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Featured Stories<br />
11 | BOTH SIDES OF THE RIVER<br />
Educational garden blooms along the Ohio River<br />
14 | COASTERS, CAVES, AND CANOES<br />
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8 | A NOTE TO BABY BOOMERS<br />
What Matters Most<br />
9 | A WALK IN THE GARDEN WITH BOB HILL<br />
Carting History<br />
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In 1883, a day of exploring led to a discovery that would fascinate people of all ages for<br />
centuries to come. On September 6, 1883, 15-year-old Blanche Hiestand and her eleven-yearold<br />
brother, Orris, heard about a nearby sinkhole, and decided to explore it. At the top of the<br />
hill, just past a cemetary, the young explorers found the hole.<br />
Blanche and Orris had crawled down a steep, slippery slope and found themselves in a large<br />
chamber that appeared to continue in several directions, with falling water and formations in<br />
the distance.<br />
The original land owner was notified of the cave’s discovery a few days later and the nearly<br />
5-mile long cave was immediately opened to the public for tours. The current owners<br />
purchased the cave in 1973, and it was made a National Historic Landmark in 1983.<br />
The picture above was taken of the original entrace to Marengo Cave used between 1883 and<br />
1910. Though the entrace looks different now, tours are still offered daily.<br />
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A Note to Baby Boomers<br />
What Matters Most<br />
Idig through what Mom left, now<br />
and then, little by little.<br />
She left a lot.<br />
She left too much. She left<br />
what would matter to me along with<br />
what wouldn’t matter to anyone. She<br />
scattered clues of family history amid<br />
stacks of trash.<br />
Some is water-stained. Much is<br />
dingy. Little of it aged much better<br />
than did the woman who left it.<br />
Mom saved commencement<br />
programs and anniversary cards and<br />
costume jewelry. She kept piles of her<br />
own parents’ receipts and tax statements.<br />
Here’s a 1963 Look magazine<br />
with JFK on the cover. There’s Mom’s<br />
high school “J,” earned for doing<br />
whatever the Girls Athletic Association<br />
at Jeffersonville High did.<br />
Letters Mom received from<br />
home when she was in college shared<br />
a rubber band with letters I sent home<br />
from college. I barely remember what<br />
I wrote in the last issue of this magazine.<br />
So, I checked; were my nearly<br />
half-century-old dispatches home the<br />
truth, the whole truth and nothing<br />
but the truth?<br />
I am afraid so.<br />
I rarely misbehaved much even<br />
back when I had energy to do so. Not<br />
that Mom would have believed tales<br />
of drunkenness and debauchery. I felt<br />
guilty skipping a class or two.<br />
Thanks, Mom. Thanks, Mom?<br />
I am less than five years younger<br />
than Mom was when she died in<br />
1998. I have avoided COVID-19 and I<br />
feel up to giving older age a run. Yet<br />
as I rummage through Mom’s memories,<br />
I cannot help but wonder what<br />
will be worth saving when my stuff<br />
and I finally part.<br />
What matters?<br />
Years ago, for work, I found myself<br />
in the cavernous sorting room of<br />
a thrift shop. I spotted a stack of photos<br />
from a probably 1950s wedding.<br />
The formal color pictures had been<br />
discarded atop a box of worn jeans<br />
and dusty sneakers.<br />
Somebody’s big day apparently<br />
was not anyone else’s big deal.<br />
<strong>May</strong>be the frames might fetch a<br />
few bucks.<br />
Local museums and libraries<br />
tend to be gifted – sometimes to<br />
their chagrin – the greatest hits of<br />
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what heirs discover in attics and<br />
basements. These gestures may get<br />
well-meaning donors off the hook.<br />
But they put already-overwhelmed<br />
recipients in a can’t-win fix.<br />
What matters?<br />
Mom did not fill boxes in the<br />
year 19-whatever so that her only<br />
child would have something fun to<br />
do in the year 20-whatever. If anything,<br />
she and I talked too little – not<br />
too much – about her life, our family’s<br />
heritage.<br />
She passed on less guidance<br />
than stuff. And I let her.<br />
I recently called a family meeting<br />
and the family actually showed<br />
up. Pizza got it there and first-ever<br />
discussion kept it there. My wife and<br />
I shared our plans as well as a hint at<br />
money to be passed along if our Amazon<br />
addiction peaks. The kids left<br />
full, plus, I hope, with a better sense<br />
of what really does matter.<br />
Canceled checks from 1989?<br />
Nope. How about too many neverread<br />
books from my well-intended<br />
membership in the Book of the Month<br />
Club in the ’70s? Nope.<br />
How about nearly as many Giants,<br />
Colts and Hoosiers shirts as<br />
stocked by Dick’s Sporting Goods?<br />
How about coffee mugs from cities<br />
visited or souvenir magnets of plays<br />
attended?<br />
What about clips of literally<br />
thousands of columns and articles<br />
from my 40-plus years in journalism?<br />
I saved them to refer to next month<br />
or next year. Many never got a second<br />
look.<br />
Boxes of these Pulitzer also-rans<br />
fairly fill a spare bedroom.<br />
Grateful column subjects framed<br />
some of these features, hung them<br />
in their homes and offices. However<br />
fleeting, totally local, I suppose I<br />
made a mark. I served as grand marshal<br />
of a couple parades. I spoke to<br />
every civic club that had run out of<br />
others to hit up. My life’s work, a career<br />
I luckily loved, had its day.<br />
My day had its day. Now it’s a<br />
day for podcasts and tweets.<br />
Technology comes with a trail of<br />
computerized clicks. Even newspapers<br />
are not primarily on paper. What<br />
is? People take a slew more pictures<br />
than people used to take. But how<br />
many images are printed, saved, accessible<br />
for the ages?<br />
With paper an endangered species,<br />
with what will tomorrow’s<br />
moms and grandmas fill their boxes<br />
Technology comes with a trail of computerized<br />
clicks. Even newspapers are not primarily on<br />
paper. What is? People take a slew more pictures<br />
than people used to take. But how many images<br />
are printed, saved, accessible for the ages?<br />
of memories?<br />
This maniacal pandemic did all<br />
it could to wipe out a generation. I am<br />
far from the oldest guy still standing,<br />
of course. It can feel that way, though,<br />
from reading the obits day in and<br />
day out. No doubt about it; too many<br />
shattered families are left to clean out<br />
attics and basements.<br />
They, too, must try to decide<br />
what matters.<br />
They will make mistakes like<br />
I surely did when judging Mom’s<br />
stuff. At least it was a special way to<br />
give Mom my love, my time.<br />
As long as I did my best, she<br />
would understand. She always did.<br />
Besides, favorite memories do<br />
not come in a box. •<br />
After 25 years, Dale Moss<br />
retired as <strong>Indiana</strong> columnist for<br />
The Courier-Journal. He now<br />
writes weekly for the News and<br />
Tribune. Dale and his wife Jean<br />
live in Jeffersonville in a house<br />
that has been in his family<br />
since the Civil War. Dale’s e-<br />
mail is dale.moss@twc.com
A Walk in the Garden with Bob Hill<br />
Carting History<br />
Two men who looked like they<br />
knew what they were doing<br />
brought our golf carts home<br />
on a big trailer after winter<br />
maintenance, as welcome a sight as a<br />
mailman waving a tax refund check.<br />
I missed our carts. I had bonded<br />
with them, but not over golf. That 60-<br />
year hobby had cost me a large fortune<br />
in green fees, a few thousand<br />
submersible golf balls, too many<br />
19th holes and a half a lifetime of lost<br />
weekends.<br />
I gave up golf after six decades<br />
of varying results that included precisely<br />
one par round and a steady<br />
return to scores in the high 90s. Near<br />
the end of such futility, I hurled my<br />
putter into a nearby lake after missing<br />
another 18-inch putt. Try playing<br />
the final eight holes of any course<br />
putting with a three-wood.<br />
My final round of golf included<br />
being beaten by 15 strokes by an old<br />
high school buddy and being outdriven<br />
in the same round by an old<br />
man who looked like Arnold Palmer’s<br />
great-grandfather.<br />
It all mercifully ended after that<br />
