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REAL PEOPLE | REAL STORIES | REAL HOPE<br />
Fall <strong>2012</strong><br />
See Yourself<br />
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Freedom Is Waiting For You!<br />
As each deadline for<br />
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excited to present to you another incredible issue<br />
filled with truth that I believe will spur you on to victory<br />
in your daily life journey.<br />
In this issue, I pray you find freedom! Freedom from<br />
comparisons and freedom from the lie that constantly<br />
tells you, “You’re not enough!” so that you can rest<br />
in God’s truth that “You’re His treasured possession,<br />
worth everything to Him!” It’s my hope that you find<br />
freedom to enjoy life in your present circumstances<br />
and that you enjoy being YOU! It’s time to throw off<br />
the self-hate and self-pity and celebrate who you are<br />
in the sight of God… His unique masterpiece!<br />
Oh how I have longed for this freedom! I’ve spent<br />
my whole life “doing” things in order to feel like I am<br />
“enough” in the world’s eyes and more importantly,<br />
in my own eyes, as I am my toughest critic. I’ve often<br />
laid aside my convictions to join in with the crowd, so<br />
that I could find acceptance. I’ve worked myself to exhaustion<br />
to accomplish “things” that gave me a sense<br />
of achievement. I’ve based my worth on my performance<br />
in sports, school, appearance, and the amount<br />
of things that I’ve accomplished during a given day.<br />
But in the process, I’ve often felt unfulfilled, unloved,<br />
ugly, worthless, guilty, and exhausted.<br />
As I look back over my life, I have to laugh at my<br />
foolishness. For years, I have tried so hard to be perfect<br />
in the way I present myself to people and interact<br />
with them. I have tried to have the perfect home and<br />
ministry. I’ve tried to be the perfect mom, wife, daughter,<br />
and friend. I’ve pushed myself academically and<br />
athletically to achieve great success and BE who I<br />
thought I should BE. But in the midst of my<br />
perfection-driven, performance-based<br />
life, I have fought a tremendous fear<br />
that someone might actually view<br />
me as “perfect.” I fear someone<br />
may look at my life and say, “Boy, she has it all<br />
together!” Not a win-win situation, huh?<br />
Trying to find our worth in the things we do, in the<br />
way we look, or by the amount of things we have is<br />
a dangerous cycle. It almost destroyed me! As I<br />
pushed myself daily to perfection, I set out on a quest<br />
to counteract any appearance of “having it all together”<br />
by verbally announcing to those in my presence<br />
all of my flaws. I began to speak negatively about<br />
myself, so that people wouldn’t think that I thought I<br />
was anything special. I would remark about how stupid,<br />
forgetful, ugly and fat I was, so that my “friends”<br />
would know for certain that I wasn’t arrogant. This<br />
was my form of humility.<br />
But after years of speaking such horrible things<br />
over my life, I began to believe them. In the end when<br />
I looked in the mirror, I began to see ugly, fat, and stupid.<br />
I began to see a worthless reflection. I didn’t see<br />
anything special and certainly not anything God could<br />
love or use. It has taken me a decade of consciously<br />
and consistently replacing the lies I’ve spoken over my<br />
life and the lies Satan has fed me with God’s truth to<br />
finally come to a place where I actually enjoy my life<br />
and enjoy being who God created me to be. Although<br />
I have not entered into a place of complete freedom,<br />
I can say with excitement that I am much closer than<br />
I was years, months, and even days ago! The more I<br />
look into God’s mirror (His Word), meditating on His<br />
truths and walking in His ways, I am discovering freedom.<br />
I am finding rest, peace, and joy.<br />
My friend, I want to encourage you to embark on<br />
this journey of freedom. Quit spinning your wheels like<br />
I’ve done, (and our contributors have done) trying to<br />
be that person that you think you have to be. Rather,<br />
come to Christ and realize who you already are in His<br />
eyes… ENOUGH.<br />
God doesn’t expect perfection, that’s why He sent<br />
His Son, Jesus, the ONLY perfect One. God is simply<br />
looking for a perfect heart towards Him, a heart that<br />
is willing to love, willing to be lead by His Spirit, and<br />
willing to persevere in His strength. Come to Him, all<br />
you who are weary and tired and worn, enter into His<br />
presence, enter into His truth, and find freedom. In<br />
that place of freedom, you will find rest mentally, emotionally,<br />
physically, and spiritually!<br />
May God bless you on your journey!<br />
“Where the Spirit of the<br />
Lord is, there is freedom.”<br />
II Corinthians 3:17<br />
“And you shall know the<br />
truth, and the truth shall<br />
set you free!” John 8:32<br />
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REFRESH YOUR SOUL<br />
See Yourself As God Sees You By<br />
Kristi Overton Johnson<br />
As I reflect on my career as a professional water skier, it was amazing. I was<br />
blessed to travel the world. I made friends on every continent and spent precious<br />
time with my family doing something we loved to do. I even got paid to ski. It<br />
doesn’t get any better than that!<br />
As I look back over my childhood, I can honestly say that I don’t have one bad<br />
memory. Trust me, I realize how blessed I am to be able to make that statement.<br />
I had (and thankfully still have) incredible parents who loved me and supported<br />
me in every way possible.<br />
Within the walls of my home, I was protected and shielded from the evils of the<br />
world. I was spared the horrors so many people go through... things such as abuse,<br />
addictive behaviors, domestic turmoil, or being belittled by poisoned words.<br />
My parents loved me as God intended parents to love their children. As their<br />
daughter I felt loved, safe, able to do anything, and special. I can still remember<br />
my father coming into my room every night singing, “T-H-E-R-E she is, M-I-S-S<br />
America.” Then he would proceed to tell me a story about how “Little Kristi would<br />
become the best skier in the whole world.”<br />
Yet somewhere along my life journey, even in the midst of what some may call<br />
a “perfect” environment, my self-image and sense of self-worth became very<br />
twisted. It wasn’t until my mid-thirty’s that I began to unravel, one by one, patterns<br />
of wrong thinking that had been holding me in secret bondage for decades.<br />
My journey to freedom began in 2005, through a young girl from Mexico<br />
named Lorenza. Lorenza was a teenage water skier, who had come to live with us<br />
in order to improve her water skiing skills. She quickly became a part of our family.<br />
We enjoyed training her, but more importantly, we enjoyed her!<br />
During her time with us, we took Lorenza to many competitions. For the first time in<br />
my career, I stood on the shoreline anxiously watching someone I loved compete, someone<br />
I had spent hours training. More than anything I wanted Lorenza to do her best,<br />
not for me, but for her! I knew how hard she had trained, I knew how well she had been<br />
skiing, and I knew how much performing well on the water would mean to her.<br />
At one particular tournament, Lorenza fell short of her goals. After she had a moment<br />
to dry off and collect her equipment, we piled into the car and headed home.<br />
From the backseat of the car, Lorenza softly said in her Spanish accent, “I’m sorry<br />
I disappointed you.”<br />
I couldn’t believe my ears. Disappointed me? How could she think that she had let<br />
me down? I loved her. I was proud of her. I wasn’t disappointed in her; I was disappointed<br />
for her. I didn’t care how she skied; I just wanted her to be happy and fulfilled.<br />
As I looked at her reflection in the car mirror, I suddenly saw myself as a child<br />
sitting in the backseat of my family car heading home from a water ski tournament.<br />
I could see myself, like Lorenza, filled with sadness as my parents drove us<br />
home. It was one of those, “Ah-ha!” moments. I finally got it. All of those times I<br />
sat in the back of the car thinking that my parents were disappointed in me and<br />
my performance was a lie. They weren’t disappointed in me; they were disappointed<br />
FOR me. There is a HUGE difference.<br />
For years, I traded the truth for a lie. The truth was my parents loved me. Yes,<br />
they wanted me to perform well, but my performance didn’t change how they felt<br />
about me, their daughter, just as it didn’t change how I felt about Lorenza. But as<br />
a young child, my brain didn’t know how to process what was going on. During<br />
the ride home, my mind reasoned the only thing that seemed logical, that my parents<br />
must be disappointed. They had spent so much time, effort, and money on<br />
me… surely I needed to ski well to make it all worthwhile!<br />
How relieved I was to finally grasp this truth. I began to wonder how many<br />
other lies I had bought into over the years. I began to pray as David, “Search me,<br />
O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. Point out anything<br />
in me that offends You, and lead me along the path of everlasting life”<br />
(Psalms 139:23-24 NLT).<br />
I wanted God to expose these lies one by one. I wanted to replace them with<br />
His truth, so that I could be truly free. Over the coming years, God was faithful to<br />
gently reveal memories from my childhood where I had accepted the lie as truth.<br />
You may be asking, what’s the big deal? The big deal is that these lies had become<br />
the foundation for my life. They were the driving force behind my words and<br />
actions. They impacted my self-worth and brought thoughts of condemnation and<br />
guilt into my heart and mind. They twisted people’s innocent comments into something<br />
negative causing me to react in a defensive manner.<br />
The thought pattern of never achieving enough created a sense of self-hatred<br />
and even hopelessness that led me to occasional thoughts of suicide. I remember<br />
having the thought of wrapping the rope around my neck or skiing in front of the<br />
boat in order to end the internal madness. I even endured patterns of physical<br />
sickness because of my sense of not “doing” enough. For most of my career, I<br />
suffered with tremendous stomach pain because of the internal pressure that I<br />
placed on myself to perform well.<br />
This thought pattern of being a disappointment impacted my life for decades.<br />
It impacted relationships, even my relationship with God. Surely God was disappointed<br />
in me when I made a mistake?<br />
Through Lorenza, God showed me that not only were my parents not disappointed<br />
in me, but also He wasn’t disappointed in me either. Yes, there are times<br />
when God may be disappointed because I fail to walk in obedience and receive<br />
all that He has for me, but His love for me always remains. His love isn’t based on<br />
my performance in life; it is based on the fact that I am His child.<br />
The only reason that I share these personal things is with the hope that someone,<br />
maybe even you, will find freedom. I don’t think I am the only person who has<br />
defined himself or herself by the way they see themselves or by the things they<br />
thought someone did or didn’t say. I can only imagine the lies that could be built<br />
in the heart of a person whose parents never told them they were loved or who told<br />
them they would never amount to anything. Or the wrong belief<br />
pattern that could emerge in the life of a woman who has been told she is ugly,<br />
fat, and worthless by people she should have been able to trust. It’s easy to see why<br />
someone would turn to substances, relationships, and behaviors to ease the pain.<br />
I’ve experienced this struggle<br />
between the lies of the world<br />
and the truth of God<br />
over and over<br />
again. I’ve also<br />
seen it in the<br />
lives of my<br />
own family,<br />
especially<br />
my children.<br />
continued<br />
on page 7 4<br />
Kristi with her son<br />
Ty and daughter<br />
in Christ, Lorenza<br />
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3 According to John 10:10, Satan’s purpose is to bring destruction into the lives of God’s<br />
people. One way he does this is through our thoughts. Satan knows that if he can get you to<br />
grab hold of a lie, especially at an early age, he will have a greater chance of sabotaging your<br />
victory, as you grow older. It is only through examining our thoughts, exposing the lies, and<br />
meditating on the truth that we can truly find victory (II Corinthians 10:5).<br />
Our family has been on a journey to discover truth and expose Satan’s lies for years. One<br />
by one we are throwing off the lies that entangle us, so that we can run the race of life victoriously.<br />
Below are a few examples of how we are uncovering Satan’s lies within the young<br />
minds of our children.<br />
When we adopted our youngest two children, Dalton and Ivy, from Russia, our oldest biological<br />
son, Ty, entered into a wrestling contest with negative thoughts that could have easily<br />
led him down a path of destruction.<br />
As you can imagine, there was a lot of excitement surrounding our international adoption.<br />
Everywhere we went, people asked questions about the adoption and wanted to see the<br />
“new” children. Although Tim and I were extra careful to continually remind Ty how much we<br />
loved him through our words and actions, we had some tough competition. Satan was flooding<br />
his seven-year-old mind with lies that everyone loved his brother and sister more.<br />
How freeing it was for Ty to admit those thoughts, to replace the lie with the truth that he<br />
is loved and that our love for him runs deep. Can you imagine if he had continued building<br />
his life on the lie that we loved our other children more? He would have always felt second<br />
best. Every action that Tim and I ever took towards the younger children would have had the<br />
undertone that we loved them more. This would have created a cycle of hate and jealousy.<br />
A lie that truly broke my heart was exposed one night while I was reading to my youngest<br />
son, Dalton, a bedtime story about a lion named Leo. Everywhere Leo went people ran away<br />
from him because they were afraid. At the end of the story Dalton looked at me and said,<br />
“Momma, I’m like Leo the lion.”<br />
I was confused and asked him to explain what he meant. Dalton responded with these<br />
words, “Nobody wanted me either.” He began to explain how people would come into the<br />
orphanage and take home other children, leaving him behind. “Something was wrong with<br />
me, Momma, or they would have picked me.”<br />
I quickly looked at Dalton and responded with these words of truth, “Dalton, those people<br />
couldn’t pick you because God was saving you for me! God closed their eyes to you and<br />
shut the doors for them to adopt you, so that you could come live with us.”<br />
You should have seen the light in his eyes! He looked at me and said, “That makes perfect<br />
sense!”<br />
Can you imagine how a lifetime of believing that something is wrong with you, that no one<br />
wants you, would impact your life? Throw that thought on top of the other thoughts Dalton<br />
wrestled with ... thoughts of being stupid because of his dyslexia, thoughts of not being<br />
wanted because of his adoption, thoughts of Tim and I leaving him like others had left him<br />
in the past. Unless these thoughts were exposed and replaced with the truth, he had little<br />
hope of victory!<br />
Even my daughter has been in a constant battle with wrong thought patterns. Ivy grew up<br />
in a hospital in Russia where there was little food and little interaction with people. Ivy survived<br />
because she was a fighter. Since our adoption, Ivy and I have been on a journey to walk<br />
in truth. As we have replaced the lie that she can’t trust anyone, a lie that often causes her<br />
to constantly fight for her rights, I have seen God begin to transform her into a gentle, generous,<br />
and loving child.<br />
Satan is tricky. He starts at a young age filling our minds with thoughts that create fear<br />
about our future, doubts about our worth, and distrust towards people and even God. It’s time<br />
to expose his dirty little lies and rebuild your life on God’s truth. It’s time to tear down faulty<br />
foundations that rob you of your worth, joy, and peace. It’s time to see yourself as God<br />
sees you… perfect enough, beautiful, unique, filled with purpose, and worth everything<br />
to God. As you see yourself in the light of His truth, everything in your life will change and<br />
victory will come. v<br />
Kristi Overton Johnson is the founder of Champion’s Heart and<br />
