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CONTENTS <strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong><br />

THE CHALDEAN NEWS VOLUME 8 ISSUE II<br />

features<br />

44 Applause and Accolades<br />

By Vanessa Denha Garmo and Joyce Wiswell<br />

Chaldean Chamber bestows honors<br />

46 Looking for Answers<br />

By Joyce Wiswell<br />

Families grieve after store killings<br />

48 Springing Out<br />

By Joe Gasso<br />

CASAs plans big this semester<br />

the annual wedding issue<br />

24 A Chaldean Wedding<br />

Survival Guide<br />

By Crystal Kassab Jabiro<br />

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26 From Aisle to Zeffa<br />

By Joyce Wiswell<br />

Website celebrates Chaldean weddings<br />

28 Chaldean on the Street<br />

By Anthony Samona<br />

What’s the most unique thing you’ve<br />

seen at a Chaldean wedding?<br />

32 Shower Power<br />

By Crystal Kassab Jabiro<br />

Throw an unforgettable event<br />

34 Disaster: Averted<br />

By Andrew Keina and Lawrence Yaldo<br />

Try these tips from the pros<br />

36 The Counselor Is In<br />

By Iklas j. Bashi, LPC, NCC<br />

After the wedding, the real work begins<br />

38 One on One<br />

By Joyce Wiswell<br />

Shenandoah Country Club:<br />

Confessions of the wedding staff<br />

50 Sports<br />

By Steve Stein<br />

Roundup<br />

departments<br />

8 From the Editor<br />

9 Guest Columns<br />

By Michael Sarafa<br />

Dads and daughters<br />

By Caroline Bacall<br />

Living in the real world —<br />

outside the Chaldean community<br />

By N. Peter Antone<br />

It is wrong to stereotype Muslims —<br />

and anyone else<br />

12 Noteworthy<br />

15 Bulletin Board<br />

16 Chai Time<br />

18 HALHOLE!<br />

20 Obituary<br />

20 Religion<br />

52 From the Archives<br />

The Yatooma Family<br />

54 Classifieds<br />

56 Events<br />

Winter Gala<br />

AFPD Gala<br />

40 Jewel of the Middle East<br />

By Weam Namou<br />

Chaldean designer has international following<br />

42 Blast from the Past<br />

Happily, love never goes out of style<br />

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Approaching seven<br />

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next to your spouse and with<br />

your words and your actions<br />

you say “I do” all over again<br />

— or maybe you are saying<br />

“I don’t.”<br />

With your kind words,<br />

goodbye-for-the-day kisses,<br />

welcoming big hugs home<br />

and those little things you do<br />

such as clean the snow off<br />

her car, you are saying “I do” to her all<br />

over again.<br />

I do choose to love you. I do<br />

choose to care for you. I do choose to<br />

live my life with you.<br />

The other day I was<br />

watching one of my two favorite<br />

reality shows, “Extreme<br />

Makeover: Home Edition.”<br />

The team built a home for a<br />

soldier who was wounded in<br />

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The woman he was dating at<br />

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and night even when doctors<br />

gave him a 5 percent chance of living.<br />

She said I do before they walked<br />

down the aisle. The two were married<br />

on the show.<br />

She says I do every day in therapy<br />

as he struggles to walk, talk and<br />

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day she pushes his wheelchair when<br />

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to achieve more in his recovery. She<br />

says I do by not complaining about his<br />

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The wedding is a fabulous, elegant<br />

and fun day but the marriage is a commitment<br />

to say “I do” every day with<br />

everything you do for your spouse and<br />

with your spouse.<br />

In this annual wedding guide, we<br />

Vanessa<br />

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CO-PUBLISHER<br />

offer you valuable tips and insight<br />

from the experts about<br />

planning your nuptials. The<br />

day continues long after the<br />

zeffa is played and the halholes<br />

are over.<br />

In addition, the wedding<br />

day is about you — the couple<br />

— and the day should be<br />

a refl ection of your relationship<br />

and your personalities. It<br />

is not about comparing your<br />

wedding to others’ or trying<br />

to outdo the last wedding, it<br />

is about your love and commitment<br />

and your continued I dos long<br />

after the wedding day.<br />

Our articles and advice from vendors<br />

give you ideas on how to customize<br />

your wedding day to mirror your life<br />

as a couple.<br />

Perhaps you are not planning a<br />

wedding but you are planning to attend<br />

the annual Chaldean American<br />

Chamber of Commerce Dinner<br />

at Shenandoah. If so, we give you a<br />

sneak preview of the award honorees<br />

and their contribution to the community,<br />

both from a business and humanitarian<br />

perspective. This year’s special<br />

tribute goes to Bishop Ibrahim N. Ibrahim.<br />

These honorees say I do every<br />

day as well but their I do is to their<br />

business and commitment to helping<br />

others. I do choose to help others. I<br />

do choose to grow my business. I do<br />

choose to lend my talents and expertise<br />

to the community and its many organizations.<br />

Every day we make choices to do<br />

or not do something or another. We<br />

may do this out of habit without even<br />

realizing it. Think about all the decisions<br />

you make during the day and<br />

how many of them are made without<br />

giving a second thought. That includes<br />

how we treat our spouse.<br />

We make decisions to get married,<br />

have a big or small wedding, open a<br />

business, build a business, and give<br />

back to the community through charitable<br />

contributions. We decide what to<br />

eat every day, what route to drive that<br />

day and what time we go to bed, and<br />

we also decide if and how to pray —<br />

or not.<br />

the wedding is a fabulous, elegant and fun<br />

day but the marriage is a commitment to say<br />

“i do” every day.<br />

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You even made a decision to subscribe<br />

to the Chaldean News and read<br />

this month’s issue and this editor’s<br />

note. That is an “I do” to stay connected<br />

to the community and know what is<br />

going on around Metro Detroit.<br />

Every decision we make is an “I<br />

do” — a commitment to someone or<br />

something.<br />

What are you saying “I do” to today?<br />

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GUEST columns<br />

Dads and daughters<br />

Michael G.<br />

Sarafa<br />

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CHALDEAN NEWS<br />

The E.C.R.C. Youth Group<br />

was to hold a Daddy/<br />

Daughter Dance on February<br />

5 at Shenandoah. Due to<br />

the lack of reservations — only<br />

60 people, including the girls<br />

— the event was cancelled.<br />

The very next day 520 people,<br />

mostly men, showed up at<br />

Shenandoah to play cards, buy<br />

squares and watch the Super<br />

Bowl.<br />

These events are obviously<br />

not directly related to<br />

each other but their juxtaposition 24<br />

hours apart raises some interesting<br />

issues. Over the years, the Chaldean<br />

News has endeavored to cover some<br />

of the tougher social issues pressing<br />

our community. In the context of<br />

covering happenings at high schools,<br />

education issues and talking with our<br />

young people, we continue to hear<br />

anecdotal evidence of some not-sogood<br />

things.<br />

We have heard reports regarding<br />

young Chaldean ladies, sometimes<br />

directly from school counselors, of increasing<br />

trends in truancy,<br />

smoking and even sexual activity.<br />

While hopefully these<br />

trends are confined to a small<br />

minority of our young people,<br />

nearly everyone, including<br />

teens themselves, agree that<br />

these type of behaviors are on<br />

the uptick.<br />

The days of young Chaldean<br />

women as second-class<br />

citizens are over. Today, most<br />

attend and graduate from<br />

college. Many go on to successful<br />

careers including an increasing<br />

numbers in the fields of medicine and<br />

the law. Many others, on their own volition,<br />

become young mothers and raise<br />

a family — a beautiful calling in its own<br />

right.<br />

But are there too many fathers not<br />

paying attention to what’s going on<br />

in their daughters’ lives? Are the fathers’<br />

expectations of their daughters<br />

outdated? Is it the dads who box our<br />

girls into norms from two generations<br />

ago, causing us not to notice what is<br />

really going on? Is it us that want, for<br />

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them, the good husband and for us, the<br />

