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<strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong><br />
<strong>Sept</strong>ember <strong>2018</strong><br />
New Club Year: New Board of Officers!<br />
Jordan Journey with F<strong>AWC</strong>O<br />
6<br />
40<br />
44<br />
Learn a little more about Chat, Craft and<br />
Cake<br />
48<br />
Road Trip through Northern France:<br />
Normandy and Mont Saint Michele<br />
The Magazine of the<br />
American Women’s Club<br />
of The Hague<br />
5 Officers and Chairwomen<br />
6 May Installation of Officers<br />
8 Message from the President<br />
9 <strong>Sept</strong>ember Kick-Off<br />
10 Letter from the Editor<br />
12 Membership<br />
13 Friendship Quilt<br />
14 Ongoing Activities<br />
19 One-of-a-Kind Activities<br />
22 Summer Beach Barbeque<br />
Benefit<br />
28 <strong>AWC</strong> and the Arts<br />
29 New Look Campaign<br />
30 <strong>Sept</strong>ember Calendar<br />
33 Kid’s Club<br />
33 Walkie Talkies Special<br />
Outing<br />
34 Walkie Talkies Collage<br />
36 A Ceremony of<br />
Remembrance and Hope<br />
38 F<strong>AWC</strong>O Corner<br />
40 F<strong>AWC</strong>O Jordan<br />
43 Fran Mainella<br />
44 Chat, Craft and Cake<br />
46 The <strong>Dutch</strong> Daily<br />
48 Normandy— A Road Trip<br />
50 Summer Activites Collage<br />
53 Announcements<br />
56 Classifieds<br />
57 Index of Advertisers<br />
57 Ad Rates<br />
58 Proost! Interview<br />
SEPTEMBER <strong>2018</strong> 3
Editor<br />
Audrey Goodman<br />
<strong>2018</strong>-2019 <strong>AWC</strong> Officers<br />
Committee Chairs<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
Johan van Oldenbarneveltlaan 43<br />
2582 NJ Den Haag<br />
Tel: 070 350 6007<br />
info@awcthehague.org<br />
www.awcthehague.org<br />
<strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> Magazine<br />
goingdutchmag@gmail.com<br />
Clubhouse Hours<br />
Tuesday and Thursday<br />
10 a.m. - 2 p.m.<br />
Monday, Wednesday and Friday Closed<br />
Dues (Effective <strong>2018</strong>-2019)<br />
€ 110 per year (€ 66 after January 1)<br />
€ 90 business, professional<br />
€ 55 valid US military ID<br />
€ 35 student<br />
€ 35 Outside the Netherlands (<strong>Going</strong><br />
<strong>Dutch</strong> magazine not included)<br />
Add € 15 new member registration fee<br />
Design and Layout<br />
Teresa Mahoney<br />
Cover Photo<br />
A Giant Squid Over Scheveningen Beach by<br />
Melissa White<br />
Photography<br />
Mary Adams, Jane Choy, Sabine Crowley,<br />
Greetje Engelsman, F<strong>AWC</strong>O, Dena<br />
Haggerty, Teresa Insalaco, Suzanne<br />
MacNeil, Julie Mowat, Perspektief, Melissa<br />
Rider, Anne van Oorschot, Melissa White<br />
Proofreaders<br />
Celeste Brown, Jane Gulde, Diane Schaap,<br />
Debbie van Hees<br />
Advertising Invoicing<br />
Open<br />
Contributors<br />
Jane Choy, Susanne Dundas, Roberta<br />
Enschede, Jan Essad, Heather DeWitt, Dena<br />
Haggerty, Marsha Hagney, Eileen Harloff,<br />
Deana Kreitler, Suzanne MacNeil, Sunita<br />
Menon, Julie Mowat, Melissa Rider, Lindsay<br />
Turnau, Emily van Eerten, Melissa White<br />
Printer<br />
www.dwcprint.nl<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Bank Account Number<br />
IBAN: NL42ABNA0431421757<br />
KvK Den Haag<br />
40409274<br />
Honorary President Diane Hoekstra<br />
President Suzanne MacNeil<br />
awcthehague.president@gmail.com<br />
Vice President Marsha Hagney<br />
awcthehague.firstvp@gmail.com<br />
Treasurer Sheyla Karman<br />
awcthehague.treasurer@gmail.com<br />
Secretary Heather DeWitt & Laura Suttles<br />
awcthehague.secretary@gmail.com<br />
Club and Community Development<br />
Open<br />
awcthehague.community@gmail.com<br />
Clubhouse Administrator<br />
Jan Essad & Sunita Menon<br />
awcthehague.clubhousemgr@gmail.com<br />
Communications Rebecca Niles-Pourier<br />
awcthehague.communications@gmail.com<br />
Front Office<br />
Liduine Bekman, Siska Datema-Kool,<br />
Dominique Duysens, Amber Gatewood,<br />
Machelle Hollar, Paula Looijmans, Melissa<br />
Rider, Robin Rose, Holly Savoie, Carol<br />
Schapira, Chelsea Wald<br />
Activities: Open<br />
Arts: Jane Choy<br />
Assistant Treasurer: Teresa Insalaco<br />
Board Advisor: Jessie Rodell<br />
Caring Committee: Naomi Keip<br />
Chat, Craft & Cake: Suzanne Dundas<br />
Community Service Team: Open<br />
eNews Amber Gatewood<br />
Evening Events: Open<br />
F<strong>AWC</strong>O: Julie Mowat<br />
Front Office Coordinator: Open<br />
General Meeting Programs: Dena<br />
Haggerty<br />
Heart Pillow: Jan de Vries<br />
Historian/Archivist: Open<br />
Holiday Bazaar: Jaimie Keppel-Molenaar<br />
Hospitality: Open<br />
IT Administrator: Julie Otten<br />
Kids’ Club: Lindsey Turnau<br />
Library: Dena Haggerty<br />
Membership: Melissa Rider<br />
Newcomers: Holly Savoie, Greetje<br />
Engelsman<br />
Parliamentarian: Georgia Regnault<br />
Philanthropy: Holly Savoie<br />
Public Relations: Open<br />
Social Media: Rebecca Niles-Pourier and<br />
Julie Otten<br />
Social Media Recruitment: Ceci Wong<br />
Tennis: Molly Boed<br />
Volunteer Coordinator: Laurie<br />
Martecchini<br />
Webmaster: Julie Otten<br />
Women with <strong>Dutch</strong> Partners: Loren<br />
Mealey<br />
Deadlines: Submissions are due no later than the last Monday of the month preceding the publication month.<br />
For example, for the October issue, submissions are due before Monday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 24<br />
Please Note: Articles submitted to <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> will be published subject to space limitations and editorial approval.<br />
All rights reserved; reprints only by written permission of the Editor. Please email to: goingdutchmag@<br />
gmail.com<br />
Legal Notice: Articles in <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> express the views and opinions of their authors alone, and not necessarily<br />
those of the <strong>AWC</strong> of The Hague, its Members or this publication.<br />
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<strong>AWC</strong> Mission Statement<br />
The <strong>AWC</strong> is an association formed to provide social and educational activities for American<br />
women living in the Netherlands and to promote amicable relations among people of all nations,<br />
as well as acquiring funds for general public interest. Membership in the club is open<br />
to women of all nations who are friendly and welcoming to American culture. The association<br />
does not endeavor to make a profit. The <strong>AWC</strong> is a 100% volunteer organization.<br />
SEPTEMBER <strong>2018</strong> 5
<strong>2018</strong>-2019 Board Installation
Message from the President<br />
by Suzanne MacNeil<br />
<strong>Sept</strong>ember Kick-Off<br />
by Marsha Hagney<br />
Welcome to the new Club year and<br />
welcome back if you’ve traveled<br />
this summer. I spent two weeks in<br />
Ireland in June, one week for a mosaic workshop<br />
and the other driving through the lovely<br />
countryside with Tim. We ended our trip in<br />
a small town outside Belfast to meet Tim’s<br />
cousins and visit the stone house where his<br />
grandmother and great-grandmother were<br />
born. Then it was a week in Jacksonville<br />
to see my mom and a week with Fran<br />
Mainella and her husband in Amsterdam<br />
and The Hague. Fran graciously stopped<br />
by the Clubhouse in July to share her story<br />
about her time as director of the National<br />
Park Service. If you didn’t make it to Fran’s<br />
discussion, Emily van Eerten sums it up<br />
nicely on page 43.<br />
In between travels, your Board met several<br />
times during the summer and we have<br />
events, activities, and travels already on the<br />
books. Please be sure to check Ongoing<br />
Activities and One-of-a-Kind Activities in<br />
this edition of <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong>. If you plan to<br />
take part in any of the activities listed, go to<br />
the Club calendar on our website to sign up.<br />
Our Club was founded in 1930 as a social<br />
organization. It continues to be just that, a<br />
fun group that offers friendship and opportunities<br />
to dig in to our <strong>Dutch</strong> life. Without<br />
the <strong>AWC</strong>, my time as an expat (since 2013)<br />
would been more stressful and lonely. It is<br />
thanks to the lovely women in the Club that<br />
I adjusted more quickly to being far from my<br />
family, and it’s my <strong>AWC</strong><br />
friends who introduced<br />
me to the<br />
grand world that<br />
living abroad<br />
offers. I hope<br />
that you have<br />
found a circle<br />
of women<br />
within the<br />
Club who do<br />
the same for you,<br />
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and I would<br />
hope that you<br />
offer new expats<br />
and women you<br />
meet the opportunity<br />
to join our<br />
<strong>AWC</strong>. Growing<br />
our membership<br />
is fundamental<br />
so the Club can<br />
continue at least<br />
another 90 years!<br />
If you’re<br />
looking for an opportunity to introduce<br />
friends to the Club, be sure to bring them<br />
to our Prinsjesdag Luncheon on Tuesday,<br />
<strong>Sept</strong>ember 18 to watch the King, Queen, and<br />
other royals ride along the route of the Golden<br />
Coach. The procession leaves Noordeinde<br />
Palace and travels to the Binnenhof where<br />
King Willem-Alexander will address parliament.<br />
We will have a bird’s-eye view of the<br />
procession from an upper floor of Restaurant<br />
Garoeda. Be sure to sign up ASAP!<br />
Since we’re nearing our stone anniversary<br />
(90 years), the Board is looking ahead<br />
and we are developing a three-to-five-year<br />
plan for the Club. Our <strong>AWC</strong> is not unlike a<br />
business. Members are our target customers,<br />
and the Board and committees focus on<br />
meeting our Members’ needs. The Board is<br />
reviewing our strengths, weaknesses, and<br />
opportunities to ensure we can achieve our<br />
potential and improve where necessary. Just<br />
as businesses are always working to improve<br />
their operations, the Board is actively looking<br />
at ways to refine how we manage certain<br />
aspects of the Club. One step we have taken<br />
is the implementation of a fundraising/donation<br />
request form that must be filled out by<br />
Members and non-members to ensure the<br />
Board fully understands each request and<br />
if it meets the Club’s mission. This change,<br />
along with other updates, and improvements<br />
are helping the Board, and the Club, to set<br />
priorities and remain financially sound. >>52<br />
Morning and Evening<br />
Events<br />
Welcome back to Members and welcome to<br />
new Members and friends! Join us to meet<br />
others and learn about Club activities and<br />
events. Sign up for scheduled events, learn<br />
about volunteer opportunities, enjoy some<br />
refreshments, and spend some time catching<br />
up with friends or getting acquainted<br />
with new and prospective Members. All<br />
Members are encouraged to invite friends<br />
and acquaintances who may be interested in<br />
joining the <strong>AWC</strong>!<br />
Thursday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 13<br />
Morning Session 11:00 a.m. – 2:00 p.m.<br />
Evening Session 5:00 – 8:00 p.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
Heads-up: The October issue will arrive a few days late. Our fearless Design and<br />
Layout Specialist, Teresa Mahoney, is unplugging to climb a mountain (seriously!)<br />
and will work on the issue after her descent. But don’t worry, you can still find<br />
important <strong>AWC</strong> news and information on Facebook and GroupSpaces.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> new Board Installation (see p 6 for more photos)<br />
SEPTEMBER <strong>2018</strong> 9
Letter from the Editor<br />
by Audrey Goodman<br />
Early last summer, I received a mid-day<br />
call from my husband, “Hey, I just need<br />
to know if you would ever consider living<br />
overseas?” “Umm, honey. I need a little<br />
more information. For starters, which continent<br />
are we talking about?” He had no specifics,<br />
except that he was pretty sure it would be<br />
Europe. Over the next couple months, the details<br />
started emerging: Europe… The Hague...<br />
Early <strong>2018</strong>... Two Years. So, here I am!<br />
We spent the last part of 2017 making<br />
the necessary arrangements and spending as<br />
much time with friends and family as possible.<br />
use various laundry detergents sorted by color,<br />
stay out of the way of bicycles, always carry<br />
an umbrella, and add salt to my dishwasher.<br />
(On that note: I highly recommend attending<br />
the <strong>Dutch</strong> Products class offered by Carol<br />
Slootweg on Wednesday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 25 at the<br />
Clubhouse, if you’re new to the Netherlands.)<br />
This Spring, after the previous editor,<br />
Suzanne MacNeil, accepted the role as our<br />
new Club president, I offered to take on the<br />
editorship of <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong>. I swear, I only had<br />
half a glass of wine when I made the decision!<br />
