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Dream Weddings Magazine - Devon & Cornwall - issue.29

Planning your wedding starts here and now and in Dream Weddings you will find tips and hints on every aspect of your big day, from the latest collections of gowns to transport, from wedding day etiquette to up-to-date fashions in flowers. You’ll also find advertisements from a whole army of local businesses, all with plenty of experience to call on. They will work with your ideas, offer creative suggestions of their own and find solutions to match every budget. They know the shortcuts and the pitfalls - and they’re fully aware of how important it is to you that everything runs smoothly. So start planning your big day. And enjoy every minute of it!

Planning your wedding starts here and now and in Dream Weddings you will find tips and hints on every aspect of your big day, from the latest collections of gowns to transport, from wedding day etiquette to up-to-date fashions in flowers. You’ll also find advertisements from a whole army of local businesses, all with plenty of experience to call on. They will work with your ideas, offer creative suggestions of their own and find solutions to match every budget. They know the shortcuts and the pitfalls - and they’re fully aware of how important it is to you that everything runs smoothly. So start planning your big day. And enjoy every minute of it!

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cut out and keep<br />

As this is likely<br />

to be the most<br />

expensive part of<br />

your wedding day,<br />

it’s important to set the<br />

standard early on in your<br />

planning. Popular venues get<br />

booked up well in advance,<br />

particularly on Saturdays<br />

during the peak wedding<br />

months so make sure of<br />

your choice by booking as<br />

early as you can. Do also<br />

make sure you confirm all<br />

the details with the venue in<br />

writing, paying particular<br />

attention to what is included<br />

in the price.<br />

Depending on your budget, you can have anything<br />

from a buffet catered for at home by family and<br />

friends to hiring outside caterers for a church or<br />

village hall to a formal sit-down meal at a hotel<br />

followed by an evening dance.<br />

A sit-down meal is obviously the most<br />

expensive option, but there are all sorts of<br />

alternatives from drinks and canapes to a buffet<br />

or even a barbecue. Whichever you choose, do<br />

make sure there are plenty of chairs for people<br />

to sit down while they’re eating - standing up<br />

balancing a drink and a plate while trying to eat<br />

is virtually never comfortable for guests.<br />

If you choose a hotel, do try to eat there and sample<br />

the food before making your booking. Check such<br />

details as corkage, parking space and whether the<br />

hotel will offer a cake stand and knife and a room for<br />

the bride and groom to change into their going away<br />

outfits. Many hotels offer a package which includes<br />

the services of a toastmaster and a complimentary<br />

room for the first night of the honeymoon.<br />

Once you have chosen your venue,<br />

confirm in writing what you understand is<br />

included in the price.<br />

Drinks for your guests will take up a large<br />

part of your budget. It’s reasonable to<br />

assume each will drink one or two glasses<br />

on arrival at the reception, three or four<br />

glasses with their meal and another glass<br />

with the toasts.<br />

A right royal reception<br />

Whether it’s a small buffet for a few close family and friends or a lavish do at the<br />

smartest of venues, your reception is the big celebration of your wedding - a<br />

chance for people to share your happiness and an opportunity for you to thank<br />

them for their presents and for coming to see you married.<br />

Though champagne is the traditional<br />

wedding drink, you can offer sherry,<br />

Pimms or Bucks Fizz on arrival and wine<br />

with the meal, saving the champagne - or,<br />

Chief bridesmaid<br />

indeed a good sparkling wine - for the toasts. For<br />

reference, you will get between 10 and 12 glasses of<br />

sherry to each bottle and between six and eight<br />

glasses of wine or champagne per bottle. Do<br />

remember to provide plenty of soft drinks for<br />

children and adults who prefer them or who may be<br />

driving. Allow between half and one litre per person.<br />

There can be a long break between vvceremony and<br />

reception while photographs are being taken and<br />

some couples are now offering a glass of sherry<br />

outside the church and perhaps live music to<br />

entertain guests as they arrive at the reception.<br />

The usual order of events at the reception is:<br />

The receiving line<br />

The meal<br />

Speeches and toasts<br />

Cutting of the cake (though some couples prefer<br />

to do this before the speeches to allow it to be<br />

cut and served)<br />

Departure of bride and groom<br />

Top Table Seating Plan<br />

Groom’s father<br />

Bride’s mother<br />

Groom<br />

Bride<br />

PHOTO BY NICK PEARCE PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

Bride’s father<br />

Groom’s mother<br />

Best Man<br />

If you are having a sitdown<br />

meal, it is essential<br />

to have a seating plan. Try<br />

to put together tables of<br />

people who you think will<br />

get on well together. The<br />

top table seating plan<br />

for a sit-down meal is<br />

shown below.<br />

Don’t feel hidebound by<br />

what you think a traditional<br />

wedding breakfast should<br />

consists of - nowadays<br />

anything goes, from<br />

bangers and mash and jam<br />

roly-poly to pasta with<br />

wedding cake for<br />

dessert. It’s also worth<br />

remembering you may need to cater for<br />

vegetarians or guests on special diets.<br />

Do give considerable thought to the room and<br />

table decorations and the lighting at your<br />

reception. Flowers should match the theme<br />

colours of the wedding and a little money spent<br />

on atmospheric lighting can make an enormous<br />

difference.<br />

Favours for guests range from the traditional<br />

small baskets of sugared almonds or fortune<br />

cookies to little books of love poems.<br />

Crackers and balloons always help create an<br />

atmosphere.<br />

If you are having a number of small children at<br />

your wedding, it’s worth giving some thought as<br />

to whether you can organise a creche - both to<br />

stop the youngsters getting bored and to give<br />

their parents a chance to enjoy themselves<br />

without worrying about what their offspring are<br />

up to.<br />

WHATEVER THE SIZE OF<br />

YOUR RECEPTION, it’s always nice to<br />

have a formal or semi-formal receiving<br />

line to welcome your guests. This<br />

ensures that you get the chance to<br />

meet everybody and accept their<br />

congratulations.<br />

The bride’s parents, as the hosts are<br />

usually first in the receiving line,<br />

followed by the groom’s parents, the<br />

bride and groom and then the<br />

bridesmaids and attendants.<br />

D R E A M W E D D I N G S I N D E V O N & C O R W A L L • 4 1<br />

Planning Makes Perfect

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