round when I left the course and<br />
proceeded directly to a local Salvation<br />
Army store and gave away every<br />
club, ball and bag I had. It was a<br />
perfect fit. The Salvation Army is an<br />
evangelical movement designed to<br />
meet human needs. I was a human<br />
with needs.<br />
So, feel safe to assume our two<br />
golf carts the men brought home on<br />
the trailer have never carried a golf<br />
club, ball or bad excuse on our acreage.<br />
We had much better uses for<br />
them, such as hauling plants, trees,<br />
shrubs, shovels, rakes, dirt, compost,<br />
bricks, stones, fence posts and funky,<br />
metal-chicken garden art. Not to forget<br />
gardeners and their guests. Stick<br />
a beer in a golf cart cup holder and<br />
you get the 19th hole at home. It’s a<br />
lot cheaper and you never need a significant<br />
excuse to offer your significant<br />
other on where the hell you have<br />
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een.<br />
Not to forget how easy it is to<br />
visit the mailbox, the paper box, the<br />
neighbors, just plain touring our gardens<br />
and hauling garbage cans down<br />
the driveway every Sunday evening<br />
for the Monday pickup.<br />
Golf at Hidden Creek, Elk Run<br />
Golf Club or Fuzzy’s Place? Forget<br />
about it.<br />
It was on such a recent driveway<br />
was pulled by two caddies like a rickshaw.<br />
He used this cart at the Biltmore<br />
Forest Country Club in Asheville,<br />
North Carolina, because he was<br />
in poor health and found it difficult<br />
to walk the hilly course. I imagine the<br />
caddies agreed.<br />
Had I been playing that course<br />
that day and a guy in a rickshaw being<br />
pulled by two caddies wanted to<br />
play through, I’m thinking I would<br />
It was on such a recent driveway jaunt tugging a container filled with<br />
a week’s worth of unconsumed consumables that I began thinking<br />
about golf cart history. Who created the first cart and did said inventor<br />
ever imagine they would also be used for hauling garbage cans?<br />
jaunt tugging a container filled with<br />
a week’s worth of unconsumed consumables<br />
that I began thinking about<br />
golf cart history. Who created the first<br />
cart and did said inventor ever imagine<br />
they would also be used for hauling<br />
garbage cans?<br />
I wondered where and when the<br />
industry began, and the many golf<br />
cart uses beyond hauling perpetually<br />
frustrated humans around 18 holes<br />
in blazing sun for three or four hours<br />
at anywhere from $45 to $450 a pop.<br />
Wouldn’t a psychiatrist be cheaper?<br />
<strong>May</strong>be not.<br />
Turning to the not-alwaysreliable<br />
Google, this is what I have<br />
leaned on the subject:<br />
The modern sport of golf originated<br />
in 15th-century Scotland, apparently<br />
by people who had way too<br />
much time on their hands. The use<br />
of balls and sticks for entertainment<br />
value actually dates to the 11th century<br />
in China, apparently by people<br />
who had way too much time on their<br />
hands.<br />
Moving along to 1932 – but leaning<br />
in to roughly the same culture<br />
– one Lyman Beecher of Clearwater,<br />
Florida, created a cart for golfers that<br />
have made him wait. Golf is hard<br />
enough without having to deal with<br />
rickshaw ruts.<br />
About the same time, a businessman-golfer<br />
in Arkansas named J.D.<br />
Wadley noticed that three-wheeled<br />
electric carts were being used in Los<br />
Angeles to transport elderly people<br />
to grocery stores. Wadley, and I assume<br />
no one drove it out, had a cart<br />
shipped to the Arkansas hills and his<br />
golf course.<br />
Meanwhile, back in Florida,<br />
Beecher went to golf cart 2.0 by adding<br />
two wheels to the front of his rickshaw<br />
and an engine that required six<br />
car batteries to complete one round. I<br />
still would not have allowed him to<br />
play through.<br />
That fourth wheel was a good<br />
idea, however. What could be more<br />
dangerous than a tight-turning,<br />
three-wheeled golf cart driven by a<br />
119-year-old golfer?<br />
But even after the added wheel,<br />
many courses would not allow carts,<br />
forcing many humans in need to<br />
walk. Then golf course managers began<br />
thinking: “Hey, wait a minute,<br />
if we buy the carts and rent them to<br />
humans in need, we can make some<br />
money here.”<br />
The rest is, well, history. As it<br />
now stands, gas- and electric-powered<br />
golf carts can sell from $5,000<br />
to customized $30,000 jobs. The once<br />
rickshaw-cart industry is now about<br />
a $1.2 billion business, with only<br />
about 60% of them ending up on golf<br />
courses.<br />
The rest are used to haul about<br />
50 million retired people around gated<br />
communities, not to forget subdivision<br />
residents, warehouse employees,<br />
lazy hunters, box-store managers<br />
and garden geeks and their garbage<br />
cans.<br />
Then, inevitably, as humans in<br />
need are wont to do, one Robby Steen,<br />
driving a somewhat modified golf<br />
cart nicknamed “Bandit,” pushed the<br />
industry envelope a bit by cranking<br />
that puppy up to 118.76 miles an hour<br />
at the Darlington Dragway in South<br />
Carolina.<br />
Him, I would have allowed to<br />
play through. •<br />
About the Author<br />
Former Courier-Journal<br />
columnist Bob Hill<br />
enjoys gardening, good<br />
fun, good friends and<br />
the life he and his wife,<br />
Janet, have created on<br />
their eight bucolic acres<br />
near Utica in <strong>Southern</strong><br />
<strong>Indiana</strong>.<br />
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Both Sides of the River<br />
Educational garden blooms along the Ohio River<br />
Story by Bob Hill<br />
Photos submitted by Waterfront Botanical Gardens<br />
In the beginning – at least for this<br />
gardening venture – the idea was<br />
to create an almost mile-long canal<br />
district in downtown Jeffersonville,<br />
a touch of Venice on the Ohio<br />
River with a river-walk and boat-taxi<br />
to boost the local economy and solve<br />
sewage issues.<br />
It was for a city too-long rooted<br />
in the past with a bold and energetic<br />
idea – feasibility notwithstanding.<br />
A friend asked me to put down<br />
my garden hoe and fertilizer bucket<br />
for a minute and join a committee<br />
exploring the canal possibility. Once<br />
there, a representative of something<br />
called the Waterfront Botanical Gardens<br />
in Louisville spoke to our committee<br />
about its dream – a world<br />
class, 23-acre botanical garden to be<br />
built on a former garbage dump near<br />
the Kentucky side of the Ohio River.<br />
Suddenly my imagination was<br />
running rampant along the Ohio – a<br />
canal on one side and a world-class<br />
public garden on the other –separated<br />
only by the width of a river.<br />
Happily, I became the canal district’s<br />
representative with the proposed<br />
botanical garden, and then<br />
joined its board. The latter was a perfect<br />
fit for a guy who loved gardening,<br />
had once owned a nursery in<br />
Utica and was ready to give back to<br />
communities on both sides of the river<br />
for the good fortune of living here.<br />
The canal in Jeffersonville didn’t<br />
happen, of course, but a lot of other<br />
very interesting things are happening<br />
along its proposed route, including a<br />
NoCo Jeffersonville Arts & Cultural<br />
District that welcomes the arts, and<br />
artists, into a very colorful area, soon<br />
to have a pollinator “Paint Box” garden<br />
all its own.<br />
Meanwhile, the Waterfront Botanical<br />
Gardens has bloomed. All<br />
possible environmental issues were<br />
tackled, a master plan was created<br />
and updated, and $18 million has<br />
been raised toward an eventual goal<br />
of $65 million.<br />
Its goal has always been education,<br />
from little kids being exposed<br />
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to gardening for the first time to their<br />
parents and grandparents wanting to<br />
learn about plants, or just come walk<br />
the gardens to enjoy the thousands<br />
of flowers, shrubs and trees already<br />
there.<br />
That long-abandoned dump has<br />
now spouted fountains, a waterfall,<br />
a plaza with seasonal flowers and a<br />
circular walk down a landscaped hill<br />
toward Beargrass Creek connecting<br />
to its river walk. It’s all handicapped<br />
accessible with a drop-off area, and<br />
it’s free.<br />
The Graeser Family Education<br />
