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<strong>BLUSH</strong><br />
FREE | WINTER <strong>2019</strong><br />
WORK<br />
LIFE<br />
BALANCE<br />
HAIR<br />
AFTER<br />
CRISIS<br />
Physical<br />
formidable<br />
PINK<br />
POWER<br />
POWER<br />
POSE<br />
BOUNCE<br />
BACK<br />
WITH<br />
BUSINESS<br />
START-UP<br />
LIFE<br />
DESPITE<br />
DIAGNOSIS<br />
Vintage<br />
Vibe
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<strong>BLUSH</strong> | CONTENTS<br />
79<br />
CONTENTS<br />
<strong>Winter</strong><br />
2<br />
70<br />
Beauty<br />
8 The Power of make-up<br />
10 Vickie’s Story<br />
12 Homemade Beauty Hacks<br />
14 Freedom to Look Good –<br />
Gender-free make-up<br />
16 VINTAGE VIBES FEATURE<br />
18 Get the Look MARILYN MONROE<br />
20 Get the Look AUDREY HEPBURN<br />
22 Get the Look DIANA ROSS<br />
26 Get the Look MADONNA<br />
29 Hair After a Crisis<br />
33 Look Good Feel Better FEATURE<br />
Leisure &<br />
Lifestyle<br />
36 Self-Empower with Kitty Waters<br />
38 Claire Taylor – My Hobby-Business<br />
Despite Diagnosis TRUE STORY<br />
39 Carla <strong>Winter</strong>s – Bounce Back<br />
in Business TRUE STORY<br />
41 Work Life – Tips for balancing<br />
home and business<br />
47 Kirsten Rees – Start-up Despite<br />
Diagnosis TRUE STORY<br />
50 Formidable – Body-shape<br />
expectations and mid-year<br />
resolutions<br />
54 To a great extent... We are<br />
indeed what we read<br />
56 Furniture Village<br />
celebrates its 30th birthday in<br />
style<br />
Ultimate<br />
Travel<br />
61 7 Reasons to visit inspirational<br />
Egypt<br />
64 Travel as Therapy with Puja K<br />
McClymont<br />
Style<br />
68 A O-Kley: Debenhams launches<br />
new brand Kley<br />
70 Pink Power WINTER TRENDS<br />
72 FAIRFAX & FAVOR fashion and<br />
charity collaboration<br />
GET THE<br />
LOOK:<br />
50s-80s<br />
18<br />
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73 Sustainable Hats – Pachacuti<br />
Panama<br />
75 Zero-Waste Knits – Valentina<br />
Karellas<br />
76 Inspirational Snaps – Tina<br />
Nikolovski<br />
79 Low Rider FASHION<br />
Health &<br />
Fitness<br />
87 Vital Minutes in the Sun<br />
88 Is Intermittent Fasting the Real<br />
Fountain of Youth?<br />
90 Power in your Pose with Core of<br />
Steel coach Emily-Rose<br />
93 Ask! Health and Fitness Goals<br />
94 Are you Missing Out? Grape<br />
Tree’s guide to 5 vital nutrients<br />
98 SHUSH! How we can talk about<br />
mental health<br />
Dear powerful, elegant women...<br />
Welcome to Blush – the magazine that<br />
reminds us that we can be everything we<br />
ever wish to be, that we can choose our<br />
paths in life and that we can succeed. Join<br />
the Blush team in supporting Look Good<br />
Feel Better charity; offering you a sensory<br />
reading experience... with stories of hope<br />
and articles to inspire each one of you<br />
in various areas of your lives. This issue<br />
we are focused on self-empowerment<br />
through creativity, beauty, business and<br />
the clothes we wear.<br />
With love, support and possibilities<br />
Jordan<br />
Editor<br />
COVER CREDITS<br />
Model: Katie<br />
Make-up: Kelli Waldock<br />
www.kelliwaldock.co.uk<br />
Photographer: Ryan Cox<br />
www.ryancoxphotography.com<br />
Hair: V-Team<br />
www.vickilordhair.com<br />
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Managing Editor &<br />
Brand Consultant<br />
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<strong>BLUSH</strong> | WINTER <strong>2019</strong> 5
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<strong>BLUSH</strong> | BEAUTY<br />
THE<br />
POWER<br />
of make-up<br />
The impact of make-up… the<br />
lipstick effect?<br />
The impact of make-up to both wearers and viewers has<br />
been scientifically studied over the years, and the results<br />
are well documented. Wearing light make-up has been<br />
shown to have a positive impact on facial recognition, with<br />
faces described as more attractive, likeable, trustworthy<br />
and competent, than those with no make-up or heavy<br />
make-up. But how does it make the wearer feel?<br />
A research study commissioned at Harvard Medical<br />
School to investigate the impact of make-up on cognitive<br />
performance showed an improved performance for those<br />
wearing light make-up, which was thought to be due<br />
to improved mood level and positive emotions created<br />
through the increased self-esteem. Cogent psychology,<br />
published 15th June 2017<br />
“I was really pleased with my<br />
new look especially as my<br />
hair had grown back grey.<br />
Everyone says to keep it<br />
and now I have more<br />
confidence with new face<br />
and lip colours and some<br />
new techniques for applying<br />
them. It makes such a<br />
difference to have people<br />
give up their time for us. I’m<br />
so grateful. I’ve got a terminal<br />
diagnosis and so I want to look<br />
good right up till the end and<br />
I feel I will now.” LGFB<br />
Beneficiary<br />
The impact of Confidence<br />
Confidence itself is attractive and appealing. Nancy Etcoff,<br />
clinical professor at Harvard Medical School and research<br />
psychologist, spoke of a study where men who had just<br />
sprayed themselves with a scented versus unscented<br />
product were judged more attractive by women who<br />
could not smell them. The men with scented body spray<br />
simply acted more confidently and so appeared more<br />
visually attractive.<br />
During the roller coaster of cancer treatment, patients<br />
are not just concerned for themselves, they worry about<br />
how ‘looking sick’ will impact on their children, their<br />
partners and their friends.<br />
“Going to a workshop was a<br />
real eye-opener for me. It was<br />
just fantastic to see what a<br />
difference it made to get<br />
professional guidance – not<br />
only to how I looked, but<br />
genuinely to how I felt as<br />
well! And my family noticed<br />
the positive difference it<br />
made to my confidence, so it<br />
was an enormous help to all of<br />
them as well, to see<br />
me looking and<br />
feeling so much<br />
better.” LGFB<br />
Beneficiary<br />
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<strong>BLUSH</strong> | BEAUTY<br />
This is where the ‘feel better’, that<br />
comes from the ‘looking good’, has<br />
real power. Feedback from those<br />
having attended a Look Good Feel<br />
Better workshop shows that their<br />
newfound confidence, even if only<br />
delivered over two hours, can be life<br />
changing. People have been able to<br />
leave their homes after living in selfimposed<br />
isolation, resumed socialising<br />
and even returned to work.<br />
“With two young children, I don’t<br />
really have much time for myself,<br />
but the LGFB workshop showed<br />
me some simple make-up tricks<br />
that are so easy and yet make<br />
such a difference. Going through<br />
cancer treatment really saps you<br />
of confidence and you feel so low,<br />
but thanks to LGFB, I know that<br />
I really do look a whole lot better<br />
and it gave me the confidence to<br />
complete my Teacher Training<br />
and get a job as a teacher.”<br />
LGFB Beneficiary<br />
lives. With the dramatic increase in<br />
survival rates (which have doubled in<br />
the last forty years), half of all people<br />
diagnosed now survive their disease<br />
for ten years or more in the UK. There<br />
is a huge potential audience for the<br />
services that Look Good Feel Better<br />
provide, statistically, we are all likely to<br />
know someone affected.<br />
Can you help us help<br />
someone you know?<br />
Text to Donate - Every £50 we<br />
receive helps to fund another place<br />
at one of our free workshops, simply<br />
text FEELBETTER followed by the<br />
amount of your donation to 70085,<br />
for example FEELBETTER20 will send a<br />
donation of £20.<br />
Buy a Confidence Kit - The perfect<br />
present you could give to a friend or<br />
relative undergoing cancer treatment is<br />
the Confidence Kit. Consisting of a DVD<br />
and 48-page booklet giving invaluable<br />
information and guidance on skincare<br />
and make-up, wig selection and<br />
cutting, scarf tying and head-coverings,<br />
as well as hand and nail care. Buy online<br />
for a suggested donation of £5 - £20.<br />
https://www.lookgoodfeelbetter.<br />
co.uk/product/confidence-kit/<br />
Raise funds - Visit the website for<br />
inspiration of how you can raise money<br />
to help support more people. Whether<br />
it’s a ‘bucket list’ challenge event or<br />
a brow wax, a cake sale or sitting in<br />
a bath of beans, you could change<br />
someone’s life through your support.<br />
https://www.lookgoodfeelbetter.<br />
co.uk/get-involved/fundraise/<br />
Spread the word - Making more<br />
people aware of the charity will help<br />
to reach those that need support as<br />
well as those who might be able to get<br />
involved such as volunteers, qualified<br />
make-up artists, beauty therapists and<br />
barbers. With so many good causes<br />
and larger charities out there, it is hard<br />
to be heard, so please spread the word!<br />
https://www.lookgoodfeelbetter.<br />
co.uk/<br />
Buy a gift from our shop - From<br />
a T-Shirt to a set of make-up brushes,<br />
a compact mirror to a stunning fabric<br />
bracelet designed to retain your<br />
favourite fragrance, anything you buy<br />
will help those that need it most.<br />
https://www.lookgoodfeelbetter.<br />
co.uk/get-involved/shop/<br />
Tip of the iceberg<br />
Look Good Feel Better currently<br />
provide support to over 20,000 people<br />
every year, through workshops,<br />
advice and online tutorials. However<br />
in the UK, over 360,000 people are<br />
diagnosed with cancer every year.<br />
By 2020, almost one in two people<br />
will get cancer at some point in their<br />
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Vickie’s<br />
STORY<br />
My name is Vickie, I live in the West Midlands<br />
with my husband and two-year-old daughter.<br />
Being diagnosed with cancer aged thirty-three<br />
has taught me a lot about life. This is my story...<br />
In September 2016, I found a<br />
lump in my right breast, at the<br />
time my daughter was only<br />
two months old. Following an<br />
ultrasound at hospital, the lump<br />
was diagnosed as a cyst from<br />
breast feeding. I returned in<br />
January 2017 as I felt the cyst had grown. I<br />
continued to receive treatment for the cyst<br />
making monthly visits to have it drained, but<br />
in July 2017 I saw a different specialist who<br />
thought it needed to be removed and sent<br />
me for a biopsy. Following the biopsy, I was<br />
diagnosed with breast cancer on the 11th<br />
August 2017. That specialist saved my life.<br />
Even though I had no history of<br />
hormonal cancer, I was sent for the BRCA<br />
test due to my age and it turned out that I<br />
was positive for the faulty BRCA2 gene.<br />
I had extensive treatment including<br />
a bilateral mastectomy without<br />
reconstruction, six cycles of chemotherapy,<br />
fifteen sessions of radiotherapy and a<br />
bilateral oophorectomy.<br />
Chemotherapy hit me the hardest. I<br />
didn’t recognise myself in the mirror; I<br />
looked so different with no hair, brows or<br />
lashes.<br />
The Look Good Feel Better workshop<br />
was an invaluable part of my cancer<br />
treatment; I was recommended to go on<br />
the course once I had started chemotherapy<br />
as it was at this point that my appearance<br />
started to change. It was a great two-hour<br />
session where you are with others going<br />
through a similar experience and you<br />
can talk openly about your concerns and<br />
feelings relating to your cancer in a safe and<br />
supportive environment.<br />
The professional beauty therapists<br />
showed us how to look after our skin during<br />
treatment as it can become dry and very<br />
sensitive. We were then given a beautiful<br />
bag full of cosmetics and skincare products<br />
that we were able to use during the session<br />
and take home afterwards. We were taught<br />
about how to colour correct certain areas<br />
of our face if we had any reactions to<br />
medication, how to apply foundation and<br />
natural base make-up, and how to make<br />
our eyes look like we had brows and lashes,<br />
(which was very beneficial once I had lost<br />
them). I would recommend a Look Good<br />
Feel Better course to anyone going through<br />
That specialist<br />
saved my life<br />
cancer treatment.<br />
My cancer journey has taught me and<br />
my family a lot – I don’t take life for granted<br />
and I enjoy every experience it has to offer. It<br />
also shows you who you can count on and<br />
who will be by your side in the darkest of<br />
days. I am so grateful I had my daughter, my<br />
husband and my family to keep me positive<br />
and looking to the future. My cancer has<br />
shown me how strong I am as a person<br />
and I now want to help and support other<br />
women going through the same thing. I<br />
have started a blog and I use my social media<br />
accounts to share my story and support other<br />
young women going through their cancer<br />
treatment. I am always looking at ways to<br />
give back to the cancer community who<br />
helped me through my journey.<br />
My next step will be to discuss the<br />
possibilities of reconstruction with my<br />
specialist. It wasn’t my priority at the time<br />
of diagnosis, but I can see further down<br />
the line the embarrassing moments that<br />
might occur as my daughter gets older and<br />
explains to her teacher that “Mummy keeps<br />
her boobs in a drawer!”<br />
If I could say one thing to someone<br />
newly diagnosed with cancer it would be,<br />
“Don’t put your life on hold, have as full a<br />
life as you can with it and take the support<br />
that is out there – it’s surprising how many<br />
people and charities really want to make a<br />
difference to people’s lives”.<br />
www.facebook.com/<br />
vickiesbreastcancerstory/<br />
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<strong>BLUSH</strong> | BEAUTY<br />
HOMEMADE<br />
beauty<br />
HACKS<br />
Make this easy seven-step<br />
homemade zesty body scrub<br />
to give your skin a boost:<br />
1. Get rid of the sugar in the cupboards<br />
– Mix one cup with half a cup of virgin<br />
coconut oil – in its solid state.<br />
2. Add some orange zest for a citrus<br />
zing... pop it in the fridge for ten<br />
minutes.<br />
3. Remove the mixture from the fridge<br />
just before you take a warm shower –<br />
Wash as normal.<br />
4. Gently rub your homemade zesty sugar<br />
scrub into areas prone to dry or rough<br />
skin... commonly the bottom, hips,<br />
upper arms and upper thighs.<br />
5. Rinse off thoroughly with warm water.<br />
6. Close your pores; increase circulation, and<br />
firm skin with a blast of ice-cold water.<br />
7. Pat your skin dry.<br />
(Remember to store the remaining scrub<br />
in the fridge for use every other day).<br />
#1<br />
#2<br />
1. Use up<br />
to three<br />
raw eggs<br />
(depending<br />
on your hair<br />
length) – and crack them in a bowl.<br />
(Ensure they are room temperature.)<br />
2. Whisk, or stir together, and add olive oil<br />
(so if you are using two eggs then two<br />
spoons full will be enough) – you can<br />
use coconut oil as well as or instead of<br />
olive oil – and then mix it all together.<br />
3. It is advised to stand in the shower or<br />
sit in the bath and apply to dry hair –<br />
as it can be a little messy!<br />
4. Leave the mixture on for ten to twenty<br />
minutes – maybe with a shower cap to<br />
keep the dripping to a minimum.<br />
5. Rinse with cool water.<br />
6. Then shampoo as usual.<br />
7. Pat hair with a towel and<br />
allow to dry naturally.<br />
There are some<br />
fantastic products<br />
available on the<br />
market, but not<br />
every beauty<br />
answer requires<br />
spending out...<br />
Don’t leave your hair out –<br />
try this seven-step mask<br />
And for<br />
to give a natural shine:<br />
added hair-care<br />
use this avocado<br />
conditioner:<br />
1. Mash a soft avocado up in a bowl.<br />
2. Add a splash of either coconut oil or<br />
olive oil, and mix again.<br />
3. Smear the simple mixture onto your<br />
hair, making sure you get a full<br />
coverage. (You can put a shower cap<br />
on to keep it from dripping – but it<br />
isn’t that messy!)<br />
4. Set your alarm for thirty minutes and<br />
enjoy an episode of your favourite series<br />
or read a few chapters of a book.<br />
#3<br />
5. Once the<br />
time is up, rinse<br />
with warm<br />
water.<br />
6. Pat hair with<br />
a towel and<br />
allow to dry<br />
naturally.<br />
Your hair<br />
will feel<br />
silky and<br />
nourished.<br />
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Beautiful<br />
AT EVERY AGE<br />
Clarins,<br />
for the love<br />
of women.<br />
It’s all about you.
