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Jeremy Bontjes<br />
TAKES THE FIELD<br />
BY: CONNIE WIRTA | PHOTOS: SCOTT THUEN / THUEN STUDIOS<br />
W<br />
hen he takes the field this season, Jeremy<br />
Bontjes heads to second base. He bypasses<br />
the pitching mound where he had so much<br />
success in high school.<br />
Bontjes is playing his first season with the<br />
Minnesota State University Moorhead Dragons. He’s working his<br />
way back to the sport he loves after a second shoulder surgery.<br />
Bontjes, 20, has torn the labrum in his right shoulder twice. His<br />
first surgery came the summer before his senior year at Wahpeton High<br />
School. <strong>The</strong> second came in January 2013 as he prepared for Jamestown<br />
College’s spring season. <strong>The</strong> freshman had persistent pain in his shoulder and<br />
found his pitches lacked velocity and distance.<br />
“As soon as I started throwing, I’d get a sharp catching<br />
feeling and pain in my shoulder,” recalls Bontjes, who<br />
was referred to Dr. Prasad Sawardeker, an Essentia Health<br />
orthopedic surgeon in Fargo who specializes in treating<br />
shoulders, elbows and hands.<br />
“Even if a pitcher has ideal mechanics, the labrum<br />
can get injured,” explains Dr. Sawardeker, who served<br />
as a team doctor for the Florida Marlins and Pittsburgh<br />
Pirates during his medical training. “<strong>The</strong> over-repetitive<br />
nature of throwing can cause labral tears in pitchers and<br />
other baseball or softball players. <strong>The</strong> same is true for<br />
other athletes with repetitive overhead motions such as<br />
swimmers, gymnasts and volleyball players.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> labrum, a ring of soft tissues surrounding the<br />
socket, works as a stabilizer and shock absorber in the<br />
shoulder. In a SLAP tear, the top of the labrum tears from<br />
the front to the back of the shoulder.<br />
An MRI showed Bontjes had second SLAP<br />
tear and had dislodged anchors from<br />
his first surgery. <strong>The</strong> labrum was<br />
peeling off the socket. Using<br />
an arthoscopic procedure,<br />
Dr. Sawardeker removed<br />
the old anchors and used<br />
more robust anchors to<br />
fix the labrum back in<br />
the socket.<br />
As he worked<br />
to rehabilitate his<br />
shoulder, Bontjes began<br />
thinking about playing<br />
another position. Research<br />
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shows only 33 to 66 percent of athletes who have SLAP<br />
repairs return to their sport.<br />
“With pitchers like Jeremy, it can be a challenge<br />
to regain their previous form after a SLAP repair,” Dr.<br />
Sawardeker says. “I often encourage pitchers to consider a<br />
different position. Injuries don’t always mean you have to<br />
give up sports, but you may need to readjust and realign<br />
yourself to a new position.”<br />
Bontjes was at top form when he pitched a near-perfect<br />
season in his junior year at Wahpeton High School. He<br />
allowed only one run and had an earned run average of<br />
0.16. That summer, he played American Legion baseball<br />
and pitched 35 innings in back-to-back tournaments.<br />
Intense shoulder pain led to his first diagnosis and<br />
surgery. After completing rehabilitation, his high school<br />
and Legion coaches spent hours helping him pitch again.<br />
“It was like trying to learn to throw again,” Bontjes recalls.<br />
Bontjes began his senior season as a designated hitter,<br />
then relief pitcher and finally as starting pitcher. Wahpeton<br />
earned fourth in the state tourney. His Legion team won<br />
the Central Plains Regional Tournament and Bontjes was<br />
named Most Valuable Player. He headed to Jamestown<br />
College with plans to pitch — until the second tear.<br />
“I knew the second surgery was the smart thing to do<br />
and I needed to get it fixed,” Bontjes says. He appreciated<br />
that Dr. Sawardeker took time to answer his questions<br />
and asked about his goals in baseball and life.<br />
“It’s hard to give up pitching when you’ve done it for<br />
15 years,’’ Bontjes says. “I’ve played shortstop but I decided<br />
to play second base now because it’s shorter throws and<br />
that’s in the best interest of my arm. I want to coach and<br />
play baseball with my kids someday.”
