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CONTENTS<br />

VOLUME XI • ISSUE 2<br />

12<br />

30<br />

26<br />

COVER STORY<br />

30 JESSE’S HOUSE A SAFE<br />

HOME FOR GIRLS<br />

12 WHAT IN THE WORLD IS<br />

HAPPENING WITH REAL<br />

ESTATE?<br />

44 SAWNEE ELEMENTARY<br />

READING WARRIORS<br />

FEATURES<br />

52 TEACHER REUSE EXCHANGE<br />

53 BRECHT STABLES & DUSTIN’S<br />

PLACE<br />

HOME AND LIFE<br />

14 $50 Burgers: Should We Worry<br />

About Inflation?<br />

16 Preparing for a Dog Fight in<br />

Georgia Divorce Cases<br />

18 Lead Today for Tomorrow<br />

22 Meet Becky Robinson<br />

48 Tips to Overcome Emotional<br />

Overwhelm<br />

FORSYTH FOODIE<br />

26 Fountain’s Food Adventures:<br />

Rendezvous Café<br />

HEALTH & WELLNESS<br />

34 Benefits of Minimally Invasive<br />

Surgery<br />

36 Aesthetic Treatments<br />

38 Changing Behavior and Weight<br />

One Shot at a Time<br />

40 Keeping Your Eyes Healthy While<br />

Facing Diabetes<br />

42 Mindfulness for Self-Care<br />

EDUCATION<br />

46 Mountain Education Charter<br />

High School<br />

50 Academies of Creative Education<br />

FAITH<br />

57 John Fischer, Life Tribute<br />

Celebrant<br />

58 Blessings Outside Your Comfort<br />

Zone<br />

BURGESS MUSINGS<br />

54 What to do when the Check Engine<br />

Light is On<br />

IN EVERY ISSUE<br />

10 <strong>Forsyth</strong> County Government<br />

11 News Around <strong>Forsyth</strong><br />

20 Book Reviews: Squeaky Chain Girl |<br />

<strong>My</strong> Blood Runs Crimson<br />

56 The Country Preacher<br />

“DON’T MISS<br />

A THING”<br />

WE’RE MOBILE...<br />

myforsythmag.com


CONTRIBUTORS<br />

VOLUME XI • ISSUE 2<br />

MY FORSYTH<br />

PUBLISHER<br />

Market Complete LLC<br />

Larry Brown is a retired<br />

journalist. Larry is a member<br />

of the Sawnee-Cumming<br />

Optimist Club and a mentor<br />

with Mentor Me North<br />

Georgia. A community<br />

volunteer and sought-out<br />

writer, he may be reached at<br />

browntrust@bellsouth.net.<br />

Tom Burgess is the owner<br />

and operator of Christian<br />

Brothers Automotive in<br />

Cumming. Tom retired from<br />

the United States Air Force<br />

in 2009, after serving his<br />

country for over 22 years.<br />

He may be reached at<br />

Tom.Burgess@cbauto.net.<br />

Pam Evans is an<br />

Associate Broker with<br />

Century 21 Results. She<br />

may be reached at<br />

678-778-6551.<br />

julie@marketcomplete.com<br />

678.614.8583<br />

GRAPHIC DESIGN<br />

Samantha Angeli<br />

samantha.angeli74@gmail.com<br />

770.310.4486<br />

PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

Adam Pendleton<br />

David Fountain is a<br />

local food enthusiast and<br />

our community’s Best of<br />

<strong>Forsyth</strong> Financial Planner<br />

and Investment Advisor. You<br />

can reach him at foodie@<br />

fountainsfoodadventures.com<br />

Jacqueline Thompson<br />

Graves is a freelance<br />

media developer, writer,<br />

and the author of the book<br />

review blog The Book<br />

Buffet. She may be reached<br />

at thegraves@yahoo.com.<br />

Rev. David Hill, a long-time<br />

Cumming resident, may<br />

be reached at davidkhill@<br />

comcast.net. A retired<br />

preacher, Hill lives in North<br />

Carolina where he is enjoying<br />

spending time with his<br />

beloved grandchildren.<br />

678.208.7077 • www.adampendleton.com<br />

SPECIAL REPORTS/VIDEO<br />

Michelle Hall<br />

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WEB CONTENT STRATEGIST<br />

Matt Coutu<br />

matt@marketcomplete.com<br />

STAFF WRITER<br />

Bernadette Leonard<br />

is a beauty salon owner<br />

and coach. She may<br />

be reached at<br />

berni@berniinc.com.<br />

Amy Lyle lives in <strong>Forsyth</strong><br />

with her husband, four<br />

teenagers and a large dog.<br />

Her first book, The Amy<br />

Binegar-Kimmes-Lyle Book<br />

of Failures is a top eBook on<br />

Amazon.com.<br />

Tracy Ann Moore-Grant<br />

has been practicing family<br />

law since 2002. She's a<br />

partner at Patterson Moore<br />

Butler. She may be reached<br />

at 770-889-0846.<br />

Katielee Kaner<br />

katielee.myforsyth@gmail.com<br />

PRINTING AND MAILING SERVICES<br />

Power Marketing & Printing<br />

678.990.3618 • smccaffrey@powermp<br />

Maria I. Morgan is an<br />

inspirational writer and<br />

speaker. She is the awardwinning<br />

author of Louie’s BIG<br />

day! She may be reached at<br />

maria@mariaimorgan.com.<br />

Narendra Singh, MD,<br />

FRCP(C), FACC, FAHA is the<br />

Director of Clinical Research,<br />

Atlanta Heart Specialists LLC,<br />

Atlanta, GA.<br />

He may be reached at<br />

info@heartdrsingh.com or<br />

www.heartdrsingh.com.<br />

Mira Sivan is a family<br />

practice optometrist with an<br />

emphasis on ocular disease,<br />

contact lenses fitting and<br />

pediatrics. She may be<br />

reached at 678-648-5185.<br />

The mission of <strong>My</strong> <strong>Forsyth</strong> magazine, a publication of<br />

Market Complete LLC, is to provide readers with stories and<br />

information about their communities and its people. 22,000<br />

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are not necessarily those of the MarketComplete LLC. The<br />

Publisher makes no claims as to the validity of any charitable<br />

organizations mentioned. <strong>My</strong> <strong>Forsyth</strong> is not responsible<br />

for errors or omissions. No part of this publication may be<br />

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Publisher. All rights reserved. ©Copyright 2021<br />

Samantha Angeli is the<br />

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<strong>Forsyth</strong> She may be reached<br />

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<strong>My</strong> Canvas<br />

“Changing the world happens once step at a time, through acts of leadership and courage. It is the work of<br />

generations, with progress made possible by those who pass on the lessons learned from both successes and<br />

setbacks, and most importantly, the necessary knowledge that change is indeed possible.” - Andrew J. Young<br />

I have been a part of some amazing groups, initiatives, and<br />

adventures – personal and professional. Each has provided me with<br />

the opportunity to meet remarkable people who have shared their<br />

passions, knowledge, and guidance with me. For that I am grateful<br />

and lucky.<br />

A couple of years ago I had the honor of attending an event in<br />

Downtown Atlanta where my step-father’s friend and boss, Retired<br />

Admiral Paul Rosser, introduced me to his best friend, former<br />

Ambassador Andrew Young. That moment will forever be etched in<br />

my memory bank as a Top 10 of the folks I have met over the years.<br />

What I remember most about this first meeting was the significance of<br />

friendship. Of everlasting, honest friendship.<br />

In a world where differences seem to be highlighted, often for<br />

the worse, sitting down among folks of varied races, ethnicities,<br />

background, and abilities was joyous.<br />

I was honored to spend time with Rosser and Young once again<br />

earlier this summer, during the One <strong>Forsyth</strong> launch event. The <strong>Forsyth</strong><br />

Conference Center was filled with a myriad of folks, all spending a little<br />

time together to learn about the initiative and one another. <strong>My</strong> heart<br />

was (and still is) filled with gratitude for all who dedicate their time and<br />

talents for the best in their communities.<br />

Publishing this magazine allows me to spend time with great<br />

people – executives who lead some of our greatest companies,<br />

leaders who guide and teach our youth, and folks who set forth their<br />

absolute best, every day, to do the job at hand. If I had a canvas<br />

where I could write those names, I am certain I could easily weave the<br />

sails for thousands of boats.<br />

Faith. Family. Friends. Those three provide me with the strength and guidance<br />

I need to paint my canvas. Time continues to move on, sometimes in a<br />

direction that I may not have seen coming – yet I know I can move my canvas<br />

ever so slightly and adjust my sales to deal with those unexpected changes.<br />

I guess it is time to set sail, once again, adjusting the sails as necessary<br />

to reach the next destination. The adventure continues.<br />

JULIE BRENNAN<br />

Publisher<br />

julie@marketcomplete.com


VOLUME XI | ISSUE 2 | MYFORSYTHMAG.COM 9


FORSYTH COUNTY GOVERNMENT<br />

WHAT'S NEW<br />

EMPLOYEES RECOGNIZED FOR 25,<br />

30 AND 35 YEARS OF SERVICE<br />

During their Aug. 5 meeting, the <strong>Forsyth</strong> County Board<br />

of Commissioners recognized employees that reached<br />

25, 30 and 35 year work anniversaries during 2020. The<br />

following employees were recognized for their service:<br />

35 Year Milestone:<br />

Assistant to the County Manager Cindy Henderson<br />

(Administration)<br />

30 Year Milestone:<br />

Athletic and Natural Resources Program Manager James<br />

Brennan (Parks & Recreation)<br />

Fire Chief Barry Head (Fire Department)<br />

Deputy First Class James Rush (Sheriff’s Office)<br />

Deputy Clerk, Senior Anna Coker (Clerk of Courts)<br />

25 Year Milestone:<br />

Arson Investigator, Senior Steven Anderson<br />

(Fire Department)<br />

Planning Manager Lori Kyle<br />

(Planning & Community Development)<br />

Deputy Fire Marshall Steve Baker (Fire Department)<br />

Assistant Director of Engineering Tim Allen (Engineering)<br />

Deputy Chief Appraiser Kevin Ream (Board of Assessors)<br />

Sergeant Kenneth Yarbrough (Sheriff’s Office)<br />

Special Enforcement Division Corporal Phillip Alexander<br />

(Sheriff’s Office)<br />

Maintenance Worker Troy Massey (Parks & Recreation)<br />

Investigations Manager Renee Shelton (State Court Solicitor)<br />

Equipment Operator III Freddy Flannigan<br />

(Roads & Bridges)<br />

Thank you to all county employees for their<br />

commitment and dedication to our communities.<br />

DUNN APPOINTED AS JUVENILE COURT JUDGE<br />

HEATHER N. DUNN has been appointed by the judges of<br />

the <strong>Forsyth</strong> County Superior Court as Juvenile Court Judge,<br />

replacing Judge J. Russell Jackson who retired at the end of July.<br />

Judge Dunn began her career in 2009 and has been an assistant<br />

district attorney in <strong>Forsyth</strong> County since March of 2010.<br />

Dunn graduated cum laude from Vanderbilt University with<br />

a bachelor’s degree in political science and sociology and<br />

earned her juris doctorate from Georgia State University<br />

College of Law.<br />

The Juvenile Court is dedicated to serving the residents of<br />

<strong>Forsyth</strong> County by hearing all cases involving allegations<br />

of deprivation or unruly conduct of children under the age<br />

of eighteen, or delinquency or traffic violations concerning<br />

children under the age of 17 found within its jurisdiction. It is<br />

to ensure that children whose well-being is threatened shall<br />

be assisted, protected, and restored, and each child shall<br />

receive the care, guidance and control conducive to the<br />

child’s welfare and best interest.<br />

FORSYTH COUNTY PARKS<br />

AND RECREATION FALL GUIDE<br />

The <strong>Forsyth</strong> County Parks & Recreation’s<br />

Fall Activity Guide is now available.<br />

The guide includes information on a<br />

wide variety of events, activities and<br />

programs offered. Residents can view<br />

the guide and register online at<br />

www.parks.forysthco.com or in<br />

person at any of the county’s three<br />

recreation centers, located at Central<br />

Park, Fowler Park and Old Atlanta<br />

Park. www.parks.forsythco.com<br />

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2021 Optimist Golf Tournament<br />