<strong>BLUSH</strong> | BEAUTY<br />
Photographer credit: Dawn-Marie Jones www.stoyanovandjones.com<br />
freedom<br />
TO LOOK<br />
GOOD<br />
<strong>BLUSH</strong> caught up with Jessica Blackler; founder<br />
of Jecca Blac – a gender-free and vegan make-up<br />
brand that supports all make-up wearers...<br />
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We want people<br />
to be their own<br />
make-up artists and<br />
understand how<br />
to enhance their<br />
uniqueness<br />
and under eye<br />
darkness. We<br />
always use<br />
different models<br />
on tutorials<br />
to show how<br />
anyone can use<br />
our products.<br />
Get the right coverage<br />
for your needs<br />
Tell us about your<br />
gender-free make-up<br />
brand!<br />
I began Jecca Blac by offering<br />
make-up lessons to trans<br />
women, as I was a makeup<br />
artist in film and TV. I soon<br />
noticed that clients from all walks<br />
of life would visit Jecca Blac<br />
studio because they loved how<br />
there was no judgement and it<br />
was a safe space for those who<br />
felt judged constantly. I began<br />
creating products for customers<br />
by partnering with a cosmetic<br />
chemist... Forward a couple of<br />
years and we have introduced<br />
several new products and are<br />
gearing up for international<br />
expansion.<br />
How can make-up make<br />
people feel better about<br />
their self-image and their<br />
life situation?<br />
I believe we make clients feel<br />
comfortable and better about their<br />
life situation by understanding their<br />
needs. Clients say that they feel very<br />
Conceal scars and acne<br />
overlooked by the beauty industry<br />
due to not being reflected in brands’<br />
marketing or product development,<br />
this is why Jecca Blac was born.<br />
The products that we create are<br />
to educate and inspire<br />
people to celebrate their<br />
own beauty – whatever<br />
your reason for choosing<br />
to wear make-up and<br />
whatever your gender.<br />
The reason why all of<br />
our products come with<br />
educational packs is<br />
because we want people<br />
to be their own make-up<br />
artists and understand<br />
how to enhance their<br />
uniqueness. Our first<br />
product was the Correct<br />
& Conceal palette, which<br />
is designed to cover acne,<br />
scarring, beard shadow<br />
What is<br />
the future<br />
of beauty<br />
from your<br />
perspective?<br />
I believe the future of beauty is that<br />
brands will be more authentic with<br />
their mission, ingredients and values.<br />
Customers are demanding for brands<br />
to have amazing products but also to<br />
be conscious about the environment<br />
and to be inclusive.<br />
Surely, this has to be the<br />
future of beauty. Thank you,<br />
Jessica.<br />
www.jecca-makeup.com<br />
Jessica Blacker, Founder<br />
of Jecca Blac<br />
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<strong>BLUSH</strong> | BEAUTY<br />
Vintage<br />
VIBES<br />
The key to retro make-up is to incorporate<br />
the main trends, but with subtlety so your<br />
look is modern and not out-dated...<br />
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GET THE<br />
LOOK:<br />
1950s<br />
<strong>BLUSH</strong> | BEAUTY<br />
Marilyn<br />
Monroe<br />
1950s<br />
Photographer: Samantha Jones<br />
www.samanthajonesphotography.co.uk<br />
Make-up: Kelli Waldock<br />
www.kelliwaldock.co.uk<br />
Hair: V-Team<br />
www.vickilordhair.com<br />
Model: Stefani<br />
One of the most popular vintage looks is Hollywood<br />
glamour; think iconic actress Marilyn Monroe... Do you<br />
want those black-liner flicks that accentuate the shape of your<br />
eyes? And full lashes adding flirtatious fun? Not forgetting those<br />
statement scarlet lips? Yes! Here’s how to get the look:<br />
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<strong>BLUSH</strong> | BEAUTY<br />
before<br />
8Apply plenty of blusher<br />
to the apples of the<br />
cheeks, and blend well<br />
up to the cheekbone; apply<br />
the colour strong enough to<br />
balance out the bright poppyred<br />
lip colour.<br />
1Make-up:<br />
Use a light moisturiser on<br />
your face and neck.<br />
2Add a good quality<br />
primer all over your<br />
face as a base for the<br />
foundation.<br />
3Achieve flawless,<br />
porcelain skin with<br />
airbrushing foundation<br />
– build it up gradually to get a<br />
medium to full coverage that<br />
will have staying power.<br />
diagonal line from the outer<br />
corner of the eye about half<br />
way up towards the end of<br />
the eyebrow, then make the<br />
diagonal line thicker, creating<br />
a point for that iconic flick.<br />
TIP: Be patient and use the<br />
tip of the brow and your eye<br />
shape as guides to create the<br />
perfect flick for you.<br />
9The brows need to<br />
be defined to frame<br />
this strong retro look.<br />
Choose one shade darker than<br />
your actual eyebrow colour.<br />
4Use a primer on the<br />
eyelids to conceal<br />
blemishes and veins, then<br />
apply the eye shadow in a pearl<br />
shimmer – choose a neutral<br />
shade of beige as an option.<br />
5The eyeliner flick needs<br />
to be black and neatly<br />
applied. Create a<br />
6Curl the lashes; then<br />
add black mascara on<br />
the top and bottom<br />
lashes – Apply full false lashes<br />
for added drama. You may<br />
wish to re-touch your flick<br />
with liquid liner after your<br />
lashes dry.<br />
7Apply a lip balm, then<br />
apply a red lip-liner –<br />
this is a must for staying<br />
power – then add red lipstick.<br />
Complete the look with<br />
red nails.<br />
Hair: A sleek and<br />
glamourous style suits this<br />
era, such as the showstopping<br />
s-wave.<br />
This is achieved by<br />
either curling the<br />
hair with a wand and<br />
positioning the wave,<br />
or setting with curls<br />
and allowing them<br />
to drop with the help<br />
of brushing, before<br />
bringing a section up<br />
to create the quiff. The<br />
hair falls sexily onto<br />
bare shoulders as many<br />
dresses and tops from<br />
this era are strapless or<br />
sweetheart necklines.<br />
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Model: Kate | Make-up: Kelli Waldock www.kelliwaldock.co.uk | Hair: V-Team www.vickilordhair.com | Photographer: Ryan Cox www.ryancoxphotography.com<br />
1Make-up:<br />
Use a light moisturiser on<br />
your face and neck.<br />
2Add a good quality<br />
primer all over your<br />
face as a base for the<br />
foundation.<br />
3An overall matte finish<br />
is required for this look,<br />
with full coverage –<br />
build up Airbase Airbrushing<br />
Foundation or a Bare Mineral<br />
foundation.<br />
4Apply your favourite<br />
primer to your eyelids<br />
as a base for the creamgold<br />
or cream-silver – apply this<br />
over the eye from the inside<br />
Audrey<br />
Hepburn<br />
corner, and blend a light brown<br />
into the crease of the lid to<br />
create drama to this classic and<br />
sultry look.<br />
5Subtle liner is applied<br />
halfway along the<br />
under eye, but not on<br />
the inside, this keeps the eye<br />
wider.<br />
GET THE<br />
LOOK:<br />
1960s<br />
There is no denying that Audrey Hepburn has left<br />
a beautifully-shaped mark in many a heart... maybe<br />
it’s the kooky elegance portrayed in movies such<br />
as Funny Face; her sweet demeanour shown in<br />
Roman Holiday; contrasted with the feisty flower girl role in My Fair<br />
Lady or that inner strength and spirit in Breakfast at Tiffany’s... Or the<br />
real-life humanitarian that worked with children’s charities for many<br />
years? We all connect with Audrey Hepburn in one way or<br />
another. Here’s how to connect with her look:<br />
6Add a thick line of black<br />
kohl to the top lid, take<br />
it out to the edge of the<br />
eye and do not add a flick or<br />
a smudge.<br />
7Apply waterproof<br />
mascara to the top<br />
lashes and a light layer<br />
to the lower lashes, then apply<br />
false lashes that are defined<br />
and separate, as opposed to<br />
thick or feathered.<br />
8Eyebrows are defined<br />
in-keeping with this<br />
retro look.<br />
9Matte nude lips are a<br />
must and if the lips are<br />
dry, ensure you add lip<br />
balm before applying nude<br />
lip-liner and lipstick... Mac is a<br />
favourite in this shade.<br />
950s<br />
the whole look<br />
with a delicate<br />
10Lift<br />
matte blusher,<br />
blended across and up the<br />
cheekbone.<br />
nail colour<br />
with lip colour, and<br />
11Match<br />
for a modern twist<br />
you can add delicate gems<br />
to the fingernail of the ring<br />
finger.<br />
Hair: An iconic 60’s<br />
beehive doesn’t have to<br />
be very high. Leave a front<br />
section of hair out, and set<br />
the back section from the<br />
crown in curlers. You can<br />
create a beehive or chignon,<br />
before clipping the front<br />
sections to the side, framing<br />
the face. Use shine spray<br />
and hairspray during styling<br />
to fix the look and to ensure<br />
a sleek finish. This elegant<br />
style elongates the neck<br />
and works with sixties’ style<br />
high or square necklines.<br />
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Model: Yasmin<br />
Make-up: Kelli Waldock<br />
www.kelliwaldock.co.uk<br />
Hair: V-Team<br />
www.vickilordhair.com<br />
Photographer: Samantha Jones<br />
www.samanthajonesphotography.co.uk<br />
Flowers: Jane<br />
www.grahamgreener.com/kent-floristwedding.html<br />
GET THE<br />
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1970s<br />
LOOK:<br />
Diana<br />
1970s<br />
Ross<br />
This look is about shimmer and glam, and pops of<br />
colour all tastefully done, as Diana Ross would have<br />
done in the glamourous era of the seventies. Here’s<br />
how you can add glamour to your look:<br />
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before<br />
1Make-up:<br />
Use a light moisturiser on<br />
your face and neck.<br />
2Add a good quality<br />
primer all over your<br />
face as a base for the<br />
foundation.<br />
shadow into the smokiness,<br />
but keep more intense colour<br />
in the centre of the lid.<br />
7Apply lots of mascara to<br />
the upper and lower lids,<br />
and then apply big flirty<br />
lashes that flick up and out.<br />
modern<br />
looks need to be<br />
11Remember<br />
slightly subtler<br />
than the original retro beauty<br />
to avoid them looking over<br />
the top. But you can go wild<br />
with the ultra-glittery nails...<br />
metalics work as do deep and<br />
earthy shades combined with<br />
vibrant pops of colour such as<br />
orange.<br />
3Use your favourite<br />
foundation to create a<br />
flawless finish that is<br />
dewy and not matte.<br />
4Add primer to the eye lids<br />
after the foundation.<br />
5Create a blue-grey<br />
smoky eye over the<br />
lids; bringing the colour<br />
beneath the lower lid from the<br />
corner of the eyes.<br />
8Coral lips are a lovely<br />
colour for this look, but<br />
you can also go for a<br />
bright fuchsia-pink if this suits<br />
your skin tone or personality<br />
or outfit better.<br />
9Ensure the blush is<br />
subtle but tonal with<br />
the chosen lip colour.<br />
Hair: The hair is big.<br />
This look was achieved by<br />
working on the natural<br />
afro hair of the model,<br />
and teasing out the tight<br />
curls. For non-afro hair,<br />
use a crimper and keep<br />
a centre parting with a<br />
flower accessory<br />
to achieve an iconic<br />
seventies’ look,<br />
perfect for halter<br />
neck dresses or big<br />
sleeve, key-hole<br />
styles and plunging<br />
necklines.<br />
6Add gold metallic<br />
shadow to create depth,<br />
then blend this gold<br />
you want even<br />
more disco edge,<br />
10If<br />
add gloss to the<br />
lips and dab gold liquid liner<br />
to the lower lids of the eyes.<br />
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New & Natural...<br />
...family<br />
friendly<br />
cordials<br />
from<br />
Great<br />
value in<br />
750ml<br />
100% Natural<br />
ingredients, with over<br />
50% real fruit juice<br />
~<br />
Traditional family<br />
flavours<br />
~<br />
50% more servings than<br />
leading competitors*<br />
*Based on 250ml servings of leading<br />
orange & blackcurrant squash brands<br />
**Stocked in selected stores.
New Belvoir Cordials - Natural,<br />
Fruity & Family Friendly!<br />
Belvoir Fruit Farms has used all their fruity ‘know-how’<br />
to create two new refreshing natural cordials. Natural<br />
Blackcurrant Cordial and Natural Orange Cordial use<br />
100% natural ingredients with all the premium appeal<br />
of Belvoir’s classic Cordial range, but offer even better<br />
value for money, making them a perfect everyday treat<br />
for the whole family.<br />
Belvoir’s Natural Cordials contain 50% more juice, (but<br />
no artificial sweeteners, preservatives, colourings or<br />
flavourings) and 50% more servings than the current<br />
leading branded squash. Available in recyclable glass,<br />
750ml bottles and with a dilution ratio of 1:8, each<br />
cordial will produce a refreshing 27 (250ml) servings.<br />
This makes them not just the best value cordials<br />
currently on the market, but they can also claim the<br />
highest juice content too!<br />
So, if you feel that mainstream squash comes with<br />
too many ‘nasty’ added ingredients, Belvoir’s Natural<br />
Cordials bridge the gap between premium and<br />
run-of-the-mill. The new Natural Blackcurrant<br />
Cordial and Natural Orange Cordial offer great taste,<br />
excellent value for money, and the confidence that<br />
you’re giving your whole family a drink that is totally<br />
natural; no nasties…just tasty!<br />
• Natural Blackcurrant Cordial – made with over<br />
50% real fruit juice from luscious dark purple<br />
blackcurrants and a dash of lemon juice resulting<br />
in a full and delicious summery taste of sweet<br />
blackcurrants with a clean refreshing finish.<br />
• Natural Orange Cordial – bursting full of fruity<br />
goodness made with over 50% real fruit juice.<br />
A subtle combination of the best naturally sweet<br />
& tangy orange juices with a touch of lemon juice,<br />
creating a refreshing cordial with the natural<br />
sweetness of perfectly ripe oranges but with a<br />
zesty orangey finish.<br />
What better way of making sure your little ones<br />
drink plenty of water this summer, than mixing it with<br />
Belvoir Fruit Farms New and Natural Cordials, for a<br />
glass full of fruity goodness.<br />
Belvoir’s Natural Cordials retail for around<br />
£3.89 and are available from Waitrose,<br />
Morrisons and Sainsburys**.<br />
Check out<br />
the rest of<br />
our range in<br />
all major<br />
supermarkets
Blonde Model: Fran | Make-up: Kelli Waldock https://kelliwaldock.co.uk | Photographer: Samantha Jones http://www.<br />
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Madonna<br />
samanthajonesphotography.co.uk | Hair: V-Team https://www.vickilordhair.com<br />
GET THE<br />
LOOK:<br />
1980s<br />
Eighties make-up was all about shadow, cheeks,<br />
lips and nails... and colour! So, be bold if this is a<br />
look that you want to achieve for a night out or<br />
special occasion... Dare to go bright on the make-up<br />
paired with a modern crisp minimal styling of clothes<br />
to complement the overall vibe avoiding a fancy-dress<br />
look – But you can still go for BIG hair! Here’s how to<br />
recreate this Like a Virgin look:<br />
1980s<br />
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before<br />
1Make-up:<br />
Firstly, cleanse, tone<br />
and moisturise the skin,<br />
then apply a primer to<br />
the face and neck. A primer<br />
is a great base for your<br />
foundation, as it gives it more<br />
staying power.<br />
2Apply a foundation that<br />
suits your skin type;<br />
apply a light layer if you<br />
have good skin and prefer<br />
a natural look and build up<br />
gradually if you prefer a fuller<br />
coverage.<br />
4Intensify the look by<br />
applying the pink<br />
eyeshadow underneath<br />
the eye and after applying<br />
mascara apply false lashes to<br />
give the eye more definition.<br />
This adds a little modern edge.<br />
Instead of opting for several<br />
bold colours, choose one or<br />
two and blend them a little. Use<br />
different shades of one colour<br />
and blend into each other but<br />
keep the definition of each<br />
colour.<br />
6Keep eyebrows defined<br />
but in a natural way –<br />
they don’t have to be<br />
pristine. Use a brow powder<br />
or gel to give the brows<br />
colour and to create more<br />
depth and thickness.<br />
7Finally, apply a<br />
pink lipstick that<br />
complements the<br />
eyeshadow colour, frosted<br />
lipstick makes lips appear<br />
fuller, and it was a popular<br />
choice in the eighties.<br />
Hair: Set the hair in<br />
rollers and use a lot of<br />
spray. Big barrel curls with<br />
lots of spray is an option<br />
for modern eighties hair,<br />
or you can choose a more<br />
structured androgynous<br />
style, smoothing the sides<br />
of the hair up into a neat<br />
French pleat or Mohawk<br />
with a statement shape to<br />
create height at the top.<br />
3In the eighties, the<br />
focus of the look was<br />
the eyes, so apply a<br />
bright eyeshadow. Start with a<br />
lighter pink in the inner corner<br />
and finish with a darker hot<br />
pink in the crease and outer<br />
corner of the eye.<br />
5Apply the blusher to the<br />
hollows of your cheeks<br />
to contour your face and<br />
enhance your cheek bones.<br />
Use a pink tone, to match the<br />
eyeshadow.<br />
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100%<br />
claimed the product helped<br />
their skin appear:<br />
Noticeably firmer<br />
and smoother<br />
•<br />
Less lined and<br />
more youthful<br />
•<br />
More moisturised<br />
and hydrated<br />
*Results from a consumer perception study<br />
on 52 consumers<br />
@SBCSkincareUK<br />
sbcskincare.co.uk
Photographer - Dawn-Marie Jones<br />
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HAIR<br />
after<br />
A CRISIS<br />
Multi-award winning hairstylist and salon owner<br />
Vicki Lord provides tips on hair loss...<br />
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It is important for people to feel special, if<br />
your hair looks good then you feel great!<br />
It may seem surface, but looking your best<br />
can help you feel better. I have worked with<br />
so many clients over the years – from brides,<br />
to celebrities for the red carpet, to models on<br />
the runway; the most rewarding work I do is<br />
with patients that are recovering from chemotherapy or<br />
other treatments or conditions that cause hair loss – hair<br />
can flourish after a crisis, and so can you!<br />
One such client is Jeanette; she has suffered some<br />
difficult times, and is a survivor of Cancer. There was<br />
a time when Jeanette had to wear wigs due to her<br />
chemotherapy – chemo targets cancer cells; but also, the<br />
healthy cells and as a result it destroys hair cells.<br />
Within a few weeks of having chemo, hair loss can<br />
occur – in patches or completely. The extent depends on<br />
