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CONTENTS<br />
VOLUME XI • ISSUE 2<br />
12<br />
30<br />
26<br />
COVER STORY<br />
30 JESSE’S HOUSE A SAFE<br />
HOME FOR GIRLS<br />
12 WHAT IN THE WORLD IS<br />
HAPPENING WITH REAL<br />
ESTATE?<br />
44 SAWNEE ELEMENTARY<br />
READING WARRIORS<br />
FEATURES<br />
52 TEACHER REUSE EXCHANGE<br />
53 BRECHT STABLES & DUSTIN’S<br />
PLACE<br />
HOME AND LIFE<br />
14 $50 Burgers: Should We Worry<br />
About Inflation?<br />
16 Preparing for a Dog Fight in<br />
Georgia Divorce Cases<br />
18 Lead Today for Tomorrow<br />
22 Meet Becky Robinson<br />
48 Tips to Overcome Emotional<br />
Overwhelm<br />
FORSYTH FOODIE<br />
26 Fountain’s Food Adventures:<br />
Rendezvous Café<br />
HEALTH & WELLNESS<br />
34 Benefits of Minimally Invasive<br />
Surgery<br />
36 Aesthetic Treatments<br />
38 Changing Behavior and Weight<br />
One Shot at a Time<br />
40 Keeping Your Eyes Healthy While<br />
Facing Diabetes<br />
42 Mindfulness for Self-Care<br />
EDUCATION<br />
46 Mountain Education Charter<br />
High School<br />
50 Academies of Creative Education<br />
FAITH<br />
57 John Fischer, Life Tribute<br />
Celebrant<br />
58 Blessings Outside Your Comfort<br />
Zone<br />
BURGESS MUSINGS<br />
54 What to do when the Check Engine<br />
Light is On<br />
IN EVERY ISSUE<br />
10 <strong>Forsyth</strong> County Government<br />
11 News Around <strong>Forsyth</strong><br />
20 Book Reviews: Squeaky Chain Girl |<br />
<strong>My</strong> Blood Runs Crimson<br />
56 The Country Preacher<br />
“DON’T MISS<br />
A THING”<br />
WE’RE MOBILE...<br />
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CONTRIBUTORS<br />
VOLUME XI • ISSUE 2<br />
MY FORSYTH<br />
PUBLISHER<br />
Market Complete LLC<br />
Larry Brown is a retired<br />
journalist. Larry is a member<br />
of the Sawnee-Cumming<br />
Optimist Club and a mentor<br />
with Mentor Me North<br />
Georgia. A community<br />
volunteer and sought-out<br />
writer, he may be reached at<br />
browntrust@bellsouth.net.<br />
Tom Burgess is the owner<br />
and operator of Christian<br />
Brothers Automotive in<br />
Cumming. Tom retired from<br />
the United States Air Force<br />
in 2009, after serving his<br />
country for over 22 years.<br />
He may be reached at<br />
Tom.Burgess@cbauto.net.<br />
Pam Evans is an<br />
Associate Broker with<br />
Century 21 Results. She<br />
may be reached at<br />
678-778-6551.<br />
julie@marketcomplete.com<br />
678.614.8583<br />
GRAPHIC DESIGN<br />
Samantha Angeli<br />
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770.310.4486<br />
PHOTOGRAPHY<br />
Adam Pendleton<br />
David Fountain is a<br />
local food enthusiast and<br />
our community’s Best of<br />
<strong>Forsyth</strong> Financial Planner<br />
and Investment Advisor. You<br />
can reach him at foodie@<br />
fountainsfoodadventures.com<br />
Jacqueline Thompson<br />
Graves is a freelance<br />
media developer, writer,<br />
and the author of the book<br />
review blog The Book<br />
Buffet. She may be reached<br />
at thegraves@yahoo.com.<br />
Rev. David Hill, a long-time<br />
Cumming resident, may<br />
be reached at davidkhill@<br />
comcast.net. A retired<br />
preacher, Hill lives in North<br />
Carolina where he is enjoying<br />
spending time with his<br />
beloved grandchildren.<br />
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STAFF WRITER<br />
Bernadette Leonard<br />
is a beauty salon owner<br />
and coach. She may<br />
be reached at<br />
berni@berniinc.com.<br />
Amy Lyle lives in <strong>Forsyth</strong><br />
with her husband, four<br />
teenagers and a large dog.<br />
Her first book, The Amy<br />
Binegar-Kimmes-Lyle Book<br />
of Failures is a top eBook on<br />
Amazon.com.<br />
Tracy Ann Moore-Grant<br />
has been practicing family<br />
law since 2002. She's a<br />
partner at Patterson Moore<br />
Butler. She may be reached<br />
at 770-889-0846.<br />
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inspirational writer and<br />
speaker. She is the awardwinning<br />
author of Louie’s BIG<br />
day! She may be reached at<br />
maria@mariaimorgan.com.<br />
Narendra Singh, MD,<br />
FRCP(C), FACC, FAHA is the<br />
Director of Clinical Research,<br />
Atlanta Heart Specialists LLC,<br />
Atlanta, GA.<br />
He may be reached at<br />
info@heartdrsingh.com or<br />
www.heartdrsingh.com.<br />
Mira Sivan is a family<br />
practice optometrist with an<br />
emphasis on ocular disease,<br />
contact lenses fitting and<br />
pediatrics. She may be<br />
reached at 678-648-5185.<br />
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“Changing the world happens once step at a time, through acts of leadership and courage. It is the work of<br />
generations, with progress made possible by those who pass on the lessons learned from both successes and<br />
setbacks, and most importantly, the necessary knowledge that change is indeed possible.” - Andrew J. Young<br />
I have been a part of some amazing groups, initiatives, and<br />
adventures – personal and professional. Each has provided me with<br />
the opportunity to meet remarkable people who have shared their<br />
passions, knowledge, and guidance with me. For that I am grateful<br />
and lucky.<br />
A couple of years ago I had the honor of attending an event in<br />
Downtown Atlanta where my step-father’s friend and boss, Retired<br />
Admiral Paul Rosser, introduced me to his best friend, former<br />
Ambassador Andrew Young. That moment will forever be etched in<br />
my memory bank as a Top 10 of the folks I have met over the years.<br />
What I remember most about this first meeting was the significance of<br />
friendship. Of everlasting, honest friendship.<br />
In a world where differences seem to be highlighted, often for<br />
the worse, sitting down among folks of varied races, ethnicities,<br />
background, and abilities was joyous.<br />
I was honored to spend time with Rosser and Young once again<br />
earlier this summer, during the One <strong>Forsyth</strong> launch event. The <strong>Forsyth</strong><br />
Conference Center was filled with a myriad of folks, all spending a little<br />
time together to learn about the initiative and one another. <strong>My</strong> heart<br />
was (and still is) filled with gratitude for all who dedicate their time and<br />
talents for the best in their communities.<br />
Publishing this magazine allows me to spend time with great<br />
people – executives who lead some of our greatest companies,<br />
leaders who guide and teach our youth, and folks who set forth their<br />
absolute best, every day, to do the job at hand. If I had a canvas<br />
where I could write those names, I am certain I could easily weave the<br />
sails for thousands of boats.<br />
Faith. Family. Friends. Those three provide me with the strength and guidance<br />
I need to paint my canvas. Time continues to move on, sometimes in a<br />
direction that I may not have seen coming – yet I know I can move my canvas<br />
ever so slightly and adjust my sales to deal with those unexpected changes.<br />
I guess it is time to set sail, once again, adjusting the sails as necessary<br />
to reach the next destination. The adventure continues.<br />
JULIE BRENNAN<br />
Publisher<br />
julie@marketcomplete.com
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FORSYTH COUNTY GOVERNMENT<br />
WHAT'S NEW<br />
EMPLOYEES RECOGNIZED FOR 25,<br />
30 AND 35 YEARS OF SERVICE<br />
During their Aug. 5 meeting, the <strong>Forsyth</strong> County Board<br />
of Commissioners recognized employees that reached<br />
25, 30 and 35 year work anniversaries during 2020. The<br />
following employees were recognized for their service:<br />
35 Year Milestone:<br />
Assistant to the County Manager Cindy Henderson<br />
(Administration)<br />
30 Year Milestone:<br />
Athletic and Natural Resources Program Manager James<br />
Brennan (Parks & Recreation)<br />
Fire Chief Barry Head (Fire Department)<br />
Deputy First Class James Rush (Sheriff’s Office)<br />
Deputy Clerk, Senior Anna Coker (Clerk of Courts)<br />
25 Year Milestone:<br />
Arson Investigator, Senior Steven Anderson<br />
(Fire Department)<br />
Planning Manager Lori Kyle<br />
(Planning & Community Development)<br />
Deputy Fire Marshall Steve Baker (Fire Department)<br />
Assistant Director of Engineering Tim Allen (Engineering)<br />
Deputy Chief Appraiser Kevin Ream (Board of Assessors)<br />
Sergeant Kenneth Yarbrough (Sheriff’s Office)<br />
Special Enforcement Division Corporal Phillip Alexander<br />
(Sheriff’s Office)<br />
Maintenance Worker Troy Massey (Parks & Recreation)<br />
Investigations Manager Renee Shelton (State Court Solicitor)<br />
Equipment Operator III Freddy Flannigan<br />
(Roads & Bridges)<br />
Thank you to all county employees for their<br />
commitment and dedication to our communities.<br />
DUNN APPOINTED AS JUVENILE COURT JUDGE<br />
HEATHER N. DUNN has been appointed by the judges of<br />
the <strong>Forsyth</strong> County Superior Court as Juvenile Court Judge,<br />
replacing Judge J. Russell Jackson who retired at the end of July.<br />
Judge Dunn began her career in 2009 and has been an assistant<br />
district attorney in <strong>Forsyth</strong> County since March of 2010.<br />
Dunn graduated cum laude from Vanderbilt University with<br />
a bachelor’s degree in political science and sociology and<br />
earned her juris doctorate from Georgia State University<br />
College of Law.<br />
The Juvenile Court is dedicated to serving the residents of<br />
<strong>Forsyth</strong> County by hearing all cases involving allegations<br />
of deprivation or unruly conduct of children under the age<br />
of eighteen, or delinquency or traffic violations concerning<br />
children under the age of 17 found within its jurisdiction. It is<br />
to ensure that children whose well-being is threatened shall<br />
be assisted, protected, and restored, and each child shall<br />
receive the care, guidance and control conducive to the<br />
child’s welfare and best interest.<br />
FORSYTH COUNTY PARKS<br />
AND RECREATION FALL GUIDE<br />
The <strong>Forsyth</strong> County Parks & Recreation’s<br />
Fall Activity Guide is now available.<br />
The guide includes information on a<br />
wide variety of events, activities and<br />
programs offered. Residents can view<br />
the guide and register online at<br />
www.parks.forysthco.com or in<br />
person at any of the county’s three<br />
recreation centers, located at Central<br />
Park, Fowler Park and Old Atlanta<br />
Park. www.parks.forsythco.com<br />
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2021 Optimist Golf Tournament<br />
Benefits Children's<br />
Healthcare<br />
by Larry Brown<br />
The Sawnee-Cumming Optimist Club contributed $9,000 to<br />
Children's Healthcare of Atlanta, <strong>Forsyth</strong> County. The donation was<br />
made possible by the club's 2021 charity golf tournament held at<br />
Chestatee Golf Club. Tournament proceeds also benefit the club's<br />
community programs for children. The check was presented to Laurie<br />
Cole, community development officer at Children's Healthcare.<br />
Laurie Cole (right), Children's Healthcare of Atlanta, accepts<br />
a check for $9,000 from Sawnee-Cumming Optimist Club<br />
golf tournament chairperson Brenda Basey (left) and other<br />
club members.<br />
Cole said, “Thank you to our friends at the Sawnee-<br />
Cumming Optimist Club for making the 9th annual<br />
golf tournament benefiting our Aflac Cancer and<br />
Blood Disorder Center the best one yet! Each year this<br />
tournament becomes a little more special than the one<br />
before, and this year our young patient ambassador was<br />
definitely a highlight. Thank you so much to all the<br />
golfers, sponsors, and businesses for their continued<br />
support. We look forward to seeing everyone next year<br />
as the Sawnee-Cumming Optimist Club celebrates their<br />
10th golf tournament!”<br />
Brenda Basey, club president, added, “Each year I am<br />
honored to chair this event, and each year I am amazed at<br />
the continued support we receive from our community.<br />
This has become a “favorite tournament” of so many<br />
golfers and sponsors. I am humbled to be able to continue<br />
Children’s Healthcare ambassador Asher Rock gives the<br />
thumbs up to golfers at the 2021 Sawnee-Cumming Optimist<br />
Club golf tournament. Joining him are (from left) his father<br />
Marcus; club president Janna Shacklett; tournament chairperson<br />
Brenda Basey; Laurie Cole, Children’s Healthcare; and<br />
Asher’s mother, Josie.<br />
to put this together and know that next year, our 10th, will<br />
be more amazing and give even more for the fight against<br />
childhood cancer. A huge thank you to all the sponsors<br />
and participants who supported the tournament!"<br />
“For the past few years, we have had a Children’s<br />
Healthcare child ambassador represent our club at the<br />
tournament,” Basey said. “This year it was seven year old<br />
Asher Rock. He was such an inspiration for our event<br />
and our golfers! In a few words that morning before<br />
the golfers went out, he touched everyone there and had<br />
such an impact on the entire day.”<br />
Basey said that at four months old, Asher was<br />
diagnosed with retinoblastoma in his right eye. It is a<br />
life-threating childhood cancer. He has had more than<br />
60 eye exams under anesthesia and several surgeries. He<br />
now has vision in only one eye.<br />
The Sawnee-Cumming Optimist Club meets the first and third Thursday evenings of each month.<br />
For information about Optimists, contact club president Janna Shacklett, janna9810@gmail.com.<br />
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What in the World is<br />
