Better Man

30 Days to a better man
Dating and the Committed Man
Hanging out isn’t just a romance killer for the single set, it also has a nasty
habit of snuffing out the sparks of long-term relationships as well. Too
many men think that the courting phase of a relationship ends at the altar
or once they’ve landed a lady. But this is patently incorrect, at least if you
want to have a happy, fun, and intimate relationship.
Think about it: if you want to feel the same way about your wife that
you did when you were dating, then you have to do some of the stuff you
did when you were dating. The most obvious of which is, of course, actually
going on dates. Every couple should make a weekly date night a non-negotiable
in their life. And not just the same dinner and a movie date either. It
turns out that if you want to get back the butterflies you used to feel for your
lady, you need to make the effort to keep your dates fresh and interesting.
By injecting some novelty into your relationship, your brain gets flooded
with dopamine and norepinephrine, the chemicals that used to make you
think about your love obsessively and feel down right giddy about her.
So ditch the whole pizza and Netflix routine and really get out and do
something new and different.
Today’s Task:
Take a Woman a Date
Dating has fallen into such disfavor that we should perhaps give a primer
on what a date is. At it’s most basic, a date must include the “3 P’s” to
be official:
1. Paired off
2. Planned ahead
3. Paid for
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