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SUMNER 2020 THE ULTIMATE QUEER GUIDE

Will we come back? Hell yeas bigger and better! This is a community that shuts down on a dime to save us older gays. A pause, and then we will have a new world to build, The DDG is committed to restarting our weekly delivery schedule. We don't like just being on the internet with the bullies and the sharks it's cold and scary. We will soon print and deliver back to the bars where we belong.

Will we come back? Hell yeas bigger and better! This is a community that shuts down on a dime to save us older gays. A pause, and then we will have a new world to build, The DDG is committed to restarting our weekly delivery schedule. We don't like just being on the internet with the bullies and the sharks it's cold and scary. We will soon print and deliver back to the bars where we belong.

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<strong>SUMNER</strong> <strong>2020</strong> <strong>THE</strong> <strong>ULTIMATE</strong> <strong>QUEER</strong> <strong>GUIDE</strong><br />

RIP<br />

Charlie!<br />

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C OVER Like you, we are concerned about<br />

the health and safety of everyone during the<br />

coronavirus (COVID-19) outbreak. The DDG will<br />

be closed to walk-ins through June to help<br />

contain the spread of COVID-19. All events and<br />

programming are being canceled. Until then<br />

will publish on a Periodic schedule . Most links<br />

are click-able.<br />

Sadly Charles S. “Charlie Sharples” passed<br />

away on March 16, <strong>2020</strong> from the coronavirus<br />

at Desert Regional Hospital in Palm Springs,<br />

California. See story on page 24.<br />

NOTE All ads have been suspended and no<br />

charges will be accrued. At some point we will<br />

be trying to reach everyone to see when and<br />

how each business will come back. The DDG<br />

is expected to remain open with a monthly<br />

edition.<br />

Our small businesses, singers and entertainers<br />

have been and will continue to be the lifeblood<br />

of our community.<br />

Note : Any business currently advertising are<br />

also automatically eligible for free 30 days of ads<br />

when you are reopened. If for any reason you<br />

would like to change your ad or contact number<br />

please let us know.<br />

will@desertdailyguide.com<br />

While there is little we as a magazine can do, we<br />

have added some surprises and technological<br />

advancements will be tested. Like click here<br />

that ads direct connection to the ad/info web<br />

source.<br />

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Continued from page 4<br />

During this time I personally hope to finish<br />

my life story as a book. I can't wait to see<br />

who plays me in the movie. I hope the scene<br />

of me swimming nude with my best friend<br />

at 13 as it is as raw as it gets. Two Jr high<br />

boys skip school swim nude one black, one<br />

white. They called us salt and pepper jocks<br />

Apre swim warming up together grinding<br />

in our tighty whites together. Or the time<br />

we got caught behind the auto body shop<br />

after a game of chess. I could go on but you<br />

need to wait for the book.<br />

IN <strong>THE</strong> NEWS.<br />

What areas of the state are covered?<br />

The order went into effect on Thursday,<br />

March 19, <strong>2020</strong>. The order is in place until<br />

further notice. It covers the whole state<br />

of California, and it exempts activity as<br />

needed to maintain continuity of operation<br />

of the federal critical infrastructure sectors,<br />

critical government services, schools,<br />

childcare, and construction, including<br />

housing construction.<br />

What can I do? What’s open?<br />

Essential services will remain open, such<br />

as:<br />

MEXICO CITY (Thomson Reuters<br />

Foundation) - More than 100 LGBT+ rights<br />

groups on Wednesday called on U.S. public<br />

health officials to address the heightened<br />

vulnerability of gay and trans people to the<br />

coronavirus, warning that their frequently<br />

weakened immune systems can put them at<br />

risk.<br />

“We call on public health officials to ensure<br />

the LGBTQ community is considered and<br />

included in the public health response to<br />

COVID-19 based on potential risk factors<br />

... in our community,” said Dr. Scott Nass,<br />

president of GLMA, an LGBT+ health<br />

advocacy group, in a statement.<br />

Frequently asked questions stay at home<br />

order<br />

Gas stations<br />

Pharmacies<br />

Food: Grocery stores, farmers markets,<br />

food banks, convenience stores, take-out<br />

and delivery restaurants<br />

Banks<br />

Laundromats/laundry services<br />

Essential state and local government<br />

functions will also remain open, including<br />

law enforcement and offices that provide<br />

government programs and services.<br />

What’s closed?<br />

Dine-in restaurants<br />

Bars and nightclubs<br />

Entertainment venues<br />

Gyms and fitness studios<br />

Public events and gatherings<br />

Convention Centers<br />

Hair and nail salons<br />

Can the Order be changed?<br />

Yes. The State Public Health Officer may<br />

When does the stay at home order go into<br />

effect and how long will we stay home? issue orders as needed – for example if<br />