Happening with Real Estate?<br />
By Pam Evans<br />
The questions I have been asked numerous times over the past several months are: What is going on with<br />
the market? When are things going to crash? Why would I buy a house now when prices are so inflated?<br />
THE FACTS<br />
The market today is being driven by a number of economic factors, NONE<br />
of which reflect the crash of 10+ years ago. That Real Estate downturn<br />
was driven by poor lending practices. Those practices no longer exist, and<br />
lending requirements are quite sound now.<br />
Today’s conditions are driven by Supply & Demand conditions.<br />
Simply put, there is far greater demand than there is supply. Covid did<br />
not slow the Atlanta Real Estate market down in 2020. In fact, it was<br />
incredibly robust. While many unfortunately experienced economic<br />
hurt, many did not, and metro Atlanta was and is a vibrant business<br />
community attracting businesses, their employees, and their need<br />
for housing.<br />
The demand for housing is incredibly strong, and while many<br />
Sellers want to sell, they are fearful that they will not be able to find<br />
their next home, whether they are upsizing, downsizing or right-sizing.<br />
They recognize competition is fierce and thereby driving prices up,<br />
with the majority percentage of homes selling for significantly higher<br />
than List price.<br />
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So, without market fluidity – a steady stream<br />
of Sellers and Buyers to create a more<br />
balanced market, we have this – an extreme<br />
Sellers’ Market.<br />
INTEREST RATES<br />
Further driving the number of Buyers wanting<br />
to purchase a home is the record low Interest<br />
Rates. We’ve seen historically low rates over<br />
the past few years, and now they are truly at<br />
record lows – meaning, Homeownership has<br />
never been more affordable than it is now.<br />
You can get more home for your money as a<br />
significantly lower portion of your monthly<br />
payment goes towards Interest.<br />
The rub here is – yes, Sales prices are<br />
being driven higher by market demand – but<br />
choosing to wait it out and see if prices settle<br />
down by next year may mean higher interest<br />
rates. Even a quarter or half percent increase<br />
can mean a significant change to your monthly<br />
mortgage payment. And “waiting it out” for<br />
prices to stabilize may have erased significant<br />
savings through a lower interest rate.<br />
For those assuming that as government<br />
stimulus programs end will mean an increase<br />
in Short Sales and Foreclosures, and are<br />
choosing to wait as prices will drop – most<br />
Economists don’t see that as likely at all. Why?<br />
People have record equity in their homes right<br />
now. There is no reason to short sale, and you<br />
can sell if needed in order to avoid foreclosure,<br />
and protect your credit.<br />
BEST STRATEGIC MOVE<br />
For Buyers, if you are currently renting, you are<br />
continuing to toss money out the window each<br />
month instead of paying into your own asset.<br />
Even if you pay more for your home right now,<br />
you are purchasing with record low interest<br />
rates amortized over 30 years. And there are<br />
several strategies you can implement from<br />
the get-go, enabling you to accumulate equity<br />
faster and erase the negative effects of a higher<br />
purchase price.<br />
For Sellers who are nervous to Sell for<br />
fear of being homeless – there are numerous<br />
strategies out there that can make you a very<br />
competitive Buyer, enabling you to secure<br />
your next home, and getting your current<br />
home sold for record profits. Ask a good<br />
Realtor who adapts to the ever-changing<br />
market. There are always ways to capitalize,<br />
accomplish your housing goals, and come out<br />
ahead in the long run.<br />
MARKET FLUIDITY<br />
No, I don’t love this market. Yes, I’ve helped<br />
numerous Clients on both the Selling and<br />
Buying side over the past year, but no,<br />
this market is not ideal in any way, and is<br />
perpetuating unnecessary fear. What I can<br />
assure you is Real Estate is still an incredible<br />
long-term wealth builder. It is far better to pay<br />
into your own asset, increase your home’s value<br />
through improvements, and enjoy market<br />
appreciation, than is sitting on the sidelines.<br />
Making a change now, with these rates, will<br />
more than likely be an enormous benefit to you<br />
in the long run. And if you are strategic in your<br />
planning, whether Selling or Buying, you will<br />
fare very well.<br />
Pam Evans is an Associate Broker with Century 21 Results, and can be reached at HelloPamEvans@gmail.com or 678-778-6551.<br />
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$50<br />
Burgers<br />
SHOULD WE WORRY ABOUT INFLATION?<br />
Seems like everywhere we turn these days the media continues to talk about this word “Inflation.”<br />
What does this really mean and how much inflation can the country afford before we are in trouble?<br />
By Kurt Arseneau, Investment Advisor Representative, Registered Financial Consultant<br />
First, let us get on the same page about some of the<br />
basics. If you have noticed the price of something increasing over<br />
time (say, your favorite soda or the cost of college tuition), that’s<br />
inflation in action. Economists use the broad increase (or decrease)<br />
in prices of goods and services across the country as a measure of<br />
economic health. When inflation is stable and predictable, it is a<br />
sign of a basically healthy, and growing economy.<br />
But high inflation can quickly eat away at the purchasing power<br />
of your dollars, indicating that the economy might be overheated.<br />
Deflation, or a decline in prices, can be a warning sign of a<br />
shrinking economy. Recent data highlighted a surprise spike in<br />
inflation, indicating that prices increased faster than economists<br />
expected in the last few months. (1)<br />
Could this be a worrisome sign that the economy is overheated?<br />
Could $50 burgers be in our future? Maybe.<br />
On the other hand, could it be a temporary blip caused by<br />
the economy emerging from the pandemic-driven slowdown,<br />
complicated by supply chain issues? Very possible.<br />
Are the headlines catastrophizing? They usually are, but let us<br />
look at the data. The Consumer Price Index (CPI), one of the major<br />
indices’ economists use to track inflation, showed a surprising spike<br />
in April, igniting fears of runaway inflation.<br />
Core CPI (which excludes the highly volatile categories of energy<br />
and food) showed a 0.9% increase in April month over month and<br />
3.0% year-over-year. That is much higher than the expected 0.3%<br />
and 2.3% respectively. (2)<br />
However, digging a bit deeper, we see that just two categories of<br />
goods (used cars and transportation services) accounted for the vast<br />
majority of the surge. (3) That suggests things like flights and train<br />
travel suddenly became more expensive after a year of rock-bottom<br />
prices. Is that runaway or the normalization of prices as the world<br />
reopens? We cannot tell from a single data point, but it is unusual<br />
to see prices increase in sectors that experienced a sever slowdown<br />
last year.<br />
What about the jump in car prices? Well, many folks are<br />
turning to the second-hand market right now, in part because new<br />
cars are caught up in global supply chain bottlenecks for things like<br />
semiconductors and raw materials. (4)<br />
Inflation is something to keep an eye on, especially in a year<br />
when so many of the usual variables have been thrown into flux.<br />
An ongoing surge in prices could hurt our wallets as our dollars<br />
buy less over time. However, a single monthly spike following<br />
a very weird period for the economy is not cause for alarm yet;<br />
we should prepare ourselves for more odd numbers coming out<br />
of different parts of the economy in the weeks and months to<br />
come. Shortages of everything from ketchup to gasoline could<br />
lead to price increases and fluctuations as supply chains attempt to<br />
disentangle from pandemic disruptions. (5)<br />
Should we expect markets to react to inflation (and other)<br />
headlines? A negative market reaction is not surprising after weeks<br />
of strong performance. We should expect volatility ahead as we<br />
(and the economy) adjust to a post-pandemic world.<br />
BOTTOM LINE: EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED IN 2021!<br />
If you are retired or close to retirement and have concerns about<br />
how inflation may impact your standard of living, reach out to us<br />
for a second opinion. Contact us at (470) 839-9001 or visit our<br />
website at www.arseneauadvisory.com<br />
Until next time, stay healthy and safe!<br />
Kurt Arseneau<br />
(1) https://www.cnbc.com/2021/05/12/consumer-price-index-april-2021.html<br />
(2) https://www.chase.com/personal/investments/learning-and-insights/article/top-market-takeaway-05142021<br />
(3) https://www.chase.com/personal/investments/learning-and-insights/article/top-market-takeaway-05142021<br />
(4) https://www.npr.org/2021/04/09/985860442/auto-industry-continues-to-struggle-with-supply-chain-issues<br />
(5) https://www.cnn.com/2021/05/08/business/supply-chain-shortages-pandemic/index.html<br />
Investment Advisory Services offered only by duly registered individuals through AE Wealth Management, LLC(AEWM). AEWM and Arseneau Advisory Group are not affiliated companies.<br />
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Preparing for a Dog Fight<br />
in Georgia Divorce Cases<br />
By Tracy Ann Moore-Grant<br />
As a mediator and attorney, some of<br />
the most difficult cases to navigate<br />
and resolve are those involving who<br />
will receive the family pet. Typically, after<br />
hearing all of the other issues to be determined<br />
in a case, an attorney will sheepishly look at<br />
their client before uttering those dreaded words,<br />
“and oh yeah, we want the dog.” And I say “dog”<br />
because I have never seen people argue over a cat.<br />
Sorry cat lovers. Unlike child custody disputes,<br />
which provide defined laws and code sections to<br />
guide the parties on realistic outcomes, Georgia<br />
law provides a harsh reality when it comes to the<br />
family pet. No matter how beloved the family pet<br />
may be, it is considered a piece of property in the<br />
same way as a sofa or big screen TV. In Georgia,<br />
the standard is to divide property “equitably”<br />
which means fairly. So this means one party is<br />
leaving with Fido.<br />
Many parties who are seeking possession<br />
of a pet believe that the court should apply the<br />
same standards to an animal that they apply to<br />
children, which is the “best interests standard.”<br />
They argue about who loves the pet more, who<br />
the pet chooses to spend time with, and who can<br />
care for the pet better between the two parties.<br />
Unfortunately, Georgia does not recognize the<br />
best interests of the dog standard. Some states<br />
have actually moved towards considering the best<br />
interests of the dog like California, Alaska, and<br />
Illinois. But in Georgia, the court simply treats<br />
the animal like property. Having litigated these<br />
types of cases, I have seen parties bring to court<br />
the following evidence to persuade the judge<br />
in their favor: records indicating they adopted<br />
or purchased the animal, records showing they<br />
are the one who took the animal to the vet,<br />
photographs showing them and the animal in<br />
matching outfits for special occasions, proof that<br />
they attended the training classes with the dog<br />
without the other party, holiday cards featuring<br />
the animal, affidavits about how bonded they<br />
are to the dog over the other party and custom<br />
artwork they had made depicting the animal.<br />
Any judge will be deciding the issue will be using<br />
any information they can get to determine who<br />
should awarded the dog.<br />
Often the party losing the animal will<br />
expect compensation for the loss. In Georgia,<br />
it is a long established rule that an animal value<br />
is established based on fair market value. So a<br />
rescue animal may have little identifiable value.<br />
And while you may have paid $1,200.00 for your<br />
mini schnauzer as a puppy, what is an 8 year old<br />
mini schnauzer worth? (Priceless in my opinion).<br />
In Georgia, the sentimental value of a pet is not a<br />
consideration. This is often a hard dog bone for<br />
the other party to swallow to learn they have lost<br />
the dog and they are not entitled to anything for<br />
the loss.<br />
The biggest issue I see with resolving pet<br />
issues is that attorneys have not had a discussion<br />
with their client prior to a mediation or settlement<br />
discussions to inform them about the realities of<br />
Georgia law on this issue. Often parties who hear<br />
this for the first time during an already stressful<br />
mediation have difficulty accepting or processing<br />
the information causing a breakdown emotionally<br />
and in the settlement process. Secondly, the<br />
client is not prepared to settle the issue with any<br />
evidentiary documents or information that may<br />
be persuasive in negotiations resulting in back<br />
and forth of competing statements regarding who<br />
in fact does love the dog more. If one party comes<br />
to the table with a stack of photos and documents,<br />
