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Jeremy Bontjes<br />

TAKES THE FIELD<br />

BY: CONNIE WIRTA | PHOTOS: SCOTT THUEN / THUEN STUDIOS<br />

W<br />

hen he takes the field this season, Jeremy<br />

Bontjes heads to second base. He bypasses<br />

the pitching mound where he had so much<br />

success in high school.<br />

Bontjes is playing his first season with the<br />

Minnesota State University Moorhead Dragons. He’s working his<br />

way back to the sport he loves after a second shoulder surgery.<br />

Bontjes, 20, has torn the labrum in his right shoulder twice. His<br />

first surgery came the summer before his senior year at Wahpeton High<br />

School. <strong>The</strong> second came in January 2013 as he prepared for Jamestown<br />

College’s spring season. <strong>The</strong> freshman had persistent pain in his shoulder and<br />

found his pitches lacked velocity and distance.<br />

“As soon as I started throwing, I’d get a sharp catching<br />

feeling and pain in my shoulder,” recalls Bontjes, who<br />

was referred to Dr. Prasad Sawardeker, an Essentia Health<br />

orthopedic surgeon in Fargo who specializes in treating<br />

shoulders, elbows and hands.<br />

“Even if a pitcher has ideal mechanics, the labrum<br />

can get injured,” explains Dr. Sawardeker, who served<br />

as a team doctor for the Florida Marlins and Pittsburgh<br />

Pirates during his medical training. “<strong>The</strong> over-repetitive<br />

nature of throwing can cause labral tears in pitchers and<br />

other baseball or softball players. <strong>The</strong> same is true for<br />

other athletes with repetitive overhead motions such as<br />

swimmers, gymnasts and volleyball players.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> labrum, a ring of soft tissues surrounding the<br />

socket, works as a stabilizer and shock absorber in the<br />

shoulder. In a SLAP tear, the top of the labrum tears from<br />

the front to the back of the shoulder.<br />

An MRI showed Bontjes had second SLAP<br />

tear and had dislodged anchors from<br />

his first surgery. <strong>The</strong> labrum was<br />

peeling off the socket. Using<br />

an arthoscopic procedure,<br />

Dr. Sawardeker removed<br />

the old anchors and used<br />

more robust anchors to<br />

fix the labrum back in<br />

the socket.<br />

As he worked<br />

to rehabilitate his<br />

shoulder, Bontjes began<br />

thinking about playing<br />

another position. Research<br />

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shows only 33 to 66 percent of athletes who have SLAP<br />

repairs return to their sport.<br />

“With pitchers like Jeremy, it can be a challenge<br />

to regain their previous form after a SLAP repair,” Dr.<br />

Sawardeker says. “I often encourage pitchers to consider a<br />

different position. Injuries don’t always mean you have to<br />

give up sports, but you may need to readjust and realign<br />

yourself to a new position.”<br />

Bontjes was at top form when he pitched a near-perfect<br />

season in his junior year at Wahpeton High School. He<br />

allowed only one run and had an earned run average of<br />

0.16. That summer, he played American Legion baseball<br />

and pitched 35 innings in back-to-back tournaments.<br />

Intense shoulder pain led to his first diagnosis and<br />

surgery. After completing rehabilitation, his high school<br />

and Legion coaches spent hours helping him pitch again.<br />

“It was like trying to learn to throw again,” Bontjes recalls.<br />

Bontjes began his senior season as a designated hitter,<br />

then relief pitcher and finally as starting pitcher. Wahpeton<br />

earned fourth in the state tourney. His Legion team won<br />

the Central Plains Regional Tournament and Bontjes was<br />

named Most Valuable Player. He headed to Jamestown<br />

College with plans to pitch — until the second tear.<br />

“I knew the second surgery was the smart thing to do<br />

and I needed to get it fixed,” Bontjes says. He appreciated<br />

that Dr. Sawardeker took time to answer his questions<br />

and asked about his goals in baseball and life.<br />

“It’s hard to give up pitching when you’ve done it for<br />

15 years,’’ Bontjes says. “I’ve played shortstop but I decided<br />

to play second base now because it’s shorter throws and<br />

that’s in the best interest of my arm. I want to coach and<br />

play baseball with my kids someday.”


Gearing Up for Baseball or Softball?<br />

Prevent injuries with these tips from Dr. Prasad Sawardeker,<br />

an Essentia Health orthopedic surgeon who served as a team<br />

doctor for the Florida Marlins and Pittsburgh Pirates.<br />

Prepare your<br />

body for the<br />

demands of game.<br />

It takes more than<br />

just showing up on<br />

game day. Year-round<br />

exercise helps you<br />

stay fit.<br />

Maintain<br />

flexibility in your<br />

joints. Warm up before<br />

a game. Start with a steady<br />

jog around the bases. Stretch<br />

for 10 minutes. To avoid<br />

shoulder injuries, stretches<br />

should include a full internal<br />

rotation of the joint and its<br />

soft tissues. Take practice<br />

swings before<br />

contact.<br />

DR. PRASAD<br />

SAWARDEKER<br />

Maintain and<br />

strengthen your<br />

body’s core muscles.<br />

A strong core creates<br />

proper body<br />

mechanics.<br />

Incorporate<br />

resistance training<br />

and cardiovascular<br />

fitness into workouts so<br />

your muscles can perform<br />

at peak capacity. Use<br />

lighter weights with<br />

more repetitions.<br />

Improve your<br />

throwing mechanics.<br />

Less than perfect<br />

mechanics can lead to<br />

injuries. Strengthen<br />

muscles around your<br />

shoulders and<br />

rotator cuffs.<br />

Don’t ignore<br />

pain. It’s your<br />

body’s way of telling<br />

you something isn’t<br />

right. If the pain<br />

persists, see a<br />

doctor.<br />

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MAY-JUNE <strong>2014</strong><br />

IN THIS ISSUE<br />

VOLUME 1 • ISSUE 6<br />

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What’s your definition of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Good</strong> <strong>Life</strong>?<br />

