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Church of <strong>St</strong>. Mary the Virgin<br />
Finedon<br />
<strong>Parish</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong><br />
<strong>January</strong> <strong>2019</strong><br />
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Digital Edition
Vicar:<br />
Finedon <strong>Parish</strong> Church: <strong>St</strong> Mary The Virgin<br />
The Revd Richard Coles,<br />
<strong>St</strong> Mary the Virgin Finedon, The Vicarage,<br />
Church Hill, Finedon, Northants, NN9 5NR<br />
01933 681 786, Mobile 07885 967 960<br />
email: revdrichardcoles@yahoo.co.uk<br />
Curate Revd Jane Burns, 01536 524936<br />
Email:janeburns2211@gmail.com<br />
Assistant Honorary Priest Fr Peter Baden,01832 733186<br />
email: p.baden36@btinternet.com<br />
Reader Mr Michael Duncombe, 01536 483935<br />
email: mikeduncombe61@gmail.com<br />
<strong>Parish</strong> Clerk<br />
Mrs Gill Foster Tel: 680364 (To whom first<br />
contact for Baptisms and weddings must be<br />
made).<br />
Churchwardens: Mrs Jane Read Tel: 680522<br />
Mr Neil Forster Tel: 682177<br />
PCC Secretary: Mrs Gill Foster Tel: 680364<br />
Treasurer: Mr Andrew Weatherill Tel: 682212<br />
<strong>Magazine</strong> Editor: Mrs Janet Millington, Tel: 681161.<br />
email: millingtonjanet@aol.com<br />
(to whom all copy should addressed by<br />
the 15 th of the month prior to publication)<br />
Director of Music Mr Jonathan Harris Tel: 01933 779059,<br />
Mobile 07791 664507<br />
Email: Hjonathan83@aol.com<br />
Deputy Organists<br />
Mrs. Kathy Roberts<br />
Mr Oliver Grigg<br />
Choirmaster: Mr. Bryan Chapman Tel: 398818<br />
Tower Captain Mr Bryan Chapman, Tel 398818<br />
Web Site<br />
www.finedonphotographs.org.uk/<br />
bellringers.html<br />
Archivist<br />
<strong>St</strong> Michael’s Mission Room:<br />
Dr Kaye McClelland, kayemclelland@gmail.com<br />
Bryan & Christine Chapman<br />
Tel: 01933 398818<br />
Times Of Services:<br />
Sundays<br />
8.00 am Holy Eucharist<br />
9.30 am <strong>Parish</strong> Eucharist.<br />
6.00 pm Evensong (1st Sunday of the Month)
From The Vicarage <strong>January</strong> <strong>2019</strong><br />
Another year out, another year in; a turbulent one has passed, and while I<br />
hope a calmer one has arrived, it may be more turbulent still. At the time<br />
of writing I cannot even be sure who the Prime Minister will be, or even<br />
which party, or parties, will be in power, or even if Brexit is happening,<br />
delayed, or avoided. What I can do, however, is state with certainty that I<br />
don’t remember a time when more people felt more uncertain than now.<br />
There are all sorts of reasons or this, not least Brexit, which whatever the<br />
outcome means profound change; but it reflects too, I believe, deep<br />
divisions already there before the Referendum. The result, which surprised<br />
so many at the time, does not seem so surprising now we understand<br />
better how many were left behind by the growing prosperity of the past<br />
twenty years or so, but so unevenly divided between those in the south<br />
east and those in, say, the post industrial north east, or the Cinderella<br />
counties of the midlands, and the south west. The price of that<br />
scandalous neglect is now being paid. When will our sad divisions, to<br />
paraphrase the hymn, cease?<br />
I don’t know; but I do know we have been here before, and we are still<br />
here now, having endured though conflict, and famines, and plague<br />
and impoverishment; and not least in the English Civil War, which tore<br />
through these parts dividing nations, and communities, and families, and<br />
Finedon, who lost its the vicar for his Royalist sympathies to a triumphant<br />
Parliament after the battle of Naseby in 1645.<br />
But we endured, and today the parish church offers, as it has always<br />
offered, the worship due to God, for we know that whatever divides us is<br />
as nothing to the love of Jesus Christ, which heals all wounds, and makes<br />
the divided whole again. <strong>St</strong> Paul, who knew what trouble looked like,<br />
wrote this nearly two thousand years ago:<br />
“Who will separate us from the love of Christ? Will hardship, or distress, or<br />
persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? No, in all these<br />
things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am<br />
convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor rulers, nor things<br />
present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor<br />
anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of<br />
God in Christ Jesus our Lord”.<br />
Yours in Christ,<br />
Fr Richard.<br />
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Our Worship in <strong>January</strong><br />
