May 21 - Ballito Umhl

BALLITO • UMHLANGA 

For the love of KIDS ... 

midwives, teen skin 

& weaning with eggs! 

Ballito dancer 

Simone finds 

her new role 

Bridal bliss 

pages of 

12 wedding inspo 

SPOIL MOM 

with Mother’s Day gift ideas and massive giveaways 

SHOPPING, PEOPLE AND LIFESTYLE IN YOUR NEIGHBOURHOOD 

MAY 2021

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6 Bold, beautiful and timeless ... just like your mom! 

People 

8 A fab ‘creation station’ for loads of social media selfies! 

9 Enjoying the finer things with beautiful books and wonderful food 

10 Ballito dancer Simone Mann finds a new role ... that of a mother 

12 Honouring nurses on 12 May 

15 Author Prathisha is helping people ‘bounce back’ 

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Get It Ballito • Umhlanga is distributed 

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Cover: Simone and Daisy Burden 

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for the moms 

15 Fab gift ideas for the most important person in your life ... mom! 

18 WIN! A hamper worth over R7000 for Mother’s Day 

22 Meet some amazing North Coast moms who know how to hustle 

food 

30 Have you visited Kuta-Kola? Fantastic meals right on the beachfront! 

38 5 top bathroom trends from the experts in Salt Rock 

Bridal feature 

40 Beautiful bridal inspo for your perfect day 

41 Real weddings ... a sneak peek at two beautiful weddings 

45 Getting creative with a drive-in wedding! 

46 Check out these not-so-traditional wedding cake ideas! 

48 Make sure you put a (stylish) ring on it! 

50 We love these great local honeymoon destinations ... you will too! 

kids 

56 Celebrating marvellous midwives and the amazing work they do 

58 Teen skin woes - navigating your first skincare regime 

60 Drinkerbell is a an accessory that could save your life 

62 Weaning baby with a superfood ... easy, yummy eggs! 

travel 

66 Big skies, vast plains ... welcome to the beautiful Karoo 

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A hot date! 

Polo games, picnics and live music this May ... 

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Oooh, who doesn’t love a little 

G&T to kick off a new month? The 

Durban Gin & Tonic Experience, supported 

by Hall & Bramley, is great opportunity to 

try some wonderful gins and mixers while 

enjoying live music. The event takes place on 

Saturday 8 May on the picturesque lawns of 

Northwood Crusaders. Gates open at 12 and 

it ends at 6pm. How it works: tickets (R160 

for early bird and R180 general admission) 

includes a festival gin glass on arrival. Then 

you head to the cash loading station to load 

money onto your Howler card (it’s a cashless 

event) and stroll through the various gin bars 

where you can purchase your gin – either 

as tasters, singles or doubles, served with 

a perfectly-paired garnish. Important to 

note: this is a strictly over-18 event (no kids 

allowed) and there will food available (no 

food or drink can be brought in). Tickets are 

also limited to 500 people, so make sure you 

book soon via Webtickets. 

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There are so many wonderful 

restaurants to choose from for your 

special Mother’s Day lunch on 9 May on 

Eat Street at the Lifestyle Centre Ballito, the 

hardest part will be deciding where to go! 

Italian, Portuguese, Greek, Argentinian and 

Mexican … not to forget the cocktails and 

sushi! Grab your special mom and book 

soon! And, if you’re looking for some live 

music while you dine, book a table on Friday 

14 May and enjoy the good vibes of local 

musician Sheldon De St Pern on Eat Street! 

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Polo, picnics and proudly SA music? Count us in! Why not enjoy a 

gorgeous day out with friends and family at the stunning Seaton 

Manor House in Ballito on 22 May while watching top polo players 

compete against each other … and listening to two top SA artists? 

The polo match will be a Coastal vs Inland exhibition match and the 

entertainment will be in the form of live performances by Karen Zoid 

and Karlien van Jaarsveld as the sun is setting. Picnic baskets are 

available for order once your tickets are booked and there will also be 

food stalls and cash bar available. Details: Tickets at www.quicket.co.za 

at R500 per person and gates open at 1pm. WIN! We’ve got three 

double tickets to give away to three lucky readers. Find this post on our 

social media pages (@GetItMagNC) and follow the instructions! 

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Book club 

Mothers. Daughters. And a handful of thrilling reads. 

Mother. Daughter. Angel. Monster? When Lisa Jewel, one of our favourite authors, 

endorses a book, saying ‘Set my nerves jangling,’ you know it’s a not-to-be-missed 

read. The Push revolves around mother Blythe, who wants to give her first child, 

Violet, all the love she deserves … all the love her own mother withheld. But 

Violet’s not an easy child, demanding, fretful, unsmiling. And for Blythe, it’s a case 

of motherhood being not at all what she hoped for, and everything she feared. 

Dark, disturbing, gripping … Ashley Audrain’s debut novel is all that and more. 

• She wanted a child, so she took one. Call Me Mummy (another debut novel, 

this one by Tina Baker) kicks off as Mummy – a glamorous, uptight woman who 

has everything except a child, kidnaps five-year-old Tonya (Mummy’ll have to 

change that name, so common). But Tonya’s not the perfect child Mummy was 

expecting … in fact, she’s a foul-mouthed mini version of her real mum, Kim, 

who’s been labelled ‘scummy mummy’ by the media, and thinks she deserves to 

have her other children removed from her care too. Thrilling, harrowing, bleak … 

and unputdownable. Both available from exclusivebooks.co.za 

Glen Carlou Gravel Quarry Cabernet Sauvignon 2018 is a 

sophisticated and powerful wine … all layers of ripe 

blackcurrants, dark berries, dark chocolate and hints of 

bramble and cedar. It’s full and complex … like a few of the 

books on this page. You’ll find it for R440 at glencarlou.com 


Wish list 

Beautiful, bold and timeless treats … just like your mom! 

A timeless classic, just like mom 

Add joy to mum’s kitchen with a keepsake gift 

from Le Creuset this Mother’s Day. Their timeless 

range of cookware and serveware essentials 

are sure to make any mom smile and the 

wide range means there is something to suit 

every kind of mom … from a cook, baker or tea 

enthusiast to someone who simply loves to 

entertain. We love the cast iron casseroles and 

gorgeous whistling kettles … or why not just 

get her a gift voucher and let her decide for 

herself! Le Creuset also has tons of wonderful 

Mother’s Day specials, valid until 9 May. Details: 

www.lecreuset.co.za or visit one of their stores. 

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Modern, floral fragrance 

We’re dancing with joy over the new Kate Spade New York fragrance 

… a cheerful, feminine, sparkling scent which launched in 

SA this month. All sweet wild strawberry and rose essence, citrusy 

bergamot and freesia, it’s optimism and happiness and spontaneous 

celebrations wrapped up in a beautiful curvy bottle, sporting 

the Kate Spade signature spade, and a pink and white box that’s 

quite honestly too pretty to discard. This modern, fruity-floral 

fragrance is a joyful scent that celebrates women and their sense 

of individuality. It launched with an upbeat campaign featuring 

Maddie Ziegler (who stars in Steven Spielberg’s movie adaptation 

of the musical West Side Story), dancing with friends against the 

iconic New York City skyline. But dance is universal … so be it the 

New York or Joburg skyline, Cape Town’s Table Mountain, Ballito’s 

breath-taking beaches, we can celebrate the passion of the 

fragrance and dance with Maddie, who shared some of her secrets 

with us. Head on over to @GetItMagNC on Facebook, where 

you can see the video, read about her dance secrets, and where 

you’ll find the post about this awesome giveaway. Enter there and 

you could be dancing away with a bottle of Kate Spade New York 

fragrance and matching hand and body lotion and a stunning Kate 

Spade tote bag. Swoon only after you’ve entered! Entries close May 25. 


Mum’s going out with the girls. Credit card. Keys. Phone. 

And a rich regal blue, soft lux feel velvet Rona Jessie fold over 

clutch. R390 from ronajessie.co.za • And if she’s more a 

hands-free mum, she’ll be as besotted as we are with 

this navy quilted crossbody bag. And really, it’s R179 from 

miladys.com ... gorgeous and amazingly affordable. 

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A Gateway Mall shopping 

spree for mom 

How are you planning to spoil your mom 

this Mother’s Day? It’s such a special time 

where, once a year, you get to swap roles 

and find a way to send the love back up a 

generation. Some moms appreciate a chat 

over coffee and cake and others are the 

long, lavish lunch types. Fashionista moms 

might be blown away with something 

from an international brand or local designer, 

comfy trainers, or stunning heels. As 

the trendiest mall with the widest range of 

stores and entertainment and dining options, 

Gateway Theatre of Shopping is all 

about fulfilling moms’ desires this Mother’s 

Day. Share a bite and catch a great movie, 

take your time over a meal outside in the 

Palm Court or let mom go wild with her 

own Gateway gift card! Gateway Theatre of 

Shopping and all its tenants are operating 

responsibly and have Covid compliant 

measures in place. We’ve got an amazing 

prize for one very lucky mom up for grabs! 

The prize, valued at over R4750, includes 

the following: a R500 Sorbet voucher, 

R500 Kingsmead Shoes voucher, R500 

Isabella voucher, R500 Girl Zone voucher, 

R1000 Volpes voucher, R1000 Spa Ceylon 

voucher, a sweet treat from Krispy Kreme 

valued at over R250 and R500 worth of 

prizes from Château Gâteaux (terms and 

conditions apply). To enter, go to our Facebook 

or Instagram page, find this post and 

follow the instructions! Good luck! 


Savahana Joothan and Kashmir, Kush and Mira Maharaj 

Creation station 

We were invited to experience the wonderful new ‘creation station’ 

pop-up space at the Ballito Junction Regional Mall recently. The clever, 

creative space features a number of different pods and backgrounds and 

is open for only 30 days. It’s the perfect spot for social media influencers 

and anyone else who loves to #hashtag a good ‘selfie’ to let their imaginations 

go wild! 

Kuziva, Talumba and 

Wangu Mtawarira 

Siphokazi and Amanda Jingela 

Savahana Joothan 

and Ramano Andrews

The finer things 

Guests were delighted to experience and learn more about the wonderful 

French and brasserie-inspired café, Bard & Minstrel, at the Umhlanga 

Arch recently. Boasting a contemporary library filled with luxurious, imported 

Assouline books, Bard & Minstrel is a delight for all the senses and 

definitely worth a visit! 

Teraza Blair, Michelle 

Gorrie and Dean Gorrie 

Tony and Natalie Pinfold 

Butch and Julia James, Caley and Marc Rosenberg, Candice 

and Lyle Wallis and Tes and Dylan Jahnig 

Ana Maria Marcu and 

Themba Selby Ntombela 

Butch James, Marc Rosenberg and Renzo Scribante

Text: Leah Shone | Photograph of Sisi and baby: Taryn van Rensburg Photography 

A new role... 

Having spent most of her life on the stage, professional dancer and performer 

Simone Burden (née Mann) recently stepped into what is sure to be her most 

demanding, most important and most rewarding role ever … she became a mother. 


imone (or Sisi as she’s 

known) has spent her 

entire life in Ballito. 

Well, almost. She 

has, of course, also 

spent a good many 

years travelling and 

performing on stages 

around the world. 

As with most women, 

especially professional 

dancers and sportswomen, 33-yearold 

Sisi’s life has done a dramatic 

about-turn since she gave birth to her 

beautiful daughter, Daisy, just a few 

weeks ago. And Sisi and her husband, 

former Sharks rugby player Craig 

Burden, couldn’t be happier. 

From a family of five, three of the 

Mann sisters have been deeply 

entrenched in the world of dance 

and showbiz. Their mother Michelle 

was a well-known Ballito dancer and 

gymnast and Sisi’s two sisters, Danielle 

and Dominique, have each achieved 

their own successes, with Danielle 

having also danced internationally 

and Dominique being a ten times SA 

aerobic gymnastics champion. 

Although they all went their separate 

ways after school, Sisi and both her 

sisters have now settled down back 

in Ballito, with their folks just down 

the road. “I always knew I wanted to 

live in Ballito. I just feel so lucky that 

the town has grown and the North 

Coast has become such a bustling 

area. I’m not sure if it would’ve worked 

for us living here if it was still a small 

little village. We have the best of both 

worlds now.” 

A dancer and gymnast throughout 

her schooling years, Sisi took a gap 

year after school to travel with the 

SA gymnastics team. Both she and 

Dominique were on the SA team but, 

Sisi says, gymnastics wasn’t her first 

love. “I enjoyed it, but I always felt like 

it was keeping me away from my true 

passions of dancing and being on 

stage.” 

Sisi spent three years at the Cape 

Academy of Performing Arts and 

it was while she was there, she 

says, that she was given incredible 

opportunities to travel and perform 

internationally in places like 

Edinburgh and New York. “It was such 

an amazing experience and opened 

a lot of doors for me.” Having seen 

her sister perform in Richard Loring’s 

remarkable African Footprints production, Sisi says it was her dream to do the 

same. “My sister was (and still is) my idol and I wanted to do what she did! It was 

the first professional show, outside of academy, that I auditioned for and got into.” 

Sisi spent over two years travelling with the cast, performing in China and France. 

It was during this time, she says, that she realised her true love was musical 

theatre. After a short stint in Show Boat in Paris Sisi returned home and joined the 

Playhouse full time as one of their resident dancers. A year later she joined the 

Kickstart team and got to work on incredible productions like Shrek and Chicago 

(a career highlight for Sisi). 

A year after Sisi met Craig, who was playing for the Sharks at the time, he took a 

five-year contract with a team in France. “It was a busy time. I would visit him for 

a few months and then come home and do a show. I was really lucky though as 

Steven (executive director of Kickstart) knew me and my capabilities, so I didn’t 

always have to audition for parts.” 