Suzanne, Melissa White and Teresa<br />
If you want something said, ask a man;<br />
If you want something done, ask a woman.<br />
Margaret Thatcher<br />
On January 2, <strong>2018</strong> we left Baltimore, and it<br />
has been an amazing whirlwind ever since.<br />
I was introduced to the <strong>AWC</strong> by the former<br />
president, Mary Ann Nation-Greenwall,<br />
(at a Thirsty Thursday, of course!) and it<br />
was the best decision I made since arriving.<br />
I jumped right in to the activities and have<br />
met so many wonderful and amazing women,<br />
from all backgrounds, with very different<br />
experiences, and with various interests. My<br />
fear of being bored or isolated very quickly<br />
dissolved, and I feel incredibly lucky to be<br />
part of such a fantastic organization.<br />
Nearly everyone speaks English in the<br />
Netherlands, making this country seem like<br />
“Expat for Dummies”. But it’s been the little<br />
things that I’ve struggled with since moving<br />
here. The day we arrived, we made our first<br />
trip to Albert Heijn, and we also made our<br />
first mistake. I now know that AH doesn’t<br />
accept MasterCard, or Visa, or Discover, or<br />
any other American credit card. After an extremely<br />
embarrassing trip to the ATM, we had<br />
the basic necessities for our extremely tiny<br />
refrigerator. I’ve also learned that I need to<br />
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Mahoney have been have been overwhelmingly<br />
helpful through this transition. Melissa<br />
is also a former <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> editor, and still<br />
contributes greatly to the magazine (check out<br />
the Announcements section!). Teresa handles<br />
the design and layout, making the magazine<br />
absolutely beautiful. Countless hours and<br />
lots of hard work go into the magazine every<br />
month, and without these women, <strong>Going</strong><br />
<strong>Dutch</strong> wouldn’t exist. I have big shoes to fill,<br />
and I hope I can live up to the reputations of<br />
my predecessors.<br />
As we start a new Club year, I would<br />
like to add a new element to the magazine.<br />
It seems everyone has a tried-and-true recipe<br />
that I’m sure is worth sharing. So please pass<br />
along some of your favorites to be included<br />
in upcoming issues! And I’m certainly open<br />
to new article ideas, so don’t hesitate to send<br />
me an email or strike up a conversation at a<br />
Club event. Or, better yet, let’s make plans to<br />
discuss your idea over coffee or wine!<br />
Audrey<br />
SEPTEMBER <strong>2018</strong> 11
Membership<br />
by Melissa Rider<br />
Welcome New Members!<br />
Kristina Andrews<br />
Patti Calabro<br />
Jeanne Crandall<br />
Naya Pessoa<br />
<strong>2018</strong>-2019 Membership Dues<br />
If you have not yet paid your membership<br />
dues, please note they are due no later<br />
than <strong>Sept</strong>ember 30 to avoid a late fee.<br />
The best way to renew is by electronic<br />
transfer to our bank account with IBAN:<br />
NL42ABNA0431421757 (be sure to include<br />
your name and Membership Dues in the<br />
memo section). You can also pay by PIN at<br />
the Clubhouse during office hours. Dues remain<br />
the same as last year: € 110 for Regular<br />
and Associate Members, € 90 for Business/<br />
Professionals, € 55 for Military (with valid<br />
military ID) and € 35 for Students (with valid<br />
student ID).<br />
Update Your Information<br />
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information.<br />
GDPR<br />
The <strong>AWC</strong>, like all other businesses and organizations<br />
in Europe, must comply with<br />
the General Data Protection Regulation<br />
(GDPR) which sets new rules for the collection<br />
of data of those living in the EU. The<br />
new privacy measures mean you now have<br />
to give the <strong>AWC</strong> explicit and informed consent<br />
for the Club to use your name and likeness<br />
in <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong>, either of our Facebook<br />
pages, and in our Membership Directory.<br />
Birthday wishes, unfortunately, will no longer<br />
be published in <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong>, as another<br />
measure towards ensuring your privacy. We<br />
appreciate your help as we work to make<br />
sure we follow the rule of law.<br />
“Tell Me A Story” – The 2019<br />
Friendship Quilt<br />
by Julie Mowat<br />
Every year since 1995, F<strong>AWC</strong>O members<br />
around the globe have worked together,<br />
contributing to the F<strong>AWC</strong>O Friendship<br />
Quilt. The greatly coveted product is raffled<br />
off at the annual F<strong>AWC</strong>O Conference to raise<br />
money for The Foundation’s programs and<br />
charitable causes. This is a great time to start<br />
working on your 2019 quilt squares. What<br />
better way than a book-themed quilt to wrap<br />
up the Target Education cycle!<br />
Deadline: October 10<br />
Square instructions:<br />
www.fawcofoundation.org<br />
Contact Suzanne Dundas at<br />
awcthehague.crafts@gmail.com to<br />
coordinate mailing the squares.<br />
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Go to www.awcthehague.org to share the current month’s issue with friends and family. You<br />
will also find links to our annual advertisers, whose support makes this magazine possible. If<br />
you visit or contact one of our advertisers, let them know<br />
<strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> sent you!<br />
Birthdays<br />
Due to changes in European privacy laws, and because <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong> will soon be posted<br />
on our external Facebook page, we won’t be sharing birthdays in print any longer.<br />
Instead, you’ll see Members’ birthdays in the weekly eNews, which is sent to your private<br />
email account and is more secure. We value our Members’ privacy. If you have any<br />
questions, please contact Melissa Rider, our Membership Coordinator, at awcthehague.<br />
membership@gmail.com.<br />
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SEPTEMBER <strong>2018</strong> 13
Photo credit: GoodReads<br />
Ongoing Activities<br />
Book Clubs<br />
The <strong>AWC</strong> Book Clubs are open to all readers,<br />
and new Members are especially welcome!<br />
There’s no requirement to attend every<br />
meeting or lead a discussion. Snacks are<br />
provided by a different Member each month.<br />
There are two Book Clubs hosted by <strong>AWC</strong><br />
Members: One in the daytime and one in<br />
the evening. Questions? Teresa Mahoney<br />
organizes the daytime group, and Dena<br />
Haggerty handles the evening meetings.<br />
For more information, please contact them at<br />
awcthehague.bookclub@gmail.com. Happy<br />
reading!<br />
Daytime Book Club<br />
<strong>Sept</strong>ember Selection:<br />
Days without End follows<br />
the experiences of Thomas<br />
McNulty, a teenage immigrant<br />
from Ireland, who fled<br />
the Great Famine for the<br />
United States. He enlisted in<br />
the Army in the 1850s and<br />
served in both the Indian<br />
Wars and the Civil War. The story follows his<br />
struggles, heartbreak and lost youth during<br />
the Wars. The New York Times describes this<br />
book as “a haunting archaeology of youth …<br />
A dreamlike Western with a different kind of<br />
hero.”<br />
Thursday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 27<br />
10 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
FREE<br />
Daytime Book Club Recap – April<br />
My Absolute Darling, by Gabriel Tallent,<br />
provided for a lively discussion during the<br />
April meeting. The author purposefully<br />
wrote a book full of the flora and fauna of<br />
the northern California coast, and some of the<br />
Members had been to a live session with him<br />
prior to the meeting, so they knew his proclivity<br />
for that part of the United States. The<br />
main character, Turtle, is a young teenager<br />
just blossoming into puberty who lives with<br />
her father. Turtle seems to take care of herself<br />
most of the time and has been allowed the<br />
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freedom to roam the cliffs near their home,<br />
where she exhibits an uncanny knowledge<br />
of the plants and animals around her. Once<br />
into the book, one is mesmerized by the language,<br />
often sending one to the dictionary.<br />
The main theme of the story emerges into<br />
one of the emotional, physical, and sexual<br />
abuse that Turtle endures by her father. Later<br />
in the story, after a long absence, he returns<br />
with a much younger girl who ends up going<br />
through similar seemingly torturous trials<br />
at the whim of the father. Was Turtle brave,<br />
cowardly, entrapped? It was a maternal instinct<br />
for the younger girl that finally brought<br />
her into action to leave the situation and save<br />
herself. The book was definitely a page-turner,<br />
and an impossible-to-put-down selection.<br />
Daytime Book Club Recap – May<br />
Notes on a Foreign Country: An American<br />
Abroad in a Post-American World by Suzy<br />
Hansen. Suzy Hansen left New York City<br />
at the age of 25 with a grant for overseas<br />
journalism and decided to base herself in<br />
Istanbul. Over the next decade, she travelled<br />
to Greece, Egypt, Afghanistan, Iran, and then<br />
to the Mississippi Delta. As time passed, she<br />
gathered foreigners’ impressions and histories,<br />
and began to note a change in her own<br />
views of America: “We cannot go abroad as<br />
Americans in the twenty-first century and not<br />
realize that the main thing terrorizing us is<br />
our own ignorance.” She uses the complex<br />
histories of these countries to illuminate the<br />
way she looks at her own country and the assumptions<br />
of American exceptionalism that<br />
are inculcated by our families, our schools,<br />
and our media. This book is a travelogue<br />
combined with a personal memoir that details<br />
“the vertiginous distance that exists between<br />
what America is and what it thinks of itself”.<br />
Our Members discussed the range of important<br />
issues raised by this book in the light of<br />
their own personal recognition. As expats,<br />
each of us has experienced the uncomfortable<br />
epiphany so eloquently described by<br />
Hansen. The group recommends this book<br />
unanimously and would like to see its readership<br />
widened in the United States.<br />
Daytime Book Club Recap – June<br />
Bernard MacLaverty’s Midwinter Break<br />
is his first novel in 16 years. Set during a<br />
short holiday in Amsterdam during a wintry<br />
January, the novel explores a very mature<br />
marriage that is in quiet difficulty. Gerry<br />
and Stella Gilmore have reached a fork in<br />
the road of their relationship. Gerry’s drinking<br />
has increased in frequency and duration;<br />
Stella desires a contemplative religious life<br />
devoted to service during the years that remain<br />
to her. To achieve this will involve<br />
leaving Gerry possibly for a life in the<br />
Begijnhof in Amsterdam. Familiar tourist<br />
destinations, such as the Anne Frank House<br />
and the Rijksmuseum, serve to move the plot<br />
forward and to reveal more of the marriage,<br />
as well as the unresolved act of violence in<br />
their past that is the impetus for their individual<br />
unhappiness. MacLaverty’s focus on the<br />
poetry of the mundane, lends truthfulness to<br />
his examination of the interior lives of his<br />
characters. This book was well received by<br />
the book club, but it was felt it would be best<br />
appreciated by those in mature relationships.<br />
Daytime Book Club Recap – July<br />
In Revolution Song: A Story of American<br />
Freedom, Russell Shorto weaves six personal<br />
histories into a fascinating look at<br />
the American Revolution. He relies on the<br />
well-documented biographical trails of six<br />
very different people: George Washington,<br />
Indian leader Cornplanter, British Secretary<br />
of State for the Colonies George Germain,<br />
runaway child bride turned professional mistress<br />
Margaret Coghlan, freed slave Venture<br />
Daytime Book Club Reading List:<br />
Thursday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 27: Days Without<br />
End by Sebastian Barry<br />
Thursday, October 25: Homegoing by<br />
Yaa Gyasi<br />
Thursday, November 15: Educated: A<br />
Memoir by Tara Westover<br />
Evening Book Club Reading List:<br />
October: TBD: see eNews for October<br />
book and date<br />
Smith, and Albany shoemaker turned framer<br />
of the US Constitution Abraham Yates.<br />
Building on the theme of personal freedom<br />
unleashed by the Enlightenment, Shorto<br />
masterfully tells the six tales against the<br />
backdrop of colonies fighting for both political<br />
and individual freedom and struggling to<br />
construct a new nation once that freedom is<br />
won. A colossal, timely, and endlessly fascinating<br />
book.<br />
Evening Book Club<br />
<strong>Sept</strong>ember Selection:<br />
The Italian Teacher by Tom<br />