Year C<br />
6th Epiphany<br />
Isaiah 60. 1 – 6<br />
Psalm 72<br />
Ephesians 3. 1 – 12<br />
Matthew 2. 1 -1 2<br />
Hymns<br />
83 As with gladness men of old<br />
85 Earth has many a noble city<br />
86 From the eastern mountains<br />
Anthem: Lo, how a Rose e’er<br />
blooming arr. M Praetorius; How<br />
brightly shines the morning star! (88)<br />
90 (Tune <strong>St</strong> Edmund) Songs of<br />
thankfulness and praise<br />
13th Baptism of Christ<br />
Isaiah 43. 1 – 17<br />
Psalm 29<br />
Acts 8. 14- 17<br />
Luke 3. 15 – 17, 21 -22<br />
Hymns<br />
175 Come down, O Love divine<br />
34 On Jordan’s banks the Baptist’s<br />
cry<br />
308 Just as I am, without one plea<br />
93 When Jesus came to Jordan<br />
Anthem: Psalms 98 & 100; Holy Spirit,<br />
come, confirm us (183)<br />
84 Brightest and best of the sons of<br />
the morning<br />
20th 3rd Sunday of Epiphany<br />
Isaiah 62. 1 -5<br />
Psalm 36 5 – 10<br />
1 Corinthians 12. 1 -11<br />
John 2. 1 – 11<br />
Hymns<br />
89 O worship the Lord in the beauty of<br />
holiness<br />
305 I come with joy, a child of God<br />
591 The kingdom of God is justice<br />
and joy<br />
Anthem: Benedictus by Philip Moore;<br />
Give me justice by James Macmillan<br />
87 Hail to the Lord's anointed<br />
27th 4th Sunday of Epiphany<br />
Nehemiah 8.1–3, 5–6, 8–10<br />
Psalm 19<br />
1 Corinthians 12. 12 -31a<br />
Luke 4. 14 – 21<br />
Hymns<br />
516 (Tune Blaenwern) Love divine,<br />
all loves excelling<br />
260 Morning has broken, like the<br />
first morning<br />
369 All people that on earth do dwell<br />
(arr. Vaughan Williams)<br />
Anthem: Ascribe unto the Lord by<br />
S.S.Wesley (opening section); For the<br />
beauty of the earth (253)<br />
353 And did those feet in ancient<br />
time<br />
Organ Voluntaries following the<br />
9.30am services<br />
6th <strong>January</strong><br />
J.S. Bach: Chorale Prelude In dir ist<br />
Freude BWV 615<br />
13th <strong>January</strong><br />
Vincent Lübeck: Praeambulum in G<br />
20th <strong>January</strong><br />
Philip Moore: Paean<br />
27th <strong>January</strong><br />
J.S. Bach: Chorale Prelude Alle<br />
Menschen müssen sterben BWV 643<br />
Epiphany Carol Service<br />
Sunday 6th <strong>January</strong> – 6.00 pm
Floodlight Sponsorship<br />
Correction from the December<br />
magazine with sincere apologies:<br />
18th November<br />
Lorna & John Mears - in memory of<br />
Liam Colin Mears.<br />
2nd December<br />
Sponsored by Mick & Monica Webb.<br />
9th December<br />
Sheira Gee - in memory of her mother<br />
Rene Higham.<br />
16th December<br />
Sponsored by Mick & Monica Webb.<br />
23rd December<br />
Maureen Gorney & Dianne<br />
Desborough - in memory of May<br />
Parker.<br />
Richard Minney & family - in memory<br />
of Lesley Minney (on what would<br />
have been their 34th wedding<br />
anniversary).<br />
Sheila & Paul Harris - to celebrate<br />
their grandchildren Felix, Summer,<br />
Finlay, Magnus & Rowan.<br />
Carole Mitchell - to celebrate Paul’s<br />
special birthday.<br />
Ian, Sue, Irene & Susan - in memory<br />
of a dear mum Evelyn Collis.<br />
The grandchildren & great<br />
grandchildren - in memory of a dear<br />
Nan Evelyn Collis.<br />
30th December<br />
Carole & Paul Mitchell - in memory of<br />
all deceased family members as we<br />
go forward into another new year.<br />
Dianne & David Desborough & family<br />
- in memory of Doris Emerton.<br />
£40.00 for the Church and the rest of<br />
the raffle money went to the<br />
Children’s society.<br />
Finedon Senior Citizens<br />
Friendship Committee<br />
Thank you for all the donations to the<br />
Finedon Christmas parcel fund<br />
(Finedon Senior Citizens friendship<br />
Committee). 384 parcels were<br />
gratefully received of which 8 were<br />
deferred to the local food bank.<br />
Next year the parcels contents will be<br />
changed, we will have a more<br />
organised collection and an option to<br />
send parcels direct to food bank, if<br />
requested.<br />
Heartfelt thanks, Neil Forster ,on<br />
behalf of FSCFC committee<br />
Epiphany Evensong<br />
There will be an Epiphany Evensong<br />
in <strong>St</strong> Mary’s Church on Sunday 6th<br />
<strong>January</strong> at 6.00 pm.<br />
The service will be followed by light<br />
refreshments.<br />
Irish Blessing for the<br />
New Year<br />
May your troubles be less<br />
May your blessings be more.<br />
And nothing but happiness<br />
Come through your Door.<br />
Christmas Tree Festival<br />
Thank you to those who organised,<br />
acted as <strong>St</strong>ewards, donated and<br />
helped with the Christmas Tree<br />
Festival and Band Concert.<br />
The weekend raised £588.69.<br />
Velma’s Teddy Bear raffle raised<br />