it is far more likely the other will concede the<br />
issue in the grand scheme of settlement.<br />
I advise attorneys in advance of mediation<br />
to take seriously the issue of “pet custody” and<br />
prepare for the issue with the same seriousness<br />
they take with other matters. Another alternative<br />
is to seek arbitration on the issue. In arbitration,<br />
the parties may feel more “heard” than they<br />
would in court. Often the animal issue is one<br />
given little regard or prep time by counsel but the<br />
one most likely the cause a lack in settlement. A<br />
little preparation can go a long way in a dogfight.<br />
TRACY ANN MOORE-GRANT has been<br />
practicing family law in North<br />
Georgia since 2002. She is a<br />
partner at Patterson Moore<br />
Butler in Cumming, Georgia<br />
and is also a mediator,<br />
arbitrator and guardian ad<br />
litem. You can get more information on<br />
her firm’s website at<br />
www.PattersonMooreButler.com<br />
or directly at the Amicable Divorce<br />
Network website at<br />
www.AmicableDivorceNetwork.com<br />
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LEAD<br />
Today for<br />
Tomorrow<br />
By Bernadette Leonard<br />
“The test of leadership is:<br />
is anything or anyone better<br />
because of you?” - Mark Sanborn<br />
Why do we lead? To lead is not to be on a pedestal, placed<br />
above all others. To lead is to inspire; to enrich lives; to<br />
make heroes; to leave each day better than you found it;<br />
to build lifelong relationships; to make a difference; to bring<br />
joy. Leading is guidance. A good leader walks with those<br />
around them - always beside them, constantly building them<br />
up and helping them grow. Now think to yourself: Are your<br />
footsteps worth following? Leadership is about building<br />
relationships and investing in your future. In order to create<br />
a legacy of leadership, it all starts with you.<br />
To be a good leader is to be your best self! What habits are you<br />
incorporating daily that are making a positive and lasting significance?<br />
Here are some key habits and characteristics to<br />
implement:<br />
• Preparation: time management is process that is learned<br />
and mastered.<br />
• Setting Goals: Put your biggest task first thing in the<br />
morning.<br />
• Focus: Have clarity on what is important. Will it matter just<br />
for the next 5 minutes? Or will it matter for the next 5 years?<br />
Being able to say no to what isn’t important leaves more time<br />
and focus towards what is.<br />
• Accountability Partner: Seek a mentor, friend or<br />
companion to hold you accountable in all areas of<br />
life - finance, health, career and spirituality.<br />
All four of these factors encourage discipline and will set you up for<br />
success. When you invest in yourself today, you lead yourself into a<br />
better tomorrow. We only have one mind and body, so we must nurture<br />
it. Even I have to remind myself to take time for my health, both<br />
mentally and physically, when the craze of life takes over.<br />
Once you ground yourself in these core values, natural positive<br />
behavior will take root. Behaviors start with leaders; it is how you earn<br />
respect. Values set the standard for behavior. If you embody humility,<br />
trust, servanthood, and forgiveness, your environment and those<br />
around you will be affected. Being a role model is absolutely vital to<br />
creating a positive work/life environment. Be the kind of person you<br />
want to be around.<br />
In a world that at times has uncertainty and is constantly changing,<br />
it is more important now than ever before to invest in ourselves and<br />
be the best leaders we can be so that we may leave the world and each<br />
day a little better than we found it. Continuously learning prepares<br />
you for opportunities that will keep your passion alive. Passion<br />
brings preparation, which grows to purpose and leads to prosperity.<br />
Accomplishment and happiness are feelings that will forever live in<br />
your heart and fill you up to be your best self. When you are at your<br />
best, you build future leaders for a better tomorrow.<br />
Bernadette Leonard is a beauty salon owner and coach.<br />
She is passionate about adding value to the lives around<br />
her, continuous growth and personal relationships.<br />
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BOOK REVIEW<br />
Buy<br />
Local,<br />
Read<br />
Local<br />
By Jacqueline<br />
Thompson Graves<br />
Perrie Patterson is another local writer. When I saw the title “<strong>My</strong><br />
Blood Runs Crimson” I wasn’t sure whether I would be reading a murder<br />
mystery or maybe something about native Americans or just what. Turns<br />
out her Crimson is the Alabama Crimson Tide, and the story revolves<br />
around the fraternity and sorority relationships on campus.<br />
It reminded me of something I dealt with years ago when I sold life<br />
insurance. I had a customer who was contacted by a fraternity brother.<br />
The ‘frat bro’ quoted a ridiculous price for a policy this guy didn’t need and<br />
could barely afford. I showed him what he could purchase with a fraction<br />
of the money and still provide for his family. “The policy your frat brother<br />
is selling would make him (or me) a lot of commissions,” I told him. He<br />
just could not believe his old pal would do that to him. “He would do right<br />
by me. He wouldn’t use me!” he kept insisting. He wanted so badly to give<br />
his business to his old buddy. It took a lot of research on his part to decide<br />
his frat brother was not doing him any favors.<br />
How far would most people go to help their fraternity/sorority<br />
brothers and sisters? The book explores this thought and does remind us<br />
that sometimes in life it really isn’t what you know, but who. I could say<br />
more, but I don’t want to give away your reading surprises.<br />
We also have this review copy to give away, so see how to enter for that<br />
at the end of the article.<br />
We would like to support our local writers and encourage you to share<br />
your books with our readers. I don’t know about you, but I believe some of<br />
the best writers ever came from the South.<br />
Local. It’s everywhere you go these days We are urged to eat<br />
local, shop local, buy local. I like local. Our local famers’ markets call<br />
to me. Each Wednesday and Saturday morning there are vendors at the<br />
fairgrounds parking lot. Last week was Tomato Wednesday! The grassy<br />
gathering spot at Vickery Village hosts farmers and more on Thursdays.<br />
I found fresh figs and cucumbers without wax. Of course, right there at<br />
Vickery is Rick Tanner’s restaurant – a favorite local spot to eat and drink.<br />
While we’re supporting our neighbors’ business adventures, it only<br />
makes sense to read local, too. “I’m not sure we have many local writers,”<br />
you say. I would say you need to look around. There are three writers on my<br />
street! One writes children’s books; one specializes in women’s devotionals;<br />
I do my thing.<br />
SO PLEASE ALLOW ME TO INTRODUCE YOU TO A COUPLE<br />
OF LOCAL WRITERS.<br />
Local author, “Bobin”, aka Robert Zee, writes for fun after work and on<br />
weekends. I read one of his books titled “Squeaky Chain Girl”. That’s an<br />
intriguing title for a book, isn’t it?<br />
Squeaky Chain Girl gives us a glimpse of what it means to really love<br />
someone, through the good and the bad, over the long haul, no matter how<br />
the other person treats us, even when there is no hope for the love to be<br />
returned. Although the writing is, at times, repetitive, the message comes<br />
through loud and clear.<br />
It’s a short, easy read, and I am giving away the review copy. To be<br />
entered in the drawing for the book, just leave any comment on my book<br />
review blog. (See the address at the end of the article.)<br />
Squeaky Chain Girl ISBN#: 9798643642190<br />
<strong>My</strong> Blood Runs Crimson ISBN#: 9798710265291<br />
Books can be purchased at Amazon (free with Kindle Unlimited subscription)<br />
and at Barnes & Noble<br />
To enter to win a book, visit<br />
http://www.thebookbuffet.wordpress.com<br />
and leave a comment stating which book you would like<br />
to win. There is no cost to enter. If you win you will be<br />
contacted for your snail mail address and the book will<br />
be sent to you at no charge. Please enter by 10-01-21.<br />
Jacqueline Thompson Graves lives and writes in Cumming, GA where she is currently reading a new book on the deck and has a nice pot<br />
roast in the slow cooker. She invites you to engage at her book review blog: www.thebookbuffet.wordpress.com<br />
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INTERVIEW<br />
TELL US ABOUT ONE OF YOUR FAVORITE CLIENTS.<br />
I love working with Eddie Gonzalez, tournament director for the Truist<br />
Atlanta Open tennis tournament. He trusts me and gives me a lot of<br />
freedom. As a big tennis lover, I think it would be awesome to work a grand<br />
slam or Davis Cup.<br />
HOW DO YOU MEASURE THE RESULTS OF A PR CAMPAIGN?<br />
It is important to set realistic goals at the beginning, specific to the client.<br />
Success could mean placement within a targeted news outlet, social media<br />
metrics of significance, or a percentage of sales growth. Ultimately the goal<br />
is client satisfaction.<br />
MEET PUBLIC RELATIONS GURU,<br />
BECKY<br />
ROBINSON<br />
An interview by Amy Lyle<br />
BECKY DENT ROBINSON IS THE FOUNDER AND MANAGING<br />
PARTNER OF CHATTERHOUSE COMMUNICATIONS, A<br />
MARKETING COMMUNICATIONS FIRM BASED IN ATLANTA.<br />
BECKY HAS WORKED IN THE PUBLIC RELATIONS AND<br />
MARKETING WORLD FOR 20+ YEARS AND NOW MANAGES<br />
THE DIGITAL MARKETING ARM OF THE TRUIST ATLANTA<br />
OPEN, PROFESSIONAL MEN'S TENNIS TOURNAMENT AND<br />
LEADING ATP TOUR EVENT IN THE U.S.<br />
HOW DID YOU GET INTO PUBLIC RELATIONS?<br />
Honestly, one of my friends in college said that I would be good at it.<br />
So, I looked into it after realizing I needed more of a specialized degree<br />
than my political science major. The idea of working in promotions and<br />
media relations was interesting. This decision led the way to working as a<br />
press secretary in political campaigns, which later turned into corporate<br />
marketing, and ultimately launching my own business.<br />
THERE ARE SO MANY SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS. WHAT<br />
IS YOUR ADVICE FOR BUSINESS OWNERS IN REGARD TO<br />
UTILIZING SOCIAL MEDIA?<br />
Not all social media platforms make sense for every business. You need<br />
to clearly outline your business objectives and your audience and then<br />
Don’t forget:<br />
“Everything you<br />
do or say is public<br />
relations.” – Unknown<br />
determine which space you should be in. You can exhaust yourself trying<br />
to be everywhere at once. Instead, you should focus on the platforms that<br />
will drive the best business results and allow you the best opportunity to be<br />
strategic. Social media requires a different approach for different businesses,<br />
and content is king. It is also trial and error and needs adaptation and fresh<br />
thinking to keep up with industry changes and at times, trends.<br />
WOULD YOU EVER WORK IN POLITICS AGAIN?<br />
Wow, now more than ever that is a tricky field. I loved my days on the<br />
campaign trails and do miss it. I have felt a longing for it lately with the<br />
current state of things. If I could help improve messaging or somehow<br />
contribute to a more positive outlook, I would love to. <strong>My</strong> father is an elected<br />
official back home and I really admire his dedication and sincere interest in<br />
helping his county. He is why I first became interested in politics and ended<br />
up working on for a presidential hopeful and congressman.<br />
WHAT IS A PART OF YOUR JOB THAT YOU LOVE?<br />
I love being around my clients during their most satisfying moments. When<br />
I witness the hard work on both of our parts come to fruition, that is very<br />
fulfilling. I work in the professional tennis industry, and I pinch myself when<br />
I am watching my favorite players as part of “work.”<br />
www.facebook.com/ChatterhouseCommunications<br />
www.linkedin.com/company/chatterhouse-communications/<br />
twitter.com/chattRhouse<br />
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FORSYTH FOODIE<br />
FOUNTAIN’S FOOD ADVENTURES<br />
Rendezvous Café<br />
By David Fountain<br />
Ho Eun Kim, owner of Rendezvous Café, bought her quaint café in 2019, and operates it<br />
with her daughters, Eunice, and Kimberly. After previously owning another café, Ho Eun<br />
decided that Lakeland Plaza was the perfect spot to move. This was clearly the right choice<br />
as they now have a well-deserved, vast number of loyal patrons.<br />
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This café operates as a family unit. While Ho<br />
Eun is the head of the operation, her daughter<br />
Eunice is their head baker, and Kimberly is their<br />
main barista. Together, they produce high quality<br />
food and drinks in an extremely timely manner.<br />
On the baked goods menu, you are going<br />
to find everything homemade. Their White<br />
Chocolate Lavender Scone, Gluten Free Banana<br />
Chocolate Nut Loaf, and Chocolate Chip<br />
Cookie are great options to try. Made with<br />
care everyday by Eunice, the quality is evident<br />
as soon as you take the first bite. Rendezvous<br />
also features gluten-free, and nut-free optionsperfect<br />
for dietary needs.<br />
Unfortunately, you cannot let yourself get<br />
