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REAL PEOPLE | REAL STORIES | REAL HOPE<br />

Fall <strong>2012</strong><br />

See Yourself<br />

As God Sees You!<br />

Second<br />

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Pittsburgh Theological Seminary and is a resident of the Lake Area<br />

Region. Thirty years of experience in evangelism and pastoring took place<br />

in Pennsylvania, Ohio, West Virginia, Tennessee, and Florida. This<br />

includes the United Methodist Church, Southern Baptist, Church of God,<br />

Charismatic, and street ministry to the homeless.<br />

The writer’s passion is for winning souls, making disciples, and exalting<br />

the Lord Jesus Christ. He currently leads interdenominational weekly<br />

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FROM THE PUBLISHER<br />

Freedom Is Waiting For You!<br />

As each deadline for<br />

Victorious Living approaches,<br />

I find myself in a battle with<br />

fear. I become afraid that<br />

the current issue won’t be<br />

as impacting as the last,<br />

that people won’t submit<br />

their heartfelt stories, or that we<br />

won’t have the financial support to go to press. Oh<br />

me of little faith! Once again, God has proven His<br />

faithfulness to bring to completion what He put in<br />

my heart to begin over a year ago. He has stirred the<br />

hearts of people to share their life stories and He has<br />

stirred the hearts of people to give financially. To all<br />

involved, I say, “Thank You!” With God at work, I am<br />

excited to present to you another incredible issue<br />

filled with truth that I believe will spur you on to victory<br />

in your daily life journey.<br />

In this issue, I pray you find freedom! Freedom from<br />

comparisons and freedom from the lie that constantly<br />

tells you, “You’re not enough!” so that you can rest<br />

in God’s truth that “You’re His treasured possession,<br />

worth everything to Him!” It’s my hope that you find<br />

freedom to enjoy life in your present circumstances<br />

and that you enjoy being YOU! It’s time to throw off<br />

the self-hate and self-pity and celebrate who you are<br />

in the sight of God… His unique masterpiece!<br />

Oh how I have longed for this freedom! I’ve spent<br />

my whole life “doing” things in order to feel like I am<br />

“enough” in the world’s eyes and more importantly,<br />

in my own eyes, as I am my toughest critic. I’ve often<br />

laid aside my convictions to join in with the crowd, so<br />

that I could find acceptance. I’ve worked myself to exhaustion<br />

to accomplish “things” that gave me a sense<br />

of achievement. I’ve based my worth on my performance<br />

in sports, school, appearance, and the amount<br />

of things that I’ve accomplished during a given day.<br />

But in the process, I’ve often felt unfulfilled, unloved,<br />

ugly, worthless, guilty, and exhausted.<br />

As I look back over my life, I have to laugh at my<br />

foolishness. For years, I have tried so hard to be perfect<br />

in the way I present myself to people and interact<br />

with them. I have tried to have the perfect home and<br />

ministry. I’ve tried to be the perfect mom, wife, daughter,<br />

and friend. I’ve pushed myself academically and<br />

athletically to achieve great success and BE who I<br />

thought I should BE. But in the midst of my<br />

perfection-driven, performance-based<br />

life, I have fought a tremendous fear<br />

that someone might actually view<br />

me as “perfect.” I fear someone<br />

may look at my life and say, “Boy, she has it all<br />

together!” Not a win-win situation, huh?<br />

Trying to find our worth in the things we do, in the<br />

way we look, or by the amount of things we have is<br />

a dangerous cycle. It almost destroyed me! As I<br />

pushed myself daily to perfection, I set out on a quest<br />

to counteract any appearance of “having it all together”<br />

by verbally announcing to those in my presence<br />

all of my flaws. I began to speak negatively about<br />

myself, so that people wouldn’t think that I thought I<br />

was anything special. I would remark about how stupid,<br />

forgetful, ugly and fat I was, so that my “friends”<br />

would know for certain that I wasn’t arrogant. This<br />

was my form of humility.<br />

But after years of speaking such horrible things<br />

over my life, I began to believe them. In the end when<br />

I looked in the mirror, I began to see ugly, fat, and stupid.<br />

I began to see a worthless reflection. I didn’t see<br />

anything special and certainly not anything God could<br />

love or use. It has taken me a decade of consciously<br />

and consistently replacing the lies I’ve spoken over my<br />

life and the lies Satan has fed me with God’s truth to<br />

finally come to a place where I actually enjoy my life<br />

and enjoy being who God created me to be. Although<br />

I have not entered into a place of complete freedom,<br />

I can say with excitement that I am much closer than<br />

I was years, months, and even days ago! The more I<br />

look into God’s mirror (His Word), meditating on His<br />

truths and walking in His ways, I am discovering freedom.<br />

I am finding rest, peace, and joy.<br />

My friend, I want to encourage you to embark on<br />

this journey of freedom. Quit spinning your wheels like<br />

I’ve done, (and our contributors have done) trying to<br />

be that person that you think you have to be. Rather,<br />

come to Christ and realize who you already are in His<br />

eyes… ENOUGH.<br />

God doesn’t expect perfection, that’s why He sent<br />

His Son, Jesus, the ONLY perfect One. God is simply<br />

looking for a perfect heart towards Him, a heart that<br />

is willing to love, willing to be lead by His Spirit, and<br />

willing to persevere in His strength. Come to Him, all<br />

you who are weary and tired and worn, enter into His<br />

presence, enter into His truth, and find freedom. In<br />

that place of freedom, you will find rest mentally, emotionally,<br />

physically, and spiritually!<br />

May God bless you on your journey!<br />

“Where the Spirit of the<br />

Lord is, there is freedom.”<br />

II Corinthians 3:17<br />

“And you shall know the<br />

truth, and the truth shall<br />

set you free!” John 8:32<br />

Publisher/Editor<br />

Kristi Overton Johnson<br />

Assistant Editor<br />

Melinda Rodgers<br />

Publication Advisors<br />

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Contributors<br />

Vanessa Ashley<br />

Col. Dale Collie<br />

Ron Curll<br />

Renee' Harp<br />

Bonnie Hagemann<br />

Kristi Overton Johnson<br />

Michele Klein<br />

Maureen Lendzion<br />

Carolyn Massey<br />

Bandi Morford<br />

Carey Morford<br />

Rob Morford<br />

Nate Miller<br />

Ann Prevatt<br />

Jean Roach<br />

Angie Sapp<br />

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Brad Williams<br />

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Victorious Living is published quarterly in Keystone Heights,<br />

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MISSION<br />

The mission of Victorious Living is to<br />

provide hope for the heart and help for life<br />

through the inspirational stories of people<br />

just like you. We commit to provide REAL<br />

STORIES by REAL PEOPLE so you can<br />

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REFRESH YOUR SOUL<br />

See Yourself As God Sees You By<br />

Kristi Overton Johnson<br />

As I reflect on my career as a professional water skier, it was amazing. I was<br />

blessed to travel the world. I made friends on every continent and spent precious<br />

time with my family doing something we loved to do. I even got paid to ski. It<br />

doesn’t get any better than that!<br />

As I look back over my childhood, I can honestly say that I don’t have one bad<br />

memory. Trust me, I realize how blessed I am to be able to make that statement.<br />

I had (and thankfully still have) incredible parents who loved me and supported<br />

me in every way possible.<br />

Within the walls of my home, I was protected and shielded from the evils of the<br />

world. I was spared the horrors so many people go through... things such as abuse,<br />

addictive behaviors, domestic turmoil, or being belittled by poisoned words.<br />

My parents loved me as God intended parents to love their children. As their<br />

daughter I felt loved, safe, able to do anything, and special. I can still remember<br />

my father coming into my room every night singing, “T-H-E-R-E she is, M-I-S-S<br />

America.” Then he would proceed to tell me a story about how “Little Kristi would<br />

become the best skier in the whole world.”<br />

Yet somewhere along my life journey, even in the midst of what some may call<br />

a “perfect” environment, my self-image and sense of self-worth became very<br />

twisted. It wasn’t until my mid-thirty’s that I began to unravel, one by one, patterns<br />

of wrong thinking that had been holding me in secret bondage for decades.<br />

My journey to freedom began in 2005, through a young girl from Mexico<br />

named Lorenza. Lorenza was a teenage water skier, who had come to live with us<br />

in order to improve her water skiing skills. She quickly became a part of our family.<br />

We enjoyed training her, but more importantly, we enjoyed her!<br />

During her time with us, we took Lorenza to many competitions. For the first time in<br />

my career, I stood on the shoreline anxiously watching someone I loved compete, someone<br />

I had spent hours training. More than anything I wanted Lorenza to do her best,<br />

not for me, but for her! I knew how hard she had trained, I knew how well she had been<br />

skiing, and I knew how much performing well on the water would mean to her.<br />

At one particular tournament, Lorenza fell short of her goals. After she had a moment<br />

to dry off and collect her equipment, we piled into the car and headed home.<br />

From the backseat of the car, Lorenza softly said in her Spanish accent, “I’m sorry<br />

I disappointed you.”<br />

I couldn’t believe my ears. Disappointed me? How could she think that she had let<br />

me down? I loved her. I was proud of her. I wasn’t disappointed in her; I was disappointed<br />

for her. I didn’t care how she skied; I just wanted her to be happy and fulfilled.<br />

As I looked at her reflection in the car mirror, I suddenly saw myself as a child<br />

sitting in the backseat of my family car heading home from a water ski tournament.<br />

I could see myself, like Lorenza, filled with sadness as my parents drove us<br />

home. It was one of those, “Ah-ha!” moments. I finally got it. All of those times I<br />

sat in the back of the car thinking that my parents were disappointed in me and<br />

my performance was a lie. They weren’t disappointed in me; they were disappointed<br />

FOR me. There is a HUGE difference.<br />

For years, I traded the truth for a lie. The truth was my parents loved me. Yes,<br />

they wanted me to perform well, but my performance didn’t change how they felt<br />

about me, their daughter, just as it didn’t change how I felt about Lorenza. But as<br />

a young child, my brain didn’t know how to process what was going on. During<br />

the ride home, my mind reasoned the only thing that seemed logical, that my parents<br />

must be disappointed. They had spent so much time, effort, and money on<br />

me… surely I needed to ski well to make it all worthwhile!<br />

How relieved I was to finally grasp this truth. I began to wonder how many<br />

other lies I had bought into over the years. I began to pray as David, “Search me,<br />

O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. Point out anything<br />

in me that offends You, and lead me along the path of everlasting life”<br />

(Psalms 139:23-24 NLT).<br />

I wanted God to expose these lies one by one. I wanted to replace them with<br />

His truth, so that I could be truly free. Over the coming years, God was faithful to<br />

gently reveal memories from my childhood where I had accepted the lie as truth.<br />

You may be asking, what’s the big deal? The big deal is that these lies had become<br />

the foundation for my life. They were the driving force behind my words and<br />

actions. They impacted my self-worth and brought thoughts of condemnation and<br />

guilt into my heart and mind. They twisted people’s innocent comments into something<br />

negative causing me to react in a defensive manner.<br />

The thought pattern of never achieving enough created a sense of self-hatred<br />

and even hopelessness that led me to occasional thoughts of suicide. I remember<br />

having the thought of wrapping the rope around my neck or skiing in front of the<br />

boat in order to end the internal madness. I even endured patterns of physical<br />

sickness because of my sense of not “doing” enough. For most of my career, I<br />

suffered with tremendous stomach pain because of the internal pressure that I<br />

placed on myself to perform well.<br />

This thought pattern of being a disappointment impacted my life for decades.<br />

It impacted relationships, even my relationship with God. Surely God was disappointed<br />

in me when I made a mistake?<br />

Through Lorenza, God showed me that not only were my parents not disappointed<br />

in me, but also He wasn’t disappointed in me either. Yes, there are times<br />

when God may be disappointed because I fail to walk in obedience and receive<br />

all that He has for me, but His love for me always remains. His love isn’t based on<br />

my performance in life; it is based on the fact that I am His child.<br />

The only reason that I share these personal things is with the hope that someone,<br />

maybe even you, will find freedom. I don’t think I am the only person who has<br />

defined himself or herself by the way they see themselves or by the things they<br />

thought someone did or didn’t say. I can only imagine the lies that could be built<br />

in the heart of a person whose parents never told them they were loved or who told<br />

them they would never amount to anything. Or the wrong belief<br />

pattern that could emerge in the life of a woman who has been told she is ugly,<br />

fat, and worthless by people she should have been able to trust. It’s easy to see why<br />

someone would turn to substances, relationships, and behaviors to ease the pain.<br />

I’ve experienced this struggle<br />

between the lies of the world<br />

and the truth of God<br />

over and over<br />

again. I’ve also<br />

seen it in the<br />

lives of my<br />

own family,<br />

especially<br />

my children.<br />

continued<br />

on page 7 4<br />

Kristi with her son<br />

Ty and daughter<br />

in Christ, Lorenza<br />

6 www.championsheart.org


3 According to John 10:10, Satan’s purpose is to bring destruction into the lives of God’s<br />

people. One way he does this is through our thoughts. Satan knows that if he can get you to<br />

grab hold of a lie, especially at an early age, he will have a greater chance of sabotaging your<br />

victory, as you grow older. It is only through examining our thoughts, exposing the lies, and<br />

meditating on the truth that we can truly find victory (II Corinthians 10:5).<br />

Our family has been on a journey to discover truth and expose Satan’s lies for years. One<br />

by one we are throwing off the lies that entangle us, so that we can run the race of life victoriously.<br />

Below are a few examples of how we are uncovering Satan’s lies within the young<br />

minds of our children.<br />

When we adopted our youngest two children, Dalton and Ivy, from Russia, our oldest biological<br />

son, Ty, entered into a wrestling contest with negative thoughts that could have easily<br />

led him down a path of destruction.<br />

As you can imagine, there was a lot of excitement surrounding our international adoption.<br />

Everywhere we went, people asked questions about the adoption and wanted to see the<br />

“new” children. Although Tim and I were extra careful to continually remind Ty how much we<br />

loved him through our words and actions, we had some tough competition. Satan was flooding<br />

his seven-year-old mind with lies that everyone loved his brother and sister more.<br />

How freeing it was for Ty to admit those thoughts, to replace the lie with the truth that he<br />

is loved and that our love for him runs deep. Can you imagine if he had continued building<br />

his life on the lie that we loved our other children more? He would have always felt second<br />

best. Every action that Tim and I ever took towards the younger children would have had the<br />

undertone that we loved them more. This would have created a cycle of hate and jealousy.<br />

A lie that truly broke my heart was exposed one night while I was reading to my youngest<br />

son, Dalton, a bedtime story about a lion named Leo. Everywhere Leo went people ran away<br />

from him because they were afraid. At the end of the story Dalton looked at me and said,<br />

“Momma, I’m like Leo the lion.”<br />

I was confused and asked him to explain what he meant. Dalton responded with these<br />

words, “Nobody wanted me either.” He began to explain how people would come into the<br />

orphanage and take home other children, leaving him behind. “Something was wrong with<br />

me, Momma, or they would have picked me.”<br />

I quickly looked at Dalton and responded with these words of truth, “Dalton, those people<br />

couldn’t pick you because God was saving you for me! God closed their eyes to you and<br />

shut the doors for them to adopt you, so that you could come live with us.”<br />

