Ali Fowler - An Invitation To Magazine With Me
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Welcome To Ali Fowler's Personal Magazine.
Ali is the Founder & Editor-In-Chief of SomethingGoodMagazines.Com and is inviting you to co-create a magazine with her. Ali works with purpose rich business owners, life changer coaches and bigger game entrepreneurs, with magazines packages to match.
As a social entrepreneur herself, Ali has an extraordinary passion for helping people get their message and their something good out into the world.
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DREAM-DRIVEN. CO-CREATOR. PROJECTEUR.<br />
IN SERVICE OF<br />
SOMETHING GOOD<br />
<strong>Magazine</strong>s are in my heart, projects<br />
are in my DNA<br />
<strong>An</strong> <strong>Invitation</strong> to <strong>Magazine</strong> with me<br />
A look at life legacy<br />
10 pivotal realisations that helped me<br />
get my dreams off the back burner<br />
and into play<br />
Photo Credit: <strong>Ali</strong>se Black Studios<br />
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I believe legacy is life’s<br />
great joint venture (JV) -<br />
where Joy meets Value. Find<br />
out what brings you Joy and<br />
add Value by sharing it with<br />
the world.” - <strong>Ali</strong> <strong>Fowler</strong><br />
SomethingGood<strong>Magazine</strong>s.com
Photo Credit: <strong>Ali</strong>se Black Studios<br />
Welcome<br />
to my <strong>Magazine</strong><br />
It was never my intention to<br />
be in the public eye, but here<br />
I am with my own magazine<br />
and with me on the cover!<br />
Yikes!<br />
It’s time to unhide me,<br />
unhide my business.<br />
#unhideyoursomethinggood<br />
I produced my first magazine<br />
in 2016 as a solution for a client, fast forward to<br />
publicly publishing my first Something Good<br />
<strong>Magazine</strong> in April 2019, receiving over 1.6 million<br />
views, I knew I was onto something good.<br />
My life’s work has been around leading, managing<br />
and supporting 100’s of projects in retail, education,<br />
sport, entertainment in 14 countries - I have<br />
projects in my DNA for sure.<br />
So I have combined my two great loves - magazines<br />
and projects and created Something Good, working<br />
with business owners, thought leaders, social<br />
entrepreneurs and coaches to get their dreams<br />
off the back burner and into play - by getting their<br />
something good out into the world.<br />
My clients have shared that making their magazine<br />
has been a catalyst for action, like no other project<br />
they could have taken on. I’d love to co-create your<br />
magazine with you.<br />
Please Share This <strong>Magazine</strong> <strong>With</strong> <strong>An</strong>y<br />
Coaches Or Business Owners That<br />
Might Be Interested. Thank You!<br />
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WHAT’S INSIDE<br />
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P14<br />
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ABOUT ME<br />
A Look At Life Legacy<br />
<strong>An</strong> <strong>Invitation</strong> to <strong>Magazine</strong> with me<br />
10 PIVOTAL REALISATIONS THAT HELPED ME<br />
GET MY DREAMS OFF THE BACK BURNER AND<br />
INTO PLAY<br />
WE CO-CREATE SHAREWORTHY MAGAZINES.<br />
Having your own business magazine (print, digital<br />
or both) is becoming a must-have business asset<br />
for any business owner, organisation, coach,<br />
speaker, eCommerce store or social entrepreneur<br />
with an impact to make in the world.<br />
When a 3 second read on social media, won’t make<br />
the cut - having your own magazine can step up<br />
and take the stage for you and tell your story in a<br />
way that engages, inspires, informs and ultimately<br />
attracts new audiences.<br />
IT’S YOUR BUSINESS. IT’S YOUR MAGAZINE.<br />
IT’S YOUR SOMETHING GOOD.<br />
We are a Business For Good and every time a<br />
magazine is completed, we make a gift on your<br />
behalf to a project we like, supporting the United<br />
Nations Sustainable Development Goals and<br />
B1G1 - a global giving movement. Check out -<br />
somethinggoodmagazines.com/ProjectsWeLike<br />
alifowler11<br />
ali@somethinggoodmagazines.com<br />
somethinggoodmagazines.com<br />
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I AM...<br />
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DREAM-DRIVEN<br />
Co-creator<br />
Projecteur<br />
Freedom Seeker<br />
Life Changer COACH<br />
Entrepreneur’s project manager<br />
Author<br />
Rose Gardener<br />
Good Friend<br />
Epic Listener<br />
Woman who is Not done yet<br />
Trailblazer<br />
Indie magazine publisher<br />
Sometimes planner<br />
Leader<br />
Explorer<br />
Friendly expert<br />
Elephant Ambassador<br />
3<br />
…Something Good
I AM MOST<br />
PASSIONATE ABOUT…<br />
WORKING WITH DREAM<br />
DRIVEN PEOPLE ON A<br />
MISSION TO CHANGE<br />
THE WORLD AND CO-<br />
CREATING PROJECTS<br />
THAT HELP MOVE<br />
HUMANITY FORWARD.<br />
MAGAZINES<br />
ARE IN MY HEART, PROJECTS ARE IN MY DNA.<br />
I<br />
would sum up my career so far as...I am one of<br />
those people who has the ‘multi-career thing’<br />
going on.<br />
I took advantage of lots of opportunities which led<br />
me to some amazing roles.<br />
about a 7 year period. I became known<br />
as “the woman having projects in her<br />
DNA.” I acquired formal qualifications<br />
from the Australian Institute of Project<br />
Management, Project Management<br />
Institute (PMI) and Deakin University.<br />
I started out teaching at physical education and health at<br />
Footscray Secondary College for a couple of years I then<br />
moved into a sports administration role with the Australian<br />
Institute of Sport where I assisted athletes transitioning<br />
out of their competitive sporting life into their next<br />
careers.<br />
Fast forward through sport and event roles - Formula One,<br />
Motor Racing, Commonwealth Games Bids, Executive<br />
Producer of Walt Disney Special Events Group for<br />
Asia-Pacific, to name a few.<br />
Wanting to expand my skills and experience, I made a<br />
pivot into retail and business. Business Improvement<br />
Manager for Bunnings (Home Improvement) afforded me<br />
the opportunity to see over 18,000 improvement ideas over<br />
Then after a cosmic re-arrangement<br />
of career goals, I made the decision<br />
to head into the wild as a solopreneur<br />
and build a coaching and project<br />
consulting business. Creating<br />
magazines for my clients as business<br />
assets to help them get their message<br />
out into the world flowed easily from<br />
my new energy. <strong>With</strong> excitement, I<br />
jumped and became an indie magazine<br />
publisher under my brand, Something<br />
Good <strong>Magazine</strong>s. This has become a<br />
true life passion.<br />
Who says you can’t have more than<br />
one career?<br />
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Know your next steps<br />
I know how important it is to know your<br />
next few steps - here’s mine…<br />
was<br />
now<br />
Teacher, Sport Manager,<br />
Live Event Producer,<br />
Business Improvement<br />
Manager.<br />
Lead, managed,<br />
supported and delivered<br />
100s of projects in<br />
<strong>Me</strong>lbourne, Sydney,<br />
Brisbane, New Zealand,<br />
China, Japan, Singapore,<br />
Hong Kong, South Korea,<br />
US and India.<br />
soon<br />
Author & Founder:<br />
Business Project<br />
Consultant, Coach,<br />
<strong>Me</strong>ntor and Trainer for<br />
coaches, small business<br />
owners and non-profits<br />
to improve their business<br />
through faster and better<br />
project delivery, so they<br />
can grow their impact in<br />
their world.<br />
<strong>Magazine</strong> Publisher<br />
Something Good<br />
<strong>Magazine</strong>s<br />
later<br />
Woman on a mission to<br />
do something big and<br />
audacious and bring<br />
creative people/teams<br />
together globally on<br />
epic projects to take<br />
on projects that move<br />
humanity forward.<br />
SIGNS YOU ARE<br />
READY TO CHASE<br />
YOUR DREAMS<br />
1 COURAGE<br />
You show up to START<br />
2 CLARITY<br />
It’s out of your HEAD<br />
3 CERTAINTY<br />
You intend to FIND A WAY<br />
4 FOCUS<br />
You own your TIME<br />
5 PURPOSE<br />
You know your WHY<br />
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1. What Do I Dream Of?<br />
sitting on my beachfront property, with a glass of<br />
Prosecco in hand, surrounded by great friends and<br />
everyone’s phones are turned off.<br />
2. The ‘Rule’ Most Recently<br />
I Have Broken Is...<br />
thinking that getting older means slowing down.<br />
I’m a bit of a late bloomer. The best is yet to come<br />
for me. I’m just getting started.<br />
3. The Biggest Life Lesson I<br />
Have Learned So Far Is…<br />
to not ignore the whispers inside my head about<br />
my life’s direction. They don’t go away, they just<br />
get louder until you pay attention to them<br />
7. My ‘Why’ is…<br />
I believe the world I live in is up to me, so anything I<br />
