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ABOUT US
At Haikou International Christian Fellowship.
HICF Ladies Fellowship is an arm of Haikou International
Christian Fellowship in Hainan Province, Haikou City, China.
The Ladies Fellowship was founded by Devi Chandra under the
leading of the Holy Spirit in the year 2016 to raise up and build
Ladies to be rooted in Christ, empowered to fulfil purpose and
set up to make a change in this generation.
The Ladies Fellowship is 6 years, Glory to God! It comprises of
over 100 Ladies from different part of the world, with different
languages, ethnicity, educational background, color and race
but with the same objective of worshipping God and making
impact in their generation.
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KEMMY
BLESSING
DIANA WURAOLA HAZEL GLENDA
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NAOMI DEBORAH LAYOMI
JESSICA IYINSIOLUWA RURAMAI EFUA
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honestly I thought modeling was just a
1. Tell us about yourself?
My name is Joy, I am from Zambia, am a
young black female,
medical student and
a young upcoming
model.
2. How did your
journey into
modelling starts?
Someone really close to me suggested it to
me but in the beginning, I took it as a joke
until he finally arranged a photoshoot for
me and during my first photoshoot, he was
not around but he was a big part of the
photoshoot.
3. How has your experience being as a
model?
photographer taking pictures of you, like a
friend would, using a phone but it’s a whole
new different world of
having to wear different
expressions and making
them realistic, it opens
up a whole new world.
4. What does it
take to be a model? Do you have to be tall,
slim, have a flat tummy to be a model?
Different photoshoots require different
kinds of models but the one quality one
should have is confidence, because you are
the product.
5. What do you do to maintain your
physical appearance?
Honestly, I
thought
modeling was
just a
photographer
taking
pictures of
you
I take lots of water and do some workouts
and also try to eat a balanced diet
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6. How do you balance modelling with
your academics being a medical student?
8. Have you ever been faced with
criticism over this profession?
Making a schedule
and being consistent is
key. Because anyone
can make a schedule
but your consistency
Because anyone can
make a schedule but
your consistency and
hardwork in following
that schedule is what
and hardwork in matters.
following that schedule is what matters.
-yes, I have, so many people have so
many things to say but all you have to
do is focus on what’s important to you
cause other people’s definition of
normal might not be your own type of
normal and that’s ok.
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9. What are your goals as a model, do
7. Would you model any kind of
clothing?
My main reason for modeling is to
empower females, because so many
females around the world are not
you see yourself progress in this field?
Well, my goal as a model is one day to
hopefully inspire someone or some people
and make my own brand of clothing to
inspire women
comfortable with their appearance or body
type, so I wouldn’t model any kind of
clothing .it will have to be a clothing that is
saying something.
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10. What was the most difficult
photoshoot you have ever done and how
did you handle it?
the most difficult shoot I had was a
wedding shoot ,where I had to model with
a chinese male and for the shoot we were
told we had to pretend to be a couple. It
was difficult in the beginning so I asked to
spend some time with him so that we could
both establish a friendship.
11. How do you maintain
uncomfortable position for a long time?
I ask my photographers to play music so
that I don’t really focus on the pose
13. What are the challenges in
modelling and how can one handle them?
so many challenges it could be racism,
could be the photographers, diet etc. there
are so many challenges that come with it
but all you have to do is focus on what’s
important to you, get inspiration from that
and be hardworking
14. How can someone contact you for
modelling?
They go through my agent and my agent
talks to me about it and from there I make
the decision on whether to do the shoot or
not.
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12. Do you have anyone you look up to
in the modelling industry?
Yes, I do Bella Hadid, Kendall Jenner and
Adut Akech Bior
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Tanzania, a country in the east Africa
region is situated just south of the Equator.
Tanzania was formed as a sovereign state in
1964 through the union of the theretoforeseparate
states of Tanganyika and
Zanzibar. The current population
of Tanzania is 61,095,213 as of Friday, April
23, 2021, based on Worldmeter elaboration
of the latest United Nations data.
Tanzania population is equivalent
to 0.77% of the total world population.
Tanzania is regarded as an excellent safari
destination, largely due to its many worldclass
opportunities for game spotting.
