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A DELIGHTFUL<br />
SPOT OF DELIGHT<br />
S<br />
pot of Delight (426 Richmond St.) is a<br />
sex shop that opened in downtown London<br />
last September. From its minimalist<br />
showroom and absence of pornography to a<br />
policy of providing products in line with customers’<br />
privacy and inclusiveness needs, this<br />
is clearly a different kind of business than the<br />
stereotypical sex shop most people envision.<br />
Recently, SCENE spoke with Spot of Delight<br />
owner Ana Brown about her shop and what<br />
makes it different from other businesses that<br />
may draw similar clientele.<br />
Why did you open Spot of Delight and<br />
what was the goal in doing so?<br />
“We opened the store because we felt London<br />
needed an independent, communityminded<br />
sex shop. We’re trying to do a few<br />
things here and offering body safe products<br />
is one of them; products made of non-toxic<br />
materials that are non-porous, so they can<br />
be sterilized. We do all that homework for<br />
people so they don’t have to read the labeling<br />
and wonder if it’s safe for use.”<br />
“We wanted to create an inclusive environment<br />
– for people of all ages, sexes, sexual<br />
orientations, gender identities, etc. – to feel<br />
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at home and welcome. The other thing is we<br />
wanted was to be involved in the community<br />
and we do that in a few ways. One way is by<br />
putting on a lot of events ourselves, but also<br />
by giving our space for free to organizations<br />
who want to put on exhibitions or workshops.”<br />
How is Spot of Delight different from other<br />
sex shops?<br />
“We’re a showroom. If you go to other sex<br />
shops, everything is boxed. And, of course,<br />
you can’t return a sex toy if you don’t like it. If<br />
you’re buying something for over $100, you’re<br />
buying something without knowing how well<br />
it operates. It can be difficult for people. The<br />
same with lingerie in sex shops; it’s boxed so<br />
you can’t try it on. We have change rooms and<br />
you can try on what we sell. For every product<br />
we have, we have a demo so it can be tested.”<br />
“The other thing is that the look of the shop<br />
is very different; it looks like the Apple Store.<br />
There’s no nudity and pornography, either.”<br />
Will you tell me about the workshops?<br />
“We have a series of rope workshops every<br />
month. But then we have one-offs. So, for ex-<br />
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ample, Easter Weekend, we have a series of<br />
four different workshops.”<br />
“We do workshops in basic sexuality as<br />
well as more specialized subjects - kink stuff,<br />
like wax play, for example. We also do educational<br />
events. We had a book signing here,<br />
and we had the regional AIDS connection<br />
come and give a talk on safe sex. We also do<br />
educational workshops ourselves; I’m doing<br />
a practical sex workshop later this month.”<br />
For more information about Spot of Delight’s<br />
products and upcoming events, visit<br />
the shop’s website.<br />
- Chris Morgan<br />
Courtney’s<br />
Comfort In Crafts<br />
campaign needs<br />
your help<br />
A bereaved London mother is spearheading a<br />
drive to collect craft supplies for the Children’s<br />
Hospital, London Health Sciences Centre, in<br />
memory of her daughter. Fourteen-year-old<br />
Courtney Bulmer was diagnosed with cancer<br />
in April 2006 and passed away within a year. In<br />
the short time that she had, the teen found solace<br />
in the hospital’s art therapy room and making<br />
artwork. The family realized a need for art<br />
supplies to help the young patients cope with<br />
their experience. “I thought this would be the<br />
perfect way for children at the hospital to have<br />
fun, pass the time, distract them from their<br />
fears, help them express their feelings, make a<br />
gift for Mommy or Daddy, or just let them be<br />
kids and colour. I know Courtney would approve<br />
and be proud of us for doing this,” said Kathy<br />
Bulmer, Courtney’s mom. Colouring books,<br />
crayons, pencil crayons, markers, sketchbooks,<br />
stickers, small containers of Playdoh, journals,<br />
books, and other craft supplies are most needed.<br />
Contributions can be made to 102.3 Jack FM<br />
