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<strong>Spring</strong>/<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2017</strong><br />
THE NATIONAL FELLOWSHIP MAGAZINE<br />
RUNNING ON EMPTY<br />
THIRD-CULTURE KIDS<br />
SOUL-CARE BEST PRACTICES<br />
SOUL-CARE<br />
PRONE TO WANDER
<strong>Spring</strong>/<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2017</strong><br />
FAITHFUL<br />
TO<br />
FINISH<br />
by Steve Jones<br />
THE<br />
THE FIRST WORD<br />
Oscar Wilde said: “I can withstand anything, except temptation.” Some might say the only way to get rid of temptation is<br />
by giving in to it.<br />
In one of my favourite hymns, the lyrics read:<br />
“PRONE TO WANDER, LORD, I FEEL IT,<br />
PRONE TO LEAVE THE GOD I LOVE;”<br />
All of us have experienced seasons in our spiritual lives where our soul has felt particularly lean. A difficulty, disappointment<br />
or depression has robbed us of the joy of our salvation.<br />
In this edition of <strong>Thrive</strong> we’re featuring the critical importance of soul-care. Trials and temptations are a fact of life, and both<br />
deplete our inner reserve. It would be prudent for each of us to learn how to respond well to these recurring facts of life.<br />
• Trials are situations designed by God to help us grow to spiritual maturity.<br />
• Temptation is designed by Satan to cause us to sin and hinder our spiritual growth.<br />
Wise pilgrims learn to clearly identify both in life, benefiting from trials and not allowing temptation to rob one’s spiritual<br />
validity. Those sojourners that consistently win over temptation will experience soul-health and receive the promise of<br />
James 1:12 (NLT):<br />
“God blesses the people who patiently endure testing. Afterward they will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who<br />
love Him.”
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The promise and prize of resisting<br />
temptation is the “crown of life”. This is<br />
understood as receiving God’s blessing<br />
over our life. When we consistently win<br />
over temptation, we live and enjoy life<br />
to the fullest.<br />
Don’t let Satan get a foot-hold in your<br />
life by playing the shame-game or the<br />
blame-game. Be keenly aware of where<br />
the enemy of our soul seeks to penetrate<br />
our heart. His game-plan is spelled out<br />
in James 1:14.<br />
• DESIRE (James 1:14, NLT):<br />
“… each one is tempted when by his<br />
own EVIL DESIRES…”<br />
Desires are not all evil. They can be<br />
good, even essential — but any desire<br />
to excess becomes destructive, bringing<br />
harm to our spiritual and emotional life.<br />
We can often be doing damage to our<br />
life while pursuing something good, but<br />
to excess. Temptation is often a fulfillment<br />
of a legitimate desire, but done in a<br />
wrong way or at the wrong time.<br />
The second step in the Devil’s game-plan is:<br />
• DECEPTION (James 1:14, NLT):<br />
“… he is dragged away and enticed…”<br />
The words “dragged away” create a<br />
haunting term meaning “to be snared<br />
in a trap”. The word “enticed” is a fishing<br />
term, meaning “to be lured by bait”.<br />
Different traps and bait work on different<br />
fish and animals. The Devil knows<br />
the bait that works best in your life.<br />
You see, you desire, you start to nibble,<br />
believing you’re smart enough to know<br />
when to pull back. The deception is<br />
complete — you’ve been hooked. This is<br />
a sign of spiritual immaturity.<br />
The third step in the Devil’s game-plan is:<br />
• DISOBEDIENCE (James 1:15, NIV):<br />
“Then, after desire has conceived, it<br />
gives birth to sin…”<br />
The Message paraphrases this verse as<br />
“Lust gets pregnant and has a baby: sin”.<br />
James moves from a fishing metaphor<br />
in vs. 14 to a child-birth metaphor in<br />
vs. 15. What begins in our minds gives<br />
birth to an action or destructive habit,<br />
but it starts in the mind. Often what we<br />
initially flirt with, we eventually fall for.<br />
Marketing professionals know this and<br />
use it to their advantage.<br />
Desires lead to deception, which leads to<br />
disobedience, which ends up in…<br />
• DEATH (James 1:15, NIV):<br />
“… and sin when it is full grown, gives<br />
birth to DEATH.”<br />
Death is the final consequence of our<br />
tendency toward being “prone to wander”.<br />
Instead of receiving the crown of<br />
life, we receive death.<br />
We all have free will; we have freedom to<br />
choose the narrow path or wander from<br />
it. However, God has not given us the<br />
freedom to choose the consequences.<br />
For the unbeliever it means separation<br />
from God.<br />
For the believer it means broken fellowship<br />
with God.<br />
The pastor and hymnist Robert Robinson<br />
penned these familiar words in 1757:<br />
“Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it,<br />
Prone to leave the God I love.”<br />
But, Robinson finishes his thought and<br />
his hymn with a final promise:<br />
“Here’s my heart, O take and seal it;<br />
Seal it for thy Courts above.”<br />
In James 1:17-18 the Bible turns from<br />
sin and evil desires (vv. 14-16) to God’s<br />
goodness. Two things will help us from<br />
wandering. We will focus on these two<br />
realities in the following pages of this<br />
edition of <strong>Thrive</strong>, entitled “Soul-Care:<br />
Prone to Wander”.<br />
THINK on whatever is good and perfect<br />
(James 1:17) and remember our true<br />
IDENTITY, for we are God’s choice possessions<br />
(James 1:18).<br />
God has adopted us into His family.<br />
The Bible has given us absolute assurance<br />
that has sealed us as His children<br />
forevermore.<br />
When those inevitable occasions in<br />
life visit that seek to rob us of the joy<br />
of this reality, the Bible challenges us<br />
to refocus our thoughts (James 1:17)<br />
and remember we’re Kingdom kids<br />
(James 1:18).<br />
This won’t make us immune to dark<br />
days, but it will give sufficient light<br />
for us to find our way back from our<br />
wanderings.<br />
Steven Jones is President of The<br />
Fellowship of Evangelical Baptist<br />
Churches in Canada. Follow Steve on<br />
Twitter @FellowshipSteve
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THE FELLOWSHIP’S THEME VERSE FOR <strong>2017</strong><br />
IS: “ROOTED AND BUILT UP IN HIM AND<br />
ESTABLISHED IN FAITH, JUST AS YOU WERE<br />
TAUGHT, ABOUNDING IN THANKSGIVING.”<br />
COLOSSIANS 2:7 (ESV)<br />
10 CARING FOR BODY AND SOUL<br />
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2 THE FIRST WORD<br />
FAITHFUL TO THE FINISH / Steve Jones<br />
5 FELLOWSHIP FOUNDATION NEWS<br />
SUPPORTING YOUR LOCAL CHURCH IN<br />
PERPETUITY / Gord Baptist<br />
6 OUT THERE<br />
RUNNING ON EMPTY / Peter Hambrey<br />
NEARLY BURNED-OUT IN<br />
PAKISTAN / Terry Wiley<br />
THIRD-CULTURE KIDS / Dave Marttunen<br />
10 LOVE EXTENDED<br />
CARING FOR BODY AND<br />
SOUL / Denise Wicks<br />
PROJECT UPDATE: BRINGING KIDS TO<br />
CHRIST (POLAND) / Dan Shurr<br />
ALBERTA WILDFIRE: ONE YEAR<br />
LATER / Denise Wicks<br />
SOWING THE SEED / Steve Jones<br />
16 GROUND WORK<br />
SPIRITUAL-CARE AMIDST SPIRITUAL<br />
DARKNESS / Monique Saulnier<br />
CHAPLAINCY SOUL -CARE / Richard<br />
Flemming<br />
18 UP TO SPEED<br />
SOUL-CARE BEST PRACTICES /<br />
Betty-Anne Van Rees<br />
PASTORAL MEMBER CARE<br />
FELLOWSHIP HEALTH AND PENSION<br />
PLANS / Rob Cole<br />
20 TRUTH TALK<br />
TRANSITIONS / Glenn Taylor<br />
SPIRITUAL-EMOTIONAL SPIRITUALITY:<br />
FROM THE PRAIRIES TO<br />
COLOMBIA / Phil Webb<br />
CLERGY CARE<br />
22 THE LAST WORD<br />
CLASSIC SOUL-CARE: AN EVANGELICAL<br />
PERSPECTIVE / Michael Haykin<br />
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SUPPORTING YOUR LOCAL CHURCH…<br />
IN PERPETUITY by Gord Baptist<br />
It’s no secret that God’s people support<br />
their local church through regular attendance,<br />
offering their spiritual gifts,<br />
praying for the church and staff regularly,<br />
and through the faithful contribution<br />
of their tithes and offerings. Though<br />
regular giving is a normal part of our<br />
worship as Christians, many do not realize<br />
that you can continue to give to your<br />
church long into the future through a<br />
legacy gift.<br />
