How to Save Husband Wife Relationship

Relationship Problem: Sex
Even partners who love each other can be a mismatch, sexually. Mary Jo Fay, author
of Please Dear, Not Tonight, says a lack of sexual self-awareness and education worsens
these problems. But having sex is one of the last things you should give up, Fay says.
"Sex," she says, "brings us closer together, releases hormones that help our bodies
both physically and mentally, and keeps the chemistry of a healthy couple healthy.“
* Plan, plan, plan. Fay suggests making an appointment, but not necessarily at night
when everyone is tired. Maybe during the baby's Saturday afternoon nap or a "beforework
quickie." Ask friends or family to take the kids every other Friday night for a
sleepover. "When sex is on the calendar, it increases your anticipation," Fay says.
Changing things up a bit can make sex more fun, too, she says. Why not have sex in the
kitchen? Or by the fire? Or standing up in the hallway?
* Learn what truly turns you and your partner on by each of you coming up with a
personal "Sexy List," suggests California psychotherapist Allison Cohen. Swap the lists
and use them to create more scenarios that turn you both on.
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* If your sexual relationship problems can't be resolved on your own, Fay recommends
consulting a qualified sex therapist to help you both address and resolve your issues.