The Man God Has For You by Stephan Labossiere

alone is delicate; however, many of you may not be facing this
yet. The more you become antsy and focus on time, the less
focus you place on what you should be doing which would
accelerate the time to accomplish your goals. You may get
there sooner than you think if you keep your eye on the prize.
If you have approached the time where it gets a bit uncertain, I
don’t have a quick and simple answer, but I will encourage
you to pray. I’ve seen women accomplish childbirth at ages
they didn’t believe would work.
Each situation is different.
Whether it’s having babies or being married, don’t put
unnecessary pressure on yourself. Focus on what you need to
do to reach the finish line.
Lastly, if you’re dealing with outside pressure, I could
easily tell you to go around and slap everyone, tell them to
shut up and leave you alone; however, that’s not going to fix
anything or give you the peace you need.
I want you to know you have to be more transparent and
honest when people bring up the subject. Let them know how
it makes you feel when they continue to badger you. Don’t just
shut down when they start going in your ear, particularly when
it’s parent or someone close to you. Don’t let them ramble off
and suck it up, despite knowing it bothers you and how it
makes you feel. You need to communicate how it’s getting
under your skin, so they understand the negative impact it has
on you with the constant pressure and badgering.
It’s important you express yourself in a positive and loving
manner. They need to understand they have to fall back. Also,
when they ask why you’re still single, give an honest answer
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you give a BS answer, you only open the door for them to
keep pushing because they sense the BS. They’ll rattle of, “oh,
that doesn’t make any sense,” “no, that can’t be it,” and now
they want to push harder, dig further— be honest. I’m still
working on some things, be honest.
I haven’t healed from my past, be honest. You know what, I
have someone in my life but I’m a little scared of the situation.