grandchildren?<br />

These are tough questions. But at<br />

least this much is true. We can’t ignore<br />

our daughters in their often awkward<br />

post-adolescence stage the way<br />

our fathers did our sisters. They want<br />

We can’t ignore<br />

our daughters in<br />

their awkward postadolescence<br />

stage<br />

the way our fathers<br />

did our sisters.<br />

to know that we care about them and<br />

what they think — that we think they<br />

are beautiful and smart and funny. Our<br />

contribution as dads to their self-esteem<br />

is immeasurable.<br />

There is a whole world out there<br />

beyond Detroit and the Chaldean community.<br />

Some of our girls will venture<br />

into this new world and their relationship<br />

with their dads will necessarily<br />

change. It may be that they won’t<br />

live 10 minutes away from us and that<br />

we won’t see the grandchildren every<br />

weekend. The communication norm<br />

may be Facebook and Skype.<br />

This makes the time with them important<br />

now more than ever, not to replace<br />

lost time in the future but to make<br />

sure that we send them into this new<br />

world with the right priorities and values.<br />

For generations, dads have done<br />

everything we know how do to make<br />

sure that our sons can be successful.<br />

It’s time now to do the same for our<br />

girls. It doesn’t matter much if we miss<br />

a Daddy/Daughter Dance, but it could<br />

matter if we aren’t an important part of<br />

their lives. Trouble may be lurking, or<br />

they may be gone before we know it.<br />

Michael Sarafa is president of the<br />

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GUEST columns<br />

Living in the real world — outside<br />

the Chaldean community<br />

It all started with an idea.<br />

What if?<br />

Although the likelihood<br />

of moving out prior to marriage<br />

seems to be increasing in<br />

younger generations, structural<br />

and cultural bases of traditional<br />

family values have held back<br />

many aspiring Chaldeans. We<br />

are expected to live in America<br />

but still adhere to our parents’<br />

ways of living.<br />

Bringing up the subject of<br />

moving out of state for the first<br />

time was tough, but I had to prove to<br />

my father and mother that I was ready<br />

to take on the challenge of being out of<br />

my comfort level and going to graduate<br />

school in Arizona.<br />

I’m not alone – a lot of young people<br />

want to leave Michigan to pursue their<br />

education, career or dream of making<br />

it as an actor, comedian, poet, athlete,<br />

musician or dancer.<br />

Veronica Dallo, 24, left White Lake<br />

two years ago for North Scottsdale,<br />

Arizona. “My dad was more supportive.<br />

My mom still wants me to move back<br />

By Caroline<br />

Bacall<br />

SPECIAL TO THE<br />

CHALDEAN NEWS<br />

home,” she said. “At first, I was<br />

nervous. I wasn’t sure if I was<br />

making the right decision.”<br />

Since moving out west,<br />

Dallo has opened her own<br />

business, Above All Insurance,<br />

in Phoenix. “My parents have<br />

done so much for me. All of<br />

the hard work and effort I put<br />

into my business, I can only<br />

hope, will pay off in the end,”<br />

she said. “Although I miss my<br />

family and friends, I don’t regret<br />

moving away at all.”<br />

Heather Karim, also 24, is living in<br />

Boston to achieve a Masters in Physician<br />

Assistant Studies at the Massachusetts<br />

College of Pharmacy and<br />

Health Sciences.<br />

“Those who don’t pursue their goals<br />

and dreams are short-selling themselves<br />

and will regret it later on,” said<br />

Karim, who hails from West Bloomfield.<br />

“You have to be willing to make some<br />

sacrifices to attain greatness.”<br />

Karim has resided in Boston for two<br />

months and said it’s a great experience<br />

so far. “It has taught me to be a strong,<br />

courageous individual and more selfreliant,<br />

she said. “Although I miss everyone<br />

I love at home, it’s a small price<br />

to pay for a lifetime of rewards.”<br />

Carlos Shabo, 25, currently resides<br />

in Sterling Heights but hopes to make<br />

the move to California to pursue his<br />

passion for acting.<br />

“I would love to move to LA because<br />

that’s where my dream is. I want<br />

to be a part of the film business, wherever<br />

that opportunity may be,” he said.<br />

“If I have the opportunity out of state<br />

and if my parents don’t support me, I<br />

would still give it a go. Life is about<br />

taking chances. People in my position<br />

need to ease their parents into the situation<br />

and have a realistic plan.”<br />

For parents who object to their<br />

child’s plan to move out of state, I offer<br />

another perspective.<br />

“You’re leaving your family and everyone<br />

behind.”<br />

It is not selfish to seek opportunity<br />

or to go after one’s dreams. With a<br />

well-intentioned, Catholic upbringing,<br />

your children will not abandon you or<br />

the rest of the family. Not only will your<br />

son or daughter become well-rounded,<br />

they will be given a chance to focus on<br />

how they can improve on their weaknesses<br />

and build on their strengths.<br />

“We trust you, but we don’t trust<br />

other people.”<br />

Being surrounded by people and experiences<br />

are inevitable. Have faith in the<br />

way you raised your children and trust in<br />

your son or daughter’s ability to decide<br />

the right crowd from the wrong crowd.<br />

Life is about family and opportunity.<br />

Many of the Chaldean community’s<br />

hardworking fathers, mothers and singles<br />

had to navigate their way to America<br />

and start from scratch, not only for<br />

opportunity but for freedom and a better<br />

life. Shouldn’t the same enthusiasm be<br />

expected from young adults who want<br />

to explore opportunities elsewhere?<br />

“You’re getting older, and now would<br />

be a good time to meet someone.”<br />

Although awareness of age is good,<br />

let your children decide what they feel<br />

ready for. There may be a prime age to<br />

get married, but who is to say what age<br />

is too young or too old to get married?<br />

Chaldeans in their late teens and twenties<br />

are growing intellectually, mentally<br />

and emotionally; there could be a significant<br />

change in personality characteristics,<br />

habits and routines within the<br />

age frame that is “ideal” for marriage.<br />

Finally, I offer some advice to aspiring<br />

Chaldeans: If you want to take a risk in<br />

the world outside of Michigan, it’s yours<br />

for the taking. Remember that tomorrow<br />

is not promised, and life will have its<br />

highs and lows. I fully encourage you to<br />

make the most of your life and give yourself<br />

a chance to see where life will take<br />

you, wherever that may be. Be sure you<br />

are willing to accept whatever happens<br />

— and take life day by day.<br />

West Bloomfield native Caroline Bacall<br />

is working towards her masters in<br />

education and secondary certification<br />

at Arizona State University in Tempe,<br />

Arizona.<br />

It is wrong to stereotype Muslims —<br />

and anyone else<br />

After the terrorist attacks<br />

of 9/11, some in the<br />

West started to view<br />

Muslims with skepticism and as<br />

a potential threat. This was aggravated<br />

by some news media,<br />

politicians and militants who<br />

manipulate fear to gain support.<br />

They point to what they<br />

view as controversial aspects in<br />

the Muslim religion as evidence<br />

of Islam being inherently violent<br />

in nature, in comparison with<br />

Christianity, which advocates<br />

peace and forgiveness.<br />

But does history support the notion<br />

that Muslims are violent and Christians<br />

always peaceful? Not really. Although<br />

the majority of both worshippers have<br />

exhibited examples of peaceful co-existence<br />

throughout history, many others<br />

from both religions have exhibited<br />

violent tendencies as well. Examples<br />

include the religious wars in Europe<br />

between Catholics and Protestants,<br />

which claimed tens of millions of lives<br />

during the medieval ages and lasted<br />

decades; the burning of Muslims and<br />

Jews by Catholic Spain; and the massacres<br />

during the Crusades wars. We<br />

N. Peter<br />

Antone<br />

SPECIAL TO THE<br />

CHALDEAN NEWS<br />

know the Christian participants<br />

were wrong and did not<br />

follow Jesus’ commandment<br />

to love thy neighbor; but, for<br />

them, this is the way they interpreted<br />

Christianity. During<br />

the same medieval times, the<br />

Muslim empires sought military<br />

expansion, institutionalized<br />

slavery and treated women<br />

badly.<br />

Many of us know from personal<br />

experience that many<br />

Muslims are very tolerant. This<br />

is my personal conclusion after living 23<br />

years in Iraq without a single incident<br />

of religious intolerance. I realize others<br />

might have had a negative experience<br />

and things might have changed since<br />

the 1970s, but I cannot deny my own<br />

experience. History also reveals that<br />

Muslims were more tolerant toward the<br />

Jews than European Christians during<br />

the centuries prior to the current Middle<br />

East conflicts.<br />

An explanation of the above inconsistencies<br />

might be that when members<br />

of either religion exhibit violent acts,<br />

they are interpreting their religion as allowing<br />

violence. When acting humanely,<br />

both sides were interpreting their<br />

faith as promoting the tolerant side of<br />

human beings. Thus, while thousands<br />

of Muslims I met in Iraq while growing<br />

up interpreted their religion in a tolerant<br />

manner, the extremists of today and the<br />

Al-Qaida types interpret the same religion<br />

in a violent manner. Accordingly,<br />

one needs to judge different groups of<br />

Muslims by how each interprets Islam<br />

and by how they conduct their lives,<br />

not by how we, or third parties, do the<br />

interpreting.<br />

Contrary to the view of some, there<br />

is room for interpretation in Islam.<br />

The Hadith, which forms the basis for<br />

much of Islam’s tradition, was written<br />

a couple hundred years after the death<br />

of the Prophet Muhammad by authors<br />

who relied on tales transmitted over<br />

many generations. Accordingly, a Muslim<br />

might assign different weight to the<br />

various stories. The Quran was not reduced<br />

into written classic Arabic until<br />

decades after the death of Prophet Muhammad,<br />

giving room for some Muslim<br />

scholars to assess the comparative<br />

weight to be given to different verses<br />

and their meaning. As a result, there<br />

are several sects and groups within Islam<br />

that are extremely peaceful, such<br />

as the Sufi, Liberal Muslim movements,<br />

and the many millions of moderate<br />

Muslims all around the world.<br />

This column is not intended to diminish<br />

the threat posed by Islamic<br />

fundamentalists and extremists, such<br />

as those belonging to Al-Qaida, the<br />

Taliban, the Iranian regime and so on.<br />

But the best hope of the West in winning<br />

the war against terrorism is to<br />

gain the support of moderate Muslims<br />

worldwide. While the 9/11 perpetrators<br />

were all Muslims, certainly not all<br />

Muslims are similar to nor should all<br />

Muslims be viewed as responsible.<br />

Actually, using broad strokes to<br />

characterize all Muslims is exactly what<br />

the extremists want since it will promote<br />

the clash of civilizations. We need,<br />

therefore, to avoid stereotyping and to<br />

judge Muslims (just as we should judge<br />

anyone else) by whom they are as individuals,<br />

not by broad strokes based on<br />

any one interpretation of their religion.<br />

There are 1.2 billion Muslims in the<br />

world, and a general hostile posture to<br />

Muslims by the West will doom all of<br />

humanity to futile struggle and destruction<br />

for centuries to come.<br />

N. Peter Antone is an immigration<br />

attorney in Farmington Hills and an<br />

adjunct professor of Immigration and<br />

Nationality Law at Michigan State<br />

University School of law.<br />

10 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong>


<strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 11


noteworthy<br />

protesters carry a poster of former egyptian president hosni Mubarak while chanting anti-government slogans during a demonstration<br />

in baghdad. the banners in arabic read, “we demand the offering of basic services and jobs” and “we are people who do not beg but<br />

demand our minimum rights.” ap photo/hadi Mizban<br />

iraqis Protest Poor<br />

Services, Corruption<br />

The uprisings sweeping the Middle East<br />

have galvanized many in Iraq, one of the<br />

rare democracies in the region, to demand<br />

better services from their leaders.<br />

Unlike protesters in other countries demanding<br />

democracy or regime change,<br />

however, demonstrators in Iraq have focused<br />

on unemployment, corruption and<br />

a lack of electricity.<br />

Hundreds of Iraqis rallied on February<br />

14 in central Baghdad, protesting<br />

the rampant corruption and the lack of<br />

government services that have plagued<br />

the country for years.<br />

Iraqis have been venting their anger<br />

at the lack of jobs and government services<br />

such as electricity in small-scale<br />

protests across the country. The protests<br />

are not nearly as large as those that<br />

toppled leaders in Tunisia and Egypt, but<br />

are nonetheless embarrassing for Prime<br />

Minister Nouri al-Maliki and highlight the<br />

many challenges facing his fragile government.<br />

Despite sitting on some of the<br />

world’s largest oil reserves, Iraqis endure<br />

electricity shortages that make<br />

summer almost unbearable and leave<br />

them shivering in winter. There are also<br />

water shortages, and garbage is often<br />

left on the streets. At the same time,<br />

Iraqis are infuriated by the high salaries<br />

earned by their elected offi cials, compared<br />

with ordinary Iraqis.<br />

Many of the demonstrators carried<br />

banners that bore the image of a broken<br />

red heart, alluding to the fact that the<br />

protest took place on Valentine’s Day.<br />

They shouted slogans saying Iraq’s oil<br />

wealth should go to the people but goes<br />

to thieves instead.<br />

All Iraqis are entitled to a food ration,<br />

a legacy of the days when Iraq was under<br />

sanctions. But Iraqis complain that<br />

the rations, now given out by the government,<br />

are getting smaller, and they<br />

blame government corruption.<br />

“Efforts are being exerted to solve<br />

these two problems, but we need time<br />

and the electricity problem will be completely<br />

solved within two years,’’ al-Maliki<br />

said.<br />

On February 16, about 2,000 demonstrators<br />

attacked government offi ces in<br />

Kut, a southern Iraqi province, ripping up<br />

pavement stones to hurl at a<br />

regional council headquarters<br />

in a protest over shoddy<br />

public services. In the northern<br />

city of Sulaimaniyah,<br />

hundreds of demonstrators<br />

also thronged the streets demanding<br />

better services.<br />

In another protest on<br />

February 19, hundreds of orphans<br />

and widows marched<br />

in downtown Baghdad, calling<br />

on the Iraqi government<br />

to take care of them.<br />

Al-Maliki has announced lillian Shallal<br />

he won’t seek a third term<br />

when his current one expires in an attempt<br />

to set himself apart from Mideast leaders<br />

who have held onto power for decades.<br />

The gatherings in Iraq have been<br />

small in scale, although organizers are<br />

promising a much larger event on Feb.<br />

25, after press time.<br />

— Associated Press<br />

Lillian Shallal<br />

Honored<br />

Lillian Shallal has been presented a<br />

“Friends of Diversity Award” by Walled<br />

Lake Schools.<br />

More than 500 people attended the<br />

district’s 12th annual Dr. Martin Luther<br />

King, Jr. Day Celebration on January 17<br />

at Walled Lake Northern High School.<br />

Following a musical performance, the<br />

award was presented to Shallal, an ESL<br />

para-educator; and Pam Wright, a parent<br />

volunteer.<br />

Shallal has worked as a para-educator<br />

serving English Language Learners at<br />

Pleasant Lake Elementary for the past 19<br />

years. She makes many phone calls to<br />

the Iraqi refugee families and other bilingual<br />

families at Pleasant Lake to help to<br />

bridge the gap between home and school,<br />

the district said, helps parents<br />

understand curricular<br />

expectations and school<br />

procedures, and assists<br />

them in their adjustment to<br />

the A merican culture. If her<br />

students don’t have school<br />

supplies or proper clothing,<br />

she always fi nds a way to<br />

get them outfi tted.<br />

Shallal has served on<br />

the board of the Chaldean<br />

American Ladies of Charity<br />

for the past 20 years.<br />

Last year, she received<br />

the Distinguished Alumna<br />

Award from Mercy High School.<br />

Eu rejects ‘Christian’<br />

resolution<br />

EU Foreign Ministers rejected a draft resolution<br />

condemning recent atrocities against<br />

Christian minorities in Egypt and Iraq at<br />

a meeting in Brussels on January 31.<br />

The move was preceded by the unequivocal<br />

resolution of the European<br />

Parliament (EP) on January 20 condemning<br />

the increase of attacks on Christian<br />

minorities in the Middle East, Africa and<br />

Asia and an explicit recommendation by<br />

the Council of Europe on January 27. But<br />

the Council of Ministers could not agree<br />

on the inclusion of the word “Christian”<br />

in their draft statement on the issue, saying<br />

they wanted to avoid saying anything<br />

“politically incorrect.”<br />

EU High Representative Lady Catherine<br />

Ashton refused to make explicit<br />

reference to the “Christian” victims of<br />

these attacks in the ministerial statement<br />

that was supposed to condemn<br />

such religious persecution. Her position<br />

was supported by fi ve Foreign Ministers:<br />

Luís Amado (Portugal), Trinidad<br />

Jiménez (Spain), Jean Asselborn (Luxemburg),<br />

Brian Cowen (Ireland, represented<br />

by his permanent representative)<br />

and Markos Kyprianou (Cyprus). Italy,<br />

France, Hungary and Poland strongly<br />

supported efforts to explicitly condemn<br />

the persecution of Christians.<br />

– Assyrian International News<br />

Agency, aina.org<br />

Armenian genocide<br />

remembered<br />

A traveling exhibit about the Armenian<br />

Genocide opens on March 27 at the<br />

Holocaust Memorial Center.<br />

The exhibit “Barsamian: 20 Years<br />

– Searching for the Answer” explores<br />

questions about the Armenian genocide<br />

through the art of Dallas-based<br />

artist Robert Barsamian. The moving<br />

installation was inspired by the childhood<br />

memories Barsamian’s grandmother<br />

Luco told him of deportation,<br />

marches, mass murders and corpses<br />

hidden away in caves.<br />

From 1915-1922, Turkish soldiers<br />

massacred more than 1.5 million Armenian<br />

men, women and children, roughly<br />

three quarters of the population. Also<br />

killed were 600,000 to 750,000 Chaldeans.<br />

The grand opening at 7 p.m. March<br />

27 includes remarks by Dr. Ara Sanjian,<br />

director of the Armenian Research<br />

Center at the University of Michigan<br />

– Dearborn. The exhibit runs through<br />

July 10. The Holocaust Memorial Center<br />

is located at 28123 Orchard Lake<br />

Road in Farmington Hills. Visit HolocaustCenter.org.<br />

georgia mass<br />

Celebrates unity<br />

A unity mass will take place on March<br />

13 in Roswell, Georgia, followed by a<br />

Great Procession with the Blessings of<br />

the Icons.<br />

The mass will celebrate the universality<br />

of the Catholic Church with<br />

the Eastern Rite Catholic and Roman<br />

Catholic churches. In the Eastern Rite,<br />

this date is also known as the Sunday<br />

of Commemoration of the Holy Images.<br />

The mass takes place at Epiphany<br />

Byzantine Catholic Church, 2030 Alabama<br />

Road, in Roswell, near Atlanta.<br />

All are welcome.<br />

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noteworthy<br />

Graduation Time Approaches<br />

Plans are underway for the 29th Annual Chaldean<br />

Commencement Ceremony, set this year for June<br />

1 at Mother of God Chaldean Catholic Church in<br />

Southfield.<br />

The ceremony, once again presented by the<br />

Chaldean Federation of America, is open to all<br />

Chaldean graduates of high school, college and<br />

trade schools. Scholarships will be awarded to several<br />

students.<br />

Visit www.chaldeangrads.com to register for the<br />

ceremony and learn more about the scholarships<br />

available. Deadline to register is May 4.<br />

‘Housewife’ Is Assyrian<br />

The realty show “Real Housewives<br />

of Miami” includes a<br />

cast member that Bravo calls<br />

a “snarky Assyrian Lebanese<br />

beauty.” Larsa Younan Pippen<br />

is married to basketball star<br />

Scottie Pippen and was known<br />

as the “Hottest NBA wife.” A<br />

mother of four, Pippen boasts<br />

that she’s successful at everything<br />

she does. Her mother is<br />

Lebanese and her father is Assyrian.<br />

The show debuted on<br />

Bravo on February 22.<br />

Larsa Younan<br />

Pippen<br />

Refugees Find Home<br />

in Austria<br />

Austria says it is granting asylum to 30 Iraqi Christians<br />

fleeing persecution in their homeland, the Associated<br />

Press reports.<br />

The foreign ministry said the group was due in Vienna<br />

on February 17 and will receive refugee status.<br />

Foreign Minister Michael Spindelegger said in the<br />

long run measures are needed to ensure that Iraq’s<br />

ancient Christian community continues to exist and<br />

has the possibility to practice its religion freely.<br />

Welcome Words<br />

from Hizzoner<br />

The many Chaldean refugees<br />

resettling in El Cajon, California,<br />

are a welcome sight, said Mayor<br />

Mark Lewis.<br />

In a recent interview with the<br />

San Diego Union Tribune, he<br />

was asked what he tells longtime<br />

residents who worry that<br />

their city is changing. “El Cajon<br />

has always been changing and<br />

you just have to go with the flow.<br />

Mayor Mark Lewis<br />

This isn’t the first time we’ve had immigrants come in,”<br />

the mayor said. “All those Chaldean stores you see<br />

now around town, they contribute to the community.<br />

We welcome them, just like we welcome all.”<br />

Online Assyrian Dictionary<br />

Makes Progress<br />

The Association Assyrophile de France has completed<br />

the first phase of its online Assyrian dictionary project<br />

by digitizing Oraham’s Assyrian-English dictionary<br />

and adding French translations for all the words.<br />

The project is now adding Maclean’s Dictionary,<br />

Yoab Benjamin’s Dictionary and others. The dictionary<br />

is also being translated into Portuguese and German.<br />

Plans also call for adding audio to the dictionary, with<br />

each word being recorded for listening.<br />

The project is calling for Assyrian native speakers<br />

to volunteer for audio recording the words in the<br />

dictionary, and for working on other tasks in the project.<br />

Learn more by contacting Jean-Paul Sliva of Association<br />

Assyrophile de France at J-Paul.Sliva@actoulouse.fr.<br />

Visit the dictionary at PremiumWanadoo.<br />

com/cuneiform.languages/syriac.<br />

– Assyrian International News Agency, aina.org<br />

Women Businesses Get Boost<br />

A new federal grant program benefits women-owned<br />

businesses.<br />

The Women-Owned Small Business Federal<br />

Contract Program allows contracting officers for the<br />

first time to set aside business for those certified as<br />

women-owned or economically disadvantaged and<br />

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According to Grand Rapids Opportunity for Women,<br />