Gearing Up for Baseball or Softball?<br />
Prevent injuries with these tips from Dr. Prasad Sawardeker,<br />
an Essentia Health orthopedic surgeon who served as a team<br />
doctor for the Florida Marlins and Pittsburgh Pirates.<br />
Prepare your<br />
body for the<br />
demands of game.<br />
It takes more than<br />
just showing up on<br />
game day. Year-round<br />
exercise helps you<br />
stay fit.<br />
Maintain<br />
flexibility in your<br />
joints. Warm up before<br />
a game. Start with a steady<br />
jog around the bases. Stretch<br />
for 10 minutes. To avoid<br />
shoulder injuries, stretches<br />
should include a full internal<br />
rotation of the joint and its<br />
soft tissues. Take practice<br />
swings before<br />
contact.<br />
DR. PRASAD<br />
SAWARDEKER<br />
Maintain and<br />
strengthen your<br />
body’s core muscles.<br />
A strong core creates<br />
proper body<br />
mechanics.<br />
Incorporate<br />
resistance training<br />
and cardiovascular<br />
fitness into workouts so<br />
your muscles can perform<br />
at peak capacity. Use<br />
lighter weights with<br />
more repetitions.<br />
Improve your<br />
throwing mechanics.<br />
Less than perfect<br />
mechanics can lead to<br />
injuries. Strengthen<br />
muscles around your<br />
shoulders and<br />
rotator cuffs.<br />
Don’t ignore<br />
pain. It’s your<br />
body’s way of telling<br />
you something isn’t<br />
right. If the pain<br />
persists, see a<br />
doctor.<br />
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MAY-JUNE <strong>2014</strong><br />
IN THIS ISSUE<br />
VOLUME 1 • ISSUE 6<br />
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What’s your definition of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Good</strong> <strong>Life</strong>?<br />
“Our definition of the good life is to do what we love every day and<br />
have fun doing it.” — <strong>The</strong> boys of Fargo Brewing Company<br />
“<strong>The</strong> good life is when you enjoy the people you’re with and what<br />
you do to make a living. Beer helps enhance these conditions.”<br />
— Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />
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ON THE COVER<br />
ARTICLES<br />
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24 THE GREAT F-M BEER BATTLE<br />
Junkyard Brewing Company vs.<br />
Fargo Brewing Company<br />
A special thanks to the Academy of<br />
Combat Arts for the use of their gym.<br />
IN EVERY ISSUE<br />
12 LOCAL HEROES<br />
North Dakota Patriot Guard<br />
34 FATHERS Only From Dad:<br />
5 Things to Teach Your Child<br />
02 JEREMY BONTJES<br />
TAKES THE FIELD<br />
Gearing Up for Baseball or<br />
Softball?<br />
06 MOVING ON<br />
How Do You Mend A Broken<br />
Heart?<br />
08 HERE TO HELP<br />
Fourth Generation Funeral<br />
Director Tries to Make Sad Times<br />
More Bearable
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CREATIVE DIRECTOR<br />
Dawn Siewert<br />
dawn@urbantoadmedia.com<br />
PHOTOGRAPHY<br />
Darren Losee<br />
darren@urbantoadmedia.com<br />
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CONTRIBUTING WRITERS<br />
Soo Asheim<br />
Jessica Ballou<br />
Meghan Feir<br />
Paul Hankel<br />
Jenessa McAllister<br />
Alicia Underlee Nelson<br />
Connie Wirta<br />
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18 HORSE RACING SEASON IS UPON US<br />
Dust Off Those Derby Hats and Sharpen Your Wagering Skills<br />
Because Horse Racing Season is Here<br />
19 TEAR-OUT GUIDE<br />
Basic Guide to Horse Wagering<br />
21 HALEY’S MILK RUN:<br />
A Local 12-Year-Old’s Passion<br />
32 GRILLING SEASON IS HERE<br />
Tips and Tricks to Help You<br />
Dominate Grilling Season<br />
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Moving On<br />
How Do You Mend A Broken Heart?<br />
BY: MEGHAN FEIR<br />
(“How Can You Mend A Broken Heart” by the Bee Gees)<br />
How can you mend a broken heart?<br />
How can you stop the rain from falling down?<br />
How can you stop the sun from shining?<br />
What makes the world go round?<br />
How can you mend this broken man?<br />
How can a loser ever win?<br />
If asking the same questions as the Bee Gees,<br />
specifically “How can a loser ever win?” you’ve<br />
landed on the right page.<br />
As a child, a younger one than I am now, I recall<br />
reading a story titled “Mr. Bell’s Fixit Shop.” On the<br />
shop’s window, there hung a sign that read, “I fix<br />
everything but broken hearts.”<br />
This Golden Book not only illustrates that<br />
handymen can’t repair emotional problems with<br />
duct tape, but that glue will not bind the shards<br />
of your broken-into-a-million-pieces heart. Both<br />
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lessons are great for kids to realize, at some point<br />
in their upbringing.<br />
On a related note, other people cannot heal<br />
the smashed remains of the previously established<br />
hopes, plans and dreams we may have created with<br />
another person. One day, you could be planning<br />
what your imaginary children will be named<br />
(Little Mookie, Big Al, Lorraine). A week later, you<br />
are returning the extra slippers she kept at your<br />
apartment because the relationship is over, and<br />
she wants her slippers back.
Two common, post-breakup stages you’ll<br />
probably go through<br />
Once a breakup occurs, we begin our journey in<br />
a high-rise of emotions as we go down each flight<br />
of stairs and enter the floors of pain. After awhile,<br />
the hurt will lessen with each floor, but the first two<br />
levels you’ll wind up on are the following.<br />
1) Grief, the phase Kleenex capitalizes on (because<br />
of your tears and the over-production of mucus).<br />
2) Various forms of anger. One type can result in an<br />
influx of Facebook pictures intended to showcase<br />
the “fun” time you’re having without them. <strong>The</strong> latter<br />
is a popular, passive-aggressive coping mechanism<br />
that, 99.98 percent of the time, is totally pointless.<br />
Ultimately, what good will result from the act? Your<br />
anger and Instagram photos won’t win them back,<br />
nor will it jab a stake through their heart.<br />
Advice, from me to you<br />
• After you’ve gone through the first two stages,<br />
the third should be forgiveness, but most people<br />
skip over that step. However, it is vital to forgive in<br />
order to overcome past relationships and their grip<br />
on you.<br />
• In their absence, you may be tempted to rebound.<br />
Don’t.<br />
• Don’t date her sister (that’s just gross) or any of<br />
her close friends for at least eight months. That’s a<br />
major faux pas.<br />
• Allow yourself a span of time to contemplate<br />
why you were broken up with, but after you’ve<br />
accumulated some answers, if any, move on.<br />
Sometimes, there are genuine lessons needing to<br />
be learned, and your ex may have had reasons to<br />
end the relationship. But if there aren’t examples<br />
sticking out like sore, opposable thumbs, know that<br />
it is better to be single than to be with someone<br />