Benefits Children's<br />

Healthcare<br />

by Larry Brown<br />

The Sawnee-Cumming Optimist Club contributed $9,000 to<br />

Children's Healthcare of Atlanta, <strong>Forsyth</strong> County. The donation was<br />

made possible by the club's 2021 charity golf tournament held at<br />

Chestatee Golf Club. Tournament proceeds also benefit the club's<br />

community programs for children. The check was presented to Laurie<br />

Cole, community development officer at Children's Healthcare.<br />

Laurie Cole (right), Children's Healthcare of Atlanta, accepts<br />

a check for $9,000 from Sawnee-Cumming Optimist Club<br />

golf tournament chairperson Brenda Basey (left) and other<br />

club members.<br />

Cole said, “Thank you to our friends at the Sawnee-<br />

Cumming Optimist Club for making the 9th annual<br />

golf tournament benefiting our Aflac Cancer and<br />

Blood Disorder Center the best one yet! Each year this<br />

tournament becomes a little more special than the one<br />

before, and this year our young patient ambassador was<br />

definitely a highlight. Thank you so much to all the<br />

golfers, sponsors, and businesses for their continued<br />

support. We look forward to seeing everyone next year<br />

as the Sawnee-Cumming Optimist Club celebrates their<br />

10th golf tournament!”<br />

Brenda Basey, club president, added, “Each year I am<br />

honored to chair this event, and each year I am amazed at<br />

the continued support we receive from our community.<br />

This has become a “favorite tournament” of so many<br />

golfers and sponsors. I am humbled to be able to continue<br />

Children’s Healthcare ambassador Asher Rock gives the<br />

thumbs up to golfers at the 2021 Sawnee-Cumming Optimist<br />

Club golf tournament. Joining him are (from left) his father<br />

Marcus; club president Janna Shacklett; tournament chairperson<br />

Brenda Basey; Laurie Cole, Children’s Healthcare; and<br />

Asher’s mother, Josie.<br />

to put this together and know that next year, our 10th, will<br />

be more amazing and give even more for the fight against<br />

childhood cancer. A huge thank you to all the sponsors<br />

and participants who supported the tournament!"<br />

“For the past few years, we have had a Children’s<br />

Healthcare child ambassador represent our club at the<br />

tournament,” Basey said. “This year it was seven year old<br />

Asher Rock. He was such an inspiration for our event<br />

and our golfers! In a few words that morning before<br />

the golfers went out, he touched everyone there and had<br />

such an impact on the entire day.”<br />

Basey said that at four months old, Asher was<br />

diagnosed with retinoblastoma in his right eye. It is a<br />

life-threating childhood cancer. He has had more than<br />

60 eye exams under anesthesia and several surgeries. He<br />

now has vision in only one eye.<br />

The Sawnee-Cumming Optimist Club meets the first and third Thursday evenings of each month.<br />

For information about Optimists, contact club president Janna Shacklett, janna9810@gmail.com.<br />

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What in the World is<br />

Happening with Real Estate?<br />

By Pam Evans<br />

The questions I have been asked numerous times over the past several months are: What is going on with<br />

the market? When are things going to crash? Why would I buy a house now when prices are so inflated?<br />

THE FACTS<br />

The market today is being driven by a number of economic factors, NONE<br />

of which reflect the crash of 10+ years ago. That Real Estate downturn<br />

was driven by poor lending practices. Those practices no longer exist, and<br />

lending requirements are quite sound now.<br />

Today’s conditions are driven by Supply & Demand conditions.<br />

Simply put, there is far greater demand than there is supply. Covid did<br />

not slow the Atlanta Real Estate market down in 2020. In fact, it was<br />

incredibly robust. While many unfortunately experienced economic<br />

hurt, many did not, and metro Atlanta was and is a vibrant business<br />

community attracting businesses, their employees, and their need<br />

for housing.<br />

The demand for housing is incredibly strong, and while many<br />

Sellers want to sell, they are fearful that they will not be able to find<br />

their next home, whether they are upsizing, downsizing or right-sizing.<br />

They recognize competition is fierce and thereby driving prices up,<br />

with the majority percentage of homes selling for significantly higher<br />

than List price.<br />

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So, without market fluidity – a steady stream<br />

of Sellers and Buyers to create a more<br />

balanced market, we have this – an extreme<br />

Sellers’ Market.<br />

INTEREST RATES<br />

Further driving the number of Buyers wanting<br />

to purchase a home is the record low Interest<br />

Rates. We’ve seen historically low rates over<br />

the past few years, and now they are truly at<br />

record lows – meaning, Homeownership has<br />

never been more affordable than it is now.<br />

You can get more home for your money as a<br />

significantly lower portion of your monthly<br />

payment goes towards Interest.<br />

The rub here is – yes, Sales prices are<br />

being driven higher by market demand – but<br />

choosing to wait it out and see if prices settle<br />

down by next year may mean higher interest<br />

rates. Even a quarter or half percent increase<br />

can mean a significant change to your monthly<br />

mortgage payment. And “waiting it out” for<br />

prices to stabilize may have erased significant<br />

savings through a lower interest rate.<br />

For those assuming that as government<br />

stimulus programs end will mean an increase<br />

in Short Sales and Foreclosures, and are<br />

choosing to wait as prices will drop – most<br />

Economists don’t see that as likely at all. Why?<br />

People have record equity in their homes right<br />

now. There is no reason to short sale, and you<br />

can sell if needed in order to avoid foreclosure,<br />

and protect your credit.<br />

BEST STRATEGIC MOVE<br />

For Buyers, if you are currently renting, you are<br />

continuing to toss money out the window each<br />

month instead of paying into your own asset.<br />

Even if you pay more for your home right now,<br />

you are purchasing with record low interest<br />

rates amortized over 30 years. And there are<br />

several strategies you can implement from<br />

the get-go, enabling you to accumulate equity<br />

faster and erase the negative effects of a higher<br />

purchase price.<br />

For Sellers who are nervous to Sell for<br />

fear of being homeless – there are numerous<br />

strategies out there that can make you a very<br />

competitive Buyer, enabling you to secure<br />

your next home, and getting your current<br />

home sold for record profits. Ask a good<br />

Realtor who adapts to the ever-changing<br />

market. There are always ways to capitalize,<br />

accomplish your housing goals, and come out<br />

ahead in the long run.<br />

MARKET FLUIDITY<br />

No, I don’t love this market. Yes, I’ve helped<br />

numerous Clients on both the Selling and<br />

Buying side over the past year, but no,<br />

this market is not ideal in any way, and is<br />

perpetuating unnecessary fear. What I can<br />

assure you is Real Estate is still an incredible<br />

long-term wealth builder. It is far better to pay<br />

into your own asset, increase your home’s value<br />

through improvements, and enjoy market<br />

appreciation, than is sitting on the sidelines.<br />

Making a change now, with these rates, will<br />

more than likely be an enormous benefit to you<br />

in the long run. And if you are strategic in your<br />

planning, whether Selling or Buying, you will<br />

fare very well.<br />

Pam Evans is an Associate Broker with Century 21 Results, and can be reached at HelloPamEvans@gmail.com or 678-778-6551.<br />

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$50<br />

Burgers<br />

SHOULD WE WORRY ABOUT INFLATION?<br />

Seems like everywhere we turn these days the media continues to talk about this word “Inflation.”<br />

What does this really mean and how much inflation can the country afford before we are in trouble?<br />

By Kurt Arseneau, Investment Advisor Representative, Registered Financial Consultant<br />

First, let us get on the same page about some of the<br />

basics. If you have noticed the price of something increasing over<br />

time (say, your favorite soda or the cost of college tuition), that’s<br />

inflation in action. Economists use the broad increase (or decrease)<br />

in prices of goods and services across the country as a measure of<br />

economic health. When inflation is stable and predictable, it is a<br />

sign of a basically healthy, and growing economy.<br />

But high inflation can quickly eat away at the purchasing power<br />

of your dollars, indicating that the economy might be overheated.<br />

Deflation, or a decline in prices, can be a warning sign of a<br />

shrinking economy. Recent data highlighted a surprise spike in<br />

inflation, indicating that prices increased faster than economists<br />

expected in the last few months. (1)<br />

Could this be a worrisome sign that the economy is overheated?<br />

Could $50 burgers be in our future? Maybe.<br />

On the other hand, could it be a temporary blip caused by<br />

the economy emerging from the pandemic-driven slowdown,<br />

complicated by supply chain issues? Very possible.<br />

Are the headlines catastrophizing? They usually are, but let us<br />

look at the data. The Consumer Price Index (CPI), one of the major<br />

indices’ economists use to track inflation, showed a surprising spike<br />

in April, igniting fears of runaway inflation.<br />

Core CPI (which excludes the highly volatile categories of energy<br />

and food) showed a 0.9% increase in April month over month and<br />

3.0% year-over-year. That is much higher than the expected 0.3%<br />

and 2.3% respectively. (2)<br />

However, digging a bit deeper, we see that just two categories of<br />

goods (used cars and transportation services) accounted for the vast<br />

majority of the surge. (3) That suggests things like flights and train<br />

travel suddenly became more expensive after a year of rock-bottom<br />

prices. Is that runaway or the normalization of prices as the world<br />

reopens? We cannot tell from a single data point, but it is unusual<br />

to see prices increase in sectors that experienced a sever slowdown<br />

last year.<br />

What about the jump in car prices? Well, many folks are<br />

turning to the second-hand market right now, in part because new<br />

cars are caught up in global supply chain bottlenecks for things like<br />

semiconductors and raw materials. (4)<br />

Inflation is something to keep an eye on, especially in a year<br />

when so many of the usual variables have been thrown into flux.<br />

An ongoing surge in prices could hurt our wallets as our dollars<br />

buy less over time. However, a single monthly spike following<br />

a very weird period for the economy is not cause for alarm yet;<br />

we should prepare ourselves for more odd numbers coming out<br />

of different parts of the economy in the weeks and months to<br />

come. Shortages of everything from ketchup to gasoline could<br />

lead to price increases and fluctuations as supply chains attempt to<br />

disentangle from pandemic disruptions. (5)<br />

Should we expect markets to react to inflation (and other)<br />

headlines? A negative market reaction is not surprising after weeks<br />

of strong performance. We should expect volatility ahead as we<br />

(and the economy) adjust to a post-pandemic world.<br />

BOTTOM LINE: EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED IN 2021!<br />

If you are retired or close to retirement and have concerns about<br />

how inflation may impact your standard of living, reach out to us<br />

for a second opinion. Contact us at (470) 839-9001 or visit our<br />

website at www.arseneauadvisory.com<br />

Until next time, stay healthy and safe!<br />

Kurt Arseneau<br />

(1) https://www.cnbc.com/2021/05/12/consumer-price-index-april-2021.html<br />

(2) https://www.chase.com/personal/investments/learning-and-insights/article/top-market-takeaway-05142021<br />

(3) https://www.chase.com/personal/investments/learning-and-insights/article/top-market-takeaway-05142021<br />

(4) https://www.npr.org/2021/04/09/985860442/auto-industry-continues-to-struggle-with-supply-chain-issues<br />

(5) https://www.cnn.com/2021/05/08/business/supply-chain-shortages-pandemic/index.html<br />

Investment Advisory Services offered only by duly registered individuals through AE Wealth Management, LLC(AEWM). AEWM and Arseneau Advisory Group are not affiliated companies.<br />

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Preparing for a Dog Fight<br />

