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Autism Family Resource Guidebook

Guiding Parents to Services (GPS), is pleased to share the new Autism Family Resource Guide. GPS is a funded program of Smart Start of Mecklenburg County. This publication serves as a guide for parents with children ages birth to five as they navigate the world of autism. For more information regarding the publication or the program, please reach out to the Autism Coordinator of Guiding Parents to Services at gps@smartstartofmeck.org. Autism Family Resource Guidebook for Mecklenburg County, North Carolina. ©2021

Guiding Parents to Services (GPS), is pleased to share the new Autism Family Resource Guide. GPS is a funded program of Smart Start of Mecklenburg County. This publication serves as a guide for parents with children ages birth to five as they navigate the world of autism. For more information regarding the publication or the program, please reach out to the Autism Coordinator of Guiding Parents to Services at gps@smartstartofmeck.org.

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<strong>Family</strong> <strong>Resource</strong> Guide


Dear Parents and Caregivers,<br />

Maybe you were the first person to mention the word “autism” about your child. Maybe<br />

it was a doctor, therapist, or friend. No matter who said it, this word has now entered<br />

your world. Whether your child currently has a diagnosis, is pending a diagnosis, or you<br />

have concerns about development and question if your child may have autism, you are<br />

entering into a new journey.<br />

You may be going to go through a range of emotions, and this is completely normal.<br />

There is no “right” way to process your feelings. No one can tell you how to feel, or how<br />

long to feel this way. Anger, confusion, relief, sadness, grief, denial, and so many more<br />

emotions are a natural part of the process of accepting autism as part of your world.<br />

If your child indeed receives this diagnosis, the time to start working with your child is<br />

NOW. The earlier a child receives intervention, the better their long term prognosis.<br />

Young children are able to learn new ways of dealing with struggles and are able to<br />

adapt in ways that get more challenging as they get older.<br />

In the beginning, you will spend a lot of time and effort thinking about autism. This may<br />

take up more energy than you anticipate. Remember to take care of yourself through<br />

this process. Getting enough sleep, eating, and exercise are just a few ways to practice<br />

self-care. Make sure that you, as the adult, are mindful that you are an equal part of the<br />

family, and your needs are important as well.<br />

TABLE OF CONTENTS<br />

Part One: Does My Child Have A Delay?......................................... 5<br />

Is My Child Developing Appropriately?..................................................6<br />

What To Do If Your Child Shows Signs Of A Delay.........................12<br />

Questions About Getting A Diagnosis.................................................13<br />

Part Two: After Receiving A Diagnosis Of ASD...........................15<br />

Intervention Options For Your Child....................................................16<br />

Other Health Related Concerns.............................................................19<br />

Taking Care Of You......................................................................................20<br />

Local Agency Referral Information.......................................................22<br />

Useful Website..............................................................................................24<br />

References......................................................................................................25<br />

The silver lining of this journey is that you do not have to figure it out alone. This guidebook<br />

will introduce you to just some of the programs available to you, but remember that<br />

there are thousands of families each day who navigate the waters of autism. Some days<br />

the waters are calm; some days there are choppy seas. But every day is a new day and<br />

the more you learn, the more you are able to advocate for your child.<br />

Sincerely,<br />

Amy DeShazo<br />

Proud parent of a son with autism<br />

This guide has been developed to help families<br />

navigate the challenging and often confusing<br />

journey of parenting a child with autism.<br />

Administered by:<br />

of Mecklenburg County<br />

© Copyright 2022 Smart Start of Mecklenburg County


Is My Child Developing<br />

Appropriately?<br />

In the tables below, developmental milestones are listed for children with typical development,<br />

alongside behaviors that may be signs of autism spectrum disorders (ASD). Learning<br />

developmental milestones can help parents know what to expect from their children.<br />

While looking at observable behaviors, please keep in mind that development is individual and<br />

these are the approximate age ranges to observe the expected behaviors for all children. Every<br />

child is different, even among siblings. Your child’s environment, family and experiences contribute<br />

Thank you for investing in your child. By taking the time to read<br />

to their development. If you are concerned, please talk to your child’s pediatrician as soon as<br />

this guide, you are already taking steps that will benefit your family.<br />

possible. The earlier concerns are addressed, the better the long-term prognosis is for the child,<br />

whether the delay<br />

<strong>Autism</strong><br />

is indeed<br />

is a journey,<br />

autism or<br />

and<br />

something<br />

no journey<br />

else.<br />

is completed all at once. This<br />

guide is designed to be a map of sorts, as you take some early<br />

steps. Allow yourself time to chart your course - think about your<br />

needs and the needs of your child.<br />

In Part One, you will learn about typical child development and<br />

what behaviors might indicate that your child has a delay. This<br />

section will also give you resources for help. Not all children with<br />

a delay have autism; but for all children with delays, including<br />

those with autism, the earlier they receive help, the better their<br />

future (and yours) will be. It is important to know Red where Flags to turn for <strong>Autism</strong><br />

UNDER 12 MONTHS Typical Development<br />

and how to take action. This section will help you Spectrum with that. Disorder (ASD)<br />

Social Interaction • Babbling or coos and smiles in<br />

• Tends not to turn to someone<br />

Part Two, response families who have received a diagnosis calling of autism their name and seems not<br />

spectrum disorder (ASD) can learn more about intervention<br />

to hear or be interested; seems to<br />

• Turns head and pays attention<br />

strategies and hear environmental sounds better<br />

towards resources sounds that and voices are targeted or where to autism. <strong>Autism</strong> is a<br />

than human voices<br />

pervasive disorder you are looking and recognizing and pointing the signs and ACTING on it is<br />

• Fails to look where someone is<br />

the first step • Shows towards interest advocating faces for your child. While this guide<br />

pointing<br />

does not list every available resource, it provides a good basic<br />

• Absent facial expression, such as<br />

overview for families in Mecklenburg county. Working decreased with smiling or upset/scared<br />

programs, such as Guiding Parents to Services, will face help connect<br />

you with the additional information that you need to serve the<br />

Communication<br />

• Cries differently for different needs • Delayed and infrequent sounds<br />

needs of your<br />

(e.g.<br />

unique<br />

hungry<br />

and<br />

vs. tired)<br />

precious child.<br />

of speech<br />

• Makes eye contact and maintains for • Limited eye contact and may not<br />

We hope that moving you objects find this (even guide for helpful. a short time) look where another is looking<br />

• Responds to “no” and simple directions • Does not wave bye-bye<br />

(e.g. “Come here”) and says one or<br />

two words<br />

Behavior/Interests<br />

Introduction<br />

• Join to sound/rhythm by making or<br />

repeating sounds<br />

• Explores different toys and/objects<br />

with fingers and mouth<br />

• Show physical reaction when excited<br />

• Attending to unusual objects or<br />

patterns<br />

• Over- or under-reactions to<br />

stimulation<br />

• Repeats a movement or routine<br />

over and over<br />

It may be upseting or scary to discover<br />

a delay in development.<br />

Deep breath... you can do this.<br />

12-24 MONTHS Typical Development<br />

Social Interaction<br />

Communication<br />

Behavior/Interests<br />

Part One:<br />

Red Flags for <strong>Autism</strong><br />

Spectrum Disorder (ASD)<br />

Does My Child Have A Delay?<br />

• Pretend play by using gestures,<br />

words and new actions<br />

• Stays active and engaged during<br />

activities and monitors what you are<br />

paying attention to<br />

• Talks with you about a topic he/she<br />

is interested in, tells about his/her<br />

feelings and asks questions<br />

• Can have short reciprocal<br />

conversation (back and forth)<br />

• Combines sounds, gestures and<br />

words to tell what he/she is thinking<br />

• Starts to imitate new simple words<br />

& actions<br />

• Uses words to name objects, pictures,<br />

people, animals and starts to combine<br />

two words to convey different<br />

meanings<br />

• Understands simple pronouns<br />

(me, you, my)<br />

• Join to sound and rhythm plays by<br />

making or repeating sounds<br />

• Explores different toys and/objects<br />

with fingers and mouth (getting ready<br />

for picking a favorite toy while<br />

playing with others too)<br />

• Show physical reaction when excited<br />

• Lack of imitation<br />

• Poor emotional modulation<br />

• Rarely/never points<br />

• Absent or unusual use of gestures,<br />

expression, or vocal quality to<br />

communicate<br />

• Delayed speech<br />

• Early signs of developmental regression<br />

• Play routines are limited to a single<br />

action or are imitations always<br />

completed in the same way<br />

• Does not demonstrate joint attention<br />

Pervasive<br />

Other<br />

• Has a regular sleep schedule<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> Spectrum Disorder<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> Appearing is a in neurodevelopmental early childhood and disorder remaining defined for the by length persistent of an deficits individual’s social<br />