Center already hosts meetings, events<br />
and weddings and the new Ellen T.<br />
Leslie Botanical Classrooms, with its<br />
6,000 square feet of space, will become<br />
the center of youth education.<br />
The garden’s next phase will be a Japanese<br />
garden designed by a premier<br />
Japanese architect featuring ponds, a<br />
tea house, bridges and a bonsai collection.<br />
Future plans include a tree allée<br />
of two dozen swamp white oak trees,<br />
a dedicated children’s garden, a hillside<br />
amphitheater for outdoor music,<br />
a 75-foot-tall glass conservatory and<br />
a visitors center with a restaurant<br />
and gift shop overlooking downtown<br />
Louisville and, yes, the <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong><br />
shoreline with its knobs rising<br />
in the distance.<br />
That’s the thing about gardens:<br />
They have no real boundaries. It’s<br />
always been about vision – and experience.<br />
The Waterfront Botanical<br />
Gardens is just that – and it’s on our<br />
shared waterfront.<br />
The gardens are a blessing for<br />
the tourist and visitor’s agencies on<br />
both sides of the Ohio River, which<br />
for too long has been a mental barrier<br />
more than physical. My wife and<br />
I never go anywhere in the country<br />
– or the world – without first checking<br />
what botanical gardens might be<br />
available to visit, to walk, to learn.<br />
Truth be told, the gardens are a<br />
lot closer to many Hoosiers than people<br />
who live on the outskirts of Louisville<br />
and surrounding Kentucky<br />
counties.<br />
Yes, we can and do walk and enjoy<br />
the paths and scenery at Charlestown<br />
State Park, Clifty Falls, the<br />
Clark County Forest, Brown County,<br />
Hoosier National Forest, Harrison-<br />
Crawford State Forest and several local<br />
caverns. We have Perrin Park, the<br />
Falls of the Ohio State Park, the Purdue<br />
Sensory Garden and the soon-tobe<br />
Origin Park. Drive a little farther<br />
and you can enjoy botanical gardens<br />
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Future plans include a tree allée<br />
of two dozen swamp white oak<br />
trees, a dedicated children’s<br />
garden, a hillside amphitheater for<br />
outdoor music, a 75-foot-tall glass<br />
conservatory and a visitors center<br />
with a restaurant and gift shop<br />
overlooking downtown Louisville and,<br />
yes, the <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong> shoreline<br />
with its knobs rising in the distance.<br />
Pictured: (tottom) Bob Hill and Jamie Burghardt, Director of Horticulture & Education at Waterfront Botanical Gardens.
at <strong>Indiana</strong> University, <strong>Indiana</strong>polis,<br />
Evansville and Cincinnati.<br />
For all that, Hoosiers seeking<br />
something totally different can just<br />
walk the Big Four Bridge, or ride a<br />
bike across it, and turn left. Waterfront<br />
Botanical Gardens is just up River<br />
Road a half-mile. There’s already<br />
parking on site, with plans to build a<br />
parking lot across Frankfort Avenue,<br />
with a walkway up and across to the<br />
visitor’s center. For now, it’s all free.<br />
We walk our home gardens in<br />
spring looking at what looks best,<br />
what survived and what-to-plantwhere<br />
to fill in some holes. We are<br />
always seeking new ideas, better information<br />
and wondering what’s the<br />
latest in trees, shrubs and flowers.<br />
Other days, it’s just nice to sit<br />
in a garden, take it all in and gaze off<br />
into the horizon at the distant hills<br />
across the river and know that the<br />
truth is we gardeners are all in this<br />
together. •<br />
Other days, it’s just nice to sit in a garden,<br />
take it all in and gaze off into the horizon at the<br />
distant hills across the river and know that the<br />
truth is we gardeners are all in this together.<br />
For more information, go to waterfrontbotanicalgardens.org.<br />
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Special Section: Summer Fun<br />
Coasters, Caves, and Canoes<br />
Summer adventure awaits in every corner of <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong><br />
Holiday World and Splashin’<br />
Safari in Santa Claus is the<br />
definitive place to find the<br />
best thrill coasters in the<br />
Midwest. The park has four “adult”<br />
coasters: The Raven, which opened in<br />
1995; The Legend, 2000; The Voyage,<br />
2006; and the newest coaster, Thunderbird,<br />
which opened in 2015. They<br />
also have a kids’ coaster, The Howler,<br />
which opened in 1999.<br />
The Raven is the park’s original<br />
wooden roller coaster, and although<br />
it is the smallest of the four, it still offers<br />
a mighty ride.<br />
The coaster is 110 feet from the<br />
highest point to the lowest, 2,800 feet<br />
long, and has a maximum speed of<br />
a little over 50 mph. One of its most<br />
famous features is an “S curve” that<br />
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zips riders through the woods, which<br />
was actually created to save a row of<br />
trees.<br />
The Legend travels at a maximum<br />
speed of 65 mph and is 116 feet<br />
tall from the highest point to the lowest.<br />
It’s 4,042 feet long and features<br />
a double helix, and has the world’s<br />
first spiral drop. It also features five<br />
tunnels. While most coasters are built<br />
for negative G-forces that cause “airtime,”<br />
The Legend was built for lateral<br />
G-force, which moves you from<br />
side to side.<br />
The Voyage is a thrilling ride<br />
that spans 173 feet from the highest to<br />
the lowest point of the ride, stretching<br />
1.2 miles long, with its maximum<br />
speed reaching 67.4 mph. It features<br />
three 90-degree banked turns and is<br />
Story by Julie Engelhardt<br />
Photos by Holiday World & Splashin’ Safari (except where noted)<br />
an “out-and-back” style coaster.<br />
Thunderbird is the park’s steel<br />
coaster, a wing coaster where riders<br />
travel on the side of the track instead<br />
of on top or below. This definitely<br />
gives you a unique experience, having<br />
that feeling of nothing above or<br />
below you as you fly through the<br />
woods.<br />
If you’d prefer to stay closer to<br />
Earth, then let’s take a plunge below<br />
the surface to check out the area’s<br />
caves and caverns. First up: <strong>Indiana</strong><br />
Caverns.<br />
Located near Corydon, <strong>Indiana</strong><br />
Caverns is part of the Binkley Cave<br />
system, boasting amazing waterfalls,<br />
an underground river and diverse<br />
cave life. The cave, known as a “show<br />
cave,” was developed and opened in
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2013 by Gary Roberson, who has over<br />
40 years’ experience working in and<br />
with the cave systems in <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong>.<br />
There’s plenty to do at <strong>Indiana</strong><br />
Caverns. One option is to take<br />
their 80-minute tour, which combines<br />
both walking and a 20-minute boat<br />
ride. They also offer the Cavern of the<br />
the cave.<br />
<strong>Indiana</strong> Caverns also offers<br />
guests escape rooms, thrilling rides<br />
like the Bat Chaser and The Plunge,<br />
and gemstone mining.<br />
Crawford County is home to<br />
Marengo Cave, designated as a National<br />
Natural Landmark in 1984.<br />
Marengo offers two unique<br />
an underground river.<br />
There’s more to Marengo than<br />
just exploring through the caves.<br />
There are camping sites, cabins, a specialty<br />
rock shop and surface activities<br />
like a mega maze, pedal carts, the sky<br />
climber slide and gemstone mining.<br />
Finally, in Mauckport, you’ll find<br />
the wonderful Squire Boone Caverns.<br />
The Voyage is a thrilling ride that spans 173 feet from the highest<br />
to the lowest point of the ride, stretching 1.2 miles long, with its<br />
maximum speed reaching 67.4 mph. It features three 90-degree<br />
banked turns and is an “out-and-back” style coaster.<br />
Sabertooth, a cave simulator where<br />
you crawl through a pipe for almost<br />
400 feet underground, wearing a helmet.<br />
They also offer the Deep Darkness<br />
Tour, which involves climbing<br />
down a 93-foot ladder with belay,<br />
continuing on another descent down<br />
a slope to a subterranean river and<br />
then kayaking on the river through<br />
walking tours: the Crystal Palace, an<br />
easy tour that winds through formation-filled<br />
rooms, and the Dripstone<br />
Trail, a 60-minute tour that showcases<br />
delicate soda straws and totem<br />