who doesn’t want to be with you.<br />
• In your newly acquired singlehood, relish the<br />
extra time you have. That hobby you dropped<br />
eight years ago <strong>–</strong> pick it up again. <strong>The</strong> friends you<br />
may have abandoned <strong>–</strong> call them up. <strong>The</strong>re are a<br />
multitude of things you can learn and experience<br />
before beginning your next relationship, like taking<br />
that extra science class to figure out “What makes<br />
the world go round?”<br />
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BY: JESSICA BALLOU | PHOTOS: URBAN TOAD MEDIA<br />
“It’s not something everyone wants to talk about, but it’s nice<br />
to educate the community a little bit on a couple aspects [of<br />
funeral service]. I think everybody knows we’re all going to<br />
die, but nobody really wants to think about it.”<br />
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Here to Help<br />
Fourth Generation Funeral Director<br />
Tries to Make Sad Times More Bearable<br />
Jim Boulger likes to shoot hoops and<br />
play golf, and he’s been picking up<br />
tennis again lately. And oh yeah, he<br />
grew up in a funeral home, or more<br />
specifically, his father’s business,<br />
Boulger Funeral Home in Fargo.<br />
His unique profession has garnered<br />
interesting responses, to say the least, from<br />
some people when they find out.<br />
“I’m just as normal as anyone else,” he<br />
said. “It’s my job, but I still have a life outside<br />
of work. I think people want to define you by<br />
your career, and that’s great in some respects,<br />
but at the end of the day, you’re just a normal<br />
person.”<br />
Starting in high school, Boulger was<br />
the self-proclaimed family grunt at the<br />
funeral home, mowing lawns, washing cars,<br />
vacuuming and other small tasks. After<br />
graduation, he had no inclination to be part<br />
of the family business, and his father didn’t<br />
force him; rather, he encouraged him to go<br />
out and get a degree in something else, saying<br />
it wouldn’t hurt anything to have a backup<br />
plan. He went to the University of St. Thomas<br />
in St. Paul, Minn., for a degree in business<br />
management and graduated in 2007, and<br />
then he pursued his mortuary science degree<br />
at the University of Minnesota and graduated<br />
in 2008.<br />
Boulger, a 29-year-old fourth generation<br />
family member at the funeral home, is now<br />
an owner and licensed funeral director. <strong>The</strong><br />
family business also owns funeral homes in<br />
Kindred, N.D., and Hillsboro, N.D., so on<br />
any given day, one of the five funeral directors<br />
could be at any of those locations depending<br />
on what’s going on.<br />
He said no day is typical, which is what he<br />
likes about his job. He could be meeting with<br />
families and planning services one minute or<br />
picking out carpet for remodeling the Kindred<br />
funeral home the next.<br />
Even though every day is a little different,<br />
there are some similarities. After he comes<br />
in each morning, he checks the board to see<br />
what happened the previous night then meets<br />
with people for arranging various services or<br />
even making prearrangements for others. He<br />
has to be ready to manage the day, no matter<br />
what comes up.<br />
As the self-proclaimed techie guru at the<br />
funeral home, he tries to make the arrangement<br />
process easier for the other funeral directors<br />
as well as families. <strong>The</strong> business is currently<br />
redesigning its website from the ground up,<br />
and the new site will be ready in April.<br />
Boulger said one of the biggest<br />
misconceptions he encounters when it comes<br />
to his work as a funeral director is that most<br />
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Michele Walloch and Jim Boulger<br />
of his time is spent in the back room preparing bodies.<br />
Ninety percent of what he does is face-to-face with families<br />
and survivors, he said.<br />
“I can’t tell you how many times people tell me ‘I can’t<br />
believe you’re a funeral director,’” he said. “I think a lot of<br />
people have this weird idea of what a funeral director is.”<br />
He said that some people generally think of a funeral<br />
director as someone who’s really somber all the time,<br />
and while that may be appropriate at times, he said most<br />
families just want someone who’s normal.<br />
“I just like to talk to people,” he said. “I try to turn a<br />
sad thing into a celebration of someone’s life.”<br />
He said getting the chance to help somebody and make<br />
new experiences is part of why he loves his job. “Getting<br />
the opportunity to hear someone’s life story is amazing,”<br />
he said.<br />
Despite all the things Boulger likes about his job, there<br />
is one thing he’s not particular fond of from time to time:<br />
the hours. “It’s not a 9 to 5 or anything like that,” he said.<br />
“People don’t die on your schedule. Whether it’s 2 a.m. or<br />
2 p.m., I put a suit on, I get in the car and I go down to the<br />
nursing home, hospital or to someone’s home if they are<br />
on hospice.”<br />
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Boulger said dealing with the emotional part of his job can be<br />
really hard. “You become attached with families so you can come<br />
down to their level, so sometimes it’s hard, but at the end of the<br />
day, you’ve still got to come to work the next day and do it, so I<br />
don’t know if you put it on the back burner or what, but you do<br />
have to make that connection with people.”<br />
Boulger said he enjoys going out into the community to speak<br />
at nursing homes or run seminars to inform people from time to<br />
time.<br />
“It’s not something everyone wants to talk about, but it’s<br />
nice to educate the community a little bit on a couple aspects<br />
[of funeral service],” he said. “I think everybody knows we’re all<br />
going to die, but nobody really wants to think about it.”<br />
“<strong>The</strong>re’s a curiosity and a mystique about death that people<br />
definitely want to pursue and ask questions about, and I think<br />
that’s a unique thing,” he said.<br />
When asked what the good life means to him, Boulger<br />
responded,<br />
“I think what I have. I think going to work<br />
every day, knowing that you’re making a<br />
difference and enjoying life the best you<br />
can. I’ve got it pretty good.”<br />
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LOCAL HEROES<br />
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PHOTO SUBMITTED BY: DAVID PAGEL<br />
THE NORTH DAKOTA<br />
PATRIOT GUARD<br />
BY: SOO ASHEIM | PHOTOS: URBAN TOAD MEDIA<br />
DEDICATED RIDERS FOR THE ONES WE LOSE<br />
We have all seen them — the men and women who<br />
ride with precision during the solemn and always sad<br />
funeral processions for the heroes we have lost during<br />
military combat, as well as those who have fallen while<br />
doing their duty to serve and protect us at home. Upon<br />