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in the country as of last year. By 2018, that number will<br />

grow to more than 60 percent.<br />

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the fourth quarter of fiscal year <strong>2011</strong>. Learn more by<br />

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14 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong>


Community Bulletin Board<br />

a hint of Spring<br />

More than 100 people gathered<br />

among the greenery of Planterra<br />

on February 3 for the Chaldean<br />

American Chamber of Commerce’s<br />

Quarterly Networking<br />

Meeting. The interior landscape<br />

company hosted the event at its<br />

lush West Bloomfi eld facility.<br />

Scholastic all Star<br />

Gabriella Maria D’Agostini has been<br />

honored by the Catholic High School<br />

League for being one of the top academic<br />

students in her class. She was<br />

presented with a bronze medal at a<br />

ceremony held at Ford Field recognizing<br />

her for being named as a member of the<br />

Scholastic All Catholic Team. Gabriella<br />

is a sophomore at Mercy High School.<br />

On the air<br />

Attorney Clarence Dass is dishing out legal<br />

news on Fridays during 96.3 WDVD’s Blaine<br />

& Allyson in the Morning show. Dass, a<br />

criminal defense attorney with the Detroit law<br />

fi rm Gurewitz & Raben, has a live segment<br />

called “Swift Justice” in which he highlights a<br />

controversial or offbeat legal issue.<br />

Sisters Open boutique<br />

Hip and trendy women are the target market<br />

for the new Royal Dutchess, a boutique<br />

recently opened by Candice Binno Pattah<br />

and Leslie Binno. The shop, located at<br />

4301 Orchard Lake Road in West Bloomfi<br />

eld, offers couture fashion at affordable<br />

prices. The sisters plan to add clothes and<br />

accessories for dogs. Drop by on March 3<br />

for a grand-opening celebration.<br />

let’s hear it for the home town<br />

The boys from Detroit won back<br />

to back San Diego Flag Football<br />

Tournaments this year and last year.<br />

Two years ago there were seven<br />

teams from San Diego and one from<br />

Detroit — and Detroit won it all.<br />

This year it was fi ve teams from San<br />

Diego and one from Detroit – and<br />

Team Camel from the Motor City<br />

was once again victorious.<br />

Sweet idea<br />

Children in First Communion classes at St. Thomas<br />

Chaldean Catholic Church in West Bloomfi eld are<br />

doing their bit for the refugees by selling Rice Krispie<br />

Treats and other goodies after the 5 p.m. mass on<br />

Saturdays. In less than a month, they raised more than<br />

$700 for the Adopt-a-Refugee-Family program. The<br />

young fundraisers include Kaden Ismail, Jagur Nafso,<br />

Jada Nafso, Nicholas Nafso, Jacob Nafso, Isabella<br />

Sheena, Riley Sheena and Rayven Sheena. “We shall<br />

keep baking, wrapping and selling every Saturday<br />

after the mass,” said 9-year-old Kaden. “We hope we<br />

can get more smiles on sad peoples’ faces. I hope we<br />

can get more people to help make a better world by<br />

helping these refugees.”<br />

Have an item for the Bulletin Board? Send it to<br />

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CHAI time<br />

chaldeans conNecting<br />

community events in and around metro detroit <strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong><br />

[Thursday, March 3]<br />

Dinner: The Annual Arabian Gallabia Night is presented<br />

by the Chaldean American Ladies of Charity<br />

and St. Toma Church. Includes dinner, dancing,<br />

games, raffles, a fashion show and live entertainment.<br />

7 p.m., Shenandoah Country Club. Tickets, $50, must<br />

be purchased in advance. (248) 538-8300.<br />

[Friday, March 4]<br />

Fashion: Geek to Chic is the theme of a fundraising<br />

spring fashion show at West Bloomfield<br />

High School. The event involves a number of local<br />

boutiques and salons, as well as more than 100<br />

students. Tickets are $8 and available at the door.<br />

7 p.m., West Bloomfield High School Auditorium,<br />

4925 Orchard Lake Road.<br />

[Sunday, March 6]<br />

Hockey: The Chaldean Hockey League’s playoff<br />

games are a fundraiser for the Adopt-a-Refugee-<br />

Family program. A free open skate starts the event<br />

from 7-8 p.m. Orchard Lake St. Mary’s Ice Arena.<br />

(248) 798-7774.<br />

[Sunday, March 6]<br />

Carnival: COACH holds an indoor carnival with<br />

games, food, raffle, activities and more. 2-6 p.m.,<br />

Shenandoah Country Club. All proceeds benefit refugee<br />

families. (248) 522-2441 or www.CoachInfo.org.<br />

[Sunday, March 6]<br />

Meeting: The Assyrian Aid Society of America –<br />

Central Valley Chapter in California holds an Awareness<br />

Night to give an update on its mission, achievements<br />

and goals. 5-7 p.m., Seasons Banquet, 945<br />

McHenry Avenue, Modesto. (510) 527-9997.<br />

[Tuesday, March 8]<br />

Health: Moving Beyond Stress Management to<br />

Achieving Stress Elimination is the topic of a Healthy<br />

Living seminar from Henry Ford Health System. 7-9<br />

p.m., Henry Ford Self-health Center, 39630 14 Mile<br />

Rd., Walled Lake. Register at (248) 960-2102 or<br />

www.HenryFordSelfHealth.com.<br />

[Thursday, March 10]<br />

Health: Getting Unstuck teaches how to break<br />

through the “immunity to change.” A Healthy Living<br />

seminar from Henry Ford Health System. 7-9 p.m.,<br />

Henry Ford Self-Health Center, 39630 14 Mile Rd.,<br />

Walled Lake. Register at (248) 960-2102 or www.<br />

HenryFordSelfHealth.com.<br />

[Saturday, March 12]<br />

Beer: Motor City Brew Tour includes a light lunch and<br />

beer sampling at three local breweries, including Copper<br />

Canyon in Southfield, Liberty Street in Plymouth and<br />

CJ’s Brewing in Commerce Township. The fee is $49.<br />

11 a.m.-4 p.m. Another tour on March 26 includes three<br />

downtown Detroit breweries. MotorCityBrewTour.com.<br />

[Sunday, March 13]<br />

Parade: St. Patrick’s Day Parade begins at 2 p.m. and<br />

includes marching bands, bagpipes and more. The<br />

route is along Michigan Avenue in Detroit’s Corktown.<br />

www.SaintPatricksDayParade.com/detroit.<br />

[Thursday, March 17]<br />

Concert: Fares Karam with special guest Emad Batayeh<br />

perform at the Regency Manor, 25228 W. 12 Mile in<br />

Southfield. Tickets start at $95. (248) 353-1133.<br />

[Friday, March 18]<br />

Music: Fares Karam with special guest Ahmad<br />

Hatoom perform at the Greenfield Manor, 4770<br />

Greenfield Road, Dearborn. Tickets start at $95.<br />

(313) 802-4000.<br />

[Saturday, March 19]<br />

Gardening: Growing Vegetables Organically covers<br />

the basics for all gardeners. The second class is held<br />

on March 26. Presented by the Michigan State University<br />

Master Gardener Program. $40, Oakland County<br />

Service Center in Waterford. (248) 858-0887.<br />

[Friday, March 25]<br />

Chamber: The Eighth Annual Awards Dinner of the<br />

Chaldean American Chamber of Commerce takes<br />

place at Shenandoah Country Club. www.Chaldean-<br />

Chamber.com.<br />

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Our little lady has arrived! Jake<br />

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7 lbs., 14 oz. and 21.5 inches<br />

long. She is the second child for<br />

Marvin & Sommer Yono. Proud<br />

grandparents are Salman & Yazdan<br />

Kassab and Munim & Sudad<br />

Yono. She was baptized at St.<br />

Thomas Church by her godparents<br />

Derick Kassab and Mervet Foumia.<br />

We are so lucky to have you in<br />

our lives. God bless you Anna.<br />

Brady Lance<br />

God has blessed us again! Proud<br />

big sister Charlize Ann is delighted<br />

to announce her little brother, Brady<br />

Lance! Brady was born on December<br />

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Sitto. He is the second grandchild<br />

for both Farid & Rafi da Sitto and<br />

Masoud & Jandar Matti.<br />

Liana Noel<br />

The Lord said, “My precious child,<br />

I love you and I would never leave<br />

you. During your times of trial and<br />

suffering, when you see only one<br />

set of footprints, it was then that I<br />

carried you.” Fidal & Lina Auri are<br />

proud to announce the birth of their<br />

daughter, Liana Noel. Liana was<br />

born on November 8, 2010 at 11:29<br />

p.m. weighing 7 lbs., 2 oz. and measuring<br />

21 inches long. She is the<br />

fi rst grandchild for Waleed & Maysoon<br />

Auri and the third for David &<br />

Bushra Ayoub. We are overjoyed for<br />

our angel. May God bless her.<br />

Zachary<br />

Sinan & Donna Zakar are blessed to<br />

announce the birth of their fi rst child,<br />

Zachary. He was born on September<br />

28, 2010 at 9:24 p.m. at Troy Beaumont<br />

Hospital. He weighed 8 lbs., 9<br />

oz. and was 21 inches long. Zachary<br />

is the sixth grandchild for Faisal &<br />

Hana Zakar and the fi rst for Hawel<br />

& Sahira Younan. Godparents are<br />

Nawar Zakar and Lenora Younan.<br />

Adrian Roger<br />

Thank Heaven for little boys!<br />

Contessa would like to announce<br />

the birth of her baby brother,<br />

Adrian Roger. Born on October<br />

31, 2010 at William Beaumont<br />

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oz. and measured 20 inches long.<br />

Proud parents are Reem & Roger<br />

Toma. Adrian is the sixth grandchild<br />

for Nawal & Sabah Toma<br />

and the fourth for Sahira & the late<br />

Dhafer Mansoor. Loving godparents<br />

are Uncle Anthony Mansoor<br />

and Auntie Bianca Toma.<br />

Anna Sloan<br />

Brady Lance<br />

Liana Noel<br />

Zachary<br />

Adrian Roger<br />

18 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong>


Magdalen Lily<br />

When those tiny fingers curl so<br />

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some of the deepest joy that you’ve<br />

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Qonja are proud to announce the<br />

birth of their fourth little angel, Magdalen<br />

Lily. She was born on November<br />

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Zetouna and Naela Asmaro. Proud<br />

godmother is Amira Zetouna.<br />

Jonah Jason<br />

Big sister Sophia is very proud to<br />

announce the arrival of a new baby<br />

brother, Jonah Jason. Jason & Maria<br />

Hamama were blessed to welcome<br />

their first son into the world on September<br />

9, 2010. So much to love<br />

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23 inches long. Jonah is the fifth<br />

grandchild for both Sabah & Samira<br />

Hamama and Gene & Valerie Belloli.<br />

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Krystal and Eric<br />

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<strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 19


obituary<br />

Naser G. Bodiya<br />

Naser G. Bodiya<br />

Naser G. Bodiya of West Bloomfield died<br />

January 25, <strong>2011</strong>, in Sterling Heights. He<br />

was 90 years old. Dr. Bodiya was born<br />

March 29, 1920, in Baghdad, Iraq, to Mirjana<br />

(nee Deddeh) and Jirgeose Bodiya.<br />

After arriving in the United States in<br />

1946, he earned a Bachelor of Science degree<br />

in 1949 and his MBA in 1950 from the<br />

University of Detroit. From 1950-1958 he<br />

was a part-time lecturer at U of D. In 1961,<br />

he received his Ph.D. from Michigan State<br />

University, specializing in economics, marketing<br />

and management. While pursuing<br />

the doctoral degree, Dr. Bodiya was a research assistant<br />

at the Bureau of Business and Economic Research<br />

at Michigan State University.<br />

After receiving the doctoral degree, Dr. Bodiya<br />

spent a year in Baghdad, Iraq, as a visiting professor at<br />

the Jesuit University of Al-Hikma. He was hired by the<br />

University of Detroit in 1962, and taught graduate and<br />

undergraduate courses in marketing, business policy<br />

and strategic planning for more than 30 years, until his<br />

retirement in 1992. Dr. Bodiya served the College of<br />

Business Administration in a variety of positions, including<br />

Assistant Dean for the MBA Program<br />

and Chair of Business Faculty. In<br />

addition to teaching, he participated in<br />

many scholastic activities and served as<br />

president of Beta Gamma Sigma, University<br />

of Detroit Chapter, from 1973-1988.<br />

Along with active participation in academics,<br />

Dr. Bodiya had extensive experience<br />

in industry in the areas of economics<br />

and consumer research with corporations<br />

such as Ford and Chrysler.<br />

In his long and active career at the<br />

university, Dr. Bodiya touched the lives of<br />

many students and was fondly regarded<br />

by his colleagues. He was deeply loved<br />

and will be sorely missed.<br />

Dr. Bodiya is survived by his children, Dale (Joan)<br />

Bodiya, Aida (Marc) Butler, Henry (Peggy) Bodiya, and<br />

Paul (Carol) Bodiya. He is also survived by 13 grandchildren,<br />

one great-grandchild and his siblings, Jacob,<br />

Rosa Zaiber and Nazhat Jwaida. Dr. Bodiya was preceded<br />

in death by his beloved wife, Aldona, and siblings,<br />

Victoria Murad Al-Shaikh, Saleem and Badie.<br />

Memorials may be made to U of D Jesuit High<br />

School, 8400 South Cambridge Avenue, Detroit,<br />

Michigan 48221.<br />

Recent Community deaths<br />

Sami Shaaouni<br />

February 17, 2010<br />

Basim Namo Kassab<br />

February 9, <strong>2011</strong><br />

Buthaina Mansor<br />

Habbo<br />

February 6, <strong>2011</strong><br />

Salima Kanono<br />

Salmo<br />

February 5, <strong>2011</strong><br />

Jamil Toma Dakki<br />

February 2, <strong>2011</strong><br />

Ileshwa Hermiz Jajo<br />

January 31, <strong>2011</strong><br />

Salima Kejbou Odish<br />

January 29, <strong>2011</strong><br />

Neil Yousif Alkammo<br />

January 28, <strong>2011</strong><br />

Sarah Hanna Konja<br />

January 27, <strong>2011</strong><br />

Haciena Tillie Denja<br />

Eshaki<br />

January 24, <strong>2011</strong><br />

Shimama Hirmiz<br />

January 24, <strong>2011</strong><br />

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obituary to info@chaldeannews.com,<br />

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places of prayer<br />

chaldean churches in and around metro detroit<br />

THE DIOCESE OF ST. THOMAS THE APOSTLE<br />

IN THE UNITED STATES<br />

St. Thomas Chaldean Catholic Diocese<br />

25603 Berg Road, Southfield, MI 48033;<br />

(248) 351-0440<br />

Mar (Bishop) Ibrahim N. Ibrahim<br />

www.chaldeandiocese.org<br />

HOLY MARTYRS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

43700 Merrill, Sterling Heights, MI 48312;<br />

(586) 803-3114<br />

Rector: Rev. Manuel Boji<br />

Parochial Vicar: Rev. Ayad Khanjaro<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 9 a.m. in Chaldean;<br />