In His Wakes, divisions of KOJ Ministries. Kristi currently resides in the<br />
Lake Area Region with her husband, Tim, and three children.<br />
Table of Contents <strong>September</strong> <strong>2012</strong><br />
<strong>2012</strong> marks In His Wakes’ 10th year of<br />
ministering on the waters of the world.<br />
What a journey it has been… Our 10th season<br />
has been amazing so far thanks to the<br />
“Dream Team” and our faithful volunteers…<br />
6 See Yourself As God Sees You<br />
Kristi Overton Johnson<br />
8 Come Out Of The Bushes! Carey Morford<br />
9 Never a Loser Maureen Lendzion<br />
10 Second Chances Dale Collie<br />
11 Ministry News /<br />
On Earth As It Is In Heaven Angie Sapp<br />
12 A New Life Worth Living For! Ron Curll<br />
14 He's Enough! Carolyn Massey<br />
14 Don't Run the Red Light! Rob Morford<br />
15 Am I God's Masterpiece? Michele Klein<br />
16 Building Boats to the Glory of God<br />
Interview between Kristi Overton Johnson and Bill Yeargin<br />
17 Love and Service Kristi Overton Johnson<br />
18 God Always Gives You What You Need<br />
Vanessa Ashley<br />
19 Redeeming Love Ann Prevatt<br />
20 Ministry News<br />
21 Nate’s Dream Team Nate Miller<br />
22 Enjoying Being ME! Reneé Harp<br />
23 How Can I Know? Bonnie Hagemann<br />
24 Quitting Isn't An Option<br />
Champion's Heart Award<br />
Dan and Sue Plaster<br />
26 Coloring Outside the Lines Bandi Morford<br />
28 A Look in the Mirror Jean Roach<br />
29 Popular Kenny Vaughan<br />
read more on page 214<br />
30 Oh! How He Loves Me! Brad Williams<br />
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FRESH PERSPECTIVE<br />
Come OUT<br />
of the Bushes!<br />
by Carey Morford<br />
We are all Eve.<br />
For each one of us,<br />
there is a tree that<br />
stands somewhere in<br />
our brain, and it dangles<br />
tempting fruit. Fruit that<br />
seems juicy. Fruit that is<br />
so close we can reach out and grab it. Fruit that we<br />
have been told will kill us. Fruit that would be best<br />
left untouched.<br />
But, there is also a clever snake. Sometimes we<br />
give him space in our brain, and then he can slither<br />
his way into the truest parts of who we are. He says<br />
the fruit is delicious. He says the fruit will make us<br />
like God. He is the Deceiver, and he lies.<br />
We are all Eve, and we feel as though we can't<br />
help ourselves. We taste the fruit, and we share with<br />
our friends. And then the worst part happens. The<br />
slow death begins. We feel shame, and we hide. We<br />
hide from God, and we hide from our friends who<br />
shared in the tasting, in the killing, in the dis-trusting,<br />
in the too-slow-death.<br />
The shame and the hiding and the blaming, this is<br />
what the clever snake wanted more than anything.<br />
Because now, just like Adam and Eve were literally<br />
tangled in the bushes, we are figuratively all-tangled<br />
up in the lie. It isn't just that we mistakenly chose to<br />
eat the fruit, but now we have taken on the lies and<br />
are projecting that same lie- God can not be trusted<br />
and neither can our friends. We cannot risk exposing<br />
the most vulnerable parts of who we are.<br />
What an awful way to live- hiding in the bushes!<br />
But, the amazing truth that we see over and over<br />
again in Scripture and in present-day testimonies<br />
is that God never leaves us hiding and ashamed<br />
in the bushes. He is calling for each of us, "Where<br />
are you?"<br />
And even when we step out of the bushes<br />
pointing our fingers at each other, He is patient and<br />
kind and gentle.<br />
Are there consequences to our horrible choices?<br />
Of course! Do we all suffer because of all of these<br />
entangled lies and dis-trusting of the one true<br />
God? Yes.<br />
Even in the consequences and suffering, though,<br />
God offers grace. It might even be that the consequences<br />
are grace, because then we start to see<br />
clearly again. We start to see that before we listened<br />
to the clever snake, and believed his lies, and hid in<br />
our shame; life was good, and we start to long for<br />
those walks in the cool of the day when we could be<br />
close to the One who has always loved us. Those<br />
longings begin to speak of life again, and then, there<br />
is our God standing with arms stretched and stained,<br />
Carey Morford is the Media Specialist<br />
at Keystone Elementary and President<br />
of Seeds of Grace, Inc. Visit their site at<br />
Seedsofgrace-highridge.blogspot.com.<br />
She is married to her very best friend<br />
Isaac Morford, and they have two<br />
daughters, Layla and Rigby.<br />
not with the dirty juice of the fruit, but with the blood<br />
that will clean the shame and the sin.<br />
Sometimes, though, I think we must all suffer from<br />
spiritual amnesia, because so many of us know this<br />
to be true, and yet in our daily lives we continue to<br />
stuff ourselves with that fruit-of-the-too-slow-death.<br />
By now, we have a whole string of lies to stuff<br />
ourselves with. Sometimes they sound like Pride,<br />
"You are a smart girl. You can figure a way out of<br />
this mess. " Sometimes Shame and Fear speak up,<br />
"You always mess things up. If you tell anyone you've<br />
done it again, they won't love you." Sometimes it is<br />
a combination of both. In the end, though, it is<br />
always the same, "Just don't tell anyone." And the<br />
power of that snake and the secrets he has talked us<br />
into keeping begin to strangle us… every time.<br />
And sometimes we are almost dead before we<br />
are willing to finally let go and confess who we<br />
have become. However scary that honesty and<br />
vulnerability may seem to us, it is our only hope of<br />
salvation. v<br />
And even when we step out of the bushes pointing our fingers at each other,<br />
He is patient and kind and gentle.<br />
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y Maureen Lendzion<br />
NEVER<br />
A Loser<br />
For you created my<br />
inmost being; you knit<br />
me together in my<br />
mother’s womb.<br />
I praise you because<br />
I am fearfully and<br />
wonderfully made; your<br />
works are wonderful,<br />
I know that full well.<br />
Psalm 139:13-14 (NIV)<br />
Maureen Lendzion is enjoying<br />
self-employment as a special<br />
projects writer. She and her<br />
husband Dennis have been<br />
married 36 years and live in<br />
Orange Park, Florida.<br />
“And how old are you?”<br />
That seems a simple enough<br />
question to ask a four-year-old. Especially<br />
since my brother would have<br />
just proudly announced his age (11<br />
months older than me), just prior to<br />
my being asked the question.<br />
But that question, or any other<br />
that was spoken to me by an adult<br />
that I was not familiar with, brought<br />
about terror and the inability to respond.<br />
So I lived my early life trying<br />
to fly underneath everyone's radar,<br />
not making waves or trouble (that<br />
could get a kid noticed after all), and<br />
trying my best to be invisible.<br />
Overwhelming shyness made me<br />
uncomfortable in any social setting,<br />
school included. I didn't join in activities,<br />
though I so wanted to. I was<br />
an observer. It seemed the other<br />
kids had something I didn't. I<br />
couldn't identify it; they just<br />
seemed comfortable in their skin.<br />
How in the world do they do it? I<br />
would think, as I watched them volunteer<br />
for clubs, try out for sports, or-<br />
-scariest of all--raise their hands in<br />
class to answer a question. I envied<br />
their confidence. It was all very wearing<br />
and left me feeling like a loser.<br />
Shyness followed me throughout<br />
my school years ending with<br />
me tying for “Most Shy” for the<br />
senior superlatives to be published<br />
in the annual high school yearbook.<br />
Fortunately, I lost the title in the runoff<br />
vote.<br />
So imagine, years later, me at my<br />
high school reunion chatting happily<br />
with the very people I'd grown up<br />
with, those who knew me at my<br />
most meek and quiet self. And<br />
imagine their surprise, that I had<br />
built a career in public relations and<br />
public speaking.<br />
What, or who, changed me? God.<br />
For clarification, God didn't actually<br />
change me. He left me as He created<br />
me. What He did do though,<br />
was implant awareness into me that<br />
I am His wonderfully made creation.<br />
He had given me gifts that suited me<br />
and no one else. He put people in my<br />
path to encourage and teach me. Of<br />
course, God has done the same for<br />
you, but I'm hoping you were fortunate<br />
enough to understand it sooner.<br />
I don’t know why I didn't get the<br />
memo. My grandmother, who was<br />
such a major influence on my life,<br />
tried to help me understand how<br />
precious I was to both her and Jesus.<br />
My grandfather, a caring, small town<br />
pastor did his part too. But I could<br />
look around any room and see<br />
many, many people much more worthy<br />
of God's attention. I was, after<br />
all, just me.<br />
Had I listened to God's nudging<br />
earlier, who knows how my life may<br />
Each person is so<br />
special to God.<br />
So special that He<br />
has offered them a<br />
direct line to Him<br />
through Jesus, His<br />
most precious Son.<br />
have been different? I'll never know,<br />
unless God chooses to enlighten me.<br />
But I do believe with all my heart<br />
that I am in life where God wants<br />
me to be. It just may have taken<br />
longer to get here, than it might<br />
have. What life's trek has done for<br />
me is given me true compassion for<br />
those who continually feel “less<br />
than.” I understand the feeling of<br />
not measuring up; I can see it in<br />
someone's face, hear it in their voice,<br />
and feel it in a diverted glance.<br />
Do you ever feel less than, like a<br />
loser? If so, I’d like to remind you<br />
that you too, are God's amazing creation<br />
and when He looks at you, and<br />
me, He says, “They are good!” He<br />
smiles and takes great pleasure in<br />
His creation… us.<br />
Each person is so special to God.<br />
So special that He has offered them<br />
a direct line to Him through Jesus,<br />
His most precious Son. How fortunate<br />
does that make each and every<br />
one of us? Surely no loser ever gets<br />
an offer like that! v<br />
Want to help others realize they are champions?<br />
Go to our website at www.championsheart.org/our-ministries/getting-involved<br />
or use your smart phone to scan the QR code.<br />
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SECOND CHANCES<br />
by Dale Collie<br />
The beggar approached me on crutches, while I<br />
waited for the afternoon train from Crimea back to<br />
Kiev, Ukraine. He held out his palm to ask for money.<br />
When I said in Russian “Go away,” he recognized<br />
that I am American and said, “Can you give me<br />
money? I have leg trauma.”<br />
I thought, “Leg trauma?” I’ll show him leg<br />
trauma. I put my left foot on my luggage and raised<br />
my pants leg to show him my prosthesis, my souvenir<br />
of combat in Vietnam.<br />
He reached down and pulled his bandage away<br />
from the calf of his leg and showed me that he had<br />
a green tree leaf placed on a serious patch of<br />
gangrene. It was recognizable because that was the<br />
same cause of my own amputation years earlier.<br />
“My name is Michael,” he said. “I am sorry.”<br />
He turned on his crutches and quickly made his way<br />
across the crowded train platform.<br />
At that same time, my interpreter returned.<br />
Instead of explaining what happened, I handed him<br />
all the loose money in my pocket and asked, “If you<br />
can catch up with that beggar on crutches, give him<br />
this money.”<br />
When the interpreter caught up with him, the<br />
beggar looked across the people between us and<br />
placed his hand on his heart again, mouthing the<br />
words, “Thank you. I am sorry.”<br />
At that moment, the train pulled into the station<br />
and the crowded platform came alive as people<br />
started making their way to their assigned car.<br />
We hurried forward to car number fourteen and<br />
waited in line while the conductor checked tickets<br />
and passports.<br />
A touch on my shoulder surprised me. When<br />
I turned, Michael stood there with his hand out as<br />
though to shake hands. As our hands met, he twisted<br />
our wrists so that my hand was below his, and I felt<br />
something drop into my palm.<br />
Still holding hands, I asked, “What is it?”<br />
Michael said, “It is change.”<br />
I replied, “No Michael. I cannot take this,” thinking<br />
that he meant he was giving me change from the<br />
small amount of money that my interpreter had<br />
taken to him.<br />
No matter what<br />
has happened to<br />
us in this life,<br />
we have a<br />
second chance<br />
to go forward<br />
with Christ.<br />
“Yes. You must take it,” he said and removed his<br />
hand from mine.<br />
I could then tell that I had misunderstood the<br />
word “change.” Michael had said, “chain.”<br />
“Remember me,” said Michael. “Pray for me.”<br />
The conductor announced loudly that I must get<br />
aboard, so I turned and threw my luggage up to the<br />
place between the cars. I climbed up after the bags<br />
and dragged them into my compartment. Because it<br />
was so hot in the car, the window was pulled down<br />
immediately, and I stood with my elbows on the top<br />
edge of the glass watching Michael work the passengers<br />
who remained on the platform.<br />
When he passed beneath my window, I said his<br />
name aloud and let him see me put the chain over<br />
my head and drop around my neck.<br />
As the train whistle blew and we started to move,<br />
he had a helpless and pleading look in his eyes as he<br />
said again, “Pray for me.” We looked into each<br />
other’s eyes until the train rounded a slight curve and<br />
he was lost in the evening dusk.<br />
Time passed quickly, as the interpreter and I discussed<br />
things that remained to be done. When he<br />
announced that he would go to sleep, I said that I<br />
would make some notes in my journal and then sleep<br />
also.<br />
Many events of the day were recorded before I<br />
started writing about the incident on the train platform.<br />
When I came to the words, “I am sorry,” I<br />
paused to consider what was Michael sorry about.<br />
Was he sorry because of his wounds? Was he sorry<br />
because in me, he could see what would happen to<br />
his own leg? Was he sorry that I had lost a leg?<br />
In the end, I concluded that I was the one who<br />
should be sorry. My mission in Ukraine had been to<br />
help others, but when someone in real need stood<br />
before me and begged for help, I told him to go away.<br />
Each time the chain moved against my skin,<br />
I prayed for Michael.<br />
When we reached the train station in the morning,<br />
I gave the interpreter some money and asked him<br />
to try to find Michael as he returned through that city.<br />
And if it was possible, set up a time for the interpreter<br />
to go with Michael to the doctor to see what exactly<br />
was needed. I had a second chance to help Michael.<br />
All of that transpired, and I eventually got an<br />
email explaining that Michael needed a US$3.00 antibiotic<br />
injection and a US$0.75 tube of antibiotic<br />
cream to begin treatment of the gangrene.<br />
For the next year, I prayed for Michael many times,<br />
especially each time I felt the chain move against my<br />
skin. When the next visit was scheduled, the interpreter<br />
scheduled a time for me to meet with Michael<br />
in his city.<br />
It was on that occasion, that we found that good<br />
progress had been made in healing the gangrene.<br />
And it was also on that occasion, that Michael heard<br />
the Good News of Jesus Christ. As they say in<br />
Ukraine, he repented. We were honored with the opportunity<br />
to pray with him and celebrate his acceptance<br />
of Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior.<br />
Michael accepted his second chance to change<br />
his future, and I had another second chance to tell<br />
him about the One who can heal our bodies and<br />
our spirits.<br />
And there is a lesson in all of this that is even bigger<br />
still… the same second chances are available to<br />
all of us, over and over again. No matter what has<br />
happened to us in this life, we have a second chance<br />
to go forward with Christ. No matter what we’ve<br />
done in this life, we have the same chance to change<br />
things in Christ.<br />
We don’t have to overcome our obstacles alone.<br />
We’re probably just as helpless as Michael was when<br />
we first met that evening on the train platform. We<br />
can trust that God has a plan for us and that He will<br />
direct our footsteps if we accept Him and accept our<br />
own “second chances.” v<br />
Dale Collie is an author and professional<br />
speaker who uses the leadership skills of<br />
