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<strong>September</strong> <strong>2017</strong><br />

Vol 5 No 2<br />

Bitterness,<br />

Anger, Rage...<br />

Q&A with<br />

Jessica Hunt<br />

Moved Back North:<br />

Things I Will Miss Most<br />

About <strong>Southwest</strong><br />

<strong>Louisiana</strong><br />

Peace in the Great Outdoors<br />

with Carra Sergeant, Licensed<br />

Pr<strong>of</strong>essional Counselor<br />

SWLA Health,<br />

Wealth & Wellness<br />

Bridal Guide to Understanding<br />

and Decreasing Stress<br />

Emily Ashworth, RN, BSN<br />

Reflective Light<br />

Ronald J. Blanchard<br />

Husbands, Love Your Wives<br />

Adventures<br />

<strong>of</strong> the Lake<br />

Ian Thibodeaux<br />

A Wedding to Remember<br />

SWLA News<br />

Shattered and<br />

Scattered Pieces:<br />

Finding Peace After<br />

Hurricane Harvey<br />

SWLA<br />

BOOK<br />

REVIEW<br />

“K is for Kindergarten”<br />

By Erin Dealey


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editor’s<br />

By Brenda Hill<br />

Nonviolent Protests...<br />

Nonviolent Resistance<br />

I<br />

learned phenomenal lessons during<br />

the Civil Rights Movement from the<br />

years 1954-1965.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re were many conversations in my<br />

home about nonviolent protests and<br />

nonviolent resistance when showing<br />

disapproval or displeasure about issues.<br />

We owned the only black and white tv<br />

on our side <strong>of</strong> a segregated community. I<br />

still remember details about Emmitt Till’s<br />

murder, the Montgomery Bus Boycott,<br />

church bombings, school integrations<br />

etc., on that black and white tube.<br />

For a young mind, those black and white<br />

images lacked the more colorful details<br />

<strong>of</strong> nonviolent protesters being slapped,<br />

spit on and brutally beaten while sitting<br />

at cafe counters to order a meal.<br />

Children were allowed to gather with<br />

friends, family and neighbors who came<br />

over to watch the current news and other<br />

reports happening around the world.<br />

We knew that this was an important and<br />

serious gathering for our community.<br />

Cameron, La. did not have nonviolent<br />

protests that I was aware <strong>of</strong>, but we<br />

watched nonviolent protests happening<br />

in other areas.<br />

When the news ended, conversations<br />

started about why protesters chose<br />

to be nonviolent while expressing<br />

dissatisfaction and disapproval <strong>of</strong><br />

inequality between white and black<br />

America. <strong>The</strong> discussion emphasized one<br />

message in those gatherings. “We are<br />

all brothers and sisters and that is what<br />

Jesus died for.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> Civil Rights Act <strong>of</strong> 1964 with<br />

nonviolent protests and nonviolent<br />

resistance ended segregation in public<br />

places and banned employment<br />

discrimination on the basis <strong>of</strong> race,<br />

color, religion, sex or national origin.<br />

It is considered a prime legislative<br />

achievement <strong>of</strong> the civil rights movement<br />

today.<br />

What will our children and grandchildren<br />

remember from today’s violent protests?<br />

How will the colorful graphic images<br />

impact them?<br />

Who is providing dialogue and<br />

explanations in their home, church and<br />

community about what is happening and<br />

why?<br />

Will they grow up and retaliate? Or not?<br />

“We are all brothers and sisters<br />

and that is what Jesus died for.”<br />

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<strong>September</strong> <strong>2017</strong><br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Voice</strong>'s Choice will spotlight groups,<br />