pole stalagmites. Other adventures<br />
include the Waterfall Crawl tour and<br />
the Underground Adventure where<br />
you crouch, crawl and wade through<br />
The main attraction is the cave<br />
tour, which takes you through a third<br />
of a mile of cavern passageway. The<br />
caverns are considered to be “living<br />
caves” that carry more than a million<br />
gallons of water through the cave and<br />
over rarely seen underground waterfalls.<br />
Tours take place through the<br />
main passageway, so visitors can take<br />
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a leisurely walk with no crawling involved.<br />
The trained tour guides take<br />
you through the passageway, making<br />
many stops to explain the formations,<br />
how the cave was formed and talk<br />
about Squire. The tour lasts about an<br />
hour.<br />
Other attractions include the<br />
barnyard with rescued animals such<br />
as goats, sheep and mini pigs. From<br />
Memorial Day through Labor Day,<br />
they open their pioneer village. They<br />
also offer a huge rock shop, gem mining<br />
and Boone’s Kitchen with sandwiches,<br />
cookies and drinks.<br />
After daredevil roller coaster<br />
riding and exploring cool caves, let<br />
your cares drift away as you paddle<br />
through our beautiful waterways in a<br />
relaxing canoe.<br />
Cave Country Canoes, in Milltown,<br />
has a storied past of great mills,<br />
lumber and lime kilns. At one time<br />
there were rows and rows of beautiful<br />
Victorian homes and quaint cottages,<br />
most with a river view. There<br />
are two trips visitors can take. One is<br />
the upper river 7-mile trip that lasts<br />
anywhere from two to five hours.<br />
Hosts transport you from camp base<br />
to their private launch site, then<br />
guests can canoe or kayak back. This<br />
trip is best for beginners, but there are<br />
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a few small rapids along the way.<br />
The full-day trip starts at the<br />
base camp, where participants paddle<br />
downstream 14 miles and are<br />
picked up at a location called Rothrock’s<br />
Mill. This trip takes five to<br />
seven hours and offers more rapids,<br />
tighter turns and drops.<br />
Old Mill Canoe in Fredericksburg<br />
runs trips on the Blue River,<br />
offering excursions ranging from 3<br />
miles to 57 miles, but their regular<br />
trip is 12 miles from Fredericksburg<br />
to their private campground, Blue<br />
River Retreat. Blue River is part of the<br />
<strong>Indiana</strong> Natural, Scenic and Recreational<br />
River System and is governed<br />
by the Blue River Commission. This<br />
means that all you’ll see is nature and<br />
wildlife, no buildings or structures of<br />
any kind. When water levels are low,<br />
the water is crystal clear; during the<br />
winter months, the water takes on an<br />
incredible blue-green hue; and after<br />
a heavy rain, it will look like chocolate<br />
milk. All seasons of the year, all<br />
phases of the water, there is no place<br />
more beautiful than the Blue River. •<br />
For more information on the attractions<br />
mentioned here, check the following<br />
websites: holidayworld.com, oldmillcanoerental.com,<br />
cavecountrycanoes.com,<br />
squireboonecaverns.com, indianacaverns.<br />
com.<br />
Pictured: (top) the Queen’s Palance @ Marengo Cave //<br />
Photo courtesy of Marengo Cave; (bottom) A trip down<br />
Blue River at the Old Mill Canoe Rental // Photo courtesy<br />
of Old Mill Canoe Rental<br />
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Special Section: Summer Fun<br />
Other attractions include<br />
the barnyard with<br />
rescued animals such as<br />
goats, sheep and mini<br />
pigs. From Memorial Day<br />
through Labor Day, they<br />
open their pioneer village.<br />
They also offer a huge<br />
rock shop, gem mining<br />
and Boone’s Kitchen with<br />
sandwiches, cookies and<br />
drinks.<br />
Pictured: (top, left) Boone’s Mill historic grist mill at Squire Boone’s Caverns was built by<br />
Squire Boone circa 1804, it has been restored and is fully operational; (top, right) This<br />
sweet mini pig, named Reynolds, is full of personality and is probably the most beloved<br />
animal in the Barnyard at Squire Boone Caverns // Photos courtesy of Squire Boone’s Caverns;<br />
(bottom) The Bat Chaser, a single-rail zip coaster, combines zip lining and free-falling<br />
into one family-friendly adventure. // Photo Courtesy of <strong>Indiana</strong> Caverns<br />
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Help Save<br />
Marengo<br />
Big SpringS<br />
old Town<br />
CHurCH<br />
Donations to the<br />
Old Town Church’s<br />
Restoration Project<br />
can be made to :<br />
Friends of the Big<br />
Spring Old Town<br />
Church and mailed<br />
to P.O. Box 170<br />
Marengo, IN 47140<br />
or dropped off at<br />
First Savings Bank.<br />
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Old Town Church<br />
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It’s just a small church, tucked into<br />
a scenic setting west of Marengo<br />
Cave, and adjacent to the cemetery<br />
in Old Town Marengo. However,<br />
the 163-year-old Big Springs<br />
Church embraces a vast amount of<br />
history and holds a wealth of memories.<br />
“It is truly a historic treasure that<br />
needs to be preserved,” said Pam Poe,<br />
who, with her husband, Dave Poe, is<br />
a member of Friends of Marengo Big<br />
Springs Old Town Church, a committee<br />
spearheading its restoration.<br />
Other members include Wayne and<br />
Debbie Larimore and Jerry Hanger.<br />
Wayne Larimore has also served as<br />
treasurer and trustee of the church<br />
for several years, having replaced the<br />
late Charles Taylor.<br />
While it began as a Christian<br />
church, several denominations worshiped<br />
there over a period of years,<br />
including Methodist and United<br />
Brethren before moving to larger<br />
buildings.<br />
In 1935, the structure was turned<br />
over to a board of trustees and dedicated<br />
to the use of “Memorial and<br />
Decoration Day and other public<br />
gatherings of a patriotic or community<br />
character,” with no denomination<br />
having predominant ownership<br />
or use, according to its bylaws.<br />
An annual Memorial Day service<br />
took place there until the structure<br />
was deemed unsafe in 2017.<br />
Stepping into the church is a<br />
look back in time. There are several<br />
original pieces, including the<br />
pews and stoves. Neither electricity<br />
nor plumbing were added. Memorial<br />
service attendees got a glimpse<br />
of what church attendance was like<br />
in an earlier time as they tried to stir<br />
up a breeze with cardboard fans or<br />
donned warmer clothing, depending<br />
on the <strong>May</strong> weather.<br />
The restoration project recently<br />
took a big step forward when it was<br />
awarded a $2 match for every $1 donated<br />
through the Community Foundation<br />
of Crawford County’s “Making<br />
Generosity Last Forever” fund.<br />
“This is wonderful news,” Pam<br />
Poe said. “The CFCC is IRS-approved,<br />
so donations will be tax-deductible.”<br />
Christine Harbeson, executive<br />
director of the Foundation, is pleased<br />
that the CFCC can offer this incentive.<br />
“As a person who has witnessed<br />
the loss of numerous historic<br />
treasures in Crawford County and<br />
<strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong>, I am encouraged<br />
by the efforts of Pam Poe, and others<br />
along with her, to save Marengo’s<br />
Big Springs Old Town Church,” Harbeson<br />
said. “That area of Crawford<br />
County is so rich in history. I hope the<br />
community, and all those who used<br />
to call Crawford County home, will<br />
join in and help.”<br />
Earlier this year, <strong>Indiana</strong> Landmark’s<br />
Grant for Endangered Places<br />
awarded $2,500 to help pay the cost<br />
of the restoration study with matching<br />
funds partially paid from a 2014<br />
fundraiser organized by Marie Greathouse,<br />
Mary Wiseman, Kari Hendricks<br />
and Janice Eastridge Conklin.<br />
The study was done by David<br />
M. Allen with Michel Allen Ritz Architects<br />
in New Albany. John A. Weest<br />
is project engineer.<br />
Dave Poe (of Dave Poe Construction<br />
Inc.) and Wayne Larimore<br />
(of Larimore Electric Inc.) have met<br />
with the contractor slated to do the<br />
foundation work. They believe that<br />
the structural problems can be fixed<br />
Historical Preservation<br />
A Piece of History<br />
