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A DELIGHTFUL<br />

SPOT OF DELIGHT<br />

S<br />

pot of Delight (426 Richmond St.) is a<br />

sex shop that opened in downtown London<br />

last September. From its minimalist<br />

showroom and absence of pornography to a<br />

policy of providing products in line with customers’<br />

privacy and inclusiveness needs, this<br />

is clearly a different kind of business than the<br />

stereotypical sex shop most people envision.<br />

Recently, SCENE spoke with Spot of Delight<br />

owner Ana Brown about her shop and what<br />

makes it different from other businesses that<br />

may draw similar clientele.<br />

Why did you open Spot of Delight and<br />

what was the goal in doing so?<br />

“We opened the store because we felt London<br />

needed an independent, communityminded<br />

sex shop. We’re trying to do a few<br />

things here and offering body safe products<br />

is one of them; products made of non-toxic<br />

materials that are non-porous, so they can<br />

be sterilized. We do all that homework for<br />

people so they don’t have to read the labeling<br />

and wonder if it’s safe for use.”<br />

“We wanted to create an inclusive environment<br />

– for people of all ages, sexes, sexual<br />

orientations, gender identities, etc. – to feel<br />

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at home and welcome. The other thing is we<br />

wanted was to be involved in the community<br />

and we do that in a few ways. One way is by<br />

putting on a lot of events ourselves, but also<br />

by giving our space for free to organizations<br />

who want to put on exhibitions or workshops.”<br />

How is Spot of Delight different from other<br />

sex shops?<br />

“We’re a showroom. If you go to other sex<br />

shops, everything is boxed. And, of course,<br />

you can’t return a sex toy if you don’t like it. If<br />

you’re buying something for over $100, you’re<br />

buying something without knowing how well<br />

it operates. It can be difficult for people. The<br />

same with lingerie in sex shops; it’s boxed so<br />

you can’t try it on. We have change rooms and<br />

you can try on what we sell. For every product<br />

we have, we have a demo so it can be tested.”<br />

“The other thing is that the look of the shop<br />

is very different; it looks like the Apple Store.<br />

There’s no nudity and pornography, either.”<br />

Will you tell me about the workshops?<br />

“We have a series of rope workshops every<br />

month. But then we have one-offs. So, for ex-<br />

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ample, Easter Weekend, we have a series of<br />