individuals or topics that spread love, joy<br />

and peace throughout SWLA.<br />

3 EDITOR'S PEN<br />

NONVIOLENT PROTESTS...NONVIOLENT RESISTANCE<br />

6 SWLA NEWS<br />

I-10 BRIDGE<br />

14 SWLA BOOK REVIEW<br />

“K IS FOR KINDERGARTEN”<br />

16 REFLECTIVE LIGHT<br />

HUSBANDS, LOVE YOUR WIVES<br />

8 SHATTERED AND SCATTERED<br />

PIECES:<br />

FINDING PEACE AFTER HURRICANE HARVEY<br />

10 LABOR DAY:<br />

A LOOK AT THE HISTORY<br />

11 CHRISTUS LAKE AREA<br />

HOSPITAL CELEBRATES 7TH<br />

ANNIVERSARY OF LIVEWELL<br />

WOMEN’S PROGRAM<br />

INSPIRATIONAL SURVIVOR ALLISON MASSARI TO<br />

HEADLINE CELEBRATION EVENT SCHEDULED FOR<br />

SEPTEMBER 21ST<br />

12 BITTERNESS, ANGER, RAGE...<br />

PEACE IN THE GREAT OUTDOORS<br />

Cover Page Photo taken at Sunflower<br />

Trail in Gilliam, LA. by IRMA ROBIN<br />

EDITOR-IN-CHIEF | Brenda Hill<br />

brenda@thevoice<strong>of</strong>southwestla.com<br />

GENERAL MANAGER | Tracy Clark<br />

tracy@thevoice<strong>of</strong>southwestla.com<br />

ART DIRECTOR | Vinh Alexander<br />

tvswlart@gmail.com<br />

SALES | Lori Ross<br />

loriross3422@gmail.com<br />

18 MY SENIOR MOMENT 2.0<br />

DIDN’T GIVE UP OUR DAY JOBS<br />

20 SWLA SPORTS<br />

HIGH SCHOOL FOOTBALL HOME GAMES<br />

22 SWLA HEALTH, WEALTH &<br />

WELLNESS<br />

BRIDAL GUIDE TO UNDERSTANDING AND<br />

DECREASING STRESS<br />

24 ADVENTURES OF THE LAKE<br />

A WEDDING TO REMEMBER<br />

26 Q&A WITH JESSICA HUNT<br />

I’VE MOVED BACK NORTH: THESE ARE THINGS I WILL<br />

MISS MOST<br />

www.thevoice<strong>of</strong>southwestla.com<br />

COPY EDITORS<br />

Jason Clark, Cecely Clark,<br />

Ann Champagne<br />

CONSULTANTS<br />

Gene R. Hill, Sr., Reginald Clark<br />

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS<br />

Tori Hebert • Ronald J. Blanchard<br />

Joyce R. Kebodeaux • Ian Thibodeaux Emily<br />

Ashworth, RN, BSN • Jessica Hunt<br />

Carra Sergeant, LPC • Terri Schlichenmeyer<br />

Charles A. Honore graduated from<br />

Xavier University, taught chemistry,<br />

physics and served as counselor at<br />

Washington High School. Named<br />

Assistant Principal at W. O. Boston<br />

High School. After two years, named<br />

principal <strong>of</strong> Marion High School,<br />

then Director <strong>of</strong> Special Services for<br />

Calcasieu Parish Schools. Later, he<br />

became Assistant Superintendent,<br />

then Deputy Superintendent and<br />

finally acting Superintendent. He<br />

helped organize the Lake Charles<br />

Charter School System and serves as<br />

vice president <strong>of</strong> their board to <strong>of</strong>fer<br />

parents a choice for their children.<br />

Honore's motto, "Be silent as to the<br />

services you have rendered, but speak<br />

to the favors you have received."<br />

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SOUTHWEST LOUISIANA<br />

CHARTER ACADEMY<br />

LAKE CHARLES<br />

COLLEGE PREP<br />

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SWLA news<br />

By Brenda Hill<br />

I-10<br />

Bridge<br />

Public Meeting #2 was held<br />

at the Lake Charles Civic<br />

Center in the Contraband<br />

Room on August 3, <strong>2017</strong><br />

from 5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.<br />

According to the <strong>Louisiana</strong><br />

Department <strong>of</strong> Transportation<br />

and Development (LADOTD),<br />

the purpose <strong>of</strong> this meeting was to<br />

provide an opportunity to gather<br />

information and provide comments<br />

about these following:<br />

• Preliminary Alternatives<br />

• Alternatives Screening<br />

Methodolology Screening Results<br />

• Reasonable Alternatives<br />

Recommended for Further Analysis<br />

on Environmental Impact Statement<br />

(EIS).<br />

<strong>The</strong> proposed project included<br />

improvements to I-10 between the<br />

I-10/210 east and west interchanges in<br />

the Lake Charles region, including the<br />

Calcasieu River Bridge, a distance <strong>of</strong><br />

approximately 9 miles.<br />

<strong>The</strong> project addresses four needs:<br />

• Inadequate System Connectivity<br />

• Increased Traffic Congestion<br />

• Roadway and Bridge Deficiencies<br />

• Roadway and Bridge Safety<br />

Concerns.<br />

Preliminary Alternatives under<br />

evaluation include:<br />

• No-Build Alternatives<br />

• Transportation Systems<br />

Management Alternative<br />

• Transportation Demand<br />

Management Alternative<br />

• High Occupancy Vehicle Alternative<br />

• Four Preliminary Build Alternatives<br />

(PBA).<br />

• <strong>The</strong> Preliminary Alternatives will<br />

undergo a two-tiered screening<br />

process.<br />

It is anticipated that by year 2040,<br />

traffic levels will exceed the bridges’s<br />

safe capacity <strong>of</strong> 37,000 vehicles per day.<br />

<strong>The</strong> LADOTD, using Federal funds, is<br />

proposing to replace the Calcasieu River<br />

Bridge (Structure No. 07104509127691,<br />

Recall No. 032780) located on I-20 in<br />

Calcasieu Parish.<br />

Under the Federal Highway<br />

Administration (FHWA) Nation<br />

Performance Management Measures, the<br />

Calcasieu River Bridge is considered to be<br />

in poor condition.<br />

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Editor's Note: This is the ninth in a series <strong>of</strong> stories that<br />

will focus on the Interstate 10 Bridge replacement project.<br />

LADOTD, in conjunction with the<br />

<strong>Louisiana</strong> State Historic Preservation<br />

Office (SHPO) and the Advisory Council<br />

on Historic Places (ACHP) has completed<br />

a Historic Bridge Inventory Study <strong>of</strong><br />

pre-1971 structures in <strong>Louisiana</strong>. <strong>The</strong><br />

Calcasieu River Bridge is categorized<br />

as a non-priority bridge because it is<br />

not an ideal candidate for long-term<br />

preservation.<br />

http://www.sp.dotd.la.gov/Inside_<br />

LaDOTD/Divisions/Engineering/HBI/<br />

Pages/default.aspx<br />

Several concerned residents from Lake<br />

Charles, Westlake, Sulphur and other<br />

areas came and shared their comments.<br />

Debra Ramirez passionately expressed<br />

her concerns about history from the<br />

past, such as Cole vs Matheson and<br />

Scott vs Continental Oil that should be<br />

considered in the replacement process.<br />

Sandra Bullock reminisced about surveys<br />

and information gathered over 40 years<br />

ago, and still waiting for a replacement<br />

bridge.<br />

Betty Bates, Westlake City Council,<br />

expressed her concerns for easy access<br />

from Westlake to St Patrick’s Hospital,<br />

via I-210, when experiencing medical<br />

emergencies.<br />

Elizabeth Hersey is right <strong>of</strong>f the highway<br />

in Westlake and is concerned about big<br />

trucks that fall <strong>of</strong>f the bridge.<br />

Comments on the project will be<br />

accepted for 45 days following the public<br />

meeting date.<br />

Comments that became part <strong>of</strong> the<br />

<strong>of</strong>ficial public meeting record needed to<br />

be postmarked no later than August 14,<br />

<strong>2017</strong>.<br />

Visit www.i10lakecharles.com to submit<br />

comments online and to access more<br />

public meeting materials.<br />

Mail your comments to the following address:<br />

I-10 Calcasieu River Bridge Project<br />

c/o HNTB Corporation<br />

2021 Lakeshore Drive Suite 230<br />

New Orleans, LA 70122<br />

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SWLA news<br />

Shattered and Scattered Pieces:<br />

Finding Peace After Hurricane Harvey<br />

By Carra Sergeant, LPC<br />

Each <strong>of</strong> us at <strong>The</strong> <strong>Voice</strong> <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>Southwest</strong> <strong>Louisiana</strong> sends up<br />

our most sincere prayers for those<br />

affected by Hurricane Harvey, for all<br />

<strong>of</strong> your loss and especially <strong>of</strong> a family<br />

member, friend, loved one, etc.<br />

KPLC TV powerfully captured moving<br />

images <strong>of</strong> empathy, compassion and<br />

community support from our neighbors,<br />

helping and caring for those affected<br />

locally and throughout Texas. May these<br />

images forever light love in our hearts<br />

and minds, and lie in stark comparison<br />

to the images <strong>of</strong> hatred and divisiveness,<br />

seen just the week before.<br />

For some <strong>of</strong> you, the physical recovery<br />

has begun: you returned home and<br />

surveyed the shattered and scattered<br />

pieces <strong>of</strong> your lives. <strong>The</strong> clean-up effort<br />

begins as you sift through the remnants<br />

<strong>of</strong> your possessions. You make decisions<br />

regarding what can be retrieved, repaired<br />

or discarded. This may be your NEW<br />

NORMAL. Unfortunately, it may be that<br />

way for a while.<br />

It is likely that most <strong>of</strong> you have not yet<br />

even processed the emotional damage<br />

that you have incurred. You rage, you cry<br />

and then you square your shoulders and<br />

start doing WHATEVER you need to do to<br />

survive. <strong>The</strong> human instinct for survival<br />

is raw and primal. <strong>The</strong> adrenaline surge<br />

during a traumatic event pushes one<br />

into “autopilot” and (almost mindlessly)<br />

moves from one moment to the next.<br />

Eventually, however, the magnitude <strong>of</strong><br />

this “new normal” comes crashing down<br />

and we reach an emotional crossroad.<br />

I lost my childhood home in Katrina. I<br />

lived in a FEMA trailer after Rita. Ten years<br />

later, I still get dizzy and nauseated at the<br />

thought <strong>of</strong> a hurricane headed towards<br />

SWLA. Hurricane Harvey reopened those<br />

wounds for me and though I am thankful<br />

to have not been impacted by Harvey’s<br />

devastation, I want you to understand<br />

this: the emotional impact <strong>of</strong> a hurricane<br />

is powerful and can be very long lasting.<br />

Several studies conducted after Katrina<br />

and Sandy, (http://www.nature.com/<br />

news/hurricane-katrina-s-psychologicalscars-revealed-1.18234);<br />

(http://news.<br />

rutgers.edu/research-news/superstormsandy-child-and-family-health-studyfinds-lingering-effects-mental-healthdistress<br />

ptsd/20150729#.WayhosiGPIU),<br />

noted that instances <strong>of</strong> mental health<br />

issues almost doubled in the aftermath<br />

<strong>of</strong> these storms and revealed that these<br />

events had lingering scars. Post-Traumatic<br />

Stress Disorder (PTSD) is a condition that<br />

is most <strong>of</strong>ten associated with postwar<br />

veterans, however, psychologists almost<br />

universally agree that survivors <strong>of</strong> natural<br />

disasters also experience PTSD.<br />

Symptoms may include, but are not<br />

limited to: heightened agitation<br />

continuing years after the event;<br />

nightmares and flashbacks; physical<br />

avoidance <strong>of</strong> any reminders <strong>of</strong> the events.<br />

