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REPORTAGE<br />
Who should be blamed for the squandering of<br />
Nigeria’s riches? The political class or the<br />
complacent populace? What should have been<br />
done differently that could have put us at par<br />
with countries like Malaysia which got<br />
independence same year as Nigeria?<br />
Nigeria is incredibly endowed with valuable<br />
natural resources - organic, mineral and even human<br />
resources. We have the potential to be far ahead of<br />
Malasia and other so-called Asian Tiger nations. As a<br />
nation, we just have to be resolved to develop our<br />
economy to the fullest.<br />
So, what should be the new narrative for<br />
women? Especially, as the country is preparing<br />
for another election?<br />
Until women prioritize contesting for elective<br />
office, our fortunes will continue to be dependent on<br />
the whims of men in government. Ordinarily, our<br />
numerical advantage ought to work for us but we<br />
appear to be unwilling to exploit it. In the U.S., a<br />
record number of women are billed to participate in<br />
the mid-term Congressional elections. I believe<br />
women in Nigeria should be primed to participate in<br />
the 2019 General Elections.<br />
How can we translate our numerical superiority<br />
to our advantage such that we can have more<br />
elective positions in order to be at the core of<br />
party decisions taken – especially as it affects us<br />
as women?<br />
We must leverage on our numerical advantage in<br />
creative ways; one of which is to make voting for any<br />
male governorship candidate dependent on his<br />
running mate being a woman - in effect, a nowoman,<br />
no-vote campaign. Women must also make<br />
it a point to financially and morally support any<br />
woman seeking elective office. This has worked for<br />
men and will certainly work for women also. When I<br />
entered politics, it was women who surprisingly<br />
called me names but all that has changed. Now,<br />
women are much more supportive but I believe we<br />
can make the support total by putting our money<br />
where our mouth is.<br />
How would you describe your own experience?<br />
Did you get support from women and what is<br />
your next move?<br />
As I said, when I first entered politics, women<br />
were a novelty and men had no qualms trying to<br />
intimidate me but I soldiered on and even gave as<br />
good as I got, matching them fire-for-fire. All this<br />
happened while women were either indifferent or<br />
downright hostile towards me. I am glad to say that<br />
all that has changed now and women are a<br />
formidable part of my support structure.<br />
Would you ever consider going for the<br />
governorship of your state or the country is not<br />
ready for a female governor?<br />
Nigeria is over-ripe for a female governor and<br />
even had one when Peter Obi was “impeached” if<br />
you recall. Taraba State nearly had a female<br />
governor in the 2015 election cycle. In my case, I am<br />
no longer interested in elective office but I am<br />
available to put my weight behind any woman who<br />
desires to run for governor in any state.<br />
With all the horse trading going on, will there<br />
ever be merit in our democracy?<br />
Politics and horse trading are synonymous so<br />
horse-trading will always be a part of our politics for a<br />
long time to come. However, merit also has found a<br />
place in Nigerian politics. If you notice, some critical<br />
areas of governance have been reserved for<br />
technocrats. All that is needed is a right balance of<br />
political horse-trading and meritocracy.<br />
Nigerian politics is reputed to be very dirty. Do<br />
you agree?<br />
No matter how dirty politics may be, not<br />
participating will guarantee it will get even dirtier.<br />
Decent people must not shy away from politics. We<br />
Until women<br />
prioritize<br />
contesting for<br />
elective office,<br />
our fortunes will<br />
continue to be<br />
dependent on the<br />
whims of men in<br />
government.<br />
all must roll up our sleeves and do the needful,<br />
politically, for the benefit of unborn generations.<br />
The Minister Of Finance, Mrs. Kemi Adeosun,<br />
resigned a few days ago because of allegations<br />
that she presented a fake NYSC discharge<br />
certificate. Do you think it was a wise decision,<br />
considering the job she has been doing as a<br />
minister?<br />
Kemi Adeosun chose the path of honour and I am<br />
proud of her. Like some people with similar issues,<br />
she could have gone to court to get an injunction<br />
preventing any action being taken against her but<br />
she chose not to. I have no doubt that she is a victim<br />
of circumstance and wish her all the best in her<br />
future endeavours.<br />
We have had ‘Toronto’; we have primary school<br />
certificate holders in office. Do you think being a<br />
woman puts unjustified pressure on women to<br />
take a higher road.?<br />
Without sounding immodest, I believe women are<br />
diagnosed to be more dignified than men. Naturally,<br />
women like to uphold and protect their integrity so,<br />
automatically hold themselves to a higher standard<br />
than men who are less scrupulous.<br />
Personally, what quotes or philosophy do you<br />
live your life by?<br />
The motto of my Children of Bakassi Foundation<br />
is “Service to Humanity”. God has been extremely<br />
good to me. I don’t think I have any choice than to<br />
do my best to make others happy. My personal<br />
mission statement is “putting smiles on people’s<br />
faces”. That is what I live for.<br />
What is one of the best or most worthwhile<br />
investments you have ever made (it could be<br />
money, time, energy)?<br />
As I said, I have been incredibly blessed in my life<br />
but as far as my most worthwhile investment goes, it<br />
is what I have put in to improve the life of helpless<br />
children of Bakassi. I adopted over a dozen of those<br />
children and it is with gratitude to God that I can<br />
boast that no less than four of them have graduated<br />
from some of the finest universities in Africa. For me,<br />
they are my most worthwhile investment ever.<br />
In the last five years, what new belief, behaviour<br />
or habit has most improved you as a person?<br />
One of the greatest advantages of getting to a<br />
mature age is that you become more<br />
accommodating and less critical of others. In the last<br />
five years, I have come to appreciate not allowing<br />
anyone or any situation the privilege of annoying me.<br />
I have come to value the wisdom of just moving on in<br />
the face of provocation and all what not.<br />
Finally, when you feel overwhelmed or have lost your<br />
focus temporarily, what do you do?<br />
The rare moments when I feel overwhelmed, I<br />
usually pause, take a deep breath and give my self<br />
time to gather my thoughts and composure. Then,<br />
reset my goals as I soldier on.<br />
What advice would you give women who are<br />
competent and may want to go into politics but<br />
are scared or may not have the financial<br />
wherewithal?<br />
My advice to women desirous of a career in<br />
politics is first to get first class education, overcome<br />
your phobia for politics, realise that it is a game<br />
where intimidation is the order. Men have become<br />
experts at playing the intimidation card. Believe me,<br />
if it was real, I wouldn’t be around now. It’s simply a<br />
myth. I also advise women to also concentrate on<br />
building a life of financial security. I cannot overemphasize<br />
the need to be financially independent<br />
when coming into politics for the first time.<br />
10<br />
/ <strong>October</strong> 7, <strong>2018</strong>