Rachman<br />
What makes an artist?<br />
In The Italian Teacher, Tom<br />
Rachman displays a nuanced<br />
understanding of art and its<br />
demons. Moreover, in Pinch<br />
he achieves a portrait of vulnerability<br />
and frustrated talent that—with<br />
his signature humor and humanity—challenges<br />
the very idea of greatness.<br />
Wednesday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 19<br />
7:30 p.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
FREE<br />
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Photo credit: GoodReads
Ongoing Activities (cont.)<br />
Continued from page 15<br />
Chat, Craft & Cake<br />
Chat, Craft and Cake is a weekly<br />
highlight for those who enjoy crafts<br />
and camaraderie. Whether your craft is<br />
knitting, quilting, needlepoint or simply<br />
mending your clothes, or whether you are<br />
a beginner or an expert, you are welcome to<br />
join us. Fish that UFO (Unfinished Object)<br />
out of the drawer and get going on it again.<br />
CCandCer’s are always ready with a helping<br />
hand, a lesson, or some advice. Each week,<br />
a different Member brings a tried and true<br />
or experimental cake. Babysitting is not<br />
available and there are lots of sharp objects<br />
about (pins, needles, scissors and wit), so<br />
we cannot accommodate children. Contact<br />
Suzanne Dundas at awcthehague.crafts@<br />
gmail.com for more information<br />
Every Tuesday<br />
10 a.m. – Noon<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
FREE<br />
Heart Pillow Project<br />
Members work together to make heartshaped<br />
pillows designed to help support<br />
the arms of recent mastectomy patients.<br />
Each pillow is made with TLC, wrapped,<br />
and comes with a note signed by an <strong>AWC</strong><br />
volunteer. No sewing skills are needed, as<br />
you can cut, stuff, or wrap the heart pillows.<br />
We are proud to provide women and men<br />
with something both practical and comforting,<br />
and we know our work helps because<br />
we often receive thank-you notes and emails<br />
from the patients who have received a heart<br />
pillow. For more information, please contact<br />
Jan de Vries at awcthehague.heartpillow@<br />
gmail.com.<br />
Tuesday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 4<br />
Noon – 2 p.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
FREE<br />
Visitors Welcome<br />
Out to Lunch Bunch: <strong>Sept</strong>ember<br />
For a change in venue, the Lunch Bunch will<br />
be having lunch in Leiden this month. This<br />
restaurant, close to the train station, forms<br />
the gateway to the old town of Leiden. It is<br />
named after Pieter Van der Werff, a 16thcentury<br />
mayor of Leiden, who offered his<br />
arm to the starving city. (Info about this<br />
later!) The atmosphere in Stadscafe Van<br />
der Werff is similar to what you find in the<br />
city of Leiden: sparkling and cozy. Curious?<br />
Come and have lunch!<br />
Stadscafe Van der Werff<br />
Steenstraat 2, Leiden<br />
www.stadscafevanderwerff.nl<br />
Thursday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 27<br />
12:15 p.m.<br />
Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
Tennis League<br />
Players needed! The <strong>AWC</strong> Tennis<br />
Group plays doubles every Tuesday in<br />
Warmond. Ladies move up and down<br />
the courts according to a ladder tennis<br />
system. The emphasis is on having fun!<br />
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Ongoing Activities (cont.)<br />
Continued from page 17<br />
One-of-a-Kind Activities<br />
by Dena Haggerty<br />
except true beginners. Contact Molly<br />
Boed at mollyboed@gmail.com for more<br />
information.<br />
Tuesdays starting <strong>Sept</strong>ember 4<br />
(except specific holidays TBD)<br />
1 –3 p.m.<br />
Dekker Tennis Courts<br />
Veerpolder 14, Warmond<br />
€275 Members / €325 Nonmembers<br />
Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
Thirsty Thursday<br />
Join us for a casual evening at our first<br />
Thirsty Thursday of the new Club year. For<br />
just €15, Fratelli’s Restaurant is providing<br />
two drinks + pizza, bruschetta, and ciabatta.<br />
Relax with <strong>AWC</strong> friends and be sure to<br />
bring anyone you know who might be interested<br />
in joining the Club. It’s a fun and easy<br />
night to get back into fall.<br />
Thursday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 20<br />
6–9 p.m.<br />
Tournooiveld 1, Den Haag (Near Lange<br />
Voorhout)<br />
€15 for two drinks and food<br />
No RSVP needed<br />
Walkie Talkies<br />
Whether you count your steps or just want<br />
to walk with friends, the Monday morning<br />
Walkie Talkies is a fun, healthy and energetic<br />
way to start the week. The group meets<br />
in front of the Clubhouse before heading out<br />
to walk to various destinations in the area,<br />
usually racking up 10,000 steps along the<br />
way. Sign up on GroupSpaces to receive<br />
email updates or contact Emily van Eerten<br />
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at vaneerten@gmail.com (or Greetje<br />
Engelsman at greetje.engelsman@gmail.<br />
com).<br />
Mondays<br />
9:30 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
FREE<br />
Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
Wassenaar Coffee & Conversation<br />
If you live in or north<br />
of Wassenaar, join<br />
your neighbors for<br />
coffee and conversation<br />
once-a-month<br />
without having to<br />
drive to the clubhouse.<br />
One Member will host a casual coffee at her<br />
home at 9:30 on the first Thursday of every<br />
month. Suzanne Dundas coordinates these<br />
gatherings, so please contact her if you are<br />
interested in attending or for more information.<br />
Prospective Members are always welcome<br />
too.<br />
Thursday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 6<br />
9:30 a.m.<br />
FREE<br />
Members: eNews Distribution<br />
A weekly electronic newsletter is sent to<br />
all <strong>AWC</strong> Members. If you have not been<br />
receiving your eNews, please contact<br />
Melissa at<br />
awcthehague.membership@gmail.com.<br />
RSVP directly on <strong>AWC</strong> GroupSpaces.com. Direct any questions to<br />
awcthehague.firstvp@gmail.com.<br />
Payment must be made within 5 calendar days of reserving or your name will be moved to<br />
a waitlist. Payment can be made in the Front Office by PIN or by bank transfer to the <strong>AWC</strong><br />
account NL42ABNA0431421757.<br />
Walk the Route of the Golden<br />
Coach (Gouden Koets)<br />
Although the Golden Coach is under repair,<br />
the route the royals will follow in the<br />
Glass Coach on their way to the Binnenhof<br />
on Prinsjesdag to open parliament is one<br />
and the same. Join Greetje Engelsman<br />
(<strong>AWC</strong> Member and <strong>Dutch</strong> ex-expat ) for a<br />
royal walk from the Noordeinde Palace to the<br />
Ridderzaal (Knights Hall). Learn more about<br />
Prinsjesdag (budget day), <strong>Dutch</strong> royalty and<br />
democracy, and the buildings and institutions<br />
along the route—their history and current<br />
use.<br />
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help you with your business. Our people are always there for you<br />
with professional and tailored advice.<br />
sligro.nl<br />
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Monday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 17<br />
2 – 3:30 p.m.<br />
Meet opposite the Noordeinde Palace,<br />
Noordeinde 68, Den Haag<br />
Maximum 15 / FREE<br />
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One-of-a-Kind Activities (cont.)<br />
Continued from page 19<br />
Prinjesdag Parade & Buffet<br />
Luncheon<br />
An <strong>AWC</strong> tradition! View this special, festive<br />
day from a unique vantage point reserved<br />
specifically for <strong>AWC</strong> Members and<br />
friends. Sign up now to view King Willem-<br />
Alexander and Queen Maxima’s parade as<br />
they arrive for the King to open Parliament.<br />
The third floor of Garoeda Restaurant is<br />
the perfect viewing opportunity for this traditional<br />
Nederlands event! The King and<br />
Queen ride from the palace at Noordeinde to<br />
the Binnenhof and back, escorted by horsemen,<br />
bands, and horse-drawn carriages. The<br />
pomp and circumstance make this a must<br />
see! Price includes Indonesian rijsttafel, a<br />
glass of wine and tea or coffee.<br />
Cancellation Policy<br />
Members may reserve a spot for an <strong>AWC</strong> tour, activity or<br />
event in advance. Payment is required within five business<br />
days of the reservation or before the deadline date (whichever<br />
is sooner) otherwise your name will be moved to a waitlist.<br />
It is the responsibility of the Member to notify the Club at<br />
awcthehague.finance@gmail.com to cancel a reservation<br />
prior to the cancellation deadline. Please note that there will<br />
be NO REFUNDS (no exceptions) after the cancellation deadline.<br />
Members may find a substitute in lieu of cancellation<br />
provided that arrangements are made with the tour, activity<br />
or event organizer. Members shall be held responsible for<br />
their guest reservations in accordance with this policy.<br />
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Tuesday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 18<br />
Arrive no later than 11:00 a.m.<br />
Garoeda Restaurant<br />
Kneuterdijk 18A, Den Haag<br />
€50 Members (€55 non-Members)<br />
Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
Cancellation deadline: <strong>Sept</strong>ember 7<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Guest Policy<br />
Guests are welcome<br />
to participate in <strong>AWC</strong><br />
activities and tours on<br />
a limited basis. As a<br />
nonmember, a guest is<br />
limited to attend two<br />
functions per calendar<br />
year and will be<br />
charged an additional<br />
nonmember fee. Only<br />
Members are entitled to<br />
use babysitting services.<br />
Nederlands Dans Theater<br />
Invitation<br />
Nederlands Dans Theater (NDT) has invited<br />
the <strong>AWC</strong> to watch a morning lesson. NDT<br />
was founded in 1959 and is known for its<br />
avant-garde aesthetic, and nonconformist<br />
and progressive productions. The company<br />
will hold eight world premieres this season,<br />
including numerous original works and several<br />
revivals.<br />
Paul Lightfoot<br />
has served as<br />
the artistic director<br />
since<br />
2011, and says<br />
his choices for<br />
the season are,<br />
“About artistic<br />
creation, not<br />
just choreography.”<br />
Prior to<br />
the start of the<br />
lesson, there will be an introduction about<br />
the lesson. This is a unique opportunity for<br />
our Members to watch the talented dancers<br />
of NDT. There are limited spots for the<br />
lesson, and only 15 guests will be able to<br />
attend. <strong>AWC</strong> Members will be given first<br />
priority, so please sign up ASAP.<br />
Wednesday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 19<br />
Arrive no later than 10:30 a.m.<br />
Schedeldoekshaven 60, Den Haag<br />
Maximum 15 / FREE<br />
Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
Photo credit: © Rahi Rezvani<br />
<strong>Dutch</strong> Products Class<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Member Carol Slootweg will explain<br />
<strong>Dutch</strong> cooking and cleaning products. As<br />
a long-time <strong>Dutch</strong> resident and cooking<br />
instructor, Carol is an expert in using local<br />
products and converting American recipes.<br />
Carol and Greetje Engelsman have coauthored<br />
a book entitled <strong>Dutch</strong> Products,<br />
which will be offered for sale for €10.<br />
Join us and say goodbye to that confusion<br />
we’ve all experienced in the kitchen (and<br />
grocery store)! If you have questions,<br />
contact Greetje Engelsman at awcthehague.<br />
newcomers@gmail.com.<br />
Tuesday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 25<br />
10 a.m. – Noon<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse<br />
No max / FREE<br />
Welcome Back BBQ<br />
Fall has arrived and with it comes a new Club<br />
year! What better way to say “Welcome<br />
Back” than with an American BBQ? Come<br />
one, come all and join us for this great event<br />
for Members and their families. We’ll be<br />
grilling hamburgers, veggie burgers and hotdogs.<br />
Side dishes, soft drinks, beer and wine<br />
will be provided. We’ve got the food and<br />
drinks covered. Just bring your appetite!<br />
Saturday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 29<br />
6:00 – 9:00 p.m.<br />
€10 Members or Partners<br />
(€15 Non-Members). Children under age<br />
of 12 are half-price.<br />
Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
Cancellation deadline: <strong>Sept</strong>ember 24<br />
Delft Blue Tile Workshop<br />
Our day will begin at PAAUW 1651 where<br />
we will discover how the world-famous Delft<br />
Blue porcelain is made. A professional guide<br />
will show us around the pottery factory and<br />
will explain each step in the production of<br />
Delftware.<br />