Restoration plans move forward for<br />
Marengo’s Big Springs Church<br />
Story by Sara Combs<br />
Photo by Janice Conklin<br />
if enough money is raised, Pam Poe<br />
said.<br />
Larimore explained that the<br />
work would be done in stages. “The<br />
first stage is to stabilize,” he said.<br />
“The church will have to be raised<br />
up, beams laid for support, then the<br />
rock foundation can be rebuilt. That<br />
will likely cost $40,000 to $50,000.<br />
Then we can move on to other stages,<br />
maintaining the 1858 look, but using<br />
more durable material. Later stages<br />
will include work on the walls, chimneys,<br />
roof and shoring up the bell<br />
tower.”<br />
The last service was held at the<br />
church on <strong>May</strong> 29, 2016, with Pastor<br />
Eric Satterfield speaker, Larimore<br />
said. “The following year, we could no<br />
longer get insurance on the building<br />
and it wasn’t safe. I had to announce<br />
that the service couldn’t be held until<br />
improvements were made,” said<br />
Larimore, who remembers attending<br />
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the memorial service with his parents<br />
and brother as a young boy and keeping<br />
the tradition as an adult.<br />
The need for major work has<br />
been there for some time, he said.<br />
“We have always wanted to<br />
do what was needed to repair the<br />
church. It has always been about the<br />
need for money. The only income was<br />
from the offering at the one time a<br />
year service,” he said, “and that was<br />
never more than $200.”<br />
Janice Eastridge Conklin has<br />
worked in earlier fundraising efforts.<br />
Conklin, a descendant of Samuel<br />
Stewart, brother of Dr. Lewis Byrum<br />
Stewart, who was instrumental in<br />
building the church, regularly attended<br />
the annual service. “It was<br />
just something our family did. It was<br />
important to us.<br />
Dr. Stewart’s autobiography<br />
tells about the first service held in the<br />
building in <strong>May</strong> 1858, describing the<br />
building as “enclosed with one coat<br />
of plaster, seats and two pot-bellied<br />
stoves.” A pastor named Goodson<br />
delivered the message. Construction<br />
was completed by the following <strong>May</strong>.<br />
Many families in the area have<br />
relatives who worshiped in the<br />
church and/or are descendants of the<br />
founders, including Stewart, Byrum,<br />
Taylor, Jones, Miller, Huff, Weathers,<br />
Meriwether, Baylor, Pierson and<br />
Van Meter/Van Metre families. (This<br />
writer’s second great-grandfather,<br />
Enoch Weathers, was a deacon in<br />
1858 and late father, Robert Batman,<br />
was named trustee in 1946, replacing<br />
C.G. Balthes.)<br />
Larimore said that if the renovation<br />
campaign is successful, it is possible<br />
that community services could<br />
be held for Christmas, Easter and<br />
other special times, as well as Memorial<br />
Day. He warned that the project<br />
won’t come cheap. “It takes special<br />
skill to renovate a structure of this<br />
age,” he said.<br />
“We would like to add HVAC<br />
and a security system,” Pam Poe said,<br />
“so that the meeting house could be<br />
used year-round and we could keep<br />
some historic items on display.”<br />
The committee is hoping to rally<br />
community support. •<br />
Want to help save the Big Springs<br />
Church? Go to facebook.com/MarengoBigSpringsOldTownChurch.<br />
Donations may be sent to Friends of<br />
Marengo Big Springs Old Town Church,<br />
P.O. Box 170, Marengo, IN 47140 or<br />
dropped off at First Savings Bank. Contact<br />
the Community Foundation of Crawford<br />
County at cf-cc.org or call 365-2900.<br />
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SEEKPRAYSHARE<br />
SISTERS OF ST. BENEDICT OF FERDINAND, INDIANA<br />
VOLUME 12 NUMBER 1 | SPRING <strong>2021</strong><br />
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Contents<br />
FROM THE PRIORESS 01<br />
WHAT’S OPEN? 02<br />
We may be closed to visitors,<br />
but there’s still plenty to do<br />
at the Monastery<br />
CARING THROUGH COVID 03<br />
Srs. Rose Mary Rexing and<br />
Lisa Marie Schutz on patience<br />
and prayer during a pandemic<br />
WAY OF THE CROSS 05<br />
Putting the finishing touch on<br />
the dome; the bells reborn<br />
A DEEPER DIVE 07<br />
Tapping into the power of<br />
spiritual direction;<br />
exploring Oblates<br />
HIDDEN MONASTERY 10<br />
Behind the scenes: a few spots<br />
you won’t see on a tour<br />
SEEKING SISTERS 11<br />
Is God still calling Sisters?<br />
How to tell, how to help<br />
IN THE KITCHEN 13<br />
How our bakery keeps life<br />
sweet, even now<br />
In Chapter 4 of The Rule of St. Benedict, the author<br />
provides a number of tools for good works. Benedict<br />
advises us not to be proud, not to speak ill of others, to<br />
devote ourselves to prayer and much more.<br />
Near the end of the chapter, in verse 74, he offers this:<br />
“And finally, never lose hope in God’s mercy.”<br />
During trials, we become more aware of God’s mercy.<br />
And while 2020 presented so many trials, from a<br />
pandemic to racial injustice to economic upheaval, it<br />
was a year overflowing with God’s mercy.<br />
It has been more gratifying than I can convey to see our<br />
sisters rise to the challenges of this year with patience,<br />
persistence and even good humor. We continued to look<br />
for new ways to help others, and to pray for you and for<br />
all those within and outside of our community.<br />
And it has been more humbling than I can tell you to see<br />
the outpouring of support and generosity from so many<br />
of you. You made it possible for us to continue our<br />
work, both close to home and in the mission field. Our<br />
impact on this world is magnified by you.<br />
In <strong>2021</strong>, join us in praying for an end to the pandemic,<br />
for less division and greater unity among all people, for<br />
a season of recovery and stability…and for a greater<br />
awareness of God’s infinite mercy every day.<br />
www.thedome.org | 812.367.1411<br />
802 E 10th St., Ferdinand, IN 47532-9239<br />
Sister Anita Louise Lowe, OSB<br />
Prioress<br />
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What’s Open?<br />
While the monastery isn’t open for<br />
tours just yet, there are still good<br />
reasons to visit. Light a candle in<br />
the shrine of Our Lady of Lourdes.<br />
Walk the Stations of the Cross. Take<br />
a lakeside stroll. Make a Rosary Walk<br />
uphill toward Our Lady of Fatima.<br />
Reflect on Our Lady of Guadalupe.<br />
And support the work of the Sisters<br />
with a visit to the Gift Shop or St.<br />
Benedict’s Brew Works.<br />
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Caring<br />
through<br />
COVID<br />
“It happened so<br />
quickly. We had to<br />
rethink everything<br />
almost daily. There<br />
were a lot of God<br />
moments.”<br />
SR. ROSE MARY REXING<br />
THIS PAGE:<br />
Sister Rose Mary Rexing,<br />
Executive Director of<br />
Mission Integration at<br />
Memorial Hospital in<br />
Jasper<br />
OPPOSITE:<br />
Sister Rose Mary<br />
blessing the COVID-19<br />
vaccine in December,<br />
2020<br />
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When the COVID-19 pandemic hit, life<br />
changed virtually overnight for Sister<br />
Rose Mary Rexing, who serves as<br />
Executive Director of Mission Integration<br />
at Memorial Hospital in Jasper.<br />
“On March 11,” she recalled, “we<br />
canceled all volunteers and elective<br />
procedures. On December 17, the<br />
vaccine arrived. It was nine months<br />
of labor and expectation and then — a<br />
beautiful delivery.”<br />
Those nine months brought new<br />
challenges every day — with daily<br />
morning and afternoon calls to figure out<br />
what that day would look like.<br />
The Power of Prayer<br />
“I could find myself feeling afraid,” Sister<br />
Rose Mary said, “but we never stopped<br />
praying. We started every meeting with<br />
prayer. We had a prayer for<br />
each time we put a mask<br />
on.” Faith Community<br />
Nurses, with more than 80<br />
nurses across 8 counties,<br />
organized parishes to pray<br />
for nurses and departments<br />
over the 12 days of<br />
Christmas. A poster went<br />
out listing the parishes and<br />
departments being prayed for. “When I<br />
opened that, I just cried,” she recalled.<br />
A Strong Community<br />
In spite of it all, she never felt alone in the<br />
journey. “We have a strong community<br />
in the hospital,” she noted, “and the<br />