Tanzania is home to many of the best
AMAZING FACTS ABOUT
TANZANIA
and biggest parks in Africa, and some of
the most varied and unique landscapes
that you’ll ever see. These varied
ecosystems are also ideal conditions for
one of the most quintessential aspects of
any great safari: African animals. No safari
would be complete without a glimpse of a
few of the “Big Five" or the chance to see
some lesser-known, but equally fascinating
animals. Fortunately, Tanzania doesn’t
disappoint. Home to the Great Wildebeest
Migration, each year, Tanzania sees
millions of animals make their way across
the land in search of water and fresh
pasture. Wildebeest, zebra, and gazelle
make the arduous journey, and brave the
raging
Mara
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River, filled with waiting crocodiles.
In Tanzania, you’ll
have the opportunity to
see lion, cheetah,
leopards, and hunting
dogs. If you’re curious
about what this
beautiful country has to
offer, here’s a look at ten reasons it’s
regarded as one of the best safari
destinations in Africa.
1. NEARLY 30 PERCENT OF TANZANIA IS
NATIONAL PARKS
Tanzania boasts some of the best national
parks in the world. The Serengeti National
Park is one of the most famous and bestloved
parks, and is home to more than one
million species of large mammals. It’s also a
World Heritage Site, and has also had the
honor of being named a 7th world wonder.
The Serengeti is the site of the Great
Migration, where
wildebeest
and
zebras make their
way across the
plains in search of
fresh grasslands.
It’s also home to
great buffalo herds, elephants, giraffe,
leopard, impala, and gazelle, as well as the
endangered Eastern Black Rhinoceros.
Tanzania also features the largest
population of elephants; which can be
found in the Selous Game Reserve.
2. MOUNT KILIMANJARO IS THE TALLEST
MOUNTAIN IN AFRICA
Ernest Hemingway wrote about the beauty
of Mount Kilimanjaro, and this snowcapped,
cone-shaped mountain is a site
that will take your breath away as well.
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Standing some 5,895 meters above sea
level, this mountain is the tallest in Africa,
and the highest freestanding mountain in
the world. It’s also home to almost every
kind of ecological system there is, from
cultivated land, to rainforest, alpine desert,
and arctic summit.
3. THE GREAT MIGRATION SEES OVER 2
MILLION ANIMALS TRAVEL ACROSS THE
PLAINS
The Great Wildebeest Migration sees over
1.5 million wildebeest, as well as zebra, and
gazelle, make their way through the
grasslands of Tanzania and Kenya in search
of pasture. Undoubtedly, the most exciting
part of the journey is the Mara River
crossing, where massive herds make their
way to the Masai Mara, braving crocodiles,
and danger at every turn.
4. NGORONGORO CRATER
Another must-see destination in Tanzania
is the world-famous Ngorongoro Crater,
located in northern Tanzania. Thought to be
the result of a volcanic explosion, this fertile
valley is one the most beautiful natural
wildlife safari destinations in the world, and
has even been named one of Africa’s Seven
Natural Wonders. The enclosed nature of
the crater has created an ecosystem all of
its own, resulting in some of the best
opportunities to spot game. It also has the
densest known population of lions. Buffalo
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, elephants, leopards, and rhino can also be
seen here, in addition to a host of other
well-loved African classics like the ostrich,
zebra, cheetah, wildebeest, gazelle, and
even hippos
regarded as one of the world’s most
biologically rich and scientifically valuable
habitats. Lake Tanganyika holds an
astounding 8 percent of the world’s
freshwater, and is home 500 fish species;
most of which stay within 20 meters of the
surface.
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6. TANZANIA IS A HOME TO DISTINCTIVE
AND DELICIOUS CUISINE
If you are looking to expand your palate,
5. LAKE TANGANYIKA IS THE SECOND
LARGEST LAKE IN THE WORLD
Lake Tanganyika is one of the largest
freshwater lakes in the world by volume
and depth; second only to Lake Baikal in
Siberia. In fact, it is so large that it belongs
to four different countries; Tanzania,
Burundi, Zambia, and Congo. The lake is fed
by at least 50 streams and rivers and is
then Tanzania is the place for you. In
Tanzania, you’ll have the chance to sample
wild game like crocodile, warthog, antelope,
or even ostrich. Other local favourites
include tilapia fish, pilau rice, and samosas.