• Eats an increasing variety of foods<br />

life.<br />

communication and social interaction, accompanied by restricted, repetitive<br />

6 patterns Advocate of behavior, interests, or activities.<br />

A person who pleads another’s cause, or who speaks or writes in support<br />

of something.<br />

7<br />

4<br />

5


Is My Child Developing<br />

Is Appropriately?<br />

My Child Developing<br />

Appropriately?<br />

In the tables below, developmental milestones are listed for children with typical development,<br />

In alongside the tables behaviors below, developmental that may be signs milestones of autism are spectrum listed for disorders children (ASD). with Learning typical development,<br />

alongside developmental behaviors milestones that may can be help signs parents of autism know spectrum what to disorders expect from (ASD). their Learning children.<br />

developmental milestones can help parents know what to expect from their children.<br />

While looking at observable behaviors, please keep in mind that development is individual and<br />

While these are looking the approximate at observable age behaviors, ranges to please observe keep the in expected mind that behaviors development for all is children. individual Every and<br />

these child is are different, the approximate even among age siblings. ranges Your to observe child’s environment, the expected behaviors family and for experiences all children. contribute Every<br />

child to their is different, development. even among If you are siblings. concerned, Your child’s please environment, talk to your family child’s and pediatrician experiences as soon contribute as<br />

to possible. their development. The earlier concerns If you are are concerned, addressed, please the better talk to the your long-term child’s pediatrician prognosis is as for soon the as child,<br />

possible. whether the The delay earlier is concerns indeed autism are addressed, or something the better else. the long-term prognosis is for the child,<br />

whether the delay is indeed autism or something else.<br />

It may be upseting or scary to discover<br />

a delay in development.<br />

Deep breath... you can do this.<br />

Red Flags for <strong>Autism</strong><br />

UNDER 12 MONTHS Typical Development<br />

UNDER 12 MONTHS Typical Development Spectrum Red Disorder Flags for (ASD)<br />

Red Flags for <strong>Autism</strong><br />

12-24 MONTHS Typical Development<br />

12-24 MONTHS Typical Development Spectrum Red Disorder Flags for (ASD)<br />

Social Interaction<br />

• Babbling or or coos and smiles in in<br />

• Tends not to turn to someone<br />

Social Interaction<br />

• Pretend • Pretends play to by play using by using gestures, gestures, • Lack • Lack of of imitation imitation<br />

response<br />

calling their name and seems not<br />

words words and and new new actions actions<br />

• Poor<br />

• Poor<br />

emotional<br />

emotional<br />

modulation<br />

to hear or be interested; seems to<br />

modulation<br />

•<br />

Turns<br />

Turns<br />

head<br />

head<br />

and<br />

and<br />

pays<br />

pays<br />

attention<br />

attention<br />

• Stays active and engaged during<br />

hear environmental sounds better<br />

• Stays active and engaged during<br />

towards<br />

towards<br />

sounds<br />

sounds<br />

and<br />

and<br />

voices<br />

voices<br />

or<br />

or<br />

where<br />

where<br />

activities and monitors what you are<br />

than human voices<br />

activities and monitors what you are<br />

you<br />

you<br />

are<br />

are<br />

looking<br />

looking<br />

and<br />

and<br />

pointing<br />

pointing<br />

paying attention to<br />

paying attention to<br />

• Fails to look where someone is<br />

• Talks with you about a topic he/she<br />

• Shows interest in faces<br />

Shows interest in faces<br />

• Talks with you about a topic they<br />

pointing<br />

is interested in, tells about his/her<br />

feelings are interested and asks in, questions tells about their<br />

• Absent facial expression, such as<br />

• Can<br />

feelings<br />

have short<br />

and asks<br />

reciprocal<br />

questions<br />

decreased smiling or upset/scared face<br />

conversation • Can have short (back reciprocal and forth)<br />

face<br />

conversation (back and forth)<br />

Communication<br />

Cries differently for different needs<br />

Delayed and infrequent sounds of<br />

Communication • Combines sounds, gestures and<br />

• Rarely/never points<br />

Communication<br />

• Cries differently for different needs • Delayed and infrequent sounds<br />

(e.g. hungry vs. tired)<br />

speech<br />

words to tell what he/she is thinking<br />

(e.g. hungry vs. tired)<br />

of speech<br />

Communication<br />

• Combines sounds, gestures and words • Absent • Rarely/never or unusual points use of gestures,<br />

• Makes eye contact and maintains for • Limited eye contact and may not look<br />

• Starts to tell to what imitate they new are simple thinking words expression, or vocal quality to<br />

• • Absent or unusual use of gestures,<br />

moving Makes eye objects contact (even and for maintains a short time) for • where Limited another eye contact is looking and may not<br />

& actions<br />

communicate<br />

moving objects (even for a short time) look where another is looking<br />

• Starts to imitate new simple words & expression, or vocal quality to<br />

• Uses words to name objects, pictures, • Delayed speech<br />

• Responds to “no” and simple directions • Does not wave bye-bye<br />

actions<br />

communicate<br />

•(e.g. Responds “Come to here”) “no” and and simple says one directions or • Does not wave bye-bye<br />

people, animals and starts to combine • Early signs of developmental regression<br />

• Uses words to name objects, pictures, • Delayed speech<br />

two words “Come here”) and says one or<br />

two words to convey different<br />

meanings<br />

two words<br />

people, animals and starts to combine<br />

• Early signs of developmental regression<br />

• Understands two words to simple convey pronouns different meanings<br />

Behavior/Interests<br />

Joins in with sound and rhythm activities<br />

Attends to unusual objects or<br />

(me,<br />

• Understands<br />

you, my)<br />

Behavior/Interests • Join to sound/rhythm by making or • Attending to unusual objects or<br />

simple pronouns<br />

by<br />

repeating<br />

making<br />

sounds<br />

or repeating sounds<br />

patterns<br />

patterns<br />

(me, you, my)<br />

Explores different toys and/objects<br />

Over- or under-reactions to<br />

Behavior/Interests • Join to sound and rhythm plays by • Play routines are limited to a single<br />

• Explores different toys and/objects • Over- or under-reactions to<br />

with fingers and mouth<br />

stimulation<br />

making or repeating sounds<br />

action or are imitations always<br />

with fingers and mouth<br />

stimulation<br />

Behavior/Interests • Joins in with sound and rhythm activities • Play routines are limited to a single<br />

• Explores different toys and/objects completed the same way<br />

Shows physical reaction when excited<br />

Repeats movement or routine<br />

with<br />

by making<br />

fingers<br />

or<br />

and<br />

repeating<br />

mouth (getting<br />

sounds<br />

ready • Does<br />

action<br />

not<br />

or<br />

demonstrate<br />

are imitations<br />

joint<br />

always<br />

• Show physical reaction when excited • attention<br />

over<br />

Repeats<br />

and<br />

a<br />

over<br />

movement or routine<br />

for • Explores picking a different favorite toys while and/objects<br />

completed in the same way<br />

over and over<br />

playing with fingers with others and mouth too) (getting ready • Does not demonstrate joint attention<br />

• Show for picking physical a favorite reaction toy when while excited playing<br />

with others too)<br />

Other<br />

• Has • Shows a regular physical sleep reaction schedule<br />

when excited<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> Spectrum Disorder<br />

• Eats an increasing variety of foods<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> is a neurodevelopmental disorder defined by persistent deficits in social<br />

communication and social interaction, accompanied by restricted, repetitive<br />

