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48 A MIND APART presumably because of the visual patterns and the texture of the dots. The death of Ferdinand Porsche, who passed away that spring, was especially troublesome to Zachary. He was the man who invented the Volkswagen, his mother again took pains to inform me. She, at least, could see I was having trouble following all this. Zachary would tell me of the deaths of various people, both famous and little known, and then his mother, serving as a kind of interpreter, supplied not a translation but a context for these statements. This was the only way I could follow what Zachary was saying to me. I asked Zachary when these worries began to bother him. “Things went crash in the last months of school,” he told me as he peered over his car, using the analogy of a car accident to explain his understanding of events. “What happened?” I asked. “I was not listening, getting suspended. . . . Will he get mad?” Zachary anxiously asked his mother, again over the top of the car. It was clear that school had been another stress for him, as some children were now teasing and bullying Zachary. He was in a regular class without any special assistance. He was quite bright and always had relatively good marks, as long as he could pay attention. But it was clear to everyone in school that Zachary was different. When he was younger, his eccentricity was easily tolerated by his schoolmates, but, as time went on, he became a target of teasing and bullying. These forms of abuse can be terrible to witness and even more terrible to endure, especially if one has ASD and cannot make sense of what all the fuss is about. Zachary had little idea he was different and that he was perceived as unusual by others, especially those wanting to make an impression on their friends. But he was very aware of the teasing. He would come home from school upset, not wanting to go back in the morning. His lack of sophistication and social understanding made him an easy target. Being eccentric can be a heavy burden when you are nine years of age. * * * After the appointment, I had an opportunity to reflect on what I had learned. It was clear that Zachary’s preoccupation with death was not a fascination; it was not an interest that gave him pleasure, as sounds did for Justin or wasps did for Stephen. Rather, the predominant mood was one of anxiety and distress. Zachary was clearly anxious about people dying, whether they were known to him personally or

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