your treatment. It is no surprise that when people lose<br />
hair that they can suffer shock, or become depressed<br />
and this can worsen the overall recovery process. It<br />
is a time when a lot of family and friends, as well as<br />
professionals need to be supportive.<br />
Here are some tips for this<br />
sensitive time:<br />
1Many ladies will want to cover their baldness by<br />
wearing a turban, scarf, or wig. There are so many<br />
fantastic wigs out<br />
there to try,<br />
some are synthetic,<br />
which are very light<br />
to wear or there are<br />
more natural looking<br />
human-hair wigs with<br />
lace/net seams that<br />
can easily be disguised<br />
with a good quality<br />
foundation.<br />
2Try on<br />
different styles<br />
and lengths<br />
of wigs to<br />
see which one feels<br />
comfortable and which<br />
helps you feel your best.<br />
Jeanette during and<br />
after chemotherapy<br />
4Ask a<br />
hairstylist for<br />
advice and<br />
whether<br />
they would be able<br />
to cut and shape the<br />
wig; styling it to suit<br />
your facial features<br />
and personality.<br />
Cutting wigs is an<br />
art in itself as one<br />
wrong snip then<br />
the whole wig is<br />
ruined! And that’s<br />
an expensive<br />
mistake to make!<br />
Photographer:<br />
Darren Brade<br />
5Hair normally starts to grow back within a few<br />
months following chemo, starting with very<br />
fluffy hair for the first week or two then it will<br />
start to grow back at its normal rate. The new<br />
hair may differ from before, some hair will grow back<br />
curly, or thinner, or even thicker. I’ve had some clients<br />
come back to me after treatment and their hair is a<br />
completely different colour too.<br />
Jeanette’s hair has grown back beautifully and is shiny,<br />
but a little finer than before. She has<br />
a round face shape and I wanted to<br />
create lots of volume and height at<br />
the crown to lengthen and flatter<br />
her features.<br />
www.vickilordhair.com<br />
Hair can flourish<br />
after a crisis, and<br />
so can you!<br />
3Opt for a<br />
wig that is a<br />
slightly lighter<br />
colour than your<br />
natural hair colour, as the<br />
treatment may make your<br />
skin tone a little paler.<br />
Vicki working with wigs<br />
and hairpieces<br />
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LOOK<br />
GOOD<br />
Feel Better<br />
Look Good Feel Better (LGFB) is an independent national charity<br />
providing support to people living with all types of cancer.<br />
It all started in the US with a female<br />
patient who was so depressed and selfconscious<br />
about how cancer treatment<br />
had made her look, that she would not<br />
leave her hospital room. Her doctor,<br />
who had some contacts in the cosmetics<br />
industry, arranged for her to have a makeover.<br />
Not only did it transform the way<br />
she looked, but it also had a profound<br />
effect on her outlook. She felt happier,<br />
less burdened and laughed for the first<br />
time in weeks.<br />
With such dramatic results, the cancer<br />
and the beauty sector worked together<br />
to develop the program ‘Look Good<br />
Feel Better’ and the charity was born. It<br />
launched with two workshops in the US in<br />
1989 and quickly expanded across twentysix<br />
other countries.<br />
Now in the 25th year of operation in<br />
the UK, the charity has extended their<br />
reach to include special sessions for young<br />
adults, as well as a dedicated programme<br />
for men. Workshop sessions are led by<br />
trained volunteer skincare and make-up<br />
artists (and local barbers for men’s groups)<br />
providing a setting for people to meet<br />
and chat to others undergoing cancer<br />
treatment, as well as learning useful tips to<br />
help combat the changes to appearance<br />
that can occur during different types of<br />
treatment.<br />
Being given a cancer diagnosis is a<br />
traumatic event and the physical and<br />
emotional roller coaster can leave you<br />
feeling lacking in confidence and selfesteem.<br />
Practical help and advice provided<br />
in a safe and secure environment allows<br />
people to share problems and find<br />
solutions for issues like missing eyebrows<br />
and lashes, sallow or drying skin, or<br />
flaking nails.<br />
The workshops are now running in over<br />
140 hospitals and cancer support centres<br />
across the UK, from Guernsey right up to<br />
the Orkney Islands. Over 20,000 people<br />
each year receive this support, including<br />
finding advice through the charity’s online<br />
tutorials and Manual for Men.<br />
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A recent survey by CRUK stated<br />
that 78% of people with cancer<br />
have unmet emotional needs.<br />
Organisations that support people<br />
with cancer are recognising more<br />
and more that the needs of cancer<br />
patients are more complex than<br />
the medical ones being addressed.<br />
It is widely recognised that how<br />
you feel about your appearance<br />
is linked to your confidence and<br />
self-esteem. Psychologists call this<br />
‘appearance-contingent self-worth’<br />
and ‘appearance self-esteem’.<br />
LGFB know from their substantial<br />
research that the beneficiaries of<br />
their service feel more confident after<br />
attending a workshop and for 96%<br />
of people surveyed this confidence<br />
had remained three months later.<br />
‘The whole experience was<br />
relaxing and informative.<br />
Everyone at the session was<br />
given time and advice regarding<br />
their individual concerns. I am<br />
so grateful to those wonderful<br />
ladies and the volunteers who<br />
gave up their time to help, advise<br />
and support me when I was<br />
struggling. Thank you.’ LGFB<br />
Beneficiary<br />
‘I learnt so much at the session.<br />
The psychological impact of<br />
cancer is largely unaddressed<br />
and learning to apply my makeup<br />
properly made me feel more<br />
feminine, like my old self and<br />
was a real confidence booster.<br />
Just what I needed.’ LGFB<br />
Beneficiary<br />
‘I’ve not worn make-up for years<br />
but since attending the session<br />
I put the full works on every<br />
morning. I feel so confident<br />
in my appearance that I have<br />
stopped wearing a wig or scarf.<br />
What a massive difference your<br />
session has made, I feel so much<br />
better.’ LGFB Beneficiary<br />
Since launching in the UK, LGFB<br />
has helped over 170,000 people<br />
and this service is delivered by<br />
an army of over 2,600 volunteer<br />
beauty consultants.<br />
As a non-government funded<br />
independent charity, Look Good Feel<br />
Better rely entirely on the generosity<br />
of individual and corporate<br />
supporters. If you would like to get<br />
involved visit lookgoodfeelbetter.<br />
co.uk, or text LOOKGOOD5 to<br />
donate £5 or FEELBETTER10 to<br />
donate £10 to 70085<br />
It is about so much more than<br />
make-up.<br />
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Self-<br />
Empower<br />
“Don’t dream your life,<br />
live your dreams” as the<br />
saying goes… But how<br />
do you get to that point?<br />
Kitty Waters shares<br />
how you can empower<br />
yourself by using Dharma<br />
principles and create the<br />
life you love...<br />
In our busy lives, it’s not always<br />
easy to take a step back and<br />
really wonder whether we are<br />
living the life we truly wanted for<br />
ourselves. So many people go on<br />
with their routine, day after day,<br />
without thinking twice about it,<br />
without realising that happiness is just a step<br />
away, if only we took the time to assess our<br />
wants and needs and breakaway from the<br />
draining patterns we have created.<br />
I was just using<br />
distractions to<br />
convince myself I<br />
was happy<br />
Ultimately every human being wants to be<br />
happy. It’s what we strive for.<br />
For the most part of my twenties I was<br />
deeply unhappy, looking in all the wrong<br />
places, mainly using drugs and alcohol to<br />
distract myself from what was really going<br />
on around me and inside me. I had a high<br />
paying job and great friends. Anyone looking<br />
from the outside would have thought I had<br />
it all. But it didn’t feel right, I was miserable<br />
and my gut told me, ‘there is more to life<br />
than this’.<br />
I realised later I had no meaning, no real<br />
purpose in my life. And I was just using<br />
distractions to convince myself I was happy,<br />
but that worked only very temporarily. I<br />
reassessed my life and realised I needed more.<br />
That’s where I started my journey to healing<br />
and my hunt for happiness. What truly<br />
changed me was my discovery of Dharma.<br />
Dharma, in ancient Vedic means “The path<br />
of right action... Right action is the action<br />
which is of maximum benefit to the individual<br />
and the entire creation at the same time.”<br />
What is Dharma and<br />
why follow it? We have<br />
each been blessed with<br />
a unique set of gifts and<br />
talents and when we use<br />
those in service to others,<br />
our happiness comes alive.<br />
We all have the capacity<br />
to turn our desires into our<br />
reality, our soul knows the<br />
way. And creating the life<br />
of your dreams doesn’t<br />
have to be a struggle.<br />
Nowadays, it feels<br />
like there is a trend around wellbeing and<br />
‘following your bliss’ but this doesn’t come<br />
from nowhere, it has true meaning: life is<br />
not meant to be hard, we are meant to go<br />
towards our highest excitement in any given<br />
time, and this, in turn will lead us to what we<br />
are meant to be doing here on Earth.<br />
It shouldn’t be hard to create our own<br />
happiness. It’s all about taking the first steps<br />
towards it.<br />
To do your Dharma,<br />
take a bliss life audit:<br />
#1<br />
How can you add more bliss<br />
to your life? By serving others!<br />
Who do you want to serve?<br />
Don’t let it overwhelm you, these are<br />
only ways to make yourself happier, not<br />
complicate your life.<br />
Take time to assess things clearly<br />
and make a habit of writing<br />
#2<br />
them down. Write everything<br />
down, from dreams and fresh ideas, to<br />
blocks, questions, ideals and solutions,<br />
with notes on how each point makes you<br />
feel. This will indicate the way to go, and<br />
where to take that first step to change<br />
your life. Remember to always follow<br />
what lights you up.<br />
If you are not sure where<br />
to start, start small. Having<br />
#3<br />
interviewed over one-hundred<br />
thought leaders on this path, the results<br />
and impact on their lives is amazing.<br />
When we do our Dharma, life responds in<br />
ways we never thought possible.<br />
The gift is in the giving.<br />
By Kitty Waters, founder and host of Kitty<br />
Talks, and teacher of Do Your Dharma:<br />
www.kittywaters.com<br />
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MY HOBBY-<br />
BUSINESS<br />
despite<br />
DIAGNOSIS<br />
Claire Taylor shares her story of how her hobby<br />
has helped her through her health issues...<br />
Claire<br />
Mark ‘Sharky’ Finn<br />
Although I have<br />
a Facebook page<br />
and a website, I<br />
don’t actually run<br />
a business as such;<br />
it is a hobby that I<br />
have turned into a<br />
service for free... Freya Finn Photography is<br />
my hobby-business; I’ve been interested in<br />
photography since I was a child – following<br />
my father’s footsteps who shared the same<br />
love for his photographic hobby. When I<br />
was old enough, he gave me his old Pentax<br />
35mm camera to begin capturing my own<br />
memories. I have had no official training<br />
in photography other than those years of<br />
personal practice. I have no need for the<br />
qualifications because I simply love taking<br />
pictures and I’ve just learnt as I’ve gone along.<br />
I had been struggling for years with a<br />
lack of energy and unexplained pain and<br />
discomfort, and I was diagnosed with<br />
Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (M.E.) and<br />
Fibromyalgia in late 2009 (both conditions<br />
are known as invisible chronic conditions).<br />
Although the symptoms started years before<br />
this, it took a long time to diagnose as they<br />
can mimic other conditions.<br />
I appear to look ‘fine’ but what others<br />
don’t see, know or understand is that I have<br />
crippling pain, chronic fatigue and cognitive<br />
dysfunction. When I am seen out, it is only<br />
about twenty-percent of the time at best.<br />
The other eighty-percent is spent resting and<br />
sleeping to recover from going out in the<br />
first place. I have to pace my life accordingly<br />
which makes it hard to be spontaneous. It<br />
also means I am unable to have a job like<br />
most people, as I cannot sustain the levels of<br />
energy needed to be productive<br />
and as a result I end up having a<br />
lot of sick days... This happened<br />
at my previous paid position. I<br />
was eventually dismissed due to<br />
the level of sick days I had taken.<br />
So, I am at the mercy of the state<br />
benefits and disability payments.<br />
Photography has always been<br />
significant in my life, but at this<br />
point of diagnosis it became a<br />
way for me to cope and gave me<br />
a reason to ‘keep going’ prior to<br />
becoming a mother. I was able<br />
to plan around music events<br />
and shoots by<br />
making sure I<br />
allocated plenty<br />
of rest before<br />
and after the<br />
event.<br />
It can take<br />
me days or<br />
even weeks<br />
to get over an<br />
evening out<br />
photographing. If I get a cold or tummy bug,<br />
it can take at least twice as long to get over<br />
it than it would an average healthy person.<br />
And now I’ve breast cancer too – this is<br />
sapping even more energy from me.<br />
But, photographing music events keeps<br />
me going as it is something I love to do. The<br />
one person I take the majority of my photos<br />
for is Carla <strong>Winter</strong>s who is the creator of the<br />
Abba Tribute Abalicious, and is a vocalist and<br />
Agnetha lookalike. We have known each<br />
other since our school days together and she<br />
has also gone through breast cancer recently.<br />
It has only served to bring us closer together.<br />
We have even started a support page on<br />
Facebook called Breast Friends Cancer<br />
Support Group, supporting people affected<br />
by breast cancer. Not just the people with<br />
cancer, but their friends and family too.<br />
We share our experiences, frustrations and<br />
advice to help others on their journeys.<br />
I recently had my mastectomy, and whilst<br />
it has been tough, I have shared photos and<br />
videos on the Facebook group and this has<br />
helped me push forward – Join the group to<br />
see some of the photos, including a photo<br />
that shows the reality of a mastectomy,<br />
and to stay up-to-date with my journey and<br />
others’ stories – and most importantly to get<br />
some support if you need it!<br />
photographing<br />
music events<br />
keeps me going<br />
as it is something<br />
I love to do<br />
Facebook: Breast Friends Cancer<br />
Support Group | Website: www.<br />
freyafinnphotography.weebly.com<br />
Kent band called The<br />
Alchemy<br />
Abbalicious<br />
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Hair: Lucinda Ellery<br />
IN BUSINESS<br />
You may have read<br />
my story in the first<br />
new-look issue of<br />
<strong>BLUSH</strong>... if you didn’t<br />
it is available to<br />
read via the digital<br />
version... In a nutshell,<br />
I found a lump in my left breast, and<br />
continued touring with Björn Again as the<br />
tribute signer Agnetha Fältskog, as well<br />
as running my own business – All despite<br />
having treatment and the anxiety of a<br />
scheduled double mastectomy because I<br />
have a gene BRCA1 and Triple Negative<br />
BC. I didn’t tell anybody other than<br />
close friends and family at the time. I just<br />
needed to continue and play my part<br />
on stage... but the<br />
whole experience<br />
affected my overall<br />
health.<br />
These situations<br />
make you stronger,<br />
and they reveal who<br />
your true friends<br />
are... I can fully<br />
appreciate the stress<br />
and uncertainty<br />
that loved-ones<br />
experience during<br />
times of diagnosis,<br />
treatment and in<br />
some cases loss<br />
– and this is the<br />
reason I started the<br />
Facebook page;<br />
Breast Friends<br />
Cancer Support<br />
Group, where I document my whole<br />
journey with posts and videos; I<br />
wanted to show the reality behind<br />
survival... yes it’s tough, but you can<br />
bounce back.<br />
As I mentioned, I still continued<br />
with my singing throughout my<br />
recovery – because it is what keeps<br />
me going – and it has been a part of<br />
who I am since I was eleven-years-<br />
old, when I<br />
used to do karaoke,<br />
singing songs like Venus.<br />
And when I made it through to the final<br />
fifty out of ten thousand hopefuls in Pop<br />
Idol 1 in 2001, it further made me want<br />
to continue with my music, so in that<br />
same year, I started Abalicious, which is<br />
my ‘business baby’. My first gig with Bjorn<br />
Again was at G.A.Y in London, where<br />
Agnetha was present promoting her<br />
new album. It must have been a sign...<br />
because all these years later I’m still doing<br />
Abba tribute.<br />
It has been all my struggles throughout<br />
my treatment and recovery that have<br />
given me a new enthusiasm for pushing<br />
forward; with<br />
my children,<br />
true friends and<br />
I am delighted to<br />
share that Abalicious<br />
is touring the UK this<br />
year!<br />
family by my<br />
side, I’ve been<br />
able to bounce<br />
back and to<br />
continue sharing<br />
ABBA’s uplifting<br />
music through<br />
my very own<br />
tribute band,<br />
and that feels so<br />
good.<br />
The time when business was the<br />
toughest, was when I had to continue<br />
touring with a happy face whilst going<br />
through chemotherapy. When I felt<br />
exhausted, and I lacked confidence about<br />
my appearance;<br />
Lucinda Ellery Intralace System for<br />
hair (London Paris New York) has been<br />
a dream come true for making me feel<br />
and look as glamourous as Agnetha<br />
always did on stage and how I used to<br />
look before the diagnosis. Along with a<br />
healthy (ish) diet, lots of water, key rest<br />
times and the support from the media<br />
and my Facebook page, I feel positive that<br />
I will get full strength back, and that<br />
my business will go from strength to<br />
strength too.<br />
If you find yourself facing a<br />
diagnosis, or you are going through<br />
treatment or a loved-one is, please<br />
join the Facebook page and the<br />
online community can support you.<br />
And for those of you looking to<br />
start a business or continue with<br />
your business – then don’t give up,<br />
because if you love what you do,<br />
like I do, then it could be one of the<br />
things that reminds you of who you<br />