in Georgia Divorce Cases<br />

By Tracy Ann Moore-Grant<br />

As a mediator and attorney, some of<br />

the most difficult cases to navigate<br />

and resolve are those involving who<br />

will receive the family pet. Typically, after<br />

hearing all of the other issues to be determined<br />

in a case, an attorney will sheepishly look at<br />

their client before uttering those dreaded words,<br />

“and oh yeah, we want the dog.” And I say “dog”<br />

because I have never seen people argue over a cat.<br />

Sorry cat lovers. Unlike child custody disputes,<br />

which provide defined laws and code sections to<br />

guide the parties on realistic outcomes, Georgia<br />

law provides a harsh reality when it comes to the<br />

family pet. No matter how beloved the family pet<br />

may be, it is considered a piece of property in the<br />

same way as a sofa or big screen TV. In Georgia,<br />

the standard is to divide property “equitably”<br />

which means fairly. So this means one party is<br />

leaving with Fido.<br />

Many parties who are seeking possession<br />

of a pet believe that the court should apply the<br />

same standards to an animal that they apply to<br />

children, which is the “best interests standard.”<br />

They argue about who loves the pet more, who<br />

the pet chooses to spend time with, and who can<br />

care for the pet better between the two parties.<br />

Unfortunately, Georgia does not recognize the<br />

best interests of the dog standard. Some states<br />

have actually moved towards considering the best<br />

interests of the dog like California, Alaska, and<br />

Illinois. But in Georgia, the court simply treats<br />

the animal like property. Having litigated these<br />

types of cases, I have seen parties bring to court<br />

the following evidence to persuade the judge<br />

in their favor: records indicating they adopted<br />

or purchased the animal, records showing they<br />

are the one who took the animal to the vet,<br />

photographs showing them and the animal in<br />

matching outfits for special occasions, proof that<br />

they attended the training classes with the dog<br />

without the other party, holiday cards featuring<br />

the animal, affidavits about how bonded they<br />

are to the dog over the other party and custom<br />

artwork they had made depicting the animal.<br />

Any judge will be deciding the issue will be using<br />

any information they can get to determine who<br />

should awarded the dog.<br />

Often the party losing the animal will<br />

expect compensation for the loss. In Georgia,<br />

it is a long established rule that an animal value<br />

is established based on fair market value. So a<br />

rescue animal may have little identifiable value.<br />

And while you may have paid $1,200.00 for your<br />

mini schnauzer as a puppy, what is an 8 year old<br />

mini schnauzer worth? (Priceless in my opinion).<br />

In Georgia, the sentimental value of a pet is not a<br />

consideration. This is often a hard dog bone for<br />

the other party to swallow to learn they have lost<br />

the dog and they are not entitled to anything for<br />

the loss.<br />

The biggest issue I see with resolving pet<br />

issues is that attorneys have not had a discussion<br />

with their client prior to a mediation or settlement<br />

discussions to inform them about the realities of<br />

Georgia law on this issue. Often parties who hear<br />

this for the first time during an already stressful<br />

mediation have difficulty accepting or processing<br />

the information causing a breakdown emotionally<br />

and in the settlement process. Secondly, the<br />

client is not prepared to settle the issue with any<br />

evidentiary documents or information that may<br />

be persuasive in negotiations resulting in back<br />

and forth of competing statements regarding who<br />

in fact does love the dog more. If one party comes<br />

to the table with a stack of photos and documents,<br />

it is far more likely the other will concede the<br />

issue in the grand scheme of settlement.<br />

I advise attorneys in advance of mediation<br />

to take seriously the issue of “pet custody” and<br />

prepare for the issue with the same seriousness<br />

they take with other matters. Another alternative<br />

is to seek arbitration on the issue. In arbitration,<br />

the parties may feel more “heard” than they<br />

would in court. Often the animal issue is one<br />

given little regard or prep time by counsel but the<br />

one most likely the cause a lack in settlement. A<br />

little preparation can go a long way in a dogfight.<br />

TRACY ANN MOORE-GRANT has been<br />

practicing family law in North<br />

Georgia since 2002. She is a<br />

partner at Patterson Moore<br />

Butler in Cumming, Georgia<br />

and is also a mediator,<br />

arbitrator and guardian ad<br />

litem. You can get more information on<br />

her firm’s website at<br />

www.PattersonMooreButler.com<br />

or directly at the Amicable Divorce<br />

Network website at<br />

www.AmicableDivorceNetwork.com<br />

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LEAD<br />

Today for<br />

Tomorrow<br />

By Bernadette Leonard<br />

“The test of leadership is:<br />

is anything or anyone better<br />

because of you?” - Mark Sanborn<br />

Why do we lead? To lead is not to be on a pedestal, placed<br />

above all others. To lead is to inspire; to enrich lives; to<br />

make heroes; to leave each day better than you found it;<br />

to build lifelong relationships; to make a difference; to bring<br />

joy. Leading is guidance. A good leader walks with those<br />

around them - always beside them, constantly building them<br />

up and helping them grow. Now think to yourself: Are your<br />

footsteps worth following? Leadership is about building<br />

relationships and investing in your future. In order to create<br />

a legacy of leadership, it all starts with you.<br />

To be a good leader is to be your best self! What habits are you<br />

incorporating daily that are making a positive and lasting significance?<br />

Here are some key habits and characteristics to<br />

implement:<br />

• Preparation: time management is process that is learned<br />

and mastered.<br />

• Setting Goals: Put your biggest task first thing in the<br />

morning.<br />

• Focus: Have clarity on what is important. Will it matter just<br />

for the next 5 minutes? Or will it matter for the next 5 years?<br />

Being able to say no to what isn’t important leaves more time<br />

and focus towards what is.<br />

• Accountability Partner: Seek a mentor, friend or<br />

companion to hold you accountable in all areas of<br />

life - finance, health, career and spirituality.<br />

All four of these factors encourage discipline and will set you up for<br />

success. When you invest in yourself today, you lead yourself into a<br />

better tomorrow. We only have one mind and body, so we must nurture<br />

it. Even I have to remind myself to take time for my health, both<br />

mentally and physically, when the craze of life takes over.<br />

Once you ground yourself in these core values, natural positive<br />

behavior will take root. Behaviors start with leaders; it is how you earn<br />

respect. Values set the standard for behavior. If you embody humility,<br />

trust, servanthood, and forgiveness, your environment and those<br />

around you will be affected. Being a role model is absolutely vital to<br />

creating a positive work/life environment. Be the kind of person you<br />

want to be around.<br />

In a world that at times has uncertainty and is constantly changing,<br />

it is more important now than ever before to invest in ourselves and<br />

be the best leaders we can be so that we may leave the world and each<br />

day a little better than we found it. Continuously learning prepares<br />

you for opportunities that will keep your passion alive. Passion<br />

brings preparation, which grows to purpose and leads to prosperity.<br />

Accomplishment and happiness are feelings that will forever live in<br />

your heart and fill you up to be your best self. When you are at your<br />

best, you build future leaders for a better tomorrow.<br />

Bernadette Leonard is a beauty salon owner and coach.<br />

She is passionate about adding value to the lives around<br />

her, continuous growth and personal relationships.<br />

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BOOK REVIEW<br />

Buy<br />

Local,<br />

Read<br />

Local<br />

By Jacqueline<br />

Thompson Graves<br />

Perrie Patterson is another local writer. When I saw the title “<strong>My</strong><br />

Blood Runs Crimson” I wasn’t sure whether I would be reading a murder<br />

mystery or maybe something about native Americans or just what. Turns<br />

out her Crimson is the Alabama Crimson Tide, and the story revolves<br />

around the fraternity and sorority relationships on campus.<br />

It reminded me of something I dealt with years ago when I sold life<br />

insurance. I had a customer who was contacted by a fraternity brother.<br />

The ‘frat bro’ quoted a ridiculous price for a policy this guy didn’t need and<br />

could barely afford. I showed him what he could purchase with a fraction<br />

of the money and still provide for his family. “The policy your frat brother<br />

is selling would make him (or me) a lot of commissions,” I told him. He<br />

just could not believe his old pal would do that to him. “He would do right<br />

by me. He wouldn’t use me!” he kept insisting. He wanted so badly to give<br />

his business to his old buddy. It took a lot of research on his part to decide<br />

his frat brother was not doing him any favors.<br />

How far would most people go to help their fraternity/sorority<br />

brothers and sisters? The book explores this thought and does remind us<br />

that sometimes in life it really isn’t what you know, but who. I could say<br />

more, but I don’t want to give away your reading surprises.<br />

We also have this review copy to give away, so see how to enter for that<br />

at the end of the article.<br />

We would like to support our local writers and encourage you to share<br />

your books with our readers. I don’t know about you, but I believe some of<br />

the best writers ever came from the South.<br />

Local. It’s everywhere you go these days We are urged to eat<br />

local, shop local, buy local. I like local. Our local famers’ markets call<br />

to me. Each Wednesday and Saturday morning there are vendors at the<br />

fairgrounds parking lot. Last week was Tomato Wednesday! The grassy<br />

gathering spot at Vickery Village hosts farmers and more on Thursdays.<br />

I found fresh figs and cucumbers without wax. Of course, right there at<br />

Vickery is Rick Tanner’s restaurant – a favorite local spot to eat and drink.<br />

While we’re supporting our neighbors’ business adventures, it only<br />

makes sense to read local, too. “I’m not sure we have many local writers,”<br />

you say. I would say you need to look around. There are three writers on my<br />

street! One writes children’s books; one specializes in women’s devotionals;<br />

I do my thing.<br />

SO PLEASE ALLOW ME TO INTRODUCE YOU TO A COUPLE<br />

OF LOCAL WRITERS.<br />

Local author, “Bobin”, aka Robert Zee, writes for fun after work and on<br />

weekends. I read one of his books titled “Squeaky Chain Girl”. That’s an<br />

intriguing title for a book, isn’t it?<br />

Squeaky Chain Girl gives us a glimpse of what it means to really love<br />

someone, through the good and the bad, over the long haul, no matter how<br />

the other person treats us, even when there is no hope for the love to be<br />

returned. Although the writing is, at times, repetitive, the message comes<br />

through loud and clear.<br />

It’s a short, easy read, and I am giving away the review copy. To be<br />

entered in the drawing for the book, just leave any comment on my book<br />

review blog. (See the address at the end of the article.)<br />

Squeaky Chain Girl ISBN#: 9798643642190<br />

<strong>My</strong> Blood Runs Crimson ISBN#: 9798710265291<br />

Books can be purchased at Amazon (free with Kindle Unlimited subscription)<br />

and at Barnes & Noble<br />

To enter to win a book, visit<br />

http://www.thebookbuffet.wordpress.com<br />

and leave a comment stating which book you would like<br />

to win. There is no cost to enter. If you win you will be<br />

contacted for your snail mail address and the book will<br />

be sent to you at no charge. Please enter by 10-01-21.<br />

Jacqueline Thompson Graves lives and writes in Cumming, GA where she is currently reading a new book on the deck and has a nice pot<br />

roast in the slow cooker. She invites you to engage at her book review blog: www.thebookbuffet.wordpress.com<br />

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INTERVIEW<br />

TELL US ABOUT ONE OF YOUR FAVORITE CLIENTS.<br />

I love working with Eddie Gonzalez, tournament director for the Truist<br />

Atlanta Open tennis tournament. He trusts me and gives me a lot of<br />

freedom. As a big tennis lover, I think it would be awesome to work a grand<br />

slam or Davis Cup.<br />

HOW DO YOU MEASURE THE RESULTS OF A PR CAMPAIGN?<br />

It is important to set realistic goals at the beginning, specific to the client.<br />

Success could mean placement within a targeted news outlet, social media<br />

metrics of significance, or a percentage of sales growth. Ultimately the goal<br />

is client satisfaction.<br />

MEET PUBLIC RELATIONS GURU,<br />

BECKY<br />

ROBINSON<br />

An interview by Amy Lyle<br />

BECKY DENT ROBINSON IS THE FOUNDER AND MANAGING<br />

PARTNER OF CHATTERHOUSE COMMUNICATIONS, A<br />

MARKETING COMMUNICATIONS FIRM BASED IN ATLANTA.<br />

BECKY HAS WORKED IN THE PUBLIC RELATIONS AND<br />

MARKETING WORLD FOR 20+ YEARS AND NOW MANAGES<br />

THE DIGITAL MARKETING ARM OF THE TRUIST ATLANTA<br />

OPEN, PROFESSIONAL MEN'S TENNIS TOURNAMENT AND<br />

LEADING ATP TOUR EVENT IN THE U.S.<br />

HOW DID YOU GET INTO PUBLIC RELATIONS?<br />

Honestly, one of my friends in college said that I would be good at it.<br />

So, I looked into it after realizing I needed more of a specialized degree<br />

than my political science major. The idea of working in promotions and<br />

media relations was interesting. This decision led the way to working as a<br />

press secretary in political campaigns, which later turned into corporate<br />

marketing, and ultimately launching my own business.<br />

THERE ARE SO MANY SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS. WHAT<br />

IS YOUR ADVICE FOR BUSINESS OWNERS IN REGARD TO<br />

UTILIZING SOCIAL MEDIA?<br />

Not all social media platforms make sense for every business. You need<br />

to clearly outline your business objectives and your audience and then<br />

Don’t forget:<br />

“Everything you<br />

do or say is public<br />

relations.” – Unknown<br />

determine which space you should be in. You can exhaust yourself trying<br />

to be everywhere at once. Instead, you should focus on the platforms that<br />

will drive the best business results and allow you the best opportunity to be<br />

strategic. Social media requires a different approach for different businesses,<br />

and content is king. It is also trial and error and needs adaptation and fresh<br />

thinking to keep up with industry changes and at times, trends.<br />

WOULD YOU EVER WORK IN POLITICS AGAIN?<br />

Wow, now more than ever that is a tricky field. I loved my days on the<br />

campaign trails and do miss it. I have felt a longing for it lately with the<br />

current state of things. If I could help improve messaging or somehow<br />

contribute to a more positive outlook, I would love to. <strong>My</strong> father is an elected<br />

official back home and I really admire his dedication and sincere interest in<br />

helping his county. He is why I first became interested in politics and ended<br />

up working on for a presidential hopeful and congressman.<br />

WHAT IS A PART OF YOUR JOB THAT YOU LOVE?<br />

I love being around my clients during their most satisfying moments. When<br />

I witness the hard work on both of our parts come to fruition, that is very<br />

fulfilling. I work in the professional tennis industry, and I pinch myself when<br />

I am watching my favorite players as part of “work.”<br />

www.facebook.com/ChatterhouseCommunications<br />

www.linkedin.com/company/chatterhouse-communications/<br />

twitter.com/chattRhouse<br />

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FORSYTH FOODIE<br />

FOUNTAIN’S FOOD ADVENTURES<br />

Rendezvous Café<br />

By David Fountain<br />

Ho Eun Kim, owner of Rendezvous Café, bought her quaint café in 2019, and operates it<br />

with her daughters, Eunice, and Kimberly. After previously owning another café, Ho Eun<br />

decided that Lakeland Plaza was the perfect spot to move. This was clearly the right choice<br />

as they now have a well-deserved, vast number of loyal patrons.<br />

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This café operates as a family unit. While Ho<br />