Other<br />

• Has a regular sleep schedule<br />

• May be unable to self-soothe or has<br />

6 patterns of behavior, interests, or activities.<br />

• Eats an increasing variety of foods<br />

sleep disturbances<br />

7<br />

6<br />

7


24-36 MONTHS Typical Development Red Flags for ASD<br />

3-4 YEARS Typical Development Red Flags for ASD<br />

Social Interaction<br />

Communication<br />

• Plays mainly beside other children,<br />

but is beginning to include other<br />

children, such as in chase games<br />

• Copies others, especially adults and<br />

older children (words and pretend<br />

actions can be observed during play<br />

time or conversations)<br />

• Shows more and more independence<br />

in daily routine (separate easily<br />

from their parents)<br />

• Starts to have “own things”<br />

(Understand the concept of<br />

“mine” and “yours”)<br />

• Knows names of familiar people<br />

and body parts and can point to<br />

pictures of them<br />

• Says sentences with 3 to 5 words<br />

and carries on a conversation using<br />

2 to 3 sentences<br />

• Understands words like “in,” “on,”<br />

and “under”; plurals and pronouns<br />

• Follow instructions with 2 or 3<br />

steps<br />

• Prefers to be alone; appears aloof<br />

• Has difficulty interacting with other<br />

children and initiating conversation or<br />

play with others<br />

• Does not want physical contact<br />

(cuddling, touching, hugging)<br />

• Makes little or no eye contact<br />

• Has little or no speech and sometimes<br />

is not responsive to verbal cues<br />

• Unusual rhythm of vocalization (such<br />

as rate, intonation, pitch, stress and<br />

inflection) or repeats sounds, words,<br />

or phrases<br />

• May not understand instructions and/<br />

or may take longer to respond<br />

• Has difficulty understanding and<br />

interpreting facial expressions, body<br />

language and emotions (of self and/or<br />

others)<br />

• Difficulty expressing needs and may<br />

use negative behavior instead of words<br />

Social Interaction<br />

Communication<br />

• Would rather play with other children<br />

than by themselves and demonstrates<br />

social skills when interacting with<br />

other children (turn taking, conflict<br />

resolution, sharing, offer help)<br />

• Shows ease and comfort in their<br />

interactions with familiar adults<br />

• Expresses a range of emotions with<br />

their face, body, vocal sounds, and<br />

words and describe reasons for<br />

their feelings<br />

• Uses more than one word for the<br />

same object and use words for parts<br />

of objects<br />

• Makes up names for things using<br />

words they know (e.g., dog doctor<br />

for veterinarian)<br />

• Communicates in longer sentences and<br />

use more conventional grammar in<br />

their home language<br />

• Sings a song or says a poem from<br />

memory such as the “Itsy Bitsy Spider”<br />

or the “Wheels on the Bus”<br />

• Prefers playing alone than playing<br />

with others<br />

• Doesn’t share well with others, take<br />

turns or participate in pretend play<br />

• Difficulty being soothed or comforted<br />

• Doesn’t like or actively avoids physical<br />

contact<br />

• Isn’t interested or doesn’t know how<br />

to make friends<br />

• Doesn’t make facial expressions or<br />

makes inappropriate expressions<br />

• Has difficulty expressing or talking<br />

about their feelings or understanding<br />

other people’s feelings<br />

• Difficulty forming sentences<br />

• Repeats words and phrases<br />

• Doesn’t answer questions<br />

appropriately or follow directions<br />

• Flat vocal tone or sing song voice<br />

Behavior/Interests<br />

• Gets excited when with other<br />

children<br />

• Expresses affection openly/<br />

spontaneously<br />

• May show defiant behavior<br />

• Enjoy working with 3-4 piece puzzles<br />

• Can sort objects by shape and color<br />

• Laughs, cries, or shows distress for<br />

reasons not always apparent to others<br />

• Lack of sharing interest or enjoyment<br />

• Strong restricted and persistent<br />

interests<br />

• Exhibits inappropriate attachments<br />

to objects<br />

• Repetitive or obsessive play<br />

• Displays self-stimulatory behaviors<br />

• Has tantrums or “meltdowns”<br />

• Has difficulty transitioning from one<br />

activity to another<br />

• Insists on sameness and is resistant<br />

to change<br />

Behavior/Interests<br />

Other<br />

• Enjoys doing new things, tries new<br />

activities and attempts new challenges<br />

• Talks about likes, interests, and<br />

has favorites<br />

• Expresses a sense of belonging to a<br />

group<br />

• Shows awareness that their actions<br />

affect others<br />

• Engages in activities that require<br />

hand-eye coordination<br />

• Dresses and undresses themselves<br />

with occasional assistance<br />

• Persistent, severe tantrums<br />

• Performs repetitive motions<br />

(flaps hands, rocks back and forth,<br />

spins)<br />

• Lines up toys or other objects in an<br />

organized fashion<br />

• Gets upset or frustrated by small<br />

changes in routine<br />

• Plays with toys the same way<br />

every time<br />

• Likes certain parts of objects<br />

(often wheels or spinning parts)<br />

• Has obsessive interests<br />

• Irregular eating<br />

• Irregular sleeping habits<br />

• Unusual safety awareness<br />

(Overly fearful to fearless Impulsivity)<br />

FACT<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> is not caused by how you parent,<br />

but progress can be made by taking an active approach.<br />

8<br />

9


5 YEARS Typical Development Red Flags for ASD<br />

Social Interaction<br />

Communication<br />

• Wants to please and be like friends;<br />

plays and interacts cooperatively<br />

with other children (works on projects<br />

together, exchange ideas)<br />

• Forms positive relationships with new<br />

teachers or caregivers over time and<br />

seeks out trusted teachers and<br />

caregivers as needed<br />

• Explains reasons for their feelings that<br />

may include thoughts and beliefs as<br />

well as outside events<br />

• Communicates understanding and<br />

empathy for others’ feelings<br />

• Uses a larger vocabulary for talking<br />

about different feelings (“I’m<br />

frustrated with that puzzle!”<br />

“I’m excited about our trip.”)<br />

• Uses language effectively to continue<br />

conversations with familiar adults and<br />

to influence their behavior (ask for<br />

help, ask an adult to do something)<br />

• Speaks clearly; makes requests clearly<br />

and effectively most of the time<br />

• Speaks and tells a simple story in full<br />

sentences that are grammatically<br />

correct most of the time (uses<br />

future tense)<br />

• Prefers playing alone than playing<br />

with others<br />

• Doesn’t share well with others, take<br />

turns or participate in pretend play<br />

• Difficulty being soothed or comforted<br />

• Doesn’t like or actively avoids physical<br />

contact<br />

• Isn’t interested or doesn’t know how<br />

to make friends<br />

• Doesn’t make facial expressions or<br />

makes inappropriate expressions<br />

• Has difficulty expressing or talking<br />

about their feelings or understanding<br />

other people’s feelings<br />

• Difficulty forming sentences<br />

• Repeats words and phrases<br />

• Doesn’t answer questions<br />

appropriately or follow directions<br />

• Flat vocal tone or sing song voice<br />

Developmental Chart Terms<br />

Emotional Modulation<br />

A child’s ability to respond to sensory input, and then adjust their emotions<br />

and behavior to the demands of their surroundings.<br />

Developmental Regression<br />

When a child loses an acquired function or fails to progress beyond a period<br />

of relatively normal development.<br />

Joint Attention<br />

Spontaneously shifting attention between an object of interest and another<br />

person using gestures to draw others’ attention to objects.<br />

Self-Stimulatory Behaviors<br />

Repetitive movements or posturing of the body providing sensory input<br />

as a means of communicating or to self-soothing when wary or anxious.<br />

Examples include hand flapping or rocking.<br />

Meltdown<br />

An intense, involuntary reaction to sensory overwhelm in which a child<br />

is unable to be consoled.<br />

Behavior/Interests<br />

• Sticks with tasks even when they<br />

are challenging<br />

• Chooses to spend more time on<br />

preferred activities, and expresses an<br />

awareness of skills they are developing<br />

• Expresses awareness that they are<br />

members of different groups<br />

(e.g., family, preschool class)<br />

• Shows awareness that their behavior<br />

can affect the feelings of others<br />

• More likely to follow social rules,<br />

transitions, and routines that have<br />

been explained<br />

• Persistent, severe tantrums<br />

• Performs repetitive motions<br />

(flaps hands, rocks back and forth,<br />

spins)<br />

• Lines up toys or other objects in an<br />

organized fashion<br />

• Gets upset or frustrated by small<br />

changes in routine<br />

• Plays with toys the same way<br />

every time<br />

• Likes certain parts of objects<br />

(often wheels or spinning parts)<br />

• Has obsessive interests<br />

FACT<br />

People with autism are able to learn<br />

and develop new skills.<br />

Other<br />

• Transitions independently from active<br />

to quiet activities most of the time<br />

• Usually is not physically active<br />

10<br />

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Is My Child Developing<br />