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Wishing everyone a<br />
very happy and<br />
peaceful new year
Mothers Union<br />
We will start the New Year with a<br />
service followed by our AGM when a<br />
committee will take over the running of<br />
the branch from the retiring Branch<br />
Leader.<br />
This meeting will be held in the<br />
Mission Room on Tuesday 8th<br />
<strong>January</strong> at 2.00pm.<br />
Anyone wishing to come along will be<br />
made most welcome.<br />
For my part I would like to thank all the<br />
members for the tremendous support<br />
I’ve received from them during my<br />
many years as Branch Leader.<br />
A huge thank you also for the most<br />
generous gift they presented me with<br />
at our Christmas lunch, which came as<br />
a great surprise.<br />
I now wish the branch and its new<br />
committee every success for the<br />
future, as I look forward to sitting on<br />
the back row!<br />
God bless Mary<br />
Mary Shipton<br />
Thank you and well done Mary for the<br />
18 years that you have led the<br />
Mother’s Union here in Finedon as the<br />
Enrolling Member.<br />
Thank you Mary for all the hard work<br />
that has gone into making the<br />
Mother’s Union a vibrant and<br />
enjoyable organisation in Finedon with<br />
an interesting and varied programme<br />
every month.<br />
Thank you Mary for your long<br />
commitment to the Mother’s Union.<br />
We wish you a Happy Retirement and<br />
may the new committee spend many<br />
happy and fruitful years in the<br />
future. Mother’s Union meets the first<br />
Tuesday afternoon in the month in the<br />
Mission Room. All are welcome.<br />
Jane Read<br />
Wassail and Christmas<br />
Draw<br />
Congratulations to all those involved in<br />
the Wassail Evening and Christmas<br />
Draw. The Draw raised £700.00 A<br />
beautiful display of prizes and so<br />
many of them too - very well done.<br />
Thank you to all who worked together<br />
to make the evening a success - too<br />
many to name here.<br />
The Wassail evening raised £265.00<br />
Thank you to all who supported and to<br />
John and Colin from the Bowls Club<br />
who were most helpful.<br />
Finedon Scout Group<br />
A huge thank you to all the Finedon<br />
residents who kindly donated to the<br />
Finedon Scout Groups Santa float.<br />
We had a fantastic response of just<br />
over £1,300 which will go towards<br />
supporting our 6 to 18 year old young<br />
people.<br />
Wishing everyone a Happy New Year<br />
National Gardens<br />
Scheme<br />
The garden will be open at 67-69 High<br />
<strong>St</strong>reet on:<br />
Sunday 24th February - Snowdrops<br />
and Helebores.<br />
11.00 am - 3.00 pm, £3.50 entrance<br />
which includes homemade soup and<br />
a roll.<br />
Sundays 2nd & 30th June<br />
2.00 - 6.00 pm. Cream Teas available<br />
combined with The Vicarage on<br />
30th June only.<br />
Mary and <strong>St</strong>uart Hendry
Finedon Local History<br />
Society<br />
We start <strong>2019</strong> with a talk by Peter<br />
Austin on the “History and Founding<br />
of the Northamptonshire Film Archive<br />
Trust (with some film footage from<br />
their collection).<br />
The evening will be held in the<br />
Mission Room, Well <strong>St</strong>reet, Finedon<br />
on Monday 28th <strong>January</strong> <strong>2019</strong> at<br />
7.30pm.<br />
Admission to the evening will be<br />
£2.50 for members and £3.50 for<br />
non-members.<br />
Afterwards light refreshments will be<br />
served. All are welcome to attend.<br />
Church Monthly Draw<br />
The results of the December church<br />
monthly draw are as follows:<br />
Total receipts of £242.00 are divided<br />
equally between the winners and the<br />
church funds<br />
Winning numbers for the December<br />
monthly draw are:<br />
1st prize 89 £60.50<br />
2nd prize 37 £36.30<br />
3rd prize 31 £24.20<br />
If you would like to join the monthly<br />
draw (£1.00 per share per month)<br />
which takes place in the church on<br />
the first Sunday of the month, please<br />
contact Kathy Hobbs on 01933<br />
398794.<br />
entertainment from Colin Hill who will<br />
talk about 'Dancing with Diana', and a<br />
Grand Raffle.<br />
A charge of £5.00 for the evening will<br />
include raffle tickets.<br />
This is a members only event, but if<br />
you would like information about the<br />
Guild, please call 01933 680209.<br />
<strong>St</strong> Marys Thursday Club<br />
The committee would like to wish all<br />
its members a Very Happy New Year.<br />
Our next meeting will be held on<br />
Thursday 24th <strong>January</strong> <strong>2019</strong>.<br />
We will be having a Surprise Bingo<br />
and will meet at the Band Club at<br />
7.45 pm for a 8.00 pm start.<br />