“Our definition of the good life is to do what we love every day and<br />

have fun doing it.” — <strong>The</strong> boys of Fargo Brewing Company<br />

“<strong>The</strong> good life is when you enjoy the people you’re with and what<br />

you do to make a living. Beer helps enhance these conditions.”<br />

— Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />

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ON THE COVER<br />

ARTICLES<br />

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24 THE GREAT F-M BEER BATTLE<br />

Junkyard Brewing Company vs.<br />

Fargo Brewing Company<br />

A special thanks to the Academy of<br />

Combat Arts for the use of their gym.<br />

IN EVERY ISSUE<br />

12 LOCAL HEROES<br />

North Dakota Patriot Guard<br />

34 FATHERS Only From Dad:<br />

5 Things to Teach Your Child<br />

02 JEREMY BONTJES<br />

TAKES THE FIELD<br />

Gearing Up for Baseball or<br />

Softball?<br />

06 MOVING ON<br />

How Do You Mend A Broken<br />

Heart?<br />

08 HERE TO HELP<br />

Fourth Generation Funeral<br />

Director Tries to Make Sad Times<br />

More Bearable


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CREATIVE DIRECTOR<br />

Dawn Siewert<br />

dawn@urbantoadmedia.com<br />

PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

Darren Losee<br />

darren@urbantoadmedia.com<br />

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2<br />

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS<br />

Soo Asheim<br />

Jessica Ballou<br />

Meghan Feir<br />

Paul Hankel<br />

Jenessa McAllister<br />

Alicia Underlee Nelson<br />

Connie Wirta<br />

PUBLISHED BY<br />

Urban Toad Media LLP<br />

www.urbantoadmedia.com<br />

/urbantoadmedia<br />

ARTICLES<br />

18 HORSE RACING SEASON IS UPON US<br />

Dust Off Those Derby Hats and Sharpen Your Wagering Skills<br />

Because Horse Racing Season is Here<br />

19 TEAR-OUT GUIDE<br />

Basic Guide to Horse Wagering<br />

21 HALEY’S MILK RUN:<br />

A Local 12-Year-Old’s Passion<br />

32 GRILLING SEASON IS HERE<br />

Tips and Tricks to Help You<br />

Dominate Grilling Season<br />

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Moving On<br />

How Do You Mend A Broken Heart?<br />

BY: MEGHAN FEIR<br />

(“How Can You Mend A Broken Heart” by the Bee Gees)<br />

How can you mend a broken heart?<br />

How can you stop the rain from falling down?<br />

How can you stop the sun from shining?<br />

What makes the world go round?<br />

How can you mend this broken man?<br />

How can a loser ever win?<br />

If asking the same questions as the Bee Gees,<br />

specifically “How can a loser ever win?” you’ve<br />

landed on the right page.<br />

As a child, a younger one than I am now, I recall<br />

reading a story titled “Mr. Bell’s Fixit Shop.” On the<br />

shop’s window, there hung a sign that read, “I fix<br />

everything but broken hearts.”<br />

This Golden Book not only illustrates that<br />

handymen can’t repair emotional problems with<br />

duct tape, but that glue will not bind the shards<br />

of your broken-into-a-million-pieces heart. Both<br />

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lessons are great for kids to realize, at some point<br />

in their upbringing.<br />

On a related note, other people cannot heal<br />

the smashed remains of the previously established<br />

hopes, plans and dreams we may have created with<br />

another person. One day, you could be planning<br />

what your imaginary children will be named<br />

(Little Mookie, Big Al, Lorraine). A week later, you<br />

are returning the extra slippers she kept at your<br />

apartment because the relationship is over, and<br />

she wants her slippers back.


Two common, post-breakup stages you’ll<br />

probably go through<br />

Once a breakup occurs, we begin our journey in<br />

a high-rise of emotions as we go down each flight<br />

of stairs and enter the floors of pain. After awhile,<br />

the hurt will lessen with each floor, but the first two<br />

levels you’ll wind up on are the following.<br />

1) Grief, the phase Kleenex capitalizes on (because<br />

of your tears and the over-production of mucus).<br />

2) Various forms of anger. One type can result in an<br />

influx of Facebook pictures intended to showcase<br />

the “fun” time you’re having without them. <strong>The</strong> latter<br />

is a popular, passive-aggressive coping mechanism<br />

that, 99.98 percent of the time, is totally pointless.<br />

Ultimately, what good will result from the act? Your<br />

anger and Instagram photos won’t win them back,<br />

nor will it jab a stake through their heart.<br />

Advice, from me to you<br />

• After you’ve gone through the first two stages,<br />

the third should be forgiveness, but most people<br />

skip over that step. However, it is vital to forgive in<br />

order to overcome past relationships and their grip<br />

on you.<br />

• In their absence, you may be tempted to rebound.<br />

Don’t.<br />

• Don’t date her sister (that’s just gross) or any of<br />

her close friends for at least eight months. That’s a<br />

major faux pas.<br />

• Allow yourself a span of time to contemplate<br />

why you were broken up with, but after you’ve<br />

accumulated some answers, if any, move on.<br />

Sometimes, there are genuine lessons needing to<br />

be learned, and your ex may have had reasons to<br />

end the relationship. But if there aren’t examples<br />

sticking out like sore, opposable thumbs, know that<br />

it is better to be single than to be with someone<br />

who doesn’t want to be with you.<br />

• In your newly acquired singlehood, relish the<br />

extra time you have. That hobby you dropped<br />

eight years ago <strong>–</strong> pick it up again. <strong>The</strong> friends you<br />

may have abandoned <strong>–</strong> call them up. <strong>The</strong>re are a<br />

multitude of things you can learn and experience<br />

before beginning your next relationship, like taking<br />

that extra science class to figure out “What makes<br />

the world go round?”<br />

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BY: JESSICA BALLOU | PHOTOS: URBAN TOAD MEDIA<br />