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Continued from page 6<br />

more information emerges about the public<br />

health situation – and issue new orders and<br />

directives as conditions warrant.<br />

How does this order interact with local<br />

orders to shelter in place? Does it<br />

supersede them?<br />

This is a statewide order.<br />

Business and taxes<br />

What businesses and organizations are<br />

exempt?<br />

Businesses and organizations that provide<br />

critical infrastructure for the state are<br />

exempted, including health care and public<br />

health, public safety, food and agriculture<br />

and media. See the full list of exempt<br />

sectors (pdf).<br />

I run/work at an exempted business or<br />

organization, as defined by the Order. Do I<br />

need to get an official letter of authorization<br />

from the state to operate?<br />

No. If your business or organization is<br />

in the list of exempt sectors, it may still<br />

operate. You do not need to obtain any<br />

specific authorization from the state to do<br />

so.<br />

meals and childcare. Are those still open?<br />

Yes. It is essential to keep children fed and<br />

educated. School employees should report<br />

to work and focus on distance learning,<br />

school meals, and childcare/supervision.<br />

Are daycares still open? Can my babysitter<br />

still come to the house?<br />

Yes. Daycares are still open, but only for<br />

children of parents working in essential<br />

sectors. Daycare centers that remain open<br />

should employ heightened cleaning and<br />

distancing requirements. Babysitters may<br />

also come to the house to care for minors of<br />

parents working in essential sectors.<br />

Health care and helping sick relatives<br />

What if I need to visit a health care<br />

provider?<br />

If you are feeling sick with flu-like<br />

symptoms, please first call your doctor, a<br />

nurse hotline, or an urgent care center.<br />

If you need to go to the hospital, call ahead<br />

so they can prepare for your arrival. If you<br />

need to call 911, tell the 911 operator the<br />

exact symptoms you are experiencing so<br />

the ambulance provider can prepare to treat<br />

you safely.<br />

Do I need to pay my taxes?<br />

Yes, state and federal deadlines have been<br />

extended. All state taxes are now due on<br />

July 15.<br />

Schools and childcare<br />

My school is providing free grab-and-go<br />

What about routine, elective or non-urgent<br />

medical appointments?<br />

Non-essential medical care like eye exams,<br />

teeth cleaning, and elective procedures<br />

must/should be cancelled or rescheduled. If<br />

possible, health care visits should be done<br />

remotely.<br />

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Continued from page 8<br />

Contact your health care provider to see<br />

what services they are providing.<br />

May I still go out to get my prescriptions?<br />

Yes. You may leave their homes to obtain<br />

prescriptions or get cannabis from a<br />

licensed cannabis retailer.<br />

Can I leave home to care for my elderly<br />

parents or friends who require assistance to<br />

care for themselves? Or a friend or family<br />

member who has disabilities?<br />

Yes. Be sure that you protect them and<br />

yourself by following social distancing<br />

guidelines such as washing hands before<br />

and after, using hand sanitizer, maintaining<br />

at least six feet of distance when possible,<br />

and coughing or sneezing into your elbow<br />

or a tissue and then washing your hands.<br />

If you have early signs of a cold, please stay<br />

away from your older loved ones.<br />

Can I visit loved ones in the hospital,<br />

nursing home, skilled nursing facility, or<br />

other residential care facility?<br />

Generally no. There are limited exceptions,<br />

such as if you are going to the hospital with<br />

a minor who is under 18 or someone who<br />

is developmentally disabled and needs<br />

assistance. For most other situations, the<br />

order prohibits non-necessary visitation to<br />

