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ABOUT US

At Haikou International Christian Fellowship.

HICF Ladies Fellowship is an arm of Haikou International

Christian Fellowship in Hainan Province, Haikou City, China.

The Ladies Fellowship was founded by Devi Chandra under the

leading of the Holy Spirit in the year 2016 to raise up and build

Ladies to be rooted in Christ, empowered to fulfil purpose and

set up to make a change in this generation.

The Ladies Fellowship is 6 years, Glory to God! It comprises of

over 100 Ladies from different part of the world, with different

languages, ethnicity, educational background, color and race

but with the same objective of worshipping God and making

impact in their generation.

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KEMMY

BLESSING

DIANA WURAOLA HAZEL GLENDA

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NAOMI DEBORAH LAYOMI

JESSICA IYINSIOLUWA RURAMAI EFUA

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honestly I thought modeling was just a

1. Tell us about yourself?

My name is Joy, I am from Zambia, am a

young black female,

medical student and

a young upcoming

model.

2. How did your

journey into

modelling starts?

Someone really close to me suggested it to

me but in the beginning, I took it as a joke

until he finally arranged a photoshoot for

me and during my first photoshoot, he was

not around but he was a big part of the

photoshoot.

3. How has your experience being as a

model?

photographer taking pictures of you, like a

friend would, using a phone but it’s a whole

new different world of

having to wear different

expressions and making

them realistic, it opens

up a whole new world.

4. What does it

take to be a model? Do you have to be tall,

slim, have a flat tummy to be a model?

Different photoshoots require different

kinds of models but the one quality one

should have is confidence, because you are

the product.

5. What do you do to maintain your

physical appearance?

Honestly, I

thought

modeling was

just a

photographer

taking

pictures of

you

I take lots of water and do some workouts

and also try to eat a balanced diet

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6. How do you balance modelling with

your academics being a medical student?

8. Have you ever been faced with

criticism over this profession?

Making a schedule

and being consistent is

key. Because anyone

can make a schedule

but your consistency

Because anyone can

make a schedule but

your consistency and

hardwork in following

that schedule is what

and hardwork in matters.

following that schedule is what matters.

-yes, I have, so many people have so

many things to say but all you have to

do is focus on what’s important to you

cause other people’s definition of

normal might not be your own type of

normal and that’s ok.

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9. What are your goals as a model, do

7. Would you model any kind of

clothing?

My main reason for modeling is to

empower females, because so many

females around the world are not

you see yourself progress in this field?

Well, my goal as a model is one day to

hopefully inspire someone or some people

and make my own brand of clothing to

inspire women

comfortable with their appearance or body

type, so I wouldn’t model any kind of

clothing .it will have to be a clothing that is

saying something.

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10. What was the most difficult

photoshoot you have ever done and how

did you handle it?

the most difficult shoot I had was a

wedding shoot ,where I had to model with

a chinese male and for the shoot we were

told we had to pretend to be a couple. It

was difficult in the beginning so I asked to

spend some time with him so that we could

both establish a friendship.

11. How do you maintain

uncomfortable position for a long time?

I ask my photographers to play music so

that I don’t really focus on the pose

13. What are the challenges in

modelling and how can one handle them?

so many challenges it could be racism,

could be the photographers, diet etc. there

are so many challenges that come with it

but all you have to do is focus on what’s

important to you, get inspiration from that

and be hardworking

14. How can someone contact you for

modelling?

They go through my agent and my agent

talks to me about it and from there I make

the decision on whether to do the shoot or

not.

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12. Do you have anyone you look up to

in the modelling industry?

Yes, I do Bella Hadid, Kendall Jenner and

Adut Akech Bior

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Tanzania, a country in the east Africa

region is situated just south of the Equator.

Tanzania was formed as a sovereign state in

1964 through the union of the theretoforeseparate

states of Tanganyika and

Zanzibar. The current population

of Tanzania is 61,095,213 as of Friday, April

23, 2021, based on Worldmeter elaboration

of the latest United Nations data.

Tanzania population is equivalent

to 0.77% of the total world population.

Tanzania is regarded as an excellent safari

destination, largely due to its many worldclass

opportunities for game spotting.