radio station at 1 Communications Road, or by<br />
contacting Bulmer at court24@hotmail.ca or<br />
Cecile Klerks of the Children’s Health Foundation<br />
at 519-685-8500 x 57023. Donations are<br />
being gratefully accepted until April 20.<br />
April Fools: A<br />
day of vigilance<br />
There are two types of people - those who<br />
love April Fools’ Day and those who dread it.<br />
Enjoyed (or loathed) around the world each<br />
year on the first day of April, the day is reserved<br />
for practical jokers who take no quarter for the<br />
vulnerable among us. According to Encyclopaedia<br />
Britannica, the day’s origins are not known<br />
and essentially unknowable. There are many<br />
theories, however, the most plausible being<br />
that the original ‘fools’ were the Europeans that<br />
resisted the transition from the Julian to the<br />
SOCIAL DIGEST<br />
JOKEʼS ON US APRIL 1<br />
Gregorian calendar in the 1500s and continued<br />
to celebrate the New Year between March 25<br />
and April 1, as per the Julian calendar, instead<br />
of the newly established January 1. Those who<br />
observed the New Year in the spring were thus<br />
subjected to much mockery. Wherever the origins<br />
lie, it doesn’t change the tradition of pranks<br />
meted out on April 1 - from the minor inconsequential<br />
high-jinks to the larger, well-planned<br />
and executed hoaxes by media companies and<br />
corporations (The Taco Liberty Bell, anyone?).<br />
Vimy Ridge<br />
remembered<br />
In 2003, the Canadian government declared<br />
April 9 to be Vimy Ridge Day, an occasion to remember<br />
the Battle of Vimy Ridge. This decisive<br />
military engagement took place in the Nord-<br />
Pas-de-Calais region of France during World War<br />
I. The main belligerents in the conflict were the<br />
Canadian Corps and the German Sixth Army,<br />
and the battle occurred April 9-12, 1917. Vimy is<br />
regarded by many historians as the place where<br />
Canada established its national identity, accomplishing<br />
what British and French armies failed to<br />
do in prior engagements, while sacrificing over<br />
3,500 soldiers in the process. In observance of<br />
Vimy Ridge Day, the Canadian flag on Parliament<br />
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Hill’s Peace Tower will be lowered to half-mast<br />
and small ceremonies, including the laying of<br />
wreaths, will take place at Ottawa’s National War<br />
Memorial and at the Canadian National Vimy Memorial<br />
in France.<br />
Seeing green:<br />
Saint Patrick’s<br />
Day 2016<br />
Order yourself a mug of green beer and grab a<br />
shamrock for good luck: St. Patrick’s Day returns<br />
this March 17. Also known as the Feast of Saint<br />
Patrick, this highly anticipated holiday celebrates<br />
all things Irish, and colours national capitals, cities<br />
and towns around the world a shade of emerald<br />
green for 24 hours. Made an official holiday in the<br />
early 17th century, the day commemorates the<br />
arrival of Saint Patrick and Christianity in Ireland,<br />
and is well known as an international day of revelry.<br />
Celebrations commonly involve public parades<br />
and festivals, céilithe (a social gathering involving<br />
Gaelic music and dancing), and the wearing of<br />
green attire or shamrocks. Christians also attend<br />
church services, and Lenten restrictions on eating<br />
and drinking alcohol are lifted for the day.<br />
This easing has encouraged and propagated the<br />
alcohol consumption traditionally associated with<br />
the holiday.<br />
Easter cometh<br />
with the spring<br />
Easter – the religious and secular holiday –<br />
takes place the weekend of March 25-28, with<br />
the day itself falling on Sunday, March 27. Originally<br />
created to recognize Christians’ beliefs about<br />
Jesus’ death and resurrection, the holiday is also<br />
rooted in the celebration of the Jewish Passover,<br />
as well as the observance of the spring equinox in<br />
many ancient and modern worldviews. Some of<br />
the practises associated with the day include egg<br />
hunting, the Easter Bunny and Easter parades, not<br />
to mention chocolate. Lots and lots of chocolate.<br />
Happy Easter from the writers and editorial staff<br />
at SCENE!<br />
- Amie Ronald-Morgan and Chris Morgan<br />
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