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BY EILEEN SHAPIRO<br />
CELEBRITY CORRESPONDENT<br />
RICHARD CORTEZ<br />
A Queer Perspective<br />
PHOTO CREDIT DA PING LUO<br />
Richard Cortez is entertaining New<br />
York’s nightlife in an original way.<br />
He is vocally interpreting songs<br />
from The Great American Songbook<br />
and adding a queer twist to them,<br />
accompanied by a five-piece band.<br />
The Richard Cortez Quartet performs<br />
at REBAR on Thursdays, in Brooklyn at<br />
Metropolitan Fridays and every third<br />
Tuesday at Club Cumming.<br />
I spoke to Cortez regarding his career,<br />
music and inspirations. He has a very<br />
inspiring history and a very promising<br />
future.<br />
INTERVIEW<br />
Richard, what are you<br />
currently doing as far<br />
as performing?<br />
I’ve been working on<br />
visiting material from<br />
The Great American<br />
Songbook with a fivepiece<br />
band and giving<br />
it a queer perspective.<br />
I’m picking songs, not<br />
changing any pronouns,<br />
and singing works that<br />
were never given the<br />
opportunity to have a<br />
gay identity.
Can you give me a small<br />
example?<br />
Sure! For instance, there’s<br />
a song called “Lover<br />
Man” that was originally<br />
written for and performed<br />
by Billie Holiday. In the<br />
song, there’s a lyric that<br />
says, “I don’t know why,<br />
but I’m feeling so sad. I<br />
long to try something I’ve<br />
never had. Never had no<br />
kissin’, oh what I’ve been<br />
missin’. Lover man, oh<br />
where can you be?” In<br />
its original conception,<br />
sung by a woman about<br />
a man, the story<br />
is pretty straight<br />
forward—however,<br />
when it is sung by a<br />
gay man about a man,<br />
it can be nuanced<br />
in so many different<br />
ways that stray from<br />
its initial direction. For<br />
example, is it about<br />
the journey of having<br />
sexual desires while<br />
being closeted? Is<br />
it about lusting for<br />
a straight man? Is it<br />
about the very unique<br />
(and often times<br />
confusing) experience<br />
of trying to date in<br />
the gay world? There<br />
are just so many<br />
opportunities to take<br />
a lyric from that era,<br />
which was very focused<br />
on gender roles and very<br />
misogynistic in a lot of<br />
ways, break it apart and<br />
see how the story evolves<br />
when told from that<br />
perspective of a queer<br />
person.<br />
That’s cool. You are<br />
showcasing that at<br />
Rebar, correct?<br />
Rebar in Chelsea on<br />
Thursdays, from 7 to 9<br />
p.m. Metropolitan Bar in<br />
Brooklyn on Fridays from<br />
7 to 9 p.m. And every<br />
third Tuesday performing<br />
a more curated/arranged<br />
show at Club Cumming in<br />
Alphabet City.<br />
What inspired this idea<br />
for you?<br />
When I was 16, I taught<br />
myself to play the acoustic<br />
guitar. Before I even knew<br />
any chords, I was writing<br />
songs. At 18, I moved<br />
to New York. I used to<br />
record demos in my dorm<br />
room in college. I would<br />
play songs in little bars<br />
in the Village and give<br />
out my demos for free<br />
PHOTO CREDIT ROBERT CLYDE GRIMA<br />
after shows to anyone<br />
who would take one. A<br />
production company got<br />
their hands on one, and<br />
they brought me into their<br />
office for a meeting. They<br />
told me that I had a lot<br />
of potential and offered<br />
me a development deal.<br />
However, there was<br />
a catch: In exchange<br />
for a band, making<br />
appearances and<br />
going on tour with an<br />
opportunity to record<br />
music, I would have to<br />
change the pronouns<br />
in my songs so that I<br />
presented as a straight<br />
man. They even went as<br />
far as offering to send<br />
me to speech therapy<br />
to “sound less gay” and<br />
arrange a fake girlfriend<br />
to make appearances with<br />
me.<br />
How long ago was this?<br />
2003. I, understandably,<br />