US Army Rangers to help key people<br />
succeed. Former professor at West Point<br />
and Fortune 500 Executive, Collie was<br />
named by business magazine, Fast<br />
Company,as one of America’s most<br />
innovative leaders for starting<br />
businesses in E. Europe to employ<br />
the impoverished and provide funds to<br />
impoverished orphanages.<br />
www.CourageBuilders.com<br />
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MINISTRY NEWS<br />
On Earth<br />
As It Is<br />
In Heaven<br />
What we are experiencing at Champion’s Heart is<br />
simply the Kingdom of God at hand (Mark 1:15).<br />
People are being healed, delivered, and experiencing<br />
miracles by the power of God. The most important<br />
lesson I am learning as the center’s director is the<br />
power of prayer. Through prayer, our clients are experiencing<br />
God in a powerful and intimate way. They are<br />
seeing Him meet their needs and heal their hearts.<br />
When a client comes into our officce, the first thing<br />
we do is access the reason for their visit and identify<br />
their needs. We then go to work matching the needs<br />
with the resources that are available. Through the last<br />
year and a half, we have developed incredible partnerships<br />
with county help agencies that can provide<br />
our clients with tangible resources. Many of these<br />
partnerships are conveniently located right here at<br />
Champion’s Heart in our office complex.<br />
Every person who calls or comes into our resource<br />
center is also offered the opportunity for prayer. Almost<br />
all accept. As we join hands in prayer, we begin<br />
to experience the presence and the power of God.<br />
This is the point where real ministry begins and the<br />
gospel of Jesus Christ is being fulfilled.<br />
Simply put, our clients experience God’s love at<br />
Champion’s Heart. We are in the blessing business<br />
and also the business of building relationships, as we<br />
love our clients to victory. Just the other day a woman<br />
we’ve been helping and ministering to said, “Every<br />
time I come here, I get blessed.”<br />
I would like to share a couple of testimonies showing<br />
God’s hand at work with our clients. I hope these<br />
testimonies encourage you and enable you to understand<br />
what God is doing on the earth and in the small<br />
town of Keystone Heights, Florida.<br />
The first testimony is of God delivering a woman<br />
from drug addiction. She started using drugs as a<br />
child around the age of nine. Family members also<br />
sexually abused her as a child, which has been the<br />
major cause for her drug use. Her drug of choice “has<br />
been” crack-cocaine.<br />
Now in her fifties, she told me of all the drug rehabilitation<br />
centers she has been to, along with all<br />
the professional counseling she’s received, and how<br />
she still hasn’t been able to get free from the drugs.<br />
By Angie Sapp,<br />
Champion’s Heart Life Resource Director<br />
I began to teach her about the healing, delivering,<br />
and restorative power of Jesus Christ.<br />
Awhile back, this woman came to our center and<br />
asked me to come outside. She pulled a crack pipe<br />
out of her truck, wrapped it in a paper towel, and<br />
then stomped it into pieces right there on the concrete!<br />
She said, ” Never again!”<br />
She recently visited us to celebrate her being drug<br />
free! Praise God! She has also started seeing the<br />
Mental Health Counselor at Clay Behavioral Health<br />
Center that is located in our Champion’s Heart<br />
Resource Center office complex.<br />
The next testimony I’m going to share is of the<br />
healing power of God that was experienced while<br />
praying for a woman who was diagnosed with thyroid<br />
cancer and several other mental, emotional, and<br />
physical problems. When we finished praying<br />
she began praising God and crying. She said, “As<br />
you were praying for healing in my body, I felt a<br />
sensation like electricity going to each part of my<br />
body as you prayed for it. I’ve never felt anything like<br />
that. I could feel it throughout my whole body!”<br />
I explained to her that what she felt was God’s power<br />
at work healing her body.<br />
Both of these individuals experienced for themselves<br />
the awesome power of God. God is revealing<br />
Himself to our clients in an intimate and powerful<br />
way. They are seeing for themselves how much He<br />
loves them and cares about every detail in their lives.<br />
As a result, their hope and faith is being restored.<br />
We here at Champion’s Heart know that it is not by<br />
our might or power, but it is by His Spirit (Zechariah<br />
4:6). We give all the glory to God and know that<br />
“apart from Him, we can do nothing” (John 15:5).<br />
We invite you to come visit our center in Keystone<br />
Heights! We’d love to show you firsthand what the<br />
Lord is doing in the lives of people from the Lake Area<br />
Region. We invite you to partner with us in prayer for<br />
the healing of our clients and we also invite you to<br />
become a financial partner. We need your support!<br />
“The Spirit of the Lord is upon me,<br />
for the Lord has anointed me to bring<br />
good news to the poor. He has sent me<br />
to comfort the brokenhearted and to<br />
proclaim that captives will be released and<br />
prisoners will be freed. He has sent me to<br />
tell those who mourn that the time of the<br />
Lord’s favor has come, and with it, the<br />
day of God’s anger against their<br />
enemies… He will give a crown of beauty<br />
for ashes, a joyous blessing instead of<br />
mourning, festive praise instead of despair.<br />
In their righteousness, they will be<br />
like great oaks that the Lord has planted<br />
for His own glory. They will revive them,<br />
though they have been deserted for many<br />
generations.” Isaiah 61: 1-5<br />
At Champion’s Heart, the gospel of the kingdom is<br />
going forth and we are experiencing the fulfillment<br />
of what was promised to us in Isaiah 61. v<br />
Angie Sapp lives in Melrose, FL with her<br />
husband and daughter. She received an<br />
AA from Santa Fe College, BA in<br />
Theology from Life Christian University,<br />
and is pursuing her BA in Psychology.<br />
Angie is the Life Resource Director at<br />
Champion’s Heart.<br />
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A New Life Worth Living For<br />
by Ron Curll<br />
I was raised in a loving Christian home. But growing<br />
up, I was more interested in being a part of what<br />
the world had to offer, than being a Christian. The<br />
result was faith that was weak at best.<br />
At the age of seven, I started competitive<br />
swimming in both summer and winter leagues and<br />
quickly began to accumulate awards. I spent a lot of<br />
time in the pool. Having asthma, swimming worked<br />
out well for me, as my asthma didn't seem to affect<br />
my swimming efforts, as it did during other sports.<br />
I enjoyed competing and spent most of my young<br />
adult years trying to improve myself and climb the<br />
podium of success.<br />
But in 1979, at the age of 32, my life changed<br />
forever. I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis.<br />
By early 1980, I was paralyzed from the waist down<br />
and given a prognosis of spending the rest of my life<br />
in a wheelchair.<br />
“For I know the<br />
plans I have for<br />
you,” says the Lord.<br />
“They are plans for<br />
good and not for<br />
disaster, to give you<br />
a future and a hope.”<br />
Jeremiah 29:11 NLT<br />
Being weak spiritually, I blamed God for my condition,<br />
rather than calling or leaning on Him.<br />
I could not imagine spending the rest of my life in<br />
a wheelchair. I viewed handicapped people as useless<br />
and worthless. That was not going to be me! I<br />
decided the only way out was to end my life.<br />
One evening, as I sat in my car, I prepared to end<br />
my life. My plan was to pull out in front of a fast<br />
moving truck. But God, in His mercy, had other plans<br />
for me, as He put the faces of my wife and two sons<br />
in the windshield. It was as if they were sitting<br />
on the hood of the car staring at me. Needless to say,<br />
I didn't pull out in front of the truck. I knew it was<br />
God who had saved me, but why? Even after this<br />
miracle, I was still angry with God and turned my<br />
back on Him.<br />
In the spring of 1980, I was reintroduced to<br />
swimming through an article in our local newspaper.<br />
The article announced that “wheelchair athletes”<br />
were coming to my local area to compete in a<br />
regional competition.<br />
“Wheelchair athletes. Now isn’t that an oxymoron?”<br />
I thought. Surely it must be a joke.<br />
My wife, Sue, pressured me to go. She knew how<br />
much I needed to be a part of something. Through<br />
her persistence, I gave in. As I watched these athletes,<br />
I couldn’t believe how good they were. I<br />
decided to give it a try.<br />
Starting back into swimming competition was as<br />
natural to me as a fish swimming in water. I just<br />
picked up where I had left off in high school. Within<br />
a year, I made the USA Team and was given the<br />
opportunity to represent my country in international<br />
competitions, including the Paralympics.<br />
Over the next few years, I accumulated five<br />
national records and two world records. In<br />
addition, I took up hand cycling and even<br />
competed in a marathon. My success<br />
and notoriety both in the pool and<br />
on the track grew.<br />
But sadly, as my athletic success<br />
grew, my faith weakened<br />
to the point of being almost<br />
non-existent. After all, I was<br />
doing quite well without<br />
God. I mean, look at all I had<br />
accomplished without Him. In<br />
1988, I retired from competitive<br />
swimming while at the top<br />
of my game, but I continued to<br />
live in spiritual darkness.<br />
Many years later, 1994 to<br />
be exact, I heard a small<br />
still voice say, “Ron, you<br />
need to go back to<br />
church.” After toiling with<br />
the idea, I finally asked my<br />
wife if she would like to go.<br />
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Perhaps you feel there is no hope.…<br />
I’ve felt as useless and as worthless<br />
as one could possibly feel. But<br />
I’m here to tell you, there is Hope<br />
and Hope’s name is Jesus.<br />
Ron Curll, author of Wheels<br />
of Faith, is an internationally<br />
ranked swimmer, gold medalist<br />
Paralympian, and wheelchair<br />
athlete. Ron resides in Greenville,<br />
NC with his wife, Sue. He still<br />
enjoys competing in 5k and 10k<br />
road races and hand cycling<br />
races, as well as water skiing,<br />
kayaking, basketball and scuba<br />
diving. He is a sought-after<br />
guest speaker for civic<br />
organizations, as well as<br />
church and student groups.<br />
3Her response was a large smile that really<br />
made my heart sink. It wasn't until then, that I realized<br />
how far down I had drug her spiritually.<br />
I remember entering the church and being ushered<br />
into the sanctuary. There were no cutouts for<br />
wheelchairs, so I had to sit in the main<br />
aisle. I was both scared and embarrassed.<br />
Scared because I was in God's house after<br />
removing Him from my life; embarrassed<br />
because I felt that I was on display for the<br />
whole world to see.<br />
But as the service started, a peace came over me.<br />
It was as if God was standing beside me with His<br />
arms around me saying, “Welcome back my child.”<br />
In Luke 15, Jesus tells the Parable of the Lost Sheep.<br />
That day, I felt like He had left the 99 sheep to bring<br />
me, the lost sheep, home. I truly felt His love and His<br />
forgiveness. I rededicated my life to Christ and vowed<br />
to love, serve, and to obey Him. I vowed to bring Him<br />
glory through every area of my life, especially through<br />
my athletic success.<br />
As I’ve been willing, God has opened doors to<br />
share about His love in ways I could have never<br />
imagined. He has shown me that through Him, I have<br />
worth, and with Him, I can do anything. A far cry<br />
from the “useless and worthless” life I had imagined<br />
I would experience in a wheelchair. With God, all<br />
things are possible!<br />
The Bible is full of passages that promise that God<br />
will NEVER forsake us. As I look back over my life I realize<br />
just how true that is. Even when we forsake<br />
Him, He is still faithful. I’ll never forget how God<br />
saved me from ending my life. Even when I had given<br />
up hope, God had not given up on me. He had a plan<br />
for my life and He was just waiting patiently for me<br />
to follow Him.<br />
Perhaps you feel there is no hope. I know how you<br />
feel because I’ve been there. I’ve been in that place<br />
where life seems to have come to an end, where<br />
there seems to be no future worth living for. I’ve felt<br />
as useless and as worthless as one could possibly feel.<br />
But I’m here to tell you, there is Hope and Hope’s<br />
name is Jesus. In Him you will find life. In Him you will<br />
find worth. In Him you have a hope and a future. v<br />
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He’s Enough! by<br />
Carolyn Massey<br />
During my 83 years, I’ve learned many lessons.<br />
Even in my elderly years, God continues to love me,<br />
teach me, correct me, and even stretch me as He<br />
takes me into new territories, some of which I admit<br />
I would rather not go. Recently, I have found myself<br />
in such a place and it has caused me to rely on Him<br />
more than I ever have before. I’ve truly learned that<br />
in my weakness, He is strong.<br />
Several years ago, I began to have some unpleasant<br />
experiences with dizziness that turned into vertigo.<br />
I ended up falling and busting my head open.<br />
Although the wound has healed, and even my dizziness<br />
has left me, I have remained traumatized. I feel<br />
so lonely, often afraid, and have struggled with becoming<br />
so dependent on others. I feel as though I<br />
am driving my family nuts with all of my needs. I also<br />
feel we are constantly disappointing one another<br />
with our expectations.<br />
Add to my emotional trauma, I can’t hear very<br />
well anymore and I seem to forget things all of the<br />
time. I never knew aging would be so hard! Billy Graham<br />
was right when he said, “Growing old is not for<br />
sissies.” I’ll admit it... I’M A BIG SISSY! I don’t like<br />
this getting old stuff for one moment! It has to be<br />
one of the hardest things I’ve ever gone through, and<br />
I’ve been through some difficult things in my lifetime.<br />
In 1974, I was living the dream. I had a wonderful<br />
husband, three beautiful kids, and a great life. But<br />
one day, my husband came home early from work<br />
feeling very ill. We took him to the emergency room,<br />
but he died 12 hours later of a cerebral hemorrhage.<br />
He was 45 years old. In just a moment’s notice, my<br />
best friend was gone forever.<br />
Carolyn was born and raised in<br />
Greenville, N.C. She has been a<br />
widow since the age of 45. She is<br />
83 years old, has 3 children and 7<br />
grandchildren. Carolyn continues to<br />
mentor to young people in the ways<br />
of the Lord.<br />
This was such a huge trauma for my family and I.<br />
I was so frantic! How could I live without him? Although<br />
I was a Christian during this time and I knew<br />
Jesus was there with me, I still felt so alone. Thankfully,<br />
I was surrounded by great Christian friends and<br />
family who were faithful to stay by my side, encourage<br />
me, and help care for us. God’s love, shown<br />
through His people, helped the loneliness to fade<br />
away. Through this time, I felt God’s presence in an<br />
awesome way, even in the midst of my fears. He was<br />
so faithful to provide for my every need during this<br />
time and He has continued to remain faithful to me<br />
to this very day, even in the midst of my doubts. I<br />
praise God for His promise to remain faithful to us<br />
even when we aren’t faithful to Him (II Timothy 2:13).<br />
My recent experience with vertigo has been difficult<br />
in different ways. Losing my husband was incredibly<br />
hard, but in the loss of my husband, God<br />
surrounded me with people to help me through that<br />
difficult season. This time however, I haven’t had the<br />
constant companionship of friends and family, nor<br />
have I had the ability to get up and go! But in the<br />
midst of it all, I sense God doing a work in me; it’s as<br />
if Jesus Himself has set me apart to show me things<br />
about myself and about Him.<br />
At the very start of my dizzy spells, I heard the<br />
Holy Spirit say to me, “Be still and know that I am<br />
God” (Ps. 46:10). Because I don’t drive anymore, I<br />
have had to spend a lot more time at home and to<br />
be honest, I don’t like it one bit! I am a very social<br />