Tanzania is home to many of the best

AMAZING FACTS ABOUT

TANZANIA

and biggest parks in Africa, and some of

the most varied and unique landscapes

that you’ll ever see. These varied

ecosystems are also ideal conditions for

one of the most quintessential aspects of

any great safari: African animals. No safari

would be complete without a glimpse of a

few of the “Big Five" or the chance to see

some lesser-known, but equally fascinating

animals. Fortunately, Tanzania doesn’t

disappoint. Home to the Great Wildebeest

Migration, each year, Tanzania sees

millions of animals make their way across

the land in search of water and fresh

pasture. Wildebeest, zebra, and gazelle

make the arduous journey, and brave the

raging

Mara

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River, filled with waiting crocodiles.

In Tanzania, you’ll

have the opportunity to

see lion, cheetah,

leopards, and hunting

dogs. If you’re curious

about what this

beautiful country has to

offer, here’s a look at ten reasons it’s

regarded as one of the best safari

destinations in Africa.

1. NEARLY 30 PERCENT OF TANZANIA IS

NATIONAL PARKS

Tanzania boasts some of the best national

parks in the world. The Serengeti National

Park is one of the most famous and bestloved

parks, and is home to more than one

million species of large mammals. It’s also a

World Heritage Site, and has also had the

honor of being named a 7th world wonder.

The Serengeti is the site of the Great

Migration, where

wildebeest

and

zebras make their

way across the

plains in search of

fresh grasslands.

It’s also home to

great buffalo herds, elephants, giraffe,

leopard, impala, and gazelle, as well as the

endangered Eastern Black Rhinoceros.

Tanzania also features the largest

population of elephants; which can be

found in the Selous Game Reserve.

2. MOUNT KILIMANJARO IS THE TALLEST

MOUNTAIN IN AFRICA

Ernest Hemingway wrote about the beauty

of Mount Kilimanjaro, and this snowcapped,

cone-shaped mountain is a site

that will take your breath away as well.

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Standing some 5,895 meters above sea

level, this mountain is the tallest in Africa,

and the highest freestanding mountain in

the world. It’s also home to almost every

kind of ecological system there is, from

cultivated land, to rainforest, alpine desert,

and arctic summit.

3. THE GREAT MIGRATION SEES OVER 2

MILLION ANIMALS TRAVEL ACROSS THE

PLAINS

The Great Wildebeest Migration sees over

1.5 million wildebeest, as well as zebra, and

gazelle, make their way through the

grasslands of Tanzania and Kenya in search

of pasture. Undoubtedly, the most exciting

part of the journey is the Mara River

crossing, where massive herds make their

way to the Masai Mara, braving crocodiles,

and danger at every turn.

4. NGORONGORO CRATER

Another must-see destination in Tanzania

is the world-famous Ngorongoro Crater,

located in northern Tanzania. Thought to be

the result of a volcanic explosion, this fertile

valley is one the most beautiful natural

wildlife safari destinations in the world, and

has even been named one of Africa’s Seven

Natural Wonders. The enclosed nature of

the crater has created an ecosystem all of

its own, resulting in some of the best

opportunities to spot game. It also has the

densest known population of lions. Buffalo

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, elephants, leopards, and rhino can also be

seen here, in addition to a host of other

well-loved African classics like the ostrich,

zebra, cheetah, wildebeest, gazelle, and

even hippos

regarded as one of the world’s most

biologically rich and scientifically valuable

habitats. Lake Tanganyika holds an

astounding 8 percent of the world’s

freshwater, and is home 500 fish species;

most of which stay within 20 meters of the

surface.

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6. TANZANIA IS A HOME TO DISTINCTIVE

AND DELICIOUS CUISINE

If you are looking to expand your palate,

5. LAKE TANGANYIKA IS THE SECOND

LARGEST LAKE IN THE WORLD

Lake Tanganyika is one of the largest

freshwater lakes in the world by volume

and depth; second only to Lake Baikal in

Siberia. In fact, it is so large that it belongs

to four different countries; Tanzania,

Burundi, Zambia, and Congo. The lake is fed

by at least 50 streams and rivers and is

then Tanzania is the place for you. In

Tanzania, you’ll have the chance to sample

wild game like crocodile, warthog, antelope,

or even ostrich. Other local favourites

include tilapia fish, pilau rice, and samosas.