turned them down and<br />
started releasing my<br />
music independently. I<br />
started a small record<br />
label that I’ve had ever<br />
since and for the last 15<br />
years I’ve been writing,<br />
recording and releasing<br />
original music sung from<br />
a queer perspective. I’ve<br />
since toured the country,<br />
played with some really<br />
cool folks and had some<br />
amazing experiences,<br />
all done the grassroots<br />
way—being my own<br />
manager, booking agent<br />
and PR team. The last<br />
record that I put out,<br />
which was featured in<br />
“OUT,” was called “The<br />
Welder & The Lark.”<br />
That material specifically<br />
hit a little too close to<br />
home, and I struggled to<br />
perform it live. I would get<br />
on stage, sing the songs<br />
and struggle through<br />
tears to deliver them. It<br />
really started to take a<br />
toll on me. I felt like if I<br />
was going to become<br />
a healthier person, my<br />
relationship with my own<br />
music was going to have<br />
to change. So, I took a<br />
break. During this time, I<br />
had also fallen completely<br />
in love with vocal jazz.<br />
It was all I listened to.<br />
Last summer, I met a jazz<br />
guitarist named Alex<br />
Mejia at a party on the<br />
Fourth of <strong>July</strong>. I invited<br />
him to come with me, to<br />
play a show with me that I<br />
already had scheduled.
PHOTOS BY ROBERT CLYDE GRIMA<br />
That show was supposed<br />
to be of my original work,<br />
but instead we performed<br />
songs from The Great<br />
American Songbook.<br />
This felt right. After that<br />
show, I soon after booked<br />
us a monthly residency<br />
at Club Cumming, and<br />
then before I knew it, a<br />
year later now, there are<br />
upwards of five people on<br />
stage every night we play.<br />
It’s all grown so fast.<br />
That’s wonderful. How<br />
do you feel now?<br />
I feel really good about<br />
where I’m at now<br />
creatively. I’ve even gotten<br />
back to performing my<br />
original songs. I will say<br />
it’s a completely different<br />
experience stepping<br />
out from behind the<br />
guitar and focusing more<br />
of my energy on lyric<br />
interpretation. When<br />
writing my own songs,<br />
I was always trying to<br />
definitively find a way to<br />
communicate the level of<br />
emotional intensity that<br />
I was feeling throughout<br />
my life that spoke to my<br />
experience as a young<br />
queer person. There<br />
was no music that I<br />
could listen to that<br />
really told my story. So,<br />
I thought I would just<br />
write the music myself.<br />
However, when I found<br />
The Great American<br />
Songbook, I realized there<br />
was a lot of incredible<br />
material that I could<br />
MAKE my own, and going<br />
a step even further, give<br />
a queer perspective that<br />
challenged the original<br />
take on these works.<br />
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ISSUE <strong>428</strong> - JULY <strong>24</strong> <strong>2019</strong><br />
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CHRIS JONES<br />
BY EILEEN SHAPIRO<br />
CELEBRITY CORRESPONDENT<br />
Strong<br />
Trax Records sensation Christian Jones, also known as Chris Jones—and, yes,<br />
the brother of the iconic superstar Grace Jones—has recently unveiled his<br />
new album, "Strong 2." An artist in his own right, Jones is a singer-songwriter,<br />
model, producer, fashion connoisseur, DJ and classically trained pianist.<br />
Born in Jamaica, Jones moved to New York at a young age where he began<br />
modeling for Wilhelmina Models, which eventually led him to Paris, where<br />
he worked with Elite Models for the next six years. He recorded his first<br />
single in Israel and was signed to Sony Records in London. He received media<br />
promotion and performed in clubs in the New York nightlife scene. A world<br />
traveler now living in Europe, but frequently winding up in New York, Jones<br />
