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volume 7, number 4 winter 2017

Blue Water Woman is published quarterly by The Write Company,

511 La Salle Blvd., Port Huron, MI 48060. Circulation 5,000.

from the editor

As I’m sitting down to write this, Thanksgiving is right around the bend and this year there is

plenty I am thankful for, such as all of the people and places in the photos above:

• The opportunity to visit our nation’s capital and participate in the Women’s March in January;

• The opportunity to see Hillary Clinton speak in Ann Arbor with two great friends;

• The opportunity to vacation on a sailboat with a group of incredible women;

• Girl time in the D with two of my favorite gal-pals;

• Hiking up Sugarloaf with my husband in our hometown community in Marquette County;

• Marching through downtown Port Huron in honor of International Women’s Day;

• Hangin’ with one of my besties at the Blue Water Woman of the Year Awards;

• The honor of taking my dad, a lifelong Wings fan, to the last game at Joe Louis Arena;

• The awesomeness of hanging on the beach with friends and a fire, watching freighters;

• A hug from my favorite brother; and

• Hangin’ with my parents in Arizona last month.

I’m also thankful for the women in this community. I am grateful and honored you allow me to

share your stories here every quarter. In this issue you will find two amazing community activitists

who are making an impact on people, places and pets in the Blue Water Area. They are roll--upyour-sleeves-and-get-it-done

women...just like all of you. We are lucky to have them both.

Also included: Our second annual bridal guide! Plan now to attend our Bridal Expo on January 4

at the beautiful, newly renovated Port Huron Museum! More details are available on page 14.

In the meanwhile: Count your blessings this holiday season. I wish you all a peaceful and joyous new year.


Editor & Publisher:

Patti Samar, owner, The Write Company

Advertising, questions, comments or story ideas:

Patti Samar at 810-300-2176 or pjsamar@aol.com


Blue Water Woman is the premiere publication

for women living, working and playing in the Blue Water Area of Michigan.

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American woman

by Patti Samar

Rasha Demashkieh of Fort Gratiot is an immigrant.

She is a naturalized citizen of the United States.

She is a proud Arab-American woman.

A native of Syria, Demashkieh, a local pharmacist, and her family

recently “adopted” a Syrian refugee family that had relocated to

metropolitan Detroit, one of more than 25 similar families being

assisted by ACCESS (Arab Community Center for Economic and

Social Services), a nonprofit based in Dearborn that provides a wide

variety of services to the Arab immigrant

population in southeastern Michigan and

across the nation.

Demashkieh, a former board member for

the Port Huron School district and volunteer

with numerous organizations in the Blue

Water Area, serves as the president of the

ACCESS board of directors. As an Arab

American woman who immigrated to the U.S.

as an adult, she understands that assimilation

to a foreign country can be difficult. But

when Demashkieh immigrated, she and her

husband, a physician, both spoke English and

were educated.

“This family…the parents are in their late

30s and they have four kids and they live

in a small home in Detroit,” she said. “The

situation they came from in Syria is horrifying.

Millions of people have been displaced. The

father paid smugglers to smuggle them out of

Syria and into Jordan, where they were settled

in a refugee camp, the Zaatari Refugee Camp,

which is in the middle of the desert.

“To help them get out of there, he signed

up with many settling agencies through

the United Nations. They were interviewed

seven times before they were admitted to this

country. It was not an easy process. It took

them three years.

“They are so grateful and so kind.”

Demashkieh said that ACCESS is helping the

refugee families with a variety of assimilation issues,

including learning the language, accessing education,

housing and other social services.

“I was very apprehensive about meeting them,” said

Demashkieh. “I had never met a real refugee before.

What I found was a very gentle family. They actually

made me feel better. They are so grateful to be here.”

Demashkieh noted that the children are learning

the language more quickly than their parents, but the

father, who was a painter in Syria, has found work in

metro Detroit as a painter.

“I’m just amazed at their resilience,” Demashkieh

said of the family’s transition into American life.

“Everything is so different for them, but I believe they

will be okay.”

As an immigrant herself, Demashkieh can identify

with some of the issues the family faces in the United

Rasha demashkieh

Fort Gratiot

“We need to

stand up and

say we are

Arab Americans

and we are


citizens of this

country. And

I also want

you to know

me as an Arab


States in 2017. When she came to the U.S. with her husband in the

mid-1970s, their status as immigrants from the Middle East was not

an issue.