“It’s not something everyone wants to talk about, but it’s nice<br />

to educate the community a little bit on a couple aspects [of<br />

funeral service]. I think everybody knows we’re all going to<br />

die, but nobody really wants to think about it.”<br />

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Here to Help<br />

Fourth Generation Funeral Director<br />

Tries to Make Sad Times More Bearable<br />

Jim Boulger likes to shoot hoops and<br />

play golf, and he’s been picking up<br />

tennis again lately. And oh yeah, he<br />

grew up in a funeral home, or more<br />

specifically, his father’s business,<br />

Boulger Funeral Home in Fargo.<br />

His unique profession has garnered<br />

interesting responses, to say the least, from<br />

some people when they find out.<br />

“I’m just as normal as anyone else,” he<br />

said. “It’s my job, but I still have a life outside<br />

of work. I think people want to define you by<br />

your career, and that’s great in some respects,<br />

but at the end of the day, you’re just a normal<br />

person.”<br />

Starting in high school, Boulger was<br />

the self-proclaimed family grunt at the<br />

funeral home, mowing lawns, washing cars,<br />

vacuuming and other small tasks. After<br />

graduation, he had no inclination to be part<br />

of the family business, and his father didn’t<br />

force him; rather, he encouraged him to go<br />

out and get a degree in something else, saying<br />

it wouldn’t hurt anything to have a backup<br />

plan. He went to the University of St. Thomas<br />

in St. Paul, Minn., for a degree in business<br />

management and graduated in 2007, and<br />

then he pursued his mortuary science degree<br />

at the University of Minnesota and graduated<br />

in 2008.<br />

Boulger, a 29-year-old fourth generation<br />

family member at the funeral home, is now<br />

an owner and licensed funeral director. <strong>The</strong><br />

family business also owns funeral homes in<br />

Kindred, N.D., and Hillsboro, N.D., so on<br />

any given day, one of the five funeral directors<br />

could be at any of those locations depending<br />

on what’s going on.<br />

He said no day is typical, which is what he<br />

likes about his job. He could be meeting with<br />

families and planning services one minute or<br />

picking out carpet for remodeling the Kindred<br />

funeral home the next.<br />

Even though every day is a little different,<br />

there are some similarities. After he comes<br />

in each morning, he checks the board to see<br />

what happened the previous night then meets<br />

with people for arranging various services or<br />

even making prearrangements for others. He<br />

has to be ready to manage the day, no matter<br />

what comes up.<br />

As the self-proclaimed techie guru at the<br />

funeral home, he tries to make the arrangement<br />

process easier for the other funeral directors<br />

as well as families. <strong>The</strong> business is currently<br />

redesigning its website from the ground up,<br />

and the new site will be ready in April.<br />

Boulger said one of the biggest<br />

misconceptions he encounters when it comes<br />

to his work as a funeral director is that most<br />

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Michele Walloch and Jim Boulger<br />

of his time is spent in the back room preparing bodies.<br />

Ninety percent of what he does is face-to-face with families<br />

and survivors, he said.<br />

“I can’t tell you how many times people tell me ‘I can’t<br />

believe you’re a funeral director,’” he said. “I think a lot of<br />

people have this weird idea of what a funeral director is.”<br />

He said that some people generally think of a funeral<br />

director as someone who’s really somber all the time,<br />

and while that may be appropriate at times, he said most<br />

families just want someone who’s normal.<br />

“I just like to talk to people,” he said. “I try to turn a<br />

sad thing into a celebration of someone’s life.”<br />

He said getting the chance to help somebody and make<br />

new experiences is part of why he loves his job. “Getting<br />

the opportunity to hear someone’s life story is amazing,”<br />

he said.<br />

Despite all the things Boulger likes about his job, there<br />

is one thing he’s not particular fond of from time to time:<br />

the hours. “It’s not a 9 to 5 or anything like that,” he said.<br />

“People don’t die on your schedule. Whether it’s 2 a.m. or<br />

2 p.m., I put a suit on, I get in the car and I go down to the<br />

nursing home, hospital or to someone’s home if they are<br />

on hospice.”<br />

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Boulger said dealing with the emotional part of his job can be<br />

really hard. “You become attached with families so you can come<br />

down to their level, so sometimes it’s hard, but at the end of the<br />

day, you’ve still got to come to work the next day and do it, so I<br />

don’t know if you put it on the back burner or what, but you do<br />

have to make that connection with people.”<br />

Boulger said he enjoys going out into the community to speak<br />

at nursing homes or run seminars to inform people from time to<br />

time.<br />

“It’s not something everyone wants to talk about, but it’s<br />

nice to educate the community a little bit on a couple aspects<br />

[of funeral service],” he said. “I think everybody knows we’re all<br />

going to die, but nobody really wants to think about it.”<br />

“<strong>The</strong>re’s a curiosity and a mystique about death that people<br />

definitely want to pursue and ask questions about, and I think<br />

that’s a unique thing,” he said.<br />

When asked what the good life means to him, Boulger<br />

responded,<br />

“I think what I have. I think going to work<br />

every day, knowing that you’re making a<br />

difference and enjoying life the best you<br />

can. I’ve got it pretty good.”<br />

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LOCAL HEROES<br />

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PHOTO SUBMITTED BY: DAVID PAGEL<br />

