing a muskrat.<br />

Another scene etched into my memory is when I was in sixth or<br />

seventh grade. I was walking to school one morning and by the side of<br />

the road was a German Shepherd that had been hit by a car. As I recall,<br />

the dog had been moved by the time I walked home from school.<br />

As an adult, when my children were young, we bought, bred and<br />

showed dachshunds. One day, at a dog show in Milwaukee, I met my first<br />

German Wirehaired Pointer. Here was a dog who wanted to do what I<br />

asked! While in Illinois, and after moving back to Virginia, I began to breed,<br />

show and work my GWPs in the field and in NAVHDA, (North American<br />

Versatile Hunting Dog Association). On Facebook I began to have more<br />

contacts with other GWP breeders. We prided ourselves on having an<br />

unusual, unique, not too popular, versatile breed. If anyone didn’t want<br />

one of my pups/dogs, I took them back, any time, for any reason.<br />

Then the breed became more popular, breeders didn’t always take back their<br />

dogs, and our beloved breed began to show up in shelters. Several breed rescue<br />

groups were born. I became affiliated with German Wirehaired Pointer Rescue,<br />

Inc, in Olathe, Kansas. I am mostly a cheerleader and share information about<br />

GWPs in need, and also the good news, those who are adopted into forever<br />

homes. I also champion and share information from other rescue groups.<br />

The person defriended me on Facebook. I make no apologies.<br />

It’s in my DNA. Mahatma Gandhi said “You can judge a<br />

society by how they treat their weakest members.”<br />

The mission of Chesapeake <strong>Style</strong><br />

is to serve and celebrate the<br />

Chesapeake Bay Region and its<br />

people, past, present and future.<br />

Editor, Publisher<br />

Janet Abbott Fast<br />

Writers & Photographers<br />

Mari Bonomi, Betty Bridgeman,<br />

Kathey Brodtman, Anne Cook,<br />

Ellen Dugan, Jean Duggan, RuthE<br />

Forrest, Bill Graves, Melissa<br />

Haydon, Elizabeth D. Huegel,<br />

Gwen Keane, Spike Knuth, Merrill<br />

Leffler, Rob Ransone, Chelly Scala,<br />

Paula Shipman, Kelsey Sipes,<br />

Elizabeth Allen Stokes, Janice C.<br />

Vogel, Fran Warren, Diana Wise<br />

Teen <strong>Style</strong> Writers, Photographers<br />

D’Myra Brown, Sarah Ipson,<br />

Bridgette Self, Lawrence Smith<br />

Ad Sales, Distribution<br />

Betty Bridgeman, Susan Christopher,<br />

Deborah Figg, Bill Graves,<br />

Liz Huegel, Kathleen Kehoe,<br />

Victoria Kress, Rob Ransone,<br />

Nancy Shelley, Marie Stone<br />

Proofreader<br />

Marie Stone<br />

Ad Composition, Graphics, Layout<br />

Janet Abbott Fast, Deborah Figg<br />

Chesapeake <strong>Style</strong><br />

About the cover~<br />

Mathews County resident Janice C.<br />

Vogel took the cover photo in March<br />

while accompanying local watermen<br />

A.J. Hurst and Johnny Pugh as they<br />

fished crab pots off New Point.<br />

A self-taught, amateur<br />

photographer, Janice recently<br />

published her first book, Mathews<br />

County, part of Arcadia Publishing’s<br />

Then and Now series. The book,<br />

available on Amazon.com, contains<br />

over 200 vintage and current-day<br />

photographs of the county.<br />

Janice graduated from Mathews<br />

High School in 1982 and the<br />

Letters to the editor are welcome.<br />

The editor reserves the right to<br />

edit all submissions for clarity,<br />

lousy spelling or any other<br />

reason that strikes her fancy.<br />

Chesapeake <strong>Style</strong> is a free circulation<br />

magazine published eight times a<br />

year by Chesapeake Bay Marketing.<br />

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Warsaw, VA 22572<br />

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editor@chesapeakestyle.com<br />

www.chesapeakestyle.com<br />

The opinions expressed in<br />

Chesapeake <strong>Style</strong> are those<br />

of contributing writers and<br />

do not necessarily reflect the<br />

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whole or in part of any material<br />

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© 2007-2012 All rights reserved<br />

Chesapeake Bay Marketing.<br />

University of Virginia in 1986<br />

and has more than 20 years of<br />

experience in Human Resources.<br />

In her spare time, Janice enjoys<br />

sharing her photography and musings<br />

on her blog www.lifeinmathews.<br />

blogspot.com, where she is known<br />

as Chesapeake Bay Woman. She is<br />

always looking for local scenes to<br />

photograph or stories to tell for the<br />

blog. She and her two children, Sam<br />

and Maria Spadaccini, reside in<br />

Hudgins on Queens Creek. Contact<br />

Janice at JaniceCVogel@aol.com or<br />

ChesapeakeBayWoman@gmail.com


July 2012 3<br />

Adios~Multiple World Champion Stallion<br />

By Paula Shipman<br />

January 3, 1940, a bay<br />

colt was born to a mare<br />

named Adioo Volo ($0).<br />

This colt would one day<br />

be considered one of the<br />

greatest Standardbred stallions<br />

of all time, with his bloodline<br />

still dominating some 60 years<br />

later—his name was Adios.<br />

Adioo Volo was bred exclusively<br />

to the Hall of Fame Standardbred<br />

stallion Hal Dale ($595.00). Hal<br />

Dale was a pony size stallion but<br />

he was a big horse when he raced.<br />

His meager wages were the result<br />

of a tendon injury that ended his<br />

career all too soon. Their unions<br />

resulted in five offspring over a span<br />

of ten years. The most successful<br />

of those would be Adios.<br />

Adios ($33,329) sold for a small<br />

sum of $2,000 as a yearling. Adios<br />

was owned by Harry Warner of<br />

Warner Bros film studios and<br />

trained and driven by Frank Ervin.<br />

Adios won 43 of 87 starts. As<br />

a freshman pacer he was the<br />

leading money-winning pacer in<br />

North America among all pacers.<br />

He was often rivaled by Kings<br />

Counsel ($44,930). The match races<br />

between the two stallions excited<br />

harness racing fans who were in<br />

the middle of World War II.<br />

In 1949 he was bought by Delvin<br />

Miller and retired to stud duty.<br />

His stud fee was only $300. By<br />

1951 however he was on his<br />

way up in popularity. His star<br />

progenys of 1951 would be<br />

Adios Harry ($345,433) and<br />

Adios Boy ($129,859). Hanover<br />

Shoe Farms bought Adios in<br />

1955 for $500,000 but sold a<br />

third of him back to Delvin<br />

Miller. Delvin Miller had great<br />

affection for his stallion.<br />

In the mid-1960's The<br />

Breyer model horse company<br />

produced an Adios model.<br />

There is also a book about<br />

Adios written by Marie<br />

Hill titled Adios, The Big<br />

Daddy of Harness Racing.<br />

Before his passing in<br />

1965 at the age of 25, Adios<br />

commanded a whopping<br />

$15,000 stud fee. It was<br />

the highest fee for any<br />

Standardbred stud at the time.<br />

Throughout his stallion career<br />

Adios sired 597 foals, 10 of which<br />

died as foals. His offspring had<br />

earned well over $14,000,000 in<br />

combined purses—that was more<br />

than any stallion at that time,<br />

Standardbred or Thoroughbred.<br />

There is a race held each year<br />

on the second Saturday in August<br />

at The Meadows Racetrack in<br />

Washington Pennsylvania to<br />

honor the great stallion, The Adios<br />

Stakes. His Dam Adioo Volo also<br />

has a race contested in her honor<br />

every year for three year old pacing<br />

fillies, The Adioo Volo Stakes.<br />

Adios is buried under an<br />

apple tree near his paddock at<br />

the Meadow Lands Farm near<br />

Washington, Pennsylvania where<br />

he spent the last 17 years of his life.<br />

Adios sired eight Little<br />

Brown Jug winners and two<br />

winners of the Triple Crown<br />

for Standardbred Pacers.<br />

In 1967, the Harrisburg Sale<br />

auctioned the last of the Adios crop.<br />

It was somewhat of a sad event and<br />

all who attended would forever<br />

remember the experience. Louis<br />

Effrat who's writings appeared in The<br />

New York Times and avidly recorded<br />

Adios' racing career would remember<br />

it best as he recorded the sale of<br />

the last Adios yearling that would<br />

ever be. Effrat wrote at exactly 3:24<br />

p.m. On November 2, 1967 Iroquois<br />

Hanover was sold by auctioneer<br />

George Swinebroad for $30,000.<br />

Adios produced a constant stream<br />

of champion colts and fillies in<br />

his stallion career. Some of them<br />

are Bullet Hanover ($132,578),<br />

Henry T. Adios ($922,616), Adios<br />

Butler ($509,875), Dotties pick<br />

($263,978), the brilliant double<br />

gaited mare Countess Adios<br />

($317,158) and another who would<br />

become more famous than his<br />

sire—his story next month.<br />

Photos courtesy USTA, United<br />

States Trotting Association.<br />

Adios’ driver is Frank Ervin.<br />

pshipman@chesapeakestyle.com


4 July 2012<br />

<strong>Style</strong> Spotlight~Linger at the Lancaster Tavern<br />

By Mari Bonomi<br />

Fine dining surrounded<br />

by historic ambience,<br />

with a keen focus on<br />

customer service,<br />

is no further away<br />

than the Lancaster Tavern,<br />

in the heart of Lancaster.<br />

Brenda Jackson, who owns the<br />

Tavern and is one of the chefs,<br />

describes her complex as “a family<br />

gathering place,” with two beautiful<br />

bed-and-breakfast suites on site<br />

and a B&B cottage next door—not<br />

to mention a petting zoo with ducks<br />

and exotic chickens and rabbits<br />

Brenda raised herself from babies.<br />

What started out as a property<br />

purchase for a business investment<br />

has blossomed instead into a<br />

highlight of Northern Neck eating.<br />

Along with her sister, Sue Murray,<br />

who manages the business side of<br />

the Tavern, Brenda is committed to<br />

providing American cuisine. “We<br />

specialize in fresh seafood bought<br />

locally or shipped fresh on ice<br />

weekly—including the best oysters<br />

in town, high grade beef—we use<br />

Prime only—and desserts that<br />

get a lot of recognition. Our bread<br />

pudding is famous! A food writer<br />

who traveled the South tasting bread<br />

puddings voted ours number one.”<br />

Brenda raises her own organic<br />

produce in gardens at her home<br />

and the Tavern. She has romaine,<br />

tomatoes and seasonal vegetables.<br />

Other vegetables come from a<br />

local organic farm, including<br />

collard, onions and lettuce.<br />

“We change our menus with the<br />

season,” Brenda said. “Our new<br />

one started on May first. We have<br />

crab in the spring, oysters in the<br />

fall. And we're featuring a different<br />

fruit cobbler every day.” During<br />

the summer the outdoor deck is<br />

popular, especially on evenings<br />

when live entertainment is offered.<br />

And Friday night is prime rib night.<br />

One service many folks don't<br />

realize the Tavern offers is offsite<br />

catering and private parties. Brenda<br />

spent a number of years as a<br />

wedding consultant and brings both<br />

experience and skill to such planning.<br />

Box lunches are available as well,<br />

and folks from Kilmarnock to Lively<br />

can arrange to have meals delivered<br />

to them for a nominal fee. Another<br />

special activity the Tavern offers is<br />

a dinner and limo transportation<br />

afterward to the Lancaster Players<br />

productions in White Stone.<br />

The current building is significantly<br />

updated from what it was in 2007<br />

when Brenda took it over. She got<br />

her contractor's license so that she<br />

could control the remodeling herself,<br />

and found “a group of talented local<br />

carpenters and artists to help design<br />

and develop the old building while<br />

keeping the period style,” providing<br />

jobs for the community. The kitchen<br />

is almost completely new, from the<br />

big walk-in refrigerator to the cooking<br />

and dish washing equipment.<br />

Upstairs, two beautiful suites<br />

contain lush baths, comfy beds,<br />

sitting areas and beautiful antiques<br />

from the Northern Neck and<br />

neighboring areas, including<br />

some from Brenda's own<br />

family. The settee on<br />

which her grandfather proposed to<br />

her grandmother graces one of the<br />

rooms. Family antiques also serve in<br />

the dining spaces, along with other<br />

vintage items Brenda has found.<br />

Many of these items are available<br />

for purchase. Brenda, who was born<br />

and raised in King and Queen, takes<br />

justifiable pride in maintaining<br />

the Tavern as an accurate piece of<br />

Virginia history. Even the original<br />

floors, the hand-hewn beams in the<br />

basement and the original Ordinary<br />

are preserved. The building's<br />

foundations date to 1755, and the<br />

greater part of the current Tavern,<br />

including the dining area, is the 1790<br />

building, still serving the community.<br />

Brenda speaks with great pride<br />

and fondness of her staff, virtually<br />

all of whom can cook as well as do<br />

all the other tasks of serving “good<br />

food and laughter. People are always<br />

going to eat somewhere, and there's<br />

nowhere in this part of the county<br />

for people to go for fine dining.”<br />

Brenda insists that the staff<br />

always remember “the customer<br />

must come first.” She has settled<br />

on a group of women including<br />

head chef Richelle Moses who<br />

understand her requirements for<br />

service and calls them “a phenomenal<br />

team, the ultimate crew.”<br />

Brenda explains her philosophy:<br />

“This is my house; this is my life.<br />

I pour my heart and soul into this<br />

every day. I ask of my employees to<br />

always respect my views. I started<br />

very young in the restaurant business<br />

at the Montross Inn in 1981, and<br />

worked at a jewelers for years. I<br />

believe it’s all about customer service<br />

and food quality, not quantity.<br />

“Every person who walks through<br />

my door is a guest in my house,”<br />

Brenda continues, “whether they’ve<br />

come for a cup of coffee, to spend the<br />

night, or to have dinner with friends.<br />

My guests come first—always. I want<br />

them laughing and talking about what<br />

a great time they had and how they’ll<br />

definitely be coming back soon."<br />

The Lancaster Tavern is located<br />

at 8373 Mary Ball Highway in<br />

Lancaster. Monday through Friday<br />

hours are 11 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. and<br />

again from 5-9 p.m. Saturday and<br />

Sunday the Tavern is open from 8<br />

a.m. to 9 p.m. For reservations call<br />

804-462-0080. Visit the website<br />

at www.lancastertavern.com.<br />

B&B Suite, Sue, Brenda cooks<br />

and laughs, Ronnie makes<br />

Slaw. Mari Bonomi photos.