Eun is the head of the operation, her daughter<br />

Eunice is their head baker, and Kimberly is their<br />

main barista. Together, they produce high quality<br />

food and drinks in an extremely timely manner.<br />

On the baked goods menu, you are going<br />

to find everything homemade. Their White<br />

Chocolate Lavender Scone, Gluten Free Banana<br />

Chocolate Nut Loaf, and Chocolate Chip<br />

Cookie are great options to try. Made with<br />

care everyday by Eunice, the quality is evident<br />

as soon as you take the first bite. Rendezvous<br />

also features gluten-free, and nut-free optionsperfect<br />

for dietary needs.<br />

Unfortunately, you cannot let yourself get<br />

too distracted with their scrumptious sweets,<br />

because you need to leave room for their meal<br />

options. Ho Eun Kim makes everything in<br />

house from their croissants to their hot-pressed<br />

sandwiches. The Chicken Pesto Panini, served<br />

on a perfectly pressed French roll, is a delicious<br />

lunch option. However, if you are looking for<br />

something more nutritional, their Micro Greens<br />

& Nuts Avocado Toast makes for a great meal.<br />

While the food alone creates a lot of excitement<br />

for Rendezvous Café, their drink options take<br />

this restaurant up a notch. While they offer your<br />

standard coffee and espresso drinks, they also<br />

offer “specialty drinks.” Among these drinks<br />

are the Coconut Lavender Matcha, Nutella<br />

Latte, Strawberry Matcha Latte, and more.<br />

Kimberly has become an expert at her craft and<br />

is immensely helpful if you are struggling to<br />

choose between the large variety of options. If<br />

you are concerned about milk options, do not<br />

worry. They also craft their drinks with oat milk<br />

upon request.<br />

Rendezvous Café has done a wonderful<br />

job of remaining resilient after being hit with<br />

COVID-19 less than a year into operation.<br />

Their efforts are well appreciated by their many<br />

customers and will continue to do so in the<br />

coming years.<br />

David Fountain is a local food enthusiast and our community’s Best of <strong>Forsyth</strong> Financial Planner<br />

and Investment Advisor. You can reach him at foodie@fountainsfoodadventures.com<br />

543 Lakeland Plaza,<br />

Cumming, GA 30040<br />

HOURS:<br />

Monday-Saturday:<br />

8:30 AM - 5:30 PM<br />

Sunday: Closed<br />

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A SAFE<br />

HOME<br />

FOR GIRLS<br />

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“Since 1998, adolescent girls in need of a temporary home have found shelter at Jesse’s House,<br />

<strong>Forsyth</strong> County’s shelter for girls. For 23 years, the shelter has served over 1,000 girls from all<br />

over the state of Georgia. The average length of stay ranges from eight months to two years.”<br />

Safe shelter is coupled with the provision of<br />

immediate needs – from medical to personal<br />

care. Residents receive academic support<br />

and tutoring, mentoring and enrichment<br />

activities. Counseling is also provided.<br />

Jesse’s House was named after Jesse<br />

Morris. The Larry Morris family answered<br />

the call in 1998 when, as a result of a 1996<br />

needs assessment survey for the north<br />

Georgia region conducted by Kennesaw State<br />

University, the need for an emergency shelter<br />

in <strong>Forsyth</strong> County for adolescent girls who<br />

were experiencing abuse and neglect was<br />

identified. The family donated a two bedroom<br />

home in honor of their father, Jesse.<br />

Roughly 80% of our residents have been<br />

removed from their living environment due to<br />

abuse and neglect and placed at Jesse’s House<br />

through the DFCS. The other 20% are placed<br />

with us through the <strong>Forsyth</strong> County Juvenile<br />

court. We have the capacity for 12 girls at any<br />

one time.<br />

Upon arrival at Jesse’s House, every<br />

girl receives a comprehensive intake by a<br />

multidisciplinary team to assess their physical,<br />

psychological, and educational needs. A<br />

treatment plan is then developed to address<br />

these needs and ensure every girl’s safety.<br />

“All of our girls have experienced Complex<br />

Trauma. Some have been trafficked, some have<br />

been abandoned, some have been beaten, 80%<br />

have been sexually abused, and, in no surprising<br />

coincidence, 80% have been hospitalized for<br />

suicidal ideation and self-harm before being<br />

placed with us. They have gone through so much<br />

in their short lives, so we are pretty protective<br />

of them. All of our employees are trained in<br />

Trauma-Informed Care, and to the outside<br />

person, with a well-meaning heart to give and<br />

support the girls without training, it can be<br />

more than they bargained for” stated Elizabeth<br />

Johnson, Jesse’s House Executive Director.<br />

“Our location is undisclosed to help protect<br />

our girls from those on the outside that would<br />

like to know where they are but shouldn’t have<br />

any access to them - think men who get out of<br />

jail after they serve time for raping one of our<br />

residents, or girls who have been involved with<br />

gangs, or girls who have been trafficked. For<br />

those reasons and more, all volunteers have<br />

to undergo background checks. Beyond those<br />

reasons, for the time the girls are here, this is<br />

their home, and they do not want strangers in<br />

their home, so we make it clear, in a gentle way,<br />

that we are asking for a commitment of regular<br />

volunteering from those who are looking to<br />

have any direct contact with the girls,” Johnson<br />

added. “By the time they get to us they have<br />

had too many adults in and out of their lives, so<br />

we try to keep that to a minimum. As you also<br />

might imagine, we have limited opportunities<br />

for males to volunteer outside of maintaining<br />

the facility.”<br />

“Monetary funding is one of the best ways<br />

to support our work. We have somewhere<br />

around a 25-30% deficit to make up for every<br />

day between our daily operational costs and the<br />

amount we receive in per-diem from the state,”<br />

Johnson affirmed.<br />

Each girl is given a $415 allowance from the<br />

state for clothing for the entire year.<br />

“Imagine clothing a teenage girl who may<br />

come to you wearing the only clothes and pair of<br />

shoes she owns for $415 a year. Get her a coat and<br />

shoes, basics like underwear and socks, and see<br />

how much you have leftover for clothing through<br />

all seasons. If they are 13 and hit a growth spurt<br />

and need new clothes, they have to wait until<br />

they get their allowance for the following year.<br />

With a budget like that, even committing to<br />

give as little as $10, $20, $25 a month to Jesse’s<br />

House can make a big difference in what we<br />

can rely on to budget for clothing these girls, so<br />

they feel like they fit in with their peers when<br />

they walk through the door to school every<br />

morning,” Johnson asserted. ““We also give each<br />

new resident a hygiene bag with essentials like<br />

shampoo, conditioner, toothpaste.”<br />

Johnson shared an example of an interaction<br />

with a young lady who was placed in their care.<br />

“One evening, I handed a hygiene bag to a girl<br />

who had been living in a van in Hall County.<br />

JESSE’S HOUSE INC., originally<br />

known as the <strong>Forsyth</strong> County Youth<br />

Shelter, was founded in 1998 as a<br />

result of a 1996 needs assessment<br />

survey for the north Georgia region<br />

conducted by Kennesaw State<br />

University. In the beginning, we were<br />

able to serve seven residents. Now<br />

we have the capacity to serve 12.<br />

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“Is this for me to keep?” she asked. I answered “Of course. It’s just some<br />

essentials like soap, shampoo, toothpaste.” She looked up at me and said<br />

“Well, when you’ve been washing your hair in the lake, this is a pretty<br />

big deal.”<br />

The young lady had been living in a van with her father and sister for<br />

some time, parking in different lots around Lake Lanier every night so<br />

they would not get caught.<br />

“She went to school every day, in fact most of her classes were advanced<br />

or AP classes, earning A’s and B’s,” Johnson added. “Imagine the courage,<br />

strength and determination it would take just to walk into school every<br />

morning. Now imagine choosing to go into the most competitive classes,<br />

filled with kids that have every advantage that you do not have. She did<br />

not have a laptop to complete an assignment. She did not even have heat,<br />

electricity, running water.”<br />

Johnson added, “In the years that I have been at Jesse’s House, 80% of<br />

our girls have reported they have been sexually abuse. Some have never<br />

talked about it before coming to Jesse’s House, and some do not even<br />

realize they were victims. They just know that sometimes they cannot fight<br />

the persistent urge to cut themselves. And sometimes out of nowhere their<br />

heart starts racing and they feel like they cannot breathe. It should come<br />

as no surprise that most of our girls are battling any number of mental<br />

illnesses such as depression, anxiety, bi-polar disorder, or PTSD. Some<br />

don’t want to go home, but most, even in the face of abuse and neglect,<br />

worry they will never go home, and when they find out they won’t, they<br />

worry about what is going to happen to them.”<br />

LEADERSHIP<br />

As a 501(c)3 non-profit organization, Jesse’s House in led by a volunteer<br />

Board of Directors, led by Board Chair Bruce Kidwell. Bruce is the Vice<br />

President of Global Customs Brokerage and Trade Advisory Services at<br />

UPS Supply Chain Solutions.<br />

“I first started as a volunteer at Jesse’s House back in 2006. Having five<br />

children of my own of which four of them are girls, I was drawn to Jesse’s<br />

House to give back. Little did I know after that first visit and hearing<br />

firsthand how Jesse’s House is there to provide the healing that is so<br />

needed for young ladies that have been through so much, I was completely<br />

‘all in’ in supporting Jesse’s House from a monetary support standpoint<br />

and giving of my time. As the years went by, I was asked to be on the<br />

Board of Directors and eventually asked to take the President of the Board<br />

role. What I have learned through all of this is that you have to take that<br />

first step, get involved, understand what and how Jesse’s House is changing<br />

lives. It has dramatically affected me positively both professionally and<br />

personally in being part of something that truly makes a difference when<br />

a difference is needed most.”<br />

Joining Kidwell are Beth Hebert, PhD, Jose Cherres, Alesia Ackerman,<br />

Micaela Brady, Michael Barlow, Nicole Bini, Molly Bradley, Sonja Bullard,<br />

Shawn LaFave, Claire McDonald, Peggie Morrow, Precilla Saint-Jean, and<br />

Lynn Shivers.<br />

Along with Johnson, the agency’s Executive Director, 13 Direct Care<br />

Staff, one Direct Care Supervisor, two Human Services Professional, and<br />

a shelter manager, provide the day-to-day services and operational staffing<br />

needed to efficiently run Jesse’s House.<br />

MILESTONES<br />

Jesse’s House celebrated the Class of 2021 as two of its residents completed<br />

their high school studies and graduated. For the 5th year in a row, Jesse’s<br />

House has a 100% on-time graduation rate among its residents. In the<br />

state of Georgia, only 6-8% of children in foster care graduate on time.<br />

A recent graduate said it best. “I mean, what are the odds of me<br />

actually finishing. No one in my family, grandparents, aunts, uncles, no<br />

one has ever graduated from high school. It felt like it would never happen<br />

for me. I’m proud that I just kept pushing forward and never gave in.”<br />

There is no giving up at Jesse’s House. There’s hard work, assistance,<br />

and collaboration among all who can help provide a safe place for girls to<br />

thrive and fulfill their goals.<br />

P.O. Box 3318 | Cumming, GA 30028 | 678-947-6217<br />

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Benefits of Minimally<br />

Invasive Surgery<br />

By Dr. Natu Mmbaga<br />

MEDICAL ADVANCEMENTS IN WOMEN’S HEALTH<br />

HAVE PROVIDED SIGNIFICANT IMPROVEMENTS IN THE<br />

MANAGEMENT OF A MYRIAD OF CONDITIONS. With<br />

minimally invasive procedures readily available, women now<br />

have several treatment options for a variety of gynecologic issues,<br />

including abnormal bleeding or periods, ovarian cysts, pelvic pain,<br />

uterine fibroids, amongst other conditions. These minimally invasive<br />

procedures offer countless benefits over traditional surgery.<br />

As a gynecologist, women frequently present to our office<br />

complaining of heavy or prolonged periods. In the past, management<br />

was limited to birth control pills and IUDs or surgical interventions as<br />

drastic as a hysterectomy. Current options are far less risky and allow<br />

for very little down time. One such option is an Endometrial ablation,<br />

a common procedure utilized to decrease the volume and length of<br />

a woman’s menses. Performed in our state-of-the-art office with no<br />

incisions, a woman can drastically improve the quality of her life with<br />

minimal risks via ablation. All of which is done in approximately 5<br />

minutes with minimal pain and downtime. With its utilization, women<br />

can avoid the sometimes-undesired prolonged hormone exposure of<br />

birth control pills and the surgical risks involved with a hysterectomy.<br />

In the event findings or symptoms require something more<br />

significant be done, robotic surgery has revolutionized gynecologic<br />

surgery. With a decreased risk of bleeding, infection, hospital stay,<br />

and post-operative pain, robotic surgery can be utilized to complete<br />

a hysterectomy, ovarian cyst removal, treatment of endometriosis and<br />

removal of uterine fibroids. Patients are ambulating and resuming<br />

normal activities soon after procedures that would have otherwise<br />

required extensive recovery. At Modern OB/GYN of North Atlanta, our<br />

physicians are advanced robotic surgeons capable of treating complex<br />

gynecologic conditions with skill and compassion. These minimally<br />

invasive techniques enable us to take excellent care of our patients with<br />

the most current technologies in the safest way possible.<br />

Modern OBGYN has three convenient office locations. Visit our newest office at Avalon in Alpharetta located at<br />