these kinds of facilities except at the end-oflife.<br />

This is difficult, but necessary to protect<br />

hospital staff and other patients.<br />

Outdoor recreation<br />

Can I still exercise? Take my kids to the<br />

park for fresh air? Take a walk around the<br />

block?<br />

Yes. So long as you are maintaining a safe<br />

social distance of six feet from people who<br />

aren’t part of your household, it is ok to<br />

go outside for exercise, a walk or fresh air.<br />

Gyms are closed.<br />

Can I walk my dog? Take my pet to the vet?<br />

You can walk your dog. You can go to<br />

the vet or pet hospital if your pet is sick.<br />

Remember to distance yourself at least six<br />

feet from other pets and owners.<br />

Can people still go hiking or visit State<br />

Parks? Please follow city guidelines<br />

At the time of this writing:<br />

Californians can walk, run, hike and bike<br />

in their local neighborhoods as long as they<br />

continue to practice social distancing of 6<br />

feet. This means avoiding crowded trails<br />

& parking lots. To help reduce crowds,<br />

State Parks is modifying operations at<br />

some parks, including closing vehicular<br />

access and parking lots to reduce density<br />

of visitors. For information on National<br />

Parks, please visit their website and list of<br />

closures can be found at www.parks.ca.gov/<br />

flattenthecurve. need to leave the park.<br />

A partial list of Palm Springs free food<br />

resources..<br />

This list is by no means all inclusive. Along<br />

with regular services listing We are always<br />

looking for more resources. If you know<br />

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INSIDER <strong>GUIDE</strong><br />

BEST BET: LATE NIGHT BAR AND<br />

RESTAURANT RUNWAY RESTAURANT MEET<br />

Meet at the bar, sleep at the hotel!<br />

BEST BET: GAY SUNDAY BEVERAGE BUST<br />

Get together at The Barracks<br />

BEST BET: GAY <strong>THE</strong>ME NIGHTS at the Tool<br />

Shed Bar and The Barracks. Eagle<br />

BEST BET: GAY BINGO OH 69 at the Tool<br />

Shed Bar Wed. & Sat. 12pm - 3pm<br />

DIVERSIT YDHS <strong>THE</strong> 4TH<br />

MONDAY OF EACH MONTH<br />

BEGINNING FEBRUARY 24.<br />

TRUNKS BAR IN CA<strong>THE</strong>DRAL<br />

CIT Y 7:00 P.M.<br />

BEST BET: Best Bottomless Champagne<br />

Breakfast at Pinocchio's of the Desert<br />

BEST BET: EVERY DAY Breakfast, Lunch,<br />

and Dinner<br />

at Sunshine Cafe in Cathedral City.<br />

BEST BET: GAY MOVIES gay, cult and<br />

pop movies at the Palm Springs Cultural<br />

Center for schedule of events visit<br />

palmspringsculturalcenter.org.<br />

BEST FREE BET: Village-fest Street<br />

Festival Thursday night street fair featuring<br />

arts, crafts, food, and entertainment! Its<br />

also fun to watch the gay community as you<br />

walk down Arenas Rd, the heart of the gay<br />

community. Downtown, Thursdays, 6pm-<br />

10pm<br />

Certified Farmers Market: Palm Springs<br />

(Indoor)<br />

Sat, 8:00 AM – 12:30 PM<br />

Pavilion, 402 S Pavilion Way<br />

Palm Springs, CA<br />

CDC WARNING<br />

Recent investigations reported on CDC.gov<br />

Coronavirus Disease 2019 (COVID-19)<br />

Hard-boiled Eggs – Listeria Infections<br />

Pet Store Puppies – Multidrug-resistant<br />

Campylobacter Infections<br />

Lung Injury Associated with E-cigarette Use<br />

or Vaping<br />

LGBTQ CENTER OF <strong>THE</strong> DESERT 760-416-7790<br />

COMMUNITY FOOD BANK 760-416-7790<br />

SCOTT HINES BEHAVIORAL HEALTH CLINIC at<br />

the CENTER (760-416-7899)<br />

1301 North Palm Canyon Drive, Suite 301,<br />

Palm Springs, CA 92262<br />

TheCenterPS.org<br />

Daily programing is available online at the<br />

above website or by calling the Center.<br />

SAVE <strong>THE</strong> DATE:<br />

SAVE <strong>THE</strong> DATE:<br />

March 17th – Beginner Tap Dancing Class<br />

March 18th – Prehap and Rehab for Knee<br />

Replacement Surgery<br />

March 25th – Learn to Couples Dance<br />

Games, Friends, Fun and More – 2nd and<br />

4th Saturday of Each Month<br />

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of a food resource that is not included<br />

