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Common mistakes women make<br />
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Taking lifestyle stress<br />
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Our Experts<br />
Developmental Education & Learning Consultant<br />
Rosh Vettiveloo<br />
Expert in learning support, concentration, memory, dyslexia, dyspraxia, hyperlexia, general reading<br />
acquisition difficulties, AD/HD, homeschooling learners with learning difficulties in Malaysia and early<br />
intervention procedures in multilingual environments. Trained in mild to moderate learning difficulties<br />
and qualified Specialist in Teaching Learners with Specific Learning Difficulties (UK) and Educational<br />
Assessor (UK). 20 years practical experience in the field of special education.<br />
Holistic Care & Wellbeing Gaia Chinniah<br />
Gaia is a Malaysian born entrepreneur who has lived in New Zealand for over 30 years. She is the<br />
CEO of Ruby Face Sdn Bhd who exclusively distributes ethical products including World Organics<br />
from New Zealand. She holds a Master in Management Studies and a career of over 10 years in<br />
Marketing of big brands and as a Television presenter. Gaia has a passion for empowering people<br />
and some of her hobbies are pastel art, reiki, yoga and staying healthy. More about Gaia can be read<br />
here: www.worldorganics.com.my & www.rubyface.com.<br />
Fertility & Conception Dr Agilan Arjunan<br />
Dr Agilan Arjunan, a Gynaecologist and Fertility Specialist, graduated from University of Malaya<br />
and obtained his specialist degree from Royal College of Obstetrician and Gynaecologist, London.<br />
Armed with his passion for laparoscopic (keyhole) surgery, he pursues his dream in helping couples<br />
to conceive and build their families through the latest technology of reproductive techniques. He is<br />
also passionate in disseminating knowledge in the field of fertility and hopes readers can differentiate<br />
facts from myths.<br />
CONSULTANT PAEDIATRICIAN AND NEONATOLOGIST Dr. Khoo Boo Aik<br />
Dr Khoo is a consultant paediatrician and neonatologist at Sunway Medical Centre. He completed his<br />
medical degree from National University of Malaysia (MD-UKM) in 1997. He obtained his paediatric<br />
postgraduate membership from royal college of paediatric and child health (MRCPCH) in Glasgow,<br />
UK in 2003. He continued his neonatal subspecialty fellowship training in 2005 at Liverpool Hospital<br />
and the Royal Hospital for Women (RHW), Sydney, NSW, Australia. In 2009, he was accredited as<br />
consultant paediatrician and neonatologist under the National Specialist Register (NSR), Malaysia.<br />
Currently, he also holds a part time lecturer post at Jeffrey Cheah School of Medicine and Health<br />
Sciences, Monash University, Sunway Campus. He is a father of 3 energetic boys aged 13, 11 and 7.<br />
Child Psychology Jessie Foo Xiang Yi<br />
A trained clinical psychologist and a member of Malaysian Society of Clinical Psychology. Jessie<br />
graduated with a Masters in Clinical Psychology from HELP University, Malaysia and conducts<br />
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (C<strong>BT</strong>) to enhance adolescents’ and adults’ ability to cope with<br />
psychological distress and live a meaningful and hopeful life. She uses play and art techniques<br />
to engage with children. Jessie performs psychological assessments on children to diagnose and<br />
determine psychological, social, behavioral and educational functioning.<br />
Dietitian Verona Lee<br />
Verona received her credential in dietetics from National University of Malaysia (UKM). Her passion<br />
for nutrition began after witnessing some of her family members suffer from diet-related chronic<br />
diseases, which made her realise how important diet and a active lifestyle is to everyone’s health. She<br />
has practiced in all areas of nutrition with a special interest in child nutrition.<br />
Early Childhood Education Daisy Ng<br />
Daisy is a mother of two and Founder of Trinity Kids Malaysia. A dedicated practitioner in early<br />
childhood education, she has been featured on BFM, The Edge, NTV7, The Star and given talks<br />
on related topics. As a certified Dr Sears Health Coach in children/family nutrition and ante-natal<br />
wellness, Daisy actively promotes a wholesome and non-processed diet in Malaysia’s schools. An avid<br />
reader and writer from a young age, she now writes about topics in early childhood education, child<br />
development and nutrition.<br />
BabyTalk | April 2018 5
contents April 2018<br />
30 <strong>BT</strong> Guide 37 <strong>BT</strong> Supplement<br />
The Best Start for New Moms<br />
Managing<br />
Nursing<br />
Issues<br />
28<br />
Regulars<br />
13 Ask Our Experts:<br />
There are no better group of people around to<br />
answer your nagging issues<br />
14 Cute Snaps:<br />
Smile baby, you’re about to get famous!<br />
15 <strong>BT</strong> Buzz:<br />
See what scientists are discovering about baby<br />
and pregnancy health<br />
Bump to Birth<br />
18 Fertility & Conception:<br />
Keeping the hope alive<br />
22 Giving Birth:<br />
Natural labor pain management methods<br />
25 9 Months:<br />
Are perineal tears inevitable<br />
28 Feature:<br />
Umbilical non-severance<br />
25<br />
45<br />
Life & Style<br />
42 Home proud:<br />
7 top cleaning devices and tools<br />
45 Love for life:<br />
Keeping a clean and tidy nursery<br />
47 Shopping:<br />
Baby wipes<br />
49 Mini feature:<br />
Have kids have art<br />
50 Out & about:<br />
News and latest happenings in town<br />
51 Subscription:<br />
Subscribe to BabyTalk and never miss an issue again!
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Hello, warm and balmy April…<br />
… and welcome back, dear readers. We have quite an issue for you this month,<br />
among which is an eye-opener from our fertility expert Dr Agilan Arjunan, who<br />
was kind enough to share with us three success stories about couples who were<br />
trying to get pregnant. It’s a really inspiring read for all of you who are trying<br />
for a baby but are still unable to conceive. Do check it out in our Bump to Birth<br />
section this month, where already expectant moms will find three other articles<br />
that are just as interesting!<br />
This month’s special guide goes out to all new moms who what the best start<br />
in their parenting journey. It focuses on postpartum issues as well as inner and<br />
outer well being, digging deep into some common, stubborn issues, and we<br />
hope to make a difference.<br />
If you’re a new mom, please check out our <strong>BT</strong> Supplement which is a guide for<br />
nursing moms — yes, we’ve got your backs too!<br />
As always, issues and topics on little ones are mainstays in BabyTalk and we’ve<br />
got quite a few subjects covered too. We hope you’ll find them useful in your<br />
parenting tasks and we hope you don’t forget to pick up your next copy in May!<br />
Much love<br />
Cindy<br />
Editor’s Note<br />
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Available at
Ask Our Experts<br />
Dr. Agilan Arjunan<br />
Fertility & Conception<br />
}<br />
How long will it take for me to get pregnant after<br />
stopping the pill? ~<br />
The pills prevents pregnancy by preventing ovulation. Once<br />
you stop the pill, the hormones are cleared from your body in<br />
a matter of days. Your body should start producing eggs for<br />
ovulation. However, this "reversal process" can take days to<br />
weeks and it’s not the same for every woman.<br />
Typically by 2–3 months, a woman should resume back<br />
her usual menstrual rhythm (i.e. ovulation pattern). Once<br />
ovulation has resumed, her fertility is back on track.<br />
If the woman had menstrual irregularities prior to starting the<br />
pill, the same issue will still be there after stopping the pill.<br />
Generally, if a woman’s periods have resumed and are regular,<br />
she can try to conceive naturally for about 4–5 months. If<br />
she is still unsuccessful, it’ll probably be wise to seek some<br />
advice from a fertility specialist. If the woman is young (i.e.<br />
< 30 yrs old), she can take a bit more time to try before<br />
seeking advice. If the woman is older, it’s better get a fertility<br />
assessment done sooner.<br />
Dr. Khoo Boo Aik<br />
CONSULTANT PAEDIATRICIAN<br />
& NEONATOLOGIST<br />
}<br />
Can I give my ten month old baby multivitamins<br />
even if he is slightly overweight? ~<br />
The short answer is no. If your baby is feeding and growing<br />
well, there is no reason to supplement him or her with<br />
multivitamins.<br />
What you need to make sure<br />
is that you are feeding your<br />
baby a balance of nutrition<br />
from milk source as well as<br />
a diet with balance portions<br />
of carbohydrate, fat, protein,<br />
vegetables and fruits. If your<br />
baby is fully breastfed, make sure<br />
he or she is taking enough food<br />
that contains iron in order to<br />
prevent iron deficiency anemia.<br />
It is also important to ensure<br />
adequate sunlight exposure to<br />
avoid vitamin D deficiency.<br />
Rosh Vettiveloo<br />
Developmental Education<br />
& Learning Consultant<br />
}<br />
I've seen parents struggle with autistic toddlers and<br />
many seem to be at their wits end trying to cope with<br />
their kids' uncontrollable outbursts. Will these kids even<br />
have a chance of attending a normal school and leading<br />
a normal life in the future? ~<br />
Yes. but there has to be intervention done by properly trained<br />
people, not people with experience ONLY. Success rates are<br />
indeed high if intervention is done well. Parents look for<br />
quick fixes and are not willing to incur the kind of costs it<br />
might take to properly deal with this here in this country.<br />
There are very few people here who are specifically trained<br />
to deal with ASD and they paid a lot of money to get trained<br />
too. If you go through my FB page (www.facebook.com/sri.<br />
rafelsia?ref=br_rs), I shared a video of how successful and<br />
effective intervention looks like in children with ASD.<br />
ASD is a social communication disorder where these<br />
individuals find it difficult to understand verbal and non<br />
verbal communication and social cues. ASD typically sets in<br />
(depending on type, and there are five subtypes) between<br />
ages 18 to 24 months. The closer to 24 months of age it<br />
is identified or younger, and effective intervention is put in<br />
place, the better the results. Very often, children with ASD<br />
show signs of being speech delayed and that is not to be<br />
confused with a speech impairment. Intensive speech therapy<br />
4–5 times per week with SLPs trained to work with children<br />
who have ASD specifically can yield amazing results.<br />
Alongside that, there need to be other cognitive interventions<br />
and consistency in maintaining and demanding verbal<br />
communication from the child at all times. Consistency in<br />
interacting with people is necessary.<br />
BabyTalk | April 2018 13
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14 BabyTalk | April 2018
<strong>BT</strong> Buzz<br />
Improving birth outcomes one<br />
amino acid at a time<br />
A simple dietary supplement (L-arginine) was found to improve<br />
birth outcomes, paving the way for future clinical trials to test<br />
this inexpensive and safe intervention. In their paper entitled,<br />
“Malaria in pregnancy alters L-arginine bioavailability and<br />
placental vascular development,” Science Translational Medicine,<br />
7 March 2018, Toronto General Research Institute (TGRI) and<br />
University of Toronto researchers report that Malawian women<br />
with malaria in pregnancy had altered levels of L-arginine which<br />
were associated with poor birth outcomes. L-arginine is an<br />
amino acid that improves blood flow and circulation and that<br />
humans get from their diet, including eggs, meat and dairy.<br />
In an experimental model of malaria in pregnancy,<br />
supplementing the diet of pregnant mice with L-arginine<br />
increased blood vessel development in the placenta and reduced<br />
low birth weight/preterm birth and stillbirth. Preterm birth and<br />
stillbirth are leading causes of childhood death accounting for<br />
an estimated 2 million deaths per year; however there are few<br />
safe and effective interventions. Globally many of these poor<br />
birth outcomes are associated with maternal infections such<br />
as malaria.<br />
Benefits of fish oil and<br />
probiotic supplements<br />
In one of the largest ever research reports of how a pregnant<br />
woman’s diet affects her baby’s allergy and eczema risk,<br />
scientists from Imperial College London assessed over 400<br />
studies involving 1.5 million people. As part of the study, they<br />
found that when pregnant women took a daily fish oil capsule<br />
from 20 weeks pregnant, and during the first three to four<br />
months of breastfeeding, risk of egg allergy in the child was<br />
reduced by 30 per cent.<br />
The team, who were commissioned by the Food Standards<br />
Agency, also found that taking a daily probiotic supplement<br />
from 36–38 weeks pregnant, and during the first three to six<br />
months of breastfeeding, reduced the risk of a child developing<br />
eczema by 22 per cent. The researchers, who published their<br />
meta-analysis in the journal PLOS Medicine, found no evidence<br />
that avoiding potentially allergenic foods such as nuts, dairy and<br />
eggs during pregnancy made a difference to a child’s allergy or<br />
eczema risk.<br />
Dr Robert Boyle, lead author of the research from the<br />
Department of Medicine at Imperial College London, explained:<br />
“Food allergies and eczema in children are a growing problem<br />
across the world. Although there has been a suggestion that<br />
what a woman eats during pregnancy may affect her baby’s risk<br />
of developing allergies or eczema, until now there has never<br />
been such a comprehensive analysis of the data.” He added:<br />
“Our research suggests probiotic and fish oil supplements may<br />
reduce a child’s risk<br />
of developing an<br />
allergic condition,<br />
and these findings<br />
need to be<br />
considered when<br />
guidelines for<br />
pregnant women<br />
are updated.”<br />
When you look into a baby’s eyes<br />
When you lock eyes with a baby, it’s hard to look away. For one<br />
thing, babies are fun to look at. They’re so tiny and cute and<br />