has proven himself a special force to be reckoned with.<br />
Super sincere, honest and humble, Jones is also the face and ambassador for<br />
the Winners Foundation, an organization supporting children and adults with<br />
handicaps in Belgrade, Serbia. He and his family have also been performing<br />
benefits and donating to amFAR, The Foundation for AIDS Research, for<br />
years as well.<br />
Jones’ single "Strong" is mixed by Eric Kupper with promotions by Brad<br />
Lebeau (promolift.com). The song will also be part of a Trax Records<br />
compilation album to be released in August in celebration of the label’s 35th<br />
anniversary.<br />
I spoke to Jones, coming off of supporting his sister at Pride Island for<br />
WorldPride, which is always a joy as he happens to be one of the sweetest<br />
men on the planet.<br />
Chris, I’ve<br />
never seen<br />
your sister<br />
in concert,<br />
and I’ve got to say<br />
it’s one of the best<br />
performances I’ve<br />
ever experienced.<br />
OMG, I’m glad to hear<br />
that. She would love<br />
to hear that. It’s too<br />
bad that she had a<br />
broken toe, and she<br />
was really in pain. But<br />
anyway, I just finished<br />
some backing<br />
vocals on her new<br />
album, [recorded]<br />
at Alligator Head.<br />
Alligator Head is<br />
owned by Francesca<br />
von Habsburg, whose<br />
husband was the<br />
prime minister or<br />
the head of Vienna.<br />
We recorded in<br />
Jamaica with Ivor<br />
Quest, who produced<br />
“Hurricane,” and he’s<br />
a genius. From him I<br />
met Princess Diana’s<br />
brother Charles. I<br />
did a lot of backing<br />
vocals with Grace,<br />
but, you know, we<br />
used to sing together<br />
in church, so we<br />
worked it!
Do you know with the<br />
weather in Jamaica, we<br />
didn’t want to work.<br />
We had to! Then we<br />
flew into WorldPride.<br />
Dyou have fun?<br />
Yes. I was working the<br />
costumes.<br />
I have never seen any<br />
performer change<br />
costumes for each and<br />
every song like Grace<br />
did.<br />
Well, you have to<br />
remember, she’s a<br />
fashionista. My mother<br />
taught us how to<br />
sew when we were<br />
children, because<br />
my mother was a<br />
designer. She was a<br />
wedding designer. In<br />
our basement we had<br />
seven or eight sewing<br />
machines. I would<br />
come home from work<br />
and make a pair of<br />
pants and wear them<br />
out the same night.<br />
So, you’re almost a<br />
royal, you have an<br />
album out and you’re<br />
a fashion designer.<br />
I was the first black<br />
guy to work with<br />
Elizabeth Arden in the<br />
80s. I was a hair cutter.<br />
So that was very<br />
interesting.<br />
Let’s talk about<br />
your new album.<br />
It’s really<br />
interesting,<br />
my album,<br />
because there<br />
is one particular<br />
song that is 30<br />
years old that I<br />
produced with<br />
Mark Kamins<br />
called “I Wonder<br />
Why.” This track<br />
was under my<br />
bed for the last 30<br />
years. It actually<br />
inspired me to<br />
really go out and<br />
start finishing<br />
PHOTO BY DANY MARKIEWICZ & ARTWORK BY WKD AXE<br />
my work. I had this<br />
track that was done<br />
so many years ago<br />
and never released,<br />
and unfortunately<br />
Mark is dead, and I<br />
thought that I would<br />
do this track as a<br />
tribute to him. We<br />
did that one in New<br />
York, and that is one<br />
of my favorites. It’s<br />
about wondering<br />
why things happen,<br />
and that we always<br />
have to get down<br />
to get up. It’s about<br />
the balance of life.<br />
I wrote “Strong”<br />
because of the music<br />
industry. “Strong” is<br />
about young artists<br />
who are struggling<br />
to make it, and they<br />
don’t really realize<br />
how difficult it is. You<br />
have this dream, and<br />
you just have to keep<br />
going. The strength<br />
that you have to have<br />
and the drive—it’s so<br />
important.
