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N. was still at high school. She had an Individual Education Plan. but was many credits<br />
behind as she had significant disabilities, in great contrast to her mature, attractive<br />
appearance.<br />
Expectations were expl<strong>or</strong>ed and adjusted. The daily manifestations of N’s disabilities<br />
were reviewed in the context of “stealing’, “lying” and inappropriate communications<br />
over the internet.<br />
The family understood that N would always require care and supervision. This was a<br />
concept that N. struggled with, a frequent scenario with FASD. It was on their twelfth<br />
visit.<br />
N’s mother said “as usual, she spends all her time playing video games” Immediately N<br />
said, “ I do that when I’m b<strong>or</strong>ed”.<br />
I realized, f<strong>or</strong> the first time, that actually I did <strong>no</strong>t understand why she played video<br />
games continuously when b<strong>or</strong>ed.<br />
So I asked her “what is being b<strong>or</strong>ed like?” Her answer was a revelation.<br />
‘When I’m b<strong>or</strong>ed I have lots of thoughts in my head. It is uncomf<strong>or</strong>table. I don’t like it.<br />
So I play video games and it all goes away”<br />
She was never able to tell me what the thoughts were. She did make it clear that she<br />
had <strong>no</strong> control over them and the process was <strong>no</strong>t nice. They were associated with<br />
uncontrolled changes in feeling good / bad.<br />
Since they have always been told that they are b<strong>or</strong>ed when in fact they are in a state of<br />
mental chaos, inevitably they will come to believe the two are the same.<br />
They describe different ways of controlling the mental chaos, but they all have one thing<br />
in common, it is a process of perseveration.<br />
Understandably, the cognitive, inf<strong>or</strong>mation and mem<strong>or</strong>y deficits of the individual also<br />
determine what they do f<strong>or</strong> relief.<br />
Many parents are familiar with the intense texting and video game playing of their<br />
children, and how aggressive <strong>or</strong> violent they may be when this activity is taken from<br />
them.<br />
We need to ask ourselves how we would react if we suffered from violent migraines and<br />
had our pain medications taken from us with <strong>no</strong> other means of relief, we might then<br />
have some understanding of the role perseveration plays in the relief of such chaotic<br />
states.<br />
M. 27 years: diag<strong>no</strong>sed FASD at 23 years.<br />
“It is like a beehive full of bees buzzing around in my head..... when I get drunk it all<br />
goes away”<br />
Savanna Pietrantonio<br />
“Being b<strong>or</strong>ed- it is a state of restless irritable discontent that also manifests physically.