You should have seen the light in his eyes! He looked at me and said, “That makes perfect<br />

sense!”<br />

Can you imagine how a lifetime of believing that something is wrong with you, that no one<br />

wants you, would impact your life? Throw that thought on top of the other thoughts Dalton<br />

wrestled with ... thoughts of being stupid because of his dyslexia, thoughts of not being<br />

wanted because of his adoption, thoughts of Tim and I leaving him like others had left him<br />

in the past. Unless these thoughts were exposed and replaced with the truth, he had little<br />

hope of victory!<br />

Even my daughter has been in a constant battle with wrong thought patterns. Ivy grew up<br />

in a hospital in Russia where there was little food and little interaction with people. Ivy survived<br />

because she was a fighter. Since our adoption, Ivy and I have been on a journey to walk<br />

in truth. As we have replaced the lie that she can’t trust anyone, a lie that often causes her<br />

to constantly fight for her rights, I have seen God begin to transform her into a gentle, generous,<br />

and loving child.<br />

Satan is tricky. He starts at a young age filling our minds with thoughts that create fear<br />

about our future, doubts about our worth, and distrust towards people and even God. It’s time<br />

to expose his dirty little lies and rebuild your life on God’s truth. It’s time to tear down faulty<br />

foundations that rob you of your worth, joy, and peace. It’s time to see yourself as God<br />

sees you… perfect enough, beautiful, unique, filled with purpose, and worth everything<br />

to God. As you see yourself in the light of His truth, everything in your life will change and<br />

victory will come. v<br />

Kristi Overton Johnson is the founder of Champion’s Heart and<br />

In His Wakes, divisions of KOJ Ministries. Kristi currently resides in the<br />

Lake Area Region with her husband, Tim, and three children.<br />

Table of Contents <strong>September</strong> <strong>2012</strong><br />

<strong>2012</strong> marks In His Wakes’ 10th year of<br />

ministering on the waters of the world.<br />

What a journey it has been… Our 10th season<br />

has been amazing so far thanks to the<br />

“Dream Team” and our faithful volunteers…<br />

6 See Yourself As God Sees You<br />

Kristi Overton Johnson<br />

8 Come Out Of The Bushes! Carey Morford<br />

9 Never a Loser Maureen Lendzion<br />

10 Second Chances Dale Collie<br />

11 Ministry News /<br />

On Earth As It Is In Heaven Angie Sapp<br />

12 A New Life Worth Living For! Ron Curll<br />

14 He's Enough! Carolyn Massey<br />

14 Don't Run the Red Light! Rob Morford<br />

15 Am I God's Masterpiece? Michele Klein<br />

16 Building Boats to the Glory of God<br />

Interview between Kristi Overton Johnson and Bill Yeargin<br />

17 Love and Service Kristi Overton Johnson<br />

18 God Always Gives You What You Need<br />

Vanessa Ashley<br />

19 Redeeming Love Ann Prevatt<br />

20 Ministry News<br />

21 Nate’s Dream Team Nate Miller<br />

22 Enjoying Being ME! Reneé Harp<br />

23 How Can I Know? Bonnie Hagemann<br />

24 Quitting Isn't An Option<br />

Champion's Heart Award<br />

Dan and Sue Plaster<br />

26 Coloring Outside the Lines Bandi Morford<br />

28 A Look in the Mirror Jean Roach<br />

29 Popular Kenny Vaughan<br />

read more on page 214<br />

30 Oh! How He Loves Me! Brad Williams<br />

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FRESH PERSPECTIVE<br />

Come OUT<br />

of the Bushes!<br />

by Carey Morford<br />

We are all Eve.<br />

For each one of us,<br />

there is a tree that<br />

stands somewhere in<br />

our brain, and it dangles<br />

tempting fruit. Fruit that<br />

seems juicy. Fruit that is<br />

so close we can reach out and grab it. Fruit that we<br />

have been told will kill us. Fruit that would be best<br />

left untouched.<br />

But, there is also a clever snake. Sometimes we<br />

give him space in our brain, and then he can slither<br />

his way into the truest parts of who we are. He says<br />

the fruit is delicious. He says the fruit will make us<br />

like God. He is the Deceiver, and he lies.<br />

We are all Eve, and we feel as though we can't<br />

help ourselves. We taste the fruit, and we share with<br />

our friends. And then the worst part happens. The<br />

slow death begins. We feel shame, and we hide. We<br />

hide from God, and we hide from our friends who<br />

shared in the tasting, in the killing, in the dis-trusting,<br />

in the too-slow-death.<br />

The shame and the hiding and the blaming, this is<br />

what the clever snake wanted more than anything.<br />

Because now, just like Adam and Eve were literally<br />

tangled in the bushes, we are figuratively all-tangled<br />

up in the lie. It isn't just that we mistakenly chose to<br />

eat the fruit, but now we have taken on the lies and<br />

are projecting that same lie- God can not be trusted<br />

and neither can our friends. We cannot risk exposing<br />

the most vulnerable parts of who we are.<br />

What an awful way to live- hiding in the bushes!<br />

But, the amazing truth that we see over and over<br />

again in Scripture and in present-day testimonies<br />

is that God never leaves us hiding and ashamed<br />

in the bushes. He is calling for each of us, "Where<br />

are you?"<br />

And even when we step out of the bushes<br />

pointing our fingers at each other, He is patient and<br />

kind and gentle.<br />

Are there consequences to our horrible choices?<br />

Of course! Do we all suffer because of all of these<br />

entangled lies and dis-trusting of the one true<br />

God? Yes.<br />

Even in the consequences and suffering, though,<br />

God offers grace. It might even be that the consequences<br />

are grace, because then we start to see<br />

clearly again. We start to see that before we listened<br />

to the clever snake, and believed his lies, and hid in<br />

our shame; life was good, and we start to long for<br />

those walks in the cool of the day when we could be<br />

close to the One who has always loved us. Those<br />

longings begin to speak of life again, and then, there<br />

is our God standing with arms stretched and stained,<br />

Carey Morford is the Media Specialist<br />

at Keystone Elementary and President<br />

of Seeds of Grace, Inc. Visit their site at<br />

Seedsofgrace-highridge.blogspot.com.<br />

She is married to her very best friend<br />

Isaac Morford, and they have two<br />

daughters, Layla and Rigby.<br />

not with the dirty juice of the fruit, but with the blood<br />

that will clean the shame and the sin.<br />

Sometimes, though, I think we must all suffer from<br />

spiritual amnesia, because so many of us know this<br />

to be true, and yet in our daily lives we continue to<br />

stuff ourselves with that fruit-of-the-too-slow-death.<br />

By now, we have a whole string of lies to stuff<br />

ourselves with. Sometimes they sound like Pride,<br />

"You are a smart girl. You can figure a way out of<br />

this mess. " Sometimes Shame and Fear speak up,<br />

"You always mess things up. If you tell anyone you've<br />

done it again, they won't love you." Sometimes it is<br />

a combination of both. In the end, though, it is<br />

always the same, "Just don't tell anyone." And the<br />

power of that snake and the secrets he has talked us<br />

into keeping begin to strangle us… every time.<br />

And sometimes we are almost dead before we<br />

are willing to finally let go and confess who we<br />

have become. However scary that honesty and<br />

vulnerability may seem to us, it is our only hope of<br />

salvation. v<br />

And even when we step out of the bushes pointing our fingers at each other,<br />

He is patient and kind and gentle.<br />

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y Maureen Lendzion<br />

NEVER<br />

A Loser<br />

For you created my<br />

inmost being; you knit<br />

me together in my<br />

mother’s womb.<br />

I praise you because<br />

I am fearfully and<br />

wonderfully made; your<br />

works are wonderful,<br />

I know that full well.<br />

Psalm 139:13-14 (NIV)<br />

Maureen Lendzion is enjoying<br />

self-employment as a special<br />

projects writer. She and her<br />

husband Dennis have been<br />

married 36 years and live in<br />

Orange Park, Florida.<br />

“And how old are you?”<br />

That seems a simple enough<br />

question to ask a four-year-old. Especially<br />

since my brother would have<br />

just proudly announced his age (11<br />

months older than me), just prior to<br />

my being asked the question.<br />

But that question, or any other<br />

that was spoken to me by an adult<br />

that I was not familiar with, brought<br />

about terror and the inability to respond.<br />

So I lived my early life trying<br />

to fly underneath everyone's radar,<br />

not making waves or trouble (that<br />

could get a kid noticed after all), and<br />

trying my best to be invisible.<br />

Overwhelming shyness made me<br />

uncomfortable in any social setting,<br />

school included. I didn't join in activities,<br />

though I so wanted to. I was<br />

an observer. It seemed the other<br />

kids had something I didn't. I<br />

couldn't identify it; they just<br />

seemed comfortable in their skin.<br />

How in the world do they do it? I<br />

would think, as I watched them volunteer<br />

for clubs, try out for sports, or-<br />

-scariest of all--raise their hands in<br />

class to answer a question. I envied<br />

their confidence. It was all very wearing<br />

and left me feeling like a loser.<br />

Shyness followed me throughout<br />

my school years ending with<br />

me tying for “Most Shy” for the<br />

senior superlatives to be published<br />

in the annual high school yearbook.<br />

Fortunately, I lost the title in the runoff<br />

vote.<br />

So imagine, years later, me at my<br />

high school reunion chatting happily<br />

with the very people I'd grown up<br />

with, those who knew me at my<br />

most meek and quiet self. And<br />

imagine their surprise, that I had<br />

built a career in public relations and<br />

public speaking.<br />

What, or who, changed me? God.<br />

For clarification, God didn't actually<br />

change me. He left me as He created<br />

me. What He did do though,<br />

was implant awareness into me that<br />

I am His wonderfully made creation.<br />

He had given me gifts that suited me<br />

and no one else. He put people in my<br />

path to encourage and teach me. Of<br />

course, God has done the same for<br />

you, but I'm hoping you were fortunate<br />

enough to understand it sooner.<br />

I don’t know why I didn't get the<br />

memo. My grandmother, who was<br />

such a major influence on my life,<br />

tried to help me understand how<br />

precious I was to both her and Jesus.<br />

My grandfather, a caring, small town<br />

pastor did his part too. But I could<br />

look around any room and see<br />

many, many people much more worthy<br />

of God's attention. I was, after<br />

all, just me.<br />

Had I listened to God's nudging<br />

earlier, who knows how my life may<br />

Each person is so<br />

special to God.<br />

So special that He<br />

has offered them a<br />

direct line to Him<br />

through Jesus, His<br />

most precious Son.<br />

have been different? I'll never know,<br />

unless God chooses to enlighten me.<br />

But I do believe with all my heart<br />

that I am in life where God wants<br />

me to be. It just may have taken<br />

longer to get here, than it might<br />

have. What life's trek has done for<br />

me is given me true compassion for<br />

those who continually feel “less<br />

than.” I understand the feeling of<br />

not measuring up; I can see it in<br />

someone's face, hear it in their voice,<br />

and feel it in a diverted glance.<br />

Do you ever feel less than, like a<br />

loser? If so, I’d like to remind you<br />

that you too, are God's amazing creation<br />

and when He looks at you, and<br />

me, He says, “They are good!” He<br />

smiles and takes great pleasure in<br />

His creation… us.<br />

Each person is so special to God.<br />

So special that He has offered them<br />

a direct line to Him through Jesus,<br />

His most precious Son. How fortunate<br />

does that make each and every<br />

one of us? Surely no loser ever gets<br />

an offer like that! v<br />

Want to help others realize they are champions?<br />

Go to our website at www.championsheart.org/our-ministries/getting-involved<br />