Saturday, 5 p.m. in English; Sunday: 9 a.m. in<br />

Chaldean and Arabic, 10:30 a.m. in English,<br />

morning prayer at noon, high mass at 12:30 p.m.<br />

in Chaldean.<br />

MAR ADDAI CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

24010 Coolidge Highway, Oak Park, MI 48237;<br />

(248) 547-4648<br />

Pastor: Rev. Stephen Kallabat<br />

Parochial Vicars: Rev. Fadi Habib Khalaf, Rev.<br />

Suleiman Denha Mass Schedule: Weekdays,<br />

12 noon; Sunday, 10 a.m. in Sourath and Arabic,<br />

12:30 p.m. in Sourath<br />

MOTHER OF GOD CHALDEAN<br />

CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

25585 Berg Road, Southfield, MI 48034;<br />

(248) 356-0565<br />

Rector: Rev. Wisam Matti<br />

Parochial Vicar: Rev. Anthony Kathawa<br />

Bible Study: 7-9 p.m. for High School Ages in<br />

English; 7-9 p.m. College/Young Adult in English<br />

Mass Schedule: Monday, Wednesday, Friday,<br />

8 a.m. mass in English; Tuesday, 9 p.m. mass in<br />

English; Wednesday, noon-midnight, adoration;<br />

Saturday, 5:15 p.m. in English; Sunday: 8:30 a.m.<br />

in Arabic, 10 a.m. in English, noon in Chaldean,<br />

7 p.m. in English<br />

OUR LADY OF PERPETUAL HELP MISSION<br />

Located inside St. Sylvester Church<br />

11200 12 Mile Road, Warren, MI 48093;<br />

(586) 804-2114<br />

Pastors: Fr. Fadi Philip and Fr. Fawaz Kako<br />

Mass Schedule: Sunday 12:30 p.m. in Arabic<br />

and Chaldean<br />

SACRED HEART CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

310 W. Seven Mile Road, Detroit, MI 48203;<br />

(313) 368-6214<br />

Pastor: Fr. Sameem Belius<br />

Mass Schedule: Friday, 6 p.m. in Chaldean;<br />

Sunday 11 a.m. in Chaldean<br />

ST. GEORGE CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

45700 Dequindre Road, Shelby Township, MI<br />

48317; (586) 254-7221<br />

Pastor: Msgr. Emanuel Hana Isho Shaleta<br />

Assistant Pastor: Rev. Basel Yaldo<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m.; Saturday,<br />

6:30 p.m.; Sunday: 8:30 a.m. in Chaldean, 10 a.m. in<br />

Arabic, 11:30 a.m. in English, 1:15 p.m. in Chaldean.<br />

ST. JOSEPH CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

2442 E. Big Beaver Road, Troy, MI 48083;<br />

(248) 528-3676<br />

Pastor: Msgr. Zouhair Toma (Kejbou)<br />

Parochial Vicar: Fr. Rudy Zoma<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m. in Chaldean;<br />

Saturday, 5 p.m. in English and Chaldean; Sunday,<br />

8 a.m. in Chaldean, 9:30 a.m. in Arabic, 11 a.m. in<br />

English, 12:30 p.m. in Chaldean, 2:15 in Chaldean<br />

and Arabic. Baptisms: 3 p.m. on Sundays.<br />

ST. MARY HOLY APOSTOLIC CATHOLIC<br />

ASSYRIAN CHURCH OF THE EAST<br />

4320 E. 14 Mile Road, Warren, MI 48092;<br />

(586) 825-0290<br />

Rector: Fr. Benjamin Benjamin<br />

Mass Schedule: Sunday, 9 a.m. in Assyrian;<br />

12 noon in Assyrian and English<br />

ST. THOMAS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

6900 Maple Road, West Bloomfield, MI 48322;<br />

(248) 788-2460<br />

Pastor: Rev. Frank Kalabat Rev. Emanuel Rayes<br />

(retired) Parochial Vicar: Rev. Jirgus Abrahim<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m. in Sourath;<br />

Saturday, 5 p.m. in English; Sunday 9 a.m. in<br />

English, 10:30 a.m. in English, 12:30 p.m. in<br />

Sourath, 2 p.m. in Arabic. First Thursday and Friday<br />

of each month, Holy Hour 10 a.m., Mass 11 a.m. in<br />

Sourath. Saturday 3 p.m., Night Vespers (Ramsha)<br />

in Sourath. Every Wednesday from midnight to<br />

Thursday midnight, adoration in the Baptismal<br />

Room. Grotto is open 24/7 for prayer and reflection.<br />

ST. TOMA SYRIAC CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

25600 Drake Road, Farmington Hills, MI 48335;<br />

(248) 478-0835<br />

Pastor: Rev. Toma Behnama Fr. Safaa Habash<br />

Mass Schedule: Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday<br />

6 p.m.; Sunday 12 p.m. All masses are in Syriac,<br />

Arabic and English<br />

20 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong>


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the annual<br />

wedding guide<br />

candice<br />

hesano and<br />

zeyad gumma,<br />

June 6, 2010<br />

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<strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 23


the annual<br />

wedding guide<br />

a chaldean wedding survival guide<br />

Clip and save for your American friends!<br />

By Crystal KassaB JaBiro<br />

So it’s your fi rst time at a Chaldean<br />

wedding and you feel<br />

kind of awkward. At church,<br />

you see only about 50 people when<br />

you heard there would be 600. You<br />

shrug it off as you make your way<br />

to an empty pew, passing by several<br />

women in Oscar-style gowns and<br />

men in ordinary suits from Macy’s.<br />

You’re amazed by how many<br />

photographers the marrying couple<br />

has hired only to realize there is just<br />

one, and the rest are their relatives.<br />

When the groom walks down the<br />

aisle, you are jolted out of your seat<br />

because the women start making<br />

this shrill, bizarre sound with their<br />

mouths. They are smiling so you<br />

fi gure it was probably a good thing.<br />

You can’t help but stare at the white<br />

bow on this groom’s left arm though.<br />

The bridal party walks down,<br />

and fi nally the bride and her father<br />

do too — and there go the women<br />

making that yodeling sound again!<br />

After the couple walks up to the<br />

altar, the priest places crowns atop<br />

their heads. Alas! You start hearing<br />

prayers you recognize in English …<br />

and then it’s Aramaic. You try to<br />

keep up anyway.<br />

After all the singing, kneeling,<br />

praying, standing and preaching,<br />

the ceremony is over. The couple<br />

is announced as husband and wife,<br />

everyone claps, and those ladies<br />

make that noise again. You smile<br />

and wave to the bride and groom,<br />

and you Tweet about this unique experience<br />

while you walk to the car.<br />

You just don’t know what else<br />

you’re in for at the reception.<br />

In the recent past, we’ve tried<br />

to make our non-Chaldean friends<br />

comfortable at weddings by inviting<br />

them to pre-parties, making wedding<br />

programs, and having more<br />

“American music time.” The truth<br />

is that Chaldean weddings are different,<br />

and we want our friends who<br />

come from different backgrounds to<br />

understand our customs and appreciate<br />

our culture, even when some<br />

of us don’t have a clue either.<br />

Here’s your survival guide.<br />

Matthew loussia and lara Mekha, October 9, 2010<br />

phOtO by wilSOn SarkiS phOtOgraphy<br />

the haLhoLe<br />

A yodel? A cackle? We never know<br />

what to call it or compare it to except<br />

perhaps a Native American chant.<br />

Well, not really. It’s a high-pitched<br />

sound made by flapping your tongue<br />

and repeating “la, la, la.” (You might<br />

have seen joyous Egyptian women<br />

doing it on the news lately after the<br />

peaceful revolution.) A woman may<br />

cushion the piercing noise by placing<br />

a hand close to her mouth, or go all<br />

out and grab the microphone at the<br />

reception. Regardless, it’s a sign of<br />

love and respect, and those who do<br />

it are usually very close to the bride<br />

and/or groom. Have no fear — they’re<br />

not gearing up for war; they’re just expressing<br />

their joy and it’s another way<br />

of saying, “congratulations!”<br />

the White boW<br />

It’s called a kalila and it means<br />

“crown.” Not the kind of crown that<br />

goes atop your head, but a symbolic<br />

crown meaning the groom is taking<br />

leadership as head of the family. It<br />

is often adorned with gold and perhaps<br />

other “riches” like animal teeth<br />

or rubies. This fi guratively represents<br />

the hope that he and his new bride<br />

are “rich” in love.<br />

the CroWns<br />

No one is competing with Prince<br />

William and Kate the Commoner.<br />

Instead, the bride and groom are emulating<br />

Christ and his Church. Like<br />

Christ is head of the Church, the man<br />

is the head of his wife. This is not sexist<br />

at all — Christ needs the Church<br />

to maintain God’s glory, just like a<br />

husband needs his wife to help him<br />

maintain Christian values in their<br />

family. Their relationship is equal;<br />

they need one another to persevere.<br />

the ZeFFa<br />

The zeffa is essentially “the fi rst<br />

dance” as husband and wife, and<br />

the happy couple is ushered into the<br />

banquet hall in a frenzy of halholes<br />

and traditional belly dancing. Hundreds<br />

of people are seeing them as<br />

a married couple for the fi rst time,<br />

since only the closest family and<br />

friends actually attend the church<br />

ceremony (although all are welcome<br />

to do so). Even if you’re not a dancer,<br />

you should get up for this one. Otherwise,<br />

it looks impolite and you<br />

don’t want to be caught on camera<br />

stuffi ng your face when you should<br />

be welcoming the bride and groom<br />

to their table.<br />

the instruMents<br />

A zerna is a wind instrument, most<br />

closely resembling a fl ute, and a tabil<br />

is a drum. Two men passionately<br />

play the zerna and tabil to pump up<br />

the party while guests belly dance in<br />

the middle or line dance. These musicians<br />

are sometimes invited to the<br />

bride’s house or even to the church,<br />

but you’ll usually see them at the<br />

wedding during the zeffa and after<br />

dinner. It’s a fun musical mix to the<br />

night that’s usually full of Chaldean<br />

and Arabic singing, as well as Top 40<br />

American hits.<br />

the Late dinner<br />

Chaldeans love to do everything late<br />

[insert Chaldean time joke here].<br />

By tradition, Iraqis take their time,<br />

while American Chaldeans like to<br />

rush. Back in the day in the old<br />

country, dinner was served late in<br />

the evening. Immigrants continued<br />

that habit, especially as many got<br />

into the grocery business and worked<br />

long hours. Nowadays, it’s become<br />

customary to wait till 10 p.m. to ensure<br />

that everyone has left work and<br />

is there, even if they’re not closing<br />

the store. And it’s about that time to<br />

leave the bar area anyway.<br />

the bridesMaids’ dresses<br />

Whether the bridesmaids’ gowns are<br />

simple or elaborate, they have usually<br />

been paid for by the bride and/<br />

or her family. It’s considered an<br />

honor to stand up in a wedding, and<br />

it would be disrespectful for a bride<br />

to ask her closest female friends and<br />

cousins to pay for a dress. Besides,<br />

these fl attered females “pay it back”<br />

in the form of a substantial cash wedding<br />

gift.<br />

Who Foots the biLL?<br />

The old school way was for the<br />

groom’s parents to pay for everything<br />

from the tuxedos to the flowers to the<br />

food. But our marrying men now have<br />

grown more independent from their<br />

families and pay deposits themselves.<br />

It depends on the economic situation<br />

though. The truth is, it’s the guests<br />

who pay with their generous gifts of<br />

money. Unlike traditional American<br />

weddings, Chaldeans do not receive<br />

gifts off a registry but envelopes of<br />

cold, hard cash. Most couples use<br />

that money to pay off the debts they<br />

incurred when planning the wedding.<br />

So how much should you give? It’s to<br />

your discretion, but an average giftper-person<br />

is about $100.<br />

24 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong>


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wedding guide<br />

CuStomiZE it<br />

Flowers are everywhere. It’s a<br />

continuing trend from 2010 but<br />

brides this year are taking it a<br />

step further – customizing fl owers<br />

to match their bouquets or even<br />

their parents’ wedding fl owers.<br />

Heirloom pieces such as belts<br />

and custom crystal pendants<br />

sewn into the gown, which are<br />

later converted into jewelry to be<br />

passed to the bride’s daughter<br />

instead of the dress, is also<br />

something we’re seeing more<br />

and more. The newest trend right<br />

now at Le Salon are the va-vavoom<br />

corsets by our new line,<br />

Oasis by Rina; the original Pnina<br />

Tornai with more dramatic skirts;<br />

and innovative accessories that<br />

attach to the dress.<br />

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We have a man who does custom<br />

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more but it really changes the<br />

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– Jason Rose,<br />

Consultant/GIA Graduate<br />

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from aisle to zeffa<br />

Website celebrates Chaldean weddings<br />

By JoyCe WisWell<br />

brian bajoka’s wedding to<br />

kristin Jirjis inspired him to<br />

work on the website.<br />

Popular wisdom says that<br />

grooms aren’t interested<br />

in the wedding and are<br />

happy to let their brides take<br />

over all the arrangements.<br />

Don’t believe it, said Brian Bajoka,<br />

co-owner of the new website<br />

MyChaldeanWedding.com.<br />

Bajoka said he was frustrated<br />

by a lack of local information<br />

during the planning of his wedding<br />

to Kristin Jirjis. The two<br />

were married at St. Thomas<br />

Chaldean Catholic Church on<br />

June 14, 2009 and celebrated<br />

with a reception at Penna’s of<br />

Sterling Heights.<br />

“I was complaining about<br />

the whole process of fi nding<br />

vendors and different ideas with<br />

a group of guys who were all getting<br />

married,” he said. “Guys are<br />

not supposed to care but when<br />

you start talking about it, you<br />

fi nd that a lot of guys do get involved.<br />

If I had something like<br />

this I would have used it to fi nd<br />

my tuxedo or the groomsmen’s<br />

gifts.”<br />

After kicking around the<br />

idea, Bajoka and his partner<br />

Robert Shammas developed<br />

MyChaldeanWedding.com,<br />

which just launched on January<br />

3. Shammas is handling the programming<br />

and other technical<br />

matters while Bajoka heads up<br />

sales. Both men also continue<br />

to work at their family stores in<br />

Port Huron – Express Liquor for<br />

Shammas and Blue Water Liquor<br />

for Bajoka.<br />

“So far we’ve had nothing<br />

but really good responses,” Bajoka<br />

said of the new venture.<br />

“People think this is something<br />

that should have been done a<br />

long time ago and wonder why it hasn’t.”<br />

Unlike popular wedding sites on the national level,<br />

MyChaldeanWedding.com is purely local, Bajoka said.<br />

“The Knot does not have what our culture wants,” he<br />

said of the popular wedding website. “We do our weddings<br />

a lot differently – the clothing we wear, the fl owers<br />

we do.”<br />

The site offers an interactive local vendors directory<br />

– which provides the<br />

income – as well as wedding<br />

planning tips and tools, photo<br />

galleries, honeymoon ideas<br />

and other resources. The<br />

owners plan to add a feature<br />

that allows couples to create<br />

their own wedding website,<br />

complete with engagement<br />

photos and videos from the<br />

reception. They also plan to<br />

add raffl es, an Ask the Expert<br />

section with Chaldean wedding<br />

planners and updates on<br />

marriage classes at Michigan’s<br />

Chaldean churches.<br />

“The site is nowhere near<br />

where it’s going to be,” Bajoka<br />

said. “We are adding content<br />

every day.”<br />

Bajoka hopes the site will be his ticket out of the<br />

party store business with its never-ending schedule and<br />

demands. “The store has provided us with a comfortable<br />

living and gave me the chance to go to college, but<br />

I am the only son and my dad and I work every day,”<br />

he said. “I love my customers and the area, but I can’t<br />

stand the fact that on a Sunday me and my dad can’t be<br />

home watching football.”<br />

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the annual<br />

wedding guide<br />

chaldean on the StrEEt<br />

DoN’t SkimP<br />

Choosing the right photographer<br />

is important when planning a<br />

wedding. Do not compromise<br />

when it comes to your wedding<br />

photography. Hire a good photographer.<br />

You spend so much time<br />

and money to make your wedding<br />

look and feel exactly the way you<br />

want, and it will be all over in few<br />

hours. The only tangible proof of<br />

your efforts and beauty during the<br />

wedding day will be the photos<br />

and videos. Chose wisely!<br />

– Wilson Sarkis, Owner<br />

Wilson Sarkis Photography<br />

What’s the most unique thing you’ve<br />

seen at a Chaldean wedding?<br />

By anthony samona<br />

With wedding season upon us, couples and community members<br />

share their thoughts about traditional Chaldean weddings.<br />

SAy it WitH<br />

JEWELry<br />

Jewelry is a timeless expression of<br />

love and commitment. Aside from<br />

the traditional and classic looks,<br />

there are many trends emerging<br />

that rock the industry today.<br />

Engagement rings contain more<br />

fancy shapes such as Radiant,<br />

Pear, Asscher, Cushion and Oval.<br />

Men are choosing more elaborate<br />

designs with carvings, or even the<br />

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For the bride and groom, you can<br />