So what do we need to do to take care <strong>of</strong><br />

our emotional needs, while tending to the<br />

business <strong>of</strong> survival:<br />

Cry, rage, pray…repeat as <strong>of</strong>ten<br />

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Feeling scared,<br />

uncertain and sad does<br />

not mean you are weak.<br />

It means that you are<br />

human...<br />

as necessary:<br />

This has been a devastating blow to life<br />

as you knew it. Allow yourself to cry and<br />

grieve, and give yourself permission to<br />

get angry. Pray for strength to put one<br />

foot in front <strong>of</strong> the other as you rebuild<br />

your life.<br />

Take a “flight <strong>of</strong> fancy” and allow<br />

your mind to escape the horror:<br />

Turn <strong>of</strong>f “autopilot,” stop moving for a<br />

second and imagine what your new life<br />

will look like. It may even help to write<br />

your vision down on paper. <strong>The</strong> act <strong>of</strong><br />

journaling sends a chemical signal to<br />

your brain. It enables you to quickly<br />

adapt to a new reality.<br />

Allow yourself to accept<br />

emotional support:<br />

Feeling scared, uncertain and sad<br />

does not mean you are weak. It means<br />

that you are human. Talk about it to<br />

someone…anyone…everyone. You will<br />

find that you are not alone and that there<br />

is power in numbers.<br />

You have just endured a horrific<br />

event! Take care <strong>of</strong> your body:<br />

Try to eat healthier and although sleep<br />

may be elusive, try to get enough sleep.<br />

Take time to do something enjoyable,<br />

such as chat with a family member or<br />

play with your children (they need to play<br />

now more than ever before).<br />

Set a new routine to help you<br />

adjust to your “New Normal”:<br />

Schedule your activities each day and<br />

try to maintain that new schedule.<br />

Consistency, over a period <strong>of</strong> time, will<br />

bring an enhanced sense <strong>of</strong> peace to you<br />

and your family.<br />

None <strong>of</strong> this will be easy. <strong>The</strong>re will be<br />

days when you are so worn out that you<br />

will find yourself on the brink <strong>of</strong> giving<br />

up, BUT YOU WON’T! <strong>The</strong>re will be days<br />

when you just do not want to get out <strong>of</strong><br />

bed, BUT YOU WILL! <strong>The</strong>re will be days<br />

that you will be so angry that you want<br />

to yell and scream at anyone who comes<br />

near you, BUT YOU DON’T! <strong>The</strong>re will be<br />

days when you do not want to raise your<br />

voice in prayer, BUT YOU DO!<br />

<strong>The</strong> beauty <strong>of</strong> brokenness is that God can<br />

put the pieces back together. Jeremiah<br />

17:14<br />

I look forward to being your monthly<br />

companion on your journey <strong>of</strong> creating<br />

PEACE FROM PIECES.<br />

CARRA SERGEANT<br />

Licensed Pr<strong>of</strong>essional Counselor<br />

Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist<br />

PEACE FROM PIECES COUNSELING<br />

3915 Patrick Street; Suite #109<br />

Lake Charles, LA<br />

For a private appointment,<br />

call 337-317-7651<br />

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SWLA education<br />

Labor Day:<br />

A Look at<br />

the History<br />

By Tori Hebert<br />

Labor Day has multiple meanings.<br />

For some, it means a day <strong>of</strong>f<br />

from work and quality time at<br />

the family B-B-Q. Some children around<br />

the country know that Labor Day means<br />

summer is over and it’s time to get back<br />

to the books. And for the fashion forward,<br />

Labor Day is the last expectable day to<br />

wear white clothing. No matter where<br />

Labor Day finds you, you are bound to<br />

see retail sales, family gatherings, and<br />

football games. It’s one last hoorah for<br />

summer and a warm welcome to the<br />

fall. <strong>The</strong> long weekend we enjoy today<br />

formed during hard times in American<br />

history.<br />

Labor Day finds its roots at the height<br />

<strong>of</strong> the Industrial Revolution. Twelvehour<br />

work days were normal and it was<br />

no surprise to see children as young as<br />

5 working around heavy machinery and<br />

factory tools. It was strenuous work, but it<br />

had to be done for families to just barely<br />

get by. During this time, labor unions saw<br />

exponential growth. <strong>The</strong> unions were<br />

formed to push for better hours, higher<br />

wages, and better working conditions.<br />

A major function to spread the word<br />

and raise attention to these goals were<br />

rallies and worker strikes. One <strong>of</strong> the most<br />

famous <strong>of</strong> these events is the Haymarket<br />

Riot <strong>of</strong> 1886.<br />

This gathering started out peaceful<br />

but ended with multiple deaths after<br />

a bomb was thrown in to the crowd<br />

and police opened fire. Another notable<br />

trial <strong>of</strong> the time was the Pullman railway<br />

car boycott. Railway traffic was stalled<br />

and the federal government would<br />

eventually send in military troops to end<br />

the boycott. This in turn caused riots in<br />

multiple areas and left thousands dead.<br />

<strong>The</strong> first Labor Day was celebrated<br />

on Tuesday, <strong>September</strong> 5, 1882. On<br />

this day, workers took unpaid time <strong>of</strong>f<br />

to enjoy time outside and to march in<br />

New York City. This event was repeated<br />

again the next year and rapidly gained<br />

popularity in multiple cities.<br />

Twelve years later in 1894, the federal<br />

government made Labor Day a<br />

national holiday. <strong>The</strong> <strong>September</strong> date<br />

was chosen to be consistent with its<br />

previous celebrations, and because it<br />

was a convenient place between Fourth<br />

<strong>of</strong> July and Thanksgiving. <strong>The</strong> Haymarket<br />

Riot and the Pullman boycott, which both<br />

took place in May, are also believed to<br />

have had influence on keeping our Labor<br />

Day from being a spring holiday.<br />

As we look forward to fun in the sun, we<br />

must never forget the ones who came<br />

before us that paved the way for what we<br />

enjoy today.<br />

To learn more about Labor Day<br />

check out:<br />

Here’s Why We Celebrate Labor<br />

Day from Time.com<br />

Labor Day from History.com<br />

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SWLA nonpr<strong>of</strong>it<br />

CHRISTUS Lake Area<br />

Hospital Celebrates 7th<br />

Anniversary <strong>of</strong> LiveWell<br />

Women’s Program<br />

Inspirational Survivor Allison Massari<br />

to Headline Celebration Event<br />

Scheduled for <strong>September</strong> 21st<br />

Join CHRISTUS Lake Area Hospital and CHRISTUS St. Patrick<br />

Health System for a night <strong>of</strong> insight and inspiration! Bring<br />

your girlfriends as we celebrate the 7th anniversary <strong>of</strong> this<br />

empowering women’s event on Thursday, <strong>September</strong> 21st at<br />

the Golden Nugget Lake Charles.<br />

<strong>The</strong> event will begin with a special Women’s Health Expo and<br />