larger community donated masks, money,<br />
food…there was truly a sense that we<br />
were all in this together.”<br />
Supporting the Staff<br />
Sister Rose Mary oversees the pastoral<br />
care and social services staff, and<br />
reminded them to be attentive to their<br />
own trauma even as they cared for others.<br />
She created a process to administer an<br />
employee emergency fund to help those<br />
whose hours had been cut. “One woman,<br />
the wage earner in her family who was<br />
expecting her fourth child, found herself<br />
with fewer hours and unexpected bills.<br />
But she was too humble to ask for help.<br />
When we were able to assist her, we both<br />
cried on the phone together.”<br />
The hospital has a “Code Lavender” for<br />
those times when staff needed a moment<br />
just to talk to someone. It was in heavy<br />
use throughout the pandemic and remains<br />
so even now.<br />
Patients, Families, Sisters<br />
Because patients were isolated, the staff<br />
set up tablets so they could talk to their<br />
families. Sister Rose Mary would set<br />
up sacraments, often while the chaplain<br />
prayed with the family in the parking lot.<br />
While every loss felt<br />
personal, some were<br />
closer to home. “I<br />
was with Sister Marge<br />
Sasse when she was<br />
dying in the hospital in<br />
August,” she remembers.<br />
And Sister Cathy Ann<br />
Robinson, who passed<br />
away in September, “was still ministering<br />
to a CNA as she was dying.”<br />
A Time to Reflect<br />
With all of the long hours and challenges,<br />
Sister Rose Mary has still found this<br />
a good time to reflect. “I wanted to<br />
find meaning. I wanted my life to be<br />
worthwhile. And I’ve had a wonderful<br />
life. I’ve loved everything I’ve ever done.<br />
I don’t have anything I wish I’d done.”<br />
Your donations to the Sisters of St.<br />
Benedict have helped support our<br />
community and the work we do<br />
throughout the pandemic.<br />
Sister Lisa’s<br />
Perspective<br />
Sister Lisa Marie<br />
Schutz has also<br />
been on the front<br />
lines during the<br />
pandemic as a<br />
clinical assistant at<br />
Jasper Primary Care<br />
Physicians.<br />
Like everyone<br />
else, she looks<br />
forward to putting<br />
COVID-19 behind<br />
us. “Some of my<br />
favorite patients<br />
have died,” she said.<br />
“And some are still<br />
dealing with the<br />
lingering effects of<br />
the virus.”<br />
Often during the<br />
pandemic, patients<br />
have turned<br />
to her as they<br />
make decisions.<br />
“Sometimes they<br />
just need someone<br />
they can talk to,<br />
especially older<br />
patients. They see<br />
me as a safe person<br />
to talk to. It feels<br />
good to be able to<br />
pray for them and<br />
support them.”<br />
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The way of the Cross<br />
After 47 years, it was Joe Helming’s last<br />
project. He was about to retire from<br />
Helming Brothers in Jasper. Founded as<br />
Stiegel Contracting in 1936, the name<br />
changed when Joe, after starting at the<br />
company in 1973, purchased it with his<br />
brother David in 1981.<br />
But there was one last job to finish,<br />
and Joe wanted to be the man who did<br />
it. His company had restored the dome<br />
that crowns the Monastery Immaculate<br />
Conception. All that remained was<br />
to install the cross, which they had<br />
refinished with gold plating.<br />
“Since this one was for the sisters,” said<br />
Joe, “I just wanted to make sure it was<br />
right.” That’s how he found himself, on<br />
a clear November day, perched atop the<br />
highest point in Ferdinand, settling a<br />
gleaming, gold-plated cross into place.<br />
The restoration of the dome was funded<br />
by a single anonymous donor family.<br />
Stewardship is always first and foremost<br />
in the sisters’ minds. So when the initial<br />
proposal included gold plating for the<br />
cross, the sisters opted to remove that<br />
portion from the project to save money.<br />
Upon learning of the decision, however,<br />
the donor family insisted that it be<br />
included, funding the additional expense.<br />
“That cross reflects God’s light across the<br />
whole community. It stands as a beacon<br />
and a reminder of God’s love shining<br />
on us all.” Seeing the finished<br />
cross gleaming atop the<br />
dome, it’s hard to<br />
argue the point.<br />
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Above, detail of the south<br />
bell. Below, the pulleys and<br />
ropes that make it all work<br />
And next…the bells<br />
Three bells reside in the tower above the<br />
monastery, all cast by Stuckstede Bell<br />
Foundry in St. Louis, MO - one in 1891<br />
and the other two in 1907.<br />
A recent campaign raised the funds<br />
necessary to update the bells, which<br />
are still rung by hand using the original<br />
hardware.<br />
Upon completion, the bells will be<br />
furnished with new steel stands, yokes,<br />
strikers, wheels and clappers.<br />
Best of all, a new digital controller will<br />
allow the bells to be programmed to<br />
ring at the appropriate times. A remote<br />
control will allow the bells to be rung<br />
for special occasions.<br />
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A deeper dive<br />
“Think of it<br />
as the art of<br />
listening for<br />
the movement<br />
of the Divine.”<br />
Have you wanted to deepen<br />
your spiritual life…but weren’t<br />
sure where to start? Spiritual<br />
Direction from the Sisters of St.<br />
Benedict might be the perfect<br />
place to begin.<br />
Spiritual direction simply means<br />
accompanying someone in her<br />
or his spiritual life. A Spiritual<br />
Director listens to your story,<br />
and together you listen for God’s<br />
call and presence in the ordinary<br />
events of your life.<br />
Through monthly conversations,<br />
our goal is to deepen your<br />
relationship with God by helping<br />
you learn to recognize divine<br />
grace in all aspects of your life.<br />
Think of it as the art of listening<br />
for the movement of the Divine,<br />
but in the context of a trusting<br />
relationship.<br />
How It Works<br />
You meet with one of our<br />
certified Spiritual Directors<br />
to explore your spiritual life.<br />
The goal, over time, is that you<br />
awaken to the mystery of God<br />
in all of your life, and respond<br />
to that discovery in a growing<br />
relationship of freedom and<br />
commitment.<br />
Your director follows the<br />
“Guidelines for Ethical<br />
Conduct” established by<br />
Spiritual Directors International,<br />
which are available upon request.<br />
Although it is appropriate at<br />
times to discuss psychological<br />
and relational difficulties in the<br />
context of spiritual direction,<br />
a Spiritual Director is not a<br />
psychotherapist and does not<br />
provide such services.<br />
Your Director will hold your<br />
spiritual direction conversations<br />
in strict confidence. Your time<br />
together is sacred.<br />
The Director will not reveal the<br />
content of your conversations<br />
unless you give signed consent<br />
(or where it is legally and/or<br />
ethically required, as in cases<br />
of actual or suspected abuse, or<br />
risk of injury to self, to a minor,<br />
or to any third party.)<br />
Occasionally, the Director<br />
may need to use material from<br />
the sessions for supervision<br />
purposes, but your name will<br />
not be revealed.<br />
The standard fee for spiritual<br />
direction, which is available<br />
virtually, in person at the<br />
monastery, or at other locations,<br />
is usually $45 – $60 per session,<br />
negotiable according to need<br />
and arranged with the Director.<br />
No one will be deprived of<br />
spiritual direction for financial<br />
reasons.<br />
For more information or to<br />
schedule an appointment, please<br />
call 812-367-1411 or contact<br />
one of our Spiritual Directors.<br />
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Meet your Spiritual Directors<br />
Sister Betty Drewes<br />
Sister Betty has degrees in education, counseling, and spiritual direction. In addition to serving<br />
as a spiritual director, she enjoys leading days of reflection, retreat presentations, and various<br />
personal growth programs with creative prayer experiences. She sees directees in southern<br />
<strong>Indiana</strong> and western Kentucky.<br />
Sister Kathryn Huber<br />
Sister Kathryn Huber studied Spiritual Direction in the Institute of Spiritual Leadership at<br />