God spoke of his perpetual bond with His<br />
house in 2 Chronicles 7:16:<br />
“For now have I chosen and sanctified this<br />
house that my name may be there forever:<br />
and mine eyes and mine heart shall be there<br />
perpetually.”<br />
The word “perpetuity”, meaning “a<br />
contractual provision”, usually refers to<br />
a financial product that has no end, like<br />
cash payments that continue forever.<br />
One example is an ordinary annuity or<br />
endowment.<br />
Supporting the church perpetually is<br />
done through tithing a portion of your<br />
Estate. Sadly, many who do allocate a<br />
portion of their Estate to God’s kingdom<br />
fail to honour their local church.<br />
Statistics show that 20% of people who<br />
give in their Will to a charity neglect to<br />
allocate a portion to their own church. It<br />
is also estimated that 70% of Canadians<br />
have no Will at all.<br />
The Fellowship Foundation supports the<br />
local church in this way. Through the<br />
Fellowship Foundation you can allocate<br />
a portion of your Estate to go directly to<br />
your local church, continuing your support<br />
for many years. If you do not have<br />
a Will, we can provide the legal support<br />
to have one drawn up for you, all done<br />
quickly and easily at an extremely affordable<br />
cost.<br />
To leave a legacy gift, simply follow<br />
these three steps:<br />
1. Confirm – Ask God what He would<br />
have you do with your Estate. Is<br />
He directing you towards leaving a<br />
legacy gift?<br />
2. Call – Contact Gord Baptist using the<br />
contact information provided below.<br />
3. Continue – Continue to give sacrificially<br />
to your church now, and enjoy<br />
peace of mind knowing that your<br />
Estate will provide support to your<br />
chosen ministries for many years to<br />
come.<br />
— Gord Baptist is<br />
Fellowship Advancement<br />
Director and can be<br />
reached at:<br />
519-821-4830, Ext. 244,<br />
fax: 519-821-9829, or<br />
gbaptist@fellowship.ca.
EMPT<br />
RUNNING ON<br />
by Peter Hambrey<br />
<strong>Spring</strong>/<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2017</strong><br />
OUT THERE: FELLOWSHIP INTERNATIONAL<br />
It was, I think, the greatest shock of<br />
my life: I found myself believing<br />
that God probably did not exist.<br />
It was 1998. I was on home assignment<br />
from ministry in Pakistan after<br />
one of my most grueling terms on the<br />
field, and one day it suddenly hit me:<br />
nothing in my life shows the work of<br />
God. As I looked back at the previous<br />
month, I saw nothing. The previous<br />
year, still nothing. My belief in a<br />
living, active, involved God seemed<br />
contrary to the facts.<br />
After the initial shock came the realisation<br />
that I could not continue what<br />
I was doing — missionary work — in<br />
this state, so I made some adjustments<br />
while I sought to clarify my state of<br />
mind and do some hard thinking.<br />
I never turned away from God conclusively;<br />
I continued to pursue him in a<br />
tentative way, praying “God, if you are<br />
there…” and even reading the Bible. One<br />
thing moving me back to belief was a<br />
review of my spiritual history and the<br />
events I had considered miracles and<br />
answers to prayer, some of which I had<br />
thankfully written down. I spent much<br />
time reviewing the thinking that led<br />
to my first adoption of the faith and<br />
re-reading several introductions to the<br />
Christian faith, such as Know Why You<br />
Believe by Paul Little and Surprised by<br />
Joy by C.S. Lewis.<br />
Another important factor in my recovery<br />
— perhaps the most important,<br />
from observations of both my<br />
own and similar situations — was the<br />
engaged prayer of the few who knew<br />
my situation. The understanding support<br />
of the Fellowship International<br />
staff was also crucial, giving me time<br />
to process and recover.<br />
In retrospect, several circumstances<br />
led to this period of doubt: stress and<br />
disappointment with God resulted<br />
in depression. I was struggling to<br />
adapt my understanding of creation<br />
in light of the fascinating new science<br />
of genomics. And somewhere along<br />
the way, I stopped taking steps of
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NEARLY BURNED-OUT<br />
IN PAKISTAN by Terry Wiley<br />
It was a typical case of frog-in-the-pot syndrome: I could see the steam, but<br />
couldn’t feel the heat. The tell-tale signs of poor memory, impatience, and<br />
struggles engaging deeply in conversation were only a few of the indicators<br />
that I was in trouble. Not wanting to mess up our kids’ high school studies<br />
in Pakistan, we had decided to put off a lengthy home assignment until our<br />
youngest graduated from grade 12. Instead, we opted for two- to three-month<br />
whirlwind trips to Canada every two years, during which we attempted to<br />
catch up with supporters and family in two provinces 3,500 kilometers apart.<br />
We knew that there would be a physical and emotional cost to such a decision.<br />
Our problem stemmed from neglecting to provide adequate soul-care to<br />
compensate for the largely break-less long haul we’d set out for ourselves.<br />
When we arrived in Canada, close friends quickly recognized that all was not<br />
well. Forty-five minutes into any conversation, I had nearly exhausted my<br />
ability to remain engaged — even with family members.<br />
Y<br />
faith. Thankfully, our God is a God<br />
that pursues and rescues us, planting<br />
our feet firmly on solid ground and<br />
renewing our strength.<br />
— Peter Hambrey serves as<br />
the Canadian Coordinator for<br />
LeadersFor, which provides leadership<br />
training to indigenous pastors.<br />
After serving<br />
overseas for<br />
many years, he<br />
and his wife,<br />
Cheryl, are<br />
now based in<br />
Fort McMurray,<br />
AB.<br />
Both our leadership and my mentor had encouraged me to make rest and<br />
renewal a top priority during our time home, which I did. Focused reading<br />
and working with my hands were only a couple of the things that helped to<br />
heal and restore my body and mind. However, as the smoke started to clear, a<br />
soul-restlessness remained that hadn’t been dealt with, even after the deliberate<br />
rest. A nagging emptiness and lack of purpose combined with a desire for a<br />
deeper relationship with God continued to gnaw at me. Through the prompting<br />
of my pastor, I set up a two-day retreat to seek God in a new way. He used<br />
this time to give me a renewed vision — not of what I should do, but of what<br />
my life should be. My spirit instantly received a whole new level of rest and<br />
purpose.<br />
One thing remained, however: occasional bouts of depression and extreme<br />
weariness continued to surface occasionally, even late into our home assignment.<br />
This left me worried about the prospects for our return to Pakistan, a<br />
place known for chewing people up and spitting them out. On day two of my<br />
retreat, while searching for a book to read, I “happened” on John Ortberg’s<br />
book, Soul Keeper. Through it, I came to understand the cause of the state<br />
in which I’d placed myself — a prolonged neglect of soul-care. “I and no one<br />
else am responsible for the condition of my soul,” points out Ortberg. On this<br />
point, I had much work to do.<br />
While I had maintained a meaningful daily quiet time and fed my mind with<br />
good ministry and leadership resources, I had not done well in the area of nurturing<br />
my soul: listening to messages and music, using healthy self-talk, and<br />
spending time with friends just for friendship’s sake, to name a few examples.<br />
God not only showed me the specific things I needed to change in order to<br />
keep from getting back into the same state, but He also did one other amazing<br />
thing for me. He reached down and healed me — a<br />
direct soul-healing that I knew had come from God.<br />
The bouts of depression and weariness were gone, by<br />
the grace of God.<br />
— Terry Wiley has worked as a Fellowship<br />
International missionary in Sindh, Pakistan, ministering<br />
to Muslims for over 25 years. He serves as the<br />
Pakistan Field Chairman.
