Fertility Road Magazine 46 - September/October 2018
The latest issue of Fertility Road Magzine brings you our latest Fertility Journeys update, a closer look at stress and infertility, natural approaches to endometriosis and a how your weight can affect your chances of getting pregnant plus lots, lots more.
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Contents
LEGAL
08 EGG FREEZING
Is it a fertility insurance policy?
BODY
MIND
22 STRESS & FERTILITY
The infertility roller coaster can
be a stressful journey.
26 One secret you need
to know to shift your
fertility energy
HINT... It takes more than
positive thoughts.
FERTILITY
JOURNEYS
38 IVF SPAIN
Claire & David discuss their
recent visit and embryo transfer.
40 REDIA IVF & MEDITERRANEAN
FERTILITY INSTITUTE
Meet Kirstie & Christopher
who are preparing for their visit
to Greece.
42 OREGON REPRODUCTIVE
MEDICINE
Heather & Brandon are starting
their their third trimester of
Heather’s pregnancy.
FERTILITY
360
44 THE VALUE OF SUCCESS RATES
Understand success rates and
help keep your surrogacy
journey on track.
56 ITS ME OR THE BABY
The struggle to start a family
can put a strain on the best of
relationships.
10 FOOD PORN
Do men need to be aware of what
they are eating?
14 NATURAL APPROACHES TO
ENDOMETRIOSIS
With endometriosis affecting 10-
15% of women can a more natural
approach help?
30 THE EMOTIONAL STRAIN OF
TRYING TO GET PREGNANT
Why reducing stress levels can
have a positive outcome for you.
34 CONCEIVE PLUS
MEN ONLY
60 SUPPORTING EACH OTHER
THROUGH INFERTILITY
Some helpful advice for men on
supporting their partner.
18 WHY WEIGHT CAN MATTER
Being over or underweight can
affect your chances of getting
pregnant.
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Contributors
The people who made this issue happen…
Michelle Mulliss BSc (Hons)
MBAcC
Michelle specialises in natural and
assisted fertility and provides a unique
approach of integrated medicine.
Liz Bottrill
Liz Bottrill is a Partner in the Family
Law Team at Laytons Solicitors with
over 25 years’ experience in the
field. She has a particular interest
and expertise in the law relating to
children and fertility.
Cassie Everett
Cassie has practised Homeopathy
for the last 11 years, first in London
and now in Bristol.
Bryan Woodward
Bryan is co-editor of the book
‘Male Infertility: Sperm Diagnosis,
Management and Delivery’ which
covers all aspect of male fertility for
professionals and patients.
Colette Assor
Colette is a fertility acupuncturist
with 20 years clinical experience.
A’ndrea Reiter
A’ndrea is a Reiki Master and
Holistic Fertility Specialist.
Sarah Banks
Sarah is a Fertility coach and
mentor who works with fertility
professionals to enhance their
patient experience and success rates.
Dr Jodie Peacock ND
Jodie is a Naturopathic doctor
in Canada who runs the online
program, Enhance Fertility
Bootcamp.
Craig Reisser
Craig is a father through donor egg
surrogacy and IVF. Craig works with
Oregon Reproductive Medicine,
the clinic that helped him become a
father, to help other intended parents
building their families.
Kathy Payne
Kathy is a women’s health coach
online and in Norwich UK, offering
bespoke programmes for women
and couples, as well as online classes
and courses.
Russell Davis
Russell is a fertility coach
supporting couples on their journey.
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FERTILITY APP NATURAL
CYCLES HAS BEEN TOLD TO
STOP CLAIMING IT IS A ‘HIGHLY
ACCURATE’ CONTRACEPTIVE
THE APP CLAIMS TO SHOW YOU WHEN YOU CAN HAVE
SEX *WITHOUT* GETTING PREGNANT BUT THERE’S
CONTROVERSY OVER ITS EFFECTIVENESS.
Natural Cycles, the fertility app, will no longer
be allowed to claim it is a "highly accurate" and
"clinically tested alternative to birth control"
by the Advertising Standards Authority (ASA).
The ASA has banned a Facebook ad which
made the claims on the grounds they were
“misleading” and has told Natural Cycles not to
repeat them.
The ASA received three complaints about the
ad, which was shown in July 2017 and read:
“Natural Cycles is a highly accurate, certified,
contraceptive app that adapts to every woman’s
unique menstrual cycle. Sign up to get to know
your body and prevent pregnancies naturally.”
It also claimed the app was a “clinically tested
alternative to birth control methods”.
Natural Cycles said the claims were based
on clinical studies. It said when a person
used the app exactly as instructed it had 99%
effectiveness. But the ASA pointed out that the
app requires users to input accurate information
including hormone levels – which could lead
to errors – and said that taking into account
“imperfect” use of the app brought it to around
91.7% effectiveness in preventing pregnancy.
While some feel it has revolutionised
contraception by freeing women from needing
to take hormonal contraception, there have
been widely-reported concerns over the
accuracy of the app. In Stockholm, 37 women
reportedly fell pregnant while using it.
“We told Natural Cycles not to state or imply
that the app was a highly accurate method
of contraception and to take care not to
exaggerate the efficacy of the app in preventing
pregnancies,” the ASA said.
The Family Planning Association also expressed
concerns about the app. A spokeswoman said:
“The use of the word ‘certified’ suggests that
there is independent evidence supporting these
claims, whereas in fact the only evidence is
from the company itself. It has amassed a vast
database, which is very interesting, but that is
not the same as verified independent evidence.
“Many other apps focus on getting to know your own
body, but Natural Cycles is specifically targeting itself
as a contraceptive, which is concerning.”
Bekki Burbidge, Deputy Chief Executive at FPA
aded that while apps are incredibly popular,
they’re also “fairly unregulated” and it can be
hard “to sort the good, evidence and researchbased
apps from the bad”.
She said: “Fertility apps can be particularly
helpful for planning a pregnancy, but we’re
still cautious about using them to prevent
a pregnancy without initial support from a
trained fertility awareness teacher. A teacher
can support you while you learn to track your
cycle and can help you understand the things
that can make fertility awareness less effective.
Things like travel, alcohol, stress or just not
having enough sleep, can all affect temperature
readings for apps like Natural Cycles.
“At the moment there’s not enough
independent evidence available about the
reliability and effectiveness of apps. To use
fertility awareness as effective contraception,
whether you’re using an app or not, you need
to be motivated and understand the advantages
and disadvantages, especially the things that
can make it less effective.”
“Natural Cycles has been independently evaluated
and cleared by regulators in Europe and the US
based on clinical evidence demonstrating its
effectiveness as a method of contraception.”
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Many people who find themselves in the fertility
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The guide is extremely comprehensive and
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In the world of fertility information which is
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LEGAL
EXPERT: Liz Bottrill
EGG FREEZING:
IS IT A FERTILITY INSURANCE POLICY?
"Should I freeze my eggs" is a question many
women consider and for many different
reasons. Perhaps they have not found the right
partner or they are at a particular stage in
their life when they are simply not ready for
a child, but at the same time, do not wish to
miss the opportunity of producing and storing
eggs before their biological clock gets the best
of them, or before the quality of their eggs
degrade making it harder to become pregnant
in the future.
With many clinics offering egg freezing to
their patients, the procedure has transformed
from one only undertaken if there is a medical
need (perhaps before embarking on a course
of treatment which is likely to affect fertility)
to what has been termed by some as a fertility
‘insurance policy’ allowing women the
opportunity to take steps now in an attempt to
preserve their fertility just in case they are unable
to produce viable eggs in the future. However, the
value of that ‘insurance policy’ continues to be
a matter for debate with wildly varying quoted
success rates, which remain relatively low, and at
a not unsubstantial cost. Yet many take the view
that a backup plan is better than nothing at all,
even if it offers no guarantees.
However, the decision to freeze is only the first
of many decisions to be taken which can have
significant consequences in the future. For
example, should the egg be frozen on its own, or
should it be frozen as a fertilised embryo? The
embryo is thought to be more robust than the egg
increasing the prospects that it would survive the
freezing process but comes with less flexibility
to meet changes in the woman’s circumstances.
The genetic makeup of an embryo is set by the
choice of sperm used to create it (whether known
or through anonymous donor sperm) and cannot
be changed if, for example, the woman meets a
new partner before she is ready to have children.
Furthermore, if a woman and her partner
separate before the embryo is implanted and the
partner withdraws his consent for the embryo to
be stored or used, it may have to be destroyed.
The decision of when to freeze the eggs is also
an important one. From a medical perspective,
the advice seems to be to freeze early on rather
than waiting till you are in your mid to late 30s
and 40s and using egg freezing as a last-ditch
attempt to preserve fertility. Whilst this may
well be sound medical advice, there can be legal
ramifications. That is because in the UK, it is
only possible to store eggs for a maximum of 10
years after which they must be destroyed. The
only exception to that rule is if the woman, or
in the case of freezing embryos, her partner, are
or are likely to become prematurely infertile. In
that case, if the correct steps are taken before the
10 year time limit expires, the time for storage
can be extended.
The choices that freezing offers are undoubtedly
beneficial – but in making decisions about what
and when to freeze guidance should be taken from
both your medical and legal team. As with all
forms of insurance, a full assessment of the risks
and the possible future consequences is needed to
ensure the choice you finally make is the one most
likely to provide you with the best outcome in
your particular circumstances in the future.
Liz Bottrill is a Partner in the Family Law
Team at Laytons Solicitors with over 25 years’
experience in the field. She has a particular
interest and expertise in the law relating to
children and fertility.
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EXPERT: Michelle Mulliss
FOOD PORN
It’s a Man’s World
Parenthood is something that not just the
mother needs to get ready for; dads need to be
prepared too. Infertility is on the rise in our
modern world. According to statistics, there has
been almost a 20-30% rise in infertility in the
last five years.
In men, the quality of semen is the main reason
of failing to impregnate the partner with 35% of
male infertility issues are due to low sperm count
and motility.
Common reasons for male infertility are low
sperm concentration (oligospermia), poor
sperm motility (asthenospermia), and abnormal
sperm morphology (teratospermia). The exact
reason for the decline in semen quality is
not clear, but environmental, nutritional,
socioeconomic and other factors are starting to
come into focus, but what can you do to help
improve your sperm health?
Stock up on fruits and vegetables: A study
conducted by the Harvard University found that
eating yellow and orange coloured vegetables
and fruits had a profound effect on the health
of the sperm. Yellow and orange colour in fruits
and vegetables have an abundant amount of
“carotenoids” including beta carotene which is
converted to Vitamin A in the body. It is one of the
most potent antioxidants. Sweet Potato and melon
were found to improve both the quantity and
quality of sperms while red vegetables particularly
tomatoes, which contains lycopene, improved the
quantity of abnormally shaped sperms by 8-10%.
Break on the processed food: Processed and take
away fast foods are known to be detrimental to
our health. A young men’s study carried out at
the University of Rochester took a group that
was fed a diet high in processed and red meat,
refined grains, fast foods, high energy drinks
and fast food. Another group were put on a
healthy diet of chicken, fish, fruits, vegetables,
whole grains and legume beans. It was no
surprise that those on the healthy diet had
better sperm motility which has been supported
by various studies of the positive role of diets
high in whole grains, legumes, fruits vegetables
and fatty acids on sperm health and fertility.
Manage the cholesterol: We have seen
that couples with a high levels of
cholesterol take longer to conceive.
A study published in the Journal
of Clinical Endocrinology &
Metabolism concluded that
couples or either of the partner
with high cholesterol found it difficult to
conceive as compared to other couples. So, ensure
to get in those fibres, whole fruits and lean plant
proteins into your daily diet and keep a check on
your lipid profile.
Ditch saturated fats: Saturated fats do not only
have an adverse effect on your heart and waist
line but are also major contributory factors for
low sperm count. Studies have suggested that
even a 5% increase in saturated fat intake could
result in a decrease in sperm count.
Protect against oxidative stress (OS): OS is
directly related to cellular damage which
is caused by free radicals known as reactive
oxygen species (ROS). Small amounts of ROS
are needed for functioning of the sperms,
however when their number increases, and
our antioxidant defences are overwhelmed
impacting on the quality of sperm.
Weight in check
Obesity is a health target for the NHS,
and research has shown that obesity
has an impact on reproductive health
with reducing sperm concentration
and delaying conception. Increased
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BMI is also associated with decreased levels of
testosterone and an increase in oestrogens – causing
low sperm counts and infertility.
Nutrition can be a minefield when it
comes to fertility which to some can be
overwhelming with the marketing of
supplements. It’s important to reiterate
that to maintain health, a varied
and balanced diet is key. However,
certain nutrients have been shown
to increase sperm count, motility
and quality which include;
Vitamins
Vitamin A deficiencies have been
linked to sluggish sperm and motility
issues. Eat plenty of red peppers, oats,
carrots, dried apricots, sweet potatoes, spinach
and broccoli to give you a vitamin A boost.
Vitamin C, found in good amounts in
strawberries, asparagus, fruit and yellow veggies,
has a positive effect on sperm viability and
motility (the swimming ability of sperm).
Vitamins C, E and B12 are also great antioxidants
that can help boost sperm production and
motility by fighting harmful free radicals.
Minerals
Inadequate levels of zinc can cause lowered
sperm counts. Natural sources of this
mineral can be found in oysters,
eggs, turkey, seafood, pumpkin
seeds, liver, beef, oats, lamb,
yoghurt, nuts and barley.
Selenium is also thought
to be beneficial to sperm
motility and health.
You can get it by eating
Brazil nuts, red meat,
cottage cheese, poultry
and eggs. If you don’t think
you are getting enough zinc
or selenium, a multivitamin may
help. However, be sure to stick within
the recommended dose, as high levels of both
these minerals can become toxic.
Fatty Acids
Studies have shown that fertile men’s sperm tend
to contain greater amounts of polyunsaturated
fats (many unsaturated fats), specifically omega-3
and omega-6 fatty acids, than that of infertile men.
They’re found in walnuts, chia seeds, omega-3
supplements like krill oil but can be found in oily
fish like anchovies, sardines and salmon.
Folic Acid
It is well known now that
women should take folic
acid when preparing for
pregnancy. This I believe
should be extended to men
as I see in clinic which is
also supported with recent
research that some men
who have been taking dietary
supplements containing folic
acid in combination with zinc have
experienced increases in sperm counts of as
much as 70% and research suggests that men with
low folic acid levels tend to have more sperm cells
with chromosomal (genetic) abnormalities. Keep
your levels up by eating leafy green veggies, whole
grain foods, avocados, beans and fruit.
Lycopene
Lycopene, has been shown to help increase sperm
count and can be found in tomatoes, carrots,
watermelons and paw paw fruit.
Water
Many of us get caught up with such busy lifestyles
that water intake can be forgotten. However,
drinking plenty of water throughout the day you
can counteract dehydration, which is one of the
main factors associated with low semen volume.
Food Porn
Cooking and presenting
food that is not
only appealing but
tastes great can be
challenging, and
many couples often
ask for advice on
how to cook the foods
recommended in my
clinics. It was through
this concept and my love
of cooking I created Fertile
Foods cooking workshops. These
workshops help encourage the understanding of
nutrition in all areas of reproductive health and
have helped couples embrace nutrition to add
splash of fun in the pan.
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Here are some recipes to help boost sperm and
most of all taste great.
Persian Pomegranate Chicken
Try this tasty recipe with walnuts and
pomegranate which are great for sperm health.
Walnuts are bursting with essential omega-3 fatty
acids and antioxidants to help in boosting sperm
volume and production by increasing blood flow
to the testicles. Whilst the delicious pomegranate
fruit is known as a powerful food that helps in
increasing sperm count and improves semen
quality. It is full of antioxidants that help in
fighting against free radicals in the blood stream.