Marketplace from 3 p.m. to 6 p.m. and will be open to the<br />

public. Participants can browse and shop through a variety <strong>of</strong><br />

health, wellness and retail booths featuring LiveWell Partners,<br />

area physicians and local businesses. Ticket holders will be<br />

treated to a delicious dinner followed by an unforgettable<br />

presentation from 6 – 8:30pm. Ignite the FireWithin: A Night<br />

with Allison Massari.<br />

Featured presenter, Allison Massari is hailed as “life-changing”<br />

“riveting” “bold” “extraordinary” and “deeply moving” by<br />

audiences worldwide. Her storytelling message <strong>of</strong> courage,<br />

compassion, and perseverance resonates with participants long<br />

after an event has finished. Listed as one <strong>of</strong> the Top 10 Best<br />

Speakers for “motivation” and “personal development” in the<br />

United States by Meetings & Conventions Magazine for three<br />

years in a row, Allison has been featured on ABC, NBC and FOX<br />

networks.<br />

Her story is more than just one <strong>of</strong> survival. It is a story <strong>of</strong><br />

resilience, courage and the rigorous pursuit <strong>of</strong> hope. Having<br />

triumphed over two traumatic accidents, one where she was<br />

severely burned on over 50% <strong>of</strong> her body, Allison captures the<br />

hearts <strong>of</strong> audiences, demonstrating how to move forward with<br />

speed and grace. Attendees should prepare to be taken on a<br />

journey.<br />

A limited number <strong>of</strong> tickets are still available; deadline to<br />

register is <strong>September</strong> 15th. Individual tickets are $40 per person<br />

or a table for eight is $300. For more information, please log<br />

on to ChristusHealth.org/Lake-Area and click on the LiveWell<br />

Anniversary Event or call (866) 200-3627. For questions<br />

regarding the expo and how to become a LiveWell partner<br />

please call (337) 475-4064.<br />

This is one girls' night out you won't want to miss!<br />

Allison Massari<br />

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SWLA feature story<br />

By Carra Sergeant, LPC<br />

Bitterness, Anger, Rage...<br />

Peace in the Great Outdoors<br />

It seems that we are inundated on<br />

the internet everyday with people<br />

spewing rage. <strong>The</strong> newspapers are<br />

routinely showing vivid images <strong>of</strong><br />

violence. Television’s “Breaking News” and<br />

radio headlines are filled with details <strong>of</strong><br />

horrific acts <strong>of</strong> aggression, leaving many<br />

to feel overwhelmed, over connected,<br />

overstimulated and. ANGRY...FILLED with<br />

RAGE!!!!!<br />

As children, some <strong>of</strong> us are taught very<br />

early on that sharing our feelings may<br />

make us look weak. As time goes on, we<br />

learn that anger is the only “safe” emotion<br />

because it conveys strength and power,<br />

and most importantly, shows that we are<br />

in “control.”<br />

However, anger is mostly a secondary<br />

emotion that effectively shields you from<br />

getting in touch with the “root emotion”<br />

you are experiencing.<br />

Hebrews 12:15 (NIV)<br />

encourages us to: “rid<br />

ourselves <strong>of</strong> the bitter root,<br />

so it does not grow up and<br />

cause trouble to many.”<br />

If we are willing to examine what is at the<br />

“root” <strong>of</strong> our anger, most times we find<br />

that we are feeling hurt, embarrassed,<br />

scared, insecure, helpless, or worse,<br />

hopeless.<br />

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/evolutionthe-self/200807/what-your-anger-may-be-hiding<br />

I have been a mental health practitioner<br />

for more than 30 years, and even as a<br />

seasoned therapist, I am not immune<br />

to this “bitter root.” I have personally<br />

experienced the anger, no - the SHEER<br />

RAGE, born <strong>of</strong>:<br />

• HELPLESSNESS…as an adult victim<br />

<strong>of</strong> sexual assault<br />

• HOPELESSNESS…while in the throes<br />

<strong>of</strong> substance abuse issues<br />

• INSECURITY…when my weight<br />

ballooned to 350 pounds<br />

• FEARFUL…facing my own mental<br />

health diagnosis<br />

• GRIEF...at death <strong>of</strong> both my parents<br />

• EMBARRASSED…at “less than wise”<br />

decisions I made while experiencing<br />

all <strong>of</strong> the above<br />

It seems HARD to maintain peace in<br />

today’s world. Male role-models are<br />

consistently targeted with violence,<br />

single mothers trying to keep food on<br />

the table and a ro<strong>of</strong> over their children’s<br />

heads, children living in a state <strong>of</strong> fear<br />

and confusion because life sometimes<br />

just deals them a hand that puts their<br />

face down in the dirt, working families<br />

living paycheck to paycheck and protests<br />

declaring who and what matters.<br />

In my private practice, my<br />

clients generally voice one<br />

universal message, “I am<br />

in emotional trouble, I am<br />

scared and I am angry.”<br />

Fall Season is right around the corner and<br />

is generally a time <strong>of</strong> change and<br />

turnover. So, my dear readers and<br />

viewers, in this season <strong>of</strong> change, you<br />

have a choice to make: do you want to<br />

live your life “in pieces” or do you want to<br />

live your life “in peace?” If you choose<br />

“peace,” start your journey today. GO<br />

OUTSIDE (right now, if you can). Being<br />

outside, communing with God’s nature<br />

has been scientifically proven to have a<br />

calming effect on your spirit. Even in a<br />

busy urban environment, you can still<br />

find a good place to “get still.” If there is<br />

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Happy in silence<br />

Focus on the steps you take<br />

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For a private appointment,<br />

call 337-317-7651<br />

Give thanks<br />

All Glory<br />

no park, go to your back yard. No back<br />

yard? Find an empty field. <strong>The</strong> point is,<br />

grab your headphones and get OUTSIDE<br />

(always take the usual safety<br />

precautions).<br />

www.health.harvard.edu/press_releases/spendingtime-outdoors-is-good-for-you<br />

Utilizing these steps (start with 2 times<br />

a week), I CHALLENGE YOU TO CREATE<br />

A CALMING, HEALING ROUTINE FOR<br />

YOURSELF DURING THIS SEASON OF<br />

CHANGE:<br />

1. Put on your headphones. DO NOT<br />

TURN ON THE MUSIC. <strong>The</strong> point is to<br />

experience the quiet.<br />

2. Before beginning the exercise, take<br />

five deep breaths.<br />

3. Begin to walk with slow, purposeful<br />

steps. You are not exercising…you are<br />

re-purposing your brain. Pay attention<br />

to how the ground feels under your<br />

feet. Is it crunchy? Is it smooth?<br />

4. Watch your feet as you walk. Do they<br />

turn in or out? Are you a light stepper<br />

or a heavy walker?<br />

5. Note the thoughts that pop into your<br />

head (“jeez-this is stupid” is actually<br />

the most common thought reported).<br />

6. Eventually as you walk, you will<br />

come to a spot where it feels natural<br />

to just stand still.<br />

Once in that spot, look for 10<br />

seconds at what is directly in front<br />

<strong>of</strong> you. Take in as many details as<br />

you can: the colors, the smells, the<br />

people, the landscape. Turn your<br />

full body to the right and do the<br />

same thing for 10 seconds. Another<br />

right turn – 10 seconds, and then a<br />

final right turn – 10 seconds. When<br />

you make that final turn, you will be<br />

facing where you started, but you<br />

will have experienced a detailed<br />

view <strong>of</strong> 360 NEW degrees <strong>of</strong> your life.<br />

7. Standing in place, put your hands<br />

together in front <strong>of</strong> your heart and<br />

thank God for the opportunity to<br />

notice the finer details <strong>of</strong> life you have<br />

never taken in before.<br />

8. Raise your hands slowly and open<br />

them fully to the sky. Ask for and<br />

accept the calming energy that<br />

rains on you from above. PRESENT<br />

MOMENT – HOLY MOMENT!<br />

We live busy lives and I know that<br />

this seems like just one more thing<br />

to cram into an already overcrowded<br />

schedule. Set aside this time for yourself,<br />

and I promise you that this will be<br />

the healthiest gift that you have ever<br />

received.<br />

I look forward to continuing to<br />

companion you on your journey <strong>of</strong><br />

creating PEACE FROM PIECES.<br />

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SWLA Book Review<br />

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illustrated by Joseph Cowman<br />