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THIRD-CULTURE<br />
KIDS<br />
by Dave Marttunen<br />
The term “third-culture” represents a new culture that is made by combining<br />
two existing cultures; it’s often used to describe the culture of<br />
missionary kids. In these third-cultures, there are elements of both the<br />
parents’ culture and the host culture that combine to form a new thirdculture.<br />
The important thing to remember is that a third-culture is unique:<br />
it’s neither one nor the other of the contributing cultures. This can have<br />
huge advantages, but can also present some distinctive challenges.<br />
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Often, children raised in third-cultures<br />
go through phases in which<br />
they feel that they just don’t fit anywhere.<br />
In their hearts, they may identify more<br />
with their host culture, but their appearance<br />
and first language don’t fit into that<br />
culture. For many, the questions “who<br />
am I?” and “where do I belong?” create<br />
an ache long before they provide roots or<br />
wings. Most adolescents transition from<br />
finding their identity within their home<br />
to trying to find it with their friends or<br />
peers. Third-culture kids face more challenge<br />
in this area because they “don’t<br />
quite fit anywhere” — or at least that’s<br />
how they feel. The result can be a marked<br />
increase in social anxiety, which can lead<br />
to malaise or depression. In spite of this,<br />
many third-culture kids eventually discover<br />
enormous social advantages due to<br />
their unique cross-cultural experiences.<br />
There are some behaviours that mark<br />
third-culture kids in social settings, the<br />
first of which being that they go deep<br />
— really deep, really fast. Most monoculture<br />
youth find this overwhelming<br />
and, predictably, withdraw, leaving some<br />
third-culture kids feeling rejected. In addition,<br />
third-culture kids can sometimes<br />
view monoculture kids as shallow and<br />
immature by comparison. Most missionary<br />
kids have had to navigate complex<br />
social structures and circumstances<br />
compared to monoculture<br />
kids — things like city/national<br />
transportation, social<br />
injustice, abject poverty, flying<br />
around the world, complex<br />
governments, language, culture<br />
and various armed personnel.<br />
One outcome<br />
growing from their<br />
life experience is that<br />
third-culture kids<br />
just can’t be like<br />
monoculture kids<br />
and being different<br />
often translates to<br />
a feeling of not<br />
fitting in anywhere…<br />
except<br />
with other<br />
third-culture<br />
kids.<br />
Many kids<br />
that grow up in<br />
third-cultures possess two advantages,<br />
the first of which being they are often<br />
educated with other third-culture kids,<br />
with whom they find understanding<br />
and acceptance. Unfortunately one of<br />
the costs is separation from their families,<br />
as these schools frequently require<br />
boarding. While not for every child, it<br />
can be an enormous benefit for some,<br />
giving them room for growing independence.<br />
The second advantage is their<br />
participation in various re-entry programs<br />
upon their return to their parents’<br />
home country. We have recently banded<br />
together with other agencies to offer<br />
an excellent re-entry program called<br />
“ReBoot”. Volunteers and professionals<br />
work together to help third-culture kids<br />
understand both themselves and others<br />
in a context of spiritual support and<br />
discipleship.<br />
“Ciao! In Italian this means both hello and<br />
goodbye. It also encapsulates the easiest<br />
and hardest thing I have learned to say. As a<br />
third-culture kid, I learned to expect change.<br />
I changed countries, languages, houses,<br />
schools, churches, and every time I got to meet<br />
new people. It became easy for me to say ciao<br />
(hello) to many new wonderful people. However,<br />
it was so difficult to also have to say ciao (goodbye)<br />
to many, many good friends. I have learned<br />
to value friendship and family above anything else.<br />
Ciao!” — Gioia Stover (nee Bruno)<br />
In order to help their third-culture kids<br />
thrive, missionary parents need to band<br />
together with other missionaries and<br />
support people to provide what they<br />
can’t and shouldn’t provide all by themselves<br />
— a meaningful support community,<br />
similar to a miniature church.<br />
They need a team of people, supporting<br />
each other in community so that each<br />
member of the family thrives. We love<br />
our missionary families, and do all that<br />
we can to provide the support that they<br />
need through our staff, missionaries, and<br />
other support programs. We want them<br />
to not just survive,<br />
but to thrive!<br />
— Dave<br />
Marttunen is<br />
the Fellowship<br />
International<br />
Director.<br />
“Although my parents were the ones who were called to serve in Pakistan, being an MK meant that the call extended<br />
to me as well. Being an MK was never a choice I made, but it has shaped every aspect of who I am. From<br />
growing up in simplicity to learning the independence of boarding school life, growing up as an MK in Pakistan<br />
has prepared me for many of the challenges I face in life today.” — Stephen Wiley<br />
“My greatest struggle was learning to speak a second language and integrate into a new culture,<br />
through which I developed a sensitivity for people of other nationalities and cultures. Being back in<br />
Canada, I find myself sympathetic towards the foreigner; it is easy to connect and communicate with<br />
them. The greatest reward I experienced was witnessing faith in action, answered prayers, and God’s<br />
protective hand and caring interactions with His people. It was the beginning of a deep faith and<br />
trust in God which has helped me navigate through life.” — Holly Robinson (nee Brubacher)
CARING FOR BODY AN<br />
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<strong>Spring</strong>/<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2017</strong><br />
At face-value, the ministry of FAIR could be said to be focused<br />
on physical needs more so than spiritual needs.<br />
Our FAIR projects range from emergency relief in the form<br />
of food and hygiene packs to support for refugees, dental<br />
services in Cambodia, and construction and renovation<br />
projects at many mission locations across the globe. It can<br />
be easy to overlook the biblical and spiritual importance of<br />
seeing to these very practical needs, as well as the spiritual<br />
impact these actions can have.<br />
Jesus speaks of fulfilling practical needs at many different<br />
points in the New Testament. He speaks of the importance<br />
of loving our neighbour as we would ourselves (Mark 12:31)<br />
and caring for the hungry, thirsty, unclothed and sick<br />
(Matthew 25:31-46). Jesus also fulfils the prophecy of<br />
Isaiah, speaking of how He was sent “to proclaim good<br />
news to the poor… liberty to the captives and recovering<br />
of sight to the blind, to set at liberty those who are oppressed…”<br />
(Luke 4:18). As followers of Jesus, it is our joy to<br />
follow His direction and to emulate His example.<br />
Despite these clear instructions found in God’s Word, we<br />
tend to overcomplicate things, asking questions such as,<br />
ROJECT UPDATE:<br />
BRINGING KIDS TO CHRIST (POLAND) by Dan Shurr<br />
LOVE EXTENDED; FAIR<br />
In the spring<br />
of 2016, FAIR<br />
released the first<br />
of two mini appeals<br />
for the year.<br />
This focused<br />
project, called<br />
Bringing Kids to<br />
Christ (Poland) sought to support the<br />
kid’s club and soccer camps run by<br />
Fellowship International missionaries<br />
Pierre and Hanna Jutras in various locations<br />
throughout Poland. Through the<br />
generosity of churches and individuals<br />
who had previously supported projects<br />
in this country, we received $11,200<br />
towards facilitating the provision of<br />
quality kids’ programming, as well<br />
as follow-up with the kids and their<br />
families.<br />
These funds helped establish a new<br />
soccer camp in Lódz (the third largest<br />
city in Poland, with only 0.08 %<br />
Evangelical believers), providing food<br />
and soccer equipment as well as three<br />
interns. Over 30 kids attended, many<br />
hearing the Gospel with their parents<br />
for the first time. Plans are in progress<br />
for follow-up work with the families<br />
who participated. The kids’ clubs in<br />
Biała Podlaska and Płock were also<br />
enhanced by the Bringing Kids to Christ<br />
project, through the purchase of a<br />
small electrical oven for warm lunch<br />
prep, a ping pong table and other<br />
games and materials, and equipment<br />
for after-school activities. During the<br />
winter months, the kids’ club continues<br />
inside, thanks to the ability to rent<br />
indoor space. This is such a blessing to<br />
the children who attend, since many<br />
would otherwise have nothing to do<br />
after school. It seems that the love of<br />
Christ needs to shine strong and long<br />
among these poor people for them to<br />
be willing to hear about Christ — we<br />
pray for abundant and lasting fruit!<br />
Pierre and Hanna have this to say about<br />
the project:<br />
“We are very grateful for all those who<br />
support our FAIR programs. Through the<br />
partnership of individuals, churches, and<br />
pastors in Canada and Poland, the lives of<br />
many Poles who need to hear and receive<br />
the Gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ can be<br />
touched and changed. Thank you!”<br />
— Dan Shurr is our FAIR Director.