can do to help move humanity forward, I’m up for that.<br />
8. When I Am Not Working,<br />
I Am…<br />
writing books, because I find it a challenge and I’d<br />
like to get better at it.<br />
9. My Legacy Will Hopefully<br />
Be...<br />
that I helped others get their dreams off the back<br />
burner and into play.<br />
10. My Something Good Is...<br />
being dream driven and believing anything in life is<br />
possible - so daydream like nobody is watching!.<br />
4. How I Find Myself In This<br />
Place Right Now Is Because I…<br />
have taken a leap into living a purposeful life. I<br />
can’t say its been easy or convenient, but it has<br />
become not negotiable for me.<br />
5. My Leadership Style Is <strong>To</strong>…<br />
inspire the solution and then get out of the way.<br />
6. This Chapter Of My Life Is<br />
All About...<br />
creating my life legacy. I know I am here to help<br />
people make their projects simple and do-able so<br />
they can go and play their bigger game.<br />
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Why I Want <strong>To</strong><br />
Create <strong>Magazine</strong>s<br />
For People<br />
It’s pretty simple really. It makes me happy. It<br />
makes them happy!<br />
I love the co-creating on a magazine<br />
I love the collaboration.<br />
I love I get to use my strengths of thought<br />
organising and simplifying<br />
I love that I can materially help a business move<br />
forward by presenting their work, products,<br />
services and most importantly their story in<br />
such a unique way.<br />
I love the way a personal magazine makes a<br />
great introduction - it’s the ultimate business<br />
card.<br />
I love the process and I love the outcome.<br />
Often times in a coaching situation it’s hard to<br />
pinpoint to an outcome, but here, after all the<br />
writing, cajoling, cheerleading and pushing (yes<br />
sometimes), then we end up with something<br />
physical, a digital and print magazine - you can<br />
hold in your hand, post it online, go lumpy mail<br />
or simply hand it to them.<br />
I love the shareworthiness of a magazine<br />
I love the creativity.<br />
I love my design team<br />
I love the deep dive into who a person really is.<br />
I love the’ aha’ moments as people see<br />
themselves in print and realise they really are<br />
something good.<br />
I love the random thoughts of a business owner<br />
with a vision.<br />
I love the slow natural unfolding of ideas<br />
I love the bragging - more of it I say!<br />
I love the shifts that happen<br />
I love the smile when people see their life’s<br />
work or life purpose designed so beautifully on<br />
the page in front of them.<br />
I love the comments, the challenges and the<br />
feedback<br />
I love the uncomfortableness that comes with<br />
making it all about you.<br />
I love seeing where the line is with people<br />
- making a video talking about themselves,<br />
handing over photos (reluctantly) or putting a<br />
$ value of the services they are offering - that<br />
is so interesting to watch. I love the hesitation<br />
and then that moment, they decide to step into<br />
their own greatness and tell us all like it is!<br />
I love the impact a humble magazine can make.<br />
I love it when we hit ‘Publish!’<br />
I love every day I get to do this and I am truly<br />
grateful<br />
When I can help others get their life and<br />
business dreams off the back burner and<br />
into play, all the while, living my own dream<br />
of building a profit-with-purpose business<br />
that helps 100s of people build and live their<br />
legacies and change lives - I love that.<br />
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WORK WORTH<br />
DOING<br />
I have had a crazy career of different<br />
moments that have got me to where I am<br />
today for which I am truly grateful.<br />
“Your Services Are No<br />
Longer Needed” Was My<br />
Liberation Twice!<br />
There are questions we don’t ask<br />
ourselves that can doom our dreams,<br />
sabotage our best intentions and<br />
leave us drifting in failure and<br />
purposelessness. <strong>Ali</strong>son <strong>Fowler</strong> has<br />
asked herself some tough questions.<br />
In the process, she has come up with<br />
a way to inspire and help individuals<br />
and organizations cut through some of<br />
their self-limiting attitudes and make<br />
remarkable things happen.<br />
Originally published in GIFT Global MMW <strong>Magazine</strong><br />
August 2018. Editor - Joel Brokaw. giftglobal.org<br />
Three times a day, an alarm goes off on my<br />
smartphone. Along with the buzzer, a three-word<br />
reminder appears on the screen: “Work Worth<br />
Doing”<br />
It is based on a Franklin Delano Roosevelt quote —<br />
“Far and away, the best prize that life offers is the<br />
chance to work hard at work worth doing.”<br />
This alarm is a very small and pragmatic but<br />
ultimately powerful mindfulness practice for me.<br />
It is a moment I can check in and ask if what I’m<br />
doing right now, in that minute, is truly “work<br />
worth doing.” <strong>An</strong>d to be honest, I often catch myself<br />
saying, “Well, maybe not, and maybe I should stop<br />
doing this particular thing?” Or perhaps I had<br />
become distracted worrying about something that<br />
may never happen. I realize I am not being present,<br />
and this comforting message brings me back to<br />
that space of being present. It is also a simple but<br />
instrumental doorway to cultivating a sense of<br />
fulfillment and happiness—making sure my head<br />
and my heart are aligned in the same place and<br />
with a heightened sense of focus and purpose.<br />
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From the beginning, I set out with high<br />
intentions. I was first a teacher, and for the<br />
first couple of years, I really enjoyed it.<br />
But at that time in Australia, we had a lot<br />
of displaced families arriving by boats from<br />
Vietnam with very little English. As young<br />
inexperienced teachers, we were all very<br />
unprepared for supporting these new<br />
Australians. It was an incredibly challenging<br />
time, more crowd control and soccer<br />
games than advancing any meaningful<br />
education.<br />
First off, I am an achiever. I like to make things<br />
happen. I am somebody who has from a very<br />
early age needed a challenge. My grandmother<br />
told my mother back then that as long as I’ve got<br />
a challenge in front of me, I will be fine. “Make<br />
sure she keeps finding that,” she would say as she<br />
feverishly knitted our family mohair jumpers for<br />
our birthdays.<br />
So I have spent most of my time enjoying doing<br />
really diverse things, following many different<br />
paths in my life and career. It has been a good<br />
thing, even when the pill of human experience<br />
tasted bitter when first swallowed.<br />
Funnily enough, I have gone full circle<br />
decades later, finding myself back in<br />
education working on a global project<br />
which incorporates mindfulness<br />
technologies into classrooms to develop<br />
more focused students and teachers and<br />
more productive learning environments.<br />
Next up was a stint as a career advisor for<br />
the Australian Institute of Sport, helping<br />
athletes who didn’t get selected for the<br />
Olympic team to chart out what they would<br />
be doing afterward. I don’t know if you can<br />
plan life, but it kind of opened my eyes to<br />
the reality.<br />
“Here’s somebody who has<br />
reached the peak of what<br />
they wanted to achieve<br />
and now what?”<br />
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It is a real issue that almost all of us have to<br />
face some time or another: what to do when<br />
something you love doing is taken away from<br />
you. Little did I know that it would soon be a big<br />
issue for me as well.<br />
Headhunted for my next challenge, I became an<br />
executive producer for live events for the Walt<br />
Disney Company Asia-Pacific overseeing events<br />
in many countries. I learned so much about the<br />
power of storytelling and all the creative genius<br />
that Disney is renowned for. I got to the top of<br />
my field and was thoroughly enjoying my time<br />
when I came back from a three-city show tour<br />
in India only to be told that my job no longer<br />
existed, along with some of my amazing team. It<br />
was a shock, to say the least.<br />
I remember feeling humiliated and embarrassed.<br />
“What are people saying? What will people think<br />
“<br />
Heads<br />
-IT’S LIBERATING.<br />
TAILS<br />
-IT’S DEVASTATING.”<br />
of me? Now, I’m an epic failure. No one will employ<br />
me!” All these feelings came up because my identity<br />
was all wrapped up in this job title. I soon came<br />
to the realization that my reaction boiled down<br />
to a coin toss — ‘heads’ it’s liberating or ‘tails’ it’s<br />
devastating!<br />
In that moment I had to choose that it was going<br />