July 2012 5<br />

Spotlight on People in <strong>Style</strong><br />

By Ellen Dugan<br />

When Ötzi, the mummified 5,300<br />

year-old “ice man,” was discovered<br />

in 1991, there were a few surprises.<br />

For one thing he sported 57 tattoos.<br />

No one knows what kind of ink<br />

was used, but you have to admit<br />

that it was permanent. Tattooing<br />

is still very popular today, so we<br />

asked a few folks: If you had to<br />

get a tattoo, what would it be<br />

and where would you place it?<br />

Keith Bryant who lives in Warsaw<br />

appears<br />

to be a<br />

sensible,<br />

all-<br />

American<br />

young<br />

man who<br />

shows no<br />

interest in<br />

decorating<br />

his body.<br />

He’s<br />

currently<br />

“in a<br />

relationship” and this may or may<br />

not have anything to do with his<br />

tattoo-less appearance. As a stocker<br />

at Food Lion, Keith is one of the<br />

folks who ensure that you can<br />

find whatever you’re looking for<br />

because it’s where it’s supposed to<br />

be. He has no control over prices,<br />

however. If pressed, he would select<br />

his own name to be tattooed on the<br />

top of his arm. “It’s the only thing I<br />

could think of right now,” he says.<br />

Eighty-five year-old Montross<br />

resident Orva W. Heissenbuttel could<br />

easily pass for a sixty something.<br />

She’s been restoring a Gothic house<br />

for about five<br />

years now,<br />

which is pretty<br />

fast by Northern<br />

Neck standards.<br />

Orva founded<br />

the American<br />

Antique Arts<br />

Association which<br />

has 12 chapters,<br />

including one<br />

that meets in<br />

Heathsville. She<br />

will probably<br />

never get a tattoo she says, but if she<br />

did, it would be “a nice little bracelet<br />

around my ankle, silver colored,<br />

with a heart locket.” The heart in all<br />

probability would be from husband<br />

Bill, who is 96 and a retired Air Force<br />

Major. “I’m still married to the same<br />

man and I still have all my teeth,”<br />

Orva laughs.<br />

Gregory<br />

Nundahl<br />

who lives in<br />

Kilmarnock<br />

has a<br />

salesman’s<br />

personality.<br />

This is<br />

fortunate<br />

because he<br />

is a salesman<br />

(trusts).<br />

Number eight of ten children,<br />

Gregory is no doubt also very good at<br />

sharing and diplomacy. But perhaps<br />

the most striking thing about him is<br />

his love for his dad, retired Navy<br />

Commander Gerhard Delores,<br />

who underwent a liver<br />

transplant 19 years ago<br />

and has held his own<br />

until recently. “My<br />

dad worked his way<br />

up from an enlisted<br />

man,” says Gregory,<br />

“and he’s already<br />

lived a lot longer than<br />

they predicted.” But<br />

when it comes to<br />

tattoos, well, there is<br />

no room for compromise.<br />

Gregory admits to having one<br />

but won’t speculate further. He<br />

advises young people to “re-think<br />

it because it will be there for life.”<br />

Lucky seven year-old Ichabod<br />

Yavorsky gets to meet with his<br />

10 to 5 Monday thru Saturday<br />

Noon to 4 Sunday<br />

Aunt Laura Smith every Saturday<br />

morning for breakfast. Laura lives<br />

in Williamsburg and has been Dr.<br />

John Pitman, Jr.’s medical assistant<br />

for the last 14 years. She does not<br />

have a tattoo. But if she did, she<br />

would choose<br />

a dragon fly,<br />

on the middle<br />

of her back<br />

where the<br />

slacks line is.<br />

“I think they’re<br />

beautiful, kind<br />

of mystic and<br />

different,”<br />

she says.<br />

Surprisingly,<br />

Ichabod<br />

says that he has a tattoo, a “mutant<br />

spider on a web” on his chest.<br />

“Temporary,” laughs Laura. “But<br />

I don’t scrub it,” says Ichabod.<br />

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6 July 2012<br />

<strong>Style</strong> Spotlight~Fishermen’s Museum Boats for Sale<br />

By Rob Ransone<br />

To quote a well-known<br />

celebrity, River Rat,<br />

to Mole, in Kenneth<br />

Grahame’s The Wind<br />

in the Willows: “there<br />

is NOTHING—absolute nothing—<br />

half so much worth doing as simply<br />

messing about in boats.” If you love to<br />

“mess about in boats,” look no further<br />

than the Reedville Fishermen’s<br />

Museum’s used boat offerings.<br />

Have their boats been loved almost<br />

to death and need a lot of TLC? Well,<br />

yeah. That’s why they were donated<br />

to the RFM. And that’s also why they<br />

are incredible bargains for the DIYer<br />

who loves “messing about” in boats.<br />

Frankly, a couple of their boats<br />

are about ready to end their lives as<br />

planter boxes, but there are also some<br />

gems: For example, a Chesapeake<br />

20 sailboat, designed by Cap’n Dick<br />

Hartge in the early 1930s, this one<br />

was hand-built of wood in 1934 and<br />

Gift and Specialty Shop<br />

Wed. & Thurs. 10 - 3<br />

Fri. 12 - 6 Sat. 10-3<br />

139 Main St.<br />

Warsaw, Va<br />

804-333-3444<br />

804-761-9086<br />

now updated<br />

with fiberglass<br />

coating. At only<br />

$4,000 with its<br />

big sails, trailer,<br />

and mint bright<br />

work, this is<br />

worth the price.<br />

Another gem<br />

is a Catalina<br />

22 cruising<br />

sailboat with a<br />

beautiful Honda<br />

4-Stroke outboard motor. Produced<br />

by Catalina Yachts beginning in 1968,<br />

the Catalina 22 is one of the longest—<br />

and most popular—continuously<br />

produced sailboats in the world—<br />

more than 15,000 produced, and<br />

still in production. The boat is one of<br />

five charter members to the Sailboat<br />

Hall of Fame. With its swing keel<br />

board up it draws only two feet,<br />

ideal for shallow Chesapeake gunk<br />

holing. With the board down, she<br />

draws five feet, so you can go to<br />

weather. And at only 2250 pounds<br />

(unloaded) it is easy to trailer to<br />

distant sailing locations. It’s specs<br />

state that it “can sleep four good<br />

friends.” From experience on a 25-<br />

foot sailboat, however, I know that<br />

it’s not how many it can sleep that<br />

matters—it’s how many it can stand!<br />

And on a hot summer evening at<br />

anchor during a thunderstorm, with<br />

all the hatches battened down, only<br />

about two people can stand each<br />

other on even a 37-foot sailboat!<br />

With a<br />

National<br />

Catalina<br />

22 Sailing<br />

Association,<br />

you’ll have<br />

lots of<br />

support.<br />

Google<br />

Catalina 22<br />

sailboat to<br />

discover a<br />

wealth of<br />

information. With a little interior<br />

cosmetic work, your $4,500 (less than<br />

half the price of a mint condition<br />

Catalina 22) will prove a sound<br />

investment in summer fun.<br />

Don’t be intimidated by the<br />

prices quoted above. Clif Ames, who<br />

has been in charge of RFM’s used<br />

boats for the past eight years, will<br />

consider any reasonable offer—and<br />

the definition of “reasonable” is<br />

solely up to his discretion. “Sixty<br />

percent of something is a lot<br />

better than 100% of nothing.”<br />

Right now, Clif has several small<br />

sailboats, a couple of powerboats,<br />

and even a Jetski on a trailer. Make<br />

him an offer! See photos of some of<br />

these boats in his ad in this magazine.<br />

If you are not in the market to<br />

buy a boat, you may be interested in<br />

getting rid of one that you haven’t<br />

been able to sell and take a tax<br />

deduction. Clif is looking for John<br />

boats, skiffs (rowing or sailing,<br />

and especially Carolina Skiffs),<br />

Sunfish and other small sailboats,<br />

What does the IRS allow for a tax<br />

donation to the RFM, a 501-3c IRS<br />

tax deductible organization? The<br />

IRS would like you to wait until your<br />

donated boat sells before claiming<br />

your tax deduction, but they will<br />

accept an estimate of the Fair Market<br />

Value (FMV) based on “Blue Book”<br />

or a professional appraisal value.<br />

IRS Publication 561, Determining<br />

The Value of Donated Property,<br />

states that, except for inexpensive,<br />

small boats, the valuation should<br />

be based on an appraisal by a<br />

marine surveyor because the<br />

physical condition is so critical to<br />

its value. For small boats, there are<br />

commercial and trade publications<br />

that provide estimates for FMV.<br />

Although Clif and the RFM will<br />

work with you to ensure that you get<br />

a fair deal on your boat purchase or<br />

donation, neither can afford to pay for<br />

a survey, nor can they offer tax advice.<br />

The RFM can only let you know<br />

what your donated boat actually<br />

sold for, when (and if) they sell it.<br />

And River Rat was right:<br />

There really is nothing half so<br />

much worth doing as simply<br />

messing about in boats.<br />

Clif will be happy to talk with you<br />

about buying or donating a boat.<br />

Contact him at 804-453-3506 or email<br />

him at macames@nnwifi.com.<br />

Clif Ames and Catalina 22.<br />

Rob Ransone photo.<br />

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Head Boat Fishing Days<br />

Sunday July 1st,<br />

Friday July 6th,<br />

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Sunday July 15th,<br />

Friday July 20th and<br />

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July 2012 7<br />

<strong>Style</strong> Spotlight~Mulberry, Whimsical, Wonderful, Affordable<br />