or use your smart phone to scan the QR code.<br />

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SECOND CHANCES<br />

by Dale Collie<br />

The beggar approached me on crutches, while I<br />

waited for the afternoon train from Crimea back to<br />

Kiev, Ukraine. He held out his palm to ask for money.<br />

When I said in Russian “Go away,” he recognized<br />

that I am American and said, “Can you give me<br />

money? I have leg trauma.”<br />

I thought, “Leg trauma?” I’ll show him leg<br />

trauma. I put my left foot on my luggage and raised<br />

my pants leg to show him my prosthesis, my souvenir<br />

of combat in Vietnam.<br />

He reached down and pulled his bandage away<br />

from the calf of his leg and showed me that he had<br />

a green tree leaf placed on a serious patch of<br />

gangrene. It was recognizable because that was the<br />

same cause of my own amputation years earlier.<br />

“My name is Michael,” he said. “I am sorry.”<br />

He turned on his crutches and quickly made his way<br />

across the crowded train platform.<br />

At that same time, my interpreter returned.<br />

Instead of explaining what happened, I handed him<br />

all the loose money in my pocket and asked, “If you<br />

can catch up with that beggar on crutches, give him<br />

this money.”<br />

When the interpreter caught up with him, the<br />

beggar looked across the people between us and<br />

placed his hand on his heart again, mouthing the<br />

words, “Thank you. I am sorry.”<br />

At that moment, the train pulled into the station<br />

and the crowded platform came alive as people<br />

started making their way to their assigned car.<br />

We hurried forward to car number fourteen and<br />

waited in line while the conductor checked tickets<br />

and passports.<br />

A touch on my shoulder surprised me. When<br />

I turned, Michael stood there with his hand out as<br />

though to shake hands. As our hands met, he twisted<br />

our wrists so that my hand was below his, and I felt<br />

something drop into my palm.<br />

Still holding hands, I asked, “What is it?”<br />

Michael said, “It is change.”<br />

I replied, “No Michael. I cannot take this,” thinking<br />

that he meant he was giving me change from the<br />

small amount of money that my interpreter had<br />

taken to him.<br />

No matter what<br />

has happened to<br />

us in this life,<br />

we have a<br />

second chance<br />

to go forward<br />

with Christ.<br />

“Yes. You must take it,” he said and removed his<br />

hand from mine.<br />

I could then tell that I had misunderstood the<br />

word “change.” Michael had said, “chain.”<br />

“Remember me,” said Michael. “Pray for me.”<br />

The conductor announced loudly that I must get<br />

aboard, so I turned and threw my luggage up to the<br />

place between the cars. I climbed up after the bags<br />

and dragged them into my compartment. Because it<br />

was so hot in the car, the window was pulled down<br />

immediately, and I stood with my elbows on the top<br />

edge of the glass watching Michael work the passengers<br />

who remained on the platform.<br />

When he passed beneath my window, I said his<br />

name aloud and let him see me put the chain over<br />

my head and drop around my neck.<br />

As the train whistle blew and we started to move,<br />

he had a helpless and pleading look in his eyes as he<br />

said again, “Pray for me.” We looked into each<br />

other’s eyes until the train rounded a slight curve and<br />

he was lost in the evening dusk.<br />

Time passed quickly, as the interpreter and I discussed<br />

things that remained to be done. When he<br />

announced that he would go to sleep, I said that I<br />

would make some notes in my journal and then sleep<br />

also.<br />

Many events of the day were recorded before I<br />

started writing about the incident on the train platform.<br />

When I came to the words, “I am sorry,” I<br />

paused to consider what was Michael sorry about.<br />

Was he sorry because of his wounds? Was he sorry<br />

because in me, he could see what would happen to<br />

his own leg? Was he sorry that I had lost a leg?<br />

In the end, I concluded that I was the one who<br />

should be sorry. My mission in Ukraine had been to<br />

help others, but when someone in real need stood<br />

before me and begged for help, I told him to go away.<br />

Each time the chain moved against my skin,<br />

I prayed for Michael.<br />

When we reached the train station in the morning,<br />

I gave the interpreter some money and asked him<br />

to try to find Michael as he returned through that city.<br />

And if it was possible, set up a time for the interpreter<br />

to go with Michael to the doctor to see what exactly<br />

was needed. I had a second chance to help Michael.<br />

All of that transpired, and I eventually got an<br />

email explaining that Michael needed a US$3.00 antibiotic<br />

injection and a US$0.75 tube of antibiotic<br />

cream to begin treatment of the gangrene.<br />

For the next year, I prayed for Michael many times,<br />

especially each time I felt the chain move against my<br />

skin. When the next visit was scheduled, the interpreter<br />

scheduled a time for me to meet with Michael<br />

in his city.<br />

It was on that occasion, that we found that good<br />

progress had been made in healing the gangrene.<br />

And it was also on that occasion, that Michael heard<br />

the Good News of Jesus Christ. As they say in<br />

Ukraine, he repented. We were honored with the opportunity<br />

to pray with him and celebrate his acceptance<br />

of Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior.<br />

Michael accepted his second chance to change<br />

his future, and I had another second chance to tell<br />

him about the One who can heal our bodies and<br />

our spirits.<br />

And there is a lesson in all of this that is even bigger<br />

still… the same second chances are available to<br />

all of us, over and over again. No matter what has<br />

happened to us in this life, we have a second chance<br />

to go forward with Christ. No matter what we’ve<br />

done in this life, we have the same chance to change<br />

things in Christ.<br />

We don’t have to overcome our obstacles alone.<br />

We’re probably just as helpless as Michael was when<br />

we first met that evening on the train platform. We<br />

can trust that God has a plan for us and that He will<br />

direct our footsteps if we accept Him and accept our<br />

own “second chances.” v<br />

Dale Collie is an author and professional<br />

speaker who uses the leadership skills of<br />

US Army Rangers to help key people<br />

succeed. Former professor at West Point<br />

and Fortune 500 Executive, Collie was<br />

named by business magazine, Fast<br />

Company,as one of America’s most<br />

innovative leaders for starting<br />

businesses in E. Europe to employ<br />

the impoverished and provide funds to<br />

impoverished orphanages.<br />

www.CourageBuilders.com<br />

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MINISTRY NEWS<br />

On Earth<br />

As It Is<br />

In Heaven<br />

What we are experiencing at Champion’s Heart is<br />

simply the Kingdom of God at hand (Mark 1:15).<br />

People are being healed, delivered, and experiencing<br />

miracles by the power of God. The most important<br />

lesson I am learning as the center’s director is the<br />

power of prayer. Through prayer, our clients are experiencing<br />

God in a powerful and intimate way. They are<br />

seeing Him meet their needs and heal their hearts.<br />

When a client comes into our officce, the first thing<br />

we do is access the reason for their visit and identify<br />

their needs. We then go to work matching the needs<br />

with the resources that are available. Through the last<br />

year and a half, we have developed incredible partnerships<br />

with county help agencies that can provide<br />

our clients with tangible resources. Many of these<br />

partnerships are conveniently located right here at<br />

Champion’s Heart in our office complex.<br />

Every person who calls or comes into our resource<br />

center is also offered the opportunity for prayer. Almost<br />

all accept. As we join hands in prayer, we begin<br />

to experience the presence and the power of God.<br />

This is the point where real ministry begins and the<br />

gospel of Jesus Christ is being fulfilled.<br />

Simply put, our clients experience God’s love at<br />

Champion’s Heart. We are in the blessing business<br />

and also the business of building relationships, as we<br />

love our clients to victory. Just the other day a woman<br />

we’ve been helping and ministering to said, “Every<br />

time I come here, I get blessed.”<br />

I would like to share a couple of testimonies showing<br />

God’s hand at work with our clients. I hope these<br />

testimonies encourage you and enable you to understand<br />

what God is doing on the earth and in the small<br />

town of Keystone Heights, Florida.<br />

The first testimony is of God delivering a woman<br />

from drug addiction. She started using drugs as a<br />

child around the age of nine. Family members also<br />

sexually abused her as a child, which has been the<br />

major cause for her drug use. Her drug of choice “has<br />

been” crack-cocaine.<br />

Now in her fifties, she told me of all the drug rehabilitation<br />

centers she has been to, along with all<br />

the professional counseling she’s received, and how<br />

she still hasn’t been able to get free from the drugs.<br />

By Angie Sapp,<br />

Champion’s Heart Life Resource Director<br />

I began to teach her about the healing, delivering,<br />

and restorative power of Jesus Christ.<br />

Awhile back, this woman came to our center and<br />

asked me to come outside. She pulled a crack pipe<br />

out of her truck, wrapped it in a paper towel, and<br />

then stomped it into pieces right there on the concrete!<br />

She said, ” Never again!”<br />

She recently visited us to celebrate her being drug<br />

free! Praise God! She has also started seeing the<br />

Mental Health Counselor at Clay Behavioral Health<br />

Center that is located in our Champion’s Heart<br />

Resource Center office complex.<br />

The next testimony I’m going to share is of the<br />

healing power of God that was experienced while<br />

praying for a woman who was diagnosed with thyroid<br />

cancer and several other mental, emotional, and<br />

physical problems. When we finished praying<br />

she began praising God and crying. She said, “As<br />

you were praying for healing in my body, I felt a<br />

sensation like electricity going to each part of my<br />

body as you prayed for it. I’ve never felt anything like<br />

that. I could feel it throughout my whole body!”<br />

I explained to her that what she felt was God’s power<br />

at work healing her body.<br />

Both of these individuals experienced for themselves<br />

the awesome power of God. God is revealing<br />

Himself to our clients in an intimate and powerful<br />

way. They are seeing for themselves how much He<br />

loves them and cares about every detail in their lives.<br />

As a result, their hope and faith is being restored.<br />

We here at Champion’s Heart know that it is not by<br />

our might or power, but it is by His Spirit (Zechariah<br />

4:6). We give all the glory to God and know that<br />

“apart from Him, we can do nothing” (John 15:5).<br />

We invite you to come visit our center in Keystone<br />

Heights! We’d love to show you firsthand what the<br />

Lord is doing in the lives of people from the Lake Area<br />

Region. We invite you to partner with us in prayer for<br />

the healing of our clients and we also invite you to<br />

become a financial partner. We need your support!<br />

“The Spirit of the Lord is upon me,<br />

for the Lord has anointed me to bring<br />

good news to the poor. He has sent me<br />

to comfort the brokenhearted and to<br />

proclaim that captives will be released and<br />

prisoners will be freed. He has sent me to<br />

tell those who mourn that the time of the<br />

Lord’s favor has come, and with it, the<br />

day of God’s anger against their<br />

enemies… He will give a crown of beauty<br />

for ashes, a joyous blessing instead of<br />

mourning, festive praise instead of despair.<br />

In their righteousness, they will be<br />

like great oaks that the Lord has planted<br />

for His own glory. They will revive them,<br />

though they have been deserted for many<br />

generations.” Isaiah 61: 1-5<br />

At Champion’s Heart, the gospel of the kingdom is<br />

going forth and we are experiencing the fulfillment<br />

of what was promised to us in Isaiah 61. v<br />

Angie Sapp lives in Melrose, FL with her<br />

husband and daughter. She received an<br />

AA from Santa Fe College, BA in<br />

Theology from Life Christian University,<br />

and is pursuing her BA in Psychology.<br />

Angie is the Life Resource Director at<br />

Champion’s Heart.<br />

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A New Life Worth Living For<br />

by Ron Curll<br />

I was raised in a loving Christian home. But growing<br />

up, I was more interested in being a part of what<br />

the world had to offer, than being a Christian. The<br />

result was faith that was weak at best.<br />

At the age of seven, I started competitive<br />

swimming in both summer and winter leagues and<br />

quickly began to accumulate awards. I spent a lot of<br />

time in the pool. Having asthma, swimming worked<br />

out well for me, as my asthma didn't seem to affect<br />

my swimming efforts, as it did during other sports.<br />

I enjoyed competing and spent most of my young<br />

adult years trying to improve myself and climb the<br />

podium of success.<br />

But in 1979, at the age of 32, my life changed<br />

forever. I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis.<br />

By early 1980, I was paralyzed from the waist down<br />

and given a prognosis of spending the rest of my life<br />

in a wheelchair.<br />

“For I know the<br />

plans I have for<br />

you,” says the Lord.<br />

“They are plans for<br />

good and not for<br />

disaster, to give you<br />

a future and a hope.”<br />

Jeremiah 29:11 NLT<br />

Being weak spiritually, I blamed God for my condition,<br />

rather than calling or leaning on Him.<br />

I could not imagine spending the rest of my life in<br />

a wheelchair. I viewed handicapped people as useless<br />

and worthless. That was not going to be me! I<br />

decided the only way out was to end my life.<br />

One evening, as I sat in my car, I prepared to end<br />

my life. My plan was to pull out in front of a fast<br />

moving truck. But God, in His mercy, had other plans<br />

for me, as He put the faces of my wife and two sons<br />

in the windshield. It was as if they were sitting<br />

on the hood of the car staring at me. Needless to say,<br />

I didn't pull out in front of the truck. I knew it was<br />

God who had saved me, but why? Even after this<br />

miracle, I was still angry with God and turned my<br />

back on Him.<br />

In the spring of 1980, I was reintroduced to<br />

swimming through an article in our local newspaper.<br />

The article announced that “wheelchair athletes”<br />

were coming to my local area to compete in a<br />

regional competition.<br />

“Wheelchair athletes. Now isn’t that an oxymoron?”<br />

I thought. Surely it must be a joke.<br />

My wife, Sue, pressured me to go. She knew how<br />

much I needed to be a part of something. Through<br />

her persistence, I gave in. As I watched these athletes,<br />

I couldn’t believe how good they were. I<br />

decided to give it a try.<br />

Starting back into swimming competition was as<br />

natural to me as a fish swimming in water. I just<br />

picked up where I had left off in high school. Within<br />

a year, I made the USA Team and was given the<br />

opportunity to represent my country in international<br />

competitions, including the Paralympics.<br />

Over the next few years, I accumulated five<br />

national records and two world records. In<br />

addition, I took up hand cycling and even<br />

competed in a marathon. My success<br />

and notoriety both in the pool and<br />

on the track grew.<br />

But sadly, as my athletic success<br />

grew, my faith weakened<br />

to the point of being almost<br />

non-existent. After all, I was<br />

doing quite well without<br />

God. I mean, look at all I had<br />

accomplished without Him. In<br />

1988, I retired from competitive<br />

swimming while at the top<br />

of my game, but I continued to<br />

live in spiritual darkness.<br />

Many years later, 1994 to<br />

be exact, I heard a small<br />

still voice say, “Ron, you<br />

need to go back to<br />

church.” After toiling with<br />

the idea, I finally asked my<br />

wife if she would like to go.<br />

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Perhaps you feel there is no hope.…<br />