After the tour, we will begin the tile workshop<br />
which will take place in a painter’s room. A<br />
professional painter will guide us through<br />
the process of painting our own Delft tile.<br />
Unfortunately, we will not be taking a completed<br />
tile home with us that day. The tiles<br />
will be collected, so that they can be glazed<br />
and fired. After seven days, Holly Savoie will<br />
pick up all the completed tiles. You will be<br />
notified by email when your finished piece is<br />
ready to be picked up at the <strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse.<br />
After the workshop, we will have lunch at<br />
de Brasserij (www.brasserig.nl). Feel free<br />
to join us after lunch as we wander the town<br />
center of Delft, or head back on your own after<br />
the workshop or lunch. We will be traveling<br />
via public transportation, so please bring<br />
your OV Chipkaart and money for lunch.<br />
Wednesday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 26<br />
Meet at Starbucks in Den Haag Central:<br />
8:50 a.m.<br />
3 Min/35 Max / €29.50 Members<br />
Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
Cancellation deadline: <strong>Sept</strong>ember 19<br />
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Summer Beach Barbeque Benefit<br />
by Dena Haggerty<br />
Thanks to all the <strong>AWC</strong> Members, their<br />
partners and friends who came out on<br />
June 2 with their thinking caps on, the<br />
Summer Beach Barbeque Benefit was a great<br />
success. The Strandpaviljoen Sport was filled<br />
to capacity with guests coming out to benefit<br />
Perspektief, our selected charity. The evening<br />
began with a cocktail while everyone<br />
perused the silent auction items. Although<br />
the items in the silent auction were limited<br />
in number, the items were varied enough to<br />
pique everyone’s interest. While some items<br />
led to bidding wars, other items were cut out<br />
of the competition by a Member immediately<br />
purchasing the item to lock out the competition.<br />
It was all in good fun for a great cause!<br />
The evening really heated up when we<br />
began the main event of the benefit—the<br />
trivia quiz! Twelve teams participated in<br />
four rounds of quiz questions varying from<br />
“What is the most common metal on earth?”<br />
to “In which Star Wars movie did Ewoks<br />
first appear?” to “How many men walked<br />
on the moon?”. The competition was fierce.<br />
At the end of four rounds, two teams were<br />
tied leading to a tie-break round. The tie was<br />
only broken when one team misspelled the<br />
word Scoville (of the Scoville scale). I’m<br />
sure the losing team won’t ever forget how<br />
to spell Scoville again!<br />
The evening continued with the announcement<br />
of the winner of the raffle. There<br />
were over 100 raffle tickets sold leading<br />
up to the benefit and over the course of the<br />
evening. Perspektief graciously supplied a<br />
bench, which had been handcrafted in their<br />
woodworking workshop for the winner of<br />
the raffle. There were many sighs of disappointment<br />
in the tent when the winner was<br />
announced.<br />
With the ‘agenda’ of the evening completed,<br />
it was time to party! The DJ played<br />
a variety of 80s music to ensure everyone<br />
could get their boogie on. The night ended<br />
with a bang when fireworks lit up the sky<br />
over the beach.<br />
Proceeds from the tickets (25% of the<br />
entry cost), the raffle tickets, and the silent<br />
auction will be used to benefit our chosen<br />
charity: Perspektief. Barbara Berkelaar, director<br />
of Perspektief, explained the organization<br />
and their goals with the help of a video.<br />
She was also on hand during the evening<br />
to discuss the organization with attendees.<br />
Perspektief is dedicated to supporting<br />
and counseling victims of domestic abuse,<br />
the homeless and other at-risk individuals.<br />
In different areas of life, Perspektief helps<br />
these individuals restore their lives. This<br />
can be by providing housing, helping with<br />
finances, providing network connections, or<br />
teaching a trade. Our donation is earmarked<br />
for women’s causes within the organization.<br />
This can be to help women learn a trade<br />
or to support domestic abuse victims, for<br />
example.<br />
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Summer Beach BBQ Benefit (cont.)<br />
Continued from page 23<br />
At the <strong>Sept</strong>ember Kick-Off, the donation<br />
amount will be announced, and<br />
Perspektief will be provided with a check<br />
in that amount. Make sure you come along<br />
to Kick-Off to hear how much money was<br />
raised and for a chance to meet the women<br />
who ensure the good work of Perspektief<br />
continues.<br />
None of the above would have been possible<br />
without the support of the Members<br />
of the <strong>AWC</strong>. Specifically, the Committee<br />
Members worked tirelessly to ensure the<br />
night was a success. Thanks to Audrey<br />
Goodman, Teresa Insalaco, Rebecca Niles-<br />
Pourier, Anna-Lena Thuren-Vogel, and<br />
Suzanne MacNeil. Only through their hard<br />
work was this evening possible.<br />
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Summer Beach BBQ Benefit (cont.)<br />
With Deep Gratitude to Our Sponsors<br />
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<strong>AWC</strong> and the Arts<br />
by Jane Choy, <strong>AWC</strong> Member and Mauritshuis Docent<br />
“New Look Campaign” (Phase One)!<br />
by Jan Essad and Sunita Menon<br />
Guided Tour of <strong>Dutch</strong> Masters<br />
from British Country Houses<br />
This autumn there will be a special exhibit<br />
at the Mauritshuis of <strong>Dutch</strong> 17th century<br />
paintings that are found in National Trust<br />
Houses. English country houses have traditionally<br />
been the home to <strong>Dutch</strong> Golden<br />
Age Masters. Most of these paintings were<br />
acquired in the 18th century, the heyday<br />
of the English country house. Although<br />
RSVP for all Arts Activities directly on<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> GroupSpaces.com<br />
Direct any questions to jechoy@me.com<br />
over time many owners were forced to<br />
sell works to raise funds, there are still<br />
many extraordinary paintings to be found<br />
in country houses today. For this exhibition,<br />
the Mauritshuis has selected the most<br />
beautiful <strong>Dutch</strong> paintings from houses<br />
managed by the National Trust. This will<br />
be a first for the Mauritshuis: Never before<br />
has such a selection been exhibited in the<br />
Netherlands. For further information, contact<br />
Jane Choy.<br />
Thursday, November 1<br />
6:00 – 7:30 p.m.<br />
Mauritshuis<br />
Museum Plein 29, The Hague<br />
€10 Members / €15 Non-members<br />
Museum entrance fee of €15.50 is not<br />
included (entrance is free with Museum<br />
Card)<br />
Maximum 15 / Minimum 12<br />
Cancellation deadline: October 22 (It<br />
is possible to sign up after this date, if<br />
there is space)<br />
Sign up on GroupSpaces<br />
Did you know that any woman who speaks English is eligible to join the<br />
American Women’s Club?<br />
What a great summer it has been here<br />
in The Hague…sunshine, seaside<br />
activities, travel, and vacation fun!<br />
Ahh, but somewhere in between all that fun<br />
our “Home Away from Home” received a<br />
little bit of a facelift.<br />
Since our installation, we were excitedly<br />
planning our way to refurbishing the clubhouse.<br />
But first things first: clean-out days!<br />
Once we had the plan and the dates (July 10<br />
and 11), it was truly amazing all the help we<br />
received to make it all happen. The old cliché<br />
“many hands make light work” is definitely<br />
true as we found out when Dena Haggerty,<br />
Cynthia Chung, Heather DeWitt, Krishna<br />
Thakrar, Debbie van Hees, Deana Kreitler,<br />
Melissa Rider, Avanti Menon, Andre Langa,<br />
Una Mulvihill, Chelsea Wald, Anneke van<br />
Hees, Carol Slootweg, Amber Broughton,<br />
Teresa Insalaco, Natalie Essad, Sheyla<br />
Karmen, and Fiona Passantino all showed<br />
up for the first phase of our “new look” campaign.<br />
These industrious workers were a<br />
whirlwind: sorting books and toys, clearing<br />
and wiping cabinets, shredding, transforming<br />
the front office desk, and cleaning the kitchen<br />
from top to bottom. Even the basement<br />
got a much-needed thorough cleaning and<br />
reorganizing. The list of tasks they accomplished<br />
goes on and on. And where would<br />
we have been without Georgia Regnault’s<br />
super shredder. Thank you, Georgia. What<br />
an enormous difference two afternoons of<br />
cleaning can make! And of course, there was<br />
food, drink, laughter, fun and great company.<br />
So, in the end, it truly wasn’t like work at all.<br />
We are so grateful to all of you who came<br />
out and rolled up your sleeves to make this<br />
little facelift a success. Very special thanks to<br />
Dena Haggerty for all her work spearheading<br />
the consolidation of our library, to Fiona<br />
Passantino for the donation of a beautiful<br />
Chinese credenza, to Sarah Dunn for the donation<br />
of two lovely chairs at the front desk,<br />
and Suzanne and Paul Dundas for taking the<br />
time and effort to dispose of all the unwanted,<br />
obsolete items. Together all these things created<br />
a wonderful transformation of our space.<br />
We hope you’ll find your Clubhouse<br />
even more open and inviting! We have many<br />
more plans in the works and are looking forward<br />
to a great Club year as your Clubhouse<br />
Administrators. We always welcome innovative<br />
ideas and suggestions, so please don’t<br />
hesitate to be in touch. We look forward to<br />
hearing from you!<br />
Invite your English-speaking friends, wherever they’re from, to join us today!<br />
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<strong>Sept</strong>ember <strong>2018</strong><br />
Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat<br />
Upcoming:<br />
<strong>Dutch</strong> Masters Mauritshuis Tour - November 1<br />
Holiday Bazaar - November 10-11<br />
Thanksgiving in Leiden - November 22<br />
Jewelry/Pearl Party - December 6<br />
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7 8<br />
Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />
Chat, Crafts & Cake 10 a.m.<br />
Heart Pillow Workshop<br />
Noon<br />
Wassenaar Coffee and<br />
Conversation 9 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Baord Meeting Noon<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />
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Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />
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Chat, Crafts & Cake 10 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />
A Ceremony of<br />
Remembrance and Hope<br />
5:30 p.m.<br />
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Walkie Talkies Special<br />
Outing 9:30 a.m<br />
Buddy Check 12<br />
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Fall Kick-Off - Daytime<br />
Session 11 a.m. - 2 p.m.<br />
Fall Kick-Off - Evening<br />
Session 5 -8 p.m.<br />
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Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />
Route of the Golden Coach<br />
Walk 2 p.m.<br />
Chat, Crafts & Cake 10 a.m.<br />
Prinsjesdag Parade and<br />
Luncheon 11 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />
NDT Dance Rehearsal<br />
10:30 a.m.<br />
Evening Book Club<br />
7:30 p.m.<br />
Thirsty Thursday 6 p.m.<br />
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Walkie Talkies 9:30 a.m<br />
<strong>Dutch</strong> Products Class<br />
10 a.m.<br />
Delft Blue Tile Workshop<br />
8:50 a.m.<br />
Daytime Book Club 10 a.m.<br />
Chat, Crafts & Cake 10 a.m.<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Tennis 1 p.m.<br />
Welcome Back BBQ<br />
6 p.m.<br />
Out to Lunch Bunch<br />
12:15 p.m.<br />
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Kid’s Club<br />
by Lindsay Turnau<br />
Calling All Mamas!<br />
The <strong>AWC</strong> Kid’s Club is gearing up for another<br />
great year! We’re looking forward to<br />
sponsoring great events for all the international<br />
kids in the Den Haag area and need<br />
your help.<br />
Are you a mama to international kids in<br />
the area and want to stay up to date on our<br />
events? Let us know! Maybe your kids are<br />
grown but you’re still interested in helping<br />
with our monthly social events or holiday<br />
events?<br />
Please contact our new chair, Lindsey<br />
Turnau, at awcthehague.kidsclub@gmail.<br />
com. We’re looking forward to a fantastic,<br />
fun filled year for the kids and their families.<br />
Walkie Talkies Special Outing<br />
by Melissa Rider<br />
With the start of the new Club year,<br />
the Walkie Talkies will host another<br />
long-distance walk on Wednesday,<br />
<strong>Sept</strong>ember 12. While this walk will be longer<br />
in mileage than our weekly Monday walks,<br />
all levels of walkers are welcome as the distance<br />
can be shortened to your preference.<br />