here, please let us know. Each are in need<br />

of donations as well. Note service at some<br />

locations may change please call first.<br />

Well in the Desert - Service Center<br />

555 Commercial Drive Suite 10<br />

Palm Springs , CA - 92262<br />

(760) 327-8577<br />

Food assistance is provided for the<br />

homeless and working poor. In addition<br />

this agency provides resumé creation and<br />

job search assistance to help their clients<br />

gain employment.<br />

Note these listing are not verified.<br />

Please call us immediately if you feel not<br />

welcomed<br />

distribution; food vouchers and motel<br />

vouchers to people in the Coachella Valley.<br />

Desert Hot Springs Nutrition<br />

11-777 West Dr.<br />

Desert Hot Springs, CA - 92240<br />

760-329-0222<br />

Senior Nutrition Programs and Services<br />

provide nutritious meals to seniors<br />

throughout Riverside and San Bernardino<br />

Counties serving 2,500 seniors a day.<br />

Our program assists seniors and their<br />

loved ones in helping to maintain their<br />

independence.<br />

St. Elizabeth Church<br />

66-6700 Pierson Blvd.<br />

Desert Hot Springs, CA - 92240<br />

(760) 329-8794<br />

Program provides a 2-3 day supply of food<br />

to low income families, individuals and<br />

seniors.<br />

Food Now<br />

11555 Palm Drive<br />

Desert Hot Springs, CA - 92240<br />

(760) 329-4100<br />

Food assistance provided to needy inviduals<br />

and families. Food can be received 3 times<br />

a week. Also provides formula and diapers<br />

when available. Low Income, Homeless<br />

People, Disabilities and Health Conditions<br />

Idyllwild HELP<br />

26330 Highway 243<br />

Idyllwild , CA - 92549<br />

(951) 659-2110<br />

This program provides emergency food to<br />

income qualified and homeless individuals<br />

in the mountain communities.<br />

Idyllwild. In addition, this program<br />

St. Theresa's Catholic Church<br />

2800 E. Ramon Rd.<br />

Palm Springs, CA - 92264<br />

(760) 323-2669<br />

Program provides 2-3 days of emergency<br />

food to low income families, individuals<br />

and seniors. Those in need can receive food<br />

on a weekly basis.<br />

31189 Robert Road<br />

1000 Palms, CA - 92276<br />

(760) 324-5995<br />

Program provides a 2-3 day supply of food<br />

to low income families, individuals and<br />

seniors. Clothing is provided to those in<br />

need when available.<br />

ECS - Desert Hot Springs<br />

14201 Palm Drive Suite 108<br />

Desert Hot Springs, CA - 92240<br />

(760) 318-7740<br />

provides food vouchers for needy<br />

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EDITORIAL<br />

Volume 25, Issue 39<br />

SUMMER <strong>2020</strong><br />

DDG IS<br />

PUBLISHED WEEKLY BY<br />

DDG Media group<br />

8 Inside This Week<br />

1717 E Vista Chino A7-480, 18 Business Dir.<br />

Palm Springs, CA 92262<br />

16 Insider Guide<br />

888-743-3349 or<br />

FAX 844-800-9700<br />

25 AdamsArtExpose’<br />

EDITOR: Will Paige 34 Adrian’s Picks<br />

Adrian Ayala,<br />

Contributing Writers: Will<br />

Paige, Adrian Ayala<br />

Adam’s art, Vic Gerami<br />

Contributing Photographers:<br />

Marko Russell, Mike Thomas,<br />

Frank Failing, David Stanfield<br />

National Ad Representatives<br />

Rivendell Media (212) 242-6863<br />

DDG Media Group/ Desert<br />

Daily Guide<br />

Opinions expressed in the DDG<br />

columns do not necessarily<br />

reflect the opinion of the DDG,<br />

its staff, or its advertisers. Also available in<br />

DDG is not responsible for<br />

claims made by its advertisers, print at these<br />

or the products or services<br />

locations<br />

they offer. Listings, pictures,<br />

or advertisements in the DDG<br />

BARRACKS<br />

should not be construed to<br />

represent or reflect the sexual CCBC<br />

orientation of any business, its Eagle 501<br />

owners, or its staff. All events Gay Mart<br />

are subject to change without Gear<br />

notice. Any omissions of events Sunshine Cafe<br />

are not intentional. © <strong>2020</strong> Off Ramp Leather<br />

DDG Media Group , All Rights Pinocchio's<br />

Reserved.<br />

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32 Classifieds<br />

27 Featured Gay Resorts<br />

31 GROUPS/HELP<br />

32 Massage Directory<br />

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BUSINESS DIRECTORY<br />

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BAR/PUBS<br />

RESORTS<br />

RESTAURANTS<br />

BUSINESS SERVICES<br />

ATTRACTIONS/ENTERTAIN-<br />

MENT<br />

ADULT FETISH AND TOYS<br />

ATTORNEYS<br />

LEA<strong>THE</strong>R GEAR TOYS<br />

LEA<strong>THE</strong>R REPAIR<br />

SHOPPING<br />

AND MORE<br />

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DDG PLAY TIME MORE ACCESSORIES TO COME.<br />