That’s a great theme.<br />
The thing about it is,<br />
this industry is not<br />
as easy as people<br />
think. Some people<br />
look at me as if they<br />
are jealous; however,<br />
it took years. I am<br />
not an overnight<br />
success. Even if you<br />
have siblings who<br />
are famous, I think<br />
it’s even harder to<br />
become successful.<br />
I agree with you. It<br />
had to be tough for<br />
you especially.<br />
I think you need a<br />
lot of determination.<br />
I think that a man is<br />
intimidated by an<br />
aggressive woman. I<br />
think that Grace has<br />
that side, my father’s<br />
side.<br />
CHRIS JONES ARRIVING AT AED FILM STUDIOS IN BELGIUM<br />
Actually, I think all<br />
Jamaican women are<br />
dominant. Most women,<br />
like you and Rachel<br />
(Screamin’ Rachael from<br />
Trax Records), I mean, in<br />
a man’s world it’s really<br />
difficult unless you<br />
really have the knowhow<br />
to intimidate them.<br />
One thing I admire<br />
about you both is your<br />
determination. You and<br />
Rachael never give up. I<br />
realize, like you, Rachael<br />
is a businesswoman,<br />
and she’s focused. She<br />
sees exactly where you<br />
are going, and I think<br />
this is a power in itself.<br />
To survive, especially in<br />
the business, you have<br />
to get respect. It’s not<br />
even about fame; it’s<br />
about respect.<br />
Respect, that’s true.<br />
People say to me,<br />
“You’re famous.” I’m<br />
not famous; I’m just like<br />
everybody else. I have<br />
to eat, shit and die. So<br />
it’s all the bullshit that<br />
goes with it and the<br />
people that mislead<br />
you. Some people get<br />
stoned one night and<br />
promise you the world,<br />
and the next day they<br />
forget, and you can’t<br />
even reach them.<br />
CHRIS JONES, GRACE JONES AND PRODUCER, ARRANGER, & MIXER MARTIN RYAN
For years I was misled.<br />
I was a model and DJ<br />
in Paris for many years,<br />
and I worked with Elite.<br />
I was one of the first<br />
male models to start<br />
with them. Paris gave<br />
me my fashion image<br />
and my image of music<br />
and a certain culture.<br />
That’s why I live in<br />
Europe. I love New<br />
York as well. It took<br />
me nine years to put<br />
this album together,<br />
and it went through<br />
many changes. I went<br />
to Holland and Serbia<br />
for the saxophonist,<br />
and it’s a multicultural<br />
album with musicians<br />
from all over the<br />
world. I did it naturally.<br />
I have a musical<br />
background, which<br />
is classical. I played<br />
piano and keyboard,<br />
and I just don’t believe<br />
in music that is done<br />
on computer. I used<br />
to play the organ<br />
in my dad’s church.<br />
Because I have a<br />
musical background, I<br />
just don’t get on and<br />
do beats. I don’t really<br />
like it. I put together<br />
all my arrangements<br />
with Martin Ryan, and<br />
I put together all the<br />
harmonies.<br />
BACKUP VOCALIST ANITA ILLICIC AND EBBY DRENTHE<br />
I used to direct the<br />
choir at age 11 in my<br />
dad’s church. My<br />
mother was also a<br />
musician as well.<br />
So you are an entire<br />
musical family.<br />
Yeah. My mother<br />
especially. I have a<br />
lot of support from<br />
people like Terry<br />
Topcat and Allison<br />
Russell. I have an<br />
amazing team,<br />
including my road<br />
manager and friend<br />
Vahe Simonian,<br />
and he speaks six<br />
languages as well.<br />
So now I’m going to<br />
tell you an amazing<br />
story about Racheal<br />
from Trax Records.<br />
I came to New York,<br />
and I did not have a<br />
record deal.<br />
After the album<br />
was finished, with<br />
my backing vocal<br />
singers Ebby and<br />
Anita, who are<br />
very important to<br />
me, I came to New<br />
York to launch the<br />
record, and I did not<br />
have a record label.<br />
So Racheal called<br />
me. We were just<br />
going to put it up<br />
on iTunes and forget<br />
about a label. Then<br />
Racheal called me<br />
and asked me if I<br />
wanted to be on her<br />
label. I hadn’t seen<br />
Racheal in years.<br />
We used to perform<br />
together in the 80s.<br />
I didn’t know that<br />
she owned one of<br />
the most prestigious<br />
labels in the world.