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D SOUL<br />
by Denise Wicks<br />
“why is it important?”, “will this really help?”, and “why<br />
should I participate?”<br />
Some of the answers to these questions can be answered<br />
through basic human psychology, where the different needs<br />
we each encounter on a daily basis are arranged in a theory<br />
called Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. This model places needs<br />
in different levels, forming a pyramid with five layers. The<br />
theory proposes that to reach the top (self-actualization), one<br />
must have met needs listed in the first four levels (physiological,<br />
safety, belongingness/love, and esteem needs). To see how<br />
body-care can equal soul-care, I like to look at it from a FAIR<br />
standpoint, using refugee sponsorship as an example.<br />
The first two levels of needs are considered the basic needs.<br />
These physiological and safety needs would include items<br />
like food, water, warmth, and rest as well as a safe place to<br />
live. When churches commit to sponsor a refugee/family,<br />
they are committing to provide these basic needs. They offer<br />
refugees safety and stability by bringing them to Canada, far<br />
away from the chaos of refugee camps. By fulfilling those<br />
needs, it’s then possible for sponsorship teams to create<br />
intimate relationships, connecting refugees with their new<br />
community, building their skills and confidence, and helping<br />
them find a sense of accomplishment and belonging. These<br />
desires to belong and feel loved/esteemed are called psychological<br />
needs.<br />
The final level of need is self-fulfillment, or self-actualization.<br />
It typically relates to achieving one’s potential but can also<br />
lead to finding one’s identity. As sponsorship groups walk<br />
with their refugee(s), relationships are built and opportunities<br />
to help them discover and strengthen their identity in<br />
Christ increase. However, without meeting the most basic<br />
needs first, it’s unlikely these opportunities would arise.<br />
With this in mind, it’s easy to see that God wants us to help<br />
others in such basic ways — body-care translates into soulcare.<br />
By meeting physical needs, hearts are prepared and relationships<br />
are built, opening doors for the Gospel to be shared.<br />
By supporting FAIR in providing for these physical needs, we<br />
participate in Kingdom-building as surely as if we were sharing<br />
the Gospel in person.<br />
— Denise Wicks is Administrative Assistant for FAIR and our<br />
Communications department.<br />
ALBERTA WILDFIRE<br />
ONE YEAR LATER by Denise Wicks<br />
The year 2016 brought a seemingly unending list of devastating natural and man-made events around the world. In<br />
spite of this, it’s hard to argue that the Alberta wildfires, which caused the hurried evacuation of the entire city of<br />
Fort McMurray, doesn’t loom largest of these events in the minds of many Canadians. However, from the ashes of this<br />
fire came stories of the compassion and love of Christ, flowing out from Fellowship churches and individuals. To date<br />
we’ve received over $255,000 towards relief efforts that are ongoing in Fort McMurray. With this financial support,<br />
NorthLife Fellowship Baptist Church (Fort McMurray, AB) staff were quickly able to start providing relief through<br />
their pre-existing food bank immediately upon their return to the city. To date, approximately 4,500 families have<br />
come through their doors seeking help. Since November 2016, NorthLife has handed out 2,300 quilts; 1,200 duvets;<br />
1,050 pallets of food, clothing, and toiletries; 29 oversized boxes of clothing, socks, and towels; 30,000 pairs of shoes;<br />
and 2,500 flats of water — all supplied from various sources across Canada. With the ability to provide food, water,<br />
clothes, shoes, kids’ summer camps, and other events to keep spirits high, NorthLife continues to spread hope and<br />
light to the city in the name of Christ.<br />
— Denise Wicks is Administrative Assistant for FAIR and our Communications department.
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SOWING<br />
THE SEED:<br />
A FELLOWSHIP PROJECT<br />
It seems that the Bible is more accessible<br />
today than it ever has been in<br />
history. People can access it through<br />
the internet, mobile apps, e-readers,<br />
and in paperback or hard copy. It’s<br />
difficult to comprehend that while we<br />
enjoy this incredible ease of access,<br />
some people still have no way to read<br />
God’s Word, making spiritual growth<br />
a difficult task.<br />
Two main people groups that are in<br />
great need of Bibles are Muslim and<br />
Francophone peoples. The Sowing<br />
the Seed project aims to provide<br />
Bibles for these two people groups<br />
in their native tongue, giving them<br />
personal access to the living Word of<br />
God.<br />
The Goal: $60,000<br />
Sowing among Muslims<br />
Sindh, Pakistan<br />
The Sindhi people of Pakistan are in desperate need of the Gospel. With<br />
80% of the population of the Sindh province currently practicing Islam,<br />
persecution of Christians is not just a threat — it’s a reality for many.<br />
Fellowship International missionary Mark Naylor has been diligently<br />
working on a Sindhi translation of the Bible for many years now, publishing<br />
the Old Testament in 2007. This is the first time that any part of the<br />
Bible has been available in the Sindhi language. He’s currently working on<br />
translating the New Testament, but it takes time and funding to do so.<br />
Through the Sowing the Seed project, we are seeking to raise $25,000 to<br />
go towards the ongoing translation, printing, and distribution of the<br />
New Testament in Sindhi.<br />
Ottawa/Gatineau area, Ontario<br />
FEB Central church planter Richard Raya has followed the call to share<br />
the Gospel with Muslim peoples in the greater Ottawa/Gatineau region,<br />
through his role as pastor of Jesus Light of the World Arabic Evangelical<br />
Church in Ottawa. The church’s outreach programs reach countless<br />
people, including many Syrian refugee families, with the Gospel. We<br />
aim to raise $15,000 to help provide Bibles for Richard’s ministry to the<br />
over 38,000 Arabic-speaking peoples of the Ottawa/Gatineau area.