Appropriately?<br />

What To Do If Your Child Shows<br />

Signs Of A Delay<br />

In the tables below, developmental milestones are listed for children with typical development,<br />

alongside Parents and behaviors professionals that may sometimes be signs want of autism to “wait-and-see” spectrum disorders when (ASD). there Learning are concerns about a<br />

developmental child’s development. milestones You may can not help want parents to label know your what child to and expect there from are their hopes children. that the child is a<br />

late bloomer and will catch up. Waiting for a child to catch up, however, wastes valuable time,<br />

While and we looking know that observable early intervention behaviors, is the please best keep way to in help mind your that child development learn those is individual skills they are and<br />

these struggling are the with; approximate it is the best age hope ranges for the to observe future of the any expected child with behaviors ASD. Early for intervention all children. Every will<br />

child provide is different, benefits even that among may not siblings. be gained Your if child’s a wait-and-see environment, approach family is and taken. experiences contribute<br />

to their development. If you are concerned, please talk to your child’s pediatrician as soon as<br />

possible. If your child The is earlier showing concerns any delay are in addressed, development, the better contact the the long-term following prognosis programs is for for further<br />

child,<br />

whether assessment; the delay parents is indeed may self-refer autism or with something no physician else. referral needed:<br />

It may be upseting or scary to discover<br />

a Questions delay in development. About Getting<br />

A Diagnosis<br />

Deep breath... you can do this.<br />

By now you have determined that your child has a delay, and maybe you or your team have<br />

concerns about ASD. The next step is getting an actual diagnosis. Remember, your child is still<br />

the same little one that you loved before you started this journey... nothing has changed.<br />

Receiving a diagnosis allows you to work toward getting the help your child needs; it is a way<br />

to obtain more knowledge and support.<br />

What are the differences between a screening,<br />

an eligibility assessment and a formal diagnosis?<br />

FOR CHILDREN BIRTH TO THREE YEARS<br />

FOR CHILDREN THREE+ YEARS<br />

Screenings usually occur in a doctor’s office and are the first step. They provide a quick and<br />

simple way to monitor a child’s healthy development. Monitoring includes clinical observations<br />

and the charting of developmental milestones.<br />

Mecklenburg County<br />

Charlotte-Mecklenburg Schools (CMS)<br />

If concerns about your child are raised by a developmental screening, further screenings for<br />

Children’s Developmental Services Agency<br />

hearing loss or lead poisoning, or the M-CHAT (a screening for ASD) may be completed. If<br />

(CDSA)<br />

Exceptional Children’s Program: 980-343-2720<br />

screening results suggest that your child has signs of ASD, the next steps are to seek services<br />

704-336-7130 or fax 704-336-7112<br />

Bright Beginnings and NC Pre-K: 980-343-5950<br />

and/or a diagnosis.<br />

Red Flags for <strong>Autism</strong><br />

Red Flags for <strong>Autism</strong><br />

UNDER 12 MONTHS Typical Development<br />

12-24 MONTHS Typical Development<br />

Spectrum Disorder (ASD)<br />

Eligibility assessments are conducted by the CDSA and CMS for Spectrum the purpose Disorder of establishing (ASD)<br />

CDSA is part of the statewide North Carolina The Exceptional Children’s Program serves children<br />

Infant-Toddler Program. CDSA provides services at least three years old who may be developmentally<br />

eligibility for specialized services and are based on federal legislation, The Individuals with<br />

Social Interaction • Babbling or coos and smiles in<br />

• Tends not to turn to someone<br />

to families with children birth to three years of delayed. An evaluation, provided at no cost, must be<br />

Social Disabilities Interaction Education Improvement • Pretend play by Act using (IDEIA). gestures, Part C of the • IDEIA Lack of targets imitation infants and toddlers,<br />

response<br />

calling their name and seems not<br />

words and new actions<br />

age who may have delays in development or have completed to determine eligibility and programing.<br />

and Part B targets school-aged children (which may include 3- • and Poor 4-year emotional old modulation<br />

to hear or be interested; seems to<br />

children). CMS’s<br />

certain medical conditions. • Early Turns intervention<br />

head and pays attention It is a good idea to begin the enrollment process<br />

• Stays active and engaged during<br />

hear environmental sounds better<br />

evaluation team will consider whether your child’s symptoms adversely affects their educational<br />

professionals work with caregivers towards to sounds build their and voices before where their third birthday when possible. For<br />

activities and monitors what you are<br />

than human voices<br />

performance and whether paying specialized attention educational to<br />

services are appropriate. A child may be<br />

capacity to enhance their child’s you are development.<br />

looking and pointing children enrolled with CDSA, your service coordinator<br />

Evaluations and service coordination eligible for services through • Talks the with CDSA you about or CMS a topic without he/she having a diagnosis of autism.<br />

• Shows interest<br />

are provided<br />

in faces<br />

will help with the • transition Fails to look process. where someone is<br />

at no charge to families. Other services are<br />

pointing<br />

is interested in, tells about his/her<br />

feelings and asks questions<br />

provided on a sliding scale fee. Medicaid and<br />

Bright Beginnings • Absent and NC facial Pre-K expression, programs serve such as<br />

Formal diagnoses of ASD are most often made through assessments conducted in the private<br />

private insurance are billed with family permission. children who will be • Can have short reciprocal<br />

decreased four years smiling old on or or upset/scared<br />

before<br />

sector by a psychologist, conversation psychiatrist, (back neurologist and forth) or physician using specific criteria. While CDSA<br />

August 31. These programs face may include special<br />

does have staff qualified to make a diagnosis, the public school system cannot make a formal<br />

education students receiving various levels of<br />

Communication<br />

diagnosis of ASD. • Combines sounds, gestures and<br />

• Rarely/never points<br />

Communication<br />

• Cries differently for different support. needs A separate • Delayed eligibility and evaluation infrequent is required. sounds<br />

words to tell what he/she is thinking<br />

(e.g. hungry vs. tired)<br />

of speech<br />

• Absent or unusual use of gestures,<br />

CMS does not diagnose ASD, but your child may<br />

• Starts to imitate new simple words expression, or vocal quality to<br />

• Makes eye contact and maintains qualify for for free services • Limited through eye contact the school and may system, not<br />

Why would I seek & actions a diagnosis for my child?<br />

communicate<br />

moving objects (even for a<br />

even<br />

short<br />

if<br />

time)<br />

they do not<br />

look<br />

attend<br />

where<br />

a CMS<br />

another<br />

school.<br />

is looking<br />

• Uses words to name objects, pictures, • Delayed speech<br />

• Responds to “no” and simple directions • Does not wave bye-bye<br />

There are some good reasons people, for animals getting and a starts diagnosis. to combine A thorough • Early and signs detailed of developmental diagnosis... regression<br />

(e.g. “Come here”) and says one or<br />

two words to convey different<br />

• will provide important meanings<br />

two words<br />

information and answers to your questions about your child’s<br />

behavior and development. • Understands simple pronouns<br />

(me, you, my)<br />

Behavior/Interests • Join to sound/rhythm by making or • Attending to unusual objects or<br />

repeating sounds<br />

patterns<br />

• will create a road map for treatment by identifying your child’s specific strengths and<br />

Behavior/Interests • Join to sound and rhythm plays by • Play routines are limited to a single<br />

• Explores different toys and/objects • Over- or under-reactions to<br />

challenges and providing useful information about which needs and skills should be<br />

making or repeating sounds<br />

action or are imitations always<br />

with fingers and mouth<br />

stimulation<br />

targeted for effective intervention.<br />

• Explores different toys and/objects completed in the same way<br />

• Show physical reaction when excited • Repeats a movement or routine<br />

with fingers and mouth (getting ready • Does not demonstrate joint attention<br />

• may be required for insurance for picking coverage a favorite of toy certain while services.<br />

over and over<br />

playing with others too)<br />

It can be frightening to • think Show about physical “labeling” reaction when your excited child, but remember that a label does not limit.<br />

It does not determine outcomes. It does not change who your child is. However, a label can help<br />

Other your child receive services • Has and a regular accommodations sleep schedule<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> Spectrum Disorder<br />

that are appropriate for the unique pattern of<br />

Early Intervention<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> is a neurodevelopmental disorder defined by persistent deficits social<br />

their development. • Eats an increasing variety of foods<br />

A statewide interagency system that provides services designed to intervene at<br />

communication the early stages of and an social infant interaction, or toddler’s accompanied disability. by restricted, repetitive<br />

6 patterns of behavior, interests, or activities.<br />

7<br />

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How do I get a diagnosis for my child in<br />