four different workshops.”<br />

“We do workshops in basic sexuality as<br />

well as more specialized subjects - kink stuff,<br />

like wax play, for example. We also do educational<br />

events. We had a book signing here,<br />

and we had the regional AIDS connection<br />

come and give a talk on safe sex. We also do<br />

educational workshops ourselves; I’m doing<br />

a practical sex workshop later this month.”<br />

For more information about Spot of Delight’s<br />

products and upcoming events, visit<br />

the shop’s website.<br />

- Chris Morgan<br />

Courtney’s<br />

Comfort In Crafts<br />

campaign needs<br />

your help<br />

A bereaved London mother is spearheading a<br />

drive to collect craft supplies for the Children’s<br />

Hospital, London Health Sciences Centre, in<br />

memory of her daughter. Fourteen-year-old<br />

Courtney Bulmer was diagnosed with cancer<br />

in April 2006 and passed away within a year. In<br />

the short time that she had, the teen found solace<br />

in the hospital’s art therapy room and making<br />

artwork. The family realized a need for art<br />

supplies to help the young patients cope with<br />

their experience. “I thought this would be the<br />

perfect way for children at the hospital to have<br />

fun, pass the time, distract them from their<br />

fears, help them express their feelings, make a<br />

gift for Mommy or Daddy, or just let them be<br />

kids and colour. I know Courtney would approve<br />

and be proud of us for doing this,” said Kathy<br />

Bulmer, Courtney’s mom. Colouring books,<br />

crayons, pencil crayons, markers, sketchbooks,<br />

stickers, small containers of Playdoh, journals,<br />

books, and other craft supplies are most needed.<br />

Contributions can be made to 102.3 Jack FM<br />

radio station at 1 Communications Road, or by<br />

contacting Bulmer at court24@hotmail.ca or<br />

Cecile Klerks of the Children’s Health Foundation<br />

at 519-685-8500 x 57023. Donations are<br />

being gratefully accepted until April 20.<br />

April Fools: A<br />

day of vigilance<br />

There are two types of people - those who<br />

love April Fools’ Day and those who dread it.<br />

Enjoyed (or loathed) around the world each<br />

year on the first day of April, the day is reserved<br />

for practical jokers who take no quarter for the<br />

vulnerable among us. According to Encyclopaedia<br />

Britannica, the day’s origins are not known<br />

and essentially unknowable. There are many<br />

theories, however, the most plausible being<br />

that the original ‘fools’ were the Europeans that<br />

resisted the transition from the Julian to the<br />

SOCIAL DIGEST<br />

JOKEʼS ON US APRIL 1<br />

Gregorian calendar in the 1500s and continued<br />

to celebrate the New Year between March 25<br />

and April 1, as per the Julian calendar, instead<br />

of the newly established January 1. Those who<br />

observed the New Year in the spring were thus<br />

subjected to much mockery. Wherever the origins<br />

lie, it doesn’t change the tradition of pranks<br />

meted out on April 1 - from the minor inconsequential<br />

high-jinks to the larger, well-planned<br />

and executed hoaxes by media companies and<br />

corporations (The Taco Liberty Bell, anyone?).<br />

Vimy Ridge<br />

remembered<br />

In 2003, the Canadian government declared<br />

April 9 to be Vimy Ridge Day, an occasion to remember<br />

the Battle of Vimy Ridge. This decisive<br />

military engagement took place in the Nord-<br />

Pas-de-Calais region of France during World War<br />

I. The main belligerents in the conflict were the<br />

Canadian Corps and the German Sixth Army,<br />

and the battle occurred April 9-12, 1917. Vimy is<br />

regarded by many historians as the place where<br />

Canada established its national identity, accomplishing<br />

what British and French armies failed to<br />

do in prior engagements, while sacrificing over<br />

3,500 soldiers in the process. In observance of<br />

Vimy Ridge Day, the Canadian flag on Parliament<br />

sociallife<br />

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Hill’s Peace Tower will be lowered to half-mast<br />

and small ceremonies, including the laying of<br />

wreaths, will take place at Ottawa’s National War<br />

Memorial and at the Canadian National Vimy Memorial<br />

in France.<br />

Seeing green:<br />

Saint Patrick’s<br />

Day 2016<br />

Order yourself a mug of green beer and grab a<br />

shamrock for good luck: St. Patrick’s Day returns<br />

this March 17. Also known as the Feast of Saint<br />

Patrick, this highly anticipated holiday celebrates<br />

all things Irish, and colours national capitals, cities<br />

and towns around the world a shade of emerald<br />

green for 24 hours. Made an official holiday in the<br />

early 17th century, the day commemorates the<br />

arrival of Saint Patrick and Christianity in Ireland,<br />

and is well known as an international day of revelry.<br />

Celebrations commonly involve public parades<br />

and festivals, céilithe (a social gathering involving<br />

Gaelic music and dancing), and the wearing of<br />

green attire or shamrocks. Christians also attend<br />

church services, and Lenten restrictions on eating<br />

and drinking alcohol are lifted for the day.<br />

This easing has encouraged and propagated the<br />

alcohol consumption traditionally associated with<br />

the holiday.<br />

Easter cometh<br />

with the spring<br />

Easter – the religious and secular holiday –<br />

takes place the weekend of March 25-28, with<br />

the day itself falling on Sunday, March 27. Originally<br />

created to recognize Christians’ beliefs about<br />

Jesus’ death and resurrection, the holiday is also<br />

rooted in the celebration of the Jewish Passover,<br />

as well as the observance of the spring equinox in<br />

many ancient and modern worldviews. Some of<br />

the practises associated with the day include egg<br />

hunting, the Easter Bunny and Easter parades, not<br />

to mention chocolate. Lots and lots of chocolate.<br />

Happy Easter from the writers and editorial staff<br />

at SCENE!<br />

- Amie Ronald-Morgan and Chris Morgan<br />

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