It’s the spices that really make this food

special and the use of coconut, cardamom,

garlic, and turmeric feature prominently in

a number of traditional recipes.

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You’ll also have no problem finding fresh,

locally grown produce such as fruits,

vegetables, nuts, or coffee.

although the oldest one, found in South

Africa, is believed to be an astounding 6,000

years old.

8.TARANGIRE NATIONAL PARK IS HOME

TO UNIQUE TREE-CLIMBING LIONS

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Baobabs aren’t the only thing to see in

Tarangire National Park; this park is also

home to tree-climbing lions. The reason

that these lions have taken to climbing is

7.BAOBAB TREES CAN EASILY LIVE 1,000

YEARS

Baobabs are a beautiful and fascinating

tree that can be seen in Tanzania’s

Tarangire National Park. Some species of

the Baobab can live 1,000 years, or longer,

unknown. Whether it’s to catch a cool

breeze or escape the tsetse flies is a matter

of debate. Of course, there’s also the

chance that the lions simply enjoy the view

from up high. Whatever their reasons

though, watching these lions gingerly move

across the branches is a sight that’s worth

seeing.

9.THE BEACHES OF ZANZIBAR ARE

STUNNING

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While beaches may not be one of the first

things that you think of when you imagine

an African safari, a trip to the beautiful

island of Zanzibar is the perfect way to

round off a safari. The beaches of Zanzibar

are infamous for a reason. Featuring white

sand, blue waters, and swaying palms,

they’re regarded as some of the most

beautiful beaches in the world.

10.SCUBA DIVING OFF THE COAST OFFERS

EXPERIENCES UNLIKE ANY OTHER

While there’s plenty to see in the mainland,

there’s a whole world underwater as well.

Diving or snorkeling off of one of Zanzibar’s

islands will provide you with some rich upclose

encounters with some of amazing and

unique underwater sea creatures found

among the coral reefs. You could spot

Lionfish, Leaf Fish, Seahorse, Green Turtles,

and even Frog Fish.

ARE YOU READY?

As you can see, Tanzania is a unique and

beautiful safari destination, one that offers

plenty to see and do in terms of gamespotting

opportunities, as well as

spectacular and unique landscape. Little

wonder that it ranks amongst the top safari

choices as an ideal destination for first-time,

and experienced safari-goers alike.

KARIBU TANZANIA! WELCOME TO

TANZANIA!

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Margaret

(Tanzania)

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INTIMACY CORNER

I HAVE NEVER STARTED MY DAY

WITHOUT PRAYING

Have to realize that too many times

what we are looking for is right beside

us we just have to submit our will. I am

not here to tell you about unattainable

to impossible living

standards but at

least to share the

importance of a

real

relationship

with God; no not the one you tell your

friends about but the one where He

loves you unconditionally and you grow

closer to him organically.

I grew up a church girl; I mean Sunday

school material, youth camp, there was

even a time I was playing a part in a

Christmas play; typical I tell you. With my

Granma’, Mom and aunts and uncles

discipline it would be safe to assume I

would be a perfect little Christian girl

right? Wrong. See no matter how much

the Word of God is spoken to you if you

have not made it a personal thing it will

fall. I had to make a decision at some

point in my life to contact

God daily: then a few

times during the day:

before I do anything in

the morning: before I

leave the house: then when am back...it’s

not easy every day because our schedule

sometimes go as far as requiring a 10

minutes shower so imagine if you have

to do it all whilst Praying but one thing

for sure is that it is do-able. I have never

started my day or slept without Praying

even when am angry or going through

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the most difficult situation at the end of

the day I lower the volume of my music

stop for a second and say wow dad

thank you; you constantly amaze me and

so on and so forth.

One thing I have learnt is

constantly coming back to

Him to tell Him how it

went. Take for instance if I

Pray for something and

eventually an opportunity

comes whether it is a loose

back again and again because, when I

do, He shows me different things and

makes me realize why it did work or

didn’t. We talk and before you know, am

excited about tomorrow.