THE NORTH DAKOTA<br />

PATRIOT GUARD<br />

BY: SOO ASHEIM | PHOTOS: URBAN TOAD MEDIA<br />

DEDICATED RIDERS FOR THE ONES WE LOSE<br />

We have all seen them — the men and women who<br />

ride with precision during the solemn and always sad<br />

funeral processions for the heroes we have lost during<br />

military combat, as well as those who have fallen while<br />

doing their duty to serve and protect us at home. Upon<br />

first glance, and without prior knowledge of who they<br />

are, you might think these riders are making one last ride<br />

for a motorcycle comrade, until you see that they are all<br />

carrying American flags. <strong>The</strong> flags are significant in telling<br />

the story behind the North Dakota Patriot Guard. <strong>The</strong><br />

flags tell the visual story of the respect and dignity the<br />

PGR feels for the departed, as well as for the families and<br />

friends left behind.<br />

WHO THEY ARE<br />

<strong>The</strong> North Dakota PGR members are staunch believers<br />

in America’s freedom, and they come from all walks of<br />

life. Some are veterans; some are not. <strong>The</strong>y represent no<br />

affiliation with any political organization or motorcycle<br />

“club,” nor do they all ride motorcycles. But what they<br />

all most definitely do have in common is one thing:<br />

RESPECT — a very deep and abiding respect for members<br />

of the armed forces, firefighters, police officers and first<br />

responders who place their lives in jeopardy serving our<br />

country and the ideals of American freedom for all.<br />

HOW THEY BEGAN<br />

<strong>The</strong> first group was established at an American Legion<br />

post in the town of Mulvane, Kansas, back in 2005.<br />

Originally, that group comprised motorcyclists who<br />

organized to make certain that a local family would have<br />

protection from the Westboro Baptist Church protesters<br />

during the funeral procession of a local serviceman<br />

who had died in combat. <strong>The</strong> protesters were not even<br />

protesting the war — they were expressing the hatred<br />

they felt toward homosexuals, and in some warped and<br />

convoluted thinking the Westboro protesters believed<br />

that our Iraq and Afghanistan heroes were being cut<br />

down in “divine retribution” for American tolerance of<br />

homosexuality. <strong>The</strong> mission of the Patriot Guard Riders<br />

was to shield the mourning family and friends from the<br />

protesters by blocking their view with the PGR motorcade.<br />

<strong>The</strong> PGR sang patriotic songs and revved their motorcycle<br />

engines to drown out the chanting of the protesters.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Patriot Guard Riders accomplished their mission<br />

in Kansas so well during that first escort that very soon,<br />

word spread like a California wildfire over the internet<br />

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and through word of mouth. Before<br />

long, every community in America knew<br />

about the twenty-first gladiators who<br />

rode motorcycles and walked with the<br />

American flag proudly displayed for all<br />

to salute as our fallen heroes were laid<br />

to rest. Slowly but surely, the Westboro<br />

Baptist protesters were losing every battle<br />

they waged across the country. Not only<br />

were the Westboro people not making any<br />

headway, but their protests seemed meanspirited<br />

and demeaning, especially when<br />

compared to the all-volunteer, non-violent<br />

members of the Patriot Guard Riders.<br />

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WHO INFORMS THE PGR?<br />

<strong>The</strong> Patriot Guard Riders are an allvolunteer<br />

group with leaders who form<br />

teams under Ride Captains, based on<br />

where the riders live. Because they escort<br />

funeral processions not only for military<br />

members (honorably discharged<br />

veterans, as well as those more recently<br />

in service) but also for law enforcement<br />

officers and firefighters, the only<br />

requirement they have is that they<br />

must be invited by the family of the<br />

fallen. Whenever a family member<br />

of someone who has served the<br />

country within the armed forces or<br />

in civilian life requests an escort or<br />

an honor guard, the PGR is always<br />

willing to help.<br />

<strong>The</strong> PGR forms an honor guard<br />

at military funerals, protecting<br />

the mourners from harassing<br />

onlookers if necessary, and for<br />

veterans who have little or no<br />

family, members of the PGR will<br />

fill out the ranks of mourners<br />

during the services and burials.<br />

But solemn occasions are not the<br />

only times when PGR members<br />

are present. During those happy<br />

times when soldiers return home<br />

from overseas, PGR members love<br />

to participate in the homecoming<br />

celebrations, and they are always<br />

among the first to shake the hands<br />

of the returning service personnel and<br />

thank them for the time they have given<br />

for all of us.<br />

Many of the North Dakota Patriot Guard Riders<br />

have also been involved in funeral missions<br />

in Minnesota and South Dakota. However,


PHOTO SUBMITTED BY: DAVID PAGEL<br />

each state has its own chapter and<br />

group of leaders who usually are in<br />

charge of their own regions. North<br />

Dakota has four Ride Captains. And<br />

because North Dakota has a smaller<br />

population than most states, and<br />

because the Patriot Guard Riders have<br />

such dedication to the families of our<br />

fallen heroes, many friendships and<br />

bonds have been formed that would<br />

never have occurred otherwise.<br />

Interviewing four members<br />

of Fargo’s Patriot Guard Riders,<br />

listening to the stories they shared,<br />

and watching how they react, tease,<br />

and support each other, made as clear<br />

as daylight what the PGR believes in<br />

and what their mission is truly about:<br />

dedication. <strong>The</strong>y are dedicated to<br />

honoring the memory of the heroes<br />

who have given everything so that<br />

the rest of us can have the freedom<br />

and opportunities we need in order<br />

to live the lives we want and strive to<br />

have. <strong>The</strong>y are dedicated to caring for<br />

the families of those who have died<br />

<strong>The</strong> Patriot Guard Riders believe<br />

in and what their mission is truly<br />

about: dedication.<br />

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PHOTO SUBMITTED BY: DAVID PAGEL


PHOTO SUBMITTED BY: DAVID PAGEL<br />

in the name of freedom and America. All the<br />

mothers, fathers, wives, children and siblings<br />

of every service person, police officer, firefighter<br />

or first responder need to know that their loved<br />

ones will not be forgotten as the days turn to<br />

months and years after they have been laid to<br />

rest. <strong>The</strong> members of the Patriot Guard Riders<br />

understand how very important this is to the<br />

memories of our fallen heroes and to their<br />

families and friends, who feel the anguish<br />

of not being able to share times of glory and<br />

defeat, joy and sorrow, accomplishments large<br />

and small, with the people they loved so dearly.<br />

As members of North Dakota’s Patriot Guard<br />

Riders family, these families know that there<br />

are people who truly care about them and their<br />

welfare, and that they can always find within<br />

those ranks someone who is willing to listen to<br />

their concerns.<br />

Many thanks to Teresa Terry, David<br />

Pagel, Tony Krogh and Frank Hebert for their<br />

contributions and the devotion they continue<br />

to give, to those who have served so valiantly<br />

and to their family members, as members of the<br />

North Dakota Patriot Guard.<br />

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PHOTO SUBMITTED BY: DAVID PAGEL