It’s the spices that really make this food
special and the use of coconut, cardamom,
garlic, and turmeric feature prominently in
a number of traditional recipes.
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You’ll also have no problem finding fresh,
locally grown produce such as fruits,
vegetables, nuts, or coffee.
although the oldest one, found in South
Africa, is believed to be an astounding 6,000
years old.
8.TARANGIRE NATIONAL PARK IS HOME
TO UNIQUE TREE-CLIMBING LIONS
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Baobabs aren’t the only thing to see in
Tarangire National Park; this park is also
home to tree-climbing lions. The reason
that these lions have taken to climbing is
7.BAOBAB TREES CAN EASILY LIVE 1,000
YEARS
Baobabs are a beautiful and fascinating
tree that can be seen in Tanzania’s
Tarangire National Park. Some species of
the Baobab can live 1,000 years, or longer,
unknown. Whether it’s to catch a cool
breeze or escape the tsetse flies is a matter
of debate. Of course, there’s also the
chance that the lions simply enjoy the view
from up high. Whatever their reasons
though, watching these lions gingerly move
across the branches is a sight that’s worth
seeing.
9.THE BEACHES OF ZANZIBAR ARE
STUNNING
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While beaches may not be one of the first
things that you think of when you imagine
an African safari, a trip to the beautiful
island of Zanzibar is the perfect way to
round off a safari. The beaches of Zanzibar
are infamous for a reason. Featuring white
sand, blue waters, and swaying palms,
they’re regarded as some of the most
beautiful beaches in the world.
10.SCUBA DIVING OFF THE COAST OFFERS
EXPERIENCES UNLIKE ANY OTHER
While there’s plenty to see in the mainland,
there’s a whole world underwater as well.
Diving or snorkeling off of one of Zanzibar’s
islands will provide you with some rich upclose
encounters with some of amazing and
unique underwater sea creatures found
among the coral reefs. You could spot
Lionfish, Leaf Fish, Seahorse, Green Turtles,
and even Frog Fish.
ARE YOU READY?
As you can see, Tanzania is a unique and
beautiful safari destination, one that offers
plenty to see and do in terms of gamespotting
opportunities, as well as
spectacular and unique landscape. Little
wonder that it ranks amongst the top safari
choices as an ideal destination for first-time,
and experienced safari-goers alike.
KARIBU TANZANIA! WELCOME TO
TANZANIA!
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Margaret
(Tanzania)
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INTIMACY CORNER
I HAVE NEVER STARTED MY DAY
WITHOUT PRAYING
Have to realize that too many times
what we are looking for is right beside
us we just have to submit our will. I am
not here to tell you about unattainable
to impossible living
standards but at
least to share the
importance of a
real
relationship
with God; no not the one you tell your
friends about but the one where He
loves you unconditionally and you grow
closer to him organically.
I grew up a church girl; I mean Sunday
school material, youth camp, there was
even a time I was playing a part in a
Christmas play; typical I tell you. With my
Granma’, Mom and aunts and uncles
discipline it would be safe to assume I
would be a perfect little Christian girl
right? Wrong. See no matter how much
the Word of God is spoken to you if you
have not made it a personal thing it will
fall. I had to make a decision at some
point in my life to contact
God daily: then a few
times during the day:
before I do anything in
the morning: before I
leave the house: then when am back...it’s
not easy every day because our schedule
sometimes go as far as requiring a 10
minutes shower so imagine if you have
to do it all whilst Praying but one thing
for sure is that it is do-able. I have never
started my day or slept without Praying
even when am angry or going through
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the most difficult situation at the end of
the day I lower the volume of my music
stop for a second and say wow dad
thank you; you constantly amaze me and
so on and so forth.
One thing I have learnt is
constantly coming back to
Him to tell Him how it
went. Take for instance if I
Pray for something and
eventually an opportunity
comes whether it is a loose
back again and again because, when I
do, He shows me different things and
makes me realize why it did work or
didn’t. We talk and before you know, am
excited about tomorrow.