I’ve felt as useless and as worthless<br />

as one could possibly feel. But<br />

I’m here to tell you, there is Hope<br />

and Hope’s name is Jesus.<br />

Ron Curll, author of Wheels<br />

of Faith, is an internationally<br />

ranked swimmer, gold medalist<br />

Paralympian, and wheelchair<br />

athlete. Ron resides in Greenville,<br />

NC with his wife, Sue. He still<br />

enjoys competing in 5k and 10k<br />

road races and hand cycling<br />

races, as well as water skiing,<br />

kayaking, basketball and scuba<br />

diving. He is a sought-after<br />

guest speaker for civic<br />

organizations, as well as<br />

church and student groups.<br />

3Her response was a large smile that really<br />

made my heart sink. It wasn't until then, that I realized<br />

how far down I had drug her spiritually.<br />

I remember entering the church and being ushered<br />

into the sanctuary. There were no cutouts for<br />

wheelchairs, so I had to sit in the main<br />

aisle. I was both scared and embarrassed.<br />

Scared because I was in God's house after<br />

removing Him from my life; embarrassed<br />

because I felt that I was on display for the<br />

whole world to see.<br />

But as the service started, a peace came over me.<br />

It was as if God was standing beside me with His<br />

arms around me saying, “Welcome back my child.”<br />

In Luke 15, Jesus tells the Parable of the Lost Sheep.<br />

That day, I felt like He had left the 99 sheep to bring<br />

me, the lost sheep, home. I truly felt His love and His<br />

forgiveness. I rededicated my life to Christ and vowed<br />

to love, serve, and to obey Him. I vowed to bring Him<br />

glory through every area of my life, especially through<br />

my athletic success.<br />

As I’ve been willing, God has opened doors to<br />

share about His love in ways I could have never<br />

imagined. He has shown me that through Him, I have<br />

worth, and with Him, I can do anything. A far cry<br />

from the “useless and worthless” life I had imagined<br />

I would experience in a wheelchair. With God, all<br />

things are possible!<br />

The Bible is full of passages that promise that God<br />

will NEVER forsake us. As I look back over my life I realize<br />

just how true that is. Even when we forsake<br />

Him, He is still faithful. I’ll never forget how God<br />

saved me from ending my life. Even when I had given<br />

up hope, God had not given up on me. He had a plan<br />

for my life and He was just waiting patiently for me<br />

to follow Him.<br />

Perhaps you feel there is no hope. I know how you<br />

feel because I’ve been there. I’ve been in that place<br />

where life seems to have come to an end, where<br />

there seems to be no future worth living for. I’ve felt<br />

as useless and as worthless as one could possibly feel.<br />

But I’m here to tell you, there is Hope and Hope’s<br />

name is Jesus. In Him you will find life. In Him you will<br />

find worth. In Him you have a hope and a future. v<br />

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He’s Enough! by<br />

Carolyn Massey<br />

During my 83 years, I’ve learned many lessons.<br />

Even in my elderly years, God continues to love me,<br />

teach me, correct me, and even stretch me as He<br />

takes me into new territories, some of which I admit<br />

I would rather not go. Recently, I have found myself<br />

in such a place and it has caused me to rely on Him<br />

more than I ever have before. I’ve truly learned that<br />

in my weakness, He is strong.<br />

Several years ago, I began to have some unpleasant<br />

experiences with dizziness that turned into vertigo.<br />

I ended up falling and busting my head open.<br />

Although the wound has healed, and even my dizziness<br />

has left me, I have remained traumatized. I feel<br />

so lonely, often afraid, and have struggled with becoming<br />

so dependent on others. I feel as though I<br />

am driving my family nuts with all of my needs. I also<br />

feel we are constantly disappointing one another<br />

with our expectations.<br />

Add to my emotional trauma, I can’t hear very<br />

well anymore and I seem to forget things all of the<br />

time. I never knew aging would be so hard! Billy Graham<br />

was right when he said, “Growing old is not for<br />

sissies.” I’ll admit it... I’M A BIG SISSY! I don’t like<br />

this getting old stuff for one moment! It has to be<br />

one of the hardest things I’ve ever gone through, and<br />

I’ve been through some difficult things in my lifetime.<br />

In 1974, I was living the dream. I had a wonderful<br />

husband, three beautiful kids, and a great life. But<br />

one day, my husband came home early from work<br />

feeling very ill. We took him to the emergency room,<br />

but he died 12 hours later of a cerebral hemorrhage.<br />

He was 45 years old. In just a moment’s notice, my<br />

best friend was gone forever.<br />

Carolyn was born and raised in<br />

Greenville, N.C. She has been a<br />

widow since the age of 45. She is<br />

83 years old, has 3 children and 7<br />

grandchildren. Carolyn continues to<br />

mentor to young people in the ways<br />

of the Lord.<br />

This was such a huge trauma for my family and I.<br />

I was so frantic! How could I live without him? Although<br />

I was a Christian during this time and I knew<br />

Jesus was there with me, I still felt so alone. Thankfully,<br />

I was surrounded by great Christian friends and<br />

family who were faithful to stay by my side, encourage<br />

me, and help care for us. God’s love, shown<br />

through His people, helped the loneliness to fade<br />

away. Through this time, I felt God’s presence in an<br />

awesome way, even in the midst of my fears. He was<br />

so faithful to provide for my every need during this<br />

time and He has continued to remain faithful to me<br />

to this very day, even in the midst of my doubts. I<br />

praise God for His promise to remain faithful to us<br />

even when we aren’t faithful to Him (II Timothy 2:13).<br />

My recent experience with vertigo has been difficult<br />

in different ways. Losing my husband was incredibly<br />

hard, but in the loss of my husband, God<br />

surrounded me with people to help me through that<br />

difficult season. This time however, I haven’t had the<br />

constant companionship of friends and family, nor<br />

have I had the ability to get up and go! But in the<br />

midst of it all, I sense God doing a work in me; it’s as<br />

if Jesus Himself has set me apart to show me things<br />

about myself and about Him.<br />

At the very start of my dizzy spells, I heard the<br />

Holy Spirit say to me, “Be still and know that I am<br />

God” (Ps. 46:10). Because I don’t drive anymore, I<br />

have had to spend a lot more time at home and to<br />

be honest, I don’t like it one bit! I am a very social<br />

person and enjoy being active. I enjoy ministering to<br />

people. But God, in His sovereignty, is teaching me to<br />

rely completely on Him and to allow His presence to<br />

minister to my own heart.<br />

In the midst of the quiet, God has shown me once<br />

again that He is faithful. He has taught me that in<br />

the end, He is enough. He is truly all I need. When the<br />

enemy has come against me with his lies, when he<br />

has sought to bring despair and cause me to lose<br />

hope and give up, as I’ve looked to my Savior, God<br />

has always been there to give me the strength to<br />

carry on. He’s taught me that “aloneness” doesn’t<br />

have to mean “loneliness.”<br />

I’m so thankful that over 50 years ago, I said<br />

“Yes!” to Jesus and received His Holy Spirit, for with<br />

Him, I have been able to overcome. Although it hasn’t<br />

always been an easy journey, it has nonetheless<br />

been a fabulous one because every step has been<br />

enveloped with His presence.<br />

I’ve learned whether in good times or in bad,<br />

whether in the noise or in the quiet, God has always<br />

been and continues to be with me, showering me<br />

with His love and grace. Even when doubts and fears<br />

have entered my heart, His love remains. It’s unconditional.<br />

Where I’m lacking, He’s complete and He is<br />

faithful. I’ll admit, I’ve often missed the mark. But He<br />

hasn’t. Oh thank you Savior, for making me complete<br />

in you.<br />

“We have this treasure in earthen vessels to show<br />

that this all surpassing power is from God and is not<br />

from us.” II Corinthians 4:7 v<br />

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Am I God’s<br />

Masterpiece?<br />

by Michele Klein<br />

Ephesians 2:10 states that, “We are God’s Masterpiece.”<br />

I don’t know about you, but when I get up<br />

in the morning and look in the mirror, I don’t see a<br />

Masterpiece! I see hair all over the place, drool in the<br />

corner of my mouth, and the right side of my face full<br />

of wrinkles made by my pillow. Don’t get me wrong;<br />

I want to be a Masterpiece! I desire to be everything<br />

that God has made me to be. But at times, a Masterpiece<br />

seems so out of reach, something that would<br />

take a lifetime to achieve. It’s definitely a process.<br />

Control or Chisel<br />

The “chiseling” process is all about God making<br />

us more like Jesus. It’s where He carves out the parts<br />

of our lives that do not reflect Him and chops off the<br />

areas of our character that holds us back from being<br />

and doing all that God has planned for us. Over the<br />

course of my life, I have been through the chiseling<br />

process countless times. It can be confusing, long<br />

lasting, and certainly painful. Once the chiseling<br />

process begins, the first question out of my mouth is<br />

always…”Why God?” God usually answers with a<br />

question for me, “Don’t you trust Me?” or “Do you<br />

want ALL that I have planned for you?”<br />

At that moment I have a choice to make: Surrender<br />

my will to God’s perfect plan for my life, or try to<br />

control the situation. When I choose to control the<br />

situation how I best see fit, it usually leads to frustration,<br />

anger, bitterness, resentment, and depression.<br />

I begin to spin my wheels round and round,<br />

never really making any progress. Once in full control<br />

mode, nothing goes right, everything is a chore, and<br />

I am exhausted by the effort. At that point, I usually<br />

start to question God out of my frustration asking…”Why<br />

are you doing this to me?” and “Why is<br />

this so difficult?”<br />

How thankful I am that God loves us so much,<br />

and out of His love, He is patient with us when we try<br />

to do things in our own strength and our own<br />

understanding. God will never force His plans or<br />

purposes on us, but He always gives us the option to<br />

choose His ways over our own.<br />

Planned Purpose<br />

What do you see when you look in the mirror?<br />

Can you look at yourself and say, “I’m God’s Original<br />

Masterpiece!” Or, when you look in the mirror<br />

do you tend to see what is wrong, instead of what is<br />

God’s? It’s time to realize that God does NOT create<br />

junk. Start each day looking in the mirror and say, “I<br />

am God’s Masterpiece!” Get in His Word and begin<br />

to see yourself as He sees you. Focus your efforts on<br />

taking one step at a time and allow Him to transform<br />

you from the inside out. God is the author and<br />

finisher of our faith every day of our lives. He has a<br />

plan and it is to give you purpose, prosperity, hope,<br />

and an amazing future. Once you start believing you<br />

are His masterpiece, then you will be able to lift your<br />

head and move forward to victory. v<br />

Michele Klein is the Founder and<br />

President of Bible Life Coach. BLC brings<br />

together the World’s Best Results<br />

Orientated Techniques, while grounding<br />

each principle in God’s Truth. Michele<br />

is passionate about helping people<br />

understand “Who they are in Christ”<br />

and “Whose they are in Christ”. Find<br />

more information on her website at<br />

www.biblelifecoach.com.<br />

For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works,<br />

which God prepared in advance for us to do. Ephesians 2:10<br />

Don’t Run The Red Light<br />

by Rob Morford<br />

I never make a decision when I am under pressure. Pressure to me is a sign to stop,<br />

look, and listen. Learning to listen to that still, small voice inside us is so hard in a culture<br />

filled with noise. To do this, I picture that God put a traffic light into my heart when I became<br />

a Christian. The light can be red, yellow, or green. Red is pressure and green is peace.<br />

Yellow tells me to proceed with caution. Jesus did not come to give me pressure; He came<br />

to give me peace. My rule of life is to never run red lights.<br />

Running red lights has consequences. As I look back over my life, I can see many times<br />

where I ran red lights and I can tell you, none of them turned out good. Proverbs 3:5-6 is<br />

my decision-making verse. It says, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart; and lean not on<br />

your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths."<br />

As we take the time to seek God’s will, He will help us know how to proceed. v<br />

Rob Morford is pastor<br />

of Community Church<br />

of Keystone Heights.<br />

He and his wife, Dotty<br />

have three children<br />

and two grandchildren.<br />

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Building Boats To The Glory of God<br />

An Example of “Love and Service” in Action<br />

It is no secret that<br />

Correct Craft, builder<br />

of Nautique boats,<br />

has an extraordinary<br />

faith heritage and<br />

culture. Since 1925,<br />

they have been<br />

building boats for<br />

the glory of God<br />

using their passion<br />

for water sports and<br />

love for Christ to<br />

touch the world!<br />

Recently Kristi<br />

Overton Johnson<br />

had a chance to ask<br />

Correct Craft’s CEO,<br />

Bill Yeargin, about<br />

the impact the<br />

company’s faith<br />

has had on it’s<br />

employees and<br />

those in the water<br />

sports industry.<br />

Kristi: Correct Craft is well known in our industry for its mission<br />

of “Building Boats for the Glory of God.” Is that still the company’s<br />

mission statement?<br />

Bill: Absolutely. If you visit us in Orlando, you can see it on<br />

big banners in our plant. Our faith culture is important to us.<br />

Kristi: Being a skier my entire life, I have seen and heard so<br />

many wonderful stories about Correct Craft and the Meloon family<br />

standing up for their faith. Is there anything about the past that stands<br />

out to you?<br />

Bill: As you know, Ralph Meloon (the son of our founder)<br />

will be 95 this year and still comes into Correct Craft every day.<br />

For decades, Ralph played a major part in building the story<br />

that is now Correct Craft’s Christian heritage. I am honored to<br />

often hear Ralph tell stories of Correct Craft’s past, including<br />

his travels to over 80 countries (even behind the iron curtain)<br />

to share his faith. As I travel around the world for Correct Craft,<br />

rarely do I visit a country that someone does not ask me about<br />

Ralph and share a Ralph story.<br />

Our dealer in Lebanon shared one story that stands out with<br />

me. Apparently, Ralph visited Lebanon during their civil war<br />

and everyone there was very concerned about his safety.<br />

He was staying at our dealer’s house and the dealer shared<br />

that one day, Ralph disappeared for several hours putting<br />

everyone in a serious panic. Ralph had found someone that<br />

would drive him to the front lines of the battle (literally), so<br />

that he could visit a small church he supported there and be an<br />

encouragement to them. Ralph is an amazing man and this<br />

story is so typical of him!<br />

Kristi: Some people were worried that after the Meloon<br />

family sold Correct Craft, perhaps the faith culture would slowly go<br />

away. Is that happening?<br />

Bill: If you ask Ralph Meloon, I believe he would tell you<br />

that Correct Craft’s faith culture is stronger than at any other<br />

Correct Craft has been<br />

a faithful supporter of<br />

In His Wakes, enabling<br />

us to bring Hope,<br />

Victory and Purpose to<br />

children world-wide.<br />

time in the company’s history. Given the amazing history of<br />

the company, that is no small feat.<br />

Kristi: So how does Correct Craft glorify God in the business<br />

today?<br />

Bill: First, by loving God and others. I have said many times<br />

over the past few years that I want people to understand our<br />

values, not by what we say, but by how they see us live.<br />

Secondly, we glorify God through service. We want to serve<br />

each other and be there when someone in our Nautique<br />

family needs us. We want to serve our local community and<br />

we have done so over the years with groups like Give Kids the<br />

World and the Coalition for the Homeless. Most recently, we<br />

did a project with Habitat for Humanity, where Correct Craft<br />

funded a new home and our employees’ volunteered time to<br />

help work on it. Also, each year we take employees on mission<br />

trips outside of Central Florida.<br />

Kristi: Can you tell us more about the mission trips?<br />

Bill: As part of our desire to serve, each year we take groups<br />

of employees on mission trips. This past summer, we took<br />

twenty-six employees to the Apache Reservation in Arizona,<br />

where we worked on two homes for needy Apache families.<br />

Our team had a big impact on not only the homes where we<br />

served, but also through helping the organization that builds<br />

the homes to develop processes that will help them for years.<br />

It is amazing to see our dedicated employees work so hard for<br />

people who will never be able to repay them in any way. It is<br />

a true and unselfish service.<br />

We have also built homes for homeless families in Mexico,<br />

built beds for needy families in Guatemala, served in a home<br />

for teenage mothers in Nicaragua, and served in Ethiopia with<br />

an amazing organization there that is transforming tens<br />

of thousands of lives. Later this year, I am taking a group of<br />

employees to Kenya and Uganda to serve there. We want to<br />

put our beliefs into action.<br />

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Correct Craft families working on an Apache home.<br />

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Correct Craft team<br />

members on the<br />

Apache reservation.<br />

3Kristi: You have weekly employee Bible studies<br />

at the plant. How do employees view Correct Craft’s<br />

faith culture?<br />

Bill: Yes, we have a voluntary employee Bible<br />

study at Correct Craft and close to 25% of our<br />

employees attend each week.<br />

It is very important to me that employees who do<br />

not want to participate in our faith culture feel perfectly<br />

comfortable working at Correct Craft. We do<br />

not pressure anyone to do anything and participating<br />

in our faith culture does not provide any job advantages<br />

or protection.<br />

Even the employees who choose not to<br />

participate, tell me that they really appreciate the<br />

environment at Correct Craft. We have a very “G”<br />

rated atmosphere and people appreciate the trust<br />

and integrity that comes along with our culture.<br />

Kristi: What are the unique challenges of having a<br />

faith culture at Correct Craft?<br />

Bill: For me personally, there are two parts of our<br />

faith culture that are difficult.<br />

First, we are a business and have a responsibility<br />

to run our business well, so that it survives to carry<br />

on for many more decades. Often when we make a<br />

business decision that impacts someone negatively,<br />

the person impacted will take it personally and<br />

accuse us (or me) of not being true to our beliefs.<br />

From their view, if we really cared about others, then<br />

we would never make a decision that impacts them<br />

negatively.<br />

Secondly, people who share our beliefs and want<br />

us to help them financially, bombard us. While we<br />

wish that we could help everyone, unfortunately we<br />

cannot. Sometimes when we turn down a financial<br />

request (which, unfortunately we do often), it opens<br />

up another opportunity for someone to question<br />

how true we are to our beliefs. Some people think<br />

that if we will not help their project, it means that we<br />

really don’t believe what we say.<br />

Both of the above examples are really tough for<br />

us because we do not want to discourage anyone.<br />

Kristi: Anything else you would like to say?<br />

Bill: Yes, I would like to thank you, Kristi, and In<br />

His Wakes for the amazing service you are doing. We<br />

appreciate both you and your team doing an<br />

incredible job at the chapel service for each year’s<br />

Masters tournament, as well as for the work you all<br />

do each year with kids around the country. Correct<br />

Craft is proud to be a long time sponsor of IHW and<br />

proud of our affiliation with you. v<br />

Love and Service<br />

by Kristi Overton Johnson<br />

I believe one of the biggest questions Christians<br />

ask is: “What is God’s will for my life?” As they<br />

wait for a big “sign” from above, they often experience<br />

fear over the possibility of missing “it” (“it”<br />

being God’s perfect plan). I’ve witnessed so many<br />

people sit indecisively, afraid to take even the<br />

slightest step forward, in fear that they will somehow<br />

get off course and miss God’s best. I have to<br />

admit, I’ve often been one of those people.<br />

Well today I’ve got some good news for you!<br />

God’s plan for our lives is pretty simple. We are<br />

called to love the Lord our God with all of our<br />

heart, soul, and mind and to love those He puts in<br />

our path. As we walk in this love, we are called to<br />

glorify Him in the way we live our lives and interact<br />

with others on a daily basis. How can we know<br />

how we are to live? Get in His Word and you’ll find<br />

God’s will for every day living.<br />

So often we want God’s BIG plan for our life,<br />

when He is just waiting for us to walk in obedience<br />

to His Word on a daily basis; to walk in integrity,<br />

love, compassion, generosity, trust, forgiveness, and<br />

justice... to name a few.<br />

It doesn’t matter how old we are, or what gender<br />

or race we may be. It doesn’t matter what we<br />

do for a living or how much money we have. It<br />

doesn’t matter if we are healthy or facing health<br />

issues. It doesn’t matter if we live in the city or in the<br />

depths of the jungle. Whoever we are, wherever we<br />

are, God’s will remains...we are called to love and<br />

serve Him, and to love and serve His people.<br />

Every day we come into contact with people,<br />

whether in our homes, ministries, or businesses.<br />

During these interactions we have an incredible opportunity<br />

to touch the world for Christ, to bring<br />

hope, joy, and peace into a hurting world through<br />

our love and service. You don’t have to head off on<br />

a huge mission trip to do this; you can do it right<br />

where you are today!<br />

One of the greatest joys I’ve experienced over<br />

the past decade with In His Wakes has been to see<br />

God take something so simple… water sports…<br />

and use it to touch tens of thousands of lives.<br />

How? Because of love and service. Through the<br />

simple act of showing unconditional love in the<br />

water and on the shores to at-risk youth, God has<br />

been glorified and lives has been changed.<br />

Correct Craft CEO, Bill Yeargin, stands in front of one<br />

of many banners displayed throughout the Orlando<br />

plant stating the company’s mission, “Building Boats<br />

to the Glory of God”.<br />

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God Always Gives You What You Need<br />