Ingredients
• 1 to 2 large yellow onions, chopped, (3 cups)
• 2 Tbsp unsalted butter
• 3 Tbsp olive oil
• 5 Tbsp pomegranate molasses (simmer 1 cup
of pomegranate juice until it reduces to 5 Tbsp
of syrup)
• 1/2lb walnut halves (about 2 cups)
• 2 lbs boneless skinless chicken thighs and/or
breasts, trimmed of excess fat, cut into medium
size pieces, patted dry and salted
• 2 cups chicken stock
• 2 Tbsp plus 2 teaspoons of sugar
• 1/2 teaspoon turmeric
• 1/4 teaspoon cinnamon
• 1/4 teaspoon ground nutmeg
• 1/4 teaspoon ground black pepper
• Salt
• 1/2 cup fresh pomegranate arils for garnish (optional)
Method
You can toast the walnuts in one of two ways. You
can either spread them out in a single layer in a
large skillet, and toast them on medium high heat,
stirring frequently until lightly toasted, OR you
can spread them out in a single layer in a baking
rimmed baking sheet, and toast at 350°F in the
oven for 8 to 10 minutes.
In either case, once toasted, remove from heat and
allow to cool. Once cool enough to handle, pulse in
a food processor or blender until finely ground.
In a large pan, heat 1 tablespoon of butter and 2
tablespoon of olive oil over medium-high heat.
When the butter has melted, pat the chicken pieces
dry again and place the chicken pieces in the pan,
working in batches if necessary to not crowd the pan,
and cook until golden brown on all sides. Sprinkle
the chicken with salt while they are cooking.
Remove the chicken from the pan, set aside. Add a
tablespoon of butter and a tablespoon of oil to the
pan. Lower the heat to medium low. Add chopped
onions to the pan and sauté until translucent,
stirring on occasion to release the browned bits
from the bottom of the pan.
Return the chicken pieces to the pan with the
onions. Pour 2 cups of chicken stock over the
chicken and onions. Bring to a boil, reduce to a
simmer, cover and simmer gently for 30 minutes.
Stir in the ground walnuts, pomegranate molasses,
sugar, and spices. Cover and cook on very low
heat for 1 hour, stirring every 20 minutes or so to
prevent the walnuts from sticking to the bottom
of the pan.
Remove from heat and adjust sugar/salt to taste. At
this point the chicken should be fall apart tender.
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Ginseng Chicken
Ginseng has been known for its health benefits
and is a powerful herb known for improving
male fertility by increasing the number of
sperms, sex drive and also enhances the sexual
performance. It also helps in fighting erectile
dysfunction, increasing semen volume and
sperm production.
Garlic contains a chemical compound called
allicin, that helps in improving the flow of
blood to the genitals and boosts the strength
and endurance of the sperm. They are also
power-packed with selenium and vitamin B6
which helps in preventing sperm damage and
hormone regulation.
This recipe combines ginseng and garlic in this
tasty chicken ginseng broth soup.
Ingredients
• 4 cups boiling water
• 5 oz Korean red ginseng tea
• 2 small chickens (poussin) or Cornish hens,
(about 2lb each)
• 4 large cloves garlic
• 15 goji berries
• 3 pieces dried Korean red ginseng (optional)
• 2 cooked chestnuts, peeled (optional)
• 1 cup uncooked sweet rice
• 2 pinches dried chili threads
• Handful fresh pea shoots
• 1 tablespoon roasted sesame oil
• 1 teaspoon black sesame seeds
• Sea salt
• Freshly ground black pepper
Method
Brew the ginseng tea by mixing together
the boiling water and the ginseng tea until
dissolved. Set aside. Rinse the chickens with
cold water. Place 2 of the garlic cloves, goji
berries, 1 piece of ginseng, a chestnut, and 2
tablespoons of rice into the cavity of each bird.
Skewer each closed with a toothpick. Place the
remaining rice in a double layer piece of muslin
or cheesecloth with of the remaining ginseng
and date. Tie the cloth closed tightly but leave
a little bit of extra space for the rice to expand.
Place the chickens and rice bag into a large wide
heavy-bottomed pot. Cover with the tea, and
top off with water to cover, if necessary. Bring
to a boil over high heat. Reduce the heat and
simmer, occasionally skimming away any fat
that comes to the surface, until cooked through,
about 2 hours.
When done, the chickens should be very soft
and fall apart easily when tugged at. Carefully
transfer the chickens to two bowls and divide
the broth between them. Top the chickens
with chili threads, garnish with pea shoots,
and a sprinkle of black sesame seeds. Drizzle
with sesame oil. Unwrap the rice package in a
separate bowl and sprinkle with black sesame
seeds, if you like. Serve with salt and pepper on
the side.
Should you want to know more about how
you can improve your fertile health with
food, visit michellemulliss.com or email
info@michellemulliss.com
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EXPERT:
Dr Jodie Peacock BSc, ND
Naturopathic doctor - The Root of Health
Founder of Enhance Fertility Bootcamp program enhancefertilitybootcamp.com
NATURAL APPROACHES TO
HELPING ENDOMETRIOSIS
Endometriosis is a common condition affecting
between 10-15% of women. It is a condition where
the cells that should only be found within your
uterine lining migrate and are found in other
areas within your abdominal cavity. The growth
of these cells outside the uterus can cause a host
of different symptoms depending on the location
the tissue is growing on. These cells respond the
same way as your normal endometrial tissue
to hormone stimulation. This means that they
grow and bleed in the same cyclical pattern as the
tissue in your uterus. This internal bleeding can
lead to areas of scar tissue development, regions
of inflammation and pain.
Symptoms of endometriosis will vary from
women to women but can include painful and
heavy periods, painful intercourse, pain with
urination or bowel movements, low energy and
concerns with fertility. It is thought that up
to 60% of women with fertility concerns have
some degree of endometriosis. The diagnosis of
endometriosis can be quite difficult and the only
way to get a true diagnosis is by doing a surgical
procedure called laparoscopy.
The precise cause of endometriosis is still yet to
be determined. There appears to be an increase in
immune activity in the uterus, with a correlation
between supressed immune functions and an
increased number and size of lesions. There is a type
of immune cell called a natural killer cell. These
cells help to keep abnormal cells in check and are
suppressed in some women with endometriosis.
A different immune cell called macrophages also
plays a role in endometriosis. Macrophages have
a job to clean up any general debris. There is an
increase in macrophage activity seen in the uterus
of women with endometriosis. This may lead to
a women’s body identifying sperm as foreign and
therefore contributing to infertility. In
terms of fertility, endometriosis
can lead to scarring on
fallopian tubes, adhesions
and unruptured follicles in
the ovaries are often seen.
What are the
risk factors
for developing
endometriosis?
The most common risk factor is
genetic. If your mother has endometriosis
there is an 8% higher chance of you having it
and about a 5% higher chance if your sister has
endometriosis. Women with shorter periods
and women with more frequent periods (with
shorter time in between) have a higher risk.
From a lifestyle standpoint, low activity levels
from a young age, high fat diets and the use
of intrauterine devices (IUDs) have all been
demonstrated to increase the risk. From a
It is thought that
up to 60% of women
with fertility concerns
have some degree of
endometriosis
hormonal standpoint, having elevated or
unbalanced levels of estrogen have been shown
to make symptoms worse.
Your liver has the task of breaking down
hormones including your estrogens. This
includes both your natural estrogens, synthetic
estrogens (medications) as well as
environmental toxins that can
mimic estrogens. As the
liver breaks down 80-
90% of your estrogens,
optimizing its ability
to function will help
support your treatment.
Your liver metabolizes
estrogen by attaching
it to glucuronic acid and
excreting the combo into
your intestinal system for
removal. The health of your
intestinal flora is imperative to your
body being able to eliminate the estrogen. If
you have an abundance of healthy bacteria in
your gut, you can rid your liver of the estrogen
it has just worked to detoxify. If, however, you
have an abundance of unhealthy bacteria, they
can break the bond between the estrogen and
glucuronic acid and allow the estrogen to be
reabsorbed into your blood stream. Your liver
then must work double time to get rid of this
same estrogen again.
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As you can see endometriosis is a complex multifactorial
condition. To minimize symptoms and
further growth we need to address the health
of your liver, intestines, immune function and
estrogen balance.
Where to begin?
1. Nutrition and diet will play
a huge role in managing
endometriosis.
High fibre foods can provide significant benefit
by helping support the healthy bacteria in the
gut and crowd out the harmful ones. Increasing
fibre by focusing on vegetables, legumes and
beans can help improve digestion as well as reduce
inflammation which will help reduce pain levels.
Reducing the amount of red meats in your
diet. Red meats, when consumed, release a
substance called arachidonic acid that promotes
inflammation contributing to pain levels.
Including plant-based protein sources such
as soy, nuts, seeds, beans or legumes in your
meals, will assist your body in lowering levels of
inflammation. You can also look to substitute
fish for meats, as fish contains a type of fatty acid
called omega 3s that work to reduce inflammation.
Limit your caffeine intake. Women who have
less than the equivalent caffeine of about 6
cups of coffee per month had on average 40%
improvement in symptoms compared to women
who consumed over this amount. There is
approximately 120mg of caffeine in a cup of
coffee, so keeping total intake under 7g is optimal.
Some patients I find do significantly better with
eliminating caffeine entirely from their diet. Try it
for one full cycle and see if you notice a difference.
Or as another option I find for some women even
it they stop for the week before their period this
can have a positive impact.
Focus on including more liver supporting foods
and herbs. The family of vegetables known as
brassicas includes broccoli, cauliflower, kale,
brussel sprouts, cabbage, bok choy and turnips.
These vegetables contain a nutrient called
indole-3-carbinol or I3C. I3C helps the liver to
metabolise estrogens, so can be helpful to assist
in the balance of estrogen in the body. Root
vegetables such as beets, sweet potatoes, radishes,
and artichokes are very nourishing for the liver
to also assist in overall function. In general,
making sure you are getting a minimum of 5
servings of vegetables per day will go a long way
to ensuring you are getting adequate fibre and
nutrients to support detoxification.
2. Supporting your stress and
nervous system.
When your body is under higher levels of
constant stress your adrenal gland makes more
of a hormone called cortisol. The body uses your
progesterone to make cortisol, so with higher
stress levels your progesterone levels can drop
leaving the ratio of estrogen to progesterone
imbalanced. This allows for higher levels of
estrogen that can stimulate endometrial tissue.
As well contributing to pain in endometrial
tissues, this can also affect the length of a
women’s cycle and the heaviness of period
flow. Elevated levels of cortisol can also have a
negative impact on immune function which also
isn’t helpful when it comes to endometriosis.
There are several ways to help your body
regulate stress more effectively. One is to add
(or continue) regular daily exercise. Doing any
type of activity that you enjoy is fine. This could
range from walking, biking, dancing, swimming
or weights and classes at the gym.
Breathing properly is also critically important to
keeping cortisol levels in a good range. Doing either
diaphragm or yoga breathing each day, helps keep
your body in its relaxation nervous system.
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3. Reducing exposure to
estrogenic or hormone
disrupting toxins.
Hormone disrupting toxins will have the largest
impact on hormonal based concerns such as
endometriosis as well an on overall fertility and
reproductive health. Some examples of common
places we will find these chemicals include lotions,
makeup, soaps, cleaning products, food storage
containers, water supply. The Environmental
Working Group (EWG) published a list of the 12
top hormone disrupting chemicals and includes:
1. Bisphenol- A (BPA)
2. Dioxin
3. Atrazine
4. Phthalates
5. Perchlorate
6. Fire retardants
7. Lead
8. Mercury
9. Arsenic
10. Per fluorinated chemicals (PFCs)
11. Organophosphate pesticides
12. Glycol ethers
We know we have exposure to the majority of
these chemicals on a daily basis. Some are easier to
avoid than others. This list is not meant to make
you panic but to begin to draw awareness to the
exposures that we can control.
Why are these types of toxins so problematic?
Some of the hormone disrupting toxins will bind
to the same receptors that your hormones bind to.
This means your body can think you have more
or less circulating hormones than you actually
do. Some hormone disrupting chemicals will
increase the amounts of hormones your body
High fibre
foods can provide
significant benefit
by helping support the
healthy bacteria in the
gut and crowd out the
harmful ones
secretes, others will decrease
amounts, and some will
even mimic the function
of the hormones. As your
body’s levels of certain
hormones change, this
can lead to changes in
the menstrual cycle,
immune function and
how your body responds
to stress. Some of these
chemicals, for example phalates,
link directly to endometriosis.
Toxins are ubiquitous in our environment, so
we are never going to be able to get away from
exposure. We can however do things to minimize
exposure and encourage the body to eliminate and
excrete the toxins instead of storing them. One
of the best ways to encourage toxins from your
body is through sweating. This can be done either
through exercise or the use of saunas.
Visit ewg.org for more information on where to
find these toxins and ways to reduce exposures.
Optimizing your digestion and liver function
are two of the most important ways to not only
improve your endometriosis but also to optimize
your overall health. There are also other nutrients
and herbal medicines that can be used to assist
with pain so please speak to your Naturopathic
doctor or other health provider to see what makes
the most sense for you.
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Why Weight
Can Matter
It’s Best to Lose Weight
Before Trying For a Baby
EXPERT: Kathy Payne
It's best to manage weight at a healthy level
when planning a baby, either naturally or via
IVF. It's also best to do it before trying to fall
pregnant. That's because being overweight
or underweight can affect fertility. Let's talk
about weight management for fertility.
Weight Can Affect Hormones
Women’s hormones need to be in balance for
a regular and healthy menstrual cycle. Being
overweight or underweight risks hormone
imbalances and we start to notice signs, like cycle
irregularities and fertility challenges.
Fertility and Being Overweight
Some studies show that overweight women
are more likely to encounter fertility issues.
Generally speaking, the more overweight we are,
the higher the risk of problems. This is simply
because overweight women tend to have more
fat cells, than those women who are classed as
normal weight.
Fat cells produce oestrogen; it’s not just our ovaries!
Because fat cells produce oestrogen, overweight
women are at higher risk of what’s commonly
called “oestrogen dominance”. Oestrogen
dominance means too much oestrogen in
relation to progesterone i.e. a hormone
imbalance. Oestrogen dominance can impact
cycle health, ovulation and fertility.
Some common signs of too much oestrogen/ not
enough progesterone include:
• Brain fog and memory issues
• Mood swings, irritability and depression
• Sleeplessness
• Tiredness
• Hormonal migraines and other headaches
• Hair loss
• Thyroid problems
• Cold hands and feet
• Sore and tender breasts
• Abdominal bloating
• Weight gain and slower metabolism
• Low libido
• Period problems
• Endometriosis
• Fibroids
• Infertility and miscarriage
Fertility and Being Underweight
Being underweight can also be a factor to consider
when you’re planning a baby. Underweight
women tend to have a lower percentage body fat
than women classed as normal weight.
Women need a certain amount of body fat to
ensure hormone balance and ovulation. If we’re
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underweight, our bodies “think” there
are not enough fat stores for pregnancy, so we
are less likely to conceive and run higher risk
of miscarriage.
It’s not only the underweight who should watch
out however, it’s possible for a woman to be
average or even above average weight, but still
have a low body fat percentage. As an example,
let’s look at female elite athletes or women who
exercise a lot and hard. Their low body fat and
high muscle percentage can cause their periods to
become irregular or even stop altogether.
BMI is only one measure of weight and health.
It’s a useful indicator but it’s not the only
measurement to consider because it doesn’t
show us the fat/muscle make-up of our bodies.
It’s possible to measure that and I’ve found that
many gyms have machines to measure fat/muscle;
alternatively you could ask your doctor instead.
Accepted reference ranges suggest that underweight
is a BMI lower than 20. Normal BMI is 20-15.
Overweight is a BMI of 25-30. Obese is a BMI of 30-
40 and morbidly obese is over a BMI 40.
If weight is a factor for you, there are some things
I suggest before trying to conceive.
Here are some suggestions:
Tips for Managing Weight
It's best not to go on a weight loss diet when
you're trying to conceive.
Sorry, but it much better to lose excess
weight first and then try for a baby.