too distracted with their scrumptious sweets,<br />
because you need to leave room for their meal<br />
options. Ho Eun Kim makes everything in<br />
house from their croissants to their hot-pressed<br />
sandwiches. The Chicken Pesto Panini, served<br />
on a perfectly pressed French roll, is a delicious<br />
lunch option. However, if you are looking for<br />
something more nutritional, their Micro Greens<br />
& Nuts Avocado Toast makes for a great meal.<br />
While the food alone creates a lot of excitement<br />
for Rendezvous Café, their drink options take<br />
this restaurant up a notch. While they offer your<br />
standard coffee and espresso drinks, they also<br />
offer “specialty drinks.” Among these drinks<br />
are the Coconut Lavender Matcha, Nutella<br />
Latte, Strawberry Matcha Latte, and more.<br />
Kimberly has become an expert at her craft and<br />
is immensely helpful if you are struggling to<br />
choose between the large variety of options. If<br />
you are concerned about milk options, do not<br />
worry. They also craft their drinks with oat milk<br />
upon request.<br />
Rendezvous Café has done a wonderful<br />
job of remaining resilient after being hit with<br />
COVID-19 less than a year into operation.<br />
Their efforts are well appreciated by their many<br />
customers and will continue to do so in the<br />
coming years.<br />
David Fountain is a local food enthusiast and our community’s Best of <strong>Forsyth</strong> Financial Planner<br />
and Investment Advisor. You can reach him at foodie@fountainsfoodadventures.com<br />
543 Lakeland Plaza,<br />
Cumming, GA 30040<br />
HOURS:<br />
Monday-Saturday:<br />
8:30 AM - 5:30 PM<br />
Sunday: Closed<br />
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A SAFE<br />
HOME<br />
FOR GIRLS<br />
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“Since 1998, adolescent girls in need of a temporary home have found shelter at Jesse’s House,<br />
<strong>Forsyth</strong> County’s shelter for girls. For 23 years, the shelter has served over 1,000 girls from all<br />
over the state of Georgia. The average length of stay ranges from eight months to two years.”<br />
Safe shelter is coupled with the provision of<br />
immediate needs – from medical to personal<br />
care. Residents receive academic support<br />
and tutoring, mentoring and enrichment<br />
activities. Counseling is also provided.<br />
Jesse’s House was named after Jesse<br />
Morris. The Larry Morris family answered<br />
the call in 1998 when, as a result of a 1996<br />
needs assessment survey for the north<br />
Georgia region conducted by Kennesaw State<br />
University, the need for an emergency shelter<br />
in <strong>Forsyth</strong> County for adolescent girls who<br />
were experiencing abuse and neglect was<br />
identified. The family donated a two bedroom<br />
home in honor of their father, Jesse.<br />
Roughly 80% of our residents have been<br />
removed from their living environment due to<br />
abuse and neglect and placed at Jesse’s House<br />
through the DFCS. The other 20% are placed<br />
with us through the <strong>Forsyth</strong> County Juvenile<br />
court. We have the capacity for 12 girls at any<br />
one time.<br />
Upon arrival at Jesse’s House, every<br />
girl receives a comprehensive intake by a<br />
multidisciplinary team to assess their physical,<br />
psychological, and educational needs. A<br />
treatment plan is then developed to address<br />
these needs and ensure every girl’s safety.<br />
“All of our girls have experienced Complex<br />
Trauma. Some have been trafficked, some have<br />
been abandoned, some have been beaten, 80%<br />
have been sexually abused, and, in no surprising<br />
coincidence, 80% have been hospitalized for<br />
suicidal ideation and self-harm before being<br />
placed with us. They have gone through so much<br />
in their short lives, so we are pretty protective<br />
of them. All of our employees are trained in<br />
Trauma-Informed Care, and to the outside<br />
person, with a well-meaning heart to give and<br />
support the girls without training, it can be<br />
more than they bargained for” stated Elizabeth<br />
Johnson, Jesse’s House Executive Director.<br />
“Our location is undisclosed to help protect<br />
our girls from those on the outside that would<br />
like to know where they are but shouldn’t have<br />
any access to them - think men who get out of<br />
jail after they serve time for raping one of our<br />
residents, or girls who have been involved with<br />
gangs, or girls who have been trafficked. For<br />
those reasons and more, all volunteers have<br />
to undergo background checks. Beyond those<br />
reasons, for the time the girls are here, this is<br />
their home, and they do not want strangers in<br />
their home, so we make it clear, in a gentle way,<br />
that we are asking for a commitment of regular<br />
volunteering from those who are looking to<br />
have any direct contact with the girls,” Johnson<br />
added. “By the time they get to us they have<br />
had too many adults in and out of their lives, so<br />
we try to keep that to a minimum. As you also<br />
might imagine, we have limited opportunities<br />
for males to volunteer outside of maintaining<br />
the facility.”<br />
“Monetary funding is one of the best ways<br />
to support our work. We have somewhere<br />
around a 25-30% deficit to make up for every<br />
day between our daily operational costs and the<br />
amount we receive in per-diem from the state,”<br />
Johnson affirmed.<br />
Each girl is given a $415 allowance from the<br />
state for clothing for the entire year.<br />
“Imagine clothing a teenage girl who may<br />
come to you wearing the only clothes and pair of<br />
shoes she owns for $415 a year. Get her a coat and<br />
shoes, basics like underwear and socks, and see<br />
how much you have leftover for clothing through<br />
all seasons. If they are 13 and hit a growth spurt<br />
and need new clothes, they have to wait until<br />
they get their allowance for the following year.<br />
With a budget like that, even committing to<br />
give as little as $10, $20, $25 a month to Jesse’s<br />
House can make a big difference in what we<br />
can rely on to budget for clothing these girls, so<br />
they feel like they fit in with their peers when<br />
they walk through the door to school every<br />
morning,” Johnson asserted. ““We also give each<br />
new resident a hygiene bag with essentials like<br />
shampoo, conditioner, toothpaste.”<br />
Johnson shared an example of an interaction<br />
with a young lady who was placed in their care.<br />
“One evening, I handed a hygiene bag to a girl<br />
who had been living in a van in Hall County.<br />
JESSE’S HOUSE INC., originally<br />
known as the <strong>Forsyth</strong> County Youth<br />
Shelter, was founded in 1998 as a<br />
result of a 1996 needs assessment<br />
survey for the north Georgia region<br />
conducted by Kennesaw State<br />
University. In the beginning, we were<br />
able to serve seven residents. Now<br />
we have the capacity to serve 12.<br />
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“Is this for me to keep?” she asked. I answered “Of course. It’s just some<br />
essentials like soap, shampoo, toothpaste.” She looked up at me and said<br />
“Well, when you’ve been washing your hair in the lake, this is a pretty<br />
big deal.”<br />
The young lady had been living in a van with her father and sister for<br />
some time, parking in different lots around Lake Lanier every night so<br />
they would not get caught.<br />
“She went to school every day, in fact most of her classes were advanced<br />
or AP classes, earning A’s and B’s,” Johnson added. “Imagine the courage,<br />
strength and determination it would take just to walk into school every<br />
morning. Now imagine choosing to go into the most competitive classes,<br />
filled with kids that have every advantage that you do not have. She did<br />
not have a laptop to complete an assignment. She did not even have heat,<br />
electricity, running water.”<br />
Johnson added, “In the years that I have been at Jesse’s House, 80% of<br />
our girls have reported they have been sexually abuse. Some have never<br />
talked about it before coming to Jesse’s House, and some do not even<br />
realize they were victims. They just know that sometimes they cannot fight<br />
the persistent urge to cut themselves. And sometimes out of nowhere their<br />
heart starts racing and they feel like they cannot breathe. It should come<br />
as no surprise that most of our girls are battling any number of mental<br />
illnesses such as depression, anxiety, bi-polar disorder, or PTSD. Some<br />
don’t want to go home, but most, even in the face of abuse and neglect,<br />
worry they will never go home, and when they find out they won’t, they<br />
worry about what is going to happen to them.”<br />
LEADERSHIP<br />
As a 501(c)3 non-profit organization, Jesse’s House in led by a volunteer<br />
Board of Directors, led by Board Chair Bruce Kidwell. Bruce is the Vice<br />
President of Global Customs Brokerage and Trade Advisory Services at<br />
UPS Supply Chain Solutions.<br />
“I first started as a volunteer at Jesse’s House back in 2006. Having five<br />
children of my own of which four of them are girls, I was drawn to Jesse’s<br />
House to give back. Little did I know after that first visit and hearing<br />
firsthand how Jesse’s House is there to provide the healing that is so<br />
needed for young ladies that have been through so much, I was completely<br />
‘all in’ in supporting Jesse’s House from a monetary support standpoint<br />
and giving of my time. As the years went by, I was asked to be on the<br />
Board of Directors and eventually asked to take the President of the Board<br />
role. What I have learned through all of this is that you have to take that<br />
first step, get involved, understand what and how Jesse’s House is changing<br />
lives. It has dramatically affected me positively both professionally and<br />
personally in being part of something that truly makes a difference when<br />
a difference is needed most.”<br />
Joining Kidwell are Beth Hebert, PhD, Jose Cherres, Alesia Ackerman,<br />
Micaela Brady, Michael Barlow, Nicole Bini, Molly Bradley, Sonja Bullard,<br />
Shawn LaFave, Claire McDonald, Peggie Morrow, Precilla Saint-Jean, and<br />
Lynn Shivers.<br />
Along with Johnson, the agency’s Executive Director, 13 Direct Care<br />
Staff, one Direct Care Supervisor, two Human Services Professional, and<br />
a shelter manager, provide the day-to-day services and operational staffing<br />
needed to efficiently run Jesse’s House.<br />
MILESTONES<br />
Jesse’s House celebrated the Class of 2021 as two of its residents completed<br />
their high school studies and graduated. For the 5th year in a row, Jesse’s<br />
House has a 100% on-time graduation rate among its residents. In the<br />
state of Georgia, only 6-8% of children in foster care graduate on time.<br />
A recent graduate said it best. “I mean, what are the odds of me<br />
actually finishing. No one in my family, grandparents, aunts, uncles, no<br />
one has ever graduated from high school. It felt like it would never happen<br />
for me. I’m proud that I just kept pushing forward and never gave in.”<br />
There is no giving up at Jesse’s House. There’s hard work, assistance,<br />
and collaboration among all who can help provide a safe place for girls to<br />
thrive and fulfill their goals.<br />
P.O. Box 3318 | Cumming, GA 30028 | 678-947-6217<br />
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Benefits of Minimally<br />
Invasive Surgery<br />
By Dr. Natu Mmbaga<br />
MEDICAL ADVANCEMENTS IN WOMEN’S HEALTH<br />
HAVE PROVIDED SIGNIFICANT IMPROVEMENTS IN THE<br />
MANAGEMENT OF A MYRIAD OF CONDITIONS. With<br />
minimally invasive procedures readily available, women now<br />
have several treatment options for a variety of gynecologic issues,<br />
including abnormal bleeding or periods, ovarian cysts, pelvic pain,<br />
uterine fibroids, amongst other conditions. These minimally invasive<br />
procedures offer countless benefits over traditional surgery.<br />
As a gynecologist, women frequently present to our office<br />
complaining of heavy or prolonged periods. In the past, management<br />
was limited to birth control pills and IUDs or surgical interventions as<br />
drastic as a hysterectomy. Current options are far less risky and allow<br />
for very little down time. One such option is an Endometrial ablation,<br />
a common procedure utilized to decrease the volume and length of<br />
a woman’s menses. Performed in our state-of-the-art office with no<br />
incisions, a woman can drastically improve the quality of her life with<br />
minimal risks via ablation. All of which is done in approximately 5<br />
minutes with minimal pain and downtime. With its utilization, women<br />
can avoid the sometimes-undesired prolonged hormone exposure of<br />
birth control pills and the surgical risks involved with a hysterectomy.<br />
In the event findings or symptoms require something more<br />
significant be done, robotic surgery has revolutionized gynecologic<br />
surgery. With a decreased risk of bleeding, infection, hospital stay,<br />
and post-operative pain, robotic surgery can be utilized to complete<br />
a hysterectomy, ovarian cyst removal, treatment of endometriosis and<br />
removal of uterine fibroids. Patients are ambulating and resuming<br />
normal activities soon after procedures that would have otherwise<br />
required extensive recovery. At Modern OB/GYN of North Atlanta, our<br />
physicians are advanced robotic surgeons capable of treating complex<br />