A back injury forced Sisi to take some time off from dancing and she took a yearlong 

sabbatical with Craig in Paris. “It was so amazing for us and we got engaged 

the following Christmas in 2018.” The couple were married in 2019 and, around 

the same time, Sisi opened her own small dance studio in Salt Rock. She also 

took on the role of resident choreographer (something she is passionate about) 

at Kickstart, just before the first hard lockdown in 2020. 

The next best thing to dancing, Sisi says, has been teaching. Not wanting to 

focus only on dance, but rather groom performers for musical theatre as a whole, 

her studio is called the Performing Arts Centre and she now offers dance and 

private musical theatre lessons as well as tumbling classes. 

Her studio is now run from her Ballito home and Sisi is enjoying her new 

‘settled’ life. “I loved all the travelling and jumping from gig to gig, but it’s nice 

to slow down. And, of course, it was amazing being able to teach through my 

pregnancy.” 

Deciding to start a family was a big decision for Sisi, perhaps bigger than for most 

people. “As a professional dancer, you are ultimately making a decision to let go 

of who you were. It wasn’t a decision I came to easily, but I’m so grateful that I 

did.” 

With Craig having also recently retired from professional rugby, the couple are 

definitely living a different life nowadays. “It’s been such a whirlwind, but it’s also 

so exciting. We have had so much support and it feels like the right time for us.” 


A calling to care 

The definition of a nurse, when you look it up, is ‘a person trained to care for the sick or 

infirm, especially in a hospital’. Nurses are so much more than that, though. In honour 

of International Nurses Day, we sat down with one of Ballito’s most accomplished and 

trusted private nurse practitioners, Trish Idensohn. 

Text: Leah Shone 

At the frontline of patient care, both before and during the global pandemic, 

nurses around the world deserve a moment of thanks. Not only for the work they 

do and the challenges they face, but for the genuine care and compassion they 

show their patients. 

It’s is this compassion, Trish says, along with a desire to care for others and 

an intrinsically altruistic outlook, that should be the driving force for anyone 

deciding to pursue a career in nursing. 

Having been a qualified nurse and midwife for more than 30 years, Trish certainly 

walks the talk. As the founder of CliniCare in Ballito, Trish is a highly educated, 

experienced nurse practitioner and has a string of qualifications behind her 

name. She is an internationally-recognised advanced wound care specialist, as 

well as tutor and lecturer at universities around South Africa and abroad. 

At the heart of her personal mission as a nurse though, is simply a desire and a 

calling to care for others. She reflects on the words of author Leo Buscaglia, who 

said, “Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, 

a listening ear, an honest compliment or the smallest act of caring, all of which 

have the potential to turn a life around.” 

Trish’s own life was turned around when she lost her father at the age of 15. “I will 

never forget the incredible care and kindness we were shown when my father 

was in the ICU. Now, when I am in front of a patient, I think of myself ‘giving back’ 

for that.”Trish completed her basic training in 1984 and graduated from Grey’s 

Hospital in Pietermaritzburg. She says the scope of nursing has advanced a lot 

over the years, with nurses furthering their education and careers and becoming 

nurse practitioners and specialists in 

their fields. “Nurses are often called 

on by doctors to give advice these 

days, and we have the hands-on 

experience,” says Trish. 

Preventative health care is incredibly 

important to nurses, just as it was to 

the famous Florence Nightingale who 

founded modern nursing and whose 

birthday is used to mark International 

Nurse’s Day on 12 May. 

“The pandemic has been a whirlwind 

and affected all of us so differently. 

What we’ve realised though,” says 

Trish, “is that the basic environmental 

principals that affect our health, as 

pointed out by Florence Nightingale 

all those years ago, are still the 

same. Although simple, they are 

so applicable in the delivery of 

healthcare in nursing practice and the 

pandemic of today: pure water, pure 

fresh air, light (especially sunlight), 

cleanliness, drainage as well as a quiet 

environment and attention to our 

nutrition. The WHO defines health as, 

‘a state of completely physical, mental 

and social well-being and not merely 

the absence of disease or infirmity.’ It’s 

so important that we remember this.” 

Although they have always been 

dedicated hard workers, Trish believes 

the pandemic has shown the world 

how incredible nurses are at facing 

a challenge head-on - and rising to 

that challenge. “We are human and 

we do cry,” she laughs, “but we have 

incredible support from other nurses 

and our industry as a whole. Not one 

of my staff members, whether they 

were working in hospital, at the clinic 

or doing homecare, refused to do 

their job or didn’t rise to the challenge 

within our practice throughout this 

pandemic and I’m incredibly proud of 

their dedication.” 

Details: CliniCare Medical Centre: 27 

Jacqueline Drive, Ballito, 032 946 1826 


A visit to the 

wax bar! 

Living the life of a busy mom 

is challenging enough without 

having to remember to make 

time for all those personal 

necessaries, like waxing and 

keeping your eyebrows in 

check, right? We’ve found 

a wonderful new spot that 

makes hair removal as quick 

and easy as possible, without 

keeping you away from ‘real life’ 

for too long. 

We’ve all heard about a dry bar - a 

place where women quickly zoom 

in, get a blow dry and zoom back out 

again looking fab and ready to take 

on the world. Well, now we have a 

wax bar (right here in Ballito) and we 

are already massive fans! And it’s not 

just for women! 

Catering for everyone in the family, 

from mom and dad (they do male 

grooming too!) and teens, WAXIT at 

the Lifestyle Centre Ballito is KZN’s 

first wax bar and the eighth franchise 

in the country. We were invited for 

a treatment experience recently 

and were blown away by the chic, 

modern, super clean salon and as 

well as the professionalism and speed 

with which the WAXIT team manage 

to get the job done! A bikini wax 

and eyebrow thread and tint literally 

took just 15 minutes! So convenient 

– and affordable! WAXIT Ballito owner, 

Sharon Andrew says she has been 

blown away by the support they’ve 

received at their ‘sanctuary of 

smooth’, especially amongst 

male clientele. “It’s been 

so satisfying seeing 

people leave our salon 

without having to painstakingly wait 

for an appointment to open up or 

wincing at the price of waxing costs.” 

Many of their clients are sportsmen 

and women removing hair from their 

legs, backs and areas ‘below the belt’ 

to avoid chaffing. WAXIT has a wide 

range of treatments as well as their 

own hypoallergenic wax and Epilfree 

permanent hair removal. Services 

include waxing, tinting and threading 

and a variety of niche offerings, such 

as ‘vagacials’! They also have special 

deals for moms and daughters – 

perfect for Mother’s Day this month! 

Details: WAXIT Ballito Lifestyle Centre, 

076 078 1876, 

sharon@waxit.co.za. 

SMOOTH MOMS 

Last year’s lock down meant that we couldn’t 

spoil our moms the way we love to. So, make it 

up to her this year with something really smooth 

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Bouncing back 

Resilience has been a strong theme in almost all of our lives over the past year. Former 

environmental consultant, mother of two and début author, Prathisha Singh, has 

made it her goal to help people live their best lives after hitting her own personal ‘rock 

bottom’ during the pandemic. 

Like many people, the onset of 

the global Covid-19 pandemic 

was a massive blow to the usually 

positive and ambitious Prathisha. 

“I experienced rock bottom. I was 

overwhelmed with negative emotion 

and felt stuck, powerless and hopeless 

in my situation ... until I made the 

decision to turn my life around, learn 

the lessons and move forward for 

myself and my family.” 

Now she has written a book, The 

Ultimate Guide to: Bounce Back 

Higher, has started a blog and is on a 

mission to share her ‘tried and tested’ 

methods to empower others to live 

their best lives too. 

Born in Tongaat, Prathisha spent three 

years living in New Zealand with her 

parents while she was in primary 

school. When they returned to SA, she 

attended high school in Gauteng and, 

after school did a BSc honours degree 

in Geology before marrying her highschool 

crush, Sumeeth. 

Prathisha worked as an environmental 

consultant and owned a Kumon 

franchise before discovering her 

current passion: helping people 

rediscover their essence and live their 

greatest lives. She and her husband 

live in Ballito with their two young 

children. 

“After hitting my ‘rock bottom’, I 

immersed myself in the teachings of 

the world’s leading experts in the selftransformation 

industry. I followed the 

tools and techniques that I learned 

through discipline and diligent 

practice and discovered that it is 

possible to be happy and peaceful 

no matter what your situation or 

circumstances are.” 

Rock bottom, Prathisha says, is a place 

of feeling stuck, unable to move 

forward, hopeless, fearful, anxious 

and powerless. It is a demonstration 

of not being able to live your best life 

and it is different for everyone. To one 

person, it may be getting a divorce, 

to another it may be being diagnosed with a terminal illness, or losing a child 

etc. I think every person experiences this at some point in their life, and this is 

where self-transformation happens .. if the individual decides so. My rock bottom 

involved relationships, finance and health in a time of extreme uncertainty. In a 

relatively short period (which felt like a century!) though, I bounced back higher – 

and I believe others can too.” 

Prathisha says her book is aimed at anyone who wants to go through life feeling 

peace, love and happiness despite what is happening in their life or in the world 

at large. 

“The book inspires you to tap into your inner wisdom, love, peace and happiness 

that is ever present within each of us by providing simple and practical exercises 

to do so. If you feel like you are at rock bottom, or feeling stuck in your life, the 

book is a great start to you bouncing back higher and living your greatest life.” 

Prathisha also has an online course called ‘Live your greatest life’ available on her 

website. 

Prathisha’s top three tips for ‘bouncing back higher’: 

1. Make the decision to live your greatest life. Write a powerful declaration 

asserting that you will overcome any situation and live your best life – no matter 

what it takes. Be that determined. 

2. Let go of the past. It does not exist. The only place that it does exist is in your 

mind. Whatever has happened is over now. Let it go, adjust your path and keep 

on moving. 

3. Be mindful of your thoughts. Throughout the day, ask yourself, ‘what am I 

thinking?’ If your thoughts do not support you feeling good, gently release them 

and move on to a happier thought. You can and you will change your life one 

thought at a time. 

Details: The Ultimate Guide to: Bounce Back Higher is R139,99 and available online: 

www.ultimatebouncebackhigher.com, prathisha.singh@gmail.com 


Autumn 

hues 

As the weather cools down, we turn to 

shades of soft fawn and mushroom, of 

lush chocolate and cappuccino … with 

rich textures to nourish and protect. 

An uplifting scent for the season … Elizabeth 

Arden My Fifth Avenue EDP, R1085 from Clicks 

or Superbalist • Brand new Clarins Everlasting 

Foundation and Everlasting Concealer – 

24-hour wear, matte finish, high coverage but 

super lightweight, and with skincare benefits. 

Not much you can ask for, really. R560 and 

R400 from clarins.co.za 

We love this East India Islands range for men from EarthSap … 

there’s a body wash, R109, and hand and body lotion, R79. Both from 

madebynature.co.za • Intense, affordable skincare … win-win. 

Skin Oil from Africa’s Coconut Oil Intensive Skin Care moisturises 

hydrates, is geat on scars and stretch marks and is excellent for dry and 

ageing skin. R75 from takealot.com • Just because the weather’s cooler, 

doesn’t mean you can go without suncare. Sothys Sensitive Zones 

Protective Fluid SPF50 gives high protection against solar radiation … 

wear it every single day. R675. For stockists, ring 021-701-2900. 

Play up your eyes with 

Elizabeth Arden High 

Drama Eyeliner in 

Espresso, R280.00 

• Staying with the 

matte look, and with 

ingredients that nourish, 

hydrate and protect, 

we’re loving this 

RVBLAB Matt & Velvet 

Lipstick in No 33, R330. 

Stockist details: 

021-701-2900 


spoil mom this month 

WILLOW 

Spoil her this Mother’s Day with 

these trendy sneakers. With 

a splash of animal print and 

gorgeous detail, these are sure 

to be every mother’s favourites 

this winter. Made from genuine 

leather, they are both stylish 

and comfy and very on trend! 

Shay Sneakers, R999. Details: 

Willow La Lucia - 031 5629190, 

Willow Windermere - 

031 3031425, 

www.willowshop.co.za 

ANNA-LOUISE SLEEPWEAR 

Anna-Louise Sleepwear’s new favourite 

slouchy, front-opening cardigan comes 

in a luxuriously soft, breathable knit 

and dreamy cashmere oatmeal colour. 

A relaxed fit and oversized body make 

it ideal for layering. You’ll never want to 

take this off. Spoil your mum, mother-inlaw 

or wife this Mother’s Day with this 

heavenly must-have! Cozy Cashmere 

Cardigan, R750. Details: www.annalouise.co.za 

info@anna-louise.co.za, 

@ALSleepwear, Ryder Drive, Mount 

Edgecombe Country Club , Estate 1 

AUREUM 

Spoil your Mum with 

Aureum’s elegantly packaged, 

Nourishing Night Cream, sure 

to make her smile. Infused 

with CBD and Tea Tree Oil, 

this cream soothes, restores 

and revitalises all skin types, 

resulting in youthful, glowing 

skin. CBD Nourishing Night 

Cream, R630. Details: 

info@aureumcbd.co.za, 

079 266 2807, 

www.aureumcbd.co.za 

BLUE FLAMINGO 

Treat your mum to something 

special from one of Blue Flamingo’s 

new designs, launched just in time 

for Mother’s Day. These gorgeous 

products have a one hundred 

percent cotton surface which is 

soft to the touch and machine 

washable. Blue Flamingo bags and 

accessories are locally designed 

and produced. Blushing Protea, 

Classic Zipped Tote, R465. Details: 

orders@blueflamingo.co.za, 082 

496 2930, www.blueflamingo.co.za 

BRUNATIONAL 

FACTORY SHOP 

Indulge mom this Mother’s 

Day with pampering body and 

skin care products. The team 

at Brunational Factory Shop 

have a wonderful Bath Milk 

Oils range, just perfect for deep 

moisturising, ensuring mom is left 

feeling relaxed and refreshed. They 

are available in four scents, R28,50 

each. Details: Brunational Factory 

Shop, Unit 3, Platinum Park, Douglas Crowe Drive 

Ballito, 032 586 1406, www.brunational.co.za/ 

BELLE SANTÉ WELLNESS 

Who wouldn’t want to spoil 

mom with the body she had 

before kids?! Gift her with a 

non-invasive Laser Lipolysis 

Body Shaping package 

from Belle Santé Wellness, 

which includes 10 full body 

sessions (with two extra 

free), R5500. Details: Belle 

Santé Wellness, 27 Gail Road, 

Salt Rock, 076 698 9994, 

www.bellesanteballito.com

Spoil mom 

Food, fashion, flowers and fabulous reads ... there are so many spoils to choose from for 

your mom at Lifestyle Centre this Mother’s Day! 