“Before September 11, it was never a topic of conversation where I

came from,” she said.

After September 11, all of that changed.

“You always feel like you have to justify yourself to others,” she

said of her heritage. “I have friends who gave their children American

names and they did not want to be identified

as from the Middle East.”

Demashkieh doesn’t believe anyone should

have to wish away their identity.

“We need to stand up and say we are Arab

Americans and we are productive citizens of

this country,” she said. “And I also want you

to know me as an Arab American.”

When Demashkieh left Syria for the U.S.

in 1975 so her husband could complete his

medical training, she fully intended to return

and raise a family there. But, after a few

twists and turns in the road of life, she found

herself a naturalized United States citizen

with no intention of returning to Syria to

live and no one was more surprised than was


“It was heart-wrenching when I realized

I wasn’t going to live in Syria again,” said

Demashkieh, who moved to St. Clair County

in 1980. “Even when we got our green cards,

we didn’t think we’d stay.

“But we lived under a dictatorship in

Syria – your phone calls are monitored and

it is very different than what we experience

here -- and it got to the point where we had

children and we realized life would be better

for our children if we stayed here,” she said.

And so Demashkieh and her family

became embedded in the Blue Water Area.

She became engaged with the community

by volunteering for a wide variety of organizations

ranging from the PTA at her children’s school to

various health-related charitable organizations. She

served on the Port Huron Schools board of education

for 13 years. She is also a member of the Michigan

Civil Rights Commission and currently serves as cochair.

“I wanted to give back to my community and

my country, as well,” she said of her dedication to

volunteerism on a local, state and national level in her

adopted home.

“Syria is the original melting pot due to its

geography,” she said. “It is at the crossroads of the


“That is the beauty of this country...we are diverse.

We should capitalize on that. That’s what makes us


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IT TAKES A village

by Patti Samar

Carol Miller believes in the saying “it takes a village.”

Miller, 56, of Port Huron Township, is the head of what began

as an online, Facebook-based group called AC “Pawsitive” Change

Group. AC stands for animal control and refers to the St. Clair

County Animal Control shelter, which is operated by the county

sheriff’s department.

What started with just an online presence is now an active,

volunteer-based group of local citizens

who are working closely with the county

government to institute positive change at

the animal shelter.

The St. Clair County animal shelter has one

of the highest rates of animal euthanasia in

the state of Michigan. Additionally, in the

past, the shelter has not always been painted

in a positive light in online forums when

discussed by animal rescues and individuals

who were in contact with the shelter

regarding lost and found animals.

Miller was among those who knew of less

than stellar experiences that people had

when trying to adopt an animal.

“I told someone about it and people told

me, ‘Do something,’ so I did,” she said.

Initially, she started the Facebook group to

grow a group of citizens interested in seeing

positive things happen at the shelter. The

group grew quickly.

“I didn’t realize how many animal lovers

there are in the county,” she said. Miller

has worked hard to maintain the Facebook

page as place where positive comments and

solutions are welcome, but bitterness and

chronic complaining are not.

Miller, a registered nurse who now works

as the operations manager of a hospice

organization in metro Detroit, knew that

the most effective way to create positive change

was to work within the constraints of government,

presenting herself and her group as a group of

citizens interested in helping create solutions.

She also began attending meetings of the county

board of commissioners and she talked with them

and with other county officials to help them become

aware that there are some very good “best practice”

scenarios at other shelters across the state that could

serve as examples that the St. Clair County shelter

could use as the basis for positive change.

“We began meeting with Tom Buckley, the

undersheriff, and Stephanie Ignash, the office

manager at AC, once a month to see what they

needed,” Miller said. “Our goal has always been,

carol miller

Port Huron Township

“Our goal has

always been,

let’s be part

of the



of the


‘let’s be part of the solution instead of the problem.’”

The group recently celebrated a significant milestone when it

partnered with the county animal shelter and participated in a

nationwide “Empty the Shelter” event sponsored by the Bissell

Pet Foundation. Bissell generously pays for the adoption fees of all

animals adopted at participating shelters on that day.

It was the first time the county animal shelter had participated

in a community adoption event.