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BY: CANTRELL | PHOTOS: URBAN TOAD MEDIA<br />

HORSE RACING SEASON IS UPON US<br />

Dust Off Those Derby Hats and Sharpen Your Wagering Skills Because<br />

Horse Racing Season is Here<br />

<strong>The</strong> Kentucky Derby, <strong>The</strong> Preakness, <strong>The</strong> Belmont,<br />

just to name a few ... And this year the North Dakota<br />

Horse Park is pleased to announce three weekends of<br />

live racing right here in our own backyard. July 19-20,<br />

July 26-27 and August 2-3.<br />

We here at <strong>The</strong> <strong>Good</strong> <strong>Life</strong> Men’s Magazine have<br />

provided you with the basic and most popular ways for<br />

betting on your favorite pony. Go ahead … tear it out<br />

and take it with you to the track or to your favorite off<br />

track betting establishment.<br />

Now you can stand in line with the confidence of<br />

a Vegas handicapper. Impress your friends with your<br />

wagering lingo. Place your bets with the speed and flow<br />

of a hip hop artist.<br />

<strong>Good</strong> luck and please wager responsibly. Venue<br />

wagering options may vary.<br />

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<strong>June</strong> 14 Event Hopes<br />

to Raise $21,000<br />

for Area Children<br />

When Haley Dellaneva<br />

sets her mind on<br />

accomplishing<br />

something, there’s<br />

no doubt that it will<br />

happen. Three years ago, Haley and<br />

her parents started one of the most<br />

unique fundraisers in Fargo, and<br />

has had continuing success since. It<br />

sounds impressive, but even more so<br />

considering the fact that Haley is only<br />

12 years old.<br />

HALEY’S<br />

MILK RUN<br />

BY: JENESSA MCALLISTER | PHOTOS: URBAN TOAD MEDIA<br />

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Haley’s Milk Run was started three years ago when Haley<br />

noticed that some of her classmates weren’t getting milk during<br />

break time. “<strong>The</strong>re is a sign in school that says something about<br />

donating any extra money to the kids who can’t afford milk,” Haley<br />

said. “So I asked my dad if I could have some of my allowance<br />

money to donate.”<br />

Haley’s dad, Paul, was supportive of Haley’s request, and after<br />

a few days of thinking it over, they decided to take the donation<br />

one step further. “I thought, why can’t we turn this into something<br />

bigger?” Paul said. “So we decided to do something our family is<br />

familiar with — a bike run.”<br />

Haley’s Milk Run was then born. In comparison to other bike<br />

runs in the area, Haley’s Milk Run is a fairly short run, according to<br />

Paul. <strong>The</strong> participants meet at the starting location, and then ride<br />

as a group to the stops on the list. “We’ll go to bars or restaurants<br />

in towns around the area” he said. “<strong>The</strong>re’s probably 30-40 miles<br />

between stops, totaling about 130 miles when we finish.”<br />

At each of the stops, participants usually grab a bite to eat, have<br />

a drink, and have the opportunity to donate money to Haley’s Milk<br />

Run through raffle tickets and prizes.<br />

Another significant way the organization raises money is<br />

through sponsorships. According to Paul, some of the biggest<br />

sponsors this year include Topper’s, Sickie’s Garage, the Fargo VFW,<br />

West Fargo Exchange Club, Harley-Davidson of Fargo, Cullen<br />

Insulation, Thunder Road, Choice Financial Bank, WDAY 970, <strong>The</strong><br />

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PHOTO BY: PAMELA KAY PHOTOGRAPHY


Fox 107.9, Pamela Kay Photography,<br />

Lil Evil Inc, and Dave’s West Fargo<br />

Tire.<br />

This year’s event, to be held <strong>June</strong><br />

14, <strong>2014</strong>, holds a goal of raising<br />

$21,000. That will be divided between<br />

the three area schools — West Fargo,<br />

Fargo and Moorhead — resulting in<br />

$7,000 each. After everything is said<br />

and done, the money is distributed<br />

to the break time milk assistance<br />

programs at different elementary<br />

schools.<br />

For the Dellaneva family, Haley’s<br />

Milk Run is a combination of two<br />

things they are dedicated to —<br />

motorcycles and supporting elementary<br />

school kids. “It’s not fair for a child<br />

to have to watch someone else drink<br />

milk while you don’t have any,” Paul<br />

said. “Getting a break time (different<br />

than lunch) milk is so important for<br />

these kids. Studies have shown how<br />

significant it is in elementary-aged<br />

children’s development.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> Dellaneva family is so<br />

passionate about this cause, but Paul<br />

and his wife Brenda say that it couldn’t<br />

be done without the volunteer help of<br />

many others. “Our friends, coworkers<br />

and the adult motorcyclist community<br />

have really committed to this cause,<br />

and to Haley,” Paul said. “We really<br />

couldn’t do it without them.”<br />

One volunteer, family friend<br />

Rick Branvold “Uncle Rick,” is the<br />

appointed logistics coordinator for<br />

Haley’s Milk Run. “I get us to where<br />

we’re going,” he said. “I make sure<br />

everything runs smoothly during the<br />

day, and plan the route. We try to<br />

go to different places each year, and<br />

introduce people to these different<br />

area bars.”<br />

For Branvold, this cause holds a<br />

special place. “47 years ago, I was one<br />

of these kids with no milk,” he said.<br />

“<strong>The</strong> program has been around a long<br />

time. <strong>The</strong> run is a really good time,<br />

and we have a lot of fun.”<br />

To get involved in this year’s Haley’s<br />

Milk Run, check out their Facebook<br />

page for more information. <strong>The</strong> event<br />

will start at 10 a.m. at Bonanzaville in<br />

West Fargo, and the group will head<br />

out at noon. This year’s run will end<br />

PHOTO BY:<br />

PAMELA KAY PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

at Sickie’s Garage, and is sure to be a<br />

good time.<br />

While the end goal for this year’s<br />

run is $21,000, Haley has additional<br />

goals in mind. “I want other kids to be<br />

inspired,” she said. “If a kid wants to<br />

do something, they can set their mind<br />

to it and accomplish it!”<br />

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North Dakota drinks more<br />