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BUSINESS DIRECTORY<br />

LGBT AND LGBT FRIENDLY<br />

RESORTS PALM SPRINGS STYLE<br />

CCBC Resort 760 324-1350 See page 2<br />

68-300 Gay Resort Drive<br />

CCBC is the largest clothing optional Gay<br />

men’s resort in Southern California.<br />

Located just a few minutes from downtown<br />

Palm Springs, Our 3.5 acre fantasy<br />

playground is perfect for weekend getaways<br />

and extended stays.<br />

ccbcresorthotel.com<br />

is yours. This award-winning, and historic<br />

Palm Springs Resort is a feast for all your<br />

senses, with a special flair for Southern<br />

(California) hospitality. triangle-inn.com<br />

TRIANGLE INN 760-322-7993<br />

555 E. San Lorenzo Rd<br />

CCBC Resort<br />

92264 Palm Springs CA<br />

Romantic and relaxing or fun and frisky. At<br />

the Triangle Inn Palm Springs, the choice<br />

Continued on page 29<br />

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BUSINESS DIRECTORY<br />

Covid 19 VIRUS UPDATE<br />

Bars & Restaurants<br />

PLEASE PATRONIZE OUR<br />

SUPPORTERS<br />

Pinocchio In the Desert<br />

Palm Springs breakfast and<br />

lunch bistro restaurant with a<br />

warm and welcoming, lively<br />

fun European Atmosphere.<br />

134 East Tahquitz Canyon<br />

Way, PS<br />

Rio Azul - Mexican Style Rest.<br />

& Bar<br />

Best authentic Mexican<br />

style restaurant in the valley.<br />

With patio and Bar. Home<br />

of an original and distinct<br />

interpretation of Mexican food<br />

.Longest running Sunday Drag<br />

Brunch.(760) 992-5641 350<br />

South Indian Cyn, PS,<br />

Eagle 501 Bar<br />

LEVI/LEA<strong>THE</strong>R bar in the<br />

heart of Arenas, Palm Springs<br />

301 E Arenas Rd , PS<br />

Runway Restaurant & Bar<br />

The valleys premier arts and<br />

entertainment. Featuring<br />

American Casual Dining<br />

Drinks & Drag at CCBC<br />

Resort Hotel.68300 Gay Resort<br />

Drive, CC<br />

We are closely following the Centers for Disease Control's<br />

(CDC) guidelines and recommendations on the steps we can<br />

take to help prevent the spread of the virus.<br />

If you're looking for an accurate up to date information our<br />

scientist say "Look at the CDC"<br />

Sunshine Cafe<br />

Nearly as perfect as it gets!<br />

Known as a local hole in the<br />

wall with a funky vibe and<br />

fantastic food, frequented by<br />

celebrities, politicians, word<br />

of mouth visitors from around<br />

the world. 36815 Cathedral<br />

Canyon Dr. CC<br />

(760) 328-1415 6:00 am<br />

The Barracks<br />

LEVI/LEA<strong>THE</strong>R No matter<br />

your fetish, if you’re in the<br />

mood for some great cruising<br />

or just listening to some sexy<br />

music while you have a cigar<br />

and conversation at the largest<br />

patio bar in the desert.<br />

67625 E. Palm Canyon Dr. CC<br />

Tool Shed<br />

LEVI/LEA<strong>THE</strong>R In the Warm<br />

Sands District in central Palm<br />

Springs.<br />

600 E Sunny Dunes Rd , PS<br />

(760) 320-3299<br />

10:00 am – 2:00 am<br />

Tryst Bar and Lounge<br />

Eclectic mix of straight and<br />

gays of all ages, AMI Video<br />

Jukebox - Pool -Darts- Air<br />

Hockey - Giant Jenga.<br />

Everyone is Welcome at Tryst<br />

21+ 188 S Indian Canyon Dr<br />

Palm Springs, CA<br />

Because of our advertisers<br />

The DDG provides free and low<br />