©<strong>2017</strong>, Sleeping Bear Press<br />

$16.99 / $19.99 Canada<br />

32 pages<br />

“K is for Kindergarten”<br />

It’s <strong>of</strong>ficial: you’re a Big Kid now!<br />

By Terri Schlichenmeyer<br />

by Erin Dealey<br />

Each week, it seems like you’re<br />

learning so many new things.<br />

You can tie your shoes, say<br />

your A-B-Cs, and make your own<br />

snacks. You help with chores around<br />

the house or maybe watch your<br />

little brother – all things that Big<br />

Kids know how to do. And in “K is<br />

for Kindergarten” by Erin Dealey,<br />

illustrated by Joseph Cowman, you’ve<br />

got some big excitement coming…<br />

For months and months, you’ve been<br />

waiting for the day to come. A is for “At<br />

Last!” Finally, it’s time to go to school,<br />

starting with Kindergarten – but do<br />

you know what happens?<br />

Well, the night before, you’ll go to bed<br />

early because S is for Sleep and even<br />

big kids need lots <strong>of</strong> that. Wake up,<br />

eat breakfast, brush your teeth, get<br />

dressed, and you may ride a bus where<br />

you’ll see smiling F is for Faces that you<br />

might even know!<br />

This shouldn’t give you the J is for<br />

Jitters. Kindergarten is fun and there’s<br />

lots to do so don’t be scared to leave<br />

your stuffies behind. E is for Elephant<br />

but yours has to stay home.<br />

Once you get to school, you’ll have a<br />

“Terrific Teacher” (that’s what T is for),<br />

who is V for “Very busy.” She’ll show<br />

you where the toys and activities are: B<br />

is for “bouncing balls at recess.” C is for<br />

coloring, G is for Games, O and P are<br />

for Outside Playground, where you’ll<br />

play with your new friends.<br />

Of course, Kindergarten is fun but<br />

it’s also work. You’ll be expected to<br />

follow the D for Directions because<br />

it’s important in every classroom. So<br />

is L for listening and knowing your<br />

Letters. H is for raising your Hand<br />

when you have a question. Q for Quiet<br />

that’s needed for reading time and for<br />

paying attention.<br />

Practice all those things and your<br />

teacher will say “W is for WOW!”<br />

Four days ago (or so it seems), your<br />

child was a babe in arms.<br />

<strong>The</strong> day before yesterday, he was just<br />

learning to walk.<br />

Today, your baby is heading to school<br />

and “K is for Kindergarten” will make<br />

both <strong>of</strong> you feel confident about this<br />

next big step.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re’s a lot, in fact, to like about<br />

this book, for you and for your child:<br />

author Erin Dealey and illustrator<br />

Joseph Cowman fill each page<br />

with cute rhymes and colorful, silly<br />

drawings to go with them. Those<br />

parts <strong>of</strong> this book show kids the fun<br />

<strong>of</strong> kindergarten, as well as the serious<br />

basics they’ll learn on their way to<br />

being good students. Hidden in the<br />

illustrations are tiny details and a findit<br />

game they’ll love.<br />

For parents, Dealey and Cowman<br />

<strong>of</strong>fer “Kinder Countdown” and “Kinder<br />

Challenge” on many pages. Those are<br />

activities to do with your child and<br />

conversation-starters, as well as tips<br />

to make it a great school year. Yes,<br />

smaller children may be interested in<br />

this book but its audience is targeted:<br />

for your late-4-to-early-6-year-old, “K is<br />

for Kindergarten” may be a pretty Big<br />

Deal.<br />

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Reflective Light INSPIRED REVELATIONS FROM A MALE PERSPECTIVE<br />

Husbands, Love Your Wives<br />

by Ronald J. Blanchard<br />

As a man reflects upon a very<br />

special day within his life that<br />

would change him for all times,<br />

there is the vague, yet unforgettable<br />

sound <strong>of</strong> music that introduces the<br />

entrance <strong>of</strong> a phenomenal woman---his<br />

bride! Standing at the end <strong>of</strong> the church<br />

aisle, with a smile on his face and<br />

perhaps the hint <strong>of</strong> a tear streaming<br />

from his eye, he is the proudest man in<br />

the world, more than lucky---blessed!<br />

With an understanding that this day<br />

was ordained before the beginning<br />

<strong>of</strong> time, he shakes her father’s hand<br />

and makes a vow before God and all<br />

humanity. However, his words must<br />

become manifest as he takes her<br />

beyond verbal adulation. Walking the<br />

walk, he <strong>of</strong>fers endless demonstrations<br />

<strong>of</strong> unconditional love.<br />

This vision in white, adorned in fine<br />

jewelry and diamond ring <strong>of</strong>fered<br />

the potential to fulfill a man’s dream.<br />

Considering that within every man<br />

there is the desire to create a legacy<br />

<strong>of</strong> love through the wonderment <strong>of</strong><br />

children, this can only be accomplished<br />

with the ‘right woman’ in his life.<br />

Time and consequences presents the<br />

opportunity for introduction, growth,<br />

and the development <strong>of</strong> relationships<br />

that may fill the void within each man.<br />

It is at this point, the unexplainable<br />

occurs—a man may get down on one<br />

knee and ask for her hand in marriage.<br />

Once she utters the word, “yes”, a man<br />

alerts all media outlets as he wants to<br />

share this news with global society. <strong>The</strong><br />

man is so proud! However, the man may<br />

forget!<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is no perfection<br />

within the flesh for true<br />

marriage is not based<br />

on the limitations <strong>of</strong><br />

physical attraction...<br />

As two becomes one, there is<br />

the constant struggle to gain an<br />

understanding <strong>of</strong> the totality <strong>of</strong> his<br />

woman, his wife. <strong>The</strong> fact is that she is<br />

not ‘his’ wife, she is his partner for life.<br />

This may be spoken hypothetically,<br />

but the hope is that it is a reality. <strong>The</strong><br />

man must learn to know that she is<br />

not there to complete his identity, but<br />

<strong>of</strong>fer the assets <strong>of</strong> her individuality.<br />

Together, they form the bond <strong>of</strong><br />

infinite possibilities as they contribute<br />

to society, nurturing today’s children<br />

that will become tomorrow’s people.<br />

<strong>The</strong> man must abandon the idea<br />

<strong>of</strong> self-centered thinking. He must<br />

consider this special woman in his life.<br />

Sometimes, facing present anger, he<br />

must remember the beauty <strong>of</strong> past<br />

thoughts. He must learn to appreciate<br />

the depths <strong>of</strong> her inner spiritual being<br />

and the magnitude <strong>of</strong> her soulful<br />

make up. Walking back to a day <strong>of</strong><br />

joy and celebration, he can move<br />

forward. It is inevitable, that through<br />

time and change that the revelation<br />

<strong>of</strong> imperfections will become obvious.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re is no perfection within the flesh<br />

for true marriage is not based on the<br />

limitations <strong>of</strong> physical attraction. <strong>The</strong>re<br />