are aside from your diagnosis.<br />
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As a businesswoman and a mother, I know how challenging it<br />
is to be productive whilst balancing your home life – there are<br />
forecasts, and meetings, and you have resolutions and targets... Some<br />
of you may choose to work, others may need to work; either way, if<br />
you have family commitments, and other stuff going on too, then life<br />
can become a juggling act. This can be manageable at times, and can<br />
even be a buzz at other times, but sooner or later something is bound<br />
to fall unless you get good at the balancing bit...<br />
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1. Phoning: The phone<br />
can be ringing all of the time, and<br />
this is a sign of success for many<br />
businesses. With technological<br />
advances and smart phones<br />
getting smarter, you can pretty<br />
much be anywhere and receive<br />
calls and emails. This can however<br />
have an adverse effect on your<br />
private time with friends and<br />
family. Ensure you either switch<br />
off your phone when you are<br />
having dedicated family time, or invest in a personal phone,<br />
keeping your contracted smartphone just for business.<br />
Leave the biz phone at home when you are on holiday, with<br />
a greeting stating your date of return, encouraging the<br />
caller to leave a message.<br />
2. Relaxing: As a businessperson, you will be<br />
conscious of taking the work as and when it comes, which<br />
Leave the biz<br />
phone at home<br />
when you are on<br />
holiday<br />
can mean a full-on schedule, often with back-to-back<br />
appointments or meetings. Be confident that the flow of<br />
work will be there for you regardless of whether you have a<br />
vacation or day off. Obviously, value your clients, but if you<br />
compromise too many other areas<br />
of your life just to squeeze in a client<br />
then it could burn you out, meaning<br />
you’ll be little use to yourself, your<br />
clients or your family. In order for<br />
you to reach full potential in your<br />
work, you must relax, and recoup.<br />
Take a day off. If you work weekends,<br />
then ensure you allocate some ‘me’<br />
time throughout the week, either by<br />
setting aside an hour a day or one<br />
day per week. Do things you enjoy,<br />
including spending time with the children, friends, or simply<br />
relaxing on your own by reading a book or soaking in a<br />
bubble bath. A good way to achieve ‘me’ time is by paying<br />
for, and committing to a new hobby.<br />
3. Planning: It is likely that your schedule will be<br />
sporadic, especially if you work for yourself. Keep a clear,<br />
concise diary so you can plan your days. At the end of each<br />
day, write a list of things you need to do on the following<br />
day, so that you can enjoy your evening with a clear head.<br />
Also, do this every Friday or before your designated day off.<br />
The key is to complete the list, so ensure it is achievable and<br />
prioritise the points on it.<br />
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4. Eating: Busy schedules can mean skipping meals,<br />
making you feel irritable and sluggish, ensure you eat<br />
regular healthy snacks and meals throughout the day.<br />
Arrange to meet a friend for lunch once a week, or carry<br />
snacks or a pack lunch with you. Try to sit down for a family<br />
meal as often as possible; this is good for your mental and<br />
physical health, and works wonders for family bonding.<br />
5. Overlapping: Laptops and mobile devices<br />
are so convenient, especially with the help of wireless<br />
Internet, meaning much of your work, like replying to<br />
emails, organising your diary and studying online, can be<br />
done from anywhere. Try to avoid crossing ‘laptop time’<br />
over with recreational time; you will not be giving the task<br />
full attention, nor does it count as relaxing or quality family<br />
time. Make a point of cuddling up with a loved one, or<br />
watching a movie with the children without thinking about<br />
work, and with your phone and laptop switched off.<br />
8. Meditating: So many of you would have<br />
experienced mental fatigue as well as physical, as it<br />
is so easy to take home people’s problems or stresses<br />
depending on your area of work. Learn to leave the<br />
emotional aspect of your work at work. If you work<br />
from home, it may be more of a challenge to ‘switch<br />
off’. Ten minutes of meditation after each meeting, or<br />
two minutes after each task can do wonders for your<br />
mind and body, realigning YOU and stopping you from<br />
focusing on the last patient or client or student or<br />
meeting or email, so you can be present and look to the<br />
needs of the next task or customer. Add this meditation<br />
time into your daily schedule and include as part of your<br />
diary dot points. For those of you that work in a busy<br />
environment, avoid getting caught up with internal<br />
politics or gossip, this can be super draining, a waste<br />
of time and energy, and more importantly negative and<br />
nasty.<br />
6. Talking: Work can be all encompassing, and<br />
it can easily eat into unsociable hours, but this doesn’t<br />
mean that when you do have time<br />
to socialise that the conversation<br />
must revolve around work. Many<br />
of you will have a great passion<br />
for your work or the training you<br />
do, but remember to talk about<br />
various subjects with your friends<br />
and family too, as it is important to<br />
enjoy other aspects of life and of<br />
your relationships.<br />
7. Delegating: If you have<br />
work, home, relationships, children,<br />
and your own needs to juggle, it may<br />
get to the point when you feel that<br />
you need help. Don’t be proud: call<br />
upon friends and family to spend<br />
time with the children while you run<br />
some errands. If you are able to allocate the funds, enlist the<br />
help of a cleaner once a week, or hire an admin assistant.<br />
There are plenty of ways you can delegate responsibilities and<br />
tasks, look at where best you need a little helping hand. It<br />
may mean hiring an accountant, or getting a gardener. If you<br />
enjoy tasks like gardening yourself, then incorporate them<br />
with family time; young children love to be involved in potting<br />
plants or safe household chores. If you are doing a mundane<br />
task, like cleaning your office space or dealing with admin<br />
work, put some of your favourite music on so you can balance<br />
the chores with fun. Dance a bit, sing a little, and basically<br />
use it as a way of staying in tune with yourself and with the<br />
pleasures of life.<br />
Learn to leave the<br />
emotional aspect<br />
of your work at<br />
work<br />
9. Morning: Parents, walk your children to<br />
school, or dog-owners take your pooch for walkies<br />
first thing in the morning. This<br />
encourages a routine for those<br />
working from home, and helps<br />
motivate you to get on with your<br />
day upon your return. If you do<br />
not have a dog, or a child, then<br />
have a refreshing shower, get<br />
dressed and walk around the<br />
block before your working day,<br />
or do a stint in the gym, or go<br />
for a run. By having an activity<br />
to start your day other than<br />
work, you are really making the<br />
most of your time, as well as<br />
proving to yourself that work<br />
is not the first thing to jump to<br />
each morning. There will be days<br />
you have early appointments,<br />
but try to manage these morning activities a few times<br />
a week to achieve that balance and overall productivity.<br />
These morning activities also support motivation for<br />
homeworkers, an increasing area for modern work,<br />
not just parents working from home. Self-employed or<br />
contracted staff working in the virtual sphere will also<br />
benefit from this tip.<br />
10. Shifting: Enjoy including these tips into your<br />
life, but don’t feel that big changes need to be made, as<br />
it is consistent small tweaks that are often more effective,<br />
and will ultimately lead to the perfect work-life balance.<br />
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Start-up<br />
despite<br />
Diagnosis<br />
Kirsten Rees shares her story from diagnosis<br />
and loss to her business start-up...<br />
When it comes to the effects of<br />
cancer, it isn’t just self-diagnosis<br />
that rocks our world, is it? Lovedones<br />
also have to cope with the<br />
challenges that the illness faces<br />
us with… how did your father’s<br />
diagnosis affect you?<br />
It was shocking obviously, he’d had this<br />
terrible cough for months and had been back<br />
and forth to the doctor, and it felt like it had<br />
taken too long to get a diagnosis. So, there<br />
was some anger and guilt - Why didn’t they<br />
realise sooner? Why didn’t we make him go to<br />
the doctor earlier? He’d had previous health<br />
issues and had literally been brought from the<br />
dead after a heart attack years before, so I<br />
think we just felt like this was another hurdle<br />
to fight... but sadly, he lost this one.<br />
Someone else’s diagnosis can raise<br />
questions in our own minds, and<br />
we can fear the future and the<br />
possibilities of ‘what if it happens<br />
to me?’ When did you find a lump?<br />
What emotions did you experience<br />
waiting for a diagnosis?<br />
Just after my dad had received his diagnosis,<br />
I discovered a lump under my right breast<br />
and that was terrifying. Because of what<br />
was going on with my dad, I was sent<br />
for a scan within a week. It wasn’t a nice<br />
experience at all and very intimate, but<br />
thankfully it was quick and I was reassured<br />
throughout the process. The lump turned out<br />
to be something else entirely and thankfully<br />
nothing to worry about.<br />
I have a chronic health condition called<br />
fibromyalgia, so I always need to be extra<br />
aware of increased levels of stress, and this<br />
whole experience taught me a lot about<br />
managing my own self-care and made me<br />
realise that I needed to change things in my<br />
own life.<br />
I’ve since learned what to look for and<br />
do regular checks. I think going through<br />
watching someone else die really makes you<br />
so much more aware of how we need to<br />
take responsibility for looking at our bodies<br />
objectively and regularly. I was on a lot of<br />
medication for my own health conditions and<br />
some of it was having a negative effect on<br />
me with some terrible side-effects, so I really<br />
began looking at what I was putting into my<br />
body and speaking to different health care<br />
professionals.<br />
Book that smear test. Do breast and<br />
testicle checks. If you’ve had something<br />
ongoing for a while, go to the doctor!<br />
Waiting is not worth it. Just because it’s not<br />
really worrying you, doesn’t mean it’s not<br />
worrying your child, or sibling, or best friend!<br />
Tell us about your start-up and how<br />
your father’s passing along with<br />
your realisation that you didn’t have<br />
Cancer led you to changing your<br />
career path?<br />
After my dad died, I took some time out and<br />
then began thinking seriously about my life<br />
and career and made so many changes!<br />
My business had originally launched in<br />
2013 out of necessity as I have fibromyalgia,<br />
it makes holding down a nine-to-five difficult.<br />
I wanted to have a career I was passionate<br />
about and so I relaunched as a book editor<br />
and author coach, and I’ve been writing my<br />
own books too.<br />
Just after my dad had<br />
received his diagnosis,<br />
I discovered a lump<br />
under my right breast<br />
and that was terrifying.<br />
Being self-employed has completely<br />
changed how I work and what I share.<br />
Since transitioning from copywriter to book<br />
editor, I’ve felt that uber-professional wall<br />
come down; It’s helped me connect with<br />
people better over social media and I’m now<br />
working with authors who have something<br />
worth sharing.<br />
Recently, I was hired to write a book to<br />
help raise awareness for Child Bereavement<br />
UK. It was really emotional as I met two<br />
young brothers who’d talked about their<br />
dad who died and we shared some special<br />
moments. It was nominated and added to<br />
The Independent’s Happy List.<br />
Sometimes, my clients are business<br />
owners who want to share their expertise<br />
and what they’ve had to overcome in life in<br />
a memoir/business book. I also work with<br />
fictional authors on YA novels, and other<br />
times I partner with people suffering with<br />
mental health issues who use writing as<br />
therapy. I also launched a weekly ‘women<br />
in business’ co-working day, as I find having<br />
people around you definitely helpful when<br />
you are trying to run a business on your own,<br />
but still sometimes struggling with external<br />
things – so it’s great to vent (or have a glass<br />
of wine after-hours).<br />
I now have a great<br />
self-care routine, I’ve<br />
been working with a<br />
personal trainer and<br />
focusing on my health<br />
and wellbeing, including<br />
my mental health. I also<br />
created a vision board<br />
with twenty-one goals<br />
– climbing a mountain<br />
(again) is one of them, and<br />
another is writing a book<br />
to empower people with<br />
invisible health conditions. I<br />
stopped saying, “I can’t”, replacing it with “I<br />
can’t do everything so choose wisely!”<br />
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IG & Twitter: @HauteBooks<br />
LinkedIn: MakeMeASuccess<br />
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Formidable<br />
Words from Kim-Maree on the female form,<br />
expectation and mid-year resolutions...<br />
This is not my usual style of<br />
writing; I like to take the p*ss<br />
out of my life and all that comes<br />
with it. This article, however, is a<br />
self-reflection of many years of<br />
beating myself up (not literally)<br />
over the ‘ideal life’ and ‘perfect<br />
body shape’ that I formed magically some time ago.<br />
These lofty ideals or aspirations rarely come through,<br />
and so the cycle of loathing and defeat goes on...<br />
I am sure many of you can relate to me on some<br />
level. This is about ‘me’ – please understand that<br />
it’s not a dig at you and your efforts to self-improve<br />
(or should I’ve used this year’s <strong>2019</strong> buzzword ‘selfevolve’?).<br />
Read this article as it is intended to be read<br />
– as a very public wake-up call to myself, because my<br />
inner Goddess is an angry b*tch!<br />
Well, here we are mid-way through <strong>2019</strong> –<br />
time flying – and time to dust off our New Year’s<br />
resolutions yet again – because if you’re anything like<br />
me, you’ve not started your list yet!<br />
Do you catalogue your yearly failures? I do! Looking<br />
back on all the things I said I would do last year and<br />
the year before and so on and so forth... oh and this<br />
year included! A definite theme emerges... I will be<br />
better! Do better. Look better. Feel better. Take better<br />
care of myself and so on (in fact this list is as long as<br />
my New Year’s resolution one).<br />
Sprinkled in amongst the promises to do better<br />
there are the golden nuggets of prose borrowed<br />
lovingly from Ghandi, Atticus, Oprah – all reminding<br />
me to live in the moment and of course it wouldn’t<br />
be a misguided promise of a better self without a<br />
chestnut of wisdom from Pinterest!<br />
Why do I do this? Why then! When I know full<br />
well that I will not fulfil all, or any of those lofty ideals,<br />
and who decided that these ideals or life goals were<br />
actually required? My inner divine Goddess is always<br />
present, not really giving a rat’s left buttock if I am<br />
able to attend sequential Soul Cycle classes in the<br />
pursuit of a peach emoji rear. The divine Goddess is<br />
probably at a swim up bar laughing her ass off at the<br />
stupidity of it all. I AM THEREFORE I AM!<br />
I am the shape I am because, well, that is my shape.<br />
I can’t crochet because it’s boring and I couldn’t stick<br />
with learning how to do it, that goes for playing the<br />
guitar and for making origami cranes also. This isn’t<br />
gonna change just because I write a list at New Year<br />
or another list mid-year!<br />
Rod for our backs<br />
Am I striving to materialise that divine Goddess? Or<br />
that image I was told will make me feel so much<br />
better once I obtain it? If I obtain it! Every day I am<br />
convinced that my life will improve once I buy this;<br />
eat that; don’t eat that; rinse with this; and hold it all<br />
in the right place with these!<br />
The female form is varied just like hair colour is,<br />
which I can change; eye colour, which I can change,<br />
along with my jaw line, bust size and even the<br />
amount of ribs in my body – all my genetic makeup<br />
and yet even though that’s my true form I desire to<br />
re-design it. Why is this? Because of society? Blaming<br />
society for the pressure to be a certain way and to<br />
live a particular life isn’t cutting it, sorry people, BUT<br />
– we are society!<br />
I am the shape I am<br />
because, well, that is<br />
my shape.<br />
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There is a billiondollar<br />
industry built<br />
on keeping me feeling<br />
bad about my body and<br />
about my life in general.<br />
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EXERCISE: is it a punishment or a celebration<br />
of what our bodies can do? The answer all depends<br />
on who you follow...<br />
There are billion-dollar industries built on keeping me feeling<br />
bad about my body and about my life in general. I am<br />
bombarded with conflicting messages of ‘love yourself’ and<br />
other self-improvement stuff. I am told that positive body image<br />
is the new diet plan – oh my mistake, because I thought it was<br />
Paleo-vegan-Keto-organic-clean eating, whole foods – that was<br />
a mouth full of ‘my bad’.<br />
Then there are the exercise plans that go along with it<br />
all; HITT, CrossFit, Orange Theory, Bootcamp, F45, Barry’s,<br />
SoulCycle... Dare I say it, but Yoga is just as bad; Bikram,<br />
Kundalini, Hatha, Vinyasa, Ashtanga all claiming to do various<br />
things to help me achieve whatever it is I think I need to<br />
improve.<br />
The best news of all, is that I don’t even have to leave<br />
home to have all this help in getting that <strong>2019</strong> body life<br />
transformation. There are countless blogs and influencers<br />
sprouting the benefits of everything I didn’t realise I need. Not<br />
only that, but my obsession with screens has also weighed in.<br />
Seriously there is an APP for everything that has anything to<br />
do with body shape, image, eating plans, wazoo detox teas,<br />
drinks and shakes, aroma therapy oils, and misting sprays that<br />
can make you sleep, feel, live better.<br />
I am guilty of having all of the above. I have on my phone<br />