to be liberating to move on. I realized I needed<br />
another challenge. I regrouped myself and came<br />
into the world of business, working myself up to a<br />
senior management level at a multi-billion dollar<br />
company in Australia. I loved my job so much and<br />
was doing well. It was a great challenge, great<br />
people, and a great culture— a perfect place to be in<br />
my early 40s. Then something started to shift.<br />
I had this whisper inside of me saying, “This is<br />
great but this isn’t it. Even though you’ve had<br />
great success, you’re not done yet.”<br />
I embarked on a search on what I was supposed<br />
to be doing but I spent two years getting very<br />
confused and stuck and as a result, started to<br />
resent my job. It didn’t help that I was not willing to<br />
make a leap to leave the job without having the next<br />
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“I took a<br />
ap year<br />
at 50”<br />
challenge all set up. It was three months before<br />
my 50th birthday, and I remember sitting in my<br />
lounge at home thinking,<br />
I decided I would write my resignation letter<br />
and leave this big, well sought after job and walk<br />
away without a plan. I went to work the next<br />
day pulsing with adrenalin and nervously walked<br />
into my manager’s office. Before I could get my<br />
resignation letter out, she turned around and<br />
said to me,<br />
“I’ve got some really bad news for you. Your job<br />
no longer exists, but we are going to take care<br />
of you – here’s your payout.”<br />
Sometimes, we have to learn the lesson twice.<br />
This second time was the happiest moment of<br />
my life. Twenty-four hours prior, I felt fear about<br />
what I was supposed to do and how I was going<br />
to fund my dream—and the only thing I decided<br />
to do was to trust and show up! Needless to say,<br />
I’m very grateful for both of those moments of<br />
being told I was no longer required. They were<br />
quite profound.<br />
I decided to take a gap year at 50, setting the<br />
intention to explore and discover truly what I<br />
was supposed to be doing for the next 20 years.<br />
I made a promise to myself that I would not<br />
make any decisions during the 12 months and it<br />
turned out to be the most freeing 12 months I<br />
had ever had. Nothing was off limits. I traveled<br />
a lot, dived into learning, attended some pretty<br />
cool entrepreneurial experiences in Costa Rica<br />
with Mindvalley, read books and talked to many<br />
people.<br />
“I know there is something bigger for me. I’ve been<br />
waiting for conditions to be right, for money to appear<br />
in my bank account to fund my dreams, waiting for all<br />
of that to show up before I made the leap. But the thing<br />
that is missing is I’m not showing up. I wasn’t owning it.”<br />
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I Found Myself Having<br />
“Purpose Envy”<br />
Photo Source: unsplash.com/@peter_forster<br />
About 9 months in, I sought out old friends and<br />
colleagues to interview, asking them to tell me<br />
what they thought I was good at. What they<br />
played back to me, to be honest, was not at first<br />
what I wanted to hear.<br />
“You’re the project chick, the girl that has<br />
projects in her DNA”<br />
I didn’t want that to be my superpower because<br />
it didn’t sound very sexy. I found myself having a<br />
bit of ‘purpose envy.’<br />
I had been hanging out with people who were<br />
building orphanages in Africa, campaigning for<br />
a change in elephant tourism, building schools,<br />
writing books, etc. These things sounded more<br />
exciting and purposeful than my humble talents.<br />
But then the light bulb went on.<br />
I ended up deciding in one day—if that is my<br />
purpose, if that is what I am on the planet to<br />
do, then let’s go make that happen. My mission<br />
became to make people’s projects simple and<br />
doable so they can play their bigger game and<br />
make an impact. I realized I knew that project<br />
planning and delivery was no longer a specialist<br />
domain of people wearing zippered cardigans<br />
and beards. We’ve all got projects going on,<br />
whether they are personal, business, service,<br />
community or even legacy-building.<br />
But why is it that some people either can start<br />
things and then not finish them or can’t<br />
get started in the first place? They have<br />
ideas in their heads and see other people<br />
execute their ideas, but they just can’t get<br />
off the couch. Why do they get stuck?<br />
I found that the big motivators are the<br />
human needs of More, Better and Easier.<br />
How can I do more with what I’ve got in a<br />
shorter amount of time? How can I get a<br />
better result? <strong>An</strong>d how can I do it easier?<br />
My work soon evolved to helping combat<br />
these three things. First and foremost,<br />
it was about helping people create a<br />
compelling reason and then a structure.<br />
This applies both for those who want<br />
to wing it and figure it out as they go (a<br />
legitimate project strategy), as well as<br />
those who want a concrete step-by-step<br />
process.<br />
I’ve watched people change the way they<br />
approach life when they look at things<br />
through the lens of a project. If we make<br />
something a project, it gives it focus for<br />
a defined time. Projects have a start, a<br />
finish and a reason to live. Projects don’t<br />
go forever. That’s the anti-overwhelm<br />
strategy and the good news. If the project<br />
is going to the gym and getting in shape,<br />
then all of a sudden their attendance goes<br />
up because they are focused.<br />
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Side projects are seeds for bigger ideas. They are the<br />
things that keep the juices flowing, fueling spontaneity<br />
and creativity.<br />
Not everyone feels they can give up their day job and<br />
live a life of purpose straight up or maybe ever. There<br />
are bills and commitments to figure out first. So I<br />
suggest,<br />
<strong>An</strong>d there’s more than one speed on any<br />
project – sometimes we need to be more<br />
patient with ourselves.<br />
Thich Nhat Hanh,<br />
Zen Master, Buddhist Monk & Author of<br />
“The Art of Living” famously quoted<br />
“don’t JUST<br />
do something<br />
– sit there.”<br />
We need to give ourselves the freedom<br />
to sit, ponder and do nothing, to let our<br />
ideas incubate. We can get more clear,<br />
centered and mindful about the choices<br />
we’re making, and where we need to put<br />
our attention.<br />
In fact, I encourage people to have a<br />
mindfulness project in their lives and<br />
businesses, one that encourages the<br />
practice of being present and tap into that<br />
part of us that recognises we are more than<br />
our current environment.<br />
That, in turn, helps us to become better<br />
connected to something bigger than<br />
ourselves. Sometimes it shows up as a side<br />
project – a passion or an interest.<br />
“Start something on the side and see<br />
where it takes you.”<br />
I often find it way more interesting to find out about<br />
what someone is ‘doing on the side,’ rather than often<br />
their full-time gig.<br />
We can learn a lot about humans when they are not<br />
under pressure to perform according to a job title, but<br />
rather are free to be a true expression of themselves.<br />
If finding your purpose arrives later in life, like it did<br />
for me, then it’s never too late to dust off those dreams<br />
and get them off the back burner and into play.<br />
“There are no rules about<br />
how many chapters we can<br />
have in our life and the<br />
wonderful ways to serve.<br />
Always give yourself a<br />
second chance at living<br />
the life you desire. Your<br />
purpose plus the right<br />
project can change lives.”<br />
<strong>Ali</strong> <strong>Fowler</strong> felt very privileged to be serving GIFT by<br />
running the engine room for this global campaign from her<br />
home in <strong>Me</strong>lbourne, Australia.<br />
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FEATURED STORY<br />
Photo Source: unsplash.com/@wegenerb<br />
A Look At Life<br />
Legacy<br />
Have you ever had<br />
that experience<br />
at a funeral where<br />
a friend of the<br />
deceased gets up<br />
to talk about their<br />
most loved memories of their friend<br />
and that person’s family is surprised<br />
to hear all about the impact their<br />
loved one has had on others and<br />
they were completely unaware?<br />
We don’t often talk<br />
or reflect on what<br />
our life’s legacy<br />
might be until we<br />
are sitting a funeral.<br />
For most of us, our thoughts about legacy<br />
have not been something we have been<br />
consciously talking about in school, even<br />
growing up or in our workplaces. But it’s<br />
something we might ponder when we are<br />
in a quiet space or on holidays or at rest,<br />
