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EDITOR’S NOTE<br />
Every day, you<br />
can read headlines<br />
that illustrate the<br />
unthinkable truth: Our<br />
rights are at stake.<br />
Legislation, no matter<br />
how many times we<br />
stamp it out, returns<br />
to haunt and harm our<br />
LGBT+ community.<br />
Our right to<br />
happiness and liberty are fragile, especially<br />
in this political climate. It’s hard not to feel<br />
powerless when these proposals move<br />
toward becoming law.<br />
But, many of our fellow community are<br />
proving little by little that together, we can<br />
make a difference. It only takes one small<br />
good deed to make a huge difference in<br />
the long run.<br />
For some, like Jennifer Vannoy, those<br />
small deeds grow. Vannoy, a longtime<br />
resident of <strong>Mid</strong>dle <strong>Tenn</strong>essee, is running<br />
for State Representative of District 34.<br />
But we don’t have to hold office to<br />
affect change in our community.<br />
Oasis Center’s Pam Sheffer left a<br />
corporate job in order to create Just Us, a<br />
program that gives teenagers a chance to<br />
experience an affirming, safe atmosphere.<br />
One simple act here and there can add<br />
up to a huge difference that catalyzes<br />
change for the better. We all have the<br />
power to make a difference.<br />
Hearing these stories from my fellow<br />
<strong>Mid</strong>dle <strong>Tenn</strong>esseans has been an incredibly<br />
inspiring experience. I hope their stories<br />
inspire you, too.<br />
Cheers … and stay focused,<br />
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CONTENTS<br />
7 THEME:<br />
GOOD DEEDS<br />
MAR+APR <strong>2018</strong><br />
8 ASK ALLIE<br />
Woman seeks forgiveness for<br />
comment on social media<br />
10 ON THE COVER: JUST US<br />
Pam Sheffer and team at Oasis Center<br />
are making a difference in the lives of<br />
LGBT+ teens in <strong>Mid</strong>dle <strong>Tenn</strong>essee<br />
10<br />
14 LGBT ADVOCATE<br />
Jennifer Vannoy is running for<br />
State Representative for Rutherford<br />
County district 34<br />
16 ARTS+ENTERTAINMENT<br />
Nashville Fashion Week is runway<br />
ready for <strong>2018</strong><br />
18 COMMUNITY<br />
MTSU conference gives opportunity<br />
for LGBT+ students to discuss issues<br />
directly with colleges, employers<br />
8<br />
19 SPECIAL REPORT<br />
Part 2 in our Hate Crimes series:<br />
More than half of hate crimes<br />
go unreported. Find out what<br />
resources are available.<br />
23 HEALTH+WELLNESS<br />
Goat yoga is all about the snuggles<br />
25 MUSIC<br />
3 LGBT+ musicians you should be<br />
listening to now<br />
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26 FOOD+DRINK<br />
Restaurant review: Wild Cow<br />
doesn’t moo<br />
28 TRANSFOCUS<br />
Shaun Arroyo talks about being<br />
Latino, queer and transgender<br />
30 EVENTS<br />
LGBT+ things to do<br />
14 28<br />
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life<br />
DEAR<br />
SLAG<br />
FAUX PAS:<br />
BEWARE OF YOUR OWN BIASED BEHAVIOR<br />
by Sarah Rutledge Fischer<br />
Dear Allie,<br />
I grew up in a very conservative family<br />
where any deviance from traditional gender<br />
roles was considered unnatural and evil. I’ve<br />
spent years educating myself and peeling<br />
away layers of bigotry. Every time I think<br />
I’m good, I discover more layers that I didn’t<br />
even know were there.<br />
Last month, an acquaintance posted<br />
something online about non-binary gender<br />
identity, and I made some unintentionally<br />
offensive comments. Her friends quickly<br />
piled on and let me know how wrongheaded<br />
I was. I was so embarrassed. It was<br />
awful. Since then I’ve learned more about<br />
gender identity and can see how hurtful my<br />
comments were.<br />
I sent a message to this woman<br />
apologizing, explaining the context of my<br />
ignorance, and expressing a hope that we<br />
can continue as friends. But she hasn’t<br />
responded at all. I feel like such a jerk. What<br />
can I do?<br />
Thanks,<br />
Still Learning About Gender<br />
Dear SLAG,<br />
Ooof! How embarrassing. Social media can<br />
make the blunders of our growth so much<br />
more painful and public. A poorly thought<br />
out comment may have once been a fairly<br />
private shame, but online it feels like every<br />
statement has an audience of thousands.<br />
Let’s see what we can do.<br />
First, take heart that you are on the right track. The very best<br />
function of embarrassment and shame is to be the impetus<br />
to correct bad behavior. Here, when the ignorance of your<br />
comment was brought to your attention, I’m guessing you<br />
felt defensive and angry, but your better self won out. You<br />
did some soul searching and research and came out on the<br />
other side a more educated, socially conscious ally. That’s<br />
fantastic!<br />
It is normal to want your acquaintance’s understanding<br />
and forgiveness, but make sure that you are not seeking her<br />
forgiveness in place of your own. Think about why you need<br />
her to affirm your path and accept that she may never do<br />
so. Your current stage of growth, no matter how sincere,<br />
may be the trigger for her own issues and struggles.<br />
So, let go of your wounded pride. Forgive yourself. When<br />
we hold on to shame beyond its usefulness, it can make us<br />
risk averse and actually impede our openness to growth<br />
and new ideas. Remember—your mistake was the catalyst<br />
for new growth and find a way to be grateful for it.<br />
Still got some energy left over? Dive deeper into<br />
understanding your revelation. What were your beliefs<br />
before this happened? What pieces of information<br />
helped you cross the bridge of understanding? Can you<br />
communicate that information to people who still lack<br />
that understanding in a way that they can receive it?<br />
Start conversations. Take risks. When others blunder, be<br />
patient. When you make another mistake—because you<br />
will—listen, engage, be grateful for the opportunity to<br />
grow. Keep going.<br />
That should get you started.<br />
Your friend,<br />
Allie<br />
To submit your own question, email Allie at Allie@<br />
focusmidsouth.com. <strong>Focus</strong> <strong>Mid</strong>-South reserves the<br />
right to edit letters for length and clarity.<br />
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Pam Sheffer<br />
spent 23 years<br />
in corporate<br />
health<br />
insurance sales<br />
before she took<br />
a leap into the<br />
unfamiliar non-profit<br />
arena.<br />
“It was a really lucrative<br />
career,” she said. “But as I<br />
got to that 40-something<br />
(age) window of time, I<br />
started to realize, ‘You<br />
know I’m going to be<br />
working for at least another<br />
25 years. Is this really what<br />
I want to be doing with<br />
the rest of my professional<br />
life?’”<br />
She started to examine<br />
her life and her passions,<br />
and realized she wanted<br />
to work to make a positive<br />
impact on people’s lives.<br />
“I knew that what I<br />
was doing was not what<br />
I wanted to be. It was<br />
something that I was doing,<br />
but it was not who I wanted<br />
to be.”<br />
After some soul<br />
searching, she sat down<br />
with family and friends, and<br />
asked them to tell her when<br />