The group will walk through the various parks<br />
connecting Den Haag to Wassenaar, totaling<br />
roughly 14 km. There will be several<br />
opportunities along the route to catch a bus<br />
back to Den Haag Centraal, if you prefer a<br />
shorter day hike. Further details regarding<br />
the walk will be posted on our Facebook page<br />
and on eNews.<br />
Please email me to confirm your participation<br />
in the walk or if you have questions:<br />
awcthehague.membership@gmail.com.<br />
Wednesday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 12<br />
Meet at Den Haag Centraal by the<br />
Starbucks at 9:30 a.m.<br />
Bus fare and lunch at your own expense<br />
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Walkie<br />
Talkies
A Ceremony of Remembrance and Hope<br />
by Roberta Enschede<br />
An elementary school child from P.S. 22 in Staten Island, New York wrote, “What the<br />
terrorists wanted is for us to be scared, to go in our house and never come out. But<br />
we didn’t do that. We didn’t hide in the shadows. We went in the sun.”<br />
When we speak of 9/11 today, we remember the 2,983 people who died that blue and<br />
golden morning, when the north and south towers of the World Trade Center crumbled, when<br />
the Pentagon was seared and sliced, when a meadow in Shanksville, Pennsylvania burned! We<br />
remember ordinary people, the firefighters, police, members of the military, first responders.<br />
We remember minute details of that day and all the days that followed.<br />
I was at the American School marking papers in the teacher’s lounge. The kids had gone<br />
home. One of the teachers who always stayed late walked in and said, “They just bombed<br />
the World Trade Center. Go down and see!” I couldn’t believe it so I went to the library to<br />
check out her story. A few teachers and students were gathered in front of a small TV. A<br />
man I didn’t know sat and stared. His legs and arms were crossed around each other like he<br />
was isolating himself. He never said a word. Finally, he uttered, “It’s gonna fall.” Seconds<br />
later, I watched the south tower crumble. The man was a substitute teacher and was a retired<br />
engineer. He understood what I could not conceive, what millions could not conceive. At<br />
9:59 a.m. Eastern Daylight Time, the south tower fell. At 10:28 a.m., the north tower fell.<br />
It’s been 17 years since that day. Still,<br />
when we say <strong>Sept</strong>ember 11th, each of us<br />
remembers where we were and what we<br />
were doing. We remember all the times we<br />
talked about what happened and why. We<br />
remember conversations with friends who lost<br />
friends and family. We remember the stories<br />
Tuesday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 11<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Clubhouse, 5:30 p.m.<br />
Everyone is welcome<br />
of firefighters and policemen, and first responders, and ordinary people who did whatever<br />
they could to save lives and those who lost their own life.<br />
“They didn’t hide in the shadows. They went in the sun.” David Halberstam, the distinguished<br />
American journalist wrote: “There are dates which seem to separate yesterday from<br />
today and then from now. <strong>Sept</strong>ember 11th, 2001 is such a date.”<br />
Etched into the stone of the 9/11 Memorial is a challenge! “Dedicated to those who fell<br />
and those who carry on. May we never forget.”<br />
“It was the worst day we’ve ever seen,<br />
but it brought out the best in all of us.”<br />
John Kerry, former Secretary of State<br />
And so, each year, we hold A Ceremony of Remembrance and Hope. We remember former<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> Member Rebecca Fry’s friend Barbara Olsen who died on American Airlines flight 77<br />
when it crashed into the Pentagon. We remember firefighter Steve Blackwell, the best friend<br />
of a former security attaché at the American Embassy, who ran into the Trade Center twice.<br />
He didn’t come out the second time. We remember the best friend of Cameron Mitchell’s<br />
dad, a firefighter, who Cameron is named after. We remember the men and women of Squad<br />
One in Brooklyn. We adopted their firehouse and collected money for their Widows and<br />
Children’s Fund. We remember names.<br />
Zelda, an Israeli poet wrote, “Each man has a name given him by his father and mother.<br />
Each man has a name, given him by the sea and given him by his death.” At the first ceremony<br />
of Remembrance and Hope, we repeated that couplet in English, French, Spanish, <strong>Dutch</strong>,<br />
Hebrew, Arabic, Russian, Japanese, Chinese, and Korean, all the languages the students at<br />
the American School spoke. 9/11 was not and is not an American tragedy. It was and will<br />
always be a challenge for our common humanity.<br />
This year, Pete Hoekstra, the American Ambassador to the Netherlands, will join us<br />
at the ceremony. Ambassador Hoekstra was a member of Congress at the time. Jim Hines<br />
from the NYPD will also join us. Officer Hines was at 9/11 from that day until January. U.S.<br />
Marine Sgt. Shane Cell will share his personal thoughts. “That’s one of the reasons I joined<br />
the Marines,” he said.<br />
For more information please contact Roberta Enschede - OAR coordinator at 0654253650<br />
oarinnl@yahoo.com, a.beeuwkes@xs4all.nl, mcgrewta@state.gov, jessierodell@gmail. com,<br />
or meow00@hetnet.nl<br />
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F<strong>AWC</strong>O Corner<br />
by Julie Mowat, <strong>AWC</strong> The Hague F<strong>AWC</strong>O Representative<br />
Federation of American Women’s Clubs Overseas, a United Nations NGO with<br />
consultative status with the UN Economic and Social Council<br />
www.fawco.org.<br />
F<strong>AWC</strong>O Development Grant:<br />
Creating Better Futures<br />
Development Grant<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> The Hague has decided to donate<br />
$4,500 to support F<strong>AWC</strong>O’s “Creating<br />
Better Futures” Development Grant. The<br />
Kitchen for Rural Kenyan Catering Program<br />
in Chepkanga, Kenya is the current recipient<br />
of our <strong>AWC</strong> The Hague Development<br />
Grant. The nominating club, AAWE Paris,<br />
has been affiliated with the organization for<br />
ten years.<br />
The grant will provide funding to Rafiki<br />
Ya Maisha, an NGO that raises money for<br />
schools in Kenya. The funds will construct<br />
At F<strong>AWC</strong>O’s General Meeting in<br />
India in April 2017, Hope Beyond<br />
Displacement, a program created and<br />
run by the Collateral Report Project (CRP) in<br />
Amman, Jordan was announced as the next<br />
Target Project. The Target Project is a project<br />
voted on by all the F<strong>AWC</strong>O Member Clubs.<br />
Once selected, the F<strong>AWC</strong>O Rep brings information<br />
about the issue to the club members<br />
and we help raise money for the organization<br />
for two years. The excitement was everywhere,<br />
and this project was clearly very supported.<br />
The Target Chair, Tricia Saur, asked to meet<br />
with me and we began to discuss a possible<br />
site visit. This would be a first for F<strong>AWC</strong>O.<br />
Therese Hartwell, who is on the board of CRP<br />
and is FAUSA President, was also very enthusiastic<br />
and the work began. We wanted<br />
to make sure that everyone who belongs to a<br />
a teaching kitchen at the Sergoek Vocational<br />
Training Center in Chepkanga. The Center<br />
provides education and training to 126 rural<br />
youths. The catering program is the flagship<br />
program of the center and currently has 18<br />
students. Programs offered at the Center<br />
help youths, particularly girls, find employment<br />
outside the home and break the cycle of<br />
poverty. Construction of the Center started<br />
in 2007 and buildings have grown as funds<br />
become available. There are currently nine<br />
classrooms, a small administrative building,<br />
a makeshift corrugated iron kitchen and pit<br />
latrines. A proper kitchen will help improve<br />
professionalism as well as the self-esteem of<br />
the students.<br />
F<strong>AWC</strong>O: Hope Beyond Displacement<br />
by Julie Mowat, <strong>AWC</strong> The Hague F<strong>AWC</strong>O Representative<br />
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F<strong>AWC</strong>O Member Club would have a chance<br />
to sign up for a potential spot on the trip. We<br />
also wanted to make sure that club members<br />
from as many F<strong>AWC</strong>O regions as possible<br />
would be able to attend. Our final challenge<br />
was to keep our numbers small enough so CRP<br />
could accommodate our visit. A year later, 22<br />
of us, representing 6 regions and FAUSA were<br />
off to Jordan!<br />
We traveled together for five days in April<br />
<strong>2018</strong> visiting sites of historical and cultural<br />
importance. (Please see my Jordan article<br />
on page 40 about the sightseeing.) We got to<br />
know one another while learning about the<br />
country’s history, culture, and current conditions.<br />
We arrived at CRP comfortable with<br />
each other and with a good understanding<br />
of the past and recent history of the region,<br />
including the social and economic implications<br />
Jordan copes with, as a result of hosting<br />
such a large number of displaced persons<br />
in relation to their population size. With this<br />
background, we were ready to meet the CRP<br />
community!<br />
CRP is based in a residential area close to the<br />
center of Amman. It is a grassroots effort that<br />
brings much-needed assistance to refugees<br />
and other victims of war and conflict—those<br />
commonly referred to as “collateral damage.”<br />
CRP mainly serves Iraqi and Syrian refugees,<br />
but they have now added services for<br />
the most recent victims of war and conflict<br />
(Yemen, Sudan and Somalia). The programs<br />
that F<strong>AWC</strong>O supports through Hope Beyond<br />
Displacement include Super Girls, Gender-<br />
Based Violence, Women Empowerment,<br />
Vocational Training, and Hope Workshop<br />
(which makes crafts to sell).<br />
During the three-day visit, we spoke to the<br />
staff (mostly refugees themselves) about<br />
their experiences and challenges; met with<br />
the yoga kids; saw Super Girls in action;<br />
admired the efforts of the Hope Workshop<br />
women; heard the teen group talk about their<br />
challenges; and listened to the men in the<br />
Gender-Based Violence groups. We had interpreters<br />
and learned so much. We had cooking<br />
lessons and were “clients” for the women<br />
who had just finished beauty training. We<br />
made connections with people and I know I<br />
am forever changed. Every one of us came<br />
away humbled and inspired.<br />
After this site visit, I can say with complete<br />
confidence that the money our club raises for<br />
CRP’s Hope Beyond Displacement has been,<br />
and will be, very well spent. The programs<br />
are very helpful for these vulnerable people<br />
and we are helping to make a difference in<br />
so many people’s lives. We are making a big<br />
impact!<br />
If you have any questions about this organizations,<br />
please do not hesitate to ask myself<br />
or Celeste Brown. CRP’s website is www.<br />
collateralrepairproject.org/.<br />
For more detailed info about our trip including agenda, participant’s thoughts, etc., please visit<br />
www.fawco.org/global-issues/target-program/education/blog-let-s-get-schooled/3 920-site-visitpart-one<br />
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My Journey to Jordan<br />
by Julie Mowat<br />
In April <strong>2018</strong>, a group of F<strong>AWC</strong>O women<br />
went to visit Hope Beyond Displacement,<br />
the program run by the Collateral Repair<br />
Project in Amman, Jordan that is F<strong>AWC</strong>O’s<br />
current Target Project. One of the trip’s goals<br />
was to learn about the region to better understand<br />
the challenges facing the refugees. So<br />
we were tourists for a few days before visiting<br />
the program.<br />
One of the best trips of my life! Jordan is an<br />
amazing country that I highly recommend<br />
visiting. While its history is thousands of<br />
years old, as a country it is only 100 years<br />
old. A little over 50 years ago, 85% of the<br />
people were nomads. Today it’s 1%. The<br />
people were so incredibly kind, I felt very<br />
safe, the food was delicious, and the history<br />
was nothing short of amazing. Our tour<br />
guide described Jordan as an open-air museum<br />
and that was a perfect description. There<br />
are too many experiences to write about,<br />
so I will only mention a few. But please do<br />
not hesitate to reach out if you want to learn<br />
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more about Jordan. I would be happy to<br />
share travel agent info, agenda, recommendations,<br />
etc.<br />
Our group was in Jordan during their high<br />
season in April. Overall, however, tourism<br />
is down. Every day, one of the local residents<br />
thanked me for being there. Because<br />