when the day to day is far away and we<br />
forget about our current reality and think<br />
about what we thought our lives would be,<br />
the dreams we have had and things that are<br />
really important to us.<br />
We might be jolted to think about it if we<br />
experience a sudden life event of illness,<br />
the death of a loved one or something that<br />
all of sudden brings unexpected change<br />
into our lives.<br />
<strong>An</strong>d whilst some of us are have not yet<br />
engaged with the concept of legacy or perhaps<br />
don’t feel like it’s important to us right now,<br />
perhaps we’ll think about when we are older,<br />
In January 2016, I had the pleasure of meeting a<br />
fellow coach Dr. Ray Charles, CEO Leading From<br />
<strong>With</strong>in and author of ‘What’s In Your S.H.O.E?’ and<br />
we instantly connected on the subject on ‘what is<br />
your legacy?’ On a regular basis, we continued to<br />
deep dive and foster our curiosity on what it means<br />
to<br />
‘live your legacy, rather<br />
than just leave one’.<br />
We felt like we have just scratched the surface and I<br />
honor Ray and our conversations and enjoyed them<br />
immensely.<br />
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Thought Starters<br />
Here are some thoughts and opinions about what it might<br />
mean for something you are about to or have done already,<br />
to become part of your life’s legacy - you can substitute the<br />
word ‘legacy’ for a term that connects with you, where it be<br />
life assignment, passion, purpose, calling, contribution or<br />
soul’s divine assignment etc.<br />
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Your legacy could be about how you paid it<br />
forward or in fact, gave it back with gratitude<br />
on all that you had received in your lifetime<br />
Your legacy could be about creating<br />
something of wealth and leaving a financial<br />
inheritance for future generations, along<br />
with the wisdom that you have over your<br />
lifetime.<br />
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Your legacy could be your total life’s<br />
work or it may be just one thing you<br />
did in your lifetime.<br />
Your legacy could be having been<br />
a good parent and raising healthy<br />
and happy children in a loving<br />
environment.<br />
Your legacy has nothing to with your<br />
age, wealth, experience or scale.<br />
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5<br />
Your legacy could be about doing something<br />
in this lifetime, that will make it easier<br />
for future generations, solving an issue,<br />
campaigning for a cause.<br />
Your legacy could be about living responsibly<br />
and doing your bit to look after our planet<br />
and leave your corner in good shape.<br />
Your legacy could be to inspire others,<br />
people you may never get to meet face to<br />
face, but putting your mark out into the<br />
world, whether that be by music, art, words,<br />
speech, video and sharing what you know.<br />
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Your legacy could be played as a<br />
comparison game with others, or it<br />
could be your own inner journeys<br />
to find your unique path and<br />
contribution.<br />
A legacy project can be local or global,<br />
personal or business.<br />
Your legacy could start at a young age<br />
or kick in later in life. It will never be<br />
too late to start living a life of purpose<br />
and contribution.<br />
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8<br />
Your legacy could be living the most<br />
authentic life that you can and being a role<br />
model for those around you.<br />
Your legacy could be celebrating your<br />
uniqueness and your diversity and being<br />
a pillar of acceptance and tolerance of<br />
everyone.<br />
Your legacy could be about giving a voice to<br />
your DNA - only you can be you. <strong>An</strong>other to<br />
consider it may be as your ‘soul’s purpose’.<br />
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Your legacy could be individual<br />
or it may be part of collective -<br />
communities, projects and businesses<br />
create legacies too.<br />
So What Will Your<br />
Legacy Be?<br />
As seen on <strong>Me</strong>dium @alifowler<br />
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SAY YES, AND<br />
YOU’LL FIGURE IT OUT<br />
AFTERWARD<br />
– TINA FEY<br />
<strong>To</strong> read more on Tina<br />
Fey’s super advice, go to<br />
oprah.com/spirit/tinafeys-aha-moment<br />
THERE’S ONLY<br />
ONE WAY TO DO IT; WITH<br />
FULL ATTENTION AND<br />
ALL YOUR HEART<br />
– ARIANNA HUFFINGTON<br />
On stepping down from Huffington Post and the<br />
announcement of the launch of Thrive Global,<br />
11 August 2016<br />
thriveglobal.com<br />
LIFE ISN’T JUST ABOUT<br />
TAKING IN OXYGEN<br />
AND GIVING OUT<br />
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– MALALA YOUSAFZAI<br />
a Pakistani activist for female education and<br />
the youngest Nobel Prize laureate<br />
malala.org<br />
THERE’S ONLY<br />
TWO TIMES IN LIFE,<br />
THERE’S NOW AND<br />
THERE’S TOO LATE.<br />
– ANH DO<br />
Vietnamese-born Australian<br />
author of ‘The Happiest<br />
Refugee’, comedian<br />
and actor<br />
anhdo.com.au<br />
MY MISSION IN LIFE<br />
IS NOT MERELY TO SURVIVE,<br />
BUT TO THRIVE;<br />
AND TO DO SO WITH SOME PASSION,<br />
SOME COMPASSION, SOME HUMOR<br />
AND SOME STYLE.<br />
– MAYA ANGELOU<br />
IT TAKES COURAGE TO<br />
CHANGE OUR<br />
LIVELIHOOD<br />
TO ONE THAT IS MORE IN LINE<br />
WITH OUR DEEPEST VALUES<br />
AND ASPIRATIONS<br />
– THICH NHAT HANH<br />
The Art of Living<br />
plumvillage.org<br />
CONVICTION AND<br />
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ON THE SAME BLOCK<br />
– LISA NICHOLS<br />
CEO Motivating The Masses & New York TImes Best Selling<br />
Author - ‘No Matter What’ and ‘Abundance Now’<br />
motivatingthemasses.com<br />
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I work with...<br />
Purpose-rich business<br />
owners & THOUGHT LEADERS<br />
Life changing coaches<br />
entrepreneurs Who Play Big<br />
Woman Who Aren’t Done Yet<br />
My superpower is…turning jumbled thoughts into a really<br />
simple plan and implementing like the world is watching!<br />
My purpose is…to turn overwhelmed into overjoyed<br />
The problem I solve is…knowing your next steps<br />
The solution I show is…creating rock steady pathways<br />
from ‘here to there’ in a way that’s right for you<br />
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MAGAZINES ARE<br />
MORE than blog.<br />
a<br />
BETTER than brochure.<br />
a<br />
EASIER than book.<br />
a<br />
Get your own business magazine.<br />
It’s easier than you think.<br />
<strong>Ali</strong> <strong>Fowler</strong><br />
SomethingGood<strong>Magazine</strong>s.Com<br />
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CLIENT<br />
EXPERIENCE<br />
We have been working on climate change<br />
solutions for nearly two decades and have a<br />
big story to share and inspire the world. We<br />
needed a trusted, supremely professional<br />
and awe-inspiring individual who “got it” and<br />
to help us share that story. Fortunately, <strong>Ali</strong><br />
<strong>Fowler</strong> said “Yes!”. <strong>Ali</strong> guided us through the<br />
process of telling our story and creating THE<br />
most perfect and amazing online magazine.<br />
It was daunting; she made it do-able. It was<br />
scary; she made it easy. It was overwhelming;<br />
she broke it down into bite-sized, do-able<br />
chunks. We got distracted; she gently got us<br />
back on track.<br />
Putting the Growing <strong>With</strong> Gratitude<br />
<strong>Magazine</strong> together with <strong>Ali</strong> and her team<br />
was such a simple process. Their system from<br />
beginning to end is what makes the process<br />
so easy and the result?<br />
Couldn’t be happier.<br />
She is a saint. The whole process is wrapped<br />
up in the arms of someone you just KNOW is<br />
going to nail it, and she did not disappoint!<br />
We love the magazine. Our clients love it<br />
and more importantly, thousands of people<br />
are being inspired to make changes to their<br />
homes and become part of the solution, not<br />
continuing to contribute to the problem of<br />
carbon emissions.<br />
Ash Manuel<br />
FOUNDER & CEO, Growing <strong>With</strong><br />
Gratitude Program - Adelaide, AU<br />
growingwithgratitude.com<br />
Lyn & Maurice Beinat<br />
ecoMasterStore.com.au<br />
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“It was great working with Something Good<br />
on the Be Intent magazine. We needed a<br />
digital one and we needed a hard copy<br />
one and as you can see, it looks great.<br />
What we were trying to solve is that we have<br />
a business that does a whole lot of different<br />
things and it was really hard to explain it<br />
to people and it needed to be something<br />
more than a brochure - it needed to be a<br />
conversation about what we doing and <strong>Ali</strong><br />