Anyone wishing to join us will be<br />
made very welcome. We hope to see<br />
you all at our <strong>January</strong>'s meeting.<br />
Townswomen’s Guild<br />
Finedon Townswomen's Guild will be<br />
celebrating the New Year with a party<br />
in the Town Hall at 7.30 on<br />
3rd <strong>January</strong>.<br />
There will be soup and a sweet<br />
provided by the committee,<br />
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<strong>St</strong>ar Coffee House,<br />
Institute and Hall<br />
(continued)<br />
With the building of the Institute the<br />
Trustees had to look for income<br />
streams, in addition to the<br />
membership fees, in order to service<br />
the loan that had been taken out to<br />
build the Institute and also to cover<br />
running costs and repairs of the two<br />
buildings.<br />
John Bailey, in his book “Finedon<br />
otherwise Thingdon” said that the<br />
Coffee House had been built and<br />
paid for by Mr Mackworth Dolben and<br />
then a trust was set up to run the<br />
building. Sources indicate that the<br />
Institute building was built by the<br />
Trustees using a loan to finance it. If<br />
this building was financed in the<br />
same way as the later brick building<br />
then it was financed with a bank loan<br />
that was arranged through either Mrs<br />
or Miss Mackworth Dolben, who both<br />
had great interest in the <strong>St</strong>ar complex<br />
and in the temperance movement.<br />
These ladies opened the gardens at<br />
Finedon Hall, as a fund raiser to start<br />
the repayment of the loan, even<br />
before the Institute had been officially<br />
open in 1884.<br />
Along with the anticipated increased<br />
membership and the accompanying<br />
extra fees the Trustees looked for<br />
ways of using the space in the<br />
Institute building to generate a<br />
regular income. Within the Institute<br />
building there was a large downstairs<br />
room that is often referred to as the<br />
<strong>St</strong>ar Hall, the name that was later<br />
transferred to the newer brick built<br />
hall. This earlier <strong>St</strong>ar Hall became a<br />
regular venue for a number of<br />
different functions and meetings, but<br />
it is one particular usage that I will<br />
concentrate on now. It was the use<br />
of, or requests to use, this room that<br />
caused the Trustees to have conflict<br />
with the principles of temperance,<br />
and also the beliefs of their main<br />
benefactors the ladies Mackworth<br />
Dolben.<br />
In October 1886 Mrs Bland, of<br />
Wellingborough, had been allowed to<br />
rent the hall for dancing classes.<br />
The Northampton Mercury of 18 th<br />
December 1886 reported that an<br />
Invitation Ball had been held in the<br />
<strong>St</strong>ar Hall on the previous Monday<br />
evening in connection with the<br />
dancing classes, and a portion of the<br />
Dolben Brass Band had also been in<br />
attendance. Unfortunately nothing<br />
further of the dancing classes was<br />
reported in the newspapers, and by<br />
the time the Resolutions Book picks<br />
up the story of the Institute in<br />
October 1887 there is no mention of<br />
dancing classes being available.<br />
What happened to them? It is<br />
possible that interest just faded, or<br />
there may be an indication of what<br />
happened when attempts were made<br />
in the 1890s to re-introduce this<br />
attraction.<br />
The Trustees rejected a request from<br />
Mr Wallington and company in<br />
November 1891 to hire a room for<br />
dancing classes. There was<br />
obviously some conflict between the
principles of temperance and dancing<br />
classes as on 4 th May 1894 the<br />
Northants Temperance and Band of<br />
Hope Union met at Burton Latimer,<br />
and the Revd. T. <strong>St</strong>ephens spoke at<br />
length about the perils of drink and<br />
entertainment that often accompanied<br />
it. On dancing classes he had the<br />
following to say “These classes did<br />
more harm than good. In many of<br />
them very late hours were kept, and<br />
he knew of cases where young<br />
women owed their downfall to them.<br />
There were many loose dancing<br />
classes, with low moral tone about<br />
them, and from these nothing but evil<br />
could arise.”<br />
There must have been some<br />
indication that dancing classes were<br />
going to be considered in the Hall<br />
later in the decade as Mr McAllister<br />
and Mr Wilford, both Trustees, had an<br />
interview with Miss Mackworth Dolben<br />
and her cousin Miss Mackworth in<br />
February 1897 about public dances at<br />
the <strong>St</strong>ar. The ladies opinions were<br />
recorded as follows “that Miss M-D,<br />
whilst not being at all favourable to<br />