Maxi Wrap Dress / Black 

and white print R1 450, 

from Muze. 

Local Durban 

brand, Thandana 

crossover handbags 

in tobacco and 

hazelnut colours. 

R949 from White 

Summer. 

Capasante Earrings in 

Seashell Pink are made up of 

Swarovski crystals, acetate shell charm, 

gold filled seahorse, enamel coral 

charm. R899 from Beach & Beyond. 

GHD Max features 70% wider 

plates, perfect for styling 

thick, long and curly hair, in 

half the time. R2900 from 

Hair Hardware. 


Promotion 

Why not spoil your mum 

with a limited-edition pair of 

Ayala Bar earrings? Each pair 

is handcrafted with Swarovski 

crystals, beads & fabric, and really 

makes the most perfect gift. Find 

your pair at Holiday! 

The Jenna Clifford Wavy Rose 

dinnerware captures the vintage 

charm and elegance on any 

table and perfect for Mother’s 

Day High Tea from Cookin. 

Give Mom a break this Mother’s Day by 

letting her put her feet up with a copy of 

The Affair. R310 from Bargain Books. 

This SPF30 Esse Foundation 

is a microbiome friendly 

foundation, that comes in 

10 different shades. R715 

from Esse Concept Store. 

Who says you can’t have cake for breakfast?! Give 

the sweetest of touches to a Mother’s Day breakfast 

tray, with a cute mini treat from Chateau Gateaux. 

#TheCakePeople have a host of yummy delights to spoil 

Mom with this Mother’s Day - whether it be a cute spoil 

just for her, or a decadent whole cake to share with the 

family at lunch. 

Spoil Mom with these gorgeous 

white, blue, purple, green and pink 

shaded Hydrangeas with extra-long 

stems grown locally in the midlands. 

R40 each from Love Laugh. 

Win Stand a chance to win a hamper from the 

featured brands. Follow Lifestyle Centre’s social 

media for details. IG: @lifestylecentreballito | 

FB: @ballitolifestylecentre 

www.ballitolifestylecentre.co.za 


Compiled by: KYM ARGO 

Well. Mum certainly is the word this month … with our massive Mother’s 

Day giveaway hamper. It’s crammed – overflowing – with everything 

we think would make our mum very happy indeed. And it’s valued at 

a whopping R7220. Just look what we’ve got … • An on-trend Kubu 

rectangular basket (R299) from Biggie Best, which is great for storage 

in your home, and to store all these goodies. Biggie Best has also 

added a white orchid (R79), from their particularly exceptional 

collection of faux flowers and plants. Details: volpes.co.za • From Lou 

Harvey, SA’s homegrown designer and decorator, a Gusset Vanity 

(R435) and Long Tom Cooler (R460) in the brand new Python print 

(which is giving the ever-popular Leopard a run for its money). It’s 

one of the new collection of designs … which also includes iconic 

paisleys and florals so loved by LH fans. Details: louharvey.co.za • A 

duo of Densitium Skin Care essentials. This anti-ageing range from 

French skincare brand SVR is dedicated to slowing down and treating 

ageing skin (not, Mum, that we think you’re ageing … you’re beautiful!). 

There’s a Densitium Bi-serum, formulated for the face and neck for the 

treatment of sagging skin, wrinkles and dryness (R954) and Densitium 

Crème Riche, which targets dryness, thinning skin, lack of elasticity 

and loss of definition (R424). Details: info@filorga.co.za, or buy online at 

absoluteskin.co.za / riekiemedaesthetic.co.za • Sunnies for the coolest mum 

on the block. Our hamper includes a pair of Baker Eyewear sunglasses 

(R1499), which is exclusively available at Execuspecs … it’s a 

quality, stylish range for people who see the world differently. 

Details: execuspecs.co.za • Kids have their school packs. Mum 

needs a stylish Thule Achiever Backpack 20L (R1399). It has 

much-needed organisational solutions for mums on the go, 

protects your laptop, loads of space for your other daily gear, 

great colours (think Asphalt Camo, Black, Burgundy or Seneca 

Rock), and is really durable and tough, so built to last in the urban 

jungle. Details: thulestore.co.za • A bottle of Fluere (R269) … a 

distilled ‘spirit’ without a trace of alcohol. It’s a blend of botanicals, 

based on essential oils of juniper, lavender, coriander and lemon 

peel, and is perfect to create non-alcoholic long drinks and 

mocktails. For mum, we’ve got the Spiced Cane option, 

lovely notes of chocolate and coffee with a sweet, complex, 

earthy palate. Details: available from takealot.co.za • 

Staying with the non-alcoholic theme (homework 

nights!), there’s also a bottle of Abstinence (R229) 

in the basket. Locally produced, sophisticated and 

showcasing some of Cape Town’s finest indigenous 

flora, there’s not only no alcohol but also no sugar, no 

colouring, no flavouring, so it gets full marks from us. 

Details: available from takealot.co.za • Friday night … so 

no school lifts in the morning. Time for a G&T. Mum’ll 

love Bloedlemoen (R395). Pronounced Blue’d Le Moon, 

it’s an award-winning handcrafted, small-batch local gin 

made from 10 natural botanicals; a quintessentially 

South African gin made from the delicious Tarocco 

blood orange, and proudly boasts as the first blood 

orange gin in the World. The fruit is sourced locally 

from our growing partners in the Western Cape of 

South Africa. Details: Available at takealot.co.za • Mum will 

think you’ll have whisked her off to a tropical island with 

this one. She can imagine sitting on a beach, sipping 

on her Don Papa rum (R499) cocktail. This premium, 

small-batch, single-island, aged rum from Negros in 

the Philippines, is aged for seven years to produce a 

light and fruity, amber coloured rum that is perfect 

for sipping alone or as the key ingredient in epic 

cocktails. Details: available from takealot.co.za 

• And at the end of a long day … a soft, fluffy towel to 

wrap around you after a long, scented bubble bath. 

From Volpes, we’ve got a set of Indulge White Towels 

(R329) … 100 per cent cotton, highly absorbent, super 

luxurious and with a double-stitched hem for durability. 

Heaven. Details: volpes.co.za • Whether your mum’s a 

homemaker or a board member, stressed from no sleep 

with a toddler or a teen (both, we know, cause sleepless 

nights), a young new mum or an experienced gran, a careful 

teetotaller or a lover of exotic cocktails … we know one 

thing – she’ll be a jolly spoilt mum if you win this hamper for 

her. To enter, simply visit our Facebook or Instagram page 

(getitnationalmagazines), find the Mother’s Day post, and 

follow the instructions. Entries close May 28. 


treat mum 

There’s no-one quite like mum. And there’s nothing 

quite like this month’s give away. We’ve got a hamper 

overflowing with stylish goodies from our favourite 

brands to give away, worth more than R7000. 

Happy Mother’s Day, with 

love from Get It. 

May 2021 Get It • Ballito Umhlanga 21

Promotion 

Moms who hustle 

Being a ‘millennial mom’ is no joke … especially when you’re juggling everything 

while still trying to manage a career or business of your own. Here are some of the 

most successful, hardworking moms who ‘hustle’ on the North Coast 

Bonita Cherry - Outlook Orange 

Established in 2009, Outlook Orange is a team of creative and 

strategic consultants who partner with businesses to pinpoint 

their vision and difference. They then create actionable brand 

building and digital marketing plans that propel growth. 

Your top tip for juggling motherhood and being a 

businesswoman? Find the value of balance. As working 

mothers, we can easily get sucked into making work our 

primary obsession, an all-consuming activity. We need to 

continually stop, re-assess and take the safety of the middle 

ground rather than the imbalance of the extremes. God, 

my marriage and my children come first, and so, in order to 

be fully present, I need to continually ensure that I am reevaluating 

that which is consuming me in order to ensure 

sustainability. The best piece of mothering advice you ever 

received? Set an example for your children - in your life, in 

your love for people and in your pure devotion to everything 

you put your hand to. Details: 087 460 0257, 

bonita@outlookorange.com, www.outlookorange.com 

22 Get It • Ballito Umhlanga May 2021 

Carla Ashton - Thandana Bag Co. 

Carla is the owner and founder of Thandana Bag Co. which started 

in 2010. The KZN-based company manufactures genuine leather 

and in-house designed laminated fabric bags for the whole family. 

Thandana started off as a hobby and quickly transformed into a 

financially viable business. “It’s been blood, sweat and lots of tears 

to get where I am today, especially having a little girl keeping me 

on my toes, but it’s all been worthwhile and paying off!” 

Your top tip for juggling motherhood and a being 

businesswoman? Time management. Allocate days that will be 

specifically work-focused and get your schedule in order. The same 

goes for being a mom. As much as I love the buzz of my factory, 

I also have to make time for my family, which comes first. Having 

your own business has its perks and flexitime is such a gift. Some 

days I allocate my time solely for my daughter. The best piece of 

mothering advice you ever received? Don’t take life so seriously 

and your way is the right way. My morning ritual is prayer with a 

good cup of coffee to get me through the day. Details: 031 502 

7336, info@thandana.co.za, www.thandana.co.za

Photo: Taryn van Rensburg 

Cathy van Rooyen - Willow 

Willow is a lifestyle boutique and online store that first 

opened its doors in Windermere Centre in June 2015. They 

opened their second store in La Lucia Mall in 2018 and are 

hoping to open a third store soon! “We are proudly local and 

design and manufacture our own range of clothing. We also 

sell accessories, clothing and lifestyle products from other top 

local South African brands. We are the perfect place to find 

a unique gift for someone special.” Your top tip for juggling 

motherhood and being a businesswoman? Planning! I’m a 

firm believer in the quote, ‘if you fail to plan you plan to fail’. 

Life can feel pretty chaotic at times, but if you plan your week 

and set yourself goals it becomes more manageable. The 

best piece of mothering advice you ever received? Enjoy 

the little things and treasure the moments. You feel like your 

kids will stay little forever and before you know it they all are 

grown up and ready to leave home! Details: Willow La Lucia: 

031 562 9190, Willow Windermere Centre: 031 303 1425, 082 

567 2715, www.willowshop.co.za 

Amanda Maidman - Scoop Ice Cream 

Scoop is a small batch artisanal ice cream company, started in Amanda’s 

Dunkirk kitchen in 2014 when her then 5-year-old daughter Maya was 

looking to sell something at a local kids entrepreneurs market. She sold 

out in 15 minutes and Scoop was born. They now have two busy stores (at 

Lifestyle Centre Ballito and Florida Road) and a factory where everything 

is hand made, using locally sourced natural products. Scoop staff came to 

them with little work experience and many were previously disadvantaged, 

growing from scooping staff to managers. Scoop believes they sell both 

happiness and hope. Your top tip for juggling motherhood and being 

a businesswoman? To be honest, it’s more than just a juggle between 

motherhood and businesswoman - luckily women are born natural 

multitaskers. My most important job is to be a great wife and mother, then 

a great leader and role model to my team and to positively impact as many 

lives as I can. On a personal level, it’s important to take time out to do the 

things I’m passionate about and never lose my own identity. When the going 

gets tough, I always remember, I am enough! The best piece of mothering 

advice you ever received? Be brave enough to allow your kids to fail. Details: 

Scoop, Lifestyle Centre Ballito, amanda@scoopicecream.co.za, 082 307 1096 

Kate Lovemore Baker – Lovemore Aesthetics 

Kate started Lovemore Aesthetics 18 months ago and her focus is 

on one hundred percent progressively permanent hair removal with 

electrolysis. “A lot of clients come to me for chin hairs, underarms, 

bikini and brows. I also remove skin imperfection like skin tags, spider 

veins, milia and cherry angiomas with thermocoagulation. I work in 

Ballito, Umhlanga and Durban North at The Skin and Nail Bar. Your 

top tip for juggling motherhood and being a businesswoman? You 

need to have a really good support network who understand that 

every now and then there might be late hours or long days when 

mom can’t help. I’ve been really blessed with a hands-on husband and 

grandparents, aunties and friends who are happy to help. As much as 

I can, my daughter comes first. The best piece of mothering advice 

you ever received? When your kids are quiet, leave them. Peep round 

the corner to see they are not destroying your home, haha, but leave 

them be if they are happy and content. It’s also really important to 

take time out for yourself. Even if it’s gym, taking a walk, yoga, sleeping 

whatever fills your cup! Make sure you remember who you are. Details: 

072 143 0322, IG @lovemore_aesthetics, katelovemore@gmail.com 


Promotion 

Nix & Dom - Ulu Collective 

Ulu Collective is a sister-in-law-run décor and lifestyle brand, established 

in 2019. They offer a diverse range of décor and lifestyle items, from 

accessories to carefully sourced home décor pieces (often inspired 

by travel, culture, nature and the things they both love). They also 

offer a home styling, décor and design service to help clients create 

inspired home spaces. “We bridge the gap between interior designer 

and retail outlet.” Your top tip for juggling motherhood and being 

a businesswoman? It is an incredible privilege to have a career that 

allows one to be present as a mom. Our top tip is to manage your time 

wisely, stay organized and compartmentalize. Set time aside for each 

role and try your best to stick to that - this structure allows you to be 

totally present and intentional in each role. The best piece of mothering 

advice you ever received? There is no fool proof rule book (although 

there are many out there to read!). Rather learn to trust your intuition, 

follow your gut and do what feels right for you and your little family. A 

mother’s intuition is powerful, connect to this and trust it. If you act out 

of love and kindness you will most likely always make the right choices. 