interesting. For another, babies love to stare back. I remember<br />
my babies staring at me so hard, with their eyebrows raised<br />
and unblinking eyes wide open. They would have killed in a<br />
staring contest.<br />
This mutual adoration of staring may be for a good reason.<br />
When a baby and an adult make eye contact, their brain<br />
waves fall in sync, too, a new study finds. And those shared<br />
patterns of brain activity may actually pave the way for better<br />
communication between baby and adult: Babies make more<br />
sweet, little sounds when their eyes are locked onto an adult<br />
who is looking back. The scientists reported the results online<br />
Nov. 28 in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.<br />
Psychologist Victoria Leong of the University of Cambridge and<br />
Nanyang Technological University in Singapore and colleagues<br />
invited infants into the lab for two experiments. In the first,<br />
the team outfitted 17 8-month-old babies with EEG caps,<br />
headwear covered with electrodes that measure the collective<br />
behavior of nerve cells across the brain. The infants watched a<br />
video in which an experimenter, also outfitted in an EEG cap,<br />
sang a nursery rhyme while looking either straight ahead at the<br />
baby, at the baby but with her head turned at an angle of 20<br />
degrees, or away from the baby and with her head turned at a<br />
20-degree angle. When the researcher looked at the baby (either<br />
facing the baby or with her head slightly turned), the babies’<br />
brains responded, showing activity patterns that started to<br />
closely resemble those of the researcher. The second experiment<br />
moved the test into real life. The same researcher from the video<br />
sat near 19 different babies. Again, both the babies and the<br />
researcher wore EEG caps to record their brain activity. The reallife<br />
eye contact prompted brain patterns similar to those seen<br />
in the video experiment: When eyes met, brain activity fell into<br />
sync; when eyes wandered, brain activity didn’t match as closely.<br />
Lung infection in kids linked to<br />
moms who smoked<br />
Tobacco smoke exposure during pregnancy is worse for children<br />
with asthma than postnatal secondhand smoke exposure,<br />
according to a new study in the journal CHEST ®<br />
A new study published in the journal CHEST ® highlights the<br />
burden of obstructive lung disease in US children and implicates<br />
tobacco smoke exposure (TSE) through maternal smoking during<br />
pregnancy as more strongly associated with worse lung function<br />
than current, ongoing TSE in school-aged children with asthma.<br />
“Childhood asthma is a significant source of morbidity for US<br />
children; those with poor lung function have an even greater<br />
burden of disease,” explained lead investigator Stacey-Ann<br />
Whittaker Brown, MD, from the Division of Pulmonary, Critical<br />
Care, and Sleep Medicine, Icahn School of Medicine at Mount<br />
Sinai, New York, NY. “Few studies have analyzed the individual<br />
contribution of secondhand smoke exposure during pregnancy<br />
or current, ongoing secondhand smoke exposure on the lung<br />
function of children. Unfortunately, many children are exposed<br />
to both. As we learn more about improving asthma outcomes in<br />
children, it is important to find out not only what environmental<br />
exposures are implicated in poor lung function, but also when<br />
those exposures are most harmful.”<br />
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<strong>BT</strong> Buzz<br />
New structure discovered in<br />
human sperm tails<br />
A highly effective tail is needed in order<br />
for a sperm to be able to swim, and<br />
for a baby to be conceived. By using<br />
cryo-electron tomography, researchers<br />
at the University of Gothenburg —<br />
working in partnership with researchers<br />
in the United States — have identified<br />
a completely new nanostructure<br />
inside sperm tails. Human sperms<br />
are incredibly important for our<br />
reproduction. It would therefore<br />
be easy to assume that we have detailed knowledge of their<br />
appearance. However, an international team of researchers has<br />
now identified a completely new nanostructure inside sperm<br />
tails, thanks to the use of cryo-electron tomography.<br />
The method, for which Joachim Frank, Jacques Dubochet<br />
and Richard Henderson were awarded a Nobel Prize in 2017,<br />
produces 3D images of cellular structures. “Since the cells<br />
are depicted frozen in ice, without the addition of chemicals<br />
which can obscure the smallest cell structures, even individual<br />
proteins inside the cell can be observed” explains Johanna<br />
Höög, a research at the University of Gothenburg’s Department<br />
of Chemistry and Molecular Biology. A highly effective tail is<br />
needed in order for a sperm to be able to swim, and for an egg<br />
to be fertilised.<br />
The tail is a highly complex machine that consists of around<br />
a thousand different types of building blocks. The most<br />
important of these are called tubulins, which form long tubes<br />
(microtubules). The tubes are found inside the sperm tail.<br />
Thousands of motorproteins — molecules that can move — are<br />
affixed to these tubes. By being fixed to one microtubule and<br />
“walking on” the adjacent microtubule, the motorproteins<br />
in the sperm tail pull and the tail bends, enabling the sperm<br />
to swim. “It’s actually quite incredible that it can work,” adds<br />
Johanna, who led the study. “The movement of thousands of<br />
motorproteins has to be coordinated in the minutest of detail in<br />
order for the sperm to be able to swim.”<br />
Consequences of screen time<br />
before bed<br />
It may be tempting to let your kids stay up late playing games<br />
on their smartphones, but using digital devices before bed<br />
may contribute to sleep and nutrition problems in children,<br />
according to Penn State College of Medicine researchers.<br />
After surveying parents about their kids’ technology and sleep<br />
habits, researchers found that using technology before bed was<br />
associated with less sleep, poorer sleep quality, more fatigue<br />
in the morning and — in the children that watched TV or used<br />
their cell phones before bed — higher body mass indexes (BMI).<br />
Caitlyn Fuller, medical student, said the results — published in<br />
the journal Global Pediatric Health — may suggest a vicious<br />
cycle of technology use, poor sleep and rising BMIs.<br />
“We saw technology before bed being associated with less sleep<br />
and higher BMIs,” Fuller said. “We also saw this technology<br />
use being associated with more fatigue in the morning, which<br />
circling back, is another risk factor for higher BMIs. So we’re<br />
seeing a loop pattern forming.”<br />
Babies who look like their father<br />
Infants who resemble their father at birth are found to be<br />
healthier, but not for the reasons you’d think. They’re actually<br />
more likely to spend time together with their father and, in turn,<br />
be healthier when they reach their first birthday, according to<br />
new research co-conducted by faculty at Binghamton University,<br />
State University of New York. “Fathers are important in raising<br />
a child, and it manifests itself in the health of the child,” said<br />
Distinguished Research Professor of Economics at Binghamton<br />
University Solomon Polachek.<br />
Polachek, along with Marlon Tracey from Southern Illinois<br />
University, based their analysis on data from the Fragile Families<br />
and Child Wellbeing (FFCW) study, which focused on 715<br />
families in which babies live with only their mother. Data from<br />
the first two waves of the study indicated that infants who<br />
looked like their father at birth were healthier one year later,<br />
suggesting that father-child<br />
resemblance induces a father<br />
to spend more time engaged<br />
in positive parenting, as these<br />
fathers spent an average of 2.5<br />
more days per month with their<br />
babies than fathers who didn’t<br />
resemble their offspring. “Those<br />
fathers that perceive the baby’s<br />
resemblance to them are more<br />
certain the baby is theirs, and<br />
thus spend more time with the<br />
baby,” said Dr. Polachek.<br />
Placenta defects a factor in<br />
prenatal deaths<br />
The role of the placenta in healthy fetal development is being<br />
seriously under-appreciated according to a new paper published<br />
today (14th March). The study was part of the Wellcome<br />
Trust-funded “Deciphering the Mechanisms of Developmental<br />
Disorders (DMDD)” consortium (dmdd.org.uk). Dr Myriam<br />
Hemberger at the Babraham Institute, Cambridge led the<br />
research, working with colleagues at the Wellcome Sanger<br />
Institute, Cambridge, the Francis Crick Institute, London, the<br />
University of Oxford and the Medical University of Vienna,<br />
Austria. Writing in the journal Nature, the team studied 103<br />
genetic mutations in mice that cause embryos to die before<br />
birth. The results showed that the majority, almost 70%, cause<br />
defects in the placenta.<br />
Each of the 103 gene mutations causes the loss of a particular<br />
factor. Many of these had not been previously linked to placenta<br />
development, and hence the study highlights the unexpected<br />
number of genes that affect development of the placenta. By<br />
studying a select group of three genes in further detail, the team<br />
went on to show that the death of the embryo could be directly<br />
linked to defects in the placenta in one out of these three cases.<br />
This may mean that a significant number of genetic defects<br />
that lead to prenatal death may be due to abnormalities of the<br />
placenta, not just the embryo. Although this research uses mice,<br />
the findings are likely to be highly relevant to complications<br />
during human pregnancy and the study highlights the need<br />
for more work to be done on investigating development of the<br />
placenta during human pregnancies.<br />
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<strong>BT</strong> Buzz<br />
The dimmer the night light<br />
the better<br />
Exposing preschoolers to<br />
an hour of bright light<br />
before bedtime almost<br />
completely shuts down<br />
their production of the<br />
sleep-promoting hormone<br />
melatonin and keeps it<br />
suppressed for at least<br />
50 minutes after lights<br />
out, according to new<br />
University of Colorado<br />
Boulder research. The<br />
study, published today in the journal Physiological Reports, is the<br />
first to assess the hormonal impact nighttime light exposure can<br />
have on young children. The study comes at a time when use<br />
of electronics is rapidly expanding among this age group and<br />
adds to a growing body of evidence suggesting that-because<br />
of structural differences in their eyes-children may be more<br />
vulnerable to the impact light has on sleep and the body clock.<br />
“Although the effects of light are well studied in adults, virtually<br />
nothing is known about how evening light exposure affects<br />
the physiology, health and development of preschool-aged<br />
children,” said lead author Lameese Akacem, a CU Boulder<br />
instructor and researcher in the Sleep and Development Lab.<br />
“In this study we found that these kids were extremely sensitive<br />
to light.”<br />
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Bump to Birth<br />
Fertility & Conception<br />
Keep the hope alive!<br />
By Dr Agilan Arjunan<br />
Consultant Gynaecologist & Fertility Specialist<br />
KL Fertility Centre / Monash IVF<br />
“The time is always right to do what is right”, “Time waits for<br />
no one”, “It takes time to build a castle”.<br />
There are many proverbs about time. One thing for sure,<br />
time does fly and we’ve already put the first quarter of 2018<br />
behind us!<br />
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Bump to Birth<br />
Fertility & Conception<br />
Time can be your good friend or<br />
enemy. For those with family<br />
and children, it’s fun to watch<br />
your little ones grow. Those who<br />
are in the midst of their parenthood<br />
journey however may find that time<br />
can be their greatest enemy with each<br />
passing year.<br />
There are many couples who kept<br />
their hopes high and persisted in their<br />
journey towards parenthood and<br />
many achieved their goals. Here, I’ll<br />
be sharing some spirit-lifting real-life<br />
journeys which will hopefully inspire<br />
you to keep the hope alive and have a<br />
family of your own.<br />
Intra-Vaginal Insemination (IVI)<br />
Vaginismus<br />
Mr & Mrs Jacob (not their real name)<br />
walked into my consultation room<br />
sometime in the late 2016.<br />
They were a bit hesitant when they first<br />
met me and I could tell they were not<br />
comfortable with the whole idea of<br />
such a consultation. They slowly took<br />
their seats and looked at each other,<br />
probably in an inner debate on how to<br />
start the conversation and who should<br />
began first.<br />
I broke the silence with a greeting and<br />
inquired how could I help them. The<br />
husband then proceed with, “Doc, we<br />
have been married for seven years, and<br />
are still without a child yet.”<br />
“Have you both done any fertility<br />
tests?” I inquired.<br />
Both of them looked at each other<br />
and after a few good seconds, his wife<br />
finally started talking. “Actually, we<br />
have not managed to have sex since<br />
our marriage,” his wife said with some<br />
difficulty.<br />
“Well, if that’s the main reason, then<br />
the treatment is very easy!” I said with<br />
enthusiasm. I could see though, that<br />
they both couldn’t believe my reply.<br />
“Really, doc? We thought we had<br />
a major issue,” said the wife. “Not<br />
necessarily. Still, let us go through<br />
some basic fertility assessment to<br />
make sure we don’t have other<br />
issues,” I explained.<br />
They went through the initial basic<br />
fertility assessments. I did an abdominal<br />
ultrasound scan for the wife to look at<br />
her womb and ovaries and since her<br />
periods are quite regular, no hormonal<br />
test was needed. The husband did<br />
a semen analysis (sperm test). In the<br />
afternoon, we met again to go through<br />
the semen analysis report.<br />