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Sowing among Francophones<br />
Dondon, Haiti<br />
The people of Dondon, Haiti are starved for even basic necessities.<br />
Many go without food, water, shelter, and education<br />
— some will never be able to touch a Bible, let alone read one.<br />
Through the Sowing the Seed project, we are seeking to raise<br />
$10,000 towards placing French Bibles in the hands of Haitians<br />
so that they can learn about the love and salvation offered<br />
through Christ. Through one of our partners, Salem Christian<br />
Church, Bibles will be distributed to those in need who would<br />
otherwise never experience the transforming power of God’s<br />
Word.<br />
D. R. Congo<br />
The church in the D. R. Congo continues to grow and flourish,<br />
but the need for Bibles is great. Fellowship International missionaries<br />
Richard and Brenda Flemming have met with many<br />
pastors who don’t have one single Bible in their entire church.<br />
Similarly, Fellowship International missionaries Apollo and<br />
Lois Midigo see a great need for Bibles as they minister to the<br />
people in the war-torn city of Goma , D. R. Congo. Through the<br />
Sowing the Seed project, we aim to raise $10,000 to go towards<br />
the purchasing of French Bibles for those in the D. R. Congo.<br />
“YOUR WORD IS<br />
A LAMP FOR MY<br />
FEET,<br />
A LIGHT<br />
ON MY PATH.”<br />
PSALM 119:105 (NIV)<br />
In Psalm 119:105, we’re reminded that God’s Word brings light<br />
to those who read it. It spreads and touches every area of darkness,<br />
changing the way things are seen and experienced. With<br />
your help, we can bring the light of Scripture to Francophones<br />
and Muslims who are in desperate need of God’s Word.<br />
THEGREATESTBOOK<br />
#TheGreatestBook is a call to all Fellowship churches to spend 14 days (November 5-19, <strong>2017</strong>)<br />
together studying the Bible, celebrating the gift of God’s Word, and enjoying the joy of community.<br />
Participating churches can download the digital toolkit from our website, which contains<br />
suggested sermons, studies for every age group, and a reproducible devotional booklet.<br />
Here’s a list of potential next steps to implement the Bible Engagement project in your church:<br />
1. Take a look now at your planning calendar and schedule<br />
November 5-19 (or an alternate two weeks) so that you<br />
and your church can participate in this life-impacting<br />
project.<br />
2. Download and use the reproducible promotional materials<br />
(brochure, poster) to promote the project among your<br />
congregation.<br />
3. Download the Bible Engagement video and highlight the<br />
project in your Sunday morning worship service.<br />
4. Encourage your church family to be praying for and during<br />
the #TheGreatestBook Bible Engagement event.<br />
5. Download the ministry toolkit from our website.<br />
6. Provide the study materials to small group leaders,<br />
Sunday School teachers, youth leaders and provide copies<br />
(digitally or printed) of the devotional for individuals<br />
in your congregation to use.<br />
7. Review the suggested sermons to consider which you<br />
might use for the three Sundays; or use the outline to<br />
prepare a sermon that highlights the importance and<br />
value of the Scriptures.<br />
8. Beginning Sunday, November 5th, join other Fellowship<br />
churches from across Canada as together we engage in<br />
the Word of God.<br />
9. Encourage your congregation to engage throughout<br />
the study on social media using #TheGreatestBook<br />
and @FellowshipNatl .<br />
10. Send a testimony to the Fellowship National office after<br />
your Bible Engagement project and we’ll share the<br />
blessing with others.<br />
FOR MORE INFORMATION ABOUT<br />
#THEGREATESTBOOK SERIES, VISIT OUR WEBSITE<br />
AT WWW.THEGREATESTBOOK.CA.
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GROUND WORK: FRANCOPHONE MINISTRY<br />
SPIRITUAL CARE AMIDST<br />
SPIRITUAL D<br />
by Monique Saulnier<br />
Spiritual burn-out affects many in ministry positions.<br />
With the heavy demands placed on pastors in this day<br />
and age, stress can lead to over-commitment and, eventually,<br />
spiritual exhaustion and burn-out. We recently<br />
surveyed a number of our ministry workers in Quebec, a<br />
region that is one of the most spiritually resistant and discouraging<br />
in all of Canada; more than 26 people responded.<br />
The answers they provided help to shed light on the issue<br />
of spiritual burn-out and how we can better serve our ministry<br />
personnel.<br />
Those who responded had an average of 16 years serving<br />
in ministry — none were engaged in the ministry prior<br />
to 1980. Of these, more than 47.4% of respondents experienced<br />
burn-out at one time, while the remaining 52.6%<br />
reported never experiencing exhaustion in their ministry.<br />
CAUSES<br />
The top causes of burn-out provided by respondents were<br />
unrealistic expectations placed on them by the congregation,<br />
problems within the church, and problems within<br />
the Church Council. It was surprising to find that family<br />
life was not a primary cause of exhaustion — only three<br />
pastors reported experiencing issues with their wives (one<br />
over struggles with children and two over financial difficulty)<br />
that contributed to their burn-out.<br />
SOLUTIONS<br />
We asked our pastors what helped them to overcome their<br />
burn-out. Of those who responded, 42% reported taking a<br />
sabbatical from their work, 26% turned to psychological<br />
counseling, 19% received encouragement from a friend,<br />
and 15% were encouraged by their Church Council. Only<br />
8% used medication to help treat the issue, and 7% sought<br />
help from a doctor.<br />
LESSONS LEARNED<br />
It was encouraging to see that each of the pastors who<br />
responded was eager to help others prevent spiritual burnout<br />
before it happens to them. The most reiterated recommendation<br />
was to ask the elders or Church Council for<br />
help before burn-out occurs. One comment emphasized<br />
that we as Christians should not be proud of the unrealistic<br />
pressures applied to those in ministry. Accountability and<br />
humility are necessities when working among the people<br />
of God, and go a long way in preventing the over-commitment<br />
that leads to burn-out.<br />
Some who responded also encouraged pastors to acknowledge<br />
their limitations. We are all limited, and it is not a<br />
weakness to be upfront about our capacity. That’s why it is<br />
important not to do everything on your own, but to learn<br />
to delegate responsibilities.
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ARKNESS<br />
Mention was made of the importance of consistently<br />
seeking God during trials. Suffering can turn us away<br />
from hope and faith; we must fix our eyes on God and<br />
spend time with Him through prayer in order to weather<br />
the storms of life. It should be mentioned that many saw<br />
themselves as their worst enemy — they put added pressure<br />
on themselves in response to the high expectations<br />
of others.<br />
In many cases, isolation can contribute or worsen spiritual<br />
burn-out experienced by pastors. We need to have friends,<br />
coaches who will help us break down misconceptions and<br />
help bring clarity. We need others to pour into us — their<br />
encouragement, their listening, and their advice.<br />
Over all, it was strongly recommended that pastors ask<br />
for support when returning to work after a period of<br />
spiritual burn-out. Ideally, this should be done gradually<br />
instead of abruptly. Burn-out takes time to heal, and<br />
jumping back into ministry with both feet can be an<br />
overwhelming experience, which may lead straight back<br />
to more burn-out.<br />
— Monique is the Administrative Assistant for the AÉBÉQ<br />
Region.<br />
SUFFERING CAN<br />
TURN US AWAY<br />
FROM HOPE AND<br />
FAITH; WE MUST FIX<br />
OUR EYES ON GOD<br />
AND SPEND TIME WITH<br />
HIM THROUGH PRAYER IN<br />
ORDER TO WEATHER THE<br />
STORMS OF LIFE.