the last time they saw joy in<br />
her life. Her mom gave her<br />
a simple answer: She really<br />
liked to color — anything<br />
artistic.<br />
She talked with old coworkers<br />
and asked the<br />
same question, and got a<br />
unanimous answer.<br />
“It was training, and<br />
educating, and leading,”<br />
she said. “Those were<br />
things where they saw me<br />
shine in those respects. So<br />
that was helpful.”<br />
She identified three<br />
points of passion:<br />
Addressing suicide in<br />
LGBT+ youth, addressing<br />
the plight of homelessness<br />
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for youth and addressing<br />
the access of healthcare for<br />
everybody, regardless of<br />
ability to pay.<br />
Those three primary<br />
focuses were what drove<br />
her to start interviewing<br />
non-profit organizations<br />
that did that kind of work.<br />
She knew Hal Cato, who<br />
was the president and<br />
CEO of Oasis Center at the<br />
time, through her work on<br />
the board of advisors at<br />
Community Foundation.<br />
She approached him and<br />
expressed an interest in<br />
what Oasis Center had to<br />
offer.<br />
“I tell people I basically<br />
stalked him,” she laughed,<br />
“which I think is pretty<br />
accurate. He was gracious<br />
enough to give me an<br />
opportunity to come in and<br />
talk with him.”<br />
“I told him that I<br />
wanted to start an LGBT+<br />
program at Oasis Center<br />
to specifically focus on<br />
the needs of these young<br />
people.”<br />
But in order for anything<br />
to happen, she’d need<br />
funding — and she would<br />
need to include youth as a<br />
part of the process. Then,<br />
she said, Cato negotiated<br />
the “best deal ever” for her.<br />
“I could work for free, and<br />
figure it out,” she said. “So<br />
that’s what I did.”<br />
Through her prior<br />
preparations, she had<br />
arranged it so that her bills<br />
were paid and she could<br />
take the time she needed<br />
to come up with a plan to<br />
meet her vision.<br />
“I worked 40 hours a<br />
week for a year for free<br />
to figure out what (the<br />
program) was going to look<br />
like,” she said.<br />
“I did a lot of focus<br />
groups with LGBT+ young<br />
people, with LGBT+ young<br />
adults; I did one-on-one<br />
interviews with them. I<br />
held summits — anything<br />
to bring their voices to the<br />
table.”<br />
She began her work in<br />
June of 2010, and they<br />
launched Just Us at Oasis<br />
Center in July 2011. It<br />
took a lot of hard work,<br />
determination and a sharp<br />
learning curve. Oasis Center<br />
staff were supportive of the<br />
work she was doing and<br />
kept encouraging her.<br />
“They knew I had the<br />
passion, the brain power,<br />
and the will power … it was<br />
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just a matter of moving<br />
forward one step at a time,”<br />
she said.<br />
Just Us is completely<br />
driven by the youth. The<br />
Tuesday drop-in session<br />
averages about 32 students<br />
per session and they have<br />
five adult volunteers, along<br />
with Page Regan, the<br />
program coordinator. The<br />
staff and volunteers are<br />
well-trained to address any<br />
needs the youth may have.<br />
“I think some people<br />
think that this LGBT+ group<br />
is sort of like the cast for<br />
‘Glee,’” she said. “It’s the<br />
farthest from the truth. We<br />
have young people coming<br />
from 15 different counties<br />
and 30 different high<br />
schools. Most of our young<br />
people are coming from<br />
outside Davidson County.”<br />
She said the kids are<br />
diverse in background<br />
and need a space to<br />
be themselves and find<br />
support.<br />
“When they’re coming<br />
to us, they’re coming<br />
because they have no other<br />
connections where they<br />
are,” she said. “These are<br />
kids who are not connected<br />
really to a significant social<br />
circle.”<br />
It’s taken a few years for<br />
the program to grow, but<br />
she said that they reach<br />
the youth that they need to<br />
through the internet, social<br />
media and referrals. They<br />
average two to three new<br />
young people every week,<br />
so there are always new<br />
kids coming in who may be<br />
terrified.<br />
“They want to be there,”<br />
she said, “but they may not<br />
know what to expect.”<br />
She said about 85<br />
percent of the young<br />
people they serve identify<br />
as gender nonconforming,<br />
gender fluid or non-binary.<br />
It’s important, she said, to<br />
“I knew that what I was doing was not what I wanted to<br />
be ... It was something that I was doing, but it was not<br />
who I wanted to be.”<br />
have staff who emulate who<br />
they serve, so that there’s a<br />
cultural connection.<br />
“We have a lot of gender<br />
diversity within our ranks,” she<br />
said. “About 50 percent of<br />
the staff are trans-identified<br />
individuals, which I love.”<br />
Parents, she said, also<br />
have been supportive of the<br />
program and of the youth<br />
who attend, and about 50<br />
percent of them have done<br />
family counseling.<br />
“We try to always<br />
incorporate the families,<br />
because we know that the<br />
young people need to leave<br />
here and go to a safe and<br />
supporting space,” she said.<br />
“We do have some<br />
parents who are resistant,<br />
but they know their child<br />
is very fragile and is<br />
struggling, and they’re<br />
socially isolated. So they’re<br />
willing to let them come.”<br />
It’s a safe and affirming<br />
space for the youth to<br />
have real, face-to-face<br />
connections with others<br />
who they identify with<br />
beyond social media.<br />
“(Social media) is why<br />
they struggle so much with<br />
making social connections,”<br />
she said. “They have been<br />
making friends virtually, and<br />
that’s so different. We push<br />
them on group sharing and<br />
one-on-one conversations.”<br />
Just Us has been a labor of<br />
love for Sheffer and her staff,<br />
but now she is doing work<br />
behind the scenes to ensure<br />
that programs like this just<br />
simply don’t need to exist.<br />
She’s working with<br />
various organizations, such<br />
as <strong>Tenn</strong>essee Department<br />
of Education, the Juvenile<br />
Justice System and the<br />
child welfare system to<br />
try and create open and<br />
affirming levels of care<br />
within those systems.<br />
She’s working for a micro<br />
statewide accreditation for<br />
school counselors to be<br />
open and affirming.<br />
“I’m hoping that if we<br />
can get at least one open<br />
and affirming counselor in<br />
every single school in the<br />
state of <strong>Tenn</strong>essee — just<br />
one — then the climate in<br />
the schools will change<br />
for every young person<br />
exponentially,” she said.<br />
And, she hopes for a<br />
future where youth don’t<br />
have to seek safe spaces<br />
like Just Us.<br />
“I tell my staff all the<br />
time that we are working<br />
so hard,” she said, “so that<br />
we can basically close this<br />
shop down.”<br />
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bring about change.<br />
It takes action, and she’s<br />
doing that by running for<br />
office.<br />
Vannoy, who is a<br />
realtor for EXIT Realty,<br />
began her passion for<br />