“Since there is no major fertility issue<br />
that needs correction at the moment,<br />
let’s do an IVI,” I said.<br />
“What’s an IVI doc?” the husband asked.<br />
“IVI means an Intra-Vaginal<br />
Insemination. It is a process of injecting<br />
sperm into your wife’s vagina using a<br />
fine tube during her fertile period,” I<br />
explained. “You can even do it at home,<br />
every month,” I added. “If the issue is<br />
no sexual intercourse, IVI will help you<br />
to deposit sperm into her vagina.”<br />
I went on to explain how they carry<br />
out the IVI procedure at home. I even<br />
taught them how to monitor their<br />
ovulation based on clinical symptoms<br />
and via an ovulation test kit.<br />
I could see the signs of relief in their<br />
faces upon hearing the simple solution<br />
for their problem. Furthermore, they are<br />
still ‘in-control’ of their fertility journey,<br />
of course with a very small modification.<br />
Armed with a new direction, the couple<br />
thanked me and left my office. Just two<br />
months later, I received an email from<br />
the couple. The subject title of the email<br />
said it all “Thank you : I am pregnant!”<br />
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Fertility & Conception<br />
Azoospermia<br />
Mr Hazmi (not his real name) walked<br />
into my clinic in 2017. He was holding a<br />
file in his hand. He came alone without<br />
his wife.<br />
I started the conversation in my usual<br />
manner, “Hi, Hazmi, take a seat. How<br />
can I help you?”<br />
Hazmi placed his file on my table and<br />
said, “Doc, the problem is with me.”<br />
He went on to explain that he and his<br />
wife had been trying for 5 years to<br />
conceive. They were working and living<br />
overseas at that time. They are in their<br />
early 30s’, so they didn’t think that<br />
they had a major fertility issue. His wife<br />
was following several fertility tips that<br />
she read on the internet. She tried a<br />
few natural remedies to help her with<br />
her fertility.<br />
Three years passed by and they finally<br />
decided it was time to visit a fertility<br />
doctor. His wife’s fertility test did not<br />
reveal any remarkable abnormalities.<br />
His sperm test however revealed that<br />
he had a condition called Azoospermia<br />
(Azoospermia is when there is no sperm<br />
cells seen in the ejaculate).<br />
They could not believe the results. They<br />
went to two different fertility centres<br />
and repeated the test. Unfortunately,<br />
the results were the same.<br />
He was referred to a urologist who<br />
claimed that there are injections that<br />
can help boost sperm production, but<br />
it did not help him. “Doc, I feel very<br />
frustrated and disappointed. It’s hard to<br />
believe that all this while, the issue was<br />
with me.”<br />
He was visibly very frustrated and<br />
probably embarrassed knowing that the<br />
issue is with him and he had to put his<br />
wife through a lot of tests.<br />
“Hazmi, we can’t turn back time. It’s no<br />
use worrying about the past. You are<br />
here today hoping to find an answer<br />
and that’s exactly what I am going to<br />
do!” I said trying to lift up his mood.<br />
Further medical evaluation did not<br />
reveal anything significant apart from<br />
the smaller testicular size indicating<br />
a possible problem with sperm<br />
production. I carried out several<br />
hormone tests on him.<br />
A week later we reviewed the blood<br />
test and I said to him, “Well, based on<br />
all the facts that we have collected,<br />
it looks like you may end up needing<br />
a small surgical procedure to retrieve<br />
sperm directly from the testicles.”<br />
He looked a bit worried once I<br />
mentioned the word ‘surgery’. I quickly<br />
added on, “But let me see if I can<br />
avoid it. I’m going to start you on some<br />
medications, oral and injections, to<br />
push sperm production. I know you<br />
have done it before, but let me try it<br />
once again.”<br />
Hazmi agreed and we started on<br />
our journey to increase his sperm<br />
production. After the first month, we<br />
had no luck. On the second month of<br />
treatment, we noticed few sperms in his<br />
ejaculate. I continued his treatment and<br />
by the fourth month, he had 400,000<br />
thousand sperms in his ejaculate.<br />
Meanwhile, fertility assessment of his<br />
wife were all normal.<br />
“Hazmi, looks like we may be able to<br />
avoid the surgery after all,” I told him<br />
and he smiled. “But, you still need an<br />
IVF,” I added on. The couple agreed<br />
to proceed with an IVF somewhere in<br />
the following couple of months. About<br />
a month and a half later though, the<br />
couple visited me again because his<br />
wife had missed her period. They were<br />
concerned that she may have an ovarian<br />
cyst which is delaying her periods.<br />
I asked, “Have you done a urine<br />
pregnancy test?” to which Hazmi<br />
replied, “Doc, I’m sure she is not<br />
pregnant.” I proceeded with an<br />
ultrasound scan. What we saw surprised<br />
us all. There was a foetus measuring<br />
five weeks!<br />
“Well, nothing is impossible,” I said,<br />
while the couple cried tears of joy.<br />
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After two months, IVF was started. The<br />
IVF protocol was changed to minimise<br />
her cost.<br />
Four eggs were retrieved. Unfortunately<br />
they had only one viable embryo which<br />
was frozen.<br />
They were quite disappointed with the<br />
outcome.<br />
“You have not finished your IVF journey<br />
yet, there is still hope,” I consoled<br />
them. She then went through a uterine<br />
scratching prior to a frozen embryo<br />
transfer (FET). FET was done in a natural<br />
period cycle. A single embryo was<br />
transferred into her womb.<br />
She was given supportive medications<br />
and in about a fortnight later, my<br />
nurse told me that Mrs TJM’s urine<br />
pregnancy test was positive. She came<br />
back two weeks after that for an<br />
ultrasound scan and saw a beautiful<br />
image of her baby. She was nearly<br />
seven weeks pregnant! She had finally<br />
found her golden embryo.<br />
Low egg reserve<br />
(Endometriosis)<br />
I had seen Mr & Mrs TJM in early 2017.<br />
The first time we met was during one<br />
of my fertility forums. I remembered<br />
them because they sat in the first row<br />
and asked many questions regarding<br />
endometriosis. They were in their<br />
mid-30s. I met them again a month<br />
later in my clinic. True enough, she had<br />
been diagnosed with endometriosis<br />
and had two previous surgeries for<br />
endometriotic ovarian cysts.<br />
Her latest egg reserve test (AMH<br />
blood test) showed low egg reserve.<br />
Endometriosis had reduced her egg<br />
count even though she was still young.<br />
They were very worried that she<br />
may go into menopause soon before<br />
getting pregnant.<br />
“She is not menopausal yet. Let’s try<br />
our best to get her pregnant. The<br />
chances are low, but its never zero,” I<br />
said in an attempt to give them some<br />
hope. The husband’s sperm analysis<br />
was acceptable. After the initial fertility<br />
assessment, we agreed to proceed with<br />
an IVF to maximise her chances to get<br />
pregnant. To their surprise, I did not<br />
immediately start their IVF treatment.<br />
“Let’s do something to improve your<br />
egg quality first before starting the IVF,”<br />
I told the couple.<br />
They were started on vitamins including<br />
DHEA. Since they were strong believers<br />
in traditional medicine, they added<br />
on remedies by a Chinese traditional<br />
medicine centre to improve her fertility.<br />
In Vitro Fertilization (IVF)<br />
Conclusion<br />
Fertility journeys are akin to roller<br />
coaster rides. There are ups and downs<br />
and you will never know when your<br />
journey will come to an end. One thing<br />
for sure though, and that it, if you<br />
persist, you’re highly likely to reach<br />
your goal.<br />
Good luck!<br />
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Bump to Birth<br />
Giving Birth<br />
Natural<br />
labour<br />
pain management<br />
methods<br />
If you’re concerned about using drugs during labour<br />
to curb the pains, and would like to learn more natural<br />
methods to ease labour pains, this article is for you.<br />
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Giving Birth<br />
• Practical skills of relaxation, breathing and visualisation<br />
which are used during pregnancy, labour, childbirth and<br />
beyond<br />
• How the mother’s body is beautifully designed to birth her<br />
baby naturally and calmly and with the right preparation, to<br />
work with the process rather than resist it<br />
• The importance of a mother’s beliefs and attitudes about<br />
birth and how these can be one of the major differences<br />
between a positive or negative birth experience<br />
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3. Use a heat pack<br />
Applying heat on a sore, aching back can be relieving and<br />
comforting during labour. It is a great non-pharmaceutical<br />
alternative but if you’re giving birth in a hospital, you’ll want<br />
a gel-based heat pack that heats up in hot water instead of<br />
the ones that heat up in a microwave oven.<br />
The degree of labour pains cannot be predicted by<br />
anyone and there’s no telling if it will be bearable<br />
or otherwise. Rest assured though, that there are a<br />
number of ways you can manage the pain without the<br />
use of drugs. Here are some of them.<br />
1. Water immersion<br />
Immersing your belly or whole body in warm water during<br />
labour offers a natural, soothing method of pain relief. It also<br />
relaxes and comforts nagging aches that tend to prolong<br />
during labour.<br />
During the first stage of labour, a warm water shower might<br />
be a better way to do this, as you can remain upright and<br />
direct the shower head at your lower back without hindering<br />
your labour from progressing. While water immersion<br />
during the first stage of labour may help to reduce epidural/<br />
spinal analgesia requirements as well as maternal pain, most<br />
midwives and birth attendants will recommend getting into<br />
the bath once you are in the second stage or active labour.<br />
The reason is, being in water creates buoyancy, but gravity is<br />
required in early labour so as not to stall it.<br />
4. Aromatherapy<br />
Aromatherapy is helpful to women in labour in more ways<br />
than one. If you are giving birth in hospital, it can provide a<br />
nice smell to mask the smell of the hospital, enabling you to<br />
relax a little more. While not all oils will do the trick, many are<br />
said to work well for labour pain management. Inquire about<br />
the hospital’s policy on aromatherapy and which methods<br />
that are allowed. Most probably, if the hospital allows it, it<br />
will have to be a battery-operated one, or a hospital one<br />
if they have it. Check out our article Best essential oils for<br />
women in labour for suggestions on selections.<br />
2. The Hypnobirthing Method<br />
If you feel that you’re easily stressed or anxious,<br />
Hypnobirthing will be a good choice for you. Being as relaxed<br />
as possible is really important in labour, otherwise you end up<br />
in the vicious cycle of fear tension pain. When you tense<br />
up and get tight (which is a natural reaction to any sort of<br />
pain) it actually makes that pain worse. With Hypnobirthing,<br />
you will learn:<br />
• To access your natural inner resources to alleviate the fear,<br />
anxiety and tension experienced during pregnancy, labour<br />
and childbirth<br />
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Giving Birth<br />
5. The ideal environment<br />
During labour, the environment in which a woman is about<br />
to give birth in can influence her level of relaxation and how<br />
she copes with the pain. For instance, dimming the lights, or<br />
turning it off for that matter, will instinctively tone down her<br />
thought about the pain. Bringing along some familiar objects<br />
that she is particularly fond of also helps.<br />
If you’re going to try this, you can also try bringing along<br />
your favourite CD, for music will help calm and relax you too.<br />
Lastly, a little humor also goes a long way in managing your<br />
labor pain, so have someone tell you some (tasteful) jokes!<br />
6. Massages<br />
You don’t need to be a professional to provide you with<br />
comforting massages when you’re in labour. All you need is<br />
the magic touch of loving, nurturing strokes on your aching<br />
body. Studies have revealed that massages help provide<br />
relief from anxiety for women who are in labour. There are<br />
also studies that indicated that partner involvement, as in<br />
massaging one’s partner who is in labour, resulted in better<br />
birthing experiences compared to women who did not receive<br />
massages.<br />
8. Drink water for hydration and<br />
eat if you’re hungry<br />
In case you forget whilst in early labour especially, get your<br />
partner to remind you to drink at least 300ml of water every<br />
couple of hours to avoid dehydration — this will help you<br />
beat fatigue and a poorly functioning uterus. Eating and<br />
drinking during labour has been shown to reduce the total<br />
length of labour by as much as 90 minutes. Eat light, easily<br />
digested food.<br />
7. TENS machine<br />
A TENS machine works by attaching two strips of electrodes<br />
on your lower back — one on either side of your spine. These<br />
connect to a hand-held battery powered unit, which allows<br />
you to control the strength of the electrical impulses. It works<br />
by sending a signal to the brain via impulses that compete<br />
with pain impulses from the uterus. While it does not work<br />
with all women, many have found it useful in helping them<br />
cope with labour pains, both in the early and late stages.<br />
You can use it from the very start of labour It can be used<br />
anywhere — at home, in the car or in hospital. You can<br />
remain mobile while using it and it can be used with other<br />
forms of pain relief except back massage or water (shower,<br />
bath).<br />
Get some good<br />
prenatal education<br />
Seek out classes that include how labor and<br />
birth work and natural labor pain management<br />
techniques, such as breathing, self-hypnosis,<br />