public dances feels that under the<br />
present circumstances it would be<br />
wise for the Trustees to allow<br />
occasional dances. Miss M-D at the<br />
same time expressed great objection<br />
to the <strong>St</strong>ar being utilised for dancing<br />
classes, she also expressed a desire<br />
that the Trustees should prohibit<br />
smoking in the large room whenever<br />
ladies are present.”<br />
It was in this light that in October<br />
1898 Miss Paul applied to use the<br />
facilities for her dancing classes, after<br />
a short discussion it was decided not<br />
to let the room for this purpose. The<br />
Miss Paul concerned was either the<br />
daughter or the sister of the Vicar<br />
who was also Chairman of the<br />
Trustees, and the following reply to<br />
her request was sent on behalf of the<br />
Trustees. “The Trustees of the <strong>St</strong>ar<br />
Hall regret very much that they<br />
cannot grant you the use of the new<br />
room for your class, but have recently<br />
refused the application of Messrs<br />
York and Ellson they feel that for the<br />
present it would not be wise to open<br />
the room for the above named<br />
purpose.”<br />
Although there is evidence of the Hall<br />
being used for dances, there is no<br />
record of any further requests for<br />
dancing classes to be held there.<br />
Next time hear about those men and<br />
women who had the day to day<br />
running of the <strong>St</strong>ar complex.<br />
VALENTINE BARN DANCE<br />
Saturday 16th February <strong>2019</strong><br />
doors 7.00 pm for 7.30pm<br />
at<br />
Finedon Community Centre,<br />
Wellingborough Rd. NN9 5LG<br />
Dancing to KELLY’S EYE<br />
live band with caller<br />
Tickets £10 including Chicken<br />
or Veggie burger & chips<br />
from<br />
Pam: 01933 398377 or email:<br />
finedoncommunitycetre@gmail.com<br />
Licensed Bar and great raffle.<br />
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Finedon Town Council<br />
Clerk: Mrs Julia Tufnail<br />
Office Hours: Monday-Friday Mornings<br />
51 Market Road, Thrapston, Northants<br />
NN14 4JT<br />
Telephone 07410 633544<br />
Email:<br />
clerk@finedontowncouncil.gov.uk<br />
Website:<br />
www.finedontowncouncil.gov.uk<br />
Your Councillors:<br />
Laurence Harper Chairman<br />
Terry Kendall-Torry, Vice Chair &<br />
Planning<br />
Malcolm Ward, also WBC<br />
Barbara Bailey, also WBC<br />
Sally Farrell, Gill Spencer,<br />
Gordon Swann, <strong>St</strong>uart Cooper,<br />
Andrew Weatherill, Mike Bentley,<br />
Dennis Willmott, Ray Ogle, Louise<br />
Lawrence<br />
Proposed Health Centre Closure<br />
As you know, Finedon’s petition was<br />
delivered to Parliament by Peter Bone<br />
MP who is keeping a close eye on<br />
developments having been in contact<br />
with both the practice and the<br />
Department of Health about the<br />
matter.<br />
The Council will keep you informed as<br />
more information becomes available.<br />
Pocket Park<br />
The Council has approached<br />
Wellingborough Borough Council<br />
asking that they transfer ownership of<br />
the Pocket Park to them. The Council<br />
has managed the Pocket Park since<br />
1985 and feels that it is more than<br />
capable of continuing to look after it<br />
should WBC see their way to<br />
transferring ownership.<br />
A recent fallen tree has been<br />
removed as it was blocking the<br />
pathway.<br />
The meeting dates for <strong>2019</strong> have<br />
been set as follows<br />
16th <strong>January</strong><br />
20th February<br />
27th March<br />
8th May (AGM & Annual <strong>Parish</strong><br />
Meeting)<br />
19th June<br />
24th July<br />
4th September<br />
16th October<br />
27th November<br />
The meeting on 16th <strong>January</strong> <strong>2019</strong><br />
will set the budget and precept<br />
request for the next year and you are<br />
more than welcome to attend.<br />
As usual, please feel free to contact<br />
the Council should you have anything<br />
you wish to bring to their attention.<br />
Providing it is within the Council’s<br />
remit, we will try our best to make<br />
Finedon a better place to live.<br />
With best wishes for the New Year.<br />
Julia Tufnail<br />
Clerk, Finedon Town Council<br />
<strong>January</strong> <strong>2019</strong><br />
Finedon Over 60s<br />
We meet every Wednesday at the<br />
Bowls Club, Wellingborough Road at<br />
1.45 pm until 3.30 pm. We have tea/<br />
coffee and biscuits with<br />
entertainment, bingo and speakers.<br />
Admission is £1.00 plus 20p raffle .<br />
<strong>January</strong> Programme<br />
9th Bingo<br />
16th Jane Osbourne, Poetry and<br />
Magic<br />
23rd Games afternoon<br />
30th Nick Oram, keyboard<br />
entertainment<br />
We look forward to seeing you there.