is a deeper lesson to learn. Love is<br />

invisible.<br />

<strong>The</strong> bride walks carefully down the<br />

aisle to the melody <strong>of</strong> a special song.<br />

Her future husband awaits. He appears<br />

somewhat nervous. He finds a slight<br />

cracking in his voice. <strong>The</strong>re is a certain<br />

unsureness within his step. He holds her<br />

hands for stability. He looks deep into<br />

her eyes. He thinks, “my wife for life”,<br />

looking deeper into her eyes, he has a<br />

vision <strong>of</strong> eternity.<br />

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My Senior Moment 2.0<br />

By Joyce R. Kebodeaux<br />

Didn’t give up<br />

Our Day Jobs<br />

Before retiring many thinks <strong>of</strong><br />

retirement only as a time <strong>of</strong><br />

not reporting to a job every<br />

day. Others have visions <strong>of</strong> fun and<br />

excitement, and then some <strong>of</strong> us just<br />

arrive there one day. However, we get<br />

here, whatever our plans the time comes<br />

and we are in a new stage <strong>of</strong> life. As in<br />

everything we’ve done before we need<br />

to learn. [Again] about Medicare, senior<br />

discounts and all that comes from the<br />

Golden Years. Each <strong>of</strong> us makes choices<br />

about things we can afford and what we<br />

are capable <strong>of</strong> doing.<br />

Pursuing something that interests us<br />

brought Linda Hebert Todd, May Hill,<br />

Chris Baldauf and I together. While it’s<br />

been said about writing, “Don’t Give<br />

Up Your Day Job," we didn’t have to.<br />

Linda retired from <strong>The</strong> Calcasieu Parish<br />

Library System as the Branch Manager<br />

in Westlake. May, a Registered Nurse<br />

worked in hospitals and doctor’s <strong>of</strong>fices<br />

in this area and before moving to<br />

<strong>Louisiana</strong>.<br />

We all share an interest in different styles<br />

<strong>of</strong> writing and met through the Bayou<br />

Writers Group. <strong>The</strong> local group meets<br />

monthly at Carnegie Library to share<br />

ideas and learn from the guest speakers<br />

who come to share their expertise.<br />

Just days ago I drove to Austin Texas to<br />

attend a week long workshop sponsored<br />

by <strong>The</strong> Writers League <strong>of</strong> Texas. May and<br />

Linda rode with me. We shared a suite<br />

and also were treated to a delicious<br />

barbeque by my family in Manor Texas.<br />

Chris and husband George had gone up<br />

earlier than we did and stayed later to<br />

celebrate their five-year-old grandson’s<br />

birthday, visit with their family and see<br />

the sights. While we were in different<br />

studies there were activities planned<br />

where we were all together. At the<br />

readings <strong>of</strong> the classwork at Book People,<br />

a bookstore and much more, we got a<br />

good idea <strong>of</strong> what the other classes had<br />

studied during the week.<br />

While we each took different classes, we<br />

all enjoyed and learned a lot from the<br />

pr<strong>of</strong>essors and authors. Meeting writers<br />

from other parts <strong>of</strong> the country we came<br />

back home filled with ideas for our own<br />

writings. <strong>The</strong> Bayou Writer Group is open<br />

to all ages interested in writing and<br />

welcomes everyone to join the group<br />

or attend their annual conference in<br />

October. All information is available on<br />

their website.<br />

This area <strong>of</strong> our state has much to <strong>of</strong>fer<br />

people <strong>of</strong> all ages. Groups <strong>of</strong> people with<br />

similar interests have websites and put<br />

articles in the newspapers and television.<br />

Our churches are a good source <strong>of</strong><br />

recreation and inspiration. Organizations<br />

geared toward the senior age groups are<br />

sponsored by the cities and parish at little<br />

or no cost.<br />

While I have just talked about writing<br />

in our retirements, I urge everyone<br />

entering this new phase <strong>of</strong> life to share<br />

their interests with others and see what<br />

happens.<br />

“Don’t Give Up your Day Job,"<br />

"CITE" Cambridge Idioms Dictionary, 2nd Ed. Copyright (c)<br />

Cambridge University Press 2006, Reproduced with permission.<br />

Habit Suites in Austin, TX: Bayou Writers Member, L-R<br />

Linda Hebert Todd (West Lake), Joyce R. Kebodeaux<br />

(Lake Charles), May Hill (Sulphur).<br />

L-R: May Hill with Dalton Lormand in Manor, TX. May<br />

is familiar with goat ranching. Her sister raises goats<br />

in Ohio. Dalton Lormand is Joyce's brother-in-law.<br />

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SWLA sports<br />

By Tori Hebert<br />

High School Football<br />

Home Games<br />

It’s time for Friday night lights!<br />

Get ready to support your local team and<br />

enjoy nachos, burgers, and soda from the<br />

concession stand.<br />

<strong>The</strong> table lists home games for <strong>Southwest</strong> <strong>Louisiana</strong> schools.<br />

<strong>The</strong> team listed first is the home team.<br />

SEPTEMBER GAME DATES<br />

<strong>September</strong> 1, <strong>2017</strong> Westlake v. DeQuincy<br />

Grand Lake v. Vinton<br />

Jennings v. Church Point<br />

Iowa v. Crowley<br />

South Beauregard v. DeRidder<br />

Rayne v. Welsh<br />

Notre Dame v. LaGrange<br />

East Beauregard v. Hamilton Christian<br />

Lake Arthur v. Elton<br />

<strong>September</strong> 8, <strong>2017</strong> DeRidder v. Washington-Marion<br />

Rayne v. LC College Prep<br />

East Beauregard v. Elton<br />

Crowley v. Westlake<br />

<strong>September</strong> 9, <strong>2017</strong> Sam Houston v. LaGrange<br />

<strong>September</strong> 14, <strong>2017</strong> Merryville v. East Beauregard<br />

Iota v. Lake Arthur<br />

<strong>September</strong> 15, <strong>2017</strong> Jennings v. DeRidder<br />

DeQuincy v. South Beauregard<br />

<strong>September</strong> 22, <strong>2017</strong> Grand Lake v. Elton<br />

Iowa v. Jennings<br />

Sulphur v. Sam Houston<br />

South Beauregard v. St. Louis<br />

Lake Arthur v. Vinton<br />

Hamilton Christian v. South Cameron<br />

<strong>September</strong> 29, <strong>2017</strong> Westlake v. Iowa<br />

Jennings v. Washington-Marion<br />

Elton v. Hamilton Christian<br />

East Beauregard v. Lake Arthur<br />

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October 5, <strong>2017</strong><br />

October 6, <strong>2017</strong><br />

October 13, <strong>2017</strong><br />

October 19, <strong>2017</strong><br />

October 20, <strong>2017</strong><br />

October 27, <strong>2017</strong><br />

November 3, <strong>2017</strong><br />

OCTOBER GAME DATES<br />

Merryville v. Grand Lake<br />

Welsh v. Jennings<br />

Barbe v. Sulphur<br />

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DeQuincy v. East Beauregard<br />

Church Point v. Iota<br />

Welsh v. Lake Arthur<br />

LaGrange v. Sulphur<br />

South Cameron v. Merryville<br />

South Beauregard v. Iowa<br />

Notre Dame v. LC College Prep<br />

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Barbe v. Sam Houston<br />

South Cameron v. Elton<br />

Westlake v. Lake Arthur<br />

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Merryville v. Hamilton Christian<br />

Washington Marion v. South Beauregard<br />

Elton v. Merryville<br />

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Jennings v. LC College Prep<br />