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Franck Muller. Embrace elegance<br />

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your wedding day.<br />

– Christan Shina, Sales Manager<br />

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A unique idea is a cappuccino<br />

and Bananas Foster stand for<br />

dessert. A must for us is to make<br />

sure the night is special and the<br />

guests truly enjoy themselves.<br />

The quality of the food and a<br />

premium bar is a must. One<br />

piece of advice we have gotten<br />

from married couples is to take a<br />

moment that night, step back and<br />

observe all your family and friends<br />

celebrating the occasion.<br />

— Awan Mukhtar, Sterling Heights<br />

Bryant Kuza, West Bloomfi eld<br />

Having a white dance fl oor at my<br />

wedding was a very unique idea.<br />

It added an elegant touch to the<br />

banquet hall, and made such a<br />

difference. Without the help of<br />

my wedding planners, I don’t<br />

think I could have gone through<br />

the day. Making sure you have<br />

excellent wedding planners is very<br />

important because they can make<br />

or break your day.<br />

— Candice Pattah<br />

West Bloomfi eld<br />

A meaningful and unique idea is for<br />

the bride and groom to donate to a<br />

charity group. They can eliminate the<br />

extra add-ons such as “favors” that<br />

people might take home and later<br />

throw away, and use that money as<br />

an act of kindness for those in need.<br />

A must at every wedding should be<br />

a fabulous photographer. These are<br />

the moments that you will cherish<br />

forever, and they are all you have to<br />

look back on.<br />

— Leslie Binno<br />

West Bloomfi eld<br />

ACCESSoriZE<br />

For <strong>2011</strong> wedding accessories,<br />

think classic, vintage, elegant<br />

and embellished. Hot off the runways<br />

are waist-accentuating bridal<br />

belts, each uniquely adorned<br />

with crystals, jewels, pearls and<br />

fl owers, giving a custom look to<br />

any dress. Also, headgear is a<br />

must for this year’s bride. Mix and<br />

match different veils with stunning<br />

shimmery headbands and combs,<br />

or with vintage-inspired fl owers,<br />

until you get the look that is perfect<br />

for you.<br />

– Riva Kalasho<br />

Co-owner, Lace Boutique<br />

The most unique and traditional<br />

thing I’ve seen at weddings are<br />

the zerna and tabil (fl ute and<br />

drum). Your wedding should be<br />

the happiest day of your life, and<br />

it is important to make sure your<br />

guests are happy as well. Music<br />

triggers a unique kind of happiness<br />

at our weddings. A must is a<br />

bridal party that offers their time,<br />

love, care and happiness for the<br />

bride and groom, making sure that<br />

their day is one to never forget.<br />

— Melinda Attiq<br />

West Bloomfi eld<br />

The most unique things we have<br />

seen is a bride sitting in a chair and<br />

carried by Arabian dancers, and<br />

beautiful ice sculptures. A wedding<br />

is a great time to showcase your<br />

creativity and personality. A must<br />

is a great ambiance that includes<br />

beautiful fl owers, lively music and<br />

perfect lighting. Another must is a<br />

relaxed bride and groom who truly<br />

enjoy celebrating the night (and<br />

each other) instead of fussing over<br />

small details.<br />

— Kristine Kallabat of Bloomfield Hills<br />

Kenny Kashat of West Bloomfield<br />

The most unique thing at a<br />

Chaldean wedding we have seen<br />

was a musician during cocktail<br />

hour. It gives great entertainment<br />

for the guests. A “must have”<br />

are zeffa sticks, which are a nice<br />

touch, and classy invitations.<br />

— Matt and Melanie Zoma<br />

West Bloomfi eld<br />

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the annual<br />

the annual<br />

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norma khemmoro, new wife of eran Qarana, enters her reception in style on august 8, 2010.<br />

wilSOn SarkiS phOtOgraphy<br />

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30 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong>


your wedding checklist<br />

Confi rm the number of guests.<br />

Decide the wedding budget before you start planning.<br />

Book the church.<br />

heather hayek and her bridesmaids on november 21, 2010 after she and ben bedros<br />

were wed. ivan geOrge/Futurewave iMageS<br />

Consult with at least three vendors in each category.<br />

Band<br />

Florist<br />

Boutique for the gowns<br />

Jeweler<br />

Makeup artists and hairdresser<br />

Photographer<br />

Videographer<br />

Hall<br />

Limousine company<br />

Invitations<br />

Choose a wedding planner.<br />

Think themes: color and season.<br />

naseem gulli and georgia kashat, May 2, 2010<br />

Map out your to-do list months in advance and keep track of what needs<br />

to be done each day, week and month leading up to the big day.<br />

Pick out tuxedos.<br />

Pick out bridesmaid dresses.<br />

Many Chaldeans don’t give out favors at the wedding but if you do,<br />

tie into your theme or the Chaldean culture.<br />

Choose your zeffa song (entrance dance).<br />

Incorporate the traditional drums and fl ute into the zeffa dance.<br />

Inform non-Chaldean guests of some traditions,<br />

such as if dinner is being served after 8 p.m.<br />

Decide when Arabic/Chaldean music will be played and when American<br />

music will be played; discuss with the band and deliver song list.<br />

Buy gifts for the wedding party, perhaps something that compliments your<br />

theme or that they can use at the wedding such as jewelry.<br />

Be active in organizing your wedding ceremony with readings and music.<br />

timothy Matsamakis and anita keina, June 27, 2010 wilSOn SarkiS phOtOgraphy<br />

Decide who will read and sing at the wedding.<br />

Create an agenda with a detailed rundown of exact times for the wedding<br />

day that vendors and the wedding planner can follow.<br />

Keep a wedding journal detailing the plans.<br />

Have handy the contact information of all vendors.<br />

Arrange for your wedding dress to be cleaned and packaged to preserve.<br />

Give the best man the checks that need to be handed out to vendors<br />

the day of the wedding.<br />

Pick a rehearsal day and location.<br />

Finalize seating assignments at wedding.<br />

Apply for your marriage license.<br />

Create a wedding program that includes explanations of Chaldean traditions.<br />

Michael romaya and nicole Shammami, december 12, 2009<br />

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shower power<br />

Throw an unforgettable event<br />

By Crystal KassaB JaBiro<br />

an elegant outdoor party is always a hit — whether with wine or chai.<br />

Even though you have booked<br />

your church ceremony and reserved<br />

your hall, you and your<br />

bridesmaids still have more party<br />

planning to do. The pre-events, like<br />

the tanatha , or “the promise,” and<br />

the khituba, “or engagement,” could<br />

be just as hectic. Unfortunately for<br />

those attending, they can also be<br />

mundane.<br />

Wedding showers have long been<br />

a gathering of women with games,<br />

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The fi rst plan of action is to<br />

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her honeymoon?<br />

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Southern belles<br />

Breakfast at Tiffany’s – 1960s glam<br />

The Great Gatsby – the Roaring ‘20s<br />

Once you have chosen your<br />

theme, you have to choose a venue<br />

that suits it. An outdoor luau with<br />

a pig on a spit is much more fabulous<br />

than a banquet hall cooking<br />

a pig in the oven, but is does not<br />

mean you are limited. Be creative!<br />

Your invitations, favors, food,<br />

décor and games all need to complement<br />

one another. It surely is a<br />

daunting task, but there are people<br />

who can help you.<br />

Jeana Asmaro of Beyond Words<br />

Events claims there is nothing<br />

more annoying than an unorganized<br />

event. That is why she and<br />

her team coordinate and emcee<br />

bridal showers so the bride-to-be<br />

and her bridesmaids can enjoy the<br />

event without the stress of managing<br />

all the details.<br />

“Most people try to do a theme,<br />

but it can be challenging for<br />

some,” said Asmaro. “That is why<br />

our team organizes the party to fit<br />

the bride’s personality. Otherwise,<br />

it doesn’t make sense.”<br />

Asmaro said one new trend<br />

that is slowly catching on in the<br />

Chaldean community is an upscale<br />

outdoor gala. This event requires<br />

much planning; after all, you need<br />

to rent tents, tables, linens, chairs,<br />

flooring and possibly lighting.<br />

And that’s not all.<br />

Asmaro suggests hiring two<br />

chefs — one for each side of a fullycovered<br />

tent — to cook the meals<br />

for your guests. This tent would<br />

solely be for food, drinks and dessert.<br />

She recommends a separate<br />

tent for seating – and sturdy centerpieces<br />

in case it’s breezy.<br />

The weather is never a guarantee,<br />

of course, but if the coordinators<br />

have 24 hours notice, they can<br />

add sides to the seating-area tent.<br />

And sure, the price-tag is fairly<br />

hefty. Tents alone could cost about<br />

$1,000. What if you can’t afford<br />

something so dramatic?<br />

“The tea party is still popular,”<br />

said Asmaro. “We just like to do<br />

different things with it.”<br />

One idea for an easy, classic and<br />

inexpensive tea party is to have an<br />

intimate gathering of women in<br />

the early afternoon, even at someone’s<br />

home. Order thematic invitations<br />

and encourage your guests<br />

to wear pretty hats to “chai time.”<br />

Serve a variety of tea sandwiches<br />

and simple salads, like garden and<br />

Caesar. Include finger appetizers,<br />

like mini-quiches and cheese, as<br />

well as cut-up fruit. Of course, no<br />

tea party is complete without the<br />

tea and teacups themselves.<br />

Use a couple of coffee urns for<br />

hot water and supply a variety of<br />

teas for your guests to try. Also,<br />

have a couple of iced-tea decanters<br />

for those who prefer a cold<br />

drink. Check local stores for the<br />

perfect teacups, or for an extraspecial<br />

touch, use your mother’s or<br />

grandmother’s teacups.<br />

For centerpieces, use ornate tea<br />

kettles and fill them with flowers<br />

that are in season. Add some<br />

extraordinary touches by ordering<br />

personalized tea bag favors and designed<br />

sugar cubes. You can find<br />

that and more on www.4showers.<br />

com.<br />

Always remember the age group<br />

of the majority when planning the<br />

games. Remember to include a game<br />

to give away the centerpieces — and<br />

to vote on the best hat.<br />

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<strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 33


the annual<br />

wedding guide<br />

disaster: averted<br />

Try these tips from the pros<br />

By Andrew Keina and Lawrence Yaldo<br />

You’ve planned everything for your wedding<br />

down to the last detail. You’re sure everything<br />

is going to be perfect, but let’s face<br />

the facts … several mishaps could arise. But remember:<br />

the only things your guests will notice are<br />

wrong are the things you point out to them.<br />

While it’s impossible to predict everything that<br />

might go awry, here are a few suggestions to deal<br />

with the most-common upsets.<br />

You’re a Mess!<br />

Mishap: Your makeup smears, your hair falls apart,<br />

someone spills a glass of red wine on your dress, a tuxedo<br />

button falls off, your dress tears.<br />

Fix It: Pack an emergency kit with<br />

important items that will help save<br />

you in a wedding day crisis: bobby<br />

pins, hairspray, makeup, tissues, aspirin,<br />

mints, water, deodorant, perfume,<br />

lotion, safety pins, stain remover<br />

cloths and a sewing kit.<br />

For a wine spill, do not panic!<br />

Find someone responsible to act<br />

quickly to efficiently remove the<br />

stain. Blot the stain with a clean,<br />

damp cloth until no more of the<br />

red wine can be lifted. Don’t rub<br />

the stain to get it out; this will only<br />

cause it to spread, making the problem<br />

worse. Rubbing can also weaken<br />

the fibers of your dress causing tears.<br />

Dampen the cloth and continue to<br />

blot until you remove as much of the<br />

stain as possible.<br />

SUV to transport the bridal party to the ceremony<br />

and then to the reception.<br />

It’s a Family Feud<br />

Mishap: Tension exists even between the closest<br />

and most tight-knit families and an argument may<br />

ensue at the wedding.<br />

Dealing With It: Tensions between relatives can<br />

dampen the joy of your wedding day, but with the<br />

right attitude and a positive approach, you can try<br />

to eliminate family friction. Attempt to sit down<br />

with those involved and air your concerns. Explain<br />

that your wedding day is one of the happiest<br />

Don’t Forget the Groom<br />

Many grooms don’t help plan a wedding because they feel as if their brides<br />

don’t want them involved. If you want your man to be a part of the process,<br />

you need to let him know from the start that he plays an important role.<br />

Here are a few tips to involve the groom-to-be without overwhelming him.<br />

Tip #1 Plan the Honeymoon<br />

Giving the groom jurisdiction to plan a honeymoon is one way to keeping him<br />

involved without being too cumbersome.<br />

Tip #2 Come Along on Appointments<br />

A wedding can cost a significant amount of money and the groom should be<br />

well informed of how costs are allocated.<br />

Tip #3 Choose a Groom’s Cake<br />

Many think that a wedding reflects the style and personality of the bride.<br />

However, a creative way to showcase the man’s interests is adding a small<br />

groom’s cake in addition to the traditional wedding cake. For example, if the<br />