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CHAPLAINCY<br />
SOUL-CARE<br />
by Richard Flemming<br />
Our chaplains are spiritual caregivers who serve in a variety of secular settings. They invest<br />
time in building relationships of trust with people who might never think of passing<br />
through the doors of our churches. As spiritual caregivers, they spend a great deal of time<br />
listening to those willing to seek counsel for a variety of issues. We know that caregivers of all kinds can experience<br />
burn-out from this type of work, and it’s no different for our own chaplains. Not only do they deal with<br />
the problems of others, but they must also deal with their own individual concerns as well. There are times<br />
when even chaplains require soul-care. Read what three of our chaplains have to say about their personal<br />
journeys in this matter.<br />
— Richard serves as Fellowship National Coordinator.<br />
DEPRESSION by David Brown<br />
One of the most important things I’ve come to understand is that God will sometimes allow me<br />
to experience challenges and difficulties in order to mold me and shape me, even times of great<br />
sorrow and suffering.<br />
GROUND WORK: CHAPLAINCY MINISTRY<br />
For the past year and a half I’ve battled with anxiety and depression — the most difficult time<br />
in my life. I was unable to perform my duties as a Fellowship chaplain and experienced disruption<br />
in every area of my life. I am happy to report the Lord did not leave me nor forsake<br />
me for a moment during this time. The Lord eventually lifted me in a miraculous way and<br />
restored me, giving me back my enjoyment of life as a Christian husband and father.<br />
Psalm 119:71 says: “It was good for me to be afflicted so that I might learn your decrees.”<br />
Through my struggles I have learned to trust the Lord deeply, even<br />
when experiencing extreme sorrow and suffering.<br />
“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who<br />
love him, who have been called according to his purpose,” Romans<br />
8:28.<br />
— David is a Fellowship Community Chaplain working in<br />
Cambridge, ON.
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GRIEF by Eric Lanthier<br />
The presence of a chaplain proves to be<br />
vital for someone who is in distress. But<br />
when a chaplain lives through a crisis,<br />
life takes a whole different turn. On<br />
April 6, 2013, I learned that a former coworker<br />
had died. I was overwhelmed to<br />
learn that after such a short time, the disease<br />
had prevailed. I did not know that<br />
only 90 minutes later I was going to live<br />
a greater trial by finding my lifeless wife.<br />
Imagine, someone who comforts and<br />
generates hope daily discovers that his<br />
wife has taken her life in their own<br />
home. But I give glory to God, who<br />
sustained me through this terrible<br />
ordeal. The prayers of my brothers and<br />
sisters in Christ, the involvement of<br />
churches, the support of my family, my<br />
pastor, and a Christian therapist helped<br />
me to find my way back to life. Today,<br />
I understand much more deeply what<br />
mourning, solitude, celibacy, inner pain,<br />
and human suffering mean. Moreover,<br />
the Lord, in His goodness, knew not only<br />
how to lift me from this ordeal, but also<br />
to fill me as I had never imagined. He<br />
gave me back a wife, a woman of quality.<br />
What grace, for I never imagined that I<br />
could have loved again. I began to preach<br />
again and, in addition, the Lord is using<br />
me to minister to non-Christians by providing<br />
them with pastoral services as a<br />
chaplain. All I can say is, “Glory to God!”<br />
In view of the greatness of His goodness,<br />
I can only celebrate the grace bestowed<br />
upon me by my<br />
Lord and Saviour<br />
Jesus Christ.<br />
— Eric is a<br />
Fellowship<br />
Chaplain working<br />
in the area<br />
of media.<br />
HOPE by Serge Caron<br />
L’Ancre was founded in 2007 in response to the pressing needs of men fresh from<br />
prison. For isolated men who have spent years in prison, L’Ancre volunteers are often<br />
the only unpaid people that take an interest in them.<br />
The mandate of the thirty volunteers working at L’Ancre is to encourage, support, and<br />
facilitate the integration of detainees and former prisoners into a community of faith.<br />
Volunteers work periodically at the penitentiary chapel, sharing the Word of God with<br />
detainees. They also offer a weekly presence in transition houses, where their role is<br />
to instigate reflection and the evaluation of past choices in the lives of those who have<br />
been recently released. Perhaps it is time for them to consider the spiritual path, to seek<br />
in God a path that will succeed.<br />
For L’Ancre volunteers, the detainee and the ex-prisoner remain<br />
“our neighbors”, regardless of their choice to follow Christ or not.<br />
Our services are not conditional on a commitment of faith, but<br />
they do often associate chaplaincy with the unconditional love of<br />
God.<br />
— Serge is a Fellowship Chaplain serving in the area of<br />
Corrections.
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SOUL-CARE BEST PRACTICES<br />
by Betty-Anne Van Rees<br />
UP TO SPEED: REGIONAL UPDATES<br />
“As<br />
for you, brothers, do not grow weary in doing good”<br />
(2 Thessalonians 3:13). The only problem is… sometimes<br />
we do. We know we’re to make the best use of the time<br />
because the days are evil (Ephesians 5:16) and lay down<br />
our lives (John 15:13) and discipline ourselves for godliness<br />
(1 Timothy 4:7), but what do we do when we feel<br />
like we’re running dry? How do we offer ourselves as living<br />
sacrifices without it killing us?<br />
Wait for God<br />
Job had an ash heap (Job 2:8), Elijah had a broom tree (1<br />
Kings 19:5), David had a cave (Psalm 57, 142), and Jesus had<br />
a garden (Matthew 26 and Hebrews 5:7-8). When life was<br />
overwhelming, they sought solitude. They stopped and<br />
waited for God, and God met them, cared for them, and<br />
answered the cry of their hearts. These, and many other<br />
stories like them, tell us about the kind of God we serve:<br />
He meets people where they are; He doesn’t condemn them<br />
for being there but He doesn’t leave them there either; He<br />
speaks truth to replace the lies — and the whole process is<br />
powerfully infused with love that then grows in the hearts<br />
of those with whom He meets. Not only is the relationship<br />
comforting, it’s transformative.<br />
Know Yourself<br />
When we take time to know God in this way, He tells us<br />
important things about ourselves. If we’re to thrive in the<br />
places God calls us to serve, we must allow Him to x-ray our<br />
hearts to find our root issues and then listen to His diagnosis.<br />
Am I burning out because I’m trying to do what only He<br />
can do? Whose glory fuels my service — His or mine? Am<br />
I trying to overflow what I’m not taking in? Is my vessel<br />
clean enough for His glory to flow through? Am I remembering<br />
that all of life is ministry, or is one area hijacking my<br />
whole life? Am I allowing Him to minister grace and truth<br />
to my life through His body?<br />
It is essential that we know His answers to these questions<br />
— this is the diagnosis. Once we do, He calls us to drink<br />
long of the medicine that will heal our souls: grace upon<br />
grace. And like any good disease-killing medication, we<br />
mustn’t stop until we’ve consumed it all.<br />
But Why?<br />
We cannot give what we have not received. Those we serve<br />
find themselves in the very same struggles we have come<br />
to. When we struggle and God meets us, planting our feet<br />
on solid ground, we will be ready, with gentle respect, to<br />
give an answer for the hope that is in us.<br />
— Betty-Anne, a member of Hespeler Baptist Church in<br />
Cambridge, ON, helps to facilitate the Canadian network<br />
of the Biblical Counselling Coalition, in addition to helping<br />
in its initial Canadian launch.<br />
PASTORAL<br />
MEMBER CARE<br />
Each of our Fellowship Regions offers their<br />
own resources to aid pastors and their families<br />
in their soul-care:<br />
Fellowship Pacific offers a database of equipping<br />
tools, as well as their OASIS workshops<br />
and seminars. They also offer leadership<br />
training tools such as Called to Influence,<br />
Called to Dialogue: Tools for handling Crucial<br />
Conversations, and Called to Lead. Experienced<br />
pastor Bruce Christensen is available to counsel<br />
pastors during times of stress, and church consultation<br />
resources are available on their website,<br />
as well as appointments upon request.<br />
Fellowship Prairies offers the help of Regional<br />
coaches Phil Webb, Leadership Health and<br />
Development, and Rod Black, Multi-Cultural<br />
Ministry. They assist pastors in strategizing for<br />
missions outreach, provide outings for pastors<br />
apart from ministry, lead workshops on<br />
Significant Conversations, and train small group<br />
leaders.