beer per capita than any state<br />

in the union, according to the<br />

most recent study by <strong>The</strong> Beer<br />

Institute. Watch two local<br />

breweries fight for the right to<br />

be called the region’s favorite<br />

craft brewery in ten rounds<br />

of beer-fueled madness.


BY: ALICIA UNDERLEE NELSON | PHOTOS: URBAN TOAD MEDIA<br />

Junkyard Brewing Company<br />

www.junkyardbeer.com<br />

Fargo Brewing Company<br />

www.fargobrewing.com<br />

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MEET THE CONTENDERS:<br />

fargo brewing company<br />

is the seasoned veteran, incorporated in 2010.<br />

<strong>The</strong>ir tight four-man team, comprised of brothers<br />

Chris and John Anderson and friends Aaron Hill<br />

and Jared Hardy, just wrapped up a banner year.<br />

After contract brewing in Wisconsin, they moved<br />

all aspects of production to North Dakota, opening<br />

a new taproom, production brewery and canning<br />

facility in downtown Fargo. And they’re beefing up<br />

for <strong>2014</strong>, brewing new beers, increasing production<br />

capabilities, hiring two new employees and<br />

spreading the craft beer gospel (and their popular<br />

porter, Scottish ale, pale ale and IPA) into the far<br />

corners of North Dakota, Minnesota lakes country<br />

and into Duluth and the Twin Cities.<br />

Awesome beer socks!<br />

junkyard brewing company<br />

<strong>The</strong> scrappy rookie on the scene is Junkyard Brewing<br />

Company, a Moorhead-based nanobrewery run<br />

by brothers Aaron and Dan Juhnke. <strong>The</strong> brothers<br />

built their own system and started brewing locally<br />

last summer, just a few days before Fargo Brewing<br />

Company’s first batch of locally-brewed beer hit the<br />

shelves, which means they were technically the first<br />

independent craft brewery to produce product in<br />

F-M area since the 1990s. You can find their porters<br />

and IPAs, as well as a cream ale and a Russian<br />

Imperial Stout, at bars and restaurants in Fargo,<br />

Moorhead, Dilworth and Detroit Lakes and in their<br />

Moorhead brewery. <strong>The</strong> brothers are experimenting<br />

with bigger and bolder beers and their new taproom<br />

is slated to open this summer.<br />

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No alcohol was consumed<br />

during this photo shoot.


ROUND<br />

1<br />

Most Unusual Beer Ingredient<br />

“Yogurt, to brew a beer style that is supposed to have lactobacillus cultures in it.”<br />

Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />

“Thai palm sugar, Thai basil, Iraqi date syrup.”<br />

Chris Anderson, Fargo Brewing Company<br />

winner:<br />

Fargo Brewing company<br />

Fargo Brewing Company, with not one<br />

but three items you won’t find in your<br />

average grocery store.<br />

ROUND<br />

2<br />

craziest beer name<br />

“1.21 Gigahops Double IPA — light in color, fairly high in alcohol, but light and<br />

crisp in the body. <strong>The</strong>re will be a ridiculous amount of hop presence in it with<br />

a lot of pine, citrus and tropical fruit. It will probably be around 9.5% alcohol by<br />

volume.”<br />

Aaron Hill, Fargo Brewing Company<br />

“Prairie Shaman. It’s going to be an IPA<br />

with English influences. <strong>The</strong> name comes<br />

from something we call our friend Nate.<br />

He likes to collect woodsy artifacts<br />

whenever he’s out enjoying nature. At<br />

the end of a day, he’ll have pockets filled<br />

with wild sage, pieces of flint, bits of<br />

antler, and other goofy stuff.”<br />

Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />

winner: Tie<br />

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ROUND<br />

3<br />

winner:<br />

Fargo Brewing company<br />

BIGGEST SUCCESS STORY<br />

“My first homebrewed batch of beer turned out pretty well. And I used my own<br />

recipe. I was trying for something like Guinness extra stout and the beer I ended<br />

up with was more like a black IPA.”<br />

Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />

A good brew is one thing but a major production facility is quite<br />

another. This round goes to Fargo Brewing Company.<br />

“Starting a production brewery.”<br />

Chris Anderson, Fargo Brewing Company<br />

ROUND<br />

4<br />

MOST COLOSSAL BREWING FAILURE<br />

“A home-brew batch of a strong Scotch Ale that I fermented in a closet and forgot<br />

about. It blew the lid off and shot beer all over my closet.”<br />

Chris Anderson, Fargo Brewing Company<br />

“In my first year of home-brewing, I brewed in the kitchen<br />

of my house. I had an antique rifle hanging on a wall above<br />

my kitchen table, and I had a pack of really old cartridges<br />

that went with the rifle sitting, among other decorations,<br />

on top of a shelf in the kitchen. Late one night, my friend,<br />

Will (Wild Bill), and I were almost finished brewing a batch<br />

of beer.<br />

And as we conversed, Wild Bill casually reached up to lean<br />

his arm on a shelf over my stovetop. <strong>The</strong> pack of cartridges<br />