By Kelsey Sipes<br />

The owner of Mulberry,<br />

Betty Horton, is a<br />

kind, open woman<br />

who enjoys both her<br />

day job as a school<br />

teacher, as well as her weekend<br />

hobby, Mulberry. Meeting her is like<br />

seeing your mother, grandmother or<br />

a long lost friend. The store evolved<br />

from a love of crafting, a suggestion<br />

from a friend, and words from<br />

Betty’s father that helped to form her<br />

world view about recycling. While<br />

it may be a bit difficult to describe<br />

Mulberry, this is simply because it<br />

contains a little bit of everything. It’s<br />

both an environmentally friendly<br />

store that sells crafts made from<br />

recycled products, and a neat<br />

little shop where you can find a<br />

book from your childhood or that<br />

perfect piece for the house.<br />

When she was young, Betty’s<br />

father had a profound impact on her<br />

mentality about what people throw<br />

away. Happily, she told me, “My dad<br />

always found a use for things<br />

other people wanted to<br />

throw away.” Though she’s<br />

not a native of Warsaw, she<br />

really enjoys the community<br />

that she has found here.<br />

Living about fifteen minutes<br />

away from the county,<br />

Betty teaches first grade in<br />

Charles County, Maryland.<br />

Her husband, Darrell,<br />

works as a salesperson for a<br />

company in Fredericksburg,<br />

so the two are no<br />

strangers to commutes.<br />

Betty has always been<br />

interested in crafts and<br />

the imaginative, even<br />

joking with her children<br />

that she would one day paint<br />

her house uncommon colors.<br />

Mulberry came to be whenBetty<br />

and her husband decided to go<br />

forward with creating their own<br />

business. Since the store that<br />

Mulberry is housed in was originally<br />

a shoemaker’s shop, there were<br />

plenty of old shelves that they<br />

could use, as well as the original<br />

counter. While Betty wanted to bring<br />

something new to Warsaw, she also<br />

wanted to “Keep it intimate, keep it<br />

handmade,” and she buys primarily<br />

from local retailers for her business.<br />

Because she’s a school teacher,<br />

Betty could only open Mulberry on<br />

the weekends but that didn’t stop her<br />

from moving her workroom from her<br />

house into the store. In fact, you can<br />

see where all of the handmade magic<br />

happens<br />

right behind<br />

the counter.<br />

Betty says<br />

when it<br />

comes to her<br />

business, “I<br />

hope that<br />

it all works<br />

out, I hope<br />

that I can be<br />

a positive<br />

influence<br />

in the<br />

community.”<br />

About her<br />

location<br />

on main<br />

street in<br />

Warsaw, she has said, “I just love<br />

being here, being on the city street.”<br />

Betty loves vintage and she goes<br />

treasure hunting, or looking for<br />

vintage items, with her best friend<br />

who shares her love of finding unique<br />

items. As for crafting, she has made<br />

about a third of the items she stocks<br />

in her shop. Some of her current<br />

handmade items include primitive<br />

dolls, sock monkeys, painting,<br />

dish drainer quilts, and scarves.<br />

As far as her vintage and<br />

collectable items go, Betty is<br />

determined to “treat them with<br />

respect,” and that, “they all have<br />

a story to tell.” According to Betty,<br />

Mulberry is a place to go if you’re<br />

looking for collectables, vintage,<br />

crafting, painting and treasures. A key<br />

plan when creating Mulberry was, “I<br />

wanted it to be some place that was<br />

cool, that they could find something<br />

kind of neat, and that could be<br />

affordable.” In my visit, there was not<br />

a single item listed for $100, and when<br />

I pointed this out, she was baffled<br />

because she had never considered<br />

charging her customers that much.<br />

During the rare opportunities<br />

that Betty and Darrell are at<br />

home, they enjoy spending time<br />

with their family—who Betty<br />

describes as a small sized family<br />

who spend a lot of time together.<br />

They have five grandchildren who<br />

really enjoy playing outside.<br />

This means that Betty and Darrell<br />

are outside, at the beach, kayaking or<br />

fishing with them. In addition to this,<br />

they have a nine month old Labrador<br />

puppy and two cats that help to<br />

leave little free time for them. For<br />

Betty, who made her hobby into her<br />

business, 2012 has been a great year.<br />

Due to her summer break, Betty<br />

changed her hours for the summer<br />

and Mulberry is now open on<br />

Wednesday and Thursday from<br />

10 to 3 and on Friday from 12 to 6,<br />

Saturday, 10 to 3. Find Mulberry on<br />

Main Street in Warsaw, on Facebook<br />

and by phone at 804-333-3444.<br />

Kelsey Sipes photos.<br />

The Courthouse Restaurant<br />

Welcome Home!<br />

6714 Main St., Gloucester<br />

804-210-1506 804-210-1507 Fax<br />

First Friday & Saturday<br />

Second & Fourth Thursday<br />

Open Until 8 p.m.<br />

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8 July 2012<br />

Teen<br />

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Encouraging Young Artists, Photographers, Writers<br />

By Sarah Ipson, Junior<br />

Blue Shoe<br />

By Lawrence Smith, Sophomore<br />

Rosebud Bed and Breakfast is nestled in<br />

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July 2012 9<br />

<strong>Style</strong> Spotlight~Exciting Times<br />

By Susan Grandpre<br />

With genuine<br />

enthusiasm,<br />

Ann Catherine<br />

Cross beamed<br />

as she said,<br />

“These are such exciting times at our<br />

school of dance”. After many years<br />

of owning and operating the Ann<br />

Catherine Cross School of Dance, Ann<br />

Catherine is full of excitement, pride<br />

and a true love for the art of dance.<br />

Ann Catherine has loved dance<br />

her whole life. She grew up dancing<br />

and singing and knew she would<br />

be truly happy if she kept dance as<br />

a central part of her life. She took<br />

classes and began teaching dance<br />

at the Ms. Wells School of Dance.<br />

In 1975, after graduating from<br />

college, she had the opportunity<br />

to teach dance at Woodland<br />

Academy in the Northern Neck.<br />

Branching out on her own, Ann<br />

Catherine rented a space on Main<br />

Street in Warsaw where she opened<br />

her first dance studio many years<br />

ago. She continued to teach at St.<br />

Margaret’s in Tappahannock while<br />

she enjoyed the success of her own<br />

studio. After she married and had<br />

children, she moved and opened a<br />

dance studio in Mechanicsville.<br />

Life has come full circle as<br />

Ann Catherine has returned to<br />

Tappahannock and opened a new<br />

studio. With two primary locations<br />

now, she enjoys the challenges<br />

and satisfaction of providing dance<br />

to children in two communities,<br />

Mechanicsville and Tappahannock.<br />

In addition, the Ann Catherine<br />

Cross School of Dance offers<br />

classes to the day care center at<br />

the Warsaw YMCA and summer<br />

classes at the Westmoreland<br />

YMCA in Montross as well.<br />

Some of the excitement felt by Ann<br />

Catherine and the staff pertains to<br />

the opening of the new dance studio<br />

in Tappahannock which opened last<br />

August with 75 students. Everyone<br />

involved with the dance school is<br />

thrilled to be back in Tappahannock<br />

and they are pleased with the<br />

amount of interest and success of<br />

this new location on Water Lane.<br />

In addition to the excitement<br />

surrounding the studio in<br />

Tappahannock, Ann Catherine has<br />

another reason to be excited. One<br />

of her students who studies dance<br />

at the Mechanicsville location<br />

just landed a role in the Broadway<br />

production of Annie opening this<br />

fall in New York City. Ten-year-old,<br />

Taylor Richardson, has been cast as<br />

Duffy, one of the orphans in Annie.<br />

Taylor is also the understudy for the<br />

part of Annie. Ann Catherine and<br />

so many people involved with the<br />

school are thrilled and happy for her.<br />

Taylor has<br />

worked hard<br />

putting in lots of<br />

hours at the Ann<br />

Catherine Cross<br />

School of Dance<br />

and has taken many<br />

classes offered at<br />

the studio where<br />

a wide variety of<br />

classes are offered.<br />

The classes are<br />

open to boys and<br />

girls two years of<br />

age and older and<br />

to adults as well.<br />

Some of the class<br />

choices include ballet, tap,<br />

contemporary, pointe, jazz,<br />

hip-hop, creative movement,<br />

competition and combination<br />

classes. Additionally, acting, yoga,<br />

singing and improvisation classes<br />

are also available. Classes run from<br />

September to May and conclude<br />

with an end of the year recital.<br />

Ann Catherine firmly believes that<br />

people should follow their passion.<br />

She wants her students to develop a<br />

love of the art of dance and she always<br />

encourages them to follow their<br />

dreams. Hard work and dedication<br />

are stressed and Ann Catherine has<br />

a no nonsense approach to teaching.<br />

She encourages her students<br />

to, “keep trying, you’ll get it”.<br />

It is obvious that Ann Catherine<br />

is devoted to her students and is<br />

determined to find ways to help<br />

each student reach success not just<br />

as a dancer, but as a person. She<br />

feels that the skills learned from<br />

studying dance translate into other<br />

aspects of life including academics.<br />

Ann Catherine knows that pushing<br />

children to learn to be disciplined<br />

and to obtain a strong work ethic<br />

will make them better people.<br />

Year after year, she sees her<br />

students apply skills they learn<br />

through dance to their academics.<br />

She can list many students who<br />

have graduated from prestigious<br />

universities where they have studied<br />

dance or other demanding academic<br />

curriculum. Ann Catherine has<br />

produced many accomplished<br />

dancers, like Taylor Richardson.<br />

For information regarding the Ann<br />

Catherine Cross School of Dance, visit<br />

the website at www.accsdance.com<br />

or email accsdance@yahoo.com.<br />

Susan Grandpre photo of Ann<br />

Catherine Cross. Photos courtesy<br />

A C Cross School of Dance<br />

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10 July 2012<br />

Gardening in <strong>Style</strong>~ Vegetable Gardens, Insects and Color<br />

By Kathey Brodtman<br />

Spring gardens bring us<br />

lettuce, peas, spinach,<br />

kale, radishes and<br />

herbs. You can find<br />

these products at the<br />

local farmer’s markets early in the<br />

season. There is nothing like fresh<br />

vegetables for taste and nutrition.<br />

One of my favorite spring<br />

vegetables is snow peas. They are<br />

easy to grow and so crispy eaten raw<br />

on salads or used as dippers on a<br />

vegetable tray as an appetizer. They<br />

can be steamed for a few minutes<br />

till they turn bright green. You can<br />

sauté them alone in a little butter<br />

or olive oil, or with other vegetables<br />

such as red peppers and garlic for<br />

a colorful combination. Plus, they<br />

can be added to Asian stir-fry meals.<br />

Before eating, prepare snow peas by<br />

washing them well. Be sure to pull<br />

off the tough strings on the side.<br />

By now, some gardeners have<br />

tomatoes and peppers growing<br />

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tall as they watch<br />

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tomato and pepper<br />

plants in a raised<br />

bed or in pots.<br />

If you grow<br />

tomatoes in the<br />

ground, be sure to<br />

protect the leaves<br />

and stems from dirt<br />

splash. The soil has<br />

many diseases that<br />

can harm tomatoes.<br />

The best prevention<br />

is to use several sheets of plain black<br />

and white newspaper—no colored<br />

sheets—placed around the plant<br />

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again. They make<br />

our lives miserable<br />

and require some<br />

type of creative<br />

ingenuity to thwart<br />

their attacks. I<br />

am using floating<br />

row covers again<br />

because we try to<br />

garden without<br />

using chemicals.<br />

I cover the plants<br />

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and open up the<br />

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ones. And here is another way to<br />

add color to your deck, garden<br />

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brilliant leaves by planting sun<br />

coleus Solenostemon hybrids. There<br />

was a time when coleus could not<br />

tolerate sun. This new hybrid comes<br />

in many shades including lime, red,<br />

burgundy, orange and yellow and<br />

it loves the sun as long as it gets<br />

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Here is a quote to keep in mind<br />