LaGrange v. Barbe<br />

Washington Marion v. Iowa<br />

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SWLA health, wealth & wellness Inform, Educate, Empower<br />

Bridal Guide to Understanding<br />

and Decreasing Stress<br />

By: Emily Ashworth, RN, BSN<br />

He popped the question, and<br />

you said YES!! Ideas <strong>of</strong> a rose<br />

petal covered aisle, the most<br />

beautiful gown and venue you have<br />

dreamed <strong>of</strong>, all flow through your<br />

mind and pour out onto paper as<br />

you begin to plan the day you have<br />

dreamed <strong>of</strong> since you were a little<br />

girl. <strong>The</strong>n, reality sets in…so much<br />

planning and so many questions. <strong>The</strong><br />

emotions, thoughts, and feelings can<br />

be overwhelming, and cause your heart<br />

to race, your palms to sweat, headaches<br />

to occur and even cause you to become<br />

short-tempered, i.e., “bridezilla.” Why is<br />

your body responding this way?<br />

When many think about stress, work,<br />

arguments and unruly kids, other<br />

things may come to mind. A wedding<br />

can be a source <strong>of</strong> stress, and it can<br />

cause increased illness if stress is not<br />

managed properly. Understanding the<br />

manner in which the body responds to<br />

stress is something we all need to help<br />

us escape danger, organize ourselves,<br />

and much more, but if the body is in<br />

a prolonged state <strong>of</strong> stress, illness can<br />

occur.<br />

According to American Psychological<br />

Association, when the body is<br />

introduced to stress stimuli, a message<br />

is sent from the brain that tells the<br />

organs sitting above the kidneys to<br />

release hormones that tell your body<br />

to go into “fight or flight” mode.<br />

Blood flow is decreased in your nonessential<br />

systems like the digestive<br />

22<br />

system and reproductive system and<br />

increased in systems essential for the<br />

stress response like the cardiovascular<br />

system. <strong>The</strong> body’s response causes the<br />

heart to pump faster which increases<br />

your blood pressure and increases<br />

blood flow to help you run faster and<br />

respond quickly and efficiently to the<br />

stressor. <strong>The</strong> pancreas sends a message<br />

to the liver to release energy stored<br />

in the form <strong>of</strong> glucose to help fuel<br />

your body during the process. <strong>The</strong><br />

immune system function also declines<br />

increasing the probability <strong>of</strong> you<br />

becoming sick. <strong>The</strong>re are other organs<br />

pumping in overdrive during this time<br />

also (visit this link to see further details<br />

<strong>of</strong> the body’s stress response https://<br />

www.apa.org/helpcenter/stress-body.<br />

aspx). Now, this response is great when<br />

avoiding a car accident, responding<br />

to a deadline that's given at work or<br />

even defending yourself. <strong>The</strong> body<br />

is then wired to return to its normal<br />

state or homeostasis once the stressor<br />

is no longer present. When the body<br />

remains in chronic state <strong>of</strong> stress<br />

sickness can occur.<br />

Remaining in a prolonged state <strong>of</strong><br />

stress can lead to heart disease,<br />

diabetes, constipation, low sex drive<br />

and the onset <strong>of</strong> many other diseases.<br />

According to the Centers for Disease<br />

Control and Prevention (CDC), Wedding<br />

Health and Safety Tips, headaches,<br />

upset stomach, difficulty sleeping,<br />

fatigue, and short-temper are just a<br />

few symptoms <strong>of</strong> unhealthy stress<br />

management for the bride.<br />

To remain in a state <strong>of</strong> health, relaxed,<br />

and ready for your BIG DAY here are a<br />

few tips.<br />

❶ TAKE A DEEP BREATH<br />

I <strong>of</strong>ten tell people when I feel stressed<br />

out I feel nervous on the “inside.” <strong>The</strong><br />

first thing I do is stand still and take<br />

a deep breath. Deep breathing is<br />

important and can help to slow the<br />

heart rate and help you return to a state<br />

<strong>of</strong> calm. Close your eyes and take slow<br />

deep breaths. This can help slow your<br />

heart rate and bring you to a state <strong>of</strong><br />

relaxation.<br />

❷ THINK POSITIVE<br />

My parents always told me there is one<br />

thing in this life that you can control,<br />

and that is your response. Planning a<br />

wedding is not easy because it involves<br />

so many different elements and so<br />

many different people. Remember, in<br />

every situation; there is a positive. Pull<br />

out the positive, hang onto the positive<br />

and don’t allow the negative to drag<br />

you down or cause you to react in<br />

anger or rage.<br />

❸ PRAYER AND MEDITATION<br />

Prayer and meditation are two <strong>of</strong> the keys<br />

that are important in bringing clarity to<br />

the mind and peace to the heart. <strong>The</strong>re<br />

is nothing more frustrating than a cloudy<br />

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mind and frustrating thoughts. When you<br />

find yourself feeling upset, and spiraling<br />

out <strong>of</strong> control, take at least 10 minutes to<br />

pray and meditate and write a scripture<br />

and positive affirmation and say it daily to<br />

yourself. YOUR WORDS HAVE POWER.<br />

❹ LAUGH<br />

Studies have shown many health benefits<br />

to laughter. It is also known as one <strong>of</strong> the<br />

best glues to keep a marriage together.<br />

Fifteen minutes <strong>of</strong> laughter a day can<br />

improve your cardiovascular function<br />

and decrease mental stress. https://www.<br />

psychologytoday.com/articles/200504/<br />

laughter-the-best-medicine<br />

Once you have taken a deep breath,<br />

changed your thinking, prayed and<br />

meditated and laughed your way through<br />

the stress, remember to communicate<br />

your thoughts and feelings with your<br />

loved ones. No one can read your<br />

mind and if you do not talk about your<br />

frustrations and allow the people around<br />

you to help in this beautiful process <strong>of</strong><br />

planning your wedding, you can and<br />

most likely will find yourself in a chronic<br />

state <strong>of</strong> stress. Do not deny yourself the<br />

joy <strong>of</strong> planning for and experiencing the<br />

ceremony that joins you into what I deem<br />

one <strong>of</strong> the most beautiful and heartfelt<br />

unions…Marriage.<br />

Congratulations and Be Well!!<br />

http://www.heart.org/HEARTORG/<br />

HealthyLiving/StressManagement/<br />

FourWaystoDealWithStress/Four-Ways-to-<br />

Deal-with-Stress_UCM_307996_Article.<br />

jsp#.WaAbg7lK2Ag<br />

https://www.cdc.gov/women/wedding/<br />

wedding.pdf<br />

https://www.apa.org/helpcenter/stressbody.aspx<br />

VINH PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

https://www.psychologytoday.com/<br />

articles/200504/laughter-the-bestmedicine<br />

https://www.health.harvard.edu/stayinghealthy/understanding-the-stressresponse<br />

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ADVENTURES <strong>of</strong> the Lake<br />