cost advertising that has and<br />

continues to build a strong<br />

and vibrant LGBT Community<br />

Please remember to thank<br />

them with your patronage..<br />

More Gay & Gay Friendly<br />

Bars and Restaurants.<br />

Phoenix<br />

Charlie's<br />

Dick's Cabaret<br />

Kobalt Bar<br />

Pat O's<br />

Stacy's<br />

Inland Empire<br />

The Menagerie<br />

VIP<br />

Alibi East<br />

Hook-Up<br />

340 Restaurant & Nightclub<br />

continued on page 27<br />

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SPRING HAS SPRUNG<br />

Time to clean your closets and cabinets?<br />

We hope you do!<br />

And when the time arrives that we can accept all of your<br />

treasures, we'll be there with open arms!<br />

But right now, our resale stores must remain closed for<br />

your safety and that of our employees.<br />

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Next Mass March 22 at 5pm.<br />

Call or 442-282-8333 or visit stgilesaltadena.org for more details.<br />

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<strong>THE</strong> ART OF FILLING GAY TIME DURING <strong>THE</strong> EPIDEMIC<br />

AdamsArtExpose’<br />

AdamsArtExpose’ ART<br />

The conflicting reports coming from<br />

the White House and medical experts<br />

continue to leave us in limbo regarding<br />

reliable information on this Pandemic.<br />

Sheltering in place can get to be<br />

extremely boring but necessary for not<br />

those of us not employed in one of the<br />

essential services. Being exposed to the<br />

virus and exposing others if you may<br />

have it and not realize that you do is<br />

not a risk worth taking.<br />

Finding interesting and productive<br />

activities to occupy shelter in place time<br />

can be tedious. For those interested<br />

in the arts, both local and national<br />

galleries are going online to give<br />

virtual tours of current exhibitions and<br />

background information on the artists.<br />

Regarding specific gay interest, areas<br />

ASK ANY BUDDY is a virtual photo<br />

album that as put together fragments<br />

from over 125 movies creating a wide<br />

variety of rare footage from the 60s,<br />

70s, and 80s. It is a compilation of<br />

film shots of dozens of legendary, but<br />

real cruising areas, and general social<br />

spaces, that have since disappeared. It<br />

is humorous and sexy documentation<br />

of gay life following the Stonewall Riots<br />

at least how it is depicted in the moves.<br />

https://www.youtube.com/<br />

watch?v=IWGHcIlulzO&t=12s<br />

An informative and insightful video<br />

about the PEIR KIDS, a group of gay/<br />

black/&trans homeless youth that hang<br />

out at Christopher Street Pier in New<br />

York City. Rated as the best and most<br />

informative about the issues that gay<br />

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Considering more contemporary<br />

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demonstrates that gay liberation has<br />

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and sexual identity in unconventional<br />

ways. One of the artists featured is<br />

the most influential manga artist,<br />

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and paintings of gay life in Japan. This<br />

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Charlie Sharples and Will place a wreath<br />