volunteerism years ago.<br />
Born in Milwaukee, she has<br />
lived in <strong>Mid</strong>dle <strong>Tenn</strong>essee<br />
most of her life. She began<br />
volunteering with <strong>Tenn</strong>essee<br />
Equality Project in 2006,<br />
and became a volunteer<br />
training coordinator for the<br />
organization.<br />
In late January, she<br />
announced her bid for State<br />
Representative for District<br />
34. She’s running against<br />
Republican incumbent Tim<br />
Rudd.<br />
“It’s been a yearlong<br />
process,” she said, adding<br />
that it started with the 2016<br />
election.<br />
She stayed up all night<br />
on election night, with tears<br />
streaming down her face.<br />
“Like so many of us did,<br />
I fell into that state of fear<br />
and ‘What’s next?’” she said.<br />
She took action. She<br />
searched for ways to<br />
get involved and found<br />
the Women’s <strong>Mar</strong>ch on<br />
Washington.<br />
When she realized that<br />
she wouldn’t be able<br />
to attend the event in<br />
Washington, D.C., she<br />
helped organize the<br />
Women’s <strong>Mar</strong>ch in Nashville.<br />
“I showed up to that first<br />
meeting and I said — excuse<br />
my language — ‘I’m really<br />
pissed off,’” she said. “Not<br />
just at where we are, but<br />
my lack of involvement in<br />
our community and in our<br />
political power structure.”<br />
She volunteered to be<br />
the media coordinator<br />
for the Women’s <strong>Mar</strong>ch<br />
in Nashville and within a<br />
week was one of the lead<br />
coordinators. The event<br />
was a success.<br />
“It was wonderful,” she<br />
said. “That day was probably<br />
one of the best days of my<br />
life. Then, it was over.”<br />
She took a day to rest<br />
and began thinking about<br />
what was next, which was<br />
“pretty much moving into<br />
Legislative Plaza.”<br />
She attended meetings<br />
and started watching the<br />
bills go through.<br />
“I realized how many of<br />
the bills that were being<br />
introduced were at their<br />
core, quite hateful,” she<br />
said. “I was just appalled<br />
at the time, the resources,<br />
the money that was being<br />
spent on discriminatory or<br />
hateful policy.”<br />
As each of these bills<br />
were introduced and began<br />
moving through, she started<br />
reading, analyzing and<br />
asking questions.<br />
“What I really found,”<br />
she said, “was that without<br />
equal representation in the<br />
legislature, pretty nasty<br />
things happen to a lot of<br />
really good people.”<br />
There are a lot of people<br />
in our government fighting<br />
for us, too, she said.<br />
“Those of us with more<br />
progressive views — I think<br />
we are the ones who really<br />
have family values at our<br />
core,” she said. But we<br />
can’t be drowned out by<br />
the fearful legislation, or<br />
let ourselves be lulled into<br />
thinking we shouldn’t stand<br />
up and be heard.<br />
“We had reason to believe<br />
we were on a state of<br />
progression, because we<br />
were in a lot of ways (during<br />
the Obama years),” she said,<br />
but added that for every<br />
step forward, we also have<br />
people who get fearful.<br />
“They truly believe<br />
something will be taken<br />
away from them,” she said,<br />
“and that’s what we have<br />
to work really hard to turn<br />
around. We don’t want to<br />
take anything away from<br />
you.”<br />
FIND OUT MORE<br />
To find out more<br />
about Jennifer<br />
Vannoy, visit<br />
facebook.com/<br />
Vannoy4TNHouse<br />
She credits her<br />
experience volunteering<br />
with TEP with opening her<br />
eyes quite a bit.<br />
“The more I got involved<br />
with TEP, it was like<br />
these little pieces that<br />
open your eyes and your<br />
mind,” she said. “You start<br />
seeing the difficulties and<br />
the problems, and once<br />
you’re coming from that<br />
perspective, you have a<br />
choice to make. You’re at a<br />
fork in the road.”<br />
She admits that she<br />
stayed at that fork in the<br />
road for quite a long time,<br />
but ultimately chose action.<br />
“You can either go back into<br />
your little world, and you<br />
can ignore and live in your<br />
happy little bubble — or you<br />
can get out there and do<br />
something about it.”<br />
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LGBT+ CONFERENCE PROVIDES STUDENTS,<br />
EMPLOYERS CHANCE TO BE HEARD<br />
by Brian Goins<br />
photo courtesy of MTSU<br />
On <strong>Apr</strong>il 5 through 7,<br />
<strong>Mid</strong>dle <strong>Tenn</strong>essee State<br />
University will provide an<br />
opportunity for all to have<br />
their voice heard during<br />
their annual LGBT+ College<br />
Conference.<br />
The conference, said<br />
Dr. William Langston, a<br />
psychology professor at<br />
MTSU, was created by MT<br />
Lambda Association to<br />
examine issues surrounding<br />
retention and graduation<br />
rates for LGBT+ youth. The<br />
legislature’s<br />
funding formula<br />
for higher<br />
education in the<br />
state is to reward<br />
retention and<br />
graduation rates,<br />
Langston he said.<br />
MT Lambda Association,<br />
the oldest LGBT+ higher<br />
education student<br />
organization in the state of<br />
<strong>Tenn</strong>essee, has a mission to<br />
provide a safe and secure<br />
environment for everyone<br />
in the LGBT+ community at<br />
MTSU. Langston, who has<br />
been advisor of MT Lambda<br />
off and on since 2002,<br />
said they had already been<br />
noticing that LGBT+ students<br />
faced stressors that many<br />
other students don’t face.<br />
“As you pile up a little bit<br />
here and a little bit there, it<br />
impacts the retention and<br />
graduation rates,” he said.<br />
Early on, he said,<br />
someone made the point to<br />
him that ‘What’s the point<br />
in making (a student’s)<br />
university or college<br />
experience better if they go<br />
into the real world and the<br />
experience is not so good?’<br />
The conference addresses<br />
how to better students’<br />
campus experience as well<br />
as how to improve contact<br />
and issues between students<br />
and real-world employers —<br />
the latter of which they’ve<br />
expanded upon this year.<br />
“Recruiters — when they<br />
come to campus and want<br />
to hire students — report all<br />
kinds of difficulties in working<br />
with us to getting the<br />
students that they want and<br />
for the campus to make them<br />
welcome in various ways,” he<br />
said. “Students report that<br />
nobody ever wants them.”<br />
The goal, he said, is to have<br />
the different groups talk<br />
directly to each other about<br />
what the challenges are<br />
and to try to develop some<br />
strategies to remove some of<br />
those obstacles.<br />
“If universities are saying<br />
‘We think we’re doing<br />
as much as we can,’ and<br />
employers are saying ‘We<br />
don’t think you’re doing<br />
anything,’ and students<br />
are saying ‘Neither one of<br />
you are getting it right’ …<br />
everybody get together<br />
so we can talk about it and<br />
realign,” he said.<br />
Speaker<br />
Georiann<br />
Davis<br />
Dollar General will lead<br />
the corporate side of the<br />
discussion, but there will be<br />
several other employers in<br />
the room. The corporate<br />
outreach person from MTSU<br />