Mecklenburg County?<br />

As discussed on page 13, your primary pediatrician will conduct a screening with your child. If<br />

your child shows signs that warrant further evaluation, there are several options to explore.<br />

Your family may be referred to a developmental pediatrician, who is trained in diagnostics and<br />

management of developmental and behavioral issues in children and adolescents. Other options<br />

include:<br />

FOR CHILDREN BIRTH TO THREE YEARS<br />

FOR CHILDREN THREE+ YEARS<br />

CDSA (see page 12) offers subsequent<br />

evaluations beyond basic eligibility to address<br />

questions specific to autism and to provide you<br />

with information, a diagnosis (if appropriate) and<br />

options for services to support your family’s<br />

individualized plan. Your service coordinator will<br />

aid in scheduling this with the staff psychologists.<br />

A formal diagnosis is available (for a fee) from a<br />

developmental pediatrician, TEACCH (see page 23)<br />

or by professionals experienced in administering<br />

evaluations such as the <strong>Autism</strong> Diagnostic<br />

Observation Schedule (ADOS) or the <strong>Autism</strong><br />

Diagnostic Interview (ADI).<br />

Does my child need a diagnosis<br />

to receive intervention?<br />

Part Two:<br />

After Receiving A Diagnosis Of ASD<br />

In Mecklenburg County, it is not necessary to have a formal diagnosis in order to receive early<br />

intervention through the CDSA or specialized educational services through CMS. Please refer<br />

back to page 12 for further details.<br />

However, a medical diagnosis of autism is required to access Medicaid funded interventions under<br />

Early Periodic Screening Diagnosis and Treatment (EPSDT). This includes receiving Applied<br />

Behavioral Analysis (ABA) therapy (see page 17). Access to other intervention services and<br />

therapies will depend on the funding source’s requirements for a formal diagnosis.<br />

FACT<br />

A child may be very social and able to look at<br />

your face or eyes and still have autism.<br />

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In the tables below, developmental milestones are listed for children with typical development,<br />

alongside behaviors that may be signs of autism spectrum disorders (ASD). Learning<br />

developmental milestones can help parents know what to expect from their children.<br />

Intervention Options For Your Child<br />

While looking at observable behaviors, please keep in mind that development is individual and<br />

these Early intervention are the approximate and special age ranges education to observe services the are expected critical for behaviors addressing for all the children. needs of Every a child<br />

child on the is different, autism spectrum. even among In addition, siblings. Your many child’s children environment, with ASD family benefit and from experiences the therapies contribute listed<br />

to in their this section. development. Therapeutic If you are services concerned, fall into please two categories: talk to your Evidence-Based child’s pediatrician and as Anecdotal.<br />

soon as<br />

possible. The earlier concerns are addressed, the better the long-term prognosis is for the child,<br />

whether the delay is indeed autism or something else.<br />

Evidence-Based Therapies<br />

An evidence-based practice (EBP) “is an instructional/intervention procedure or set of procedures<br />

for which researchers have provided an acceptable level of research that shows the practice<br />

produces positive outcomes for children, youth, and/or adults with ASD” (NPDC, 2019).<br />

As of this printing, there are 28 EBPs that may be used individually or in conjunction with<br />

each other in working with children with ASD. This is a list of the Red most Flags<br />

UNDER 12 MONTHS Typical Development<br />

common for <strong>Autism</strong> EBPs.<br />

Spectrum Disorder (ASD)<br />

Social Interaction • Babbling or coos and smiles in<br />

• Tends not to turn to someone<br />

Speech-Language response Therapy (ST) Occupational calling their Therapy name and seems (OT) not<br />

to hear or be interested; seems to<br />

One of the main challenges • Turns of ASD head is and a delay pays attention The American Occupational Therapy<br />

hear environmental sounds better<br />

in communication skills. Speech-language<br />

towards sounds and voices or Association where estimates than human that voices 80 percent of<br />

you are looking and pointing<br />

therapy will target any problem areas, teach children with ASD have sensory processing<br />

• Fails to look where someone is<br />

missing skills, and provide • opportunities Shows interest to in faces problems, which pointing can interfere with their<br />

practice and generalize recently acquired<br />

daily life. Occupational therapists use their<br />

• Absent facial expression, such as<br />

abilities. A speech-language pathologist will expertise to identify decreased sensory smiling issues or upset/scared and<br />

evaluate your child’s communication profile provide interventions face to improve selfand<br />

identify problem areas. It is important to regulation (wake-sleep cycles, level of<br />

Communication<br />

know if your child understands • Cries words differently as well for different alertness, needs self-quieting), • Delayed and sensory infrequent processing,<br />

sounds<br />

(e.g. hungry vs. tired)<br />

of speech<br />

as they say them and whether your child’s<br />

motor development and adaptive behavior.<br />

problems are associated with • Makes differences eye contact in and maintains for • Limited eye contact and may not<br />

moving objects (even for a short time) look where another is looking<br />

his desire to communicate, deficits in language In addition to providing interventions that<br />

abilities, or with the demands • Responds of conversation.<br />

to “no” and simple directions help improve • Does sensory not integration wave bye-byeissues<br />

(e.g. “Come here”) and says one or<br />

influencing behaviors in the home, occupational<br />

two words<br />

therapy practitioners also make suggestions<br />

for changes to the classroom environment in<br />

Behavior/Interests • Join to sound/rhythm by making or • Attending to unusual objects or<br />

repeating sounds<br />

order to assist patterns children with participating and<br />

• Explores different toys and/objects progressing • at Over- school, or under-reactions playing, making to friends<br />

with fingers and mouth and focusing in stimulation order to learn. Fine motor skills<br />

• Show physical reaction when are excited also addressed • Repeats by a OTs. movement or routine<br />

over and over<br />

Physical Therapy (PT)<br />

Applied Behavior Analysis<br />

(ABA) Therapy<br />

Physical therapists are trained to work<br />

with people to build or rebuild strength,<br />

Applied Behavior Analysis focuses on<br />

and increase mobility in the large muscle<br />

principles of learning that include the idea<br />

groups in the body. Physical therapists may<br />

that people Red are Flags more likely for <strong>Autism</strong><br />

12-24 MONTHS Typical Development<br />

to repeat<br />

work with very young children on basic<br />

behaviors that<br />

Spectrum<br />

are rewarded<br />

Disorder<br />

than<br />

(ASD)<br />

behaviors<br />

motor skills such as sitting, rolling, standing<br />

that are not recognized or are ignored. ABA<br />

Social and playing. Interaction They may • also Pretend work play with by using gestures,<br />

• Lack of imitation<br />

can help children with autism by teaching<br />

parents to teach them some<br />

words<br />

techniques<br />

and new actions<br />

for<br />

• Poor emotional modulation<br />

them to develop a number of skill sets at<br />

helping their child build<br />

• Stays<br />

muscle<br />

active<br />

strength,<br />

and engaged during<br />

activities and monitors what you the are same time as it works to reduce the<br />

coordination and skills. paying attention to<br />

likelihood of their engaging in problematic<br />

• Talks with you about a topic he/she behaviors.<br />

Children with ASD may is have interested low muscle in, tells about his/her<br />

tone, or have a tough time<br />

feelings<br />

with<br />

and<br />

coordination<br />

asks questions<br />

Treatment begins with an assessment to<br />

and sports. These issues<br />

• Can<br />

can<br />

have<br />

interfere<br />

short reciprocal<br />

with<br />

conversation (back and forth) determine the child’s existing skills and the<br />

basic day-to-day functioning and are almost<br />

development of an individualized program<br />

Communication<br />

certain to interfere with • Combines social and sounds, physical gestures and to increase • Rarely/never skills. A trained points therapist works<br />

development. Children with words autism to tell what would he/she is thinking<br />

one-on-one • Absent with a or child unusual (hours use vary, of gestures, but<br />

rarely be termed physically • Starts disabled to imitate but new simple words expression, or vocal quality to<br />