Many of my clients, ask me
why. The imbalance is usually
temporary and maintaining
a healthy weight and eating
healthily should rebalance
any issues over time.
Slimming diets - especially very
restrictive ones - can cause periods to
become irregular and ovulation to stop,
because hormone levels drop.
Wait until 3-4 months AFTER losing weight
to start trying for a baby, if you can.
Weight can be a
fertility factor for
women, because it
impacts hormone
balance
I know this can sound like a very long wait when
you really want a baby. I suggest this as a precaution
when time is on a woman’s side. Sometimes nutrient
levels - including all the really key fertility fuelling
nutrients - can be lower after a slimming diet.
I therefore recommend boosting nutrient levels
if you’ve been on a slimming diet.
In my clinic, I use hair mineral tests from a
respected Laboratory to help couples
identify any mineral deficiencies
and also exposure to toxic metals
which also impact fertility.
I work out what foods and
supplements they may need,
based on those test results.
No faddy diets, please.
That’s because you risk robbing your
body of nutrients, including the ones
needed for fertility and a healthy pregnancy and
bouncing baby. It is best to gradually lose weight
through a healthy, varied and balance diet. And
that includes plenty of healthy fats!
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It doesn’t include “diet” or lite products. They
can be packed with health and hormone harming
chemicals, sugar or artificial sweeteners. In fact,
the basics of a fertility friendly diet will help you
lose weight.
1-2lbs a week is a steady, healthy and brilliant
weight loss.
The aim is to lose weight to become a healthy
weight for fertility, not skinny-down as much
as you possibly can. Even losing a small amount
of weight can make a big difference to general
health and fertility.
The basics of a fertility friendly diet
1. Balance blood sugar by having good quality
protein with every meal and snack. Good
protein sources include nuts, seeds, legumes,
eggs, fish, poultry, meat, dairy. For other
fertility-protecting reasons, go easy on the
red meat and cow’s dairy. Eat breakfast and
another two good meals. Only snack if you’re
really hungry or feeling whoozy/hangry.
2. Choose organic food as far as possible -
certainly for any meat or poultry, dairy and
the “dirty dozen” veggies and fruits. See the
EWG’s list of the worst pesticide residue
covered veggies and fruits. ewg.org/foodnews/
dirty_dozen_list.php
3. Eat a rainbow and plenty of vegetables and
fruits - much more veggies than fruits and
include leafy greens. Have at least seven
portions of veggies and fruits daily. Yes, SEVEN.
4. Eat good fats - nuts, seeds, avocados, oily fish,
extra virgin olive oil, coconut oil, grass-fed
butter and ghee and grass-fed red meat. Reduce
saturated fats from factory farmed meats
and trans fats from processed, packaged and
takeaway foods.
5. Choose unrefined carbs for fibre and nutrition
- brown rice, quinoa, chia seed, oats, rye, spelt,
buckwheat, legumes, starchy veggies and if you
have wheat eat sparingly and have wholegrain.
You need LOTS of fibre for digestive
and hormonal health.
6. Avoid - or vastly reduce
- caffeine, alcohol,
sugar and artificial
sweeteners, processed
and refined foods.
Don't start binge
eating sugary or
junk food to gain any
weight.
Please don’t start binge eating
pasties, shovelling in chocolate
and crisps or troughing takeaways!
They are simply NOT fertility-fuelling foods.
Eat more nutritious, calorie-dense foods - nuts
and seeds, avocado, eggs, brown rice, oily fish and
healthy fats and oils. Increase your number of
healthy snacks as well.
CROWD IN healthy foods to lose weight.
I know that losing or gaining weight is not
always straightforward and habits can be tough
to break. In my clinic, some people have seemed
daunted. I start with the simple practice of
crowding in what you do want and to crowd out
what you don’t want.
Slimming diets
- especially very
restrictive ones - can
cause periods to become
irregular and ovulation to
stop, because hormone
levels drop.
As an example, if you’re trying to cut down on
sugar, crowd in more protein and soon you’ll be
eating more protein, feel fuller for longer and
less likely to be eating a doughnut at elevenses.
Give it a go and see how it works for you.
If you have a male partner, check his weight too
Men’s weight matters too. Being overweight can
affect male fertility. It’s been linked
to poor sperm quantity and
quality. One of my mantras
is it takes two to tango
and two to make a baby.
Both women and
men should tackle
weight issues as part
of their preconception
care plan.
Weight and BMI can
affect chances of getting
pregnant - that’s women
and men.
I work with women and couples who
want babies. Sometimes those people are
struggling to conceive. I suggest food and lifestyle
changes tailored for them and I practice natural
therapies to support them
And I know that sometimes people feel a little
daunted and wonder how they’ll stick with my
new suggestions. Of course, it’s easier when
you’re working with someone to support and
encourage you, but for everyone I’d say it’s
a matter of giving yourself the best chance
you can of natural conception or IVF success.
And maximising your chances of a healthy
pregnancy and happy, bouncing baby, through
your diet and lifestyle choices.
It’s about taking control of all the fertility factors
that you can control and that includes weight
and BMI.
Love, Kathy x
Kathy Payne is a Booster of Fertility, Balancer
of Hormones and Soother of Modern Life
Madness, naturally. She is a women’s health
coach online and in Norwich UK, offering
bespoke programmes for women and couples,
as well as online classes and courses.
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STRESS &
FERTILITY
EXPERT: Colette Assor
Our clinic is seeing an increased number of
women with a diagnosis of unexplained infertility.
Tests and scan results come back as normal,
but women are still struggling to conceive. The
infertility roller coaster can be a stressful journey.
What is unexplained infertility?
Unexplained infertility is diagnosed when a
couple has been unsuccessfully trying to conceive
for 12 months or more and all investigations
have ruled out all other known explanations.
Living with a medically unexplained diagnosis can
be both a relief and a cause of anxiety for patients.
On one hand, your specialists have effectively ruled
out several undesirable causes for your symptoms
but on the other hand, you are still living with those
symptoms. For couples who have been diagnosed
with unexplained infertility, this can be particularly
frustrating as it gives you no explanation as to why
you’re struggling to start a family.
How Specialists Reach a Diagnosis
of Unexplained Infertility
There are many causes and risk factors related to
infertility and your doctor will explore all of these
pathways when making a diagnosis. In general,
infertility can be defined as the inability to get
pregnant, carry a pregnancy to term and deliver a baby.
Male Infertility Tests
For male infertility specialists will look at
factors that include:
• sperm size, shape, number and mobility
• the presence of varicoceles (enlarged veins in
the scrotum)
• blockages of sperm-carrying ducts
• the presence of infections, cancer and STIs
• hormonal imbalances
• risk factors such as excessive weight, smoking,
alcohol and drug abuse and a history of
fertility disorders
Female Infertility Tests
To diagnose female infertility your specialist
may look for:
• polycystic ovarian syndrome
• premature ovarian failure
• blocked or damaged fallopian tubes
• the presence of polyps or fibroids in the uterus
• endometriosis
• an abnormally shaped uterus
• period irregularity and irregular menstrual
cycle length
• weight gain, facial hair growth and lifestyle factors
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Is Stress Affecting Your Fertility?
The journey through infertility can be a
stressful path, how much do we know about the
impact of stress on fertility?
There has been ongoing debate within the
scientific community about whether stress may
influence fertility and pregnancy outcomes.
Doctors are once more looking at the idea that
stress may actually play a role in infertility
problems. Studies are focusing more on the
physiological effects of stress and how they may
play a role in conception. In the UK 25 % of
couples have been diagnosed with unexplained
infertility. For these couples the effects of stress
can be most profound.
Whilst there is not enough data to draw a
clear conclusion, what is apparent is that when
stress reduction techniques are employed
something happens in some women that allows
them to get pregnant when they were not able to
previously conceive.
What is Stress?
Stress is a normal psychological and
physiological reaction to changes in
someone’s environment.
When most people talk about stress,
however, they are usually referring to
chronic and/or negative forms of stress,
such as having too many demands at work,
relationships or the death of a loved one.
People experiencing chronic stress may
feel that they are unable to handle daily
life tasks, have limited-to-no control over
the direction of their life or more easily
become angry or irritated. This type of
chronic stress can negatively affect a
person’s short-term and long-term health.
When Stress Can Lead to Trouble
Getting Pregnant
Stress can lead to toward unhealthy behaviours
and non-fertility friendly lifestyles. For
example, when you’re stressed out, you may:
• Sleep too much or sleep too little
• Give into emotional eating or not eat right.
• Not find enough time for exercise or push
yourself to exercise too hard
• Drink one too many alcoholic drinks
• Smoke, or, if you quit smoking, start smoking again
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• Drink too much coffee, especially if you’re
sleep deprived
• Lose interest in having sex
How Stress, Sleep, and Fertility
Are Connected
If your work schedule or
lifestyle leads to late
nights with early wakeup
calls, the constant
lack of sleep can affect
your body, and hence,
affect your fertility.
Research has shown
that people who get less
than five hours of sleep
are more likely to suffer
from obesity, and obesity can
lead to fertility problems.
How Stress and Emotional
Eating May be harming
your Fertility
When people are stressed, they tend to eat in
less than healthy ways. Constant stress has been
shown to lead to weight gain, and weight gain
and obesity have in turn been linked to fertility
problems. Just as eating too much junk food or
being overweight can cause fertility problems,
weighing too little or not eating enough can
affect your reproductive potential.
Work out Mindfully
Getting a healthy amount of exercise can
help lower stress and lead to a
healthier body. It is important
to exercise. However, the type,
frequency and intensity
of exercise is variable
dependent on age, lifestyle
and most importantly
stress levels. Mindful
exercise is best, i.e.,
listening to your body. A
slow gentle walk has amazing
health benefits and will aid
body systems. Gentle walking in
nature at least 30 minutes per day will
benefit health and well being.
When Stress Gets in the Way of
Sex and Fertility
Sex can be a stress reliever, something to relax
with at the end of a long day. However, crazy work
Stress can hamper
ovulation. No amount
of sperm will make a
difference if the woman’s
body hasn’t released
an egg
schedules, not to mention feeling exhausted, can
make it difficult to find time for sex
A stress-filled life can also lower your libido, so you
might not be in the mood often. It seems logical to
say that if you want to get pregnant, you need to
have sex. Some couples are too stressed
to have sex and do not have sex
enough during ovulation to
get pregnant.
Hormone mixup
– Stress
impact on
ovulation
Stress can hamper ovulation.
No amount of sperm will make
a difference if the woman’s body
hasn’t released an egg. A woman’s body is
involved in a constant monthly dance of hormones,
for which ovulation is key to conception.
When a woman is stressed, other hormones
are released in the brain, which can disrupt the
hormone cycle.
Without ovulation, any eager sperm that arrives
on the scene will find no egg to fertilise.
How does stress impact on the
reproductive system?
Everyone experiences stress, and for many it’s
not an enjoyable experience. It isn’t inherently
bad, although research suggests that depending
on the type and timing of the stressor (i.e. the
reason for stress) it can cause changes
to a person’s menstrual cycle.
Recent research tells us
that stress boosts levels of
stress hormones, such as
adrenaline, cortisol, which
can inhibit the release of
the body’s main hormone,
GnRH (gonadotropin
releasing hormone), which is
responsible for the release of sex
hormones. Subsequently this may
suppress ovulation in women, reduce
sperm count in men and lower libido in both
women and men.
Any disruption to GnRH may cause insufficient
release of hormones from the pituitary gland
which can cause their target organs to no longer
work as they once did and in extreme cases,
atrophy over time and no longer function.
Stress impact on Sperm Quality
Although mechanisms are not fully understood,
there is a link between anxiety and sperm
quality. A recent research study of 29,914
participants found that psychological stress
lowers sperm concentration and progressive
motility and increases the amount of abnormal
forms of sperm.
How does stress impact on IVF?
An area that has received growing interest
in recent years is the potential role that
psychological stress may play in determining
in vitro fertilisation (IVF) treatment outcomes.
At least anecdotally, many infertile women
and health care professionals alike believe that
the experience of stress may play an important
role in the difficulties that infertile patients
face, and thus may be a contributing factor in
determining the eventual outcome of IVF.
Research in this area is mixed, one study
showed that elevated levels of stress hormones
measured in hair were associated with a third
less chance of conceiving.
These facts are very important to consider if you
have been trying to conceive without success. It
also shows that stress relief should be a part of
every couple’s conception plan even if they are
going through IVF.
Colette Assor Lic Ac MBAcC is a fertility
acupuncturist with 20 years clinical
experience. Colette runs Acupuncture Works
clinics in Hendon & Finchley North London.
acupunctureworkslondon.co.uk
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EXPERT: A’ndrea Reiter
One secret you need
to know to shift your
fertility energy
Energy is a term that is becoming a little more
comfortable for people. But other than maybe
The Secret, they don't have much experience
with it, much less how to control it. From
everything we initially learn about the Law of
Attraction and positivity, we think we need to
just say positive things and focus on it all the
time and then the baby materializes. But that's
not the case.
Like energy attracts like energy. So, the Universe
is responding with a match to the energy that we
are putting out. Unfortunately, it can be tricky
to catch when we are truly being being positive,
versus being in need and lack (which brings more
need and lack).
When it comes to energy, the more weight
we put on a situation, the heavier it is. Even
though we are focused on being a mother
because it’s a great thing and we really want
it; when we make one area of our lives seem
heavier and harder than others, the Universe
has to bring a match to that and things stay
heavier and harder. The cycle just keeps
repeating because our brain is taking our past
experience with that area, and chucking it into
the future. The brain assumes that because it’s
always been hard, it always will be, and so the
cycle repeats. The energy doesn’t change, so we
are met with more of the same.
Here’s the exciting thing though:
The energy in all areas of your life is the same.
I know it feels like they’re different, but they’re
not. It’s a self-made construct to say, “Money is
more difficult than relationships,” or “Fertility
is harder than career.” We give different areas of
our lives different names, but it is essentially our
energy and what we are aligned or not aligned
with. Fertility may be blue frosting, Career may
be yellow frosting, and Relationships may be red
frosting; but it’s all buttercream frosting in the
end- just tinted to look different. As long as we
think fertility is harder it will be, thanks to the
Law of Attraction, but once you realize it’s the
same as other areas and treat it as such, things get
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a whole lot easier. The brain can’t help but think,
“But it IS difficult!” Again, what’s happening is
your brain taking past experiences and assigning
it to the future. It’s not a true statement on its
own that, “Getting pregnant is hard,” but when
we believe and expect it to be, that’s what we are
met with a match to from the Universe. So, it
seems like things just keep happening to prove
your point, but it’s literally only because we are
assigning weight and meaning to it.
What do I mean by assigning meaning to it? The
situation as it is, is not stressful. It’s when you
make it mean something, that it’s stressful. So, it’s
the thought- not the situation that’s causing you
pain. For example, if you’re still getting a cycle
and have at least one ovary and a uterus- you’re
fine. It’s when you think it should have happened
by now, or it’s not fair, or too late, that you stress
yourself out.
It’s a belief that fertility is harder than other areas
in your life. From an energy perspective, it’s not. I
know that can be tough to wrap our heads around
sometimes, but it’s true. And it’s necessary to
begin shifting your energy if you want to get out
of the pattern. We must take some of the weight
off of this idea of infertility so that it doesn’t feel
so heavy energetically. It’s hard not to constantly
focus on the lack and what’s going wrong with
your fertility, but here are three simple things you
can do to start shifting the tide.
1) Make a list of why it could be easy to get
pregnant. What DO you have going for you (ex:
supportive spouse, taking care of self, regular cycle,
had sex this month, etc.). We need to stop focusing
on the problem, and focus on the solution and
what feels good/capable. Why is it likely this could
actually work? Feel into that daily.