will lead the academic side,<br />
and Langston said he hoped<br />
to get leaders from other<br />
campus staffs to participate<br />
as well.<br />
“Student leaders will<br />
talk from the students’<br />
perspectives about why<br />
outreach isn’t reaching them.<br />
And what they see as the<br />
problem,” he said.<br />
There’s plenty more up for<br />
conversation at the three-day<br />
conference.<br />
This year’s program<br />
speakers will explore how key<br />
facets of identity – gender,<br />
race, culture, ethnicity, age,<br />
social class, religious beliefs,<br />
sexual orientation, gender<br />
identity or expression – play<br />
a significant role in how we<br />
experience the world.<br />
Saturday’s keynote speaker<br />
is Georgiann Davis, assistant<br />
professor of Sociology at<br />
University of Nevada — Las<br />
Vegas. She will speak on the<br />
impact of being intersex on a<br />
variety of factors.<br />
GO TO IT<br />
What: MTSU and MT Lambda<br />
present LGBT+ Conference<br />
When: <strong>Apr</strong>il 5 through 7<br />
Where: in James Union building,<br />
MTSU campus<br />
For ticket information, visit<br />
www.mtsu.edu/mtlambda.<br />
“We’ve asked for an<br />
academic perspective on<br />
what intersex is and what<br />
ways it may affect people,”<br />
Langston said, adding<br />
that there will be personal<br />
perspectives as to what<br />
campuses can do to make<br />
improvements for students.<br />
“The goal is to talk about all<br />
the identities under LGBT+,”<br />
he said.<br />
Other opportunities will be<br />
a tour of Nissan facilities for<br />
students, including a pitch to<br />
their internship program at<br />
their national headquarters.<br />
Entertainment will be a<br />
part of the conference, too,<br />
including an open mic night<br />
for students to perform<br />
whatever they want —<br />
from stand-up comedy<br />
to slam poetry to musical<br />
performances.<br />
“We’re trying to give them<br />
the full experience in the time<br />
that they’re here,” he said.<br />
The most important thing,<br />
though, is to bring your<br />
voice and experience to help<br />
influence the conversation.<br />
“If you have something<br />
to contribute to these<br />
conversations, we’d love<br />
for you to participate,” he<br />
said, adding that it is free<br />
for students to attend and<br />
only costs other participants<br />
for admission to the awards<br />
dinner.<br />
“If we don’t have your<br />
voice, we can’t have the input<br />
that you could provide.”<br />
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VICTIM<br />
special report<br />
BIAS<br />
TARGETED<br />
RACE<br />
PREJUDICE<br />
This is the second installment of a three-part series by <strong>Focus</strong>® <strong>Mid</strong>dle <strong>Tenn</strong>essee magazine. We have developed this<br />
series in the hope that law enforcement and citizens will have a better understanding of the intricacies of our nation’s<br />
hate crime law, a law that was written after the horrific deaths of a black man, James Byrd, and a young gay man,<br />
Matthew Shepard. These two men were lost to the bias and lack of understanding of a few disturbed people. Because<br />
of the Federal hate crimes law, James and Matthew have received some measure of justice.<br />
HALF OF HATE CRIMES<br />
GO UNREPORTED<br />
by Sarah Rutledge Fischer<br />
It is conventional wisdom that<br />
what doesn’t get measured doesn’t<br />
get managed. In the world of law<br />
enforcement, it would be more<br />
accurate to say that what doesn’t<br />
get reported cannot be measured or<br />
managed, and in the realm of hate<br />
crime enforcement, lack of reporting is<br />
a real problem.<br />
According to the U.S.<br />
Department of Justice’s<br />
2017 Special Report on<br />
Hate Crime Victimization,<br />
approximately 54% of all hate<br />
crime victimizations were not<br />
reported to the police from<br />
2011-15. Of the hate crimes<br />
that were not reported, 41%<br />
had been handled privately<br />
or through a non-law<br />
enforcement official, such<br />
as an apartment manager or<br />
school official. Another 23%<br />
were not reported because<br />
the victims believed that<br />
the police would not want<br />
to be bothered, would be<br />
ineffective, or would cause<br />
trouble for the victim.<br />
Another 19% failed to report<br />
because they did not believe<br />
that the crime was important<br />
enough to report to police.<br />
The Matthew Shepard<br />
Foundation has been so<br />
concerned about the issue<br />
that last summer it launched<br />
a survey asking residents<br />
of Denver, Colorado about<br />
their experiences as victims<br />
of hate crimes and why they<br />
did or did not report the<br />
incident to the police. Early results<br />
lined up with the data found by the<br />
Department of Justice. Many people<br />
expressed confusion about whether or<br />
not an incident was a hate crime. Many<br />
were skeptical that law enforcement<br />
would aggressively investigate. Many<br />
were afraid of retaliation. Even among<br />
those who did report, results were<br />
mixed. One disabled gay man who<br />
had been attacked found the officers<br />
compassionate and effective. But<br />
others found the responding officers<br />
unsympathetic or unresponsive.<br />
There is no consensus on the<br />
solution to the problem. Law<br />
enforcement agencies around the<br />
country are making strides to educate<br />
offices and establish trust<br />
with vulnerable communities.<br />
The Matthew Shepard<br />
Foundation continues<br />
to work alongside law<br />
enforcement to improve<br />
officer education and<br />
increase the support of<br />
vulnerable communities.<br />
“In our work we try to<br />
include everyone who feels<br />
marginalized,” Judy and<br />
Dennis Shepard have said.<br />
“We want them to know they<br />
are not alone and not without<br />
help. They need to know that<br />
they have a voice. We need<br />
to connect the dots. We need<br />
to provide victims with more<br />
support. We need to provide<br />
law enforcement with the<br />
tools to properly investigate,<br />
prosecute, and report these<br />
crimes.”<br />
The Matthew Shepard<br />
Foundation is still gathering<br />
data on Denver hate crimes<br />
that happened in 2017. If you<br />
or someone you know has<br />
something to contribute,<br />
you can find the survey at<br />
DenverHateCrimeSurvey.com<br />
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VIOLENCE<br />
ETHNICITY<br />
SEXUAL ORIENTATION<br />
HARASSMENT<br />
TENNESSE BUREAU<br />
OF INVESTIGATIONS<br />
by Sarah Rutledge Fischer<br />
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Behind all of the work local law<br />
enforcement does to address and prevent<br />
hate crimes is the support, training, and data<br />
gathering work of the <strong>Tenn</strong>essee Bureau of<br />
Investigations (TBI).<br />
The TBI was established in the early 1950s<br />
after the botched investigation of a horrific<br />
Greene County murder. The crime, in<br />
which a man was shot through his bedroom<br />
window while in the company of his wife<br />
and children, shocked the region, but due to<br />
incompetent police work the murderer was<br />
never found. At the urging of community<br />
leaders, the governor established an unbiased<br />
state agency to assist local law enforcement<br />