2710 Old Milton Parkway Suite 100, Alpharetta, GA 30009. For more information on our practice and providers,<br />

visit www.reyesobgyn.com.<br />

Dr. Natu Mmbaga is a board-certified Diplomate of The American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology and<br />

a member of the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists. Dr. Mmbaga is also a member of the<br />

American Association of Gynecologic Laparoscopists. She attended OB/GYN Residency training at Yale, completing<br />

four years training at Yale New Haven Hospital.<br />

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By Nathan Cleaver<br />

AESTHETIC TREATMENTS<br />

One of the most commonly asked questions I receive is what the best esthetic treatment for<br />

the summer months. While certain patient preferences and precautions can help guide this<br />

answer, there are two treatments, besides cosmetic injectables (Botox® and fillers), that are<br />

my preferred maintenance treatments for most skin types.<br />

Our traditional laser systems include the IPL laser<br />

(intense pulsed light), vascular pulsed dye laser,<br />

CO2 fractionated laser and a picosecond tattoo<br />

and pigment laser. These treatments selectively<br />

target one of three common components in<br />

the skin: hemoglobin (contents of a red blood<br />

cell), melanin (pigment that is produced by a<br />

melanocyte), and water. During the peak of<br />

summer, most of our clients will spend enough<br />

time outside that they will naturally be slightly<br />

darker than their normal skin tone. By having<br />

an artificially darker background skin tone, this<br />

obscures the target of the laser. For this reason, I<br />

prefer to avoid the above laser treatments during<br />

the peak of summer, and instead, scheduling them<br />

for late fall. Having this treatment performed in<br />

mid-summer can cause an adverse reaction for<br />

hyperpigmentation (darkening of the skin)<br />

HYDRAFACIAL<br />

This unique device creates a customized facial<br />

experience based on the client’s skin type. This<br />

facial has a proprietary facial tip that allows<br />

concurrent extraction of pores with infusion of<br />

a customized peel. This peel can be customized<br />

to target acne and rosacea prone skin types,<br />

background of hyperpigmentation, anti-aging<br />

effects, and for hydration effects. This leaves the<br />

skin with a rejuvenated texture and tone and<br />

has no down-time without any risk for postinflammatory<br />

pigmentation.<br />

RADIOFREQUENCY<br />

(SUBLATIVE AND MICRONEEDLING)<br />

Radiofrequency when applied to the skin provides<br />

heat and controlled thermal injury at certain<br />

depths within the skin. Depending on what<br />

depth in the skin and what your overall goal for<br />

improvement is, will depend on which modality<br />

to incorporate. The microneedling device allows<br />

targeted heating of the deeper dermis (the layer of<br />

skin below the epidermis), to allow for remodeling<br />

of collagen to create a tightening and toning<br />

effect of the skin. The subative tip provides more<br />

superficial heat application, which can also address<br />

textural inconsistencies within the skin while also<br />

allowing for a mid-dermal toning effect of the skin.<br />

The down time for these treatments is<br />

minimal, with two to three days of aggressive<br />

sun protection with sunscreen and barrier<br />

precautions, without the increased risk of<br />

hyperpigmentation. These treatments achieve<br />

best results with a series of treatments separated<br />

at 4 to 6 week intervals.<br />

As always, it is best to create a customized<br />

plan with your board certified dermatologist and<br />

an experienced esthetician to achieve the optimal<br />

results for your skin concerns. Lastly, make sure<br />

you lather that sunscreen on early and reapply<br />

often! Sunscreen will not only keep your skin<br />

youthful but will also help keep away ultraviolet<br />

damage that can lead to skin cancers.<br />

Nathan Cleaver DO, FAAD is a board-certified dermatologist and fellowship trained Mohs micrographic surgeon<br />

specializing in the medical and surgical management of melanoma and non-melanoma skin cancer, cosmetic<br />

procedural dermatology, in addition to routine medical dermatology. His office locations are in Cumming,<br />

Dawsonville, and Dahlonega. He may be reached at 770-800-3455.<br />

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Changing Behavior<br />

and Weight One<br />

Shot at a Time<br />

By Narendra Singh, MD<br />

The pandemic has brought out the best and worst in us with respect<br />

to weight management. During the shelter in place stage many of us<br />

found solace through treks to the fridge and the TV. That decadent<br />

duo led to unprecedented weight gain for many. Others found that a<br />

less hectic lifestyle and more outdoor activities allowed for weight loss<br />

and overall improved cardiovascular fitness.<br />

discontinuation rate was under 5% in this trial.<br />

The main side effects of the medication also<br />

contributes to its success. Semaglutide causes<br />

delayed gastric emptying and slows down transit<br />

time through the gut. It also reduces glucagon<br />

(normally raises sugar) and increases insulin<br />

(normally lowers sugar) as well as working on the<br />

brain to curb appetite. The net effect of all this is<br />

to give a feeling of fullness in the stomach which<br />

reduces the desire to eat. Should you choose to<br />

overindulge the side effects kick in (nausea,<br />

vomiting, constipation, diarrhea, and bloating).<br />

As a result, you are less likely to overeat the next<br />

time! This negative feedback loop is an important<br />

behavioral change that will contribute to your<br />

weight loss success.<br />

Semaglutide first started as a medication<br />

for the treatment of type 2 diabetes. An oral<br />

formulation (Rybelsus) and an injectable<br />

formulation (Ozempic) improve the A1c level in<br />

diabetics while causing weight loss. Importantly<br />

in the diabetic population semagutide has<br />

been shown to be safe and help reduce serious<br />

cardiovascular events such as heart attacks,<br />

stroke, and death. Our research team at NSC<br />

Cardiology is involved in a worldwide trial called<br />

SELECT to see if semaglutide in overweight<br />

individuals without diabetes can show the same<br />

cardiovascular benefit!<br />

Mechanical options to lose weight such as<br />

the gastric balloon, bariatric surgery and lapband<br />

procedures also exist but are reserved for<br />

conventional treatment failures. Drugs should<br />

never be first line therapy. Our current strategies<br />

however are not effective enough to curb this<br />

other pandemic called obesity. We need to use all<br />

our resources to help reverse projected trends. If<br />

diet and exercise are not getting you to goal, then<br />

see your health care provider about some of these<br />

promising new options!<br />

We are not, however, winning the battle over<br />

obesity. A staggering 42.4% of the USA population<br />

is deemed obese defined as a BMI (body mass<br />

index) of greater than 30. BMI tables can easily<br />

be found on the web and require only your height<br />

and weight to calculate. A BMI between 23-27 is<br />

healthy, 27-30 is overweight, 30-40 is obese and<br />

greater than 40 is morbidly obese.<br />

<strong>My</strong> previous articles have focused on the key<br />

steps to losing weight. They are not complicated<br />

but a challenge to sustain over time. Key<br />

strategies include avoiding refined sugars and<br />

sugar-sweetened drinks, eating more protein,<br />

eating less carbohydrates, eating more fiber-rich<br />

foods, exercising regularly, reducing portion size,<br />

tracking your food intake, eating slowly, and<br />

getting good quality sleep.<br />

Unfortunately for many, dietary changes and<br />

exercise are not enough. Some supplements such<br />

as caffeine and green tea extract have provided<br />

modest benefit. Weight loss pills in the past have<br />

had limited success and a poor safety profile<br />

with many being pulled from the market. A new<br />

class of medications called GLP-1 RA (glucagon<br />

like peptide receptor agonist) hope to change<br />

that trend. The first to be approved was a daily<br />

injection called liraglutide (Saxenda). More<br />

recently a weekly injection semaglutide (Wegovy)<br />

has become the leader in this class. In a pivotal<br />

trial of about 2000 overweight individuals there<br />

was a 15% weight loss (average of 33 lb.) over 68<br />

weeks. The top dose was 2.4 mg per week and the<br />

NARENDRA SINGH, MD,<br />

FRCP(C), FACC, FAHA<br />

Clinical Assistant Professor, Medical College<br />

of Georgia at Augusta University,<br />

Director, Clinical Research<br />

Director, Clinical Research, NSC Research,<br />

Atlanta, GA<br />

Director, Canadian Collaborative Research<br />

Network<br />

Affiliated with North Atlanta Heart and<br />

Vascular Center<br />

1400 Northside <strong>Forsyth</strong> Dr. | Suite 340<br />

Cumming GA 30041<br />

5400 Laurel Springs Pkwy. | Suite 1401<br />

Johns Creek GA 30024.<br />

(770) 887-3255<br />

DrSingh@nsccardiology.com<br />

heartdrsingh.com<br />

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Keeping Your Eyes Healthy<br />

While Facing Diabetes<br />

By Mira Sivan OD, AAOMC<br />

IF YOU HAVE DIABETES, YOU ARE<br />

MOST LIKELY AWARE THAT YOU ARE<br />

AT RISK FOR VISION PROBLEMS. High<br />

blood sugar can lead to problems like blurry<br />

vision, glaucoma, cataracts, and retinopathy.<br />

As a matter of fact, diabetes is the primary<br />

cause of blindness in adults ages 20 to 74. This is<br />

why it’s critical to have an optometrist examine<br />

your eyes regularly to evaluate your eyes before<br />

you notice any side effects of vision problems.<br />

Cataracts, which can cause blindness,<br />

develop at a younger age, and progress faster<br />

in adults with diabetes over people without<br />

diabetes. People with diabetes are twice as likely<br />

to develop cataracts. High blood sugar levels<br />

cause a build-up of cells and proteins in the eye’s<br />

lens which makes it cloudy.<br />

Believe it or not, most major eye diseases<br />

caused by diabetes only take five to ten years to<br />

develop. Damage to your eyes from uncontrolled<br />

blood sugar develops over time but can cause<br />

major issues.<br />

Did you know with diabetes you may be<br />

more likely to get eye infections like pink eye<br />

too? If your diabetes is not controlled properly,<br />

it can lower your immune system which lowers<br />

the ability for your body to fight off any type of<br />

infection. You can keep eye infections at bay,<br />

keep your blood sugar levels under good control,<br />

wash your hands, and do not touch your eyes as<br />

often as possible.<br />

Needless to say, when you have diabetes, it<br />

is important to control your blood sugar levels<br />

as much as possible. Many optometrists will not<br />

prescribe contact lenses or glasses to diabetics<br />

who do not have their sugar levels under control,<br />

because sugar spikes can affect your vision and<br />

the prescription they would prescribe would not<br />

be accurate.<br />

You should reach out to your<br />

optometrist if you suffer from any<br />

of these symptoms as they can<br />

signal an emergency:<br />

• Flashes of light<br />

• Any holes in your vision<br />

• Black spots in your vision<br />

• Blurred vision<br />

Mira Sivan OD, AAOMC Optometrist and Orthokeratologist | FOR YOUR EYES ONLY EYECARE | 678-648-5185 | www.fyeo-eyecare.com<br />

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MINDFULNESS<br />

FOR SELF-CARE<br />

By Ashley Baer<br />

Mindfulness is a buzz word that is popping up all over, but what is it, and how can it help<br />

you? Mindfulness is moment to moment purposeful awareness without judging what<br />

is happening in that specific moment. In laymen’s terms, it is being aware of what you<br />

are doing when you are doing it while staying out of the past or future, truly showing<br />

up for your life. A study by Harvard University, showed we lose almost 47% of our life<br />

lost in thought. I don’t know about you but I do not want to miss a minute of this life!<br />