Ianander Thibodeaux, a<br />

recent Mass Communication<br />

graduate from McNeese<br />

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about interesting experiences<br />

and adventures in SWLA.<br />

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A Wedding<br />

to Remember<br />

By Ian Thibodeaux<br />

You’ve done it, you finally got the girl<br />

<strong>of</strong> your dreams! How did this even<br />

happen? It seems too good to be true<br />

and yet there she is walking down the aisle in<br />

her white dress. <strong>The</strong> crowd looks to her in awe<br />

as the sun shines down on her skin and makes<br />

her radiate with beauty. You’ve never seen<br />

anything like it and somehow it’s yours to look<br />

at every day. As she walks towards you, you<br />

start getting butterflies in your knees and they<br />

almost break from the excitement. When she<br />

finally arrives at the alter because it seems like<br />

it took forever, you say the vows that you’ve<br />

been holding in your heart just for her. She<br />

says hers and then you kiss. In that moment,<br />

time stopped. In that moment, it was just you<br />

and her and it’s a moment that you never<br />

want to end. You are now husband and wife.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re’s no turning back now. For the first time<br />

in your life, you’re responsible for someone<br />

other than yourself. You can only hope and<br />

pray that you’re man enough to meet all <strong>of</strong> her<br />

needs and expectations. You probably never<br />

will, but that’s okay because she loves you. So<br />

for her sake, you’ll try.<br />

I’m not married, but I imagine that’s how<br />

my friend Dorian felt on his wedding day.<br />

You should’ve seen him. <strong>The</strong> man almost<br />

broke down in tears and rightfully so. His wife<br />

Siyanda was truly a sight to behold. My words<br />

really can’t do her justice. Dorian had been<br />

blessed with the best. Someone made just for<br />

him. It brought great joy to my heart to see<br />

my two friends become one. When the bride<br />

and groom had their first dance, he pulled her<br />

close and held her tightly yet carefully at the<br />

same time. It was then that I saw their hearts<br />

touch. When they looked at each other, I could<br />

tell they were doing it with all the love in the<br />

world as their eyes gleamed with bliss and<br />

satisfaction. <strong>The</strong>y were really meant for one<br />

another.<br />

My time at Dorian and Siyanda’s wedding<br />

was definitely one <strong>of</strong> my most enjoyable<br />

moments in life. I was surrounded by good<br />

food, good people, and music that made<br />

your soul want to shake it up! Everything was<br />

perfect. When the wedding came to an end,<br />

as I saw them run <strong>of</strong>f into the night for their<br />

honeymoon, I could not have been happier for<br />

them. My heart swelled with pride. However,<br />

I was also kind <strong>of</strong> sad because I realized that<br />

this was goodbye. Nothing would be the same<br />

after today. In a way, I felt like I was giving my<br />

dear friend Dorian away. I was a little uneasy,<br />

but when I looked at Siyanda and thought<br />

back to how she’s always been there for him,<br />

all <strong>of</strong> my fears melted away. I could tell he was<br />

in the safest hands possible.<br />

Mr. and Mrs. Botley, may your marriage be a<br />

testament for all marriages to come. I know<br />

you’ll show the world what real love is like.<br />

When the bride and<br />

groom had their first<br />

dance, he pulled her close<br />

and held her tightly yet<br />

carefully at the same time.<br />

It was then that I saw<br />

their hearts touch.<br />

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Q&A<br />

Left to Right; Jordy Stanley, Sarah Sterns, Megan Voorhies, Sarah Parks, CJ Hunt and<br />

Jessica Hunt. Geeks Who Drink Trivia, 8pm Tuesdays at Rikenjaks.<br />

1<br />

"I recommend the Smoked Boudin at the Market<br />

Basket on Nelson Street in Lake Charles"<br />

3<br />

26<br />

Michael Davis performing in Bayou Players McNeese State<br />

University <strong>The</strong>ater’s performance <strong>of</strong> Sleuth<br />

4<br />

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Jessica Moved Back North.<br />

Q<br />

What will you miss most<br />

about <strong>Southwest</strong> <strong>Louisiana</strong>?<br />

A<br />

<strong>The</strong>se are things I will<br />

miss most...<br />

Wednesday Night Hockey at Skate City<br />

<strong>of</strong> Donuts performing at <strong>The</strong> Lone Wolf Bar and Grill;<br />

<strong>of</strong> Capris, Lake Charles, LA<br />

2<br />

5<br />

By Jessica Hunt<br />

When I first moved to Lake<br />

Charles in 2013—I had never<br />

heard <strong>of</strong> Lake Charles and all<br />

I really knew about <strong>Louisiana</strong> I learned<br />

by watching reruns <strong>of</strong> Duck Dynasty.<br />

After four years <strong>of</strong> exploring, I’ve found<br />

many cool activities, places and friends.<br />

Whether you’re new like I was, or have<br />

lived here your whole life—I hope the<br />

contents <strong>of</strong> this list will inspire you to<br />

appreciate new things about <strong>Southwest</strong><br />

<strong>Louisiana</strong>.<br />

1Trivia at Rikenjaks. Each Tuesday night,<br />

teams as large as six can play trivia<br />

covering a wide variety <strong>of</strong> fun topics ranging<br />

from history to current events and audio<br />

rounds featuring sound clips from music and<br />

movies. <strong>The</strong> top three teams win drink tabs<br />

to redeem at Rikenjaks and sometimes sweet<br />

swag. <strong>The</strong> “Quiz Master” Luke is entertaining<br />

and keeps everything fun. Even if you don’t<br />

place well in the rankings you will have a fun<br />

time. Luke also plays really good music—<br />

tell him Jessie told you to ask him about his<br />

playlist.<br />

2<br />

Wednesday<br />

Night Hockey at Skate City<br />

– <strong>The</strong> folks who play are welcoming<br />

<strong>of</strong> newcomers, even ones who have never<br />

played hockey. If you are at all interested, I<br />

highly recommend stopping by Skate City<br />

and giving it a try. <strong>The</strong> puck drops at 6:30pm<br />

and spectators are welcome.<br />

3<br />

Food—<strong>Southwest</strong><br />

<strong>Louisiana</strong> is known<br />

for its unique food. I had never tasted<br />

true Cajun cuisine before moving to Lake<br />

Charles. My first time having Crawfish<br />

was an adventure—my husband and I<br />

were a spectacle at Steamboat Bills. Other<br />

patrons eyes were on us as we learned how<br />

to peel crawfish (and I am proud to say I<br />

did suck the heads). Crawfish are amazing<br />

however without a doubt my favorite food<br />

I discovered is boudin. My favorite place to<br />

buy boudin was the Market Basket located on<br />

Nelson Road in Lake Charles. One time when<br />

I was buying boudin, I met a gentleman<br />

with a large cooler in tow. He told me that<br />

he traveled all the way from Houston to buy<br />

boudin for his coworkers from this location in<br />

Lake Charles because “he lost a bet.” He said<br />

boudin was worth the trip.<br />

4<strong>The</strong>ater—<strong>The</strong>ater has an incredible<br />

presence in Lake Charles. If you want<br />

to be involved in theater there are many<br />

opportunities. If you are interested in<br />

performing or assisting behind the scenes,<br />

reach out to ACTS <strong>The</strong>ater, Lake Charles Little<br />

<strong>The</strong>ater, Itinerant <strong>The</strong>atre, KC Productions<br />

and McNeese <strong>The</strong>ater(You don’t have to<br />

be a student to be involved in McNeese<br />

<strong>The</strong>ater productions—I didn’t know this<br />

and I wish I could go back and time and<br />

audition for productions at McNeese). I’m<br />

an introvert and being involved in theater<br />

was an awesome way to get involved in a<br />

community I care about and make friends.<br />

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Music:<br />

Lake Charles boasts many great<br />

music venues; Luna Live, L’Auberge,<br />

Golden Nugget and Isle <strong>of</strong> Capris are my<br />

favorites. I recently saw the New Orleans<br />

based band “Bag <strong>of</strong> Donuts” play at the Isle<br />

<strong>of</strong> Capris. I recommend them to any music<br />

lover. <strong>The</strong>y puts on a great show covering<br />

popular songs spanning many decades. Go<br />

to http://bag<strong>of</strong>donuts.com/shows/ to find a<br />

showtime.


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