right at this very moment APPs for meditating, (used six or so<br />
times), for the gym (which I actually used consistently for at least<br />
one month), a whole foods pantry guide (I can’t work it out so<br />
I’m going to delete it soon promise), aroma therapy oil mixes<br />
guide (I have opened it), power yoga (I watched it<br />
a couple of times on the couch), running log ( I use<br />
this as I do run — well kind of more a shuffle-run<br />
of sheer desperation – but more on that topic later),<br />
FitnessPal (I use this on and off to make myself feel<br />
bad for eating anything that has flavour).<br />
I don’t just have one of these APPs, I have<br />
several. All of them downloaded in the vain hope<br />
that they will somehow miraculously transform me,<br />
but alas, nope. I however, won’t give in to making<br />
any actual APP purchases – I won’t actually buy the<br />
whole APP, I just do the free ad-riddled versions<br />
that cut out when it starts to get interesting, which<br />
may I add, is probably why I am not Gigi Hadid<br />
strutting for Victoria’s Secret. Yep that’s definitely<br />
the reason.<br />
And now for my next trick I<br />
will make 10 kilos disappear<br />
and 15 kilos reappear...<br />
Last year, I lost ten kilos through literal blood, sweat and tears<br />
and a few tantrums; I had to walk to Mountain Everest Base<br />
Camp, get sick from the altitude, vomit consistently for ten days<br />
to lose that weight – maybe I should make an APP on that!<br />
When I did finally receive the recognition that I was desperate to<br />
hear – oh you look great, you’ve lost weight! – it was tarnished<br />
with despair as I knew that deep down it wasn’t going to last<br />
and I was left wishing that no one had said anything.<br />
Too make-up for the ‘failure’ that I knew was coming – the<br />
inevitable weight rebound – I proudly pranced about telling<br />
everyone how I’d lost ten kilos and have become a vegan<br />
on ethical grounds, (not really, I was still really queasy at the<br />
thought of certain foods – meat being one of them). I am sure<br />
they secretly wished that I’d hurry up and put back on those<br />
I swing from<br />
restrictive eating to<br />
all in my mouth, the<br />
classic yo-yo dieter.<br />
ten kilos and an extra<br />
five kilos. Why? Not<br />
because they dislike<br />
me or because they’re<br />
jealous... no, it’s because<br />
they feel like a failure<br />
too! They are feeling<br />
even lower now because<br />
someone managed to do<br />
it, someone else grabbed<br />
the golden ring even just for a fleeting moment.<br />
I scheduled in my fancy planner gym sessions; to roll out my<br />
yoga mat and sit in my space; I even scheduled cooking that<br />
whole-food dinner, and for those few weeks when the stars<br />
and planets aligned, I was smug and self-righteous.<br />
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Then I was not.<br />
And so, it goes; The weight goes off. The weight<br />
goes on.<br />
I call bullsh*t<br />
I am guilty, I admit that I applaud publicly the ‘plus-sized’<br />
advocates calling out body shaming, all the while quickly<br />
calculating in my head just what their weight or measurements<br />
are in relation to my own. Then I am horrified when I discover<br />
image. But to be fair, this is my issue. Maybe you are happy to<br />
refrain from sugar, eat Paleo and exercise every day at the gym...<br />
good for you! I actually truly applaud you. I can’t do this myself.<br />
I swing from restrictive eating to all in my mouth, the classic yoyo<br />
dieter. Simply put, I have zero will power. I will plan and plot,<br />
write away my life, desperately hoping I will wake up motivated<br />
and inspired, nope. I have tried 5:2. I have tried apple cider<br />
vinegar, turmeric, cayenne pepper, still no! Juicers, teas, nope!<br />
I shame myself with unflattering underwear photos, bribery,<br />
rewards, still nothing.... no inner Goddess emerging from the<br />
depths into form.<br />
You must be thinking, ‘wow she must be huge,’... nope,<br />
not huge. I am just not the shape I had decided I’d be at some<br />
stage in my life. Therefore, my life is somehow not quite right,<br />
which, by the way is also not true... my life is pretty dang epic.<br />
See what I am getting at here? There is nothing wrong with my<br />
shape, bit soft and pudgy, but I am healthy and fairly fit, and my<br />
life is blessed.<br />
Flaws and all<br />
those bodies that are plus-sized are actually smaller than I am,<br />
or the luscious curvy girls on Instagram are the same size, and<br />
all that bravo goes out the window as I shrink away privately<br />
disgusted at the shape on display – MY shape. But why? I am<br />
asking this seriously because, what am I really afraid of? Who<br />
decided what I want to look like? When did I subscribe to that?<br />
And am I that stupid or vain?<br />
Okay, quite a few serious questions there!<br />
My harshest critic<br />
Kim-Maree<br />
I started this article to look back at the crazy sh*t I have a<br />
tendency to do when trying to diet and to feel better about<br />
the way I look. As you have probably gathered it turned into a<br />
rant about evil social media, expectations, and unrealistic body<br />
Well I say Fu*k it. I am this mid-year making a deal with me<br />
and my inner Goddess... yes, she’s still there somewhere!<br />
I will be healthy, I will exercise because I like it, so I will<br />
just do the stuff at the gym I enjoy or that makes me feel<br />
satisfied. I will eat what I feel like just knowing that takes<br />
away 90% of my need for crappy foods. I am going to take<br />
time out in my day for ME, in whatever shape that may be<br />
– it could be yoga, meditation or crocheting, I will decide<br />
as I please. I am never going to be that size again; the<br />
smaller version I once was! Nor will I be twenty again, and<br />
that’s okay. I have done a lot in this Earth suit – it has held<br />
babies, rocked bikinis, and walked down the aisle, and up<br />
mountains... so, I will just let my body be what it is today,<br />
and as for tomorrow, who knows.<br />
We cannot predict what the future holds – but our<br />
choices no matter what life throws our way, are our own...<br />
and this mid-year resolution for me includes the following:<br />
To eat cake at my workplace morning teas; take long<br />
walks; wear my special occasions clothes - whenever I want;<br />
wear lipstick every day; use the best china for burgers,<br />
because let’s face it whatever it is you think you’re saving it<br />
all for may never actually come. My aim is to be my version<br />
of healthy; move how I feel; dance to my music; sleep far<br />
too much and love every dang minute of my blessed life no<br />
matter what my dress size is.<br />
To all the people out there, aside from what I say or<br />
any other person with an opinion says, know that it will<br />
be your journey with your body; your essence... so be<br />
true to your path; strive for your true self. And get some<br />
sleep. Turn off the screens – APPs and all, and be an active<br />
participant in life.<br />
Rant done!<br />
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TO A GREAT<br />
EXTENT...<br />
We are indeed what we read<br />
Reading is a force to<br />
be reckoned with...<br />
the material that<br />
we choose to read<br />
fills our inner beings<br />
with information that<br />
we process either<br />
consciously or push somewhere into a corner<br />
of our minds.<br />
During times of challenge, it is great<br />
to escape inside the pages of a story...<br />
powerfully written fiction that transports us<br />
away from our daily trials and tribulations.<br />
Other times reading a real-life story that<br />
we relate to personally can help us to feel<br />
less alone.<br />
And when it comes to good self-help<br />
literature, our book shelves and virtual<br />
libraries can literally be our therapists.<br />
1. Why<br />
People Don’t<br />
Heal and How<br />
They Can, is a<br />
practical programme<br />
for helping body, mind<br />
and spirit, written by<br />
the bestselling author<br />
of Anatomy of the Spirit (another great<br />
read), Caroline Myss, Ph.D.<br />
www.myss.com<br />
2. The Power<br />
of Now, is a<br />
guide to spiritual<br />
enlightenment, written<br />
by the international<br />
bestselling author<br />
and spiritual teacher,<br />
Eckhart Tolle.<br />
www.eckharttolle.com<br />
3. Breaking<br />
Mad, is an insider’s<br />
guide to conquering<br />
anxiety, written by<br />
counsellor and TV<br />
personality Anna<br />
Williamson, with Dr<br />
Reetta Newell.<br />
www.lifecoachingbyanna.com<br />
4. Happy As, is<br />
a book that discusses<br />
why the quest for<br />
happiness is making us<br />
miserable, written by<br />
Lisa Portolan. www.<br />
lisaportolan.com<br />
5. Women<br />
Who Run with<br />
the Wolves, is<br />
the classic New York<br />
Times bestseller, that<br />
brings together myths<br />
and stories of the wild<br />
woman archetype, written by Clarissa<br />
Pinkola Etsés, Ph.D.<br />
www.clarissapinkolaestes.com<br />
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Furniture Village<br />
Celebrates its<br />
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To mark the occasion, Furniture<br />
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The collection – named Thirty –<br />
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The striking pairing is available exclusively for<br />
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Trends...<br />
Sleepeezee Tranquillity<br />
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The Thirty collection will be available for<br />
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Furniture Village -<br />
Evie Chair in Linnet Ochre, £699<br />
Furniture Village -<br />
Corelli Velour Cushion in<br />
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Mellow Yellow<br />
Yellow hues have<br />
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from summer’s bold<br />
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lemon shades into softer,<br />
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Perfect for bringing sunshine into<br />
your home this season, this warming<br />
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We’re big fans of a statement bed<br />
and the Hypnos Embrace Natural<br />
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Cushions and throws in dusky pink<br />
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Carefully placed accessories in fun,<br />
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As the summer<br />
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and we move into<br />
the autumnal<br />
months, the team<br />
at Furniture Village<br />
talk us through some of the<br />
coming season’s hottest trends,<br />
perfect for creating a cosy and<br />
welcoming retreat to enjoy<br />
throughout the winter.<br />
Furniture Village -<br />
Inaluxe Jazz<br />
Flute Rug £249<br />
Furniture Village -<br />
Cera Table Lamp, £89<br />
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Connections Large Drum<br />
Stool in Ealing Ochre, £255<br />
Furniture Village -<br />
Hypnos Embrace Natural<br />
Splendour Double Divan Bed<br />
in Tweed Mustard, £1,449<br />
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A Nod to the 70s<br />
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Furniture Village -<br />
Uniqa 2 Seater Fabric<br />
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Accent Chair £525<br />
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To Reflect Rug £249<br />
Slow Living<br />
Simplicity takes centre stage<br />
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establishing an inherent<br />
sense of calm and tranquillity.<br />
Less is definitely more in this<br />
contemporary trend that<br />
goes back to basics. Dark khaki greens<br />
and earthy shades of grey sit alongside<br />
natural wood tones to create a<br />
minimalist sanctuary that is uncluttered<br />
and cool.<br />
Clean lines, found on Ercol’s<br />
beautifully crafted Rimini Bed, contrast<br />
beautifully with unstructured linens and<br />
tactile velvets to achieve balance and<br />
softness.<br />
Carefully curated minimalistic<br />
ornaments add subtle interest to<br />
the space, enhancing the serene<br />
atmosphere and ensuring that the room<br />
doesn’t feel too stark.<br />
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Vispring makes supremely comfortable beds, and has done since 1901.<br />
Only the fi nest natural materials, inside and out.<br />
Designed for durability. Crafted for comfort.<br />
Made for the very best sleep.<br />
vispring.com
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Photographer: J P Martin<br />
1<br />
Attempt<br />
a camel<br />
ride, or<br />
simply get<br />
up close to<br />
these amazing<br />
mammals of<br />
the desert.<br />
Egypt<br />
2<br />
Go on an<br />
earlymorning<br />
hot air balloon<br />
ride, and glide<br />
across still skies<br />
to experience<br />
the valleys of<br />
Luxor from a<br />
bird’s eye view.<br />
6<br />
Experience<br />
the awesome<br />
hieroglyphics<br />
for written<br />
and artistic<br />
inspiration.<br />
Inspiration<br />
3<br />
It’s less than five hours<br />
to fly from the UK to<br />
Cairo – the capital is a<br />
must-stay for culture, and<br />
5<br />
iconic sightseeing like the Giza<br />
Pyramids.<br />
7<br />
Watch the<br />
sun set from<br />
the luxury of<br />
your modern airconditioned<br />
hotel.<br />
7 reasons to visit...<br />
4<br />
Stand next to<br />
one of the large<br />
pharaoh statues<br />
for an ultimate<br />
travel selfie.<br />
Take a tour<br />
around the<br />
ancient<br />
tombs and<br />
the Valley of<br />
Kings for some<br />
remarkable<br />
sights and<br />
stories from the<br />
tour guides.<br />
Find out more about a visit to this<br />
fabulous country www.egypt.travel<br />
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Citrus Caviar & Mandarin Shower Gel<br />
& Shampoo, 500ml £21<br />
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Green Caviar Perfecting Serum, 30ml £36<br />
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SBC Skincare<br />
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Arnica & <strong>Winter</strong>green Targeted Thermal Rub, 100ml £18<br />
Arnica Skincare Gel, 100ml £9<br />
Collagen Micellar Gel Cleanser, 500ml £25<br />
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TRAVEL<br />
AS THERAPY<br />
Travel can do wonders for everyone if done regularly and with<br />
awareness. In most cases, it can be used as a form of therapy as it<br />
prioritises YOU and your self-care... NLP Coach Puja K McClymont<br />
gives some valid reasons to seek out a retreat in <strong>2019</strong>...<br />
Sail away from the Grey<br />
The Facts: The sun has an effect on our<br />
mood and emotional wellbeing. Research<br />
shows that too little exposure to sunlight<br />
can lead to so-called Seasonal Affective<br />
Disorder (SAD) – a type of winter<br />
depression. (Find out more about the<br />
benefit of sunlight on page 87.)<br />
Coaching: By allowing yourself regular<br />
intervals of sun and warmth, you’ll be able<br />
to appreciate time and self-care much<br />
more, which helps to keep you motivated<br />
and focused. The clean air you breathe<br />
will also help to re-boot your immune<br />
system, which in turn helps you to feel<br />
physically and emotionally better.<br />
Escape from Routine<br />
The Facts: People are at their happiest<br />
when they have a holiday planned, a study by<br />
the University of Surrey found, and are also<br />
more positive about their health, economic<br />
situation and general quality of life.<br />
Coaching: It’s essential for you to be<br />
able to reset yourself from your everyday.<br />
By having less to do, you are able to<br />
consider your life more. You’re able to<br />
appreciate your family and friends and<br />
even work (as it’s essentially enabled you<br />
to do the trip) and lets you understand<br />
your needs better.<br />
Quiet Time<br />
The Facts: When you feel like you are<br />
stuck in a rut, taking a holiday and having<br />
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vel<br />
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a change of<br />
scenery, even if<br />
it is just a couple<br />
of hours down<br />
the road, can<br />
work wonders,<br />
and it has been<br />
scientifically<br />
proven that<br />
travel provides<br />
a number of<br />
benefits to your<br />
mental health.<br />
Coaching: Often times – no matter how<br />
many yoga classes you attend, or how<br />
serious you are about meditation – you<br />
still need to literally find more ‘quiet’.<br />
Being away from every usual distraction<br />
in your life can make your relaxation<br />
practices all the more powerful.<br />
Manage Stress<br />
The Facts: Margaret J King of the<br />
Center for Cultural Studies and Analysis<br />
says about the stress-relieving abilities of<br />
Go ahead and book<br />
that trip right now,<br />
you deserve that<br />
time to yourself.<br />
travel: “With a short<br />
list of activities each<br />
day, freed up from<br />
the complexities of<br />
ongoing projects and<br />
relationships, the<br />
mind can reset, as<br />
does the body, with<br />
stress relief the main<br />
outcome.”<br />
Coaching: We<br />
all now know how<br />
important it is to manage stress. We<br />
simply can’t avoid stress in our lives<br />
anymore, whether it is affected by things<br />
in our control or not. We will inevitably<br />
falter in some way; through mental or<br />
physical disorders. Travel can be your best<br />
asset to guarantee stress relief.<br />
Re-evaluate your Goals<br />
The Facts: You may have goals already<br />
in place that you’re working towards or<br />
you may want to set some new ones.<br />
Being ‘away from it all’ will provide you<br />
with the creative focus you need to drill<br />
down into the ‘whys’ of your goals and<br />
create a tangible plan of action for when<br />
you get home.<br />
Coaching: Re-evaluate your goals,<br />
check-in with yourself on what you’re<br />
doing well and what may need tweaking.<br />
It gives you the time to be creative;<br />
thinking more freely without having to<br />
default into ‘sensible thinking’. We need<br />
to have the ability to dream and envision<br />
the life that we want for ourselves.<br />
So – go on... treat your self to a retreat!<br />
Puja K McClymont is a Certified, highly<br />
effective NLP Life Coach in London, and<br />
the founder of the Frankly Unstoppable<br />
Retreats. These wellbeing getaways are<br />
designed to help clients change their<br />
mindset, re-set, re-focus and re-energise.<br />
To find out more about Puja including<br />
when her next workshop is, visit<br />
www.franklycoaching.com<br />
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Your next adventure aw<br />
With over 1,000 expertly-planned itineraries, visiting almost 200<br />
destinations on all seven continents, the world is waiting to be<br />
discovered with Shearings!<br />