gynecologic conditions with skill and compassion. These minimally<br />
invasive techniques enable us to take excellent care of our patients with<br />
the most current technologies in the safest way possible.<br />
Modern OBGYN has three convenient office locations. Visit our newest office at Avalon in Alpharetta located at<br />
2710 Old Milton Parkway Suite 100, Alpharetta, GA 30009. For more information on our practice and providers,<br />
visit www.reyesobgyn.com.<br />
Dr. Natu Mmbaga is a board-certified Diplomate of The American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology and<br />
a member of the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists. Dr. Mmbaga is also a member of the<br />
American Association of Gynecologic Laparoscopists. She attended OB/GYN Residency training at Yale, completing<br />
four years training at Yale New Haven Hospital.<br />
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By Nathan Cleaver<br />
AESTHETIC TREATMENTS<br />
One of the most commonly asked questions I receive is what the best esthetic treatment for<br />
the summer months. While certain patient preferences and precautions can help guide this<br />
answer, there are two treatments, besides cosmetic injectables (Botox® and fillers), that are<br />
my preferred maintenance treatments for most skin types.<br />
Our traditional laser systems include the IPL laser<br />
(intense pulsed light), vascular pulsed dye laser,<br />
CO2 fractionated laser and a picosecond tattoo<br />
and pigment laser. These treatments selectively<br />
target one of three common components in<br />
the skin: hemoglobin (contents of a red blood<br />
cell), melanin (pigment that is produced by a<br />
melanocyte), and water. During the peak of<br />
summer, most of our clients will spend enough<br />
time outside that they will naturally be slightly<br />
darker than their normal skin tone. By having<br />
an artificially darker background skin tone, this<br />
obscures the target of the laser. For this reason, I<br />
prefer to avoid the above laser treatments during<br />
the peak of summer, and instead, scheduling them<br />
for late fall. Having this treatment performed in<br />
mid-summer can cause an adverse reaction for<br />
hyperpigmentation (darkening of the skin)<br />
HYDRAFACIAL<br />
This unique device creates a customized facial<br />
experience based on the client’s skin type. This<br />
facial has a proprietary facial tip that allows<br />
concurrent extraction of pores with infusion of<br />
a customized peel. This peel can be customized<br />
to target acne and rosacea prone skin types,<br />
background of hyperpigmentation, anti-aging<br />
effects, and for hydration effects. This leaves the<br />
skin with a rejuvenated texture and tone and<br />
has no down-time without any risk for postinflammatory<br />
pigmentation.<br />
RADIOFREQUENCY<br />
(SUBLATIVE AND MICRONEEDLING)<br />
Radiofrequency when applied to the skin provides<br />
heat and controlled thermal injury at certain<br />
depths within the skin. Depending on what<br />
depth in the skin and what your overall goal for<br />
improvement is, will depend on which modality<br />
to incorporate. The microneedling device allows<br />
targeted heating of the deeper dermis (the layer of<br />
skin below the epidermis), to allow for remodeling<br />
of collagen to create a tightening and toning<br />
effect of the skin. The subative tip provides more<br />
superficial heat application, which can also address<br />
textural inconsistencies within the skin while also<br />
allowing for a mid-dermal toning effect of the skin.<br />
The down time for these treatments is<br />
minimal, with two to three days of aggressive<br />
sun protection with sunscreen and barrier<br />
precautions, without the increased risk of<br />
hyperpigmentation. These treatments achieve<br />
best results with a series of treatments separated<br />
at 4 to 6 week intervals.<br />
As always, it is best to create a customized<br />
plan with your board certified dermatologist and<br />
an experienced esthetician to achieve the optimal<br />
results for your skin concerns. Lastly, make sure<br />
you lather that sunscreen on early and reapply<br />
often! Sunscreen will not only keep your skin<br />
youthful but will also help keep away ultraviolet<br />
damage that can lead to skin cancers.<br />
Nathan Cleaver DO, FAAD is a board-certified dermatologist and fellowship trained Mohs micrographic surgeon<br />
specializing in the medical and surgical management of melanoma and non-melanoma skin cancer, cosmetic<br />
procedural dermatology, in addition to routine medical dermatology. His office locations are in Cumming,<br />
Dawsonville, and Dahlonega. He may be reached at 770-800-3455.<br />
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Changing Behavior<br />
and Weight One<br />
Shot at a Time<br />
By Narendra Singh, MD<br />
The pandemic has brought out the best and worst in us with respect<br />
to weight management. During the shelter in place stage many of us<br />
found solace through treks to the fridge and the TV. That decadent<br />
duo led to unprecedented weight gain for many. Others found that a<br />
less hectic lifestyle and more outdoor activities allowed for weight loss<br />
and overall improved cardiovascular fitness.<br />
discontinuation rate was under 5% in this trial.<br />
The main side effects of the medication also<br />
contributes to its success. Semaglutide causes<br />
delayed gastric emptying and slows down transit<br />
time through the gut. It also reduces glucagon<br />
(normally raises sugar) and increases insulin<br />
(normally lowers sugar) as well as working on the<br />
brain to curb appetite. The net effect of all this is<br />
to give a feeling of fullness in the stomach which<br />
reduces the desire to eat. Should you choose to<br />
overindulge the side effects kick in (nausea,<br />
vomiting, constipation, diarrhea, and bloating).<br />
As a result, you are less likely to overeat the next<br />
time! This negative feedback loop is an important<br />
behavioral change that will contribute to your<br />
weight loss success.<br />
Semaglutide first started as a medication<br />
for the treatment of type 2 diabetes. An oral<br />
formulation (Rybelsus) and an injectable<br />
formulation (Ozempic) improve the A1c level in<br />
diabetics while causing weight loss. Importantly<br />
in the diabetic population semagutide has<br />
been shown to be safe and help reduce serious<br />
cardiovascular events such as heart attacks,<br />
stroke, and death. Our research team at NSC<br />
Cardiology is involved in a worldwide trial called<br />
SELECT to see if semaglutide in overweight<br />
individuals without diabetes can show the same<br />
cardiovascular benefit!<br />
Mechanical options to lose weight such as<br />
the gastric balloon, bariatric surgery and lapband<br />
procedures also exist but are reserved for<br />
conventional treatment failures. Drugs should<br />
never be first line therapy. Our current strategies<br />
however are not effective enough to curb this<br />
other pandemic called obesity. We need to use all<br />
our resources to help reverse projected trends. If<br />
diet and exercise are not getting you to goal, then<br />
see your health care provider about some of these<br />
promising new options!<br />
We are not, however, winning the battle over<br />
obesity. A staggering 42.4% of the USA population<br />
is deemed obese defined as a BMI (body mass<br />
index) of greater than 30. BMI tables can easily<br />
be found on the web and require only your height<br />
and weight to calculate. A BMI between 23-27 is<br />
healthy, 27-30 is overweight, 30-40 is obese and<br />
greater than 40 is morbidly obese.<br />
<strong>My</strong> previous articles have focused on the key<br />
steps to losing weight. They are not complicated<br />
but a challenge to sustain over time. Key<br />
strategies include avoiding refined sugars and<br />
sugar-sweetened drinks, eating more protein,<br />
eating less carbohydrates, eating more fiber-rich<br />
foods, exercising regularly, reducing portion size,<br />
tracking your food intake, eating slowly, and<br />
getting good quality sleep.<br />
Unfortunately for many, dietary changes and<br />
exercise are not enough. Some supplements such<br />
as caffeine and green tea extract have provided<br />
modest benefit. Weight loss pills in the past have<br />
had limited success and a poor safety profile<br />
with many being pulled from the market. A new<br />
class of medications called GLP-1 RA (glucagon<br />
like peptide receptor agonist) hope to change<br />
that trend. The first to be approved was a daily<br />
injection called liraglutide (Saxenda). More<br />
recently a weekly injection semaglutide (Wegovy)<br />
has become the leader in this class. In a pivotal<br />
trial of about 2000 overweight individuals there<br />
was a 15% weight loss (average of 33 lb.) over 68<br />
weeks. The top dose was 2.4 mg per week and the<br />
NARENDRA SINGH, MD,<br />
FRCP(C), FACC, FAHA<br />
Clinical Assistant Professor, Medical College<br />
of Georgia at Augusta University,<br />
Director, Clinical Research<br />
Director, Clinical Research, NSC Research,<br />
Atlanta, GA<br />
Director, Canadian Collaborative Research<br />
Network<br />
Affiliated with North Atlanta Heart and<br />
Vascular Center<br />
1400 Northside <strong>Forsyth</strong> Dr. | Suite 340<br />
Cumming GA 30041<br />
5400 Laurel Springs Pkwy. | Suite 1401<br />
Johns Creek GA 30024.<br />
(770) 887-3255<br />
DrSingh@nsccardiology.com<br />
heartdrsingh.com<br />
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Keeping Your Eyes Healthy<br />
While Facing Diabetes<br />
By Mira Sivan OD, AAOMC<br />
IF YOU HAVE DIABETES, YOU ARE<br />
MOST LIKELY AWARE THAT YOU ARE<br />
AT RISK FOR VISION PROBLEMS. High<br />
blood sugar can lead to problems like blurry<br />
vision, glaucoma, cataracts, and retinopathy.<br />
As a matter of fact, diabetes is the primary<br />
cause of blindness in adults ages 20 to 74. This is<br />
why it’s critical to have an optometrist examine<br />
your eyes regularly to evaluate your eyes before<br />
you notice any side effects of vision problems.<br />
Cataracts, which can cause blindness,<br />
develop at a younger age, and progress faster<br />
in adults with diabetes over people without<br />
diabetes. People with diabetes are twice as likely<br />
to develop cataracts. High blood sugar levels<br />
cause a build-up of cells and proteins in the eye’s<br />
lens which makes it cloudy.<br />
Believe it or not, most major eye diseases<br />
caused by diabetes only take five to ten years to<br />
develop. Damage to your eyes from uncontrolled<br />
blood sugar develops over time but can cause<br />
major issues.<br />
Did you know with diabetes you may be<br />
more likely to get eye infections like pink eye<br />
too? If your diabetes is not controlled properly,<br />
it can lower your immune system which lowers<br />
the ability for your body to fight off any type of<br />
infection. You can keep eye infections at bay,<br />
keep your blood sugar levels under good control,<br />
wash your hands, and do not touch your eyes as<br />
often as possible.<br />
Needless to say, when you have diabetes, it<br />
is important to control your blood sugar levels<br />
as much as possible. Many optometrists will not<br />
prescribe contact lenses or glasses to diabetics<br />
who do not have their sugar levels under control,<br />
because sugar spikes can affect your vision and<br />
the prescription they would prescribe would not<br />
be accurate.<br />
You should reach out to your<br />
optometrist if you suffer from any<br />
of these symptoms as they can<br />
signal an emergency:<br />
• Flashes of light<br />
• Any holes in your vision<br />
• Black spots in your vision<br />
• Blurred vision<br />
Mira Sivan OD, AAOMC Optometrist and Orthokeratologist | FOR YOUR EYES ONLY EYECARE | 678-648-5185 | www.fyeo-eyecare.com<br />
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MINDFULNESS<br />
FOR SELF-CARE<br />
By Ashley Baer<br />
Mindfulness is a buzz word that is popping up all over, but what is it, and how can it help<br />
you? Mindfulness is moment to moment purposeful awareness without judging what<br />
is happening in that specific moment. In laymen’s terms, it is being aware of what you<br />
are doing when you are doing it while staying out of the past or future, truly showing<br />
up for your life. A study by Harvard University, showed we lose almost 47% of our life<br />
lost in thought. I don’t know about you but I do not want to miss a minute of this life!<br />
So how do you practice Mindfulness? Think of mindfulness as an umbrella,<br />
and under it are many ways to become mindful such as meditation,<br />
mindful movement, mindful eating, or simply asking yourself, “Where is<br />
my mind right now?” Even as you read this, the mind may drift into the<br />
past, future or simply daydreaming.<br />
A few simple Mindful practices to add into your day are:<br />
• Start your day with gratitude. The mind cannot be both negative<br />
and grateful at once.<br />
• Take five minutes to meditate.<br />
• Throughout the day, notice where your mind is, bring it to what is<br />
happening right now.<br />
• Pause throughout your day to take five deep breaths.<br />
• Take movement breaks-take a walk or stretch.<br />
• Get outside in nature.<br />
Mindfulness benefits us physically, emotionally, and mentally. Studies<br />
show practicing mindfulness reduces stress, anxiety, increases focus,<br />
improves sleep, decreases blood pressure, boosts the immune system,<br />
and improves overall happiness. Why aren’t we all doing it?<br />