person and enjoy being active. I enjoy ministering to<br />
people. But God, in His sovereignty, is teaching me to<br />
rely completely on Him and to allow His presence to<br />
minister to my own heart.<br />
In the midst of the quiet, God has shown me once<br />
again that He is faithful. He has taught me that in<br />
the end, He is enough. He is truly all I need. When the<br />
enemy has come against me with his lies, when he<br />
has sought to bring despair and cause me to lose<br />
hope and give up, as I’ve looked to my Savior, God<br />
has always been there to give me the strength to<br />
carry on. He’s taught me that “aloneness” doesn’t<br />
have to mean “loneliness.”<br />
I’m so thankful that over 50 years ago, I said<br />
“Yes!” to Jesus and received His Holy Spirit, for with<br />
Him, I have been able to overcome. Although it hasn’t<br />
always been an easy journey, it has nonetheless<br />
been a fabulous one because every step has been<br />
enveloped with His presence.<br />
I’ve learned whether in good times or in bad,<br />
whether in the noise or in the quiet, God has always<br />
been and continues to be with me, showering me<br />
with His love and grace. Even when doubts and fears<br />
have entered my heart, His love remains. It’s unconditional.<br />
Where I’m lacking, He’s complete and He is<br />
faithful. I’ll admit, I’ve often missed the mark. But He<br />
hasn’t. Oh thank you Savior, for making me complete<br />
in you.<br />
“We have this treasure in earthen vessels to show<br />
that this all surpassing power is from God and is not<br />
from us.” II Corinthians 4:7 v<br />
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Am I God’s<br />
Masterpiece?<br />
by Michele Klein<br />
Ephesians 2:10 states that, “We are God’s Masterpiece.”<br />
I don’t know about you, but when I get up<br />
in the morning and look in the mirror, I don’t see a<br />
Masterpiece! I see hair all over the place, drool in the<br />
corner of my mouth, and the right side of my face full<br />
of wrinkles made by my pillow. Don’t get me wrong;<br />
I want to be a Masterpiece! I desire to be everything<br />
that God has made me to be. But at times, a Masterpiece<br />
seems so out of reach, something that would<br />
take a lifetime to achieve. It’s definitely a process.<br />
Control or Chisel<br />
The “chiseling” process is all about God making<br />
us more like Jesus. It’s where He carves out the parts<br />
of our lives that do not reflect Him and chops off the<br />
areas of our character that holds us back from being<br />
and doing all that God has planned for us. Over the<br />
course of my life, I have been through the chiseling<br />
process countless times. It can be confusing, long<br />
lasting, and certainly painful. Once the chiseling<br />
process begins, the first question out of my mouth is<br />
always…”Why God?” God usually answers with a<br />
question for me, “Don’t you trust Me?” or “Do you<br />
want ALL that I have planned for you?”<br />
At that moment I have a choice to make: Surrender<br />
my will to God’s perfect plan for my life, or try to<br />
control the situation. When I choose to control the<br />
situation how I best see fit, it usually leads to frustration,<br />
anger, bitterness, resentment, and depression.<br />
I begin to spin my wheels round and round,<br />
never really making any progress. Once in full control<br />
mode, nothing goes right, everything is a chore, and<br />
I am exhausted by the effort. At that point, I usually<br />
start to question God out of my frustration asking…”Why<br />
are you doing this to me?” and “Why is<br />
this so difficult?”<br />
How thankful I am that God loves us so much,<br />
and out of His love, He is patient with us when we try<br />
to do things in our own strength and our own<br />
understanding. God will never force His plans or<br />
purposes on us, but He always gives us the option to<br />
choose His ways over our own.<br />
Planned Purpose<br />
What do you see when you look in the mirror?<br />
Can you look at yourself and say, “I’m God’s Original<br />
Masterpiece!” Or, when you look in the mirror<br />
do you tend to see what is wrong, instead of what is<br />
God’s? It’s time to realize that God does NOT create<br />
junk. Start each day looking in the mirror and say, “I<br />
am God’s Masterpiece!” Get in His Word and begin<br />
to see yourself as He sees you. Focus your efforts on<br />
taking one step at a time and allow Him to transform<br />
you from the inside out. God is the author and<br />
finisher of our faith every day of our lives. He has a<br />
plan and it is to give you purpose, prosperity, hope,<br />
and an amazing future. Once you start believing you<br />
are His masterpiece, then you will be able to lift your<br />
head and move forward to victory. v<br />
Michele Klein is the Founder and<br />
President of Bible Life Coach. BLC brings<br />
together the World’s Best Results<br />
Orientated Techniques, while grounding<br />
each principle in God’s Truth. Michele<br />
is passionate about helping people<br />
understand “Who they are in Christ”<br />
and “Whose they are in Christ”. Find<br />
more information on her website at<br />
www.biblelifecoach.com.<br />
For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works,<br />
which God prepared in advance for us to do. Ephesians 2:10<br />
Don’t Run The Red Light<br />
by Rob Morford<br />
I never make a decision when I am under pressure. Pressure to me is a sign to stop,<br />
look, and listen. Learning to listen to that still, small voice inside us is so hard in a culture<br />
filled with noise. To do this, I picture that God put a traffic light into my heart when I became<br />
a Christian. The light can be red, yellow, or green. Red is pressure and green is peace.<br />
Yellow tells me to proceed with caution. Jesus did not come to give me pressure; He came<br />
to give me peace. My rule of life is to never run red lights.<br />
Running red lights has consequences. As I look back over my life, I can see many times<br />
where I ran red lights and I can tell you, none of them turned out good. Proverbs 3:5-6 is<br />
my decision-making verse. It says, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart; and lean not on<br />
your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths."<br />
As we take the time to seek God’s will, He will help us know how to proceed. v<br />
Rob Morford is pastor<br />
of Community Church<br />
of Keystone Heights.<br />
He and his wife, Dotty<br />
have three children<br />
and two grandchildren.<br />
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Building Boats To The Glory of God<br />
An Example of “Love and Service” in Action<br />
It is no secret that<br />
Correct Craft, builder<br />
of Nautique boats,<br />
has an extraordinary<br />
faith heritage and<br />
culture. Since 1925,<br />
they have been<br />
building boats for<br />
the glory of God<br />
using their passion<br />
for water sports and<br />
love for Christ to<br />
touch the world!<br />
Recently Kristi<br />
Overton Johnson<br />
had a chance to ask<br />
Correct Craft’s CEO,<br />
Bill Yeargin, about<br />
the impact the<br />
company’s faith<br />
has had on it’s<br />
employees and<br />
those in the water<br />
sports industry.<br />
Kristi: Correct Craft is well known in our industry for its mission<br />
of “Building Boats for the Glory of God.” Is that still the company’s<br />
mission statement?<br />
Bill: Absolutely. If you visit us in Orlando, you can see it on<br />
big banners in our plant. Our faith culture is important to us.<br />
Kristi: Being a skier my entire life, I have seen and heard so<br />
many wonderful stories about Correct Craft and the Meloon family<br />
standing up for their faith. Is there anything about the past that stands<br />
out to you?<br />
Bill: As you know, Ralph Meloon (the son of our founder)<br />
will be 95 this year and still comes into Correct Craft every day.<br />
For decades, Ralph played a major part in building the story<br />
that is now Correct Craft’s Christian heritage. I am honored to<br />
often hear Ralph tell stories of Correct Craft’s past, including<br />
his travels to over 80 countries (even behind the iron curtain)<br />
to share his faith. As I travel around the world for Correct Craft,<br />
rarely do I visit a country that someone does not ask me about<br />
Ralph and share a Ralph story.<br />
Our dealer in Lebanon shared one story that stands out with<br />
me. Apparently, Ralph visited Lebanon during their civil war<br />
and everyone there was very concerned about his safety.<br />
He was staying at our dealer’s house and the dealer shared<br />
that one day, Ralph disappeared for several hours putting<br />
everyone in a serious panic. Ralph had found someone that<br />
would drive him to the front lines of the battle (literally), so<br />
that he could visit a small church he supported there and be an<br />
encouragement to them. Ralph is an amazing man and this<br />
story is so typical of him!<br />
Kristi: Some people were worried that after the Meloon<br />
family sold Correct Craft, perhaps the faith culture would slowly go<br />
away. Is that happening?<br />
Bill: If you ask Ralph Meloon, I believe he would tell you<br />
that Correct Craft’s faith culture is stronger than at any other<br />
Correct Craft has been<br />
a faithful supporter of<br />
In His Wakes, enabling<br />
us to bring Hope,<br />
Victory and Purpose to<br />
children world-wide.<br />
time in the company’s history. Given the amazing history of<br />
the company, that is no small feat.<br />
Kristi: So how does Correct Craft glorify God in the business<br />
today?<br />
Bill: First, by loving God and others. I have said many times<br />
over the past few years that I want people to understand our<br />
values, not by what we say, but by how they see us live.<br />
Secondly, we glorify God through service. We want to serve<br />
each other and be there when someone in our Nautique<br />
family needs us. We want to serve our local community and<br />
we have done so over the years with groups like Give Kids the<br />
World and the Coalition for the Homeless. Most recently, we<br />
did a project with Habitat for Humanity, where Correct Craft<br />
funded a new home and our employees’ volunteered time to<br />
help work on it. Also, each year we take employees on mission<br />
trips outside of Central Florida.<br />
Kristi: Can you tell us more about the mission trips?<br />
Bill: As part of our desire to serve, each year we take groups<br />
of employees on mission trips. This past summer, we took<br />
twenty-six employees to the Apache Reservation in Arizona,<br />
where we worked on two homes for needy Apache families.<br />
Our team had a big impact on not only the homes where we<br />
served, but also through helping the organization that builds<br />
the homes to develop processes that will help them for years.<br />
It is amazing to see our dedicated employees work so hard for<br />
people who will never be able to repay them in any way. It is<br />
a true and unselfish service.<br />
We have also built homes for homeless families in Mexico,<br />
built beds for needy families in Guatemala, served in a home<br />
for teenage mothers in Nicaragua, and served in Ethiopia with<br />
an amazing organization there that is transforming tens<br />
of thousands of lives. Later this year, I am taking a group of<br />
employees to Kenya and Uganda to serve there. We want to<br />
put our beliefs into action.<br />
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Correct Craft families working on an Apache home.<br />
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Correct Craft team<br />
members on the<br />
Apache reservation.<br />
3Kristi: You have weekly employee Bible studies<br />
at the plant. How do employees view Correct Craft’s<br />
faith culture?<br />
Bill: Yes, we have a voluntary employee Bible<br />
study at Correct Craft and close to 25% of our<br />
employees attend each week.<br />
It is very important to me that employees who do<br />
not want to participate in our faith culture feel perfectly<br />
comfortable working at Correct Craft. We do<br />
not pressure anyone to do anything and participating<br />
in our faith culture does not provide any job advantages<br />
or protection.<br />
Even the employees who choose not to<br />
participate, tell me that they really appreciate the<br />
environment at Correct Craft. We have a very “G”<br />
rated atmosphere and people appreciate the trust<br />
and integrity that comes along with our culture.<br />
Kristi: What are the unique challenges of having a<br />
faith culture at Correct Craft?<br />
Bill: For me personally, there are two parts of our<br />
faith culture that are difficult.<br />
First, we are a business and have a responsibility<br />
to run our business well, so that it survives to carry<br />
on for many more decades. Often when we make a<br />
business decision that impacts someone negatively,<br />
the person impacted will take it personally and<br />
accuse us (or me) of not being true to our beliefs.<br />
From their view, if we really cared about others, then<br />
we would never make a decision that impacts them<br />
negatively.<br />
Secondly, people who share our beliefs and want<br />
us to help them financially, bombard us. While we<br />
wish that we could help everyone, unfortunately we<br />
cannot. Sometimes when we turn down a financial<br />
request (which, unfortunately we do often), it opens<br />
up another opportunity for someone to question<br />
how true we are to our beliefs. Some people think<br />
that if we will not help their project, it means that we<br />
really don’t believe what we say.<br />
Both of the above examples are really tough for<br />
us because we do not want to discourage anyone.<br />
Kristi: Anything else you would like to say?<br />
Bill: Yes, I would like to thank you, Kristi, and In<br />
His Wakes for the amazing service you are doing. We<br />
appreciate both you and your team doing an<br />
incredible job at the chapel service for each year’s<br />
Masters tournament, as well as for the work you all<br />
do each year with kids around the country. Correct<br />
Craft is proud to be a long time sponsor of IHW and<br />
proud of our affiliation with you. v<br />
Love and Service<br />
by Kristi Overton Johnson<br />
I believe one of the biggest questions Christians<br />
ask is: “What is God’s will for my life?” As they<br />
wait for a big “sign” from above, they often experience<br />
fear over the possibility of missing “it” (“it”<br />
being God’s perfect plan). I’ve witnessed so many<br />
people sit indecisively, afraid to take even the<br />
slightest step forward, in fear that they will somehow<br />
get off course and miss God’s best. I have to<br />
admit, I’ve often been one of those people.<br />
Well today I’ve got some good news for you!<br />
God’s plan for our lives is pretty simple. We are<br />
called to love the Lord our God with all of our<br />
heart, soul, and mind and to love those He puts in<br />
our path. As we walk in this love, we are called to<br />
glorify Him in the way we live our lives and interact<br />
with others on a daily basis. How can we know<br />
how we are to live? Get in His Word and you’ll find<br />
God’s will for every day living.<br />
So often we want God’s BIG plan for our life,<br />
when He is just waiting for us to walk in obedience<br />
to His Word on a daily basis; to walk in integrity,<br />
love, compassion, generosity, trust, forgiveness, and<br />
justice... to name a few.<br />
It doesn’t matter how old we are, or what gender<br />
or race we may be. It doesn’t matter what we<br />
do for a living or how much money we have. It<br />
doesn’t matter if we are healthy or facing health<br />
issues. It doesn’t matter if we live in the city or in the<br />
depths of the jungle. Whoever we are, wherever we<br />
are, God’s will remains...we are called to love and<br />
serve Him, and to love and serve His people.<br />
Every day we come into contact with people,<br />
whether in our homes, ministries, or businesses.<br />
During these interactions we have an incredible opportunity<br />
to touch the world for Christ, to bring<br />
hope, joy, and peace into a hurting world through<br />
our love and service. You don’t have to head off on<br />
a huge mission trip to do this; you can do it right<br />
where you are today!<br />
One of the greatest joys I’ve experienced over<br />
the past decade with In His Wakes has been to see<br />
God take something so simple… water sports…<br />
and use it to touch tens of thousands of lives.<br />
How? Because of love and service. Through the<br />
simple act of showing unconditional love in the<br />
water and on the shores to at-risk youth, God has<br />
been glorified and lives has been changed.<br />
Correct Craft CEO, Bill Yeargin, stands in front of one<br />
of many banners displayed throughout the Orlando<br />
plant stating the company’s mission, “Building Boats<br />
to the Glory of God”.<br />
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God Always Gives You What You Need<br />