first glance, and without prior knowledge of who they<br />
are, you might think these riders are making one last ride<br />
for a motorcycle comrade, until you see that they are all<br />
carrying American flags. <strong>The</strong> flags are significant in telling<br />
the story behind the North Dakota Patriot Guard. <strong>The</strong><br />
flags tell the visual story of the respect and dignity the<br />
PGR feels for the departed, as well as for the families and<br />
friends left behind.<br />
WHO THEY ARE<br />
<strong>The</strong> North Dakota PGR members are staunch believers<br />
in America’s freedom, and they come from all walks of<br />
life. Some are veterans; some are not. <strong>The</strong>y represent no<br />
affiliation with any political organization or motorcycle<br />
“club,” nor do they all ride motorcycles. But what they<br />
all most definitely do have in common is one thing:<br />
RESPECT — a very deep and abiding respect for members<br />
of the armed forces, firefighters, police officers and first<br />
responders who place their lives in jeopardy serving our<br />
country and the ideals of American freedom for all.<br />
HOW THEY BEGAN<br />
<strong>The</strong> first group was established at an American Legion<br />
post in the town of Mulvane, Kansas, back in 2005.<br />
Originally, that group comprised motorcyclists who<br />
organized to make certain that a local family would have<br />
protection from the Westboro Baptist Church protesters<br />
during the funeral procession of a local serviceman<br />
who had died in combat. <strong>The</strong> protesters were not even<br />
protesting the war — they were expressing the hatred<br />
they felt toward homosexuals, and in some warped and<br />
convoluted thinking the Westboro protesters believed<br />
that our Iraq and Afghanistan heroes were being cut<br />
down in “divine retribution” for American tolerance of<br />
homosexuality. <strong>The</strong> mission of the Patriot Guard Riders<br />
was to shield the mourning family and friends from the<br />
protesters by blocking their view with the PGR motorcade.<br />
<strong>The</strong> PGR sang patriotic songs and revved their motorcycle<br />
engines to drown out the chanting of the protesters.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Patriot Guard Riders accomplished their mission<br />
in Kansas so well during that first escort that very soon,<br />
word spread like a California wildfire over the internet<br />
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and through word of mouth. Before<br />
long, every community in America knew<br />
about the twenty-first gladiators who<br />
rode motorcycles and walked with the<br />
American flag proudly displayed for all<br />
to salute as our fallen heroes were laid<br />
to rest. Slowly but surely, the Westboro<br />
Baptist protesters were losing every battle<br />
they waged across the country. Not only<br />
were the Westboro people not making any<br />
headway, but their protests seemed meanspirited<br />
and demeaning, especially when<br />
compared to the all-volunteer, non-violent<br />
members of the Patriot Guard Riders.<br />
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WHO INFORMS THE PGR?<br />
<strong>The</strong> Patriot Guard Riders are an allvolunteer<br />
group with leaders who form<br />
teams under Ride Captains, based on<br />
where the riders live. Because they escort<br />
funeral processions not only for military<br />
members (honorably discharged<br />
veterans, as well as those more recently<br />
in service) but also for law enforcement<br />
officers and firefighters, the only<br />
requirement they have is that they<br />
must be invited by the family of the<br />
fallen. Whenever a family member<br />
of someone who has served the<br />
country within the armed forces or<br />
in civilian life requests an escort or<br />
an honor guard, the PGR is always<br />
willing to help.<br />
<strong>The</strong> PGR forms an honor guard<br />
at military funerals, protecting<br />
the mourners from harassing<br />
onlookers if necessary, and for<br />
veterans who have little or no<br />
family, members of the PGR will<br />
fill out the ranks of mourners<br />
during the services and burials.<br />
But solemn occasions are not the<br />
only times when PGR members<br />
are present. During those happy<br />
times when soldiers return home<br />
from overseas, PGR members love<br />
to participate in the homecoming<br />
celebrations, and they are always<br />
among the first to shake the hands<br />
of the returning service personnel and<br />
thank them for the time they have given<br />
for all of us.<br />
Many of the North Dakota Patriot Guard Riders<br />
have also been involved in funeral missions<br />
in Minnesota and South Dakota. However,
PHOTO SUBMITTED BY: DAVID PAGEL<br />
each state has its own chapter and<br />
group of leaders who usually are in<br />
charge of their own regions. North<br />
Dakota has four Ride Captains. And<br />
because North Dakota has a smaller<br />
population than most states, and<br />
because the Patriot Guard Riders have<br />
such dedication to the families of our<br />
fallen heroes, many friendships and<br />
bonds have been formed that would<br />
never have occurred otherwise.<br />
Interviewing four members<br />
of Fargo’s Patriot Guard Riders,<br />
listening to the stories they shared,<br />
and watching how they react, tease,<br />
and support each other, made as clear<br />
as daylight what the PGR believes in<br />
and what their mission is truly about:<br />
dedication. <strong>The</strong>y are dedicated to<br />
honoring the memory of the heroes<br />
who have given everything so that<br />
the rest of us can have the freedom<br />
and opportunities we need in order<br />
to live the lives we want and strive to<br />
have. <strong>The</strong>y are dedicated to caring for<br />
the families of those who have died<br />
<strong>The</strong> Patriot Guard Riders believe<br />
in and what their mission is truly<br />
about: dedication.<br />
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in the name of freedom and America. All the<br />
mothers, fathers, wives, children and siblings<br />
of every service person, police officer, firefighter<br />
or first responder need to know that their loved<br />
ones will not be forgotten as the days turn to<br />
months and years after they have been laid to<br />
rest. <strong>The</strong> members of the Patriot Guard Riders<br />
understand how very important this is to the<br />
memories of our fallen heroes and to their<br />
families and friends, who feel the anguish<br />
of not being able to share times of glory and<br />
defeat, joy and sorrow, accomplishments large<br />
and small, with the people they loved so dearly.<br />
As members of North Dakota’s Patriot Guard<br />
Riders family, these families know that there<br />
are people who truly care about them and their<br />
welfare, and that they can always find within<br />
those ranks someone who is willing to listen to<br />