As a mindfulness and meditation teacher, I often hear excuses on why<br />
it can’t be done such as, “Oh, I have too many thoughts,” or “I don’t<br />
have time.” Too many thoughts are the human condition as we all have<br />
between 60,000 and 70,000 thoughts per day. Science shows that it only<br />
takes five minutes to rewire the brain. Aren’t you worth five minutes? If<br />
your mind is not in this moment, you are missing this moment!<br />
ASHLEY BAER is a meditation and teacher on<br />
the app Insight Timer. To learn more, visit her<br />
page: http://insig.ht/ashleybaer
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Sawnee Reading<br />
WARRiors:<br />
A Program Honoring Shannon Warr<br />
School personnel decided Shannon’s<br />
passion for reading and education would<br />
not end. “Our team spoke about different<br />
ways to remember Shannon and continue<br />
her legacy,” explained Derrick Hershey,<br />
Sawnee Elementary School Principal.<br />
And so was Sawnee’s Reading<br />
WARRior Program born.<br />
“Our goal is to have a book in the hands<br />
of every student that walks into our<br />
school,” stated Sharon Hamilton, Sawnee<br />
Elementary School’s Bookkeeper.<br />
Every kindergarten student upon<br />
entering Sawnee will receive a book;<br />
Every 5th grade student leaving Sawnee<br />
Elementary will receive a book – one they<br />
take home and it theirs to keep.<br />
Why a book? Because ownership of<br />
a book is just the start of opening a world<br />
of possibilities. The benefits of early<br />
reading are numerous, and include:<br />
Brain development: Reading is like<br />
exercise for the brain! The young mind<br />
is like a sponge that absorbs knowledge<br />
and the earlier a child reads the better.<br />
Early vocabulary development: A<br />
behavior instilled at an early age is<br />
a behavior learned for life. Exposing<br />
children to words at an earlier age<br />
introduces them to lots of new<br />
vocabulary and helps them understand<br />
how words are used in different contexts.<br />
Improved reading: The more words<br />
kids are exposed to by reading, the<br />
better their comprehension skills.<br />
When Sawnee Elementary School’s beloved<br />
Media Specialist Shannon Warr died after a<br />
long batter with cancer, the school personnel<br />
felt the loss of one of their greatest assets.<br />
A remarkable teacher, colleague and friend<br />
was no longer around the corridor or at the<br />
library. Her spirit, however, was still alive.<br />
Better writing: Writing is a skill.<br />
Whether it’s writing simple things like<br />
birthday cards or complex things like job<br />
applications in later life, knowing good<br />
words makes all the difference!<br />
Better communication: When children<br />
are exposed to a wide range of words,<br />
including those which carry different<br />
meanings depending on their context,<br />
they can communicate better and<br />
express themselves in more ways.<br />
Creating a hobby: Why do you think kids<br />
always want to be read bedtime stories?<br />
Because it’s fun for them and a soothing<br />
activity before drifting off to sleep.<br />
Professional skills: It’s no secret that<br />
high proficiency in English is needed in<br />
various types of jobs and listed as an<br />
acquired skill.<br />
A special note is attached<br />
to every book.<br />
“You have been selected as a Reading<br />
WARRior because you are brave and will<br />
fight to do what is right. The book was<br />
donated in memory of another WARRior,<br />
Mrs. Shannon Warr. She was a teacher/<br />
media specialist at Sawnee Elementary<br />
from 2014-2020. She inspired others by<br />
her bravery, positive attitude, and love of<br />
reading. You are receiving this book as<br />
a legacy from one Reading WARRior to<br />
another. Be brave. Be a positive force in the<br />
world. Be a reader.”<br />
To donate to the Sawnee Reading<br />
Warrior Program visit<br />
https://tinyurl.com/ReadingWarrior<br />
Dream Big. Dare to<br />
Fail. Stay Strong.<br />
Be Positive.<br />
- Shannon Warr<br />
ABOUT SHANNON WARR<br />
Shannon was born in Atlanta and attended<br />
Pace Academy. She then received a B.A. in<br />
English from Sophie Newcomb College of<br />
Tulane University where she was a member<br />
of the Chi Omega fraternity. After getting<br />
married and the birth of her first child, she<br />
obtained a B.S. in Early Childhood Education<br />
from Thomas College and a master’s in<br />
education from Piedmont College. Shannon<br />
worked for over 20 years in <strong>Forsyth</strong> County<br />
elementary schools including Daves Creek,<br />
Sharon, Johns Creek, and Sawnee, working<br />
as a Gifted Teacher, Classroom Teacher,<br />
and Media Specialist. She also enjoyed<br />
travelling with her family and visited<br />
over 25 countries on 4 continents. When<br />
diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer, she<br />
was disappointed at the lack of knowledge<br />
and support among those similarly situated.<br />
In response, she started a YouTube channel<br />
to chronicle her journey with treatment<br />
and to offer education and support to<br />
those themselves or with family members<br />
on the same path. Her video journals had<br />
hundreds of subscribers and encouraged<br />
viewers from all over the world.<br />
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Mountain Education<br />
Charter High School:<br />
THE FIRST CHOICE FOR A SECOND CHANCE<br />
Often referred to as non-traditional schools, charter schools<br />
provide education at the same level as traditional schools while<br />
allowing for some flexibility in schedule and classes for students<br />
who are not able to meet the standards for time set by conventional<br />
school systems.<br />
Mountain Education Charter High School (MECS) a charter<br />
high school that provides students with top notch education in<br />
an environment where partnerships are built with local schools,<br />
teachers, and other partners to provide students with a wellrounded<br />
education.<br />
“By partnering with local school systems, families and community<br />
partners, we are able to nurture education excellence by engaging our<br />
students in a meaningful learning experience in a student-centered,<br />
self-paced, evening high school,” explained Site Administrator Kim<br />
Barnes. “We offer course credit recovery for students so that they can<br />
stay on track for graduation, dual enrollment opportunities to jumpstart<br />
the college experience, and a hands-on approach to finding out<br />
the best course of action for each student.”<br />
The school and its faculty, leadership and students are<br />
led by the following guiding principles: excellence, servant<br />
leadership, empowerment, integrity, community, and meaningful<br />
human relationships.<br />
Mountain Education Charter High School (MECS) has<br />
partnered with Pearson Education/GradPoint, Apex Learning®,<br />
Odysseyware®, and ©USA Test Prep to design and implement<br />
appropriate and individualized curriculum that focuses on state<br />
standards.<br />
COURSE OFFERINGS INCLUDE:<br />
• CTAE/Electives<br />
• Health/Personal Fitness<br />
• English<br />
• Math<br />
• Science<br />
• Social Studies<br />
• Foreign Language<br />
Anyone who attends a graduation ceremony for a senior class<br />
will leave with a heart full of hope for our future. Mothers,<br />
fathers, grandparents, siblings, teachers, administrators – a<br />
myriad of individuals with one common desire – to celebrate the<br />
accomplishments of every student who, despite challenges and<br />
turbulent circumstances, and against all odds, marched across the<br />
stage to receive their high school diploma.<br />
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A young mother who, as a sophomore in high school<br />
found out she was pregnant, continued her education with the<br />
flexibility the MECS provided. With the help of her family,<br />
completed her courses. Along with her daughter, Micayla<br />
Puffer celebrated her graduation and the accolades that<br />
come from earning the highest G.P.A. for their year among<br />
her classmates.<br />
The support, mentorship, and guidance that each student<br />
receives is a welcomed relief to those who otherwise may have<br />
given up on school.<br />
Enrollment is open for both full-time students and credit<br />
recovery students. There is no charge for full-time students.<br />
Students who are jointly enrolled with a regular day school<br />
program will pay determined tuition costs. Tuition costs may<br />
vary based on the school district in which the student is enrolled<br />
full time.<br />
A board of directors oversees the charter school’s operations,<br />
budgets, and more. Charter schools are available in numerous<br />
counties, including Bartow, Cherokee, Dawson, Gilmer, Pickens,<br />
Stephens, and White counties, to name a few.<br />
Through the generous donations made by faculty, staff, parents,<br />
and friends in the communities we serve- MECHS is able to provide<br />
support for scholarships, student projects, faculty development,<br />
community engagement, and other student initiatives.<br />
For more information about Mountain Education Charter<br />
High School, visit www.mymec.org.<br />
1160 Dahlonega Highway | Cumming, GA 30040<br />
678.965.4971<br />
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TIPS To Overcome Emotional Overwhelm<br />
For Peace, Productivity and Perspective<br />
By Christine Roberts<br />
DOES THIS EVER HAPPEN TO YOU?<br />
You wake up in a cold sweat thinking<br />
about a bunch of “stuff”...<br />
...and the more you lay there the worse<br />
it gets...<br />
Or you are sitting at your desk and the<br />
list of personal and work “to dos” stops<br />
you in your tracks and makes you feel<br />
stuck as you freeze up and worry.<br />
You cannot do anything because your<br />
mind and heart are racing.<br />
or punctuation...and if you throw in some cuss<br />
words, that’s ok. The point here is to get everything<br />
out of your head into tangible form. The benefits?<br />
It can counteract negative effects of stress and<br />
strengthen your immune system response!<br />
Second, now walk away. Once you have emptied<br />
your mind, change gears and change environments.<br />
When you get outside your perspective changes,<br />
which allows you to recalibrate your thinking so<br />
you can come back to your brain dump with a<br />
fresh outlook on the things that were causing the<br />
overwhelm, which allows you to approach it with<br />
intention and make adjustments.<br />
of us to stifle our emotions and are rewarded<br />
for keeping our feelings under wraps which<br />
contributes to the vicious cycle of emotional<br />
overwhelm. The antidote can be simple: slow<br />
down and notice your breathing. Check out a<br />
guided meditation. I personally enjoy Deepak<br />
Chopra and Oprah’s various meditations. You can<br />
also search for guided meditations that “walk”<br />
you through the process. Or simply, sit anywhere<br />
that you are comfortable, close your eyes, focus<br />
on your breath inhaling and exhaling deeply. Do<br />
this for at least 3-5 minutes, although longer is<br />
better. This habit will allow you to experience a<br />
tremendous difference in your level of peace.<br />
The crushing feeling of overwhelm is<br />
taking you down.<br />
Ugh...yes, I know the feeling...been there, done<br />
that...and still do that sometimes! However, there<br />
are 3 specific tips that will help you overcome<br />
this emotional overwhelm and provide you with<br />
the peace, productivity, and perspective that you<br />
need to get you unstuck and move forward.<br />
First, do a brain dump. That’s right, get it all<br />
out! All those voices swirling around need to<br />
get out of your head and transfer to a written<br />
document. You can write, journal, type, talk-totext—whichever<br />
allows the words to flow out<br />
stream of thought. Don’t worry about grammar<br />
Neuroscience studies show that getting outside<br />
improves your health because you’re breathing in<br />
phytoncides—airborne chemicals produced by<br />
plants—increases our levels of white blood cells,<br />
helping us fight off infections and diseases.<br />
Third, breathe. Your breathing becomes shallow<br />
when you feel stressed...and we often don’t realize<br />
it! This causes your blood pressure and heart rate<br />
to increase. Our culture has programmed many<br />
When we can get caught up in patterns of<br />
thought that don’t serve us, they can become<br />
well-worn paths. Reset your thinking and your<br />
mindset with these three tips: brain dump, walk<br />
outside, breathe—and you will be well on your<br />
way to peace, productivity, and perspective.<br />
For more ways to feel long-lasting peace and<br />
productivity, take my Mindset quiz to figure out<br />
what kind of reset is best for you.<br />
Would love to hear from you, leave a comment or connect on FB and Instagram<br />
@ ChristineMRoberts10 and/or LI @ Christine-M-Roberts with your thoughts, or<br />
visit ChristineMRoberts.com<br />
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Academies of<br />
Creative Education<br />
A FRESH START. ANOTHER WAY. A HOME TEAM.<br />
These are, fundamentally, the reasons the Academies<br />
of Creative Education (ACE) exist. Comprised of <strong>Forsyth</strong><br />
Academy, Gateway Academy, and <strong>Forsyth</strong> Virtual Academy,<br />
ACE houses non-traditional educational programs that support<br />
students and families who need something a little different from<br />