Details: Nikki: 0828520884, Dom: 0731806363 

Cindene Sheasby - La Lucia Mall 

Cindene has been the marketing manager at La Lucia Mall for 

over 11 years and has had the privilege of watching the Centre 

change and adapt over the years. La Lucia Mall was one of the 

very first shopping centres built in KwaZulu Natal and underwent 

a major upgrade in 2019. The centre has been modernised and 

new stores have recently opened such as Crazy Plastics, Cinnabon 

and Wellness Warehouse. We look forward to welcoming Spa 

Ceylon, Rain, PNA and others soon! La Lucia Mall also offers a “click 

and collect” service and we have special parking zones dedicated 

to this. Your top tip for juggling motherhood and being a 

businesswoman? I start my day with an early morning workout at 

5am. This sets a positive tone for my day, clears my mind, releases 

endorphins, and makes me believe that I can conquer anything! 

The best piece of mothering advice you ever received? I love this 

quote by Dr Laura Markham: “Your most valuable parenting skill is 

to learn to manage yourself first.” It’s easy to lose yourself along the 

way, so ensure that your cup is full so that you can be your best self. 

Details: 031 562 8420 www.laluciamall.co.za 


Justine Langford - Cultivate your brand 

Although Cultivate Your Brand was started in August last year during lockdown, 

Justine had already been freelancing digital marketing for a number of years. 

Cultivate is a small brand upliftment entity working with new or established 

businesses, predominantly in the online space. They offer online services, from 

virtual assistance, graphic design and branding to web design, email marketing 

and social media management. Her clients include Holla Trails, Fairview Estates, 

Candice of Nurture Your Vagina and Holly & Ivy. Your top tip for juggling 

motherhood and being a businesswoman? Finding a balance between work, 

mothering and me time – and dedicating set times to those things so that you are 

one hundred percent present. There is nothing worse than trying to build Lego 

with my son and check my emails at the same time! I take every opportunity I can 

to squeeze in some work, often hot spotting on my laptop in the school car park 

and I keep activities in my home office so when those crazy days come my son can 

do his ‘work’ next to me. The best piece of mothering advice you ever received? 

Set boundaries and routines. My son has had a bedtime routine since he was a 

newborn and he is now five. Boundaries are important to help kids understand the 

sometimes confusing world we live in! Details: info@cultivateyourbrand.co.za, 

IG @cultivateyourbrand.co.za, www.cultivateyourbrand.co.za

René van den Heeveer - Kijk Optometrists 

Although she has been in the Optometry field for 15 years, 

Rene opened her own business, called Kijk in Salt Rock in 

February 2019. Her patients vary from tiny babies to sport 

enthusiasts and fishing guru’s … and anyone else in need 

of good vision or cool eyewear! Your top tip for juggling 

motherhood and being a businesswoman? Besides 

having an awesome husband to help juggle the balls and 

catch the falling ones? I think the most important thing is 

to be there and zoom in on the person in front of you. At 

home, zoom in on the kids and use the time with them 

productively and at work, zoom in on the patient in front 

of you. The best piece of mothering advice you ever 

received? Do not take any advice from the people you 

love personally - they love your children too! And then, of 

course, if all else fails, turn on some music and just dance! 

Details: 032 815 2911, 084 585 2297, rene@kijkoptom.co.za 

Julia and Roxy - SAINT&SUMMER 

Julia James and Roxy Message started SAINT&SUMMER seven years ago in the hope 

of bringing ladies footwear that suits the lifestyle we lead in SA. Each and every shoe 

is designed to complement our individual, distinctive style. Their shoes are all locally 

designed and they find inspiration in the everyday working woman, mom and 

housewife. “We are inspired by the company we keep, people on the street and the 

amazing multi-cultured diversity of South Africa. We love new trends and changing 

things up!” Your top tip for juggling motherhood and being a businesswoman? 

JULIA: To find a balance. Wake up early. Work in the morning while the kids are 

busy at school. Don’t work at home after hours. Be present. The days are long but 

the years are short. ROXY: Being super organised. I am meticulous about planning 

and recording everything on my phone calendar so I don’t miss anything. Self-care, 

which doesn’t come easy, but without this I can’t be good at either. Recruit a tribe! I 

have an incredible support system which is worth its weight in liquid gold. The best 

piece of mothering advice you ever received? JULIA: In any uncertainty, I try to 

imagine myself at that age and think how I would feel in a situation. Also, don’t forget 

the small things - what might seem small to me may be a mountain to a little soul. 

ROXY: Don’t compare yourself to other mothers. We are all a hot mess, some just 

hide it better than others. Details: www.saintandsummer.co.za, @saintandsummer 

Catherine Clark - Harvest Table 

Catherine started a business called The Harvest Table 

just over three years ago while she was still working 

full time as a business manager. “I was very interested 

in my health and that of my family, and started 

developing food products for us to use at home. 

Other people seemed to be interested in them 

too …and so the business began!” Your top tip for 

juggling motherhood and being a businesswoman? 

Managing the juggle between work and home is 

never easy, but I’ve learnt to compartmentalise so 

that I am fully focused on work when I’m at the office 

and fully focused on my family when at home. 

The best piece of mothering advice you ever 

received? Not to sweat the small stuff but rather to 

focus on the end goal of developing well-rounded 

and grounded adults. Letting go of the small stuff 

has definitely led to a happier home! Details: www. 

harvesttable.co.za 


Style & 

comfort 

Lockdown and working from home 

have created a definitive shift in the 

way people are dressing. The ‘athleisure’ 

trend was around long before the 

pandemic, but its onset has made this 

style more acceptable and fashionable. 

Meet Umdloti sisters Natalie and 

Maxine, whose clothing line is all about 

effortless, comfortable style. 

Text: Leah Shone 

Besties, sisters and born-and-bred KZN babes, Natalie and Maxine Elphick’s stunning new fashion line, Bod the Brand, has 

taken athleisure wear to the next level. With a focus on functionality, style and comfort, their mix-and-match range is made 

from superior quality fabrics with seamless comfort in a carefully curated colour palette. We caught up with them to find 

out a little more about the ladies behind the Bod the Brand. 

Tell us a bit about yourselves and your individual careers thus far 

We both attended Durban Girls College and went on to study business (Natalie) and photography (Maxine). Design, art and 

travel were an integral part of our lives from a very young age and very much influenced our career paths. We have a shared 

love of being active and outdoors and both swam competitively for many years. After school Natalie went to the USA on a 

full swimming scholarship where she attended the Villanova School of Business and received a BBA, majoring in marketing. 

She then went on to complete a fashion merchandising diploma, taking her into her first job as a junior merchandiser. 

Maxine completed a BA in visual communications, majoring in photography at the Stellenbosch Academy of Design and 

Photography. She pursued a photography career for a few years, but decided there was more out there for her. Together 


we started our first business, XO The Brand (a more formal 

ladies fashion and accessory online store), which has now 

expanded into our new venture, Bod The Brand. 

What was your vision/goal with this business? 

After starting XO and working from home (even before 

the pandemic), we found that athleisure was our goto 

wardrobe. As lovers of all-things-fashion, we found 

it difficult to find stylish and comfortable pieces that 

we felt put-together in. This inspired the vision to bring 

women a stylish ‘second skin’ that focused on comfort and 

confidence. Whether working in or working out, on-themove 

or lounging about, we wanted to create wardrobe 

staples that easily transition women from one daily task 

to the next, without a second thought on what to wear. 

More than that though, we are a community first and a 

brand second, which is why we place great emphasis on 

our #bodcommunity. We want this to be a platform that 

provides the goods and the space for women to look and 

feel their best. 

What does ‘athleisure’ mean to you? 

Athleisure means put-together comfort you can wear for 

almost any activity. ‘Any-wear’ pieces you can WFH (work 

from home) or workout in, run errands, travel, brunch or 

barre in. It’s the normalisation and formalisation of more 

casual, athletic wear in the best way. A hybrid style of 

dressing that is stylish and edgy and makes getting ready 

every day easy. Athleisure has been around for a while, but 

the work-from/stay-at home environment has intensified 

consumers’ need for it, especially in a way that is more 

acceptable, trendy and fashion-forward. 

What are your do’s and don’t’s for wearing 

‘athleisure’ on a day-to-day basis? 

Do’s: Go for a matching set – makes for sophisticated 

effortless dressing; Layer up – an oversized tee over biker 

shorts, a tonal sweatshirt with leggings, a bomber jacket 

over a set; Wear with seamless undies; Check the features 

to match what you’re dressing for/activity impact level; 

Pick a neutral colour start + work up to our coloured sets. 

Don’t’s: Be afraid to try new things – our styles are made 

for all babes (and we offer free returns!); Go too small, 

when in doubt, size up; Over complicate it. Keep it simple; 

Don’t compete - empower and share! 

Details: info@bodthebrand.co.za, IG: @bodthebrand, www. 

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Beach culture 

The vibe at this stunning 

beachfront restaurant is 

what North Coast living 

is all about! From the 

panoramic ocean views and 

delicious food to the chilled, 

trendy ambiance ... there is 

nothing not to love! 

Text: Leah Shone | Photos: Chris Allan Photo 

It’s not hard to see why Kuta-Kola 

became a firm favourite amongst 

both locals and holiday makers 

almost overnight when it opened on 

the Ballito beachfront just over four 

months ago. 

The trendy restaurant embodies so 

much of what people love about the 

North Coast – beach vibes, healthy 

food and a stylish, upmarket interior. 

And did we mention the view? It’s 

remarkable really, to think that this 

prime piece of real estate was once 

a flat, hidden away from the public 

eye. Now, thanks to some great 

foresight by the restaurant owners, 

this incredible space’s true potential is 

being realised! And how lucky for us! 

Although it has become a popular 

breakfast and smoothie hotspot 

amongst beach walkers and early 

morning runners, Kuta-Kola was 

actually originally destined to be a ‘gin 

bar’, according to co-owners Claudia 

and Ryan Blom. 

Lockdown restrictions changed 

things though, and so they decided 

to open for breakfasts and lunches 

instead. “There aren’t many beachfront 

breakfast options and we wanted 

to offer something a little different. 

Ballito has a healthy, outdoor, active 

community and we wanted to tap 

into this,” says Claudia. As owners of 

restaurants in Johannesburg, the 

couple have a lot of experience in 

the food and beverage industry. 

They, together with their friends and 

partners at the time, Friso and Karien 

van der Wal, set about opening Kuta-Kola. 

“Ryan has a lot of experience in the kitchen and wanted the menu to be different 

... instead of just the traditional ‘bacon and eggs’ breakfasts.” He and health and 

fitness trainer Karien came up with an exciting menu with both decadent and 

healthier options. 

The Zimbali Kola (eggs, salmon and avo rosetta, blistered cherry tomatoes and 

mushrooms with a spinach and cabbage fritter) is a popular option and the 

flapjacks with bacon, berries, strawberries, melon and bourbon whiskey syrup is 

absolutely divine! The smoothie bowls are both beautiful and tasty, made with 

fresh fruit and delicious granola. 


The Mezze Platter is best enjoyed with a cold 

glass of wine while overlooking the ocean! 

Their lunch offerings are also awesome, 

with delicious prawn and chicken 

curries, stunning salads, burgers with 

homemade patties and wonderful 

mezze platters (preferably enjoyed 

with an ice-cold glass of white wine, 

overlooking the ocean!). 

The clean, contemporary interior was 

conceptualised and put together by 

Ryan and artist Friso and there is even 

a super funky basement area, which 

Claudia says will be used in the evenings 

and for events. “Our dinner menu will 

be completely different and we have a 

great cocktail menu as well. Keep your 

eyes on Kuta-Kola. As the space evolves, 

we’re planning to offer even more North 

Coast flavours and fun!” 

Details: Kuta-Kola, middle level (above The 

Galley and below Tasos), 17 Compensation 

Drive, Ballito, 032 525 0101, IG and FB: @ 

kutakola 

Kuta-Kola’s mouth-watering flapjacks, served with 

bacon, berries, melon and Bourbon whisky syrup! 

Kuta-Kola owner Claudia 

Kuta-Kola flapjacks 

You’ll need: 3/4 cup cake flour, 11/2 tsp 

baking powder, 1 pinch salt, 1 large 

egg, 3 Tbsp sugar, 1/2 cup milk, 1 Tbsp 

butter melted. 

To make: Sift the flour, baking powder 

and pinch of salt together in a 

medium mixing bowl. Make a well in 

the middle. Beat the egg and sugar 

together in a smaller mixing bowl 

and add milk and butter. Add milk 

and egg mixture to the well in the 

flour mixture and blend well to form 

a smooth batter. Lightly grease pan 

with butter. Heat pan to medium 

heat. Blob tablespoons of batter into 

the pan about 2cm apart. Fry the 

flapjacks on medium heat for about 

2min on one side until the top is full 

of air bubbles-the bottom should 

be golden brown. Turn and fry for 

another minute on the other side. 


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Text: Leah Shone | Photos: Chris Allan Photo 

Coastal escape 

Our incredible year-round warm climate and beautiful ocean views make the North 

Coast a sought after location for anyone looking to invest in a holiday home. This 

gorgeous Zinkwazi beach cottage was recently revamped for holiday rental purposes 

and the result is simply exquisite. 

After working alongside their 

architect to redesign what was 

originally bought as a beach cottage, 

the owners of this beautiful beachside 

abode called in the talented Caryn 

and Kath from Dandelion Designs to 

transform it into a relaxing, coastal 

escape. 