So how do you practice Mindfulness? Think of mindfulness as an umbrella,<br />

and under it are many ways to become mindful such as meditation,<br />

mindful movement, mindful eating, or simply asking yourself, “Where is<br />

my mind right now?” Even as you read this, the mind may drift into the<br />

past, future or simply daydreaming.<br />

A few simple Mindful practices to add into your day are:<br />

• Start your day with gratitude. The mind cannot be both negative<br />

and grateful at once.<br />

• Take five minutes to meditate.<br />

• Throughout the day, notice where your mind is, bring it to what is<br />

happening right now.<br />

• Pause throughout your day to take five deep breaths.<br />

• Take movement breaks-take a walk or stretch.<br />

• Get outside in nature.<br />

Mindfulness benefits us physically, emotionally, and mentally. Studies<br />

show practicing mindfulness reduces stress, anxiety, increases focus,<br />

improves sleep, decreases blood pressure, boosts the immune system,<br />

and improves overall happiness. Why aren’t we all doing it?<br />

As a mindfulness and meditation teacher, I often hear excuses on why<br />

it can’t be done such as, “Oh, I have too many thoughts,” or “I don’t<br />

have time.” Too many thoughts are the human condition as we all have<br />

between 60,000 and 70,000 thoughts per day. Science shows that it only<br />

takes five minutes to rewire the brain. Aren’t you worth five minutes? If<br />

your mind is not in this moment, you are missing this moment!<br />

ASHLEY BAER is a meditation and teacher on<br />

the app Insight Timer. To learn more, visit her<br />

page: http://insig.ht/ashleybaer


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Sawnee Reading<br />

WARRiors:<br />

A Program Honoring Shannon Warr<br />

School personnel decided Shannon’s<br />

passion for reading and education would<br />

not end. “Our team spoke about different<br />

ways to remember Shannon and continue<br />

her legacy,” explained Derrick Hershey,<br />

Sawnee Elementary School Principal.<br />

And so was Sawnee’s Reading<br />

WARRior Program born.<br />

“Our goal is to have a book in the hands<br />

of every student that walks into our<br />

school,” stated Sharon Hamilton, Sawnee<br />

Elementary School’s Bookkeeper.<br />

Every kindergarten student upon<br />

entering Sawnee will receive a book;<br />

Every 5th grade student leaving Sawnee<br />

Elementary will receive a book – one they<br />

take home and it theirs to keep.<br />

Why a book? Because ownership of<br />

a book is just the start of opening a world<br />

of possibilities. The benefits of early<br />

reading are numerous, and include:<br />

Brain development: Reading is like<br />

exercise for the brain! The young mind<br />

is like a sponge that absorbs knowledge<br />

and the earlier a child reads the better.<br />

Early vocabulary development: A<br />

behavior instilled at an early age is<br />

a behavior learned for life. Exposing<br />

children to words at an earlier age<br />

introduces them to lots of new<br />

vocabulary and helps them understand<br />

how words are used in different contexts.<br />

Improved reading: The more words<br />

kids are exposed to by reading, the<br />

better their comprehension skills.<br />

When Sawnee Elementary School’s beloved<br />

Media Specialist Shannon Warr died after a<br />

long batter with cancer, the school personnel<br />

felt the loss of one of their greatest assets.<br />

A remarkable teacher, colleague and friend<br />

was no longer around the corridor or at the<br />

library. Her spirit, however, was still alive.<br />

Better writing: Writing is a skill.<br />

Whether it’s writing simple things like<br />

birthday cards or complex things like job<br />

applications in later life, knowing good<br />

words makes all the difference!<br />

Better communication: When children<br />

are exposed to a wide range of words,<br />

including those which carry different<br />

meanings depending on their context,<br />

they can communicate better and<br />

express themselves in more ways.<br />

Creating a hobby: Why do you think kids<br />

always want to be read bedtime stories?<br />

Because it’s fun for them and a soothing<br />

activity before drifting off to sleep.<br />

Professional skills: It’s no secret that<br />

high proficiency in English is needed in<br />

various types of jobs and listed as an<br />

acquired skill.<br />

A special note is attached<br />

to every book.<br />

“You have been selected as a Reading<br />

WARRior because you are brave and will<br />

fight to do what is right. The book was<br />

donated in memory of another WARRior,<br />

Mrs. Shannon Warr. She was a teacher/<br />

media specialist at Sawnee Elementary<br />

from 2014-2020. She inspired others by<br />

her bravery, positive attitude, and love of<br />

reading. You are receiving this book as<br />

a legacy from one Reading WARRior to<br />

another. Be brave. Be a positive force in the<br />

world. Be a reader.”<br />

To donate to the Sawnee Reading<br />

Warrior Program visit<br />

https://tinyurl.com/ReadingWarrior<br />

Dream Big. Dare to<br />

Fail. Stay Strong.<br />

Be Positive.<br />

- Shannon Warr<br />

ABOUT SHANNON WARR<br />

Shannon was born in Atlanta and attended<br />

Pace Academy. She then received a B.A. in<br />

English from Sophie Newcomb College of<br />

Tulane University where she was a member<br />

of the Chi Omega fraternity. After getting<br />

married and the birth of her first child, she<br />

obtained a B.S. in Early Childhood Education<br />

from Thomas College and a master’s in<br />

education from Piedmont College. Shannon<br />

worked for over 20 years in <strong>Forsyth</strong> County<br />

elementary schools including Daves Creek,<br />

Sharon, Johns Creek, and Sawnee, working<br />

as a Gifted Teacher, Classroom Teacher,<br />

and Media Specialist. She also enjoyed<br />

travelling with her family and visited<br />

over 25 countries on 4 continents. When<br />

diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer, she<br />

was disappointed at the lack of knowledge<br />

and support among those similarly situated.<br />

In response, she started a YouTube channel<br />

to chronicle her journey with treatment<br />

and to offer education and support to<br />

those themselves or with family members<br />

on the same path. Her video journals had<br />

hundreds of subscribers and encouraged<br />

viewers from all over the world.<br />

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Mountain Education<br />

Charter High School:<br />

THE FIRST CHOICE FOR A SECOND CHANCE<br />

Often referred to as non-traditional schools, charter schools<br />

provide education at the same level as traditional schools while<br />

allowing for some flexibility in schedule and classes for students<br />

who are not able to meet the standards for time set by conventional<br />

school systems.<br />

Mountain Education Charter High School (MECS) a charter<br />

high school that provides students with top notch education in<br />

an environment where partnerships are built with local schools,<br />

teachers, and other partners to provide students with a wellrounded<br />

education.<br />

“By partnering with local school systems, families and community<br />

partners, we are able to nurture education excellence by engaging our<br />

students in a meaningful learning experience in a student-centered,<br />

self-paced, evening high school,” explained Site Administrator Kim<br />

Barnes. “We offer course credit recovery for students so that they can<br />

stay on track for graduation, dual enrollment opportunities to jumpstart<br />

the college experience, and a hands-on approach to finding out<br />

the best course of action for each student.”<br />

The school and its faculty, leadership and students are<br />

led by the following guiding principles: excellence, servant<br />

leadership, empowerment, integrity, community, and meaningful<br />

human relationships.<br />

Mountain Education Charter High School (MECS) has<br />

partnered with Pearson Education/GradPoint, Apex Learning®,<br />

Odysseyware®, and ©USA Test Prep to design and implement<br />

appropriate and individualized curriculum that focuses on state<br />

standards.<br />

COURSE OFFERINGS INCLUDE:<br />

• CTAE/Electives<br />

• Health/Personal Fitness<br />

• English<br />

• Math<br />

• Science<br />

• Social Studies<br />

• Foreign Language<br />

Anyone who attends a graduation ceremony for a senior class<br />

will leave with a heart full of hope for our future. Mothers,<br />

fathers, grandparents, siblings, teachers, administrators – a<br />

myriad of individuals with one common desire – to celebrate the<br />

accomplishments of every student who, despite challenges and<br />

turbulent circumstances, and against all odds, marched across the<br />

stage to receive their high school diploma.<br />

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A young mother who, as a sophomore in high school<br />

found out she was pregnant, continued her education with the<br />

flexibility the MECS provided. With the help of her family,<br />

completed her courses. Along with her daughter, Micayla<br />

Puffer celebrated her graduation and the accolades that<br />

come from earning the highest G.P.A. for their year among<br />

her classmates.<br />

The support, mentorship, and guidance that each student<br />

receives is a welcomed relief to those who otherwise may have<br />

given up on school.<br />

Enrollment is open for both full-time students and credit<br />

recovery students. There is no charge for full-time students.<br />

Students who are jointly enrolled with a regular day school<br />

program will pay determined tuition costs. Tuition costs may<br />

vary based on the school district in which the student is enrolled<br />

full time.<br />

A board of directors oversees the charter school’s operations,<br />

budgets, and more. Charter schools are available in numerous<br />

counties, including Bartow, Cherokee, Dawson, Gilmer, Pickens,<br />

Stephens, and White counties, to name a few.<br />

Through the generous donations made by faculty, staff, parents,<br />

and friends in the communities we serve- MECHS is able to provide<br />

support for scholarships, student projects, faculty development,<br />

community engagement, and other student initiatives.<br />

For more information about Mountain Education Charter<br />

High School, visit www.mymec.org.<br />

1160 Dahlonega Highway | Cumming, GA 30040<br />

678.965.4971<br />

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TIPS To Overcome Emotional Overwhelm<br />

For Peace, Productivity and Perspective<br />

By Christine Roberts<br />

DOES THIS EVER HAPPEN TO YOU?<br />

You wake up in a cold sweat thinking<br />

about a bunch of “stuff”...<br />

...and the more you lay there the worse<br />

it gets...<br />

Or you are sitting at your desk and the<br />

list of personal and work “to dos” stops<br />

you in your tracks and makes you feel<br />

stuck as you freeze up and worry.<br />

You cannot do anything because your<br />

mind and heart are racing.<br />

or punctuation...and if you throw in some cuss<br />

words, that’s ok. The point here is to get everything<br />

out of your head into tangible form. The benefits?<br />

It can counteract negative effects of stress and<br />

strengthen your immune system response!<br />

Second, now walk away. Once you have emptied<br />

your mind, change gears and change environments.<br />

When you get outside your perspective changes,<br />

which allows you to recalibrate your thinking so<br />

you can come back to your brain dump with a<br />

fresh outlook on the things that were causing the<br />

overwhelm, which allows you to approach it with<br />

intention and make adjustments.<br />

of us to stifle our emotions and are rewarded<br />

for keeping our feelings under wraps which<br />

contributes to the vicious cycle of emotional<br />

overwhelm. The antidote can be simple: slow<br />

down and notice your breathing. Check out a<br />

guided meditation. I personally enjoy Deepak<br />

Chopra and Oprah’s various meditations. You can<br />

also search for guided meditations that “walk”<br />

you through the process. Or simply, sit anywhere<br />

that you are comfortable, close your eyes, focus<br />

on your breath inhaling and exhaling deeply. Do<br />

this for at least 3-5 minutes, although longer is<br />

better. This habit will allow you to experience a<br />

tremendous difference in your level of peace.<br />

The crushing feeling of overwhelm is<br />

taking you down.<br />

Ugh...yes, I know the feeling...been there, done<br />

that...and still do that sometimes! However, there<br />

are 3 specific tips that will help you overcome<br />

this emotional overwhelm and provide you with<br />

the peace, productivity, and perspective that you<br />

need to get you unstuck and move forward.<br />

First, do a brain dump. That’s right, get it all<br />

out! All those voices swirling around need to<br />

get out of your head and transfer to a written<br />

document. You can write, journal, type, talk-totext—whichever<br />

allows the words to flow out<br />

stream of thought. Don’t worry about grammar<br />

Neuroscience studies show that getting outside<br />

improves your health because you’re breathing in<br />

phytoncides—airborne chemicals produced by<br />

plants—increases our levels of white blood cells,<br />

helping us fight off infections and diseases.<br />

Third, breathe. Your breathing becomes shallow<br />

when you feel stressed...and we often don’t realize<br />

it! This causes your blood pressure and heart rate<br />

to increase. Our culture has programmed many<br />

When we can get caught up in patterns of<br />

thought that don’t serve us, they can become<br />

well-worn paths. Reset your thinking and your<br />

mindset with these three tips: brain dump, walk<br />

outside, breathe—and you will be well on your<br />

way to peace, productivity, and perspective.<br />

For more ways to feel long-lasting peace and<br />

productivity, take my Mindset quiz to figure out<br />

what kind of reset is best for you.<br />

Would love to hear from you, leave a comment or connect on FB and Instagram<br />

@ ChristineMRoberts10 and/or LI @ Christine-M-Roberts with your thoughts, or<br />

visit ChristineMRoberts.com<br />

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Academies of<br />

Creative Education<br />

A FRESH START. ANOTHER WAY. A HOME TEAM.<br />

These are, fundamentally, the reasons the Academies<br />

of Creative Education (ACE) exist. Comprised of <strong>Forsyth</strong><br />

Academy, Gateway Academy, and <strong>Forsyth</strong> Virtual Academy,<br />

ACE houses non-traditional educational programs that support<br />

students and families who need something a little different from<br />

the traditional school experience.<br />

While the start of any school year is always exciting and filled with<br />

the promise of new adventures, this year in particular held special<br />

meaning for the faculty and staff of ACE, as well as the students and<br />

their families. This is because for the first time since the inception<br />

of these programs, all three were united under one beautifully<br />

constructed roof, thoughtfully designed to meet ACE’s unique needs<br />

while providing a state-of-the-art facility in which to learn, teach, and<br />

lead. Who could ask for a better way to start a new school year?<br />

While the structure itself is beyond comparison, what has been<br />

truly extraordinary to watch is how the space has come to life,<br />

changing each day as it morphs from just an incredible building<br />

into a home. In preparing for the year, Mr. Drew Hayes, the<br />

principal of ACE, decided the theme for the year would focus on<br />

being a HOME TEAM for kids and<br />

families, especially those who struggle<br />

to find a sense of belonging. Acknowledging how a true sense of<br />

home does not just happen, Mr. Hayes spoke about how people,<br />

particularly this team of dynamic educators, create, cultivate, and<br />

nurture a sense of home. The goal: for every student to know the<br />

feeling of belonging, safety, and comfort of home.<br />

For the ACE team, home is a place where everyone gets a fresh start,<br />

every day. How many times have you or someone close to you, needed<br />

another chance, just one more? And then, after getting that chance,<br />

maybe needed another one, and probably one more along the way. One<br />

of ACE’s teachers aptly compared what ACE does to the concept of a<br />

video game—you mess up, you click the button and go again. The idea<br />

of infinite opportunities. One more chance is why ACE exists.<br />

Home is also about finding another way, a better way. Our<br />

world is changing so fast, and in the ACE home, everyone knows<br />

there is not just one way to learn, to solve a problem, or to best<br />

work with children. Often, we all have to, and get to, figure out<br />

another, alternative way to help our kids be successful.<br />

ACE is grateful to Superintendent Dr. Jeff Bearden, the <strong>Forsyth</strong><br />