Everyone now thinks<br />
I am very lucky to be<br />
on that label. At first<br />
I backed off, because<br />
everybody promises<br />
the same things.<br />
But I knew Racheal<br />
for a long time, and<br />
something told me<br />
to do it as I know she<br />
has a good heart. I<br />
didn’t think she would<br />
steer me wrong. She<br />
insisted that she<br />
wanted my music,<br />
and finally I agreed.<br />
In three weeks I had<br />
the contract and the<br />
publishing. Everything<br />
was done while I was<br />
in New York. How<br />
lucky is that!? The<br />
record is now listed,<br />
and it’s getting a lot of<br />
coverage in Europe.<br />
VAHE SINSINIAN<br />
ROAD MANAGER, MULTI LINGUIST INTERPRETER, ACTOR<br />
DJs are playing it<br />
to death. It’s a slow<br />
starter, this record,<br />
but the quality of it I<br />
think is what’s going<br />
to make it happen.<br />
It’s the quality of the<br />
music and the quality<br />
of the songs<br />
and the quality of the<br />
people on the album.<br />
The video was just<br />
as incredible. We are<br />
planning to sell hard<br />
copies of the video<br />
in Europe. My site is<br />
chrisjonesmusic.uk.<br />
In a few weeks there<br />
will be a link. It’s<br />
really picking up, and<br />
once you hear it you<br />
have to hear it again.
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Two years ago, my<br />
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our relationship. One<br />
of the big rules is we<br />
always discuss it first<br />
and make sure the<br />
other person is cool<br />
with it. Yesterday he<br />
came home and told<br />
me he met one of his<br />
favorite porn stars<br />
at a bar, and they<br />
exchanged numbers.<br />
They’ve been texting,<br />
which I’m fine with, but<br />
now the guy wants to<br />
fuck him, and IDK how<br />
I feel about it. Part of<br />
me is afraid he’s going<br />
to have feelings for<br />
him, and I’m concerned<br />
about STIs too. It just<br />
feels different to me,<br />
but I’m not sure why.<br />
Should I just let him do<br />
it? -Male, Gay, 28<br />
You should apply the<br />
same caution with<br />
this sexual partner as<br />
you would any other.<br />
There is a chance your<br />
boyfriend is infatuated<br />
with him, but hopefully<br />
he is smart enough<br />
to realize whatever<br />
his perception is of<br />
this actor, it likely<br />
isn’t accurate to who<br />
he actually is. When<br />
you have an open<br />
relationship, the<br />
possibility of catching<br />
feelings is always there.<br />
Do you have a plan for<br />
if/when it happens?<br />
In terms of STIs,<br />
adult entertainers are<br />
frequently tested, and<br />
probably more than the<br />
average guy on a phone<br />
app. Your boyfriend<br />
should use the same<br />
precautions he would<br />
with anyone else.<br />
My partner and I are<br />
very supportive of<br />
each other and our<br />
communication is top<br />
notch. He has often<br />
struggled with keeping<br />
steady jobs, and there<br />
have been many times<br />
where I’ve had to pick<br />
up his part of the rent.<br />
I don’t mind; I love him.<br />
A month ago, he did a<br />
nude photoshoot for<br />
fun, and now he says<br />
he wants to start doing<br />
porn. I love porn, but<br />
this really freaks me<br />
out. There is something<br />
about being filmed and<br />
out there forever that<br />
terrifies me. I want to<br />
continue to support<br />
him and for him to<br />
be happy, but I don’t<br />
know if being with a<br />
porn actor<br />
STARS<br />
is something I want<br />
for my relationship.<br />
Does that make me an<br />
asshole? -Male, Gay, 31<br />
It sounds like you<br />
really care about him<br />
and the relationship,<br />
so you want to<br />
protect it. Entering<br />
the porn industry is<br />
not something people<br />
should do carelessly; it’s<br />
a big decision and one<br />
you can’t take back. It<br />