their concerns.<br />
Many thanks to Teresa Terry, David<br />
Pagel, Tony Krogh and Frank Hebert for their<br />
contributions and the devotion they continue<br />
to give, to those who have served so valiantly<br />
and to their family members, as members of the<br />
North Dakota Patriot Guard.<br />
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PHOTO SUBMITTED BY: DAVID PAGEL
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BY: CANTRELL | PHOTOS: URBAN TOAD MEDIA<br />
HORSE RACING SEASON IS UPON US<br />
Dust Off Those Derby Hats and Sharpen Your Wagering Skills Because<br />
Horse Racing Season is Here<br />
<strong>The</strong> Kentucky Derby, <strong>The</strong> Preakness, <strong>The</strong> Belmont,<br />
just to name a few ... And this year the North Dakota<br />
Horse Park is pleased to announce three weekends of<br />
live racing right here in our own backyard. July 19-20,<br />
July 26-27 and August 2-3.<br />
We here at <strong>The</strong> <strong>Good</strong> <strong>Life</strong> Men’s Magazine have<br />
provided you with the basic and most popular ways for<br />
betting on your favorite pony. Go ahead … tear it out<br />
and take it with you to the track or to your favorite off<br />
track betting establishment.<br />
Now you can stand in line with the confidence of<br />
a Vegas handicapper. Impress your friends with your<br />
wagering lingo. Place your bets with the speed and flow<br />
of a hip hop artist.<br />
<strong>Good</strong> luck and please wager responsibly. Venue<br />
wagering options may vary.<br />
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<strong>June</strong> 14 Event Hopes<br />
to Raise $21,000<br />
for Area Children<br />
When Haley Dellaneva<br />
sets her mind on<br />
accomplishing<br />
something, there’s<br />
no doubt that it will<br />
happen. Three years ago, Haley and<br />
her parents started one of the most<br />
unique fundraisers in Fargo, and<br />
has had continuing success since. It<br />
sounds impressive, but even more so<br />
considering the fact that Haley is only<br />
12 years old.<br />
HALEY’S<br />
MILK RUN<br />
BY: JENESSA MCALLISTER | PHOTOS: URBAN TOAD MEDIA<br />
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Haley’s Milk Run was started three years ago when Haley<br />
noticed that some of her classmates weren’t getting milk during<br />
break time. “<strong>The</strong>re is a sign in school that says something about<br />
donating any extra money to the kids who can’t afford milk,” Haley<br />
said. “So I asked my dad if I could have some of my allowance<br />
money to donate.”<br />
Haley’s dad, Paul, was supportive of Haley’s request, and after<br />
a few days of thinking it over, they decided to take the donation<br />
one step further. “I thought, why can’t we turn this into something<br />
bigger?” Paul said. “So we decided to do something our family is<br />
familiar with — a bike run.”<br />
Haley’s Milk Run was then born. In comparison to other bike<br />
runs in the area, Haley’s Milk Run is a fairly short run, according to<br />
Paul. <strong>The</strong> participants meet at the starting location, and then ride<br />
as a group to the stops on the list. “We’ll go to bars or restaurants<br />
in towns around the area” he said. “<strong>The</strong>re’s probably 30-40 miles<br />
between stops, totaling about 130 miles when we finish.”<br />
At each of the stops, participants usually grab a bite to eat, have<br />
a drink, and have the opportunity to donate money to Haley’s Milk<br />
Run through raffle tickets and prizes.<br />
Another significant way the organization raises money is<br />
through sponsorships. According to Paul, some of the biggest<br />
sponsors this year include Topper’s, Sickie’s Garage, the Fargo VFW,<br />
West Fargo Exchange Club, Harley-Davidson of Fargo, Cullen<br />
Insulation, Thunder Road, Choice Financial Bank, WDAY 970, <strong>The</strong><br />
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PHOTO BY: PAMELA KAY PHOTOGRAPHY
Fox 107.9, Pamela Kay Photography,<br />
Lil Evil Inc, and Dave’s West Fargo<br />
Tire.<br />
This year’s event, to be held <strong>June</strong><br />
14, <strong>2014</strong>, holds a goal of raising<br />
$21,000. That will be divided between<br />
the three area schools — West Fargo,<br />
Fargo and Moorhead — resulting in<br />
$7,000 each. After everything is said<br />
and done, the money is distributed<br />
to the break time milk assistance<br />
programs at different elementary<br />
schools.<br />
For the Dellaneva family, Haley’s<br />
Milk Run is a combination of two<br />
things they are dedicated to —<br />
motorcycles and supporting elementary<br />
school kids. “It’s not fair for a child<br />
to have to watch someone else drink<br />
milk while you don’t have any,” Paul<br />
said. “Getting a break time (different<br />
than lunch) milk is so important for<br />
these kids. Studies have shown how<br />
significant it is in elementary-aged<br />
children’s development.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> Dellaneva family is so<br />
passionate about this cause, but Paul<br />
and his wife Brenda say that it couldn’t<br />
be done without the volunteer help of<br />
many others. “Our friends, coworkers<br />
and the adult motorcyclist community<br />
have really committed to this cause,<br />
and to Haley,” Paul said. “We really<br />
couldn’t do it without them.”<br />
One volunteer, family friend<br />
Rick Branvold “Uncle Rick,” is the<br />
appointed logistics coordinator for<br />
Haley’s Milk Run. “I get us to where<br />
we’re going,” he said. “I make sure<br />
everything runs smoothly during the<br />
day, and plan the route. We try to<br />
go to different places each year, and<br />
introduce people to these different<br />
area bars.”<br />
For Branvold, this cause holds a<br />
special place. “47 years ago, I was one<br />
of these kids with no milk,” he said.<br />
“<strong>The</strong> program has been around a long<br />
time. <strong>The</strong> run is a really good time,<br />
and we have a lot of fun.”<br />
To get involved in this year’s Haley’s<br />
Milk Run, check out their Facebook<br />
page for more information. <strong>The</strong> event<br />
will start at 10 a.m. at Bonanzaville in<br />
West Fargo, and the group will head<br />
out at noon. This year’s run will end<br />
PHOTO BY:<br />
PAMELA KAY PHOTOGRAPHY<br />
at Sickie’s Garage, and is sure to be a<br />
good time.<br />
While the end goal for this year’s<br />
run is $21,000, Haley has additional<br />
goals in mind. “I want other kids to be<br />
inspired,” she said. “If a kid wants to<br />
do something, they can set their mind<br />
to it and accomplish it!”<br />
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North Dakota drinks more<br />
beer per capita than any state<br />
in the union, according to the<br />
most recent study by <strong>The</strong> Beer<br />
Institute. Watch two local<br />
breweries fight for the right to<br />
be called the region’s favorite<br />
craft brewery in ten rounds<br />
of beer-fueled madness.
