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FAMILY & LIFE www.parrafamlife.org.au @parrafamlife parrafamlife<br />

Mercy: Not just a matter for<br />

judges but for families as well<br />

By Ben Smith, Director of the Family & Life Office<br />

To help families enter more deeply into the Year of Mercy<br />

it is important that we unpack the meaning of the word<br />

mercy. In our popular culture, the word mercy is often<br />

used in association with pleas for clemency for people facing<br />

the death penalty.<br />

This use of the term mercy is connected with the idea that<br />

someone who has power shows compassion by reducing the<br />

level of a person’s punishment.<br />

In this context, mercy can be seen by some as a form of<br />

judicial weakness stemming from a ‘bleeding heart’.<br />

However, this understanding of mercy only captures a<br />

small part of its full biblical meaning.<br />

The Old Testament used two particular words to express<br />

the mercy of God: hesed and rahamim.<br />

Hesed refers to God’s faithful love of Israel and is connected<br />

with a form of generous love that does not depend on whether<br />

it is deserved.<br />

It is also related to a self-sacrificial love that remains<br />

strong despite the challenges that might test the relationship.<br />

This aspect of mercy is associated with the image of God as a<br />

bridegroom who loves Israel His bride.<br />

Rahamim is a word that means womb-compassion. It is<br />

connected with the heartbreaking love that a mother has for<br />

her children. This sense of mercy portrays a feminine aspect<br />

to the mercy of God. It is also an aspect of mercy that is<br />

connected with strong feeling that springs from deep within a<br />

person.<br />

These two aspects enable us to gain a deeper appreciation<br />

of the word mercy if we apply this richer meaning to works of<br />

mercy. One dimension (the hesed dimension) of these actions<br />

is that as all human beings are created in the image and likeness<br />

of God, they have a dignity that needs to be respected.<br />

Consequently, as we are all human beings we have a<br />

responsibility to care for each other, especially the vulnerable.<br />

This care for the vulnerable should not stop at just an annual<br />

donation to Project Compassion or the Diocesan Works Fund.<br />

The rahamim dimension of a work of mercy is that it<br />

should also be heartfelt. The more personal a work of mercy is,<br />

the more this dimension can operate.<br />

For most people, it is in the family that we become acutely<br />

aware of the suffering of others. Our familial bonds make a call<br />

on us to provide help, but sometimes it can be harder to show<br />

mercy in our families compared to a stranger. The old saying<br />

“charity begins at home” also applies to mercy.<br />

Pope Francis recently identified the family as “the first and<br />

most important school of mercy, in which we learn to see God’s<br />

loving face and to mature and develop as human beings.”<br />

He sees that the family provides an antidote to<br />

individualism that creates a “kind of indifference towards our<br />

neighbours which leads to viewing them in purely economic<br />

terms.”<br />

Family life is extremely busy but we should regularly make<br />

some time as a family to visit the less fortunate in our extended<br />

family or our local community.<br />

This exposure will help form our children so that they will<br />

be less likely to spend too much time on Facebook and give<br />

mercy a face in the family and the community.<br />

For some ideas on how your family can perform works<br />

of mercy check out: www.parrafamlife.org.au/lent<strong>2016</strong>/<br />

worksofmercy<br />

Polyptych with the Seven Works of Charity, Master of Alkmaar.<br />

Source: Rijksmuseum (www.rijksmuseum.nl)<br />

Our Our Lady of of the Rosary Parish, Kellyville<br />

Sunday 3 rd April<br />

1:00pm Eucharistic Procession<br />

Rosary Rosary in 5 in 5 languages in in church for those who cannot join the procession<br />

Blessed Sacrament street procession<br />

with the Relic of St. Faustina<br />

Exposition of the<br />

Blessed Sacrament<br />

Divine Mercy Novena<br />

Divine Mercy Chaplet<br />

Benediction<br />

Confessions<br />

Holy Mass 3:00pm<br />

Jesus I I Trust in You<br />

+ Veneration + Veneration of of St. St. Faustina’s Faustina’s Relic Relic<br />

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Bring your family and friends, refreshments afterwards<br />

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Enquiries: Steve Boland 0405 206 695<br />

Enquiries: Steve Boland 0405 206 695<br />

10 <strong>Catholic</strong><strong>Outlook</strong> | MARCH <strong>2016</strong><br />

www.catholicoutlook.org

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