In My Day<br />
the ramblings of Hubert James<br />
In my day it was about this time of<br />
year that after the excesses of last<br />
month things calmed down. We’d look<br />
for gentler entertainment to fill in until<br />
pantomime at the end of the month.<br />
Course, in those days entertainment<br />
was limited especially when the<br />
weather turned bad and days were<br />
shorter than the attention span of a<br />
teenager.<br />
What we did have was Board Games.<br />
They were called that because you<br />
played them when you were bored.<br />
We had all the traditional ones like<br />
Snakes and Ladders, Ludo and<br />
Draughts. Then there were card<br />
games like Whist, Pontoon, Beat Your<br />
Neighbour and Old Maid. Not<br />
surprisingly Happy Families wasn’t so<br />
popular straight after Christmas<br />
locked in a room with your nearest<br />
and dearest.<br />
But head and shoulders above all<br />
these stood Monopoly. Well I say<br />
Monopoly, but buying the actual game<br />
was a bit expensive. Ironically, if you<br />
were good at the game you were<br />
probably careful with your money so<br />
might not buy your own board<br />
anyway.<br />
This was where the Parker Brothers<br />
came in. Karl and Reg used to get<br />
frustrated in winter because they were<br />
keen walkers, ramblers really and<br />
they couldn’t get out. So to give<br />
themselves something to do at home<br />
they invented ‘Finedopoly’.<br />
Yes, remember? It was a bit different.<br />
The board was a flattened cardboard<br />
box and the pieces were made of<br />
Plasticene. We had; a boot, flat cap,<br />
thimble, Austin 7, rowing boat.<br />
There were all the local streets but<br />
instead of railway stations you had<br />
pubs; The Mulso, The Prince, The<br />
Dolben and The Bell. And rather than<br />
building houses and hotels it was<br />
houses and shoe factories. Water<br />
Works became Water Tower<br />
You got £200 for passing Finedon<br />
Hall. Now because there was no jail if<br />
you picked the wrong Chance card<br />
you had to “go to Burton”, go directly<br />
to Burton do not pass Finedon Hall.<br />
Do not collect £200”. We had hours of<br />
fun until Betty Mangle who invented<br />
Monopoly threatened to sue the<br />
brothers and they had to pack up.<br />
She sent them a letter full of strange<br />
words they’d never heard of. It sent<br />
them scrabbling for a big dictionary. It<br />
did give them an idea for a new game<br />
called ‘Wordable’ where you had a<br />
half a dozen letters and you had to<br />
make up words with 2 or 3 letters that<br />
nobody had heard of. It wasn’t a<br />
success, although, a chap called Alf<br />
Butts tweaked the idea and made a<br />
fortune.<br />
What was rather lovely was that to<br />
recognise the Parker’s contribution to<br />
Finedon history the <strong>Parish</strong> Council<br />
named a new road after them;<br />
Walkers Way. We already had<br />
Parkers Terrace named after a<br />
famous chauffeur.<br />
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Mental health in the diocese, the Church and beyond<br />
W<br />
ith one in four of the<br />
population likely to<br />
experience a mental health<br />
condition at some point in<br />
their lives, work in this field has never<br />
been more important. One of those<br />
working within this diocese in mental<br />
health support is Revd Philip Evans,<br />
the Lead Chaplain at <strong>St</strong> Andrew’s<br />
Healthcare, a specialist mental<br />
healthcare charity based in<br />
Northampton.<br />
“I work alongside colleagues,<br />
chaplains and volunteers, from a<br />
variety of faiths and traditions, and our<br />
role is to serve patients, staff and<br />
visitors – of all faiths and of no faith –<br />
offering spiritual and pastoral care,”<br />
explains Philip. “We work with many<br />
people who are vulnerable, unwell and<br />
who have been through traumatic or<br />
painful experiences, and our hope is to<br />
bring care, compassion and healing.”<br />
“At <strong>St</strong> Andrew’s I look after our<br />
CAMHS (child and adolescent mental<br />
health services) for young people at<br />
FitzRoy House in Northampton, our<br />
adult Autistic Spectrum Disorder wards<br />
in Northampton and our hospital in<br />
Mansfield, which cares for adult men<br />
with autism or learning disabilities –<br />
some 200 patients<br />
in all.”<br />
FitzRoy House is the largest mental<br />
health charity for young people in<br />
Europe, and there are other initiatives<br />
across the diocese which have<br />
emerged over the last few years.<br />
These include Renew Wellbeing cafés,<br />
where churches partner with with<br />
mental health professionals and<br />
provide spaces for people to chat and<br />
reflect.<br />
“The Renew Wellbeing cafés are a<br />
wonderful concept – places of<br />
friendship and belonging, where it is ok<br />
to be not ok, rooted in a framework and<br />
pattern of prayer,” says Philip. “There<br />
are local cafés now in Northampton<br />
town centre, Kingsthorpe, Earls Barton<br />
and Towcester, with others in prospect.<br />
But every single parish or other ministry<br />
in the diocese will be addressing mental<br />
health and wellbeing needs in some<br />
way.”<br />
One of the ways in which this is<br />
happening is training events. The<br />
Diocesan Evangelical Fellowship<br />
invited Philip and Dr David Smart to<br />
speak at <strong>St</strong> Giles Church, Northampton<br />
in November on ‘Christian ministry to<br />
those with mental health issues’, which<br />
proved to be a helpful exercise.<br />
“We were very pleased to be invited to<br />
the DEF, encouraged by the wish to<br />
reflect biblically and theologically on this<br />
area of ministry, but with an emphasis<br />
on practical issues. The good numbers<br />
attending showed that these are matters<br />
of concern to many who wish to be –<br />
and for the Church to be – caring and of<br />
effective help in ministry.”