2) Pick relief. Sometimes it can be hard to make
the energetic leap from fear of losing your dream,
to “I’m pregnant!” So, relief is an emotion in the
middle of those two, and once we can feel that,
it’s easier for the brain to entertain the positive
thoughts. What’s one thing that makes you feel
relief about your current situation? What’s one
thing YOU can do for yourself that makes you feel
relief? Why in THIS moment right now, are you
OK? (Because you are. I promise!)
3) Look at other areas in your life where you’ve
achieved something you never had before/didn’t
know if you could. Remind yourself that energy in
one area of your life isn’t different than another,
so if you’ve achieved things in career, family,
money, etc.; Then it is possible in this area as well.
Write them down, close your eyes, put one hand
on your solar plexus and say those things aloud
daily. Make a list of all your victories because it
makes you feel capable- and that’s the energy you
need to make a human.
A’ndrea is a Reiki Master and Holistic
Fertility Specialist. She uses a combination
of reiki, intuition and mindset coaching to
move women through the emotional and
physical blocks that are impeding them
from conceiving naturally. Her book, How
to Get Pregnant, Even When You’ve Tried
Everything: A Mind-Body Guide to Fertility
is available on Amazon and Llewellyn
Worldwide. Though based in New York City,
she helps clients all over the world achieve
their dream of motherhood.
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EXPERT: Cassie Everett
THE EMOTIONAL
STRAIN OF
TRYING TO GET
PREGNANT
When I talk to my clients about how they
are feeling, the immense emotional strain of
trying to get pregnant is often a big topic of
conversation. Sometimes it's hard to cope when
you feel that something may be wrong with
you. Perhaps you don't feel normal and are
angry that you are finding something difficult
that others seem to find easy. You may be
experiencing grief from a previous miscarriage,
or anxiety and worry about losing future
pregnancies. You might feel left out when your
friends and family are having children.
Many of my clients speak about the injustice of
seeing pregnant women and babies everywhere,
as well as the hurtful words of people who mean
well, but can be insensitive.
For those of you who have decided to embark
on IVF treatment, you will be coping with lots
of tests and procedures, as well as the additional
financial strain.
It may be that stress is making it harder for you
to conceive due to the effect of stress hormones
on your reproductive system, so every monthly
disappointment becomes a vicious cycle. This can
lead to issues between partners, with the pressure
to perform sexually in a scheduled and clinical
way exacerbating an already strained relationship.
However you are feeling, it’s important
to remember that these feelings are
understandable and natural, and that you are
not alone. It’s also a good idea to try and reduce
your general stress levels. Here are some of my
top tips on how to do just that.
RECOMMENDATIONS
FOR REDUCING YOUR
STRESS LEVELS
Talk it through
There are many things you can do to try and
reduce your stress levels. Most important is
having someone to talk to – maybe a friend
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or family member. If this makes you feel
uncomfortable then you might like to consider
counselling, attending a fertility support group
or chatting anonymously on an online forum.
This can help you feel less isolated
and provide support. Remember
that there are probably people
you know going through
the same thing as you.
One in four couples have
problems conceiving and
finding other people who
are experiencing the same
as you can really help.
Consider your own
feelings
It’s a good idea to avoid situations that upset
you, and remember, don’t feel guilty about it! If
you don’t want to go to a friend’s baby shower,
don’t go. If you don’t want to go in to the baby
shop, get a present online. Consider your own
feelings and don’t put unnecessary pressure
on yourself to do the so called ‘right thing’. Do
what’s right for you.
Do a stress audit
Ask yourself if you have the right work/life
balance. Are you working too much or taking
on too much responsibility? Look at the
different areas of stress in your life and think
about whether any of these stresses can be
reduced or removed, as the cumulative effect
may be taking its toll on your fertility. The
Many of my clients
speak about the
injustice of seeing
pregnant women and
babies everywhere
more stress hormones are circulating
round your body, the more disruption is
caused to your reproductive hormones and
hence your fertility.
Do things you love – and
look
after yourself
If you don’t have interests
or hobbies, find something
you love and do it. You
should also build in
daily relaxation to your
schedule. This could be
going for walks, doing yoga,
visualisation, meditation or
having a regular massage. Gentle
exercise is also important. It helps alleviate
anxiety and tension plus releases happy, calming
hormones into your system. A good book that
I often recommend my clients to read
is, The Inside Out Revolution by
Michael Neill as this helps us to
see how our thoughts affect
our feelings. Many of my
clients feel that they will
only be truly happy when
they have a baby. This
book really helps you
to appreciate that it is
you, and you alone that
can create your happiness;
no external influence can
do that, not even a baby, even
though it really looks like that!
Above all, make sure you have some play
time – schedule it in if you must, as it’s easy to
forget the importance of fun while your life
seems dominated by trying to conceive. Research
has even shown that feelings of joy help us
create more of the hormone DHEA in the body.
DHEA is a luxury hormone, that means that
the body can convert it into other hormones
like Progesterone. As women age progesterone
naturally declines and when women are stressed
progesterone levels are often lower. Progesterone
is THE pregnancy hormone and without enough
of it we cannot hold a pregnancy, so any extra
DHEA could make an important difference to
your Progesterone levels.
Invest in your relationship
Remember that
there are probably
people you know going
through the same
thing as you
As you know, many relationships suffer when
fertility issues arise, so make time to focus on
your relationship, and friendship, with
your partner. This is a good time
for romantic dinners and
weekends away to help
keep the spark alive.
Be honest with
yourself about your
feelings
Some of my clients
write their thoughts
and feelings down
in a diary. This helps
them release anxieties and
frustrations without worrying
that they are burdening someone else
with them or being judged, and it’s a great way to
free up some emotional space inside.
Take a break
If you feel like your fertility issues are taking
over your life, why not take a break from trying
for a few months to remove the issue and escape
the vicious cycle for a while? Clear your head
and allow your life, your relationship and your
hormones to rebalance before you think about
trying again.
Use Australian Bush Flower Essences
You might find the following combinations useful:
• “Calm & Clear Essence” is great for relaxing
and unwinding
• “Dynamis Essence” is useful if you are feeling
exhausted from stress and anxiety
• “Relationship Essence” can help enhance the
quality of intimate relationships
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You can buy Australian Bush Flower Essences from
a good health food store such as: revital.co.uk/
catalogsearch/result/?q=australian+bush+flower
+essences
Take as directed on the bottle.
Put essential oils in the bath
Not only is the very act of making time for
a bath a great form of relaxation and creates
‘me time’, but some essential oils can be used
to induce a deeper sense of relaxation. A
combination of rose, jasmine and neroli is
ideal. These will help you to relieve stress and
for women they will also enhance feminine
qualities necessary for improving fertility.
Alternatively, you can buy ready-made essential
oil blends from nealsyardremedies.com
which are more cost-effective than buying
individual oils.
Try homeopathic remedies
The following homeopathic remedies can
be taken for acute anxiety and emotional
upsets. Select the remedy that most closely
matches your thoughts and feelings. Buy it in
30c potency from a pharmacy or health food
store and take one pill when needed, up to a
maximum of three a day for three days, leaving
at least a week before repeating:
• Arg Nit: for anticipatory anxiety, worrying
about the baby during pregnancy or before
doing a pregnancy test
• Gelsemium: for anxiety especially after a
shock or bad news e.g. from a miscarriage or
diagnosis from the doctor
• Ignatia: for the emotional roller coaster,
feeling very tearful and even hysterical,
embarrassed about emotions
• Natrum Mur: for repeated grief and
disappointment, want to be on your own, can’t
cry any more
• Pulsatilla: for feeling weepy all the time, don’t
want to be alone, feel better after a good cry
If your symptoms persist, always seek professional
advice from a qualified homeopath.
I really hope this has given you some useful
suggestions as to how you can relax and destress,
and cope with the emotional strain of
trying to get pregnant. For more information
on tailor-made natural solutions which could
help you get pregnant please visit my website:
cassieeverett.com or call on 07588 820 409.
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Conceive Plus helping
couples conceive naturally
When it comes to getting pregnant the path can be challenging.
There are many challenges faced by couples
who want to get pregnant naturally to start, or
extend their existing family. Busy lifestyles,
careers, buying a home, as well as everyday
health concerns such as lack of sleep, poor
diet and lack of exercise can create emotional
stress or stress on the body, either of which can
negatively affect the chance of conception.
Even the process of conception itself, the journey
of the sperm to the egg is a complex feat of
biology fraught with variables. Despite the stories
we read of how easy it is to get pregnant (and for
some it is) statistically a couple in their twenties
has a 20 to 25 percent chance of pregnancy each
month. By 30, the chance of becoming pregnant
in a given month lowers to around 15 percent
and by 35, the likelihood is can be as low as 10
percent in any month.
When pregnancy does not occur as planned many
couples can stress unnecessarily especially if
there is a lack of education or understanding of
fertility, such as the fertility period, the process of
ovulation and the days that conception can occur.
Stress can also lead to or exacerbate vaginal
dryness and as a result many trying to conceive
couples experience a lack of natural fertile fluid
(Cervical mucus). Cervical mucus plays an vital
role in the process of conception by creating the
optimal vaginal environment as well as facilitating
the movement of sperm to the egg. Trying to
conceive couples are 50% more likely than couples
that are not trying to pregnant to experience
Vaginal dryness and 75% couples experience
vaginal dryness when trying to conceive.
Vaginal dryness is a cause of subfertility yet
many couples do not even notice or understand
that this can be a barrier to natural conception,
traditionally a regular personal lubricant is
used however these have been shown to damage
sperm, are the formulated with the wrong PH
(to acid) and wrong osmolarity (to thick), either
damaging or creating a barrier to sperm and
should not be used.
Studies also indicate that a man’s health affects
his sperm in both quality and quantity, and low
sperm counts and poor quality have a negative
effect on the chance of conception.
Conceive Plus is isotonic formulated with the
optimal PH and osmolarity to mimic natural
cervical mucus with the added benefit of Calcium
and Magnesium ions essential to support
sperm cell motility and viability. The patented
Conceive Plus formula matches natural fertile
fluids, supplements moisture to support the
viability and motility of sperm, and bonding of
the sperm to the egg.
In independent studies Conceive Plus is shown
to be compatible with sperm and egg making
it the lubricant of choice for couples who are
trying to conceive.
Through an intimate understanding of personal
lubricants, optimal vaginal health and fertility
Sasmar’s team has developed the Conceive
Plus range, a selection of products specially
formulated for couples who have just started
trying as well as those who have been trying to
get pregnant for a while.
The newest edition Conceive Plus Fertility Support
contains essential nutrients that prepare the body
for conception including zinc, folic acid, iron,
multivitamins and antioxidants in two specialty
formulations for men and women.
See website for information and retailers. Always
read the label.
Available from Lloyds Pharmacy,
Amazon & Chemists conceiveplus.com
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Welcome back to the Fertility Journeys.
We’re nearly at the end of another year and we’ve been busy working with our new
couples and clinics making sure they are getting the support they need to start
their fertility journeys.
Herts & Essex Fertility Centre are contacting all of the couples who applied for the
free IVF treatment and the 40 free fertility consultations. In the November issue
we’ll be announcing the couples that have been selected.
We welcome IVF Spain’s couple Claire and David who have already visited the IVF
Spain team at their clinic in Alicante for the first embryo transfer.
Redia IVF and Mediterranean Fertility Institute’s couple Kirstie and Christopher tell
us about their journey so far as they prepare to travel to Greece in September for
their treatment.
Also Heather and Brandon who are working with our US partners Oregon
Reproductive Medicine are expecting TWINS and Heather is in her third Trimester.
We’re really looking forward to meeting the twins very soon.
But we’re not stopping there as we have two new clinics joining us in September
and November.
Keep an eye out for our newsletter with the news.
Good luck to all of our couples on their journeys.
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FERTILITY JOURNEYS:
EGG DONATION WITH IVF SPAIN
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Spanish
Partner
During the first week of August, Claire (42) and David (35), the winners of this year’s
Fertility Journey, visited our clinic for their first embryo transfer.
When we discovered that Claire didn’t have a single
positive pregnancy test, we suggested to carry out an
endometrial biopsy to analyse the sample by means
of the ER Map® test (Endometrial Receptivity Map)
in order for us to being able to accurately determine
the receptivity of Claire’s endometrium during the
window of implantation (the moment when the
endometrial lining is receptive).
”The test results showed that Claire’s endometrium
was post-receptive, meaning that a transfer
performed on day 5.5 of progesterone (like in 70%
of cases) would not end up in a successful pregnancy”
explains Dr Natalia Szlarb.
They were pleased to share with us the emotion and
joy created by their short stay in Spain;
“We have spent some time in Alicante ahead of the
transfer, relaxing in the area and preparing for our
next visit to IVF Spain. Our experience with previous
treatments with UK clinics has been very stressful
but in Alicante, we have spent most of our time
preparing for treatment by relaxing on the beach!”
Claire and David arrived at IVF Spain after
having been trying to get pregnant for 7 long
years and 3 failed ICSI treatments with their
own eggs. IVF Spain discovered that the embryos
were of poor quality and that they had always
been transferred on day 3 of their development
with a bad morphology. In order to increase
their chances of getting pregnant the clinic
recommended an egg donation treatment, which
greatly depends on matching the perfect donor
to the patient.
To protect both patients and donors, Spanish
law requires that the donation process must be
completely anonymous. In addition, donors
must be in good condition and younger than 35.
Dr Szlarb with
2018 winners
Claire and David
Moreover, both donor and patient must share a
phenotypical resemblance: hair and eye color,
BMI, and so on.
Claire and David were grateful that so many women in
Spain were willing to donate their own eggs, enabling
others less fortunate, the chance of forming a family.
“We are really grateful that there are people willing
to donate eggs. If we are being honest, it has taken a
while for us to understand the Spanish anonymity
rules for egg donors, but we have taken the time to
consider this. It’s hard not having control or letting
another person being in charge for something
related to your baby. However, we even think now it
is better that way, because the more you know, the
more you want to know and we do prefer knowing
nothing and leaving it in the clinic’s hands.”
There are other factors, however, that are crucial
to achieving a successful pregnancy such as the
quality of the embryo and the microenvironment
of the endometrial lining. This means that a
successful pregnancy also depends on the successful
communication between the embryo and end the
endometrial lining.
“Before coming to IVF Spain, we had never heard
of an endometrial study or ER Map. The fact that
the endometrial study analyses the best time to
transfer the embryo could make a big difference to
our treatment. We were really impressed with the
accuracy of the test. Our ER Map test result was postreceptive
and although this was initially a concern,
we later came around to the view that knowing the
best time to transfer the embryo would increase the
chances of success, and this might have been the
reason our other treatments in the UK had failed” -
Claire and David.
Another key aspect to achieve a successful pregnancy
is the male factor. David suffers from teratospermia
which implies that 96% of the ejaculate sperm cells
have an abnormal morphology. Luckily, we were able
to improve David’s sperm quality and fertilize the
retrieved eggs.
We now wish them the best of luck!
Although it will not be until mid-September when
the 2018 runner-ups Laura (41) and Ian (44) visit
us in Alicante for their embryo transfer, they
already talked about the differences between IVF
Spain and former clinics. They were impressed at
how extensively their case had been studied by our
fertility specialists.
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Laura and Ian
Immunologically speaking, finding a matching
donor for Laura is certainly a challenging task, which
is why IVF Spain suggested that we find out her KIR
via a blood test. Ian was also tested for his HLA-C in
order to determine whether the maternal – foetal
interaction will be optimal or not.
“I think the longer you have treatment the more
difficult it becomes. When you begin there’s a
naivety along the lines of, ‘we’ll have one, maybe
two goes at IVF and have a baby in our arms’.
After 7 treatments (and lots of add-ons) the
feelings completely change. You feel terrified
that it won’t work, and you’ll never become
parents. You’re scared it will work and you’ll lose
the baby again (Laura and Ian have experienced
5 losses).
You’re scared of physically going through the
treatment as you’ve had so much. Each test and
treatment creates fear – fear that it will hurt, be
traumatizing, that it will give you more bad news.