Whether you dream of seeing Orangutans in the jungles of Borneo<br />
or spending some time beside the British seaside, we give you the<br />
freedom, fl exibility and opportunity to explore all corners of the<br />
world!<br />
Our UK and European event breaks are second to none! From<br />
theatre breaks in the West End to the thrill of the Grand Prix, there’s<br />
something for all interests!<br />
All you have to do is sit back, relax and let us handle the details.<br />
And with travel options by air, coach, car and rail - ease and<br />
fl exibility are key.<br />
Your holiday, your way!<br />
For more inspiration visit<br />
shearings.com<br />
or call<br />
01942 416431<br />
using code NBH935<br />
Terms and Conditions apply. Regional variations may apply to tour departure points/prices and some<br />
holidays may not be available from all areas. Prices are ‘from’ prices and are per person based on 2<br />
sharing a standard double/twin roomand joining at an interchange. Single/room supplements may<br />
apply. Prices correct as of 20/08/19. E&OE
Lost in Music - Theatre Break<br />
aits…<br />
Recreating the magical 1970s, this fabulous show lets you<br />
relive some of the greatest songs of all time from artists such<br />
as Donna Summer, Gloria Gaynor, Earth Wind & Fire, Sister<br />
Sledge and Chic! Boasting a sensational live band, incredibly<br />
talented cast and stunning vocals, this show is sure to have<br />
you dancing in the aisles – it’s the feelgood<br />
show of the year!<br />
11th Nov <strong>2019</strong><br />
5 DAYS FROM<br />
£204PP<br />
BY COACH<br />
York Christmas Markets<br />
One of the most popular Christmas Markets in the UK, York’s<br />
Christmas Market fi ll the historic streets around the splendid<br />
Minster. With traders dressed in costumes from eras of the<br />
past, step into a scene from Dickens and soak up the<br />
medieval charm, scents of mulled wine and magical fun at<br />
this wonderful market.<br />
2 DAYS FROM<br />
£74PP<br />
Nov & Dec <strong>2019</strong><br />
Cyprus <strong>Winter</strong> Sun<br />
Michael Bublé in Liverpool<br />
4th Dec <strong>2019</strong><br />
BY COACH<br />
Relax and enjoy fabulous weather and a well-appointed<br />
hotel with great facilities. Enjoy included excursions to<br />
explore the islands highlights. Paphos’s Old Town is where<br />
you will fi nd the main shopping area, whilst the resort<br />
area hosts numerous restaurants, shops and bars. Visit the<br />
resort’s focal point - the charming<br />
fi shing harbour by the ancient<br />
Paphos fort.<br />
Nov & Dec <strong>2019</strong><br />
An evening with Michael Bublé is the singer’s fi rst tour for<br />
more than four years and takes in 108 shows across 22<br />
countries and three continents.<br />
You’ll enjoy the fantastic songs from Michael Buble’s<br />
Love album as well as some of his most famous tunes<br />
and classic standards. Enjoy this<br />
magnifi cent show, it’s not to be<br />
missed.<br />
8 DAYS FROM<br />
£539PP<br />
BY AIR<br />
2 DAYS FROM<br />
£189PP<br />
BY COACH
Kley Collection<br />
A<br />
O-KLEY<br />
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Debenhams introduces new<br />
brand KLEY for Autumn-<br />
<strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2019</strong>…. Designed<br />
by women, for women,<br />
the brand oozes effortless<br />
feminine style.<br />
Kley represents the desire for ‘Realwear’;<br />
modern, clean cut and effortless garments<br />
that satisfy dressing for the everyday.<br />
Focusing on a curated versatile, seasonless<br />
wardrobe that lasts, offering outfits that<br />
you can build-up and layer on to create the<br />
ultimate easy and enviable wardrobe.<br />
“Kley is about effortless styling solutions for<br />
the everyday. The collection is a combination<br />
of timeless wardrobe staples and ‘must have’<br />
pieces, offering items which we hope will<br />
be loved for years.” Lucia Heffernan, Kley<br />
Designer<br />
Comprised of your L.I.F.E. pieces, your<br />
‘Luxury’ leather skirts, silk blouses and<br />
cashmere blends. Your ‘Important’ fashion<br />
informed, seasonal heroes and sustainable<br />
fabrications. Your ‘Function’ items, such<br />
as weatherproofed outerwear and hybrid<br />
garments that can be reversible. And finally,<br />
your ‘Essential’ layering, the foundation<br />
blocks building your wardrobe. L.I.F.E. Luxury,<br />
Important, Function, Essential.<br />
The collection is available in 70 stores<br />
across the UK and launches in store<br />
and online on the 16 September <strong>2019</strong><br />
with prices ranging from £20 to £220.<br />
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Blush’s top choices from<br />
the Kley Collection…<br />
Kley Scarf drape<br />
top £59<br />
Kley Ultimate wool<br />
touch roll neck £25<br />
Kley Pleated<br />
Asymmetric Skirt £55<br />
Kley Relaxed<br />
jumpsuit £55<br />
Kley Robe wrap<br />
coat £110<br />
Kley Button detail wide<br />
leg trouser £39<br />
Kley Trench<br />
coat £89<br />
Kley Ultimate crew<br />
neck t shirt £20<br />
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Think Pink! like actress<br />
Audrey Hepburn in retro<br />
movie Funny Face.<br />
Piccolo by Keith Scarrott,<br />
£139 available at<br />
keithscarrott.co.uk<br />
Wear blush with<br />
patterns.<br />
PINK<br />
Power<br />
Halcyon Rose Quartz<br />
Necklace, £85 by<br />
Emily Mortimer<br />
Jewellery, available at<br />
emilymortimer.co.uk<br />
Dusky pink feathers<br />
and furs work.<br />
The Met Gala was all about pink<br />
this year, with over thirty celebrities<br />
choosing a pop of pink to celebrate<br />
the ‘camp’ themed event – from<br />
blush, to fuchsia to baby to bubblegum<br />
– every hue was hot... particularly<br />
Lady Gaga’s show-stopping gown...<br />
somewhat reminiscent of the Think Pink<br />
ribbon in the film Funny Face, starring<br />
Audrey Hepburn.<br />
Rose Quartz Iris Drop<br />
Earring, £220 by Renné<br />
Jewellery, available at<br />
rennejewellery.co.uk<br />
Rock hot pink<br />
hair with baby<br />
pink lace or net.<br />
The Fonzie Jumper, £90<br />
by Mistamina, available at<br />
mistamina.com<br />
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<strong>BLUSH</strong> TOP PICK Rose Gold<br />
animal print twin set with tassel<br />
trim from trafficpeople.co.uk<br />
The Padstow Deck Shirt in White<br />
and Pink, £59.95 by Whale of<br />
a Time Clothing, available at<br />
whaleofatimeclothing.com<br />
Pale Pink Cashmere Roll<br />
Neck, £119.95, available<br />
from oxfordshirt.co.uk<br />
Ladies Holkham<br />
Panama Hat<br />
with Pink Ribbon<br />
£80 by Hicks &<br />
Brown, available at<br />
hicksandbrown.<br />
com<br />
Patterned pinks<br />
and peaches look<br />
fabulous with ruffles<br />
and luscious fabrics.<br />
Lucia by Keith<br />
Scarrott, £449<br />
available at<br />
keithscarrott.co.uk<br />
Pair bright pink<br />
boots with block<br />
colour accessories.<br />
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FAIRFAX & FAVOR<br />
LAUNCH COLLABORATION<br />
WITH BREAST CANCER CARE<br />
For the fourth consecutive year, luxury British footwear label Fairfax & Favor<br />
will donate 100% of all profits from their limited-edition product to the charity<br />
in support of Breast Cancer Awareness month.<br />
Following Fairfax & Favor’s<br />
successful partnership with<br />
Breast Cancer Care in 2018<br />
– whereby the brand raised<br />
over a staggering £40,000,<br />
this year co-founders Marcus<br />
Fairfax Fountaine and Felix Favor Parker<br />
have designed a special limited-edition Hot<br />
Pink version of their popular Mini Windsor<br />
handbag and Hampton belt.<br />
The Mini Windsor is a sought-after staple<br />
to any summer wardrobe. This handbag<br />
features a cutesy interchangeable mini tassel<br />
in addition to a detachable leather shoulder<br />
strap and internal zipped pocket; the perfect<br />
handbag for all your day-to-day essentials.<br />
The Hampton belt is the smart, everyday<br />
leather belt incorporating a raised contrasting<br />
hot pink suede inner stripe, brass buckled<br />
end and embellished stud logo. The perfect<br />
pop of colour to any outfit!<br />
This year Fairfax & Favor have a target to<br />
reach, wanting to raise a further £14,000 for<br />
the charity. To date, the brand has received<br />
unprecedented support from their loyal<br />
followers and customers, social influencers<br />
and celebrities alike. In previous years, their<br />
Breast Cancer Care campaigns have received<br />
support from famous faces including three<br />
times Olympic gold medallist and world<br />
champion Charlotte Dujardin CBE, Sporting<br />
Presenter Clare Balding, Ex-Pussycat Doll<br />
Kimberly Wyatt, and Queen of the Jungle<br />
Georgia Toffolo, to name a few.<br />
The Breast Cancer Care products are on<br />
sale throughout October, with 100% of<br />
profits being donated to Breast Cancer Care.<br />
Fairfax & Favor Co-Founders Marcus<br />
Fairfax Fountaine and Felix Favor Parker said<br />
of the campaign: “We will continue to show<br />
our utmost support to this fantastic charity.<br />
Both of our grandmothers have suffered this<br />
awful disease, it is a cause which will forever<br />
remain close to our hearts.”<br />
Lisa Gilmour, Community Fundraising<br />
Manager at Breast Cancer Care, said: “We’re<br />
so grateful to Fairfax & Favor for fundraising<br />
for Breast Cancer Care. The money raised<br />
will help Breast Cancer Care to continue<br />
to provide free services including; support<br />
over the phone with a nurse or someone<br />
who’s been there, welcoming online forums,<br />
reliable information and local group support.<br />
We really can’t thank them enough”.<br />
“691,000 people are living with a breast<br />
cancer diagnosis in the UK today, and that<br />
figure is only set to grow. With support from<br />
brands like Fairfax & Favor, we can be here<br />
for more people, whenever they need us.”<br />
About Fairfax & Favor<br />
Fairfax & Favor are shaking up the luxury<br />
footwear market by creating authentic<br />
and timeless products, through their<br />
commitment to drive innovation in<br />
craftsmanship and design. Influenced by<br />
the founders’ love of British style, the line of<br />
footwear and accessories has been created<br />
as an aspirational investment rather than a<br />
transient fashion piece.<br />
Founded by Marcus Fairfax Fountaine and<br />
Felix Favor Parker, who were born and raised<br />
in the glorious Norfolk countryside, the<br />
collection is reflective of the brands country<br />
roots. Fairfax & Favor pride themselves on<br />
their ever-expanding collection of shoes,<br />
boots, handbags and leather accessories.<br />
Designed to bridge the gap between casual<br />
and formal, the countryside and the city, they<br />
believe there is a piece in their collection fit<br />
for everyone - no matter of personal taste or<br />
style. www.fairfaxandfavor.com<br />
About Breast Cancer<br />
Care<br />
Breast Cancer Care is the only specialist<br />
UK wide charity providing support for<br />
women, men, family and friends affected by<br />
breast cancer. We’ve been caring for them,<br />
supporting them, and campaigning on their<br />
behalf since 1973.<br />
Today, we continue to offer a unique<br />
range of support including reliable<br />
information, one-to-one support over the<br />
phone and online from nurses and people<br />
who’ve been there. We also offer local group<br />
support across the UK.<br />
From the moment, someone notices<br />
something isn’t right, through to their<br />
treatment and beyond, we’re there to help<br />
people affected by breast cancer feel more<br />
in control. www.breastcancercare.<br />
org.uk<br />
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Sustainable<br />
HATS<br />
I’m Dawn-Marie, a fashion and<br />
beauty photographer based<br />
in London, and I cannot deny,<br />
I love my job: The excitement<br />
of working with teams of<br />
incredibly creative people;<br />
being behind the scenes and<br />
meeting those at the cutting<br />
edge of the industry and the<br />
creative process of producing<br />
beautiful images – There’s<br />
really nothing quite like it and<br />
I think It’s something of a true<br />
calling for me personally... I am<br />
however torn by the darker<br />
side I know to exist within<br />
the industry, and the very<br />
real environmental and social<br />
impact it has globally...<br />
I’ve been able to work with brands<br />
who have a real commitment to<br />
making the world a better place:<br />
Who are the trail blazers and<br />
the movers and shakers, putting<br />
environmental impact, sustainability<br />
and social wellbeing and fairness at the<br />
forefront, not the afterthought of their<br />
business practices.<br />
I had the pleasure of shooting for<br />
Pachacuti Panama hats out in Ibiza, whilst<br />
visiting the island for an event with Fashion<br />
for Conservation last summer. I began<br />
I’ve felt a whole new<br />
world opening up<br />
before me; a world<br />
I am proud to be a<br />
part of!<br />
working with the charity since 2018 and<br />
learning more about the impacts of the<br />
industry in the process. Since making a<br />
decision to focus my efforts on working with<br />
sustainable and ethical brands as much as<br />
possible and actively connecting with more<br />
people and brands within this realm, I’ve felt<br />
a whole new world opening up before me; a<br />
world I am proud to be a part of!<br />
Whilst ‘sustainability’ is a real buzz word<br />
at the moment, Pachacuti was founded on<br />
the principals that underpin the phrase and<br />
was in fact one of the first companies in the<br />
world to receive an official certificate in Fair<br />
Trade.<br />
Pachacuti has been a truly inspirational<br />
company from the outset; Their story begins<br />
within a small community in Equador, where<br />
for over two decades, they have worked with<br />
local artisans to create hats, which subtly<br />
combine tradition, luxury and sustainability.<br />
The craft of the weaver stretches back<br />
generations and is a highly specialist art,<br />
which needs to be protected.<br />
Having seen the hats and photographed<br />
them personally, I can confidently say that<br />
the quality is something to be admired.<br />
Each design is unique and combines<br />
handmade luxury with a timeless sense of<br />
style. Whether you’re simply<br />
looking for<br />
a beautiful hat, with distinguished style or<br />
you’re looking to spend your money in a<br />
more conscious way, you can be sure that<br />
your Pachacuti Panama hat will make you<br />
look and feel incredible!<br />
Founded by Fashion Revolution’s Carry<br />
Somers, there has always been a strong<br />
focus on sustainability, ethical practices and<br />
the minimisation of environmental impact<br />
within the Pachacuti company framework.<br />
Carry’s husband Mark has deep artistic<br />
roots and takes pride in the craft and skill<br />
of their artisans. He now runs the company<br />
fulltime, expressing equal passion in<br />
maintaining the principals on which it was<br />
founded.<br />
Working within strict guidelines,<br />
Pachacuti ensures that the communities<br />
are always receiving fair and sustainable<br />
wages and are encouraged to protect<br />
their environment. The organically-grown<br />
Carludovica Palmata plant used to create the<br />
hats, is cultivated on a community-owned<br />
plantation, encouraging biodiversity of plants<br />
and animals within a 5600hectare protected<br />
area. With their hard work and protection<br />
of their land, the community has seen a big<br />
improvement in biodiversity in recent years.<br />
Another way in which Pachacuti is striving<br />
to be at the forefront of sustainability<br />
in fashion, is by adapting a no-seasons<br />
approach. In 2014, they made a major<br />
decision to stop creating seasonal<br />
collections and focus purely on<br />
designing beautiful, enduring<br />
pieces. In doing so, they hope<br />
to encourage customers to<br />
cherish and love their Pachacuti<br />
hat, rather than encouraging<br />
more ‘mindless consumerism’<br />
within the industry.<br />
I sense the mood is finally<br />
changing across the length and<br />
breadth of the planet... many of us<br />
are becoming aware of the direct<br />
impact our spending choices make<br />
on the world at large and on families<br />
and people just like us, in not so distant<br />
places. And that, is a really good feeling.<br />
www.panamas.co.uk<br />
www.stoyanovandjones.com<br />
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Zero-waste<br />
KNITS<br />
Sustainable knitwear Designer, Valentina<br />
Karellas empowers us through her creations...<br />
This issue of Blush is all about<br />
the ability to empower one’s<br />
self in life and in business, as a<br />
businesswoman in a creative field<br />
have you ever struggled with this?<br />
I would say ‘yes!’ – every day there is some<br />
form of struggle to feel empowered. It’s easy<br />
to feel low about yourself and have selfdoubt.<br />
I learned very early on to not sweat<br />
the small stuff; to adapt, pivot, and move on<br />
as quickly as possible... Stepping back, then<br />
stepping forward is the key to stepping up.<br />
When I first decided to start my own<br />
sustainable knitwear brand, it took five years<br />
of research, saving and planning before<br />
I even put design to paper. It then took<br />
a further two years of trying to convince<br />
UK-based factories to even give me quotes<br />
to produce my pieces. This made me realise<br />
that I was never going to even get to sample<br />
stage if I continued down this path, it made<br />
me rethink my strategy. This then led to<br />
the ‘handmade in London’ knitwear brand<br />
that I have today. By being able to produce<br />
everything in-house, I not only solved the<br />
product issue, but costing was lower, plus<br />
the design restrictions were gone – this has<br />
also lead me down a path of zero-waste –<br />
being able to control every element of the<br />
product from start to finish has given my<br />
customers the security of knowing that each<br />
item is made carefully, thoughtfully, and<br />
sustainably.<br />
I learned very early<br />
on to not sweat the<br />
small stuff; to adapt,<br />
pivot and move on as<br />
quickly as possible.<br />
How do you empower people<br />
through your work?<br />
With the fashion industry being so cut-throat<br />
and competitive, it’s very hard to stand out,<br />
especially with a small budget. The way I<br />
empower people, is by giving them the option<br />
of having something handmade to order;<br />
that is bright, light, and comfortable to wear.<br />
The main way I empower my customers is<br />
by giving them the knowledge that they are<br />
doing no harm to the planet by wearing a<br />
piece that is zero-waste and sustainably made.<br />
How do fashion and beauty play a<br />
part in how women feel?<br />
If an item doesn’t fit well, and looks<br />
unflattering, then it can directly change<br />
your mood. Now that sustainability is<br />