groom is a sports fan, a cake depicting his favorite team is ideal.<br />

moments of your life, and that family members can<br />

help by putting aside their differences for one day.<br />

Furthermore, appoint a mediating family member<br />

prior to the wedding to facilitate peace between<br />

the hostile parties involved. This mediator should<br />

escort the arguing family members outside the reception<br />

and remind them that they are here celebrating<br />

a wedding.<br />

You’re Running Late<br />

Mishap: People are waiting at the reception and<br />

you’re nowhere near ready for your entrance.<br />

Avoid It: From your bridal party to your family<br />

and friends, time is of the essence the day of your<br />

wedding. Create timelines and distribute it to your<br />

family and bridal party to ensure that everyone<br />

knows where to go and where to be. You may adjust<br />

the times on the schedule by a half-hour to avoid<br />

having things fall behind schedule. If you’re really<br />

running late, eliminate the receiving line to make<br />

up for lost time. The bride and groom as well as the<br />

parents can use dinner time to great and thank all<br />

guests for attending.<br />

Even though the details you have<br />

spent months worrying over may not go<br />

as planned, the majority of your guests<br />

will not know the difference. Keep your<br />

composure and delegate any problems that<br />

arise so you can enjoy yourself throughout<br />

the entire day. Hire a professional wedding<br />

coordinator to troubleshoot issues that you<br />

deem to be paramount. You have enough<br />

on your mind without having to worry<br />

about the endless details of your wedding.<br />

Keep your cool and just remember<br />

what’s really important – if you are married<br />

at the end of the day, the wedding<br />

was a success!<br />

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Where’s the Limo?<br />

Mishap: The limousine either does not show up at<br />

all, or they show up with the wrong car. To make<br />

matters worse, the A/C is not working, the windows<br />

don’t roll down, the champagne is warm and<br />

the equipment is in overall disrepair. Afterwards,<br />

you demand a refund but they refuse, stating that<br />

you accepted the limo as delivered and they performed<br />

their service. You have no contract in writing<br />

stating what they promised you so your chances<br />

of winning in court are zero.<br />

Avoid It: Some limo companies do not own the<br />

limo in their ads and therefore sublease it from another<br />

company. Filter out these brokers by asking<br />

to come inspect theirs cars to ensure they are in<br />

a suitable condition. Although a limo serves as a<br />

traditional means of transporting the bridal party<br />

to the ceremony and reception, there is a simple<br />

solution if the limo does not show up: Call on the<br />

assistance of a close family or friend with a large<br />

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to Rhonda Garmo with<br />

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the annual<br />

wedding guide<br />

the CouNSELor is in<br />

After the wedding, the real work begins<br />

By iKlas J. Bashi, lPC, nCC<br />

For this reason a man shall<br />

leave his father and mother<br />

and be joined to his wife,<br />

and the two shall become one<br />

fl esh (Matthew 19:5).<br />

A<br />

friend of mine once<br />

shared a quote from<br />

his pastor about<br />

marriage: “When you marry<br />

someone, you are not only<br />

marrying a person, you are<br />

marrying history.” I would<br />

have to agree. When two<br />

people get married, they are mingling<br />

the totality of their life experiences.<br />

These experiences shape the way<br />

each of them views people and the<br />

world. And from these experiences,<br />

they’ve developed a set of values and<br />

beliefs as well as a frame of reference<br />

to defi ne all other experiences.<br />

The most valuable thing engaged<br />

couples can give to one another<br />

is consistent dialogue and sharing<br />

about their own experiences, values,<br />

beliefs, hopes and goals for the future.<br />

Following are some guidelines<br />

that can be used as a starting point<br />

and key characteristics to strive for<br />

in the relationship.<br />

god and Faith taKe<br />

Center stage<br />

Humility in knowing that all gifts,<br />

including my spouse, come from<br />

God gives me emotional security and<br />

keeps the marriage strong. Psychological<br />

and spiritually based statistics<br />

show that God and faith are vital to<br />

marital health and happiness. Regular<br />

church attendance, couple prayer,<br />

attending Bible study or other faithbased<br />

classes help create a solid foundation<br />

for marriage. Belief in God often<br />

also means a belief that marriage<br />

itself is sacred. Grace that comes<br />

from marriage helps each spouse help<br />

the other grow in holiness.<br />

aCCept and be YourseLF<br />

Accepting that you are accepted and<br />

loved by God despite your limitations<br />

and shortcomings is not an easy<br />

thing. Often, we can be our own worst<br />

critic. It is critical to the marriage to<br />

do the work of personal growth and<br />

healing. As a couple, begin now by<br />

going before the Blessed Sacrament<br />

and ask God to help you see yourselves<br />

the way He sees you. This area<br />

iKlas J. Bashi,<br />

lPC, nCC<br />

SPECIAL TO THE<br />

CHALDEAN NEWS<br />

is important because what<br />

we cannot accept about<br />

ourselves ends up being the<br />

very thing we often project<br />

onto our spouse because it<br />

is too dark for us to look at<br />

honestly and courageously.<br />

Work always toward being<br />

authentically genuine.<br />

CanCeL Your pLans to<br />

Humility in knowing<br />

that all gifts,<br />

including my spouse,<br />

come from god<br />

gives me emotional<br />

security and keeps<br />

the marriage strong.<br />

Psychological and<br />

spiritually based<br />

statistics show that<br />

god and faith are<br />

vital to marital health<br />

and happiness.<br />

Change Your spouse<br />

According to Dr. John Gottman<br />

of the Gottman Relationship<br />

Institute, 69 percent of issues<br />

that couples disagree on early in marriage<br />

are not resolved later. Do not go<br />

into marriage thinking you will change<br />

your spouse. Real love says to the beloved,<br />

“I love you even with your<br />

imperfect ways.” After all, we are all<br />

limited and we all need improvement.<br />

We are each responsible for our own<br />

change. Changing someone else is not<br />

in our control and it usually doesn’t<br />

work. It will leave everyone feeling<br />

disillusioned, unloved and judged.<br />

praCtiCe MutuaL respeCt<br />

and integritY<br />

Respect is the value you place on the<br />

ability of your spouse to do something.<br />

It could be taking care of the children,<br />

managing the bills/finances, taking<br />

care of the home, etc. That value<br />

makes him or her feel appreciated and<br />

loved. Integrity involves quality of<br />

character. Couples with mutual respect<br />

and integrity are not too proud to say<br />

“I’m sorry” when they know they have<br />

offended. Pride and ego work against<br />

cultivating respect and integrity. Admit<br />

it when you are wrong. You and<br />

your spouse will be better for it.<br />

VaLue the Marriage oVer<br />

indiViduaL goaLs<br />

Sometimes people get married and<br />

yet carry on with life as if they are still<br />

single. Our faith encourages us toward<br />

selflessness versus pursuing our ego<br />

desires. This does not mean I am a<br />

doormat for my spouse. It does mean<br />

that I am more concerned about my<br />

spouse than myself. Our love toward<br />

one another ought to be life-giving.<br />

True love demands that I make sacrifices<br />

for my spouse. Our ancestors<br />

knew this well, which is why their<br />

marriages endured more in the past.<br />

set boundaries about ChiLdren<br />

Each spouse will have differing<br />

opinions about how to raise their<br />

children. The standards and rules<br />

established in your home should not<br />

be contradicted by anyone, including<br />

your in-laws. If boundaries are<br />

not set and clearly communicated<br />

among the family, problems and confl<br />

icts will arise — and persist when<br />

the husband or wife fails to correct<br />

their parent or family member when<br />

boundaries have been breached.<br />

Each spouse ought to be committed<br />

to protect the marital relationship.<br />

deaLing With in-LaWs and<br />

eXtended FaMiLY<br />

Husband and wife should be united<br />

regardless of outside opinion. When<br />

two become married, it is time they<br />

form an independent identity from<br />

their parents. When this is done<br />

consistently, couples learn to rely on<br />

one another versus being dependent<br />

on their parents. Discuss and agree<br />

upon how to defi ne your relationship<br />

with in-laws. Negotiate the boundaries<br />

you want your in-laws to have.<br />

They need to honor and respect<br />

the relationship between husband<br />

and wife. All too often, in-laws and<br />

couples have no clear boundaries and<br />

access each other’s lives any time and<br />

under any circumstance.<br />

reMeMber ForgiVeness<br />

Forgiveness in marriage builds intimacy.<br />

It is inevitable that we will<br />

sometimes hurt or offend. If we want<br />

to be forgiven, we must forgive.<br />

Confession, instead of something<br />

to be feared, is very liberating and<br />

a positive experience. Through it,<br />

God bestows graces upon us to avoid<br />

sin in the future. Why wouldn’t anyone<br />

access this most powerful gift<br />

of the Church? Confession gets us<br />

in touch with reality and that is a<br />

healthy place to be. The darkest<br />

part of ourselves is touched by love<br />

and understanding. Every time we<br />

go to confession, especially as a<br />

couple, we are forgiven and healed.<br />

Graces received from regular confession<br />

strengthen our bond of love<br />

and equip us with a deeper commitment<br />

to be true to God, the marriage<br />

and ourselves.<br />

address issues With<br />

LoVe, not anger<br />

When a problem arises, it should be<br />

communicated and discussed right<br />

away whenever possible. Whether<br />

between husband and wife or with<br />

in-laws, do not wait until issues fester<br />

and turn into resentment and<br />

bitterness. Problems arise when<br />

couples fail to discuss what has hurt<br />

or disappointed them until it is too<br />

late. Talk about issues until you<br />

both feel you have come to a resolution<br />

and closure. Communicate<br />

your wants and needs in the relationship.<br />

This will prevent issues in<br />

the future.<br />

We all want our marriages not<br />

only to survive, but to thrive. Our<br />

past histories infl uence who we<br />

become as a couple. Through the<br />

Sacrament of Matrimony, God has<br />

ordained that we begin our own life<br />

story and make it forever a testimony<br />

to His glory.<br />

Iklas J. Bashi, LPC, NCC, is a writer,<br />

counselor, life coach and speaker. She<br />

offers group workshops, seminars and<br />

presentations on a wide variety of<br />

topics that combine her training and<br />

experience in psychology as well as her<br />

Catholic spirituality. She is available to<br />

speak on mental health and wellbeing<br />

issues. Find her at www.ahigherwayllc.<br />

com. Email questions and comments to<br />

ahigherwayllc@gmail.com.<br />

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the annual<br />

wedding guide<br />

Shenandoah Country Club:<br />

Confessions of the wedding staff<br />

Overly competitive brides,<br />

scores of last-minute guests,<br />

precocious children who<br />

grab the microphone and won’t<br />

give it back — they’ve seen it all<br />

at Shenandoah Country Club. The<br />

West Bloomfi eld facility hosts as<br />

many as 150 weddings each year,<br />

about 80 percent of which are Chaldean.<br />

The largest one had 730 guests<br />

and the most expensive was a whopping<br />

$180 per head.<br />

Catering Manager Rhonda<br />

Foumia has been with club<br />

owners CIAAM for 10 years,<br />

since the days of the Southfield<br />

Manor. Executive Chef<br />

Furat Altawil, a graduate of<br />

the Art Institute of Michigan,<br />

has been at Shenandoah<br />

since 2008. The two sat down<br />

with Managing Editor Joyce<br />

Wiswell to discuss the good,<br />

the bad and the ugly about the<br />

wedding reception business.<br />

Chaldean News: What’s your<br />