“It turned out really well,” said Miller,

who helped organize the volunteers

from her group. “We had 56 people who

volunteered. Tom (Buckley) and Stephanie

(Ignash) believed in us and that meant


Volunteers from the Pawsitive Change

group are now also regularly volunteering

their time at the county animal shelter.

Volunteers walk dogs and socialize cats.

Overall, Miller is really pleased with the

progress the group has made with helping

to call attention to some of the issues of

concern at the shelter and by offering to

help the county government find solutions.

“We know they don’t want to euthanize

animals,” she said, and noted that there

are a number of ways that her group can

help reduce the number of animals in

the shelter for extended periods of time.

“We’re hoping to do microchipping and

adoption fairs,” she said. “All of that

would help open up more eyes and educate

people. We’re hoping to do a lot more

education in the community.”

Others are stepping up to help, as well.

“We now have (veterinarian) Dr. Robyn

Limberg-Child on board, who offered to

step up to the plate and be part of the

solution. We are trying to improve the photos of

the animals at the shelter.

“This whole thing has been a journey,” she

said. “I used to cry looking at the pictures of the

animals at the shelter, but now I think ‘we need to

find you a good home where you can be loved.’ It

takes a village and right now we’ve got a big village.

Hopefully we can continue to do good things for

the county and for the animals.

“I worked as an oncology nurse for more than 30

years,” she said, “and I realize life is very precious.

You literally need to stop and enjoy everything in

life. I just hope my parents are looking down at

me and seeing what we’re doing and that they are


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The months of planning that walk down the aisle can

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juLy, 2012

McMorran Place, Port Huron

Photo: Tony Pitts

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Big Day

by Patti Samar

nicole (gray) rodgers, 26,

formerly of port huron,

married derrick rodgers, 27,

on june 24, 2017 in warren

Nicole & derrick rodgers

Warren, Michigan

Photo: Dion Ghani, Ghani Vision Photography

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Who planned your wedding?

I had a wedding planner/coordinator and my mom and my

mother-in-law helped. A good friend got married last year and

she walked me through a lot of things. It was a group effort

because I’m in nursing school.

What is she glad she

spent more on:

I spent more money on my wedding

dress. I loved my dress. That was

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the big ballroom dress and the biggest

oversized one I could find. I’m also

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I’m not a dancer, but everyone had

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Where would you have

cut costs?

I spent too much on invitations.

Instead of RSVPing to me with the

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text and say, ‘Yes, we are coming.’ I

would have them RSVP online.



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orry not

by Patti Samar

gillian (CANN) Poretta

formerly of port huron

married charlie poretta

on September 16, 2017 in port huron

Who planned your wedding?

I did it all myself. I had a “day-of” coordinator. The day-of

coordinator is definitely a more affordable option than hiring a

wedding planner. I created a schedule for everybody and for her.

She helped us coordinate the walk down the aisle and she made

sure all of the vendors were there and set up. She took care of the

little things so I didn’t have to. At the end of the night, she made

sure everything was cleaned up and taken care of. It was perfect.

The day-of coordinator took all of the stress away. She hid all of

the issues from me and made sure we were on time the whole day.

It was great.

What kept you organized:

I created a bunch of spread sheets. We had a budget meeting

with our parents. I’m really careful with money and I wanted to

make sure we were getting a good deal. Overall, we were pretty


What is she glad she spent money on:

The photo booth. That was worth it. Also, our reception was

at the Blue Water Convention Center and I wanted to create an

intimate feel on the dance floor, so I designed a suspended bistro

lighting system and had it hung from the ceiling. I think it was

really worth it. I’m also glad we had real flowers. They added a

really nice touch.

dress shopping:

It was the fourth dress I tried on. It was on the half off rack. I

put it on and that was it.

gillian poretta

Warren, Michigan

Photo: Megan Block-Brewer and Kathryn Bessette

of Mulberry & Sage Photography

words of wisdom:

Communicate with everybody involved. The spread sheets were

helpful in keeping track of everything. Just be organized. It was

extremely stressful, but that’s what planning a huge party for

300 people is. If you don’t sweat the small stuff, then things will

go wrong. If I was to do anything differently, I’d try and stress

less. I’m high stress anyway. You just have to focus on a solution

to any issue that comes along. It was all worth it, though because

the day-of was absolutely perfect. I’m just so happy with the

way it all turned out. It was perfect. It all felt just right. It just

came together.

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