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Studies in a Mosque - The Search For Mecca

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78 STUDIES IN A MOSQUE.<br />

that Abu-Bekr and 'Othmun had ah^eady politely<br />

decl<strong>in</strong>ed the honour of her alliance before the Prophet<br />

married her. Several of these marriages must<br />

have been entered <strong>in</strong>to from the feel<strong>in</strong>g that those<br />

women whose husbands had fallen <strong>in</strong> battle for the<br />

faith, and who had thus been left unprotected, had a<br />

claim upon the generosity of him who prompted the<br />

fio-ht. Other marrias^es were contracted from motives<br />

of policy, <strong>in</strong> order to conciliate the heads of rival fac-<br />

tions. It was not a high motive, but one does not<br />

look for very romantic ideas about love-matches from<br />

a man who regarded women as " crooked ribs," and<br />

whose system certa<strong>in</strong>ly does its best to make marriage<br />

from love impossible; yet, on the other hand, it was<br />

not a sensual motive. Perhaps the strongest reason<br />

—one of which it is impossible to over-estimate the<br />

foi-ce—that impelled Mohammad to take wife after<br />

wife was his desire for male offspr<strong>in</strong>g. It was a<br />

natural wish that he should have a son who should<br />

follow <strong>in</strong> his steps and carry on his work ;<br />

but the wish<br />

was never gratified, Mohammad's sons died young.<br />

After all, the overwhelm<strong>in</strong>g argument is his<br />

fidelity to his first wife. When he was little more<br />

than a boy he married Khadija, who was fifteen years<br />

older than himself, with all the added age that women<br />

ga<strong>in</strong> so quickly <strong>in</strong> the East. <strong>For</strong> five-and-twenty<br />

years Mohammad rema<strong>in</strong>ed faithful to his elderly wife,<br />

and when she was sixty-five, and they might have<br />

celebrated their "silver wedd<strong>in</strong>g," he was as devoted<br />

to her as when first he married her. Dur<strong>in</strong>g all those<br />

years there was never a breath of scandal. Thus far

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