relaxation and other coping mechanisms. Your<br />
hospital probably offers an evening or weekend<br />
course, but that might not be enough information,<br />
especially if they have a high epidural or C-section<br />
rate. Research independent educators and try them<br />
out until you find one that feels comfortable to you.<br />
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9 Months<br />
Are perineal tears<br />
inevitable?<br />
If you’ve given birth before, you’d probably be familiar with the term perineal tear, which is<br />
a possible consequence of having a vaginal birth. Many women have experienced this, but<br />
is it as inevitable as it seems to be? Well, maybe not, so moms-to-be, take note, especially if<br />
you want to try your best to avoid a tear while giving birth.<br />
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9 Months<br />
Firstly, it would be good to know what is happening<br />
down there as you’re giving birth. During the second<br />
stage of labour, your baby’s head will start to enter into<br />
the vagina and move toward your perineum area. The<br />
perineal skin will then begin to thin out and stretch over your<br />
baby’s head. As your baby’s head starts to emerge out (this is<br />
known as crowning), the labia and vaginal opening also starts<br />
to stretch around your baby’s head. A tear can happen if the<br />
skin and perineum does not stretch properly. Most women, if<br />
not all, don’t really feel a tear happening. This could be due<br />
to being too preoccupied with the intensity and pressure felt<br />
during this last stage of labour.<br />
There seems to be certain factors that increase the likelihood<br />
of perineal tearing are they are:<br />
• Having a large baby<br />
• Baby being born in a posterior position<br />
• Increased weight gain during pregnancy<br />
• A first vaginal birth<br />
• Being of Asian ethnicity<br />
Types of perineal tears<br />
There are four types of perineal tears or lacerations that could<br />
occur while giving birth. The most common are first and<br />
second degree tears.<br />
A first degree tear means a laceration has occurred but it is so<br />
small that it requires few or no stitches, where else a second<br />
degree tear involves injury to the skin and muscle underneath<br />
and usually needs a few stitches.<br />
Third degree lacerations are a tear in the vaginal skin, perineal<br />
skin and the muscle that extend to the anal sphincter (muscle<br />
around your anus). A fourth degree tear is the same as a third<br />
degree one except it extends into the anal sphincter and the<br />
tissue around it. Third and fourth degree tears can affect your<br />
pelvic floor function and anal muscles.<br />
While it’s not quite possible to tell if you will experience a tear<br />
or the severity of it for that matter, you can still take measures<br />
to minimise the risks of having a tear down there.<br />
Take some preparation steps<br />
Let’s face it — you don’t give birth everyday, and if you’re<br />
a first time mom, parts of your body is going to perform<br />
something quite ‘heavy’ that they have never done before.<br />
Hence, some preparation makes sense, doesn’t it?<br />
Unless you’re a naturally active individual, it’s highly likely that<br />
you don’t move around as much as you should. Exercise is<br />
important not just to keep you fit as a pregnant mom, but it<br />
also help to improve circulation, which in turn improves skin<br />
elasticity. Also, improving blood flow to the perineum and<br />
vagina through orgasms can also improve tissue health, if you<br />
get our drift!<br />
Next, feed your body right, for good nutrition and hydration<br />
supports your skin and muscle health, including your perineal<br />
skin that has to stretch well to avoid tears. Include plenty of<br />
good fats, especially omega-3s (from fish, chia seeds, walnuts<br />
and pumpkin seeds) and grass fed or free range meats for<br />
lean protein. A wide range of vegetables completes a healthy<br />
diet and will include nutrients such as Vitamin E, Vitamin C<br />
and zinc. These will provide your perineal skin with the ability<br />
to stretch during labour and snap back faster too.<br />
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9 Months<br />
Pelvic floor exercises<br />
Kegel exercises are unfortunately not very much practiced<br />
among Asian moms, unless they happen to be enrolled in a<br />
birthing class of some sort. This is a shame, for these exercises<br />
are known to help strengthen the muscles in the pelvic floor<br />
and also help them snap back into shape faster after birth.<br />
Learning to performing pelvic floor exercise correctly can<br />
help you to identify those muscles and use them to your full<br />
advantage. Our advice here is to enroll yourself into a birthing<br />
class, for you’ll learn a whole lot more than just how to<br />
perform kegel exercises properly.<br />
Warm compresses<br />
During the crowning stage, a warm flannel or compress<br />
held to the perineum may help reduce severe tearing.<br />
The warmth increases the blood flow to the area and<br />
if counter pressure is used it can even be of some relief.<br />
However, not all women can tolerate this method, for<br />
some may not be able to tolerate any kind of contact at<br />
the perineal area during the birthing process.<br />
Birthing position<br />
The best position for birthing your baby with a lowered risk<br />
of tearing would be the one you choose instinctively for<br />
yourself and you feel most comfortable in. Unfortunately, the<br />
lithotomy position, which is lying down with legs held up, or<br />
even a semi-reclining position, has long been known to place<br />
pressure onto the tailbone and perineum. These positions also<br />
reduce the size of the pelvic floor and increase the likelihood<br />
of a tear.<br />
It’s also been found over and over again that women who<br />
are free to move about during labour are more likely to<br />
find the position that helps them cope with contractions<br />
at each particular stage. Some women like to float free of<br />
gravity in water, others like to have their feet firmly planted<br />
on the ground.<br />
The least stressful positions for the perineum, include:<br />
• On hands and knees<br />
• Leaning forward in a supported standing, kneeling, or<br />
sitting position<br />
• Lying on the side<br />
Note that while squatting and kneeling are useful upright<br />
positions, if the woman’s knees are very wide apart the<br />
perineum will still be stretched sideways and this may increase<br />
the likelihood of tearing.<br />
Perineal massages<br />
Preparing the perineum via perineal massages during<br />
pregnancy has been shown to reduce the risk of tearing in<br />
mothers having their first vaginal birth. Self-administered<br />
perineal massage can help a woman to become familiar with<br />
her own body and have confidence in its ability to stretch and<br />
birth her baby. However, not all women are comfortable with<br />
the idea of perineal massages, although most who have tried<br />
them reported positive outcomes.<br />
Choose your hospital or birthing<br />
center well<br />
What we mean by this is, discuss your plans of avoiding tears<br />
(including episiotomy incisions) with your hospital or birthing<br />
center — this way you can find out what their policy is on<br />
avoiding tears or episiotomies for that matter. Pick a hospital<br />
or birth center that will support you and aid in your labour<br />
with the intention of preventing tears as much as they can.<br />
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Feature<br />
Umbilical nonseverance<br />
Would you try the Lotus Birth?<br />
There is this birthing practice of leaving the umbilical cord uncut and attached to the<br />
placenta and baby until it falls off naturally, which usually about 10 days. It used to be quite<br />
the thing back in the 1970s, although most young moms and moms-to-be today are probably<br />
not aware of it. Today, however, the lotus birth seems to be making a comeback!<br />
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Feature<br />
We’re not really sure who’s responsible for<br />
bringing this back, but more and more moms<br />
are now open to trying out the lotus birth. To<br />
many, it’s already considered a wholly natural<br />
practice like natural birthing and/or home birthing.<br />
How it’s done<br />
Upon birth, a baby’s umbilical cord is usually cut, but with<br />
the lotus birth, it is left intact while waiting for the birth of<br />
the placenta. Once the placenta appears, it will take a few<br />
minutes for it to completely stop pulsating and for all the<br />
remaining blood to transfer to the baby’s body.<br />
The placenta can then be gently washed in warm water<br />
and drained dry. Some practitioners recommend rinsing the<br />
placenta again after a few hours to thoroughly remove any<br />
residue. Once it’s cleaned properly, it can be patted dry.<br />
Won’t it smell?<br />
That would depend on your senses as to what<br />
smells ‘bad’. For example, some people can’t<br />
tolerate the smell of certain animals while others<br />
don’t mind at all. The placenta though, is said to<br />
emit a musky smell after a few days, although<br />
most parents do not find it overpowering or<br />
offensive. Care for it well while it’s drying out<br />
and the placenta should not develop a bad smell.<br />
The placenta goes wherever the baby goes, so extra care has<br />
to be given. The baby can still be given a bath, but care has<br />
to be given to keep the placenta dry — The cord dries off<br />
easily but the placenta won’t. Avoid moving the baby around<br />
unnecessarily during this time. You’ll have to regularly check<br />
on the placenta to wipe off any excess moisture or reapply<br />
your dried herbs or salt. The main thing is to keep it as dry as<br />
possible all the time.<br />
The cord dries and separates between three to ten days after<br />
birth. For most moms who have kept their babies placenta,<br />
they found it appropriate to either:<br />
• Bury it in the garden or any other chosen location.<br />
• Plant a special plant with the placenta in the soil.<br />
Would you choose to do it?<br />
With a lotus birth, a baby is said to receive all of the placental<br />
blood through the umbilical cord before it’s disposed of. Also,<br />
as a bonus, the little newborn will be less likely to be ‘passed<br />
around’ at such a tender age (due to being attached to the<br />
placenta). As the placenta needs to be tended to, moms tend<br />
to stay closer to their babies, initiating precious bonding time.<br />
The whole process is believed to bestow due<br />
acknowledgement to the connection a newborn baby has<br />
had with the placenta while he or she was still in the mom’s<br />
womb. It also shows a degree of respect for the transition<br />
from the womb to the outside world.<br />
How the placenta is kept<br />
The placenta is usually placed in a sieve or colander to drain<br />
and dry completely for 24 hours. Putting a towel underneath<br />
can help to absorb any moisture. Once dried, a generous<br />
sprinkling of either salt or dried rosemary (covering the<br />
whole placenta) will help prevent any odours. Some moms<br />
also use lavender oil or other essential oil for this purpose.<br />
The placenta is placed in a special bag while the cord, still<br />
connected to the baby, can be left exposed or wrapped in silk<br />
or cotton. Plastic containers are not used for it slows down<br />
the drying process and may even hasten deterioration.<br />
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The Best Start for New Moms<br />
Having a baby is one of the most lifechanging<br />
events in a woman’s life,<br />
especially during the initial postpartum<br />
period, which can be more challenging<br />
than the birthing experience itself. Here is a<br />
guide to see you through the first few weeks<br />
after childbirth.<br />
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for New Moms<br />
Giving birth can turn out to be quite exhausting, especially if<br />
you had a vaginal birth. It may take some time before your<br />
body recovers fully from the vigors of natural childbirth.<br />
Nevertheless, if you’ve had a C-section birth, you will still<br />
need time for your surgery wound to heal. Either way and in<br />
most cases, as soon as the painkillers run out, the pain may<br />
start to set in. This, together with a feeling of tiredness may<br />
sometimes make it difficult for you as a new mom to enjoy<br />
the first few weeks of being a mother. Our very first advice to<br />
you is to get plenty of rest.<br />
The undervalued benefits of rest<br />
Although it may sound like a luxury and the new-found<br />
motherly bone in you will seem to be against it, proper rest<br />
is the single most important thing you can do for your body<br />
and for your baby, for a well-rested mom will be better able<br />
to take care of her baby. Hence the popular advice to ‘sleep<br />
when your baby is sleeping’ should be taken seriously, no<br />
matter how much the floor needs sweeping or the house<br />
needs cleaning. Tip: For the first few weeks, make it a point<br />
to rush NOTHING except to get back next to your baby.<br />
Everything else can wait, or you might soon find yourself<br />
overwhelmed with exhaustion.<br />
We get it that a solid eight-hour snooze will be out of the<br />
question, for your newborn will need to be fed, changed<br />
and comforted ever so often, but changes in your normal<br />
schedule is called for, especially if you do not have a maid<br />
or someone at your beck and call to help you run your<br />
household chores.<br />
So crucial is the rest factor to new moms that it is the main<br />
feature in all our local confinement care practices, namely<br />
in our Malay, Chinese and Indian cultures. Basically, during<br />
a typical confinement period, a new mom needs to be<br />
relieved of all responsibilities other than feeding the baby<br />
and of course, taking good care of herself via proper rest<br />
and nutrition.<br />
In the first few weeks after giving birth, your body will have<br />
to go through lots of changes and internal adjustments to get<br />
back to it’s pre-pregnancy state. Wounds acquired from tears,<br />
an episiotomy or a cesarean section will need to heal well so<br />
as not to get infected. The postpartum body is susceptible<br />
to infections and tiredness during the initial stages and lack<br />