Then there’s the impact on your own mental
health and emotional well-being. Can I handle
this? What if the results say something’s wrong
with me? Will I blame myself? It starts to really
damage your mental health and well-being.
Financially you start to feel that you’re risking
everything, and it may not pay off.
For us we have renewed hope with IVF Spain. We
have undergone tests that we’ve never had before
(ERA, NK biopsy and KIR). We have paid for
lots of very expensive blood tests and drugs but
never received this kind of analysis. So, we feel as
though the treatment is now specifically for us.
This creates more positivity, a feeling of being
cared for and that maybe, just maybe, we’ll get to
be parents.
Plus, we’re now using donor eggs. The hope starts to
soar and with that comes excitement. Hope is the
only thing that keeps you going and overcoming the
fears I mentioned. This opportunity with IVF Spain
has given us hope that we thought we’d lost.”
Laura is 41 years old and has already been through
traumatic losses including an ectopic pregnancy.
Due to this and to the fact that Laura suffers from
trisomy 22 syndrome, our medical team at IVF
Spain recommended an egg donation treatment to
increase their chances.
The couple is thankful for the egg donation process
being anonymous, as otherwise it would be really
difficult to find a donor:
“For us, it’s taken some of the pressure away. I can’t
imagine how difficult it would be to choose a donor
ourselves. But putting your complete trust into
someone else’s hands is hard.
We’ve explored whether it would be better for
our future child to know the donor. I think that’s
something we’ll never know. But we hope that he/she
will understand our decision to choose an anonymous
donor. It would be good to know a little more about the
heritage of the donor but then we also know that we
often don’t even know our own heritage. We’ll make
sure Spain is a key part of their story.
It’s also really odd to not know who this person
is. What they look like and personality. What’s
motivating them to help us. One of the things I’ve
been really consumed with is the gratitude you have
for this person. I’d like to thank them but can’t.
Anonymity means we have a chance to become
parents. Without it there’d be a shortage of donors
like there is in the UK. For us, this makes it a
wonderful gift – a chance to hopefully find a donor
that is perfectly matched to us genetically (due to the
KIR tests) as well as in physical looks.
I can’t stop thinking about what our future child will
look like – but I think that’s quite normal” says Laura.
Thanks to the KIR-HLA-C genotyping test it is
possible to determine if the uterine KIR and the
embryonic HLA-C will both be compatible. If so,
the pregnancy will carry on successfully; if not, then
the most probable outcome will be an unviable
pregnancy and subsequent miscarriage.
“We carried out the KIR-HLA-C genotyping and
concluded that the patient had a KIR AA. It is
known that KIR expressed by the natural killer
cells present in the maternal part and the HLA
presented by the trophoblastic cells together will
influence the outcome of the pregnancy. With
Laura’s KIR AA variant, the sperm would have to
be HLA C1 C1 and the HLA of the donor should be
as well HLA C1 C1; as her husband has a HLA C1
C2 variant, we will treat her with a medication that
reduces her immune-genetic reaction. We believe
that not paying attention to this issue in the past
is what may have caused the implantation to fail”
suspects fertility specialist Dr Isabel Herrera.
We tend to recommend a single embryo
transfer, as it has been proven that on patients
with an immunological profile such as Laura’s,
a double embryo transfers would increase
the immunogenetic reaction, hindering the
achievement of a pregnancy” says Dr. Herrera.
It is also known that these cases tend to have a
higher risk of pre-eclampsia, late spontaneous
abortion or miscarriage.
Until their transfer day the couple will try to enjoy
summer just as any other couple would;
“I’ve tried to just carry on as normal. Remain
healthy, take pre-conception vitamins. Reach out
and get support through the Donor Conception
Network in the UK and connect with other people
going down the DE route via online forums. It’s
quite isolating and scary so it’s important to reach
out and not feel so alone.
I’m trying to relax a little – not so easy with work but
it’s a work in progress. I need to get that bit sorted
now treatment is on the horizon.”
Dr Isabelle Herrera
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FERTILITY JOURNEYS:
OUR FERTILITY JOURNEY –
KIRSTIE DOWNEY & CHRISTOPHER HANSON
Around Christmas time of 2015, we met with
the Sunday Life journalist in Belfast to discuss
infertility and our journey towards finding an
egg donor. We openly discussed our journey
to date with the journalist and had some
photographs taken for the newspaper. A few
weeks later our story featured in the newspaper
seeking an anonymous egg donor.
In May 2016 we received a call from the Regional
Fertility Centre at the Royal Victoria Hospital in
Belfast. Allison McKee from the Centre informed us
that an anonymous donor had come forward after
seeing our advertisement and wished to donate her
eggs to help us fulfil our dream of having a family.
We thought it was amazing that we received this
news less than 48 hours after we had got engaged.
At 16 years old I was still waiting for my first
period and was advised to visit my GP. After
many blood tests, scans, and open key hole
surgery I was diagnosed with premature ovarian
failure. My consultant advised me at this young
age that my only chances of ever conceiving a
child would be through egg donation. I would be
able to carry a child but unfortunately, I would
have no eggs to conceive naturally.
This was shattering news to receive at such
a young age for me and my family. I did not
really understand the implications of this
condition and always held onto the hope that I
would conceive children naturally. As the years
progressed I gained a better understanding of
my condition, but it only really started to sink in
when I met my partner Chris in October 2012.
I had spoken to Chris early on in our relationship
about my condition and he was understanding
and supportive; fully aware of the difficulties we
might face to have our own family. Chris decided
to get his sperm tested early on in our relationship
to ensure he had good quality sperm for whenever
we would go through fertility treatments. We were
delighted when Chris’s results came back as normal
and his GP advised that he had no fertility issues.
Our fertility journey began in
2015 at the Grove Wellbeing
Centre in Belfast where
we met Gillian about
advertising for an egg
donor. Gillian discussed
during our appointment
the possibility of doing
an advertisement in the
local Sunday Life newspaper
in Northern Ireland. We
were very open to this idea and
received contact from the editor of
the newspaper, Angela, very shortly after our
appointment with Gillian.
I had spoken to
Chris early on in our
relationship about my
condition and he was
understanding and
supportive
Chris & I would do anything to have a child and
following the phone call with Allison I started to
make some life changes. I changed my diet, ate
healthy foods, took folic acid daily and started fertility
acupuncture with Sharon Campbell, a renowned
fertility acupuncturist in Northern Ireland.
In July I received my medication to prepare my
body for pregnancy. In subsequent appointments
my bloods were normal, and my womb lining
was thick for egg transfer. I was visiting Sharon
once a week which I believed helped
towards the thickening of my womb
lining and helped my mental
state during this emotional
roller coaster.
The day before the embryo
transfer I received a call
from the laboratory to
inform me that 2 donor
eggs had fertilised and they
would be transferred the
next morning. On 4th August
our transfer took place and two 6
cell embryos were transferred into my
womb with no complications. Now it was the 2
weeks wait before I took a pregnancy test.
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I took 2 weeks off work to give the embryo the
best possible chance to implant and followed all
guidelines given to me by the professionals.
give anything to have our own child to love and
protect and hopefully someday soon, with the help
of yourselves, you can make our dreams come true.
•Can we afford the travel & test costs?
•Can we get the time off work?
On 18th August we did our pregnancy test. Our
dreams were shattered when the result came back
negative, it was the worst feeling in the world. We
had believed because we were so young we would
have a better chance of a positive result.
During and after the procedure we attended
counselling and eventually came to terms with
the negative result. This was our only free cycle
of egg donation available here.
We have been together now for
nearly 6 years. We have built
a loving home together. I am
a full time childcare worker
which has always been my
passion. Chris is a full-time
manager in Tesco.
Despite all this, there is one
thing missing from our lives
and that is the dream of having a
child. We are both young, fit, healthy,
hardworking individuals and have so much
love to give a child. I have a big family and have
grown up with children my whole life. We are
happy to share our story with others facing similar
scenarios to demonstrate that wherever you are in
your particular fertility journey there are always
options – options to consider, and support to help
you make the right decisions for you. We would
We literally could
not believe it and had to
read the email numerous
times in floods of happy
tears to check this was
actually real
We received the email to say we were the lucky
winners on 20th June. It is very difficult to put into
words how we felt. To be the selected couple is very
hard to believe and we count ourselves so lucky to
have been given this amazing opportunity.
We literally could not believe it and had to read the
email numerous times in floods of happy tears to
check this was actually real. Eventually we were able
to write a response obviously accepting the
offer. Finally, when the news had
sunk in we started to ask ourselves
questions about travelling to
Greece and researching the
clinic and island etc.
Over the next 2 weeks
we acted very quickly
in getting all our tests
together, sorting time off
work, arranging flights &
accommodation and getting
the required medication. We went
through a number of stumbling blocks.
With the amazing Shirley supporting us via email
we were able to sort everything very quickly and
her advice was invaluable during this period.
Despite all this we were naturally worried about
travelling to Crete for this treatment. We asked
ourselves many questions
•Where will we stay in Crete?
•Is my body going to respond to the medication?
When we went through our free cycle of
treatment with the NHS over here in Northern
Ireland, the success rates were only 24%. To
know that the success rate in Crete is almost 3
times that gives us massive hope and we would
obviously not be travelling to Crete and putting
ourselves through all this if we didn’t think it
was going to work.
Everything is arranged, booked and paid for. I
am currently on the Microgynon pill on my first
cycle. My first uterus scan is on 20th August. We
depart for Crete from Dublin on 12th September,
we are staying for 2 weeks and are so excited to
undergo the treatment and meet all the team in
the Mediterranean Fertility Institute. A special
mention must go to Shirley who has helped us
out so much over the past few weeks with our
endless questions and emails. She has made this
experience a lot easier.
We are both super excited and hopefully our
story will encourage other young couples like
ourselves to take the step of travelling abroad for
treatment. It seems scary preparing to go abroad
for treatment but with the help of your chosen
clinic everything runs smoothly.
We sincerely hope that the team in Crete can
make our dream come true. It is impossible to
put into words how much we want a baby and to
be taking this step now in travelling abroad is
so surreal. We never seen ourselves at 25 years
old travelling to Crete for egg donation. At this
moment in time and certainly in the foreseeable
future there is no chance we would be able to
afford the treatment anywhere, so this feels like
our only hope of having a bundle of joy.
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FERTILITY JOURNEYS:
DONOR EGG IVF WITH GENOMIC SCREENING...
WITH OREGON REPRODUCTIVE MEDICINE
After nearly ten years trying to build their family, Heather and Brandon are starting the
third trimester of Heather’s pregnancy. Their 20-week scan has given them a good look
at their baby girl and boy who are continuing to develop well.
Heather writes…
We’ve made it to the start of my third trimester
and are all smiles right now!
While nausea has continued to pay a significant
role in my journey, anti-nausea medications
have become my best friend. I‘ve been needing
to take anti-nausea medication once every eight
hours (three times a day) to help avoid constant
vomiting. Food has become challenging. There are
very few foods I enjoy with the exception of fruit,
smoothies, lemonade and tart candy.
Importantly though, the babies are doing well and
both are maintaining an above average heart rate. I
cannot feel them moving just yet but have been told
by my doctors that they are actively moving and
kicking each other. I was told that it is normal for
them to kick each other in order to start developing
basic capacity for their limbs.
My daily routine is waking up, going to work, coming
home to nap, eating take out - because the smell of
food lingering in the house makes me nauseous -and
heading back to sleep by 10:30 p.m. I will be honest
that I have never felt so tired in my life.
I do not feel at all in control of my own body and
many of the basic tasks I used to do on a consistent
basis seem impossible (washing clothes, tidying up
the house, etc.).
Brandon is doing a lot of the research that I am
too tired to do. He sends me, on a consistent basis,
helpful tips and bits of information and weekly
“what to expect” updates.
After much
anticipation, our
20-week ultrasound
went well and it was
amazing to see our
babies right there in
front of us.
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Through these updates we are following the size
of each baby and what parts of the anatomy they
are starting to develop at each stage. They are
also helping us focus on the things we should
start to prepare for so that we are properly pacing
ourselves through this journey.
As an example, we were given the suggestion of
talking about how we will handle life after the birth,
making sure I invest in flats for the remainder of
my pregnancy and knowing the symptoms and
risks of preeclampsia.
After much anticipation, our 20-week ultrasound
went well, and it was amazing to see our babies right
there in front of us. Because we are having fraternal
twins our ultrasound took more time to complete.
Baby A is our girl and she is located closest to my
waist. Baby B is our boy and he is higher up and
above my belly button.
Our baby girl has been diagnosed with a two-vessel
umbilical cord instead of a three vessel cord. Our
baby boy has a three-vessel umbilical cord and is
the most active.
Most babies’ umbilical cords have three blood vessels:
one vein, which brings nutrients from the placenta
to the baby, and two arteries that bring waste back
to the placenta. But a two-vessel cord has just one
vein and one artery — that’s why the condition is also
referred to as having a single umbilical artery (SUA).
It’s more common than you might think and is the
most common abnormality of the umbilical cord.
Our doctor informed us that in most cases, the
one artery just makes up for what the missing one
would do. However, there’s a slight increase in risk
of growth problems and a minimal increase in risk
of stillbirth. Our doctor has informed us that her
weight is currently as should be expected and they
will monitor our baby girl closely.
I have been scheduled for several ultrasound
follow-ups to ensure they are both doing well. Thus
far, they are both flourishing and maintaining an
above average weight. We are happy campers!
We are currently in the process of making
arrangements for a close to home babymoon with
a car ride that will not exceed two and a half hours.
Our goal is to stay close to home, enjoy a massage or
two and have some time to lounge in a nice pool!
In addition, we are awaiting the invitations for our
upcoming baby shower which will take place around
the corner from our house on the day of my birthday!
We are excited to send out invitations in the
coming days and share my birthday with one of the
best gifts we have ever received.
Dr Barbieri comments on Heather and Brandon's journey
The 20-week scan is almost always a much anticipated point
in every pregnancy. Not only is it an important milestone for
being able to check on foetal development, but also modern
ultrasound technology gives expecting parents a good peak at
their growing babies.
The precision of modern ultrasounds will have enabled the
diagnosis at the 20-week scan of single umbilical artery (SUA)
for Heather and Brandon’s baby girl. Heather is correct that
SUA is the most common congenital abnormality of the
umbilical cord. The cause of SAU is a not fully known and
there is no scientific consensus on the incidence and clinical
significance of SUA in twin compared to singleton pregnancies.
Generally diagnosis of SUA is made during the third trimester. The earlier awareness of SUA for
their baby girl will allow Heather’s OB/GYN to formulate a protocol for monitoring both babies’
development and managing Heather’s pregnancy. I am glad that Heather has a schedule for regular
ultrasound monitoring.
There is generally a growth in the size of the single artery for an affected baby near the start of the third
trimester. Heather’s OB/GYN will be watching for this change, and their baby girl’s continued increase
in weight and a strong heartbeat as key indicators of her healthy development.
I am comforted to know that Heather’s OB/GYN has personal experience with twins. A twin pregnancy
carries higher risks, so expertise with twin pregnancies and enhanced monitoring is called-for, even
more so with the diagnosis of SUA for their baby girl.
We are honoured to have been able to help Heather and Brandon and will be continuing to follow
their journey closely. Along with them, we are counting the days now that they are in their third and
final trimester.
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EXPERT: Craig Reisser
THE
VALUE
OF
SUCCESS
RATES
Understand Success Rates and Help
Keep Your Surrogacy Journey on Track
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Craig Reisser, a parent via egg donation and
surrogacy in the USA, shares some advice for
intended parents on how to use success rates
when planning your surrogacy journey.
When it comes to choosing an IVF clinic a
discussion of success rates is sure to be one of the
key considerations.
Success rates can be a notoriously complicated area
for intended parents, not only because there can be
so many factors that play a part in them, but also
because clinics may report them in any number of
ways. I certainly found this to be true when I was
undertaking my own journey.