by Vanessa Ashley<br />

It was the summer of 1978, I’d just graduated<br />

from college with honors and the world was my<br />

oyster. My future was so bright and held boundless<br />

and limitless possibilities. But in all honesty,<br />

my reality was quite different.<br />

I’d moved back home one month after graduation<br />

harboring a dark secret; I was pregnant. I was<br />

terrified to tell my parents – my Dad, a prominent<br />

Pastor and my Mom, who was preparing to have<br />

major surgery. I’d come home to care for three<br />

younger siblings while my mother recuperated. My<br />

grandmother took one look at me, guessed my secret,<br />

pulled me into her arms and started singing,<br />

“Onward Christian Soldiers.” A tingle still goes<br />

down my spine to this day whenever I hear that<br />

song. Grandma Eula promised to keep my secret<br />

until I was ready to tell.<br />

My conscious finally got the better of me and<br />

two weeks after my mother had been released<br />

from the hospital, I gathered her and my father<br />

into our living room and spilled my secret. My father<br />

exploded and that’s putting it mildly, while my<br />

mother cried and tried with all her might to keep<br />

the peace.<br />

Even though<br />

I was young, I<br />

did not feel<br />

frightened or scared,<br />

but instead, I felt sadness<br />

and guilt for the shame<br />

I was bringing upon my family.<br />

At the time, my family<br />

was very prominent in the<br />

community and I had<br />

three younger, impressionable<br />

siblings<br />

still at home.<br />

They were<br />

“What would the<br />

neighbors think?<br />

”What would Dad’s<br />

congregation think?<br />

”What would the rest of<br />

the family think?<br />

Vanessa Ashley<br />

makes her home in<br />

Gainesville, FL and<br />

is a buyer at GRU.<br />

Her daughter,<br />

Shema, has always<br />

been her inspiration<br />

and makes her home<br />

in Arlington, VA.<br />

not used to such discord in our home. I was<br />

extremely protective of my brother and sisters.<br />

I loved them more than anything.<br />

The family discussion began soon after what to do<br />

with the “pregnant one.” After all, I couldn’t stay at<br />

the family home… Oh No… that was not acceptable.<br />

After all, “What would the neighbors think?”…<br />

”What would Dad’s congregation think?”… ”What<br />

would the rest of the family think?”<br />

I looked around the room at this family discussion<br />

and it was so surreal. I remember touching<br />

my belly. Not only did I already love this baby; I<br />

was falling in love with this child. I knew that I<br />

would risk all to protect him or her.<br />

I was told I had to leave my home, the only home<br />

I’d ever known. I needed to leave as quickly as possible<br />

and there was no offer of financial assistance.<br />

Just pack a bag and go. To the world my circumstances<br />

looked very dire and maybe a little hopeless.<br />

I had a few dollars saved; decided to pawn my<br />

television, and I borrowed $20 from a neighbor.<br />

For God hath not given us the spirit of fear;<br />

but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind<br />

(2 Timothy 1:7).<br />

Stepping out on faith, or<br />

simply not knowing any better,<br />

I caught the first bus out<br />

of town and moved approximately<br />

600 miles south to<br />

Florida. My roommate from<br />

college and her mother took<br />

me in and cared for me those<br />

first few weeks. Mentally and<br />

emotionally, I missed my family.<br />

But God loved my unborn<br />

child and myself so much,<br />

that He provided us with loving,<br />

caring, and wonderful<br />

people. As wonderful as they<br />

were, I felt as if I was a burden. I prayed for a<br />

job and a permanent place to stay. It’s hard to<br />

believe anyone would hire a young pregnant girl.<br />

With God, all things are possible.<br />

The Lord is my light and my salvation, whom<br />

shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life; of<br />

whom shall I be afraid? (Psalm 27:1).<br />

A family who ran a state operated boarding<br />

home was looking for a live-in maid. I applied for<br />

the position and God opened that door. That family<br />

welcomed me with open arms. I just couldn’t<br />

believe my good fortune.<br />

Seeds of trust were being planted. God was<br />

teaching me to not only trust Him, but also more<br />

importantly, trust “in” Him. My prayer life had really<br />

begun to take root, praying and seeking Him<br />

first in ALL things. Also, unbeknownst to me, I had<br />

strong prayer warriors interceding on my behalf.<br />

My mother, grandmother, best friend, and various<br />

other Christian warriors had strong intercessory<br />

prayer sessions asking God for guidance, forgiveness,<br />

strength, courage, peace, and reconciliation.<br />

There have been so many trials, so many missteps,<br />

and so many growing seasons these last 30+<br />

years. I gave birth to a bouncing baby girl, who is<br />

the second love of my life to God. Shema, my only<br />

child, is bright, educated, beautiful, well adjusted,<br />

well traveled, and most importantly, she loves God.<br />

God’s light has shone so brightly on both of our<br />

lives. He certainly took my mess and transformed it<br />

into an incredible message of love and hope.<br />

I’ve learned through it all to never give up hope.<br />

Zechariah 9:12 refers to us being “prisoners of hope.”<br />

I’ve also learned to be open to God’s voice and let<br />

His Spirit lead. God’s thoughts and ways are always<br />

better. When “we” get out of the way and truly give<br />

Him control, then the world is truly our oyster.<br />

If there is one word of advice I can give from<br />

my life experiences it is this: Learn to forgive. Do<br />

not let the root of bitterness take hold of your life.<br />

God dealt with me on forgiveness in my early 20’s<br />

and I am so glad He did. You cannot move forward<br />

in life if you choose to remain in a world of hatred<br />

and bitterness. God is “love” and love calls us to<br />

forgiveness and peace.<br />

Hebrews 13:5 says, “Never will I leave you;<br />

never will I forsake you.” I thank God for this<br />

promise. I know wherever I find myself that God<br />

will bring me through. He’s never promised it<br />

would be the way I want it, or that it would be<br />

easy, but I’ve learned as long as I take “me” out of<br />

the equation and put “Him” first, I will always<br />

have the Victory! v<br />

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Redeeming<br />

Love by Ann Prevatt<br />

Like most girls, I didn’t check with God about<br />

whom I was to marry. I simply fell in love, married<br />

and expected God to bless my choices. The first years<br />

were good; we had two children, built a house, and<br />

began our respective careers. We had disagreements,<br />

but generally worked things out. I’ll admit, I seldom<br />

prayed or asked God about most of what was going<br />

on in our lives.<br />

As time went on, we began to have real difficulties<br />

over specific areas. The primary area of conflict<br />

was alcohol, in which my husband had started abusing.<br />

At first it was just an embarrassment at social<br />

functions, but as time went on, it became more frequent<br />

and severe. It was obvious that God was not<br />

blessing my mess.<br />

Many times I threatened divorce, and many times<br />

my husband made promises of doing “better.” After<br />

we had been married approximately 15 years, I had<br />

endured all that I could. That is when God intervened<br />

through His Word. He made Romans 7:2 “personal.”<br />

“For the woman who has a husband is bound by<br />

the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the<br />

husband dies, she is released from the law of her<br />

husband.”<br />

If you read that verse in context, it had nothing to<br />

do with my situation, but it was God’s Word for me<br />

at that time. From that moment on, I would have to<br />

trust God with the whole situation, as well as every<br />

part of my life. I also knew that He would honor my<br />

decision to be obedient. It wasn’t easy for our children<br />

or myself; however, none of us were ever physically<br />

abused. Had that been the case, perhaps the<br />

situation would have been different.<br />

My husband continued to work as an attorney<br />

and even though he was very intelligent, I knew that<br />

he was using poor judgment at times. Our children<br />

were teenagers when the drinking reached crisis<br />

stage, so they busied themselves with school, sports,<br />

and reading. I stayed busy with my teaching and all<br />

associated with that. I was so close to the situation<br />

that I couldn’t see the obvious, that he needed professional<br />

help. His secretary saw the need and called<br />

for medial help. He went to the hospital in the early<br />

stages of coma and liver failure.<br />

My prayer at that time was, “Lord, either bring him<br />

all the way through this or take him home.” One night,<br />

while he was in the hospital, the Lord came to him in<br />

a vision and delivered him from alcoholism. (What a<br />

wonderful testimony it was, but he shared it very cautiously<br />

for fear people would think it was the d.t’s.)<br />

Today I can say with<br />

assurance that God is<br />

faithful and His<br />

word is true.<br />

After a couple of trying weeks in the hospital, he<br />

came home. Two weeks later, he went into a month<br />

long program for alcoholics. The program helped him<br />

to get his mind focused on the future. We both had<br />

some counseling and I could see he was a changed<br />

man. I held on to God’s Word that “We know all<br />

things work together for good to those who love<br />

God, to those who are called according to His purpose”<br />

(Romans 8:28).<br />

After his treatment, he never drank again. There<br />

were still problems and some unpleasant consequences,<br />

but life was easier. By this time we were<br />

both committed Christians and God had shown Himself<br />

in many ways. Even though He was not a part of<br />

our life as we started out, He<br />

met us where we were and<br />

carried us forward in so many<br />

instances.<br />

It took some time<br />

before I could say (with faith)<br />

that God is true to His Word<br />

and that He had truly redeemed<br />

me. Today I can say<br />

with assurance that God<br />

is faithful and His word is<br />

true. “Christ has redeemed<br />

us (me)… that we (I) might<br />

receive the promise of the<br />

Spirit through faith”<br />

(Gal 3:13-14). v<br />

Ann Prevatt has<br />

lived in Keystone<br />

Heights, FL for over<br />

45 years. She is<br />

retired but spends<br />

time volunteering<br />

at her church and<br />

various ministries<br />

including Champion’s<br />

Heart. She<br />

enjoys time with<br />

friends and her four<br />

grandchildren.<br />

Have A Hurt?<br />

Hang Up? Habit?<br />

It’s Time to<br />

be FREE!<br />

Come See What<br />

Celebrate Recovery<br />

Is All About!<br />

Held weekly at<br />

Champion’s Heart<br />

on Thursday Evenings<br />

@ 7pm.<br />

How has God touched your life? Send us your story of Victory!<br />

Go to our website or use your smart phone to scan the QR code<br />

to see past issues of Victorious Living or submit your story.<br />

For more information call<br />

Michelle at 904-449-4200<br />

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MINISTRY NEWS<br />

I am constantly amazed at all the ways God allows us to<br />

minister to His people! As we soar into <strong>2012</strong>, join with me in<br />