Read you Bible: at all times;
have verses in your head
that keep you going ,I have
ISAIAH 41:10 , Psalm
91 ,Judges 16:28 , I carry
them with me always
ISAIAH and PSALMS are
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or Win I am constantly
coming back to say thank
you I tried and it worked or
Minnie ~Heavens
SWAZILAND
more about assurance from
God to me and JUDGES is
about my return to God no
I tried and it didn’t work but am still
grateful for the opportunity. That
teaches me humility in all situations and
acceptance of responsibility. Come what
may I will Praise my God and I will go
matter the situation I find myself in :like
Samson I will scream and shout
REMEMBER me Lord at all times ;but I am
also being careful not to get myself in
Situations that God is not happy with,
Let’s learn not to misuse Grace.
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God be with you as you read. I really hope
this helps make shift in your life.
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hemp and hair fertilizer. And in a week I
could see the hair growth.
I GREW MY HAIR WITH RICE WATER
IN ONE WEEK
AGATHA (ZAMBIA)
I have been
natural for 10
years now but
technically, I only
really focused on
my hair when I
came to China in
2017. Sounds weird, I know but in my
country Zambia, once you attend a
government run school your hair has to be
natural and that’s when I became natural.
Maintaining natural hair doesn’t come easy,
you need to be patient and consistent.
When I first started in 2017 I tried
fermented rice water, protective styles and
a hair food mix containing: castor oil, Indian
People have different ways on how they
make the fermented rice water but for me
the method that works best is boiling the
rice for 5 to 10 minutes then separating
water from the rice. I then put the rice
water without the rice in a spray bottle and
instead of adding fruit peels for the smell
(any fruit in the orange family), I put in
some conditioner then keep it aside and
wait for a week before I can use it.
When it comes to maintaining my natural
hair, I first start with detangling with a
medium bristled comb and a spray bottle
with conditioner, castor oil and water and
section my hair in four. The second thing I
do is spray in the fermented rice water from
the roots to the tips and keep it in for 25 to
30 minutes then wash my hair. And within
a month I can see some improvement in
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hair growth. Lately I have been trying the
ORS brand, when it comes to shampoo,
conditioner and hair treatment.
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The hair treatment detangles my hair and
leaves it really soft and I’m still planning on
trying the hair oil and edge control. Plus I
love the smell.
With my hair still
sectioned, I rinse out the
rice water and then wash
with shampoo twice for
each section. I then apply
the hair treatment and finger
comb while waiting for 10 to 20
minutes before rinsing it all out. To dry my
hair I use a T-shirt instead of a towel.
With my hair still damp, I put in the
conditioner in each section of the hair then
I do a protective style which for me is
usually 8 to 10 three strand braids and on a
lazy day it’s only 2 strand braids. While I’m
doing my braids I put in the hair food. When
it comes to hair food I like oils and at the
moment I’m using castor oil, vitamin E and
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melted Shea butter. When applying the oils
I like to make sure my hair is a bit damp. I
start from the root to the tips and this is
done every two days.
I usually trim my hair after 6
months. When it comes to
trimming I prefer doing it
when it’s damp and not dry.
I first section it in four then
comb through and trim 1cm
of my hair.
NOT EVERYTHING THAT WORKS FOR ME
WILL WORK FOR YOU
Lastly, for those who are thinking of going
natural or starting their natural hair journey,
the best thing to remember is to be patient.
Not everything that works for me will work
for you, everyone has different hair types.
But just because you’re not seeing
improvement immediately doesn’t mean
you should give up. You can research to
help you find what works for you and
don’t be afraid to try new methods and
products that will help keep your hair
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Preparation:
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First of all, ladies, we need
Love is not a
feeling, love is a decision, love is
intentional. Loving is a choice you make
and stick by it come what may. I've noticed
nowadays that lots of people get married
yet lots of them go for a divorce. And
public opinion be like: "it's better to quit
than to be in a toxic marriage" wow! Who
made it toxic? Remember it takes two;
three with God. We know that God's
original plan was never for us, his beloved
children to get in and out of marriages
(Matthew 19:8). It is meant to be till death
do you part! So how do you make that
choice?
to acquire knowledge. The
word of God says that "The wise get all the
knowledge they can, but when fools speak,
trouble is not far off. Proverbs 10:14 GNT"
"Her teachings are filled with wisdom and
kindness as loving instruction pours from
her lips. Proverbs 31:26 TPT". We learn
here that a good woman, is wise and
acquires all the knowledge she can.