would be great if people<br />
could try it out and not<br />
have it potentially follow<br />
them forever, but that’s<br />
how it is right now—it’s<br />
still very stigmatized. I<br />
think you should voice<br />
your concerns to him,<br />
discuss it, and then<br />
support his decision,<br />
whatever it is. However,<br />
you don’t have to be<br />
dating him to still be<br />
supportive of him. I<br />
don’t think you should<br />
give him an ultimatum,<br />
but if you don’t want to<br />
be with someone who<br />
does porn, that’s also<br />
your choice. There’s<br />
also the possibility that<br />
perhaps it won’t bother<br />
you when it actually<br />
happens. One key to<br />
healthy relationships<br />
(romantic or otherwise)<br />
is not holding each<br />
other back from the<br />
things they want.<br />
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@ThomasWhitfield84
BY IAN-MICHAEL BERGERON<br />
@ianmichaelinwonderland<br />
My favorite thing about summer<br />
in New York City: how many outdoor<br />
activities there are, a lot of them<br />
being free!<br />
This week’s free activity: Movie<br />
Nights at Bryant Park. Every Monday<br />
during the summer, Bryant Park puts<br />
up a big screen, packs the lawn and<br />
shows a movie. The movie I couldn’t<br />
miss? “Carrie” (1976, the original,<br />
naturally).<br />
I’ve always been a big fan of scary<br />
movies, especially from the 70s: My<br />
first scary movie obsession was<br />
1974’s “The Texas Chainsaw<br />
Massacre,” and 1973’s “The Exorcist”<br />
gives me nightmares to this day.<br />
But “Carrie” holds a special place<br />
in my heart: I think a lot of LGBTQ+<br />
gravitate toward Carrie, because we<br />
relate to her, we know what it’s like<br />
to be different, to be made fun of,<br />
and—most importantly for me—to not<br />
feel comfortable going to the prom. (I<br />
don’t think there was a single samesex<br />
couple at my senior prom—I took<br />
a female foreign exchange student.)<br />
You want to arrive to Bryant Park<br />
before 4:30, when everyone makes a<br />
mad dash to claim their spot. “Carrie”<br />
was sponsored by Netflix, and the<br />
lawn was littered with gift bags: My<br />
boyfriend grabbed one that had a<br />
beautiful red notebook. We spread<br />
out our blanket and waited for sunset,<br />
when the movie begins.<br />
Essential item to bring #1: a game<br />
to play. We brought several decks<br />
of cards, but (depending on how big<br />
your picnic blanket is) you could also<br />
bring any board game you wanted.<br />
You have to come early if you want a<br />
good spot, but then you have several<br />
hours to pass the time before the<br />
movie begins.<br />
Dinner and a Movie<br />
Essential item #2: snacks,<br />
or even a full dinner. I stocked up<br />
on Doritos (Spicy Sweet Chili, my<br />
favorite), Goldfish crackers and the<br />
like while my boyfriend brought deli<br />
sandwiches and pasta salad.<br />
Essential item #3: wine! I guess you<br />
could bring any drink of choice, but if<br />
you’re going to Bryant Park with me,<br />
there’s going to be wine. If you forget,<br />
or just don’t feel like trekking several<br />
heavy bottles of wine all over the city,<br />
there’s plenty of wine stores near the<br />
park. Essential item #3.5: plastic cups,<br />
no glass on the lawn!<br />
Just before the sun set, Netflix’s<br />
Brendan Scannell (“Bonding”) came<br />
out in a bloodied prom dress to play<br />
Carrie trivia. (I’m not saying I would<br />
have won if I got to go up there,<br />
but…) As soon as trivia was over, the<br />
movie began.<br />
We laughed when Carrie made the<br />
bully on his bike fall, we watched in<br />
silence as she was crowned and we<br />
cheered when she flipped the car.<br />
10/10 will be back to Bryant Park for<br />
the rest of their movies!<br />
Check out bryantpark.org/programs/movie-nights to see what’s playing!
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