prayer over each division of Champion’s Heart Ministries and<br />

celebrate with us as we strive to bring more<br />

champions into His kingdom! For more news and updates, be<br />

sure to check our website often as well as sign up for our<br />

email newsletters at www.championsheart.org.<br />

In His Wakes Volunteer<br />

Roundup<br />

If you are interested in volunteering at IHW’s fall<br />

events or host an event in 2013, please contact Nate<br />

at 352-745-0283 or nate@inhiswakes.com!<br />

Champion’s Heart Provides<br />

Cherished Portraits For<br />

Local Families<br />

In August, Champion’s<br />

Heart partnered<br />

with Community Church<br />

in Keystone Heights, FL.<br />

during their annual<br />

back-to-school outreach<br />

for individuals in need.<br />

Champion’s Heart provided<br />

free family portraits. A special thanks goes to<br />

Krissy Harp Parmeter, who provided a beautiful portrait<br />

setting and professional photography services.<br />

Champion's Heart Banquet!<br />

In November, we will be hosting a special fundraising<br />

event in Keystone Heights for the ministries of<br />

Champion's Heart. Please join us on our properties<br />

and see first hand what God is doing through your<br />

partnership. Call 352-478-2098 for more information.<br />

In His Wakes Update<br />

Our team is currently on the west<br />

coast hosting our remaining <strong>2012</strong><br />

"A Day to Remember" (D2R) events.<br />

During the next couple of months,<br />

our team will head back to our<br />

headquarters in Keystone Heights, Fl.,<br />

stopping along the way to bring hope,<br />

victory, and purpose into the lives of<br />

at-risk youth! Please remember our<br />

team in your daily prayers. They have<br />

been going strong, by the grace of God,<br />

since March!<br />

International Update<br />

In His Wakes held four Czech events in August.<br />

Many challenges and obstacles threatened to derail<br />

the Czech events. But once again, our God is greater!<br />

His work was accomplished and we are confident<br />

that the impact will be long lasting and far reaching.<br />

What a privilege to work alongside the local<br />

church each day. They will be able to help our<br />

participants continue to grow spiritually. Thank<br />

you to our financial and prayer partners who made<br />

this possible!<br />

In His Wakes will return to beautiful Costa Rica in<br />

December to host a series of D2R events. While there,<br />

we will have the privilege of touching the hearts of<br />

Nicaraguan refugees through water sports activities,<br />

warm hospitality, and a powerful message of God's<br />

love. If you would like to contribute to this mission<br />

trip, please contact us immediately.<br />

Victorious Living is having an international impact,<br />

especially in the water sports community. Thousands<br />

of copies have reached the hands and hearts of athletes,<br />

coaches, and fans across the globe.<br />

Kristi Overton Johnson's REFRESH! teaching<br />

ministry is touching hearts worldwide through her<br />

writing, speaking, and singing ministry. Be sure to get<br />

on our mailing list to receive encouraging messages<br />

based on God's Word. You can also watch inspiring<br />

videos on championsheart.org.<br />

Champion’s Heart Scholarships<br />

and Awards Winners<br />

• Meg McCollom and Miranda Deviel received<br />

$1000 as winners of the Emily Rund Champion’s<br />

Heart Scholarship. This scholarship is awarded annually<br />

to graduates of Keystone Heights High<br />

School for exemplifying the heart of a champion.<br />

• K.C. Wilson of<br />

Clermont, FL. was<br />

awarded the Kristi<br />

Overton Johnson<br />

Champion’s Heart<br />

Award for his performance<br />

on the<br />

water at the US Masters Water Ski and Wake Board<br />

Tournament and for his integrity and character off<br />

the water!<br />

• Taylor Woosley of Monte Verde, FL. was awarded<br />

$500 as winner of the In His Wakes Scholarship.<br />

This scholarship is awarded annually to competitors<br />

of the US Jr. Masters Water Ski and Wake<br />

Board Tournament for overall excellence in character,<br />

athletics, community service, and academics.<br />

A Day To Remember participant in Costa Rica<br />

experiences the freeedom of gliding across the water.<br />

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y Nate Miller,<br />

In His Wakes Director<br />

For some time<br />

now, I’ve felt the<br />

Lord showing me<br />

the importance of ministering<br />

to people on the shore<br />

while they wait for their turn on the water, and the opportunity<br />

it offers to build relationships. I’ve prayerfully<br />

considered how to approach this need and who best to<br />

take on the challenge. The Lord was faithful to give me<br />

the answer and one year later, the work is being done.<br />

In July of 2011, I experienced one of the most impacting<br />

events of my six seasons with “In His Wakes”,<br />

not only because of the situations surrounding the participants,<br />

but also those who came to minister to them.<br />

At that particular event, several young adults from<br />

“Youth With A Mission” (YWAM) came to volunteer at<br />

our “A Day to Remember” event in Montana. As I<br />

watched this group of volunteers minister to our participants<br />

on the shore and evangelize with such boldness,<br />

it was evident that this was a needed element for the<br />

shores of our future “A Day to Remember” events.<br />

Over the next six months, I prayed<br />

for God to assemble His<br />

“Dream Team”, a team that<br />

would travel with my wife,<br />

Ivy, and I, during the<br />

<strong>2012</strong> season. Coming<br />

into <strong>2012</strong>, we didn’t<br />

know “who” and we didn’t know “how”, but we<br />

trusted that God was about to do something amazing<br />

in our midst… and He did. In the spring, God provided<br />

the funds through a donor to purchase a second motor<br />

home and then He filled it at various times throughout<br />

the summer with 8 different young adults, all on-fire<br />

for the Lord and ready to serve.<br />

Event after event, I watched in amazement, as this<br />

international “team” of young adults poured themselves<br />

into the participants. Individuals from the US, Czech Republic,<br />

Africa, and South Africa were used by God to<br />

bring about an incredible number of responses to the<br />

gospel. People could just sense the genuine, Christ-filled<br />

love that these young people brought to the water, not<br />

to mention their energy! It wasn’t just the participants<br />

who were impacted by this added group of young evangelists.<br />

At every event, our hosts and volunteers expressed<br />

their amazement at seeing a group of young<br />

people operate with such boldness for the Lord.<br />

With an expanded team, God enabled us to expand<br />

our ministering opportunities from the lake together. At<br />

several events, we were able to visit the participants at<br />

their program centers and continue our ministering apart<br />

from the actual “A Day to<br />

Remember” event.<br />

For example, after<br />

our events in Maine, our<br />

team had the opportunity<br />

to go into the detention<br />

facility (the facility where our<br />

participant’s lived) and<br />

conduct a chapel service. With<br />

the combined talents of each<br />

person, we were able to sing,<br />

perform a powerful skit, and<br />

teach about God’s unconditional<br />

love! You could feel<br />

God’s presence in the room,<br />

as He moved in the hearts of<br />

these young detainees. In fact,<br />

at one point, the Spirit moved so<br />

powerfully that the guards began to<br />

get a bit uneasy about maintaining<br />

control. That day, we were blessed to witness an<br />

amazing response to the “altar call!” Since the kids were<br />

not allowed to leave their seats, each member of our<br />

group placed their hands on as many people as they could<br />

reach and led them in a prayer of salvation and healing.<br />

As I’ve reflected on the <strong>2012</strong> season, one thing is for<br />

sure, that God has been at work. He’s been at work in<br />

our team, and He’s been at work in me! Many times<br />

I’ve had to step aside, so that God’s plan could be accomplished.<br />

As I moved aside, God did abundantly<br />

more than I could have ever hoped for or imagined.<br />

At this point, many of our team members have already<br />

returned to their homes abroad. We are back<br />

down to one motor home and a five member traveling<br />

team. As we continue our <strong>2012</strong> tour nationally and<br />

abroad, it is my prayer that we finish with the same<br />

level of enthusiasm and love that we’ve had so far. As<br />

we stay focused on Him, I am confident the Lord<br />

will continue to use this group in a<br />

mighty way!<br />

Thank you to all the prayer<br />

warriors out there! Your<br />

faithfulness of continually<br />

lifting us up in prayer makes<br />

a difference! Thank you also<br />

to our hosts, volunteers,<br />

and our financial<br />

supporters. You all<br />

are a part of God’s<br />

“Dream Team”<br />

…we couldn’t<br />

do it without<br />

you! v<br />

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Enjoying<br />

by Reneé Harp<br />

BeingME!<br />

I wish that I were as<br />

rich as them. I wish that<br />

I were as skinny as her.<br />

I wish that I could find<br />

a husband. I wish that my<br />

husband treated me better.<br />

I wish that I were smarter<br />

in school. I wish that I had<br />

her spiritual gifts.<br />

Do any of these statements<br />

sound familiar?<br />

I believe that if we are honest<br />

with ourselves, at some time<br />

or another, we have all compared<br />

ourselves with other people or desired<br />

someone else's life, possessions,<br />

looks, money, talent… the list can go<br />

on and on.<br />

I’ve often struggled with comparisons and I’ve<br />

often wished my life to be different and more like the<br />

next person’s. In fact, I struggled with “enjoying being<br />

me” until my mid-thirties. During this time, I constantly<br />

compared my looks, my career, and my family<br />

with those who seemed to “have it all together.”<br />

Oftentimes, I even did things to fit in with those I<br />

wanted to be like. One time I redecorated my house<br />

with country ducks, just so my house would look like<br />

someone else’s. The funny thing is that I didn’t even<br />

like ducks, and to be brutally honest, I didn’t even<br />

enjoy being around the people that I so desperately<br />

wanted to be like. My husband Terry hated those<br />

ducks and so did I!<br />

Isn’t it amazing what we will do, just to “fit in?”<br />

I’m sure that I’m not the only one who has done<br />

things to impress people and be accepted.<br />

When I think back as to why I would do these<br />

things, it was because I didn't understand that God<br />

had a specific plan for me. I didn’t realize He had created<br />

me in a special way with gifts, abilities, and opportunities<br />

that could be used in a unique way for<br />

Him… in a way no one else was equipped to do. I<br />

didn’t understand that every time I focused on being<br />

someone else, I lost the ability to be me, unique me!<br />

John 10:10 says, “The thief comes only to steal<br />

and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have<br />

life, and have it to the full.” I believe with all of my<br />

heart that comparisons are a scheme of our enemy<br />

to bring destruction. Satan’s goal is to distract us, to<br />

keep our eyes off Christ and His plan for our lives. As<br />

we focus on others through comparisons, Satan<br />

knows we will have a tendency to feel bad about<br />

ourselves and fall into self-pity as we come to the<br />

conclusion that our gifts and our lives don’t measure<br />

up and surely can’t make a difference in this world.<br />

Reneé and husband, Terry, reside in<br />

Keystone Heights. Reneé is the<br />

Administrative Director for<br />

Champion’s Heart and In His Wakes.<br />

Do not conform to the pattern of<br />

this world, but be transformed by<br />

the renewing of your mind.<br />

Romans 12:2<br />

If Satan gets his way, our self-pity may even evolve<br />

into a little jealousy, anger, resentment, and ultimately<br />

despair.<br />

This way of thinking affected my self-esteem and even<br />

damaged relationships because I wasn't true to myself.<br />

My eyes weren’t open to see myself as God saw me.<br />

The truth is that God designed us before the<br />

foundation of the world. He knew our gifts and<br />

personalities before we were ever born. He loved<br />

us enough to die for us! So why are we constantly<br />

trying to change our Maker's creation?<br />

If God wanted us to "copycat" each other, why<br />

would He go to so many extremes to make us different?<br />

Think about it. The creator of the galaxies,<br />

moon, sun, stars, of everything we see, took the time<br />

to give you and I our own set of fingerprints, DNA,<br />

and even a unique laugh! He created us with unique<br />

thought patterns, personalities, looks, skin color, gender…<br />

on and on I could go. The answer is He wants<br />

you and I to be exactly whom He created, "YOU"<br />

and “ME”, and no one else.<br />

I think it’s time to lay aside comparisons and begin<br />

to see yourself as God sees you. Don’t you? It’s time<br />

to start enjoying being ourselves.<br />

How? First of all, quit looking into the world’s mirror<br />

and look into God’s mirror, His Word. See what He<br />

says about you and your life… I think you’ll be surprised.<br />

Secondly, quit comparing<br />

yourselves<br />

to others and<br />

start being a<br />

blessing to<br />

others.<br />

F i n a l l y,<br />

rather than<br />

tear yourself<br />

down, build<br />

yourself up.<br />

Begin to make<br />

a list of your<br />

unique self and<br />

thank God for the<br />

life He has given<br />

you. v<br />

We asked our readers to share what<br />

they have done to find worth and<br />

acceptance in the eyes of others…<br />

I was trying to get an interview with<br />

an airline for a pilot position. With<br />

20,000 applications, they weren’t<br />

taking any calls. So, to get their attention,<br />

I sent a worn-out pair of<br />

sneakers to the VP of Personnel explaining<br />

that I had worn out my<br />

shoes pacing back and forth while I<br />

waited for their call. The person in<br />

charge of pilot hiring called me out<br />

of curiosity- to see if I was a nut or<br />

sane- and the rest is history. I ended<br />

up flying for them for 25 years. ~Jeff<br />

a<br />

My mom bought me a pair of boots<br />

that I loved. When I wore them to<br />

school, my friend said that they<br />

were ugly, so I wouldn’t wear them<br />

anymore. ~Ivy<br />

a<br />

To compensate for my insecurities, I<br />

did many outlandish things. As a<br />

teen, I jumped on the roof of my car<br />

and rode down a skateboard hill<br />

with no one driving the car. I also<br />

drove my first boat wide-open,<br />

“James Bond Style” onto a beach!<br />

It took the rest of the afternoon to<br />

get it back into the water. ~Rusty<br />

a<br />

I set up a first date with a girl to go<br />

to the skating rink, a place that she<br />

wanted to go. This itself was crazy<br />

because I was not much of a skater.<br />

Towards the end of the night, I had<br />

worked out most of the kinks and<br />

decided that I was going around the<br />

rink one more time before we left.<br />

My feet got tangled up and I fell<br />

down and broke my ankle. That was<br />

the first and last date with that girl.<br />

~Vernon<br />

a<br />

I drank a whole bottle of “Boone's<br />

Farm” wine at about age 14 to<br />

impress some friends. ~Anonymous<br />

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INSPIRING LEADERSHIP<br />

How Can I Know<br />

by Bonnie Hagemann<br />

Decisions… Decisions… Decisions… Every day we<br />

are faced with thousands of decisions that seem to<br />

come at us with lightening-like speed. Sometimes the<br />

decisions are easy and have limited impact.<br />

Should I buy this shirt?<br />

Should I go for a walk now or later?<br />

But many times decisions are hard, complex and<br />

have to be made in a short amount of time with<br />

limited information.<br />

Should I take this job?<br />

Should I let my daughter start dating?<br />

Should I place my loved one in assisted living?<br />

Should I file bankruptcy?<br />

Should I sell my business?<br />

These types of decisions are never easy. Recently, I<br />

had to make a tough decision regarding the sale of<br />

my business to a large company. As I wrestled with<br />

my decision, I found myself completely at a loss as to<br />

what to do.<br />

The opportunity looked good to people in my<br />

trusted inner circle, and it initially looked good to me.<br />

The acquiring company was large in size and had a<br />

good reputation in our field. They had a great leadership<br />

team in place that would help the company to<br />

continue to grow. Even better, I would have an incredible<br />

job with great benefits. It looked like a complimentary<br />

fit. However, when I thought about this<br />

opportunity, tears would roll down my cheeks.<br />

Am I at peace with<br />

this in my heart?<br />

Does this decision align<br />

with my personal values?<br />

Will those closest to me<br />

be able to live with the<br />

impact of my decision?<br />

Surprised by my own reaction, I knew it was time to<br />

seek wisdom from above. One morning during my routine<br />

run, I began to converse with God about this opportunity.<br />

I asked Him to reveal why my spirit was<br />

crying over this decision. I knew it was my spirit, because<br />

my flesh was screaming, “GO FOR THE<br />

MONEY!”<br />

When I pray, God shows me things in images, in a<br />

very visual way. It’s how He speaks to me; it’s how I<br />

understand Him. During our conversation, God<br />

showed me a courtroom with a judge sitting on the<br />

bench. Then I heard Him say, “I’m going to teach you<br />

how to make judgments” (decisions). Great! I thought.<br />

That’s exactly what I need.<br />

God reminded me of the story of King Solomon<br />

found in I Kings 3:16-28. If you remember, Solomon<br />

was faced with the task of deciding the true identity<br />

of the mother of a little baby. Both women stood before<br />

him claiming the child was theirs. Each woman<br />

pled her case before the King. In this scene, God<br />

showed me that there were influential people trying to<br />

persuade Solomon to decide one way or the other.<br />

There was a lot of pressure in this decision.<br />

During my prayer time, I suddenly saw a curtain<br />

drop out of the sky on three sides of the baby. This<br />

curtain blocked out everyone except for Solomon and<br />

the baby. In my spirit I heard God say, “When you<br />

need to make a judgment (decision), you must first silence<br />

all of the competing voices.”<br />

This is exactly what Solomon did. In his situation,<br />

many voices competed for his attention… the voices<br />

of the women and the voices of people in Solomon’s<br />

inner circle. The problem however, was that some of<br />

the “voices” were lying. To bring forth the truth,<br />

Solomon in his wisdom said, “Cut the baby in half!<br />

That way each of you can have part of him” (1 Kings<br />

3:25). He knew the real mother would give her baby<br />

up before she would allow the baby to be killed. His<br />

plan worked and the baby went home with its mother.<br />

Truth was exposed and a right decision was made.<br />

God then took me back to my decision of whether<br />

or not to let my business be acquired by a larger company.<br />

I realized that I had to silence all of the competing<br />

voices. I also had the revelation that money has<br />

a voice. In my prayer time I saw it. I saw money personified,<br />

and it was yelling in my face.<br />

As I mentally dropped the curtain and shut out<br />

money’s voice, I began to see clearly. I saw that in this<br />

situation, selling my company would bring negative<br />

results. I would be trading my LIFE for money, especially<br />

my time. I would lose time with my family, time<br />

to do the things I love, and most importantly, I would<br />

lose my time with God. In this quiet place I found my<br />

answer, and in this answer, I found peace. I gently<br />

backed away from the deal.<br />

If there is one thing I have learned in my decisionmaking<br />

processes, it is that learning to hear God’s<br />

voice is more important than taking classes and reading<br />

books on how to make a good decision. It’s more<br />

important than the latest financial peace course or diet<br />

or exercise phenomenon. I have found that all of my<br />

personal and business problems get worked out if I<br />

spend enough time with God through prayer and<br />

through the study of His Word. He always has the answer<br />

to my every question, my task is to get still before<br />

Him, quiet the voices that call out to me, and listen.<br />

Jeremiah 33:3 “Call to me and I will answer you<br />

and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not<br />

know.” NIV v<br />

Bonnie Hagemann is a member of the<br />

Board of Directors for Champion’s<br />

Heart Life Centers. Bonnie is the CEO<br />

of Executive Development Associates,<br />

a 28-year-old internationally known<br />

boutique consulting firm that specializes in executive<br />

development, executive coaching, and high potential<br />

development. To date, Bonnie has 11 published works.<br />

Need wisdom for a business decision?<br />

Visit Bonnie’s blog at https://bonniehagemann.wordpress.com or use your smart<br />