Read you Bible: at all times;

have verses in your head

that keep you going ,I have

ISAIAH 41:10 , Psalm

91 ,Judges 16:28 , I carry

them with me always

ISAIAH and PSALMS are

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or Win I am constantly

coming back to say thank

you I tried and it worked or

Minnie ~Heavens

SWAZILAND

more about assurance from

God to me and JUDGES is

about my return to God no

I tried and it didn’t work but am still

grateful for the opportunity. That

teaches me humility in all situations and

acceptance of responsibility. Come what

may I will Praise my God and I will go

matter the situation I find myself in :like

Samson I will scream and shout

REMEMBER me Lord at all times ;but I am

also being careful not to get myself in

Situations that God is not happy with,

Let’s learn not to misuse Grace.

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God be with you as you read. I really hope

this helps make shift in your life.

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hemp and hair fertilizer. And in a week I

could see the hair growth.

I GREW MY HAIR WITH RICE WATER

IN ONE WEEK

AGATHA (ZAMBIA)

I have been

natural for 10

years now but

technically, I only

really focused on

my hair when I

came to China in

2017. Sounds weird, I know but in my

country Zambia, once you attend a

government run school your hair has to be

natural and that’s when I became natural.

Maintaining natural hair doesn’t come easy,

you need to be patient and consistent.

When I first started in 2017 I tried

fermented rice water, protective styles and

a hair food mix containing: castor oil, Indian

People have different ways on how they

make the fermented rice water but for me

the method that works best is boiling the

rice for 5 to 10 minutes then separating

water from the rice. I then put the rice

water without the rice in a spray bottle and

instead of adding fruit peels for the smell

(any fruit in the orange family), I put in

some conditioner then keep it aside and

wait for a week before I can use it.

When it comes to maintaining my natural

hair, I first start with detangling with a

medium bristled comb and a spray bottle

with conditioner, castor oil and water and

section my hair in four. The second thing I

do is spray in the fermented rice water from

the roots to the tips and keep it in for 25 to

30 minutes then wash my hair. And within

a month I can see some improvement in

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hair growth. Lately I have been trying the

ORS brand, when it comes to shampoo,

conditioner and hair treatment.

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The hair treatment detangles my hair and

leaves it really soft and I’m still planning on

trying the hair oil and edge control. Plus I

love the smell.

With my hair still

sectioned, I rinse out the

rice water and then wash

with shampoo twice for

each section. I then apply

the hair treatment and finger

comb while waiting for 10 to 20

minutes before rinsing it all out. To dry my

hair I use a T-shirt instead of a towel.

With my hair still damp, I put in the

conditioner in each section of the hair then

I do a protective style which for me is

usually 8 to 10 three strand braids and on a

lazy day it’s only 2 strand braids. While I’m

doing my braids I put in the hair food. When

it comes to hair food I like oils and at the

moment I’m using castor oil, vitamin E and

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melted Shea butter. When applying the oils

I like to make sure my hair is a bit damp. I

start from the root to the tips and this is

done every two days.

I usually trim my hair after 6

months. When it comes to

trimming I prefer doing it

when it’s damp and not dry.

I first section it in four then

comb through and trim 1cm

of my hair.

NOT EVERYTHING THAT WORKS FOR ME

WILL WORK FOR YOU

Lastly, for those who are thinking of going

natural or starting their natural hair journey,

the best thing to remember is to be patient.

Not everything that works for me will work

for you, everyone has different hair types.

But just because you’re not seeing

improvement immediately doesn’t mean

you should give up. You can research to

help you find what works for you and

don’t be afraid to try new methods and

products that will help keep your hair

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Preparation:

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First of all, ladies, we need

Love is not a

feeling, love is a decision, love is

intentional. Loving is a choice you make

and stick by it come what may. I've noticed

nowadays that lots of people get married

yet lots of them go for a divorce. And

public opinion be like: "it's better to quit

than to be in a toxic marriage" wow! Who

made it toxic? Remember it takes two;

three with God. We know that God's

original plan was never for us, his beloved

children to get in and out of marriages

(Matthew 19:8). It is meant to be till death

do you part! So how do you make that

choice?

to acquire knowledge. The

word of God says that "The wise get all the

knowledge they can, but when fools speak,

trouble is not far off. Proverbs 10:14 GNT"

"Her teachings are filled with wisdom and

kindness as loving instruction pours from

her lips. Proverbs 31:26 TPT". We learn

here that a good woman, is wise and

acquires all the knowledge she can.