the traditional school experience.<br />
While the start of any school year is always exciting and filled with<br />
the promise of new adventures, this year in particular held special<br />
meaning for the faculty and staff of ACE, as well as the students and<br />
their families. This is because for the first time since the inception<br />
of these programs, all three were united under one beautifully<br />
constructed roof, thoughtfully designed to meet ACE’s unique needs<br />
while providing a state-of-the-art facility in which to learn, teach, and<br />
lead. Who could ask for a better way to start a new school year?<br />
While the structure itself is beyond comparison, what has been<br />
truly extraordinary to watch is how the space has come to life,<br />
changing each day as it morphs from just an incredible building<br />
into a home. In preparing for the year, Mr. Drew Hayes, the<br />
principal of ACE, decided the theme for the year would focus on<br />
being a HOME TEAM for kids and<br />
families, especially those who struggle<br />
to find a sense of belonging. Acknowledging how a true sense of<br />
home does not just happen, Mr. Hayes spoke about how people,<br />
particularly this team of dynamic educators, create, cultivate, and<br />
nurture a sense of home. The goal: for every student to know the<br />
feeling of belonging, safety, and comfort of home.<br />
For the ACE team, home is a place where everyone gets a fresh start,<br />
every day. How many times have you or someone close to you, needed<br />
another chance, just one more? And then, after getting that chance,<br />
maybe needed another one, and probably one more along the way. One<br />
of ACE’s teachers aptly compared what ACE does to the concept of a<br />
video game—you mess up, you click the button and go again. The idea<br />
of infinite opportunities. One more chance is why ACE exists.<br />
Home is also about finding another way, a better way. Our<br />
world is changing so fast, and in the ACE home, everyone knows<br />
there is not just one way to learn, to solve a problem, or to best<br />
work with children. Often, we all have to, and get to, figure out<br />
another, alternative way to help our kids be successful.<br />
ACE is grateful to Superintendent Dr. Jeff Bearden, the <strong>Forsyth</strong><br />
County Board of Education, and the community for having the<br />
vision to provide the new ACE building and support alternative<br />
learning opportunities for all children and families of <strong>Forsyth</strong>.<br />
Drew Hayes is the principal of ACE. He can be reached at dhayes@forsyth.k12.ga. us.<br />
Bethany Blumenshine is one of the assistant principals with ACE. She can be reached at<br />
bblumenshine@forsyth.k12.ga.us.<br />
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The ACE Gaming Lab is open to all students and<br />
encourages creative play, resiliency, and teamwork.<br />
The media center was designed to not only encourage<br />
a love of reading, but also to provide a variety of<br />
collaboration spaces for staff and students alike.<br />
Principal Drew Hayes and Assistant Principals Bethany Blumenshine,<br />
Gail Freund, and Phil Lyerly gather at the Grand Opening in July to<br />
celebrate the new building with the community.<br />
One of two cafes, the main ACE cafeteria creates an inviting atmosphere with all the<br />
natural light and delicious smells from the kitchen. Not only does the cafe serve ACE<br />
students, but other district employees are also welcome for breakfast and lunch.<br />
Tucked in a favorite corner in the media<br />
center, Harry Potter has also found his<br />
home with ACE.<br />
ACADEMIES OF CREATIVE Education School<br />
1160 Dahlonega Highway, Cumming, GA 30040 | 770.781.3141 | www.forsyth.k12.ga.us/forsythacademy<br />
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Mighty and<br />
Focused.<br />
Dedicated and<br />
inspirational.<br />
WHEN DENISE CARLETON RIDES INTO A ROOM,<br />
PAY ATTENTION. NOTHING GOES TO WASTE.<br />
Carleton is the founder and at the impetus<br />
behind Teacher Reuse Exchange (TRE), a<br />
non-profit organization that enables teacher<br />
in <strong>Forsyth</strong> County public, private, pre-K or<br />
home schools (not virtual learning), as well as<br />
other <strong>Forsyth</strong> County nonprofits who serve<br />
children, to have access to new and gently<br />
used materials for classroom and educational<br />
use. Nothing stops this dynamic force, not<br />
even a tragic accident that left Carleton with a<br />
T4 spinal injury. Carleton is paralyzed from<br />
the waist down.<br />
“The TRE opened on July 22, 2020. It<br />
provides an innovative approach to the<br />
recovery and reuse of teacher, school,<br />
business and community discards and<br />
donations,” Carleton explained. “We want to<br />
keep items out of the landfill and put them in<br />
the hands of teachers and children. Let's fill<br />
classrooms - Not the landfill!”<br />
The TRE is dedicated to and operated<br />
exclusively for non-profit purposes and<br />
promotes an ethic of conservation and reuse<br />
of valuable reusable resources. The program's<br />
mission is to enable local educators to have<br />
access to free materials for classroom use<br />
and to divert reusable resources from the<br />
landfill. Organizers provide free instructional<br />
materials to educators, donated by businesses,<br />
individuals, and manufacturers.<br />
If you would like to partner or sponsor the TRE or have<br />
any questions, please call, or text Denise Carleton at<br />
770-490-1083 or email carleton.denise@gmail.com.<br />
www.reapingnature.org<br />
763 Peachtree Parkway, Unit 4<br />
Brannon Office Park, Cumming, GA 30041<br />
Open Tuesdays & Thursdays - 4pm to 6pm<br />
Donations by Appointment Only<br />
TRE STEERING COMMITTEE<br />
Denise Carleton<br />
Executive Director<br />
Lindsey Adams<br />
<strong>Forsyth</strong> County Schools Board of Education<br />
and Former Teacher<br />
Marilene Cunningham<br />
Sawnee Women’s Club and Retired Teacher<br />
Sue Javors<br />
Sawnee Women’s Club and Retired Teacher<br />
Denise Webb<br />
<strong>Forsyth</strong> County Schools Teacher and Keep<br />
<strong>Forsyth</strong> County Beautiful board member<br />
Christine Murphy<br />
Sawnee Women’s Club and Former Teacher<br />
Hadley Bates<br />
Anshul Chandwadkar<br />
High School Representatives<br />
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Brecht Stables & Dustin’s Place<br />
THERAPEUTIC HORSEBACK RIDING<br />
“Being raised with<br />
horses, I grew to<br />
understand their<br />
love and behavior.<br />
Most of all, I<br />
learned what a<br />
horse can bring<br />
to a child’s<br />
small world.”<br />
- Lynn Brecht<br />
An equine therapy and experiential adventure<br />
camp for individuals with physical and mental<br />
disabilities, Brecht Stables & Dustin’s Place was<br />
founded in 2009 and is located in Cumming,<br />
GA. Sleep away camps, Western riding, and<br />
horse boarding are offered at Brecht Stables.<br />
Owner Lynn Brecht decided to quit her<br />
desk job and follow her dream of running a<br />
therapeutic riding center. A single mother of<br />
two boys, the program also offers EAP and EAL.<br />
“I am a big believer in changing your path<br />
if you are not happy with your life, and the fact<br />
that you are never too old to follow your dream,”<br />
Lynn stated.<br />
At age 20, Lynn had a son who she named<br />
Dustin. Dustin has Down Syndrome.<br />
“<strong>My</strong> son has fought through many challenges<br />
in his short life. He stopped breathing at home, had<br />
open heart surgery, medication to keep his heart<br />
pumping, multiple ear tubes, RSV, phenomena,<br />
and bronchitis every year, and genetic counseling.<br />
But Dustin has been my greatest teacher. He is an<br />
amazing boy who faces everything in life with a<br />
smile and knows no stranger,” Lynn added.<br />
Therapeutic horseback riding,<br />
also known as Equine Assisted Activity or Adaptive<br />
Riding is for individuals with a broad range of<br />
physical, emotional, cognitive, and social disabilities,<br />
including Down Syndrome, Cerebral Palsy, Autism,<br />
Tremors, Seizures, Spina Bifida, Multiple Sclerosis,<br />
and Developmental and speech delays.<br />
The benefits of therapeutic riding are numerous,<br />
and include improving motor planning, core<br />
strength, attention span and bilateral skills,<br />
stimulate muscle memory, and improve fine and<br />
large motor skills.<br />
“Dustin’s Place functions smoothly because of<br />
the generous donations of time and money from our<br />
volunteers. You do not need to have any experience<br />
with horses to volunteer, but you must not be afraid<br />
of horses to assist in the barn. If you would rather<br />
stay out of the barn, we could also use your office or<br />
fund raising talents,” Lynn added.<br />
For more information about Brecht Stables & Dustin’s Place or to schedule a tour<br />
visit www.brechtstables.org or e-mail Lynn at lynn@brechtstables.org. Volunteers<br />
and donations are always welcomed.<br />
ABOUT LYNN BRECHT<br />
Lynn is certified through<br />
EAGALA, the global standard<br />
for psychotherapy and<br />
personal development<br />
incorporating horses,<br />
for Equine Assisted<br />
Psychotherapy Learning.<br />
She is also certified as an<br />
Equine Special Olympics<br />
Coach for the state of<br />
Georgia and has a certificate<br />
in HorseWork through Strides<br />
to Success. She is the lead<br />
therapeutic horseback riding<br />
instructor at Brecht Place,<br />
with over a decade of hands<br />
on special needs experience,<br />
lifelong horse experience<br />
and also owns and runs the<br />
facility. Lynn also has her<br />
wilderness first aid through<br />
NOLS and certification of<br />
Camp Director through<br />
American Camp Association.<br />
Lynn Brecht, ES<br />
Brecht Stables & Dustin's Place<br />
www.brechtstables.org<br />
678-644-5243<br />
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WHAT TO DO WHEN THE<br />
CHECK ENGINE LIGHT IS ON<br />
By Tom Burgess, Owner, Christian Brothers Automotive, Cumming GA<br />
A CUSTOMER CAME INTO<br />
THE SHOP AND TOLD US<br />
“MY CHECK ENGINE LIGHT<br />
IS ON, AND THE AUTO<br />
PARTS PLACE TOLD ME<br />
IT WAS FOR A CATALYTIC<br />
EFFICIENCY CODE – WHAT<br />
DOES THAT MEAN, AND<br />
CAN I IGNORE IT IF I DON’T<br />
NEED MY EMISSIONS<br />
STICKER FOR ANOTHER<br />
8 MONTHS?”<br />
We hear this often and it means a very expensive part of your exhaust,<br />
the catalytic converter, may need to be replaced. Any shop with the<br />
right scan tool can then diagnose if the problem is indeed the catalytic<br />
converter (or ‘Cat’ as it is often called) or some other malfunction. If<br />
the ‘cat’ has failed, the next question often is “could I have prevented<br />
this?”. The answer is a definitive ‘perhaps.’But let’s back up – what<br />
does a catalytic converter actually do? It simply uses precious metals<br />
to superheat and convert air-polluting oxides of nitrogen, unburned<br />
fuel and carbon monoxide into plain old nitrogen, carbon dioxide<br />
and water. It should last at least 100,000 miles or more, so what causes<br />
them to fail? Well time is certainly a factor. The precious metals<br />
are slowly degrading as the car runs, and once they are used up and<br />
have hit end-of-life the converter simply cannot function effectively<br />
anymore. But their life can be significantly reduced if the engine is<br />
not operating correctly, and that’s<br />
where damage prevention is critical.<br />
Let’s get back to our customer. When<br />
we asked him if the check engine light<br />
had been on in the past, he told us<br />
“Yes, they told me it was a misfire but<br />
the engine seemed to be running OK,<br />
so I didn’t get it fixed right away.” Ah<br />
hah! <strong>My</strong>stery solved. When a vehicle<br />
is experiencing a misfire, that means significantly more unburned fuel<br />
is being dumped into the exhaust and when that occurs the converter<br />
gets superheated and will often destroys itself. It can actually melt the<br />
ceramic honeycomb inside it if enough fuel enters.<br />
So, provided you do not have any misfires you should be OK then –<br />
right? Well unfortunately it’s not quite that simple. The problem is<br />
the catalytic converter must first heat up in order to start the burnoff<br />
process, and it uses the heat of exhaust to warm up. But on cold<br />
starts the car adds extra fuel (remember the chokes on carburetors?)<br />
and there is not enough oxygen to burn off the extra fuel. To fix<br />
this problem, most modern cars add<br />
supplemental air provided by a pump.<br />
These pumps are regulated by solenoids<br />
and valves which can burn out and<br />
corrode. That will cause the Check<br />
Engine light to come on, which is often<br />
ignored because the engine seems to be<br />
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unning fine. What the owner doesn’t know is that on cold start the<br />
converter is being loaded up with fuel and when it finally reaches a<br />
high enough temperature it has to burn off all that excess fuel. The<br />
result will often be permanent damage as temperatures inside the cat<br />
can exceed 2,000 degrees. But wait – there’s more! We often have folks<br />
that will ignore a Check Engine light when they find out it’s just an<br />
oxygen sensor code. The problem here is that sensor may in fact be<br />
accurately reporting too much oxygen due to a vacuum or exhaust<br />
leak, which will cause the computer to add more fuel, and we have the<br />