by Vanessa Ashley<br />
It was the summer of 1978, I’d just graduated<br />
from college with honors and the world was my<br />
oyster. My future was so bright and held boundless<br />
and limitless possibilities. But in all honesty,<br />
my reality was quite different.<br />
I’d moved back home one month after graduation<br />
harboring a dark secret; I was pregnant. I was<br />
terrified to tell my parents – my Dad, a prominent<br />
Pastor and my Mom, who was preparing to have<br />
major surgery. I’d come home to care for three<br />
younger siblings while my mother recuperated. My<br />
grandmother took one look at me, guessed my secret,<br />
pulled me into her arms and started singing,<br />
“Onward Christian Soldiers.” A tingle still goes<br />
down my spine to this day whenever I hear that<br />
song. Grandma Eula promised to keep my secret<br />
until I was ready to tell.<br />
My conscious finally got the better of me and<br />
two weeks after my mother had been released<br />
from the hospital, I gathered her and my father<br />
into our living room and spilled my secret. My father<br />
exploded and that’s putting it mildly, while my<br />
mother cried and tried with all her might to keep<br />
the peace.<br />
Even though<br />
I was young, I<br />
did not feel<br />
frightened or scared,<br />
but instead, I felt sadness<br />
and guilt for the shame<br />
I was bringing upon my family.<br />
At the time, my family<br />
was very prominent in the<br />
community and I had<br />
three younger, impressionable<br />
siblings<br />
still at home.<br />
They were<br />
“What would the<br />
neighbors think?<br />
”What would Dad’s<br />
congregation think?<br />
”What would the rest of<br />
the family think?<br />
Vanessa Ashley<br />
makes her home in<br />
Gainesville, FL and<br />
is a buyer at GRU.<br />
Her daughter,<br />
Shema, has always<br />
been her inspiration<br />
and makes her home<br />
in Arlington, VA.<br />
not used to such discord in our home. I was<br />
extremely protective of my brother and sisters.<br />
I loved them more than anything.<br />
The family discussion began soon after what to do<br />
with the “pregnant one.” After all, I couldn’t stay at<br />
the family home… Oh No… that was not acceptable.<br />
After all, “What would the neighbors think?”…<br />
”What would Dad’s congregation think?”… ”What<br />
would the rest of the family think?”<br />
I looked around the room at this family discussion<br />
and it was so surreal. I remember touching<br />
my belly. Not only did I already love this baby; I<br />
was falling in love with this child. I knew that I<br />
would risk all to protect him or her.<br />
I was told I had to leave my home, the only home<br />
I’d ever known. I needed to leave as quickly as possible<br />
and there was no offer of financial assistance.<br />
Just pack a bag and go. To the world my circumstances<br />
looked very dire and maybe a little hopeless.<br />
I had a few dollars saved; decided to pawn my<br />
television, and I borrowed $20 from a neighbor.<br />
For God hath not given us the spirit of fear;<br />
but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind<br />
(2 Timothy 1:7).<br />
Stepping out on faith, or<br />
simply not knowing any better,<br />
I caught the first bus out<br />
of town and moved approximately<br />
600 miles south to<br />
Florida. My roommate from<br />
college and her mother took<br />
me in and cared for me those<br />
first few weeks. Mentally and<br />
emotionally, I missed my family.<br />
But God loved my unborn<br />
child and myself so much,<br />
that He provided us with loving,<br />
caring, and wonderful<br />
people. As wonderful as they<br />
were, I felt as if I was a burden. I prayed for a<br />
job and a permanent place to stay. It’s hard to<br />
believe anyone would hire a young pregnant girl.<br />
With God, all things are possible.<br />
The Lord is my light and my salvation, whom<br />
shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life; of<br />
whom shall I be afraid? (Psalm 27:1).<br />
A family who ran a state operated boarding<br />
home was looking for a live-in maid. I applied for<br />
the position and God opened that door. That family<br />
welcomed me with open arms. I just couldn’t<br />
believe my good fortune.<br />
Seeds of trust were being planted. God was<br />
teaching me to not only trust Him, but also more<br />
importantly, trust “in” Him. My prayer life had really<br />
begun to take root, praying and seeking Him<br />
first in ALL things. Also, unbeknownst to me, I had<br />
strong prayer warriors interceding on my behalf.<br />
My mother, grandmother, best friend, and various<br />
other Christian warriors had strong intercessory<br />
prayer sessions asking God for guidance, forgiveness,<br />
strength, courage, peace, and reconciliation.<br />
There have been so many trials, so many missteps,<br />
and so many growing seasons these last 30+<br />
years. I gave birth to a bouncing baby girl, who is<br />
the second love of my life to God. Shema, my only<br />
child, is bright, educated, beautiful, well adjusted,<br />
well traveled, and most importantly, she loves God.<br />
God’s light has shone so brightly on both of our<br />
lives. He certainly took my mess and transformed it<br />
into an incredible message of love and hope.<br />
I’ve learned through it all to never give up hope.<br />
Zechariah 9:12 refers to us being “prisoners of hope.”<br />
I’ve also learned to be open to God’s voice and let<br />
His Spirit lead. God’s thoughts and ways are always<br />
better. When “we” get out of the way and truly give<br />
Him control, then the world is truly our oyster.<br />
If there is one word of advice I can give from<br />
my life experiences it is this: Learn to forgive. Do<br />
not let the root of bitterness take hold of your life.<br />
God dealt with me on forgiveness in my early 20’s<br />
and I am so glad He did. You cannot move forward<br />
in life if you choose to remain in a world of hatred<br />
and bitterness. God is “love” and love calls us to<br />
forgiveness and peace.<br />
Hebrews 13:5 says, “Never will I leave you;<br />
never will I forsake you.” I thank God for this<br />
promise. I know wherever I find myself that God<br />
will bring me through. He’s never promised it<br />
would be the way I want it, or that it would be<br />
easy, but I’ve learned as long as I take “me” out of<br />
the equation and put “Him” first, I will always<br />
have the Victory! v<br />
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Redeeming<br />
Love by Ann Prevatt<br />
Like most girls, I didn’t check with God about<br />
whom I was to marry. I simply fell in love, married<br />
and expected God to bless my choices. The first years<br />
were good; we had two children, built a house, and<br />
began our respective careers. We had disagreements,<br />
but generally worked things out. I’ll admit, I seldom<br />
prayed or asked God about most of what was going<br />
on in our lives.<br />
As time went on, we began to have real difficulties<br />
over specific areas. The primary area of conflict<br />
was alcohol, in which my husband had started abusing.<br />
At first it was just an embarrassment at social<br />
functions, but as time went on, it became more frequent<br />
and severe. It was obvious that God was not<br />
blessing my mess.<br />
Many times I threatened divorce, and many times<br />
my husband made promises of doing “better.” After<br />
we had been married approximately 15 years, I had<br />
endured all that I could. That is when God intervened<br />
through His Word. He made Romans 7:2 “personal.”<br />
“For the woman who has a husband is bound by<br />
the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the<br />
husband dies, she is released from the law of her<br />
husband.”<br />
If you read that verse in context, it had nothing to<br />
do with my situation, but it was God’s Word for me<br />
at that time. From that moment on, I would have to<br />
trust God with the whole situation, as well as every<br />
part of my life. I also knew that He would honor my<br />
decision to be obedient. It wasn’t easy for our children<br />
or myself; however, none of us were ever physically<br />
abused. Had that been the case, perhaps the<br />
situation would have been different.<br />
My husband continued to work as an attorney<br />
and even though he was very intelligent, I knew that<br />
he was using poor judgment at times. Our children<br />
were teenagers when the drinking reached crisis<br />
stage, so they busied themselves with school, sports,<br />
and reading. I stayed busy with my teaching and all<br />
associated with that. I was so close to the situation<br />
that I couldn’t see the obvious, that he needed professional<br />
help. His secretary saw the need and called<br />
for medial help. He went to the hospital in the early<br />
stages of coma and liver failure.<br />
My prayer at that time was, “Lord, either bring him<br />
all the way through this or take him home.” One night,<br />
while he was in the hospital, the Lord came to him in<br />
a vision and delivered him from alcoholism. (What a<br />
wonderful testimony it was, but he shared it very cautiously<br />
for fear people would think it was the d.t’s.)<br />
Today I can say with<br />
assurance that God is<br />
faithful and His<br />
word is true.<br />
After a couple of trying weeks in the hospital, he<br />
came home. Two weeks later, he went into a month<br />
long program for alcoholics. The program helped him<br />
to get his mind focused on the future. We both had<br />
some counseling and I could see he was a changed<br />
man. I held on to God’s Word that “We know all<br />
things work together for good to those who love<br />
God, to those who are called according to His purpose”<br />
(Romans 8:28).<br />
After his treatment, he never drank again. There<br />
were still problems and some unpleasant consequences,<br />
but life was easier. By this time we were<br />
both committed Christians and God had shown Himself<br />
in many ways. Even though He was not a part of<br />
our life as we started out, He<br />
met us where we were and<br />
carried us forward in so many<br />
instances.<br />
It took some time<br />
before I could say (with faith)<br />
that God is true to His Word<br />
and that He had truly redeemed<br />
me. Today I can say<br />
with assurance that God<br />
is faithful and His word is<br />
true. “Christ has redeemed<br />
us (me)… that we (I) might<br />
receive the promise of the<br />
Spirit through faith”<br />
(Gal 3:13-14). v<br />
Ann Prevatt has<br />
lived in Keystone<br />
Heights, FL for over<br />
45 years. She is<br />
retired but spends<br />
time volunteering<br />
at her church and<br />
various ministries<br />
including Champion’s<br />
Heart. She<br />
enjoys time with<br />
friends and her four<br />
grandchildren.<br />
Have A Hurt?<br />
Hang Up? Habit?<br />
It’s Time to<br />
be FREE!<br />
Come See What<br />
Celebrate Recovery<br />
Is All About!<br />
Held weekly at<br />
Champion’s Heart<br />
on Thursday Evenings<br />
@ 7pm.<br />
How has God touched your life? Send us your story of Victory!<br />
Go to our website or use your smart phone to scan the QR code<br />
to see past issues of Victorious Living or submit your story.<br />
For more information call<br />
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MINISTRY NEWS<br />
I am constantly amazed at all the ways God allows us to<br />
minister to His people! As we soar into <strong>2012</strong>, join with me in<br />
prayer over each division of Champion’s Heart Ministries and<br />
celebrate with us as we strive to bring more<br />
champions into His kingdom! For more news and updates, be<br />
sure to check our website often as well as sign up for our<br />
email newsletters at www.championsheart.org.<br />
In His Wakes Volunteer<br />
Roundup<br />
If you are interested in volunteering at IHW’s fall<br />
events or host an event in 2013, please contact Nate<br />
at 352-745-0283 or nate@inhiswakes.com!<br />
Champion’s Heart Provides<br />
Cherished Portraits For<br />
Local Families<br />
In August, Champion’s<br />
Heart partnered<br />
with Community Church<br />
in Keystone Heights, FL.<br />
during their annual<br />
back-to-school outreach<br />
for individuals in need.<br />
Champion’s Heart provided<br />
free family portraits. A special thanks goes to<br />
Krissy Harp Parmeter, who provided a beautiful portrait<br />
setting and professional photography services.<br />
Champion's Heart Banquet!<br />
In November, we will be hosting a special fundraising<br />
event in Keystone Heights for the ministries of<br />
Champion's Heart. Please join us on our properties<br />
and see first hand what God is doing through your<br />
partnership. Call 352-478-2098 for more information.<br />
In His Wakes Update<br />
Our team is currently on the west<br />
coast hosting our remaining <strong>2012</strong><br />
"A Day to Remember" (D2R) events.<br />
During the next couple of months,<br />
our team will head back to our<br />
headquarters in Keystone Heights, Fl.,<br />
stopping along the way to bring hope,<br />
victory, and purpose into the lives of<br />
at-risk youth! Please remember our<br />
team in your daily prayers. They have<br />
been going strong, by the grace of God,<br />
since March!<br />
International Update<br />
In His Wakes held four Czech events in August.<br />
Many challenges and obstacles threatened to derail<br />
the Czech events. But once again, our God is greater!<br />
His work was accomplished and we are confident<br />
that the impact will be long lasting and far reaching.<br />
What a privilege to work alongside the local<br />
church each day. They will be able to help our<br />
participants continue to grow spiritually. Thank<br />
you to our financial and prayer partners who made<br />
this possible!<br />
In His Wakes will return to beautiful Costa Rica in<br />
December to host a series of D2R events. While there,<br />
we will have the privilege of touching the hearts of<br />
Nicaraguan refugees through water sports activities,<br />
warm hospitality, and a powerful message of God's<br />
love. If you would like to contribute to this mission<br />
trip, please contact us immediately.<br />
Victorious Living is having an international impact,<br />
especially in the water sports community. Thousands<br />
of copies have reached the hands and hearts of athletes,<br />
coaches, and fans across the globe.<br />
Kristi Overton Johnson's REFRESH! teaching<br />
ministry is touching hearts worldwide through her<br />
writing, speaking, and singing ministry. Be sure to get<br />
on our mailing list to receive encouraging messages<br />
based on God's Word. You can also watch inspiring<br />
videos on championsheart.org.<br />
Champion’s Heart Scholarships<br />
and Awards Winners<br />
• Meg McCollom and Miranda Deviel received<br />
$1000 as winners of the Emily Rund Champion’s<br />
Heart Scholarship. This scholarship is awarded annually<br />
to graduates of Keystone Heights High<br />
School for exemplifying the heart of a champion.<br />
• K.C. Wilson of<br />
Clermont, FL. was<br />
awarded the Kristi<br />
Overton Johnson<br />
Champion’s Heart<br />
Award for his performance<br />
on the<br />
water at the US Masters Water Ski and Wake Board<br />
Tournament and for his integrity and character off<br />
the water!<br />
• Taylor Woosley of Monte Verde, FL. was awarded<br />
$500 as winner of the In His Wakes Scholarship.<br />
This scholarship is awarded annually to competitors<br />
of the US Jr. Masters Water Ski and Wake<br />
Board Tournament for overall excellence in character,<br />
athletics, community service, and academics.<br />
A Day To Remember participant in Costa Rica<br />
experiences the freeedom of gliding across the water.<br />
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y Nate Miller,<br />
In His Wakes Director<br />
For some time<br />
now, I’ve felt the<br />
Lord showing me<br />
the importance of ministering<br />
to people on the shore<br />
while they wait for their turn on the water, and the opportunity<br />
it offers to build relationships. I’ve prayerfully<br />
considered how to approach this need and who best to<br />
take on the challenge. The Lord was faithful to give me<br />
the answer and one year later, the work is being done.<br />
In July of 2011, I experienced one of the most impacting<br />
events of my six seasons with “In His Wakes”,<br />
not only because of the situations surrounding the participants,<br />
but also those who came to minister to them.<br />
At that particular event, several young adults from<br />
“Youth With A Mission” (YWAM) came to volunteer at<br />
our “A Day to Remember” event in Montana. As I<br />
watched this group of volunteers minister to our participants<br />
on the shore and evangelize with such boldness,<br />
it was evident that this was a needed element for the<br />
shores of our future “A Day to Remember” events.<br />
Over the next six months, I prayed<br />
for God to assemble His<br />
“Dream Team”, a team that<br />