at state LGBT Veterans memorial<br />

monument. Tom Swann in background.<br />

“If you were young, hetero or middle-aged,<br />

there was nothing to do,” said 20 years ago<br />

by Charlie Sharples, a longtime resident<br />

and first executive director of the Desert<br />

Business Association, which promotes<br />

gay-friendly businesses. While may talked<br />

about the community changes he planned<br />

them for the DBA and our ever changing<br />

demographics.<br />

Memorial From the desk of activist and<br />

former Marine Sgt, Tom Swann.<br />

March 8 as a passenger in Craig Osborne’s<br />

car and was so sick that he did not go home<br />

and was taken directly to the hospital.<br />

The hospital complained to Rick Tice, his<br />

roommate, that Charlie’s diapers were a<br />

mess.<br />

On Monday March 16 Charlie’s nephew in<br />

Pennsylvania told the hospital to remove<br />

life support and Charlie died.<br />

Charlie was born in Louisville, Kentucky<br />

approximately 1942. (He was 59 years old in<br />

October 2000). He grew up in Manchester<br />

Pennsylvania. As a high school senior in<br />

1960 he shook hands with President John F.<br />

Kennedy during the Presidential campaign<br />

at the county fair. He attended Penn<br />

State University and was very fond of late<br />

football coach Joe Paterno. Charlie’s uncle<br />

was a Roman Catholic Priest.<br />

Charlie is one of the most beloved and<br />

popular gay veterans in the history of the<br />

Coachella Valley. He first began coming to<br />

the desert almost fifty years ago (September<br />

1974) after his service as a Captain in the<br />

U.S. Marine Corps. Charlie served during<br />

the Tet Offensive in 1968 in Vietnam.<br />

Charlie was awarded both the Bronze and<br />

Silver Stars Medals and was an Infantry<br />

Platoon Officer. He also served as the<br />

Commanding Officer of the Brig on the<br />

USS Midway. He was also stationed in<br />

Puerto Rico.<br />

Charlie lived for many years in both 29<br />

Palms and Indio. He was an apartment<br />

building landlord and was manager<br />

(innkeeper) of CCBC (a gay hotel) in<br />

Charlie and best friend, Craig Osborne,<br />

embarked on a Cruise where they shared a<br />

stateroom to the Mexican Riviera on March<br />

1st.<br />

Three days into the cruise Charlie became<br />

ill, so for the last 4 days on cruise he stayed<br />

in his cabin and was incontinent requiring<br />

the bed mattress to be changed twice.<br />

He returned to Palm Springs on Sunday Cathedral City. For a short time, he was<br />

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manager of a gay business in San Diego.<br />

For a short timer he lived in Idyllwild and<br />

Hemet.<br />

Charlie and Tom Swann Hernandez have<br />

been close friends since 1998. Charlie<br />

testified in support of Tom’s successful<br />

medical malpractice suit in 2008. Charlie<br />

was a roommate with Tom Hernandez and<br />

the two of them were together when 9/11<br />

took place. Charlie and Tom co-owned a<br />

trailer at Lake Hemet and enjoyed going to<br />

Big Bear Lake. Charlie and Tom went on a<br />

cruise ship to Mexico together and loved<br />

going together to Laughlin, Nevada.<br />

He was co-founder of the Desert Stonewall<br />

Democratic Club. He was President<br />

of the Desert Business Association<br />

(DBA). During his term with the DBA<br />

the organization almost doubled its<br />

membership. He was co-chair with Tom<br />

Swann Hernandez of Gay Liberation<br />

For 21st Century (GLF21) that was<br />

instrumental in electing a gay majority to<br />

the Palm Springs City Council in 2003.<br />

He marched in 1999 with LGBTQ veterans<br />

for the first time in the Palm Springs<br />

Veterans Day Parade.<br />

Charlie helped dedicate America’s first<br />

LGBT Veterans Memorial in Cathedral City.<br />

The agenda from the dedication ceremony<br />

on Saturday May 27, 2001.<br />

He was a member of the Palm Springs Gay<br />

Veterans. He was a charter member of<br />

AMVETS Post 66 and was the second Post<br />

Commander after Tom started the Post in<br />

2001. Charlie is a member of Veterans For<br />

Peace (VFP). He is also a member of the<br />

American Legion and Disabled American<br />

Veterans (DAV).<br />

Charlie was honored last year with the<br />

AMVETS Post 66 Silver Helmet Award. He<br />

was also honored by Palm Springs Pride<br />

in June 2019. Charlie attended his last<br />

AMVETS Post 66 meeting on February<br />

1, 2019 and met with Tom’s husband<br />

Guillermo on February 15, 2019. The first<br />

week of March 2019 he went on a cruise<br />

ship to the Mexican Riviera. Charlie is a<br />

shape-shifter like St. Patrick who helped<br />

transform the desert to become a lovely<br />

place where LGBTQ flourish. Charlie will<br />

be buried at the VA Cemetery in Riverside,<br />

California. AMVETS Post 66 plans to place<br />

a memorial brick for Charlie at the General<br />

Patton Memorial Museum at Chiriaco<br />

Summit, California. Anyone wishing<br />

to donate towards the cost of Charlie's<br />

memorial brick may make checks payable<br />

to: AmVets Post 66; PO Box 5163; Rancho<br />

Mirage, CA 92270<br />

Charlie honored at America’s first STATE<br />

LGBT Veterans Memorial located in<br />

Cathedral City.<br />

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