of rest may contribute to making these worse. Resting and<br />
taking it easy as much as possible will help facilitate faster<br />
healing and will help your postpartum body rejuvenate and<br />
recover faster from the rigors of childbirth.<br />
Here are some ways you can sneak in some extra sleep<br />
and rest:<br />
• Firstly, yes, sleep when the baby sleeps. It doesn’t matter if<br />
it’s only a few minutes of rest several times a day, but these<br />
minutes can add up and every little bit counts towards your<br />
full recovery. Remember this the next time your baby dozes<br />
of and you start looking around for stuff that needs to be<br />
done. Nothing can be more important than your rest!<br />
• Conserve as much energy as possible. Anything that<br />
will save you some energy, do it! That includes having<br />
everything you need at hand when you’re nursing (hanky,<br />
glass of water, phone, etc) and also, have your baby sleep<br />
as close as possible to you so you won’t have to move too<br />
much during night time nursing.<br />
• Limit the number of visitors during your first week. This<br />
is the crucial time of recovery but many new moms feel<br />
obligated to entertain guests who want to come over and<br />
see the new baby. Your friends will surely understand when<br />
you let them know that you need the rest and that they<br />
can start visiting as soon as you’re up for it.<br />
• Introduce the bottle to your baby as early as three weeks<br />
old so that the little one can get accustomed to both ways<br />
of feeding. This will allow someone else to feed the baby<br />
now and then and you’ll be able to get some rest.<br />
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Coping with the physical changes<br />
You can expect a lot of changes to take place in your body<br />
after the birth of your child. Your doctor will talk to you about<br />
these changes and will advice where applicable.<br />
Lochia<br />
The bleeding you experience during the postpartum period<br />
is called lochia, which is actually all the tissue and blood that<br />
lined your uterus during your pregnancy. It will flow heavily<br />
and appear bright red at first and will eventually become<br />
lighter in colour as well as flow. This lochia will subside in a<br />
few weeks.<br />
Perineal care<br />
If you had a tear or episiotomy during the birth, you will have<br />
stitches that can be uncomfortable while they heal. Even<br />
without stitches, the area around your vagina (the perineum)<br />
may feel bruised and swollen. To speed healing and ease<br />
discomfort, you should keep the area clean with plain soap<br />
and water during your regular bath or shower.<br />
In the first few days, an ice pack can help reduce swelling.<br />
Allow air to circulate by going without a pad for an hour or<br />
so each day. Use old towels to protect your bedding while<br />
you lie down for a rest.<br />
With perineal tears or trauma, even urinating can sting. To<br />
remedy this, use a plastic squeeze bottle to gently squirt the<br />
perineum with warm water as you urinate.<br />
Do Kegel exercises (tightening and releasing the vaginal<br />
muscles) to speed healing by increasing the flow of blood to<br />
the perineum.<br />
Swellings<br />
Swellings in your feet are normal after giving birth and it<br />
will go away in time. You can reduce the swelling by resting<br />
as much as possible and keeping your feet elevated. Some<br />
women may even experience swelling in their legs too, and<br />
the only way to deal with it effectively is through rest.<br />
Cramps<br />
Menstrual-like cramps are normal, and you may experience<br />
them during breastfeeding, especially. These cramps are<br />
signs that your uterus is contracting and shrinking back to its<br />
normal size.<br />
Constipation<br />
Yes, we know — nothing can be worse than to be<br />
constipated at this time, especially if you’ve had a vaginal<br />
birth. Constipation hampers your gut health, which in<br />
turn puts your whole general wellbeing at risk too. If your<br />
constipation is really serious, talk to your doctor about it —<br />
he may give you some laxatives for relief. You can also try<br />
drinking more water and eating more fibre through fresh<br />
fruits and vegetables.<br />
Incontinence<br />
You may or may not experience urinary incontinence during<br />
your postpartum recovery, due to the compression of the<br />
pelvic nerves that weakens the pelvic floor muscles, which<br />
help control the bladder. Sometimes, the pressure from the<br />
uterus can change the angle of the urethra and cause loss of<br />
urine too. So as embarrassing as it may seem, a little leakage<br />
when you cough, sneeze, laugh or lift heavy objects isn’t<br />
out of the ordinary. As your body heals, urinary incontinence<br />
should too, usually by the six-week mark.<br />
What to ask your doctor<br />
Your doctor will check your recovery during your postpartum<br />
visit, about six weeks after birth. During this visit, you may<br />
want to inquire or discuss about the following:<br />
• When can you resume normal activities and what are<br />
the limits<br />
• A diet plan that will help keep you healthy and produce<br />
more milk<br />
• How to get back into shape/lose the postpartum<br />
weight safely<br />
• Sex and birth control<br />
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Postpartum thyroid issues<br />
It is not uncommon to develop thyroid issues during the first<br />
year after giving birth. This type of thyroid issue is called<br />
postpartum thyroiditis. It typically begins with an overactive<br />
thyroid, which lasts two to four months, and may be followed<br />
by symptoms of an underactive thyroid, which can last up to<br />
a year.<br />
It’s easy to mistake the symptoms for other postpartum<br />
symptoms such as fatigue, sleep problems, low energy, and<br />
changes in weight. To be safe, talk to your doctor if you have<br />
any such symptoms that prolongs. Some women develop<br />
permanent underactive thyroid disease, called Hashimoto's<br />
disease, and will need to be on permanent treatment.<br />
Losing postpartum weight safely<br />
Going through a pregnancy as well as childbirth will put<br />
your body through some big changes. One of the immediate<br />
effects of childbirth is that you’ll lose about 10 pounds on<br />
the spot, and perhaps a bit more as your body’s fluid level<br />
decreases. Resist rushing to shed off all that extra weight,<br />
especially if you’re breastfeeding your baby, for you body<br />
needs that extra energy that the extra pounds help supply.<br />
With proper diet and exercise, all that extra weight will<br />
eventually be shed and you’ll not compromise your milk<br />
supply or your own health.<br />
If you feel that the weight is taking too long to come off, or<br />
if you feel like you’re adding on the pounds instead of taking<br />
it off, take a look at your diet and/or physical activities, for<br />
these are the possible causes. Cut back on sugary foods and<br />
drinks, and foods that are categorised as simple or processed<br />
carbohydrates such as cakes, cookies and white bread. Overconsumption<br />
of alcohol may also hamper your weight loss<br />
efforts. Focus instead on healthy, well-balanced food choices<br />
that will keep your energy level up and help you get the<br />
nutrients you and your baby need for good health.<br />
Exercise is crucial for your general health and it also helps<br />
to keep postpartum depression, or baby blues, away.<br />
However, do talk to your doctor before you start any type<br />
of exercise plan.<br />
Did you know that breastfeeding burns calories?<br />
If you're nursing, you'll have to take in more calories,<br />
actually, to keep up your milk supply. So, how does this<br />
work, then? Here’s how: Breastfeeding moms burn about<br />
500 calories a day more than those who don't, and we<br />
haven’t even factored in exercises yet. However, do keep<br />
in mind that breastfeeding can cause you to feel hungry<br />
more often, so if you’re not careful, you may actually end<br />
up piling those 500 calories back on! Try downing a glass<br />
of water first the next time you’re hungry, in case it’s just<br />
thirst. In any case, you’ll be half-full and will be less likely<br />
to overeat. At the same time, cut down, or better still, avoid<br />
sugary snacks and deep fried foods as well as sweet, fizzy<br />
drinks. (Check out breastfeeding diet ideas for inspiration<br />
on eating healthy.)<br />
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for New Moms<br />
Breastfeeding diet ideas<br />
What you eat while you’re nursing matters nutritionally, for<br />
it would never do to be lacking of essential nutrients during<br />
this stage of your life. Ideally, you should be getting all of<br />
the essential nutrients from a variety of foods. Continuing<br />
with your prenatal multivitamins is also a good idea while<br />
you’re breastfeeding.<br />
Also, studies have proven that what you eat during nursing<br />
affects the taste of your breastmilk and also, nursing babies<br />
develop a taste for the foods their moms ate while they<br />
were nursing (the same as while they were pregnant). So, if<br />
you’re hoping that your child will grow up loving fruits and<br />
vegetables, now’s the time to chomp down on these foods!<br />
Here’s what you should be aiming for when it comes to<br />
essential nutrients, to ensure you’re getting the nutrients you<br />
need while exposing your baby to the taste for the healthy<br />
stuff as early as possible:<br />
33<br />
Protein: 3 servings<br />
33<br />
Calcium: 5 servings<br />
33<br />
Iron-rich foods: 1 or more servings<br />
33<br />
Vitamin C: 2 servings<br />
33<br />
Green leafy and yellow vegetables/fruits:<br />
3 to 4 servings<br />
33<br />
Other fruits and veggies: 1 or more servings<br />
33<br />
Whole grains and complex carbohydrates:<br />
3 or more servings<br />
33<br />
High-fat foods: Small amounts (you don't need as much<br />
as you did during pregnancy)<br />
33<br />
Omega 3s: 2 to 3 servings per week of wild salmon<br />
and sardines; you can also get omega 3s in DHAenriched<br />
eggs)<br />
Breast engorgement and<br />
discomforts<br />
Colostrum, the thin liquid your breasts produce before your<br />
milk comes in, is low in volume so as not to stress the baby’s<br />
kidneys, yet rich in protein, calories, vitamins and minerals,<br />
as well as high doses of protective antibodies. It provides<br />
everything your baby needs until your milk arrives. When your<br />
milk comes in, which is usually the second or third day after<br />
birth, you may experience swelling and tenderness in your<br />
breasts. This is known as engorgement, and it can be relieved<br />
by frequent and consistent nursing.<br />
If your breasts become very full, your nipples may flatten out,<br />
making it hard for the baby to latch on. Use your fingers to<br />
push in the fluid-filled tissue around the nipple, then express<br />
some milk before latching the baby on. As uncomfortable as<br />
it can get, remember that engorgement does not last long.<br />
In the early weeks, your breasts may also leak when your<br />
baby cries, or when you snuggle up to your partner at night.<br />
However, this will taper off gradually, and is usually much<br />
less noticeable than it feels. Wearing nursing pads and lightcoloured<br />
tops can help to camouflage or disguise most of<br />
the wetness.<br />
Postpartum health issues:<br />
warning signs should you look for<br />
Call your doctor if you experience any of the following:<br />
• Bleeding that’s heavier than your normal menstrual period or that<br />
gets worse<br />
• Discharge, pain or redness that doesn’t go away or gets worse. These could<br />
be from a C-section incision (cut), episiotomy or perineal tear (a tear that<br />
happens between the vagina and rectum)<br />
• Fever higher than 100.4°F<br />
• Pain or burning when you go to the bathroom<br />
• Pain, swelling and tenderness in your legs, especially around your calves<br />
• Red streaks on your breasts or painful lumps in your breast<br />
• Severe pain in your lower belly, feeling sick to your stomach or throwing up<br />
• Vaginal discharge that smells bad<br />
34 BabyTalk | April 2018
The Best Start<br />
for New Moms<br />
Postpartum depression:<br />
Know the signs<br />
Many women will experience feeling sad, confused or<br />
overwhelmed with helplessness for the first few days or<br />
weeks after giving birth. For some women, these feelings may<br />
even start to develop months after giving birth. Fluctuating<br />
hormones are mostly to blame for this, where else not getting<br />
enough rest and worrying too much contributes to worsening<br />
the situation.<br />
Firstly, do know that this should pass and it’s alright to feel<br />
weak and vulnerable at times, or to just cry it all out if you<br />
have too. However, if you find yourself entertaining deep<br />
negative emotions for more than a couple of weeks and<br />
they don’t seem to be subsiding, do seek help quickly —<br />
you do not have to wait for your next visit to your doctor. It<br />
might be a serious but treatable condition called postpartum<br />
depression. Postpartum depression can happen any time<br />
within the first year after birth.<br />
Signs of postpartum depression include:<br />
• Feeling extremely sad and crying a lot<br />
• Feeling restless or irritable<br />
• Feeling weak and tired most of the time<br />
• Not being able to sleep well<br />
• Not being able to eat<br />
• Losing weight too quickly or gaining too much weight<br />
too quickly<br />
• Trouble focusing, remembering, or making decisions<br />
• Being overly worried about the baby<br />
• Not having any interest in the baby<br />
• Feeling unworthy<br />
• Having no interest or getting no pleasure from activities<br />
like sex<br />
• Feeling antisocial<br />
• Thoughts of harming your baby or yourself<br />
The number of women who suffer from postpartum<br />
depression could be much more than what’s been reported<br />
because many women don't tell anyone about their<br />
symptoms. This is probably due to the feeling of guilt about<br />
having bad feelings at a time when they’re supposed to feel<br />
joyous. If you feel you’re one of them, know that you’re not<br />
alone and your condition is treatable! Do not delay in seeking<br />
treatment (talk to your doctor at once!), for postpartum<br />
