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INSPIRATION<br />

Surround Yourself with<br />

People Who Believe In You<br />

Spending time with people who believe<br />

in you is key to growing in confidence!<br />

Even when you have a solid identity and<br />

are rooted in truth, the encouragement of<br />

others who believe in you is important.<br />

Even if you trust yourself, every guy<br />

has moments where an extra word of<br />

encouragement is necessary to ask a girl<br />

out, apply for a new job, or make a risky<br />

investment.<br />

Mentorship<br />

Having friends that believe in you is<br />

helpful. Having a mentor that believes<br />

in who you are becoming is empowering.<br />

Receiving input, wisdom, and instruction<br />

from a trusted mentor naturally builds<br />

confidence in men. When you trust the<br />

voices speaking into your life you’ll have<br />

more confidence to actually walk out that<br />

advice. A good mentor sees the areas of<br />

life where you’re already confident and<br />

will encourage you in them, while still<br />

challenging you in the areas you need to<br />

grow in.<br />

Don’t Let Failure Pull You<br />

Down<br />

If you’re constantly beating yourself up<br />

for every mistake and shortcoming, it’s<br />

difficult to grow in confidence as a man.<br />

Just because you fail once, don’t throw<br />

your confidence away! Facing areas of<br />

past failure and conquering them brings<br />

life to men. Part of growing in confidence<br />

is overcoming obstacles. Failure is tough,<br />

but you’ll gain a greater trust in yourself<br />

by not giving up.<br />

Stay Patient, You’ll Make It<br />

Growing in true confidence takes time<br />

and effort. Sure, looking great and<br />

being fit can help improve confidence<br />

momentarily. True personal confidence<br />

goes beyond outward appearances.<br />

Growing in confidence comes from<br />

proper foundational identity & trusting<br />

yourself. You will feel empowered when<br />

you surround yourself with people who<br />

believe in you, and challenge you to grow.<br />

So what do men do at the<br />

salon?<br />

<strong>The</strong>re’s a big difference between giving<br />

a man a manicure and waxing his chest,<br />

or giving him a massage. A good male<br />

treatment menu should ideally be short,<br />

concise and cover all the basics a facial,<br />

manicure and pedicure, waxing, massage.<br />

‘80% of women surveyed didn’t like hairy<br />

back. Men still have a lot of guilt about<br />

relaxing, turning off and letting go. It has<br />

been noted that younger men are more<br />

likely to take advantage of services offered<br />

at salons. 25% of men 18-34 report having<br />

a manicure or pedicure. Meanwhile, 38%<br />

of men aged 18-34 have had a facial or<br />

body treatment, compared to only 15% of<br />

men aged 55+. Indeed, 20% of men and<br />

22% of women aged 18-34 have had a<br />

facial at a salon. While these treatments<br />

are not as “beauty focused” as women’s<br />

treatments, they help men to look clean<br />

and groomed, a growing trend among the<br />

male population Mintel research finds.<br />

Among those men that do visit a salon<br />

for a haircut or other treatment, they<br />

go more frequently than their female<br />

counterparts. For example, 39% of men<br />

surveyed who have had a facial say they<br />

get one once a week, compared to 6% of<br />

women.<br />

“It’s possible that the segment of<br />

men who get beauty treatments are more<br />

concerned with their appearance, so<br />

they tend to visit salons more frequently<br />

,” says Amy Ziegler, global personal<br />

care analyst at Mintel. “While these<br />

findings are interesting, it is important to<br />

keep in mind that men who get beauty<br />

services still make up a small portion<br />

of the population.” guys are getting<br />

laser treatments to remove unwanted<br />

tattoos, fix a botched hair transplant,<br />

and most commonly, to erase acne scars,<br />

Dr. Schweiger says. “<strong>The</strong> most effective<br />

treatment for severe acne scarring is<br />

the Fractional CO2 laser, which pokes<br />

microscopic holes in the skin to stimulate<br />

the production of new collagen to fill in<br />

the acne scars and create smoother skin.<br />

In Kenya, more and more men are<br />

visiting salons. <strong>The</strong>y require services such<br />

as manicure, pedicure and facials. <strong>The</strong>y<br />

also go for haircuts (highest demand)<br />

for wet shaving, hair dye, Rasta, tattoos,<br />

massaging and waxing among others.<br />

Salon owners who have recognized this<br />

are working overtime to ensure that they<br />

meet men’s needs and such entrepreneurs<br />

seem to be advancing faster than they<br />

would have without this added advantage.<br />

Something shocking about Kenyan men<br />

according to a study is that there are a<br />

good number who do not brush their<br />

teeth regularly. Picking your nose and<br />

constantly chewing gum publicly are<br />

activities you should avoid at all costs.<br />

Some interesting facts<br />

about men and women-<br />

Good men quotes<br />

• Every woman deserves<br />

a man that can make her<br />

forget her heart was<br />

ever broken<br />

• If someone is willing to<br />

cheat with you, they will<br />

cheat on you. As much<br />

as you hate to believe it,<br />

you are not the<br />

exception to the rule<br />

• We met for a reason,<br />

either you are a blessing<br />

or a lesson<br />

• When you love<br />

someone more than<br />

they deserve, surely<br />

they will hurt you more<br />

than you deserve<br />

• A man’s biggest mistake<br />

is giving another man<br />

the opportunity to make<br />

his woman smile<br />

• Sometimes a man’s<br />

purpose in a<br />

woman’s life is to<br />

help her become a<br />

better woman for<br />

another man<br />

• A good man, is a good<br />

man, whether in this<br />

church, or out of it…<br />

Brigham Young<br />

• All good men are happy<br />

when they choose to be<br />

their own authors.<br />

Those who choose to<br />

have others edit their<br />

pathways, must live on<br />

the edge of another<br />

man’<br />

• Evil prospers when<br />

good men do nothing-<br />

John Philpot Curran<br />

• Do you want the truth?<br />

48 SEPTEMBER - OCTOBER <strong>2016</strong>

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