would travel with my wife,<br />
Ivy, and I, during the<br />
<strong>2012</strong> season. Coming<br />
into <strong>2012</strong>, we didn’t<br />
know “who” and we didn’t know “how”, but we<br />
trusted that God was about to do something amazing<br />
in our midst… and He did. In the spring, God provided<br />
the funds through a donor to purchase a second motor<br />
home and then He filled it at various times throughout<br />
the summer with 8 different young adults, all on-fire<br />
for the Lord and ready to serve.<br />
Event after event, I watched in amazement, as this<br />
international “team” of young adults poured themselves<br />
into the participants. Individuals from the US, Czech Republic,<br />
Africa, and South Africa were used by God to<br />
bring about an incredible number of responses to the<br />
gospel. People could just sense the genuine, Christ-filled<br />
love that these young people brought to the water, not<br />
to mention their energy! It wasn’t just the participants<br />
who were impacted by this added group of young evangelists.<br />
At every event, our hosts and volunteers expressed<br />
their amazement at seeing a group of young<br />
people operate with such boldness for the Lord.<br />
With an expanded team, God enabled us to expand<br />
our ministering opportunities from the lake together. At<br />
several events, we were able to visit the participants at<br />
their program centers and continue our ministering apart<br />
from the actual “A Day to<br />
Remember” event.<br />
For example, after<br />
our events in Maine, our<br />
team had the opportunity<br />
to go into the detention<br />
facility (the facility where our<br />
participant’s lived) and<br />
conduct a chapel service. With<br />
the combined talents of each<br />
person, we were able to sing,<br />
perform a powerful skit, and<br />
teach about God’s unconditional<br />
love! You could feel<br />
God’s presence in the room,<br />
as He moved in the hearts of<br />
these young detainees. In fact,<br />
at one point, the Spirit moved so<br />
powerfully that the guards began to<br />
get a bit uneasy about maintaining<br />
control. That day, we were blessed to witness an<br />
amazing response to the “altar call!” Since the kids were<br />
not allowed to leave their seats, each member of our<br />
group placed their hands on as many people as they could<br />
reach and led them in a prayer of salvation and healing.<br />
As I’ve reflected on the <strong>2012</strong> season, one thing is for<br />
sure, that God has been at work. He’s been at work in<br />
our team, and He’s been at work in me! Many times<br />
I’ve had to step aside, so that God’s plan could be accomplished.<br />
As I moved aside, God did abundantly<br />
more than I could have ever hoped for or imagined.<br />
At this point, many of our team members have already<br />
returned to their homes abroad. We are back<br />
down to one motor home and a five member traveling<br />
team. As we continue our <strong>2012</strong> tour nationally and<br />
abroad, it is my prayer that we finish with the same<br />
level of enthusiasm and love that we’ve had so far. As<br />
we stay focused on Him, I am confident the Lord<br />
will continue to use this group in a<br />
mighty way!<br />
Thank you to all the prayer<br />
warriors out there! Your<br />
faithfulness of continually<br />
lifting us up in prayer makes<br />
a difference! Thank you also<br />
to our hosts, volunteers,<br />
and our financial<br />
supporters. You all<br />
are a part of God’s<br />
“Dream Team”<br />
…we couldn’t<br />
do it without<br />
you! v<br />
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Enjoying<br />
by Reneé Harp<br />
BeingME!<br />
I wish that I were as<br />
rich as them. I wish that<br />
I were as skinny as her.<br />
I wish that I could find<br />
a husband. I wish that my<br />
husband treated me better.<br />
I wish that I were smarter<br />
in school. I wish that I had<br />
her spiritual gifts.<br />
Do any of these statements<br />
sound familiar?<br />
I believe that if we are honest<br />
with ourselves, at some time<br />
or another, we have all compared<br />
ourselves with other people or desired<br />
someone else's life, possessions,<br />
looks, money, talent… the list can go<br />
on and on.<br />
I’ve often struggled with comparisons and I’ve<br />
often wished my life to be different and more like the<br />
next person’s. In fact, I struggled with “enjoying being<br />
me” until my mid-thirties. During this time, I constantly<br />
compared my looks, my career, and my family<br />
with those who seemed to “have it all together.”<br />
Oftentimes, I even did things to fit in with those I<br />
wanted to be like. One time I redecorated my house<br />
with country ducks, just so my house would look like<br />
someone else’s. The funny thing is that I didn’t even<br />
like ducks, and to be brutally honest, I didn’t even<br />
enjoy being around the people that I so desperately<br />
wanted to be like. My husband Terry hated those<br />
ducks and so did I!<br />
Isn’t it amazing what we will do, just to “fit in?”<br />
I’m sure that I’m not the only one who has done<br />
things to impress people and be accepted.<br />
When I think back as to why I would do these<br />
things, it was because I didn't understand that God<br />
had a specific plan for me. I didn’t realize He had created<br />
me in a special way with gifts, abilities, and opportunities<br />
that could be used in a unique way for<br />
Him… in a way no one else was equipped to do. I<br />
didn’t understand that every time I focused on being<br />
someone else, I lost the ability to be me, unique me!<br />
John 10:10 says, “The thief comes only to steal<br />
and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have<br />
life, and have it to the full.” I believe with all of my<br />
heart that comparisons are a scheme of our enemy<br />
to bring destruction. Satan’s goal is to distract us, to<br />
keep our eyes off Christ and His plan for our lives. As<br />
we focus on others through comparisons, Satan<br />
knows we will have a tendency to feel bad about<br />
ourselves and fall into self-pity as we come to the<br />
conclusion that our gifts and our lives don’t measure<br />
up and surely can’t make a difference in this world.<br />
Reneé and husband, Terry, reside in<br />
Keystone Heights. Reneé is the<br />
Administrative Director for<br />
Champion’s Heart and In His Wakes.<br />
Do not conform to the pattern of<br />
this world, but be transformed by<br />
the renewing of your mind.<br />
Romans 12:2<br />
If Satan gets his way, our self-pity may even evolve<br />
into a little jealousy, anger, resentment, and ultimately<br />
despair.<br />
This way of thinking affected my self-esteem and even<br />
damaged relationships because I wasn't true to myself.<br />
My eyes weren’t open to see myself as God saw me.<br />
The truth is that God designed us before the<br />
foundation of the world. He knew our gifts and<br />
personalities before we were ever born. He loved<br />
us enough to die for us! So why are we constantly<br />
trying to change our Maker's creation?<br />
If God wanted us to "copycat" each other, why<br />
would He go to so many extremes to make us different?<br />
Think about it. The creator of the galaxies,<br />
moon, sun, stars, of everything we see, took the time<br />
to give you and I our own set of fingerprints, DNA,<br />
and even a unique laugh! He created us with unique<br />
thought patterns, personalities, looks, skin color, gender…<br />
on and on I could go. The answer is He wants<br />
you and I to be exactly whom He created, "YOU"<br />
and “ME”, and no one else.<br />
I think it’s time to lay aside comparisons and begin<br />
to see yourself as God sees you. Don’t you? It’s time<br />
to start enjoying being ourselves.<br />
How? First of all, quit looking into the world’s mirror<br />
and look into God’s mirror, His Word. See what He<br />
says about you and your life… I think you’ll be surprised.<br />
Secondly, quit comparing<br />
yourselves<br />
to others and<br />
start being a<br />
blessing to<br />
others.<br />
F i n a l l y,<br />
rather than<br />
tear yourself<br />
down, build<br />
yourself up.<br />
Begin to make<br />
a list of your<br />
unique self and<br />
thank God for the<br />
life He has given<br />
you. v<br />
We asked our readers to share what<br />
they have done to find worth and<br />
acceptance in the eyes of others…<br />
I was trying to get an interview with<br />
an airline for a pilot position. With<br />
20,000 applications, they weren’t<br />
taking any calls. So, to get their attention,<br />
I sent a worn-out pair of<br />
sneakers to the VP of Personnel explaining<br />
that I had worn out my<br />
shoes pacing back and forth while I<br />
waited for their call. The person in<br />
charge of pilot hiring called me out<br />
of curiosity- to see if I was a nut or<br />
sane- and the rest is history. I ended<br />
up flying for them for 25 years. ~Jeff<br />
a<br />
My mom bought me a pair of boots<br />
that I loved. When I wore them to<br />
school, my friend said that they<br />
were ugly, so I wouldn’t wear them<br />
anymore. ~Ivy<br />
a<br />
To compensate for my insecurities, I<br />
did many outlandish things. As a<br />
teen, I jumped on the roof of my car<br />
and rode down a skateboard hill<br />
with no one driving the car. I also<br />
drove my first boat wide-open,<br />
“James Bond Style” onto a beach!<br />
It took the rest of the afternoon to<br />
get it back into the water. ~Rusty<br />
a<br />
I set up a first date with a girl to go<br />
to the skating rink, a place that she<br />
wanted to go. This itself was crazy<br />
because I was not much of a skater.<br />
Towards the end of the night, I had<br />
worked out most of the kinks and<br />
decided that I was going around the<br />
rink one more time before we left.<br />
My feet got tangled up and I fell<br />
down and broke my ankle. That was<br />
the first and last date with that girl.<br />
~Vernon<br />
a<br />
I drank a whole bottle of “Boone's<br />
Farm” wine at about age 14 to<br />
impress some friends. ~Anonymous<br />
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INSPIRING LEADERSHIP<br />
How Can I Know<br />
by Bonnie Hagemann<br />
Decisions… Decisions… Decisions… Every day we<br />
are faced with thousands of decisions that seem to<br />
come at us with lightening-like speed. Sometimes the<br />
decisions are easy and have limited impact.<br />
Should I buy this shirt?<br />
Should I go for a walk now or later?<br />
But many times decisions are hard, complex and<br />
have to be made in a short amount of time with<br />
limited information.<br />
Should I take this job?<br />
Should I let my daughter start dating?<br />
Should I place my loved one in assisted living?<br />
Should I file bankruptcy?<br />
Should I sell my business?<br />
These types of decisions are never easy. Recently, I<br />
had to make a tough decision regarding the sale of<br />
my business to a large company. As I wrestled with<br />
my decision, I found myself completely at a loss as to<br />
what to do.<br />
The opportunity looked good to people in my<br />
trusted inner circle, and it initially looked good to me.<br />
The acquiring company was large in size and had a<br />
good reputation in our field. They had a great leadership<br />
team in place that would help the company to<br />
continue to grow. Even better, I would have an incredible<br />
job with great benefits. It looked like a complimentary<br />
fit. However, when I thought about this<br />
opportunity, tears would roll down my cheeks.<br />
Am I at peace with<br />
this in my heart?<br />
Does this decision align<br />
with my personal values?<br />
Will those closest to me<br />
be able to live with the<br />
impact of my decision?<br />
Surprised by my own reaction, I knew it was time to<br />
seek wisdom from above. One morning during my routine<br />
run, I began to converse with God about this opportunity.<br />
I asked Him to reveal why my spirit was<br />
crying over this decision. I knew it was my spirit, because<br />
my flesh was screaming, “GO FOR THE<br />
MONEY!”<br />
When I pray, God shows me things in images, in a<br />
very visual way. It’s how He speaks to me; it’s how I<br />
understand Him. During our conversation, God<br />
showed me a courtroom with a judge sitting on the<br />
bench. Then I heard Him say, “I’m going to teach you<br />
how to make judgments” (decisions). Great! I thought.<br />
That’s exactly what I need.<br />
God reminded me of the story of King Solomon<br />
found in I Kings 3:16-28. If you remember, Solomon<br />
was faced with the task of deciding the true identity<br />
of the mother of a little baby. Both women stood before<br />
him claiming the child was theirs. Each woman<br />
pled her case before the King. In this scene, God<br />
showed me that there were influential people trying to<br />
persuade Solomon to decide one way or the other.<br />
There was a lot of pressure in this decision.<br />
During my prayer time, I suddenly saw a curtain<br />
drop out of the sky on three sides of the baby. This<br />
curtain blocked out everyone except for Solomon and<br />
the baby. In my spirit I heard God say, “When you<br />
need to make a judgment (decision), you must first silence<br />
all of the competing voices.”<br />
This is exactly what Solomon did. In his situation,<br />
many voices competed for his attention… the voices<br />
of the women and the voices of people in Solomon’s<br />
inner circle. The problem however, was that some of<br />
the “voices” were lying. To bring forth the truth,<br />
Solomon in his wisdom said, “Cut the baby in half!<br />
That way each of you can have part of him” (1 Kings<br />
3:25). He knew the real mother would give her baby<br />
up before she would allow the baby to be killed. His<br />
plan worked and the baby went home with its mother.<br />
Truth was exposed and a right decision was made.<br />
God then took me back to my decision of whether<br />
or not to let my business be acquired by a larger company.<br />
I realized that I had to silence all of the competing<br />
voices. I also had the revelation that money has<br />
a voice. In my prayer time I saw it. I saw money personified,<br />
and it was yelling in my face.<br />
As I mentally dropped the curtain and shut out<br />
money’s voice, I began to see clearly. I saw that in this<br />
situation, selling my company would bring negative<br />
results. I would be trading my LIFE for money, especially<br />
my time. I would lose time with my family, time<br />
to do the things I love, and most importantly, I would<br />
lose my time with God. In this quiet place I found my<br />
answer, and in this answer, I found peace. I gently<br />
backed away from the deal.<br />
If there is one thing I have learned in my decisionmaking<br />
processes, it is that learning to hear God’s<br />
voice is more important than taking classes and reading<br />
books on how to make a good decision. It’s more<br />
important than the latest financial peace course or diet<br />
or exercise phenomenon. I have found that all of my<br />
personal and business problems get worked out if I<br />
spend enough time with God through prayer and<br />
through the study of His Word. He always has the answer<br />
to my every question, my task is to get still before<br />
Him, quiet the voices that call out to me, and listen.<br />
Jeremiah 33:3 “Call to me and I will answer you<br />
and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not<br />
know.” NIV v<br />
Bonnie Hagemann is a member of the<br />
Board of Directors for Champion’s<br />
Heart Life Centers. Bonnie is the CEO<br />
of Executive Development Associates,<br />
a 28-year-old internationally known<br />
boutique consulting firm that specializes in executive<br />
development, executive coaching, and high potential<br />
development. To date, Bonnie has 11 published works.<br />
Need wisdom for a business decision?<br />
Visit Bonnie’s blog at https://bonniehagemann.wordpress.com or use your smart<br />
phone to scan the QR code.<br />
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CHAMPIONS HEART AWARD<br />
Quiting Is Not An Optionby Kristi Overton Johnson<br />
What is a champion? Or better yet, who is a champion.<br />
One popular definition of a champion is “a person<br />
who has defeated or surpassed all rivals.” The<br />
world celebrates champions in various areas such as<br />
sports, business, and the media. According to this definition,<br />
I’ve met a lot of “champions” in my life. From<br />
professional athletes, famous actors and top business<br />
executives, to military and political leaders, I’ve been<br />
blessed to meet the cream of the crop in various fields.<br />
If I were to line up the world’s “champions” and examine<br />
their lives, I would find common traits of perseverance,<br />
excellence, and discipline. I would find a<br />
teachable heart and a mind willing to listen to others.<br />
I would find a tenacious spirit, a “never give up in the<br />