Knowing what you are getting into is really

important. From my inquiries and people's

testimonies, I gathered that one cause of

most failed marriages is they weren't ready,

not enough preparation, they didn't

actually know what they were getting into.

They only "felt loved". It's our responsibility

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to acquire knowledge and it's our

responsibility to teach ourselves about this

issue (Titus 2:3-5). Marriage is a serious and

lifetime commitment so it needs our whole

attention when we are considering it

sometime to come. For example,

Selflessness, a quality that is highly

recommended in marriage. Before you say

I do, be ready to let your "self" down to

carry your future spouse

desires at your highest

priorities. You live for the

other, to serve and be

God's intended plan for

Him. Marriage is not for the arrogant and

proud, nor the babies. You will have to

embrace change and learn to be joyful and

content at what ever stage of your

relationship. Engage in conversations on

the matter, with elders, successful married

couples, spiritual leaders, parents; Read on

it; there are a lot of Christian books on

marriage and obviously the Bible which is

the BASE. Train your mind, discipline

yourself, nurture good habits expected of a

good wife, be prepared, be close to God

and consequently, sensitive to the Holy

Spirit. While you are pursuing God and

preparing for marriage, walking in purpose,

enjoying every moment of your own life, Mr.

Right might just pop in!

Please note that it(meeting

Mr. Right)doesn't happen

for everyone the same way.

Some might receive

instructions from God, some conviction,

some Peace, but NEVER Confusion.

Dating:

For the few friends I have and people I talk

to, they know I always say, there's no need

getting into a relationship you know has no

future. You don't date for the sake of

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dating, but you date with a purpose.

Dating's primary intention must be

marriage. On a daily basis, we declare this

word: " I am beautifully and wonderfully

made" yet, we let ourselves be duped by

unserious men. No one should come to you

and "try to see" if it works, "if it leads to

marriage". In such circumstances, ladies

will mostly end up broken-hearted. YOU

ARE NOT AN EXPERIMENT SAMPLE!

If you date the right one, it will most likely

end well. But relationships have their own

challenges, so it's good to have people you

both are accountable to, people that can

guide you through your courtship and give

you godly advices. And well, my dear sisters,

if something doesn't feel right, deal with it

before saying YES , to that man. Some ladies

say Yes, just because they've been dating

and people are aware; they care about

what people will say if they don't end up

being married. My mom once told me:

"Even Engagement can be broken, until

you've said I Do, you can still back off". It

sounds funny but truly, it's better to end it

before you go into marriage with it and it

ends you. Of course, while dating, you

spend time with God, hear his voice and

recommendations regarding your

relationship. I will not tell you to consider a

Christian brother or to avoid sexual

immorality here, because we all already

know those are the ABC's of a Christian

relationship, so they are important as well.

Be mindful of things that might hinder your

relationship with God, because at this

phase of your life, you need him more than

ever.

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A bad marriage can ruin your whole life,

destroy you to the point of no return.

There's a saying in my country that goes like:

《 Marry wrong and sign your death

Some make it after divorce, some don't, so

what will it be for you? Let's be wise and

always cling to our heavenly father. God be

with you, Amen.

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certificate》.

Some books I can recommend:

《Created to be his helpmeet》~Debi Pearl

《Preparing to be a helpmeet》~ Debi Pearl

《Relationship & Marriage 》~ Yacouba Coulibaly

《Men are from Mars, women are from Venus 》~ John Gray

《Things I wish I'd known before we got married》~ Gary Chapman

Dr ANNIE

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阿 姨 Phone Number: +86 166 0898 2099

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BACK TO SCHOOL

ATTAINING ACADEMIC

EXCELLENCE

The goal of every student is to

achieve academic excellence during

their period of stay in school. This

dream is highly attainable, though it

doesn‘t come on a bed of roses.

Several people have written about

attaining academic excellence, but

none of them has been able to bring

up a clear-cut procedure to follow to

achieve it.