phone to scan the QR code.<br />

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CHAMPIONS HEART AWARD<br />

Quiting Is Not An Optionby Kristi Overton Johnson<br />

What is a champion? Or better yet, who is a champion.<br />

One popular definition of a champion is “a person<br />

who has defeated or surpassed all rivals.” The<br />

world celebrates champions in various areas such as<br />

sports, business, and the media. According to this definition,<br />

I’ve met a lot of “champions” in my life. From<br />

professional athletes, famous actors and top business<br />

executives, to military and political leaders, I’ve been<br />

blessed to meet the cream of the crop in various fields.<br />

If I were to line up the world’s “champions” and examine<br />

their lives, I would find common traits of perseverance,<br />

excellence, and discipline. I would find a<br />

teachable heart and a mind willing to listen to others.<br />

I would find a tenacious spirit, a “never give up in the<br />

face of adversity” attitude.<br />

In my life, the people who have impacted me the<br />

most aren’t the “champions” that I’ve met in athletics<br />

or in the corporate world, although they do inspire<br />

me. The “champions” who have touched my life the<br />

most are ordinary people who live out the above mentioned<br />

qualities in their daily lives… people such as<br />

Dan and Sue Plaster.<br />

I met this amazing couple when Tim and I moved to<br />

Keystone Heights, Florida in the mid 1990’s. One of the<br />

first times that I met Sue, she came right over to me,<br />

gave me a big hug and then surprisingly planted a<br />

sweet kiss on my forehead. She then invited me to<br />

lunch, where we shared our hearts and our struggles<br />

and learned that other than the 40 year age difference,<br />

we had much in common.<br />

Over the years, Sue’s faithfulness to her husband,<br />

family, and community has inspired me to live life to the<br />

fullest. Now in her 80’s, Sue continues to work in the<br />

real estate industry, as well as serve faithfully in her<br />

church and local ministries. You can always find Sue promoting<br />

worthy events and even organizing them, such<br />

as our community’s recent, “Pray for Rain” gathering.<br />

Dan, like Sue, has a spirit that both encourages and<br />

challenges anyone to greatness. From the first time I<br />

met Dan, I witnessed his heart of perseverance and<br />

from that day, he has reminded me, just by watching<br />

him live, to never, ever give up.<br />

One of the first times I<br />

encountered Dan was at church.<br />

Tim and I were sitting behind him<br />

and Sue when the pastor asked<br />

us to turn to a certain scripture.<br />

Tim and I, as well as Sue, quickly<br />

turned to the scripture and followed<br />

along with the reading.<br />

But I couldn’t help but notice that<br />

Dan was having a bit of trouble.<br />

Over and over again, he would<br />

grab the page of the Bible only to<br />

have it slip from his hands. I<br />

didn’t realize at the time, but Dan<br />

has a condition that results in<br />

hand tremors when he engages<br />

his hand muscles. This condition<br />

makes daily tasks like eating,<br />

combing your hair, brushing your<br />

teeth, or Dan’s favorite… teeing<br />

up a golf ball…very difficult.<br />

Over and over again, Dan attempted to turn the<br />

page of the Bible. I was sure he would give up when<br />

the pastor moved on to other scriptures, but Dan kept<br />

on grabbing at the corner of that page, unaffected by<br />

the fact that we had moved on. All I could think was,<br />

“Wow! This man is something!” I was blown away by<br />

his refusal to quit. I was also blessed by his patience. I<br />

continue to be blown away by Dan’s persevering spirit<br />

as I’ve witnessed him face not only the daily challenges<br />

of his tremors, but also continuing treatments for<br />

myeloma cancer and painful back spasms, all with joy.<br />

One of the greatest blessings to me has been to witness<br />

Dan and Sue as a couple. They have an incredible<br />

relationship that continues to grow even after 60 years!<br />

I am amazed by the respect and faithfulness they have<br />

towards one another. I remember waiting for Sue to turn<br />

the page for Dan at church, but she didn’t. She knew<br />

not to step in at that moment. But there have been<br />

other times when I’ve watched her quietly come to his<br />

side and help where needed. They have learned to face<br />

life’s daily challenges together, in a manner that builds<br />

each other up and gives each other value.<br />

Dan and Sue celebrate their receipt of<br />

the Champion’s Heart Award with their<br />

family in Christ: Tim and Kristi Johnson;<br />

Terry and Reneé Harp; Buck and LeaNan<br />

Burney; and Anna and Melodie Purkey.<br />

When I asked Sue to share the source behind their<br />

strength, she replied, “Quitting is not in our<br />

vocabulary. When Dan was diagnosed with cancer, he<br />

just looked at me and said, ‘I don’t know how to quit!<br />

I refuse to give up.’”<br />

When I asked Dan how he faces his challenges with<br />

such patience and perseverance, he simply replied, “I<br />

have so many things to be thankful for, I just focus on<br />

those!” Both agree that their faith in God is the true<br />

source of their strength. It is what enables them to keep<br />

going in the face of adversity.<br />

Thank you, Dan and Sue, for touching my life and<br />

the lives of many by choosing never to quit. As you<br />

push forward daily with joy in your heart, you encourage,<br />

inspire, and challenge the hearts of many! Congratulations<br />

on being recipients of this issue’s<br />

“Champion’s Heart Award.” It is well deserved, as you<br />

both have the hearts of champions!<br />

We love you! v<br />

Champion’s Heart Life Center would like to recognize individuals who<br />

exhibit the heart of a champion…<br />

a heart of love, integrity, patience, and perseverance.<br />

In this issue of Victorious Living, Champion's Heart would like to present The Champion's Heart Award to Dan & Sue Plaster. Dan<br />

and Sue exemplify the heart of a champion... a heart of integrity, generosity, love, and kindness. Their servants’ hearts have made it possible for<br />

many to achieve their dreams. Ultimately, because of the foundation that they have provided, many lives have been forever changed.<br />

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We asked our readers to share what<br />

they have done to find worth and<br />

acceptance in the eyes of others…<br />

One of the craziest things that I ever<br />

did was join in a group’s plan to<br />

ostracize a girl based on something<br />

we had “heard” about her. We all<br />

ignored this girl and shut her out of<br />

our lives completely. We treated her<br />

terribly. After several weeks of ignoring<br />

her, we found out that the group’s<br />

ringleader had made up the story<br />

about this girl and told it to us as<br />

“truth” because she was extremely<br />

jealous of her. We were HORRIFIED at<br />

the way we had treated her but more<br />

importantly - we were horrified at<br />

how gullible we had been. We went<br />

to the person, explained the situation,<br />

and asked her forgiveness. She took<br />

the high road and forgave us, BUT we<br />

could tell we had hurt her to the core.<br />

Although this happened 30 years ago,<br />

I have never forgotten it. Because<br />

of this experience, I’ve learned to<br />

pray for a discerning spirit and to seek<br />

God's guidance when it comes<br />

to man's opinions. I listen to what<br />

people say - but I judge what I believe<br />

by trusting God to always show me<br />

truth.<br />

~Vanessa<br />

a<br />

When I was 17, I did a “flying<br />

dock start” bare footing off the<br />

Brooklyn Bridge. I tore up my knee<br />

and couldn't ski for 2 months. All for<br />

some dumb boy! ~Dana<br />

a<br />

The craziest thing that I ever did to<br />

impress someone was riding a<br />

mechanical bull shortly after having<br />

hamstring surgery! What was I<br />

thinking?<br />

~ Christine<br />

a<br />

As a teenager, I wanted to “breathe<br />

fire” like Gene Simmons from KISS.<br />

The trick went well most of the time,<br />

until the time my face caught on fire!<br />

~Anonymous<br />

What IS Champion’s Heart?<br />

Champion’s Heart helps people of all ages, genders and socio-economic status break free, move forward,<br />

and soar to victory! Thousands of people are being touched through our local, national and international<br />

ministries daily. Here is a quick look at our outreach programs:<br />

Champion’s Heart “In His Wakes” Sports Outreach encourages<br />

at-risk youth to “GET OFF THE DOCK!” of life through our “A Day to Remember”<br />

program. Through an incredible day on the water, warm hospitality<br />

from our team, and a message of God’s love, our participants grab hold of the<br />

truth: they are loved, there is hope, and their lives have purpose! IHW also<br />

ministers “On the Shores” at amateur and professional water ski events sharing the love of Jesus Christ<br />

through worship services and by mentoring junior competitors to be champions for Christ.<br />

Champion’s Heart Kids Outreach builds leaders through local Bible<br />

Clubs, academic scholarships, and special events. Sports clinics, arts and crafts,<br />

dance lessons, and more allow Champion’s Heart to build mentoring relationships<br />

with children to develop hearts of character… hearts of champions!<br />

Champion’s Heart Victorious Living helps people soar to victory<br />

through our quarterly magazine, faith-based motivational writings, audio and<br />

video messages, and motivational seminars.<br />

Champion’s Heart Life Resource Center provides on-site<br />

resource assistance and referral service (food, housing, furniture, basic needs)<br />

as well as relational and recovery support.<br />

www.championsheart.org<br />

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Coloring Outside<br />

The Lines<br />

by Bandi Morford<br />

My name is Bandi.<br />

I am a single, 36 year old woman who has never been married.<br />

I have no kids, nor do I have a career.<br />

I am overweight and out-of-shape.<br />

I have no medical insurance, 401K, or retirement plan.<br />

I don’t have a house; in fact, I don’t even own a TV.<br />

Four years ago, I quit my job and decided to live a more simple life. This is not<br />

the story of how or why; rather, this is the story of how I live with my decision.<br />

After college, I moved to South Florida, where I held the positions of teacher<br />

and athletic coach for ten years. As a single career woman, I bought a big house<br />

and filled it full of stuff! Eventually the stuff began to own me, so I decided it was<br />

time to simplify and change gears.<br />

I ended up selling nearly all of my possessions and moving to Hawaii. After a<br />

year in Hawaii, I moved to South Korea to teach English. During my stay in Korea,<br />

my eyes were opened to a new world of people and their culture.<br />

To say the travel bug bit me would be an understatement. My backpack and<br />

I have made our way through 20 countries throughout the world. I’ve met the<br />

most amazing people in my travels that always seem to want to take me back<br />

to their homeland to show me their way of life. My next adventure is to join my<br />

new Russian friends who will guide me through their homeland, as well<br />

as the Ukraine. Only God knows where I’ll end up after that.<br />

From the outside looking in, some people may think I have<br />

the perfect life. Some may say I have nothing. But can we<br />

ever truly understand how another lives, until we have<br />

walked in their shoes? My prayer is that I can truly<br />

understand my God and myself.<br />

I have moments where I struggle, as<br />

I compare myself to those around me. I begin to<br />

feel lonely, unaccepted, and not good<br />

enough. When this happens, I feel myself slipping<br />

into a deep hole of depression. My<br />

mind becomes filled with negative<br />

thoughts that convince me that everyone<br />

sees me as a failure in life. In the end, these<br />

thoughts transfer to how I see myself.<br />

My biggest struggle has been over my decision to remain career-less. At home<br />

in the US, I feel it is not acceptable to live without a “real” job, a home, and a<br />

family. As humans, we are constantly looking at each other to see if we have life<br />

figured out and under control as much as the next person. It is a battle for one<br />

not to drown in it all!<br />

At times, I’ve grown angry with God for not making me “fit in”, for not making<br />

me like other people. Sometimes I feel as if He left me out to dry with no real<br />

passion for the things that make me acceptable in this society. I blame Him for<br />

not revealing a definite “plan” for my life.<br />

Recently, I attended a conference about creating your own “life story.” This<br />

conference helped change my perspective and helped me find the peace and<br />

confidence to move forward in my life. At this conference, I learned something incredible.<br />

It is this: I am different; I am unique; I am weird; and I do not fit within<br />

the American lifestyle stereotype. BUT, none of this means my story is not loved<br />

and accepted by my Father God. 4<br />

Taj Mahal, Agra, India<br />

Bandi Morford<br />

is a world<br />

traveler and<br />

a native of<br />

Melrose, FL.<br />

Chiang Mai, Thailand<br />

Making friends in<br />

Phnom Penh, Cambodia<br />

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3Donald Miller gave this example: He said<br />

