Wedding Customs - A call to the Sunnah

uncommon for the bride and the groom to hire a horse and carriage
and it is also known that people have gone as far as hiring a helicopter
for the occasion. This can be nothing but exhibitionism and gross
extravagance. The Qur'\n carries a grave warning for such behaviour.
The custom of providing guests with transportation goes too far. Those
who are privileged to have been invited, should at least make their
own way.
OFFERING GIFTS 'MO'HARUE’
One elaborate ritual in Hindu marriage is the exchange of gifts. For this
rite a special occasion called Mo'harue is set aside. Depending on the
geographical area of India, special close relatives begin the process of
giving presents followed by other invited guests. In Gujarat, a state in
India, the paternal uncles of the bride initiate the process. However,
there is a lack of sincerity and honesty from both the parties.
This form of exhibitionism is against the teachings of Isl\m. Isl\m
teaches us to offer gifts to friends, neighbours and relatives for mutual
benefit and appreciation and strengthening ties. The quality or
expense of the gift is not considered but the love and value of
friendship it denotes should be assessed. Isl\m promotes the giving of
presents but one should be cautious about the intention in giving the
present.
`¬'ishah y said, that the Messenger of All\h r is reported to have said,
"Give presents to one another, for a present removes hatred."
Tirmidh| and Ab[ D\w[d
However, in weddings today a great show is made by the giver, up to
the point that the presents are wrapped in transparent paper and
exhibited to all before giving. The recipient afterwards makes a note in
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