they do not have large amounts of natural<br />
resources, they are dependent on tourism.<br />
Speaking of a lack of resources, they have<br />
a huge water shortage and only get water in<br />
their homes one to two times a week. Most<br />
homes have a rain collector on their roof<br />
and it doesn’t rain often!<br />
Anjara<br />
Our first stop was Anjara, a quiet and unassuming<br />
town. Tradition holds that Jesus,<br />
Mary and some of his disciples stayed overnight<br />
in a cave in the Ajloun Mountains<br />
nearby during one of Jesus’ trips from<br />
Jerusalem to Galilee. We visited Our Lady<br />
of the Mount. In 2010, the statue of Mary<br />
was found with tears of human blood.<br />
Thousands go on a pilgrimage there though<br />
we were the only ones there during our visit.<br />
Jerash<br />
Jerash was the perfect example of what Zaid,<br />
our tour guide, meant when he described<br />
Jordan as an open-air museum. The excavations<br />
were started 75 years ago but due to<br />
lack of money and resources, there is still so<br />
much more to find. While walking around,<br />
I could see 2,000-year-old pottery sticking<br />
out of the walls. Astonishing! They recently<br />
unearthed two human skulls that date back<br />
to the Neolithicperiod, 7500 – 5500 B.C.<br />
The visible ruins in Jerash include Hadrian’s<br />
Arch, a hippodrome, temples, aqueducts, a<br />
theater, and much more.<br />
Dead Sea<br />
Another wonderful stop on the journey was<br />
the Dead Sea. It is the Earth’s lowest point<br />
on land and is a salt lake. It was the first<br />
health resort for King Herod and believed<br />
to be the place of refuge to King David.<br />
Floating in the Dead Sea watching the sunset<br />
was a highlight!<br />
Mosaics<br />
Madabais known for its Byzantine-era<br />
mosaics. The mosaic map on the floor of<br />
St. George’s Church was beautiful. I love<br />
how it explains so much history. Our travel<br />
agent, Nimisha, knew how much our group<br />
would appreciate not only seeing the mosaics,<br />
but also the making of mosaics. She<br />
arranged for us to visit a place where differently-abled<br />
people were employed to make<br />
exquisite mosaics. I fell in love with a piece<br />
that is now home with me! >> 40<br />
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Jordan (cont.)<br />
Continued from page 39<br />
Petra<br />
There has been so much written about Petra<br />
(Rose City) so I will keep it brief. It is the<br />
most popular place to visit in Jordan and I<br />
highly recommend it. It is listed as one of the<br />
new Seven Wonders of the World. Arab people<br />
settled here more than 2,000 years ago<br />
as it was a safe location among the rocks. It<br />
became an important hub for the silk, spice,<br />
and other trade routes. Petra <br />
was hidden<br />
from Western eyes for hundreds of years until<br />
the 1800s, and became quite known when<br />
it was featured in Indiana Jones III.<br />
There is so much amazing history to see,<br />
starting with the gorgeous walk in the gorge.<br />
We were fortunate to be able to make the<br />
walk twice, once during the day and once<br />
at night lit by candles and the stars. Celeste<br />
Brown and I enjoyed ourselves in the Cave<br />
Bar, the oldest bar in the world as well as at<br />
a cooking class of traditional foods at Petra<br />
Kitchen.<br />
Wadi Rum<br />
The final day was spent in Wadi Rum. I was<br />
especially excited to stay where they filmed<br />
The Martian (one of my favorite books).<br />
Wadi Rum is gorgeous. Fun experience taking<br />
the “jeeps” (pickup trucks with benches<br />
in back) around looking at the gorgeous nature,<br />
including the sunset. I was amazed at<br />
the 4,000-year-old map-carved rock, that<br />
helped travelers know where to go. Out in<br />
the open for anyone to damage. Again, another<br />
reminder of how Jordan is an open-air<br />
museum.<br />
Traveling in Jordan with 22 F<strong>AWC</strong>O women<br />
was an amazing experience. I learned so<br />
much about myself, others, and our world. I<br />
treasure this experience and the friendships<br />
made! Highly recommend Jordan!!<br />
Fran Mainella,<br />
Director National Parks Service (ret.)<br />
by Emily van Eerten<br />
I<br />
really enjoyed the opportunity to hear Fran Mainella, the<br />
former (and first female) director of the National Park<br />
Service (NPS) speak at the Clubhouse this summer and was<br />
very happy to be able to have my daughter Silke tag along. I<br />
was super impressed with her can-do pragmatism. Hearing<br />
about her challenges and successes during her career, and<br />
particularly during her stint as NPS director from 2001—2006,<br />
I was struck by how effective a person can be when they are<br />
issue-driven and not handicapped by partisanship.<br />
It was great to hear how she accomplished some of her goals throughout her career and<br />
it was also interesting to hear how her mandate shifted and evolved having assumed the NPS<br />
director’s role in the summer before 9/11. It was a reminder that EVERYTHING changed in<br />
the aftermath of 9/11, and the National Park<br />
Service was no exception.<br />
Fran is clearly a natural at understanding<br />
the need for public and private interests to<br />
work together to make good things happen.<br />
She had great tips for working in a political<br />
environment and she was genuinely inspiring<br />
as a female role model, encouraging young<br />
women to adopt the three Cs—courage, connections,<br />
and communication—as a way to<br />
keep moving forward.<br />
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Chat, Craft and Cake: The Culture<br />
(Part One of a Two-Part Series)<br />
by Suzanne Dundas<br />
We Call it CCandC For Short<br />
Chat, Craft and Cake meets every Tuesday<br />
at 10 a.m. in the wonderful natural light of<br />
our Clubhouse’s backroom. We appreciate<br />
just how great this overhead light is because<br />
we began meeting eight years ago in<br />
our former, darker, Clubhouse on Nieuwe<br />
Duinweg. We’ve enjoyed as many as 15<br />
people around our big table but, depending<br />
on the time of year, we number usually between<br />
5 and 7. Being from many countries<br />
besides the U.S., we are proud poster girls<br />
for today’s multinational <strong>AWC</strong>.<br />
Conversation, Craft, and Cake<br />
The gentle clacking of knitting needles and<br />
the scratchy scrape of a tapestry needle being<br />
pulled through rough canvas are not the<br />
sounds you hear when you enter our room.<br />
In fact, it’s a good bet you’ll hear us before<br />
you enter the room. We’re talking and we<br />
like it. We are not silently immersed in<br />
our handwork because, as Members of the<br />
American Women’s Club of The Hague,<br />
our default settings are “Interesting” and<br />
“Interested.”<br />
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We carry on a<br />
long American<br />
tradition of sewing<br />
circles and<br />
quilting bees but<br />
with a decidedly<br />
modern take. Our<br />
conversations careen<br />
from families<br />
to travel to sports to popular culture.<br />
Sometimes sex. Occasionally gossip. Only<br />
under extraordinary circumstances does the<br />
gossip involve sex.<br />
And, in a changing world, it is a given we<br />
discuss controversial topics. But we keep<br />
it civil. We listen respectfully, even if we’ll<br />
never agree on such important issues as<br />
whether the Outlander tv series lives up to<br />
the promise of Diana Gabaldon’s Outlander<br />
novels.<br />
Chat, Craft, and Cooking<br />
Originally, our group was called Chat and<br />
Craft. Janet van der Laan, a charter<br />
CCandC member and a former home economist<br />
with the Netherland’s Libelle and the<br />
U.K.’s Good Housekeeping, (she knows<br />
Delia Smith!) suggested the group would<br />
enjoy trying out cake recipes on each other.<br />
And we do. We take turns baking (because<br />
having us all bake every week would be…<br />
let’s call it…”excessive”). We have had<br />
some colossal successes and colossal failures.<br />
My Bill Gerritz’s Serbian Dream Cake<br />
was as dry as adobe.<br />
Some of our bakers treat us to old favorites<br />
and some experiment on us, sometimes ambitiously.<br />
In July, Loren Mealey treated<br />
us to the wedding cake of the Duke and<br />
Duchess of Sussex (Harry and Meghan):<br />
Lemon and Elderflower Cake with a Swiss<br />
Merinque Buttercream icing. Some love to<br />
decorate their creations with sugar flowers.<br />
Others go for bounty and not décor. And,<br />
sometimes, our “mistress of the cake” decides<br />
a quick stop at the French bakery suits<br />
her schedule better this week.<br />
So far, we’ve managed to choke everything<br />
down. The <strong>AWC</strong>’s delicious coffee<br />
is a great accompaniment but also a multipurpose<br />
fix. A dousing in coffee transforms<br />
chocolate adobe into “Interesting texture,<br />
Suzanne.”<br />
Chat, Creativity, and Cake<br />
What crafts do we do in CCandC? Whatever<br />
we want—whatever we’re good at, whatever<br />
we want to learn, and sometimes, whatever<br />
F<strong>AWC</strong>O or the <strong>AWC</strong> asks of us. I’ve described<br />
the crafts separately in an adjoining<br />
article, Chat, Craft and Cake: The Crafts.<br />
My third article in this series will be Chat,<br />
Craft and Cake: How Historically Accurate<br />
is Outlander?<br />
Our skill levels may vary but our enthusiasm,<br />
the soothing pleasure we take in simply<br />
keeping our hands busy, and our joy<br />
in creating something that wasn’t there<br />
before never wane. Many of us started<br />
young. Beverley Bennett began knitting at<br />
age four. I began sewing at 12, in Middle<br />
School Home Economics class. Sonja Kelle<br />
knitted a lot as a child in Germany and took<br />
it up again as an adult because a group of<br />
friends met weekly to knit.<br />
Chat, Cooperation and Cake<br />
We share. “Would anyone like…” is often<br />
heard before a pattern book, extra wool, unneeded<br />
fabric, the wrong size crochet hook<br />
is laid out on our table. “Take what you<br />
need.”<br />
We ask. “Does anyone have any fabric in<br />
soft pinks they don’t want?” Anja Knoop<br />
was working on a quilt for a new granddaughter<br />
and simply could not find what<br />
she needed. We had more than enough soft<br />
pinks in our fabric stashes.<br />
Knowledge is freely shared too. “How do<br />
I …?” leads to brainstorming over the solution<br />
to a technical quilting problem. “Do<br />
you think I should…” and a sweater the<br />
knitter thought too plain takes on kicky<br />
pom-poms or a lacy hem. “Can you teach<br />
me to…?” We teach each other informally<br />
but we have also arranged classes for all of<br />
the <strong>AWC</strong>.<br />
One such course was Back Basted Applique,<br />
which Beverley Bennett taught us as a<br />
trial run for a course she would later teach<br />
at the traditional fabric store Den Haan en<br />
Wagenmakers in Amsterdam. We came<br />
away not only with a new skill, but a cute<br />
needle holder with various appliqué needles<br />
and a detailed instruction booklet. Beverley<br />
came away with an understanding of how to<br />
deal with an obtuse student or two.<br />
Agatha Zwaan taught a nine-week Sampler<br />
Quilt course. In a sampler quilt, each block<br />
is a different pattern or uses a different technique.<br />
Paula Traynor, who had never quilted,<br />
discovered she had a flair for color, grew<br />
to love quilting, and ended the course with a<br />
quilt of vivid batik fabrics.<br />
Paula has since repatriated to the U.S. and<br />
Agatha lives in Oman, but both come back<br />
to CCandC when they are in town. In fact,<br />
we often welcome returning visitors to<br />
CCandC. It always feels like they never left.<br />
“Pat Raynolds, it is so good to see you!”<br />
Chat, Craft, and (ex)Cursion<br />
Some things just must be seen and occasionally<br />
we go to see them. For instance, we<br />
piled into a train to see the Open European<br />
Quilt Championship and EXPO in<br />
Veldhoven.. We’ve also driven to see something<br />
interesting, most recently American<br />
quilts made from feed sacks at the Textile<br />
Research Center in Leiden.<br />
Chat, Community, and Cake<br />
We are a community within the <strong>AWC</strong> but<br />
we were once individuals who decided to<br />
check out Chat, Craft and Cake and bravely<br />
ventured into the Clubhouse one Tuesday,<br />
maybe toting a UFO. That’s “Unfinished<br />
Object,” crafters slang for that project you<br />
never got around to finishing. Crafters<br />
slang. We’re just that cool. So, come see us.<br />
Pull up a chair. Have a cup of coffee and a<br />
slice of whatever. Pull out that project you<br />
started before your child was born and begin<br />
anew. Join us.<br />
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Credit: Algemeen Nederalnds Persbureau © ANP<br />
The <strong>Dutch</strong> Daily<br />
by Eileen Harloff<br />
Welcome back to the Netherlands,<br />
The Hague, and/or the American<br />
Women’s Club if you’ve been away,<br />