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Other resources and retreats offered<br />
include: Engage, which is annual and<br />
varies in format each year between<br />
a personal retreat, conference, etc.;<br />
Encounter, an annual retreat that is for<br />
pastors and their wives; and Equip which<br />
is an annual convention/business meeting<br />
followed by speakers and electives.<br />
The Regional Director and Regional<br />
Leadership Coach meet with pastors<br />
once a month in northern and southern<br />
Alberta, and also meet with pastors in<br />
Saskatchewan and Manitoba throughout<br />
the year. There is also a team available<br />
for church consultations that meets with<br />
the church leadership for the purpose<br />
of helping them determine how to encourage<br />
and strengthen their team and<br />
congregation.<br />
FEB Central offers the help of Area<br />
Shepherds, who help to encourage,<br />
support, and pray for pastors. They also<br />
connect with pastors, staff, and families,<br />
attend Association meetings, build relationships,<br />
encourage the development<br />
and healthy functioning of Associations,<br />
broker resources, and assist in reconciliation<br />
when invited. In addition to<br />
our Area Shepherds, we offer retreat<br />
centers such as Enrich Canada, OASIS<br />
Retreats, and Kerith Retreats (Focus<br />
on the Family Canada), as well as the<br />
Pastors’ Conference and Pastors’ Wives<br />
and Women in Ministry Retreat. We also<br />
host workshops for the health of pastors<br />
(Do MORE BETTER, Critical Care, and<br />
Gospel Coaching).<br />
AÉBÉQ offers ministry workers the help<br />
of regional pastoral activities, for the<br />
purpose of collaboration and mutual edification;<br />
provincial pastoral care for rest,<br />
exhortation, and instruction; follow-up<br />
care through Regional Coordinators (a<br />
resource person who provides leadership<br />
in the Region), the Director of Church<br />
Vitality, and the Director General, who<br />
offer financial resources and tools to<br />
help churches regain and maintain their<br />
vitality. The Region also offers coaching<br />
to younger ministry workers, carried<br />
out by an experienced pastor, as well<br />
as external counseling resources for<br />
married couples (financial and human<br />
resources). A portion of their regional<br />
funding is set aside for the purpose of<br />
helping couples who go through difficult<br />
times to seek support from qualified<br />
advisors. Finally there is the support of<br />
The Barnabas Foundation, which was<br />
founded to provide pastors with supports<br />
to prevent burn-out or help deal<br />
with other needs.<br />
Fellowship Atlantic offers pastors care<br />
through their Regional Director, including<br />
monthly cluster gatherings for all<br />
of our pastors which include significant<br />
peer encouragement and counsel.<br />
Retired pastors are available to counsel<br />
and encourage younger men, and the region<br />
provides an annual two-day retreat<br />
for pastoral staff that includes quality<br />
prayer and share times as groups and<br />
one on one. There are also people within<br />
the region who offer the use of property/<br />
homes for pastoral couples to get away<br />
for a week at no cost to them.<br />
FELLOWSHIP HEALTH AND PENSION PLANS<br />
by Rob Cole, Fellowship Services Director<br />
Health Plan<br />
The Fellowship Group Insurance Plan<br />
was designed to provide a single package<br />
that would include Extended<br />
Health Care, Dental Coverage, Life<br />
Insurance, Accident Insurance, Longterm<br />
Disability and a provision for<br />
local churches to assist in providing for<br />
Short-term Sick Leave. In addition, optional<br />
life and accident insurance for the<br />
insured and their spouse/children is also<br />
available.<br />
Fellowship Group Benefits are administered<br />
by Gwen Pifer. She can be reached at<br />
the Fellowship National Ministry Centre<br />
by phone at 519-821-4830 ext. 229, or by<br />
email at healthcare@fellowship.ca.<br />
For questions about Health and Dental<br />
coverage or claims, contact GreatWest<br />
Life at: 1-800-957-9777.<br />
Pension Plan<br />
The Fellowship Pension Plan is registered<br />
with Canada Revenue Agency,<br />
which allows tax deductibility of contributions.<br />
The Plan is also registered<br />
with the Financial Services Commission<br />
of Ontario, the administrative body<br />
charged with oversight of pension plans<br />
operating within the province.<br />
Participation in the plan is open to employees<br />
of Fellowship Baptist Churches.<br />
In situations where provincial pension<br />
legislation in the province of residence<br />
differs from that of Ontario, those plan<br />
members will be extended the local provincial<br />
entitlements.<br />
Sun Life Financial provides investment<br />
management and record-keeping<br />
services for the plan and plan members.<br />
The Fellowship provides service to the<br />
plan members for enrollment, retirement,<br />
termination, death, government<br />
reporting, general inquiries, collection<br />
and forwarding of contributions, as well<br />
as the distribution of annual statements.<br />
Members are charged a small yearly fee<br />
for these services.<br />
The Fellowship Pension Plan is administered<br />
by Mr. Rob Cole, our Director<br />
of Ministry Support Services. He can<br />
be reached at the Fellowship National<br />
Ministry Centre by phone at<br />
519-821-4830 ext. 226, or by email at<br />
rcole@fellowship.ca. For more information<br />
about our Pension Plan, visit our<br />
website at www.fellowship.ca/Pension.<br />
Affinity Program<br />
At the National Ministry Centre we<br />
continue to look for opportunities to<br />
provide benefits and advantages to our<br />
churches, our pastors and the members<br />
of our churches. We currently have three<br />
program partners: Brokerforce Insurance<br />
Inc., D.L. Deeks Insurance Services Inc.,<br />
and National Car Rental and Enterprise<br />
Rent-A-Car.<br />
For more information about our<br />
program partners, please visit our website<br />
at www.fellowship.ca/AffinityProgram.
truth talk<br />
<strong>Spring</strong>/<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2017</strong><br />
TRANSITIONS by Glenn Taylor<br />
Transitions in ministry are traumatic —<br />
thus the need for soul-care. The trauma<br />
of transitions in ministry rock the ship, and<br />
everyone onboard is affected. Pastors, spouses,<br />
children, church members, church leaders,<br />
and communities are all impacted in greater or<br />
lesser ways. In such a brief article each of these<br />
cannot be dealt with adequately but must be<br />
acknowledged.<br />
Each will deal differently with grief, anger, disappointment,<br />
and change; these emotions are experienced in different<br />
ways. The ingredients of transition will not be personalized.<br />
Feelings are personal and expressed differently,<br />
therefore processing experiences are very individualistic.<br />
These variables make the experience unique for everyone.<br />
Soul-care must seek to understand the experience of each<br />
participant and provide care accordingly.<br />
Our space limitations necessitate focusing only on the<br />
pastor and his family. However, churches, church leaders,<br />
members, and the community should not be overlooked.<br />
The ripples of trauma caused by transition spread throughout<br />
the congregation.<br />
Tremors in Transition<br />
Many things contribute to the trauma. Who has initiated<br />
the transition? It may be initiated by the pastor, the church<br />
leadership, the church community, the denomination,<br />
financial pressures, stage of life issues, family contributors,<br />
illness, etc. There are a dozen motivators for transition.<br />
Some come from within, some from others.<br />
Different Types of Transition<br />
Type 1<br />
Predictable<br />
and Voluntary<br />
Type 3<br />
Unpredictable<br />
and Voluntary<br />
Type 2<br />
Predictable<br />
and Involuntary<br />
Type 4<br />
Unpredictable<br />
and Involuntary<br />
One can readily see that the trauma is greater as you move<br />
from type one to type four. The reasons determine the type<br />
of transition; to provide effective soul-care, one must assess<br />
the reasons for the transition and the impact on all of the<br />
persons involved while understanding that each individual<br />
or group impacted will respond differently.<br />
Who Cares?<br />
For soul-care to be effective it must come from many sources<br />
and as an expression of love growing out to forgiveness<br />
and grace.<br />
Care of Pastors and Families in Transition:<br />
• Divine-care<br />
• Self-care<br />
• Family-care<br />
• Peer-care<br />
• Spiritual-care Group<br />
• Denomination-care<br />
• Church-care<br />
• Professional-care<br />
Each dimension of soul-care could be expanded and illustrated.<br />
Transitions are most effectively cared for within<br />
the context of a reflective pause — an intentionally designed<br />
opportunity that enables reflection on the experience. First,<br />
the person must find God in the process and deal with their<br />
response. Secondly, they must refocus, rearrange priorities,<br />
and envision God’s will for the future. Pain and hurt heal<br />
slowly and often require rest and recuperation.<br />
Biblical Models of Transitions in Ministry<br />
There are many Biblical models of both transition within<br />
ministry and transition of ministries from one individual<br />
to another. For instance, we see itinerant teaching pastors<br />
in the New Testament. There are also many examples of<br />
calls to ministry (e.g. Moses, Jeremiah, Samuel, etc.). A helpful<br />
study concerning transition of ministry is the transference<br />
of ministry from Moses to Joshua, Samuel to his<br />
sons, David to Solomon, Elijah to Elisha, John the Baptist<br />
to Jesus, Barnabas to Paul, and others. Soul-care is a function<br />
of all community members and Paul is explicit about<br />
the care of pastors. Every day three<br />
pastors in North America leave the<br />
ministry to seek other career paths;<br />
often this happens as a result of<br />
tremors felt in transition. Care is an<br />
expression of God’s love and we are<br />
His instruments of care.<br />
— Glenn is an accomplished writer<br />
and a Fellowship Author.<br />
TURTH TALK<br />
For more information on this topic, read Glenn’s books, Pastors in Transition: Navigating<br />
the Turbulence of Change (available in English or French) and The Web of Life: An Invitation to Live or Die in the<br />
Fabric of Community. Both are available for purchase on Amazon or directly from the author at glennctaylor35@gmail.com.