Loyola University of Chicago and earned her master’s degree in Spirituality from Loyola. She<br />
also leads retreats and workshops, and is involved in ecumenical and interfaith activities and<br />
prison ministry. She sees women and men for direction at the monastery in Ferdinand, <strong>Indiana</strong>.<br />
Sister Karen Joseph<br />
Sister Karen’s education focused on monastic studies and theology. She spent 23 years in<br />
leadership in monastic community and is now involved in giving retreats and seeing people for<br />
spiritual direction. She sees directees in Ferdinand, <strong>Indiana</strong>.<br />
Sister Joella Kidwell<br />
Sister Joella has a master’s degree in biological sciences. In addition, she has a diploma in<br />
theological studies from Regis College, Toronto, which included training in spiritual direction.<br />
She also had continuing theological training in Rome, Italy. She has served as prioress of the<br />
Sisters of St. Benedict, president of the Benedictine Federation of St. Gertrude, and director of<br />
spirituality ministry for the community. She sees directees in the <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong> region.<br />
Sister Patricia Ann McGuire<br />
Sister Patricia Ann has a bachelor’s degree in education, a master’s degree in Christian<br />
spirituality, and certification in spiritual direction. She is a Pastoral Associate at St. Benedict<br />
Cathedral in Evansville, <strong>Indiana</strong>, and Director of Temporary Professed Sisters for the Sisters of<br />
St. Benedict. She sees directees in Ferdinand and Evansville, <strong>Indiana</strong>.<br />
Sister Rose Wildeman<br />
Sister Rose has a bachelor’s degree in music education from Oakland City College and a<br />
master’s degree in music from Ball State University. She worked as a music teacher and<br />
parish liturgist in the Diocese of Evansville for 34 years. She completed the spiritual direction<br />
internship in 2007. Currently serving as Subprioress, she sees directees in Ferdinand, <strong>Indiana</strong>.<br />
Sister Jane Will<br />
Sister Jane currently serves on the Spirituality Ministry team as program director and spiritual<br />
director. She has master’s degrees in education and Christian spirituality with an emphasis on<br />
spiritual direction, and a doctorate in psychology. Sister Jane has been a teacher and has served<br />
in community leadership. She sees directees in Ferdinand and Evansville, <strong>Indiana</strong>.<br />
Sister Susan Mary Hooks<br />
Sister Susan Mary has a bachelor’s degree in business administration. She completed the<br />
spiritual direction program in 2016. She has served as a business manager for Sr. Helen Parish<br />
in Louisville, Kentucky, as comptroller/assistant to vice-rector for administration for the<br />
Pontifical North American College in Rome and as the Administrator/Parish Life Coordinator<br />
for St. Agnes Parish in Nashville, <strong>Indiana</strong>. She currently is caring for a family member on the<br />
family farm in Arkansas.<br />
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A deeper dive, too: the Oblate option<br />
Oblates of St. Benedict are Christian<br />
men and women from all walks of life<br />
who associate themselves with a specific<br />
Benedictine monastery to enrich their<br />
way of life.<br />
Oblates don’t take on new religious<br />
practices. Rather, you promise to deepen<br />
your faith and lead an enriched Christian<br />
life according to the Rule of St. Benedict.<br />
The spirituality of St. Benedict is so<br />
flexible that it can be adapted to the life<br />
of anyone seriously seeking God and<br />
desiring to live the Gospel message.<br />
Through the Sisters of St. Benedict, you<br />
receive guidance and support in living<br />
the Christian life with regular Oblate<br />
meetings, the quarterly Oblate newsletter,<br />
and other enrichment opportunities<br />
offered by the sisters. As an Oblate, you:<br />
UNITE daily prayer to the prayer of the<br />
sisters<br />
JOIN in the community’s celebration of<br />
the Eucharist and Liturgy of the Hours<br />
DEVELOP a relationship with the sisters<br />
SUPPORT the ministry of the sisters as<br />
ability or time allows<br />
ENCOURAGE and support vocations to<br />
the Benedictine way of life<br />
ATTEND days of prayer and other<br />
spiritual enrichment offerings<br />
PARTICIPATE in works of charity and<br />
justice in the local area<br />
MANIFEST the Spirit of St. Benedict in<br />
all places and all times<br />
Interested?<br />
St. Benedict first<br />
had disciples<br />
some 1,500 years<br />
ago. Since then,<br />
Christians have<br />
been included<br />
in the prayer<br />
and work of<br />
Benedictine<br />
communities<br />
without leaving<br />
their homes,<br />
families, or<br />
occupations.<br />
To learn more<br />
about becoming<br />
an Oblate, contact<br />
the Oblate<br />
Leadership Team<br />
at oblates@<br />
thedome.org or<br />
by calling us at<br />
812.367.1411 ext.<br />
2827.<br />
MEET monthly, virtually or in person, for<br />
prayer, presentations, and social time<br />
We’d love to talk!<br />
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The hidden monastery<br />
There are so many parts of the monastery that most people never see.<br />
Clockwise from upper left: the interstitial space between the church<br />
and the crypt; the view from the walkway around the dome of the<br />
church; the crypt below the church, which was the previous church;<br />
some of the inner workings of the organ; two views of the attic; and<br />
the cellar steps.<br />
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How to spot a sister<br />
Since the boom of the mid-1960s, the<br />
number of women choosing religious life<br />
has dropped off dramatically. But that<br />
doesn’t mean women aren’t being called.<br />
In fact, we’re seeing more millennials<br />
and younger women investigating life as<br />
a Sister. But how can you encourage a<br />
woman who might find this calling?<br />
You might not think about it, but it’s a<br />
wonderful way to support the Sisters: to<br />
watch for young women you know who<br />
might be suited for this life and feeling<br />
God tugging on their hearts.<br />
Start by looking for small signs that<br />
might suggest potential for a call by God<br />
to religious life. Watch for these:<br />
• She feels close to God or Jesus.<br />
• She attends spiritual retreats or<br />
workshops.<br />
• She thinks about God daily.<br />
• She likes to pray.<br />
• She reads Scripture on her own.<br />
• She wants to follow Jesus.<br />
• She’s active in a parish or youth group.<br />
• She likes to serve others.<br />
• She enjoys spiritual conversations.<br />
Thinking of anyone yet? Here are a<br />
few other signs that your “candidate” is<br />
already considering religious life:<br />
• She has religious mentors or people she<br />
looks up to.<br />
• She likes to work beside or just visit<br />
with religious.<br />
• Her family or friends notice how much<br />
she enjoys religious company.<br />
• She Googles about religious orders and<br />
seems intrigued by their lifestyle.<br />
• She’s been on a retreat or had a live-in<br />
experience with a community.<br />
• She’s made a discernment retreat<br />
• She imagines religious life as an option.<br />
• She’s asked God if this is a call.<br />
Is the young woman you’re thinking of<br />
still in the running so far? Let’s go to the<br />
next level. Here are serious indicators<br />
that a loving, persistent God may be<br />
calling her to religious life:<br />
The idea doesn’t go away. If she ignores<br />
it and looks at other, non-religious paths,<br />
this one keeps coming back.<br />
She digs deep into all the reasons why<br />
religious life wouldn’t be good for her.<br />
But even as her head builds a case, her<br />
heart is still stirred by that persistent pull.<br />
The biggest of questions — “How can<br />
I know for sure?” — isn’t enough to<br />
dissuade her.<br />
She “tries on” other options, but they<br />
leave her heart empty, and she feels<br />
unsatisfied, disappointed, or restless. In<br />
discernment, we call this “desolation,” a<br />
lack of peace or joy.<br />
If a woman you know fits this description,<br />
the best thing you can do is to encourage<br />
her to investigate the full measure of<br />
religious life without pressuring her or<br />
implying any expectation on her part.<br />
God wants her to be happy and so do<br />
you. So guiding her gently toward people<br />
and resources who can help her discern<br />
whether she is truly being called is an act<br />
of love and kindness.<br />