Training events are also planned for the<br />
coming year, courtesy of the Diocesan<br />
Healing Ministry Group, which Philip is<br />
part of.<br />
“We are going to be running a training<br />
day for clergy at <strong>St</strong> Andrew’s on Tuesday<br />
19th March, giving practical help for<br />
churches in responding to mental health<br />
concerns. There will also be a day-long<br />
conference at Christ the King, Kettering<br />
on Saturday 19th October, with main<br />
speaker Becky Harcourt (from New Wine),<br />
addressing emotional pain and hurts. I am<br />
especially keen that we help churches<br />
develop good healing ministry practice in<br />
these areas.”<br />
These diocesan initiatives in the area of<br />
mental health is a reflection of the work<br />
taking place nationally in the Church.<br />
Mind and Soul is a Christian organisation<br />
specialising in the area of mental health,<br />
with a range of articles, videos and advice<br />
on its website<br />
(www.mindandsoulfoundation.org/). There<br />
is also the FaithAction ‘Friendly Places’<br />
scheme where churches can sign up to<br />
commit to being places which support<br />
people with mental health issues<br />
(www.faithaction.net/) . Philip is keen,<br />
though, that the Church doesn’t just limit<br />
this work to Christians.<br />
“I’m keen that the Church always sees<br />
its mission and ministry as being ‘out<br />
there’, giving special attention to the one<br />
who is lost, perhaps above the 99 who are<br />
safe,” he says. “GPs and the Church need<br />
to help and be<br />
helped by each<br />
other. Schools too<br />
are in the front line,<br />
with designated<br />
mental health<br />
leads being<br />
appointed: there is<br />
huge scope for the<br />
Church’s children’s<br />
and youth<br />
ministries to<br />
engage with<br />
wellbeing issues.”<br />
This bridging of<br />
the gap between<br />
helping those who<br />
attend or do not<br />
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attend church has been helped by the fact<br />
that Bishop Donald speaks for the Church<br />
of England on mental health issues in the<br />
House of Lords.<br />
“Bishop Donald has challenged the<br />
Government to take direct responsibility<br />
for delivering on and being accountable<br />
for its promises in the mental health area,”<br />
explains Philip. “He has also spoken<br />
about mental health chaplaincy, citing in<br />
particular what the Royal College of<br />
Psychiatrists has done in highlighting the<br />
importance of spiritual care, and<br />
essentially saying that chaplaincy<br />
resources need to match the great needs<br />
in society.”<br />
So there is still work to be done, but<br />
important inroads have been made in the<br />
area of mental health, which Philip hopes<br />
will continue<br />
to grow.<br />
“My hope is that mental healthcare<br />
professionals will recognise the<br />
demonstrated value and place of faith and<br />
spirituality in securing healthcare<br />
outcomes for patients. Similarly, I hope<br />
and am sure that the Church will grow<br />
more alert and responsive to mental<br />
health needs – being accessible,<br />
sensitive, caring and giving ‘parity of<br />
esteem’ in its ministry and mission to all.”
What does the New Year hold for us?<br />
2018 was a fabulous year at<br />
the Cathedral. We marked our<br />
900th anniversary in some<br />
style, with the high point<br />
undoubtedly coming with the visit of<br />
the Soyuz space capsule, which<br />
attracted almost 180,000 visitors<br />
during its three month stay – many<br />
more visitors than we normally get in<br />
a whole year! Those who came were<br />
attracted by a piece of modern<br />
technology but discovered in the<br />
process our extraordinary building –<br />
in its own day, a magnificent example<br />
of contemporary engineering and a<br />
triumph of the human imagination.<br />
They also encountered a living<br />
building and a house of prayer, and it<br />
was striking just how many people lit<br />
candles, left prayers or engaged in<br />
conversation with our clergy and<br />
voluntary chaplains. In hosting the<br />
capsule, there were many striking<br />
juxtapositions – ancient and modern;<br />
monumental architecture and a<br />
surprisingly fragile piece of high tech;<br />
science and religion. We found<br />
ourselves looking back over our<br />
history and asking questions about<br />
our future and what values will<br />
sustain humanity in the generations<br />
to come.<br />
As a Cathedral community, we have<br />
also been reflecting on our vision and<br />
values. What is our core purpose and<br />