Knowing what you are getting into is really
important. From my inquiries and people's
testimonies, I gathered that one cause of
most failed marriages is they weren't ready,
not enough preparation, they didn't
actually know what they were getting into.
They only "felt loved". It's our responsibility
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to acquire knowledge and it's our
responsibility to teach ourselves about this
issue (Titus 2:3-5). Marriage is a serious and
lifetime commitment so it needs our whole
attention when we are considering it
sometime to come. For example,
Selflessness, a quality that is highly
recommended in marriage. Before you say
I do, be ready to let your "self" down to
carry your future spouse
desires at your highest
priorities. You live for the
other, to serve and be
God's intended plan for
Him. Marriage is not for the arrogant and
proud, nor the babies. You will have to
embrace change and learn to be joyful and
content at what ever stage of your
relationship. Engage in conversations on
the matter, with elders, successful married
couples, spiritual leaders, parents; Read on
it; there are a lot of Christian books on
marriage and obviously the Bible which is
the BASE. Train your mind, discipline
yourself, nurture good habits expected of a
good wife, be prepared, be close to God
and consequently, sensitive to the Holy
Spirit. While you are pursuing God and
preparing for marriage, walking in purpose,
enjoying every moment of your own life, Mr.
Right might just pop in!
Please note that it(meeting
Mr. Right)doesn't happen
for everyone the same way.
Some might receive
instructions from God, some conviction,
some Peace, but NEVER Confusion.
Dating:
For the few friends I have and people I talk
to, they know I always say, there's no need
getting into a relationship you know has no
future. You don't date for the sake of
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dating, but you date with a purpose.
Dating's primary intention must be
marriage. On a daily basis, we declare this
word: " I am beautifully and wonderfully
made" yet, we let ourselves be duped by
unserious men. No one should come to you
and "try to see" if it works, "if it leads to
marriage". In such circumstances, ladies
will mostly end up broken-hearted. YOU
ARE NOT AN EXPERIMENT SAMPLE!
If you date the right one, it will most likely
end well. But relationships have their own
challenges, so it's good to have people you
both are accountable to, people that can
guide you through your courtship and give
you godly advices. And well, my dear sisters,
if something doesn't feel right, deal with it
before saying YES , to that man. Some ladies
say Yes, just because they've been dating
and people are aware; they care about
what people will say if they don't end up
being married. My mom once told me:
"Even Engagement can be broken, until
you've said I Do, you can still back off". It
sounds funny but truly, it's better to end it
before you go into marriage with it and it
ends you. Of course, while dating, you
spend time with God, hear his voice and
recommendations regarding your
relationship. I will not tell you to consider a
Christian brother or to avoid sexual
immorality here, because we all already
know those are the ABC's of a Christian
relationship, so they are important as well.
Be mindful of things that might hinder your
relationship with God, because at this
phase of your life, you need him more than
ever.
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A bad marriage can ruin your whole life,
destroy you to the point of no return.
There's a saying in my country that goes like:
《 Marry wrong and sign your death
Some make it after divorce, some don't, so
what will it be for you? Let's be wise and
always cling to our heavenly father. God be
with you, Amen.
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certificate》.
Some books I can recommend:
《Created to be his helpmeet》~Debi Pearl
《Preparing to be a helpmeet》~ Debi Pearl
《Relationship & Marriage 》~ Yacouba Coulibaly
《Men are from Mars, women are from Venus 》~ John Gray
《Things I wish I'd known before we got married》~ Gary Chapman
Dr ANNIE
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阿 姨 Phone Number: +86 166 0898 2099
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BACK TO SCHOOL
ATTAINING ACADEMIC
EXCELLENCE
The goal of every student is to
achieve academic excellence during
their period of stay in school. This
dream is highly attainable, though it
doesn‘t come on a bed of roses.
Several people have written about
attaining academic excellence, but
none of them has been able to bring
up a clear-cut procedure to follow to
achieve it.
Academic excellence is a journey
that requires time to mature.