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July 2012 11<br />

Spike’s Wildlife Almanac~Wood Thrush<br />

By Spike Knuth<br />

Summer woodlands<br />

can be a fascinating<br />

almost magical place.<br />

Large, fully leafed trees<br />

provide dark thickets<br />

or sun dappled understory of ferns,<br />

wild flowers, saplings with enlarged<br />

leaves that capture as much sunlight<br />

as possible. While it is generally quiet,<br />

many species of birds are nesting<br />

and raising their young. Their calls<br />

greet the sunrise each morning.<br />

One such call is the flute-like song<br />

of the wood thrush, arguably one of<br />

the best singers in the bird world.<br />

The wood thrush is a bird of the<br />

eastern half of the U.S. It is one of six<br />

spotted thrushes that can be seen<br />

at one season or another in<br />

our area. The spotted thrushes<br />

resemble each other, so closely<br />

that it is difficult to make<br />

positive identification at times.<br />

The fact that they are so shy and<br />

quiet makes them difficult to<br />

see in the dark shadows. The<br />

wood thrush could be most<br />

confused with the smaller<br />

ovenbird, a ground-dwelling<br />

warbler with spotted breast.<br />

The scientific name of the<br />

wood thrush is Hylocochlia<br />

which is from the Greek “uhle”<br />

meaning a forest or woodland,<br />

and “kikhle” meaning a thrush.<br />

The name thrush is derived from<br />

the old English, “thrusch.” Some<br />

local names include wood robin,<br />

swamp robin, and song thrush.<br />

Some more common members of<br />

the thrush family are the eastern<br />

bluebird and the American robin.<br />

The wood thrush at 7-8 inches is<br />

the largest and most common of the<br />

spotted thrushes. It arrives in the<br />

Chesapeake area about the last week<br />

of April. They favor dense, moist,<br />

deciduous forests with dense under<br />

story, swamps, or along streams and<br />

lakes, but occasionally in smaller,<br />

thick stands of hardwoods in or<br />

near residential areas or parks.<br />

The best identifying marks are<br />

the reddish-brown head which<br />

fades to more of an olive-brown<br />

on its back and tail. It has large<br />

dark spots on its breast and belly,<br />

a white eye ring and white cheeks<br />

with fine, dark wavy lines. The other<br />

spotted thrushes have much fainter<br />

spotting. The wood thrush also has<br />

noticeably large eyes, has somewhat<br />

long, flesh-colored legs, a short<br />

tail, and is kind of pot-bellied<br />

Like the other thrushes it is<br />

secretive; moving quietly through the<br />

dark shadows of the woods. Often all<br />

you might see would be a brownish<br />

bird flying from cover to cover. If it<br />

would sit still for a good look, you<br />

might see it raise their hackles giving<br />

them a crested look and it often cocks<br />

its tail. Many times the only way you<br />

may know it’s around is due to the<br />

clear, pleasant song described as<br />

“eee-oh-lay.” When upset it utters a<br />

“wt-wit-wit” call. The males are first<br />

to arrive on the breeding grounds<br />

and sing until a female is attracted.<br />

After much chasing and displaying<br />

the female chooses a nest site.<br />

The nest is built by the female in a<br />

crotch or lower horizontal limb three<br />

to 40 feet up and is constructed of<br />

leaves, plant stems, small twigs, all<br />

plastered together with mud, then<br />

lined with fine grasses, rootlets, and<br />

animal hair, very much like a robin’s<br />

nest. Three to four greenish-blue<br />

eggs are laid which hatch in about<br />

13-14 days. In another 14 days, the<br />

young are fledged and are fed by<br />

both parents on a diet of insects<br />

and wild fruits. Sometimes a second<br />

brood is raised. The wood thrush<br />

is a common victim of the cowbird<br />

which lays its eggs in the thrush’s<br />

nest resulting in the young cowbirds<br />

displacing the thrush’s young.<br />

The wood thrush feeds on the<br />

ground by scratching in the leaf<br />

litter on the forest floor for worms,<br />

millipedes, beetles, spiders and<br />

other insects, plus a variety of wild<br />

berries. The fall migration begins<br />

as early as August but most leave<br />

us in early October, migrating at<br />

night and following a southward<br />

route through eastern Mexico to<br />

Central America where they winter.<br />

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12 July 2012<br />

Tidewater & Timber~The Joys of Summer Time Fun<br />

By Chelly Scala<br />

One morning, we were<br />

fishing out on the<br />

bay, marking lots of<br />

fish signs and I said,<br />

“It doesn’t get any<br />

better than this.” What a beautiful<br />

morning, the sun was rising and the<br />

water was calm. That doesn’t happen<br />

very often anymore. It was a beautiful,<br />

stress free time with the family.<br />

Then the trolling line went<br />

off. The blues are back!<br />

Summertime is the time<br />

for bluefish. My daughter<br />

loves a special bluefish<br />

recipe that we use on the<br />

grill. Therefore, her brother<br />

always wants to catch<br />

bluefish for his sister. In<br />

addition to the good eating<br />

size, two to three pounders<br />

are slamming both trolling<br />

and chumming lines.<br />

Along with these great<br />

hook and line fighters, are<br />

other species to enjoy fishing for<br />

including stripers, puppy drum, spot,<br />

croaker and flounder. The bigger<br />

blues in the four to five pound range<br />

are proving to be among the more<br />

exciting angling experiences around.<br />

Chumming is a great option for<br />

bluefish when anchored up along<br />

the Middlegrounds or rock pile areas<br />

east of Point Lookout. The Northern<br />

Neck Reef southeast of the Great<br />

Wicomico River in Virginia is another<br />

good option for bluefish chumming.<br />

Look for signs of bait fish or blues on<br />

the meter before starting to chum.<br />

Create a menhaden slick out behind<br />

your anchored boat by spreading<br />

ground menhaden behind it. Light<br />

spinning tackle is a favorite choice. Be<br />

careful as bigger blues can easily bite<br />

through lighter monofilament leader.<br />

If this happens, consider tying on<br />

a few feet of shock leader of 20 to 30<br />

pound test. No other terminal tackle<br />

should be used unless a pinch weight<br />

positioned a few feet above the hook.<br />

Next, cut large menhaden baits to<br />

cover the entire hook. Then drift baits<br />

into your slick behind the boat. Try<br />

not to anchor too close to other boats.<br />

Feeding bluefish will follow moving<br />

schools of shiners or menhaden.<br />

The best tactic when this occurs is to<br />

troll areas that show signs of balled<br />

up bait fish. Small Tony Accettas<br />

or Crippled Alewives spoons in<br />

either chrome, gold or white colors<br />

are good choices. Medium sized<br />

Tony Surgical tube lures in green,<br />

orange, red or chartreuse colors are<br />

traditional choices when trolling<br />

for bluefish, especially when it<br />

includes fish in the four to five<br />

pound range. Leader length should<br />

be about 25 feet with Monofilament<br />

leader in 30 to 40 pound test.<br />

Check the leaders often and if any<br />

sections are frayed, they should be<br />

replaced before fishing them again.<br />

Bluefish require trolling speeds<br />

faster than those for stripers but not<br />

as fast as when targeting Spanish<br />

mackerel. Use either in-line 6 to 10<br />

ounces trolling weights, with heavy<br />

duty snap swivels so they can be<br />

easily changed up or planers to get<br />

the lures down where the fish are<br />

travelling. Number two planers<br />

work well fishing lines close to the<br />

boat and number one planers work<br />

well outboard of the other lines.<br />

For information about fishing<br />

Maryland’s Chesapeake Bay and<br />

its tributaries, call 800-688-3467 or<br />

visit Maryland’s Fisheries website<br />

at www.dnr.state.md.us/fisheries.<br />

The Potomac River Fisheries<br />

Commission (PRFC) fishing season<br />

information can be obtained by<br />

calling 800-266-3904 or via the<br />

PRFC website at www.prfc.state.<br />

va.us. Virginia fishing regulations<br />

may be found at www.mrc.virginia.<br />

gov/ or by calling 757-247-2200.<br />

Don’t forget to review the<br />

information on who has to<br />

register with the Federal National<br />

Saltwater Angler Registry, at www.<br />

CountMyFish.noaa.gov . If you have to<br />

register, it is free and an easy process<br />

for saltwater recreational anglers<br />

in the United States—including<br />

Maryland and Virginia. If you prefer,<br />

registration can be done through a<br />

toll-free number, 888-674-7411. Enjoy<br />

the relaxation of fishing this summer!<br />

Blue Heron also enjoys summer<br />

time fishing. Chelly Scala photo.<br />

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July 2012 13<br />

<strong>Style</strong> Spotlight~Where History Comes Alive!<br />

By Melissa Haydon<br />

Horse drawn<br />

carriages carrying<br />

folks wearing their<br />

best could be seen<br />

in the town square<br />

in Heathsville, Virginia in the early<br />

1800’s. Rice’s Tavern/Hughlett’s Hotel<br />

(RHHT) was the central location for<br />

the county. The men folk would come<br />

to sell the fruits of their labor while<br />

the women would come to purchase<br />

much needed goods to run the home.<br />

A visit to the tavern restaurant<br />

after attending court or purchasing<br />

or selling goods was common. Unlike<br />

today, a quick run to the store was<br />

not possible. Families had to live off<br />

the land. That often meant long hard<br />

days working the family farm. That<br />

meant working from sunrise until<br />

sunset on a daily basis. Children who<br />

attended school went to a one room<br />

school house and attending school<br />

only until about fifth grade. Mothers<br />

often made their children’s clothing<br />

and items needed for the<br />

home. This was an essential<br />

way of life in those times.<br />

Listening to Ellen<br />

Hollows, Director of<br />

Operations for Rice’s Hotel/<br />

Hughlett’s Tavern, it clearly<br />

shows in her voice<br />

how much she<br />

cares about what<br />

she does. “This is a<br />

1795 Courthouse<br />

Tavern and not<br />

many of them are<br />

left standing in Virginia—<br />

we are looking at a piece of<br />

history” As we walk through<br />

on a tour of the three bedroom<br />

tavern it is almost like we<br />

stepped back in time. From<br />

the uneven floors to the<br />

rooms that are set up just like they<br />

would have been back in the 1800’s.<br />

RHHT is on a mission to try and<br />

preserve the arts of that era. The<br />

Blacksmith, Woodworker, Quilt,<br />

Spinners and Weavers, and the<br />

Scrapbook Guild have all been<br />

formed. Members of these guilds<br />

meet on a regular basis. I had the<br />

pleasure to tour the Blacksmiths shop<br />

the day I visited. The Heathsville<br />

Blacksmith Forge is set up with<br />

a working coal forge powered<br />

by a manual bellows. The Guild<br />

fashions all types of metal work.<br />

Two gentlemen were happily<br />

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display for purchase and will happily<br />

make something for you by request.<br />

You could clearly see the pride in<br />

their work as they showed me some<br />

of the things they had created.<br />

Recently, a college level<br />

weaving class was offered to the<br />

community at a much lower cost<br />

than what would have been charged<br />

elsewhere. Going forward they will<br />

be offering many classes to the<br />

community to further nurture the<br />

creative spirit of the community.<br />

Many events and programs are<br />

offered throughout the year.<br />

A fire in April of 2009 damaged<br />

part of the building. The guilds came<br />

together in unity and preserved<br />

some of the history of the building.<br />

Throughout the hotel you will see<br />

handmade quilts and curtains by<br />

the Quilters Guild. Also, the iron<br />

curtain rods were fashioned by the<br />

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Guild. An original quilt designed<br />

by Anna Holland was destroyed in<br />

the fire. This was replaced by the<br />

guild in 2011 to match the one that<br />

was destroyed. Without the guilds,<br />

these would have been lost.<br />

Rice’s Hotel/Hughlett’s Tavern is<br />

trying to preserve that town square<br />

environment by offering farmers<br />

markets from spring through fall for<br />

the past eight years. Local farmers and<br />

art and craft vendors loyally return<br />

each month for the market. This gives<br />

local residents the opportunity to<br />

purchase items all at one location as<br />

you would have back in the 1800’s.<br />

RHHT is run for the most part by<br />

volunteers. Ellen explains that there<br />

may be times when there is no one<br />

there if you visit. Tour boards are<br />

at every building with a wealth of<br />

knowledge for its visitors. This could<br />

be upcoming events or just the history<br />

of the grounds or the buildings.<br />

If you would like more information<br />

about upcoming classes or events<br />

check out the website for more<br />

details. There is always something<br />

being offered that may be of interest<br />

to you. Visit www.rhhtfoundation.<br />

org. The website offers a wealth of<br />

knowledge into the history of RHHT<br />

and the Guilds. I encourage you to<br />

visit and soak in a little history.<br />

Ellen Hollows with recreated quilt<br />

after original was destroyed in the<br />

fire. David works in blacksmith’s<br />

shop Melissa Haydon photos.<br />

mhaydon@chesapeakestyle.com


14 July 2012<br />

<strong>Style</strong> Spotlight~Are You Associating Freely With Quilts?<br />

By Ellen Dugan<br />

As you begin reading<br />

this I would like you<br />

to relax. It’s okay<br />

to have the TV on,<br />

but please, turn the<br />

volume down a bit so that you can<br />

think. We’re going to do some free<br />

associating with words. No, this is<br />

not a psychiatric test or a personality<br />

screening. (We’re not medical<br />

people here at Chesapeake <strong>Style</strong>.)<br />

You won’t need paper and pencil,<br />

just a relatively clear head. Ready?<br />

What is the first word that<br />

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pops into your mind when you<br />

hear, for example, the word<br />

“bacon?” If you said “eggs,”<br />

“breakfast,” or “crispy” most<br />

people would nod in agreement.<br />

Now, skip to the word<br />

“quilt.” What comes to mind?<br />

“Grandmother,” “fabric,” “sewing?”<br />

Great! You’re right in sync with<br />

Karen Dost, who owns and<br />

operates Material Girl Quilt Shop in<br />

Burgess. Karen’s shop is a friendly<br />

“shopping and sharing” place that<br />

is well known to local quilters,<br />

traveling quilters, and well, almost<br />

everyone else who drives along<br />

Northumberland Highway.<br />

But what if Karen had<br />

responded to “quilt” with<br />

“bartender,” “Crusaders,” and<br />

“Henry VIII?” We need to stop<br />

here a minute and explain.<br />

Karen, whose personality is<br />

off the charts when it comes to<br />

customer service, was once a<br />

bartender. This is probably why she<br />

is so good at helping people ignite<br />

their inner spark of creativity—<br />

she’s had a lot of practice listening,<br />

and she’s good at hearing what’s<br />

being said between the words.<br />

It’s a skill her customers and<br />

friends value because they can truly<br />

relax around her. Karen’s shop is<br />

Quality Consignment<br />

cheerful, bright and comfortable.<br />

The kind of place where it’s okay to<br />

linger and chat, catch up on a quilting<br />

project or seek help with something<br />

that hasn’t turned out exactly right.<br />

You could even say that an unhappy<br />

or emotionally distressed quilt would<br />

find Karen’s knowledge of fabrics, her<br />

expertise, and her advice invaluable—<br />

just like her customers do.<br />

Although Karen’s customers are<br />

peaceful folks and therefore<br />

unlikely to voluntarily associate<br />

quilts with “Crusaders,” it’s<br />

okay if they do. Crusaders had<br />

a lot to do with how quilting<br />

came to be. They are said to<br />

have introduced quilting to<br />

Europe via a garment worn<br />

under battle armor called<br />

a gambeson. Gambesons<br />

were designed for comfort,<br />

warmth and protection.<br />

At Material Girl Karen doesn’t<br />

carry gambeson patterns, but<br />

she does point out that comfort and<br />

warmth have historically ranked<br />

high in a quilt’s job description.<br />

It’s a bit of a stretch but you could<br />

also say that quilts do a great job in<br />

protecting their owner’s décor from<br />

being the same as everyone else’s.<br />

And speaking of quilt owners, this<br />

is where “Henry VIII’s” association<br />

comes in. (Remember he’s the guy<br />

who married three Catherines, two<br />

Annes and a Jane during his time<br />

as king.) On his first wedding night<br />

Henry slept under a green silk,<br />

linen-backed quilt. Highlighted<br />

with metal threads and worked in<br />

a rose and pomegranate pattern,<br />

apparently the quilt’s beauty<br />

and comfort did little to help the<br />

marriage. But that was long ago.<br />

Today, many of the 21.3 million<br />

Americans who quilt do it to express<br />

themselves artistically. Few endeavors<br />

lend themselves to such an incredible<br />

array of fabrics, colors, textures,<br />

designs, placements, and artistic<br />

arrangement. Karen delights in the<br />

whole process. And her enjoyment<br />

is contagious. “I love beginners,”<br />

says Karen. “It’s great to be able<br />

to show them how to get started<br />

and to answer their questions.”<br />

Quilting is both a solitary and a<br />

social activity according to Karen.<br />

Often a quilter is alone while sewing<br />

blocks, but just as often quilters can<br />

—and do—bring their work into the<br />

shop to join their friends and fellow<br />

quilters. “They come in as strangers,”<br />

says Karen “and leave as friends.”<br />

In addition to listening to her<br />

customer’s needs and responding<br />

to them, Karen’s heart is perhaps<br />

stitched together with threads<br />

of kindness and little squares of<br />

empathy and feeling. When an<br />

elderly woman came in one day,<br />

unable to quilt anymore—fingers<br />

obviously bent and crooked with<br />

arthritis—the woman’s male<br />

companion took Karen aside.<br />

“She just wants to come in and feel<br />

your fabric,” he said. “Is it okay?”<br />

Karen smiled her consent and now<br />

chokes up a little at the memory.<br />

On a quilter-to-quilter level Karen<br />

knew exactly how important this<br />

simple act was to the woman.<br />

“It was one of those moments<br />

you don’t forget,” she says.<br />

For more information about<br />

how you can begin quilting or to<br />

attend Material Girl classes, give<br />

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Some of them may surprise you.<br />