Because your IVF clinic will play a pivotal role in
shaping your journey, understanding how to make
sure you are focussing on the right success rates
for the specific IVF procedure you are planning, as
well as how to apply them in a practical manner to
your decision making is essential.
In my view, your ideal goal with IVF should be
to have the best chance of success and a healthy
baby on your first attempt. Or in other words
minimising the risk that you will have to repeat
any aspect of the IVF process. This is the best way
to keep your budget and timetable under control
and your stress levels to a minimum.
While my focus here is on IVF for a surrogacy
journey, as this was my own personal experience,
this same objective can apply equally to anyone
undergoing IVF – whether using her own eggs or
donor eggs, working with a surrogate or planning
to carry the pregnancy herself.
In an ideal world, first time success would mean
two things. Firstly, only needing one egg retrieval
and embryology cycle (including embryo testing
if applicable) to obtain all the viable embryos
that you will need to build your family. Secondly
only needing a single embryo transfer for the live
birth of a healthy baby.
For many intended parents their actual IVF
experience does not reflect this ideal and they
may require more than one egg retrieval and
embryology cycle and/or more than one embryo
transfer to achieve their dream of a healthy baby.
Each time that you need to repeat either of these
steps in the IVF process there are real implications
for you in terms of higher costs, a longer timetable,
and added emotional stress.
The real "value of success" is therefore that higher
success rates can help you avoid costs, keep your
timeline to a minimum, and your stress levels in check.
Intended parents therefore need to know which
success rates to focus on, how to apply them to make
practical choices, and what they mean in terms of
the likely number of times they will have to undergo
each step of the IVF process to reach their goal.
With this in mind, I focus on two key elements of
the IVF process where achieving first time success
can make a real difference in your journey: the
egg retrieval and embryology cycle and the
embryo transfer. These steps are distinct but
intimately connected.
My focus on these two aspects is not meant to
diminish the importance of other elements of the
IVF process that can play a part in having a healthy
baby, such as genetic screening and the choice
regarding the number of embryos to transfer, and
which intended parents should also consider.
Egg Retrieval and
Embryology Cycle
In my view, the real measure of success for an egg
retrieval and embryology cycle is the number of
viable embryos obtained, and whether this meets
or exceeds the number that you can expect you
may need.
The number of viable embryos that you may need
depends on how many children, over time, you
hope to have multiplied by the number of transfers
you can expect will be required to achieve a live
birth. If you plan to transfer more than one embryo
at a time then this needs to be factored in as well.
It’s certainly true that you only need one viable
embryo to have a child and success on the first
embryo transfer can absolutely happen. However,
the reality is that that embryo transfer success
rates are not 100%. Therefore, there is a potential
risk that you may need to repeat the egg retrieval
and embryology cycle if you only have a single
embryo at the end of this step in the IVF process.
For example, if you hope for one child and can
expect that you may need to undergo two transfers
to achieve a live birth, then you will hope to have
at least two viable embryos. If say however, you
hope to also have a sibling in the future for your
first child (and can expect that again you may
need to undergo two transfers to achieve a live
birth) then you will hope to have obtained at least
four viable embryos from your egg retrieval and
embryology cycle in order to minimise the risk of
needing to repeat this step to create more embryos.
The egg retrieval and embryology cycle is the most
expensive part of the IVF process to have to repeat.
It may represent some 75-80% percent of the IVF
costs of a single successful journey. In addition to
the medical costs you may incur for a repeat cycle, it
you are using an egg donor there will also be donor
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compensation and potentially travel reimbursement,
as well as possibly egg donor agency fees and
screening costs that may need to be paid again.
Depending on when this step would need to be
repeated, and possible scheduling considerations,
(e.g. egg donor availability) it could lengthen your
timeline from a few to several months.
Unfortunately, for intended parents, the public
databases for clinic success rates (such as SART and
the CDC in the USA) do not report the statistics,
namely the average number of viable embryos
that each cycle type has achieved at a clinic, which
could help inform intended parents’ decisions.
Though each cycle is unique and some factors
cannot be controlled, IVF clinics should have this
type of success data, particularly in the case of egg
donor cycles. You should be sure to ask about this,
as well as the factors that contribute to successful
egg retrieval and embryology cycles, including
stimulation and egg retrieval medical protocols,
the quality of the embryology laboratory, and
the role of ovarian reserve. This will help you in
making decisions that may help you increase the
chance of first time success.
Embryo Transfer
Beneficially for intended parents, the public
databases for clinic success rates generally
focus on the statistics that help them
understand the chance of success with an
individual embryo transfer.
Live Birth Rate Per Transfer, is the relevant success
rate to focus on as it represents your ultimate
goal. Where more than one embryo has been
transferred, a Live Birth Rate Per Transfer will
refer to the birth of at least one child.
Sometimes, clinics may instead quote Pregnancy
Rate Per Transfer. This represents the percentage
of embryo transfers that had an ongoing
pregnancy when the rate was calculated. This is
not the same as Live Birth Rate Per Transfer as
some pregnancies that were ongoing when the
success rate was calculated will not progress. As a
result, this measure will be a few to several points
higher than the one that matters most for you.
Occasionally some clinics may report their
success rates on a cumulative rather than a per
transfer basis. Cumulative success rates calculated
over multiple embryo transfers will be higher in
comparison to per transfer success rates.
Cumulative rates can be helpful if understood
correctly, but intended parents may be confused
in thinking that a Live Birth Rate presented on a
cumulative basis is comparable to one presented
on a per transfer basis. For example, a 67% Live
Birth Rate Per Transfer will represent a much
greater chance of success on the first transfer
attempt (and therefore a lower cost and shorter
timeframe) than a 67% Cumulative Live Birth
Rate calculated over say three transfers.
Generally speaking it takes more than one
embryo transfer to achieve a live birth. So
from a practical point of view you may want to
translate the Live Birth Rate Per Transfer into
an estimation of the number of embryo transfer
attempts you may actually need in order to
achieve a live birth. It is this number of expected
embryo transfer attempts that will influence the
number of viable embryos you should hope to
obtain from your egg retrieval and embryology
cycle. It will also impact how you plan your
budget and timetable.
If an embryo transfer needs to be repeated then
this will add to your timeline and costs. Extra
costs may include the transfer procedure itself
and related medications, pre and post transfer
monitoring, as well as other costs such as travel.
You can estimate the potential number of embryo
transfers you may need to achieve a live birth. Using
the Live Birth Rate Per Transfer, you can calculate
the cumulative probability that you will have a live
birth within a certain number of transfers.
In the example below, using a Live Birth Rate
Per Transfer of 50%, intended parents would
have a 88% chance of having a live birth within
3 transfers. They may get lucky and have a live
birth on the first or second transfer, and there
still remains a small chance that they will not
have been successful by the third transfer. This
type of calculation can help intended parents
plan for the possible implications to their budget
and timeline of their IVF clinic’s success rate.
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Indicative Added Costs of Having to Repeat an Embryo Transfer
Live Birth Within n
Embryo Transfers
Cumulative Probability
of Live Birth 1
Indicative Added
Months 2 Indicative Added Cost 3
1 50% -
2 75% +2-4 $3,000 – 5,000
3 88% +4-8 $6,000 – 10,000
4 94% +6-12 $9,000 – 15,000
1. Based on the SART-reported US National Live Birth Rate Per Transfer in 2016 for all donor egg + surrogacy frozen embryo transfers.
2. 2-4 months in an indicative period of time to prepare for and undergo a repeat embryo transfer.
3. $3,000 – 5,000 is an indicative additional cost of elements associated with a repeat embryo transfer. If an additional egg retrieval
and embryology cycle were needed these costs would be extra.
Success the First Time
In my family’s own journey, we found that this
type of understating of success rates helpful.
It focussed us on the factors that would help
keep our journey on track, namely obtaining
the highest number of viable embryos and
minimising the number of required transfers.
It also allowed us to plan our budget and
timeline, accounting for the probability that
we might have to repeat either step in the IVF
process. Thankfully, we had the first-time
success that we were hoping for and I believe
that the decisions we made, armed with this
understanding, played a big part in this.
US IVF Success Rate Resources
For those intended parents looking at IVF
treatment in the USA, there are two online,
public databases that contain national and
individual US IVF clinic success rates - The US
Society for Assisted Reproductive Technology
(SART) at SART.org and the US Centers for
Disease Control (CDC) at cdc.gov/art.
SART has been recording US IVF clinic
success rates since 1988. Additionally, since
1992 all US IVF clinics have been mandated
by the US government to report their success
rate data to the CDC. SART membership is
voluntary for US IVF clinics. About 80% of
US IVF clinics are SART members and about
95% of US IVF cycles are captured in the
SART success rate database.
Both SART and the CDC have now released
the 2016 live birth success rates for US IVF
procedures and this represents the most
current US live birth success rates. The 2016
data is available alongside the 2015 data for
year-on-year comparisons. The 2017 live birth
rate data will be known and reported in the
Spring of 2019.
The SART database allows for easy filtering
by clinic for specific procedure types –
surrogacy, egg donation, PGS/PGD testing,
and more – as well as for the specific number
of embryos transferred.
Craig is a regular contributor to Fertility
Road on third party reproduction.
Look for his upcoming articles on egg
donation and surrogacy in future issues
of Fertility Road or contact him at
oregonreproductivemedicine.com.
This functionality is a real benefit for
intended parents considering US IVF
clinics as they can now search for live birth
success rates for the exact procedure they
are seeking to undergo by clinic, as well
as US national averages for comparison.
It also allows them to view consistently
prepared and presented data and live birth
success rates for every clinic they may be
considering. It allows them to reference a
clinic’s 2016 data to its 2015 results as well
to national statistics for both periods.
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What Women Need To
Know About Polycystic
Ovary Syndrome
By Michael Ah-Moye FRCOG, CEO and Consultant Gynaecologist
What are polycystic ovaries?
The term Polycystic ovaries was coined in the
1930’s because it was thought that the ovaries
contained many cysts, which was incorrect as
the “cysts” are in fact just follicles. A follicle is
where an egg develops. Polycystic ovaries are
usually larger in size and contain more follicles
than normal.
What is polycystic ovary
syndrome?
It is important to know that having polycystic
ovaries does not necessarily mean that the woman
has Polycystic Ovary syndrome. Some women
have polycystic ovaries without any symptoms.
Only women manifesting symptoms are classified
as having the syndrome. Studies show that 20 –
25% of all women have polycystic ovaries, but less
than 10% will have the syndrome.
Polycystic ovary syndrome (known as PCOS) is,
therefore, a common hormone disorder. It can
cause a woman’s menstrual cycle to be longer
than normal, be irregular and infrequent, and
in severe forms, there may be no periods at all.
PCOS can affect a woman’s ability to conceive
and may affect her appearance with excess
body and facial hair, acne and oily skin, and a
tendency to be overweight.
What causes PCOS?
There is no known cause for PCOS and why some
women develop it while others don’t. However, we
do know that it often runs in the family, so there
may be a genetic link to the condition.
What are the symptoms of
PCOS?
•Irregular periods where there are longer gaps in
between periods or no periods at all
• Increase in facial and body hair known as
hirsutism
• Loss of hair on the head
• Oily skin and acne
• Problem with fertility
• Overweight
Most of the symptoms of PCOS are due to the
abnormal hormone levels associated with the
condition and can vary tremendously from
woman to woman. The hormones that are
abnormal, are raised levels of the male hormone
testosterone and also insulin which is a hormone
linked to diabetes.
Women trying to fall pregnant may also face
difficulties, due to ovulatory problems associated
with PCOS. There also appears to be an increased
risk of miscarriages.
Mood swings and depression
Women with PCOS are more likely to experience
higher levels of depression and low self-esteem,
caused both by the hormonal imbalances of the
condition or by the symptoms it presents. If
you are experiencing mood swings, do get help
from your doctor for both your PCOS and your
depression, even if it means a referral to a mental
health specialist.
Diagnosis
As already mentioned some women with
polycystic ovaries do not have the syndrome and
therefore do not have any symptoms. Many are
diagnosed when they seek help for their infertility.
Others have symptoms but are unaware of what
causes them. Symptoms to look out for: irregular,
infrequent periods and an increase in facial or
body hair.
The best investigations to diagnose polycystic
ovaries are ultrasound scan of the ovaries and
hormone tests to check the levels of Anti-
Mullerian Hormone (AMH) and testosterone.
What are the long-term
consequences of PCOS?
Irregular periods can increase the risk of uterine
cancer, acne can cause scarring, and weight can
become harder to manage. Getting diagnosed and
treated sooner rather than later is the best way to
lower the risk of these problems.
Insulin resistance and
diabetes
In PCOS the body responds less well to insulin
which leads to a higher level of insulin and
increased glucose level. Raised insulin may
lead to irregular periods, weight gain, increased
testosterone and fertility problems. It is estimated
that 10-20% of women with PCOS go on to develop
diabetes in later life. Furthermore, women with
PCOS have an increased risk of diabetes if they are
over 40 years old, have a family history of diabetes,
have developed gestational diabetes in previous
pregnancies and those who are obese.
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Cancer
A very small number of PCOS women who have
significantly fewer periods per year than normal
are at risk of developing endometrial cancer due
to the womb lining remaining thicker. There
are means of reducing the risk which involve
hormones and depends whether the woman is
trying to conceive or not.
Hypertension
PCOS women are more prone to raised blood
pressure which may be linked to obesity and
insulin resistance.
Snoring and drowsiness
There appears to a link between PCOS and snoring
leading to tiredness and drowsiness.
What can be done to reduce
the long-term consequences
of PCOS?
Diet and Weight loss
A healthy lifestyle is important to help reduce the
symptoms of PCOS. First of all, a healthy balanced
diet is strongly advised. This should include
plenty of fruits and vegetables and whole food
e.g. wholemeal bread, brown rice and whole grain
cereals, lean meat, fish and chicken. Consume less
carbohydrates and salt, avoid alcohol and exercise
regularly.
If you are overweight it is advisable to lose weight.
The benefits of losing weight are:
• Lower risk of developing diabetes and insulin
resistance
• Lower risk of heart problems
• Lower risk of cancer of the womb
• Improving your fertility and the chance of
pregnancy
• Improve regularity of your periods
• Improve skin condition with less acne and
hirsutism
• Less depression and mood swings
It is important to note that losing a small amount
of weight can make a significant difference to the
symptoms of PCOS and at the same time make
you healthier.
Regular health checks
Make sure you have your blood pressure and blood
sugar checked by your GP regularly, at least once
a year especially if you are overweight and have a
family history of diabetes.
How to get pregnant
with PCOS?
Most women with the milder form of PCOS do
conceive naturally, though in general, it takes them
longer to do so than average. On the other hand,
women with the moderate to severe form of PCOS
will have more difficulty conceiving naturally and
often require help from fertility specialists. They
have what is termed “ovulatory disorders.”
For women with ovulatory disorders, the first
line treatment is trying fertility tablets such as
clomifene citrate which stimulates ovulation
although the tablets themselves can reduce
conception as they adversely affect the womb
lining (endometrium) where embryos implant.
This is why there is no benefit in taking fertility
tablets if a woman is already ovulating on her own.
An alternative is to use fertility injections which are
more powerful and works differently to the tablets
in that they do not affect the womb lining. There
is, however, a higher risk of multiple births and
requires ultrasound monitoring to reduce the risk.
Another option is In-Vitro Fertilisation (IVF)
should the above be unsuccessful. Whereas women
with PCOS have a problem conceiving naturally,
their chance of being successful through IVF is the
same as other women without PCOS.
It is pertinent to note that because women with
PCOS have more follicles than normal, there
is a tendency to produce more eggs during
IVF leading to a condition known as Ovarian
Hyperstimulation Syndrome (OHSS).
Our fertility experts at Herts & Essex Fertility
Centre have devised a protocol to treat PCOS
patients with a special trigger to ripen the eggs.
This is designed to reduce many times the risk of
OHSS in patients with too many eggs, as opposed
to the standard trigger which itself initiates the
whole process of OHSS in those particular women.