biggest challenge with holding<br />

weddings?<br />

Rhonda Foumia: Honestly, it’s fi nalizing<br />

the counts of guests ahead of<br />

time. The couple is supposed to give<br />

us a count 14 days before the wedding;<br />

that way they have time to go<br />

through their RSVPs. In this world,<br />

unfortunately, it doesn’t happen; so<br />

we work with them until seven days<br />

before. We need that time to help us<br />

purchase and staff accordingly.<br />

Chef Furat Altawil: For a Saturday<br />

or Sunday wedding, we have to<br />

have all the food in the club by Friday<br />

because there are no deliveries on the<br />

weekend. So when we get a last-minute<br />

call saying to expect more people,<br />

that’s an issue. Sometimes we find out<br />

an hour before serving that we need<br />

30 [servings of] fish.<br />

CN: What do you do in a case like that?<br />

FA: We have our techniques in the<br />

kitchen. Maybe we’ll use a different<br />

fi sh that we have on hand; instead of<br />

salmon it may be tilapia or whitefi sh.<br />

In the end, they’ll be happy. But the<br />

pressure is on us. And it’s not just<br />

the kitchen. How are you going to<br />

fi t 35 or 40 more chairs and have everybody<br />

be comfortable? If you have<br />

to add more tables, do you move the<br />

tables already set up? The bride and<br />

groom think it’s easy, and it’s not.<br />

RF: A couple of weeks ago we discovered<br />

that the bride was a vegetarian<br />

an hour before we served<br />

dinner. All of a sudden she became<br />

vegetarian – it was never mentioned<br />

throughout all the food tasting and<br />

menu selection.<br />

FA: It’s an issue because I have to<br />

give the bride and groom the best<br />

of what I have, from presentation to<br />

Furat altawil, rhonda Foumia and general Manager lee<br />

Sharkas have seen it all.<br />

taste, so I had a half-hour to come up<br />

with a vegetarian dish for the bride.<br />

Another time we had a bride who<br />

wanted to eat shrimp, and the groom<br />

was allergic to shellfi sh.<br />

CN: How could she even kiss him?<br />

RF: That’s what we wondered, but<br />

they’re still together.<br />

CN: Does everyone try to outdo each other?<br />

RF: Yes, and it’s not just in the Chaldean<br />

community. We work with<br />

Indians, Russians, Italians, Jewish<br />

people … it seems like everyone<br />

wants better than their friend or sibling<br />

had. We had a woman walk in<br />

here and say, “I want my wedding to<br />

be better than my sister’s.” It’s sad to<br />

think that way.<br />

FA: People ask for impossible dishes<br />

for a banquet, but at the end will they<br />

satisfy their guests? They just want<br />

to be different and special. Think of<br />

what your guests will like and at the<br />

end they will be happy.<br />

CN: What’s considered an impossible dish?<br />

FA: Beef roulade is a fi let that’s very<br />

time consuming. It’s a very tough<br />

dish, but one couple insisted on it.<br />

It wasn’t a good idea because a lot of<br />

people didn’t like it – it’s really rich<br />

and stuffed with vegetables, cheeses,<br />

salami and prosciutto.<br />

RF: The presentation was beautiful<br />

and the taste was good but many<br />

people are not a fan of that dish because<br />

they’re not used to it.<br />

FA: I tell people, “you have to think<br />

about your guests before you think of<br />

yourself.”<br />

RF: I remind them to think of the<br />

old generation and the young generation,<br />

that you are catering to<br />

everyone else, not just yourself.<br />

FA: Another time a couple<br />

wanted individual baskets of<br />

vegetables – a carved zucchini<br />

stuffed with julienne vegetables.<br />

It took me two days to make 500.<br />

CN: What were the most inaccurate<br />

counts?<br />

RF: We’ve had 50 extra people<br />

show up —and 20 to 30 people<br />

not show up. Then they want a<br />

refund, but we can’t. We have<br />

kitchen and wait staff scheduled,<br />

the food is cut, it’s been cooked.<br />

CN: Is it sometimes hard to get people<br />

out once the party’s over?<br />

RF: Oh yeah. We’ve had to tell the<br />

band they must stop or we will have<br />

to shut them down. The problem is,<br />

we have neighbors around us so it’s<br />

almost impossible to stay too late.<br />

We remind people that the police<br />

station is just down the street.<br />

CN: Do people try to change their seat<br />

assignments?<br />

RF: Not only that, we’ve had people<br />

try to change their whole table number.<br />

When you go up to them, they<br />

look at you like you’re crazy; “this is<br />

where we were meant to be seated.<br />

The bride and groom made a mistake<br />

because we’re such close family<br />

members, how could they seat us in<br />

the second or third row?”<br />

tiPS oF tHE trADE<br />

Everyone wants to save money on<br />

their reception – but no one wants<br />

it to show. Shenandoah offers<br />

some ideas:<br />

• Get married on a weekday,<br />

when prices start at $42.50 each<br />

for members.<br />

• Choose a fall or winter date.<br />

• Stick to the regular menu rather<br />

than special ordering.<br />

• Supplement the bar with special<br />

bottles, such as a brand of vodka<br />

your friends like. It can be less<br />

expensive than booking the superpremium<br />

bar.<br />

• Less is often more when it<br />

comes to decorating tables.<br />

Shenandoah recommends tall, thin<br />

centerpieces and limited candles<br />

so that guests can see each other<br />

and service goes smoothly.<br />

CN: It sounds like it can be thankless work.<br />

RF: If one thing goes wrong, sometimes<br />

they come back and say, “the<br />

club allowed that to happen” when<br />

it had nothing to do with us, it was<br />

a vendor.<br />

FA: That’s the worst part. One time<br />

we had a wedding and they forgot<br />

about the cake!<br />

RF: The baker had the wrong date. It<br />

was a Sunday night. We had to contact<br />

other vendors to fi nd a cake. It<br />

was almost impossible, but we were<br />

able to get them a cake.<br />

CN: Was it from Costco?<br />

RF: No, we found a baker. But it was<br />

a fake cake, and then we had sheet<br />

cakes to cut and serve. No one knew<br />

except obviously the bride and groom.<br />

FA: So we try to save the party even<br />

when it’s not our fault. We don’t step<br />

back.<br />

CN: What’s the best part of the job?<br />

FA: For me, it’s more challenges and<br />

more experiences.<br />

RF: It’s really a fun job. I get to know<br />

a lot of the brides and grooms and<br />

they become friends. A lot of my<br />

brides call me complaining about<br />

what’s going on in their lives.<br />

CN: Sounds like you become their psychologist.<br />

RF: I really do, some days. But you<br />

feel these people trust you and you<br />

become close to them. A lot of them<br />

recommend us or come back and<br />

have their children’s baptisms here,<br />

which is nice. Most people do tell us<br />

thank you. When you hear nothing<br />

from them it hurts because you know<br />

you went above and beyond, but<br />

we’re used to it by now.<br />

CN: Have you dealt with some couples<br />

where you just knew the marriage<br />

wouldn’t last?<br />

RF: Yes, and sadly it hasn’t. You can<br />

kind of tell when you meet people<br />

and they are all about themselves.<br />

Some guys do suck it up because they<br />

have the girl of their dreams because<br />

she looks so good.<br />

FA: We’ve had a lot of call-offs, but<br />

that is obviously better than going<br />

through with it.<br />

38 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong>


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the annual<br />

wedding guide<br />

jewel of the middle east<br />

Chaldean designer has international following<br />

By Weam namou<br />

Working from an exquisite jewelry gallery in Baghdad,<br />

Yvette Mikho was well known in the 1980s<br />

by the elite society of Iraq, including the First<br />

Lady, for her signature jewelry collection that incorporated<br />

real 21-carat gold with semi-precious stones.<br />

“Everyone in the Middle East loves gold,” said Mikho.<br />

“They wear it from the time they are born until they grow old.”<br />

Since she was a young schoolgirl, Mikho, 59, would<br />

gather coins, pearls and stones from her mother’s collection<br />

to make jewelry pieces so unique that family and friends<br />

encouraged her to sell them. This led to her fi rst exhibition<br />

in 1985. Mikho’s business grew to the point where she had<br />

fi ve to six girls working with her.<br />

“My husband designed an area specifically for my work,”<br />

she said. “It was adjacent to my home and it incorporated the<br />

fine details and ambience that typically exists in art galleries.”<br />

That’s imaginable, given that her husband, Emanuel<br />

Mikho, holds a Ph.D. in Hospital Design, and once headed<br />

the School of Architecture at the University of Baghdad.<br />

Mikho’s business was further enhanced after she made<br />

a visit to the Iraqi National Museum and discovered the<br />

Treasure of Nimrud. The 4,000-year-old collection, unearthed<br />

in 1988 by Iraqi archaeologists, had been buried for<br />

2,800 years near a dusty town in northern Iraq. It includes<br />

613 pieces of gold jewelry, precious stones and ornaments<br />

from the height of the Assyrian civilization in 800 B.C. Together,<br />

the pieces weigh well over 100 pounds.<br />

“I was so happy and amazed to see the Treasure of Nimrud,<br />

created when Iraq belonged to the Christian people,” she said.<br />

“I thought, maybe I have the same genes as these people.”<br />

Inspired by the Treasure, she began adding fl at shapes<br />

as triangles, squares and rectangles to some of her designs,<br />

which allowed her to use multiple layers of beads or pearls<br />

in one necklace or bracelet.<br />

Then in 1990, while Mikho and her family were visiting<br />

her parents in South Carolina, Saddam invaded Kuwait<br />

and she never went back to Iraq.<br />

“So we lost everything and were left empty-handed,”<br />

she said.<br />

At the time, she had four children; Zain, Ammar, Nadine<br />

and Michael. Her family remained with her parents<br />

for a year and a half, after which her husband got a job in<br />

Ann Arbor.<br />

“I didn’t have enough money to start a new jewelry business<br />

so I opened a small alterations shop in Ann Arbor,”<br />

Mikho said.<br />

But she didn’t want to simply be a seamstress, so she<br />

included bridal dresses, jewelry and alterations into her<br />

business. She named it Mimi’s Bridal, after her fi fth and unexpected<br />

child, Miriam, who today is 15 years old. Mikho<br />

operated the business until two years ago, when her husband’s<br />

international company opened an offi ce in Dubai<br />

and appointed him as its regional director.<br />

“Since Dubai is the center of gold, I felt this is my<br />

chance to expand my work,” said Mikho.<br />

At fi rst it was diffi cult adjusting to Dubai,<br />

but then she and her husband began meeting<br />

and befriending other Iraqis there, professionals<br />

who have helped built the country, some<br />

of whom were Emanuel’s students in Baghdad.<br />

And Miriam, the only one of the children<br />

who lives in Dubai with her parents, has<br />

made good friends and is learning Arabic.<br />

“It’s wonderful here,” said Mikho. “The<br />

money they’ve spend in the last 30 years to<br />

make it beautiful has paid off.”<br />

Within a short time, Mikho’s jewelry gained<br />

quite a clientele as well as publicity from the local<br />

media. Thanks to the Internet and occasional trips<br />

to Michigan, she continues her involvement with<br />

Mimi’s Boutique, which is currently run by her<br />

daughter-in-law, Rasha. Mikho said they are<br />

lucky to have the boutique reach its 10-year<br />

anniversary and will celebrate with a cocktail<br />

party on March 18 from 5-7 p.m.<br />

“I’ve never had to let go of any of my<br />

staff, despite economic conditions,” she<br />

said. “The girls treat the boutique like it’s<br />

their own place. It’s not like a chain. People<br />

who come to it feel special. Customer<br />

service is our bread and butter.”<br />

If she doesn’t actually have the genes,<br />

Mikho certainly has the passion of the<br />

Assyrians who created the incredible<br />

Treasure of Nimrud. Sometimes she<br />

goes all day working on a piece,<br />

until her body aches and she gets<br />

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necklace should be just underneath the neck, never so long that it touches the dress’s<br />

fabric. For more daring brides, I recommend pearls or diamonds with colors.”<br />