Ellen Dugan photos.<br />

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July 2012 15<br />

My Visit To Hanover Shoe Farms<br />

By Paula Shipman<br />

On May 29, I visited<br />

“The Greatest Name<br />

in Harness Racing”,<br />

Hanover Shoe<br />

Farms. I received<br />

an invitation to Hanover from its<br />

vice president, Dr. Paul Spears, and<br />

he took me on a tour of the 3,000<br />

acre farm located in scenic<br />

Hanover Pennsylvania. I<br />

was able to touch some of<br />

Harness Racing Royalty.<br />

For me visiting the super<br />

stars of Harness Racing<br />

was better than meeting<br />

any celebrity actor you<br />

could name. I got to meet<br />

and kiss on Hambletonian<br />

winner Muscle Massive<br />

($1,239,138), he was an<br />

absolute sweetheart! I also<br />

met World Champion and<br />

Horse of the Year in 2008,<br />

Somebeachsomewhere<br />

($3,221,138) and World Champion<br />

Donato Hanover ($2,998,777)<br />

who's stand out filly Check Me Out<br />

($973,552) also a World Record<br />

holder, was the fastest and richest<br />

two year old trotter of 2011. Check<br />

Me Out has won 16 of 19 career<br />

starts and I watched her, June 8,<br />

win her Elegantimage elimination<br />

at Mohawk racetrack in Canada.<br />

She will be racing in the final<br />

on June 16th for $530,000.<br />

I met D Train who is the Dam of<br />

Donato Hanover and her new<br />

foal born on April 25, 2012 sired<br />

by Muscle Massive. D Train's<br />

last foal, Detour Hanover, a full<br />

brother to Donato, sold for a<br />

whopping $825,000 as a yearling<br />

in 2011. I am looking forward<br />

to following his racing career.<br />

I also met Dr. Spears' beloved<br />

mare Swan Lake. “Swan Lake<br />

has been good to me”, said<br />

Dr. Spears. She has produced<br />

such standouts as Swan Image<br />

($576,852) and Swan For All<br />

($309,986) among others. She<br />

is in foal to the 3-Year-Old<br />

Trotting Colt of the Year in 2002,<br />

Kadabra ($1,806,779). Kadabra has<br />

sired millionaires Poof She's Gone<br />

($1,312,093)—she is one of my<br />

many favorite Standardbreds—and<br />

Daylon Magician ($1,304,461). One<br />

of Swan Lake's pasture mates is Dr.<br />

Spears' Thoroughbred mare One<br />

More Lillian ($94,872) half sister to<br />

Prayer For Relief ($1,057,225). It was<br />

great to meet her as well and she<br />

is due to foal in January of 2013.<br />

The first horse I wanted to meet<br />

and did was Moonlight G ($151,062).<br />

Dr. Spears has spoken about him so<br />

much I feel as if I know ''Moonie'' as<br />

he is affectionately called. Readers<br />

may remember, Moonie is the first<br />

offspring out of the 2004 Trotting<br />

Broodmare of the Year, Yankee<br />

Windsong ($33,028) who passed<br />

away all too soon. Moonie is as<br />

sweet as horses come and boy did he<br />

make a dent in that five pound<br />

bag of carrots! He is a doll.<br />

I visited the final resting<br />

places of some of Harness<br />

Racing's elite performers as race<br />

horses, sires and brood mares.<br />

I stood by the grave of Tar Heel<br />

($119,148) 1948-1982, one of<br />

history’s best broodmare sires.<br />

Also Brenna Hanover ($21,946)<br />

1956-1974 who gave birth to the<br />

Little Brown Jug and the Pacing<br />

Triple Crown winner, Bret<br />

Hanover ($922,616) 1962-1992;<br />

Hoot Mon ($74,950) 1944-1965<br />

the 1947 Hambletonian winner and<br />

first Hambo winner to sire a Hambo<br />

winner—her name was Helicopter<br />

($99,559) 1950-1972 and she beat a<br />

Hambo field of tough colts. Lastly I<br />

stood by the grave of World Record<br />

holder Holborn Hanover ($2,070,648)<br />

2001-2008 who went the fastest<br />

race mile ever in 1:46.4 at the U.S.<br />

Pacing Championship. He died due<br />

to complications following surgery<br />

to repair a fractured cannon bone.<br />

Dr. Spears took me inside the<br />

offices to see the many trophies<br />

and awards Hanover Shoe Farms<br />

has received, too many to count.<br />

His personal office walls are<br />

adorned with beautiful images<br />

of Trotting Triple Crown winner<br />

Windsong's Legacy ($1,744,644)<br />

some of which I would give my right<br />

arm to have in my living room!<br />

He then gave me a Hanover polo<br />

shirt and mailed me a Hanover<br />

windbreaker. He was the most<br />

gracious host, I truly had a wonderful<br />

time and I can't wait to go back!<br />

Hanover Farms website is<br />

www.hanoverpa.com.<br />

Muscle Massive coming for his carrots<br />

and kisses. All the stallions wear<br />

the fly masks to keep the flies off<br />

their faces. Paula Shipman photo.<br />

Moonie and Paula photo by<br />

Dr. Spears. Dr. Spears and his<br />

Thoroughbred mare One More<br />

Lillian. Paula Shipman photo.<br />

pshipman@chesapeakestyle.com


16 July 2012<br />

Try Quinoa for a New Taste<br />

By Barbara Sherman<br />

It's pronounced (Keen –<br />

wah). You may have heard<br />

friends talking about it or<br />

seen it in specialty stores.<br />

Although relatively new<br />

in the United States, quinoa has<br />

been a dietary staple in the Andes<br />

Mountains of South America<br />

for thousands of years. Quinoa<br />

is used as a grain substitute but<br />

is actually an edible seed that is<br />

harvested from the Chenopodium<br />

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18 July 2012<br />

The Guinea Connection~Part IV<br />

By Elizabeth A. Stokes<br />

This is a continuation of the<br />

June article about the childhood<br />

of Pauline Allen Alexander,<br />

Elizabeth Stokes’ mother.<br />

Her Uncle Mon<br />

who lived next<br />

door and had<br />

no children of<br />

his own always<br />

welcomed her and it was from<br />

him that she inherited her love<br />

of horses. Despite her mother’s<br />

distaste, her Uncle Mon always<br />

let her watch the birthing of<br />

his foals. Hog killin time was a<br />

great event in the community<br />

and as with all the local girls,<br />

my mom make homemade<br />

sausage and fried chitlins.<br />

It was known throughout<br />

the community that my mom did<br />

not like church—neither did my<br />

grandfather—but every Sunday she<br />

helped her “Big Bubba” Lawrence<br />

hitch up their mother’s beautiful<br />

chestnut<br />

mare,<br />

Virginia, to<br />

the buggy.<br />

My mother<br />

was a good<br />

student,<br />

loved to<br />

read but<br />

didn’t like<br />

math. In<br />

the evening<br />

she read<br />

to her<br />

parents by<br />

kerosene<br />

lamp from<br />

periodicals<br />

that her<br />

brothers<br />

would<br />

bring from their travels—especially<br />

her brother Ernest who would<br />

come home from his job in NY<br />

building the Harlem tunnel.<br />

Her brother Clyde had just bought<br />

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and she<br />

wrecked it<br />

when she<br />

ran it into<br />

the ditch<br />

in front<br />

of their<br />

home.<br />

She was<br />

known<br />

as one<br />

of the “great beauties” of Gloucester<br />

in her heyday, black or white. She<br />

wrote poetry and plays, sang in<br />

the children’s choir at the chapel<br />

at prayer meetings, hunted in the<br />

woods with her brothers and skinned<br />

rabbits; drank corn liquor in secret<br />

with her friend Mildred Gregory after<br />

their clambakes; swam in Sarah’s<br />

Creek, outcussed and outfought the<br />

boys with her other buddy Winnie<br />

Stokes; got baptized in the York River.<br />

My mom loved to tell about the<br />

three whippings her mother gave<br />

her—she was told to tie up the family<br />

cow and she tied the cow by its<br />

tail to a fence and the cow ran off,<br />

breaking its tail, she refused to get<br />

up from the table when the preacher<br />

came to eat dinner. She told him<br />

that, “This is my father’s table!”<br />

And she pitched a tantrum when<br />

her newly deceased infant sister<br />

Mary McGold was buried in the same<br />

bonnet and lacy dress that she herself<br />

had been christened in. Thanksgiving<br />

and Christmas were special in all<br />

Guinea households. My grandmother<br />

raised geese, not turkeys, and the<br />

table was laden with hams from their<br />

smokehouses, oysters in all forms,<br />

baked sweet potatoes and in season<br />

vegetables from their garden; oyster<br />

and bread stuffing, freshly baked<br />

rolls on the back of the cook stove<br />

and all kinds of berry and dried<br />

fruit desserts on the sideboards.<br />

In addition to their large family<br />

for holiday gatherings, there was<br />

always a visiting preacher, orphaned<br />

children cull boys from the family<br />

boats. In winter the family toboggan<br />

was hauled out of the stable, the rust<br />

sanded off the runners, hitched up<br />

to a team of spirited ready horses<br />

and my mother with her brothers, all<br />

muffled and heavily blanketed with<br />

lap robes, would be off down Guinea<br />

road in the heavy drifts of snow. She<br />

went with her brothers Rodgers and<br />

Clyde in the woods to chop down<br />

their tree and drag it home. Later they<br />

would bring it in to dry, then decorate<br />

the tree with brightly colored pieces of<br />

cloth. She had a wonderful childhood!<br />

Pauline Allen Alexander, teen years,<br />

on her way to Hampton Institute.<br />

Sister Mary McGold Allen in her<br />

funeral dress—her sister Pauline’s<br />

Christening dress-1905. Photos<br />

courtesy of Elizabeth A. Stokes.<br />

estokes@chesapeakestyle.com


July 2012 19<br />

It’s All Energy<br />

By RuthE Forrest BA,NCBTMB,CMT<br />

“What is energy work?” I believe<br />

quantum physics’ premise that<br />

everything is comprised of energy<br />

waves and particles that are basically<br />

congealed energy waves. We were<br />

spawned in the energy of Earth’s<br />

gravitational field, we embody her<br />

nuclear and electromagnetic fields.<br />

We thrive in the sun’s light energy,<br />

and our body’s energy centers called<br />

chakras emit light and sound energy<br />

documented by modern science. We<br />

are essentially a living liquid crystal<br />

sending and receiving transmissions.<br />

Think of a tree to get a glimpse of<br />

an energy system. This living being<br />

draws vital nutrient energy from<br />

sunlight, the soil, and finer energies<br />

from the surrounding atmosphere.<br />

We can look at a tree and see if it<br />

is healthy. Yellow leaves, bumpy<br />

bark, insect invasion, or shriveled<br />

fruit signify loss of vitality in a ‘sick’<br />

tree. In similar fashion energy<br />

healers have learned to “see” the<br />

loss of vital energy in a body.<br />

A tree expert might begin with the<br />

roots and work up the tree’s structure<br />

to the trunk, limbs, branches and<br />

leaves to figure out what is ailing it,<br />

and create balance by influencing the<br />

tree’s surrounding environment. An<br />

energetic healer explores the subtle<br />

energies of the client to discover<br />

inharmonious frequencies in a<br />

comparable way, “feeling” her way<br />

through the energies surrounding<br />

and penetrating the body that are<br />

creating physical symptoms. Just<br />

like the tree guy, the energetic<br />

healer also is educated to read and<br />

understand the signs and symptoms<br />

of dis-ease, and has the knowledge<br />

to begin to affect positive changes.<br />

There are many systems active<br />

today that map subtle energies.<br />

Quantum science has been helpful<br />

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20 July 2012<br />

Lilly Sings Her Way into Volunteers’ Hearts<br />

By Fran Warren<br />

The Animal Control<br />

Officer brought the<br />

dog and her puppies to<br />

the shelter on a brisk<br />

October night after<br />

taking them from a neglectful owner.<br />

Volunteer Supervisor Fran Warren<br />

saw them first thing the next morning.<br />

The mother, a black lab, was<br />

emaciated, dehydrated, near starved.<br />

The bones jutted out at her ribs and<br />

hips. The puppies, just four days old,<br />

were bringing her down even more.<br />

She and puppies’ lives were in danger.<br />

The mother’s looked up at me, her<br />

eyes soft and gentle. As bad as she<br />

was in her condition, she grinned<br />

to me, and sang, Woooo, Woooo.<br />

My heart melted. We’ve got to save<br />

this dog, I thought. She’s got spunk.<br />

Our Shelter Volunteers set to work.<br />

One puppy was too weak. It died.<br />

Three volunteers took turns taking<br />

home the remaining puppies to feed<br />

them every two hours, first with an<br />

eye-dropper and then, as<br />

they grew, with a bottle.<br />

The puppies improved.<br />

We gave the mother—<br />

we named her Lilly—<br />

shots, medication, and<br />

special food and treated<br />

her successfully for<br />

heartworm infection. We<br />

did the same for two of<br />

her older pups from an<br />

earlier litter, brought in<br />

to the shelter at the same time with<br />

the mother and four newborns.<br />

Lilly improved. And she continued<br />

to sing when the volunteers paused<br />

at her kennel to pet and sing with<br />

her. What a scene that was—a<br />

volunteer and black lab crooning<br />

away to each other! The volunteers<br />

also walked her to build muscle<br />

and spent time socializing her.<br />

The story has a happy ending.<br />

The shelter volunteers managed<br />

to find homes and adopt out all three<br />

remaining new-born puppies and<br />

the two older siblings, as well.<br />

Lilly, too, found a home.<br />

Believe it or not, she was<br />

adopted by a man who loves<br />

to sing. He and his wife are<br />

retired and he sings in church<br />

when he’s not singing at home<br />

with Lilly. At night, Lilly sleeps<br />

on the bed with the couple.<br />

Lilly and her six offspring were<br />

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Lilly, Before and After.<br />

Photos courtesy NAS.