was just fantastic to<br />
work with.<br />
It was an amazing price and it just looks so<br />
much better than we anticipated. One of the<br />
things that we didn’t expect from it, because<br />
we are a software company - it really helped<br />
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business and it added real credibility to what<br />
we were doing.<br />
Despite there was nothing in the magazine<br />
that we don’t already say, but it just changed<br />
it and the staff and the team and everybody<br />
has really enjoyed it.<br />
So I think it’s one of the best value things<br />
we’ve ever done in the business in terms of<br />
promotion and we will be doing one quarterly<br />
and with all our other businesses as well.”<br />
“It was such an incredible experience to work<br />
with <strong>Ali</strong> <strong>Fowler</strong>, putting together the Love Is<br />
The True Black story for her Something Good<br />
magazine. <strong>Ali</strong> truly is a visionary and she has<br />
an incredible eye for putting content together<br />
in a really really engaging way.<br />
The magazine that we created as part of<br />
her Something Good project has really<br />
effortlessly become such a tremendous<br />
business asset to me.<br />
There’s something truly engaging I think<br />
about having this content in a magazine<br />
format that seems to speak to people in a way<br />
that a static web page doesn’t and the level<br />
of engagement that has happened with this<br />
content which I’m really passionate about<br />
and the number of enquiries I’ve had since<br />
publishing the magazine has really been<br />
surprising and wonderful.<br />
If you are thinking about working with <strong>Ali</strong>,<br />
absolutely don’t hesitate because she is a joy<br />
and a light to work with and I’m so excited<br />
to see what happens as she moves forward<br />
with Something Good and all of the other<br />
incredible magazines that she has been<br />
creating. Thank you <strong>Ali</strong>.”<br />
Natalie Alexia<br />
Suzanne Hall<br />
Founder - Be Intent<br />
beintent.com<br />
Creator - Love Is The True Black<br />
nataliealexia.com<br />
**At the time of publication, this issue of SG magazine had had over<br />
1.6 million views on Yumpu and counting.<br />
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SECRETS HOW A MAGAZINE CAN<br />
HELP YOUR BUSINESS<br />
1. Ability to embed video & promote your<br />
Youtube channel<br />
2. Customers hear your message in your own<br />
voice (audio) and you can or showcase<br />
podcasts or interviews you’ve done<br />
3. Teach/educate on your content right from the<br />
page - a simple alternative to online courses<br />
4. Unlock special content/pricing via Opt-ins<br />
15. Add to your email signature to reach more<br />
people<br />
16. Add to your content planner for seasonal,<br />
quarterly, launches and special events<br />
17. Appear anywhere in the path to purchase<br />
- pre or post-purchase - wherever your<br />
customer needs your information<br />
18. Cross-promote your blog<br />
5. Showcase your live speeches/performances to<br />
get more gigs<br />
6. Easily shareable on all socials<br />
7. Monetise via subscriptions, membership or<br />
advertising<br />
8. Leverage a print / digital format combo for<br />
“back of the room” sites, giveaways and eye<br />
catching lead magnets<br />
9. Links to anywhere you want<br />
10. Sell off the page / scan codes / direct links to<br />
your eCommerce store<br />
11. <strong>An</strong>swer your customer’s most common<br />
questions in an engaging format - create a<br />
learning centre<br />
12. Publish local or global - wherever your<br />
audience is<br />
13. Unlimited page formats for your bespoke<br />
content<br />
14. Ideal for how to guides, business updates,<br />
customer deals and coaching programs<br />
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19. Combine branded native content plus curated<br />
content from industry sources to build trusted<br />
advisor / expert status - all in one great read<br />
20. Inspire your customers with powerful imagery<br />
21. Share your own business story in an<br />
engaging way<br />
22. Present your work portfolio and credentials in<br />
a professional format<br />
23. Prominent Call <strong>To</strong> Actions (CTAs) to get<br />
conversions<br />
24. Bragging rights by telling people you have<br />
your own magazine!<br />
25. <strong>An</strong>d we can do all of this for you! Book<br />
a free call with the Something Good<br />
Team today and get started.<br />
BOOK A CALL<br />
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1. <strong>Magazine</strong>s are customer magnets<br />
You can give it away for free. One of our clients relayed to<br />
us a beautiful story about how she landed a contract by<br />
placing her issue of Something Good <strong>Magazine</strong>s on each<br />
chair in the room where she was pitching. Immediately, she<br />
was taken seriously and given clout.<br />
Your high-value content, blog posts, articles, videos,<br />
audios, etc. are in one place.<br />
Your powerful and compelling story is told in a relatable<br />
way. Clients connect with it.<br />
In addition to being in print form, you can send your<br />
magazine digitally. It can arrive to your client’s letterbox,<br />
email address, and be shared on all social media. We all love<br />
a digital share, don’t we?<br />
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Your call to action is simple and clear; they can immediately<br />
take the next step to work with you.<br />
<strong>An</strong>d let’s not be shy about it...you can sell your products<br />
and services, right there from your magazine page. We<br />
can link back to your website, landing page or eCommerce<br />
store. KaChing!<br />
2. We Care As Much About Your<br />
Brand As You Do<br />
At Something Good, you can trust our group of professionals. We pledge to treat your<br />
brand with our utmost care and respect. As we become part of your team, co-creating your<br />
magazine, you will feel joy in witnessing the level of excitement raise surrounding your<br />
brand.<br />
Our first step is to create your brand identity guide if you do not already have one. We can<br />
also improve the one you have. Your brand identity is a really good insight into you. Colours,<br />
logos, fonts, styling - represent you. It reflects your ‘look and feel’. Note: we don’t create logos<br />
& branding from scratch. You must have an existing logo<br />
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3. Content <strong>To</strong> Publish In<br />
Under 4 Weeks<br />
We have been known to create a magazine from<br />
start to finish in 7 days, but most magazine<br />
projects take around 4-5 weeks from ‘content<br />
to publish’. Length of time depends on how far<br />
down the track you are with your content and<br />
your priorities at the time.<br />
But as busy business owners ourselves, we<br />
understand how to balance and prioritise project<br />
lists as project management is one of our<br />
core skills.<br />
“<strong>Ali</strong> <strong>Fowler</strong> is the ‘Marie Kondo<br />
of the project world - she will<br />
get out you of overwhelm and<br />
into calm in no time”<br />
- Cindy Mitchell, Swimparkas.com.au<br />
4. It All Starts <strong>With</strong> A Great<br />
Strategy & Knowing Your<br />
Next Steps<br />
As seasoned strategists, we have our process<br />
in place to ensure that your magazine is<br />
professional, eye-pleasing, customer focussed,<br />
monetisable and share-worthy. <strong>An</strong>d we help<br />
tame your random thoughts and intentions into<br />
a clear and simple strategy that supports and<br />
integrates into your business. We become part of<br />
your team for the project talking brand, content,<br />
publishing and marketing, meeting you where<br />
you are. You will love our one page magazine<br />
plan too!<br />
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5. Get Out Of The “Content<br />
Coma” <strong>An</strong>d Organise Your<br />
Content By What Your<br />
Customers Want <strong>To</strong> Know<br />
Even if you think you have too much or not<br />
enough content, when you join us, we’ll<br />
send you our ‘Get Content Ready For Your<br />
<strong>Magazine</strong>’ Guide - it’s the same guide our team<br />
uses to create our own magazines and our<br />
clients love using this resource.<br />
Know that you arrive with a team waiting<br />
to welcome you on board. <strong>To</strong>gether we go<br />
content treasure hunting and find the content<br />
you may not realize you have, identify the<br />
content that solves your customer’s problems,<br />
re-purpose your winning content in a different<br />
way and bring it all to life on the page.<br />
Our experienced Editing team has a great<br />
eye for details. We are great at composing<br />
‘stand out’ statements that make your story<br />
pop off the page. We will help identify some<br />