Although this Zinkwazi home, which 

is in walking distance from the beach, 

is often occupied by the owners who 

love spending time on the coast, 

it was also revamped for use as an 

Airbnb. With this in mind, Caryn 

and Kath’s approach to the interior 

was to create a space where guests 

would feel like they could take their 

shoes off, get comfy and unwind. “We 

embraced the beautiful natural light 


The designers embraced the natural light and 

stunning views from both levels of the cottage

The natural textures and colours of this Voke 

rug work beautifully in the TV lounge 

Sprucing up for rental! 

1. Know your guest. Who is your 

target market? Families, couples, 

luxury or budget? Understanding 

who you are planning the holiday 

rental for will help guide you to 

know what would be important for 

them. 

2. Comfort. A good night sleep as a 

guest is very important. Make sure 

your beds are comfy and aim to 

offer the best quality linen, pillows 

and duvet inners. It’s a nice idea to 

have two types of pillows on the 

bed – firm and soft – and ensure that 

your mattresses and pillows have 

protectors. 

3. Declutter. Although holiday 

rentals are often also family homes or 

cottages guests don’t want to see all 

your stuff and family pictures. Taking 

personal items out and de-cluttering 

will make a guest feel more relaxed. 

Include a small lockable storage area 

in your rental for all your personal 

items that guests don’t access and 

you can bring those out when you 

or friends visit. 

Caryn and Kath 

and stunning views from both levels of the cottage and all the materials, colours 

and finishes used were chosen with relaxation and comfort in mind,” says Kath. 

Earthy colours, timbers and rattan textures dominate the interior, giving the 

cottage a modern coastal feel without being too clichéd ‘beachy’. They also used 

lots of plants inside, to give the feeling of a merging of the indoors and outdoors. 

Most of the pieces in the cottage were custom designed to suit each space. 

Notable pieces include the outdoor furniture on the upstairs verandah from 

local company Alifurn Outdoor Living, the beautiful Houdtlander dining table 

and server, which has beautiful lines and joinery detail and the Voke rugs in the 

TV lounge and master bedroom. “Voke brought us a sneak preview of their new 

range when we are planning the cottage and we fell in love with the natural 

textures and colours. The new Freshly Woven collection was perfect for the 

spaces!” 

Founded by Caryn Overton and Katherine McIntosh, Dandelion Designs is an 

interior design and project facilitation studio based in Salt Rock. They focus on 

residential and commercial projects, including new builds and refurbishments, 

harnessing their combined passion for bringing people’s visions to life through 

the creation of beautiful spaces that are rooted in functionality. 

We asked them to share some tips for creating a beautiful holiday rental home... 

Details: Katherine McIntosh: 072 825 8418, kath@dandeliondsa.co.za, Caryn Overton: 

072 707 7016, caryn@danelionsa.co.za, www.dandelionsa.co.za 

4. Technology. Have a good WIFI 

connection and leave passwords 

and instructions for access. Some 

guests need to work remotely or just 

need a good connection so they can 

#hashtag lots of selfies! Offering a 

Smart TV with access to Netflix and 

possibly having a Bluetooth speaker 

so that guests can play music is 

always a bonus. 

5. Coffee! Items like a coffee 

machine, smoothie maker or juicer 

will give your guest a good start to 

the day. Leaving a jar of homemade 

rusks to go with their coffee is a 

lovely extra touch to make them feel 

welcome. 

6. Focal points. When planning and 

designing your Airbnb, think about 

the areas you will photograph for the 

listing. Make sure that your photo’s 

stand out from the rest. 

7. Outdoor spaces. Our beautiful 

climate means outdoor spaces are 

important. Add a braai and outdoor 

seating or even some hanging pods. 


ESTATE SHUTTER 

AFFORDABLE HOME IMPROVEMENTS TO ENHANCE YOUR LIFESTYLE 

Tweaking your home with interesting additions and alterations can be practical, cost-effective as well as fun. Here are three ideas to consider 

that will also up the value of your property. 

CUT DOWN ON CLUTTER WITH SHUTTERS 

If your window treatments are starting to look tatty or old fashioned and you’re looking for a fresh approach, consider replacing them with 

shutters. They’ll update your home instantly, with their sleek, modern lines and classy look. 

Shutters do more than just look beautiful. You can adjust the louvres to get the right amount of privacy, sunlight, and air flow. Or close the 

louvres to block out irritating noise and to stop monkeys and baboons from getting inside your home to help themselves to your fruit basket. 

Louvre shutters vary in design and material, so do some research and find the type that best suits your circumstances. Trellidor make two 

different types of aluminium louvre shutter. One is engineered to provide high security, with built-in strength and patented locks. 

The other is designed for homes that don’t require this level of protection. They look similar and have excellent strengthening features 

including great locks, but their primary attraction is their good looks at an affordable price.

ESTATE CLEAR GUARD 

LOCKDOWN SHUTTER 

UPGRADE YOUR OUTDOOR AREA WITH SECURE 

MESH DOORS 

Patios are often the hub of home life but they do come with 

drawbacks that limit how long we spend out there. Mosquitoes, 

monkeys, coastal winds, and heat are a few that come to mind. 

One way to extend your use of this space is to fit mesh doors and 

windows. These are see-through so you don’t lose the view or that 

feeling of being outside. The mesh allows some airflow but blocks 

out strong wind. It is a fantastic mosquito deterrent as they can’t get 

through the mesh. Neither can snakes or any other creepy crawlies. 

There are different types of mesh products, so be sure to opt for a 

reliable product fitted by experts. Trellidor offers a high security 

version for free-standing homes as well as a lower priced design for 

homes where security is less of a requirement. 

CREATE A LOCKDOWN FOR YOUR ASSETS 

We’re all a bit twitchy about the word ‘lockdown’ since Covid-19 

arrived but creating one at home using roller shutters can add a 

tremendous amount of value. This type of lockdown could range 

from protecting your family at night to blocking off the entrance to a 

collector’s wine cellar. 

Roller shutters assist with internal climate control, not just for the 

wine cellar but also for patios, living areas and bedrooms. Being fully 

automated makes them easy to use, so they’re a good choice for a 

safe zone door to protect the most precious assets, your family. 

Trellidor has a new product in this range that is a ‘first’ for South 

Africa because it uses a non-motorised locking system. It is so 

strong that during testing, a forklift couldn’t open it. It may be 

something to consider for sensitive areas such as gun rooms or 

pharmaceutical storage spaces. 

CONTACT YOUR NEAREST TRELLIDOR OUTLET TO FIND OUT MORE ABOUT THESE EASY AND AFFORDABLE HOME IMPROVEMENTS 

BALLITO / DURBAN WEST / NORTH DURBAN 031 569 5000 

DURBAN CENTRAL & SOUTH 031 201 7927 | HIGHWAY 031 765 3567 

www.trellidor.co.za | Trellidor, Cottage Guard and The Ultimate Crime Barrier are registered trademarks of Trellicor (Pty) Ltd.

5top bathroom trends 

Your bathroom is much more than just another room in your home. 

It can be a sanctuary, a safe space and a place to unwind from 

the stresses of the day. We spoke to a talented team of bathroom 

specialists about some great current bathroom trends. 

The bathroom is, essentially, the place 

where you start and finish every 

day. So, naturally, you want it to be a 

beautiful, welcoming space, right? The 

team at Simply Bathrooms specialise 

in value-for-money, high quality 

bathroom products, ranging from 

sanitary ware to plumbing supplies. 

They shared their top five bathrooms 

trends for this year with us ... 

1. Industrial style 

Inspired by old industrial factories, this 

trend is all about incorporating raw 

building materials as finishes within 

your bathroom. There are a few ways 

of achieving the industrial look in your 

bathroom, including incorporating 

raw concrete counter tops, bathtubs 

and basins or using exposed beams 

and reclaimed wood. 


2. Brass finishes 

The brass finish trends allow you to 

add a little ‘luxe’ into your bathroom. 

Whether you opt for matt or satin 

finishes, brass always tend to bring a 

sense of glam into a space. This can 

be achieved with various finishes, 

including faucets, exposed piping, a 

brass bath mixer with a hand shower 

and, if you’re feeling brave, even a 

bathtub! 

3. Wooden finishes 

As our lives become increasingly 

busier, we all want (and need) a 

little bit of calm at the end of a day. 

Incorporating wooden finishes 

into your bathroom is great way of 

bringing a sense of nature and calm 

into the space. Wooden finishes are 

also a great way to add texture and 

layering. 

4. Floating vanities 

Floating vanities are a great choice for any size bathroom, but more specifically 

smaller bathrooms. Floating vanities create the illusion of space by making your 

bathroom appear lighter. Using the trend of a floating vanity is a great way to 

introduce a new texture into your space as well. 

5. Black is the new grey 

From black fixtures, tiles and accessories (and if you are feeling very brave, an 

all-black bathroom), black creates a feeling of luxury and elegance. The key 

to incorporating and designing a bathroom using black fixtures is the use 

of texture. You can introduce black into your bathroom by adding a feature 

wall or black tiles as a way of bringing in texture and a black shower door and 

accessories will create a chic, simplistic look. 

Details: Simply Bathroom, Unit 1, Tiffany Centre, Salt Rock Road, 032 940 1240, 

www.simplybathrooms.co.za 

Unit 1, Tiffany Centre, 

Salt Rock Road. 

032 940 1240 

www.simplybathrooms.co.za 

Brands we stock: Hansgrohe, Axor, 

Meissen, Franke, Victoria & Albert , 

Dado, Bagno Design, Geberit 

Gio , Stunning, Bathroom Butler , 

Blutide, Jeeves, Shaws of Darwin, Perin 

& Rowe , Ross May Ceramics, Lecico 

Clearcube , And many more. 

Simply Bathrooms is a familyowned 

business providing 

bathroom and plumbing supplies 

in Salt Rock & Hillcrest. Their 

focus is providing all-round value 

for money and quality bathroom 

products range of quality taps, 

sanitary ware, sinks, bathrooms 

cabinets and accessories.

Bridal 

Newly engaged or deep in the wedding planning trenches? Or perhaps you just love seeing 

beautiful love stories unfold? Our 2021 bridal feature is sure to inspire, excite and delight you!

A moment 

in time 

Nothing warms the heart quite like a wedding. It is the 

coming together of so many dreams and is, ultimately, the 

beginning of a love story. We chatted to two local brides 

who shared the details of their special day with us. 

AUTUMN SUNSET 

Bride and groom: Nombuso 

and Mpilo 

Please tell us about the proposal? 

It was July 2018 and we went away to 

Cathedral Peak in the Drakensberg. 

We booked a helicopter ride that 

takes you on a romantic picnic at the 

top of a mountain. It was our first time 

in a helicopter, so it was an exciting 

experience. When we got to the top 

Mpilo wanted to take pictures (which I 

found quite irritating in that moment, 

haha). I didn’t realise of course that he 

was trying to get me to stand up. As 

soon as we were done with the ‘selfies’ 

he got down on one knee. Of course, 

I said yes! 

What look and feel did you have in 

mind for your wedding? 

We wanted our wedding feel warm, 

with orange, mustard and emerald 

green hues. Ultimately this translated 

into a theme we called ‘Autumn 

sunset’. 


How did the pandemic affect your plans for your wedding? 

We had to postpone our wedding by six months, which meant we 

ended up having an Autumn-themed wedding in Spring! Covid 

meant all our plans had to be paused and we had to re-evaluate 

our priorities. We nearly lost the venue due to the liquidation of the 

business. It was a tough time with high emotions as the venue is 

one of the most important parts of a wedding day. Of course, the 

restriction on numbers meant we couldn’t have all the family and 

friends we originally planned to invite. It was hard to make cuts, but 

we are so blessed with understanding family and friends. 

Please tell us about the planning process and executing your 

vision for your wedding? 

Hiring Oh Happy Day, the wedding coordinators, is literally the best 

thing you could ever do for your wedding! They understood our 

vision and created a stunning mood board, which was perfect and we 

didn’t change a single detail. Then they brought it to life and literally 

went beyond our expectations and wildest dreams. They really took 

the stress away by supporting us and being our calm in the storm. 

Please share some of the details of your perfect day … 

Venue: The Groves (Previously Orchards Wedding Venue) 

Bride’s gown: Diamond Love Bridal Couture 

Bridesmaids dresses: Chanelle Wright 

Groom: Verge Legacy Tailored 

Groomsmen outfits: EuroSuit 

Hair & makeup: Lilly Buhle Ngcobo and Makeup by Mpilo 

Flowers: Oh Happy Day 

Food: CHC Catering 

Photographer: Kate Martens Photography 

FLOWERS & FUN 

Bride and groom: Kelly and 

Grant 

Please tell us about the proposal. 

We are both very close to our families, 

but while my immediate family all 

live on the North Coast, Grant’s live 

in Pietermaritzburg and Cape Town. 

He wanted to make sure that they 

would all be around to the share and 

celebrate the occasion with us, so 

he proposed when they were all in 

the area on holiday. Grant took me 

for lunch at Zimbali for ‘some quality 

time’. Afterwards, we went for a walk 

on the beach, which we love doing. 

On the walk, he dropped to one knee 

and popped the question. I was so 

happily surprised and immediately 

said yes. He had hidden a picnic 

blanket and champagne in the 

bushes and we spend some time 

enjoying the moment. When we were 

finished, we turned to make our way 

back and there, gathered at the top 

of the beach, were both our families. I 

burst into tears. It was so special. 


What look and feel did you have in mind for your wedding? 

We wanted a fun, vibrant mood using a bright, warm colour palette. We did this 

using plenty of flowers and candles … and accentuated the vibe with the music! 

A special mention must go to my good friend, Gabriela Mckenzie, who was 

responsible for the absolutely breathtaking flower arrangements. 

Please tell us about your beautiful wedding dress and bridesmaids dresses. 

My wedding dress was romantic, classic, soft and flowy, in an off white with 

lace. It was designed by the fabulous, talented Julia Ferrandi. At the reception, 

I changed my accessories to go for more of a ‘fashionable party’ feel. It was 

the perfect dress for me and I absolutely loved it! I had four bridesmaids and I 

wanted them all to feel beautiful and comfortable in their dresses so I decided to 

leave it to each of them to decide on the style and colour of their dresses, which 

were to be either a deep cerise pink or tangerine. They all have impeccable style 

and, when the day arrived, they looked simply stunning! Their dresses were all 

designed by the incredible designer, Bianca Warren. 