& actions<br />

many receive<br />

communicate<br />

20 to 40 hours a week) or in<br />

may have physical limitations.<br />

• Uses words to name objects, pictures,<br />

conjunction<br />

• Delayed<br />

with other<br />

speech<br />

therapists (such as<br />

people, animals and starts to combine speech or<br />

•<br />

occupational<br />

Early signs of developmental<br />

therapists) for<br />

regression<br />

a<br />

two words to convey different “modified” approach for 10 to 15 hours<br />

meanings<br />

a week.<br />

• Understands simple pronouns<br />

(me, you, my)<br />

Behavior/Interests<br />

• Join to sound and rhythm plays by<br />

making or repeating sounds<br />

• Explores different toys and/objects<br />

with fingers and mouth (getting ready<br />

for picking a favorite toy while<br />

playing with others too)<br />

• Show physical reaction when excited<br />

• Play routines are limited to a single<br />

action or are imitations always<br />

completed in the same way<br />

• Does not demonstrate joint attention<br />

Other<br />

• Has a regular sleep schedule<br />

Sensory <strong>Autism</strong> Spectrum Processing Disorder Problems<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> is a neurodevelopmental disorder defined by persistent deficits in social<br />

• Eats an increasing variety of foods<br />

A neurophysiological condition where the brain and nervous system have<br />

trouble communication processing and or social integrating interaction, stimulus. accompanied by restricted, repetitive<br />

6 patterns of behavior, interests, or activities.<br />

7<br />

Fine Motor Skills<br />

Referring to the coordination between small muscles, like those of the hands<br />

and fingers.<br />

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Anecdotal Therapy<br />

Anecdotal interventions provide families additional methods that, while not scientifically proven,<br />

have had some positive outcomes. Many anecdotal therapies are not covered by insurance,<br />

however grants may be available to subsidize the cost. Before using any anecdotal therapy,<br />

please consult your physician for guidance.<br />

Music Therapy<br />

Many families have found the fun of music<br />

therapy to support communication, social<br />

and behavioral goals. Music therapy is a<br />

well-established professional health discipline<br />

that uses music as a therapeutic stimulus to<br />

achieve non-musical treatment goals.<br />

Research supports connections between<br />

speech and singing, rhythm and motor behavior,<br />

and memory for song and academic material.<br />

Preferred music can improve mood, attention,<br />

and behavior in order to optimize the student’s<br />

ability to learn and interact.<br />

Equine Therapy<br />

Equine therapy is an alternative multimodal<br />

intervention that utilizes a horse to enhance<br />

core impairments in ASD. Information<br />

suggests that equine therapy has beneficial<br />

effects on behavioral skills and to some<br />

extent on social communication in ASD.<br />

Biomedical Interventions<br />

Biomedical interventions focus on the<br />

physical needs of the person by addressing<br />

deficits or system weaknesses in the body<br />

(digestive, respiratory, muscular, etc.)<br />

through medical or chemical means. Examples<br />

of biomedical interventions include the<br />

gluten-casein-free diets (GFCF), addressing<br />

food sensitivities, use of supplements, gut<br />

treatments and immune system regulation.<br />

FACT<br />

Although people<br />

with autism grow<br />

and change,<br />

they never “outgrow”<br />

their autism.<br />

Appropriately?<br />

Other Health Related Concerns<br />

In the tables below, developmental milestones are listed for children with typical development,<br />

alongside behaviors that may be signs of autism spectrum disorders (ASD). Learning<br />

While the following differences are not defining characteristics of autism, many children may<br />

developmental milestones can help parents know what to expect from their children.<br />

experience these other challenges at some point throughout their lives. These co-morbid<br />

conditions<br />

While looking<br />

typically<br />

at observable<br />

need to also<br />

behaviors,<br />

be addressed,<br />

please<br />

to<br />

keep<br />

allow<br />

in<br />

the<br />

mind<br />

child<br />

that<br />

to<br />

development<br />

regulate and<br />

is<br />

learn<br />

individual<br />

more<br />

and<br />

effectively.<br />

these are the approximate age ranges to observe the expected behaviors for all children. Every<br />

child is different, even among siblings. Your child’s environment, family and experiences contribute<br />

This<br />

to their<br />

list includes<br />

development.<br />

some of<br />

If<br />

the<br />

you<br />

most<br />

are concerned,<br />

common conditions<br />

please talk<br />

present<br />

to your<br />

in<br />

child’s<br />

young<br />

pediatrician<br />

children with<br />

as<br />

ASD,<br />

soon as<br />

however<br />

possible.<br />

additional<br />

The earlier<br />

conditions<br />

concerns<br />

may<br />

are addressed,<br />

develop as a<br />

the<br />

child<br />

better<br />

gets<br />

the<br />

older.<br />

long-term<br />

It is important<br />

prognosis<br />

to have<br />

is for<br />

regular<br />

the child,<br />

visits<br />

whether<br />

with<br />

the<br />

your<br />

delay<br />

doctor<br />

is indeed<br />

and intervention<br />

autism or something<br />

team to discuss<br />

else.<br />

any changes in your child as they<br />

happen. Please talk to your pediatrician if your child is having any of these difficulties.<br />

Disrupted Sleep<br />

Sleep difficulties typically fall into two<br />

general categories: difficulty falling asleep<br />

and difficulty staying asleep. Children may<br />

exhibit signs of one or both categories. Lack<br />

of sleep can intensify other issues that a<br />

child is already experiencing.<br />

UNDER 12 MONTHS Typical Development<br />

Gastrointestinal Issues<br />

Attention Deficit<br />

Hyperactivity Disorder<br />

(ADHD)<br />

ADHD typically is known as an inability<br />

or difficulty in focusing. While it can be<br />

difficult to separate focus issues from other<br />

signs of ASD, some children have this<br />

Red Flags for <strong>Autism</strong><br />

additional challenge. Spectrum Disorder (ASD)<br />

Developmental Coordination<br />

Many Social children Interaction experience some • Babbling type or of coos and smiles in<br />

• Tends not to turn to someone<br />

bowel distress off and on through response their<br />

calling their name and seems not<br />

Delay to hear or be interested; seems to<br />

lifetime. Most commonly, children • Turns head may and have pays attention<br />

constipation or diarrhea. In some children,<br />

In addition to other hear environmental delays, some sounds children better<br />

towards sounds and voices or where<br />

than human voices<br />

you are looking and pointing<br />

the experience of pain may result in feeding experience a delay in the development of<br />

difficulties, which may have a sensory<br />

motor skills. These • Fails can to look include where but someone are not is<br />

• Shows interest in faces<br />

pointing<br />

component as well.<br />

limited to delays in walking or showing an<br />

unusual posture • Absent or walking facial expression, pattern, lowered such as<br />

decreased smiling or upset/scared<br />

muscle tone or balance issues. Smaller muscle<br />

face<br />

groups may also be impacted, effecting<br />

Communication<br />

• Cries differently for different hand-eye needs coordination • Delayed and infrequent handwriting. sounds<br />

(e.g. hungry vs. tired)<br />

of speech<br />

Behavior/Interests<br />

• Makes eye contact and maintains for<br />

moving objects (even for a short time)<br />

• Responds to “no” and simple directions<br />

(e.g. “Come here”) and says one or<br />

two words<br />

• Join to sound/rhythm by making or<br />

repeating sounds<br />

• Explores different toys and/objects<br />

with fingers and mouth<br />

• Show physical reaction when excited<br />

• Limited eye contact and may not<br />

look where another is looking<br />

• Does not wave bye-bye<br />

• Attending to unusual objects or<br />

patterns<br />

• Over- or under-reactions to<br />

stimulation<br />

• Repeats a movement or routine<br />

over and over<br />

6<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> Co-morbid Spectrum Disorder<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> Presence is a of neurodevelopmental one or more additional disorder conditions defined co-occurring by persistent with deficits the in social<br />

communication primary one. and social interaction, accompanied by restricted, repetitive<br />

patterns of behavior, interests, or activities.<br />

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Taking Care Of You<br />

If you are reading this booklet, you may have a child with a delay; you may even have a child with<br />

autism. This time is turbulent while you are figuring out what is going on and what to do next.<br />

But thinking back to the safety speech when you are on an airplane… you must secure your own<br />

oxygen mask before assisting others. Taking care of yourself, the caregiver, is crucial.<br />

You are about to embark on a journey that may take you in new directions and making sure that<br />

you set a solid foundation for yourself is key. No one feels fully prepared for all the things that<br />

parenting is going to require. Even though you know that there will be sleepless nights, thousands<br />

of decisions, worrying and more, these may be increased when you have a child that needs extra<br />

support.<br />

It is OK to Not Be OK<br />

Wrapping your head around what is going on is a process, and it is unlikely that you will instantly<br />

accept this information. Some families experience a wave of guilt as they think they caused their<br />

child’s challenges. This process may even mimic the stages of grief, as described by Dr. Elizabeth<br />