depression can make it hard for you to care for your baby and<br />
it will ultimately hinder you from enjoying your life as a new<br />
mom to the fullest.<br />
New dads may develop<br />
depression too!<br />
Emerging research suggests that 1 in 10 new fathers<br />
may experience depression during or after pregnancy.<br />
Although more research is needed, having depression<br />
may make it harder to be a good father and perhaps<br />
affect the baby's development. Having depression<br />
may also be related to a mother's depression.<br />
Expecting or new fathers with emotional problems or<br />
symptoms of depression should talk to their doctors.<br />
Depression is a treatable illness.<br />
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The Best Start<br />
for New Moms<br />
You deserve to feel great!<br />
As a new mom, we’re guessing you might not be feeling<br />
your best due to the sheer exhaustion of giving birth. What<br />
we don’t want though, is for you to fall into the state of<br />
believing you can never feel as good as you once did about<br />
your body or looks. So, if you don’t feel your best, and are<br />
losing hope of ever looking and feeling as attractive and<br />
alluring as before, the following tips are for you.<br />
What you should know,<br />
first and foremost<br />
Giving birth is a miracle! If you have been lucky enough to<br />
experience it, feeling thankful will go a long way in your<br />
quest to feel beautiful as a new mom. Thankfulness, as<br />
opposed to discontentment and ungratefulness, is a noble<br />
virtue and carries with it the positive vibes we humans need<br />
to look and feel better in any given situation. So, if you’ve<br />
given birth safely and are busy getting about your day as a<br />
new mom, look and feel much better instantly by feeling<br />
grateful! Once you’ve nailed that, we can help you down to<br />
the business of liking yourself, for what you see in the mirror<br />
and beyond.<br />
Resist the urge to be a diva<br />
There is a really fine line between letting others help you with<br />
stuff you’re genuinely not ready to handle immediately after<br />
giving birth, such as walking the pet or mopping the entire<br />
house, for instance, and, attempting to appear more helpless<br />
than you really are just for attention, sympathy and yes, for<br />
the drama!<br />
People, including your hubby, friends and relatives may<br />
entertain the latter, but it does nothing for your self-esteem<br />
as a new mom, or your natural allure for that matter. Do<br />
ask for help whenever you need it, and be sincere about it.<br />
Remember, a woman is always more attractive when she is<br />
sincere and drama-less, and a new mom is no exception.<br />
of your body is not to make you look fat or overweight,<br />
but to help you feed and nourish your baby. They will, in<br />
time, under normal, healthy conditions and good eating<br />
habits and regular exercise, give way to a more shapely and<br />
becoming figure.<br />
Rapid weight lose at this point will not only jeopardize your<br />
long-term health, but it will also affect your ability to nurse<br />
successfully and comfortably too. In the meantime, here’s<br />
more food for thought: Those stars that seemed to have lost<br />
weight ridiculously fast after having a baby were probably<br />
forced to do so for the sake of their careers, while you have<br />
the luxury of taking your time to ensure that your baby and<br />
you are healthy, happy and thriving.<br />
Being happy is a choice<br />
Yes, you read that right. It really doesn’t matter what<br />
your disposition is, for it’s up to you to either wallow in<br />
discontentment or make the most of it. In regards to this,<br />
have you heard of a beautifully discontented person? Indeed<br />
not, but we have seen beautifully happy ones in various sizes,<br />
colours and walks of life!<br />
Re-evaluate your life as a new mom and do your best to see<br />
the positive side of everything, for that’s where true happiness<br />
exists — in being thankful for what you have.<br />
The point to really keep in mind here is that there is<br />
absolutely no gain in worrying about stuff that you cannot<br />
immediately change, like your weight for the first few months<br />
after birth, or the clothes that won’t fit just yet. While you<br />
may think that how you look on the outside is how others<br />
are judging you, here’s the rub — it’s actually the happy and<br />
cheery attitude of a new mom can set of an inner glow that<br />
just cannot be compared to how fast she has slimmed down<br />
or if she has slimmed down at all.<br />
Forget what you see in the media<br />
The internet and beauty magazines seem to delight in<br />
running stories on how some famous women are able to slip<br />
into their tiny pre-baby jeans or a sexy, revealing outfit in a<br />
matter of days after giving birth. In the meantime, normal<br />
and not-so-famous new moms all over the world start<br />
comparing themselves to these stars and are left feeling fat<br />
and shapeless.<br />
First and foremost, know this: Your body changes for a<br />
reason. All those extra fats stored away in various parts<br />
36 BabyTalk | April 2018
Managing<br />
Nursing<br />
Issues<br />
Nursing, especially for new<br />
moms, can get challenging<br />
at times. Still, no matter<br />
what the nursing issue is,<br />
there will always be a way<br />
to get around it and nurse<br />
your baby successfully.<br />
Here are some sound tips to<br />
keep in mind whenever a<br />
challenge comes your way.<br />
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Managing<br />
Nursing Issues<br />
Engorged breasts<br />
Engorgement makes it difficult for baby<br />
to latch on to the breast because it’s<br />
hard and un-conforming to that tiny<br />
mouth. Try hand-expressing a little milk<br />
before feeding to get it flowing and<br />
soften the breast, making it easier for<br />
baby to latch and nurse. Remember too<br />
that the more you nurse, the less likely<br />
your breasts are to get engorged.<br />
Latching problems<br />
If you are a first-timer, you’re likely to<br />
feel some soreness in the nipple when<br />
you first start to nurse but the pain<br />
should decrease and go away within a<br />
minute or so. If it does not, your baby’s<br />
positioning could be wrong.<br />
Firstly, ensure that baby’s mouth covers<br />
more of the areola below the nipple<br />
rather than above. A correct latch is<br />
when baby’s chin and nose touch your<br />
breast, with lips splayed out and you<br />
can’t see your nipple or part of the<br />
lower areola. If it’s not happening like<br />
so, break the suction for repositioning.<br />
You can do this by placing your index<br />
finger inside baby’s mouth and ease the<br />
little on off and try again.<br />
Sore nipples<br />
Sore and cracked nipples are actually<br />
nothing new in the nursing scene. Many<br />
nursing mothers go through some level<br />
of nipple discomfort at some point or<br />
another during their nursing journey.<br />
This is one area where only nursing<br />
moms who have experienced the<br />
situation can truly understand. It can be<br />
frustrating and downright torturous to<br />
try to feed a hungry baby when your<br />
nipples are sore and throbbing.<br />
Improper latching of a baby’s mouth<br />
on the breasts, prolonged moisture<br />
from sucking and also loss of natural<br />
oils from the skin are all possible causes<br />
of sore and cracked nipples. Damaged<br />
nipples, if left untreated for too long,<br />
may increase the risk of mastitis, which<br />
is an infection of the breast.<br />
A good nipple cream, applied regularly<br />
or as advised by your doctor will help to<br />
heal and ease the discomforts of sore<br />
and dry nipples. Some nipple creams<br />
can also be used to prep nipples up<br />
for nursing and helps to keep nipples<br />
supple and healthy so that they are<br />
less inclined to become damaged due<br />
to nursing. So, ensure you have ample<br />
supply of these creams and be diligent<br />
about using them.<br />
Mastitis<br />
Mastitis is a bacterial infection in your<br />
breasts marked by flu-like symptoms<br />
such as fever and sore breasts. The<br />
condition is most common within the<br />
first few weeks after birth, can be<br />
painful to endure and is caused by<br />
cracked skin, clogged milk ducts, or<br />
engorgement. The best way to treat the<br />
infection is with antibiotics prescribed<br />
by your doctor. Other methods include<br />
hot compresses, and most importantly,<br />
frequent emptying via pumping.<br />
Remember too, that it’s completely safe<br />
to nurse even with mastitis and it’s even<br />
recommended that you do so.<br />
Inverted<br />
/flat nipples<br />
You can tell if you have flat<br />
or inverted nipples by doing a<br />
simple squeeze test: Gently grab<br />
your areola with your thumb<br />
and index finger — if your nipple<br />
retracts rather than protrudes, it<br />
can be concluded that you have<br />
inverted nipples and nursing<br />
could be more challenging. Use<br />
a pump to get the milk flowing<br />
before placing baby at your<br />
nipple and use breast shells<br />
between feeds. Other than that,<br />
try using nipple shields if baby<br />
still has problems latching.<br />
38 BabyTalk | April 2018
Managing<br />
Nursing Issues<br />
Nursing on the go<br />
A nursing mom who is traveling with<br />
her baby will find that she is free from<br />
the trouble of having to scurry around<br />
to prepare formula in a bottle for her<br />
baby. All that she needs to nourish her<br />
baby on demand is being carried with<br />
her at all times. Nevertheless, as the<br />
nature of nursing will have it, issues<br />
such as, aching backs and arms, sore<br />
nipples, leaky breasts and so on will<br />
be present regardless if she is traveling<br />
or not. In regards to this, there are<br />
a handful of essential items that a<br />
traveling nursing mom will find useful<br />
to have with her when she’s on the go<br />
with her suckling baby.<br />
Nursing Pillow<br />
While some might refer to nursing<br />
as an art of nourishing your baby,<br />
we would like to add that it’s also an<br />
art of not hurting your back or neck!<br />
Carrying and nursing a baby, if done in<br />
an uncomfortable position and for too<br />
long, invites physical issues like aches<br />
and pains in the body. Holding your<br />
baby up to your breasts for long periods<br />
of time can put considerable strain on<br />
your back, shoulders and even arms.<br />
That’s the last thing a new mom needs,<br />
especially so if she is away from home<br />
with her baby.<br />
While you may have a favourite nursing<br />
chair which is comfortable for you to<br />
use while at home, it may not be easy<br />
to find a comfy place to sit and nurse<br />
elsewhere. We suggest you keep your<br />
nursing pillow on standby with you at<br />
all times. This comfy, useful item can<br />
be used to prop baby up to the ideal<br />
level to your breast for nursing. It may<br />
not completely omit the need to hold<br />
your baby while feeding, but it does<br />
help lessen the strain quite a bit and<br />
take considerable weight off a nursing<br />
mom's arms. It may also help lessen<br />
strain on the back and shoulders.<br />
Baby can either be placed on your<br />
lap atop a nursing pillow or a nursing<br />
pillow can be strapped around your<br />
waist for that. Different nursing pillows<br />
have different functions, so do think<br />
about what you’re looking for in one<br />
before buying.<br />
Carriers for close comfort<br />
Naturally, there will be a bigger need to<br />
hold or carry your baby more often or<br />
more longer when you are travelling. As<br />
a nursing mom, you will find it helpful<br />
to take along a sling or other soft infant<br />
carrier. Invest in a good one which is<br />
comfortable for both baby and you.<br />
Try not to buy a carrier without first<br />
testing a few models. One that works<br />
for a friend and her baby might not<br />
necessarily work for you and yours.<br />
Investing in a comfortable baby carrier<br />
to use when travelling with your nursing<br />
baby can help:<br />
• Ease the burden of carrying your<br />
baby in your arms for extended<br />
periods of time.<br />
• Increase opportunities for unrestricted<br />
nursing. Nursing as often as possible<br />
is effective in maintaining an<br />
abundant milk supply.<br />
• Maintain skin-to-skin contact with<br />
your baby.<br />
• Protect your baby from possible<br />
hazards.<br />
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Managing<br />
Nursing Issues<br />
Leaky breasts<br />
Ask any lactating mom and they will<br />
surely list leaky breasts as one of the<br />
problems associated with nursing. Leaky<br />
breasts are in no way harmful, except<br />
of course to one’s vanity. Many may<br />
not mind the thought of strategically<br />
placed wet spots on their blouses but<br />
just as many mind that said effect a lot,<br />
especially when in public!<br />
It’s hard to say when milk-engorged<br />
breasts will start to leak, so it’s always<br />
better to be ready for the situation.<br />
One way you can avoid wet patches on<br />
your clothing is by using nursing pads,<br />
also known as breasts pads. These can<br />
be used with any nursing bras or even<br />
ordinary bras. Nursing pads are normally<br />
almost invisible under a bra. They are<br />
made absorbent enough to soak up<br />
leaks from lactating breasts.<br />
It’s always a good idea to include a<br />
few pairs of these pads in your nursing<br />
bag when you’re on the go, for you<br />
will never know when you’re going to<br />
need them or when you might have to<br />
change the ones you have on.<br />
Note: Nursing pads are available in<br />
reusable and disposable varieties.<br />
Nursing Wear<br />
Nursing wear will make your life<br />
simpler, especially for moms on the go.<br />
With so many styles available these<br />
days, it would not be a problem to find<br />
some flattering pieces that will suit<br />
your preference.<br />
Nipple Shields<br />
Another product nursing moms will<br />
find helpful for sore nipples is the<br />
nipple shield. These shields are made<br />
of soft silicone that acts like a second<br />
skin for sore and cracked nipples,<br />
allowing baby to latch on easily<br />
without causing additional distress to<br />
already aching nipples.<br />
Nursing tops<br />