thrive-<strong>magazine</strong>.ca<br />
thrive / 21<br />
SPIRITUAL-EMOTIONAL<br />
SPIRITUALITY: FROM THE<br />
PRAIRIES TO COLOMBIA<br />
by Phil Webb<br />
Today, the phrase “I’ve been busy” has become a respectable response<br />
when someone is asked how they are doing. At New Life Fellowship<br />
Church in New York this answer is met with skepticism. The book<br />
Emotionally Healthy Spirituality, by Pete Scazerro, describes a rule of life<br />
that keeps work, rest, relationships, and communion with God in balance.<br />
New Life staff evaluations are based on keeping the balance between giving<br />
and receiving — it not only benefits the staff, their spouses, and families,<br />
but the rest of the church as well.<br />
Unfortunately, it seems we have been taught to pour out but not to drink<br />
in. Scazerro writes in his book The Emotionally Healthy Leader, “the emotionally<br />
unhealthy leader is someone who operates in a continuous state<br />
of emotional and spiritual deficit, lacking emotional maturity and a ‘being<br />
with God’ sufficient to sustain their ‘doing for God.’” We must allow<br />
God to love us not only through work, but through rest, significant relationships,<br />
and deep communion with Him. Although maintaining this<br />
balance may seem simple, it is often difficult to recognize what is driving<br />
us toward imbalance and fatigue.<br />
Thus, we must remember that it is our ability to abide in The Vine that<br />
dictates what type of fruit we bear. Waiting on the Lord to meet our physical,<br />
emotional, and mental needs demands us to slow down. When this<br />
waiting takes time, it is tempting to go forward without Him and risk fatigue<br />
— but we must remember from whom we draw our strength. Then,<br />
when asked how we are doing, we may respond more appropriately with,<br />
“I’ve been abiding”.<br />
“BUT THOSE WHO WAIT ON THE LORD<br />
SHALL RENEW THEIR STRENGTH.”<br />
ISAIAH 40:31<br />
— Phil is a Fellowship International missionary working in<br />
the area of Leadership Development in both Canada and Colombia.<br />
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Many pastors struggle to find a place to<br />
seek help for their own needs when they’re<br />
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<strong>Spring</strong>/<strong>Summer</strong> <strong>2017</strong><br />
CLASSIC<br />
SOUL-CARE:<br />
AN EVANGELICAL<br />
PERSPECTIVE<br />
by Michael Haykin<br />
THE LAST WORD<br />
Evangelicals have been criticized<br />
more than once for being thin on<br />
the dynamics of sanctification. As this<br />
criticism runs, if you want to know<br />
how to be saved, Evangelicals abound<br />
with wise advice, but once you are in<br />
the kingdom other sources are needed<br />
to carry you safely through the ups and downs of this world,<br />
which is no friend to grace.<br />
This critique is both true and false: if we consider much of<br />
our heritage from the previous century, the criticism is on<br />
target, but once we go back to retrieve Evangelical riches<br />
from the 16th through to the 19th centuries, there is an<br />
enormous cache of spiritual wealth.<br />
Reformers of the 16th-century such as John Calvin remind<br />
us first and foremost that the goal of our lives and true<br />
fulfillment is found in knowing God. As he wrote in 1559:<br />
“It is certain that man never achieves a clear knowledge of<br />
himself unless he has first looked upon God’s face” and seen<br />
the depths of his need and sin. To grow in grace, we need<br />
above all things humility, and this virtue is found by steady<br />
meditation on our great God and all of His attributes as<br />
laid out in the Scriptures. In this way meditation is critical<br />
to Christian maturity. As the 17th-century Puritans put it,<br />
meditation is a great heart-warmer.<br />
The Puritans and their heirs in the 18th and 19th centuries,<br />
Evangelical leaders like the Wesley brothers — John<br />
and Charles — and Jonathan Edwards, Andrew Fuller, and<br />
Charles Haddon Spurgeon were also deeply aware that the<br />
Holy Spirit is vital to our spiritual growth. Unlike far too<br />
many Evangelicals in the past century, these men were not<br />
afraid to call on the Spirit for empowerment and growth in<br />
grace. They thus studied what the Scriptures said about the<br />
Spirit and sought to live in dependence on His grace and<br />
power.<br />
Our Evangelical forebears from Calvin to Spurgeon<br />
were also very aware that critical nourishment in the<br />
Christian life is not only found in such places as prayer and<br />
meditation on the Scriptures, but also in the Lord’s Supper.<br />
Charles Wesley, for example, wrote hymns to be especially<br />
sung at the celebration of the Table, for he rightly knew that<br />
such occasions could initiate personal and corporate revival.<br />
In a world arrogantly passionate about the present and the<br />
future, God’s people need to learn afresh the meaning of<br />
that word that occurs again and again in the Scriptures: “remember.”<br />
And in our remembering, let us re-read the great<br />
spiritual classics of the past and find springs of refreshment<br />
in this time of desiccation.<br />
><br />
WHAT THEN TO READ? WELL, HERE<br />
ARE FIVE TIMELESS CLASSICS TO<br />
BEGIN WITH:<br />
1. JOHN CALVIN, THE GOLDEN BOOKLET<br />
OF THE TRUE CHRISTIAN LIFE<br />
2. JOHN OWEN, COMMUNION WITH GOD<br />
3. JONATHAN EDWARDS, THE<br />
RELIGIOUS AFFECTIONS<br />
4. ANDREW FULLER, MEMOIRS OF<br />
SAMUEL PEARCE<br />
5. CHARLES H. SPURGEON, THE SAINT<br />
AND HIS SAVIOUR<br />
— Dr. Michael Haykin is Professor of Church History &<br />
Biblical Spirituality, and Director of The Andrew Fuller<br />
Center for Baptist Studies at The Southern Baptist<br />
Theological Seminary, Louisville, Kentucky.
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