finally making it in the media with a lot<br />
of fingers being pointed at the fashion<br />
industry, women are torn between style<br />
and sustainability – we have a choice to feel<br />
good within and look good on the outside,<br />
by choosing to consciously buy from an<br />
independent, ethical label – this conscious<br />
decision also plays a part in the customer’s<br />
mood. Knitwear is generally not known for<br />
being a high-fashion item, however it’s a<br />
staple piece of<br />
most people’s<br />
wardrobe; my<br />
pieces are bright<br />
and make my<br />
customers feel<br />
joyful when<br />
wearing them.<br />
What advice would you give to<br />
those who have faced healthrelated<br />
diagnosis or mental illness,<br />
but still wish to start their own<br />
business?<br />
Starting your own business is extremely<br />
difficult, time-consuming, mentally draining<br />
and a constant struggle for all people.<br />
Having a physical or mental illness on top of<br />
these ‘every day’ challenges adds a lot more<br />
pressure. It’s something not to take lightly,<br />
however, I do not want to discourage<br />
anyone from starting a business, it can<br />
also be incredibly rewarding, especially<br />
to celebrate the small wins of your day or<br />
week. Sometimes using your disability or<br />
your condition as an advantage to help<br />
other people and turning your passion into<br />
a business leads to success. No matter what<br />
your situation or background, starting a<br />
business can bring you and others so much<br />
joy. As long as you are enjoying the product<br />
or service that you wish to delivery, then<br />
everyone around you will soon see that too<br />
and things start to fall into place.<br />
What is your one style tip?<br />
I would say, keep to<br />
one key piece in your<br />
look, so if it’s a striking<br />
jumper, then keep the<br />
skirt or trousers plain.<br />
Choose fits for your<br />
body, nothing is one size<br />
fits all, so make sure it is<br />
complementing to your<br />
shape. Try to pick colours<br />
that bring you joy – no<br />
need to be a rainbow –<br />
but a pop of colour on a<br />
scarf or cuff can make all<br />
the difference to your look<br />
and mood.<br />
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com | IG: @vkarellas<br />
FB: @valentinakarellas<br />
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Fashion<br />
Photographer, Tina<br />
Nikolovski empowers<br />
us through her lens...<br />
This issue of Blush is all about<br />
the ability to empower one’s<br />
self in life and in business.<br />
As a businesswoman in a<br />
creative field have you ever<br />
struggled with this?<br />
Being a businesswoman in a creative field is<br />
challenging, yet so rewarding. I have certainly<br />
struggled with this balance, as in my field of<br />
photography (and as a talent agency owner), I often<br />
feel like I have to wear so many hats: photographer,<br />
accountant, administrator, salesperson, agent, web<br />
developer, social media manager, and so on.<br />
Inspirational<br />
SNAPS<br />
Not to mention that often business and creativity use<br />
two opposing sides of the brain. When I first started,<br />
I was very much the ‘creative artist’, it took me years<br />
to learn how to become a good businesswoman; to<br />
be able to make a career out of something I love and<br />
not just ‘collaborate’ and struggle to pay my bills.<br />
Having said this, for me personally, autonomy,<br />
variety, and continual progression are very important<br />
values. They keep me ‘happy’, they keep me<br />
motivated. I would not change what I do for the<br />
world, and whilst I started both businesses with<br />
minimal knowledge about business – just based on<br />
my creative passion – I can’t even begin to articulate<br />
what I’ve learnt in thirteen years. Sometimes the best<br />
thing you can do is to just ‘do it’, and learn as you go,<br />
and be ‘okay’ with not knowing everything.<br />
This photo best shows<br />
‘empowerment’ - both for the<br />
‘model/ballet-teacher’ (who<br />
created the garment and did<br />
her own hair and make-up), and<br />
for myself – at this point of my<br />
life, I continually doubted my<br />
own ability, but pushed forward<br />
regardless and achieved this<br />
image in the second year of my<br />
degree. I surprised myself with<br />
the results. The image reminds<br />
me to be empowered, to be free,<br />
to leap outside of my comfort<br />
zone and to reach for the sky... I<br />
hope others receive these same<br />
messages when looking at this<br />
photograph.<br />
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How do you empower your subject<br />
through your work?<br />
Much of the magic of photography takes<br />
place before the shutter is even released. Part<br />
of that magic is establishing a relationship<br />
with the subject (person) who is being<br />
captured in front of the lens. The way that<br />
I empower my subject/s in front of the lens<br />
(and I normally prefer to work with one<br />
person at a time), is firstly by making sure<br />
they feel comfortable in every step of the<br />
process. Some examples of the way I help<br />
empower my subject include: building an<br />
authentic, yet professional relationship; using<br />
music in the background that resonates with<br />
them and resonates with the theme; guiding<br />
my subject with direction, especially if they<br />
are feeling lost; showing them the images on<br />
the back of the lens that are working well,<br />
and so on.<br />
In a general sense, me being onehundred-percent<br />
confident in my role and<br />
showing them that they are in trusted hands,<br />
generally makes them feel comfortable. The<br />
empowerment then comes from within;<br />
then they see how beautiful they come<br />
across on the back of the camera and often<br />
see themselves in a new light. Through my<br />
energy, expression and direction I always<br />
want my subjects to ‘feel beautiful’ from<br />
inside out, in front of my lens – and I believe<br />
this aids in their empowerment.<br />
How do fashion and beauty<br />
play a part in how women<br />
feel?<br />
Fashion and beauty play huge parts<br />
in how women feel. Of course, the<br />
impact of fashion and beauty largely<br />
depends on what each individual<br />
chooses to focus on through popular<br />
culture and other avenues. For<br />
example, the depiction of women<br />
in a large number of settings can<br />
certainly be detrimental to one’s<br />
self-confidence if they compare<br />
themselves to something that isn’t<br />
an authentic image. However, we can also<br />
use the power of photography to empower<br />
others, especially within the fashion and<br />
beauty realm, in the portrayal and inclusion of<br />
diverse beauty across the board. This includes,<br />
but is not limited to: body shape, ethnicity,<br />
sexual preference, clothing, posing, expression<br />
and energy.<br />
Popular culture plays a large part in<br />
how women feel about themselves (both<br />
consciously and unconsciously), however as<br />
consumers, we also have the power to only<br />
support and pay attention to the images<br />
that make us feel empowered. Knowing<br />
what and how much is ‘photo-shopped’ or<br />
‘altered’ is also empowering, as it prevents us<br />
from taking in something as a form of reality<br />
when it’s not.<br />
What advice would you give to<br />
those who have faced healthrelated<br />
diagnosis or mental illness,<br />
but still wish to start their own<br />
business?<br />
I would say to anyone who has the intention<br />
of starting their own business to GO FOR IT!<br />
Mental illness (particularly depression and<br />
anxiety) haunted me before and during my<br />
journey of becoming a ‘business owner’.<br />
Whilst at times it was certainly difficult, the<br />
times that I temporarily gave up what I love<br />
(photography, art) were the times when I<br />
felt the most ‘empty’. Art has taught me so<br />
much about myself.<br />
My passion for art was a light, throughout<br />
my various stages battling mental health. It<br />
pushed me outside of my comfort zone but<br />
also gave me so much comfort. It gave me<br />
an escape whilst also allowing me to travel to<br />
new places, meet new people and see more<br />
of the world. Everyone’s journey is different<br />
and I can’t tell anyone what is right for them<br />
It pushed me<br />
outside of my<br />
comfort zone but<br />
also gave me so<br />
much comfort.<br />
and when to do it, but I wish to abolish the<br />
stigma or misconception of thinking you<br />
have to be ‘whole’ or have to have overcome<br />
your mental health issues or physical<br />
conditions before you start a business. You<br />
may not have to, as the journey itself may<br />
help you overcome it.<br />
What is your one style tip?<br />
My one style tip is to BE COMFORTABLE<br />
AND BE YOURSELF. I am a fashion<br />
photographer, and ironically, I don’t<br />
necessarily follow trends or the latest<br />
fashion. I wear clothing in combinations<br />
that I love and garments that make me feel<br />
good. I dress for my shape, but also for<br />
comfort and feeling.<br />
I can laugh about the fact that the<br />
majority of my wardrobe is neutral (blacks,<br />
whites, denims…. mostly blacks!), but<br />
I love it! Any time I have tried to dress<br />
outside of what is authentic to who I am,<br />
I have spent the night thinking about how<br />
uncomfortable I am and whether I look<br />
okay. Be bold, be authentic and be YOU!<br />
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Photographer Perou | Hairstylist Vicki Lord | Fashion stylist Wendy Quintana | Makeup artist Natasha Lakisha | Models Meg & Neeqs<br />
LOW Rider<br />
Where do we stand in<br />
the future when Harley<br />
Davidsons are obsolete<br />
and style is still necessity?<br />
Wear hair higher, wider, and<br />
intricate; wear garments<br />
tighter and buckle up;<br />
there’s no need for delicacy<br />
“You come to a point in your<br />
when you’re a low rider...<br />
life when you really don’t care<br />
what people think about you,<br />
you just care what you think<br />
about yourself.”<br />
Evel Knievel (1938-2007)<br />
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Black leather studded<br />
crop top by<br />
Sophia Hadjipakkou<br />
Studded cuffs by<br />
Renata Trencanska<br />
Black patent leather<br />
trousers by Malan Breton<br />
Platform stilettos by<br />
Natacha Marro<br />
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Handmade choker and<br />
Harness by<br />
Renata Trencanska<br />
Leather Bustier by<br />
Malan Breton<br />
Black leather jacket by<br />
UDDA<br />
Black leather<br />
bodice by<br />
Renata Trencanska<br />
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Model above:-Yellow and black<br />
hair jacket by<br />
Krasimira Stoyyneva<br />
Neck piece by<br />
Emma Ware<br />
Black sequins chaps by<br />
Natacha Marro<br />
Boots by<br />
Altuzarra<br />
Model beneath:- Sunglasses by<br />
Oliver Goldsmith<br />
Harness by<br />
Renata Trencanska<br />
Latex marble dress by<br />
Elissa Poppy<br />
Earrings by Emma Ware<br />
Cuff by<br />
Renata Trencanska<br />
Take<br />
CON<br />
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Black Long trench by<br />
Malan Breton<br />
TROL<br />
of your life<br />
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Fitzrovia,<br />
London W1T 1DH<br />
020 7831 5303<br />
Website<br />
charlesworthingtonsalons.com<br />
Instagram<br />
@charlesworthingtonsalons<br />
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VITAL<br />
MINUTES<br />
IN THE SUN<br />
A<br />
larmingly,<br />
Over the last few decades<br />
what has<br />
not been<br />
the emphasis on protecting<br />
highlighted ourselves from the harmful rays<br />
enough is how<br />
of the sun has increased with<br />
limiting our<br />
exposure to<br />
information readily available on<br />
the sun can actually have negative effects how direct contact with UV light<br />
on our health. Vitamin-D is integral to our<br />
can cause us harm. Many of us<br />
development, growth and psychological<br />
wellbeing, and although we can gain this now avoid UV rays, by wearing<br />
through supplements, the cheapest and high factor protective lotions<br />
most efficient way of getting a daily dose<br />
or by staying out of the sun<br />
of ‘D’ into our system is exposure to natural<br />
sunlight. Supplements are expensive, and altogether... What advice are<br />
they don’t always provide the amount of we supposed to follow?<br />
the vitamin that we need, especially<br />
if somebody has a high deficiency<br />
level. You would think that the<br />
sunnier countries would have<br />
lower rates of vitamin-D deficiency,<br />
however this is not necessarily the<br />
case, as in some hotter climates<br />
the culture or religion may dictate<br />
that skin is covered – and because<br />
humans absorb vitamin-D through<br />
the skin, people who are covering up<br />
all the time are not getting enough<br />
of it.<br />
We all know the uplifting feeling<br />
we get on a sunny day, which<br />
can help to improve our mood.<br />
Take this one step further, and the<br />
other psychological benefit is that<br />
vitamin-D actually helps to combat<br />
depression, as well as ease general<br />
aches and pains. Also, in recent years<br />
Seasonal Effective Disorder (SAD)<br />
has been highlighted as a condition<br />
suffered by people mostly during the<br />
winter. SAD is also caused by a lack of exposure to sunlight due to a<br />
melatonin imbalance. The most common treatment for this is spending<br />
time in front of a light box for between thirty to sixty minutes daily.<br />
Although it is important to spend time in natural sunlight, we do have Article by Louise Howard | Illustration by Calin Muir<br />
limiting our<br />
exposure to the sun<br />
can actually have<br />
negative effects on<br />
our health<br />
to remember to do this sensibly, whilst<br />
avoiding the damaging effects of the sun.<br />
Two to fifteen minutes in the sunlight<br />
at non-peak times is enough to keep<br />
that immune system up with the help of<br />
vitamin-D.<br />
Remember that if you are fair skinned<br />
you need far less time in the sun to absorb<br />
vitamin-D. Our colouring is our<br />
natural protection – so the darker we<br />
are, the more protection our skin has<br />
against UV rays. We should all avoid<br />
the hottest parts of the day, with<br />
early morning and late afternoon<br />
being the safest time to expose<br />
ourselves to sunlight. Also, by eating<br />
‘super foods’ such as pomegranates,<br />
blueberries and acai we can boost<br />
our body’s capability to protect it<br />
from harmful UV rays. Worshipping<br />
the sun and spending hours trying<br />
to get a ‘Hawaiian Tropic’ tan is not<br />
good for us, but getting outside<br />
definitely is, and benefits us all round,<br />
both psychologically and physically.<br />
To read more about this<br />
important health subject, including<br />
the scientific research to support that<br />
vitamin-D boosts the immune system<br />
and therefore the recovery process<br />
for cancer patients, check out the<br />
book Vitamin D Is this the miracle<br />
vitamin? By Ian Wishart Available here at www.amazon.co.uk/<br />
Vitamin-D-This-Miracle/dp/0987657313<br />
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IS<br />
INTERMITTENT<br />
FASTING<br />
THE REAL<br />
FOUNTAIN<br />
OF<br />
YOUTH?<br />
Intermittent fasting is becoming<br />
a particularly popular health<br />
topic. There are many different<br />
styles of intermittent fasting, and it<br />
can be challenging to know which<br />
choice is the safest and most<br />
effective for you personally...<br />
How the Gut Affects our Body<br />
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Intermittent Fasting (IF) or<br />
Time Restricted Eating (TRF) are<br />
terms used for when you have<br />
periods of extended time that<br />
you don’t eat. The most popular<br />
is a 16:8 protocol. This means<br />
sixteen hours of fasting and an<br />
eight-hour window in which you can eat,<br />
which is especially beneficial for promoting<br />
longevity and anti-aging. This is a lifestyle<br />
change rather than a ‘diet’, and it is seen by<br />
many as one of the easiest to adopt.<br />
Intermittent Fasting is about the balance<br />
of Fasting with Feasting. This allows the<br />
breakdown of the old cells (autophagy) and<br />
the building of the new healthier ones. To<br />
get the most of IF, the ‘building phase’ is<br />
just as important.<br />
What are the benefits of this eating<br />
regime?<br />
Better Blood Sugar<br />
control<br />
Controlling our blood sugar – Fasting<br />
helps us leave the sugar rollercoaster<br />
behind! It stabilises our blood sugar levels<br />
by allowing us to tap into our fat stores<br />
for fuel.<br />
Fat loss<br />
Fasting is the opposite of starving, you<br />
are simply switching fuel source… during<br />
fasting we are teaching our body to burn<br />
our fat as fuel.<br />
Anti-Ageing<br />
Fasting activates a ‘cellular stress<br />
response’, an increased capacity to resist<br />
stress, disease and aging. Cells upregulate<br />
the expression of genes that increase the<br />
capacity to withstand stress and resist<br />
disease and aging.<br />
Autophagy is the<br />
most impressive<br />
process that<br />
Intermittent<br />
Fasting promotes.<br />
Autophagy (the Greek word to mean<br />
self-eating) is the most impressive process<br />
that Intermittent Fasting promotes. It<br />
is a natural bodily process that rids of<br />
unwanted cells and cleanses, making way<br />
for anti-ageing and disease prevention.<br />
Fasting activates an increased rate of cellular<br />
response (autophagy) to allow our body to<br />
clean itself of its old and dead cells.<br />
There is a balance here, of course. You<br />
get sick from too much autophagy as<br />
well as too little. Which gets us back to<br />
the natural cycle of life – feast and fast.<br />
Not constant ‘dieting’! This allows for cell<br />
growth during eating,<br />
and cellular cleansing<br />
during fasting –<br />
BALANCE<br />
– Life is<br />
all about<br />
balance.<br />
Healthy<br />
Gut<br />
Our<br />
microbiome<br />
is the colony<br />
of bacteria that lives in our<br />
stomach. A better balance<br />
towards ‘good bacteria’ = good<br />
health.<br />
It has been shown in<br />
many studies, that during fasting, our<br />
microbiome greatly benefits. In particular,<br />
there is one species of bacteria that<br />
thrives and flourishes when we fast, called<br />
‘Akkermansia’. It lives on the mucous<br />
lining of our guts, an anti-inflammatory<br />
for the gut lining, keeping it in good<br />
shape.<br />
Detoxification<br />
When we fast, it allows for the liver and<br />
kidneys to detoxify completely: Ensure<br />
you Hydrate properly to facilitate this<br />
process.<br />
Sleep<br />
Steady blood sugar levels help the<br />
increased natural production of Human<br />
Growth Hormone (known as the ‘youth<br />
hormone’) at night, leading to a more<br />