BY: ALICIA UNDERLEE NELSON | PHOTOS: URBAN TOAD MEDIA<br />
Junkyard Brewing Company<br />
www.junkyardbeer.com<br />
Fargo Brewing Company<br />
www.fargobrewing.com<br />
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MEET THE CONTENDERS:<br />
fargo brewing company<br />
is the seasoned veteran, incorporated in 2010.<br />
<strong>The</strong>ir tight four-man team, comprised of brothers<br />
Chris and John Anderson and friends Aaron Hill<br />
and Jared Hardy, just wrapped up a banner year.<br />
After contract brewing in Wisconsin, they moved<br />
all aspects of production to North Dakota, opening<br />
a new taproom, production brewery and canning<br />
facility in downtown Fargo. And they’re beefing up<br />
for <strong>2014</strong>, brewing new beers, increasing production<br />
capabilities, hiring two new employees and<br />
spreading the craft beer gospel (and their popular<br />
porter, Scottish ale, pale ale and IPA) into the far<br />
corners of North Dakota, Minnesota lakes country<br />
and into Duluth and the Twin Cities.<br />
Awesome beer socks!<br />
junkyard brewing company<br />
<strong>The</strong> scrappy rookie on the scene is Junkyard Brewing<br />
Company, a Moorhead-based nanobrewery run<br />
by brothers Aaron and Dan Juhnke. <strong>The</strong> brothers<br />
built their own system and started brewing locally<br />
last summer, just a few days before Fargo Brewing<br />
Company’s first batch of locally-brewed beer hit the<br />
shelves, which means they were technically the first<br />
independent craft brewery to produce product in<br />
F-M area since the 1990s. You can find their porters<br />
and IPAs, as well as a cream ale and a Russian<br />
Imperial Stout, at bars and restaurants in Fargo,<br />
Moorhead, Dilworth and Detroit Lakes and in their<br />
Moorhead brewery. <strong>The</strong> brothers are experimenting<br />
with bigger and bolder beers and their new taproom<br />
is slated to open this summer.<br />
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No alcohol was consumed<br />
during this photo shoot.
ROUND<br />
1<br />
Most Unusual Beer Ingredient<br />
“Yogurt, to brew a beer style that is supposed to have lactobacillus cultures in it.”<br />
Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />
“Thai palm sugar, Thai basil, Iraqi date syrup.”<br />
Chris Anderson, Fargo Brewing Company<br />
winner:<br />
Fargo Brewing company<br />
Fargo Brewing Company, with not one<br />
but three items you won’t find in your<br />
average grocery store.<br />
ROUND<br />
2<br />
craziest beer name<br />
“1.21 Gigahops Double IPA — light in color, fairly high in alcohol, but light and<br />
crisp in the body. <strong>The</strong>re will be a ridiculous amount of hop presence in it with<br />
a lot of pine, citrus and tropical fruit. It will probably be around 9.5% alcohol by<br />
volume.”<br />
Aaron Hill, Fargo Brewing Company<br />
“Prairie Shaman. It’s going to be an IPA<br />
with English influences. <strong>The</strong> name comes<br />
from something we call our friend Nate.<br />
He likes to collect woodsy artifacts<br />
whenever he’s out enjoying nature. At<br />
the end of a day, he’ll have pockets filled<br />
with wild sage, pieces of flint, bits of<br />
antler, and other goofy stuff.”<br />
Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />
winner: Tie<br />
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ROUND<br />
3<br />
winner:<br />
Fargo Brewing company<br />
BIGGEST SUCCESS STORY<br />
“My first homebrewed batch of beer turned out pretty well. And I used my own<br />
recipe. I was trying for something like Guinness extra stout and the beer I ended<br />
up with was more like a black IPA.”<br />
Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />
A good brew is one thing but a major production facility is quite<br />
another. This round goes to Fargo Brewing Company.<br />
“Starting a production brewery.”<br />
Chris Anderson, Fargo Brewing Company<br />
ROUND<br />
4<br />
MOST COLOSSAL BREWING FAILURE<br />
“A home-brew batch of a strong Scotch Ale that I fermented in a closet and forgot<br />
about. It blew the lid off and shot beer all over my closet.”<br />
Chris Anderson, Fargo Brewing Company<br />
“In my first year of home-brewing, I brewed in the kitchen<br />
of my house. I had an antique rifle hanging on a wall above<br />
my kitchen table, and I had a pack of really old cartridges<br />
that went with the rifle sitting, among other decorations,<br />
on top of a shelf in the kitchen. Late one night, my friend,<br />
Will (Wild Bill), and I were almost finished brewing a batch<br />
of beer.<br />
And as we conversed, Wild Bill casually reached up to lean<br />
his arm on a shelf over my stovetop. <strong>The</strong> pack of cartridges<br />
tumbled off the shelf and landed broadside, like a belly flop,<br />
in the boiling kettle of home-brew. A volcano of scalding,<br />
sweet liquid exploded from the kettle, spraying Wild Bill,<br />
myself, and my kitchen as the spilled box of cartridges came<br />
to rest at the bottom of the brew kettle, millimeters away<br />
from the red-hot burner beneath. Thankfully, Wild Bill and<br />
I were able to get the burner shut off before we found out<br />
whether .30 caliber cartridges would blow up under those<br />
circumstances.”<br />
Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />
winner:<br />
JUNKYARD Brewing company<br />
This is a tough one. Both involve explosions, but the threat<br />
of death gives the Junkyard Brewing Company a slight edge.<br />
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ROUND<br />
5<br />
winner:<br />
JUNKYARD Brewing company<br />
ROUND<br />
6<br />
SCARIEST BEER TO BREW<br />
“A light lager, because there’s nowhere to hide. It has to be flawless.”<br />
Chris Anderson, Fargo Brewing Company<br />
“<strong>The</strong> aforementioned ‘bullet brew’, for obvious reasons.”<br />
Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />
<strong>The</strong> threat of an untimely demise is still scarier<br />
than less than perfect beer <strong>–</strong> but not by much.<br />
GNARLIEST<br />
BEARD CONTEST<br />
“<strong>The</strong> Anderson brothers will<br />
have to fight over this one. I<br />
would say that whoever has his<br />
beard in cornrow braids by the<br />
photo shoot would win.” Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />
“John Anderson. It’s long, and strong and down<br />
to get the friction on.” Aaron Hill, Fargo Brewing<br />
Company<br />
winner: Fargo Brewing company<br />
Fargo Brewing Company’s John Anderson, by<br />
unanimous consent.<br />
ROUND<br />
7<br />
BIGGEST BEER NERD<br />
“I have a bunch of brewing/beer apps on my phone like the BJCP Style Guidelines,<br />
Untappd, iBrewMaster, and a yeast pitch-rate calculator.”<br />
Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />
“I’ve been to almost 1,000 breweries, I’m a certified BJCP<br />
(Beer Judge Certification Program) beer judge and all the<br />
reading materials beside my bed are brewing books. I am<br />
a nerd.” Chris Anderson, Fargo Brewing Company<br />
winner: TIE ... NERDS!<br />
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ROUND<br />
8<br />
KEG<br />
TAPPING RACE<br />
“Everyone can tap a keg under 2<br />
seconds. <strong>The</strong>y are very easy to tap.”<br />
Aaron Hill, Fargo Brewing Company<br />
“I’m positive that either Dan or I could disassemble a keg<br />
faster than any brewer in North Dakota, because we have<br />
to disassemble all our kegs to clean them. We were too<br />
cheap to buy a standard keg-washer.”<br />
Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />
ROUND<br />
9<br />
advice for<br />
beer drinkers<br />
“Don’t be afraid to try new things, but drink what you like.”<br />
Chris Anderson, Fargo Brewing Company<br />
“Beer should be something you enjoy. If you find yourself criticizing more than<br />
enjoying, you might be in danger of becoming a beer snob. Ask for samples.<br />
Bartenders really enjoy helping you find new beers to enjoy. In terms of choice and quality, Americans<br />
have the best beer in the world right now.” Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />
BONUS<br />
10<br />
ROUND<br />
If you could drink a beer with anyone in history,<br />
who would you choose and what would you drink?<br />
“Ernest Hemingway, Double IPA — because that guy had a lot of great experiences<br />
and wisdom to share about life and drink. And it’s my impression that he was kind<br />
of a wine guy so I would like to introduce him to a big beer that any wine drinker<br />
would appreciate.” Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />
“Chris would drink a beer with Einstein.” Aaron Hill<br />
“A Russian Imperial Stout, because I’d like to see him drunk.” Chris Anderson, both Fargo Brewing Company<br />
winner: TIE<br />
So who will win the Beer Battle and the title of Most Beloved Craft Brewery? It’s a draw.<br />
Now let’s grab a beer!<br />
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winner: TIE<br />
This round was obviously way<br />
below their skill level. Junkyard<br />
Brewing Company didn’t even<br />
really answer the question.<br />
winner: JUNKYARD<br />
Brewing company<br />
Junkyard Brewing Company,<br />
for going into detail.<br />
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Grilling Season is Here!<br />
Tips and Tricks to Help You Dominate Grilling Season<br />
<strong>The</strong>re are few things that can top a warm summer day, cold drinks and meat,<br />
fresh off the grill. While hamburgers and steaks remain the classic favorite<br />
among grill fans, there has been a shift, as Americans seek to try new meats<br />
and veggies, and different grilling techniques.<br />
BY: PAUL HANKEL<br />
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T<br />
o find you the best tips,<br />
we went to the absolute<br />
authority on anything<br />
grilling, Joe Riley, a local<br />
Fargo resident, and one of<br />
the founders of GrillingAddiction.com.<br />
We asked Joe what some of his favorite<br />
techniques are, as well as how to get the<br />
most from your grill, during the short<br />
summer months.<br />
First, can you tell us a little bit about<br />
yourself, your background in grilling<br />
and how you became a go-to resource<br />
for grilling enthusiasts? How did you<br />
come up with the idea for grilling<br />
addiction?<br />
Several years ago a good friend of<br />
mine, Matt Charpentier, and I wanted<br />
to learn about cooking with charcoal/<br />
open fire. We both already had an<br />
interest in food, but limited knowledge<br />
of grilling on anything other than a<br />
traditional gas grill. We began hosting,<br />
events we dubbed Grill-A-Thons,<br />
which were really just big parties where<br />
everyone shows up with something<br />
different to grill, and we grilled all day.<br />
Doing this allowed us to experiment<br />
with different ingredients as well as<br />
techniques, without the added pressure<br />
of preparing the only main course.<br />
After we developed our skills, Grill-<br />
A-Thons inspired us to share our<br />
new found knowledge through<br />
GrillingAddiction.com.<br />
What is the key to grilling the ‘perfect’<br />
piece of meat?<br />
Don’t be afraid to season your food,<br />
and always let proteins rest after<br />
they come off the grill. <strong>The</strong> larger<br />
the protein the longer it should rest<br />
before cutting.<br />
What is your favorite meat to grill?<br />
This is a tough one, but I absolutely<br />
love beef tri-tip. Tri-tip is a small roast<br />
with great flavor, and not too much<br />
fat. It is perfect for the grill because<br />
it doesn’t take too long to cook,<br />
nor does it cook too quickly. It is<br />
also very versatile when it comes to<br />
preparation, and it works well with<br />
any type of cuisine.<br />