However, there are principles one
needs to use as a guide to attaining
excellence.
First, in a journey of academic
excellence, we cannot exclude the
God factor. The first principle we
need to follow is to allow God to be
our direction in all that we do in our
schoolwork. He is the embodiment of
all knowledge, and it is prudent that
we put our trust in him, even as we
make him the leader and follow suit.
Without God, this whole academic
journey might look like going on a
trip without a map or a guide. Since he
is all-knowing, it is expedient to rely
on him.
Next, it takes self-discipline to be
able to do anything out of your
comfort zone. As tertiary students,
we need to be self-disciplined to be
able to achieve our goals. We must
have discipline with our time, our
books, social media etc. Time is a
costly currency, which we can never
regain when we spend it. As students,
effective time management should be
our topmost priority. Planning your
time enables you to achieve a lot. For
effective time management, we must
endeavour to follow the plans we
make each day. And there should be
no room for compromise. A small
accommodation can affect your
following schedule. To obtain much
from the time available to you, you
need to make a lot of sacrifices. Most
sacrifices may not be pleasing, but
we must make them. Having to
choose between attending a fun event
and going to the library to study is a
tough decision to make. However,
the goal of making such a decision
should revolve around academic
improvement.
Self-motivation is another crucial
component that will help students
achieve academic excellence. Always
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have a positive mindset about
everything. Encourage yourself,
know yourself, your weaknesses, and
your strengths. Strive to project your
capabilities rather than your
weaknesses as you work on your
shortcomings privately. Be steadfast
in your decision to succeed despite
challenges. Do not be discouraged if
it feels like you are losing confidence.
Keep on pushing.
Consistency is a golden rule to
achieving brilliance. Being
consistent in your studies is therefore
crucial. Never let a day pass without
you studying. Set a convenient time
for yourself for tasks and ensure to
read your books during that time.
Allocate appropriate time for your
studies each day and be sure to abide
by it. It can be just 30 mins in a day,
and if you are consistent with that 30
mins, it can go a long way to improve
your academic life. Desist from the
habit of procrastination, it does not
get your work done, and the time you
lose is forever lost.
It would be best if you surrounded
yourself with friends who also aim to
achieve academic excellence. Bad
company corrupts good manners.
Avoid friends who do not see their
books as their priority and are
frivolous. It is better to be “alone”
without friends than to be swayed
from your goal. There are people
with similar experiences as you, so
reach out to such people and seek
their expertise and advice concerning
your situation. It is not always
compulsory to follow their advice
rigidly. You can make adjustments to
suit your particular circumstance.
As students, we have to develop a
healthy balance between our
academic work and other
extracurricular activities. Although
you are not required to be with your
books 24/7, it is necessary not to
have so many extra-curriculum
activities competing with your
academic life.
As Christians, we are obliged to
participate in church activities but try
as much as possible not to let that
affect our academics. Always
remember that the reason why you
came to school is to learn. All other
things are secondary.
Social media are quickly taking over
our generation. While social media
platforms can be educative, we
should not allow ourselves to be “
slaves” to their distractions. If you
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are already addicted to social media,
there are some steps to remedy this.
You can employ alarms and timers to
monitor your time on each social
media app. Once you have exhausted
your time, the app will automatically
close. Try to be disciplined enough
not to return to them later. You can
also inform trusted friends to check
up on you frequently to help you
monitor and keep you accountable
for the time spent away from your
books.
Examinations are an inevitable part
of our academic journey. Therefore,
you should be in a perpetual state of
preparation. Effective time
management, consistent studies, and
constant practice will enable you to
be ready for every examination.
Please do not wait until they
announce dates for examination
before you rush to revise. In as much
as possible, plan to study each
concept at least twice before every
examination. This habit will not only
help you understand better, but it will
make you less stressed when
examinations are due.
Make it your goal not to fail any
paper throughout your school period.
However, if you do fail, understand
that that is not the end of the journey.
Review the past missteps and make
adjustments for the future.
Afterwards, resolve never to fall into
the same situation again. Your ability
to bounce back after setbacks shows
your resilience and determination.
Therefore, do not be dismayed when
you encounter difficulties in your
academic work.