tumbled off the shelf and landed broadside, like a belly flop,<br />

in the boiling kettle of home-brew. A volcano of scalding,<br />

sweet liquid exploded from the kettle, spraying Wild Bill,<br />

myself, and my kitchen as the spilled box of cartridges came<br />

to rest at the bottom of the brew kettle, millimeters away<br />

from the red-hot burner beneath. Thankfully, Wild Bill and<br />

I were able to get the burner shut off before we found out<br />

whether .30 caliber cartridges would blow up under those<br />

circumstances.”<br />

Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />

winner:<br />

JUNKYARD Brewing company<br />

This is a tough one. Both involve explosions, but the threat<br />

of death gives the Junkyard Brewing Company a slight edge.<br />

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ROUND<br />

5<br />

winner:<br />

JUNKYARD Brewing company<br />

ROUND<br />

6<br />

SCARIEST BEER TO BREW<br />

“A light lager, because there’s nowhere to hide. It has to be flawless.”<br />

Chris Anderson, Fargo Brewing Company<br />

“<strong>The</strong> aforementioned ‘bullet brew’, for obvious reasons.”<br />

Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />

<strong>The</strong> threat of an untimely demise is still scarier<br />

than less than perfect beer <strong>–</strong> but not by much.<br />

GNARLIEST<br />

BEARD CONTEST<br />

“<strong>The</strong> Anderson brothers will<br />

have to fight over this one. I<br />

would say that whoever has his<br />

beard in cornrow braids by the<br />

photo shoot would win.” Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />

“John Anderson. It’s long, and strong and down<br />

to get the friction on.” Aaron Hill, Fargo Brewing<br />

Company<br />

winner: Fargo Brewing company<br />

Fargo Brewing Company’s John Anderson, by<br />

unanimous consent.<br />

ROUND<br />

7<br />

BIGGEST BEER NERD<br />

“I have a bunch of brewing/beer apps on my phone like the BJCP Style Guidelines,<br />

Untappd, iBrewMaster, and a yeast pitch-rate calculator.”<br />

Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />

“I’ve been to almost 1,000 breweries, I’m a certified BJCP<br />

(Beer Judge Certification Program) beer judge and all the<br />

reading materials beside my bed are brewing books. I am<br />

a nerd.” Chris Anderson, Fargo Brewing Company<br />

winner: TIE ... NERDS!<br />

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ROUND<br />

8<br />

KEG<br />

TAPPING RACE<br />

“Everyone can tap a keg under 2<br />

seconds. <strong>The</strong>y are very easy to tap.”<br />

Aaron Hill, Fargo Brewing Company<br />

“I’m positive that either Dan or I could disassemble a keg<br />

faster than any brewer in North Dakota, because we have<br />

to disassemble all our kegs to clean them. We were too<br />

cheap to buy a standard keg-washer.”<br />

Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />

ROUND<br />

9<br />

advice for<br />

beer drinkers<br />

“Don’t be afraid to try new things, but drink what you like.”<br />

Chris Anderson, Fargo Brewing Company<br />

“Beer should be something you enjoy. If you find yourself criticizing more than<br />

enjoying, you might be in danger of becoming a beer snob. Ask for samples.<br />

Bartenders really enjoy helping you find new beers to enjoy. In terms of choice and quality, Americans<br />

have the best beer in the world right now.” Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />

BONUS<br />

10<br />

ROUND<br />

If you could drink a beer with anyone in history,<br />

who would you choose and what would you drink?<br />

“Ernest Hemingway, Double IPA — because that guy had a lot of great experiences<br />

and wisdom to share about life and drink. And it’s my impression that he was kind<br />

of a wine guy so I would like to introduce him to a big beer that any wine drinker<br />

would appreciate.” Aaron Juhnke, Junkyard Brewing Company<br />

“Chris would drink a beer with Einstein.” Aaron Hill<br />

“A Russian Imperial Stout, because I’d like to see him drunk.” Chris Anderson, both Fargo Brewing Company<br />

winner: TIE<br />

So who will win the Beer Battle and the title of Most Beloved Craft Brewery? It’s a draw.<br />

Now let’s grab a beer!<br />

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winner: TIE<br />

This round was obviously way<br />

below their skill level. Junkyard<br />

Brewing Company didn’t even<br />

really answer the question.<br />

winner: JUNKYARD<br />

Brewing company<br />

Junkyard Brewing Company,<br />

for going into detail.<br />

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Grilling Season is Here!<br />

Tips and Tricks to Help You Dominate Grilling Season<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are few things that can top a warm summer day, cold drinks and meat,<br />

fresh off the grill. While hamburgers and steaks remain the classic favorite<br />

among grill fans, there has been a shift, as Americans seek to try new meats<br />