in the investigation of serious crimes. That<br />
agency became what we now know as the<br />
TBI.<br />
These days, the TBI continues their<br />
original mission by assisting local <strong>Tenn</strong>essee<br />
law enforcement agencies with training,<br />
investigation, forensic science, and general<br />
support. In addition, as required under <strong>Tenn</strong>.<br />
Code 38-10-101 to 105, the TBI manages<br />
the collection of data relating to crime,<br />
criminals, and criminal activity across the<br />
state. The program used by the TBI for this<br />
purpose is called the <strong>Tenn</strong>essee Incident<br />
Based Reporting System (TIBRS). Each local<br />
law enforcement agency in <strong>Tenn</strong>essee has<br />
a Reporting Agency Coordinator, trained<br />
by the TBI on using TIBRS to record all<br />
manner of crime data. Since 2014, the TBI<br />
has also offered a TIBRS training class for<br />
law enforcement officers, deputies, and<br />
supervisors.<br />
One of the categories of data gathered<br />
by the TBI through TIBRS is data on the<br />
incidence of hate or bias motivated crimes.<br />
Each year the collected data is compiled into<br />
a Hate Crime Annual Report that provides<br />
agencies across the state with a big picture<br />
look at bias motivated crimes that occurred<br />
and were reported in <strong>Tenn</strong>essee.<br />
“We are committed to using our data in<br />
as many ways as possible,” says Niland. “Our<br />
goal is to be the most transparent state in the<br />
nation.”<br />
The data gathered through TIBRS is<br />
currently available to the public through the<br />
bureau’s <strong>Tenn</strong>essee Crime Online Statistics<br />
Website (crimeinsight.tbi.tn.gov), but without<br />
extensive training in statistical analysis and<br />
TIBRS, it is a little difficult for a layperson<br />
to navigate. To bridge that divide, the TBI<br />
is releasing a Theme Oriented Public Site<br />
(TOPS) specifically designed for public and<br />
media use. Initially, TOPS will cover only the<br />
categories of Crimes Against Persons, DUI/<br />
Drugs, and Property Crimes, but in 2019<br />
it will add Hate Crimes, Law Enforcement<br />
Officers Killed or Assaulted, and Use of<br />
Force.<br />
When it comes to combatting hate crime,<br />
the TBI knows that access to current data is<br />
important.<br />
“Without the data, we cannot measure<br />
the scope of the problem,” says TBI<br />
Communications Officer Susan Niland. “In<br />
ANTI-SEXUAL BIAS HATE CRIMES<br />
AS REPORTED TO TBI IN 2016<br />
<strong>Mid</strong>dle<br />
<strong>Tenn</strong>essee<br />
East<br />
<strong>Tenn</strong>essee<br />
West<br />
<strong>Tenn</strong>essee<br />
order to prevent crimes and criminal behavior,<br />
you must first understand it. Hate crime is<br />
prevalent in all of the United States. We know<br />
that because of the data we are obtaining and<br />
analyzing.”<br />
Crimes against person<br />
Crimes against property<br />
Source: <strong>Tenn</strong>essee Bureau of Investigation<br />
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FEDERAL LAW<br />
CRIME SCENE GRAFFITI<br />
JUSTICE<br />
PERCEPTION<br />
QUICK FACTS:<br />
HATE CRIME IN TENNESSEE<br />
by Sarah Rutledge Fischer<br />
31 18<br />
27.3%<br />
16.7%<br />
Overall, the number<br />
of bias motivated<br />
victims decreased<br />
from 2015-2016<br />
Religious Bias<br />
victim offenses<br />
decreased from 31<br />
victims in 2015 to<br />
18 victims in 2016<br />
Simple Assault was<br />
the most frequently<br />
reported bias motivated<br />
offense in 2016 with<br />
63 victims or 33.5% of<br />
hate crime victims<br />
In 2016, the number of<br />
Damage/Destruction/<br />
Vandalism hate crime<br />
offenses decreased<br />
27.3% from the<br />
previous year<br />
Anti-Black or<br />
African American<br />
Bias accounted<br />
for 16.7% of all<br />
racial Biases in<br />
2016<br />
Source: TBI’s 2016 TN Hate Crime Report<br />
53.7%<br />
46.3%<br />
JUVENILES<br />
36 victims<br />
52 offenders<br />
28.9%<br />
Males (53.7%)<br />
were victimized at<br />
a higher rate than<br />
females (46.3%)<br />
36 victims and 52<br />
offenders in 2016<br />
were juveniles<br />
(under age 18)<br />
28.9% of hate<br />
crime offenses<br />
were committed<br />
by individuals<br />
from the Under<br />
18 age group<br />
75.4% of hate<br />
crime offenders<br />
were male, 21.7%<br />
were female, with<br />
the remaining<br />
offenders<br />
reported with an<br />
unknown gender<br />
Noon through<br />
2:59 p.m.<br />
was the most<br />
commonly<br />
reported time<br />
period for bias-motivated<br />
crimes with 43 incidents<br />
bias motivated<br />
33 incidents were<br />
Cleared by Arrest<br />
in 2016<br />
40.7%<br />
The majority<br />
of hate crimes<br />
occurred at<br />
a location of<br />
Residence/Home<br />
The most often<br />
documented<br />
bias was Racial<br />
reported 40.7%<br />
in 2016<br />
ABOUT THE JOURNALIST:<br />
SARAH RUTLEDGE FISCHER<br />
Sarah Rutledge Fischer is licensed as an attorney in both<br />
California and Alabama but is not currently engaged in<br />
the practice of law. If you are in need of legal advice,<br />
please seek individual counsel with an attorney licensed<br />
in your state.<br />
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OUTNUMBERED<br />
ETHNICITY<br />
ENHANCED SENTENCING<br />
PERCEPTION<br />
CREATING SAFE PLACES<br />
by Sarah Rutledge Fischer<br />
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Around the county, law<br />
enforcement officers have a challenge<br />
when it comes to addressing hate<br />
crime. Over half of LGBT hate crime<br />
victims do not come forward to<br />
report the crimes to the police.<br />
You can’t prevent or address what<br />
you don’t know is happening, so<br />
encouraging people to report has<br />
been one of the biggest challenges in<br />
this arena.<br />
In Seattle, Washington in 2015,<br />
Officer Jim Ritter was grappling with<br />
this very problem. As a member of<br />
Seattle’s gay community, he heard<br />
talk of hate crime incidents against<br />
the LGBT community, but few of these<br />
crimes were actually being reported.<br />
Most of the crimes he heard of were<br />
being committed in commercial areas,<br />
so he had an idea . . . an idea that<br />
turned into a program that has been<br />
implemented across the country.<br />
Ritter’s program is called Safe<br />
Place, and it is fairly simple.<br />
Participating businesses commit to<br />
provide a safe place where victims of<br />
hate crimes can shelter while waiting<br />
RESOURCES<br />
Coming MAY 1:<br />
for police. Each location displays<br />
a bright window sticker that reads<br />
“SAFE PLACE” in large block letters<br />
atop a rainbow striped police shield.<br />
The businesses train their employees<br />
to call the police immediately if they<br />
witness a hate crime or if a hate crime<br />
victim comes inside and to provide<br />
that person with a safe place to<br />
shelter until police arrive.<br />
The program has been successful<br />
in encouraging the report of hate<br />
crimes to area police. It has also set<br />
the table for open discussion about<br />
hate crime in the LGBT community<br />
and throughout the city. Even more<br />
importantly, it has begun to build<br />
trust between the police and the<br />
