Divorcing a narcissist: read the contents plus chapter 1
Separating or divorcing a narcissist or someone who has narcissistic traits can be a difficult, draining experience. This book is written for the spouse of such a personality, to support them step by step through the legal process, as well as through the difficult emotional journey that they'll be undertaking. It will help you recognise narcissistic behaviour, prime you on what challenges lie ahead and provide practical insights on how to survive the process. It will also help you work with your lawyer so you can both understand the potential pitfalls that could frustrate attempts to finalise your separation. The book is a companion volume to our book for lawyers, Narcissism and Family Law: A Practitioner's Guide
Separating or divorcing a narcissist or someone who has narcissistic traits can be a difficult, draining experience.
This book is written for the spouse of such a personality, to support them step by step through the legal process, as well as through the difficult emotional journey that they'll be undertaking. It will help you recognise narcissistic behaviour, prime you on what challenges lie ahead and provide practical insights on how to survive the process.
It will also help you work with your lawyer so you can both understand the potential pitfalls that could frustrate attempts to finalise your separation.
The book is a companion volume to our book for lawyers, Narcissism and Family Law: A Practitioner's Guide
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<strong>Divorcing</strong> A Narcissist – The Lure, The Loss And The Law<br />
A brief look at <strong>the</strong> court method of dealing with issues relating to <strong>the</strong><br />
children188<br />
Chapter 8: Narcissistic divorce behaviours 191<br />
Case History – Martin 192<br />
Case History – Annie 200<br />
Common <strong>narcissist</strong>ic behaviours in divorce 209<br />
Chapter 9: Communicating with <strong>the</strong> <strong>narcissist</strong> 215<br />
The ‘Grey rock technique’ 216<br />
How to manage <strong>the</strong> <strong>narcissist</strong>’s written communications 218<br />
Formulating your reply 230<br />
Some o<strong>the</strong>r things to consider when trying to communicate with a<br />
<strong>narcissist</strong> 234<br />
Advice for your solicitor when communicating with <strong>the</strong> <strong>narcissist</strong>’s solicitor<br />
236<br />
Chapter 10: The Court Process 239<br />
The Form E 240<br />
The questionnaire 242<br />
The FDA 243<br />
Answering <strong>the</strong> questionnaire and complying with o<strong>the</strong>r directions 244<br />
The FDRA 245<br />
Points to consider before and during negotiations 246<br />
The Final Hearing 252<br />
The court process in Children Act proceedings 263<br />
The weaknesses of <strong>the</strong> court system 267<br />
Chapter 11: Post-divorce 269<br />
Post-divorce abuse 269<br />
The <strong>narcissist</strong>’s harem 272<br />
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