Please share any other special details that added to the magic of your day? 

There were so many special moments. One I will never forget was when my 

husband serenaded me on the dance floor to ‘Bed of Roses’ by Bon Jovi (this 

was definitely not planned!). Also, as the guests were seated in the reception 

area, the ‘tequila song’ played while waiters served everyone tequila shots. This 

undoubtedly set the tone for the amazing celebrations that lay ahead! Although 

Kylie allowed her bridesmaids to design their own 

dresses, all of which were made by Bianca Warren 

we had hoped for a sunny day, the 

rain and mist of the Midlands worked 

wonders in creating a magical dreamlike 

setting for our wedding. We had a 

photo booth and, as the celebrations 

gathered steam, the photos became 

so much more fun! What made ours 

so memorable was that we were able 

to make use of the exquisite flower 

arch as a backdrop to all the revelry! 

Please share some of the details of 

your perfect day 

Venue: Haycroft Farm 

Food: Hamblins Catering 

Groom and groomsmen outfits: 

Eurosuit Umhlanga 

Brides gown: Julia Ferrandi 

Bridesmaids dresses: Bianca Warren 

Hair & Makeup: Volenti Laurentina 

and Juliet Martin (Nixon) 

Flowers: Fresh flowers on Florida - 

Gabriela McKenzie and Jane Allison 

Music: Steven Heyns (The Wedding 

DJ) and musician James Freedom 

Photographer: Wilma Towell 

Photography 


eauty FOCUS 

Peeling 

power 

for the perfect glow 

with QMS Medicosmetics 

Why exfoliate? 

Because it really is one of the most important steps 

in any skincare system, forming the foundation to 

prepare your skin for subsequent skincare. It should 

be done regularly, consistently, and safely. Regular 

treatment with fruit acids is one of the best ways to 

exfoliate the skin and is the key to skin regeneration. 

It provides multiple benefits to the skin without 

negatively impacting the deeper layers of the skin. 

With age, your skin toughens, and when you exfoliate, 

you remove the dry, scaly, dead skin, which allows for 

stimulating cell regeneration and production. Fruit 

acids also assist with the increase and stimulation of 

collagen, elastin, and hyaluronic acid production. So, 

new life is bought to the skin by increasing oxygen, 

nutrients, and moisture. The result … your skin is 

immediately firmer, smoother, softer, and more radiant. 

Is it possible to over-exfoliate? 

As it turns out, when it comes to your face and 

exfoliation, you can have too much of a good thing! 

Over-exfoliating is one of the biggest mistakes you 

can make … it can leave your skin feeling irritated, 

dry, and flaky. It can also cause a burning sensation, 

breakouts, and increased sensitivity to other products 

in your routine. Your skin may develop a tight, 

wax-like texture, which you could mistake for a glow 

but in reality, your skin’s been stripped of essential oils. 

A healthy glow will always look plump and hydrated 

not dry, thin, or waxy. 

Why QMS? 

Fortunately, peeling with QMS is safe and effective. 

The brand’s fruit acid complexes are combined 

with anti-irritant and hydrating ingredients … so no 

downtime, no undesired side effects and no trauma to 

the skin. They are safe for all skin types and conditions, 

even sensitive and problematic skin, can be used 

all-year round because there is no sensitivity to the 

sun, and don’t make the skin thin with a waxy ‘glow’. 

Instead, your skin will appear firmer, plumper, more 

even with improved radiance. 


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The new QMS Gentle Exfoliant Lotions are made up of a 

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effect, dissolves cornification, and stimulates cell division in the 

epidermis without irritating the skin. The effective ingredients in 

this dermatologically tested lotion provide a radiant, hydrated, 

and smooth complexion. So you’ll experience 

an increases cell renewal rate, your skin will be 

left feeling silky smooth, your skin structure 

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Who should use it? 

Everyone! There is hardly a skin type or 

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treatment. Oily skin returns to normal, 

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There’s a trio of QMS Gentle Exfoliant 

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A drive-in wedding 

If nothing else, living through a pandemic has forced us all to think out of the box. The idea of 

hosting a ‘drive-in’ wedding was suggested to Collisheen Estate owner Wayne Hulett during the 

hard lockdown as a joke. But a seed was planted and Wayne decided to go with it! 

Bride Sam Pillay shared her drive-in wedding experience with us ... 

Sam and Kursh always knew they 

wanted to do something unique for 

their wedding and when they saw 

a video on Facebook of the mock 

drive-in wedding, they knew this was 

for them! 

Although they have gone back to 

hosting regular, in-person weddings, 

Wayne says the drive-in concept 

offered a great alternative for couples 

who didn’t want to postpone their 

special day. 

“Our executive head chef and her 

team prepared delicious canapés, 

which we served directly to the 

guests’ cars and the ceremony 

consisted of just a minister, bride and 

groom and two witnesses for the 

wedding party. Family and friends 

parked in an oval shape surrounding 

the aisle and gazebo and could tune 

in on their car radio to listen. After 

saying their vows the newlyweds cut 

the cake and enjoyed their first dance 

in the middle of the oval with the 

onlookers hooting and flashing their 

lights to celebrate the occasion!” 

Details of the day … 

Sam considered a number of different styles and looks for her wedding, but 

eventually settled on a modern South Indian style, which she felt would be 

elegant and timeless but still rich and colourful. “We contacted Collisheen and 

spoke to their amazing coordinator Amanda. We booked a date and planned our 

wedding in three weeks! It was one of the craziest things either of us have ever 

done but it turned out to be the most magical day.” Sam was styled by Teeno 

Perumal and wore a traditional South Indian kanjivaram silk saree in cream and 

maroon and Kursh wore a matching traditional Indian Sherwani. 

“Amanda coordinated the wedding and everyone said that I was the most calm, 

relaxed bride they had ever seen. She and the Collisheen team were amazing 

to work with and they went above and beyond to make our day incredible!” 

Despite the pouring rain on their big day, Sam and Kursh’s guests were able to 

enjoy a wonderful pyrotechnic display from Terence Naidoo of Sound, Light & 

Decor Technologies, as well as a live performance by singer Ashleigh Joseph. 

“Our guests were treated to the most divine sweetmeats made by Faye Pramraj 

of Whisked Away who also did our wedding cake. People still ask me about that 

burfee! I truly believe that we had the incredible day that we did because we 

worked with an absolute dream team from start to finish,” says Sam. 

The couple had to postpone their dream honeymoon to the Philippines due to 

travel restrictions, and as a result, Sam says, it’s turned into a ‘babymoon’ as they 

are now expecting baby! “We were so grateful to have been able to have our 

dream wedding in the midst of what seemed like the impossible and we are so 

grateful to Amanda and the Collisheen team for making this happen.” 

Details: Venue: Collisheen Estate: info@collisheen.co.za Photographer: Stephen 

Railton: https://www.stephenrailton.com/ Cake and sweetmeats: Whisked Away: 

whiskedaway_withfaye Stylist: Teeno Perumal: @teenoperumal 

The bride and groom ... 

Bride and groom Sam and Kush have had a whirlwind romance. They met on Instagram and moved in together within a 

year. They got engaged the year after that, during the first lockdown. “Kursh is the more romantic out of the two of us and 

he had planned to propose in a hot air balloon. Covid happened and we went into lockdown and so, one evening while I 

was cooking, he started rambling on about how much he loves me … and the next thing I knew he was on his knees in the 

kitchen with a ring? I obviously said yes!” 


Wedding cakes... 

with a twist! 

Wedding cakes, they say, are a symbol of good luck for the couple and all the guests at the 

wedding. They are also a really great way to bring some fun and creativity to your special 

day. We love these slightly less traditional wedding cake options ... 

ICE CREAM CAKE 

Not only does our year-round warm climate lend 

itself perfectly to serving your guests ice cream cake 

on your wedding day, but ice cream also just makes 

everything more fun and festive, right? No one does 

ice cream (and ice cream cakes) quite like Amanda and 

her team at Scoop. She says couples are looking for 

alternatives to traditional wedding cakes and bespoke 

ice cream creations are eye catching and full of flavour. 

“We love creating unique cakes for all occasions. One 

of my favourite cakes was for the Lifestyle Centre’s first 

birthday celebration. It was three tiers, the bottom 

being chocolate, the middle mint choc chip and the top 

Madagascan vanilla, piled high with scoops of different ice 

creams and sorbet and drizzled with melted chocolate. It 

was big enough to serve 150 people!” A Scoop wedding 

cake ranges from around R1800 for a two-tier cake that 

serves 80 people. Details: Scoop Ice Cream, The Lifestyle 

Centre Ballito, amanda@scoopicecream.co.za, 


MACARON CAKE 

Creative, chic and delicious … everyone loves a macaron! Madame 

Macaron, based in Durban North, offer a wide range of macaron 

cake options for bridal couples. Owner Viveshni says macaron 

towers are an elegant, decadent, ‘out-of-the-box’ option for your 

special day. The macarons can be arranged in tiers on an acrylic 

stand with a cake as a topper so you can still do the traditional 

‘cutting of the cake’. “Macarons afford the bride the opportunity 

to have a beautiful display in her colour palette, as well as a wide 

range of flavour options. You can have a ‘show-stopper’ display 

without breaking the bank.” A popular choice, she says, is having 

an ombre tower, with darker shades at the bottom leading up 

to lighter shades as you move up the tiers. “One of our favourite 

cakes to date incorporated blush pink roses on the alternating tiers. 

We also had a couple with a rainbow palette and each tier was a 

different colour of the rainbow.” The average price of a macaron 

wedding cake is between R1350 (for 70 macarons) and R3800 

(for 230 macarons). Details: www.madamemacaron.co.za, info@ 

madamemacaron.co.za, 0664886265, FB and IG: @MadameMacaronSA

CHEESE TOWER CAKE 

Let them eat cake …. that is made of cheese! Some couples are opting 

for a more savoury approach to the traditional wedding cake with a 

cheese tower instead. Delicious, striking and perfect for cheese-lovers, a 

cheese tower is also easy to decorate and the options are endless when 

it comes to flavours and combinations. Owner of The Big Cheese in 

Westville Sid Oertel says cheese towers are popular for weddings where 

lighter meals, such as a harvest table, are being served. They are also 

cost-effective and there is no wastage as the cheese can be safely stored 

for later. “We always take the couple’s preferences into consideration 

and guide them with their selection of cheeses, which can include mild, 

strong, flavoured, blue mould, white mould, smoked etc. Cheese comes 

in different shapes and sizes, so we also take that into consideration 

when designing the tower. We can also use wooden blocks and wedges 

to create more layers if necessary,” says Sid. Cheese towers look beautiful 

adorned with fruit, flowers and even succulents! The price of a cheese 

tower depends on the number of people and cheese selection, but 

they range from approximately R2500 to R3500. Details: The Big Cheese: 

082 862 0577, sid@thebigcheesesa.co.za, FB: @thebigcheesesa 

ARTSY CAKE 

If you’re looking for something really fun and different, how about 

an edible work of art for your wedding cake? According to Milk and 

Honey Cakery owner Janine, Buttercream painted artsy cakes are a 

modern and trendy way to incorporate your theme into an artistic, 

edible masterpiece. “The cake becomes the canvas and the picture 

is painted with various techniques and tools that result in a textured 

oil painting effect. Artsy abstract cakes are versatile, tell a story and 

are intriguing to the eye.” These cakes, she says, are popular amongst 

creative couples who want to express themselves. They are also 

incredibly unique and can never be replicated. “This is my favourite 

form of cake decorating because it is really free-spirited and you 

never really know what it’s going to be until it is done. I love using 

palette knifing techniques to create textured abstract pieces and 

floral paintings and I always finish off with metallic accents and florals 

or sugared art to add that extra sophisticated and elegant touch.” 

You can expect to pay between R900 and R1300 for a single tier, 

depending on the size and flavour of the cake. Details: Janine: 081 700 

2965, info@milkandhoneycakery.co.za, IG and FB: @milkandhoneycakeryza 

A VEGAN CAKE 

More and more people are choosing healthier, alternative lifestyles and the vegan 

diet in particular has become hugely popular. This means there are bound to be 

at least a few vegans amongst your wedding guests! Having a vegan cake sounds 

a bit scary, but the Propa Food Bar team are masters at creating stunning (and 

very yummy) creations using super healthy ingredients. A vegan cake eliminates 

all animal products, like dairy and eggs (which are usually the main components 

of cakes!) and they also don’t use any gluten, flour, refined sugar or artificial 

ingredients in their cakes. Owner Steph tells us that they have seen a definite 

increase in people looking for healthier dessert options. “The need to prioritise 

health has never been more important. Veganism (done right) includes a lot more 

plants, vegetables and fruit (and thus nutrients) when compared to a standard 

diet that is often laden with processed food and artificial ingredients.” Some of 

their most recent cakes include their Propa Vegan Chocolate Mousse Cake, Vegan 

Salted Peanut Butter Caramel Cake and Vegan Raspberry & Lemon Cheesecake – 

all of which are dairy, gluten and refined sugar free! The cakes are frozen and can 

be taken out half an hour before serving. They are creamy and decadent, while still 

being healthy. A typical single layer cake will cost between R800 and R1000. Details: 

Steph: 072 463 9512 (whatsapp), steph@somama.co.za, IG and FB: @propafoodbar 


Put a (stylish) ring on it 

Choosing an engagement ring is one of the most exciting parts of getting married. After 

all, this is the piece of jewellery you’ll be wearing for the rest of your married life. So, 

where do you even begin? We asked some top local specialists about what’s trending ... 