July 2012 21<br />

Teen<br />

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By Bridgette Self<br />

It was the day of February 23rd, 2012.<br />

I went throughout my school day as I<br />

usually did, but that day I felt a little more<br />

pep in my step. That evening at six would<br />

begin a very important basketball game<br />

for the Lady Chargers. We played Rappahannock<br />

High in a second round regional game. All we<br />

needed to do was win this game to ensure a spot<br />

in the State Tournament. The Lady Chargers had<br />

not been to Regionals in quite a few years, so<br />

needless to say, our team was pretty stoked.<br />

After school let out, our team separated until<br />

four fifteen when we gathered for a quick sandwich<br />

before our game. Once dinner was consumed,<br />

some of our teammates decided to work on<br />

homework. As for me, I headed straight for the<br />

court to shoot around a little bit. I was feeling<br />

fairly confident as we changed into our uniforms.<br />

We ran out and began our pre-game warm up<br />

which consists of layups, jump shots and free<br />

throws. Halfway through our warm up, captains<br />

were called to meet in the center of the court.<br />

I headed to the center with my other two cocaptains<br />

and shook the other captain’s hands. The<br />

referees gave us the regular talk about using good<br />

sportsmanship which we all smiled and agreed<br />

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the outcome of that. The warning buzzer went<br />

Regional Game<br />

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opposing team was introduced first. After they were<br />

introduced, the announcer announced, “At starting<br />

guard, number four, BRIDGETTTTEEE SELLLLF”<br />

sending the crowd into numerous cheers! Heather<br />

Blankenship (guard), Grace Rutkowski (small<br />

forward), Megan Payne (strong forward), and Joey<br />

Stinchcomb (center) were announced after I was.<br />

They all received just as much encouragement as I<br />

did. Following the National Anthem, we gathered<br />

in our final huddle before the game began. The<br />

referees blew their whistles, so the four starters<br />

along with me headed out to the center of the court.<br />

The tip off between Joey and the Rappahannock<br />

center generated the battle between the<br />

Rappahannock Raiders and Middlesex Chargers.<br />

One of their players kept shooting crazy shots; she<br />

shot so many times only making a few of them.<br />

In the first quarter, I hit a three; I felt exhilarated!<br />

I guess this girl was trying to outshine me, so she<br />

threw up a shot a couple feet behind the three point<br />

line. It ricocheted off the backboard landing in one<br />

of my teammate’s hands. Throughout the first half,<br />

we ran our plays and scored, but Rappahannock<br />

did the same. At halftime, I had six points, two<br />

three pointers, and we were not down by much.<br />

Once our coaches gave us our pep talk at<br />

halftime, we went out and fought some more.<br />

Halfway through the third quarter, we were<br />

down by ten points. Coach Wake put me back<br />

in the game after a quick breather. I was ready<br />

to go, for my game was not over yet. I caught<br />

the ball behind the three point arch and shot.<br />

I made it, so we set up in our press defense.<br />

They turned the ball over, so we got it back. Grace<br />

passed me the ball, so I took the shot a step back<br />

from the three point line. “SWISH!” The crowd went<br />

wild, for we were only down by four at this point.<br />

This caused Rappahannock to call a time out. They<br />

scored once after the time out, but we followed.<br />

During the second half, we had plenty of free throw<br />

opportunities; we just could not secure them. The<br />

last thirty seconds Rappahannock had the ball.<br />

They took the shot with fifteen seconds left, but they<br />

missed. Megan rebounded the ball and attempted<br />

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Rappahannock held the ball for the remainder<br />

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<strong>Style</strong> Spotlight~So much more than Adirondack chairs!<br />

By Mari Bonomi<br />

Don’t believe the<br />

rumors that<br />

Rivah Interiors<br />

is going away!<br />

Ron and Marjorie<br />

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say that’s just not true.<br />

“We are downsizing rather than<br />

retiring,” Ron said. “We thought<br />

we’d simply close both stores, but<br />

our customers wouldn’t let us. We<br />

will still be providing the personal<br />

customer service and offering special<br />

orders the way we always have.”<br />

At some point, Ron and Marjorie<br />

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store and move their entire operation<br />

to their Kilmarnock location, known<br />

as The Sleep Center. This store has<br />

always also been Rivah Interiors, but<br />

now will offer a much fuller array<br />

of furniture and decorative items.<br />

Ron describes his store as offering<br />

a “casual coastal cottage” look to<br />

suit the lifestyle of the Bay and the<br />

Rivahs. “Our customers come from<br />

Richmond, from Mechanicsville,<br />

from Maryland and Delaware. Yet<br />

sometimes local folks are surprised<br />

to find all the furniture and<br />

decorative items we offer right here.”<br />

The store’s signature brightlycolored<br />

Adirondack chairs adorning<br />

the front of the building are made<br />

in America, mostly in US but<br />

some in Canada, and crafted from<br />

recycled plastic milk jugs. The chairs<br />

“fly out of the store,” Ron said.<br />

The bedroom furniture, both bed<br />

frames and chests, is available in a<br />

variety of styles and can be special<br />

ordered in a range of colors, from<br />

traditional wood shades to more<br />

“shabby chic” looks. A variety of<br />

mattress styles also is available<br />

on site or for special order. And<br />

decorative pillows for the whole<br />

house are always in stock.<br />

A printed sign sits prominently on<br />

one of the display sofas in the center<br />

of the shop. It reads, “American made.<br />

Does it matter to you? It does to us!”<br />

The sign is “my motto,” said Ron.<br />

“Our goal is to provide good value<br />

to our customers,” Ron<br />

explained. That doesn’t<br />

mean the cheapest price;<br />

it means the best quality<br />

goods made for the most<br />

part right here in the United<br />

States. Ron said that in<br />

2010 71% of bedroom<br />

furniture was imported<br />

from China. His decades of<br />

experience in the furniture<br />

business have taught him<br />

to value quality construction.<br />

Ron provides value through<br />

stocking solid wood furniture. In fact,<br />

Rivah Interiors is bringing in a new<br />

line: Lincolnton. This company is a<br />

spin-off from Cochrane Furniture,<br />

an old North Carolina firm. When<br />

that company was sold, Bruce<br />

Cochrane opened a new company<br />

to make solid wood dining and<br />

bedroom furniture in North Carolina.<br />

Another company, Harden, is the<br />

oldest continuously-owned family<br />

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The North is represented by, among<br />

other companies, Telescope Casual,<br />

a firm started in New York State in<br />

1903, where the director’s chair was<br />

invented. Almost all their furniture is<br />

made in America, and they’re a green<br />

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fabrics. We can also get it covered in<br />

white muslin with slip-covers. We<br />

can have them made in sectionals<br />

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“Our best outdoor furniture is<br />

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hotel-style bed with fully upholstered<br />

head and footboards that will have<br />

full five-star hotel bedding and<br />

linens, from mattress to comforter.”<br />

Ron is proud that much of the<br />

store’s business is repeat customers,<br />

“though we are always delighted<br />

to welcome new customers. We<br />

greet everyone with warmth and<br />

friendliness and always work to help<br />

them find what they need, he said.<br />

“What we do is different,” Ron<br />

said. “We offer styles not usually<br />

found in other area stores, and we<br />

try to do so in a helpful way.”<br />

The Callao location, at 838<br />

Northumberland Highway (Rte<br />

360), is open Monday, Wednesday,<br />

Thursday, Friday and Saturday<br />

from 10 a.m. till 5 p.m. Phone 804-<br />

529-7770. The Kilmarnock store,<br />

at 24 South Main Street, is open<br />

Wednesday through Friday from 10<br />

a.m. to 4:30 p.m. and on Saturday<br />

from 10-3. Phone 804-436-9115. The<br />

website is www.rivahinteriors.com.


July 2012 23<br />

One of Life’s Moments~Friendship<br />

By Gwen Keane<br />

Friendship, a priceless<br />

commodity, often goes<br />

unappreciated until we<br />

are old. I am fortunate to<br />

have many great friends,<br />

which include my two childhood<br />

friends. One childhood friend,<br />

Bobbi Gaskins Weeks, and I have<br />

known each other for almost sixty<br />

four years. Yes—I am truly blessed.<br />

In April I accompanied Bobbi<br />

and her daughter Kim to New York<br />

City (NYC). I don’t believe Kim had<br />

a clue before our trip, what it would<br />

be like to travel with two seniors.<br />

This generous daughter had offered<br />

to share a hotel room with us. So<br />

there we were—right on Broadway,<br />

two blocks from Times Square!<br />

The weather was beautiful except<br />

we were not prepared for the low<br />

temperatures. We arrived early that<br />

Friday and took a five and a half hour<br />

bus tour which included a boat ride<br />

in New York harbor. After our<br />

guide, Mike, a native New<br />

Yorker, introduced himself,<br />

we knew our afternoon<br />

would be memorable.<br />

Mike shared a lot of “off the<br />

beaten track” information<br />

with our tour group.<br />

Prior to going to NYC,<br />

Kim had sent us a proposed<br />

itinerary. Each day and<br />

night was filled with places<br />

to go and things to see.<br />

In three days we went to<br />

two Broadway plays, The<br />

Museum of Modern Art,<br />

The Top of the Rock, several nice<br />

restaurants, Chinatown, and Little<br />

Italy. We shopped in Times Square.<br />

One of our favorite places was the<br />

impressive Toys R Us store. Anyone<br />

planning a trip to NYC should see<br />

this store. The experience made<br />

us feel like children again!<br />

The taxis in NYC lived up to their<br />

reputation of high speeds, excessive<br />

lane changing, and failure to brake<br />

slowly. Each time we travelled<br />

by taxi, it was as if we were on<br />

an amusement park ride. Yet, we<br />

always arrived at our destination<br />

without an accident. On Saturday<br />

morning we went to Chinatown.<br />

The taxi cab driver warned us not<br />

to eat there, but suggested we have<br />

lunch in Little Italy. In Chinatown I<br />

became overwhelmed by the armies<br />

of people on the sidewalks and<br />

the many handbag shops. When<br />

Kim had asked if we wanted to visit<br />

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Chinatown I said, “Yes, but I am<br />

not going to any warehouses.” In<br />

the first shop a sales person said “I<br />

can take you in the back and you’ll<br />

find exactly what you want.” I then<br />

imagined us being arrested for having<br />

purchased a few “Knock Off” (fake<br />

brands) purses. We declined and<br />

continued to shop. I made one $6<br />

purchase—a scarf. The morning was<br />

cold, but the sun provided enough<br />

warmth to enjoy lunch at an outdoor<br />

café. New York pizza is the best!<br />

Go, go, go, is what our visit was all<br />

about. I mentioned my desire to go<br />

to the Today Show. I have watched<br />

that show almost every morning<br />

since I retired in 2003. It is how I start<br />

my day. Bobbi wasn’t too interested,<br />

but pretended it was a “must do.”<br />

I said if we were going, we had to<br />

have signs. We went to the drug store<br />

and bought poster paper and magic<br />

markers. That night, as tired as we<br />

were, we made our posters. On one<br />

side of the poster board I wrote, “Help<br />

Me Celebrate My 90th birthday.” I<br />

thought that might be an attention<br />

getter. Kim suggested I change the<br />

posting to “my 100th birthday” just in<br />

case Willard Scott was on the plaza.<br />

On the other side of the poster I<br />

wrote, “Friends for Sixty-four Years.”<br />

At 5 a.m. we left the hotel and<br />

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in line. We were there early enough<br />