Finally, is there a cure
for PCOS?
Unfortunately, there is no cure for PCOS.
Medical treatments are aimed to manage and
reduce the symptoms or consequences of having
PCOS. Medication alone has not been shown
to be any better than healthy lifestyle changes
(weight loss and exercise). Many women with PCOS
successfully manage their symptoms and longterm
health risks without medical intervention.
They do this by eating a healthy diet, exercising
regularly and maintaining a healthy lifestyle.
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ALPHAZITA True Holistic Fertility
Care and Fertility Retreats
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By adopting this
holistic approach,
couples can lay down
the foundations, not just
for conception but for
healthy uncomplicated
pregnancies
A new series of articles looking at initiatives;
innovation and development in international
fertility begins with an exploration of
AlphaZita, a new concept which uses a multidisciplinary
approach to stimulate positive
fertility health.
Fertility Road’s Editor, Andrew Coutts went to
hear a little more from the AlphaZita team.
‘Wellness Tourism’ involves people who travel
to follow activities that maintain or enhance
their physical, Psychological and Physiological
wellbeing. According to the Global Wellness
Institute, the total expenditure from both
international inbound and domestic
tourists defined as ‘wellness tourists’
is expected to grow to $808 billion
by 2020. They estimate that
nearly 700 million trips that
incorporated some aspect of
wellness were made in the last
year. International wellness is
becoming big business.
ALPHAZITA takes an innovative
approach to wellness tourism and
combines it with more traditional
types of medical support which is provided
by experts representing different countries and
different specialisms. A team of acclaimed and
experienced Doctors, Acupuncturists, Fertility
Massage Therapists, Nutritionists and Fertility
coaches have been brought together with the aim
of promoting natural fertility and optimizing
physically, emotionally and spiritually patients’
status during their fertility journey.
The philosophy of AlphaZita is summed up by
its founder, Dr Elias Tsakos, fertility specialist
and Fellow of the Royal College of Obstetricians
& Gynaecologists, “patients are treated
individually by a team of Specialists in a unique
and true holistic manner. Our aim is to educate,
support, encourage and empower our patients in
their fertility journey”
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Patients receive valuable
treatments and consultations
in a relaxed non-clinical
environment and they increase
their fertility awareness and
their overall natural fertility.
“A fertility retreat is an amazing experience; it’s an
opportunity to come and meet Therapists bringing
a fusion together of Complementary Medicine
with Conventional Medicine. At the AlphaZita
Fertility Retreats, patients have the opportunity to
spend 2-3 days together with all the Therapists, all
being one, all communicating, all connecting. It’s a
life changing experience” added Miss Clare Blake,
Fertility Massage Therapist and Founder of Fertility
Massage Therapy.
At AlphaZita you get a feeling that education,
understanding, flexibility and mindfulness
underpins much of what they do. Miss Gordana
Petrovic, Fertility Acupuncturist points out,
“the benefits of Holistic Fertility Coaching
are multiple. Education is key for all
Fertility patients and as long
as patients know what
therapies exist and what
help is available,
they will be more
reassured and
more relaxed.
The AlphaZita
programme
provides a
continuity of care
of step of the way”
What was refreshing
to hear from the team
was the belief that their
intervention would help support
and maintain good health prior,
during and after patients’ fertility journey;
“By adopting this holistic approach, couples can lay
down the foundations, not just for conception but
for healthy uncomplicated pregnancies. We care
about every aspect of your physical and emotional
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help and as we teach you to improve balance in
your body. Participants are aware that their general
health improves alongside their fertility and they are
encouraged to carry these benefits throughout life” -
Miss Rosie Letts, Fertility & Pregnancy Nutritionist.
From a patient’s point of view, I can see the very
real benefits of access to diverse specialists in a
safe and comfortable environment. It is the level
of access which is not ordinarily available in
clinics and one which is recognised by Dr Tsakos;
“Fertility education, fertility awareness,
pre-conception care and fertility coaching
are important areas supported by substantial
scientific evidence. During a technical and
clinical appointment at a fertility clinic there is
usually limited time, resources and expertise to
explore vital areas of fertility care for everyone.
As a fertility specialist, I often felt that I was
failing my patients for being unable to address
their stress levels, their nutrition, their emotions,
their mindset and for strictly dealing with
the medical part of their care. Most Medical
specialties offer a multidisciplinary approach
to their patients and it seems that Fertility care
would perhaps be more complete, if it regularly
embraced other disciplines as well, maintaining
the wellbeing of the patient as the main focus.”
Retreat participants from the UK, Europe and the
US have benefitted from the events which have
been hosted in 5-star resorts across Greece. The
informal schedule on offer includes individual
bespoke treatment sessions, lectures and group
sessions. Post retreat, care and support is
maintained via individually designed packages
and the delivery team are available to respond to
any medical, emotional and spiritual needs.
The retreats are offered (attendance does cost)
to single men and women; couples with (or
without) fertility issues who wish to enhance
their natural and/or assisted fertility. Females,
males and couples with fertility issues who wish
to enhance their natural and assisted fertility.
Fertility professionals (Doctors, Nurses/Midwives,
Acupuncturists, Massage Therapists, Nutritionists,
Coaches, Councillors, Coordinators, Health Care
Assistants, and Volunteers) who wish to familiarize
themselves with holistic fertility care. A Certificate
of attendance is offered if individual professionals
wish to use their participation as CPD evidence.
Feedback from those who have participated in the
retreats is very positive with many agreeing that
“the experience has been very different to what we
have experienced so far”. Many others point out
that the unique atmosphere created away from
clinics allows them to take time out, to understand
and appreciate their own fertility journey. The
informality of the retreat allows unparalleled
access to the specialist team and enables
participants to forge relationships with others who
our on the same journey – I am sure relationships
that will last well beyond the AlphaZita retreat.
On a personal level the benefits are tangible;
patients receive valuable treatments and
consultations in a relaxed non-clinical environment
and they increase their fertility awareness and
their overall natural fertility. Retreats can increase
general physical and emotional wellbeing; lower
stress levels and allow participants to stay focused
while exploring all fertility options available, both
conventional and complementary.
AlphaZita seem to get it. Patients receive
personalized care with respect and honesty,
consistency and communication, understanding
and trust. A unique true holistic retreat of
fertility care. The retreat opportunity presents
a life changing and life creating experience. The
Fertility Retreat I believe, has a future and the
AlphaZita blueprint is a good example to follow.
The next AlphaZita Fertility retreat is
scheduled for 11-14 October 2018, at 5 Star
SaniResort.com, Greece. Limited places
available on alphazita.com
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EXPERT: Russell Davis
It’s Me or
Baby
Infertility can put a strain on the best of
relationships. It is never something a couple
expects to go through or can imagine how it
will be when they start out. You can quickly
go from deciding it's time to start trying for
a baby to it impacting every area of your life,
talking to clinics about treatments you never
dreamed you would need and wonder how you
got to this place.
Over time, ‘Project Baby’ can become allconsuming.
It can infiltrate all aspects of life. From
lovemaking, the food you eat, whether or how
much alcohol you drink, what social events you do
or don’t go to and even the size of your friendship
circle as more and more friends have children. As
time goes by, the intensity can increase as the fear
of time running out gets grows.
Having a baby is supposed to come from a
place of deep love and connection but can often
become the source of a wedge between a couple.
It can go from something that you expect would
give such great joy to be the kill-joy.
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Sarah came to see me to help her be in the best
place possible to get pregnant. However, she was
frustrated her partner wasn’t making any effort.
He didn’t seem to care how much he was drinking
or whether he smoked or not even though there
was a problem with his sperm quality. She said it’s
like he’s given up, he can’t be bothered with it any
more. This hurt her. She felt he didn’t care about
her and them having a family together.
What if one partner says ‘enough is enough’?
What if it comes to the situation of being ‘me or
baby’? Or more accurately me or Project Baby?
Dealing with infertility can be tough enough on
its own. Unfortunately, a study found that the
pain of infertility can cause even more pain and
heartache. Couples who didn’t have a baby after
fertility treatment were more likely to break up.
For the study, which was published in the journal
Acta Obstetricia et Gynecologica Scandinavica,
Danish researchers tracked
47,515 women who were
evaluated for infertility over
12 years. After the 12-year
follow-up period, it turns
out that the women who
didn’t have a child were up
to three times more likely to
have divorced or ended their
relationship with the person they
were with at the time of the study than
the women who gave birth.
This shows the need to ensure Project Baby doesn’t
become the sole focus in the relationship at any
time; open and honest communication and
connection is the priority. This creates the glue
and also keeps both parties on the same page.
If one of you has had enough, the first thing
to explore is what have they had enough of. I
would suggest is not the idea of having a baby
Over time,
‘Project Baby’
can become allconsuming
but the impact that it’s having
on the relationship and life as
a whole.
They probably resent that
Project Baby has crawled
its way into every area of
life with what appears to be
negative consequences. The
carefree fun-loving times have
seemed to be replaced by regimes,
timetables, rules about what you can or can’t
eat, not being able to have a drink and a partner,
who is more often than not, anxious, distressed
or depressed.
Do these experiences have to go with the
territory? Is it possible to continue trying to
have a baby as well as living life to the full in the
now? Is it really ‘me or the baby’ or ‘me or the
all-consuming, partner-imploding, fun-zapping
Project Baby?
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If it is the former, then open and honest conversations
need to take place about the future of the relationship
and where your lives are going. Keep reading and you’ll
find something to help you with that.
If it is the latter, then I have some good news.
It is possible to continue to explore having a
baby without all the distress and for it to come
all-consuming. In fact, you are more likely to be
successful that way.
Project Baby takes over when it is founded on
fear. Fear of not being successful. Fear of not
having what you think a baby will give you. I
have asked many people what they think having
a baby will give them. More often than not the
answer is something like fulfilment, purpose
or happiness. I genuinely believed we would be
happier with a baby than without.
This is living ‘outside-in’. This is thinking I’ll be
happy when… or I’ll be happy if… people do this
with all sorts of things. ‘I can relax and be happy
when I have more money’. ‘I’m okay if people
don’t think badly of me’. ‘I’m okay I’ve proved
myself to be okay’. The thing is it’s just not true.
Nothing has the power to make us feel anything.
100% of our experience comes from thought. Our
perception of the situation, not the situation itself.
I was very much in this place. It wasn’t until the
middle of our fertility journey I realised this
was the case. I’d been like it all my life. I’ll be
OK when I’ve proved to my parents I am good
enough, then my teachers, then it
became my employer. I was a
people pleaser. It wasn’t until
I let go of this and KNEW
I was OK for who I was
that I needed nothing
to be OK, that I found
peace of mind on
our fertility journey.
It wasn’t until we
realised we could create
a life that is inspiring
and fulfilling with or
without children than things
happened for us, naturally
against all odds. The underlying fear
of not having a baby was impacting our fertility
as well as day to day happiness in life.
If you feel like this I recommend you look
at exploring some therapy or counselling to
help you let go of the fear of not having a
baby. For you to know you are OK now, there’s
nothing you need to be OK. The fear of not
having a baby is usually fuelled by a fear of
failure or fear of not being good enough or
not deserving. The emotional roller coaster of
infertility can shine a spotlight on these things.
They are not really about having a baby but
are contaminating your experience of trying
to have a baby. Thee can create psychological
blocks to getting pregnant.
Whatever the specifics of the situation if
one partner decides enough is enough there
needs to be some open and honest dialogue in
order to understand how each other feels; not
what anyone thinks. Not to fix each other’s
feelings or change their thinking about it. To
understand how they feel. To get into their head
and understand it from their perspective. Their
perspective on whether you think it’s right or
wrong. Too often we communicate to defend
our position, to tell our partner where they
are wrong if we feel criticised, to fix problems
and make them feel better rather than to truly
seek to understand them. To understand how
they feel about things. Men are often a little
rusty at communicating feelings but quick to
fix problems and not hear what their partner is
wanting them to hear, how they feel about it.
I recommend you
look at exploring some
therapy or counselling
to help you let go of the
fear of not having a
baby
I suggest in this situation each person writes
down how they feel about the situation. Not what
they think, how they feel. This process can help
men to be more aware of the feeling within them,
especially if they keep the pen moving..
Writing can also help each other identify the
feelings the other person is communicating. I
found when I read something my wife had written
it stopped me interrupting to fix the problem. It
helped me focus on the feelings she wanted me to
hear and understand. I would read it twice to make
sure I’d really ‘heard’ them.
Once you have both written
how you feel about the
situation you can take
turns in talking about
what each other has
written. The listener/
reader can ask
questions to ensure
they’ve understood,
what they think is
being communicated. To
understand what is meant
behind the words. If someone
says they feel angry what does that
really mean? How angry? What’s that
anger like? A word can mean different things to
different people so it’s important to understand
the experience behind the words that are being
communicated.
All too often we hear what we think we’ve heard
and not really heard what was being said. This
is about really understanding each other and
where each other are at on this journey. It’s can
be a long and tough journey. Sometimes people
want to give up. Sometimes this is a passing
experience, sometimes it goes deeper.
Don’t jump to conclusions about what the other
person is saying. Don’t make it into what you think
it is or means. Listen. Seek to understand. From that
place, there is no situation you cannot deal with.
At the end of the day, whatever happens, you
are going to be OK. Whatever happens. Our
psychological well-being is within us. You may
not feel OK at any time but underneath the
emotional experience is a soul that’s got this and
whatever happens covered. Emotions come and
go, you cannot hold on to them forever even if
you wanted to.
Take a breath, come back to the here and now
and seek to connect, understand and you may
find it’s not what you think it is.
Russell is a fertility coach supporting
couples on their journey. You can contact
him via his website thefertilemind.net
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How fertility treatment may
aect your partner
Stress: Fertility treatment can amplify anything
stressful in a couple’s life, and simple daily things
can just be too much for your partner to handle
at the minute. Try to be considerate to see if
there is anything you can to do help take the
weight off of her shoulders.
Insecurities: Fertility treatment can intensify
your partners sensitivities and triggers, making it
difficult to be around babies and pregnant women
(including family members). Be understanding
and try not to question these emotions.
Depression: It is extremely common for women
to feel low and depressed while going through
fertility treatment. Watch outs are: loss of appetite,
inability to sleep, excess sleeping, eating a lot,
and generally feeling very sad. If your partner is
showing any of these signs you should encourage
her to talk to her fertility specialist or a fertility
counsellor (usually available through your clinic).
ow can you support her
through treatment
There are four main ways you can support
your partner:
Emotional support (listening, empathising, hugs)
Self-esteem support (telling her you love, admire
and respect her)
Informational support (doing research, asking
questions)
Practical support (take on responsibilities,
planning logistics)
motional Support e there
for her
One of the best things you can do during IVF
treatment is to listen. Don’t try to fix it or suggest
solutions. Just listen with empathy. She doesn’t
expect you to make things better, she knows you
can’t fix the problem. She just wants to know you
hear her and that you sympathise.
Sometimes just giving her a hug will help you
show your support and make her feel loved.
Holding her hand, letting her cry on your
shoulder, and just being there (not on your
phone) is all she needs.
It may be difficult to know how to best help her,
so ask her how she wants you to help her. All the
hormones play havoc on the emotions and your
partner may be fine one minute and floods of tears
the next. Similarly, she may want to talk about
everything one minute and the next not want to
talk about anything to do with treatment.
I know this makes it hard to know what to do for
the best. Cut her some slack, she’s pumping herself
full of hormones every day and ask her how she
wants you to help her. She can tell you what she
needs at that exact moment and you can help her.
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Selfesteem support
e her biggest cheerleader
Your wife’s self-esteem may be suffering, and
the indignities and side effects of IVF treatment
don’t help. Try to keep any criticism and sarcasm
to a minimum and think about whether it is wise
to make jokes at inappropriate times (even if it is
to lighten the mood).