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the annual<br />

wedding guide<br />

blast<br />

from<br />

the<br />

past<br />

Happily, love<br />

never goes<br />

out of style<br />

There’s nothing more beautiful than a<br />

glowing bride and her handsome groom.<br />

But as the decades pass, some may wonder<br />

what they were thinking when they<br />

picked out their wedding day fi nery.<br />

Don’t laugh, young newlyweds – one day<br />

you’ll be out of fashion too.<br />

clockwise from<br />

top right:<br />

amir & roomia<br />

goryoka<br />

august 1, 1962<br />

imad & Suhair<br />

kallabat<br />

October 31, 1982<br />

May 13, 1990<br />

Suha and<br />

issam acho<br />

amer and<br />

Siham kassawa<br />

november 30,<br />

1980<br />

vivian yaldo and<br />

issam yaldo<br />

april 5, 1981<br />

Farid asmar and<br />

Suad kiryakoza<br />

October 18, 1968<br />

42 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong>


Mar Ibrahim N. Ibrahim<br />

The Diocese of St. Thomas the Apostle<br />

in the United States<br />

Special Tribute<br />

The Chaldean Voice<br />

Humanitarians of the Year<br />

Opening Remarks<br />

Provided by:<br />

The Honorable Richard “Rick” Snyder<br />

Governor, State of Michigan<br />

Sam D. Kassab<br />

Guardian Angel Home Health Care Services<br />

Chaldean American<br />

Businessperson of the Year<br />

<strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 43


applause and accolades<br />

Chaldean Chamber bestows honors<br />

By Vanessa Denha Garmo and Joyce Wiswell<br />

What do an entrepreneur<br />

whose weathered tragedy,<br />

a team of broadcasters<br />

who connect the community<br />

and the leader of Michigan’s Chaldean<br />

Church all have in common?<br />

They’re all being feted at the Chaldean<br />

American Chamber of Commerce’s<br />

Eighth Annual Awards Dinner<br />

on March 25 at Shenandoah<br />

Country Club.<br />

Sam Kassab:<br />

Businessperson of the Year<br />

Sam (Salman) Kassab’s<br />

story was similar<br />

to countless other<br />

Chaldean immigrants.<br />

He left his native<br />

Telkaif to come<br />

to America at the age<br />

of 27. As an entrepreneur,<br />

he established a<br />

number of successful<br />

Sam Kassab<br />

businesses in Michigan, including a<br />

liquor store, supermarket and distributor<br />

of videos and novelties. Life was<br />

good for Sam, his wife Faye, and their<br />

four children. But in a split second,<br />

everything changed.<br />

Kassab was dropping his kids off<br />

for Bible School when his son Danny<br />

sprinted across the street and was<br />

struck by a fast-moving van. A horrified<br />

Sam began praying desperately<br />

to God to spare the badly injured<br />

9-year-old’s life. Just then, three<br />

nurses emerged from the nearly empty<br />

church and administered CPR to<br />

save Danny’s life.<br />

Danny survived but was paralyzed<br />

from the neck down and required 24-<br />

hour care. The Kassab family tried<br />

out two different home health care<br />

companies but was unhappy with the<br />

quality of care they provided.<br />

“I knew I could do better,” said<br />

Kassab, who did just that, launching<br />

Guardian Angel Home Health<br />

Care – named by Faye for those three<br />

nurses who miraculously appeared –<br />

on August 1, 1994, a year after the<br />

accident.<br />

At first, the company’s only goal<br />

was enduring that Danny received<br />

the best care. “I designated one room<br />

in my house to manage the business,”<br />

Kassab said. “In a very short time,<br />

others heard what I was doing and<br />

started calling me.”<br />

Guardian Angel quickly went<br />

from serving only Danny to taking<br />

on hundreds of clients, proving not<br />

only 24-hour nursing care but also<br />

physical, occupational and respiratory<br />

therapy; speech and language<br />

pathologists; medical social workers;<br />

medical equipment, outpatient rehab<br />

and transportation for pediatric and<br />

adult clients with acute and chronic<br />

conditions. Today, the company has<br />

offices in Illinois, Ohio, Nevada, Arizona<br />

and California and nearly 500<br />

employees and sub-contractors – including<br />

caregivers who speak Arabic<br />

and Chaldean.<br />

Each of those workers knows all<br />

about Danny, who passed away last August<br />

at the age of 23. “We let the staff<br />

know when we hire them the reason we<br />

are in people’s homes,” Kassab said. “We<br />

make sure they do the caring, give the<br />

patients the time they need, listen and<br />

be there for them. It’s a caring business<br />

and very rewarding for us.”<br />

Jay Yasso nominated Kassab for<br />

the honor. “It’s a great family, a great<br />

business,” he said. “Danny left a legacy<br />

behind, which is the company<br />

they started.”<br />

An active member of the community,<br />

Kassab is involved with the<br />

Assyrian Democratic Movement<br />

and has traveled around the world<br />

to meet with Iraqi Christians living<br />

in Russia, Armenia, Mexico and<br />

other countries. He produces movies<br />

from those trips and other events to<br />

document community history, with<br />

subjects including Fr. Jacob Yasso,<br />

former California Senator Wadie<br />

Deddeh and modern-day Telkaif,<br />

where he visited three years ago.<br />

“There are so many stories to<br />

tell,” Kassab said of his films. “I do<br />

it not to make money, but as a gift to<br />

the community.”<br />

After Danny’s death, the Kassab<br />

family established the D-Man Foundation<br />

in his honor to provide funding,<br />

education and programs for<br />

people with severe physical or mental<br />

limitations or acute and chronic<br />

conditions.<br />

“Danny was an optimist, always<br />

smiling,” Kassab said. “I never saw him<br />

even once complain about his injury. I<br />

learned a lot about life from him.”<br />

The Chaldean Voice<br />

Humanitarians of the Year<br />

In 1980 a new voice hit the airwaves<br />

— the Chaldean Voice — and today<br />

they are being recognized for their<br />

humanitarian efforts.<br />

“We feel very good being rewarded<br />

by the chamber for our hard work,”<br />

said Shoki Konja, producer, director<br />

and broadcaster. “We thank the chamber.<br />

It is a great motivation to continue<br />

on this path, which our volunteers<br />

started 31 years ago.”<br />

The Chaldean Voice is operated by<br />

the Chaldean Communication Network.<br />

Besides Konja, the team includes<br />

Fr. Manuel Boji, Dhia Babbie, Saher<br />

Yaldo, Janan Senawi, Fawzi Dalli, Maher<br />

Kanona and Intisar Yono.<br />

They started out with humble<br />

beginnings with the support of<br />

the Chaldean American Youth<br />

Club. The station played a vital role<br />

in connecting Chaldean people by<br />

broadcasting important news and<br />

activities. The station has kept the<br />

community abreast of church issues<br />

and international news, and serves<br />

as an evangelist spreading the gospel<br />

and Catholic faith.<br />

The station also has educational,<br />

historical, social and political programming.<br />

These programs are produced by<br />

clergy and other distinguished members<br />

of the community. It broadcasts<br />

regular interviews with literary, educational,<br />

religious and political dignitaries<br />

and is often heard in Chaldean- and<br />

Arabic-speaking homes. The programming<br />

is dependent on corporate and<br />

individual sponsors.<br />

“The Chaldean Voice gave the<br />

community a voice long before they<br />

ever had one in this country,” noted<br />

Saher Yaldo.<br />

Their activities expand beyond<br />

broadcasting. The staff has participated<br />

in a variety of programs and activities<br />

such as educational lectures,<br />

cultural and social plays, and poetry<br />

and singing festivals.<br />

The chamber not only recognizes<br />

the impact the Chaldean Voice has<br />

had on the community, they acknowledge<br />

them for their charitable work.<br />

In nearly three decades, the Chaldean<br />

Voice has been serving the community<br />

with various projects including a turkey<br />

drive for poverty-stricken Detroiters,<br />

and trips to New York post 9/11<br />

to assist those in need, Iraq in 2003<br />

to deliver help to Christians, and the<br />

Middle East last year to visit with refugees<br />

in Lebanon, Syria and Jordan.<br />

Every week the Chaldean Voice<br />

updates five hours of programming.<br />

You can also listen to shows via the<br />

website at ChaldeanVoice.com. As<br />

their website says, the Chaldean<br />

Voice’s desire is “… to keep the voice<br />

of our Chaldean nation powerful and<br />

roaring, penetrating every home, a<br />

task which is now possible to reach<br />

the entire planet via the Internet.”<br />

Mar Ibrahim N. Ibrahim<br />

Special Tribute<br />

In recognition for his<br />

leadership in Michigan<br />

and the part he<br />

has played in helping<br />

displaced Iraqi Christians,<br />

Bishop Ibrahim<br />

N. Ibrahim is being<br />

honored with a special<br />

tribute.<br />

“Bishop Ibrahim<br />

Mar Ibrahim N.<br />

Ibrahim<br />

is the unquestionable spiritual leader<br />

of our community,” said CACC<br />

Chairman Frank Jonna. “The growth<br />

of our Church is a direct result of his<br />

vision. The chamber is privileged to<br />

celebrate his accomplishments both<br />

locally and abroad.”<br />

The plight of Iraqi Christians<br />

throughout the Middle East garnered<br />

headlines in 2010. This was no surprise<br />

to Bishop Ibrahim. “There has<br />

not been a more outspoken religious<br />

leader in the U.S. or in the Middle<br />

East on this issue,” said Mike Sarafa.<br />

“The Bishop has been consistent in his<br />

criticism of the war with Iraq since its<br />

first days. His humanitarian concern<br />

for people of Iraq put him among the<br />

few, early critics of the Bush Administration’s<br />

unjustified war with Iraq.”<br />

44 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong>


Bishop Ibrahim showed foresight<br />

in his early prediction of the war’s<br />

negative and permanent impact on<br />

Iraq’s Christians population. Just last<br />

month he reminded Chaldean News<br />

readers in a One-on-One piece that<br />

he believes there is no future for<br />

Christians in Iraq.<br />

Mar Ibrahim took a leadership<br />

role in demanding that the highest<br />

levels of government in the U.S. and<br />

capitals throughout the Middle East<br />

not only pay attention to the plight<br />

of Iraqi Christians but do something<br />

to protect them from ongoing persecution.<br />

As the leader of the Chaldean<br />

Diocese in Detroit, Bishop Ibrahim<br />

encourages the community to support<br />

the efforts of organizations such<br />

as the Chaldean Federation of America,<br />

the Chaldean American Ladies<br />

of Charity and the Chaldean Community<br />

Foundation to help the Iraqi<br />

refugees now living in surrounding<br />

Middle Eastern countries, Europe<br />

and the U.S.<br />

“He has been a tremendous supporter<br />

of Adopt-A-Refugee-Family,”<br />

said Basil Bacall, chair of the program.<br />

“He has supported all of us<br />

in our efforts to help our Christian<br />

brothers and sisters.”<br />

Mar Ibrahim has also been instrumental<br />

in the continued growth of<br />

the community.<br />

“He has helped build two new<br />

churches, purchase a third, purchased<br />

a campground that will house<br />

a chapel and is also an engaging<br />

gathering place for Chaldeans,” said<br />

Sarafa. “He also purchased a building<br />

for the ECRC, is under contract on<br />

another property on the westside for<br />

the site of a future church, and is acquiring<br />

another building on the eastside<br />

to serve as a community center.”<br />

In addition, Bishop Ibrahim created<br />

the Seminary Endowment. Under<br />

his leadership young priests have<br />

entered the diocese and more than a<br />

dozen are to follow.<br />

Born in 1937, he was the fourth<br />

boy to Namo Mansour Ibrahim and<br />

Rammou Hermiz Yono. At the age<br />

of 14, Bishop Ibrahim decided to<br />

enter the seminary. Over the years,<br />

the issues in the community have<br />

changed, but the Church has always<br />

remained the center.<br />

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Below: Karim<br />

Khamarko’s family<br />

released 250 balloons<br />

on the two-month<br />

anniversary of his slaying.<br />

“We don’t want<br />

people to forget what<br />

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Families grieve after store killings<br />

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Despite hefty rewards and the anguished<br />

pleas of heartbroken families, no arrests<br />

have been made in the killings of two<br />

Chaldean men at their stores last fall.<br />

“We’re hoping and praying so hard that we<br />

will hear something,” said May Khemmoro, whose<br />

brother Mazim Khmoro was killed on October 6.<br />

Khmoro was taking out the trash behind his family’s<br />

Southfield store, Cronin’s Liquor on Northwestern<br />

Highway, when he was gunned down at<br />

about 4 p.m.<br />

“One minute he was here with us and<br />

the next minute we heard the shooting,<br />

went out there and he was gone,” said<br />

Khemmoro, who cradled her brother in<br />

her arms as he died.<br />

Police believe the assailant lay in wait for more<br />

than an hour but remain stumped as to why. There<br />

is no indication that Khmoro was involved in drugs,<br />

gambling or other illegal activity.<br />

“Unfortunately we have nothing to report. So<br />

far we can’t ID the shooter or the motive,” said Lt.<br />

Nick Loussia of the Southfield Police Department.<br />

“We did receive several tips, but they did not pan<br />

out. This is still being actively investigated.”<br />

“One minute he was here with us and the next<br />

minute we heard the shooting, went out there and he<br />

Karim Khamarko<br />

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was gone,” said Khemmoro, who cradled<br />

her brother in her arms as he died. “We<br />

want to know why. It will give us big closure.<br />

We need justice for my brother.”<br />

A few miles to the east, Candace<br />

Khamarko hopes the arrest of her father’s<br />

killer may bring some peace to<br />

her shattered family. Karim Khamarko,<br />

64, was killed inside his Dollar<br />

Plus Store in Ferndale on November<br />

26 in an apparent robbery. At about 9<br />

p.m., a customer found<br />

him bleeding to death<br />

behind the counter near<br />

the cash register.<br />

“Our lives are changed<br />

forever. Our happiness<br />

was wrapped around our<br />

dad, and now that he is<br />

gone it is hard to move forward. His<br />

life was taken away for no reason, for<br />

a senseless crime,” Candace said. “If<br />

this person never gets caught we will always be<br />

wondering who it is.”<br />

On January 26, the family released 250 balloons<br />

in front of the store in Karim’s honor. “They were<br />

red, blue and green balloons because that’s what<br />

my dad always brought home for his grandkids,”<br />

Candace said. “My mother released 34 balloons<br />

that said ‘I love you’ for the number of years they<br />

were married.”<br />

She added, “My dad was a family man, he was<br />

a good husband, a good father and a great grandfather.<br />

Everything he did was to provide<br />

for us; he worked so hard to make us<br />

happy. He had a really good heart.”<br />

May Khemmoro said she has been<br />

struck by stories of her big brother’s<br />

kindness to shoppers at the store. “I<br />

didn’t even know until customers<br />

told me how he helped them, like<br />

if they ran out of gas he would lend<br />

them money,” she said. “If you needed<br />

help he was always there. That’s<br />

the kind of person he was.”<br />

The Waad Murad Advocacy<br />

Fund, a program of the Chaldean<br />

American Chamber of Commerce,<br />

is working with Crime Stoppers<br />

to offer reward money to help find<br />

the assailant(s) in both killings. A<br />

$12,500 reward has been posted in<br />

each case.<br />

In the Cronin’s case, surveillance<br />

video shows what is believed to be the<br />

suspect’s vehicle, a four-door, mid-size<br />

sports utility vehicle, possibly a black GMC Envoy.<br />

It was occupied by a thin male with a dark complexion<br />

wearing a light-colored dress shirt.<br />

In the Dollar Plus killing, all police know is that<br />

a man wearing a hoodie left the store on foot. “We<br />

don’t even know if that person is white or black,” said<br />

Lt. William Wilson. “We have nothing new – I would<br />

like to say there is but there isn’t. We got some tips<br />

but they all turned out to be worthless.”<br />

People with information on either crime are urged<br />

to call Crime Stoppers at (800) SPEAK UP, visit<br />

www.1800speakup.org or text CSM with the code<br />

274637. Tips can be supplied anonymously.<br />

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springing out<br />

CASA plans big this semester<br />

By Joe Gasso<br />

As the spring semester rolls in, members<br />

of the Chaldean American<br />

Student Association (CASA) at<br />

nearly every major university in Michigan<br />

prepare for a busy and exciting semester.<br />

CASA is a non-profit student organization<br />

established to unite and serve the<br />

Chaldean community by promoting the<br />

development of its members and encouraging<br />

social interaction between Chaldeans<br />

both on and off campus. CASA has several<br />

chapters including Lawrence Tech, Michigan<br />

State, Oakland, UD-Mercy, UM-Ann<br />

Arbor, UM-Dearborn and Wayne State.<br />

“Our meetings are much more frequent<br />

this semester because we have an event<br />

planned nearly every week,” said Michigan<br />

State CASA President William Mansour.<br />

The Michigan State chapter has plans for<br />

general meetings, Sunday mass followed by a<br />

pasta dinner, study nights at the main library,<br />

and perhaps the most exciting event: Chaldean<br />

Day. Chaldean Day takes place every<br />

spring to spread awareness of who Chaldeans<br />

are to all students. CASA members spend<br />

the day handing out pamphlets, sharing traditional<br />

Chaldean food and informing other<br />

students of their culture.<br />

The Wayne State chapter will present<br />

sporting events including a charity basketball<br />

game and a dodgeball tournament. The<br />

chapter also plans to host guest speakers<br />

from various professions for networking opportunities<br />

and career advice.<br />

“Hosting guest members will<br />

be very beneficial for our members<br />

and allow us to see what<br />

careers are out there,” said President<br />

Paul Shamoon. “Our goal is<br />

to have one charitable event for<br />

every social event.”<br />

At UM-Ann Arbor, “One of<br />

the biggest events this semester<br />

is Live From Babylon in April,”<br />

said President Chanel Sarhan.<br />

That event invites all CASA<br />

members for a night out in Ann<br />

Arbor. Members spend the night<br />

dancing, eating, listening to guest speakers<br />

and networking with CASA members from<br />

various chapters. UM-Ann Arbor also plans<br />

to have a bowling and laser tag night, open<br />

tutoring for struggling students, and will make<br />

charitable Easter goodie bags in late April.<br />

Oakland University CASA will host<br />

their second annual Runway Ready Fashion<br />

Show on March 11 at Regency Manor<br />

in Southfield. DJ Simon Matty will be spinning<br />

and attendants will be able to preview<br />

the latest spring fashion attire. The event<br />

is open to the public and 100 percent of<br />

the proceeds benefit refugee children, children<br />

with disabilities through the D-Man<br />

Foundation, and Sacred Heart Chaldean<br />

Church. Tickets can be purchased by emailing<br />

OU_CASA@yahoo.com or calling<br />

(248) 515-3804 or (248) 420-4085. The<br />

chapter also plans for social events, a visit<br />

to a homeless shelter in Detroit and another<br />

charity event at Skate World in Troy.<br />

UD-Mercy CASA has similar events<br />

planned that include fundraisers, volunteer<br />

work and social events.<br />

“We have one of the smaller CASAs so<br />

we are really trying to spend the semester<br />

coming up with ways to build and grow our<br />

chapter,” said President Christine Numan.<br />

Lawrence Tech and UM-Dearborn also<br />

plan a semester filled with social and charity<br />

events.<br />

Michigan State Junior Stefani Faik said<br />

she enjoys her time with CASA.<br />

“I think the best part about being in<br />

CASA is being able to interact with other<br />

Chaldeans while also making a difference<br />

through charity events,” she said. “There<br />

was only one other Chaldean who went to<br />

my high school, so meeting with a group of<br />

Chaldeans every week is amazing.”<br />

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men’s basketball team.<br />

“They recruited me pretty hard when I was in<br />

high school (at Sterling Heights), but I turned<br />

them down,” said Mattia, who instead decided to<br />

play for the University of Michigan-Dearborn.<br />

Mattia left U-M-Dearborn after one unhappy<br />

season and sat out a year, but the competitive fi res<br />

burned again and the point guard reached out to<br />

Rochester College last summer, believing that was<br />

his best bet to play college basketball again.<br />

He found out the Warriors needed a point<br />

guard. By the end of February, he was starting for<br />

Rochester College at the position. He replaced senior<br />

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Mattia couldn’t be happier. The lightningquick<br />

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1970 at age 57.<br />

Acho said he decided to make<br />

the donation because of his respect<br />

for the organization and Executive<br />

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The Livonia-based lawyer is the<br />

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before leaving iraq to seek his fortune in america in 1952, 16-year-old Sammy gathered the yatooma family in baghdad for a<br />

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sPorts continued from page 50<br />

his team as a junior and senior, and<br />

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Division Player of the Year when he<br />

was a junior.<br />

His family moved to Arizona<br />

when he was a sophomore, and he<br />

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School. They moved back to Macomb<br />

County after a year in Arizona,<br />

and Mattia returned to Sterling<br />

Heights.<br />

A physical therapy major at<br />

Rochester College, Mattia said<br />

he’d like to play basketball overseas<br />

after he graduates.<br />

A gift with soles<br />

Lawyer Jim Acho received an unusual<br />

gift of gratitude about fi ve<br />

years ago for providing free legal services<br />

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<strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 55


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winter gala<br />

Photos by David Reed<br />

1. Candace and<br />

Ashley Mattia<br />

2. Nadia Gorgis<br />

and Weeam Barno<br />

3. Mayada Abro<br />

and friends<br />

4. Joseph Barash, Fr.<br />

Rudy Zoma and Msgr.<br />

Zuhair Toma (Kejbou)<br />

5. Brandon Kejbou<br />

6. John Sesi, Michele<br />

Sesi and Basima Kassab<br />

7. Anas Henna<br />

8. Time to eat<br />

9. Amy Abro, Brenda<br />

Asmar, Heather Suwais<br />

and Michelle Abro<br />

9<br />

Young parishioners at St. Joseph Chaldean<br />

Catholic Church in Troy beat the winter blues<br />

with a dinner dance on January 28. The<br />

event at the Gazebo in Warren raised funds<br />

for the church’s Educational Program.<br />

56 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong>


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The AFPD has more than 4,000 members in Michigan<br />

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58 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2011</strong>


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