to imagine God as just a normal Dad sitting on<br />

the floor with you, His child. He pulls out a big<br />

sheet of butcher paper and a box of crayons<br />

and says, “Let’s color together! Draw whatever<br />

you want.” You begin to draw with your Father,<br />

the best you know how. Like any parent, no<br />

matter what you draw, no matter how out of<br />

the lines you may go, no matter what color you<br />

use, your Father thinks it’s gorgeous. He even<br />

hangs your picture on his fridge for the world<br />

to see!<br />

Rowing on the<br />

Ganges River, Varanasi, India<br />

In this example, God is our Father and our<br />

life is the butcher paper and crayons. The drawing<br />

we color may not be the same as everyone<br />

else’s, but Father God still loves it. He is proud<br />

of it. This brings me such hope, as I realize that<br />

He loves my “life picture” even though it may<br />

be different than other peoples, even though it<br />

may not be colored in the “normal” way.<br />

I’ve also found peace in the realization that<br />

God isn’t focused on what my “picture” looks<br />

like. He isn’t concerned with where I live, how<br />

I look, how much money I make, or what I do<br />

for a living - NO! God does not see size, or<br />

color, or race, or gender, or profession…He<br />

sees hearts. He isn’t looking for someone who<br />

colors within the lines; He is simply looking for<br />

a heart willing to live out loud for Him. God’s<br />

greatest desire is for the two of us to do this<br />

thing called life - TOGETHER!<br />

God does not need for me to have a career<br />

to be a success to Him. He doesn’t need for me<br />

to be a size 6 to fit into the life He wants for<br />

me. I do not need a 401K or a retirement plan<br />

to get into heaven. His desire is for me to love<br />

Him, to love myself, and to love others, whether<br />

at home or abroad. That is my goal.<br />

I pray I will no longer listen to the lies of this<br />

world that scream I am not good enough<br />

because I do not fit the “mold.” In my heart of<br />

hearts, I know that I am making a masterpiece<br />

with my Father, as we travel through life<br />

together. v<br />

Being in the<br />

right place…<br />

Right With<br />

God!<br />

How many stories<br />

have we heard about<br />

someone being in the<br />

right place at the right<br />

time? Well, what if it’s not necessarily<br />

where you are, but rather where you are<br />

with God that matters? If you are open<br />

to allowing God’s love to shine through<br />

you, it really doesn’t matter where you<br />

are located physically. God is at work<br />

everywhere!<br />

So whether you find yourself working<br />

out at the gym, cleaning your house,<br />

working at the office, serving in full-time<br />

ministry, or, like Bandi, traveling the<br />

world; by being willing to see the world<br />

with God’s eyes and touch people with<br />

His heart of love, the world around you<br />

can be forever changed! You don’t have<br />

to leave your zip code to impact the<br />

world, you can make a world of difference<br />

every single day, right where you<br />

are, as long as your heart, mind, and soul<br />

are in the right place… in line with the<br />

heart of God!<br />

As a matter of fact, do everything that<br />

way, heartily and freely to God's glory.<br />

~1 Corinthians 10:31 (MSG)<br />

Delivering books to kids who’ve never had one, Luang Prabang, Laos<br />

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A Look<br />

in the<br />

Mirror<br />

by Jean Roach<br />

Iwas sitting at the kitchen table looking at myself<br />

in my hand mirror when my Dad walked in.<br />

I let him know by my expression that I<br />

considered his presence an intrusion, that I wanted<br />

to be left alone, and that I wasn’t in the mood to<br />

hear anything he had to say.<br />

“What are you doing?”<br />

I thought it was obvious what I was doing, but to<br />

cut the conversation short, I answered him tersely,<br />

“Looking at myself in the mirror.”<br />

After a few silent seconds, I asked what every<br />

teenage girl wants to know,<br />

“Daddy, am I pretty?”<br />

“You’re beautiful!” He responded without<br />

hesitation.<br />

I put the mirror down and let him know in no<br />

uncertain terms that I knew exactly what he was<br />

doing. “Daddy, you have to say I’m beautiful! You’re<br />

my father. That’s your job!”<br />

My father laughed. “It’s not my job! I don't have<br />

to say anything. You are Beautiful! Why did you ask<br />

me if you don’t believe me?”<br />

“It is your job!” I argued with him. “That’s the<br />

job God gives all fathers. Fathers have to tell their<br />

daughters they are beautiful. I just wanted to see if<br />

you do your job and tell the truth.”<br />

My father continued to laugh. He could be so irritating.<br />

How dare he call me beautiful and expect me<br />

to believe it! Everybody told me that I looked just like<br />

him and he certainly was not my idea of beautiful.<br />

Besides, I had the mirror; I could see my blemishes.<br />

The only thing that bothered me was that I could also<br />

see my father’s eyes. I could tell by the way that he<br />

looked at me that he really believed that I was beautiful.<br />

I wasn’t sure which to believe -- my mirror or my<br />

father’s eyes.<br />

It would not be until years later when my own<br />

children were born that I would understand that both<br />

my father and I had been right. I was beautiful and<br />

it was his job to tell me. Parents see a beauty beyond<br />

the senses, a beauty called into being by the one who<br />

recognizes it. We parents believe in our heart that<br />

our child will make a difference in this world.<br />

God the Father is the same. He tells us in the Book<br />

of Isaiah,“… You are precious… in my sight.”<br />

(Isaiah 43:4) NIV<br />

Some of us hold God the Father at arm’s length<br />

and argue with Him in our hearts because we see<br />

only our blemishes of sin and failure and weakness,<br />

and we believe we could not possibly be precious.<br />

When the Father looks at us, He sees only what He<br />

created us to be. He sees the beauty of our gifts and<br />

talents, kindness, generosity, humility and justice, and<br />

He constantly calls that beauty into being. He<br />

believes in His heart, that His children will make a<br />

difference in this world. Each of us has to decide<br />

which to believe, the voice of deception or the voice<br />

of the One Who created us.<br />

Let us allow the beauty within us to come forth<br />

so that, as we grow, we look more and more like our<br />

heavenly Father.<br />

Let us ask for the grace to believe as the Psalmist:<br />

“…You have created my inmost being; You knit<br />

me together in my mother’s womb. I praise You<br />

because I am fearfully and<br />

wonderfully made;<br />

Your works are<br />

wonderful…”<br />

(Psalm 139: 13-<br />

14) NIV v<br />

You are<br />

precious<br />

…in my sight.”<br />

Isaiah 43:4 NIV<br />

Jean Roach resides in Gainesville, FL.<br />

She has led an intercessory prayer for<br />

more than 35 years and helps people<br />

know the love of God through her publications.<br />

Jean has five grandchildren.<br />

We asked our readers to share what<br />

they have done to find worth and<br />

acceptance in the eyes of others…<br />

I have done many stupid things to<br />

be accepted. None of them ever<br />

worked & most backfired on me.<br />

I've cheated, lied, & stolen… only<br />

the Lord knows what else! Once in<br />

the sixth grade, I voted for myself<br />

twice in a contest. I got caught because<br />

I had folded the two pieces of<br />

paper together. I had to confess to<br />

the teacher what I had done. I<br />

praise God that I don’t have to do<br />

anything for Him to accept me. I<br />

thank Him that old things have<br />

passed away! ~Jessie<br />

a<br />

It was "Amateur Night" at the Ft.<br />

Worth Texas Rodeo. I had a date<br />

and decided to ride a bull in the<br />

arena, as I was aiming to "impress"<br />

my lady. Impress her I did. I rode the<br />

bull, a big white Brahma, for eight<br />

seconds--- then leapt off and ran as<br />

fast as I could for the stands, where<br />

I dove in head first--- just ahead of<br />

the bull. ~John W.<br />

a<br />

I tried to be trim and healthy to<br />

make my husband and others proud.<br />

~Anonymous<br />

a<br />

When I was in college, I took a fire<br />

truck for a joy ride through the campus.<br />

My buddy and I were driving<br />

around with the siren and lights on<br />

trying to impress the ladies. We<br />

even called out to them on the PA<br />

system. In the end, we got the fire<br />

truck stuck in a ditch and landed in<br />

a whole lot of trouble! No, I was not<br />

chemically impaired; this was my<br />

“normal” behavior! ~Nate<br />

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Kenny Vaughan<br />

It was 1977. I was a fifth grader and a pretty good<br />

athlete. Baseball was my favorite sport; in fact, I had<br />

made all-stars every year since five pitch. By accident,<br />

I discovered that I was good at track too. The junior<br />

high school track coach came over to the elementary<br />

school one day looking for two kids to run on the jr.<br />

high track team. The whole school ran 100-yard<br />

dashes to determine who would run with the older<br />

kids. By the end of the week, I found myself on the<br />

jr. high track team.<br />

All of a sudden, I went from just another kid in<br />

school, to a kid almost everyone knew about. Even the<br />

junior high kids knew that I was fast. Talk about a confidence<br />

boost! Over the next two years, I grew in popularity.<br />

I was in the “in crowd” and sitting at the<br />

“who’s who” table with all of the other popular kids.<br />

But then came puberty. It happened in the eighth<br />

grade. It seemed everyone in school hit their growth<br />

spurt except for me. All around me, voices deepened<br />

and facial hair sprouted, but I<br />

stayed a child. In the ninth<br />

grade, I measured a whopping<br />

4 foot 10 inches tall. All<br />

of a sudden, these “men”<br />

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didn’t want the little boy around. My friends who normally<br />

saved me a seat at lunch were now sending me<br />

away with the excuse, "Someone is sitting there".<br />

I started eating alone to avoid the embarrassment<br />

of having them send me away, only to pull up an<br />

extra chair for someone else. As I look back, I don’t<br />

think that they were trying to be mean; they were<br />

just trying to protect their image. To top off this<br />

rejection, my small frame hindered me from excelling<br />

in the sports that I had always loved and dominated.<br />

Imagine going from the best kid in the league, to a<br />

kid who didn’t even make the baseball team in ninth<br />

grade. I was pretty heart broken.<br />

One day as I sat alone, I began to notice<br />

something that I had never noticed before… other<br />

kids were sitting alone at lunch too. Rather than sit<br />

by myself, I began to join them and I realized they<br />

were really nice kids. What shocked me the most was<br />

how they viewed my old friends. They saw the<br />

popular kids as confident, strong, and courageous. If<br />

only they knew the “real” kids behind the masks.<br />

What bothered me the most was how I had<br />

ignored these kids for years out of selfishness; I had<br />

never thought about them because I was too busy<br />

thinking about myself. I also struggled with realizing<br />

how much value I had placed on myself because of<br />

my performance.<br />

Well by eleventh grade I finally grew (not much as<br />

I'm still only 5' 5"), but I was finally taller than the<br />

shortest girl in school! I was also beginning to<br />

excel in water skiing, which of course got me<br />

an invitation back to the “cool” table. Only<br />

thing was… I really didn't want to sit<br />

there anymore. I had made new friends,<br />

friends who had accepted me for me,<br />

not because of my performances.<br />

I learned so much in high school, probably the<br />

most valuable life lessons I could have ever learned.<br />

I learned that everyone has value and that value isn’t<br />

based on his or her performances. I also learned how<br />

important it is to make sure people know that they<br />

have value. Coach Lewis taught me this lesson.<br />

Everyday when I walked past his room, he would call<br />

out my name. To this day I don’t know why, but boy<br />

did it make me feel good to be acknowledged. Sometimes,<br />

I would walk all the way around the school<br />

just to pass his room before going to my next class,<br />

which was right next-door! He encouraged me every<br />

single day through a simple greeting. I’ve always<br />

tried to do the same. I do my best to listen as intently<br />

to a guy living on the street, as I do a General Officer<br />

at the Pentagon.<br />

Acts 10:34 says that God does not show<br />

favoritism; He isn’t a respecter of persons. He loves<br />

us all the same, whether we sit at the popular table<br />

or not. We all have value to Him, so much so that He<br />

sent His most precious possession (His Son) to die<br />

for us all. He allowed Himself to be nailed to a cross<br />

for you and for me based on His love for us, not our<br />

performances. Get that truth in your heart and it will<br />

change everything!<br />

Jesus is the perfect example for us to follow in all<br />

areas of our lives, but especially in relationships with<br />

people. He gave His all for us, regardless of who they<br />

were and what they had done. We often hold back<br />

because of fear; fear of what other’s may think and<br />

fear of what it may cost us. Perfect love casts out all<br />

fear (I John 4:18). Lay those fears aside and believe<br />

enough in your own value to make a sacrifice for<br />

someone else no matter how much it cost. In that<br />

place of sacrifice, you will truly find life, joy, peace,<br />

and worth. v<br />

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OH!<br />

OH!<br />

How He LOVES us!<br />

How He LOVES us!<br />

He is jealous for me…<br />

Loves like a hurricane,<br />

I am a tree, bending<br />

beneath the weight of<br />

His wind and mercy.<br />

When all of a sudden,<br />

I am unaware of these<br />

afflictions eclipsed by<br />

glory and I realize just<br />

how beautiful You are<br />

and how great Your<br />

affections are for me!<br />

And OH…<br />

How He loves us so!<br />

McMillan, John Mark. “How He Loves.”<br />

Lyrics. The Song Inside the Sounds of<br />

Breaking Down. Integrity Media, 2010.<br />

by Brad Williams<br />

“I just love that outfit.” “Oh, I love this recipe.”<br />

The examples are many. We use the word love in so<br />

many different ways and contexts, it seems as if we<br />

have forgotten exactly what it means, or even what<br />

it implies.<br />

Even when it comes to the love of God, we tend<br />

to speak of it the way we do most anything else:<br />

tritely and overwhelmingly shallow. While we may<br />

acknowledge God’s love as something that is real<br />

and perhaps present, why does it often seem to<br />

move us so little?<br />

One of the most profound truths found in the<br />

Bible is that God loved us enough to give Himself for<br />

us. One verse in the Bible sums up the gospel truth<br />

of God’s love like no other verse in all of Scripture:<br />

John 3:16. This verse is widely known and often<br />

quoted, yet it seems as if we have missed what God’s<br />

Word is saying to us.<br />

Most people know this verse by heart, “For God<br />

so loved the world, that He gave His only Son, that<br />

whoever believes in Him should not perish but have<br />

eternal life.” Many Christians quote it, and many<br />

preachers preach it, but the question is ... Do we really<br />

understand what John is saying? Having a proper<br />

understanding of John 3:16 will shape how we understand<br />

the ministry of Christ, the love of the Father,<br />

and the power of the gospel.<br />

For many, when they read John 3:16, they focus<br />

on whom God loves. Now, no doubt God’s love does<br />

reach the world-- which I certainly think is a point to<br />

be made here--but that is not the main point.<br />

The primary purpose in John 3:16 is to tell how<br />

God loves. The word “so” is a Greek word that is<br />

more appropriately translated, thus or in this way. So,<br />

when we look at the verse we should actually read it<br />

as follows: “For God loved the world in this way: He<br />

gave His only Son, that whoever believes in Him<br />

should not perish but have eternal life.”<br />

As we see, John’s focus is not just to show the width<br />

of God’s love--to whom it is extended. Rather, John is<br />

showing us the unfathomable depth of God’s love.<br />

The gospel is not merely a call to faith; it is a call<br />

to live in the reality of the deep, rich love of God. We<br />

must understand that God did not merely say I love<br />

you, He demonstrated His love by giving His perfect<br />

Son as a sacrifice to atone for our sin.<br />

Humanity was separated from God by the curse<br />

of sin, and God restored our relationship by giving<br />

us Jesus. Both the faith and the life that flow through<br />

the power of the cross are the result of God’s love.<br />

Why do we trust God? Because He showed us His<br />

love and trustworthiness through the cross, that is why.<br />

Why do we enjoy eternal life? God’s love for us<br />

through the cross has given us new life in Christ.<br />

What John gives us here is “love in action.” That<br />

is, God has not only confessed to love us, He has<br />

proven how much He loves us by giving His Son as a<br />

ransom for the souls of His people.<br />

This is the vertical side of the equation-the aspect<br />

dealing specifically with our relationship with God.<br />

There is, however, a horizontal aspect as well-how<br />

God’s gift of love effects how God’s people reflect<br />

that love to others.<br />

God’s sacrificial love<br />

must be the pattern for<br />

how we love others.<br />

Jesus makes that clear in John 15:13, when He<br />

says, “Greater love has no one than this, that someone<br />

lay his life down for his friends.” What makes<br />

this statement so remarkable is that Jesus was about<br />

to lay His life down for His people, as His own expression<br />

of love.<br />

Naturally, we will never make the same sacrifice<br />

Jesus did because His was redemptive and unique.<br />

We are, however, called to show love primarily in sacrificing<br />

for the good of others. God the Father laid<br />

down the life of God the Son that He might redeem<br />

us and call us His friends.<br />

Why do we serve or sacrifice? Will it merit God’s<br />

love? Will it make us more appealing to God? Absolutely<br />

not! We serve and sacrifice; we love because<br />

we are the recipients of the richest, purest, most effectual<br />

love of all. To lay down our lives for the good<br />

of others is to humbly serve them before we serve<br />

ourselves. It is to shoulder their burdens and enter<br />

into their struggles with no thought of being repaid.<br />

Why is the church called upon to love in this way?<br />

Simple… it is the example that has been set before<br />

us. The sacrifice of God is the seal of His deep love for<br />

His church. Likewise, the church shows that she is<br />

God’s by seeking to reflect His love to all people.<br />

The gospel is the message of hope and redemption.<br />

It is the Good News that sin and death have<br />

been crushed by the power of the cross. The foundation<br />

upon which the gospel is built is the deep love of<br />

God. His love saves us, His love empowers us to trust,<br />

and His love liberates us to serve and love others. v<br />

Brad Williams graduated from<br />

Reformed Theological Seminary and<br />

is the pastor of Keystone Heights<br />

Presbyterian Church in Keystone<br />

Heights, FL. He is the husband of<br />

Rachel and father of 4 children.<br />

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We asked our readers to share what<br />

they have done to find worth and<br />

acceptance in the eyes of others…<br />

When I was a college student in<br />

Boone, NC, some friends and I<br />

jumped off a dam that was 40 feet<br />

above a rushing river. One of the<br />

guys bet no one would dive into the<br />

water. I took the challenge, but I<br />

ended up hitting the rush of water<br />

that was coming up from the bottom.<br />

I blacked out and floated faceup<br />

50 yards down stream. I am<br />

thankful to be alive! ~George W.<br />

a<br />

I started smoking to impress my<br />

ex-husband. Finally, 20 years later, I<br />

quit to make my son proud of me.<br />

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I once created a “Phantom of the<br />

Opera” costume and walked into a<br />

restaurant dressed as the Phantom<br />

to deliver my husband a dozen yellow<br />

roses along with two tickets to<br />

front row seats to see the “Phantom<br />

of the Opera on Broadway.”<br />

He was not only impressed,<br />

but also surprised. ~Deborah<br />

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While in jr. and sr. high school,<br />

I faked my belief in Jesus. This<br />

pleased my parents and school authorities.<br />

But in the end, it didn’t<br />

satisfy me. My conclusion - you<br />

can't fake your belief. It is binary -<br />

either you believe in Jesus Christ or<br />

you don’t. You can't have it both<br />

ways. You have to get off the fence.<br />

~Roger<br />

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