communities most vulnerable to hate<br />
crimes.<br />
What Ritter was dealing with in<br />
Seattle is a national struggle, and<br />
the Safe Place program’s success<br />
has caught the eye of other police<br />
departments around the country.<br />
Safe Place programs have been<br />
established in Denver, Tuscon, Los<br />
Angeles, Miami, and St. Louis among<br />
For more information on the Hate Crimes Prevention Act,<br />
check out the resources available from the Human Rights<br />
Campaign at hrc.org/resources/topic/hate-crimes<br />
For information on what the state of <strong>Tenn</strong>essee is doing<br />
under its current hate crime laws, check out the <strong>Tenn</strong>essee<br />
Bureau of Investigation’s 2016 <strong>Tenn</strong>essee Hate Crime annual<br />
report at tn.gov/tbi/article/recent-publications<br />
others. The most notable adoption<br />
of the program was in the city of<br />
Orlando. The City of Orlando and<br />
the Orlando Police Department<br />
launched a Safe Place initiative a little<br />
over a year ago, on the six-month<br />
anniversary of the Pulse Night Club<br />
massacre.<br />
What do you say, Nashville? Should<br />
we be next?<br />
For more information on current<br />
nationwide efforts to strengthen hate<br />
crime legislation and reporting at all<br />
levels, check out the Matthew Shepard<br />
Foundation at matthewshepard.org/<br />
Part 3 of 3: In Our City<br />
Nashville already has an LGBT support network. We’ll help<br />
readers understand how to connect. In our next (and final)<br />
installment of Hate Crimes Special Pages, we’ll talk to<br />
schools, city police and community organizations to meet<br />
the boots on the ground in the fight against hate crimes.<br />
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health+wellness<br />
A LITTLE BIT OF<br />
GOAT<br />
YOGA<br />
WILL GET YOU THROUGH<br />
Program allows you to cuddle,<br />
snuggle and pet the animals<br />
by Selena J. Haynes | photo by H. N. James<br />
What does Minnie<br />
Pearl, Dolly<br />
Parton, Johnny<br />
Cash, June Carter Cash,<br />
Willie Nelson, Tanya Tucker,<br />
and Harvey Milk have in<br />
common? They’re all goats!<br />
No kidding here!<br />
They’re all part of<br />
Shenanigoats where they<br />
rent out their older babies<br />
for landscaping while<br />
the younger ones are<br />
busy making people less<br />
stressed through laughter<br />
and play at goat yoga.<br />
Since June 2017,<br />
Shenanigoats, LGBT+owned<br />
and operated by<br />
partners Jamie Codispoti<br />
and Max Knudsen, has been<br />
growing quickly. While this<br />
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fitness trend isn’t new across<br />
the nation, it is fairly new<br />
to <strong>Mid</strong>dle <strong>Tenn</strong>essee. Yoga<br />
offers many health and<br />
wellness benefits on its own,<br />
but put goats in the mix, and<br />
you’re on a whole new level.<br />
“The laughter we hear in<br />
each class is what drives us,”<br />
Jamie said. “The Nashville<br />
community has been so<br />
welcoming and supportive.<br />
We love hearing ‘this is the<br />
best day ever’ and seeing<br />
the goats bring so much joy<br />
to so many people.”<br />
quickly that they needed to<br />
supplement their income.<br />
Max was a firm believer in<br />
‘goatscaping’ as a business.<br />
While Jamie was skeptical,<br />
she soon discovered there<br />
was definitely a demand not<br />
only for goat-landscaping,<br />
but goat yoga too.<br />
Jamie and Max started<br />
out with just two goats,<br />
Nettie and Amos, for<br />
the purpose of keeping<br />
brush clear on their farm.<br />
They continued adding<br />
to their family eventually<br />
acquiring goats that had<br />
been socialized alongside<br />
pre-schoolers. These goats<br />
were more than just help on<br />
the farm. They wanted love<br />
and affection.<br />
When a friend sent them a<br />
link to a goat yoga business<br />
in Oregon and asked if<br />
they could do this, they<br />
laughingly agreed. Jamie<br />
and Max were able to put<br />
together their first class last<br />
June. Almost a year later,<br />
Shenanigoats has become<br />
a popular attraction around<br />
for locals and visitors.<br />
Who knew goats were so<br />
full of shenanigans?!?<br />
A few of us from <strong>Focus</strong><br />
recently had the pleasure<br />
of meeting a few of<br />
these sweet babies and<br />
participating in the yoga<br />
class. Sure, there were<br />
warrior, triangle, and tree<br />
poses — but have you tried<br />
the goat-on-the-back pose?<br />
There is an abundance<br />
of cuteness walking into<br />
the yoga studio as you<br />
see a few of the Pygmy<br />
or Nigerian Dwarf goats<br />
running around in their<br />
winter sweaters. It<br />
immediately puts a smile on<br />
your face and you begin to<br />
feel relaxed right then and<br />
there.<br />
If you’re looking for<br />
tranquility, goat yoga may<br />
not be for you because<br />
the goats are busy with<br />
their shenanigans, living<br />
up to the business name.<br />
They are gentle and loving<br />
animals, though, and<br />
throughout the session you<br />
are encouraged to pet the<br />
goats as well as doing the<br />
yoga. It’s a good time to be<br />
had all the way around from<br />
beginner to experienced<br />
yogi.<br />
Initially, goat yoga wasn’t<br />
what Jamie and Max had<br />
in mind. As owners of a<br />
small farm, they realized<br />
GOAT YOGA<br />
Classes are held weekly.<br />
They even have classes<br />
for your kids with<br />
their kids! Visit their<br />
website: shenanigoats.<br />
com or facebook @<br />
shenanigoatsyoga for up to<br />
date information.<br />
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music<br />
MUSIC TO TO OUR OUR EARS:<br />
3 LGBT MUSICIANS TO HEAR NOW<br />
by Brian Goins<br />
Here’s our rundown of three of our favorite<br />
local LGBT musicians on the musical<br />
landscape and what to expect:<br />
breakout:<br />
“Not<br />
Leavin’”<br />
breaks with the<br />
folk sound a bit with a more<br />
rock-inspired rhythm.<br />
FOLLOW KRISTEN FORD<br />
kristenfordmusic.com<br />
DAPHNE WILLIS,<br />
“FREAKS LIKE ME”<br />
In a nine-track set that<br />
is one part pop and three<br />
parts unapologetic rock,<br />
Daphne Willis delivers a<br />
show-stopping work that<br />
goes above and beyond<br />
anything on radio today.<br />
WHAT TO KNOW<br />
Current single:<br />
“Somebody’s Someone,”<br />
a ballad anthem about<br />
belonging.<br />
Our pick: “Out of the<br />
Black,” a funky pop<br />
groove reminiscent of Amy<br />
Winehouse.<br />
Destined to be the<br />
breakout: “Unafraid” is a<br />
great community anthem<br />
about pulling together to<br />
fight for our rights.<br />
FOLLOW DAPHNE WILLIS<br />
daphnewillis.com<br />
PERFORMANCES<br />
For upcoming<br />
performances: facebook.<br />
com/daphnewillismusic<br />
KRISTEN FORD,<br />
“TRAVEL SONGS”<br />
Acoustic and folk<br />
music has never sounded<br />
better. The easy, smooth<br />
vocals and instrumental<br />
plays softly against a<br />
quiet, distant angst.<br />
Appropriately, the music<br />
is the perfect soundtrack<br />
for a road trip, juxtaposed<br />
against picturesque<br />
landscapes and new<br />
adventures. It’s an ethereal<br />
experience, not unlike<br />
taking a vacation without<br />
leaving your sofa.<br />
WHAT TO KNOW<br />