great content pieces for you to include in<br />
your magazine to produce an amazing reading<br />
experience for your audience.<br />
Did we mention videos, podcast episodes,<br />
audio interviews, online storytelling, speeches,<br />
stage presentations are all welcome content<br />
for your digital magazine?<br />
6. Let’s Get Your<br />
<strong>Me</strong>ssage Right <strong>To</strong> Where<br />
Your Customers Live<br />
You are in control of where and how<br />
your magazine is published. Some clients<br />
choose to publish privately and some<br />
prefer to publish it to the world We will<br />
advise on your publishing options (and<br />
there are many).<br />
7. Unhide You. Unhide<br />
Your Business<br />
Will I be on the cover of my magazine?<br />
Yes, you can be on the cover of your very<br />
own magazine. It’s your call. Bucket list.<br />
Tick!<br />
<strong>Magazine</strong>s are a visual game, so<br />
photography and imagery are super<br />
important. We will look at the photos you<br />
have and advise on the best ones to use.<br />
As a bonus, you will receive our ‘Photo<br />
Shoot For <strong>Magazine</strong>s Guide’ that you<br />
can give to your local photographer to<br />
ensure you get the best and most repurposesable<br />
photos for use on the cover<br />
and throughout your magazine.<br />
How long do the people you<br />
can help have to wait for you?<br />
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TO SUMMARISE...<br />
We co-create personalized magazines for your<br />
brand and message.<br />
You provide the content. We strategize with<br />
you what your best content will be and how it<br />
will best work in a magazine format. Remember<br />
that you can add video and audio to your digital<br />
magazine!<br />
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You retain the rights to your copy, images, video<br />
and audio in your magazine product. In other<br />
words, it’s all yours baby!<br />
We design the layout and organize the publishing.<br />
We advise on the best publishing options.<br />
We support you throughout the entire process<br />
and celebrate wildly with you as we hit Publish!<br />
on your very own magazine!<br />
YOUR NEXT STEP<br />
Let’s set up a call with The Something Good Team<br />
to answer any of your Qs and get started<br />
YES I AM INTERESTED<br />
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A R E S T P A G E B Y<br />
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What I’ve<br />
Discovered<br />
So Far About<br />
Life, Legacy<br />
& Purpose<br />
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<strong>Me</strong>dium @<strong>Ali</strong><strong>Fowler</strong><br />
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PURPOSE<br />
PROJECT<br />
BIGGER<br />
GAME<br />
A LOOK<br />
AT LIFE<br />
LEGACY<br />
10 PIVOTAL<br />
REALISATIONS<br />
THAT HELPED ME<br />
GET MY DREAMS<br />
OFF THE BACK<br />
BURNER AND<br />
INTO PLAY<br />
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FEATURED STORY<br />
“The better question<br />
to ask myself was - why<br />
was I taking so long?<br />
What was I pretending<br />
not to know?”<br />
I uncovered these ten realisations<br />
I uncovered in my learning to be<br />
comforting and to this day, remain<br />
a guide for me, when I hit those<br />
inevitable moments of craziness<br />
and wonder what on earth I am<br />
doing.<br />
PIVOTAL REALISATIONS<br />
THAT HELPED ME GET MY<br />
DREAMS OFF THE BACK<br />
BURNER AND INTO PLAY<br />
It wasn’t that long ago, that I, like many, had put<br />
my dreams on the back burner and could not see<br />
a way I could get them happening.<br />
I had a full-time gig, responsibilities, bills to<br />
pay and well...daily life just kept showing up and<br />
inexplicably soaking up my time. It was like I was<br />
scrambling on all fours up a hill, out of flow and relying<br />
on pure grit.<br />
I knew I’d get there eventually, but seriously how many<br />
roads did I need to take, was it supposed to be this hard?<br />
Was it me? Why was it taking so long? “Who’s in charge<br />
here, I need to see the manager!”<br />
I knew that one day I would get around to it, the<br />
conditions would be right. I’d have the spare time, the<br />
finances and the extra bandwidth. How far away was that<br />
‘one day’ because it felt like my time was ticking past<br />
pretty quick.<br />
1<br />
SEE THE CONTRAST FOR WHAT IT IS<br />
AND START ANYWAY<br />
2 EMBRACE THE ‘PRE-SUCCESS’ STATE<br />
3<br />
4 DISENTANGLE OURSELVES<br />
5 PERCEPTIONS DON’T MATTER<br />
6<br />
7<br />
10<br />
DON’T JUST DO SOMETHING…<br />
SIT THERE<br />
AVOID PURPOSE ENVY AND THE<br />
COMPARISON GAME<br />
8 DECISION MADE. NOW ENJOY IT.<br />
9<br />
SELF-COMPASSION AND<br />
ACCEPTANCE ARE OUR BEST FIRST<br />
RESPONDERS<br />
DON’T IGNORE THE WHISPERS, THEY<br />
DON’T GO AWAY. THEY WILL JUST<br />
GET LOUDER<br />
FIND SOLUTIONS IN WHAT YOU<br />
ALREADY KNOW<br />
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1See the contrast for<br />
what it is and start<br />
anyway<br />
Many people write about... it’s the<br />
contrasts in life that teach us<br />
the most.<br />
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I too belong to that collective idea. We<br />
need the lows, to recognise the highs.<br />
Thich Naht Hahn, the father of<br />
mindfulness and a Buddhist monk in the<br />
Art Of Living, one of the books that has<br />
influenced me the most, talks about the<br />
‘lotus can’t grow without mud’.<br />
“The beautiful lotus is<br />
reliant on the presence<br />
of mud. We need mud in<br />
our lives for our beauty<br />
to grow.”<br />
Our lives can be rich in purpose and rich<br />
in experience. They can also be rich in<br />
failure and rich in hurt. Sometimes it’s<br />
hard to recognise that both is occurring<br />
and that we must stay in gratitude for<br />
all that we have, not what we don’t have,<br />
This is the embracing of the contrasts.<br />
But when you want to pursue a dream or a goal, it brings<br />
up the contrast in high definition colour. What I want to<br />
do or have, where I am right now. Two different places,<br />
two different feelings.<br />
So that very realization of how big the contrasts is – the<br />
contrast gap if you like, can stop us in our tracks from<br />
pursuing anything different from what we already have.<br />
Our ability to handle the contrast from where we are<br />
starting from to where we want to get to, and being<br />
grateful for all that we have right now, is the secret to our<br />
success.<br />
Theodore Roosevelt says “do<br />
what you can, with what you have,<br />
where you are”<br />
In my own life, there have been many instances where<br />
the ‘contrasts’ in my life stopped me from pursuing my<br />
dreams, and all I could take was tiny itty bitty steps<br />
forward one at a time and learn to love the mud.<br />
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There’s a moment that anyone who is stepping<br />
out and doing something different will recognise<br />
the feeling and that is the feeling of<br />
‘pre-success’.<br />
2Embrace the ‘presuccess’<br />
state<br />
I’m a freedom seeker, author and project<br />
queen...which loosely translates into I<br />
have one of those multi-life purpose<br />
things going on or I can’t make up my<br />
mind. One or the other!<br />
I am a woman on a mission to make my<br />
corner of the world good, because if I<br />
make my corner good, and you make<br />
your corner good, then all the corners of<br />
the world will be good.<br />
That feeling of ‘pre-success’ means before the<br />
evidence shows up. Before the results appear,<br />
before you can point to that story or moment in<br />
time, where your internal feelings match your<br />
external environment.<br />
You know what I mean now;<br />
You’ve built that business<br />
You’ve published that book<br />
You’ve changed your job<br />
You’ve learnt a new language and can now<br />
speak it.<br />
The ‘pre-success’ state is a tricky one to navigate<br />
- so redefine it. My success happened because<br />
I started.<br />
But I wasn’t always this focused and<br />
energized about my life. In fact, for a<br />
long long time, I floundered around,<br />
chose to be invisible and let my dreams<br />
stay right on the back burner, just in<br />
case I got hurt or challenged ‘who was I<br />
to do this’<br />
The contrasts in my life showed up big<br />
time. The things I wanted to do,<br />
I had never done before.<br />
I had never written a book<br />
I had never run my own business<br />
I had never built a platform or invited<br />
people to follow my work<br />
I had never thought I could really help<br />
another life<br />
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3<br />
Self<br />
compassion and<br />
acceptance are our<br />
best first responders<br />
In good moments of selfcompassion<br />
and awareness, I saw<br />
things a little differently.<br />
We want the first people on a scene in a disaster, to be the most<br />