A fine quality nursing top with<br />
strategic openings can turn out to<br />
be a nursing mom's best friend while<br />
traveling. Having said that, it wouldn’t<br />
hurt to have a few best friends from<br />
this category, from different styles,<br />
cuts, colors, etc. When choosing a<br />
nursing top, it will be best to try it on<br />
to see if the style and cut does justice<br />
to your figure.<br />
Do not forget the fact of all the possible<br />
awkward positions you might find<br />
yourself in while nursing your baby in<br />
public. A good nursing top should allow<br />
easy access to your breast from various<br />
positions while still retaining a certain<br />
discreteness to it.<br />
Comfort is not something you want to<br />
compromise while nursing, especially if<br />
you have to nurse openly. Do not wear<br />
anything which you think is going to<br />
make you feel uncomfortable while<br />
nursing, no matter how stylish it is. At<br />
the end of the day, it is far from stylish to<br />
look and feel agitated because your top<br />
keeps riding up or because of any other<br />
wardrobe dysfunction while nursing.<br />
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Managing<br />
Nursing Issues<br />
Nursing bras<br />
It’s crucial that you get a suitable,<br />
comfortable and supportive bra the<br />
fits! Choose those which cups can<br />
open and close easily, for little one to<br />
nurse comfortably (and for you to feel<br />
comfortable too!). It’s essential that the<br />
bra is supportive but not constrictive<br />
as this can cause medical problems like<br />
mastitis or blocked ducts.<br />
Nursing covers<br />
If you are conscious about the public<br />
eye while nursing, consider a nursing<br />
poncho. They are also called nursing<br />
aprons or covers. This is basically a light<br />
‘blanket’ which you can use to keep<br />
your nursing, literally, “under cover”.<br />
Nursing ponchos are actually all the<br />
rage nowadays and they come in many<br />
styles and patterns to choose from.<br />
Some are worn in a basic shawl-like<br />
manner, lightly wrapping the wearer<br />
and her nursing bundle of joy under its<br />
light, soft fabric. Others work like an<br />
apron or a big bib.<br />
One thing for sure — One will never<br />
run out of stylish patterns to choose<br />
from for the variety available in the<br />
Discreet<br />
is the word<br />
Everything from lingerie<br />
to clothing are now made<br />
convenient for nursing moms<br />
so that nursing in public<br />
no longer needs to be an<br />
impossible mission. Nursing<br />
wear with strategic openings<br />
make nursing easy without<br />
having to get half naked,<br />
while nursing covers, aprons<br />
or ponchos makes nursing<br />
one’s baby a private affair,<br />
away from curious glances.<br />
market is impressive! This nursing item<br />
is indeed right up there, competing<br />
with the diaper bag as a nursing mom’s<br />
fashion accessory!<br />
Diaper/nursing bags<br />
It goes without saying that a nursing<br />
mom on the go is going to need to<br />
carry all her essential stuff with her.<br />
Behold the nursing bag, sometimes also<br />
known as the diaper bag. Whatever you<br />
wish to call it, no nursing mom should<br />
be without one, even more so if she is<br />
traveling with her baby. It would never<br />
do to be digging into her luggage bag<br />
for her baby's diaper, etc.<br />
Some moms might find it quite a<br />
dilemma to decide on whether or<br />
not to carry a separate handbag for<br />
all personal, non-nursing needs. The<br />
manufacturers of nursing/diaper bags<br />
are as usual, a step ahead of this<br />
situation! Hence now, we have nursing<br />
bags which are so stylish, no one will<br />
ever know what they really are till<br />
mommy reaches in and pulls out a<br />
nursing cover or poncho!<br />
When choosing a nursing bag, probably<br />
the most essential feature(s) will be<br />
compartments. In a nursing bag, the<br />
more the better!<br />
The functionality of your bag should<br />
also be taken into consideration. Would<br />
you like to tote it around or sling it<br />
on one shoulder in a messenger bag<br />
fashion? How would you like to reach<br />
into your bag? An ideal bag will allow<br />
you easy access to all essential stuff<br />
without having to dig around or worse,<br />
having to empty half the contents of<br />
your bag to find an item!<br />
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Life & Style<br />
Home Proud<br />
7 household<br />
cleaning tools<br />
every mom<br />
should have<br />
Wouldn’t it be wonderful to<br />
own a self-cleaning house?<br />
Well, till that day comes, we’ll<br />
just have to do it ourselves,<br />
don’t we? What do you<br />
think it would take to make<br />
house-cleaning a breeze to<br />
housewives? Read on…<br />
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Life & Style<br />
Home Proud<br />
Keeping a home means there’s floors to sweep,<br />
windows to wash, toilets to keep clean, etc… etc...<br />
etc… A clean home is what every housewife wants,<br />
yet most of us dread getting down and dirty to get<br />
the job done. It’s either a really boring routine of sweeping,<br />
mopping, vacuuming, wiping, etc, or a really tiring one.<br />
Would the right tools help make cleaning house a little more<br />
bearable? We say it will, especially if it simplifies the job.<br />
Here, we’ve gathered a few of the top tools we think will<br />
make a difference in the task of keeping a clean house.<br />
A good vacuum cleaner<br />
Most households either use this machine or have it lying<br />
around the house somewhere. Although named a vacuum<br />
cleaner, there is no real vacuuming action going on, but<br />
rather, a very strong suction power that lifts off dirt and dust<br />
from floors, carpets and upholsteries and deposits them<br />
into a bag or bin. There are literally dozens of brands in the<br />
market and they come in many styles too.<br />
We like:<br />
Samsung Anti-Tangle Turbine<br />
Vacuum Cleaner<br />
Designed to suck up and not clog up, this powerful<br />
bagless machine from Samsung, the Anti-Tangle<br />
Turbine Vacuum Cleaner, is every household’s<br />
dream come true. Powered by the brands<br />
powerful Cyclone Force and an innovative<br />
pick-up brush, it picks up dust, dirt and hair from<br />
any surface, smooth or otherwise, and blasts<br />
them out the edge of its unique double air-flow<br />
Anti-Tangle turbine fan. This keeps the suction<br />
power consistent, prevents clogging throughout<br />
your vacuuming, and makes tangled hair in the<br />
machinery — from the brush bar to the turbine<br />
fan shaft, a thing of the past. No more wasting<br />
time on trying to remove hairs from the machine<br />
after removing them from the floor!<br />
Hand-held Broom & Dustpan Set<br />
When you have little ones at home, the possibilities are high<br />
that you’ll be cleaning up many, many times a day. If it isn’t<br />
a wet mess, and it isn’t a major one, then this is one set of<br />
cleaning tool you should have handy at home. It’s useful for<br />
sweeping up little bits of food, dirt and even dust on table<br />
tops, kitchen counters and any other dry surfaces as you go<br />
about your day. If you live in a big home, you’d probably need<br />
more than one set, placed at strategic, easy-to-reach places<br />
for a quick mini sweep-up.<br />
Spray mop<br />
Why work with a bucket and conventional mop<br />
when you can use a spray mop? It's no sweat,<br />
really, even if you dislike mopping, for it does<br />
away with the use of a bucket. (And filling up<br />
that bucket with water, lugging it around,<br />
squeezing the mop every now and then, etc.)<br />
A starter kit comprises of a mop, a bottle for<br />
filling up with water and cleaning liquid and<br />
a few mop pads. These pads are usually<br />
disposable after a few uses. Some come<br />
with different mop pads for different<br />
surfaces. They attach to the mop head<br />
with velcro, and cleaning solution<br />
sprays onto the floor using a button on<br />
the handle. A spray mop should<br />
definitely be in the list of cleaning<br />
tools to own if you love to clean<br />
house. It’s the easiest way to<br />
keep your floors clean!<br />
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Life & Style<br />
Home Proud<br />
You might like: Magic erasers<br />
These resemble oversized school erasers and they’ve<br />
been making waves in the market as dependable<br />
solutions to stubborn household stains which used to be<br />
impossible to remove before. Think crayon on the walls,<br />
or even food stains on the floor. With just a little water,<br />
your magic eraser can magically erase away just about<br />
any stain. Caution though, for it should not be used on<br />
painted, polished or easily ruined surfaces. Test your<br />
eraser on an unnoticeable spot first before using it.<br />
Dust mop<br />
Make way, o broom, for here comes the more modern<br />
household sweeper, namely, the dust mop! These versatile<br />
long-handles tools resemble dusters on a handle, only you<br />
use them to sweep up dry dirt and dust from the floors. A<br />
dust mop can also be used to dust high spots of the house, if<br />
you know how to use it properly.<br />
Also known as a dry mop, a dust mop is usually made of<br />
microfiber material to attract and hold onto dust. Dust mop<br />
heads are usually fairly flat and are frequently removable so<br />
that they can be washed and used again. These cleaning tools<br />
feature adjustable handles with extensions that allow the dust<br />
mop to be used to reach high ceiling corners and other out of<br />
reach places. They are quite easy to maintain, where the mop<br />
heads can be shaken or vacuumed cleaned. Note: It’s perhaps<br />
best to clean it outside the house or on your balcony, if you<br />
live in an apartment.<br />
Hand squeegee<br />
Here’s a nifty little item that can help keep surfaces in your<br />
bathrooms, especially, dry and clean. It’s usually made of<br />
Neoprene, a synthetic rubber compound, or Neoprene, which<br />
is slightly more expensive. Using a squeegee may take a little<br />
practice at first, but once you get a grip on it, so to speak,<br />
you’ll find it easy to use to remove water from your bathroom<br />
surfaces and keep them dry. There is also a floor version,<br />
which is bigger and of course, comes with a longer handle.<br />
It works quite the same as the hand-held one, just that it<br />
removes water from the surface of the floor.<br />
Microfiber cleaning cloths<br />
If you’re wondering what is the difference between a<br />
microfibre cleaning cloth and a normal kitchen rag, here’s<br />
your answer — An ordinary kitchen rag has fibers made of<br />
cotton or other material which have really big fibers. Where<br />
else, a microfiber cloth has far more fibers and they're much<br />
smaller. Hence, since many hands makes the job easier, or<br />
lighter, so do many micro-fibers!<br />
Microfibers are able to attach themselves to even the<br />
smallest, most microscopic dirt particles — ones that normal<br />
cloth fibers (positively giant in comparison) crudely brush<br />
past. If forces were visible, you'd be able to see that there are<br />
adhesive forces between microfibers and dirt. That's why dirt,<br />
dust, and other stuff can be "hoovered up" by microfiber<br />
cloths. And it's also why you have to clean microfiber cloths<br />
so very thoroughly after you've used them.<br />
44 BabyTalk | April 2018
Life & Style<br />
Love For Life<br />
Keeping baby’s nursery<br />
clean and tidy<br />
Setting up a nursery is one thing, but keeping it neat and tidy takes some skills, we say. Take<br />
care that your baby’s nursery does not end up messy and disorganised!<br />
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Life & Style<br />
Love For Life<br />
A place for<br />
everything<br />
Place everything your baby’s nursery<br />
into categories. This will be made even<br />
easier by designating ‘zones’ in the<br />
room — Baby’s sleeping zone; nursing<br />
zone; changing zone, etc. Another<br />
great tip to keep in mind is to consider<br />
how you’ll be using the stuff in the<br />
nursery. For example, your breast pump<br />
should be by the nursing chair, where<br />
else baby’s diapers and clothes, for<br />
example, should be well-arranged either<br />
at the changing table if you have one,<br />
or at any other changing area.<br />
Tip: Don’t overdo on baby essentials —<br />
While it’s nice to stock up on essentials<br />
so that you’ll never be low on anything,<br />
you can’t possibly benefit from an<br />
overstock of baby clothes or even<br />
diapers, for that matter.<br />
Ease up on the<br />
upholstery<br />
This is to prevent the accumulation of<br />
dust mites, which is one of the main<br />
culprits of allergic reactions in babies<br />
and toddlers. While total eradication of<br />
dust mites is impossible, limiting dust<br />
will greatly limit their proliferation.<br />
Fabric wall hangings, carpets, curtains,<br />
and drapes are all pleasing to the eye<br />
and lend visual appeal to a baby’s<br />
nursery, but they are still common dustattractors<br />
and should be either omitted<br />
or included in moderation in your<br />
baby’s nursery.<br />
Check those cleaning<br />
products<br />
When shopping for cleaning products,<br />
look for those free from ammonia,<br />
chlorine, and fragrance. These are some<br />
of the harsh ingredients in cleaning<br />
products that are known to provoke<br />
respiratory distress and skin irritation<br />
in children. Cleaning products labeled<br />
“non toxic if inhaled or ingested”,<br />
“biodegradable” or “plant-based” will<br />
likely be gentler and safer than those<br />
with generic terms on their labels.<br />
Have you used<br />
that lately?<br />
Regularly sift through your baby’s<br />
things and identify what you don’t<br />
Germs alert!<br />
You might not have given the soft pad<br />
covers of your child’s changing table<br />
much thought, but due to the nature<br />
of its use, it’s an ideal place for germs<br />
to accumulate. Launder it frequently<br />
to prevent germs from spreading.<br />
need. Keep in mind that not everything<br />
is worth saving. If an item is ripped or<br />
stained, toss it. If your storage space<br />
is limited,or you don’t plan to have<br />
another child soon, be discerning about<br />
what you keep.<br />
If you plan to have more kids soon,<br />