how will we shape our future mission<br />
and ministry in a way that does<br />
justice to our context, as well as<br />
reflecting the universal truths of God’s<br />
love that our Cathedral was built to<br />
celebrate and witness to? Like all<br />
Christian churches, we exist to share<br />
the love of God in Jesus Christ, affirm<br />
life in all its fullness and draw others<br />
into a relationship with him. But we<br />
have a particular history, a distinctive<br />
calling and unique opportunities to<br />
make that purpose<br />
a reality.<br />
We are, for example, exploring<br />
how our spiritual roots in<br />
Benedictine monasticism – with its<br />
emphasis on a rhythm of prayer, a<br />
high sense of welcome and<br />
Christian hospitality, and a<br />
commitment to learning and<br />
service – might shape our ministry<br />
today. And what values might<br />
underpin such priorities –<br />
generosity perhaps, inclusivity,<br />
integrity, joy? How do these play<br />
out in our very diverse city and our<br />
sprawling complex diocese?<br />
We are not in the business of<br />
making glib New Year’s<br />
resolutions, but we are committing<br />
ourselves to think, pray and<br />
explore; to share with and listen to<br />
our congregations, partners,<br />
visitors and neighbours as we work<br />
out where we might be in the years<br />
to come (always allowing for God<br />
to surprise us, of course). This time<br />
last year, we had made all kinds of<br />
plans...and then came the Soyuz,<br />
so who knows what God has in<br />
store for us? What we do know is<br />
that Christ is faithful, the Alpha and<br />
the Omega, the one who was and<br />
is and is to come, and at the<br />
beginning of <strong>2019</strong> it is into his<br />
hands that we commit ourselves –<br />
all that we are and all that we shall<br />
be.<br />
The Very Revd Chris Dalliston,<br />
Dean of Peterborough
<strong>January</strong> <strong>2019</strong><br />
3rd<br />
6th<br />
8th<br />
15th<br />
24th<br />
26th/<br />
31st<br />
28th<br />
29th<br />
February<br />
1st/<br />
2nd<br />
4th<br />
7th<br />
16th<br />
25th<br />
March<br />
4th<br />
TG Town Hall, New Year Party with Soup &<br />
Sweet<br />
6pm Epiphany Carol Service, <strong>St</strong> Mary’s<br />
Church.<br />
2pm Mothers Union, AGM, Mission Room<br />
9.45 Coffee Morning,, Bowls Club<br />
11-3pm Nation Garden Scheme 67-69 High<br />
<strong>St</strong>reet<br />
Finedon, Pantomime week, <strong>St</strong>ar Hall<br />
7.30 History Society, Mission Room, History<br />
& founding of the Northamptonshire Film<br />
Archive Trust.<br />
9.45 Coffee Morning, Bowls Club<br />
Last day of Finedon Pantomime<br />
RBL Branch quiz night, Bowls Club<br />
7.30 TG, Town Hall, Roy Smart<br />
‘Amy Wonderful Amy’<br />
Valentine Barn Dance, Community Centre<br />
7.30 History Society, Mission Room,<br />
Michael Brown, Death in the Garden<br />
RBL Blood Couriers & Other emergencies Mr<br />
Kamran Irani, Bowls Club<br />
April<br />
1st<br />
4th<br />
15th<br />
29th<br />
May<br />
June<br />
RBL Away with the fairies, Kevin Varty,<br />
Bowls Club<br />
7.30 TG, Town Hall, James Burton, An<br />
Antiques Valuation evening<br />
7.30 History Society, Mission Room,<br />
Douglas Goddard, The history of the postcard<br />
RBL Bowls Club, Quiz Night<br />
RBL Bingo & Supper night (tbc)<br />
2nd 2-6pm National Garden Scheme 67-69<br />
High <strong>St</strong>reet<br />
3rd<br />
RBL, Bowls Club, History of the Music Hall,<br />
Colin Ray<br />
30th 2-6pm National Garden Scheme 67-69<br />
High <strong>St</strong>reet & the Vicarage.<br />
July<br />
1st<br />
August<br />
5th<br />
September<br />
2nd<br />
October<br />
7th<br />
November<br />
RBL Bowls Club, Battlefields, Terry<br />
Whenham<br />
RBL, Bowls Club, Quiz night<br />
RBL, Bowls Club, Fish & Chip Supper<br />
RBL Bowls Club, My Life, Jason de-Vaux<br />
7th<br />
25th<br />
7.30 TG, AGM, Adrian Cale ‘Nostalgia’, The<br />
ramblings of Hubert James<br />
7,30 History Society, Mission Room, Tom<br />
Watts, The history of Finedon<br />
Cinemas and the Watts family<br />
4th RBL, Bowls Club, AGM<br />
December<br />
2nd RBL, Bowls Club, Quiz<br />
6th RBL, Bowls Club, Christmas Party<br />
<strong>St</strong> Michael’s Mission Room, Well <strong>St</strong>reet, Finedon<br />
Available for hire weekdays, Saturdays & Sundays.<br />
Suitable for most social functions, charitable events, children's parties (no late<br />
discos)<br />
For all enquiries and information contact<br />
Bryan & Christine Chapman Tel: 01933 398818<br />
Email: bryanchapman2@aol.com<br />
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