Kubler-Ross: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Acceptance. No one can tell you how you<br />

should feel, or how quickly you should process information or make decisions. Take the time to<br />

honor your feelings.<br />

It is OK to not be OK right now!! Just remember:<br />

You CAN do this... take it one thing at a time... just keep going!<br />

As your journey continues, you will become more confident in yourself and your ability to parent<br />

your child. Part of gaining that confidence is taking care of yourself and keeping your mind, body,<br />

and soul nourished.<br />

What is Self-Care?<br />

The dictionary defines self-care as the practice of taking an active role in protecting one’s health,<br />

well-being and happiness, in particular during periods of stress. Self-care comes in many forms; it<br />

is about making yourself feel happier and calmer. Self-care does not have to cost a lot of money,<br />

and may be as simple as taking a daily walk or enjoying a favorite movie. At it’s root, it is making<br />

sure that you maintain a balance between taking care of your physical and mental health that<br />

allows you to function at your best.<br />

Care of the Mind<br />

You are not alone in this journey.<br />

Your brain is an amazing organ, capable of processing millions of ideas. But like a computer with<br />

too many tabs open, it too will slow down when you are overwhelmed. Your mental health is just<br />

as important as your physical health. Reaching out for help and support is a sign of strength; no<br />

one gets through life without the support of others.<br />

Families may distance themselves from others while they are focused on the needs of their child,<br />

leading to increased anxiety or depression. Contacting someone who can help you process information<br />

and lend a kind, supportive ear can alleviate stress and help you organize all the thoughts<br />

you are having. Talking with other parents who have walked this path or participating in parent<br />

support groups offer a connection to others who have experienced or are currently experiencing<br />

similar circumstances. Some parents look to a trained counselor for an objective viewpoint and<br />

coping tools.<br />

Care of the Body<br />

Setting the example of a healthy body shows your family<br />

that you value yourself.<br />

Remembering to eat, sleep, and recharge our own battery is part of self-care. Beyond this,<br />

keeping up with doctor and dentist visits for yourself, exercising, and allowing your body to have<br />

“down time” keeps you in the best health possible.<br />

It is easy to push these needs aside when you are pressed for time or money. Physical symptoms<br />

such as headache, stomach distress, sleep problems or muscular pain may be signs that you have<br />

not been taking good enough care of yourself. Your child needs you to be at your best, so don’t<br />

ignore yourself completely.<br />

FACT<br />

Those with autism are<br />

able to build relationships.<br />

Care of the Soul<br />

You are an equal member of your family and prioritizing yourself is not selfish;<br />

it is the glue that keeps your family together.<br />

What nourishes you in your core? How do you find peace from within? For some people it may<br />

be a religious or spiritual connection. For others it may be helping your community. Possibly<br />

meditation or quiet time, or maybe 5-minutes of reading or dancing helps center and ground you.<br />

Finding an inner calm is something we do for ourselves, yet the feelings that are invoked from this<br />

type of care can do as much for us as any other self-care act. Parents are busy, but we all have a<br />

few minutes a day to take care of our soul.<br />

Please see community resources on page 23 for more specific information on family support.<br />

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Local Agency Referral Information<br />

Please note that this is not an exhaustive list of resources in Mecklenburg County.<br />

However, service providers at each agency can help families connect to additional services as appropriate.<br />

Developmental Pediatricians Non-Profit Programs For Parents and Caregivers<br />

Atrium Developmental/Behavioral Pediatrics<br />

704-403-2626<br />

Novant Health Developmental/Behavioral<br />

Pediatrics<br />

704-384-0567<br />

Developmental pediatricians are experts on<br />

child development. In addition to conducting<br />

evaluations, they are more experienced with the<br />

needs of a child with delays, including behavioral<br />

health. Both practices offer 2 locations and accept<br />

Medicaid and Private Insurance for evaluations.<br />

A referral from your primary pediatrician is<br />

required.<br />

FACT<br />

Children with autism<br />

can be emotional<br />

and affectionate.<br />

Guiding Parents to Services (GPS)<br />

GPS@smartstartofmeck.org<br />

704-943-9416<br />

Our program is dedicated to helping you start<br />

your journey. GPS is a free program offered by<br />

Smart Start of Mecklenburg County designed<br />

to help parents with children birth to five begin<br />

the process of understanding autism spectrum<br />

disorders and get help for themselves and their<br />

child. The GPS Coordinator provides emotional<br />

support as well as helps you understand the process<br />

for finding appropriate services. Educational<br />

workshops and parent support groups are offered,<br />

allowing parents a way to connect to other parents<br />

while gaining knowledge. GPS is a place where you<br />

can regain your balance, expand your capabilities,<br />

and be in a better position to support your child.<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> Society of North Carolina (ASNC)<br />

704-894-9678<br />

Among the services provided by ASNC, <strong>Autism</strong><br />

<strong>Resource</strong> Specialists are available from the moment<br />

a family hears the diagnosis, with a focus on school<br />

age through adulthood. <strong>Autism</strong> <strong>Resource</strong> Specialists<br />

are often the first people parents talk to after their<br />

child is diagnosed. They help families connect with<br />

resources, keep their children safe, find services,<br />

and resolve school issues. They also provide<br />

guidance on lifelong issues including employment,<br />

residential options, and planning for children’s<br />

needs beyond parents’ lives. Since <strong>Autism</strong> <strong>Resource</strong><br />

Specialists are all parents of children with autism<br />

themselves, they can provide the support of an<br />

experienced parent because of their first-hand<br />

knowledge of what it is like to hear the word<br />

autism and raise a child with autism.<br />

Care Management for At-Risk Children<br />

(CMARC)<br />

980-314-9340<br />

CMARC is a care management program for young<br />

children ages birth to five that provides care<br />

coordination and support for children and families.<br />

One of their target populations are Children with<br />

Special Health Care Needs (CSHCN) who need<br />

physical, developmental, behavioral and/or<br />

emotional support, including autism. They<br />

recognize the parent/caregiver as the expert<br />

on the child and want to support them in<br />

being their child’s best advocate. Services are<br />

provided free of charge.<br />

Charlotte Speech and Hearing Center<br />

(CSHC)<br />

704-523-8027 (ext. 225)<br />

CSHC is a non-profit organization offering<br />

speech-language services beginning at infancy<br />

and stretching throughout the lifespan of the<br />

individual. Complete community referral services<br />

including speech-language evaluations and<br />

follow-up therapy are available. Families can<br />

self-refer for services; CSHC accepts many<br />

insurances, including Medicaid, but also has<br />

an assistance fund for individuals who are<br />

uninsured/underinsured (must meet eligibility<br />

requirements).<br />

Exceptional Children’s Assistance Center<br />

(ECAC)<br />

800-962-6817<br />

ECAC will provide support and information<br />

regarding your child’s access to an appropriate<br />

education or to available services. ECAC offers<br />

resources, workshops, and materials created to<br />

teach parents how to advocate for their child with<br />

a disability in order to access services and attain an<br />

effective individualized education program (IEP).<br />

Services are provided at no cost to North Carolina<br />

residents and helps parents with children birth to 26.<br />

TEACCH Charlotte<br />

919-445-2365<br />

The University of North Carolina (UNC) TEACCH<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> Program (Charlotte Center) is part of a<br />

regional university-based system of community<br />

centers offering a set of core services along with<br />

demonstration programs meeting the clinical,<br />

training and research needs of individuals with<br />

ASD, their families and professionals across the<br />

state of NC.<br />

A history form asking for information about your<br />

child can either be mailed to you or you can access<br />

the form online. When it is completed and returned,<br />

an initial consultation meeting at TEACCH will be<br />

scheduled. Children older than three are eligible to<br />

receive diagnostic evaluations (if they have not yet<br />

received an ASD diagnosis from another provider).<br />

Parents and caregivers need to take care of<br />

themselves. Reaching out to friends and family,<br />

religious organizations, and other organizations<br />

that you are involved in, help expand your support<br />

network.<br />

In person or internet parent support groups and<br />

other organizations that focus on family support<br />

are excellent resources to meet other families.<br />

Parents are an incredible resource of knowledge,<br />

support, and understand what you are going through.<br />

Medical centers and mental health providers offer<br />

another level of support. Please check with your<br />

insurance company regarding coverage for these<br />

types of services.<br />

Behavior Health Center (BHC) - Atrium Health<br />

704-358-2700<br />

BHC offers a comprehensive, integrated system<br />

of inpatient, outpatient, school-based, crisis<br />

and residential treatment programs for adults,<br />

teenagers and children.<br />

Crossroads Counseling Center<br />

828-327-6633<br />

Crossroads offers access to clinicians specially<br />

trained to provide services to people of all ages –<br />

from early childhood through adolescence and<br />

adulthood. We work with people to help identify<br />

their strengths and resolve difficulties they are<br />

struggling with, including <strong>Autism</strong> Spectrum and<br />

Early Childhood Issues.<br />

HopeWay<br />

1-844-HOPEWAY<br />

HopeWay is an accredited non-profit mental<br />

health treatment center that provides best practice<br />

mental health care and education for adults and<br />

their families.<br />

Mecklenburg County Public Health Dept.<br />

704-336-4700<br />

Wellness, testing, and education programs to<br />

improve your health and that of our community.<br />

Novant Health Michael Jordan <strong>Family</strong><br />

Medical Clinic<br />

980-302-9405<br />

This clinic provides medical and mental health care<br />

for low-cost or no cost to patients of all ages.<br />

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Useful Websites<br />

These websites offer a wealth of information; while it can be overwhelming to look at these sites,<br />

taking the time to learn more about ASD will better prepare you for what is ahead.<br />