it’s fine to keep clothes for handme-downs.<br />
Just don’t let them stay<br />
in drawers taking up space, though.<br />
Instead, place them in sealed boxes to<br />
be stored away till needed.<br />
Keep less, worry less<br />
It’s no rocket science, this one! One<br />
one hand, you have a nursery full of<br />
furniture and stuff to check out other<br />
than your adorable baby, and keeping<br />
the place clean and organised is quite<br />
a challenge. On the other, you have a<br />
nursery with just the stuff you need,<br />
uncomplicated in design, and it’s way<br />
easier to keep the nursery neat, clean<br />
and organised.<br />
Vacuum regularly<br />
It may not be anyone’s favourite chore, but regular vacuuming will keep<br />
your baby’s nursery as dust-free as possible. This is especially so if you<br />
happen to have carpeting or upholstery in your baby’s nursery.<br />
Use labels!<br />
When you label drawers, containers<br />
and bins, it not only shows that you’re<br />
a no-nonsense housekeeper, but it<br />
also acts an an instant indicator of<br />
where everything should go. In a<br />
way, it also prevents well-meaning<br />
relatives or friends from inadvertently<br />
re-arranging your baby’s stuff while<br />
helping in the nursery.<br />
46 BabyTalk | April 2018
Life & Style<br />
Shopping<br />
Let’s Talk About<br />
Baby Wipes<br />
What would parents do without the convenience of baby wipes, really? It has to be one of<br />
the most thoughtful inventions that take the edge of diaper changing clean-ups and other<br />
messes little ones make throughout the day!<br />
However, it’s interesting to note that these<br />
indispensable wipes have a rather interesting story<br />
behind them for their first emerged in the scene<br />
during the 50’s as society back then started to see a<br />
need for better ways to clean up while on the go. It wasn’t all<br />
that easy or convenient for them just yet though for they had<br />
the idea of it but the convenience factor wasn’t quite there<br />
yet, with basically pre-moistened sheets of cloths folded and<br />
placed in containers to be used when needed.<br />
In 1957, a man named Arthur Julius spent $5,000 to acquire<br />
and adapt a machine that had been designed to portion<br />
soups, placing it in a loft in Manhattan. A year later, he had<br />
trademarked the name Wet-Nap. While the Wet-Nap seems<br />
like an inevitable innovation to the restaurant table-scape,<br />
Julius’ inspiration came from the boudoir, not from the<br />
kitchen. It was in his work in the cosmetics industry that Julius<br />
came across what was the very first pre-moistened wipe. The<br />
wipe was considered a “real opportunity” in the world of<br />
cosmetics — and for hygiene more generally. But ultimately,<br />
the wet wipe did more, changing the course of his business<br />
forever.<br />
The now commonly referred-to “Baby wipes” however didn’t<br />
hit store shelves until the early-90’s and were produced by<br />
Kimberly-Clark and Procter & Gamble, the big fish in the<br />
industry. With Baby Wipes on every grocery and pharmacy<br />
shelf, uses evolved beyond babies and their bottoms to a<br />
market now where there seems to be a wipe for every body<br />
part and every surface you can think of. When they were first<br />
produced though, you could still smell the alcohol content on<br />
these wipes. Today however, baby wipes have come a long<br />
way, evolving into safe, gentle, mostly alcohol-free wipes that<br />
make clean ups a convenient, quick and worry-free tasks.<br />
Various packaging<br />
Modern baby wipes come in all sorts of<br />
packaging these days — from the famous pop-up<br />
packs, to canisters to pouches. These in turn can<br />
be bought in various sizes too, depending on your<br />
usage and storage plans.<br />
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Life & Style<br />
Shopping<br />
What’s in the market<br />
BabyOrganix Naturally Kinder Wet Tissue<br />
ChuChuBaby hand & Mouth Wipes<br />
What we like about it:<br />
A revolutionary breakthrough in wet tissues, this<br />
product is safe and convenient for clean-ups of messy<br />
hands, faces and mouths, which are synonymous with<br />
little children. It’s even safe enough to wipe fruits with<br />
before consumption!<br />
What we like about it:<br />
An excellent Japanese made product ideal for babies<br />
and children. Alcohol and fragrance free, it will not<br />
irritate delicate skin. Made from thick but soft mesh<br />
that makes cleaning up a breeze. Contains peach leaf<br />
extracts for gentle moisturising effect.<br />
Pigeon Baby Wipes Moisturizing Cloths<br />
Natural Organics Original Baby Wipes<br />
What we like about it:<br />
This award winning product has a unique lattice weave<br />
fabric designed to catch even the most watery stools<br />
during diaper changes. Each wipe is saturated with<br />
gentle cleansing ingredients hat leave baby’s skin clean<br />
and healthy. It is also alcohol-free and has been put<br />
through a Microbiological Test to ensure that it’s free<br />
from bacteria as well. The packaging features a One<br />
Hand System makes it easier to use and ensures only a<br />
single wipe pops up every time without sheets of wipes<br />
sticking together, preventing wastage too.<br />
What we like about it:<br />
Natural Organics Original Baby Wipes can even be used<br />
without worry on newborn skin which is delicate and<br />
rash-prone. Natural Organics Original Baby Wipes is<br />
99.9% antibacterial certified, does not mold easily and<br />
uses pure natural water for its moistened wipes. It will<br />
not cause harmful side effects when used regularly,<br />
even during regular nappy changes. This safe, high<br />
quality wipes are useful and safe for cleaning messy<br />
hands and mouths as well as for quick cleaning of<br />
baby’s feeding utensils when on the go.<br />
48 BabyTalk | April 2018
Life & Style<br />
Mini Feature<br />
Have Kids, Have Art!<br />
Appreciating Your Child’s Artwork<br />
Once your toddler masters the art of holding a pencil or<br />
crayon or pen, there will probably be no stopping the pile-up<br />
of cute little scribbles and doodles. The fact is, kids, even as<br />
young as one year old and art, are like two peas in a pod.<br />
Whether they are colorful doodles, non-sensical scribbles,<br />
unfathomable drawings or messy finger paintings, there’s a<br />
big chance that every parent of toddlers has at least a dozen,<br />
if not shoe-boxes full of art-pieces done by their budding little<br />
Piccasos or O’Keefes.<br />
In most families, little ones’ art pieces are proudly displayed<br />
in the kitchen art gallery, aka the refridgerator. The trouble<br />
is, there is only so much space on a refrigerator, even if you<br />
count both the sides as gallery space. Needless to say, many<br />
artworks are relunctantly discarded into the wastepaper<br />
basket. Otherwise, they are kept away in a box, but no one<br />
knows why, for after that, they are rarely to be seen again.<br />
That’s a pity, isn’t it?<br />
Your child’s works of art are an expression of who he or she is<br />
and an explosion of their unique personality.<br />
Sometimes your little one’s art tells of deeply hidden thoughts<br />
and aspirations, especially if your child is not verbally expressive.<br />
Any kind of art done by a child is a measure of development<br />
and emotional wellness. If you take a moment to reflect on a<br />
piece of art doodled, sketched or painted by a child, you will<br />
see the beauty of its simplicity and spontaneity. No matter<br />
what the subject or what it depicts, a child’s art comes from<br />
the heart and normally the only expectation a child has for<br />
the artwork is appreciation from loved ones.<br />
So... do you have boxes full of little artworks stashed away<br />
somewhere in the house? Bring them out and display them<br />
with love!<br />
\ Frame them! You can either purchase some really nicelooking<br />
frames from a retail store or get some unfinished<br />
frames from an arts and craft store. With these DIY<br />
frames, you and your little artist can also embark in a<br />
decorating project together. In the end, don’t forget to<br />
include the little one’s details on a bottom corner of the<br />
framed art piece.<br />
\ Your child’s bedroom door is an excellent area to display<br />
his art pieces. You could either tape it up neatly or attach<br />
some string or yarn to a dowel rod where little artworks<br />
can be nicely showcased.<br />
\ Make a feature wall for the purpose of art display. You can<br />
put them up directly on the wall. Alternatively, you can put<br />
up a bulletin board on the wall instead and the art pieces<br />
can go on this board. For more impact, the board should<br />
be of a contrasting color. You can attach your child’s art<br />
pieces on the bulletin board and keep changing them now<br />
and again.<br />
\ Clothesline art! Install a mount-on-wall clothesline and peg<br />
up your child’s works of art in an artsy, unique fashion!<br />
Alternatively, you can also use a curtain rod for the same<br />
purpose. Art pieces may be switched or changed ever so<br />
often and even be displayed according to theme.<br />
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Life & Style<br />
Out & About<br />
KidZania launches Be A Star<br />
Petaling Jaya, 6 March 2018 — It’s great being a kid because kids are naturally exuberant and<br />
full of potential. Most importantly, every kid is gifted in their own way — all it takes for them to<br />
shine is the opportunity to exercise their rights! This March, ‘Be a Star at KidZania Kuala Lumpur’,<br />
which runs from 17th March till 8th April 2018, celebrates children’s rights through music,<br />
acting, modelling and the use of technology in each of these areas.<br />
Bringing these rights to life are the RightZKeepers of KidZania Kuala Lumpur — Urbano (Right to<br />
Know); Beebop (Right to Create); Chika (Right to Share); Vita (Right to Care); and Bache (Right<br />
to Play).<br />
“There is no better way to communicate children’s rights than through — performing arts,” said Shahrul Nizar Ahmad, Mayor of<br />
KidZania Kuala Lumpur. “The ‘Be a Star at KidZania Kuala Lumpur’ programme is aimed at inspiring awareness of children’s rights<br />
by allowing kids to experience and explore what it’s like to create, play, know, care, and share in exciting ways! Apart from that, the<br />
arts is an important avenue for improving confidence and communications skills. These are valuable life skills which will serve them<br />
well as adults, supporting our philosophy to help children ‘Learn Life Today’.” For more information about activities and events at<br />
KidZania Kuala Lumpur, visit www.kidzania.com.my or www.facebook.com/KidZaniaKualaLumpur, or call the KidZania Careline<br />
1300 88 KIDZ (5439) from 9.00 am to 8.00 pm, Monday to Sunday.<br />
WAO: Set Timeline for Gender Equality Act<br />
Women’s Aid Organisation (WAO) urges the government to set a timeline for the Gender<br />
Equality Act, which would protect women from gender discrimination. “The government<br />
must set a timeline for tabling the Gender Equality Act in Parliament. We want a firm<br />
commitment, and not just mere words,” says Meera Samanther, Vice-President of WAO.<br />
In November 2016, Y.B. Dato' Sri Hajjah Rohani Abdul Karim, Minister of Women, Family<br />
and Community Development announced in Parliament that her ministry is working on a<br />
Gender Equality Act. “WAO and the Joint Action Group for Gender Equality (JAG) have been<br />
working with the government to draft the Gender Equality Act. We now want to know<br />
what are the next steps — and when will they happen,” adds Meera. “We need the Gender Equality Act because women in the private<br />
sector are currently not protected from gender discrimination.”<br />
“When women get discriminated at work, they have few or no options for redress at all. Many suffer in silence, leave their jobs, or are<br />
told to leave. The Gender Equality Act would change this. The act should not only prohibit gender discrimination, but also ensure that<br />
women who experience discrimination can easily get justice — without having to go through a lengthy, tiring, and costly process.”<br />
“Malaysia also has an international obligation to enact the Gender Equality Act. The act is key to fulfilling gender equality in Malaysia.”<br />
she added.<br />
Urgency in raising awareness of kidney disease<br />
Kuala Lumpur, 8 March 2018 — In conjunction of World Kidney Day (WKD) 2018, National Kidney<br />
Foundation of Malaysia’s (NKF) Open Day took place at the NKF — BERJAYA Resource Centre. The day’s<br />
programme kicked off with a Bollywood Fitness Dance instructed by Mr Kirenjit Singh, the Bhangra<br />
Dance Master who was formerly a Fitness Manager for Celebrity Fitness. Free health screening was<br />
provided for public to keep track of their blood pressure, blood glucose, blood cholesterol level with<br />
counselling given by NKF’s health professionals. An organ donation booth was set up to encourage<br />
the public to pledge to donate their organs, which will go a long way in lending a new lease of life for<br />
people in dire need for organ transplants, including kidney transplants.<br />
“In Malaysia, there is an increase of 6,000 new cases of patients who are diagnosed with kidney failure every year. This clearly<br />
indicates that there is an urgent need to increase public awareness on personal health, especially on diseases related to end stage<br />
renal disease (ESRD),” said Chua Hong Wee, CEO of NKF. “Celebrated globally on the second Thursday in March, this year’s World<br />
Kidney Day coincides with International Women’s Day. As such, we would like to raise awareness of preventive measures in avoiding<br />
kidney disease, especially in women,” he added.<br />
A health talk on the importance of annual medical check-up was conducted by Mr Nizam bin Yusof, Consultancy Manager of Medi<br />
Diastika Sdn Bhd to encourage members of public to take charge of their own health, as determining of bodily functions can help<br />
to identify any abnormalities or disease before they can worsen, display symptoms, and pose a significant risk. For more information<br />
on these and future NKF activities or to donate towards the organisation’s efforts, please visit http://www.nkf.org.my or call<br />
03-7954 9<strong>04</strong>8.<br />
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