Current single: “Berlin,”<br />
featuring guest vocalist<br />
Jenna McClelland, is<br />
an ethereal acoustic<br />
masterpiece that pairs<br />
best with lazy summer<br />
afternoons.<br />
Our pick:<br />
“Extraordinary,” an<br />
acoustic gem laced with<br />
strings and guitar and a<br />
vocal that is dreamlike.<br />
Destined to be the<br />
PERFORMANCES<br />
7 p.m. <strong>Mar</strong>ch 24 at The<br />
Bowery Vault, 2905<br />
Gallatin Pike, Nashville.<br />
8 p.m. <strong>Apr</strong>il 9 at The East<br />
Room, 2412 Gallatin Ave.,<br />
Nashville.<br />
CHELEY<br />
TACKETT,<br />
“BUCKEYE”<br />
Tackett’s driving, country<br />
and Americana infused<br />
album stands out in the<br />
crowd with its earnest, lifeinfused<br />
songwriting.<br />
WHAT TO KNOW<br />
Current single: “Bitter<br />
Girl” opens the album with<br />
a traditional country sound.<br />
Our pick: “$2 Bill,” an<br />
emotional track based on a<br />
family story.<br />
Destined to be<br />
the breakout:<br />
“The Healer,”<br />
an emotional<br />
song about the<br />
role you can<br />
choose to play<br />
in relationships.<br />
The song, cowritten<br />
by Tackett<br />
and Randall Clay,<br />
was a semi-finalist in the<br />
Americana category of<br />
International Songwriting<br />
Competition.<br />
FOLLOW CHELEY TACKETT<br />
cheleytackett.com<br />
PERFORMANCES<br />
6 p.m. <strong>Mar</strong>ch 17 at Douglas<br />
Corner Cafe, 2106 Eighth<br />
Ave. S., Nashville.<br />
6 p.m. <strong>Apr</strong>il 20 at Douglas<br />
Corner Cafe, 2106 Eighth<br />
Ave. S., Nashville.<br />
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food+drink<br />
THE WILD<br />
COW<br />
DOESN’T<br />
MOO<br />
by Leah Wright | photos courtesy of Wild Cow<br />
Turn down Eastland<br />
Avenue from Gallatin Road<br />
and about three-quarters of<br />
a mile down the street, you’ll<br />
see it — the snarky sign that<br />
makes Rosepepper Cantina<br />
a social media sensation.<br />
This weekend, the quip is<br />
“Eat tacos, not Tide Pods”.<br />
Now that you’ve enjoyed a<br />
chuckle, turn around and<br />
you’ll see the sign for one of<br />
Nashville’s most welcoming<br />
vegan/vegetarian hot<br />
spots, The Wild Cow ([f]<br />
TheWildCow, thewildcow.<br />
com).<br />
In a time when more<br />
people are turning away<br />
from meats and toward a<br />
plant-based diet, The Wild<br />
Cow is a welcome sight for<br />
those of us who sometimes<br />
find it difficult to determine<br />
if the food on the menu is<br />
actually vegan or can be<br />
made vegan. We put in<br />
requests for no butter, no<br />
cheese, no milk, no meat,<br />
and have to trust that our<br />
request is carried out.<br />
At The Wild Cow, those<br />
TRY IT<br />
What: The Wild Cow<br />
Restaurant<br />
Where: 1896 Eastland<br />
Ave., Nashville<br />
Online:<br />
thewildcow.com<br />
Social: TheWildCow<br />
concerns are put aside,<br />
because everything on their<br />
menu is vegan unless you<br />
request dairy cheese, which<br />
simply makes it vegetarian.<br />
You will not find any<br />
meat inside The Wild<br />
Cow, but you will find a<br />
welcoming atmosphere and<br />
great food in a restaurant<br />
that donates a portion of<br />
their monthly profits to<br />
one of several charities.<br />
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A mecca for hipsters,<br />
crunchies, soccer moms,<br />
and business people<br />
alike, The Wild Cow is a<br />
small venue, with about<br />
a dozen tables and they<br />
welcome everyone with<br />
open arms. I suggest<br />
getting there early<br />
or calling ahead for<br />
carryout.<br />
They feature a<br />
different special<br />
each day and have<br />
a permanent menu<br />
featuring items such<br />
as sandwiches, salads,<br />
tacos, entrée bowls,<br />
and smoothies. You<br />
will not find mass<br />
marketed sodas in their<br />
cooler, but you will find<br />
vegan artisan sodas,<br />
kombucha, wines, and<br />
other vegan-friendly<br />
drinks. You’ll also find<br />
vegan desserts made<br />
in-house by Vegan Vee<br />
Bakery. Order a starter<br />
such as the Nachos,<br />
which feature non-<br />
GMO blue corn tortilla<br />
chips that are loaded<br />
high with black & pinto<br />
beans, vegan queso,<br />
salsa verde, tomatoes,<br />
red onions, rice, and<br />
vegan sour cream. The<br />
generous portion can<br />
easily become a meal<br />
for two people.<br />
I opted for the<br />
daily special, the<br />
Curry Chickpea Salad<br />
Sandwich with pickles<br />
and red leaf lettuce<br />
on a toasted whole<br />
wheat bread, paired<br />
with Lemon-Pepper<br />
Roasted Fingerling<br />
potatoes. The Chickpea<br />
Salad was reminiscent<br />
of a hummus, but with<br />
chunks of chickpeas.<br />
The snap of the curry<br />
was perfectly paired<br />
with the sourness of the<br />
pickle and the whole<br />
wheat bread pulled<br />
the flavors together<br />
perfectly. The fingerling<br />
potatoes were tender,<br />
with a wonderfully salty<br />
and tart seasoning on<br />
the outside. Others in<br />
our party had the Sweet<br />
Potato and Black Bean<br />
Tacos with Garlicky Kale<br />
and the Portabella Tacos<br />
with Pineapple Cole<br />
Slaw, all of which were<br />
wonderfully prepared<br />
and quickly devoured.<br />
The Wild Cow strives to<br />
be inventive with their<br />
food and flavor pairings,<br />
and they excel at the<br />
task.<br />
It’s refreshing to<br />
see more restaurants<br />
take an interest in<br />
vegan diets. The Wild<br />
Cow has created a<br />
welcoming restaurant<br />
with a fabulous menu<br />
that will delight vegans/<br />
vegetarians, as well as<br />
omnivores with an open<br />
mind.<br />
For us vegans, it is a<br />
great day when we can<br />
sit down to eat and find<br />
something other than a<br />
salad on the menu that<br />
is safe for us to eat.<br />
Keep up the great<br />
work, The Wild Cow<br />
and feel free to open<br />
a second location<br />
closer to me, maybe<br />
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transfocus<br />
‘KNOW THAT THERE IS SOMEONE OUT<br />
THERE WHO WILL HELP YOU THROUGH IT’<br />
by Brian Goins x photo by H.N. James<br />
When Shaun Arroyo thinks<br />
about his favorite Pride<br />
celebrations, two come to<br />
mind: His first, which he<br />
celebrated in New York City;<br />
and in 2015 in Nashville,<br />
when the Supreme Court<br />
declared marriage equality<br />
the law of the land.<br />
“I went to New York<br />
City Pride at 15 years<br />
old,” Arroyo said. “It was<br />
incredible. I met people<br />
who were at Stonewall. I<br />
learned a lot.”<br />
Up until 2015, his NYC<br />
Pride experiences were<br />
his favorite. But now, June<br />
2015’s Nashville Pride ranks<br />
higher. “<strong>Mar</strong>riage equality …<br />
I never thought I’d see that,”<br />
he said. “To see that, I was<br />
in my glory.”<br />
Arroyo, who is Puerto<br />
Rican and originally from<br />
New York, moved around a<br />
lot for his job until he finally<br />
settled in the Nashville<br />
area in the 1990s. His sister<br />
moved to <strong>Tenn</strong>essee first,<br />
and he soon followed.<br />
It was a bit of a culture<br />
shock at first. The accent<br />
was the first hurdle, but<br />
soon there was a larger<br />
hurdle to navigate: His<br />
transition.<br />
“I have a very specific<br />
moment, that I decided to<br />