County Board of Education, and the community for having the<br />

vision to provide the new ACE building and support alternative<br />

learning opportunities for all children and families of <strong>Forsyth</strong>.<br />

Drew Hayes is the principal of ACE. He can be reached at dhayes@forsyth.k12.ga. us.<br />

Bethany Blumenshine is one of the assistant principals with ACE. She can be reached at<br />

bblumenshine@forsyth.k12.ga.us.<br />

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The ACE Gaming Lab is open to all students and<br />

encourages creative play, resiliency, and teamwork.<br />

The media center was designed to not only encourage<br />

a love of reading, but also to provide a variety of<br />

collaboration spaces for staff and students alike.<br />

Principal Drew Hayes and Assistant Principals Bethany Blumenshine,<br />

Gail Freund, and Phil Lyerly gather at the Grand Opening in July to<br />

celebrate the new building with the community.<br />

One of two cafes, the main ACE cafeteria creates an inviting atmosphere with all the<br />

natural light and delicious smells from the kitchen. Not only does the cafe serve ACE<br />

students, but other district employees are also welcome for breakfast and lunch.<br />

Tucked in a favorite corner in the media<br />

center, Harry Potter has also found his<br />

home with ACE.<br />

ACADEMIES OF CREATIVE Education School<br />

1160 Dahlonega Highway, Cumming, GA 30040 | 770.781.3141 | www.forsyth.k12.ga.us/forsythacademy<br />

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Mighty and<br />

Focused.<br />

Dedicated and<br />

inspirational.<br />

WHEN DENISE CARLETON RIDES INTO A ROOM,<br />

PAY ATTENTION. NOTHING GOES TO WASTE.<br />

Carleton is the founder and at the impetus<br />

behind Teacher Reuse Exchange (TRE), a<br />

non-profit organization that enables teacher<br />

in <strong>Forsyth</strong> County public, private, pre-K or<br />

home schools (not virtual learning), as well as<br />

other <strong>Forsyth</strong> County nonprofits who serve<br />

children, to have access to new and gently<br />

used materials for classroom and educational<br />

use. Nothing stops this dynamic force, not<br />

even a tragic accident that left Carleton with a<br />

T4 spinal injury. Carleton is paralyzed from<br />

the waist down.<br />

“The TRE opened on July 22, 2020. It<br />

provides an innovative approach to the<br />

recovery and reuse of teacher, school,<br />

business and community discards and<br />

donations,” Carleton explained. “We want to<br />

keep items out of the landfill and put them in<br />

the hands of teachers and children. Let's fill<br />

classrooms - Not the landfill!”<br />

The TRE is dedicated to and operated<br />

exclusively for non-profit purposes and<br />

promotes an ethic of conservation and reuse<br />

of valuable reusable resources. The program's<br />

mission is to enable local educators to have<br />

access to free materials for classroom use<br />

and to divert reusable resources from the<br />

landfill. Organizers provide free instructional<br />

materials to educators, donated by businesses,<br />

individuals, and manufacturers.<br />

If you would like to partner or sponsor the TRE or have<br />

any questions, please call, or text Denise Carleton at<br />

770-490-1083 or email carleton.denise@gmail.com.<br />

www.reapingnature.org<br />

763 Peachtree Parkway, Unit 4<br />

Brannon Office Park, Cumming, GA 30041<br />

Open Tuesdays & Thursdays - 4pm to 6pm<br />

Donations by Appointment Only<br />

TRE STEERING COMMITTEE<br />

Denise Carleton<br />

Executive Director<br />

Lindsey Adams<br />

<strong>Forsyth</strong> County Schools Board of Education<br />

and Former Teacher<br />

Marilene Cunningham<br />

Sawnee Women’s Club and Retired Teacher<br />

Sue Javors<br />

Sawnee Women’s Club and Retired Teacher<br />

Denise Webb<br />

<strong>Forsyth</strong> County Schools Teacher and Keep<br />

<strong>Forsyth</strong> County Beautiful board member<br />

Christine Murphy<br />

Sawnee Women’s Club and Former Teacher<br />

Hadley Bates<br />

Anshul Chandwadkar<br />

High School Representatives<br />

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Brecht Stables & Dustin’s Place<br />

THERAPEUTIC HORSEBACK RIDING<br />

“Being raised with<br />

horses, I grew to<br />

understand their<br />

love and behavior.<br />

Most of all, I<br />

learned what a<br />

horse can bring<br />

to a child’s<br />

small world.”<br />

- Lynn Brecht<br />

An equine therapy and experiential adventure<br />

camp for individuals with physical and mental<br />

disabilities, Brecht Stables & Dustin’s Place was<br />

founded in 2009 and is located in Cumming,<br />

GA. Sleep away camps, Western riding, and<br />

horse boarding are offered at Brecht Stables.<br />

Owner Lynn Brecht decided to quit her<br />

desk job and follow her dream of running a<br />

therapeutic riding center. A single mother of<br />

two boys, the program also offers EAP and EAL.<br />

“I am a big believer in changing your path<br />

if you are not happy with your life, and the fact<br />

that you are never too old to follow your dream,”<br />

Lynn stated.<br />

At age 20, Lynn had a son who she named<br />

Dustin. Dustin has Down Syndrome.<br />

“<strong>My</strong> son has fought through many challenges<br />

in his short life. He stopped breathing at home, had<br />

open heart surgery, medication to keep his heart<br />

pumping, multiple ear tubes, RSV, phenomena,<br />

and bronchitis every year, and genetic counseling.<br />

But Dustin has been my greatest teacher. He is an<br />

amazing boy who faces everything in life with a<br />

smile and knows no stranger,” Lynn added.<br />

Therapeutic horseback riding,<br />

also known as Equine Assisted Activity or Adaptive<br />

Riding is for individuals with a broad range of<br />

physical, emotional, cognitive, and social disabilities,<br />

including Down Syndrome, Cerebral Palsy, Autism,<br />

Tremors, Seizures, Spina Bifida, Multiple Sclerosis,<br />

and Developmental and speech delays.<br />

The benefits of therapeutic riding are numerous,<br />

and include improving motor planning, core<br />

strength, attention span and bilateral skills,<br />

stimulate muscle memory, and improve fine and<br />

large motor skills.<br />

“Dustin’s Place functions smoothly because of<br />

the generous donations of time and money from our<br />

volunteers. You do not need to have any experience<br />

with horses to volunteer, but you must not be afraid<br />

of horses to assist in the barn. If you would rather<br />

stay out of the barn, we could also use your office or<br />

fund raising talents,” Lynn added.<br />

For more information about Brecht Stables & Dustin’s Place or to schedule a tour<br />

visit www.brechtstables.org or e-mail Lynn at lynn@brechtstables.org. Volunteers<br />

and donations are always welcomed.<br />

ABOUT LYNN BRECHT<br />

Lynn is certified through<br />

EAGALA, the global standard<br />

for psychotherapy and<br />

personal development<br />

incorporating horses,<br />

for Equine Assisted<br />

Psychotherapy Learning.<br />

She is also certified as an<br />

Equine Special Olympics<br />

Coach for the state of<br />

Georgia and has a certificate<br />

in HorseWork through Strides<br />

to Success. She is the lead<br />

therapeutic horseback riding<br />

instructor at Brecht Place,<br />

with over a decade of hands<br />

on special needs experience,<br />

lifelong horse experience<br />

and also owns and runs the<br />

facility. Lynn also has her<br />

wilderness first aid through<br />

NOLS and certification of<br />

Camp Director through<br />

American Camp Association.<br />

Lynn Brecht, ES<br />

Brecht Stables & Dustin's Place<br />

www.brechtstables.org<br />

678-644-5243<br />

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WHAT TO DO WHEN THE<br />

CHECK ENGINE LIGHT IS ON<br />

By Tom Burgess, Owner, Christian Brothers Automotive, Cumming GA<br />

A CUSTOMER CAME INTO<br />

THE SHOP AND TOLD US<br />

“MY CHECK ENGINE LIGHT<br />

IS ON, AND THE AUTO<br />

PARTS PLACE TOLD ME<br />

IT WAS FOR A CATALYTIC<br />

EFFICIENCY CODE – WHAT<br />

DOES THAT MEAN, AND<br />

CAN I IGNORE IT IF I DON’T<br />

NEED MY EMISSIONS<br />

STICKER FOR ANOTHER<br />

8 MONTHS?”<br />

We hear this often and it means a very expensive part of your exhaust,<br />

the catalytic converter, may need to be replaced. Any shop with the<br />

right scan tool can then diagnose if the problem is indeed the catalytic<br />

converter (or ‘Cat’ as it is often called) or some other malfunction. If<br />

the ‘cat’ has failed, the next question often is “could I have prevented<br />

this?”. The answer is a definitive ‘perhaps.’But let’s back up – what<br />

does a catalytic converter actually do? It simply uses precious metals<br />

to superheat and convert air-polluting oxides of nitrogen, unburned<br />

fuel and carbon monoxide into plain old nitrogen, carbon dioxide<br />

and water. It should last at least 100,000 miles or more, so what causes<br />

them to fail? Well time is certainly a factor. The precious metals<br />

are slowly degrading as the car runs, and once they are used up and<br />

have hit end-of-life the converter simply cannot function effectively<br />

anymore. But their life can be significantly reduced if the engine is<br />

not operating correctly, and that’s<br />

where damage prevention is critical.<br />

Let’s get back to our customer. When<br />

we asked him if the check engine light<br />

had been on in the past, he told us<br />

“Yes, they told me it was a misfire but<br />

the engine seemed to be running OK,<br />

so I didn’t get it fixed right away.” Ah<br />

hah! <strong>My</strong>stery solved. When a vehicle<br />

is experiencing a misfire, that means significantly more unburned fuel<br />

is being dumped into the exhaust and when that occurs the converter<br />

gets superheated and will often destroys itself. It can actually melt the<br />

ceramic honeycomb inside it if enough fuel enters.<br />

So, provided you do not have any misfires you should be OK then –<br />

right? Well unfortunately it’s not quite that simple. The problem is<br />

the catalytic converter must first heat up in order to start the burnoff<br />

process, and it uses the heat of exhaust to warm up. But on cold<br />

starts the car adds extra fuel (remember the chokes on carburetors?)<br />

and there is not enough oxygen to burn off the extra fuel. To fix<br />

this problem, most modern cars add<br />

supplemental air provided by a pump.<br />

These pumps are regulated by solenoids<br />

and valves which can burn out and<br />

corrode. That will cause the Check<br />

Engine light to come on, which is often<br />

ignored because the engine seems to be<br />

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unning fine. What the owner doesn’t know is that on cold start the<br />

converter is being loaded up with fuel and when it finally reaches a<br />

high enough temperature it has to burn off all that excess fuel. The<br />

result will often be permanent damage as temperatures inside the cat<br />

can exceed 2,000 degrees. But wait – there’s more! We often have folks<br />

that will ignore a Check Engine light when they find out it’s just an<br />

oxygen sensor code. The problem here is that sensor may in fact be<br />

accurately reporting too much oxygen due to a vacuum or exhaust<br />

leak, which will cause the computer to add more fuel, and we have the<br />

same problem. Ignoring a very simple inexpensive fix to a vacuum line<br />

could end up costing thousands as converters contain gold, palladium<br />

or rhodium and are not cheap. Or the O2 sensor might be reporting<br />

an out of limits condition due to worn piston rings or valve seals that<br />

are dumping oil into the exhaust, or an internal coolant leak that is<br />

allowing coolant into the exhaust. If any of these problems continues<br />

long enough, they will destroy the catalytic converter. Also, in any of<br />

these cases, replacing the converter is a waste of money if the other<br />

issue(s) are not addressed. We have also seen cases where a sharp blow<br />

to the converter, due to bottoming out the vehicle or hitting an object<br />

in the road, has damaged the catalyst material or the metal housing of<br />

the unit, blocking the flow of exhaust gases out the back (and hurting<br />

engine performance). In addition, certain fuel additives can (and do)<br />

counteract and prematurely age the catalysts. And the latest issue you<br />

may have noticed here in <strong>Forsyth</strong> County is the theft of converters.<br />