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6 steps to a successful sister<br />
A Call Initiated By God<br />
The right motivation is so crucial. A<br />
genuine religious vocation springs up<br />
within your heart. It doesn’t come from<br />
outside pressure or circumstance.<br />
Even if some external event puts you on<br />
the path to discernment, your call comes<br />
directly from your Creator, who knows<br />
you best. If you’re truly being called, that<br />
outside event just confirms the desire that<br />
was already stirring in your own heart.<br />
A Personal Relationship With God<br />
The call to religious life builds on a<br />
relationship that already exists. A true<br />
religious vocation is marked by a longing<br />
for greater intimacy with the Lord — the<br />
sense of a deeper, richer life waiting.<br />
How can you foster friendship with<br />
the Divine? Regular Mass. Frequent<br />
Confession. Personal prayer time with<br />
Scripture.<br />
Free Response To The Call<br />
Are you considering religious life freely,<br />
out of your own desire? Or does the<br />
idea of a religious vocation weigh you<br />
down? You may not be able to answer<br />
this question right away. Some fear or<br />
apprehension is absolutely normal.<br />
But if you’re truly being called and<br />
responding freely, then somewhere along<br />
your path of prayer and discernment, your<br />
vocation will be your heart’s desire, a<br />
source of great joy and peace.<br />
Good Health<br />
Life in a religious community is intense<br />
and rigorous. You need physical,<br />
psychological, and emotional health to<br />
live cheerfully and generously in the<br />
community you enter, accepting their<br />
schedule, diet, work, and penitential<br />
practices graciously.<br />
Sufficient Maturity<br />
Maturity can’t be measured by age alone.<br />
We continue to mature our whole lives.<br />
But a certain level of maturity is needed<br />
for life in a religious community.<br />
Community life takes personal responsibility.<br />
The ability to give and receive<br />
forgiveness. A focus on others above<br />
self. You have to be in it for the duration;<br />
to deny yourself, take up your cross, and<br />
follow Jesus every day.<br />
Desire And Capacity For Living<br />
The Vows<br />
If God is truly calling you to religious<br />
life, He’ll give you an appreciation for<br />
the beauty of this call and the capacity to<br />
live it. The vows of stability, obedience,<br />
and fidelity to the monastic way of life are<br />
both sacrifice and gift.<br />
You’re offering God your natural capacity<br />
and desire for marriage and family, your<br />
right to own possessions, and your right<br />
to govern yourself according to your own<br />
will.<br />
Fear not! Your Creator will lead you to<br />
safe harbor if you ride on the gentle wind<br />
of the Holy Spirit.<br />
The book,<br />
Discerning<br />
Religious Life<br />
by Sr. Clare<br />
Matthiass, CFR,<br />
is a valuable<br />
resource for any<br />
young woman<br />
on a journey of<br />
discernment!<br />
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Everyday Adventures<br />
Who needs the beach?<br />
Several years ago I had the chance to<br />
attend a work conference in Pawleys<br />
Island, South Carolina. Rough,<br />
I know, but it was not my idea. I<br />
got recruited into going. However, once<br />
I was invited on the trip, I kept thinking<br />
about one thing: how soon I could get to<br />
the beach.<br />
After all, I’m from <strong>Indiana</strong>. We don’t<br />
have a lot of oceans in my hometown, so<br />
any time I’m within a hundred miles of<br />
saltwater my brain goes into beach mode<br />
calculating the most direct path to the<br />
waves.<br />
Of course, I was looking forward to<br />
the conference itself, but c’mon, we were<br />
only going to be five minutes from the<br />
ocean. Five minutes! Surely there would<br />
be time to slip over for some sun and sand.<br />
Unfortunately, our schedule was<br />
packed. We would be trapped indoors in<br />
workshops almost the entire time we were<br />
there, morning through evening.<br />
Don’t get me wrong. The content<br />
was great. Inspiring. Helpful. Thoughtprovoking.<br />
But, hello! The ocean was<br />
only five minutes away. What better way<br />
to process all I was learning than to reflect<br />
on the tranquil waters of the Atlantic?<br />
The way I figured it, we only had one<br />
shot. If things wrapped up early enough,<br />
there might be a window in late afternoon<br />
to grab some beach time before dinner.<br />
As the afternoon wore on, I began to<br />
plant seeds with the rest of my group. Of<br />
course, they all loved the idea. By the time<br />
the last conference session ended, everyone<br />
was as excited as I was.<br />
Except for one guy. The leader of our<br />
trip.<br />
“I don’t know,” he said. “The beach<br />
is a lot of work. It’s messy, and we have<br />
to be back for dinner. I don’t know if it’s<br />
worth it.”<br />
I could not have been more shocked<br />
if he’d grown a third eye in the middle of<br />
his forehead. This was the beach we were<br />
talking about. A lot of work? Messy? Not<br />
worth it? He was out of his mind.<br />
I didn’t get it. This guy was normally<br />
really fun. What was he thinking? We’d<br />
just driven ten hours and hadn’t even<br />
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glimpsed the water. How could you grow<br />
up in the midwest and not be dying to get<br />
to the ocean? It’s not like you saw one every<br />
day.<br />
And then it hit me. He didn’t grow<br />
up in the midwest.<br />
“Wait a minute,” I said. “I see what’s<br />
going on here. You grew up in Florida!”<br />
I realized he’d probably been to the<br />
ocean more times in one year than I’ll ever<br />
be in my entire life. No wonder he was so<br />
flippant about going.<br />
Fortunately, he was a nice guy so he<br />
finally gave into the rest of us, and we got<br />
our hour at the beach. However, that story<br />
always reminds me how dangerous familiarity<br />
can be.<br />
The more time we’re exposed to<br />
something the less we may appreciate it.<br />
Think about the difference between<br />
dating and marriage. When a couple is<br />
dating, all they can think about is the next<br />
time they’ll see each other. After only three<br />
years of marriage, however, a couple has<br />
seen each other a thousand days in a row.<br />
A thousand days later, things may not<br />
quite feel the same. The people may not<br />
have changed much, but their perspective<br />
is totally different.<br />
Same goes for buying a new car or<br />
a new house or getting a new job. A year<br />
later, the car, the house and the job may<br />
still be awesome but we may not know it<br />
because it’s become old hat.<br />
Familiarity has a way of dulling our<br />
sense of wonder, gratitude and delight.<br />
It’s true of things like the beach, marriage<br />
and new cars, and it’s true of our relationship<br />
with God.<br />
Many of us reach out to God in a<br />
season of desperation, but once the crisis<br />
passes, we forget how good God was to<br />
us in that moment when no one else could<br />
help. That’s happened to me more times<br />
than I care to admit. Praying seems urgent<br />
when I’m worried, anxious or scared,<br />
but not as important when everything is<br />
going well.<br />
There may also be moments where<br />
we’re blown away by a sunset or a tender<br />
moment with our kids, or encouraging<br />
words from the Bible, moments when<br />
After all, I’m from <strong>Indiana</strong>. We don’t have a<br />
lot of oceans in my hometown, so any time<br />
I’m within a hundred miles of saltwater my<br />
brain goes into beach mode calculating<br />
the most direct path to the waves.<br />
we’re overwhelmed with thankfulness<br />
and worship.<br />
Until we’re not.<br />
Those moments pass, and like my<br />
Florida friend, we may eventually take<br />
for granted something we once knew to<br />
be great. So beware when the fantastic<br />
becomes familiar. If we’re not careful, it’s<br />
all too easy to miss out on the goodness of<br />
God and the everyday gifts He’s placed in<br />
our lives. •<br />
Image: Ersler Dmitry / shutterstock.com<br />
Jason Byerly is a writer, pastor, husband and<br />
dad who loves the quirky surprises God sends<br />
his way every day. You can read more from<br />
Jason in his books Tales from the Leaf Pile and<br />
Holiday Road. You can catch up with Jason on<br />
his blog at www.jasonbyerly.com.
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