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Scottsdale Health July 2019

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AFTER MOVING TO AMERICA<br />

FROM THE PHILIPPINES,<br />

GYDA HOUSER FOUND<br />

HAPPINESS IN CONNECTING<br />

WITH OTHERS THROUGH<br />

HEALTH AND FITNESS<br />

/ by Gabby Leighton<br />

/ photos by James Patrick<br />

Gyda Houser’s<br />

story starts in the<br />

Philippines, where<br />

she was born and<br />

raised. At age 18,<br />

she was thriving with<br />

a close-knit group<br />

of friends, working<br />

toward her degree in<br />

diplomacy and set in<br />

her ways, but everything<br />

changed when<br />

her parents decided<br />

to make a big move<br />

to America.<br />

“The most difficult<br />

part of my move<br />

was overcoming my<br />

fear of change and<br />

adaptation,” she<br />

recalls. “I had to<br />

quit school, bid my<br />

friends goodbye, and<br />

start a new life in a<br />

place filled with people<br />

who don’t speak<br />

my language or look<br />

like me.”<br />

ADJUSTING TO<br />

A NEW LIFE<br />

The term “culture<br />

shock” was an<br />

understatement to<br />

how Houser felt<br />

when she arrived to<br />

the US – she was<br />

severely plagued<br />

by the cultural differences<br />

she experienced<br />

and was<br />

unable to leave her<br />

home for a period<br />

of time.<br />

“I didn’t have<br />

any friends and I<br />

didn’t want to make<br />

new ones anytime<br />

soon. In my mind, I<br />

was going to wake<br />

up one day back<br />

in my old bed at<br />

my home in the<br />

Philippines.”<br />

After a period<br />

of isolation, Houser<br />

finally found some-<br />

thing to make her<br />

happy: fitness.<br />

“I came across<br />

a Tae Bo DVD in my<br />

aunt’s closet, the one<br />

with Billy Blanks. I<br />

would get up at 5<br />

a.m. and do it once<br />

a day, three or four<br />

times a week. Then,<br />

eventually, seven<br />

days a week.”<br />

Her newfound<br />

love for fitness,<br />

which she says is<br />

viewed as more<br />

of a luxury than a<br />

necessity in the<br />

Philippines, helped<br />

Houser relate to<br />

Americans and gain<br />

the self-assurance<br />

she needed to begin<br />

her life here. She<br />

would go to the gym<br />

with her aunt to work<br />

out, observe her surroundings<br />

and inter-<br />

50 <strong>Scottsdale</strong><strong>Health</strong> 07/19

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