and veggies, and different grilling techniques.<br />

BY: PAUL HANKEL<br />

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T<br />

o find you the best tips,<br />

we went to the absolute<br />

authority on anything<br />

grilling, Joe Riley, a local<br />

Fargo resident, and one of<br />

the founders of GrillingAddiction.com.<br />

We asked Joe what some of his favorite<br />

techniques are, as well as how to get the<br />

most from your grill, during the short<br />

summer months.<br />

First, can you tell us a little bit about<br />

yourself, your background in grilling<br />

and how you became a go-to resource<br />

for grilling enthusiasts? How did you<br />

come up with the idea for grilling<br />

addiction?<br />

Several years ago a good friend of<br />

mine, Matt Charpentier, and I wanted<br />

to learn about cooking with charcoal/<br />

open fire. We both already had an<br />

interest in food, but limited knowledge<br />

of grilling on anything other than a<br />

traditional gas grill. We began hosting,<br />

events we dubbed Grill-A-Thons,<br />

which were really just big parties where<br />

everyone shows up with something<br />

different to grill, and we grilled all day.<br />

Doing this allowed us to experiment<br />

with different ingredients as well as<br />

techniques, without the added pressure<br />

of preparing the only main course.<br />

After we developed our skills, Grill-<br />

A-Thons inspired us to share our<br />

new found knowledge through<br />

GrillingAddiction.com.<br />

What is the key to grilling the ‘perfect’<br />

piece of meat?<br />

Don’t be afraid to season your food,<br />

and always let proteins rest after<br />

they come off the grill. <strong>The</strong> larger<br />

the protein the longer it should rest<br />

before cutting.<br />

What is your favorite meat to grill?<br />

This is a tough one, but I absolutely<br />

love beef tri-tip. Tri-tip is a small roast<br />

with great flavor, and not too much<br />

fat. It is perfect for the grill because<br />

it doesn’t take too long to cook,<br />

nor does it cook too quickly. It is<br />

also very versatile when it comes to<br />

preparation, and it works well with<br />

any type of cuisine.<br />

What is your favorite non-meat item<br />

to grill?<br />

I love grilled green beans or asparagus.<br />

I prepare both of them the same way:<br />

place them in a Ziploc bag with extra<br />

virgin olive oil, fresh citrus juice, salt,<br />

pepper, garlic and red pepper flake.<br />

Leave them in the marinade for 30<br />

minutes to an hour then grill over<br />

medium heat. <strong>The</strong>y are fantastic!<br />

From our research, it appears that<br />

people are getting creative with their<br />

grills and using them in different ways<br />

(smoking, indirect cooking etc). What<br />

are some tips or recommendations<br />

for someone looking to try one of<br />

these methods?<br />

<strong>The</strong> easiest and most versatile way<br />

to set up your grill is to use two heat<br />

zones. One zone should be set up<br />

for direct high heat, and the other for<br />

indirect low heat. <strong>The</strong> extreme high<br />

heat will allow you to get a really good<br />

sear on the outside, and then you can<br />

use the indirect side to gently bring your<br />

food up to the desired temperature.<br />

Depending on the type of food you<br />

like and the equipment you have, there<br />

really isn’t much that can’t be done on<br />

a grill.<br />

What’s your ‘perfect burger’?<br />

My perfect burger is no less than 1/3lb.<br />

of organic, grass fed beef. I preseason the<br />

ground beef with Cajun seasoning, and<br />

leave the salt for latter. Mix the ground<br />

beef gently and quickly being sure not<br />

to over work it. After making the patties,<br />

season the outside with salt. Use a high<br />

heat to get a good sear and finish them<br />

indirectly, to your desired doneness.<br />

At this point the only requirement is<br />

cheese, I like blue cheese, and you can’t<br />

go wrong with bacon.<br />

What does living, ‘the good life,’ mean<br />

to you?<br />

Living the good life is spending time<br />

with family, and friends, enjoying good<br />

beer, and good food. Doing all of this<br />

while at the lake is living the great life.<br />

Riley’s advice is simple: use the correct<br />

amount of heat, keep seasoning timely<br />

and simple, and don’t be afraid to<br />

experiment or try new things. Combine<br />

all these tips and you’ve got the recipe<br />

for a summer filled with fun and good<br />

food.<br />

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FATHERS<br />

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ONLY FROM DAD:<br />

5 THINGS TO TEACH YOUR CHILD<br />

BY: CAREY CASEY | WWW.FATHERS.COM<br />

they grow up so fast, and before we know it<br />

they’re moving out and getting on with their<br />

lives. Also, it’s sobering but true: none of us<br />

have a guarantee that we’ll be here tomorrow.<br />

You never know when something tragic could<br />

happen.<br />

I’m not telling you all this to bring you down, but to<br />

remind you how important it is to have your priorities<br />

straight. It’s too easy to get caught up in the busy-ness of<br />

life and coast along.<br />

A while back, I heard about a great idea from a<br />

committed father named Bob — a way to be purposeful<br />

about the time he has left with his three sons at home.<br />

Part of living out that commitment includes leading<br />

regular family meetings, where everyone has a chance to<br />

talk about what’s going on and share any concerns they<br />

may have.<br />

One day Bob came to the family time with this<br />

exercise: each of the boys had to come up with five<br />

things they wanted to learn before they leave home.<br />

Bob and his wife came up five things they thought their<br />

sons needed to learn as well.<br />

By the next meeting, the boys had listed things like:<br />

how to fix various things on the car; how to manage their<br />

time; how to find a job; how to cook eggs and French<br />

toast; how to fix or replace a faucet.<br />

What would your kids say? <strong>May</strong>be it’s time to ask.<br />

I know teenagers often act like they already know<br />

everything, but eventually all kids realize that they<br />

don’t. <strong>The</strong>y’ll leave home one day and there’s a lot of<br />

information and skills they’ll need if they’re going to do<br />

well on their own.<br />

A big part of our job is coaching them now as we<br />

prepare them for that time. <strong>The</strong>re are hundreds or even<br />

thousands of things our children need to see and do and<br />

learn, and as dads, we’re in the best position to teach<br />

them many of those things. It’s a never-ending task, so<br />

we need to get started.<br />

So, your number one action point for today is to<br />

follow Bob’s lead and ask your kids what they want to<br />

learn from you. Start with five things for now; you can<br />

always add to them later, or start a new list once you<br />

have the first one checked off.<br />

It’s a great exercise to help get some specific goals in<br />

front of you for each of your kids. And it might help you<br />

keep them as a high priority and make the most of every<br />

opportunity you have with them.<br />

Action Points for Dads on the Journey<br />

• Talk with your children’s mother about an<br />

age-appropriate goal or skill for each of your<br />

children to learn (and for you to work on with<br />

them) during the next month — tying shoe<br />

laces, doing dishes, mowing the grass, finding<br />

useful information on the Internet, checking<br />

the air in the car’s tires, etc.<br />

• Give your children a glimpse of your<br />

budget and regular bills you pay, so they gain a<br />

better understanding of how much it costs just<br />

to keep the lights on and food in the pantry.<br />

• No matter what your child’s age, recruit<br />

him or her to assist you this weekend as you<br />

take care of a routine home maintenance task.<br />

• Help your kids find authors that they love<br />

to read.<br />

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