Academic excellence is something
we all yearn to achieve, but the
approach to obtaining it is highly
personal. Nonetheless, with God,
discipline, hard work, determination,
and consistency, it is obtainable.
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HOW MUCH FIBRE DO YOU
NEED A DAY?
Women are advised to
consume about 25 grams
of fiber a day. Fiber is the
structural part of plant
foods--such as fruits, vegetables, and
grains--that our bodies cannot digest or
break down. Fiber can lower cholesterol,
regulates blood sugar, prevent intestinal
cancer and constipation.
Guess what?
in the fruit helps speed up the metabolism
that supports your efforts to lose weight.
Fiber also helps to keep you fuller for
long, lowering the chances of
overeating. A 100g of carambola can give
you about 2.8G of fiber, which is very
beneficial to your digestive system. It is
also good if you are going on a journey of
weightloss.
Dr Francine
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Carambola also called star fruit can help
you achieve that. Carambola is a sour and
sweet fruit that has the shape of a fivepoint
star. Carambola was reported to be
rich in dietary fiber, especially insoluble
dietary fiber. Moreover, the fiber content
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I AM A WOMAN OF
SUBSTANCE
to be empowered and who need a driving
I like the saying "Woman of substance
force. Remember a "woman of substance
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empowers". If you think you should be
empowers".
Don't leave that woman
called a woman of substance empower
another.
To empower means to give someone more
confidence and strength to do something.
(To Inspire).
broken when you can build her. After
building someone up you can beat your
chest and say I am a woman of substance.
Christopher Peculiar
Nigeria
Many women are recorded to be
weaklings in the mind, emotionally,
intellectually etc. but women are strong,
firm and determined personalities than they
understand. Everyone need a driving force
either mentally, spiritually and physically.
Why think alone of yourself when we can
build each other. There are many who need
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HEALTH CENTRE
SELF BREAST EXAMINATION
Hi Ladies, so today we are going to talk
about a very common pathology amongst
women: breast masses. Some of us have
never had any, thank God, others, like 13
years old me, felt an
abnormal mass in their
breast one morning( it
actually wasn’t a mass,
just normal mammary
tissue , but well) and
proceeded to totally
freak out and tell their grandma, that
made them drink many bitter and
disgusting decoctions for weeks. As the
Bible says “my people perish because of
lack of knowledge “. So let’s sleep a bit
smarter today.
A breast nodule is very common in the
women population. Let me reassure most
of you though, it’s probably not breast
cancer.
The masses can be painful or painless,
according to the cause. It might be due to
a fibrocystic change (usually painful)or a
fibroadenoma ( usually painless). These
types are more common in women during
their puberty and reproductive years.
Now, what matters most, is to be able to
detect such conditions early. The first
thing we need to know, and always keep
in mind:
- know your body, know your breast size,
know your breast symmetry,
know what they look like, what
they feel like (it’s your body,
nobody will judge you for
touching them as often as you
can) get familiar with your
breast, so that you will be able
to pinpoint any change in them .
- do a self breast examination every
month if possible, preferably after your
period since they won’t be tender
anymore. (It’s nothing complicated,
there’s a link to it down at the bottom).
- know your past medical and family
history. A woman with a mother or sister
that had a breast cancer should not think
lightly of any mass, as she too has got an
increase chance of developing a cancer
too.
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-educate yourself on what is normal or
not. A nipple discharge is not always
normal. And the type of discharge guides
on the adjacent pathology. Learn on the
common signs of breast cancer. Aside
from a growing mass, painful, skin changes
(peau d’orange), and lymphadenopathies
and consult with your Doctor, to receive a
proper diagnosis and proper management
as soon as possible.
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Take care of yourself, your body is the
temple of the Lord, love it and cherish it.
God bless you all.
For more details, watch this video on
YouTube
https://youtu.be/LrfE6JUwIms
Dr BABEL
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RIDDLES
Answers to Last Month Riddle
1. Watermelon
2. Letter N
3. Tomorrow
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This Month Riddle
What question can you never answer yes to?
I walked into a room full of people, but there is no single person there, how
possible is that?
A man who was outside in the Rain without an umbrella or hat did not get a
single hair on his head wet. Why?
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