restorative sleep.<br />
Here are the Supplements we use<br />
to get the most out of our fasting<br />
journey, available on www.<br />
Protocol8.com along with more<br />
information about fasting.<br />
C60 is reported to be the most<br />
potent antioxidant in the world and will<br />
help ‘mop up’ those toxins to support<br />
weight loss and reduce inflammation.<br />
Ancient and Brave – MCT and<br />
Collagen, helping you feel satiated<br />
without raising insulin. Nuzest is an<br />
ideal ‘full nutritional support’.<br />
SkinnyLuxeTea is ideal for reducing<br />
cravings and making you feel full in<br />
those fasting windows.<br />
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POWER<br />
in your<br />
POSE<br />
Research shows strong connections between our mind<br />
and body – so when you position your body into a<br />
particular pose – you are actually telling your mind how to<br />
think... Core of Steel Coach Emily-Rose explains...<br />
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If you want to change your mood<br />
and feel more powerful and<br />
confident, forget the stuff out<br />
there that says, “think your way<br />
to being happy”, because this<br />
alone is not going to cut it! You<br />
need to get up, move your body<br />
– basically change your physiology and that<br />
will change the biochemistry that makes up<br />
dominance and stress.<br />
As Tony Robbins says: “Physiology<br />
creates psychology.” And “Motion creates<br />
emotion!”<br />
You see, our posture does more than<br />
change our emotional state; it has a huge<br />
effect on those around us too! Becoming<br />
consciously aware of your pose gives you the<br />
ability to build rapport with everyone you<br />
meet – it’s your superhero power!<br />
even the types of hand gestures they use<br />
when it’s your turn to speak can level out the<br />
power. You will quickly see that you regain a<br />
balanced level of rapport – and you are both<br />
likely to relax too!<br />
If you are not in a great mood, or<br />
you aren’t feeling particularly motivated<br />
then take note of the way your body is<br />
positioned... You’ll probably notice that<br />
your body is a bit more slumped over, and if<br />
you’re tired, maybe the way you are talking<br />
and moving is a bit slower too. Generally,<br />
your body posture will be closed-in and<br />
smaller than your natural frame.<br />
Now picture a dominant person or a highpowered<br />
leader, how do you imagine their<br />
body is positioned? Their posture would<br />
likely be big, open – taking up space: This<br />
is called the ‘power pose’. The power pose<br />
is incredible, because it not only makes you<br />
feel empowered; it also enables you to be<br />
less reactive to stress.<br />
like it. (The power of a smile is incredible.)<br />
Hold the smile for two minutes with one of<br />
the following:<br />
1<br />
Power<br />
Pose –<br />
Hands on<br />
Hips<br />
2<br />
Power Pose<br />
– Hands<br />
behind Head<br />
with Leg<br />
over Knee<br />
3<br />
Power Pose<br />
– Hands in<br />
the Air<br />
it not only makes<br />
you feel empowered;<br />
it also enables you<br />
to be less reactive to<br />
stress.<br />
Think of a time when you were speaking to<br />
someone who stood in a dominant pose,<br />
you may have closed your body off, which<br />
in turn made you feel disempowered. We<br />
can only feel dominated when we allow<br />
ourselves to be dominated! To counteract<br />
this, simply mirror the other person’s body<br />
language. Little things like matching their<br />
facial expressions or the tempo of their voice,<br />
Here’s how to effectively<br />
use power poses:<br />
During everyday interactions, you may want<br />
power poses to be a little subtler – we could<br />
run around with our arms in the air like an<br />
athlete who’s just won a gold medal, but<br />
in some settings, this option may not be a<br />
suitable reaction.<br />
Small adjustments are sufficient in social<br />
situations. For example, you could uncross<br />
your arms, pop your hands gently on your<br />
hips, keep your shoulders back. When you<br />
are seated, being mindful that your back<br />
is straight and strong and your shoulders<br />
are back, creates positivity and a feeling of<br />
empowerment.<br />
If you want to change your emotional<br />
state quickly, or you know you are about to<br />
do something that requires confidence, find<br />
a bathroom or a private place and use one<br />
of the following power poses:<br />
Start by smiling, even if you don’t feel<br />
How would it feel to feel confident<br />
in everything that you do?<br />
Amy Cuddy did some research into the power<br />
pose and found that in the high-power<br />
pose there was a twenty percent increase in<br />
testosterone (dominance) and a twenty-five<br />
percent decrease in cortisol (stress).<br />
As you can imagine, this is not just about<br />
changing how we feel in the moment.<br />
Once you understand how powerful this<br />
technique is, you’ll experience how quickly<br />
it affects your entire life!<br />
How would it feel to just know that<br />
you are totally capable and can assert<br />
yourself in situations that you would have<br />
previously felt small in?<br />
From now on, if you hear the phrase<br />
‘no-one can make you feel anything’<br />
you’ll know it’s completely true, because<br />
at any given moment you can whip up<br />
your superpower, change rapport, react<br />
confidently and totally transform the way<br />
that you feel. Enjoy the results!<br />
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ASK!<br />
Healing African Golden<br />
Milk<br />
This delicious hot drink is very satisfying<br />
and nourishing, perfect for first thing in<br />
the morning. The powers of turmeric and<br />
African cayenne pepper are immense:<br />
They both assist digestions, and turmeric is<br />
detoxifying and anti-inflammatory, whilst<br />
cayenne pepper relieves congestion and<br />
improves circulation.<br />
Let me help you<br />
with your health and<br />
fitness goals...<br />
A<br />
s a fitness and<br />
health professional<br />
I get asked all the<br />
time ‘how can I stay<br />
fit and healthy?’ –<br />
and most people<br />
believe it to be<br />
a really massive change of lifestyle – but<br />
actually, it really is simpler than that.<br />
One of the most important things is to<br />
consider what you are putting into your<br />
body. Eat really healthily! But this does not<br />
mean you cannot treat yourself to some of<br />
the foods and drinks you enjoy – just not all<br />
the time and not in high quantities.<br />
When it comes to exercising, although<br />
we all know what we are meant to do, it<br />
often seems too much hard work. If you<br />
set yourself goals to stay in shape or to lose<br />
weight, and choose an exercise you actually<br />
enjoy then you are more likely to stick to it.<br />
What if I told you that exercise can<br />
completely reset your mood? I have had<br />
the most chaotic and emotional year<br />
dealing with personal family issues and the<br />
one thing I credit for getting me through<br />
the trauma is exercising. The benefit<br />
of exercising on your mental health is<br />
exceptional. When you exercise, your body<br />
releases endorphins – these endorphins<br />
trigger positivity in the entire body...<br />
enough of a positive feeling to keep you<br />
going even during the toughest times.<br />
Form a good habit and try a daily<br />
20-30-minute exercise routine to combat<br />
negativity; this, alongside a nutritious<br />
diet can work wonders for your overall<br />
wellbeing.<br />
My top 3 exercises to encourage<br />
happy feelings are:<br />
1<br />
Running – outdoor running is<br />
the best. It is free, you don’t need<br />
a kit, just a pair of good trainers.<br />
You always feel amazing out in<br />
nature breathing fresh air.<br />
2<br />
Dancing – you could try a<br />
dance-based class like Zumba or<br />
Barre. But just dancing in your<br />
own home for twenty minutes<br />
every day is a great start. I encourage any<br />
form of daily movement.<br />
3<br />
Yoga – you enter a more<br />
relaxed state when you<br />
practise yoga. You also spend<br />
time breathing and being<br />
present... try a YouTube session or<br />
your local gym for group classes.<br />
This recipe makes two cups<br />
Ingredients:<br />
200ml, milk (I use coconut or almond milk)<br />
1/2 Tsp, grounded turmeric<br />
A pinch, cayenne pepper<br />
1/2 Tsp, grated ginger<br />
A pinch, black pepper<br />
1 Tbsp, raw honey<br />
Method:<br />
1. Combine all ingredients in a small milk<br />
pan on medium heat until milk is hot – be<br />
careful not to burn!<br />
2. Strain and serve in a tea cup.<br />
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the one thing I<br />
credit for getting me<br />
through the trauma<br />
is exercising<br />
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The human<br />
body has more<br />
calcium than any<br />
other mineral.<br />
for calcium is close<br />
to one in ten; for<br />
selenium, the figures<br />
are a quarter of the<br />
male population and<br />
almost a half of the<br />
female; and one in<br />
ten of us is missing<br />
out on magnesium.<br />
So where should<br />
we be looking to<br />
find the missing five?<br />
Well, the good news<br />
is that they are readily<br />
available in some<br />
foods that are also a<br />
joy to eat.<br />
ARE<br />
YOU<br />
Out?<br />
Here is Grape Tree’s guide to why we need<br />
five vital nutrients that we could be lacking, and<br />
which foods contain them...<br />
1. Magnesium<br />
As well as turning the food we eat into<br />
energy, magnesium is important for bone<br />
health. It also steadies the heart rhythm<br />
and regulates blood pressure. A deficiency<br />
can lead to muscle spasms, agitation and<br />
anxiety, sleep disorders, loss of appetite<br />
and fatigue.<br />
Missing<br />
How Much Do We Need? Men: 300mg<br />
a day. Women: 270mg a day.<br />
Where to<br />
Find It:<br />
Sources include<br />
green leafy<br />
vegetables,<br />
fish, meat, and<br />
dairy foods.<br />
Plant-based<br />
options also include nuts, wholegrains<br />
and lentils. Nuts are recommended<br />
as a source by the NHS. An ounce of<br />
brazils (a handful) contains over 100mgs<br />
of magnesium, a third of the daily<br />
requirement. The same weight of almonds<br />
or cashews serves up a quarter of the<br />
total advised. A handful of linseed or chia<br />
will each give you around 150mg. Quinoa<br />
has 60mgs in every 100gs.<br />
You have probably<br />
never given much<br />
consideration to what<br />
quantity of potassium<br />
you eat each day.<br />
Or selenium, or<br />
magnesium for that<br />
matter... but perhaps now is the time to<br />
pay attention, because these are three<br />
minerals that have vital roles to play in<br />
our nutrition and overall health. And yet<br />
millions of us in Britain simply do not<br />
consume enough of them, and many of us<br />
are also going short of iron and calcium.<br />
The National Diet and Nutrition<br />
Survey lists that more than a quarter of<br />
females have below the recommended<br />
levels for potassium and iron. The figure<br />
2. Potassium<br />
Potassium controls the balance of<br />
fluids in the body and is crucial to the<br />
working of the heart, brain, nerves<br />
and muscles. A deficiency can cause<br />
weakness and fatigue, muscle stiffness,<br />
aches and cramps, and irregular<br />
heartbeats.<br />
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How Much Do We Need? Adults:<br />
3,500mg a day.<br />
Where to Find It: Many fruits,<br />
vegetables, fish, poultry meat and<br />
beef contain potassium, but levels are<br />
reduced by cooking, particularly boiling.<br />
So, eating raw is recommended. Which<br />
makes dried fruits, nuts and seeds even<br />
more attractive options. Of the nuts,<br />
pistachios have the most. A handful will<br />
give you 290mgs or eight percent of your<br />
target. But a handful of most nuts will<br />
hit five percent. A large handful of raisins<br />
(a quarter cup) will hit 250mg (seven<br />
women need 14.8mg a day until the onset<br />
of the menopause.<br />
Where to Find It: The best food source<br />
of selenium is brazil nuts. Just one or<br />
two nuts a day contain all the selenium<br />
you need. While 3oz of beef or turkey<br />
will give you forty percent of your daily<br />
requirement.<br />
Other good vegetarian sources are<br />
seeds: A quarter cup of sunflower seeds<br />
will give you a third of your daily needs<br />
and the same amount of chia and sesame<br />
seeds will provide a quarter of the<br />
requirement.<br />
One in ten of us<br />
are missing out<br />
on magnesium.<br />
fortified with iron. Recommended sources<br />
of plant-based non-haem iron include<br />
chickpeas, beans, lentils, nuts and seeds.<br />
An ounce (28g) of pumpkin seeds has<br />
4.2mgs, almost half of the daily male<br />
target, and a cup of quinoa (185gs) has<br />
well over a quarter. A handful of cashews<br />
(40g) has 2.67mgs, and cup of boiled<br />
lentils (around 200gs) has a hefty 6.6mgs<br />
– almost half the female daily target.<br />
5. Calcium<br />
The human body has more calcium than<br />
any other mineral. It is vital in building<br />
teeth and bones,<br />
regulating muscle<br />
contractions (including<br />
the heartbeat) and<br />
making sure blood clots<br />
normally. A deficiency<br />
can lead to osteoporosis<br />
in later life.<br />
How Much Do We<br />
Need? Adults: 700mg<br />
a day.<br />
percent) and 25gms of pumpkin seed or<br />
linseed will supply over five percent.<br />
3. Selenium<br />
Selenium has key links with the thyroid,<br />
which is vital for the functioning of all<br />
the cells in the body. It helps the immune<br />
system and may improve fertility. Selenium<br />
is an antioxidant that helps protect the<br />
body from free radicals. It is also linked with<br />
mood.<br />
How Much Do We Need? Adult men<br />
and older women: 8.7mg a day. Younger<br />
4. Iron<br />
Critical for making the red blood cells that<br />
carry oxygen around the body, iron also<br />
helps maintain the immune system. Being<br />
low on iron can make you feel tired and faint,<br />
and can lead to iron deficiency anaemia.<br />
How Much Do We Need? Adult Men<br />
and Older Women: 8.7mg a day. Younger<br />
Women: 14.8mg a day until the onset of<br />
the menopause.<br />
Where to Find It: Red meats are rich<br />
sources, in an easily absorbed form called<br />
haem iron. Many breakfast cereals are<br />
Where to Find It:<br />
Dairy foods, green<br />
leafy vegetables (except<br />
spinach), bread and<br />
anything else made with<br />
fortified flour have supplies of calcium.<br />
But nuts are also an NHS recommended<br />
source. Ten almonds or nine brazils have<br />
50mg. Seeds and dried fruit are also an<br />
excellent source. A tablespoon of sesame<br />
seeds has over 90mg and a tablespoon<br />
of chia has almost 80mg. Four figs have<br />
100mg, three dates (50gs) have 20mg,<br />
and fifty raisins have 13mg.<br />
There you have it, tasty<br />
options to reach your daily<br />
dose of vital nutrients.<br />
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Shush...<br />
How we can talk about mental health.<br />
It is often assumed, as well as<br />
found in some studies that<br />
women are more emotionally<br />
expressive than men, but let’s<br />
face it, it isn’t always easy<br />
for anybody to open up a<br />
conversation about mental<br />
health. To begin with, where do we start?<br />
What if we say the wrong thing? What if<br />
the person we are talking to doesn’t want<br />
our help? What if it is us that needs the<br />
support? What if we burden them? Or<br />
offend them?<br />
There are so many questions that<br />
overwhelm us, to the point when an<br />
appropriate moment to approach someone<br />
about our own mental wellbeing or their<br />
mental health has gone... or worse still, we<br />
may actually bombard someone else with<br />
well-intended but unwelcome advice.<br />
Research shows that humans tend not to<br />
take advice from others; we either ask for<br />
it as a way of reaffirming our own opinion,<br />
or we don’t ask at all – because we don’t<br />
want advice, or we are not ready for it, or<br />
we are ashamed to tell others how we are<br />
really feeling... Do you relate to any of these<br />
scenarios?<br />
It doesn’t matter how relevant or<br />
well balanced the advice is, this type of<br />
information mostly comes from a subjective<br />
place based on the advisor’s experiences<br />
or knowledge, rather than the best option<br />
for the other person. With all the good<br />
intention, experience and expertise in the<br />
world, we can never completely know what<br />
somebody else is going through, in the way<br />
that they are personally going through it.<br />
So how can we help<br />
without giving advice?<br />
Well, the first thing to remember is that<br />
mental health is something we all need<br />
to be on top of... just like we are on top<br />
of our physical fitness.<br />
It is good to talk, but it is even better<br />
to LISTEN... and it is vital to approach<br />
any situation appropriately, because one<br />
of the biggest problems is recognising<br />
the symptoms of mental ill health<br />
and supporting a person to manage<br />
their condition or to point them in<br />
the direction of seeking the necessary<br />
professional help.<br />
As a Mental Health First Aider, you<br />
are not a qualified therapist, just like<br />
physical first aiders are not paramedics,<br />
but by following the Action Plan that is<br />
learnt during a Mental Health First Aid<br />
course, you can really make a difference<br />
to a lot of people.<br />
It is a simple process to<br />
become a Mental Health<br />
First Aider:<br />
1<br />
2<br />
3<br />
Visit the Mental Health First Aid<br />
courses, www.MHFAEngland.org<br />
Choose the right course for you...<br />
Attend the full course you apply for and<br />
you will be a Mental Health First Aider.<br />
You can do these courses as an individual,<br />
or get work colleagues on board so that<br />
your organisation can assign specific team<br />
members to the role of Mental Health First<br />
Aider, with the aim of having someone<br />
allocated in each department. There are also<br />
courses available for those working with<br />
youths and with the armed forces.<br />
Remember, mental ill health can affect<br />
anybody, so the more awareness on the<br />
subject, the better for everybody’s overall<br />
health and wellbeing. Just like if you are a<br />
physical first aider, you do not have to help,<br />
but what these courses do is raise awareness,<br />
reduce stigma, and shed light on your own<br />
mental health status.<br />
It is an ideal course to do if you are<br />
supporting somebody going through<br />
treatment, loss or trauma, as well as, if you<br />
are too, experiencing life challenges.<br />
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AT EVERY AGE<br />
Clarins,<br />
for the love<br />
of women.<br />
It’s all about you.