helpful. The ones that can apply life-saving treatments, make<br />
profound and wise choices about how to deal with the situation<br />
at hand and have the focus on saving lives. Our lives.<br />
Imagine if the first responders who showed up to your<br />
disaster were preoccupied about how everything looked to<br />
others, focused on assigning blame, telling people off for<br />
getting into trouble and standing around arguing over what to<br />
do next. Lives would be lost.<br />
In bad moments of deep reflection, as the doubt creeps in and<br />
we wonder what on earth is the problem, why our dreams and<br />
goals are so elusive,<br />
it is of zero help to beat up on oneself.<br />
Self-compassion and acceptance are the first responders we<br />
need to call. Not the other usual suspects of disappointment,<br />
anger, frustration – they are not welcome here. We need to take<br />
them off speed dial, so Siri can’t even call them if we ever<br />
ask her to.<br />
I could see myself simply as<br />
someone who ‘was not done yet’.<br />
That’s all. There was more to come<br />
and I was figuring it out. Some<br />
things might just take a while to<br />
happen, but where I was, is exactly<br />
where I needed to be in this<br />
moment.<br />
It didn’t matter what I had done<br />
already or not done, none of that<br />
defined me. It was what I was<br />
doing right now, the choices I was<br />
making right now, the way I was<br />
showing up right now that was<br />
the only thing I could control.<br />
My job was to always find more<br />
compassion, more acceptance<br />
as to where I was, and make that<br />
more than okay. Because it is.<br />
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4<br />
Disentangle Ourselves<br />
In The Art Of Living 1 , Thich Nhat Hanh says we need<br />
to ‘disentangle ourselves and that it takes courage<br />
and determination’. We can get so caught up in<br />
‘dream chasing’ whatever that is – more money,<br />
profile, success, and the projects we take on, that<br />
we lose sight of the very things that can bring us<br />
happiness, peace and freedom – all the things that<br />
help us feel better in the moment.<br />
It doesn’t matter if for a time, we chased a life that<br />
was not aligned to who we really are.<br />
What matters, is that we pull over to the side of<br />
the road for a second, and rethink we are heading.<br />
Sometimes we need to keep going until we find<br />
a place to rest and recharge and then decide and<br />
other times, we can do a U turn on the spot and<br />
head off in another direction.<br />
The main thing is we constantly disentangle<br />
ourselves from ideas, projects, pursuits, beliefs<br />
that are not serving us anymore. They might have<br />
been right at some point, but we change and we<br />
need to reload our thinking with new information<br />
all the time.<br />
Let’s get caught up in the stuff that is helpful and<br />
disentangle from the rest.<br />
1<br />
The Art of Living, Thich Nhat Hanh, Page 165<br />
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The crux of this concept is that adolescents may<br />
develop an anticipation that they are under the<br />
scrutiny of others all the time due to a belief that<br />
they are the focus of attention and that people are<br />
as admiring or as critical of them as they are of<br />
themselves.<br />
Basically, they create an imaginary audience of<br />
themselves and think people are watching all the time<br />
when in reality, the focus on public attention is not<br />
always on them. As a result, however, teens can be<br />
reluctant to reveal themselves and prefer to remain<br />
private.<br />
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Perceptions don’t<br />
matter<br />
I read recently some of the early work<br />
of psychologist David Elkind² with teen<br />
mental health on the enigma of the<br />
‘imaginary audience”. This phrase was<br />
coined in the late 1960’s and remains a<br />
talking point amongst those working in the<br />
mental health fields today.<br />
When we have a perception of being judged by others,<br />
it can halt us in our tracks<br />
One of the thoughts that stops me in my tracks is<br />
when I care, or worse still, l worry about people’s<br />
perceptions of me. I have done this all my life. It is a<br />
deal breaker to pursuing your dreams.<br />
I have heard ‘perceptions about me in the workplace,<br />
in my private life and that couldn’t be further from the<br />
truth. When I hear them, I am often astounded that<br />
that is the way other people see me. I don’t see myself<br />
that way, but they do. So who is right? I am sure I have<br />
perceptions about others that they will dispute and say<br />
are not true for them as well<br />
The thing is perceptions are not real. They are just<br />
judgements. Ignore them.<br />
2<br />
David Elkind, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adolescent_<br />
egocentrism#Imaginary_Audience<br />
The imaginary audience refers to an egocentric state where an<br />
individual imagines and believes that multitudes of people are<br />
enthusiastically listening to or watching him or her. Though this state<br />
is often exhibited in young adolescence, people of any age may harbor<br />
a fantasy of an imaginary audience” - Wikipedia<br />
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6<br />
“Don’t<br />
just do<br />
something…sit there”<br />
- Thich Naht Hahn<br />
I have always been a day dreamer. Often<br />
letting my mind wander into imagining<br />
things in a different way than they were<br />
showing up in reality. I would find comfort<br />
in that from a young age, when things were<br />
maybe not working out Always thinking<br />
about other things than my current reality.<br />
I guess I had been a natural meditator<br />
from a young age, finding calmness in<br />
being the observer in my life, rather than<br />
wanting to be<br />
in it.<br />
I have had a consistent daily meditation<br />
practice for the past 6 years and regularly<br />
sought out neuroscientists work and the<br />
study of epigenetics to understand what<br />
actually happens in our brains during<br />
meditation and how we create new neural<br />
pathways as we let go of beliefs and<br />
perceptions that are proven to be untrue.<br />
I just need to do nothing more often.<br />
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7<br />
Avoid Purpose Envy and<br />
the Comparison Game<br />
I’m not sure if this is a real psychological<br />
phenomenon, but I have seen it enough in my<br />
lifetime to know that it is real for some people and it<br />
was real for me– purpose envy that is. My purpose<br />
is not as good as your purpose!<br />
This is where people think their purpose in life isn’t<br />
good enough, big enough, sexy enough, bold enough<br />
compared to what others are doing. We think our<br />
purpose is insignificant and in a way, that’s why we<br />
don’t bother pursuing it.<br />
There’s no comparison to be had about<br />
purpose. It’s incomparable.<br />
We are bombarded with stories of people<br />
achieving great things and knowing that their<br />
gifts and value to the world is to do epic stuff<br />
like ‘find a cure for something’ or ‘rebuild war<br />
torn countries’ or ‘lead a movement’. It’s hard<br />
not to be caught up in a little ‘purpose envy or<br />
comparison”.<br />
But if we find ourselves there, we have<br />
completely missed the point. Purpose isn’t<br />
about what we achieve, its about who we are.<br />
Our unique DNA is our unique gift and our<br />
job is to amplify what we have and share that<br />
with the world for the highest good.<br />
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I know my purpose. It is to help people<br />
make their projects simple and do-able<br />
so that saves them time, so they can go<br />
on and play their bigger game. I inspire<br />
the solutions and then get out of<br />
the way.<br />
It doesn’t sound very sexy! <strong>To</strong> be honest,<br />
I wanted it to sound sexier. Projects are<br />
not very sexy…although I’m trying my<br />
best to “bring the sexy back” to the world<br />
of projects<br />
Some people might think projects are still<br />
kind of nerdy, but I’m down with that!<br />
So when your purpose shows up, get<br />
excited about the road ahead.<br />
One of my favourite authors and<br />
inspirational coaches, Tara Mohr, an<br />
expert on women’s leadership and<br />
well-being, wrote in her best selling<br />
book, Playing Big , about her eight ways<br />
to recognise whether what you are<br />
experiencing is your calling and I wanted<br />
to share three of the ways with you:<br />
1<br />
You feel huge resistance. A part<br />
of you wants to run in the other<br />
direction<br />
3<br />
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There are challenges, fears and doubts, but when<br />
you are actually doing the calling, you feel a rare<br />
sense of meaning and rightness. When you do it, you<br />