physically transition,” he<br />
said. Socially, he had lived<br />
a masculine lifestyle for his<br />
entire adult life. But when<br />
his sister was diagnosed<br />
with breast cancer, he knew<br />
he could no longer deny<br />
the physical transition.<br />
“When she had to have<br />
a mastectomy, I saw how<br />
difficult it was for her,” he<br />
said. “She didn’t want to do<br />
it. It meant so much to her<br />
as a woman, as a part of<br />
her identity.”<br />
For Arroyo, that physical<br />
part of him was the worst<br />
part of not being physically<br />
male.<br />
“I said, right then and<br />
there, that I have to<br />
physically transition,” he said.<br />
Most of his close friends<br />
already knew and were<br />
supportive. His family was<br />
supportive, too, but it took<br />
some time. He had to work<br />
through some issues with<br />
his mother, who lives in<br />
Florida, and his sister.<br />
“I said, ‘Mom, I’m going to<br />
transition,’ and she said, ‘I<br />
don’t know what you mean.’”<br />
He showed her a couple<br />
of examples from the<br />
internet and they talked<br />
some more.<br />
“She knew I had many<br />
trans friends,” he said, and<br />
she was worried about him<br />
being influenced by others<br />
in his decisions. That, of<br />
course, was a non-issue and<br />
Arroyo assured his mother<br />
of that.<br />
After her visit, she went<br />
home and — although<br />
they usually had regular<br />
phone calls — he didn’t<br />
hear anything from her for<br />
a while.<br />
“She didn’t answer my<br />
calls for a couple of weeks<br />
and I began to get very<br />
worried,” he said. Then, she<br />
finally answered his call.<br />
From there, they had a<br />
frank discussion, and they<br />
found common ground.<br />
“Diversity is inviting everybody to the party.<br />
Inclusion is inviting everybody to dance. So,<br />
ask everybody to dance.”<br />
“She struggles a little bit<br />
with the pronouns, but not<br />
with the name,” he said. The<br />
rest of his family was very<br />
accepting, but his sister had<br />
a little more to work through.<br />
“Through therapy, she<br />
was able to realize that she<br />
was making it about her,<br />
and not about me or my<br />
transition.”<br />
Outside his family,<br />
however, Arroyo<br />
experienced some<br />
resistance and a lack of<br />
acceptance at first.<br />
“I lost two jobs, a full-time<br />
job and a part-time job,” he<br />
said. “That was really tough.”<br />
The part-time job was in a<br />
“little meat-and-three café,”<br />
that was privately owned.<br />
“They just stopped<br />
giving me hours. They just<br />
stopped,” he said.<br />
They wouldn’t let him<br />
use the bathroom, and<br />
they refused to let him use<br />
his name. “As a privately<br />
owned business, (they)<br />
could get away with that.”<br />
His full-time job was with<br />
a subcontractor.<br />
“They were very difficult.<br />
I went to HR and discussed<br />
the issue.” He said they<br />
reassured him and referred<br />
to policies that were in<br />
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place, but in the end there<br />
was no follow through.<br />
He said Nashville,<br />
however, has come a long<br />
way in recent years.<br />
“You see a lot more<br />
tolerance,” he said, but<br />
made a clarification.<br />
“There’s a lot more<br />
tolerance for the LGBT+<br />
community, but less<br />
tolerance for the Latino<br />
community. As a Latino<br />
queer, I’m having to<br />
navigate both of those<br />
communities.”<br />
Currently, he works at<br />
night for Vanderbilt, which<br />
he describes as “a very<br />
open place.” During the<br />
day, he attends <strong>Tenn</strong>essee<br />
State University, where<br />
he’s earning a bachelor’s<br />
degree in human resources.<br />
Coming out as<br />
transgender in Nashville<br />
was made easier with<br />
the support from The<br />
<strong>Tenn</strong>essee Vals, a <strong>Mid</strong>dle<br />
<strong>Tenn</strong>essee Transgender<br />
Support Group.<br />
“The therapist I was<br />
going to recommended<br />
me to this support<br />
group,” he said. “I had<br />
never met another trans<br />
person that was physically<br />
transitioning.”<br />
Now, Arroyo is current<br />
chair of the organization.<br />
“It really helped me<br />
transition because it allowed<br />
me a sounding board to<br />
go and talk through some<br />
of these things with other<br />
people who had faced<br />
the same issues,” he said.<br />
“I was able to meet other<br />
trans men, and I was<br />
able to meet others who<br />
were transitioning or had<br />
transitioned in the past<br />
or who were considering<br />
transitioning.”<br />
Next, Arroyo hopes to<br />
complete his bachelor’s<br />
degree and attain a job that<br />
consults with companies<br />
using his expertise with the<br />
transgender, LGBT+ and<br />
Latino communities.<br />
“I’d like to see a lot more<br />
understanding for the<br />
trans community,” he said.<br />
“We’re not trying to do<br />
something to you. We’re<br />
making ourselves better<br />
for you. Allowing people<br />
to transition, gives them a<br />
better version of themselves<br />
for everybody else’s benefit.<br />
Not just our own.”<br />
One of his sayings when<br />
people talk about diversity<br />
and inclusion is this:<br />
“Diversity is inviting<br />
everybody to the party.<br />
Inclusion is inviting<br />
everybody to dance,” he<br />
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MARCH 11<br />
BLAME IT ON BIANCA TOUR<br />
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LGBT+ COLLEGE CONFERENCE<br />
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MINGLE WITH CANDIDATES AT DIVERSITY DAY<br />
CELEBRATION IN WILLIAMSON COUNTY<br />
By Brian Goins<br />
On <strong>Apr</strong>il 15, the Williamson<br />
County Democratic Party’s<br />
Diversity Committee is<br />
sponsoring a Diversity Day<br />
Celebration at Pinkerton<br />
Park in Franklin, offering an<br />
opportunity for citizens to<br />
gather and celebrate their<br />
diversity.<br />
Robert McNamara,<br />
chairperson for the diversity<br />
committee for Williamson<br />
County Democratic Party,<br />
said they felt like it was<br />
important to provide an open<br />
atmosphere for candidates<br />
and citizens to gather.<br />
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than just food and<br />
fellowship, however. The<br />
Major Minors youth choir<br />
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be a Native American<br />
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and a mingling activity<br />
to encourage people to<br />
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Candidates are welcome<br />
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the opportunity to make<br />
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Williamson County<br />
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Diversity Committee has a<br />
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the message that all people<br />
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based on race, ethnicity,<br />
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Where: Pinkerton Park,<br />
Franklin<br />
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Space is available for<br />
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