Academic excellence is a journey

that requires time to mature.

However, there are principles one

needs to use as a guide to attaining

excellence.

First, in a journey of academic

excellence, we cannot exclude the

God factor. The first principle we

need to follow is to allow God to be

our direction in all that we do in our

schoolwork. He is the embodiment of

all knowledge, and it is prudent that

we put our trust in him, even as we

make him the leader and follow suit.

Without God, this whole academic

journey might look like going on a

trip without a map or a guide. Since he

is all-knowing, it is expedient to rely

on him.

Next, it takes self-discipline to be

able to do anything out of your

comfort zone. As tertiary students,

we need to be self-disciplined to be

able to achieve our goals. We must

have discipline with our time, our

books, social media etc. Time is a

costly currency, which we can never

regain when we spend it. As students,

effective time management should be

our topmost priority. Planning your

time enables you to achieve a lot. For

effective time management, we must

endeavour to follow the plans we

make each day. And there should be

no room for compromise. A small

accommodation can affect your

following schedule. To obtain much

from the time available to you, you

need to make a lot of sacrifices. Most

sacrifices may not be pleasing, but

we must make them. Having to

choose between attending a fun event

and going to the library to study is a

tough decision to make. However,

the goal of making such a decision

should revolve around academic

improvement.

Self-motivation is another crucial

component that will help students

achieve academic excellence. Always

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have a positive mindset about

everything. Encourage yourself,

know yourself, your weaknesses, and

your strengths. Strive to project your

capabilities rather than your

weaknesses as you work on your

shortcomings privately. Be steadfast

in your decision to succeed despite

challenges. Do not be discouraged if

it feels like you are losing confidence.

Keep on pushing.

Consistency is a golden rule to

achieving brilliance. Being

consistent in your studies is therefore

crucial. Never let a day pass without

you studying. Set a convenient time

for yourself for tasks and ensure to

read your books during that time.

Allocate appropriate time for your

studies each day and be sure to abide

by it. It can be just 30 mins in a day,

and if you are consistent with that 30

mins, it can go a long way to improve

your academic life. Desist from the

habit of procrastination, it does not

get your work done, and the time you

lose is forever lost.

It would be best if you surrounded

yourself with friends who also aim to

achieve academic excellence. Bad

company corrupts good manners.

Avoid friends who do not see their

books as their priority and are

frivolous. It is better to be “alone”

without friends than to be swayed

from your goal. There are people

with similar experiences as you, so

reach out to such people and seek

their expertise and advice concerning

your situation. It is not always

compulsory to follow their advice

rigidly. You can make adjustments to

suit your particular circumstance.

As students, we have to develop a

healthy balance between our

academic work and other

extracurricular activities. Although

you are not required to be with your

books 24/7, it is necessary not to

have so many extra-curriculum

activities competing with your

academic life.

As Christians, we are obliged to

participate in church activities but try

as much as possible not to let that

affect our academics. Always

remember that the reason why you

came to school is to learn. All other

things are secondary.

Social media are quickly taking over

our generation. While social media

platforms can be educative, we

should not allow ourselves to be “

slaves” to their distractions. If you

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are already addicted to social media,

there are some steps to remedy this.

You can employ alarms and timers to

monitor your time on each social

media app. Once you have exhausted

your time, the app will automatically

close. Try to be disciplined enough

not to return to them later. You can

also inform trusted friends to check

up on you frequently to help you

monitor and keep you accountable

for the time spent away from your

books.

Examinations are an inevitable part

of our academic journey. Therefore,

you should be in a perpetual state of

preparation. Effective time

management, consistent studies, and

constant practice will enable you to

be ready for every examination.

Please do not wait until they

announce dates for examination

before you rush to revise. In as much

as possible, plan to study each

concept at least twice before every

examination. This habit will not only

help you understand better, but it will

make you less stressed when

examinations are due.

Make it your goal not to fail any

paper throughout your school period.

However, if you do fail, understand

that that is not the end of the journey.

Review the past missteps and make

adjustments for the future.

Afterwards, resolve never to fall into

the same situation again. Your ability

to bounce back after setbacks shows

your resilience and determination.

Therefore, do not be dismayed when

you encounter difficulties in your

academic work.