Trucks and SUVs that sit up high are especially vulnerable. So what’s<br />

the bottom line? When your CEL comes on, before you choose to<br />

ignore it, become knowledgeable about what it really means or could<br />

be indicating. Don’t believe the first thing you read on the internet<br />

that says you can ignore it, speak to a qualified technician. Because<br />

avoiding a simple fix now could cost you a whole lot later when it comes<br />

to a catalytic converter replacement. And one more thing, there are<br />

companies making cheap replacement converters. Will they allow<br />

you to pass emissions if you install one? Yes. Will they last past their<br />

one-year warranty? Probably. Will they last anywhere near as long as<br />

the original one? Definitely not… The reason they are inexpensive<br />

compared to original equipment units is they use far less precious<br />

metals. The extremely thin layer of metals applied will be used up<br />

VERY quickly and you will be buying another one sooner than you ever<br />

wished. You get what you pay for when it comes to catalytic converters.<br />

Happy motoring, and stay safe out there on the road!!<br />

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The Country Preacher<br />

By Rev. David Hill<br />

How blessed we are to live in this<br />

wonderful country. Our forefathers sailed<br />

seas that were uncharted and unknown to<br />

anyone they were acquainted with. These<br />

were the brave people we read about in our<br />

geography class. It was a period of time<br />

when it was believed that sea monsters<br />

would swallow their ships like attacking a<br />

minnow. Some thought they would reach the<br />

end of the world, fall off and sail right into<br />

the abyss. Why would we not honor them<br />

for their bravery? Why would they not be<br />

a hero? President Reagan once said, “Those<br />

who say that we’re in a time when there are<br />

no heroes, they just don’t know where to<br />

look”. Today, we envision people stepping on<br />

to the surface of planets that can be seen only<br />

through a telescope.<br />

The definition of a hero is “someone<br />

admired for bravery, greats deeds, or noble<br />

qualities”. In a Greek play, it was a man of<br />

more than human strength, courage, or<br />

ability. John 15:13 says “Greater love hath<br />

no man than this, that a man lay down his<br />

life for his friends”. Heroes aren’t people<br />

who are faultless! God chooses leaders<br />

that are “blameless” because of repentance<br />

(II Corinthians 7:9-10) but not sinless.<br />

His biblical leaders chose character over<br />

personality with a willingness to repent if<br />

going the wrong direction. Only Jesus Christ<br />

could challenge us by saying “Which of you<br />

convinceth me of sin” (John 8:46)? Abraham<br />

didn’t wait for God to give him the promised<br />

son, Isaac, and had an illegitimate child by his<br />

wife’s maid. Noah was faithful for 120 years<br />

with one night of uncharacteristic behavior.<br />

Two of his three children became pagans.<br />

Moses had a problem with anger when he<br />

joined in a fight. Later he struck the rock<br />

twice picturing the Messiah dying twice for<br />

sins. Isaiah 53:4 says, “Surely he hath borne<br />

our griefs, and carried our sorrows: yet we<br />

did esteem him stricken, smitten of God, and<br />

afflicted”. King David saw a woman taking a<br />

bath and conspired to murder her husband.<br />

God lets us see the humanity of His heroes<br />

so we could see that He is a forgiving Father<br />

who still loves us when we fail. “Come now,<br />

and let us reason together, saith the LORD:<br />

though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be<br />

as white as snow; though they be red like<br />

crimson, they shall be as wool (Isaiah 1:18).<br />

In Luke 15:11-32, God shares a story of a<br />

father whose patience, love, and kindness to a<br />

wayward son makes him a hero. The son had<br />

taken a portion of his inheritance and used it<br />

for immoral purposes. When he was broke, he<br />

had nowhere to turn except to go home to the<br />

father in shame. Instead of rebuke, the father is<br />

waiting. He sees him a great way off. The hero<br />

of this story is the father. Sin separates families,<br />

ruins lives, and takes away any opportunities<br />

left behind. The son does not recover his<br />

losses. Psalm 147:3 “He healeth the broken in<br />

heart, and bindeth up their wounds.”<br />

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John A. Fischer<br />

CHAPLAIN/NACM<br />

The <strong>Forsyth</strong> community has seen significant<br />

population growth, bringing new “Friends &<br />

Neighbors” to the area who are “un-churched”<br />

but hold to Christian beliefs. With the millennial<br />

generation also growing significantly and<br />

becoming more secular in their religious beliefs,<br />

the need for a Certified Celebrant to assist these<br />

families and individuals in preparing for and<br />

officiating “Life Tribute Services” for departed<br />

loved ones is very apparent.<br />

John Fischer, a former Radio announcer,<br />

News Director, and Disc Jockey, prior to<br />

his successful business career, has become a<br />

Certified Life Tribute Celebrant, graduating<br />

from the Insight Institute, and a Community<br />

Chaplain, certified and ordained by the National<br />

Association of Christian Ministers.<br />

Chaplain Fischer meets with bereaved<br />

family’s to learn about their loved ones life<br />

influence and assists with developing the actual<br />

service format, including special readings,<br />

music selections and the eulogy, to make<br />

each service exclusive and personal for each<br />

Family. Chaplin Fischer encourages family’s<br />

not to forego this vital element of the grieving<br />

process, which has a real emotional impact and<br />

can last for a considerable time. He said that<br />

“even a brief graveside service helps to begin<br />

the process of “Closure” and accepting the<br />

passing of a loved one.”<br />

In addition to the Celebrant Ministry,<br />

Chaplain Fischer conducts Bible Studies at<br />

local Assisted Living Facilities and is available<br />

for preparing special invocations for family<br />

gatherings and reunions and also community<br />

and civic events.<br />

He can be contacted at<br />

johnafischer7605@gmail.com and<br />

(770) 866-5875.<br />

JOHN A. FISCHER, Chaplain/NACM, Certified Celebrant/Insight Institute<br />

7605 Abbey Glen Drive | Cumming, GA. 30028-8959 | (770) 866-5875<br />

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By Maria I. Morgan<br />

<strong>My</strong> pace quickened as I walked across the cul-de-sac. I rang my<br />

neighbor’s doorbell and waited for her to answer. What followed was<br />

a beautiful reminder of what happens when we leave our comfort<br />

zone and step out in faith – God provides.<br />

The neighbor was happy to meet me, and her son was excited about<br />

the book and candies I gave him. We chatted for a few minutes and<br />

exchanged phone numbers with plans to get together soon. Although<br />

a small thing, I did what the Lord wanted me to do and He provided<br />

perfectly.<br />

I was reminded of a woman who stepped out of her comfort<br />

zone several centuries ago and witnessed the power of Jesus in a<br />

miraculous way.<br />

Jesus was dead and had been buried in the tomb of a rich man. The<br />

disciples were in hiding, afraid they may be killed next. In spite of the<br />

risk, after the Sabbath, Mary Magdalene and other women bravely<br />

went to anoint Jesus’ body with perfume. When they got to the tomb,<br />

the stone was already rolled away and the grave was empty. Two men<br />

in shining clothes assured the frightened women that Jesus had risen<br />

from the dead.<br />

BLESSINGS<br />

Outside Your Comfort Zone<br />

Mary and the others wasted no time sharing the unbelievable news<br />

with the rest of the disciples. Peter and John ran to the tomb and<br />

found things as the women had said: the stone was moved and Jesus’<br />

body was gone. While the disciples went back home, Mary stayed at<br />

the grave crying.<br />

A man spoke to her. Thinking he was the gardener, she asked where<br />

the body of Jesus was. Instead of answering her question, the man<br />

only had to say one word:<br />

“…Mary. She turned herself, and saith unto him, Rabboni; which is to<br />

say, Master.” John 20:16; KJV<br />

By Maria I. Morgan<br />

Awkwardness can be, well, awkward. The<br />

silence that drags on after you stop talking.<br />

The embarrassment that lingers when you<br />

make a mistake. The self-conscious feeling<br />

when you’re not sure how to respond.<br />

The other day I was determined to introduce myself to the neighbor<br />

across the street. Although I was looking forward to getting to know her<br />

and her young son, I have to admit it’s more comfortable for me to focus<br />

on a project or to encourage my core group of friends.<br />

Because Mary was willing to step out of her comfort zone, she was the<br />

first to witness the resurrected Savior.<br />

How much more encouragement do we need? Let’s take a step of<br />

faith today.<br />

Can I pray for you?<br />

Heavenly Father, thank You for Your faithfulness and constant<br />

encouragement to walk by faith. Forgive us for doubting You. Help<br />

us actively look for the opportunities You give us today to step out<br />

of our comfort zone and experience Your perfect provision. You’re<br />

worthy of our praise. In Jesus’ name, Amen.<br />

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ADVERTISER DIRECTORY<br />

AUTOMOTIVE/CAR REPAIR<br />

SERVICES<br />

Christian Brothers Automotive – pg. 55<br />

470-253-7376 | www.cbac.com/cumming<br />

BREW PUB/TAPROOM<br />

Cherry Street Brewing Taproom – 19<br />

770-205-5512 | www.cherrystreetvickery.com<br />

CYBER SECURITY/<br />

TECHNOLOGY SOLUTIONS<br />

Critical Path Security – Inside Back Cover<br />

770-224-6482 | www.criticalpathsscurity.com<br />

CRISIS INTERVENTION<br />

Corner Farms– pg. 33<br />

770-355-2755 | www.cornerfarmsforsyth.com<br />

DANCE ACADEMY/<br />

INSTRUCTION<br />

Cumming Dance Academy – pg. 3<br />

770-781-4922 | www.CummingDanceAcademy.com<br />

EMBROIDERY<br />

Amigo Embroidery – pg.59<br />

404-216-5740 | www.amigoembroidery.com<br />

FINANCIAL PLANNING<br />

Arseneau Advisory Group – pg. 15<br />

470-839-9001 | www.arseneauadvisory.com<br />

HEATING/VENTILATION/<br />

AIR CONDITIONING<br />

Shelnutt HVAC – pg. 61<br />

706-265-5854 | www.shelnutthvac.com<br />

JEWELER/JEWELRY<br />

STORE<br />

Gems In Art – Inside Front Cover<br />

770-844-8005 | www.gemsinart.com<br />

Lance’s Jewelry –Back Cover<br />

770-781-5500 | www.lancesjewelry.com<br />

PHOTOGRAPHY<br />

Adam Pendleton Photography – pg. 17<br />

678-208-7077 | www.adampendleton.com<br />

Bryan White Photography + Art – pg. 628<br />

770-889-3202 | www,braynwhitephotography.art<br />

MEDIATION<br />

Fairway Mediator.com – pg. 61<br />

678-769-6729 | www.fairwaymediator.com<br />

PHYSICIANS/MEDICAL<br />

SERVICES<br />

Apollo Spine and Pain Center – pg. 43<br />

678- 771-8266 | www.apollospineandpain.com<br />

Dermani MedSpa – pg. 41<br />

www.dermanimedspa.com | 404-942-2100<br />

Cleaver Medical Group – pg. 62<br />

770-800-3455 | www.cleavermedicalgroup.com<br />

Modern OBGYN – pg. 35<br />

404-446-2496 | www.reyesobgyn.com<br />

Narendra Singh, MD – pg. 39<br />

678-679-6800; 770-622-1622 | www.heartdrsingh.com<br />

The Southern Skin and Beauty Bar – pg. 37<br />

770-284-8763 | www.southernskinandbeauty.com<br />

REAL ESTATE<br />

Hello Pam Evans Real Estate – pg. 13<br />

678-778-6551 | www.hellopamevans.com<br />

The Dinsmore Team – pg. 43<br />

770-712-7789 | www.dinsmoreteam.com<br />

RESTAURANTS /FOOD<br />

SERVICES/CATERING<br />

Casa Nuova Italian Restaurant – pg. 25<br />

770-475-9100 | www.casanuovarestaurant.com<br />

Cork & Glass – pg. 25<br />

678-694-8812 | www.corkandglass.com<br />

CSB Home of Rick Tanner’s – pg. 19<br />

770-205-5512 | www.cherrystreetvickery.com<br />

Lenny’s Subs – pg. 27<br />

678-947-0336 | Fax orders: 678-947-5343<br />

Palapa’s Bar and Grill – pg. 21<br />

770-889-1002 | www.palapasbargrill.com<br />

Tam’s Backstage – pg. 29<br />

678-455-8310 | www.tamsbackstage.com<br />

Tam’s Tupelo– pg. 29<br />

470-839-2024 | www.tamstupelo.com<br />

TOY STORE<br />

Wheezy’s Toy Boutique – pg.5<br />

713-516-3985 | @WheezysToys<br />

TRANSPORTATION/<br />

NON-EMERGENCY<br />

ABW MedTrans Solutions – pg. 61<br />

678-567-6644<br />

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