From the traditional to the 

contemporary, engagement rings can 

be as unique and varied as the brides 

who wear them. Passionate about 

creating high quality yet affordable 

jewellery, we asked Catalisa Jewellery 

owners Cath and Liz to tell us about 

the current engagement ring trends. 

“Buyers today are discerning and they 

like to know that the stones they are 

buying are responsibly and ethically 

sourced. Most people also want 

to have their own style and it has 

become important that their taste is 

reflected in their choice of wedding 

and engagement rings.” 

1. The iconic solitaire has always been 

in style, but the modern take on this 

classic design sees the choice 

There has been a subtle shift to simplicity this 

year, but halo design is still very popular 

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of stone being set so simply that it 

gives the appearance of the stone 

floating on the finger. Skinny bands 

with various shaped diamonds and 

different coloured precious stones 

become the feature of this ring. 

2. The more contemporary version 

of the classic Trilogy ring sees petite 

side stones and pear cut diamonds 

being a popular choice and once 

again, skinny rounded bands allow 

the stones to be the hero of the ring. 

We are also seeing a big demand for 

Trilogy rings where all three stones 

are a similar size or where a striking 

blue sapphire or red ruby is used as 

the centre stone making a beautiful 

statement. 

3. Even though there has been a 

subtle shift to simplicity this year, the 

ever popular Halo design never fails 

to deliver. With a choice of centre 

stone, this stunning design can be 

adapted to suit every pocket and 

style. Tiny brilliant cut diamonds set 

closely to frame the centre stone 

add an extra sparkle to any shaped 

diamond or coloured stone. 

4. Every bride-to-be wants to make 

her ring unique which is why bespoke 

made rings are so popular. Getting to design your own ring from scratch allows 

for a myriad choices in size and colour with different shaped diamonds and 

coloured stones being the most popular ways to ensure each ring takes on a 

style of its own. 

5. A subtle addition of almost undetectable details in the ring is a highly sought 

after feature. The inclusion of a secret halo is the perfect way to add a little 

personality and sparkle to an otherwise simple ring. 

6. While rose gold is still a popular choice, yellow gold is the most sought after 

metal for rings this year. Two -tone rings are another favourite and can give a 

slight vintage look to a ring. 

7. To complement their wedding rings, brides are mostly choosing minimalistic 

tiny claw set diamond bands or twisted bands which are worn alongside their 

rings. A new trend however, has been the introduction of new bold chunky 

bands which are worn alone as a statement piece. 

Gents rings have followed the trend with more minimalistic bands also mainly 

in yellow gold. Hard wearing black carbon fibre rings are a 

practical and durable and also very popular. 

Details: Contact Cath or Liz at Catalisa 

Jewellery, info@catalisajewellery.co.za, 

www.catalisajewellery.co.za 

Specialising in bespoke jewellery, 

custom design and manufacture. 

Our range includes engagement rings, 

wedding bands, remodelling of old 

jewellery and the design of other 

timeless pieces. 

Catalisa Jewellery 

info@catalisajewellery.co.za 

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Planning a honeymoon? 

Go local! 

From sipping cocktails on an idyllic Wild Coast beach, to swimming in your own private pool 

overlooking the African bush or cuddling up next to the fire at a five-star mountain retreat … 

we’ve rounded up some of the most romantic local destinations that won’t break the bank. 

1 

Umngazi Hotel & Spa 

Umngazi orchestrates 

unforgettable romantic 

honeymoons and has 

earned a reputation as one 

of South Africa’s premier 

romantic destinations. Special 

Honeymoon suites provide 

privacy and added pampering, 

while their spectacular 

spa offers idyllic romantic 

treatments for two. The outof-season 

Uthando package 

offers three or five-day stays at 

Umngazi. Details: 

requests@umngazi.co.za, 

047 564 1115/6/8/9 

MONTUSI MOUNTAIN LODGE 

Only three hours from Durban, the Berg 

offers the perfect escape for a honeymoon 

getaway. Spend sunny days adventuring 

quiet hiking trails through forests into 

caves and enjoy fireside sundowners at 

the dam or on an exclusive horse ride 

for two. Check into the spa for a couples’ 

massage before snuggling into your suite 

for a cosy night in. With delicious cuisine, 

luxurious accommodation and so much 

space, this is just what you need ... just up 

the N3! Details: www.montusi.co.za. 

FB: @montusi.lodge, 

IG: @montusimountainlodge 

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RAIN FARM GAME & LODGE 

Besides being an idyllic venue for a 

wedding ceremony with an ‘African flair’ 

(the authentic stone chapel is so quaint for 

I DO’s!), Rain Farm also boasts a romantic 

honeymoon suite, which is the perfect 

hideout for couples after months of 

wedding planning! With its cosy fireplace 

and Victorian bathtub, tucked away in 

nature and wildlife, could anything be more 

ruggedly beautiful? Guests and family can 

even stay in one of the luxury tree top tents 

or self-catering chalets. On-site activities 

include game drives, Boma restaurant, 

rock pool, spa, walking trails and a viewing 

deck for a fun, memorable and enjoyable 

experience. Details: 032 815 1050, info@ 

rainfarm.co.za, www.rainfarm.co.za 

RHINO RIVER LODGE 

Romantic private boma dinners, scenic 

sundowners, beds surrounded by 

flowing white mosquito nets and baths 

big enough for two – it is all part of the 

magic at Rhino River Lodge. Situated 

in the heart of Zululand, Rhino River 

Lodge is a relaxed, Big 5 safari property 

boasting unpretentious luxury and warm, 

personalised hospitality. Enjoy twice-daily 

game drives guided by highly qualified 

rangers and hearty cuisine highlighting 

local ingredients served under the stars 

around a campfire. Details: 

www.rhinoriverlodge.co.za, 083 781 4924, 

info@rhinoriverlodge.co.za 

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GHOST MOUNTAIN INN 

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journey together at Ghost 

Mountain Inn ... the quintessential 

romantic setting for a beautiful 

honeymoon. The relaxed 

Zululand ambiance, combined 

with personalized service, sets 

the tone for a marriage built on 

adventure, romance and exquisite 

experiences. Details: 

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ASHTON IS ON TOP OF THE WORLD! 

“I am so incredibly proud of the 2020 Cambridge IGCSE students who worked so hard to achieve 

outstanding results in their November 2020 IGCSE (International General Certificate in Secondary 

Education),” said an elated Senior College Head, Jenny van Buuren. 

“We recently received the exciting news that Sashna Govender clinched the spot 

of the Top Student in South Africa for Accounting and Danielle Boshoff is the Top 

Student in the World for Afrikaans as a Second Language and Physical Science. This is 

a phenomenal achievement!” 

Sashna Govender Achieved 98% for Accounting to give her the top spot in South 

Africa. Sashna’s other marks were also fantastic, all above 92% with a 95.67% average. 

She achieved 98% for Mathematics, 97% for Physical Science, 95% for Afrikaans, 94% 

for English and 92% for Business. 

“With 99% for Afrikaans as a Second Language and 98% for Physical Science and 

an average of 96.67%, we are thrilled that Danielle Boshoff was announced as the 

Top Student in the World for these two subjects”, said Jenny van Buuren. Danielle’s 

other results are also exceptional with 97% for Accounting, 98% for Biology, 96% for 

Mathematics and 92% for English. 

Each year Cambridge rewards a number of students for their excellent results. For 

the November 2020 Examinations, there were seven subjects where SA students 

achieved top marks. “This year Danielle clinched the prestigious spot as the 

Top Student in two subjects. Over 140 countries and 4500 schools write these 

examinations. To achieve this is simply extraordinary.” 

The Senior College teachers’ dedication and commitment to assisting the students 

achieve excellence is evident every day, says Mrs van Buuren. Bearing in mind that 

eighty percent of the preparations for these examinations were done online during 

lockdown, the IGCSE students achieved a one hundred percent pass rate with an 

average of five distinctions per candidate and all of the students achieved an average 

of 73% and above. “I am so proud of the 

students and the teachers for the hours 

of work they put in. Their hard work 

paid off”, concluded Mark Charlesworth, 

Academic Head of the Senior College. 

A true reflection of not only heart, 

spirit, character and courage, but one 

of dedication, commitment and having 

specialised teachers at Ashton. 

Details: Ashton International College Ballito, Albertina Way / 032 946 2096 / marketing@ashtonballito.co.za 


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Collar & Comb … 

following a passion 

It wasn’t only doom and gloom to come out of the hard lockdown 

period. In fact, many people finally found the time to follow their 

passions. Collar & Comb owner Vicky Lingley is one such person. 

She shares her journey with us. 

“Collar and Comb was born from my 

absolute love for dogs. The world came 

to a standstill and I found myself with 

the time I needed to put my dream into 

motion. They say that if you love what 

you do, you will never work a day in 

your life … and to me this is the best job 

in the world!” 

Collar & Comb is a Ballito-based dog 

grooming boutique and accessory store, 

offering a variety of services to suit 

different breeds, coats and skin types … 

and that’s not where it ends. 

Vicky, determined to expand her 

knowledge and services, is currently 

completing courses in dog psychology, 

dog nutrition and dog first aid. “I want 

to give my clients the best advice. As a 

proud fur-kid mom of two, Egor and Ted, 

I felt that Ballito needed a pampering 

parlour for pooches.” 

With a focus on ensuring their fur clients 

are comfortable, Vicky and her team are 

patient and kind and give the dogs lots 

of TLC. “From the moment we receive 

them to when they are fetched, we 

groom them, love them, walk and feed 

them yummy natural treats to make 

them feel at home. 

“We offer specialized scissor cutting and 

are aware that each dog breed has a 

different coat and skin type and not all 

can be shaved down to the bare skin.” 

Collar & Comb uses the best hypoallergenic 

shampoo and grooming 

products and their team of six friendly 

staff members, Jeff, Happy, Darlene, 

Kimmy and Pearl (and Vicky) are ready 

to welcome you and your fur kids with 

a warm smile and loving care. They 

have large open-top play pens (with 

astro turf for comfort) in the holding 

area at the main entrance floor. “Dogs 

are calm in the play pens and don’t feel 

‘caged’ as they can see the activity from 

other doggies and owners coming in 


and out. The movement in the parlour 

reduces separation anxiety and them 

feel relaxed.” 

There is a large walk-in wet room wash 

bay for the bigger dogs and those with 

health concerns or who should not 

be lifted into baths. The ‘groom room’ 

is open so customers can see what is 

being done at all times. 

For the humans, Collar & Comb has 

a seating area, wifi and cappuccinos 

on hand if you wish to wait! They also 

have a loyalty system that generously 

rewards customers with discounts and 

prizes for ongoing bookings. 

A true one-stop-shop, Collar & Comb 

has a wide range of treats, food, 

beautiful toys and accessories. Brands 

include, amongst others: Kingsley and 

Gray, Ruffined, True Love, Royal Canin, 

Mimi and Munch, Vets Choice, Montego, 

Loki’s Collars and Leads, Doggy Lish, 

Yap treats, Wolf and Women, Cool Dogs, 

Canna Cure, Pannatural, River Hound 

and many more. A doggy Day Care and 

Grooming Pick up and drop off service is 

also being added to their services soon. 

Details: Collar & Comb, Unit 3 Preash Park, 

Garlicke Drive, Ballito, 031 942 3291, 082 

319 3437, vicky@collarandcomb.co.za 

Win Name Collar & Comb’s 

new mascot statue who 

guards the front entrance to 

the shop (a black labrador) 

and you could win a YEAR 

of grooming for your pooch! 

To enter: Like their Facebook 

page @CollarandcombZA, 

follow them on Instagram 

@collaracombza, tag a 

friend and tell them your 

suggested mascot name. The 

competition runs from 1 May 

to 1 July and the winner will 

be announced on Facebook.

Kids 

This May we’re talking ... 

Marvellous midwives 

and why we need them 

Teen skin woes & 

your first skincare regime 

Introducing eggy-love 

into early weaning 

Drinkerbell 

an ‘accessory’ that could 

save your teen’s life 

may fun!

Marvellous midwives 

This month, as we celebrate International Midwive’s Day, we take a closer look at the 

remarkable profession of midwifery, which is much more than just a job, but a calling. 

Professionally trained and highly 

experienced private midwife Cheryl 

Rowe has been in private practice for 

over two decades. She is passionate 

about helping every woman in her 

care experience a birth she can 

remember and cherish forever. 

Birth is often accompanied by fear 

and trepidation and midwives like 

Cheryl aim to eliminate that, rather 

bringing mothers through labour with 

excitement and anticipation, knowing 

that both they and their babies are 

safe. 

Having trained at Addington 

Hospital in 1986, Cheryl specialised 

in midwifery in 1993, working in 

traditional labour wards for a number 

of years. “I gained valuable experience 

in the management of complications 

in pregnancy and childbirth, but I also 

realised there must be gentler options 

for the birthing mother with a low risk 

Text: Leah Shone | Photos: Darian Ryan Fine Art Photography 

pregnancy.” 

She started her midwifery practice, 

Cheryl’s Gentle Births, 21 years 

ago. She had two unmedicated 

waterbirths at home herself, 

strengthening her belief in a woman’s 

right to choose the type of birth that 

is right for her. 

So, what does a private midwife 

do? “A private midwife is trained 

to care for uncomplicated, healthy 

women during pregnancy and assist 

them during active hospital births, 

water births and home births. She is 

trained to detect problems, both in 

pregnancy and in labour, in advance, 

and refer timeously should the need 

arise,” says Cheryl. 

Where an obstetrician/gynaecologist 

is the expert in managing abnormal, 

high-risk pregnancies and deliveries 

(and will therefore routinely deliver 

their clients using high-tech, highintervention 

methods), Cheryl says 

private midwives are considered 

much more of the experts as far as 

active birth goes. Fully supported by 

an experienced team of gynaes and 


Dimmed lights, minimal noise and 

gentle handling are encouraged 

specialist sonographers, the mantra of ‘safety first’ is always adhered 

to. During active phase of labour, the mother is encouraged to 

remain upright and mobile, often shortening labour significantly 

and reducing the risk of needing a c-section, forceps or vacuum 

delivery. 

