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Tips to find Marriage counselling in Toronto

Finding a good marriage counsellor can seem like a tough task to do. It is really ideal to ask for a referral from a friend who has gone to one, your family physician or someone who knows any. Some people may feel very uncomfortable asking anyone for such a referral as you will obviously disclosing that you and your spouse are having problems with each other. The internet is often the place where people turn

Finding a good marriage counsellor can seem like a tough task to do. It is really ideal to ask for a referral from a friend who has gone to one, your family physician or someone who knows any. Some people may feel very uncomfortable asking anyone for such a referral as you will obviously disclosing that you and your spouse are having problems with each other.

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<strong>Tips</strong> <strong>to</strong> <strong>f<strong>in</strong>d</strong> <strong>Marriage</strong> <strong>counsell<strong>in</strong>g</strong> <strong>in</strong> Toron<strong>to</strong><br />

F<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g a good marriage counsellor can seem like a <strong>to</strong>ugh task <strong>to</strong> do. It is really ideal <strong>to</strong> ask for a<br />

referral from a friend who has gone <strong>to</strong> one, your family physician or someone who knows any. Some<br />

people may feel very uncomfortable ask<strong>in</strong>g anyone for such a referral as you will obviously<br />

disclos<strong>in</strong>g that you and your spouse are hav<strong>in</strong>g problems with each other.<br />

The <strong>in</strong>ternet is often the place where people turn <strong>to</strong>, but this is not always a guarantee of a<br />

successful outcome of the th<strong>in</strong>gs.<br />

Here are a few tips you can keep with you when you are <strong>to</strong> <strong>f<strong>in</strong>d</strong> a marriage <strong>counsell<strong>in</strong>g</strong> <strong>in</strong><br />

Toron<strong>to</strong> and help you with your marriage.<br />

F<strong>in</strong>d a counsellor with the right credentials<br />

All the therapists or couple counsellor as they are called, are licensed and eligible <strong>to</strong> practice<br />

therapy. This may vary from state <strong>to</strong> state, so be sure <strong>to</strong> check yours. A marriage <strong>counsell<strong>in</strong>g</strong><br />

practitioner who does marriage therapy, can be a licensed therapist or may have other credentials<br />

like a psychologist, mental health counsellor, etc. <strong>to</strong> specialize <strong>in</strong> a particular disorder or population,<br />

such as marriage or couples counsellor treatment requires tra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g of the advanced stages.<br />

All the marriage counsellor Toron<strong>to</strong> practitioner is quite experienced <strong>in</strong> the field and provides great<br />

assistance.<br />

Ask the marriage counsel<strong>in</strong>g expert questions you want <strong>to</strong><br />

It is perfectly acceptable and okay if you ask a lot of questions <strong>to</strong> the therapists. This can tell you that<br />

he or she is a competent one <strong>to</strong> practice and would be a perfect fit for your needs.<br />

This is more important when the couples counsellor was not directly referred <strong>to</strong> you or you found the<br />

person by search<strong>in</strong>g onl<strong>in</strong>e. No counsellor can predict how long you can be <strong>in</strong> the therapy until a<br />

good assessment is completed. It can be difficult even after an assessment is done. You can expect<br />

the therapy <strong>to</strong> go on for a time period of four <strong>to</strong> six months and can stretch up <strong>to</strong> a year depend<strong>in</strong>g<br />

upon the degree of the problems and how long you have had them.<br />

After you get the <strong>in</strong>formation on the fees and the schedul<strong>in</strong>g options, the therapists should be will<strong>in</strong>g<br />

<strong>to</strong> work with you for the time period. The therapist should be will<strong>in</strong>g <strong>to</strong> answer all your questions<br />

even on the phone calls.<br />

Trust your gut about the counsellor when you meet for the first time<br />

Is the counsel<strong>in</strong>g mak<strong>in</strong>g sense <strong>to</strong> you when he is talk<strong>in</strong>g <strong>to</strong> you? Does it sound like he or she has a<br />

good understand<strong>in</strong>g of the problems which you are fac<strong>in</strong>g and the th<strong>in</strong>gs which can be done <strong>to</strong> make<br />

them better? Do you both like the counsellor and feel comfortable when talk<strong>in</strong>g <strong>to</strong> him?


If you do not feel good about all these th<strong>in</strong>gs <strong>in</strong> the first few sessions, it can be an <strong>in</strong>dica<strong>to</strong>r that the<br />

counsellor is not the one you should be work<strong>in</strong>g with. You can <strong>f<strong>in</strong>d</strong> another one with whom you can<br />

feel free and engage <strong>in</strong> conversations easily. You also need <strong>to</strong> understand that the counsellor will<br />

assist and guide you <strong>in</strong> <strong>f<strong>in</strong>d</strong><strong>in</strong>g other ways for you both <strong>to</strong> solve the problems. A lot of work is<br />

required from you as well.<br />

F<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g help for your marriage is a brave and a positive undertak<strong>in</strong>g. Know<strong>in</strong>g how and where is the<br />

first step.<br />

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Source :- https://www.kiwibox.com/JohnZeller/blog/entry/143204603/tips-<strong>to</strong>-<strong>f<strong>in</strong>d</strong>-marriage<strong>counsell<strong>in</strong>g</strong>-<strong>in</strong>-<strong>to</strong>ron<strong>to</strong>/

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