What is your favorite non-meat item<br />
to grill?<br />
I love grilled green beans or asparagus.<br />
I prepare both of them the same way:<br />
place them in a Ziploc bag with extra<br />
virgin olive oil, fresh citrus juice, salt,<br />
pepper, garlic and red pepper flake.<br />
Leave them in the marinade for 30<br />
minutes to an hour then grill over<br />
medium heat. <strong>The</strong>y are fantastic!<br />
From our research, it appears that<br />
people are getting creative with their<br />
grills and using them in different ways<br />
(smoking, indirect cooking etc). What<br />
are some tips or recommendations<br />
for someone looking to try one of<br />
these methods?<br />
<strong>The</strong> easiest and most versatile way<br />
to set up your grill is to use two heat<br />
zones. One zone should be set up<br />
for direct high heat, and the other for<br />
indirect low heat. <strong>The</strong> extreme high<br />
heat will allow you to get a really good<br />
sear on the outside, and then you can<br />
use the indirect side to gently bring your<br />
food up to the desired temperature.<br />
Depending on the type of food you<br />
like and the equipment you have, there<br />
really isn’t much that can’t be done on<br />
a grill.<br />
What’s your ‘perfect burger’?<br />
My perfect burger is no less than 1/3lb.<br />
of organic, grass fed beef. I preseason the<br />
ground beef with Cajun seasoning, and<br />
leave the salt for latter. Mix the ground<br />
beef gently and quickly being sure not<br />
to over work it. After making the patties,<br />
season the outside with salt. Use a high<br />
heat to get a good sear and finish them<br />
indirectly, to your desired doneness.<br />
At this point the only requirement is<br />
cheese, I like blue cheese, and you can’t<br />
go wrong with bacon.<br />
What does living, ‘the good life,’ mean<br />
to you?<br />
Living the good life is spending time<br />
with family, and friends, enjoying good<br />
beer, and good food. Doing all of this<br />
while at the lake is living the great life.<br />
Riley’s advice is simple: use the correct<br />
amount of heat, keep seasoning timely<br />
and simple, and don’t be afraid to<br />
experiment or try new things. Combine<br />
all these tips and you’ve got the recipe<br />
for a summer filled with fun and good<br />
food.<br />
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FATHERS<br />
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ONLY FROM DAD:<br />
5 THINGS TO TEACH YOUR CHILD<br />
BY: CAREY CASEY | WWW.FATHERS.COM<br />
they grow up so fast, and before we know it<br />
they’re moving out and getting on with their<br />
lives. Also, it’s sobering but true: none of us<br />
have a guarantee that we’ll be here tomorrow.<br />
You never know when something tragic could<br />
happen.<br />
I’m not telling you all this to bring you down, but to<br />
remind you how important it is to have your priorities<br />
straight. It’s too easy to get caught up in the busy-ness of<br />
life and coast along.<br />
A while back, I heard about a great idea from a<br />
committed father named Bob — a way to be purposeful<br />
about the time he has left with his three sons at home.<br />
Part of living out that commitment includes leading<br />
regular family meetings, where everyone has a chance to<br />
talk about what’s going on and share any concerns they<br />
may have.<br />
One day Bob came to the family time with this<br />
exercise: each of the boys had to come up with five<br />
things they wanted to learn before they leave home.<br />
Bob and his wife came up five things they thought their<br />
sons needed to learn as well.<br />
By the next meeting, the boys had listed things like:<br />
how to fix various things on the car; how to manage their<br />
time; how to find a job; how to cook eggs and French<br />
toast; how to fix or replace a faucet.<br />
What would your kids say? <strong>May</strong>be it’s time to ask.<br />
I know teenagers often act like they already know<br />
everything, but eventually all kids realize that they<br />
don’t. <strong>The</strong>y’ll leave home one day and there’s a lot of<br />
information and skills they’ll need if they’re going to do<br />
well on their own.<br />
A big part of our job is coaching them now as we<br />
prepare them for that time. <strong>The</strong>re are hundreds or even<br />
thousands of things our children need to see and do and<br />
learn, and as dads, we’re in the best position to teach<br />
them many of those things. It’s a never-ending task, so<br />
we need to get started.<br />
So, your number one action point for today is to<br />
follow Bob’s lead and ask your kids what they want to<br />
learn from you. Start with five things for now; you can<br />
always add to them later, or start a new list once you<br />
have the first one checked off.<br />
It’s a great exercise to help get some specific goals in<br />
front of you for each of your kids. And it might help you<br />
keep them as a high priority and make the most of every<br />
opportunity you have with them.<br />
Action Points for Dads on the Journey<br />
• Talk with your children’s mother about an<br />
age-appropriate goal or skill for each of your<br />
children to learn (and for you to work on with<br />
them) during the next month — tying shoe<br />
laces, doing dishes, mowing the grass, finding<br />
useful information on the Internet, checking<br />
the air in the car’s tires, etc.<br />
• Give your children a glimpse of your<br />
budget and regular bills you pay, so they gain a<br />
better understanding of how much it costs just<br />
to keep the lights on and food in the pantry.<br />
• No matter what your child’s age, recruit<br />
him or her to assist you this weekend as you<br />
take care of a routine home maintenance task.<br />
• Help your kids find authors that they love<br />
to read.<br />
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