Academic excellence is something

we all yearn to achieve, but the

approach to obtaining it is highly

personal. Nonetheless, with God,

discipline, hard work, determination,

and consistency, it is obtainable.

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HOW MUCH FIBRE DO YOU

NEED A DAY?

Women are advised to

consume about 25 grams

of fiber a day. Fiber is the

structural part of plant

foods--such as fruits, vegetables, and

grains--that our bodies cannot digest or

break down. Fiber can lower cholesterol,

regulates blood sugar, prevent intestinal

cancer and constipation.

Guess what?

in the fruit helps speed up the metabolism

that supports your efforts to lose weight.

Fiber also helps to keep you fuller for

long, lowering the chances of

overeating. A 100g of carambola can give

you about 2.8G of fiber, which is very

beneficial to your digestive system. It is

also good if you are going on a journey of

weightloss.

Dr Francine

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Carambola also called star fruit can help

you achieve that. Carambola is a sour and

sweet fruit that has the shape of a fivepoint

star. Carambola was reported to be

rich in dietary fiber, especially insoluble

dietary fiber. Moreover, the fiber content

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I AM A WOMAN OF

SUBSTANCE

to be empowered and who need a driving

I like the saying "Woman of substance

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empowers". If you think you should be

empowers".

Don't leave that woman

called a woman of substance empower

another.

To empower means to give someone more

confidence and strength to do something.

(To Inspire).

broken when you can build her. After

building someone up you can beat your

chest and say I am a woman of substance.

Christopher Peculiar

Nigeria

Many women are recorded to be

weaklings in the mind, emotionally,

intellectually etc. but women are strong,

firm and determined personalities than they

understand. Everyone need a driving force

either mentally, spiritually and physically.

Why think alone of yourself when we can

build each other. There are many who need

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HEALTH CENTRE

SELF BREAST EXAMINATION

Hi Ladies, so today we are going to talk

about a very common pathology amongst

women: breast masses. Some of us have

never had any, thank God, others, like 13

years old me, felt an

abnormal mass in their

breast one morning( it

actually wasn’t a mass,

just normal mammary

tissue , but well) and

proceeded to totally

freak out and tell their grandma, that

made them drink many bitter and

disgusting decoctions for weeks. As the

Bible says “my people perish because of

lack of knowledge “. So let’s sleep a bit

smarter today.

A breast nodule is very common in the

women population. Let me reassure most

of you though, it’s probably not breast

cancer.

The masses can be painful or painless,

according to the cause. It might be due to

a fibrocystic change (usually painful)or a

fibroadenoma ( usually painless). These

types are more common in women during

their puberty and reproductive years.

Now, what matters most, is to be able to

detect such conditions early. The first

thing we need to know, and always keep

in mind:

- know your body, know your breast size,

know your breast symmetry,

know what they look like, what

they feel like (it’s your body,

nobody will judge you for

touching them as often as you

can) get familiar with your

breast, so that you will be able

to pinpoint any change in them .

- do a self breast examination every

month if possible, preferably after your

period since they won’t be tender

anymore. (It’s nothing complicated,

there’s a link to it down at the bottom).

- know your past medical and family

history. A woman with a mother or sister

that had a breast cancer should not think

lightly of any mass, as she too has got an

increase chance of developing a cancer

too.

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-educate yourself on what is normal or

not. A nipple discharge is not always

normal. And the type of discharge guides

on the adjacent pathology. Learn on the

common signs of breast cancer. Aside

from a growing mass, painful, skin changes

(peau d’orange), and lymphadenopathies

and consult with your Doctor, to receive a

proper diagnosis and proper management

as soon as possible.

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Take care of yourself, your body is the

temple of the Lord, love it and cherish it.

God bless you all.

For more details, watch this video on

YouTube

https://youtu.be/LrfE6JUwIms

Dr BABEL

Cameroon

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RIDDLES

Answers to Last Month Riddle

1. Watermelon

2. Letter N

3. Tomorrow

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This Month Riddle

What question can you never answer yes to?

I walked into a room full of people, but there is no single person there, how

possible is that?

A man who was outside in the Rain without an umbrella or hat did not get a

single hair on his head wet. Why?

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