to get on the front row and for more<br />

than two hours we stood in fortytwo<br />

degree weather, dressed in thin<br />

spring jackets minus gloves. Bobbi<br />

asked, “When will the celebrities<br />

come out?” I said. “It won’t be long.”<br />

I called my husband and my other<br />

childhood friend to say “watch for<br />

us on television.” Bobbi called her<br />

husband, her next door neighbor,<br />

her sister, and Kim. At 8:15 Al Rooker<br />

appeared, with Ann Curry and Matt<br />

Lauer. We had hit the jackpot! They<br />

greeted the crowd and shook our<br />

hands. Bobbi’s sister called back<br />

to say she had taped us and taken<br />

pictures. We then felt like celebrities<br />

I guess, whatever that means.<br />

Afterwards I took Bobbi to the<br />

famous “Magnolias”, a cupcake store<br />

and purchased three cupcakes. I told<br />

her “If my Grandmother were alive<br />

today and knew I had paid $9 for<br />

three cupcakes, she would disown<br />

me.” Yes things are more expensive<br />

in NYC compared to here in the<br />

Northern Neck. And while there<br />

is much more to see and do, if the<br />

truth be known, there is no place<br />

like home. It was a great trip with a<br />

best friend and her sweet daughter.<br />

Kim should receive an award for<br />

having put up with two old biddies!<br />

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24 July 2012<br />

Corn Cooking Magic<br />

Now, here comes the magic part: grab the ear<br />

by it top, where the silks stick out of the husks,<br />

hold it up, and give it a vigorous shake. You may<br />

have to shake pretty hard, or squeeze the top of<br />

the ear to start the corn sliding out of the husks.<br />

The corn on the cob will drop out of<br />

the husk in all of its delicious, pristine<br />

beauty, leaving the silks in the husks.<br />

Enjoy!<br />

You’re welcome!<br />

By Rob Ransone<br />

Ah! Summertime! I look forward<br />

to two of its greatest pleasures:<br />

fresh vine-ripened tomatoes and<br />

fresh-picked corn on the cob!<br />

If you’ve tasted corn on the cob<br />

from a State Fair, you know that the later in the<br />

day, the better it tastes. This is because—my<br />

theory—is that early in the day the water<br />

boils out flavor, but later in the day the water has<br />

so much corn flavor, that it boils some back in!<br />

First tip: Don’t boil fresh corn on the<br />

cob! Roast it in its husks either on the<br />

grill or nuke it. Here’s the best way:<br />

Stick the ears in your microwave, husks, stem,<br />

and all—just like you<br />

pulled it off the stalk or<br />

bought it at the fresh<br />

produce stand. Nuke it<br />

for about six minutes<br />

for two ears, depending<br />

upon the power of<br />

your microwave.<br />

When done, place<br />

each ear on a cutting<br />

board and cut off the<br />

bottom, at its biggest<br />

part, above where the<br />

husks attach to the ear.<br />

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July 2012 25<br />

HSSNN Volunteers meet interesting folks<br />

By Anne Cook<br />

One of the things that<br />

make volunteering<br />

for Hospice<br />

Support Services<br />

of the Northern<br />

Neck (HSSNN) interesting is the<br />

diversity of the patients that use<br />

our services. At present we have a<br />

patient who is in this country under<br />

political asylum. This is a young<br />

person who, while waiting for the<br />

spouse and children to be able to<br />

come to this country, developed<br />

a life threatening condition. It has<br />

been especially distressful for this<br />

patient because of the language<br />

barrier, not having family support,<br />

and in addition to worrying about<br />

their physical condition, worrying<br />

about the safety of the family.<br />

The volunteer who is seeing to<br />

this person’s needs—mainly making<br />

sure the medical appointments<br />

are kept—is fulfilling a much<br />

needed role. It is difficult to picture<br />

oneself in a similar situation.<br />

We have had other patients, who,<br />

for one reason or another, do not<br />

qualify for Medicare, Social Security<br />

and have no insurance. Several find<br />

themselves in this situation because<br />

they are not citizens of the United<br />

States. We are able to bring them<br />

much needed supplies, in many<br />

cases, that they would not be able to<br />

buy themselves. More importantly,<br />

the patients that I have known in<br />

this situation are here without their<br />

family so really look forward to the<br />

volunteers visit and knowing there<br />

is someone who will help them<br />

navigate a problem if one arises.<br />

Many of our patients are simply<br />

in need of a visit from a person who<br />

is interested in them— who wants<br />

to hear about “the good old days”, or<br />

report on what the weather is doing<br />

outside. If you mention the vegetable<br />

garden you just put in, more often<br />

than not you will be given some<br />

advice on the way to get larger onions,<br />

for instance. If you pull the dirt away<br />

from the bulb, as they grow, the end<br />

product will be a much larger onion.<br />

Also, if you remove half of the fruit on<br />

your fruit trees, the remaining fruit<br />

will be healthier and larger. These<br />

are just a few of the “tips” that have<br />

made my gardening more successful.<br />

Another patient, who comes<br />

to mind, is one who, after being<br />

diagnosed with a brain tumor, started<br />

out needing a cane we were able<br />

to supply. They then progressed<br />

to the need for a motorized wheel<br />

chair and hospital bed along with<br />

the other items that help to make<br />

one be able to stay in one’s home<br />

where the surroundings are familiar<br />

and they can be surrounded<br />

by family and friends so that<br />

“things” can feel more “normal”.<br />

If you know of someone who can<br />

benefit from our services please call<br />

our office. We usually get our referrals<br />

from social workers but have gotten<br />

them from a concerned neighbor,<br />

a family member, their minister.<br />

Anyone can recommend a person.<br />

If you would like to add interesting<br />

folks to your life, speak to someone<br />

about becoming a volunteer, please<br />

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26 July 2012<br />

Cover-ups and Conspiracies<br />

By Merrill Leffler<br />

Review of Kathleen Toomey<br />

Jabs, Black Wings,<br />

We open Black<br />

Wings as though<br />

we’ve come<br />

late to a movie<br />

and missed the<br />

opening scene: “He pinched her<br />

left ring finger between his thumb<br />

and forefinger, pressing it first onto<br />

a pad of blank ink then rolling it<br />

onto the official card.” Dateline (all<br />

chapters have datelines): Arlington,<br />

Virginia, October 5, 1993, 2 p.m.<br />

Navy Lt. Bridget Donovan is being<br />

fingerprinted and then led to a room<br />

where she is grilled on her role in a<br />

security breach: the unauthorized<br />

release of a secret Navy report on<br />

the death of Lt. Audrey Richards,<br />

whose Hornet aircraft crashed<br />

after lifting off an aircraft carrier.<br />

“If you’ve done something wrong,”<br />

Special Agent Wilkinson says with<br />

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a barely-restrained hostility, “you<br />

won’t get away with it.” “Bridget<br />

looked him in the eye and said, ‘The<br />

one who got away with something<br />

is still out there.’” “He shook his<br />

head. ‘You’re a terrible liar.’”<br />

Backtrack to The Pentagon,<br />

September 25, 1993, 6:30 a.m. when<br />

Lt. Donovan first learns that it was<br />

Audrey Richards who went down<br />

in a fiery death. They were close<br />

roommates at the Naval Academy<br />

from their Plebe year in 1986 through<br />

commissioning four years later,<br />

Donovan to public affairs, Richards to<br />

flight school. Though they have seen<br />

each other since then, they had slowly<br />

drifted apart—the reasons are hinted<br />

at, but not explored: this is a mystery<br />

novel, not a psychological one.<br />

Backtrack again: Annapolis,<br />

Maryland, July, 1986. The thirdperson<br />

narrator brings us into life<br />

in Bancroft Hall. Those first months<br />

are stressful enough for all Plebes,<br />

but for young women who<br />

have entered an insular male<br />

world—women had only<br />

been admitted to the Naval<br />

Academy a decade before—it<br />

is worse. Misogyny, malice,<br />

and sexual jealousy are not<br />

uncommon – at least then.<br />

Fundamentalism has a<br />

foothold (the “God Squad”<br />

silently intimidates, says<br />

Bridget), deceit is everpresent<br />

among cadets and<br />

officers, and learning how<br />

to get around The System<br />

is part of the unofficial<br />

training. “This whole place<br />

is rationalized,” Bridget<br />

says to Jude, a cadet Audrey has<br />

had a relationship with and who<br />

is instrumental in the story that<br />

unfolds. “The whole system. It’s<br />

not designed for honor…Why do<br />

you think we have graduates like<br />

Poindexter and Ollie North?”<br />

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While<br />

Kathleen<br />

Toomy Jabs<br />

gives us inside<br />

glimpses of<br />

Naval life—<br />

she is a 1988<br />

Academy<br />

graduate,<br />

served six years<br />

on active duty,<br />

and is today<br />

a Captain<br />

in the Navy<br />

Reserve—Black<br />

Wings is not<br />

an indictment<br />

of the Naval<br />

Academy or the Pentagon. She<br />

has written an intense intrigue in<br />

a setting she knows well. Audrey’s<br />

possible murder leads Bridget back<br />

to the Academy when Audrey was<br />

warned—she is a woman after all in<br />

a man’s world—against becoming a<br />

pilot. When she signs up<br />

for flight school, a pair of<br />

black wings—gold aviator<br />

wings smeared in black –<br />

makes its first mysterious<br />

appearance (there will be<br />

others): Audrey discovers<br />

it when she rolls out of bed<br />

and steps on the open pin<br />

that sticks her in the heel.<br />

Kathleen Toomey Jabs<br />

is a skillful storyteller.<br />

Seemingly without effort,<br />

her narration takes us<br />

back and forth in time<br />

as we shadow Bridget<br />

Donovan in her relentless<br />

pursuit of truth—despite<br />

the attempts of higherups<br />

to stop her—that<br />

leads us to the meaning<br />

of those mysterious<br />

black wings and their<br />

implications in the death<br />

of Lt. Audrey Richards.


July 2012 27<br />

Eat Healthfully This Summer~Buy, Eat Locally Grown Food<br />

By Jean Duggan<br />

When we think of<br />

summertime<br />

gatherings,<br />

we also think<br />

of all the<br />

wonderful foods that help to make<br />

picnics, camping trips, vacations<br />

and family reunions so special<br />

and memorable. Some of those<br />

great dishes incorporate plentiful<br />

summer season fruit and vegetables.<br />

Do you purchase some of your<br />

food from local pick-your-ownfarms<br />

and farmer’s markets?<br />

There is ample evidence that eating<br />

lots of fruits and vegetables protects<br />

us against chronic diseases like heart<br />

disease, some cancers, diabetes and<br />

others. Local fruits and vegetables, as<br />

well as livestock and fish, are bursting<br />

with flavor because they arrive freshly<br />

harvested, usually from no more<br />

than 100 miles away—not 1,000<br />

miles, come in delicious varieties<br />

and have been allowed to mature<br />

and ripen naturally, to full flavor as<br />

well as absorb maximum nutrients!<br />

Why not use the power of your<br />

food dollars to support your local<br />

economy? The Virginia Food System<br />

Council says if each household in<br />

Virginia spent just $10 a week on<br />

locally grown agricultural products,<br />

it could bring $1.65 billion back<br />

into the local economy each<br />

year. Buying locally preserves the<br />

economic viability of farming and<br />

preserves agricultural land. It also<br />

helps current farmers succeed<br />

and inspires new farmers.<br />

The Middle Peninsula and<br />

Northern Neck region abounds with<br />

farmer’s markets. The following<br />

includes several farmer’s markets, but<br />

is not inclusive of all the growers who<br />

have roadside stands—Deltaville,<br />

Heathsville, Irvington, King & Queen<br />

Farmer’s Market in Walkerton,<br />

Kilmarnock, Market Nights in<br />

Gloucester, Mathews, Middlesex,<br />

Tappahannock, Urbanna and West<br />

Point. Check Facebook and your<br />

local newspaper for information<br />

about producers in your area.<br />

For a healthy summer, take<br />

the $10 a week challenge and<br />

purchase healthy foods from<br />

your community’s growers! The<br />

more you buy from local Virginia<br />

farmers, the more you support<br />

sustainable, healthy, affordable and<br />

fresh local food to all Virginians.<br />

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28 July 2012<br />

Who Wants Homemade Ice Cream?<br />

By<br />

I<br />

Elizabeth D. Huegel<br />

do, I do! Chocolate, Vanilla<br />

or Strawberry? How about<br />

Salty Caramel or Bacon<br />

Maple? Those are just five of<br />

the 22 flavors of homemade<br />

ice cream available last week at<br />

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Unlike corporate owned ice cream<br />