same problem. Ignoring a very simple inexpensive fix to a vacuum line<br />
could end up costing thousands as converters contain gold, palladium<br />
or rhodium and are not cheap. Or the O2 sensor might be reporting<br />
an out of limits condition due to worn piston rings or valve seals that<br />
are dumping oil into the exhaust, or an internal coolant leak that is<br />
allowing coolant into the exhaust. If any of these problems continues<br />
long enough, they will destroy the catalytic converter. Also, in any of<br />
these cases, replacing the converter is a waste of money if the other<br />
issue(s) are not addressed. We have also seen cases where a sharp blow<br />
to the converter, due to bottoming out the vehicle or hitting an object<br />
in the road, has damaged the catalyst material or the metal housing of<br />
the unit, blocking the flow of exhaust gases out the back (and hurting<br />
engine performance). In addition, certain fuel additives can (and do)<br />
counteract and prematurely age the catalysts. And the latest issue you<br />
may have noticed here in <strong>Forsyth</strong> County is the theft of converters.<br />
Trucks and SUVs that sit up high are especially vulnerable. So what’s<br />
the bottom line? When your CEL comes on, before you choose to<br />
ignore it, become knowledgeable about what it really means or could<br />
be indicating. Don’t believe the first thing you read on the internet<br />
that says you can ignore it, speak to a qualified technician. Because<br />
avoiding a simple fix now could cost you a whole lot later when it comes<br />
to a catalytic converter replacement. And one more thing, there are<br />
companies making cheap replacement converters. Will they allow<br />
you to pass emissions if you install one? Yes. Will they last past their<br />
one-year warranty? Probably. Will they last anywhere near as long as<br />
the original one? Definitely not… The reason they are inexpensive<br />
compared to original equipment units is they use far less precious<br />
metals. The extremely thin layer of metals applied will be used up<br />
VERY quickly and you will be buying another one sooner than you ever<br />
wished. You get what you pay for when it comes to catalytic converters.<br />
Happy motoring, and stay safe out there on the road!!<br />
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The Country Preacher<br />
By Rev. David Hill<br />
How blessed we are to live in this<br />
wonderful country. Our forefathers sailed<br />
seas that were uncharted and unknown to<br />
anyone they were acquainted with. These<br />
were the brave people we read about in our<br />
geography class. It was a period of time<br />
when it was believed that sea monsters<br />
would swallow their ships like attacking a<br />
minnow. Some thought they would reach the<br />
end of the world, fall off and sail right into<br />
the abyss. Why would we not honor them<br />
for their bravery? Why would they not be<br />
a hero? President Reagan once said, “Those<br />
who say that we’re in a time when there are<br />
no heroes, they just don’t know where to<br />
look”. Today, we envision people stepping on<br />
to the surface of planets that can be seen only<br />
through a telescope.<br />
The definition of a hero is “someone<br />
admired for bravery, greats deeds, or noble<br />
qualities”. In a Greek play, it was a man of<br />
more than human strength, courage, or<br />
ability. John 15:13 says “Greater love hath<br />
no man than this, that a man lay down his<br />
life for his friends”. Heroes aren’t people<br />
who are faultless! God chooses leaders<br />
that are “blameless” because of repentance<br />
(II Corinthians 7:9-10) but not sinless.<br />
His biblical leaders chose character over<br />
personality with a willingness to repent if<br />
going the wrong direction. Only Jesus Christ<br />
could challenge us by saying “Which of you<br />
convinceth me of sin” (John 8:46)? Abraham<br />
didn’t wait for God to give him the promised<br />
son, Isaac, and had an illegitimate child by his<br />
wife’s maid. Noah was faithful for 120 years<br />
with one night of uncharacteristic behavior.<br />
Two of his three children became pagans.<br />
Moses had a problem with anger when he<br />
joined in a fight. Later he struck the rock<br />
twice picturing the Messiah dying twice for<br />
sins. Isaiah 53:4 says, “Surely he hath borne<br />
our griefs, and carried our sorrows: yet we<br />
did esteem him stricken, smitten of God, and<br />
afflicted”. King David saw a woman taking a<br />
bath and conspired to murder her husband.<br />
God lets us see the humanity of His heroes<br />
so we could see that He is a forgiving Father<br />
who still loves us when we fail. “Come now,<br />
and let us reason together, saith the LORD:<br />
though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be<br />
as white as snow; though they be red like<br />
crimson, they shall be as wool (Isaiah 1:18).<br />
In Luke 15:11-32, God shares a story of a<br />
father whose patience, love, and kindness to a<br />
wayward son makes him a hero. The son had<br />
taken a portion of his inheritance and used it<br />
for immoral purposes. When he was broke, he<br />
had nowhere to turn except to go home to the<br />
father in shame. Instead of rebuke, the father is<br />
waiting. He sees him a great way off. The hero<br />
of this story is the father. Sin separates families,<br />
ruins lives, and takes away any opportunities<br />
left behind. The son does not recover his<br />
losses. Psalm 147:3 “He healeth the broken in<br />
heart, and bindeth up their wounds.”<br />
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John A. Fischer<br />
CHAPLAIN/NACM<br />
The <strong>Forsyth</strong> community has seen significant<br />
population growth, bringing new “Friends &<br />
Neighbors” to the area who are “un-churched”<br />
but hold to Christian beliefs. With the millennial<br />
generation also growing significantly and<br />
becoming more secular in their religious beliefs,<br />
the need for a Certified Celebrant to assist these<br />
families and individuals in preparing for and<br />
officiating “Life Tribute Services” for departed<br />
loved ones is very apparent.<br />
John Fischer, a former Radio announcer,<br />
News Director, and Disc Jockey, prior to<br />
his successful business career, has become a<br />
Certified Life Tribute Celebrant, graduating<br />
from the Insight Institute, and a Community<br />
Chaplain, certified and ordained by the National<br />
Association of Christian Ministers.<br />
Chaplain Fischer meets with bereaved<br />
family’s to learn about their loved ones life<br />
influence and assists with developing the actual<br />
service format, including special readings,<br />
music selections and the eulogy, to make<br />
each service exclusive and personal for each<br />
Family. Chaplin Fischer encourages family’s<br />
not to forego this vital element of the grieving<br />
process, which has a real emotional impact and<br />
can last for a considerable time. He said that<br />
“even a brief graveside service helps to begin<br />
the process of “Closure” and accepting the<br />
passing of a loved one.”<br />
In addition to the Celebrant Ministry,<br />
Chaplain Fischer conducts Bible Studies at<br />
local Assisted Living Facilities and is available<br />
for preparing special invocations for family<br />
gatherings and reunions and also community<br />
and civic events.<br />
He can be contacted at<br />
johnafischer7605@gmail.com and<br />
(770) 866-5875.<br />
JOHN A. FISCHER, Chaplain/NACM, Certified Celebrant/Insight Institute<br />
7605 Abbey Glen Drive | Cumming, GA. 30028-8959 | (770) 866-5875<br />
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By Maria I. Morgan<br />
<strong>My</strong> pace quickened as I walked across the cul-de-sac. I rang my<br />
neighbor’s doorbell and waited for her to answer. What followed was<br />
a beautiful reminder of what happens when we leave our comfort<br />
zone and step out in faith – God provides.<br />
The neighbor was happy to meet me, and her son was excited about<br />
the book and candies I gave him. We chatted for a few minutes and<br />
exchanged phone numbers with plans to get together soon. Although<br />
a small thing, I did what the Lord wanted me to do and He provided<br />
perfectly.<br />
I was reminded of a woman who stepped out of her comfort<br />
zone several centuries ago and witnessed the power of Jesus in a<br />
miraculous way.<br />
Jesus was dead and had been buried in the tomb of a rich man. The<br />
disciples were in hiding, afraid they may be killed next. In spite of the<br />
risk, after the Sabbath, Mary Magdalene and other women bravely<br />
went to anoint Jesus’ body with perfume. When they got to the tomb,<br />
the stone was already rolled away and the grave was empty. Two men<br />
in shining clothes assured the frightened women that Jesus had risen<br />
from the dead.<br />
BLESSINGS<br />
Outside Your Comfort Zone<br />
Mary and the others wasted no time sharing the unbelievable news<br />
with the rest of the disciples. Peter and John ran to the tomb and<br />
found things as the women had said: the stone was moved and Jesus’<br />
body was gone. While the disciples went back home, Mary stayed at<br />
the grave crying.<br />
A man spoke to her. Thinking he was the gardener, she asked where<br />
the body of Jesus was. Instead of answering her question, the man<br />
only had to say one word:<br />
“…Mary. She turned herself, and saith unto him, Rabboni; which is to<br />
say, Master.” John 20:16; KJV<br />
By Maria I. Morgan<br />
Awkwardness can be, well, awkward. The<br />
silence that drags on after you stop talking.<br />
The embarrassment that lingers when you<br />
make a mistake. The self-conscious feeling<br />
when you’re not sure how to respond.<br />
The other day I was determined to introduce myself to the neighbor<br />
across the street. Although I was looking forward to getting to know her<br />
and her young son, I have to admit it’s more comfortable for me to focus<br />
on a project or to encourage my core group of friends.<br />
Because Mary was willing to step out of her comfort zone, she was the<br />
first to witness the resurrected Savior.<br />
How much more encouragement do we need? Let’s take a step of<br />
faith today.<br />
Can I pray for you?<br />
Heavenly Father, thank You for Your faithfulness and constant<br />
encouragement to walk by faith. Forgive us for doubting You. Help<br />
us actively look for the opportunities You give us today to step out<br />
of our comfort zone and experience Your perfect provision. You’re<br />
worthy of our praise. In Jesus’ name, Amen.<br />
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ADVERTISER DIRECTORY<br />
AUTOMOTIVE/CAR REPAIR<br />
SERVICES<br />
Christian Brothers Automotive – pg. 55<br />
470-253-7376 | www.cbac.com/cumming<br />
BREW PUB/TAPROOM<br />
Cherry Street Brewing Taproom – 19<br />
770-205-5512 | www.cherrystreetvickery.com<br />
CYBER SECURITY/<br />
TECHNOLOGY SOLUTIONS<br />
Critical Path Security – Inside Back Cover<br />
770-224-6482 | www.criticalpathsscurity.com<br />
CRISIS INTERVENTION<br />
Corner Farms– pg. 33<br />
770-355-2755 | www.cornerfarmsforsyth.com<br />
DANCE ACADEMY/<br />
INSTRUCTION<br />
Cumming Dance Academy – pg. 3<br />
770-781-4922 | www.CummingDanceAcademy.com<br />
EMBROIDERY<br />
Amigo Embroidery – pg.59<br />
404-216-5740 | www.amigoembroidery.com<br />
FINANCIAL PLANNING<br />
Arseneau Advisory Group – pg. 15<br />
470-839-9001 | www.arseneauadvisory.com<br />
HEATING/VENTILATION/<br />
AIR CONDITIONING<br />
Shelnutt HVAC – pg. 61<br />
706-265-5854 | www.shelnutthvac.com<br />
JEWELER/JEWELRY<br />
STORE<br />
Gems In Art – Inside Front Cover<br />
770-844-8005 | www.gemsinart.com<br />
Lance’s Jewelry –Back Cover<br />
770-781-5500 | www.lancesjewelry.com<br />
PHOTOGRAPHY<br />
Adam Pendleton Photography – pg. 17<br />
678-208-7077 | www.adampendleton.com<br />
Bryan White Photography + Art – pg. 628<br />
770-889-3202 | www,braynwhitephotography.art<br />
MEDIATION<br />
Fairway Mediator.com – pg. 61<br />
678-769-6729 | www.fairwaymediator.com<br />
PHYSICIANS/MEDICAL<br />
SERVICES<br />
Apollo Spine and Pain Center – pg. 43<br />
678- 771-8266 | www.apollospineandpain.com<br />
Dermani MedSpa – pg. 41<br />
www.dermanimedspa.com | 404-942-2100<br />
Cleaver Medical Group – pg. 62<br />
770-800-3455 | www.cleavermedicalgroup.com<br />
Modern OBGYN – pg. 35<br />
404-446-2496 | www.reyesobgyn.com<br />
Narendra Singh, MD – pg. 39<br />
678-679-6800; 770-622-1622 | www.heartdrsingh.com<br />
The Southern Skin and Beauty Bar – pg. 37<br />
770-284-8763 | www.southernskinandbeauty.com<br />
REAL ESTATE<br />
Hello Pam Evans Real Estate – pg. 13<br />
678-778-6551 | www.hellopamevans.com<br />
The Dinsmore Team – pg. 43<br />
770-712-7789 | www.dinsmoreteam.com<br />
RESTAURANTS /FOOD<br />
SERVICES/CATERING<br />
Casa Nuova Italian Restaurant – pg. 25<br />
770-475-9100 | www.casanuovarestaurant.com<br />
Cork & Glass – pg. 25<br />
678-694-8812 | www.corkandglass.com<br />
CSB Home of Rick Tanner’s – pg. 19<br />
770-205-5512 | www.cherrystreetvickery.com<br />
Lenny’s Subs – pg. 27<br />
678-947-0336 | Fax orders: 678-947-5343<br />
Palapa’s Bar and Grill – pg. 21<br />
770-889-1002 | www.palapasbargrill.com<br />
Tam’s Backstage – pg. 29<br />
678-455-8310 | www.tamsbackstage.com<br />
Tam’s Tupelo– pg. 29<br />
470-839-2024 | www.tamstupelo.com<br />
TOY STORE<br />
Wheezy’s Toy Boutique – pg.5<br />
713-516-3985 | @WheezysToys<br />
TRANSPORTATION/<br />
NON-EMERGENCY<br />
ABW MedTrans Solutions – pg. 61<br />
678-567-6644<br />
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