face of adversity” attitude.<br />
In my life, the people who have impacted me the<br />
most aren’t the “champions” that I’ve met in athletics<br />
or in the corporate world, although they do inspire<br />
me. The “champions” who have touched my life the<br />
most are ordinary people who live out the above mentioned<br />
qualities in their daily lives… people such as<br />
Dan and Sue Plaster.<br />
I met this amazing couple when Tim and I moved to<br />
Keystone Heights, Florida in the mid 1990’s. One of the<br />
first times that I met Sue, she came right over to me,<br />
gave me a big hug and then surprisingly planted a<br />
sweet kiss on my forehead. She then invited me to<br />
lunch, where we shared our hearts and our struggles<br />
and learned that other than the 40 year age difference,<br />
we had much in common.<br />
Over the years, Sue’s faithfulness to her husband,<br />
family, and community has inspired me to live life to the<br />
fullest. Now in her 80’s, Sue continues to work in the<br />
real estate industry, as well as serve faithfully in her<br />
church and local ministries. You can always find Sue promoting<br />
worthy events and even organizing them, such<br />
as our community’s recent, “Pray for Rain” gathering.<br />
Dan, like Sue, has a spirit that both encourages and<br />
challenges anyone to greatness. From the first time I<br />
met Dan, I witnessed his heart of perseverance and<br />
from that day, he has reminded me, just by watching<br />
him live, to never, ever give up.<br />
One of the first times I<br />
encountered Dan was at church.<br />
Tim and I were sitting behind him<br />
and Sue when the pastor asked<br />
us to turn to a certain scripture.<br />
Tim and I, as well as Sue, quickly<br />
turned to the scripture and followed<br />
along with the reading.<br />
But I couldn’t help but notice that<br />
Dan was having a bit of trouble.<br />
Over and over again, he would<br />
grab the page of the Bible only to<br />
have it slip from his hands. I<br />
didn’t realize at the time, but Dan<br />
has a condition that results in<br />
hand tremors when he engages<br />
his hand muscles. This condition<br />
makes daily tasks like eating,<br />
combing your hair, brushing your<br />
teeth, or Dan’s favorite… teeing<br />
up a golf ball…very difficult.<br />
Over and over again, Dan attempted to turn the<br />
page of the Bible. I was sure he would give up when<br />
the pastor moved on to other scriptures, but Dan kept<br />
on grabbing at the corner of that page, unaffected by<br />
the fact that we had moved on. All I could think was,<br />
“Wow! This man is something!” I was blown away by<br />
his refusal to quit. I was also blessed by his patience. I<br />
continue to be blown away by Dan’s persevering spirit<br />
as I’ve witnessed him face not only the daily challenges<br />
of his tremors, but also continuing treatments for<br />
myeloma cancer and painful back spasms, all with joy.<br />
One of the greatest blessings to me has been to witness<br />
Dan and Sue as a couple. They have an incredible<br />
relationship that continues to grow even after 60 years!<br />
I am amazed by the respect and faithfulness they have<br />
towards one another. I remember waiting for Sue to turn<br />
the page for Dan at church, but she didn’t. She knew<br />
not to step in at that moment. But there have been<br />
other times when I’ve watched her quietly come to his<br />
side and help where needed. They have learned to face<br />
life’s daily challenges together, in a manner that builds<br />
each other up and gives each other value.<br />
Dan and Sue celebrate their receipt of<br />
the Champion’s Heart Award with their<br />
family in Christ: Tim and Kristi Johnson;<br />
Terry and Reneé Harp; Buck and LeaNan<br />
Burney; and Anna and Melodie Purkey.<br />
When I asked Sue to share the source behind their<br />
strength, she replied, “Quitting is not in our<br />
vocabulary. When Dan was diagnosed with cancer, he<br />
just looked at me and said, ‘I don’t know how to quit!<br />
I refuse to give up.’”<br />
When I asked Dan how he faces his challenges with<br />
such patience and perseverance, he simply replied, “I<br />
have so many things to be thankful for, I just focus on<br />
those!” Both agree that their faith in God is the true<br />
source of their strength. It is what enables them to keep<br />
going in the face of adversity.<br />
Thank you, Dan and Sue, for touching my life and<br />
the lives of many by choosing never to quit. As you<br />
push forward daily with joy in your heart, you encourage,<br />
inspire, and challenge the hearts of many! Congratulations<br />
on being recipients of this issue’s<br />
“Champion’s Heart Award.” It is well deserved, as you<br />
both have the hearts of champions!<br />
We love you! v<br />
Champion’s Heart Life Center would like to recognize individuals who<br />
exhibit the heart of a champion…<br />
a heart of love, integrity, patience, and perseverance.<br />
In this issue of Victorious Living, Champion's Heart would like to present The Champion's Heart Award to Dan & Sue Plaster. Dan<br />
and Sue exemplify the heart of a champion... a heart of integrity, generosity, love, and kindness. Their servants’ hearts have made it possible for<br />
many to achieve their dreams. Ultimately, because of the foundation that they have provided, many lives have been forever changed.<br />
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We asked our readers to share what<br />
they have done to find worth and<br />
acceptance in the eyes of others…<br />
One of the craziest things that I ever<br />
did was join in a group’s plan to<br />
ostracize a girl based on something<br />
we had “heard” about her. We all<br />
ignored this girl and shut her out of<br />
our lives completely. We treated her<br />
terribly. After several weeks of ignoring<br />
her, we found out that the group’s<br />
ringleader had made up the story<br />
about this girl and told it to us as<br />
“truth” because she was extremely<br />
jealous of her. We were HORRIFIED at<br />
the way we had treated her but more<br />
importantly - we were horrified at<br />
how gullible we had been. We went<br />
to the person, explained the situation,<br />
and asked her forgiveness. She took<br />
the high road and forgave us, BUT we<br />
could tell we had hurt her to the core.<br />
Although this happened 30 years ago,<br />
I have never forgotten it. Because<br />
of this experience, I’ve learned to<br />
pray for a discerning spirit and to seek<br />
God's guidance when it comes<br />
to man's opinions. I listen to what<br />
people say - but I judge what I believe<br />
by trusting God to always show me<br />
truth.<br />
~Vanessa<br />
a<br />
When I was 17, I did a “flying<br />
dock start” bare footing off the<br />
Brooklyn Bridge. I tore up my knee<br />
and couldn't ski for 2 months. All for<br />
some dumb boy! ~Dana<br />
a<br />
The craziest thing that I ever did to<br />
impress someone was riding a<br />
mechanical bull shortly after having<br />
hamstring surgery! What was I<br />
thinking?<br />
~ Christine<br />
a<br />
As a teenager, I wanted to “breathe<br />
fire” like Gene Simmons from KISS.<br />
The trick went well most of the time,<br />
until the time my face caught on fire!<br />
~Anonymous<br />
What IS Champion’s Heart?<br />
Champion’s Heart helps people of all ages, genders and socio-economic status break free, move forward,<br />
and soar to victory! Thousands of people are being touched through our local, national and international<br />
ministries daily. Here is a quick look at our outreach programs:<br />
Champion’s Heart “In His Wakes” Sports Outreach encourages<br />
at-risk youth to “GET OFF THE DOCK!” of life through our “A Day to Remember”<br />
program. Through an incredible day on the water, warm hospitality<br />
from our team, and a message of God’s love, our participants grab hold of the<br />
truth: they are loved, there is hope, and their lives have purpose! IHW also<br />
ministers “On the Shores” at amateur and professional water ski events sharing the love of Jesus Christ<br />
through worship services and by mentoring junior competitors to be champions for Christ.<br />
Champion’s Heart Kids Outreach builds leaders through local Bible<br />
Clubs, academic scholarships, and special events. Sports clinics, arts and crafts,<br />
dance lessons, and more allow Champion’s Heart to build mentoring relationships<br />
with children to develop hearts of character… hearts of champions!<br />
Champion’s Heart Victorious Living helps people soar to victory<br />
through our quarterly magazine, faith-based motivational writings, audio and<br />
video messages, and motivational seminars.<br />
Champion’s Heart Life Resource Center provides on-site<br />
resource assistance and referral service (food, housing, furniture, basic needs)<br />
as well as relational and recovery support.<br />
www.championsheart.org<br />
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Coloring Outside<br />
The Lines<br />
by Bandi Morford<br />
My name is Bandi.<br />
I am a single, 36 year old woman who has never been married.<br />
I have no kids, nor do I have a career.<br />
I am overweight and out-of-shape.<br />
I have no medical insurance, 401K, or retirement plan.<br />
I don’t have a house; in fact, I don’t even own a TV.<br />
Four years ago, I quit my job and decided to live a more simple life. This is not<br />
the story of how or why; rather, this is the story of how I live with my decision.<br />
After college, I moved to South Florida, where I held the positions of teacher<br />
and athletic coach for ten years. As a single career woman, I bought a big house<br />
and filled it full of stuff! Eventually the stuff began to own me, so I decided it was<br />
time to simplify and change gears.<br />
I ended up selling nearly all of my possessions and moving to Hawaii. After a<br />
year in Hawaii, I moved to South Korea to teach English. During my stay in Korea,<br />
my eyes were opened to a new world of people and their culture.<br />
To say the travel bug bit me would be an understatement. My backpack and<br />
I have made our way through 20 countries throughout the world. I’ve met the<br />
most amazing people in my travels that always seem to want to take me back<br />
to their homeland to show me their way of life. My next adventure is to join my<br />
new Russian friends who will guide me through their homeland, as well<br />
as the Ukraine. Only God knows where I’ll end up after that.<br />
From the outside looking in, some people may think I have<br />
the perfect life. Some may say I have nothing. But can we<br />
ever truly understand how another lives, until we have<br />
walked in their shoes? My prayer is that I can truly<br />
understand my God and myself.<br />
I have moments where I struggle, as<br />
I compare myself to those around me. I begin to<br />
feel lonely, unaccepted, and not good<br />
enough. When this happens, I feel myself slipping<br />
into a deep hole of depression. My<br />
mind becomes filled with negative<br />
thoughts that convince me that everyone<br />
sees me as a failure in life. In the end, these<br />
thoughts transfer to how I see myself.<br />
My biggest struggle has been over my decision to remain career-less. At home<br />
in the US, I feel it is not acceptable to live without a “real” job, a home, and a<br />
family. As humans, we are constantly looking at each other to see if we have life<br />
figured out and under control as much as the next person. It is a battle for one<br />
not to drown in it all!<br />
At times, I’ve grown angry with God for not making me “fit in”, for not making<br />
me like other people. Sometimes I feel as if He left me out to dry with no real<br />
passion for the things that make me acceptable in this society. I blame Him for<br />
not revealing a definite “plan” for my life.<br />
Recently, I attended a conference about creating your own “life story.” This<br />
conference helped change my perspective and helped me find the peace and<br />
confidence to move forward in my life. At this conference, I learned something incredible.<br />
It is this: I am different; I am unique; I am weird; and I do not fit within<br />
the American lifestyle stereotype. BUT, none of this means my story is not loved<br />
and accepted by my Father God. 4<br />
Taj Mahal, Agra, India<br />
Bandi Morford<br />
is a world<br />
traveler and<br />
a native of<br />
Melrose, FL.<br />
Chiang Mai, Thailand<br />
Making friends in<br />
Phnom Penh, Cambodia<br />
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3Donald Miller gave this example: He said<br />
to imagine God as just a normal Dad sitting on<br />
the floor with you, His child. He pulls out a big<br />
sheet of butcher paper and a box of crayons<br />
and says, “Let’s color together! Draw whatever<br />
you want.” You begin to draw with your Father,<br />
the best you know how. Like any parent, no<br />
matter what you draw, no matter how out of<br />
the lines you may go, no matter what color you<br />
use, your Father thinks it’s gorgeous. He even<br />
hangs your picture on his fridge for the world<br />
to see!<br />
Rowing on the<br />
Ganges River, Varanasi, India<br />
In this example, God is our Father and our<br />
life is the butcher paper and crayons. The drawing<br />
we color may not be the same as everyone<br />
else’s, but Father God still loves it. He is proud<br />
of it. This brings me such hope, as I realize that<br />
He loves my “life picture” even though it may<br />
be different than other peoples, even though it<br />
may not be colored in the “normal” way.<br />
I’ve also found peace in the realization that<br />
God isn’t focused on what my “picture” looks<br />
like. He isn’t concerned with where I live, how<br />
I look, how much money I make, or what I do<br />
for a living - NO! God does not see size, or<br />
color, or race, or gender, or profession…He<br />
sees hearts. He isn’t looking for someone who<br />
colors within the lines; He is simply looking for<br />
a heart willing to live out loud for Him. God’s<br />
greatest desire is for the two of us to do this<br />
thing called life - TOGETHER!<br />
God does not need for me to have a career<br />
to be a success to Him. He doesn’t need for me<br />
to be a size 6 to fit into the life He wants for<br />
me. I do not need a 401K or a retirement plan<br />
to get into heaven. His desire is for me to love<br />
Him, to love myself, and to love others, whether<br />
at home or abroad. That is my goal.<br />
I pray I will no longer listen to the lies of this<br />
world that scream I am not good enough<br />
because I do not fit the “mold.” In my heart of<br />
hearts, I know that I am making a masterpiece<br />
with my Father, as we travel through life<br />
together. v<br />
Being in the<br />
right place…<br />
Right With<br />
God!<br />
How many stories<br />
have we heard about<br />
someone being in the<br />
right place at the right<br />
time? Well, what if it’s not necessarily<br />
where you are, but rather where you are<br />
with God that matters? If you are open<br />
to allowing God’s love to shine through<br />
you, it really doesn’t matter where you<br />
are located physically. God is at work<br />
everywhere!<br />
So whether you find yourself working<br />
out at the gym, cleaning your house,<br />
working at the office, serving in full-time<br />
ministry, or, like Bandi, traveling the<br />
world; by being willing to see the world<br />
with God’s eyes and touch people with<br />
His heart of love, the world around you<br />
can be forever changed! You don’t have<br />
to leave your zip code to impact the<br />
world, you can make a world of difference<br />
every single day, right where you<br />
are, as long as your heart, mind, and soul<br />
are in the right place… in line with the<br />
heart of God!<br />
As a matter of fact, do everything that<br />
way, heartily and freely to God's glory.<br />
~1 Corinthians 10:31 (MSG)<br />
Delivering books to kids who’ve never had one, Luang Prabang, Laos<br />
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A Look<br />
in the<br />
Mirror<br />
by Jean Roach<br />
Iwas sitting at the kitchen table looking at myself<br />
in my hand mirror when my Dad walked in.<br />
I let him know by my expression that I<br />
considered his presence an intrusion, that I wanted<br />
to be left alone, and that I wasn’t in the mood to<br />
hear anything he had to say.<br />
“What are you doing?”<br />
I thought it was obvious what I was doing, but to<br />
cut the conversation short, I answered him tersely,<br />
“Looking at myself in the mirror.”<br />
After a few silent seconds, I asked what every<br />
teenage girl wants to know,<br />
“Daddy, am I pretty?”<br />
“You’re beautiful!” He responded without<br />
hesitation.<br />
I put the mirror down and let him know in no<br />
uncertain terms that I knew exactly what he was<br />
doing. “Daddy, you have to say I’m beautiful! You’re<br />
my father. That’s your job!”<br />
My father laughed. “It’s not my job! I don't have<br />