or back to the autumn-winter schedule if<br />
you’ve braved the summer here (which you<br />
might have thought was going to be cool and<br />
rainy, but which surprised us all by being<br />
sunny and just plain hot). It’s time to meet<br />
up with old friends, welcome newcomers and<br />
“get back to business” in this rapidly changing<br />
world. First, a follow-up on three stories that<br />
took our attention prior to the break, and then<br />
on to the present and the future.<br />
Gone, but Not Forgotten<br />
The first follow-up story is about six-year<br />
old Tijn Kolsteren who was mentioned in<br />
the <strong>Sept</strong>ember 2017 issue of <strong>Going</strong> <strong>Dutch</strong>.<br />
He was suffering from an incurable brain<br />
cancer and wanted to raise funds for an organization<br />
that grants wishes of sick children.<br />
His idea was to paint people’s fingernails<br />
for a small fee. The idea caught on<br />
and in December 2016, all over the country<br />
nails were being painted on young and old,<br />
women and men, including the <strong>Dutch</strong> Prime<br />
Minister. The end result of this initiative was<br />
an overwhelming 2.5 million euros, and its<br />
initiator was himself a recipient and was given<br />
a trip to Disneyland Paris. His sunny personality,<br />
wish to help others, and acceptance<br />
of his illness made him a young hero, and<br />
he was honored by having a planetoid which<br />
circles the sun being being named after him.<br />
He then became one of a very exclusive<br />
group of <strong>Dutch</strong> recipients, such as the diary<br />
writer Anne Frank and the artist Vincent van<br />
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Gogh, to receive this honor. And now, a year<br />
after Tijn’s death a monument to him has<br />
been unveiled at the Netherlands Red Cross<br />
Headquarters on the Anne van Saksenlaan<br />
in The Hague: a wall of nail polishes. Due<br />
to the large amount of money that he helped<br />
raise, by the end of this year a new machine<br />
for the treatment of children’s brain cancer<br />
will be installed at the Princess Maxima<br />
Centrum in Utrecht, and on the wall at the<br />
Red Cross Headquarters there are three long<br />
shelves filled with multi-colored nail polish<br />
bottles, a simple but touching reminder of a<br />
young hero.<br />
American Street Musician<br />
The next follow-up story is of a person on<br />
the upper side of the age ladder. Chuck<br />
Deely was a seemingly permanent fixture<br />
on the Grote Marktstraat in The Hague city<br />
center. He sat outside the HEMA store, playing<br />
his guitar and singing in a somewhat<br />
gruff voice, his dog and a small cardboard<br />
box for donations always at his feet. People<br />
would stop to have a chat about his music<br />
or the world in general, and he came to be<br />
considered as part of the local crowd. After<br />
he died last winter, his friends and casual<br />
acquaintances took up a collection to pay<br />
for his funeral and to set up a competition to<br />
choose a painting to be created on the wall<br />
of a nearby tram tunnel with high-visibility.<br />
And now a book about his life has been<br />
written by author Ineke Bosman. It is based<br />
on weekly talks she had with him when he<br />
came to lunch with her and her American<br />
husband. Chuck agreed to the idea saying<br />
that he knew everyone, but no one knew<br />
Credit: Rode Kruis (Red Cross)<br />
Credit: Ineke Bosman<br />
him—in fact, it was only later that it was<br />
learned that he was of American Indian origin.<br />
Ineke and her husband were in Africa<br />
when Chuck died, so she was not able to<br />
continue her talks with him. She wanted to<br />
honor him by publishing what she knew,<br />
which she has called Chuck Was In The<br />
Hague, with the proceeds from the sale of<br />
the book to be given to Operation Clear<br />
Mind Ghana, a Ghanese organization that<br />
gives help and support to people suffering<br />
from alcohol addiction.<br />
Mega Crane goes East<br />
Our last follow-up story concerns the crane<br />
whose designers and producers have called<br />
“the crane that conquers the world “. Its first<br />
overseas operation is in Malaysia, where<br />
it will be in operation in two months’ time<br />
unloading ship cargoes. Although it has a<br />
volume of only 162 cubic meters, it can nevertheless<br />
handle a 60-ton load. This is equivalent<br />
to the weight of 85 Volkswagen Ups<br />
which, when put in a row, would measure<br />
almost 300 meters. Back in the Netherlands,<br />
the designers are continuing to make ever<br />
smaller cranes to move ever heavier loads.<br />
Note--for those like me, who know little<br />
about automobiles, the Volkswagen Up! is a<br />
small family city car.<br />
Here a Robot, There a Robot<br />
And now, into the present and the future.<br />
Old MacDonald certainly could have used<br />
robots on his farm, but unfortunately he was<br />
too early to profit from our new BFF’s (best<br />
friends). A new BFF for the City of Delft<br />
will be Urby, a rubbish/refuse robot who is<br />
now in the testing phase at Delft Technical<br />
University, being worked on by 23 students<br />
from various colleges and schools in the<br />
area. He/it has an enormous task ahead,<br />
namely to encourage us, the people, to put<br />
our trash into his open mouth instead of<br />
dropping it on the street or in the bushes.<br />
Urby is not expected to take over the city’s<br />
street cleaning task but to help with it, and<br />
particularly in times of large gatherings such<br />
as festivals or “Shopping Sundays”. When<br />
trash is thrown into its thirsty mouth the<br />
thrower will be thanked with a large wink<br />
of Urby’s eye. The inspiration for Urby’s<br />
eye winking has come from Holle Bolle<br />
Gijs, a paper gobbling trash can that speaks<br />
to you at the theme park Efteling in North<br />
Brabant, and Wall.E, the well-known trash<br />
collector from the Pixar Animation Studios<br />
in the U.S.<br />
Another robot, developed by KLM, is in<br />
its first testing stage this summer at JFK in<br />
NYC and SFO in San Francisco. It’s called<br />
the Care-E Trolley. This “help for travelers”<br />
will be a robot of many tasks: helping the<br />
traveler to find his/her gate, carrying suitcases,<br />
making sure the traveler is on time,<br />
announcing gate changes, etc. What a delight<br />
these robots will be—it’s too bad that<br />
they will not also be able to quickly steer the<br />
traveler through check-in and luggage control;<br />
but on the other hand, they will never<br />
go on strike.<br />
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Credit: Omroep West
Normandy – A Road Trip<br />
by Deana Kreitler<br />
Being new expats with an interest in<br />
the rich history and culture of the<br />
European countries, my husband and<br />
I took a three-day road trip to the Normandy<br />
region of France. We found the road trip<br />
through southern Netherlands and Belgium<br />
not particularly scenic, and traffic can be a bit<br />
of a bear, but luckily things got much more<br />
interesting as we approached Normandy.<br />
We spent a couple of days soaking up the<br />
considerable history of beaches, battlefields,<br />
bunkers, and museums, and paying respect<br />
to the heroic efforts of those who sacrificed<br />
greatly during World War II. What I found<br />
fascinating were the personal stories from<br />
and about real people who were there. It felt<br />
so different than the textbook education I<br />
received back in the United States. In Europe,<br />
all this history includes an effort to provide an<br />
understanding for the difficult decisions real<br />
people had to make in such terribly difficult<br />
times. Very moving.<br />
We spent one night in the old fishing village<br />
of Port-en-Bessin. We had a long lovely<br />
dinner overlooking the harbor and then stayed<br />
out late to celebrate Bastille Day with the locals<br />
which included a wonderful celebratory<br />
firework display over the harbor.<br />
As interesting as the rest of the trip was,<br />
our highlight was visiting Mont Saint-Michel.<br />
We spent an amazing night on the island<br />
where we had the unique opportunity to stay<br />
in a modest three-star hotel, La Mère Poulard.<br />
In spite of the lack of air conditioning and four<br />
flights of stairs, it quickly became the favorite<br />
of the trip. The ability to stay overnight gave<br />
us the chance to experience the island after the<br />
day traffic left for the day. It was incredible<br />
to be able to explore the ramparts and views<br />
without crowds and to watch the awesome<br />
tide while we ate dinner.<br />
Between low and high tides, the water<br />
tables can vary by 64 feet. It literally transitions<br />
from an uncovered bay area to one<br />
that is almost completely covered by water.<br />
Although we didn’t do it ourselves, many<br />
people wandered around to explore the bay<br />
during low tide. I am not sure I would have<br />
felt safe enough to “follow in their footsteps”<br />
as the tides were coming in, but our<br />
evening entertainment included watching a<br />
brave group stand right on the edge of the<br />
incoming tide and then journey back to the<br />
safety of the island, staying just in front<br />
of the water. Our explorations, watching<br />
the tide, and listening to the final cheers as<br />
France overtook Croatia to win the World<br />
Cup made for a very interesting and memorable<br />
evening.<br />
The next morning, we enjoyed a nice<br />
breakfast at the hotel before trekking back<br />
up the numerous steps towards the Abbey<br />
for an early morning tour. The audio guide<br />
provided a good overview of the long history<br />
of this monument that exhibits an incredible<br />
diversity of architectural styles since its construction<br />
began in the 10th century continuing<br />
up to 19th century restorations.<br />
Between the tidal activity and the history<br />
and architecture of the Abbey, we definitely<br />
got to see first-hand why the bay around Mont<br />
Saint-Michel has the distinction of being categorized<br />
as one of the world’s most beautiful<br />
bays. Both the bay and Mont Saint-Michel are<br />
listed as a UNESCO World Heritage Site. This<br />
weekend road trip was an experience that I<br />
would highly recommend!<br />
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Fourth of July<br />
Summer<br />
Activities<br />
Out to Lunch Bunch<br />
Clubhouse Cleanup<br />
Clubhouse Cleanup<br />
>> 50<br />
Van Kleef Tour<br />
Walkie Talkies<br />
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Thirsty Thursday<br />
Van Kleef Tour<br />
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Message from the President (cont.)<br />
Continued from page 8<br />
You’ll see the early fruits of change when<br />
you drop by the Clubhouse for Kick-Off on<br />
Thursday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 13. Jan Essad, our<br />
Clubhouse Administrator, and Sunita Menon<br />
who co-chairs with Jan, have spent the summer<br />
cleaning and redecorating the Clubhouse.<br />
The transformation is noticeable as soon as<br />
you walk into the building where you’ll see<br />
the new décor, a beautiful credenza donated<br />
by Fiona Passatino, two new chairs for the<br />
office donated by Sarah Dunn, and fewer<br />
bookshelves, giving the Clubhouse more open<br />
space. Jan and Sunita are on their way to<br />
creating a more gezellig Clubhouse.<br />
In addition to our social activities, philanthropy<br />
is key. Our annual Holiday Bazaar<br />
is the only fundraiser that directly helps the<br />
<strong>AWC</strong> continue our work within the community.<br />
The Holiday Bazaar returns in November<br />
with Jaimie Keppel-Molenaar at the helm.<br />
The big news for this year’s event is it is<br />
moving to the Hilton Hotel. The new location<br />
offers a much larger space for our vendors<br />
and guests as they peruse all the items<br />
that are perfect for your gift giving this year.<br />
Jaimie is just one of many volunteers who<br />
have stepped up this Club year and we could<br />
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not continue without their help. My hope is<br />
that you find a group or committee that you<br />
want to become more involved with and will<br />
have time to spare to volunteer.<br />
And, speaking of volunteers, many<br />
thanks to Lindsey Turnau who is reviving<br />
the Kids’ Club. She has lots of ideas and<br />
plans for parties and activities for our littlest<br />
Members! Lindsey has also agreed to serve<br />
with Emily van Eerten and me on an ad hoc<br />
committee to review and revise the Club’s<br />
Policies and Procedures Manual, Bylaws,<br />
and Constitution. Several other Members are<br />
needed to help on the committee, so please<br />
consider volunteering as this is a key project<br />
for the Club going forward.<br />
Don’t hesitate to let me know if you<br />
have ideas to improve the Club, are looking<br />
for a volunteer opportunity, or just want to<br />
schmooze! I look forward to a fun Club year<br />