Local Sites<br />

Smart Start of Mecklenburg County: www.smartstartofmeck.org<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> Society of NC: www.autismsociety-nc.org<br />

CDSA: www.beearly.nc.gov<br />

CMS: www.cms.k12.nc.us<br />

Exceptional Children’s Assistance Center: www.ecac/parentcenter.org<br />

TEACCH: www.teacch.com<br />

National Sites<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> Navigator: www.autismnavigator.com/resources-and-tools<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> Society: www.autism-society.org<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> Speaks: www.autismspeaks.org<br />

Center for Disease Control (CDC): www.cdc.gov/actearly; www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/autism<br />

First Signs: www.firstsigns.org<br />

The National Information Center for Children and Youth with Disabilities:<br />

www.nichcy.org<br />

National Institute of Child Health and Human Development, <strong>Autism</strong> Site:<br />

www.nichd.nih.gov<br />

Positive Beginnings: Supporting Young Children with Challenging Behavior:<br />

pbs.fsu.edu/PBS.html<br />

Spanish <strong>Resource</strong>s (Recursos de autism)<br />

<strong>Autism</strong>o Diario: www.autismodiario.org<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> Society: www.autism-society.org/enespanol/<br />

Zero to Three: National Center for Infants, Toddlers and Families:<br />

www.zerotothree.org<br />

References<br />

16 Early Signs of <strong>Autism</strong>. (n.d.). Retrieved July 21, 2020, from www.autismnavigator.com<br />

Barbaro, J., & Dissanayake, C. (2009). <strong>Autism</strong> spectrum disorders in infancy and toddlerhood:<br />

a review of the evidence on early signs, early identification tools, and early diagnosis.<br />

Journal of Developmental & Behavioral Pediatrics, 30(5), 447-459.<br />

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2013). Learn the signs. Act early. Program<br />

www. cdc. gov/ActEarly.<br />

Cox Media Group. “Mecklenburg County Mental Health <strong>Resource</strong>s.” WSOC, 6 Jan. 2020,<br />

www.wsoctv.com/station/mecklenburg-county-mental-health-resources/951073407.<br />

Developmental Delays - Developmental Disabilities - <strong>Autism</strong> - Screening - Diagnosis - Early Intervention -<br />

First Signs. (n.d.). Retrieved July 21, 2020, from www.firstsigns.org<br />

Evidence-Based Practices. (n.d.). Retrieved from www.autismpdc.fpg.unc.edu<br />

Johnson, C. P. (2008). Recognition of <strong>Autism</strong> Before Age 2 Years. Pediatrics in Review,<br />

29(3), 86-96. doi:10.1542/pir.29-3-86<br />

McIntyre, PhD, Laura Lee. “Promoting Well-Being in Families with Children with Intellectual<br />

and Developmental Disabilities.” American Psychological Association, Sept. 2016,<br />

www.apa.org/pi/disability/resources/publications/newsletter/2016/09/family-developmentaldisabilities.<br />

Muratori, F., & Maestro, S. (2018). Early signs of autism in the first year of life. Signs of <strong>Autism</strong> in Infants, 46-62.<br />

doi:10.4324/9780429480249-3<br />

Ozonoff, S., Iosif, A., Baguio, F., Cook, I. C., Hill, M. M., Hutman, T.. Young, G. S. (2010).<br />

A Prospective Study of the Emergence of Early Behavioral Signs of <strong>Autism</strong>. Journal of the American<br />

Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry, 49(3).<br />

doi:10.1016/j.jaac.2009.11.009<br />

Peacock, G. (2009). Learning the Signs of <strong>Autism</strong>. <strong>Autism</strong> Advocate.<br />

Srinivasan, S. M., Cavagnino, D. T., & Bhat, A. N. (2018). Effects of Equine Therapy on Individuals<br />

with <strong>Autism</strong> Spectrum Disorder: A Systematic Review. Review Journal of <strong>Autism</strong> and<br />

Developmental Disorders, 5(2), 156-175. doi:10.1007/s40489-018-0130-z<br />

Stone, W. L., & DiGeronimo, T. F. (2006). Does my child have autism?: A parent’s guide to early detection<br />

and intervention in autism spectrum disorders. San Francisco, CA: Jossey-Bass.<br />

Warren, Z. (2008, October). Early assessment and diagnosis of autism spectrum disorders.<br />

Lecture presented at First International <strong>Autism</strong> Summit in OH, Cleveland.<br />

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Notes<br />

The Charlotte-Mecklenburg area<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> Spectrum Disorder<br />

Collaborative<br />

In an effort to raise awareness of autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and the importance of<br />

acting early, the Charlotte-Mecklenburg area <strong>Autism</strong> Spectrum Disorder Collaborative<br />

was created. This group of local organizations has worked together to educate, inform,<br />

support, and encourage everyone affected by autism.<br />

These organizations have provided targeted outreach to healthcare and child care<br />

professionals on the value of early intervention. Through trainings, workshops, and<br />

educational materials, the professional community has embraced this idea and<br />

continues to assist families in getting the support they need.<br />

The Collaborative also extended its work to educate families and better prepare them<br />

for the journey ahead. <strong>Autism</strong>-related books were provided to the Spangler Library,<br />

located at ImaginOn, to help families understand autism and assist them in learning<br />

more about becoming an advocate for both their child’s and their family’s needs.<br />

This resource guide was developed to help explain the signs of autism and how to get<br />

further assistance in Mecklenburg County. Information contained in this guidebook is<br />

accurate as of this printing, however programs are ever-evolving. Some terms may be<br />

new to you; please see footnotes for the definition of bolded terms.<br />

This guidebook has been made possible through the hard work and dedication of the<br />

following agencies:<br />

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Alliance Center for Education<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> Charlotte<br />

<strong>Autism</strong> Society of North Carolina<br />

Care Management for At-Risk Children<br />

Charlotte-Mecklenburg Schools<br />

Charlotte Speech and Hearing<br />

Children’s Developmental Services Agency –<br />

Mecklenburg County<br />

Easterseals UCP<br />

Smart Start of Mecklenburg County –<br />

Guiding Parents to Services<br />

Trusted Parents<br />

University of North Carolina –<br />

TEACCH<br />

University of North Carolina –<br />

Greensboro<br />

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In 1993, North Carolina Governor Jim Hunt signed legislation<br />

creating Smart Start, a public-private initiative that funds<br />

local non-profit organizations that “ensure that young children<br />

enter school healthy and ready to succeed” (NCPC, 2008).<br />

Today, 75 partnerships representing all 100 NC counties<br />

support this mission.<br />

Guiding Parents to Services (GPS), a funded program of Smart<br />

Start of Mecklenburg County, began in 2012 as a result of an<br />

autism needs assessment conducted in 2010. Research of the<br />

Charlotte-Mecklenberg area showed that while families had<br />

a difficult time finding resources, even among professionals<br />

there was a disconnect. Having a way for professionals, social<br />

service agencies, and families to connect to each other for the<br />

greater good was critical.<br />

Early work from GPS included working with medical staff to<br />

encourage early screening and intervention, leading to earlier<br />

diagnosis, along with providing families quality resources and<br />

support. Today, GPS remains a primary resource for families<br />

who are new to the world of autism, giving them a healthy<br />

start on their new journey with their child.<br />

Administered by:<br />

of Mecklenburg County<br />

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