“Private midwives focus on the physical and emotional needs of the 

expectant mother. What affects the mind affects the body! We also 

have a very family-focused approach and dad is not the only one 

allowed in the delivery room. Birth plans are encouraged as each 

pregnancy and labour is unique and we use natural methods of 

intervention (mobility, gravity, homeopathy) to stimulate a sluggish 

labour, start an overdue one and provide the mother with pain relief.” 

Cheryl says mothers may also use narcotic drugs should the need 

arise. “All options of pain relief are available to you, including 

epidural, however 95% of midwife-assisted births need no drug 

intervention.” She says narcotic medication is only offered to moms 

in hospital, to reduce the risk of side effects. 

When it comes to the experience for babies, Cheryl says they can 

and do experience pain and trauma during birth. “Private midwives 

take measures to ensure a gentler transition from womb to world. 

Dimmed lights, minimal noise and gentle handling are encouraged 

and baby is placed skin-to-skin with mom or dad for the first hour.” 

There is also postnatal support, with visits either in hospital or at 

home to assist with breastfeeding and do physical checks on both 

the mom and baby. 

Her main goal, Cheryl says, is always to ensure that the mother 

experiences a wonderful birth, whether that be a natural birth 

or caesarian section. “I truly believe that it is just as possible for a 

woman who has an emergency caesarian to feel like she has had a 

wonderful birth as it is for a woman who has her baby at home. The 

key is not what happened, but that you were able to participate in 

the decisions taken and make an informed choice.” Details: Cheryl’s 

Gentle Births: 031 266 9952, 083 288 8203, cherylrowe@telkomsa.net. 

❤ Birthing Babies with Love ❤

Teen 

skin 

woes 

Teen years can be very stressful... 

especially as you experience a 

number of ‘firsts’. Navigating your first 

skincare routine can be particularly 

confusing. Qualified dermatologist 

Dr Cebi Sibisi shares some advice for 

dealing with teen skin concerns. 


“It’s as if, all of a sudden, your 

hormones have all teamed up and 

decided to hit you with a one-two 

punch of oily skin and acne, and 

you’ve got to figure out how to deal 

with that,” says Dr Sibisi. “There is 

also so much information on social 

platforms adding to the confusion, 

and often some of the ‘DIY advice’ can 

end up being more detrimental to the 

skin.” 

One of the most important things to 

remember, she says, is that apart from 

dealing with current skin concerns 

caused by hyperactive sebaceous 

glands, the products your teen uses 

will set up their skin for later in life. 

“My single most important piece of 

advice is to always keep it simple and 

when in doubt seek professional help,” 

she says. 

Acne is the most skin concern for 

teens. Dr Sibisi shares some advice: 

“The golden rule for cleansers 

is looking for a gentle foaming 

cleanser, which helps with oiliness 

or something with salicylic acid to 

fend off acne without excessively 

drying you out. On the moisturising 

front, opt for a lighter, oil-free lotion 

to avoid clogging the already overactive 

pores. Don’t be tempted to skip 

the moisturiser, this actually makes 

matters worse. Where there is mild 

acne, a benzoyl peroxide product can 

help. Introduce this slowly and with 

caution to avoid irritation. This is one 

of the gold standard acne-fighting 

ingredient because it immediately 

targets the source of acne breakouts. 

“We often talk about how retinoids should become a part of anyone’s night 

skincare routine by the time they hit their late twenties, but the vitamin A 

derivative can be ultra-effective for teens too. Retinol also helps with acne, so 

it’s helpful in both the short and long-term. A good SPF is a non-negotiable at 

any age. Slather an SPF 30 or more on every morning as the final step in your 

routine for protection for which your skin will be thanking you for later (trust me). 

To make things easier for teens, I always recommend a good moisturiser which 

already has a sunscreen (minimum SPF30).” 

Again, Dr Sibisi encourages parents to seek professional help if their teen’s skin 

looks serious or is not responding to over-the-counter options. “Never apply 

apple cider vinegar, toothpaste, lemons or whatever else the latest ‘influencer’ 

recommends! It may end in tears!” 

Hidden acne triggers to avoid: Poor diet high in dairy products, not cleansing 

your face twice a day, being too harsh on your skin (over-cleansing with abrasive 

scrubs, using harsh skin aggravating ingredients - if it stings or hurts it’s probably 

bad for your skin.), going to bed with makeup on, hair styling products (very 

oily or waxy leave-on hair products can track to the face and cause break outs 

especially on the forehead), inconsistent skincare 

Details: Book a consultation with Dr Sibisi: info@drcebidermatology.co.za, 6 Medigate 

Road, 031 566 4748

Text: BRONWYN FORBES-HARDINGE | Photos: TILANIE GROTE 

Drink spiking is a sad, scary reality when it comes to parenting a teen. But it no longer 

needs to be. Meet Drinkerbell ... a clever new initiative founded by a determined 

businesswoman and mother of five. 

“Drink spiking is rife. My daughter’s 

drink was spiked not too long ago 

and she nearly died. Some girls sadly 

do.” These are the heartfelt words 

of entrepreneur, mother of five and 

founder of Drinkerbell, Peach Piche. 

“This is not a nightclub or barman 

issue, it is happening at house parties, 

in restaurants and pubs and even 

at corporate golf days. Don’t ever 

assume you’re safe because you 

don’t drink alcohol! Spikers don’t 

know or care what’s in your glass. 

My daughter Skyla’s drink was spiked 

at an upmarket local restaurant at 

7pm. The effects were horrendous - 

physically, mentally and emotionally. 

It took her two months to recover 

and for the blood in her eyes to 

subside. More importantly, 

she could have died,” says 

Peach. “Unfortunately, some 

girls have died as a result and 

others have been assaulted, 

robbed, raped and callously 

murdered. And it is not only 

young girls being spiked, we 

have up to eight people a 

week (even women in their 

sixties) reaching out to share 

their stories.” 

Peach’s philosophy is that 

everything in life happens for 

a reason. 

You can choose to be a 


Drinkerbell 

to the rescue 

‘victor’ or a ‘victim’ so she chose to partner with her daughter Skyla to see how 

they could turn the mess into a ‘message’ and prevent incidents like this from 

happening to any other girls or women. 

“Drink spiking is a crime and, like with any crime, there needs to be a criminal 

mind and opportunity. Which is why we founded Drinkerbell - an initiative 

designed to raise awareness around drink spiking packaged with a potentially 

life-saving product: a scrunchie that turns into a drinks’ cover to minimise risk.” 

Girls can wear the scrunchie in their hair or on their wrist at all times and, when 

ordering a drink, simply open the secret compartment in the scrunchie and slide 

out the waterproof drinks cover, and eco-friendly, reusable silicone straw. This 

is a visual and physical deterrent for any would-be spiker as they are more likely 

to target someone with an open drink, plus the cover makes it impossible to 

deposit drops or tablets into the glass. 

Because this project is so close to her heart, Peach says she wanted Drinkerbell to 

do more than just solve a problem and protect women. “It had to tick two other 

boxes: empowering women, which is why all manufacturing is done by

women who have been upskilled and 

employed by Embocraft Trust, as well 

as have a ‘give back’ arm, which is why 

a portion of all sales goes to the Jes 

Foord Foundation to sponsor trauma 

counselling for women who have 

been raped.” 

What started out as a motherdaughter 

project, has now become 

a platform for Peach and Skyla to use 

their voices to raise awareness, make a 

difference and save young girls! Their 

dream is for the project to become a 

movement to #stopdrinkspiking! 

“As pubs, restaurants and bars fill 

up and people venture out, it is 

imperative that drinks are protected 

- even at house parties. Date-rape 

drugs like Rohypnol, GHB and 

Ketamine are used because they are 

not easily detected, and victims often 

do not remember being drugged or 

assaulted until hours later.” 

According to Peach, girls are in 

even more danger if they have preexisting 

conditions that the spikers 

(criminals) do not know about, which 

is often the cause of girls having 

trouble breathing, suffering from bad 

reactions or even dying. 

Drinkerbell founder Peach 

Piche and her daughter Skyla 

“Drink spiking happens. It is so much 

more prevalent than you think. I 

recently spoke at a women’s business 

event and, of the 23 ladies in the 

room, six had had their drinks spiked! 

It could happen to you or someone 

you love. We are determined to 

prevent that, and to save lives.” 

Cheers to that! We think every girl 

needs a Drinkerbell! They come in a 

range of colours and designs, making 

them a great accessory. 

Details: www.drinkerbell.co.za, 

@drinkerbellza 


Baby’s superfood 

Weaning your baby onto solid foods is an exciting part of the parenting process. As 

your little one gets bigger so do their nutritional needs and they start needing to derive 

their energy, protein and minerals like iron and zinc needs from food. Highly nutritious, 

versatile, affordable and yummy, introducing eggs into your baby’s diet from early on in 

your weaning journey is a great idea! Here’s why … 

• Allergy awareness: While we do, understandably, worry about 

introducing potentially allergenic foods like eggs to our baby’s diet, the 

truth is that the risk of food allergies is far less common than believed. 

Also, experts suggest introducing potential allergenic foods as soon as 

weaning is started to actually reduce allergy risk. 

• Brain boost: Researchers believe choline, an important nutrient 

for optimal brain and nervous system function (and found in eggs), 

contributes to healthy brain development and function in early 

childhood. Eggs also package other key nutrients for brain health, like 

protein, iron, zinc, vitamin B12, and biotin. 

• Grow baby grow: Research also shows that egg-eating youngsters 

may have better growth and development. Also, maintaining a healthy 

weight is very important and it is a known fact that eating eggs keeps 

you fuller for longer (helping to manage the weight of older kids, if 

needed). 

• So tasty: Whether plain or mixed with vegetables and cheese, wellcooked 

whole eggs are recommended for your baby’s diet. Omelettes, 

scrambled eggs or French toast are all quick and easy ways to start your 

child’s journey of healthy eating. 

Details: Information and recipe supplied by EGGcellentFood. Follow them on 

Facebook and Instagram: @eggcellentfoodsa or visit www.sapoultry.co.za 

FRENCH TOAST WITH 

BLUEBERRIES 

You’ll need: 1 egg, 2 tablespoons milk, 

½ teaspoon vanilla essence, small 

pinch cinnamon, 1 slice day old bread, 

1 tablespoon (15g) butter or oil 

To make: In a bowl, mix together eggs, 

milk, cinnamon and vanilla essence. 

Heat the butter or oil in a non-stick 

frying pan over a medium heat. Dip 

bread into egg mixture and coat 

both sides well. Put dipped bread 

into hot pan and cook for two to 

three minutes on each side or until 

golden. Serve warm with a spoonful 

of cream cheese or with sliced banana 

or blueberries. Tip: You can use up any 

leftover bread for this recipe. Try sliced 

French bread, fruit loaf or multigrain 

bread for something different. 


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Treasures of Africa 

We’ve got wild flower reserves and red-necked spurfowls, walking safaris and the 

most trafficked wild mammal in the world. And we’ve got big sky country. Explore the 

treasures of Africa though the pages of these great books. 


Walking safaris are one of the best ways to explore our 

parks and reserves, and Walking Safaris of South Africa 

is a great place to start. With close to 60 guided walks, 

there’s everything from short dawn and dusk walks to 

multi-day backpacking trails, from ultra-luxurious to 

wild camping under the stars. There are stories by hikers 

Hlengiwe Magagula and Denis Costello of tracking lions 

and elephant snacks (to inspire or scare) and masses of 

jolly useful info. Struik. • Gamebirds of Africa boasts being 

the definitive field guide, and this full-colour handbook 

includes everything you need to know to identify the 

89 species, and is a useful addition to the libraries of bird 

enthusiasts. Jacana. • In Pangolins – Scales of Injustice, 

Richard Peirce blends facts with fiction – keeping the story 

as close as possible to what’s likely to have happened on 

a journey of a pangolin poached in Zimbabwe and taken 

to Joburg to be sold to a waiting trafficker. He includes 

methods and stats of the trade, explains the links between 

wildlife and Covid-19, and details China’s response to the 

unfolding drama of the pandemic. Struik. • Beginning at 

Melkbosstrand just north of Cape Town, and ending where 

the Orange River meets the Atlantic Ocean, The West 

Coast explores a captivating part of South Africa, and 

reveals a bounty of treasures that give the West Coast, or 

Weskus as locals call it, its particular allure. Leon Nell takes 

you on a trip through seaside villages and inland towns, 

exploring the history, fauna and flora and interesting 

attractions along the way. Struik.

Big skies. Vast plains. Scrubby bushes and hardy trees. Flat-topped mountains and conical hills 

and secluded valleys. The Karoo. A place where dreams are born, legends are made, and outcasts find sanctuary. 

A place where human lineage predates any written history, whose story is revealed through geology, fossils 

and artefacts. Those of us who’re lucky enough to have travelled through and stayed in the Karoo know its 

beauty … a beauty that’s been captured through a series of astonishing photo-essays in Hidden Karoo. 

This coffee-table book offers readers a snapshot of the region, with a glimpse into towns and villages, farms 

and churches, public buildings and private homes, all against a backdrop of awe-inspiring landscapes. 

Patricia Kramer and Alain Proust’s book will delight fans of the area … and tempt those who’ve never been to 

explore the incredible Karoo (which derives from the Khoekhoe word karus, meaning dry, barren or thirsty land). It’s 

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Inspired by Southern California 

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is all Italian lemon, black cherries, and 

blackcurrant, blended into a floral heart of 

jasmine, tuberose, and vanilla orchid, with a 

warm amberwood, tonka bean, musk, and sweet 

praline finish. The fruity floral gourmand fragrance is 

glamorous and feminine and sexy … and you’ll find it 

at all leading retail outlets from R899. We’ve got a bottle to 

give away. To enter, pop over to our social pages 

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competition post and follow the rules. Entries close May 28.

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