Compliment her on how she looks as she is likely
to be feeling bloated and not her usual self – be
genuine with your compliments so she believes
you. Any little boosts to her
confidence will put a smile
on her face and make her
day a bit brighter.
t’s really
important that you
don’t blame each other
for the fertility issues
and don’t blame yourself
you are in this as
a team
Show her you admire
her for what she
is going through,
that you think she’s
great and handling
everything really well.
Show her you love and
appreciate her – it doesn’t
have to be big gestures,
something as simples as flowers,
chocolates, a hug, or saying ‘I love you’, just to
show you understand what she is going through
physically and emotionally – trust me, she’ll thank
you for it.
nformational Support
Do our esearch
The man’s role in fertility treatments is different
from his partners in that he will mainly play a
support role as his partner does the physical side
of treatment. You can help by doing research
on treatment – clinics, add ons, side effects, the
process, finances, payment plans – so you can
support your partner through the process.
Understanding the impact of treatment on your
partner’s body and the way infertility in general
makes her feel can help you support her better
– it will show your partner that you are
interested in her well-being.
You can also research other
lifestyle factors that may help
with conception and feeling
prepared for treatment.
Look in to ways that you
and your partner can relieve
stress, nutritional advice and
emotional support.
ractical support
rganise all the dull bits
Between the stress and the physical effects of fertility
treatment, your wife may be feeling more tired than
usual, and all the hormones can cause some side
effects such as nausea, fatigue and even pain.
Taking on some of the day to day chores that you
don’t normally do will ease the pressure on her
and show that you appreciate that she is taking the
brunt of the physical side of treatment.
You could take on all the logistics and planning
side of fertility treatment – timings of journeys,
booking hotels, picking up medication.
You could also offer practical support in terms of
nutrition – buying healthy snacks and cutting out/
down alcohol as a support to her.
It’s really important that you don’t blame each
other for the fertility issues and don’t blame
yourself – you are in this as a team, it is a joint
issue that you will work through together.
Supporting yourself through
Fertility treatment
We can’t get away from the fact that most of the
pain of treatment is felt by women (physically and
emotionally), but it is often forgotten that men
experience emotional stress, they have to watch
their partner go through the gruelling process of
IVF, have to go through invasive procedures and
they also long for the family they want to create.
Many men feel hopeless during this period as there is
nothing they can physically do to take the pain and
stress off their wife. They empathise with how their
wife is feeling, but they may also feel overwhelmed by
the depth of their wife’s emotion and pain.
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partner) a fertility professional (Counsellor,
fertility Coach) or a support group where it is
more anonymous.
hink about the things you want
to do and achieve
Infertility and going through treatment can
make you put plans you have on hold. Write a
list of things you’ve always wanted to do and
achieve and create a plan to start doing some of
them. There may be time and money constraints
around treatment, but it will give you a sense of
achievement and something to focus on outside
of treatment.
Do things you enoy
Men and women deal with
the stress of infertility
in very different ways,
and it is important to
remember that no way
is right or wrong. Each
person processes their
pain in a way that works
for them, and it’s important
to find what works for you.
Communication is so important
in couples struggling with fertility, and
honesty and openness can save marriages.
Supporting your partner through IVF is so
important, but it’s also really important to look
after yourself through the process and get the
support you need.
There are lots of ways to help cope with infertility
and IVF:
ake control of the things you can
Infertility can make you feel out of control of your
life and your future, and when you go through IVF
it can feel like the process is out of your control,
with all the timings, hospital visits and medications.
However, there are things that you can control;
Lifestyle – you can make sure you are eating
healthily, avoiding alcohol, reducing/stopping
caffeine. These things are important for your body
to be in the optimum state for sperm production,
but you will also feel better in yourself.
Mindset – you may feel that you don’t have
any control over how you feel, but you do have
full control. You can make a choice to be in the
right mindset for going through treatment and
supporting your partner.
en and women
deal with the stress of
infertility in very dierent
ways, and it is important to
remember that no way is
right or wrong.
Practical – although a lot
of the process is out of
your control, control
the things you can –
research treatment so
you can ask informed
questions, research add on
treatments, so you are clear
on what you do/don’t want,
organise logistics and plan
treats around procedures to give
you both something to look forward to.
Don’t bottle it up
Its normal to feel that you need to be a rock
for your partner and that you can’t show your
emotions, but it’s important that you address your
feelings and have a way to cope.
Everyone copes differently, and there is no right
or wrong way, it’s just important to have an outlet
for your feelings:
Write in a journal – you can write freely without
worry of someone reading it. Use it to scribble
down your feelings, worries and frustrations. It
can be quite therapeutic!
Write a blog – this is a good way to talk through
your feelings anonymously, and it may help
others in the same situation if you choose to
share it.
alk it out
You may find it difficult to talk about what
you are going through and how you are feeling,
but it’s important that your feelings are heard.
There are lots of options for people you can talk
to – either someone you know (friend, family,
Plan things that you enjoy, so that infertility isn’t
your only focus - gym, exercise, walking, reading,
computer games, seeing friends.
Spend time as a couple
It’s really important to remember why you are
together as a couple and spend quality time
together. You need this, so you don’t feel the
focus is only on having a baby and that you’re
only needed for your swimmers. Spending time
together gives you chance to talk openly if you
want to about how you are both feeling and
anything about treatment.
Set time limits for how long you talk about the
treatment and infertility, so your conversations
don’t just revolve around trying for a baby.
This can add to the stress and pressure in the
relationship. Also set times when you don’t discuss
it – for example if you’re out for a meal, so it gives
you time to focus on the other good things in your
life and each other.
Remember to look after yourself and get the
support you need, you will be better able to support
your partner through treatment and both be in a
better state as a couple to cope on this journey.
Sarah Banks is a Fertility coach and mentor
who works with fertility professionals to
enhance their patient experience and success
rates. She helps them understand how
patients feel, the emotional support they need
and helps implement support structures.
She also works on a 1-to-1 basis with women
struggling to conceive, to improve their
emotional state and increase their chances of
getting pregnant.
For further information contact her on
sarahsarahbanks.coach or via her website
sarahbanks.coach.
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TESTINGryan oodward
is the erson esponsible at
Fertility, a new fertility clinic in eicester
specialising in male fertility, and lowtech
fertility treatments such as and D. ryan
is coeditor of the book ale nfertility
Sperm Diagnosis, anagement and Delivery’
which covers all aspect of male fertility for
professionals and patients.
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EXPERT: Bryan Woodward
When it comes to fertility problems, it is a
sad fact that some GPs, will go gung-ho into
investigating the female partner, whilst the
male is often left on the side-lines with no
investigations. As a result, he may watch whilst
his wife has numerous blood tests to check her
various hormone levels throughout
her menstrual cycle; some
women are even admitted
to hospital to have their
Fallopian tubes checked
out, to ensure they
aren't blocked, and
this is all before the
man has any questions
raised about his
fertility status
Yet, nowadays, fertility
problems are attributed more
or less equally between the male
and the female. Therefore, one of the first
tests to perform for a couple who experience
trouble conceiving is a semen test for the man.
Please note, this is called a ‘semen test’, rather
than a ‘sperm test’. Yes, we will be looking for
sperm – after all we need to find sperm so that we
know there is a chance of this cell fertilising an
egg. However, a semen test is so much more than
just looking for sperm, as I’ll explain later.
To assess semen, the first step is to ask the man
to produce a sample. For some, this is a simple
process, over in less than 5 minutes. For others,
this can be a source of great anxiety. Some men
may not be able to masturbate, whilst for others
the act of masturbation may be contrary to their
religious belief or way of life. If this is the case,
then condoms can be used, to obtain the semen
sample by sexual intercourse. However, use of
a condom can cause complications; firstly, it is
important to check that the condom material
is not toxic to sperm, and secondly, much
t is a sad fact
that some s, will go
gungho into investigating
the female partner, whilst
the male is often left on
the sidelines with no
investigations.
care is needed to ensure that the sample isn’t
contaminated by any other cells during the
withdrawal process, such as cells from the vagina,
as these may affect the sperm.
There is also the question of whether the man should
produce the sample ‘on-site’ at the clinic, or whether
he should produce it ‘off-site’, for example at home.
Specialist fertility clinics usually have specific rooms
for on-site production, although the quality of the
room is variable. Oddly, the name for this room also
varies, from the basic “Male production room” to the
more Latin-sounding “Masturbatorium” (this word
has made it into Google’s Wiktionary but has yet to
be included in the Oxford English Dictionary!).
There are many advantages to producing a
semen sample on-site, since the environment
and timing can be better controlled. Ideally the
specimen container should be pre-warmed to body
temperature (37C) and then placed into an incubator
at the same temperature immediately after the
sample is collected. Off-site production inevitably
runs the risk of variations in temperature during the
journey to the clinic (may be not so much
in the recent summer heat-wave, but
certainly in during the colder
months. There is also the
time-factor to consider: the
semen needs to be analysed
within 60 minutes of
production, to ensure an
accurate assessment of
the swimming ability of
any sperm. Many clinics
will reject a semen sample if
it arrives even 1 minute later,
which can add to the stress for the
man who produces ‘off-site’.
Once the sample is safely in the andrology lab, the
semen analysis can begin. The first test is to assess
the colour, which optimally should be an opalescent
grey. An opaquer sample may indicate a low sperm
count, whereas a more yellow sample may indicate a
possible infection, jaundice, or that the man may be
taking some form of drugs. A reddish-brown colour
usually indicates that red blood cells are present. In
this case, it is essential to check how this might have
been caused – was it by the masturbation process,
or is the man’s natural ejaculate colour? If the latter,
then further testing should be sought as soon as
possible to rule out any internal problems with any
of the reproductive system or the prostate.
We then test the volume of the ejaculate. In 2010,
the World Health Organisation (WHO) stated that
the lower limit of fertility was a volume of 1.5ml.
This means that if the volume of the sample is
less than 1.5ml, then there could be a problem. If
a man produces an ejaculate with a small volume
or even no volume at all, then retro-ejaculation
is a possibility. Retro-ejaculation is a condition
where, at the point of orgasm, the semen passes
backwards into the bladder rather than out of
the penis. It should be noted that this is a rare
condition, affecting 1% couples undergoing fertility
investigations, and is more common in men who
have had prostate surgery, suffer from diabetes, or
take medication for high blood pressure.
The next parameter to be tested is semen pH, a
test of alkalinity and acidity. Semen is made up
of secretions from various glands which support
the sperm when it is deposited at the top of the
vagina during intercourse. Secretions from the
prostate are acidic, whilst those from other glands,
such as the seminal vesicles, are more alkaline. If
there is an obstruction or problem with any of the
ducts, then this can affect the pH. Semen should be
slightly alkaline (above pH7.2). However, sample pH
increases with time from production, as the sample
is exposed to air in the container. This is another
reason why it is important to control the time from
production to analysis. If the pH is too high, then
this could indicate an infection, possibly due to
decreased secretions from the prostate.
The final test that is performed, before looking down
the microscope, is the liquefaction and viscosity of
the sample. The reason Mother Nature made semen
viscous immediately after ejaculation, is to keep the
semen within the vagina to allow the sperm to start
swimming towards the egg. The medical term for the
semen at this stage is a coagulum. If it wasn’t viscous
coagulum, the semen would immediately fall out
after intercourse! A normal sample should liquefy
within 30-60 minutes, although liquefaction is often
completed within 20 minutes. If a sample doesn’t
liquefy after 60 minutes, this could compromise
sperm motility, hence the importance of the test.
At the same time as assessing liquefaction, the
general consistency of the semen is also assessed
for anything unusual, such as the presence of
crystals. These could be caused by uric acid, but
if crystals are present, regardless of the cause,
then further investigation by a urologist is
recommended, as ejaculation may also be painful.
Once these ‘macroscopic’ tests (visual tests
without use of a microscope) are complete, it is
time to begin the ‘microscopic’ tests.
he Shape of Sperm
In fertile men, and even super-fertile sperm donors,
the majority of sperm are not the correct shape.
The WHO has put a lower limit of just 4% sperm
needing to be the correct shape for fertility. The
grading of each sperm follows strict criteria, and a
full assessment requires the grading of at least 400
sperm. Of particular importance is detecting if a
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man just has ‘round-headed’ sperm. This indicates a
condition called ‘globozoospermia’, whereby all the
sperm lack a sperm cap on the top of the head called
an ‘acrosome’. It is the acrosome that is essential
for fertilisation, as this helps the sperm penetrate
the egg. Even if there are lots of fast moving sperm,
if the sperm are round-headed, then natural
fertilisation is highly unlikely.
he ovement of Sperm
A sperm needs to swim forward to have a chance
of fertilisation. If we consider the journey that
the sperm has to make naturally, it is quite an
ordeal. Firstly, it has to swim towards the cervix,
then through the cervical mucus to enter the
uterus. Many sperm are naturally filtered out
at this point. The next journey is to find the
Fallopian tube and swim through the ciliated
cells that line this structure. Fertilisation takes
place at the top of the Fallopian tube, where
the ovulated egg is hopefully waiting. This
progressive movement, termed ‘motility’ is
essential. The WHO has put a lower limit of 32%
for sperm moving progressively forward to be
classed as fertile.
Please note though, even if a sample has no
moving sperm, it is still possible to achieve
a pregnancy, provided the sperm are alive.
There are various lab tests for sperm ‘vitality’.
Once a sperm is checked to ensure it is alive,
then the assisted conception technique called
‘intracytoplasmic sperm injection’ (ICSI) will
be needed to try to achieve fertilisation. The
ICSI process is highly skilled, and involves an
embryologist selecting the best-shaped living
sperm (usually at a magnification of 600x), then
carefully picked up into a needle, which has a tip
size which is the tenth of the width of a human
hair! The sperm is then carefully injected into
the egg.
he Sperm Concentration
level of fragmentation
in the sperm DNA,
often called a ‘DNA
Fragmentation Index’’
or ‘DFI’, which looks at
the level of integrity of the
genetic components within
the sperm. Another test looks at
the level of ‘Reactive Oxygen Species’
or ‘ROS’, which gives an indication of the
amount of oxidative stress the sperm might be
subjected to within the semen sample.
hilst shape, motility
and count are the three
main microscopic tests
of sperm, there are a
multitude of other tests
available.
most scenarios. Like
everything in biology,
there are extremes.
Some men produce a
thick sample of semen
that contains so many
millions of sperm, that
there are simply too many
to be functional unless they can
swim out of the seminal plasma as soon as
possible. Other men produce a watery fluid, that
is completely void of sperm.
As a general rule, the sperm count is the number
of sperm in the sample, expressed in millions
per millilitre. The WHO sets a lower limit of
15 million/ml for fertility. The actual test is
again quite detailed, as a specialised microscope
slide called a counting chamber is needed. This
ensures a fixed volume of semen is held over a
microscopic grid. The number of sperm in the
grid are then counted to estimate the number of
sperm present in the whole semen sample.
Additional test for sperm
Whilst shape, motility and count are the three main
microscopic tests of sperm, there are a multitude
of other tests available. These include assessing the
However, caution should be considered when
thinking of having these additional tests. They
are usually only recommended once the results
of a conventional semen analysis are known, and
most likely after a repeat semen analysis has been
performed to confirm the values of each tested
parameter. Before embarking on additional tests,
it is recommended that you ask your fertility
specialist to explain what the value these test
results will bring. This is also important if these
tests come at an additional charge!
n a personal note
I have been looking at sperm for over a quarter
of a century, so it is fair to say I have seen
Provided the semen analysis is performed
by a reputable clinic, then the results should
be accurate and the staff should take time
to explain exactly what each result for each
parameter means.
With the vast number of assisted conception
treatments on offer, there is always a way
forward to achieve a pregnancy. And for
me, there is nothing better than to receive a
call from a patient to tell me his partner is
pregnant, even though he had a poor prognosis
semen analysis. The couple will have been
given the facts, but fertility has always been an
enigmatic area of medicine - after all, it only
takes one sperm to make it!
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