with all the fabulous women in our <strong>AWC</strong>.<br />
Tot ziens,<br />
Suzanne<br />
Announcements<br />
Embassy Festival<br />
You can take a cultural trip around<br />
the world at this free festival which<br />
spotlights the many different cultures of<br />
The Hague through music, art, dance and<br />
culinary delights. The musical program<br />
includes pop, jazz, folk and classical.<br />
Activities geared towards children will<br />
allow them to experience various cultures<br />
and open their eyes to different ways<br />
of playing. The international market<br />
features global delights. The Embassy<br />
Festival is organized in close co-operation<br />
with the Municipality of The Hague’s<br />
Department of International Affairs and<br />
the city’s many embassies, spotlighting the<br />
different cultures that reside in the <strong>Dutch</strong><br />
administrative capital.<br />
Friday, August 31 and<br />
Saturday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 1<br />
Lange Voorhout, Den Haag<br />
www.embassyfestival.com<br />
Comic Con in Amsterdam<br />
Lovers of movies, TV shows, gaming, comics,<br />
superheroes and pop culture can meet<br />
their heroes and participate in a variety of<br />
activities, such as photo shoots or signing<br />
sessions with Hollywood stars (at additional<br />
charge), Q&A panels, workshops, demos<br />
and live acts. This event often sells out, so<br />
check if there are any tickets left at www.<br />
comiccon-europe.com.<br />
Saturday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 1 and<br />
Sunday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 2<br />
RAI<br />
Europaplein 2-22, Amsterdam<br />
Food Truck Festival<br />
Whereas once food trucks were referred to<br />
as “roach mobiles,” they are now very trendy<br />
and offer a wide assortment of gourmet<br />
foods. See what all the fuss is about when<br />
Westbroekpark is transformed into one large<br />
attractive open-air restaurant during this festival<br />
with free admission. In addition to a<br />
large variety of tasty foods, there will be live<br />
music and other entertainment.<br />
Thursday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 6 –<br />
Sunday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 9<br />
Westbroekpark<br />
Kapelweg, Den Haag<br />
www.festival-trek.nl<br />
World Port Days Rotterdam<br />
Wereldhavendagen (World Port Days) is a<br />
large, annual free maritime event that will<br />
appeal to your whole family. During this festive<br />
weekend, you can get a glimpse behind<br />
the scenes of Europe’s busiest port through a<br />
wide range of activities, such as ship tours,<br />
demonstrations, excursions and exhibitions.<br />
Port companies demonstrate exactly<br />
what their ships and other sailing equipment<br />
are capable of in a continuous program of<br />
spectacular presentations with breathtaking<br />
stunts and nautical expertise. You can experience<br />
it all from the Erasmus Bridge or near<br />
the grandstand on the Wilhelminakade. This<br />
year’s theme is Energize, highlighting how<br />
Rotterdam Port is turning to sustainable energy<br />
to become the cleanest port in the world.<br />
Rotterdam Europoort<br />
Friday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 7 through<br />
Sunday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 9<br />
www.wereldhavendagen.nl<br />
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Announcements (cont.)<br />
Continued from page 53<br />
Open Monument Days<br />
Open Monumentendag (European Heritage<br />
Days in the Netherlands) is designed to<br />
bring people into historical buildings in an<br />
effort to rally support for the preservation<br />
of historical monuments. About 4,000 historical<br />
buildings and sites across the country<br />
will be open to the public free of charge.<br />
Here’s your chance to enter some buildings<br />
that are not normally accessible to the public.<br />
This year’s theme is In Europe.<br />
Saturday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 8 and<br />
Sunday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 9<br />
Countrywide<br />
www.openmonumentendag.nl<br />
Dahlia Flower Parade<br />
Since 1929, Lichtenvoorde (east of Arnhem)<br />
has hosted a parade featuring impressive<br />
floats covered by dahlias grown in local<br />
fields. Approximately 1,000 volunteers<br />
participate in this impressive spectacle.<br />
Entrance tickets are required to stand along<br />
the 1.5-mile (2.5-kilometer) route and can<br />
be purchased online. The parade ends at the<br />
exhibition grounds, which charges a nominal<br />
fee to see the floats illuminated at night.<br />
Sunday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 9<br />
Lichtenvoorde Centrum<br />
www.bloemencorso.com<br />
The Plunge, an Audio Tour<br />
The Plunge is an on-location cultural project<br />
concluding on <strong>Sept</strong>ember 9, which<br />
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features an audio tour that takes you on a<br />
literary walk through Scheveningen Beach.<br />
It centers around German composer Felix<br />
Mendelssohn, who came to Scheveningen<br />
in 1836 in the hope of restoring his failing<br />
health. Novelist Marente de Moor, winner of<br />
the EU Prize for Literature, has written two<br />
short stories―one for grown-ups and one<br />
for children aged six and over―inspired by<br />
Mendelssohn’s sojourn on the <strong>Dutch</strong> coast.<br />
The tour starts on the Pier after you rent an<br />
MP3 player and headset. What at first seems<br />
to be an ordinary walk, leads to three dramatic<br />
locations designed for sitting and listening.<br />
www.en.ohdiezee.nl<br />
The Hague Hat Walk<br />
On the Saturday before Prinsjesdag, which<br />
is also the International Day of Democracy,<br />
the first edition of The Hague Hat Walk will<br />
take place. The walk starts and ends at the<br />
Plein, giving you the opportunity to be a<br />
spectator after the walk at the Prinsjes Hat<br />
Walk, the hat design competition of the year.<br />
Saturday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 15<br />
1:15 – 2:45 p.m.<br />
Plein, Den Haag<br />
www.prinsjesfestival.nl<br />
Closing of Storm Surge Barrier<br />
Once a year, the Maeslant Storm Surge<br />
Barrier in Hoek van Holland is closed as<br />
part of an annual test of the system in preparation<br />
for hurricane season, which runs from<br />
October 1 to April 15. Opened in 1997 as<br />
part of the Delta Works to protect Rotterdam<br />
Harbor and surrounding cities, it is one of<br />
the largest moving structures on Earth.<br />
Check the website for timing if you want<br />
to witness this unique engineering marvel.<br />
Tours in English are available; reservations<br />
are strongly encouraged.<br />
Saturday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 15<br />
Keringhuis<br />
Maeslantkeringweg 139, Hoek van<br />
Holland<br />
www.keringhuis.nl<br />
New Hague Art Festival<br />
Masterly The Hague is a new annual festival<br />
for Old Masters and <strong>Dutch</strong> Design. Three<br />
magnificent historic buildings located opposite<br />
the Hofvijver will open to the public<br />
together for the first time presenting<br />
the collections of Dr. Abraham Bredius,<br />
Hoogsteder & Hoogsteder, and Cornelis<br />
Kruseman. This new festival will introduce<br />
these historical paintings in combination<br />
with works by contemporary designers<br />
specially commissioned for this<br />
event. Tickets can be purchased online at<br />
www.masterlythehague.com.<br />
Thursday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 20 –<br />
Sunday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 23<br />
Lange Vijverberg 14 – 16, Den Haag<br />
40th International Kite Festival<br />
Scheveningen is ideally situated for kite-flying<br />
with consistent prevailing winds blowing<br />
along the beach. During this annual free festival,<br />
international kite builders and enthusiasts<br />
come together to show their skills along<br />
the beach surrounding the pier. This year’s<br />
theme is Sea Aquarium. The skies will be<br />
filled with Megabyte, the world’s largest flying<br />
monster, as well as a huge variety of kites<br />
of every shape and color including teddy<br />
bears, dragons and fish.<br />
Saturday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 29 and<br />
Sunday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 30<br />
Scheveningen Beach<br />
www.vliegerfeestscheveningen.nl<br />
Leiden Liberation Celebration<br />
This annual Leiden event commemorates<br />
the Spanish siege and subsequent relief of<br />
the city in 1574. The party starts on Tuesday,<br />
October 2 at 1 p.m. with a huge fun fair and<br />
market that covers a large part of the city<br />
center. On Wednesday, October 3, the official<br />
day of liberation, Breestraat is turned into a<br />
lively street theater with a giant parade featuring<br />
floats, bands, and dancers starting at<br />
1 p.m. The day concludes with fireworks at<br />
11:30 p.m. www.3october.nl<br />
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Classifieds<br />
Bijoux-dor Gold &<br />
Silversmith<br />
Professionally trained gold<br />
and silversmith specializing<br />
in handmade and custom<br />
jewelry, and repairs. <strong>AWC</strong><br />
members are eligible for a<br />
10% discount on custom work.<br />
Visit my atelier at Noordeinde<br />
47, 1st floor, The Hague<br />
or call 0687598566 for an<br />
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Expat Families in Transit &<br />
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Young woman is searching for<br />
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care of the children and doing<br />
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I’m able to start on the first of<br />
August. Please contact me at:<br />
0625495312<br />
Blossoming Health and<br />
Beauty<br />
Looking for a professional,<br />
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Contact Linda Chen<br />
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background in leadership<br />
development by Shell, Linda<br />
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in TCM Acupuncture. She<br />
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Proost! Questionnaire<br />
by Heather DeWitt<br />
Why are you living in the Netherlands, and<br />
when did you arrive?<br />
I’m a trailing spouse! My husband works<br />
for Shell, and we arrived in mid-January.<br />
What do you love best about living here?<br />
The experience. It’s a totally different<br />
freedom without kids, and we’re<br />
rediscovering our pre-kid life.<br />
Your Home Away from Home<br />
Tours, Activities, Philanthropy, and<br />
Friendship!<br />
Any English-speaking woman may<br />
join the <strong>AWC</strong>.<br />
Thursday, <strong>Sept</strong>ember 13<br />
Morning Session: 11 - 2 a.m.<br />
Evening Session: 5 - 8 p.m.<br />
Give us a quick wrap-up of your family.<br />
I am here with my husband, Mike, and we<br />
have two children. Logan is 19 and a rising<br />
sophomore at Purdue, studying Mechanical<br />
Engineering. Skyler is 23 and will graduate<br />
in August with her Physician’s Assistant<br />
degree.<br />
www.<strong>AWC</strong>TheHague.org<br />
Johan van Oldenbarneveltlaan 43, 2582 NJ, The Hague<br />
Questions: <strong>AWC</strong>TheHague.Membership@gmail.com<br />
Tell us about your pet.<br />
Rocky is a big, sloppy chocolate lab. He’s<br />
been a good friend, and a comfort in our<br />
travels.<br />
What is it about the <strong>AWC</strong> that you most<br />
enjoy?<br />
The comradery. We all have at least one<br />
common thread, even though we’re all so<br />
different.<br />
What do you consider the most overrated<br />
virtue of being an expat?<br />
People have a weird connotation about<br />
living abroad. Growing up overseas, this<br />
has been a dream. But many people back in<br />
the U.S. don’t understand, if they’ve never<br />
travelled.<br />
Which travel experience has been the<br />
most memorable?<br />
In 1980, my parents bought a Suburban and<br />
had it shipped to Rotterdam. We drove it<br />
home to Saudi Arabia.<br />
Which locations haven’t been ticked off<br />
your bucket list?<br />
Spain, South Africa, and Dubai.<br />
Where would you most like to live?<br />
We purchased lakefront property in<br />
Knoxville, Tennessee, for our retirement.<br />
What’s your hobby?<br />
Sewing, reading, and walking. I’m training<br />
for the Santiago de Camino, which I will do<br />
with my parents and daughter in <strong>Sept</strong>ember.<br />
Who’s a better chef at home, you or your<br />
partner, and why?<br />
I’m the Cook, but Mike is the Grill Master.<br />
Which living person do you most admire?<br />
My mom, Linda.<br />
What is your most treasured possession?<br />
A bracelet my husband gave me, around the<br />
time we got married.<br />
What is your favorite dessert?<br />
Grandma Ellie’s cream puffs, which are<br />
strangely similar to the Hema cream puffs.<br />
What is your favorite drink?<br />
Gin and tonic.<br />
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