to say anything. You are Beautiful! Why did you ask<br />
me if you don’t believe me?”<br />
“It is your job!” I argued with him. “That’s the<br />
job God gives all fathers. Fathers have to tell their<br />
daughters they are beautiful. I just wanted to see if<br />
you do your job and tell the truth.”<br />
My father continued to laugh. He could be so irritating.<br />
How dare he call me beautiful and expect me<br />
to believe it! Everybody told me that I looked just like<br />
him and he certainly was not my idea of beautiful.<br />
Besides, I had the mirror; I could see my blemishes.<br />
The only thing that bothered me was that I could also<br />
see my father’s eyes. I could tell by the way that he<br />
looked at me that he really believed that I was beautiful.<br />
I wasn’t sure which to believe -- my mirror or my<br />
father’s eyes.<br />
It would not be until years later when my own<br />
children were born that I would understand that both<br />
my father and I had been right. I was beautiful and<br />
it was his job to tell me. Parents see a beauty beyond<br />
the senses, a beauty called into being by the one who<br />
recognizes it. We parents believe in our heart that<br />
our child will make a difference in this world.<br />
God the Father is the same. He tells us in the Book<br />
of Isaiah,“… You are precious… in my sight.”<br />
(Isaiah 43:4) NIV<br />
Some of us hold God the Father at arm’s length<br />
and argue with Him in our hearts because we see<br />
only our blemishes of sin and failure and weakness,<br />
and we believe we could not possibly be precious.<br />
When the Father looks at us, He sees only what He<br />
created us to be. He sees the beauty of our gifts and<br />
talents, kindness, generosity, humility and justice, and<br />
He constantly calls that beauty into being. He<br />
believes in His heart, that His children will make a<br />
difference in this world. Each of us has to decide<br />
which to believe, the voice of deception or the voice<br />
of the One Who created us.<br />
Let us allow the beauty within us to come forth<br />
so that, as we grow, we look more and more like our<br />
heavenly Father.<br />
Let us ask for the grace to believe as the Psalmist:<br />
“…You have created my inmost being; You knit<br />
me together in my mother’s womb. I praise You<br />
because I am fearfully and<br />
wonderfully made;<br />
Your works are<br />
wonderful…”<br />
(Psalm 139: 13-<br />
14) NIV v<br />
You are<br />
precious<br />
…in my sight.”<br />
Isaiah 43:4 NIV<br />
Jean Roach resides in Gainesville, FL.<br />
She has led an intercessory prayer for<br />
more than 35 years and helps people<br />
know the love of God through her publications.<br />
Jean has five grandchildren.<br />
We asked our readers to share what<br />
they have done to find worth and<br />
acceptance in the eyes of others…<br />
I have done many stupid things to<br />
be accepted. None of them ever<br />
worked & most backfired on me.<br />
I've cheated, lied, & stolen… only<br />
the Lord knows what else! Once in<br />
the sixth grade, I voted for myself<br />
twice in a contest. I got caught because<br />
I had folded the two pieces of<br />
paper together. I had to confess to<br />
the teacher what I had done. I<br />
praise God that I don’t have to do<br />
anything for Him to accept me. I<br />
thank Him that old things have<br />
passed away! ~Jessie<br />
a<br />
It was "Amateur Night" at the Ft.<br />
Worth Texas Rodeo. I had a date<br />
and decided to ride a bull in the<br />
arena, as I was aiming to "impress"<br />
my lady. Impress her I did. I rode the<br />
bull, a big white Brahma, for eight<br />
seconds--- then leapt off and ran as<br />
fast as I could for the stands, where<br />
I dove in head first--- just ahead of<br />
the bull. ~John W.<br />
a<br />
I tried to be trim and healthy to<br />
make my husband and others proud.<br />
~Anonymous<br />
a<br />
When I was in college, I took a fire<br />
truck for a joy ride through the campus.<br />
My buddy and I were driving<br />
around with the siren and lights on<br />
trying to impress the ladies. We<br />
even called out to them on the PA<br />
system. In the end, we got the fire<br />
truck stuck in a ditch and landed in<br />
a whole lot of trouble! No, I was not<br />
chemically impaired; this was my<br />
“normal” behavior! ~Nate<br />
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Kenny Vaughan<br />
It was 1977. I was a fifth grader and a pretty good<br />
athlete. Baseball was my favorite sport; in fact, I had<br />
made all-stars every year since five pitch. By accident,<br />
I discovered that I was good at track too. The junior<br />
high school track coach came over to the elementary<br />
school one day looking for two kids to run on the jr.<br />
high track team. The whole school ran 100-yard<br />
dashes to determine who would run with the older<br />
kids. By the end of the week, I found myself on the<br />
jr. high track team.<br />
All of a sudden, I went from just another kid in<br />
school, to a kid almost everyone knew about. Even the<br />
junior high kids knew that I was fast. Talk about a confidence<br />
boost! Over the next two years, I grew in popularity.<br />
I was in the “in crowd” and sitting at the<br />
“who’s who” table with all of the other popular kids.<br />
But then came puberty. It happened in the eighth<br />
grade. It seemed everyone in school hit their growth<br />
spurt except for me. All around me, voices deepened<br />
and facial hair sprouted, but I<br />
stayed a child. In the ninth<br />
grade, I measured a whopping<br />
4 foot 10 inches tall. All<br />
of a sudden, these “men”<br />
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didn’t want the little boy around. My friends who normally<br />
saved me a seat at lunch were now sending me<br />
away with the excuse, "Someone is sitting there".<br />
I started eating alone to avoid the embarrassment<br />
of having them send me away, only to pull up an<br />
extra chair for someone else. As I look back, I don’t<br />
think that they were trying to be mean; they were<br />
just trying to protect their image. To top off this<br />
rejection, my small frame hindered me from excelling<br />
in the sports that I had always loved and dominated.<br />
Imagine going from the best kid in the league, to a<br />
kid who didn’t even make the baseball team in ninth<br />
grade. I was pretty heart broken.<br />
One day as I sat alone, I began to notice<br />
something that I had never noticed before… other<br />
kids were sitting alone at lunch too. Rather than sit<br />
by myself, I began to join them and I realized they<br />
were really nice kids. What shocked me the most was<br />
how they viewed my old friends. They saw the<br />
popular kids as confident, strong, and courageous. If<br />
only they knew the “real” kids behind the masks.<br />
What bothered me the most was how I had<br />
ignored these kids for years out of selfishness; I had<br />
never thought about them because I was too busy<br />
thinking about myself. I also struggled with realizing<br />
how much value I had placed on myself because of<br />
my performance.<br />
Well by eleventh grade I finally grew (not much as<br />
I'm still only 5' 5"), but I was finally taller than the<br />
shortest girl in school! I was also beginning to<br />
excel in water skiing, which of course got me<br />
an invitation back to the “cool” table. Only<br />
thing was… I really didn't want to sit<br />
there anymore. I had made new friends,<br />
friends who had accepted me for me,<br />
not because of my performances.<br />
I learned so much in high school, probably the<br />
most valuable life lessons I could have ever learned.<br />
I learned that everyone has value and that value isn’t<br />
based on his or her performances. I also learned how<br />
important it is to make sure people know that they<br />
have value. Coach Lewis taught me this lesson.<br />
Everyday when I walked past his room, he would call<br />
out my name. To this day I don’t know why, but boy<br />
did it make me feel good to be acknowledged. Sometimes,<br />
I would walk all the way around the school<br />
just to pass his room before going to my next class,<br />
which was right next-door! He encouraged me every<br />
single day through a simple greeting. I’ve always<br />
tried to do the same. I do my best to listen as intently<br />
to a guy living on the street, as I do a General Officer<br />
at the Pentagon.<br />
Acts 10:34 says that God does not show<br />
favoritism; He isn’t a respecter of persons. He loves<br />
us all the same, whether we sit at the popular table<br />
or not. We all have value to Him, so much so that He<br />
sent His most precious possession (His Son) to die<br />
for us all. He allowed Himself to be nailed to a cross<br />
for you and for me based on His love for us, not our<br />
performances. Get that truth in your heart and it will<br />
change everything!<br />
Jesus is the perfect example for us to follow in all<br />
areas of our lives, but especially in relationships with<br />
people. He gave His all for us, regardless of who they<br />
were and what they had done. We often hold back<br />
because of fear; fear of what other’s may think and<br />
fear of what it may cost us. Perfect love casts out all<br />
fear (I John 4:18). Lay those fears aside and believe<br />
enough in your own value to make a sacrifice for<br />
someone else no matter how much it cost. In that<br />
place of sacrifice, you will truly find life, joy, peace,<br />
and worth. v<br />
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OH!<br />
OH!<br />
How He LOVES us!<br />
How He LOVES us!<br />
He is jealous for me…<br />
Loves like a hurricane,<br />
I am a tree, bending<br />
beneath the weight of<br />
His wind and mercy.<br />
When all of a sudden,<br />
I am unaware of these<br />
afflictions eclipsed by<br />
glory and I realize just<br />
how beautiful You are<br />
and how great Your<br />
affections are for me!<br />
And OH…<br />
How He loves us so!<br />
McMillan, John Mark. “How He Loves.”<br />
Lyrics. The Song Inside the Sounds of<br />
Breaking Down. Integrity Media, 2010.<br />
by Brad Williams<br />
“I just love that outfit.” “Oh, I love this recipe.”<br />
The examples are many. We use the word love in so<br />
many different ways and contexts, it seems as if we<br />
have forgotten exactly what it means, or even what<br />
it implies.<br />
Even when it comes to the love of God, we tend<br />
to speak of it the way we do most anything else:<br />
tritely and overwhelmingly shallow. While we may<br />
acknowledge God’s love as something that is real<br />
and perhaps present, why does it often seem to<br />
move us so little?<br />
One of the most profound truths found in the<br />
Bible is that God loved us enough to give Himself for<br />
us. One verse in the Bible sums up the gospel truth<br />
of God’s love like no other verse in all of Scripture:<br />
John 3:16. This verse is widely known and often<br />
quoted, yet it seems as if we have missed what God’s<br />
Word is saying to us.<br />
Most people know this verse by heart, “For God<br />
so loved the world, that He gave His only Son, that<br />
whoever believes in Him should not perish but have<br />
eternal life.” Many Christians quote it, and many<br />
preachers preach it, but the question is ... Do we really<br />
understand what John is saying? Having a proper<br />
understanding of John 3:16 will shape how we understand<br />
the ministry of Christ, the love of the Father,<br />
and the power of the gospel.<br />
For many, when they read John 3:16, they focus<br />
on whom God loves. Now, no doubt God’s love does<br />
reach the world-- which I certainly think is a point to<br />
be made here--but that is not the main point.<br />
The primary purpose in John 3:16 is to tell how<br />
God loves. The word “so” is a Greek word that is<br />
more appropriately translated, thus or in this way. So,<br />
when we look at the verse we should actually read it<br />
as follows: “For God loved the world in this way: He<br />
gave His only Son, that whoever believes in Him<br />
should not perish but have eternal life.”<br />
As we see, John’s focus is not just to show the width<br />
of God’s love--to whom it is extended. Rather, John is<br />
showing us the unfathomable depth of God’s love.<br />
The gospel is not merely a call to faith; it is a call<br />
to live in the reality of the deep, rich love of God. We<br />
must understand that God did not merely say I love<br />
you, He demonstrated His love by giving His perfect<br />
Son as a sacrifice to atone for our sin.<br />
Humanity was separated from God by the curse<br />
of sin, and God restored our relationship by giving<br />
us Jesus. Both the faith and the life that flow through<br />
the power of the cross are the result of God’s love.<br />
Why do we trust God? Because He showed us His<br />
love and trustworthiness through the cross, that is why.<br />
Why do we enjoy eternal life? God’s love for us<br />
through the cross has given us new life in Christ.<br />
What John gives us here is “love in action.” That<br />
is, God has not only confessed to love us, He has<br />
proven how much He loves us by giving His Son as a<br />
ransom for the souls of His people.<br />
This is the vertical side of the equation-the aspect<br />
dealing specifically with our relationship with God.<br />
There is, however, a horizontal aspect as well-how<br />
God’s gift of love effects how God’s people reflect<br />
that love to others.<br />
God’s sacrificial love<br />
must be the pattern for<br />
how we love others.<br />
Jesus makes that clear in John 15:13, when He<br />
says, “Greater love has no one than this, that someone<br />
lay his life down for his friends.” What makes<br />
this statement so remarkable is that Jesus was about<br />
to lay His life down for His people, as His own expression<br />
of love.<br />
Naturally, we will never make the same sacrifice<br />
Jesus did because His was redemptive and unique.<br />
We are, however, called to show love primarily in sacrificing<br />
for the good of others. God the Father laid<br />
down the life of God the Son that He might redeem<br />
us and call us His friends.<br />
Why do we serve or sacrifice? Will it merit God’s<br />
love? Will it make us more appealing to God? Absolutely<br />
not! We serve and sacrifice; we love because<br />
we are the recipients of the richest, purest, most effectual<br />
love of all. To lay down our lives for the good<br />
of others is to humbly serve them before we serve<br />
ourselves. It is to shoulder their burdens and enter<br />
into their struggles with no thought of being repaid.<br />
Why is the church called upon to love in this way?<br />
Simple… it is the example that has been set before<br />
us. The sacrifice of God is the seal of His deep love for<br />
His church. Likewise, the church shows that she is<br />
God’s by seeking to reflect His love to all people.<br />
The gospel is the message of hope and redemption.<br />
It is the Good News that sin and death have<br />
been crushed by the power of the cross. The foundation<br />
upon which the gospel is built is the deep love of<br />
God. His love saves us, His love empowers us to trust,<br />
and His love liberates us to serve and love others. v<br />
Brad Williams graduated from<br />
Reformed Theological Seminary and<br />
is the pastor of Keystone Heights<br />
Presbyterian Church in Keystone<br />
Heights, FL. He is the husband of<br />
Rachel and father of 4 children.<br />
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We asked our readers to share what<br />
they have done to find worth and<br />
acceptance in the eyes of others…<br />
When I was a college student in<br />
Boone, NC, some friends and I<br />
jumped off a dam that was 40 feet<br />
above a rushing river. One of the<br />
guys bet no one would dive into the<br />
water. I took the challenge, but I<br />
ended up hitting the rush of water<br />
that was coming up from the bottom.<br />
I blacked out and floated faceup<br />
50 yards down stream. I am<br />
thankful to be alive! ~George W.<br />
a<br />
I started smoking to impress my<br />
ex-husband. Finally, 20 years later, I<br />
quit to make my son proud of me.<br />
~Julie D.<br />
a<br />
I once created a “Phantom of the<br />
Opera” costume and walked into a<br />
restaurant dressed as the Phantom<br />
to deliver my husband a dozen yellow<br />
roses along with two tickets to<br />
front row seats to see the “Phantom<br />
of the Opera on Broadway.”<br />
He was not only impressed,<br />
but also surprised. ~Deborah<br />
a<br />
While in jr. and sr. high school,<br />
I faked my belief in Jesus. This<br />
pleased my parents and school authorities.<br />
But in the end, it didn’t<br />
satisfy me. My conclusion - you<br />
can't fake your belief. It is binary -<br />
either you believe in Jesus Christ or<br />
you don’t. You can't have it both<br />
ways. You have to get off the fence.<br />
~Roger<br />
a<br />
To be like my friend who was a bird<br />
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