stores, Short Lane makes their own<br />

ice cream, sorbet and gelato on site<br />

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Of course, she<br />

tries to keep the<br />

most popular flavors<br />

in stock and they<br />

will always offer<br />

sugar-free and<br />

lactose-free choices<br />

for people with<br />

dietary restrictions.<br />

Also noteworthy, Kim does not put<br />

nuts in the mixer because she is<br />

very concerned about nut allergies.<br />

The nuts are mixed in by hand after<br />

the ice cream is made just to be<br />

safe, and they’ll gladly use a new<br />

dipper if a customer is concerned.<br />

This year they have launched a new<br />

program…a customer suggestion box.<br />

The “box” is actually a Paper Mache’<br />

replica of an ice cream cone, created<br />

by one of her enterprising young<br />

employees. Each month Kim and<br />

several employees sort<br />

through the suggestions<br />

and pick one they want<br />

to try. This past month<br />

the selected flavor was<br />

Salty Caramel—using<br />

a combination of sea<br />

salt and caramel.<br />

“Sort of a sweet/<br />

savory concoction”<br />

she explained. For<br />

submitting a suggestion,<br />

the winner is given<br />

a half gallon of their<br />

suggested ice cream flavor,<br />

and the flavor is featured<br />

under “specialty” ice creams<br />

on the board. In addition to<br />

the customer’s suggestions,<br />

the employees are always<br />

encouraged to come up<br />

with new ideas. One such<br />

example is the Bacon and<br />

Maple, which they tried,<br />

but Kim thinks the recipe<br />

still needs some “fine tuning”.<br />

Kim has about 20 part-time<br />

employees; Sandy Darnell, a good<br />

friend who has helped since the<br />

beginning, and the remainder who<br />

are teenagers and young adults.<br />

She affectionately refers to them<br />

as “the kids”, and relies heavily on<br />

them for every aspect of the store’s<br />

operation. When any of them<br />

demonstrate an interest in working<br />

in the kitchen she encourages them<br />

to help her make the ice cream,<br />

brownies and pound cake.<br />

Others have expressed interest<br />

and talent in organizing and<br />

merchandising, so she gives<br />

them permission to organize the<br />

store. Whatever their talents and<br />

inclinations, Kim encourages<br />

them to take a participatory role<br />

in running the store. They learn<br />

the art of joyful customer service<br />

and running a successful business.<br />

Some of her “kids” have been<br />

with her since the store opened in<br />

2004 and have returned year after<br />

year while going through high<br />

school, college and beyond.<br />

Now she is beginning<br />

to get second generation<br />

family members—<br />

younger brothers and<br />

sisters of the original<br />

crews. Needless to say, she<br />

has a waiting list for new<br />

hires. In fact, she recently<br />

hired a substitute to cover<br />

when a regular employee<br />

could not come in, but<br />

that sub has been only<br />

been called in twice since<br />

being hired.<br />

In addition<br />

to nurturing<br />

her young<br />

employees,<br />

which<br />

obviously<br />

comes naturally<br />

to her, Kim also<br />

insists on using<br />

only quality<br />

ingredients to ensure the highest<br />

quality product possible. Married to<br />

Jim Williams, owner and manager<br />

of Ware Neck Produce, offers just<br />

the right inside track she needs to<br />

get the best ingredients available.<br />

As a family they have always been<br />

cognizant of the importance of quality<br />

foods, and a lot of what they sell is<br />

organically grown on their farm in<br />

Ware Neck. Jim makes sure he keeps<br />

plenty of fresh fruits, eggs and milk<br />

available for Kim’s culinary needs.<br />

One would think Kim enjoys a nice<br />

long vacation through the winter<br />

months since she closes the store in<br />

November, and doesn’t open again<br />

until March—but if one made that<br />

assumption, one would be wrong!<br />

Although the ice cream store closes<br />

the first of November, she continues<br />

to make ice cream to be sold by the<br />

pint and half gallon at Ware Neck<br />

Produce all through November and<br />

December. During that time, they<br />

typically focus on Thanksgiving<br />

and Christmas type flavors, such as<br />

Pumpkin Custard and Peppermint.<br />

In January she’s back at the store<br />

thoroughly cleaning out the freezers,<br />

and in February she starts making<br />

more ice cream to be ready for their<br />

opening on the first of March. Nope…<br />

no long winter vacations for Kim!<br />

If you haven’t been there yet,<br />

make it a point to go to Short Lane<br />

Ice Cream on Route 17 this summer.<br />

You won’t be disappointed! Find<br />

Short Lane on Facebook and on the<br />

web www.shortlaneicecream.com.<br />

Liz Huegel and Short Lane photos.<br />

ehuegel@chesapeakestyle.com


July 2012 29<br />

Retirement Plan on Track?<br />

By Bill Graves<br />

Recent studies indicate<br />

that you will need on<br />

average about 80% of<br />

your current income<br />

to retire comfortably.<br />

They also make the point that better<br />

than 60% of baby boomers will not<br />

have that kind of money. A quick<br />

rule of thumb to determine what<br />

you need in savings and investments<br />

is to take what you need to live on<br />

for a year and divide it by .04. If that<br />

isn’t a scary wake up call I don’t<br />

know what is. You can get more<br />

exacting results with retirement<br />

calculators available on line<br />

through AARP and most brokerage<br />

websites. So what can we do?<br />

If you are approaching retirement<br />

but your portfolio took a hit during<br />

the 2008 melt down and hasn’t<br />

come back to where it needs to be,<br />

consider working a few more years<br />

and building it back up. Actually 75%<br />

of baby boomers surveyed intend to<br />

do just that. Delay drawing<br />

your social security until<br />

you can get the maximum.<br />

This decision in some<br />

cases will almost double<br />

your pay out or add $1,000<br />

a month to your benefit.<br />

Work closely with your<br />

financial advisor to get no<br />

load and low fee plans.<br />

Avoid mutual funds with<br />

management fees. Make<br />

sure your investments<br />

are diversified,<br />

including domestic and<br />

international stocks<br />

along with bonds and<br />

commodities. My financial<br />

advisor suggests saving<br />

25% - 35% of my gross<br />

income. Maintaining a<br />

budget and cutting out<br />

luxuries is half the battle.<br />

Make sure you have that<br />

six-month emergency<br />

fund. This is very<br />

important so you don’t<br />

have to tap into your investments.<br />

If your investment savings are<br />

small don’t despair. Just $100,000 can<br />

provide you with $300 a month for life<br />

and that could be enough to keep the<br />

water and lights going. A maximum<br />

social security benefit could be more<br />

than $2,000, and last but not least<br />

the reverse mortgage. This financial<br />

tool is often overlooked but in recent<br />

years becoming a critical part of the<br />

retirement strategy. If you are over 62<br />

and your house is paid for you can<br />

receive a monthly check for life. A<br />

70-year-old in a $200,000 home would<br />

receive $750 a month, in a $300,000<br />

home it would be $1,200 a month.<br />

The combination of these sources of<br />

income could be the key elements<br />

in allowing you to age in place.<br />

For a free copy of NCOA’s<br />

Savvy Saving Seniors or Using<br />

Your Home to Stay at Home or<br />

To learn more about reverse<br />

mortgages call me, Bill Graves<br />

Toll Free at 866-936-4141.<br />

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30 July 2012<br />

Served up with Love in <strong>Style</strong>!<br />

By Melissa Haydon<br />

When was the last time<br />

you actually watched the<br />

night’s sky? Not just a short<br />

gaze but eyes wide open,<br />

fully taking it all in. What<br />

a great way to free your<br />

mind of all the things that<br />

have flooded in throughout<br />

the day. The hustle and<br />

bustle of all that life brings<br />

into our busy lives could<br />

be simply forgotten in a<br />

small moment of time. The<br />

month of July brings the long dog<br />

days of summer. The hot days lend to<br />

cooler nights with the sound of the<br />

frogs and the locusts serenading in<br />

the darkness. The twinkling stars are<br />

captivating and the stresses of your<br />

day seem small in comparison to the<br />

vast sky. It is simply breathtaking.<br />

July also brings the month of<br />

celebration for our nation as we<br />

celebrate July 4th. Whether your<br />

celebrations include picnics, beaches,<br />

Even though the<br />

weather still gives us<br />

a chill, it's finally time<br />

to uncover the grill.<br />

Grilled Pork<br />

1 cup oily Italian dressing<br />

2 tablespoon<br />

Worchestershire sauce<br />

1 teaspoon liquid smoke<br />

Port<br />

chops or pork loin steaks<br />

Mix liquid ingredients in quart-size ziplock bag;<br />

baseball games, fireworks<br />

or spending time on<br />

the river, it usually<br />

involves spending time<br />

with family. I couldn’t<br />

think of a better way<br />

to spend the day than<br />

with the ones you love.<br />

This dessert will<br />

wow your guests with<br />

very little effort.<br />

Patriotic Trifle<br />

1 Pound cake (a frozen<br />

pound cake works well)<br />

1 Pint of Strawberries<br />

1 Pint of Blueberries<br />

1 Large package of instant<br />

vanilla pudding prepared<br />

1 Container of whipped topping<br />

Prepare your favorite pound<br />

cake and allow to cool. Make the<br />

pudding according to directions<br />

on the package. Wash and slice<br />

your strawberries and wash the<br />

blueberries. Slice your pound cake<br />

and take a star cookie cutter and<br />

Cooking with <strong>Style</strong> by Betty B.<br />

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cut out star shapes out of your cake<br />

and set aside. Assemble the trifle<br />

by placing some cubed pound cake<br />

at the bottom, top with a layer of<br />

vanilla pudding, top that layer with<br />

strawberries and blueberries and then<br />

whipped topping. The next layer place<br />

the star shaped pound cake on the<br />

outer edge of the trifle dish, fill in the<br />

middle of those with cubes of pound<br />

cake, layer with pudding, berries and<br />

whipped topping. Place the berries<br />

on top of the whipped topping.<br />

This side dish is a family favorite.<br />

Cucumber Salad<br />

6 Cups thinly sliced cucumbers<br />

shake to mix. Add port chops or<br />

loin steads and shake to cover with<br />

liquid. Squeeze air from bag as it is<br />

sealed. Let marinate unrefrigerated<br />

for 30 minutes. Grill over medium<br />

coals until done, turning once.<br />

Rum Balls<br />

2 cups of Vanilla Wafers, crushed<br />

1 cup of nuts, finely chopped<br />

1 cup 10X sugar<br />

2 tablespoons of white corn syrup<br />

one-fourth cup of rum<br />

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1 Cup chopped onion<br />

1 Large chopped green pepper<br />

2 Tablespoons salt<br />

1 Cup of apple cider vinegar<br />

2 Cups sugar<br />

1 Tablespoon celery seed<br />

Mix cucumbers, onion, green<br />

pepper, and salt. Cover with cold<br />

water and refrigerate overnight.<br />

Drain next morning; add the vinegar,<br />

sugar and celery seed. Cover and<br />

refrigerate until ready to serve. This<br />

mixture will make its own liquid.<br />

Served Up With Love was created<br />

in March of 2011. I share my love of<br />

cooking, writing, photography, and<br />

family on my blog. I share many<br />

easy recipes any cook can prepare.<br />

I don’t do a lot of fancy ingredients<br />

or get too complicated. Feeding<br />

your family should be easy. Please<br />

do stop by and visit for many more<br />

recipes to add to your collection, I<br />

would love to have you. Much love.<br />

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mhaydon@chesapeakestyle.com<br />

In medium mixing bowl,<br />

combine all wafers, nuts,<br />

rum and corn syrup. Mix<br />

together well, then form<br />

into small balls. Roll in 10 X<br />

sugar. Let stand in airtight<br />

container until flavors<br />

blend at least one week.<br />

Kitchen tested and<br />

photographed by Diana Wise.<br />

804 695-2999<br />

All Our Regular<br />

Flavors and More<br />

Open Tuesday<br />

Thru Sunday<br />

July’s Weekly Featured Flavors<br />

•July 3rd ~ Patriotic Peach<br />

•July 10th ~ Nutty Buddy<br />

•July 17th ~ Blueberry<br />

•July 24th Chocolate Malt<br />

•July 31st Blackberry Cobbler<br />

Hand Made in Gloucester, VA<br />

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July 2012 31<br />

Come to The Mooring and Enjoy!<br />

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or Pasta Dish. Includes Bottle or Pitcher.<br />

Wednesday - Cookout Night! $2 BBQ slider with a side<br />

and other favorites on the grill!<br />

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night of Great Comfort Food!<br />

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Boats for Sale~List is subject to change<br />

1971 20 foot Highlander Sailboat and<br />

1998 Venture Trailer. Asking $2700<br />

1982 22 foot Catalina sailboat with 8<br />

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1934 Hartge built Chesapeake 20’ Sail boat<br />

and trailer, glass over wood. Asking $4000.<br />

1990 21 foot Sunbird fiberglass<br />

O/B 200 HP Johnson, good<br />

condition. Asking $2700.<br />

1985 Bayliner 18 foot Capri 2.1 liter<br />

Volvo I/O with trailer. Asking $2000<br />

1971 Windjammer 17 foot<br />

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Venture trailer. Asking $1600<br />

Visit the Reedville Fishermen's Museum<br />

where history of Northern Neck<br />

Watermen comes alive<br />

Walk our dock, inspect our boats, visit our museum galleries<br />

Take home memories of your trip from our gift shop<br />

Visit the 1875 Walker House and learn how<br />

Reedville's early residents lived<br />

For a complete listing of our activities and events<br />

go to www.rfmuseum.org<br />

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804-453-6529<br />

Coleman RAMX 15 fiberglass<br />

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1985 Mistral Equipe Windsurfer.<br />

Asking $300 Not Shown<br />

WE ARE SEEKING DONATIONS<br />

Contact Committee Chairman Clif Ames<br />

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