tap into an immense well of energy.<br />
When you purpose shows up first, its going to<br />
challenging, but roll with it. It’s yours and we all know,<br />
that nobody can do it, the way you can do it.<br />
When it comes to ‘finding your purpose’ some of us<br />
get there quicker and easier than others. You know<br />
who I am talking about. Those people that have found<br />
their secret and everything they do, shows up as in<br />
alignment with who they are. Their life’s path is not<br />
negotiable. They are doing it and just couldn’t see it<br />
any other way.<br />
I didn’t really find my purpose until I turned 50. Bit of<br />
a late bloomer I know!<br />
2<br />
You feel a sense of ‘this work is<br />
mine to do.’ Or of having received<br />
an assignment to do a particular<br />
piece of work in the world<br />
I spent time wondering what I was here for and<br />
questioning whether the dreams I had came from a<br />
deep sense of purpose or I thought maybe they would<br />
just be fun to do. My answer is it’s a bit of both.<br />
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Tara Mohr, Playing Big, Random House, 2016, Page 208<br />
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8<br />
Decision Made. Now<br />
Enjoy It.<br />
About a decade ago I was at a cross roads in my<br />
career. You know how I knew that? I had two<br />
equally appealing paths in front of me. Both<br />
were great, exciting and challenging. I could<br />
see myself doing either.<br />
are in that place of ‘creating doubt and second<br />
guessing’ we can’t be truly present, can we?<br />
So I decided to own my decision and enjoy it.<br />
<strong>An</strong>d felt better immediately.<br />
There is always more than one path that is right<br />
for us at any time.<br />
PATH 1 was to immerse myself in business<br />
and learn as much as I could about leadership,<br />
teams, culture, communication, strategy and<br />
execution<br />
PATH 2 was to immerse myself in community<br />
and international development, go back to<br />
study, work for a major non profit that was<br />
doing good in the world.<br />
I took awhile to work it out. Which was more<br />
aligned to where I was at? Which one took me<br />
closer to my goals, my dreams?<br />
Should I go ahead and ‘do well’ (take the<br />
lucrative option) or ‘do good’ (take the<br />
purposeful option)?<br />
I knew ‘income poor, purpose rich’ was not the<br />
ideal approach for me at the time in my life, so<br />
I chose Path 1 and embarked on my business<br />
journey.<br />
Did this help my dream chasing? It sure did.<br />
It was the right decision at the time for sure.<br />
But at times I felt a pang of doubt, maybe guilt<br />
even?<br />
That happens when you need to make a<br />
decision you are not sure of, but whilst we<br />
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9<br />
Don’t ignore the whispers,<br />
they don’t go away. They<br />
will just get louder<br />
There was one thing I was kind of good at and that was<br />
helping people and businesses get their projects off the<br />
ground. As I climbed the corporate ladder doing this,<br />
I realised that was all great, but that something was<br />
missing.<br />
Achievement was one thing, but when I found myself<br />
“backsolving the purpose” of what I was doing to<br />
justify it, I realised how off track I had become. By this<br />
I mean, I liked what I was doing, but it missed any sense<br />
of deep purpose for me. I was a senior manager, heading<br />
up a company department for a multi-billion dollar<br />
Australian company and was responsible for a small<br />
team, looking at ways we could improve<br />
the business.<br />
At one point, I loved this role. It was<br />
challenging, exciting and had a degree<br />
of freedom around it, that I needed and<br />
I really enjoyed the learning and the<br />
contribution I could make. I learnt my<br />
leadership style from that role and had the<br />
opportunity to work and learn alongside<br />
some of the smartest business minds<br />
going around in Australia and globally.<br />
But as businesses grow, needs change and<br />
the role I had was restructured out.<br />
At least that was why, I thought it<br />
happened.<br />
Haha! The universe had to give me a<br />
big push forward to get me out of my<br />
comfort zone and into following my<br />
dreams, because I was not listening to the<br />
whispers in my head. “it’s time to chase<br />
your dreams, <strong>Ali</strong>...go on, you can do it...<br />
everything will work out for you.” Isn’t that<br />
funny how things work out for us!!<br />
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10<br />
Find the solution in<br />
what you already<br />
know<br />
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I have some great friends who give me<br />
that look every now and then, when I say<br />
triumphantly ‘ hey I’ve worked that thing<br />
out. I just did this blah blah blah’. <strong>An</strong>d<br />
they look at me knowingly, “Sure, <strong>Ali</strong>, we<br />
could have told you that. You do that all<br />
the time”.<br />
I guess what I am trying to say here<br />
is that often times we already have<br />
the answers, we just don’t know or<br />
recognise them yet.<br />
There’s a saying that goes along the lines<br />
of ‘nothing is really new. It’s just the<br />
same stuff, rehashed”<br />
Then as I was trying to figure why my<br />
dreams had stayed on the back burner,<br />
maybe I could apply what I already knew.<br />
Hang on a sec! I might be a bit slow on<br />
the uptake, but what if I could take what<br />
I knew in ‘project land’ and apply it to the<br />
projects in my own life. It could work!<br />
This could be fun!<br />
So I did and whooska! Things started<br />
to move. It was like all the birds (my<br />
dreams) started to fly in formation.<br />
Job changes happen, house moves<br />
out of nowhere happened, financial windfalls were<br />
created, book projects were started, a new international<br />
business was born, overseas travel happened to exotic<br />
locations, new global friends made and wait for it… I<br />
got a bit excited about all of this.<br />
I started to coach a few people around the world<br />
on their dream projects, their legacy projects, their<br />
projects that had been with them for a long time and<br />
hadn’t yet made it the surface. I watched in awe as<br />
these brave and courageous true selves were revealed<br />
as they finally gave themselves permission to pursue<br />
their dreams. Their ‘one day’ had come.<br />
Or at least that’s what we both thought…but apparently<br />
it wasn’t going to be that easy!<br />
Then the questions and doubts started. People were<br />
asking me everything from ‘I have an idea what I want<br />
to do but no idea where to start’ to ‘’I’m not a planner,<br />
plans never work for me’, ‘I’ve tried to do this before<br />
but it just took too long so I gave up’ to public enemy<br />
# 1 – “I’m not the right person to do this, someone<br />
else will be better than me at it’.<br />
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I thought about my own journey and<br />
realised that at some point, I did<br />
manage to organise my thoughts into<br />
a roughly coherently plan or approach<br />
using my project experience. I had<br />
an end goal in mind and then simply<br />
starting taking one step at a time, until<br />
I started to build some momentum.<br />
Then it got a bit easier, took some<br />
more steps, hits some rocks, stubbed<br />
my toes, rested for a bit, got back up<br />
again, changed direction and took the<br />
next few steps.<br />
I watched in horror as people gradually started to<br />
talk themselves out of doing what they were born to<br />
do.<br />
What I could see from my vantage view was that these<br />
amazing people were more than capable of doing<br />
what they had to do, but just like me previously, they<br />
couldn’t get their heart and head in the same place at<br />
the same time to make it happen.<br />
Brendon Burchards in his new bestseller ‘High<br />
Performance Habits’ says it is “never about<br />
achievement, it will always be about alignment”.<br />
I realised if I could take what I knew worked in ‘project<br />
land’, break it down into a simple process that was<br />
going to help, I could help people (and me☺) and apply<br />
it to their personal dreams.<br />
What a privilege it became to start to help other<br />
people get unstuck from their current reality and see a<br />
way forward to start chasing their dreams , before the<br />
conditions were right. We were all learning together<br />
to ‘start before things were ready’<br />
Even when the steps seemed so<br />
random and not going anywhere, as<br />
I look back, they were all part of a<br />
collection of threads that lead me to<br />
today. Like birds flying in formation.<br />
What will it<br />
take for you<br />
to get your<br />
dreams off the<br />
backburner and<br />
into play?<br />
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